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When you improve yourself enough, it gets to a point where you actually value your me time more than you value time spent chasing girls or being in your work. You're already stable financially, and girls just come naturally. You have a healthy amount of plates, and if they're gone, new plates just kind of gravitate towards you. Gets to a point where you're getting more attention than you want. Then you just want to be left alone, or start working on a girl of your caliber, so you get a nice LTR …
/r/askTRP07/11/16 06:27 AM
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Look up Brendan Meyers on YouTube. He has some pretty significant acne scarring on his face, but he's also super fit and lifts. I'd bet ANYTHING he gets a LOT of female attention... Unless you're actually deformed, if you lift enough and look anything like he does, even a 50% reduction on your acne will lead you to success with women.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 09:19 PM
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Actually, it's a lot. It's 6 per year before college, booze and nightlife kicks in. That number will get significantly larger with all these considered. Also consider that if the girl is banging a guy every two months, then she either never had a LTR that lasted more than two whole months, or she is cheating on her LTR's, EDIT: or she's had one or several periods where she's banging several guys per month in-between LTR's. These are all things that raise red flags.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 12:42 PM
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Exactly
/r/askTRP09/03/16 03:49 PM
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Probably one of the most challenging was when dating a taller girl, who kept shit testing me about my height. Since it was still kind of a touchy subject for me, it was really, really tough to maintain frame, but in the end i could pull through. Still didn't work out because she was a crazy bitch, but it was hardcore training in the world of shit tests. And when we were finally done, she did drop the whole "i never told you, but i was raped once" bomb to try and explain all of their batshit insa…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 04:59 AM
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There's a thread on r-sex about a guy who had his wife promise him anal for valentine's. She told him every time he'd asked before that she never did it before and didn't want to. He got her to turn around and promise to do it, but then he catches her texting their neighbor, telling the truth. She had anal sex alright, with her chad ex-bf, whom she nearly dumped the now-husband for in the beggining of the relationship, and, the kicker, she loved it and they did it all the time. Plus, neighbor an…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 04:21 AM
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IT is great because some times you don't even need to be in the same geographical location as your client in order to practice your craft, which opens up a much bigger market in which to sell your talents. It's great. I tried programming out, for a while, in my spare time, as a hobby, and while i get the gist of things, at this point in my life, with a degree, with my license to practice law, investing a whole lot of time(and money for certificates) in order to get actually good enough to market…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 06:58 PM
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Neither has very good prospects in a crisis. Law is very oversaturated here in Brazil in most cities, so your best bet as a lawyer is going to be to try your luck in the public sector(as i will), or go to to smaller cities on the countryside, where there's sometimes a lack of talent (but also less prospects of making big bucks). There's also academy, i suppose, if you want to spend an extra 2~8 years on an MBA, masters & doctorate and want to teach. Economists are always to blame in a crisis, an…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 06:53 PM
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Also from Brazil, and i'm also suffering from the crisis. I graduated law school from a respectable college, got my attorney's license, but law firms aren't hiring - even for entry-level paper-pushing positions where i'd make a tiny bit more than at McDonald's, and yes, i've applied for them because i need a job. Still no dice. It's a hard situation out here. Only people employed by the public sector aren't being affected as much, which is what i'm currently aiming at since if things continue to…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 03:37 PM
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Yes. Men are biologically programmed to 'reproduce', and failure to do so messes you up. Masturbation can only go so far as circumventing the natural urge to reproduce, and, coupled with the crippling realization that you're less of a man for not being able to impress a woman enough that she has sex with you, leads to depression, social anxiety, and a plethora of other dysfunctions. The longer one continues down this spiralling path of self-loathing leading to increased anxiety, awkwardness and …
/r/askTRP29/01/16 05:22 PM
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It all boils down to being vague and in a "don't ask, don't tell mentality". If they don't specifically ask you if you're seeing other people, you don't say anything. If they do ask, flip the question around "Are you not?". And if they ask more questions, be as vague as possible and try to change the subject. If it's still not enough... That girl wants to be exclusive, and sometimes you gotta accept you're not going to change that. Plates come and go, that's why you spin em. If you bullshit arou…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 05:18 PM
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1) Validation, to have several people echoing that she's right, so she can feel better about the way she's acting/thinking. (most common) 2) It's not something they can open with anyone close to them, because it's either embarassing or involves someone in their tightly knit group. (uncommon, but not much) 3) They want honest advice from unbiased viewpoints (rarest occurrence).
