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3

fair enough brother, fair enough.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 11:18 PM
4

that was a savage move by your father. I'd like to know how you percieved your mother after her little revelation.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 09:46 PM
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you missed the entire point. he knew he would have been screwed in court; his power lied in the strength of his response.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 09:44 PM
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unfortunately, its not a theory
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 02:10 PM
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zero-effort exaggerated, perfected, idealistic and unrealistic fantasies damage any/all future healthy relationship(s). you'll have a very, VERY difficult time having, keeping or obtaining a relationship (in any capacity) with a girl who is "less than perfect" because you've trained your brain to achieve what you want without having to "deal with" her looks or behavior.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 05:04 PM
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if you feel like you want to break the first rule, remember the Second Rule of Fight Club.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 02:33 PM
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Quiting porn is much more than nofap. It damages your image of women because you've trained your brain to associate intimacy with your most ideal image of a woman, whenever you want without giving anything or "earning" the nut. Whether you want TRP lifestyle or something more meaningful you are going to have to learn to view AND interact with women differently.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 04:09 PM
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It may be that many men see faults in their father, as no one else can. I'd recommend breaking the ice by being a bit assertive about it, maybe go grab dinner and ask him about his relationship with his father. Likely you will both learn something.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 10:36 PM
-8

Way too long. What is the name of the book at least
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 09:55 PM
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Same exact thing happened to me. I feel lost.
/r/seduction30/07/15 11:07 PM
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Learn to be interested in her and a "date" doesn't have to be a fancy pants ordeal.
/r/seduction16/02/15 11:23 PM
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New guys will not and do not know this but it is CRITICAL.
/r/seduction16/02/15 11:22 PM
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Make them want to date you. They are not the prize. YOU ARE.
/r/seduction16/02/15 11:19 PM
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That you can literally communicate through eyes ONLY.
/r/seduction13/02/15 10:23 PM
1

Yes. It is excellent and practical.
/r/seduction12/02/15 05:06 AM
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Ask open ended questions not "yes" or "no" questions.
/r/seduction11/02/15 08:15 PM
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Yes. Women know much more about eye contact than most guys. If a woman makes due contact with you it is for a reason.
/r/seduction11/02/15 07:35 AM
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PUT YOURSELF ON A PEDISTAL. There are millions of fish in the sea and only one you.
/r/seduction10/02/15 11:36 PM
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If keeping the conversation interesting is a challenge then once you hook her interest, use time constraints to cut it short.
/r/seduction10/02/15 11:34 PM
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Is she reading? Ask her about her book and interject with what you are reading. Is she interesting shoes? Tell her you like her shoes because you just saw them on a girl leaving the store. Ask her opinion about a "relationship" or female issue, real or not. Is she eating Chinese by herself? Ask her if she has ever eaten at "that other place".... use your imagination.
/r/seduction10/02/15 11:27 PM
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Being "shot down" is a state of mind. It's their loss. After you get your s* together it will never happen again because you will learn to control the conversation and outcome. 1. "rejection" is learning. 2. "rejection" can be overcome. 3. "rejection" is a numbers game. You can learn to turn rejection into an asset.
/r/seduction10/02/15 11:22 PM
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Sarcasm is necessary. Maybe the opposite of something she is good at. If her place is super clean say "I hate how your house is always a pig sty." Or if she is a good cook maybe say "I kinda prefer a woman who doesn't burn the toast."
/r/seduction05/02/15 09:10 AM
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"...but there are many ways to improve your confidence and here is one:..."
/r/seduction03/02/15 12:59 PM
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Value comes from inside you not "outside", particularly when it comes to women. Game is psychological. You can take an introverted nerd with no socoal skills and dress him up and it will help him zero if he slouched or acts like a pig. Women, unlike men, see things and are more concerned with things like confidence body language, verbal skills, and social proof much more than clothes.
