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2	Threesome thoughts, after effects, overall good/bad idea? This is likely going to be very different than most the advice on here, but i am 100% for threesomes - if and only if - you can handle it, have a secure relationship, the same values, and the chemistry is right. Having a threesome brought me and my S.O. very close together from the jump both physically and mentally, and it is something we still enjoy doing from time to time. We have always had an excellent sex life & when we did it, it was not to improve anything we were lacking or bored with, b…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/18 04:20 PM
2	Anniversary Gifts - discussion and ideas I made my SO a book of drawings of me & him (i hand drew it because he likes doodles) of the reasons i love him & another one on all our adventures together - like a drawing from each place we’ve been. It was his fav gift ever and it kind of was like something silly i thought but he LOVED it . Like had a tear in his eye loved it . I’ve also done things w/ “reasons why i love you” and created a jar that has fun sexy things (in case we ever get stale - strip tease, date night at xyz, etc. kind of …	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/18 03:45 PM
1	Guy Showing Ambivalence/Hesitation? He is probably seeing other people / possibly getting sex elsewhere at the moment which is why things are dying down for you. He may not even realize it’s happening as when you are juggling multiple girls you don’t even notice who you send the good morning text to and who you don’t. This isn’t to say that he isn’t into you - he just is into other people as well (speculation of course)	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/18 03:04 PM
1	Tell me what to do Do you allow him to have all your passwords, save text with anyone so he knows your not hiding anything, access to your phone etc? Perhaps daily or weekly checkins re: how he is feeling might help delay him getting full blown angry and instead he can speak about his emotions. It is very hard for someone to be able to confide in one after they’ve been cheated on, as trust is broken. He is still around so he clearly wants this to work - he just doesn’t know how to control his anger. I think daily …	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/18 02:53 PM
3	Tell me what to do I’m in full agreement with this & LateralThinkers post way above. The sad fact of infidelity is when trust is broken in such a sacred place (intimate affairs) it becomes VERY hard for the person to fully forgive & not resent. With the right work however, the resentment will subside. But it takes changes from the two of you. You can become a solid 10, but because of the past your SO will continue to lash out on you UNTIL YOU put an end to it . putting an end to this will help with recovery. He pr…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/18 02:47 PM
1	THIS is why I don't go out - I should've done more to protect my best friend from her abusive boyfriend She wants to see him because she is not ready to leave him. You can be angry but it will not change the scenario at hand. When she is ready to leave she will leave. The advice above is excellent advice & I’m a firm believer never get involved in a boy girl fight, as it typically does not end well for the party who inserts them self. To add to this advice, you can tell your friend you cannot sit supporting her relationship but if she ever feels trapped, you will be there to help her (only if you …	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/18 01:36 PM
3	The Cult of "Self-Esteem" Agree. There is a decent simple video online which explains the “6 pillars of self esteem” which i think hits the nail on the head better than what OP discussed, as it does not focus one facet (women’s beauty) but rather multiple parts involved in the self esteem equation & what self esteem actually is. Recognizing where you stand and working on improving (self acceptance) is only one part of self esteem.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/18 01:19 PM
3	The Cult of "Self-Esteem" It’s because beauty alone does not define self esteem. Self esteem is confidence in ones own abilities and worth. Aging may play a factor if you feel it diminishes your worth. You may also value certain features about yourself that (ie: your humor, intellectual side, etc) which now you are no longer nurturing (many of us seem to lose track of the parts we liked about ourselves) and if this is the case, it may be effecting how you view yourself. Regardless you cannot control your age but whatever…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/18 01:12 PM
2	The past won't stay in the past. I would not give such an extreme statement either, as the statement above sounds like trust issues. Do you trust him? If so, explain that you’d like baggage / past relationships from the two of you kept in the past so they do not interfere with you two evolving as a couple. If he is unable to cut ties or even explain that she no longer has a chance, his motives seem a bit untrustworthy (to me) and it seems like he’s keeping a door open “just in case” - and likes the attention from his ex. If he …	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/18 12:59 PM
7	The past won't stay in the past. It says “The oxytocin released through orgasm creates a lot of trust, but only for a short period of time,” she said. “In nature most animals are bachelors, so in the act of love-making they generate an opportunity for trust. This article also mentions that due to neuroscience, new pathways in 6 weeks. From those two statements in the article, I’m not sure oxytocin bonds you for life.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/18 12:50 PM
1	Question About Red Pill They do - i learned that the hard way ;) I’m in agreement with you & I do think some parts of the philosophy are great for self improvement and especially making men feel they can self evolve etc. the anger just really frightens me. Imagine having those types of conversations in real life! It reminds me of the opposite - the extreme feminist whose anti men etc .	/r/ExRedPill	29/06/18 12:06 AM