/r/askTRP26/12/15 08:02 AM
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The short and nasty of it is, women don't have to try as hard as guys do to get any amount of attention from the opposite sex. They are there, they look good, it's on. Which means one the many things guys try harder at is sex. Women feel entitled to being pleased at all times, and the hotter they are, the more entitled they feel. To the point where some of the most attractive girls will never go for a second time if you so much as fail to give her numerous orgasms on your first night of fucking,…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 07:42 AM
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Tinder is about as shallow as dating apps can go. You're judged basically exclusively on your appearance. Any girl above a 7 is only swiping on dudes that are 9's and 10's physically. There's only two rules to succeed in Tinder. Be attractive. Don't be unnatractive. That's it. Sure, you can get a witty description, and have enough displays of wealth/culture/social value on your assorted pictures and linked instagram profile that you can maybe be bumped from a 7 to maybe an 8, or 8.5. You'll stil…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 07:17 AM
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I feel what's happening to you is, you made this girl to be so much of a big deal in your life, you spent so much time around her, built your whole life, goals, ideals and mindset around being with this girl, that the vacuum created when she left you is way too big to be filled by meaningless sex with strangers - even if they're pretty girls, because you're just too used to that "emotional connection" and long term plans. But in reality, it was a damaging, codependent relationship. Healthy relat…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 07:01 AM
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I will add my voice to the unanymous opinion being expressed here and tell you, without further ado, that you should next her ASAP. You never give a cheating woman a second chance. It's something that simply cannot happen. If she disrespects you once, she'll disrespect you again. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me, yadda yadda - and it's doubly true for females. Women only cheat if they see you as low value. They only cheat when they're looking for your replacement. You simpl…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 04:42 AM
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Fuck no. I sleep around too much I drink too much I have too much baggage I'd completely be down with a FWB set up with a girl that is just like me, but not a LTR type deal. If i were a girl i'd probably think like a girl and feel entitled just like a girl would, which means that together with my 3 points above, would make me into just the kind of girl you absolutely need to avoid in a LTR.
/r/seduction04/12/15 08:45 PM
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Don't trick yourself into thinking your SMV is higher than it actually is, be aware of your real SMV, and work on improving it. SMV is inherently a metric of how others perceive you, not of how you perceive yourself. However, confidence does improve your SMV. The way of improving your SMV is by improving yourself. As for what you can immediately do in this party... Just go, focus on having a good time, forget that there are even girls there. Work on being an enjoyable company. Relax, enjoy, befr…
/r/askTRP21/11/15 07:07 PM
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Girl 2 - definitely not a virgin. Bisexual? Open to MFF? Orbiters? 8 LTR's since 13, plus whatever she has gotten up to inbetween? Nope, not a virgin. When she goes to college, you bet she'll ride the CC hard. Not LTR material. Plus, she's been cheated on, so she's much more likely to cheat herself. Damaged goods, plow & go. Girl 1 sounds like she's better LTR material, but if you're not going for LTR's regardless, then Girl 2 is a much better choice. Sounds like way less work for you to get in …
/r/askTRP21/11/15 07:03 PM
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Amused mastery - "Oh, reaaally?". Or just go with the almighty "uh huh...". Or "I know right, he's just such a diiiick? Let me just say, i like my eggs sunny-side up, and my bacon crispy, FYI."