/r/seduction03/02/15 12:54 PM
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Melohi, then just be the man you want to be. Leave your old man behind and bury him. You can wake up tomorrow and make completely different decisions if you want to. Picture yourself as a different man and start acting like him.
/r/seduction03/02/15 07:11 AM
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Don't get serious with them until your head is clear. Just be honest with them and say "Look I just got out of a relationship and I'm not ready for anything serious yet but I know you dig me and I just want to enjoy life and good company right now."
/r/seduction03/02/15 07:08 AM
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Then just say no.
/r/seduction03/02/15 07:05 AM
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If you are good at pick up there is no longer any need for porn.
/r/seduction03/02/15 07:04 AM
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While kino IS powerful, I learned to quickly escalate while never touching her. I would ramp up the conversation quickly, though not talk about "sex" specifically, and have her give me HER number because it was HER idea. I never "asked" for their number either- it's more like verbal judo for me.
/r/seduction02/02/15 06:17 PM
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Root_ctrl is right. Make her THINK about sex without "saying" sex. Use innuendos. Never be direct. Attract her but don't be afraid to talk about other women when you talk to her.
/r/seduction02/02/15 06:12 PM
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The best outer game is to learn inner game. And don't dress like a complete pig.
/r/seduction02/02/15 06:09 PM
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Not true.
/r/seduction02/02/15 06:08 PM
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Great idea AMBD9S
/r/seduction02/02/15 05:31 AM
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Learn to make other peole more important than yourself. Blow your friend up around women instead of yourself.
/r/seduction01/02/15 10:02 PM
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It's called mental judo based on human psychology without acting like a pig with no discipline. It works because of who it came from and I use it. Try reading up on human behavior and learning to give value to a woman without degrading or demeaning them. It might just make all your social interactions and relationships more enhoyable. Best of luck to you.
/r/seduction01/02/15 09:59 PM
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Great attitude, not self depracating, not sloppy or lazy, smells good, can laugh and not be all serious, can and will cook, good relationship with her father (or at least reconciled), walks like a lady upright and light on her feet not like a caveman, well read, opinionated but not loud and dominating nor a feminist, not on welfare, takes care of herself and her home, nor a weekend party girl, no baby daddy drama... but for flirting and seduction, looks will do.
/r/seduction01/02/15 05:41 PM
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The Game, Cockfidence, The Power of Eye Contact, and anything and everything on bodylanguage.
/r/seduction01/02/15 11:24 AM
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Try making up your mind and determine to become the man you want to be. Tell yourself you are that man. Be that man. Think like that man. Interpret every social interaction as THAT man.
/r/seduction01/02/15 11:18 AM
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Sounds like inner conflict. Why would you want to do that? There are 45 trillion women in the world, why is that one so special?
/r/seduction01/02/15 11:13 AM
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Screwthe is right. Faking it won't work in the long run. Women can see through it. Just keep talking to and meeting more women until your neediness goes away. Maybe "practice" on girls everywhere not just the hot ones.
/r/seduction31/01/15 03:13 AM
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Regardless of the situation it's always you.
/r/seduction31/01/15 03:06 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction30/01/15 04:56 AM
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Lol. Take your pick.
/r/seduction30/01/15 04:54 AM
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Nope. Unless she is paying for everything.
/r/seduction30/01/15 04:53 AM
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It's actually fun.
/r/seduction29/01/15 01:24 AM
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It's not "work" if you determine in your heart and mind that you are going to be a new man.
/r/seduction29/01/15 01:23 AM
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Did you even look at the link or Google who he was?
/r/seduction29/01/15 01:21 AM
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It's never too late. I was 38 when I barely got my shit together. I was tired of being a decent looking dude with no girl on my arm. I was literally sick and tired of who I was. I did what you are doing now. Asking questions, reading everything I could on body language and seduction, studying women, asking lots and lots of questions then one day everything clicked and my life changed in ways I cannot describe. I became a magnet. I was living the Axe commercial life literally. I was the happiest …
/r/seduction28/01/15 07:25 AM
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And.