5	Question About Red Pill Oh they are definitely a hate group. So many of them are in the anger phase. Because i wrote as a woman (insert opinion) i got banned, only to have about 30 dudes DM me hitting on me while they went hard on me in the comments saying how because I’m a women i can’t help how horrible i am etc etc (so many lulz at how they talked about me in the comments vs how they DM me ). Their favorite thing is to also say to anyone who disagrees that they are manipulating & shaming them, meanwhile it’s typical…	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/18 11:09 PM
1	Im in the middle of a mess. Im falling out of love to my bf bc he's showing bp attitude. From what you wrote, it does not appear you two are compatible. You said he’s a really sweet & nice - but so is my dog and my relatives, but i don’t date either of them ;) meanwhile, you had no problem easily rattling off numerous Items you perceive as flaws (he doesn’t wear sunscreen??, plays video games, stubbed his toe and wouldn’t finish a hike, “sounds like a loser” “boring”. does not need trp which you value, In all seriousness though, why do you want to stay with him? Perhaps make a pro/c…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/18 07:07 PM
1	Initiate the first move (Ask for advice) Yes - just thinking it still may hurt as it takes a while to get used to sex / pretty inexperienced	/r/RedPillWomen	22/06/18 06:33 PM
3	Red pilled man & woman A letter sounds excellent idea. Make sure he realizes you are not “testing” him, blaming, shaming, just speaking from the heart of how much one can bear. Explain what parts of MGTOW / awalt you disagree with - and the dealbreakers involved (ie: you do not want an apathetic husband, an abuser, or any horror stories etc) the good news is a man certainly can be a captain AND still love his wife, guide her, and not just think of her as a hole, he just needs to work out whatever aggressions (as they …	/r/RedPillWomen	22/06/18 05:14 PM
1	Initiate the first move (Ask for advice) Agree with above. I also recommend for positions to just check out a listicle online with best Positions for a female to try that won’t hurt so much since your a virgin. You want it to be just as good for you as it is for him. I’m sure he’s just as excited to see what you are wanting to explore (more of the idea of it than wanting you to come out like some porn star - doubt that’s his intent). I’d imagine it’s just about him being able to see ahh so this is what she wants to try —- the whole exp…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/06/18 02:31 PM
1	I'm at a loss with dating.... how do I learn from my mistakes and proceed? Said excellent !	/r/RedPillWomen	22/06/18 11:33 AM
2	I'm at a loss with dating.... how do I learn from my mistakes and proceed? Does my dad give terrible advice? No, however, the fear i have with having a job for fun at a spa causes you to find more middle class than extremely upper class men in your day to day activities. Upper class men going to a spa typically don’t date the help (BUT there are always rules to exceptions)! How can i meet a high valued man...? You can try dating sites, friends hooking you up with colleagues(especially if they are going into academia, as they meet men - you can get set up with double da…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/06/18 11:32 AM
11	What to do while he's away? Crafts - also - send him some fun things to go away with. While i think you should spend this time focusing on bettering you, it’s always nice to remind him your remaining faithful, he’s on your mind etc. do this by making a boudoir book or calendar for when he goes away (or creating while he’s away), work out to become the 10 you & him deserve, send him a cute book with stories or drawings etc. i think an obvious is doing hobbies you like as well, just think it’s nice to make sure your man is t…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/18 03:14 AM
3	Observations in an LTR (Ha!) I do not need to explain myself but when someone questions my morale, i do feel the need to defend it (once then there is no point going in circles with you. I have worked for a PI for almost 10 years, and because of that i do not want children, do not want to get married, and i do not cheat. These are just words on a screen to you yes, but this is the way i love my life. I had a relationship for 8 years in which i never once cheated, nor did i have the desire to. I am not here to change your mi…	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/18 01:39 PM
1	Observations in an LTR (Ha!) Good try breaking this down but completely missing the mark. I’ve never cheated, been loyal my entire life. I don’t even talk to other men in that manner while being taken. You sound pretty bitter towards all women, projecting breaking down this post because your a bit bitter & angry based on your experiences of women cheating. I do sincerely feel bad that thats been your experience, and hope one day you find someone who treats you the way you SHOULD be treated - and visa versus :)	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/18 01:02 PM
9	Getting too comfortable? Agree. That means that your not only getting too comfy with him - but yourself. Focus on doing your makeup/hair, dressing nice (if you have children or are older, it doesn’t have to be reaching to be 18 again, just keeping yourself looking good). Try to find a new hobby to explore that will give you the confidence - before you lose it. You need to make sure you feel good and not too comfortable before you can focus on anyone else. As for the SO .. Anytime i start to get a little too comfortable …	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/18 12:02 PM
1	RPW, what's your career and how did you get to where you are in life right now? I’m at a weird point in my life. I was a Marketing director for all of my 20s - primarily for private investigations & for law firms . . . I’m 32 now & took the last two years off living on what i made to figure out my next direction . I’m now opening up a private investigation firm with my S.O. He’ll be more of a silent partner than actually doing most of the work, as he’s not really a desk guy & is better with his hands, but he wants to invest in it. I will say that now that i haven’t worked i…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/18 11:55 AM