/r/askTRP21/11/15 06:52 PM
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Then i say you're set
/r/askTRP21/11/15 06:48 PM
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If she won't either: a) Put out b) Help you get laid c) Be a friend to you in the same way your male friends are Then she's not worth your time. "A" seems like it's out the window, "B" requires your time and attention, and it seems like you're not interested in that, and "C" is unlikely, women who make good friends are few and far inbetween. If that's how you feel, then the best you can do is be vague and unresponsive and then go radio silent.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 06:47 PM
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Nothing wrong with friendly banter with a chick that didn't respond to your asking her out before. However, always remember, your ears/eyes are not toilets that she can dump all her shit in, flush, and then disappear right afterwards. Be courteous, friendly, but also occasionally unavailable, vague, unresponsive and aloof to her life and concerns. Don't comfort her and give her shit advice. Basically, treat her as you would a male friend who went to you for advice. Keep it real, short and no-bul…
/r/askTRP21/11/15 05:16 PM
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Smarter is the new hotter, as they say, since smarts bring in the bucks, and having money is one out of three for LMS. However, being smart is not the same as being a smartass. Social awareness plays a major role, here. Play to your audience, is what i always do. I consider myself a pretty intellectual guy, and know about many things from many different fields. And what i usually do, is play into the interests of my intended audience. If i'm seeing a liberal arts major, guess what i'm going to t…
/r/askTRP21/11/15 05:10 PM
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You're being a bit paranoid. As long as the condom fits snugly onto your hard-on, and you test it afterwards and there's no rips, tears or leakages, you're absolutely fine. Many, many people rely exclusively on condoms as a birth control method, including me, and i've never had a single one rip, tear or leak, and i always test them. However, it's good practice to test them afterwards, and it's also good practice to throw them away yourself after the fact, to avoid self-impregnation with your use…
/r/askTRP21/11/15 05:03 PM
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A lot, to the point where everyone who knows me for more than a couple years comments on it. Everything, from the walk, to the talk, to the handshake is different. IDGAF attitude, being assertive on what i want, when i want, not taking shit from anyone, easily nexting girls instead of trying to find the next GF. All the neediness, all the whining and moaning about things is all but gone. A year since i started with TRP, and much to improve yet, but i feel like i'm starting to really internalize …
/r/askTRP21/11/15 05:00 PM
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This
/r/askTRP21/11/15 04:57 PM
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About six months after i embraced TRP way of life was when i first started actually seeing all of the results. I was going out a LOT more, meeting several new girls a week, plating some, one night stand per week minimum, and then i found out that being part of a huge social circle, having several pictures of me hanging out with beautiful people, being seen at parties, always dressed well, plus all of the gossip going around that i was getting it on with several chicks was making even more chicks…
/r/askTRP21/11/15 04:57 PM
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You're young, and in time, you will find yourself spending less and less time in front of a computer screen. Life just gets way more interesting than games at some point, and you'll find yourself drifting away from computers/games as times goes on, provided you keep searching for such activities. Part of that is when you're spinning a few plates of your own, you'll find that you need to spend time with each of them, and for obvious reasons, they each require their own timeslot - and you only hav…
/r/askTRP21/11/15 04:50 PM
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It's definitely amazing when it happens, and usually girls that are bold enough to actually approach are insanely good in the sack as well - enjoy.
