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Conversationbrown_man_bob/r/seduction07/03/26 03:54 PM
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I agree. Maybe I could have tried to move the conversation away to something else more quickly, but who knows. It is tough with IOIs and stuff; it drives me a bit crazy sometimes lol
/r/seduction08/03/26 10:28 AM
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Telling you she doesn’t want to date is different than saying she wants to be celibate, if that makes sense. Regardless, I do understand what you’re getting at.
/r/seduction08/03/26 10:21 AM
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Ehhhh maybe, but she’s one of those girls who does like to talk a lot. Not sure if you know the type, but from what I saw, it didn’t feel as indicative as it may be with other girls, if that makes sense
/r/seduction08/03/26 10:20 AM
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No actual post that specifically mentions escalation…
/r/seduction07/03/26 03:35 PM
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That’s very cute! How did he ask you out?
/r/seduction22/01/26 10:26 PM
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Everyone likes to equate this type of stuff to exercise like running and lifting weights. You have to train more to get better. But there’s also such a thing as overtraining and injuring yourself. The same analogy holds here.
/r/seduction19/07/25 04:02 PM
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I think you already know, but do not listen to this guy. Literally the whole thesis of this sub is not to be an incel who thinks genetics determine if women will want to have sex with you.
/r/seduction10/07/25 09:13 PM
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Ok I found a lot of people have posted in the past 1-2 years. Just google “better business bureau hinge reddit” and you should see 5+ posts including exact messages people have sent to BBB.
/r/seduction20/05/25 03:00 AM
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It’s been awhile, but I believe so. No promises, but I’ll dig through my profile to see if I can find something helpful
/r/seduction20/05/25 02:53 AM
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It’s been a couple of years, but I was in your same situation (I was only banned on Hinge though). No explanation for the ban and they refused to even tell me what rule I broke that resulted in a ban. I eventually found some threads on Reddit about filing a complaint with the Better Business Bureau. I thought it was complete bullshit, but I followed someone’s tips, filed the complaint, and lo and behold, less than a week later I received an email from Hinge for the first time in two years inform…
/r/seduction20/05/25 02:39 AM
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If you moved to NYC, you have a MASSIVE Spanish speaking community at your disposal. Go on stuff like eventbrite, meetup, look up Latin dance clubs, Latin bars, salsa, bachata, everything! Not just for girls, for friends and community. You’re in one of the best cities in North America to speak Spanish :)
/r/seduction25/04/25 05:26 AM
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I’m fluent! But regardless no worries, totally understand
/r/seduction18/03/25 07:18 PM
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Would you be able to share screenshots of the DMs on the bus? This story sounds hilarious
/r/seduction18/03/25 05:25 PM
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Not sure, but I don’t see why it would matter. They’ll look at your complaint regardless. Just say it is a US based complaint if BBB asks.
/r/seduction13/03/25 03:59 PM
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I’ll give you some advice to get unbanned that I thought was complete bullshit until I tried it. I can’t make any guarantees but worth a shot. I got banned on Hinge a couple years back as well. Same situation as you, except they said I got reported for violating their ToS. When I did an appeal, they instantly denied it and would not even tell me what rule I broke. Eventually I really wanted to get back on Hinge. After some research, I saw people mention the following: if you file a formal compla…
/r/seduction13/03/25 06:39 AM
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Interesting stories, but can you actually describe the flow and actual dialogue of the conversations? Otherwise it isn’t really helpful at all imo.
/r/seduction02/12/24 02:54 PM
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How have you gotten past this? I think I have this too. My friends have told me I’m pretty hard on myself when it comes to how I think people perceive me.
/r/seduction01/12/24 02:41 AM
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I know your pain bro. Unfortunately, if she wanted to make it work, she would. Unless you’re willing to move to her and accept that it still might not work out, I think it’s best to focus your attention elsewhere like other people said, especially if you often feeling sad after talking to her knowing you can’t be together.
/r/seduction04/11/24 05:58 AM
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TECHNICALLY his statement is correct where he’s saying one could sleep with any hetero woman without a bf. However, functionally it’s bullshit because you would need to be a mind reader. You’d need to know if and why she’s stressed, emotionally unavailable, her personality, her disposition, etc. Then you’d have to say the right phrases in the right order to make them receptive to you. You and I know that’s impossible. I think you’re doing fine. The only good thing his mindset is for is this: it …
/r/seduction31/10/24 06:14 PM
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Kyle?