6	Second date advice!! I think that’s the perfect response as well. Go out to dinner or do something in public that is not too romantic, being in public will cockblock it from going much further. Coffee or desserts are good too. If your into arts and he is, do a movie ... baseball game etc . Hard to gauge since i don’t know what your into. I will warn you he’s probably going to think your a tease lying so be firm :)	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/18 11:44 AM
1	Observations in an LTR (Ha!) As a female, i can say very easily if a girl says she’s unsure that means she’s still seeing other men / seeing what options are better for her. When she says “are we in a relationship?” It typically means she was rejected by someone else & now is getting nervous about her current situation. This girl has all the red flags &. I hope you hopped out. Not all women are like this, you need to just find one who isn’t borderline, self absorbed, getting by on her looks alone. Does she bring something a…	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/18 11:33 AM
2	Talking about your past relationships and n-count with your S/O... I’m with you - find a male who agrees and values what matters to you (ie: who you are now, your loyalty, faithfulness etc) and your set . If the guy doesn’t like what he’s hearing/judges you hardcore, maybe he isn’t the one for you. If he likes you enough, he will look past it & not even give much thought to it (in my experience anyway)	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/18 07:05 PM
1	Leg day ruined by just one female. Sounds like she is just highly insecure that she’s a tubber. Definitely file a complaint with someone higher up and never let anyone ruin the best day - leg day !!	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/18 12:17 PM
1	Big Brother versus Partner - what would you do? Do you think it’s the racism & age part if your brother initially liked him or the idea of him initially ? or does your brother feel he did something - or perhaps even jealousy that your so close to someone else ? Sorry i hear about this, regardless of who initiated what - it -all seems very sad ! Divisions in families are never fun & im very sorry to hear about your parents and their backwards mentality. Hopefully as they see how much ur SO takes care of u and loves u they’ll turn around.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/05/18 11:33 AM
1	Big Brother versus Partner - what would you do? Oh, i agree with you completely. I am speaking from a situation currently happening where my sister started off with minimal control, to then mind control, to now regularly being hit saying we don’t love her . What she described above was exactly how my sister perceived it though - no one likes him because he’s older / diff race (when in actuality no one liked him solely on his actions). Regardless i wouldn’t just eliminate the last link i have to my family and delete him / start icig him out un…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/05/18 01:10 PM
2	Back to the basics - gynocentrism. As a woman.... Two questions. What about if a woman hates and does not want a child / animal etc - and neither does the male? Genuinely curious what your thoughts on love are the . Is it more If a love the man wants because he’s getting what he wants IR is it a negative ? As for love, i wouldn’t see it as infatuation at all - unless i just am not 100% into him and dreaming of the real man i truly love :) We do love different though. A woman is very vocal while a man shows with actions. A woman w…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/05/18 12:33 PM
3	Big Brother versus Partner - what would you do? Is he the last immediate relative your close with? Please please this is Not a reason to have a war with him. Keep him in your life, you need one person whose family in case things get bad with your SO. It’s clear your bro loves you very much	/r/RedPillWomen	10/05/18 12:16 PM
1	Big Brother versus Partner - what would you do? My sister is going through same thing, except she is in a VERY controlled relationship which is why my family wants her out. Do not separate yourself from your family; it’s the first sign of someone controlling and abusive when they try to isolate.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/05/18 12:09 PM
20	dating an alpha - what to watch out for? Yeah, tbh, from everything written i didn’t think this was an alpha man AT ALL.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/18 04:26 AM
2	Sex is a nightmare I am actually not in the camp of not having sex readily available / punishing someone for wanting something else. Especially if you want it . Lmao 🤣 Human sexuality is very strange and not as black and white as people think or we’d like it . . . First i would try to create some sort of sexual adventure bucket list to do with him. I’m not sure if links are allowed on here but google sex bucket list & you will find ideas. Me and my bf have a very active sex life but i have a jar filled with tons o…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/18 10:25 PM
1	Trying to get back into dating after traumatic incident- when if at all should I tell guys about it? I totally understand where you are coming from. I think the right male will realize it was your ex with the problem - NOT you. And although you have ptsd from it, the right person will help you realize not everyone reacts this way. If you think it’s going to be a problem sleeping with someone then i definitely suggest you explaining it. When you do, try to remember that people only know as much as you tell so if you don’t want them too worried then don’t say too much / trivialize it until you ge…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/18 02:20 PM