/r/seduction11/11/15 05:05 AM
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LDR's almost never work. And when they do work, it's usually after a couple has known eachother for several years, are deeply in love and in a healthy relationship, and because of circumstances (deployment, work, study), they are forced to spend a significant time apart. Even then, most of the time, it falls apart. Human beings are physical beings, and we need physical connection. Even today, with fast internet enabling video calls, it's still not enough. And even when you have enough dough to k…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:18 PM
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Girls that have boyfriends can be a pain in the ass. Only go for it if you can get your dick wet with minimal amounts of effort. What happens if she suddenly decides that it's time for BF to know you exist, during one of their fights? Or what happens if he somehow gets a hold of her phone and see your incriminating texts? It can bring unnecessary drama into your life. That said, i'm not against it. I got it on with a girl that was engaged, and she's still going to marry the beta bux. Sucks for h…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 02:10 PM
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We've all seen it happen... Usually at parties with a lot of alcohol and not enough single ladies. I know i have my regrets, and i know everyone here probably has one or two at least as well... Alcohol plus the sex drive of a 20 something horny male, plus a momentary lack of options can make strange pairings happen.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 05:05 AM
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Just accept that you can slay, but a taller dude will get the nod from women regardless? As a fellow vertically challenged RPer, yes, that's exactly what you should do. Height isn't something that is fixable yet, all you can do is accept that for a fact, and work on being great at everything else. Working out has been doing wonders for me. I barely even started getting results, and women are already commenting on it. One thing us short guys have going for us, is that every pound of muscle we man…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 05:01 AM
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Learning how to plan and prioritize is part of self improvement. Not all workout routines require 1-2 hours every single day. Some workout routines are purpose-built for busy people that don't have all that time to spare every single day. r/fitness is a very good resource for that. How fast you read is a factor as well. How many minutes a day do you spend glued to the toilet seat? I find that is a good time to do some light reading. Depending on what do you do for work, it's also possible to sne…
/r/askTRP07/10/15 07:41 PM
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Buying houses/apartments and renting them out is still an investment, and not one that's without its own risks. Tenants can default on payments, you have to then deal with evictions, they can damage your property, you may need to go to court over some of the worst offenders... That, and you're buying at a set price hoping that the property will increase in value over time, so you can adjust rent accordingly, and get more money back if you decide to resell. All in all, i'd say investing in housin…
/r/askTRP26/09/15 11:32 PM
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Schedule a vasectomy and store your sperm, every girl you bang from now on will want to have your child and you want to minimize that potential. Second... The advice on the AskReddit post mentioned in this thread is sound and solid -> Lawyer up(Top firms, no local attorneys), dont give money directly to family, set up various investments as a way to capitalize on your money AND prevent yourself from burning through all of it, don't buy a lot of property, buy one or two in nice places that're lik…
/r/askTRP26/09/15 09:13 PM
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She already messaged me, she was still crying come this morning. Saying to me that she can't stop thinking about how the night would've gone if we hadn't gotten into a fight. You're absolutely right. She has the tingles like crazy now, because i put her down like no one ever did before.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 03:53 PM
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I don't know if i definitely lost frame, i did get really emotional. I don't care either way, i did it 100% as a fuck you, goodbye, thanks for calling. It really doesn't matter in the long run. AWALT.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 07:17 AM
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She came back, i snapped. Things did not go well. I made her cry, more than she probably has ever cried before. I put real fear on her, but never touched her physically. We're done, completely and utterly done. I don't know if i'm being too hopeful, but i don't think she'll be ever trying to pull that shit again. I showed some restraint, the next guy might not. She raised her hand against me, i raised it back. Told her that if she was going to hit me, i was going to hit back. Bitch cowered in he…
/r/askTRP26/09/15 05:41 AM
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Depends. Classier establishments require experience and some also offers on the job training or even courses, while cheaper establishments often will recruit with no prior experience provided you can demonstrate that you're good enough at pouring beer, know your liquor and can make everything on the menu to an acceptable degree. Being extroverted, nice looking and professional, of course, are requirements. Caveat: some places tend to hire people first as waiters, then promote to bartenders. You …
/r/askTRP26/09/15 02:32 AM