/r/seduction28/01/15 07:18 AM
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Look up a dude named Sean Stevenson. http://seanstephenson.com
/r/seduction28/01/15 07:17 AM
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Go on a walk to nowhere and talk to her.
/r/seduction28/01/15 05:07 AM
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Alcohol.
/r/seduction28/01/15 05:05 AM
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I know enough about women to know what she would say and yes she agreed with me 100%. It helped me to direct the conversation because I know how women think to a degree so I would ask questions that I knew she would agree with (and technically build rapport and attraction toward me because I knew what I was talking about.)
/r/seduction28/01/15 02:56 AM
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Bro. You need to take a f*ing LONG HARD look in the mirror.
/r/seduction27/01/15 09:49 PM
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My answer is the same brother. Change you. Go to the gym. Find a new social circle. Pick up a new hobby.
/r/seduction27/01/15 09:46 PM
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i struggled with social anxiety for 38 fing years. then I got tired of being a not so bad looking pussy loner. determine to get your sht together then take action. talk to girls more than you talk to seddit. everyone has problems brother, you can look at your problems all your life and never find one solution until you make up your mind that you are going to be a different man. if you were laying on your deathbed right now, would you be happy? would you regret anything? you only live once. enjoy…
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:22 PM
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awesome. i've never thought about the 1000 approaches before. i'm doing it.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:17 PM
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just do it doesn't mean start cold approaching the hottest girl you see. just do it means quit being a pussy and talk to EVERY GIRL YOU SEE EVERYWHERE. then, next time you see that smoking hot 10 she is gonna want to talk to YOU.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:14 PM
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Amen. 1,000% true. Most guys will never understand this.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:11 PM
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awesome stuff brother. take heed youngsters!
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:10 PM
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no. give them controlled attention but do not give them complements. they get complements all the time from every other d.b. don't be one of them
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:07 PM
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Tinder is for guys who don't want to learn the game anyway. it's the easy way out.
/r/seduction27/01/15 09:15 AM
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how to tell? one is too many. she should be buying you drinks brother.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:49 AM
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read more and take more action.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:47 AM
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I agree with this brother. ease off the heavy text game. too fast. too soon. too shallow.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:43 AM
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don't die wondering. you're not dead yet.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:41 AM
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relax with having sex bro. it's not the end of the world. learn to enjoy your time with your lady.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:34 AM
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(noticing what they have in their cart) "You are making ___?! I have an awesome recipe for that when I have a date over." or "I have the perfect dish for those _." or "Have you ever made ____? I've tried it a few time sand can't quite get it right." talking to women at the supermarket is the easiest and funnest place to do it!
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:33 AM
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be a man. don't pander to "her". have fun doing what you want to do and let her have fun with you. i'm not saying be disrespectful or distant, but be confident and decisive.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:19 AM
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that's life. on/off days/weeks/months happens.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:17 AM
1

Then be a 7 and attract 7's. Or be an 8 and attract 8's. If you are attracting high maintenance 6's maybe that says more about you than you think. Maximum respect brother.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:16 AM
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"Just the ones who are attracted to me."
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:13 AM
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game.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:11 AM
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talk to every other girl in class starting with the ugliest, and take them all on dates before you try to talk to her again.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:07 AM
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apply the 3 second rule. talk to everyone not just hot girls. shoot the breeze with dudes. you like the same things they do: talk about women.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:06 AM
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p.s. stop telling yourself you are a pussy. Starting tomorrow you are THE ROCK.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:04 AM
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everyone in the club is thinking exactly the same thing as you. everyone is insecure and thinks everyone else is having a good time. some just hide it better.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:02 AM
1

Man up brother. Do you want to be laying on your damn deathbed WISHING you talked to this girl or that girl? HELL NO! starting tomorrow, talk to every girl you see, not just the cute ones. Do or die, brother, do or die.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:01 AM
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don't worry about having sex until you are ready to little brother. you aren't the rest of the dudes. you are you. date and have fun but enjoy it, enjoy life. when you are ready it will happen but don't sweat it
/r/seduction27/01/15 07:58 AM
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turn off the damn videos games bro. that sh*t is KILLING YOUR GAME.