4	'For Women Only' - Respect and Love - Chapter 2 In all seriousness keep posting em! I was trying to find more on YouTube but only found chapter 1. I’m intrigued if she’s got anything juicy	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/18 10:56 AM
3	Are my physical requirements for my captain unrealistic and superficial? My bf is very tall (over 6) and thinks the same way. Always jokes when girls asked him his height online he’d ask their boob size because then all becomes fair game & then the girls showed she’s not good for much else (his words not mine) ... my bf actually said same thing re: me not caring about height so u may def want to not mention this during vetting !! I’ve seen this with a lot of good looking men.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/18 05:00 AM
3	Trying to get back into dating after traumatic incident- when if at all should I tell guys about it? Definitely tell him. Most men want open communication but feel a woman can’t handle it . Who would break up with you because your ex sleeping attacked you? The story itself is more funny than traumatic when reading it - although I’m sure nothings funny to uabojt it - me reading is as thinking wait that’s it ! That’s the problem? Of course tell future partners . That’s just me though	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/18 04:57 AM
1	Sex is a nightmare I’m in agreement, if he isn’t pleasing you this is the first sign he’s a selfish POS. It’s only year 1/2 z imagine 5 years in? He’s going to be soooo beyond selfish. The little boys gotta grow up and not be so selfish	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/18 04:54 AM
3	Sex is a nightmare As a girl who loves threesomes, do not, i repeat, do not have one until you are at a comfortable state with your man. Sounds like 1) he doesn’t know how to please you so 2) two girls will just be a major challenge and it’ll be you two pleasing him with no fun for y’all .if you ever go that route tell him what he needs to work on (u gotta be treated like the queen and the thirds your unicorn / toy etc ). I can get more into that if you ever decide but regardless you two need to have a major talk …	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/18 04:52 AM
1	What if your bf made you sign a contract before moving in together? I would almost prefer a contract with my boyfriend so i know if he changes or i change we have something to be accountable to	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/18 04:46 AM
6	'For Women Only' - Respect and Love - Chapter 2 Could just listen to Kendrick Lamar “I’d rather you trust me than to love me” then read this chapter ;)	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/18 04:45 AM
1	THE ATTRACTION TRINITY: Looks, Money and Status – A Complete Guide Ehhhh i don’t see someone whose successful as beta, he’s just got the TRIfecta ;)	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/18 12:36 PM
1	Women do not love men. TRP science that is hard ot argue with... Not here to debunk because I’m not a scientist but i am a woman that is totally grossed out by babies (32 & no babies for me thank you very much), LOVE to kiss and even more so, love sex especially everyday. I think men just think about sex more frequently (every minute or every X number of seconds etc etc) vs women who don’t think about it as much BUT when they do and are good in bed —— then us women are very much down. But then again I’m a unicorn so... hahaha	/r/ExRedPill	15/03/18 10:40 AM
5	How do deal with lack of male attention? Do you think you are giving the vibe that your not looking? I’d recommend dating sites, they aren’t as bad as they are portrayed - and it may help open yourself up to a whole group of men not in your circle that you’d not normally meet. Men are VERY visual and physical people. Do you ever try to focus on your looks (doing your hair, throwing on a lipstick or gloss, wearing form fitting clothes). You may be giving off the vibe that your happily not looking from a physical point of view. It’s hard…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/03/18 09:25 AM
1	Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. In the same respect.. women can’t actualize how a man would have himself loved.. the moment he attempts to explain his ideal love, that’s the point at which his idealization becomes her obligation. Romantic love was invented to manipulate women too. Look at marketing campaigns - they usually go after women with the romance shit, not men :) they feed us this lie with fairy tales at a very young age, creating almost a damn near obsession of what we need to Find . And just like those fairy tales, it isn’t real. We end up falling in love with the idea of love instead of the concrete person itself. (I would rather die than lose you, i can’t live without you, i am lovesick, etc etc ) what is the…	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/18 12:49 PM
1	Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. In the same respect.. women can’t actualize how a man would have himself loved.. the moment he attempts to explain his ideal love, that’s the point at which his idealization becomes her obligation. what does having a pussy have to do with this ? all i mean is many women are empathetic, perceptive, aware, & understand what a their particular man needs from them. Of course, not all. women are not all that self absorbed & this carton is an overstatement of that . I’d almost argue that especially on a red pill forum, women are eager to learn the type of love their man needs and wants - not to just oblige but to fully feel content with their role & satisfying what their man truly needs ... fulf…	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/18 12:38 PM
1	Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. In the same respect.. women can’t actualize how a man would have himself loved.. the moment he attempts to explain his ideal love, that’s the point at which his idealization becomes her obligation. Unfortunately you do not understand woman at all then . You can say this for some of course, but I’d argue most are the polar opposite of the above statement.	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/18 02:19 PM