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Bartending, if you have the knack for it, since it's not something really too easy to get into. I've got a friend that took some classes and started bartending, and you wouldn't believe the things you learn and pick up. You hear all sorts of stories from all sorts of people, learn how to talk, when to talk and when to listen. That's not to mention a front-row seat to the do's and don'ts of picking up girls at a bar. You see what kinds of chicks go for what kind of guys, how they signal their int…
/r/askTRP26/09/15 01:55 AM
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Because society isn't concerned at all with teaching boys to become men. Because boys in school will learn all about why the patriarchy is bad and feminism is its vaccine, but will never learn what it means to become a man in this context. He'll learn what he can't do, but needs to figure out what he can and what he should do on his own. Because most fathers don't bother to pass on these life skills to their sons anymore. They don't take them out to fish, hunt, or shoot. Because if a dude gives …
/r/askTRP25/09/15 12:48 PM
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In the age of social media, that's hard. Even if they were late bloomers, as soon as they get 100's of guys on facebook/instagram all over their feet, they'll get all the validation they want, and then they'll want to leverage that in their favor.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 03:12 PM
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it's severely lowered because of a previous abusive ex That's a red flag of the worst kind ever. I made a few mistakes in my life before overlooking these kinds of things, but now when i hear daddy issues or abusive ex, i just know it's going to end badly. In fact, i fucking love hearing about a girls exes because it's such a good insight into their little twisted heads.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 04:39 AM
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The thing is, you need to either match or exceed a woman's SMV. When a woman's general idea of a 10 is Christian Grey, how can anyone in the world hope to be at her level, if she's also a 10? That's the biggest issue. She'll think that she's hot shit because she's gorgeous and also amazingly hot. Guys have to not only be amazingly hot and fit, they also need to be extremely interesting, engaging, intelligent but not arrogant, successful but not snob, with amazing fashion sense without coming off…
/r/askTRP24/09/15 04:34 AM
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Each time i get the feels now, i go hit the punching bag. I hit it over and over again. I run, i lift, i do it, then i feel good afterwards. Thoughts just vanish when you're too tired and too winded, and all you can think about is controlling your heartbeat and your breathing. I lost my beer gut, and chicks are commenting on it. I'm getting more attention than i used to, and it gives me even more confidence. It gives me every bit more incentive to continue my workout, even when i'm not feeling b…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 09:38 PM
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I know man, chill. I was just trying to illustrate a point. I know she's not a 10/10 because perfection does not exist. It was a way of exacerbating how gorgeous she seemed to me at the moment. I'm just saying i know unicorns don't exist, and normally that's what i'd say to any girl, but this girl struck a chord with me, you know? I usually am the one to point this out to others, but i got a bit awestruck. Yeah i got some shivers. Which i know is something i shouldn't be having, hence, i know i …
/r/askTRP06/09/15 09:49 AM
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I know, i just cured myself of it too, got into a bad spot with another girl, i'm just a bit overexcited, which is why i know i need to calm myself down. But seriously, it's only been a few hours since i've started tindering again(broke off with GF), no joke, and this happens. Caught me off guard. TRP advices on taking care of myself were definitely well applied, and my photos very carefully selected. Pumps me up to go ahead and do more, too.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 09:30 AM
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One single experience won't magically change who you've become over the course of several years. Exception being of course the really traumatic events that can and do cause permanent personality changes... Everyone makes losing your virginity to be one of these big deal kind of things, but it really isn't. It helps, but by itself, it's not capable of really bringing about huge huge changes. What does change you, however, are the multiple experiences you have over the course of several weeks, mon…
/r/seduction05/09/15 08:48 PM
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If there is/was no indication that she was/has been seeing other people, and if you're still dating and it's going well, then the most likely explanation is that she's deleted her profile to focus on making things work with you. But don't read too deeply into it, and don't get comfortable just because this might be an indication of her willingness to enter a LTR with you. Keep both eyes open, and remember, AWALT - she went online dating to find a male of suitable SMV in her eyes, and just becaus…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 10:05 PM
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Wow, you really dug this one up. Some guy could've asked her to delete it, she could've gotten fed up with online dating in general, she might've started something serious, or maybe she wanted to start something serious and deleted her profile not to cause any troubles down the line - possibly with you. What happened, though, depends on the girl and on the circumstances. What you want to do, is to take what you know about this chick and figure out what the most likely scenario is, based on the s…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:42 PM