/r/seduction27/01/15 07:56 AM
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be confident but give her a reason to go out with you. your line sounds like something Captain Caveman would say.
/r/seduction27/01/15 07:53 AM
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don't take a date to a bar. -10,000 points. take control of the date and take her some where you want to go and have fun.
/r/seduction27/01/15 07:51 AM
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yes. talk to EVERY woman everywhere you go.
/r/seduction27/01/15 07:49 AM
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that line is a fence women put up so see if you can jump it.
/r/seduction27/01/15 07:48 AM
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awesome post brother.
/r/seduction27/01/15 07:45 AM
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yeah brother, if it feels forced then it is and she knows it too. you can make chemistry yourself, but you have to work on it. learn humor. talk and flirt with every woman you meet good looking AND ugly, so that your game is top notch when it gets down to the nitty gritty.
/r/seduction27/01/15 07:43 AM
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if you think you have horrible game then she does too. build your confidence and make her laugh. don't take yourself too serious. learn to flirt and just have fun in a conversation with her (and women in general)
/r/seduction27/01/15 07:37 AM
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you didn't get rejected by her, you rejected yourself. women put up fences for men to jump over to see if they are a man or not. when she said she didn't want to be in a relationship right now, you should have "That makes two of us."
/r/seduction27/01/15 07:34 AM
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Keep doing what you are doing but don't get hung up on one girl. Make her laugh. Keep her warm until next time you are in town. Sounds like there was liquid interest, but keep in touch with her, but don't be all blowing up her phone. Put HER in the friend zone and let her chase you. Shoot her one or two texts but don't communicate with her MORE than she does with you. Good luck
/r/seduction27/01/15 07:31 AM
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so, back to your original question first: yes you can work on attraction, but attraction is different with women than with men. Any perceived external social value is an extension of a man's INTERNAL value. Work on your internal value and that "external" value with come naturally. Now, obviously, you can't dress like a pig, so if you need to work on your style then get you some new swag. Maybe get a haircut if you look like Chewbaca. Most men THINK women want men who have external social value b…
/r/seduction27/01/15 07:22 AM
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Half the world is women. Don't worry about it. Look at the world out if abundance not scarcity.
/r/seduction25/01/15 05:02 AM
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Keep working on yourself brother. Negging girls only works out of a confident and abundant mindset which you don't have yet. Generally I wouldn't recommend it anyway. You should learn to attract women, literally, by GIVING them a reason to. Work on your game, relax, read, go to the gym, be social in EVERY situation not just at parties when you want to get laid. Seduction is a "lifestyle". Seriously practice with the girl at McDonald's, the cashier in the department store, flirt with older ladies…
/r/seduction22/01/15 09:44 PM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction21/01/15 09:11 PM
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Lol its YOUR mindset. If it's no problem in your mind then it won't be expressed in your body language when you seduce her. The age thing is just an excuse because she isn't attracted. Learn to attract women (of any age) and it will come naturally.
/r/seduction21/01/15 06:20 PM
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It's your mindset and yes women can literally see your self confidence. In high school you were the man but in college you are nobody among thousands; it's a different environment so you must adapt. Keep learning, reading, asking questions and working on your inner game. And don't stop talking to women because the outcome is different. It will come back.
/r/seduction21/01/15 06:17 PM
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Stop telling yourself race a problem. You are defeating yourself. Tell yourself "White women love me because I'm Eurasian."
