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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | What to do I know leave but need supportI was dumb and didn’t save up any little extra I had I used on him or the household. Lesson learned | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:05 PM |
| 1 | What to do I know leave but need supportI’m planning on it this week | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:55 PM |
| 18 | Don’t let anyone take you back to a level you’ve already leveled up from!I’ve been told I need to lower my expectations 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:34 AM |
| 3 | I think I’m just too boringExactly, guys are so typical these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:05 AM |
| 6 | Has anyone been in a position where someone strongarmed you into ending it instead of saying itHe simply played you. Took advantage of you. I’ve been there and you did the right thing to move on. Now it’s time for you to focus on your dreams, focus on building yourself, and focus on being the best you. Guys like this don’t feel an ounce of remorse they are always looking for the bigger better deal because they insecure. I had a guy to do this for months came with the same lines accept i love you. He asked me if I loved him I said yes. That’s when he became more cold and distant. 6 months … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:49 AM |
| 3 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Even if this guy was a decent guy why would you put yourself through this. He clearly does not respect your time. This guy is such trash. Please do yourself a favor and move on. Ugh who asks someone to watch their dog without pay and then not even really text. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:41 AM |
| 15 | How do I recover from a guy I was dating ghosting (and possibly blocking) me?This guy seems like a flake. I don’t know why it’s so hard for guys to communicate. I’ve been in this position so many times. It’s a hurtful situation but look at the bright side atleast he did not disguise himself as a hvm for months, string you along all while still searching. That’s happened to me btw. Worst feeling ever.Atleast he bounced after a couple of dates. Let him be someone else’s headache. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:30 AM |
| 9 | How do I recover from a guy I was dating ghosting (and possibly blocking) me?Couldn’t agree more!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:21 AM |
| 11 | There is no "one that got away"Ugh those guys are so miserable. If he really means it he will go out of his way to show it now. If he is just texting this or posting subtweets don’t get entangled in this bs. Ugh I can’t stand guys like this, I had one to subtweet years later that I pretty much didn’t give him a chance after he said he didn’t see a long term relationship between us and said he didn’t love me after using me for months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:18 AM |
| 3 | There is no "one that got away"Preach I know I have some guys calling me crazy simply because I caught them off no warning just cut off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Guys that want you to be mom 2.0I just just went on to your profile and I am so sorry to hear that you have been going through a lot especially in times like this. I’m so happy you’re with a guy that has tapped into his “ feminine energy”. And stuck by your side. I’m so sorry if my post caused any confusion I was referring to lvm who string women along, wont commit, or use excuses and hide behind “ feminine energy” or just not being sure of themselves and placing their insecurities on women.There are plenty of hvm that have ta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Guys that want you to be mom 2.0Isn’t that the worst? Don’t give in, I’ve been bamboozled into giving in and almost everytime they have ditched and called me emotional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:54 AM |
| 10 | Guys that want you to be mom 2.0Exactly, they don’t really value women it’s just a way to try to manipulate and get their way. And hide behind the fact that they don’t want more responsibilities in the relationships.I had one guy use me as a confidant and manipulated me in many ways.When he got tired he tossed me to the side like a child that wants a new toy. It’s funny because the girl he got with is a lot older and really caters to his every beck and call. So typical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Am I being unreasonable?Thank you I appreciate this!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Am I being unreasonable?I needed to hear this you’re so right. I need to stop making excuses. I really need to go for it. Thank you for sharing your story and journey! Best of luck with everything! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 07:29 PM |
| 7 | Am I being unreasonable?I appreciate this response and you’re so right. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 07:18 PM |
| -11 | Am I being unreasonable?I know we do talk about marriage and kids but at the end of the day we aren’t married and don’t have any kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:57 PM |
| 5 | Am I being unreasonable?You’re right. I can see that. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:55 PM |
| -12 | Am I being unreasonable?Thank you for that response and you’re so right. I am definitely working towards that! But it hurts because when I mention these things he says stuff like I’m not a kid and that I’m a grown woman and should be able to look out for myself. Which is true. But it just feels like he doesn’t care about me in the way that I want to. When I say this, he says that it’s not his problem that I feel this way and that I am imposing my own insecurities on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:54 PM |
| -12 | Am I being unreasonable?Yes I am definitely working towards that! But it hurts because when I mention these things he says stuff like I’m not a kid and that I’m a grown woman and should be able to look out for myself. Which is true. But it just feels like he doesn’t care about me in the way that I want to. When I say this, he says that it’s not his problem that I feel this way and that I am imposing my own insecurities on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:43 PM |
| 52 | Know your worth girls!Been here, never even made it to a relationship doing that lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:37 PM |
| 3 | The level of disrespect from this LVM was astronomicalSo happy you are better now. What a boy. Always looking for the bigger better deal, because they are insecure with themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:15 PM |
| 12 | “What do you bring to the table?”Lmao 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:09 PM |
| 36 | Is it possible to mend things with a man who’s already starting to pull away, or should I just suck it up and move on?All the comments to this is brilliant. I remember being in this situation, and let me tell you I know the hurt and pain. To question yourself and to ponder why the sudden loss of interest. When I was in this situation the guy did the same thing. 6 months into what I considered dating he mentions “I want to see where things are going”, when I brought up the status of the relationship. I stayed around for a little bit to be friends. But that only made matters worse because he became more resentful… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:08 PM |
| 14 | If you know, you knowOmg this is felt that’s why I now go for guys who are seeking relationships rather than, “let’s see where things go”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:57 AM |
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