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Which is why jerking one off right before a date/night out is one of the best things you can do. You get a much clearer perspective, don't look as thirsty, and as an added bonus, if something does happen later, you're probably going to last much longer as well.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 08:13 PM
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Even if he covered his tracks well, he's the only one with motive. From there, some investigative work and convincing of the judge/jury can get a conviction.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/08/15 12:37 PM
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Just another revenge fantasy from 4chan. Given the girl tried to frame him on sexual harassment grounds and got stung, she'd be MORE than willing to file for harassment AND sue him for damages due to preventing her from getting a new job, PLUS publicly shaming her in front of prospective employers. He'd be fucked for the rest of his life, she'd get compensation, and THEN a new job, and get her own brand of revenge. Any competent lawyer could do this one hand tied behind his back. It's textbook h…
/r/PussyPassDenied19/08/15 04:21 AM
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Masculine women are more trouble than feminine ones. They vie for control in the relationship much more than feminine women do, and they're much, much more harder to deal with. They're often agressive, adversarial, even, and they're much more aware of their SMV vs yours and will always, ALWAYS use that to their advantage. They're the cunts, the bitches you hear horror stories about. Yes, they're fun to be around. They drink, smoke, party like crazy, talk about shit with you, love sex... And at f…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 01:16 AM
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You're honest and upfront about how you don't want a relationship, aren't looking for one, and if the girl starts to get TOO clingy, you break it off. If she STILL gets heartbroken over you, and you did everything in your power to make it clear to her that what you two have is all it's ever going to be, then it's not really your fault and you're not being a dick. If anyone calls you a dick because of that, ask them if you should do something you DON'T WANT TO just because the other person WANTS …
/r/seduction05/08/15 08:38 PM
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Fellow smoker here. The fact that i smoke has put off a LOT of girls that would otherwise have totally gone for me. This is one issue. Stamina, that's another issue. I find it hard to maintain good cardio because i smoke so much, and this leads to me not having as much stamina as i would otherwise like to have. It means i get tired faster after sex, can't maintain 100% pumping speed for as long as i would want to, etc. Not to mention all the potential health problems in the long run, plus increa…
/r/askTRP22/07/15 09:40 PM
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This is one of my gripes about this. I'm 90% decided to simply let it go, but i'm thinking, before i go, i'm really going to go for that one last ride before telling her that i've made up my mind. It's going to be funny to see what her reaction will be.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 10:51 PM
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What you really need to do is get some other women on your radar so you understand that there are many more just as good as her available. Exactly what i'm doing. Funny thing, i had multiple plates available and was doing the whole redpill thing before, but i chose to commit exactly because she's not slutty. I'm very good friends with her best friend(who's gay), and he knows all about her life, who she fucked, who she didn't, in what circumstance, etc, so i know a fair bit about her background.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 10:50 PM
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Shes 175cm i'm 169cm, it's 6cm difference, not a whole lot. Reason she made me get "the feels", is because she's amazing fun to be around, super hot, blonde, tall, very straightforward and blunt about what she wants, parties like crazy and basically likes most of the same things i like.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 10:46 PM
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If you have the body, the game, and the decent salary, then all you need to do is to keep your eyes open. Also, get a vasectomy.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 08:31 AM
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For sure. The girl i'm currently on an LTR with knew all about my multitude of plates & ONS, and it made it much harder to get to the point i'm with her right now due to her prior knowledge of how i was so hard to tie down. Of course, she wouldn't be attracted to me if i wasn't a "player". One day i might do a FR on her, she's a handful. I eat shit tests for breakfast, lunch and dinner now.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:28 AM
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I know several guys who work and study, and still have time to meet & fuck 2 or 3 new girls every week. If you want it, it's quite possible. They chat them up during lunch hours, during office happy hours, weekends, grab their numbers, and just go from there. Personally, i tried it, and i think it's too much effort, but YMMV.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:21 AM
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Are there, perchance, signs on the front of clubs or parties that say that anyone over 30 cannot attend? So long as you dress well, have your shit together, and don't embarass yourself trying to act like you're 20yo, you can most definitely attend even college parties and still leave with a hot piece of ass. Plus, there's single bars, the internet, facebook, friends network...