/r/seduction21/01/15 03:13 AM
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If you are still feeling needy deep down don't go for any of them. Keep them in your friend zone and it will help build your confidence, abundance mindset, attract other girls to you AND attract them TO you...
/r/seduction21/01/15 03:09 AM
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"Let's go get an ice cream Friday night." Don't express romantic interest by texting. Tell her in person.
/r/seduction21/01/15 03:07 AM
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Start each day with a list of 10 things you appreciate. Put it on the wall or your front door. Do it every day.
/r/seduction21/01/15 03:04 AM
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Hang in there. Trust me I've been there brother.
/r/seduction20/01/15 08:20 PM
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Have fun on your cool trip and go meet some girls.
/r/seduction20/01/15 08:18 PM
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P.s. ease off the text game. Use it after you establish something from her. If you are blowing her phone up and she replies once a day then you are definitely blowing your chances big time. Mirror her text style one-for-one in frequency and length. She's getting your texts she is just choosing not to text.
/r/seduction20/01/15 08:17 PM
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Date other girls bro. Don't rack your brain trying to figure one girl out. If she's not interested, she's not interested. You can't force her. Work on your game. By dating other girls, then IF she IS interested then THAT will definitely peak her interest and make her pay attention to you. If she isn't interested then you have other girls to date. It's a win-win for you.
/r/seduction20/01/15 08:12 PM
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Do not chase her. Make her chase you.
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:03 PM
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DO NOT get stuck on one woman and give up your game. If you find a woman you want to get emotionally involved with and want to stick to her, keep seducing her. If you give up your game "for" her, she'll have no reason to dig you any longer and you will break up.
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:02 PM
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Depends on what you want. Probably an easy catch but she is looking for a dad to her kids.
/r/seduction20/01/15 05:55 AM
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I think we all are/were nervous at one time. Determine to go for the gold and you'll break through. Be the Axe commercial.
/r/seduction20/01/15 05:54 AM
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Change your perspective and none of that will matter. You are the prize. Have an abundance mentality (as opposed to the scarcity mentality you have now.)
/r/seduction20/01/15 05:52 AM
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Turn off your Internet and go out and talk to girls. Virtual reality is becoming your reality. Get a different hobby like running or cooking.
/r/seduction20/01/15 05:50 AM
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Sounds like you are in your head too much. Learn to ground yourself and breath maybe meditate. Read a book called Cockfidence.
/r/seduction20/01/15 05:47 AM
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Stop talking to dudes about kissing girls and go kiss some girls. Relax, slow down and enjoy it.
/r/seduction19/01/15 06:06 PM
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You are in the friend zone bro. Escalate or move on. Girls who want to take it slow either 1) aren't interested or 2) want to get married. She should be chasing you bro. Half the world is female, go find another one.
/r/seduction19/01/15 06:05 PM
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Yeah bro just relax with her. Don't push her or ask what "she" wants. You should be controlling the conversation and relatuonship, just do it she will fawn all over you. I'm not talking about being a d-bag but be you. Be the man. Make the decisions. It's your life enjoy it and let her come with you. It'll be all good. Work on changing your mindset from revolving around her to revolving around you. Enjoy. Talk to more girls.
/r/seduction19/01/15 05:27 PM
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(Removed?) Relax bro. There are hundreds of THOUSAND of fish in the sea. They all want you. Don't get hung up on one girl because they are a dime a dozen. When you realize this the tables will be turned and she will chase YOU. Guaranteed.
/r/seduction19/01/15 05:23 PM
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I've found that confidence is key. Though it doesn't have to be with "girls". Be yourself and confident in your skills or hobbies. Do what you love and are comfortable with and your confidence will grow. Use that to push you with women. Tell yourself "I'm a Badass at _____" and believe it. Some of this sounds cliche but it's so true you have to internalize that you are the man. You are the prize. Not her.
/r/seduction19/01/15 05:18 PM
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Tell her you can talk but not for long because you have a date later.
/r/seduction19/01/15 06:49 AM
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