/r/seduction14/10/24 08:37 PM
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I’m assuming you’re employed and have health insurance? If you don’t or it’s not very good, you’re 23 so if your parents have it, you can get added to their plan until you’re 26. Decent insurance will usually only charge you like $20 a session until you hit your deductible. Go on the health insurance website for your carrier or use something like ZocDoc to find someone. You can also try PsychologyToday; these are all for you to find a therapist who you click with and who accepts your insurance. …
/r/seduction09/08/24 11:59 PM
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DM me
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:18 PM
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Don't treat a girlfriend as a status symbol trust me. you'll either go crazy or you'll get into a relationship that won't last. 21 is young, just meet lots of people and really enjoy the friends and experiences at college. It doesn't last
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:37 PM
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You just have to be really smart about how you do it. That's the type of place like work, you wouldn't go up to a coworker you've never even talked to before and ask them out. You start talking to them, after you've had 3-5 interactions and you prove you're a good person, then you can ask them out. Even if you get rejected, they know you're not a creep now. If they act weird about it, you know it's not a problem with you, it's with them.
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:31 PM
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What'd you do differently that resulted in sleeping with 5 women in month? is it a line or something you wouldn't normally do?
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:25 PM
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yup, and from my experience, this is what is going to lead to FWBs and/or girls that want to be in a relationship with you. They'll almost always come back for more if the first few experiences are awesome.
/r/seduction13/06/22 10:19 PM
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Some people are just mean on the internet. The post got removed, but I sincerely hope you listen to your heart and your head. Just be honest with her. And think of the people who are proud of you and the people that you admire and are proud of. What would they do? The answer to that will get you so far in your life, I promise you.
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:06 PM
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If you don't mind me asking, what kind of pain do you deal with everyday? That must be really draining. Also, just in general, is there something you wish people would say or do when they see someone who doesn't look like them (even if it's something simple like don't keep staring)?
/r/seduction04/06/21 11:34 PM
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My bad, it's cue*, wasn't paying attention when I typed. Obviously I get that the only way you'll figure this shit out is to actually go up to them. I was just wondering if you looked for anything prior to that, but you've made it clear that you don't.
/r/seduction10/02/21 03:51 PM
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If not eye contact, what queue, if any, do you use to gauge interest?
/r/seduction10/02/21 03:24 PM
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Do you have something like that under your cuff?
/r/seduction10/02/21 03:21 PM
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I agree with your sentiment but Curry is a massive choker lol
/r/seduction10/02/21 03:20 PM
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I feel the same way. I joined reddit in around 2012-13 and this was typical of what seddit was. People made valid points about his behavior, but it sounds mutually consensual, so I don't really get a justice boner admonishing him for using Tinder the way that many people use Tinder...
/r/seduction05/02/19 07:41 PM
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Why is he a prick? Other than the fact that he didn't hide her name and picture?
/r/seduction05/02/19 05:27 PM
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It went really well! We got dinner a couple days later, then hung out the next night and I closed. Really cool girl, but it was my last week of college so it wouldn't have worked out :/ To be fair, we technically met once but it was for less than 2 minutes and that was a year prior to when I sent this DM. You mentioned she goes to your school, that's enough justification to be able to message her. I think the odds would be a little harder if you just randomly followed a stranger with no connecti…
/r/seduction21/01/19 10:54 PM
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Yeah don't know why this guy is so against it. Someone mentioned stories but if they have a joke on their description you can use that too. I was able to do it once bc the girl had a vine joke in her bio. Good luck!
/r/seduction21/01/19 03:55 PM
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Just wanted to say I'm glad you're okay brotha. Things like that can go south very quickly. Since you're here though... Mind enlightening us on the "/u/natpref2 style of game"?
/r/seduction13/10/18 01:43 AM
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Any particular things she did that we as guys can apply to our game/general repertoire?
/r/seduction19/09/17 07:06 PM
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Dude you're doing great. You have a HUGE conversation starter (the sombrero) that announces to everyone you're a chill, funny dude. Everyone already has a positive impression of you and all you gotta do is be a friendly guy (which was how you acted). Only problem I saw was you didn't really expand on convos after meeting people. Just ask have you been there before, when they're not at clubs goin CRAZY, what do they do for work, and maybe comment on their style and ask if they're really into fash…
/r/seduction07/02/13 09:27 PM
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You got dat iron liver?
/r/seduction04/02/13 12:00 PM
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Straight out of a vineyard vines catalog.
/r/seduction04/02/13 03:21 AM
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What should I look at to study Pickup?
/r/seduction04/02/13 03:04 AM
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