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:16 AM
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Plus, there's no way something like this would be upheld in court in any case. Even with the mother's consent, i don't believe this to be a real possibility.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 01:15 AM
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Start with the sidebar over here, trp, fitness and skincare addiction.
/r/seduction28/05/15 03:44 PM
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Short answer, try to be like the guys on the cover of Men's Health. Long answer... There's a shitton of articles all over the web that go really in-depth on how you can take better care of yourself in order to become more attractive. /r/fitness is good, as is /r/skincareaddiction . I like /r/theredpill as well, shitton of resources there. You should also work on how you speak, how you walk, i.e: how you portray yourself to others. Again, there's a shitton of resources at your disposal, including…
/r/seduction28/05/15 02:44 PM
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Don't create unrealistic expectations. Cold approaching is more often than not a numbers game, unless you look like Brad Pitt, have amazing conversational skills AND can tell if a girl is eyeing you without even really thinking about it. You WILL get rejected, and it WILL happen more often than not. And then, one day, it won't, and it will be a pleasant surprise.
/r/seduction27/05/15 02:29 AM
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Girls don't generally date people who are lower in value than they themselves are, or, more precisely, perceive themselves to be. Therefore, the only surefire way to date more attractive chicks is to be more attractive yourself. Confidence and cockiness is all well and good, and it really does help, but it won't make a 6/10 guy get a date with a 9.5HB. You might get lucky every once in a while and nab one that's going through some stuff or maybe is drunk enough not to care, but it'll be very har…
/r/seduction27/05/15 02:21 AM
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If it's something you want to try, go on and do it. You might not enjoy it as much as you thought you would, or, on the other hand, you might have an amazingly good time. I have done it when i was on the down low and it did help with the cravings. Nothing beats pussy you conquered, though. Nothing. That being said, if it helps, it helps, if it doesn't, you're short a few bucks. If it's not something you mind, do it.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 05:50 PM
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I, too, like to throw in some comfort texts to help seal the deal. However, in this specific instance, the girl has said "but we can hangout". Furthermore, the possibility that she's just feigning interest in order to gain some benefit is rather high, which means it's in OP's best interests to save some time and go directly to brass tacks. I don't believe in textbook approaches, which seem to only work if you're going for % based game. I feel like tailored approaches work much better once you ge…
/r/askTRP07/05/15 12:41 PM
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She said that they can hangout. She gave him an opening to suggest a place and a time for them to "hangout". It's not all in, it's bringing her into your frame and controlling the situation. It's important for you to set the pace of the interaction right from the beggining, as it will make it easy for you to maintain her in your frame later. Plus, by being bold and upfront, you immediately figure out if the girl is a flaker or a faker. He met her as a bouncer, in his job, denying her entry. In h…
/r/askTRP07/05/15 12:15 PM
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Only appropriate answer: give her a time and a place, wait for an answer.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 07:31 AM
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The first advice i'd give you is: don't drink out of other people's glasses. You might end up consuming drugs you didn't intend to, and end up having a bad time. The second advice i'd give you is, if you're planning on doing any drugs, know your limits. Start out really slow, then let it take its effects before doing any more. Since you are going solo, i'd advise against doing it regardless, unless you're bringing your own & have some experience, because there's no support network there for you …
/r/askTRP06/05/15 06:46 PM
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And second, if "be the best version of yourself" does include a major overhaul, you by definition aren't just yourself, not even the best version of it. What you are isn't some immutable constant. Our personalities and the way we tackle the problems thrown our way, the way we overcome our hurdles, this fundamentally changes who we are. Sometimes, this does include a major overhaul of who you are. Does that mean that you are not being yourself? I disagree. The world is filled with examples of peo…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 04:10 PM
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This advice is horrible because it places the onus on the world around you instead of you. Only if you interpret it literally, meaning that girls should accept you exactly as you are and that all you need to do is to "be yourself", e.g you don't actually need to do anything, just passively and patiently wait until "the one" arrives. Which is shit advice. However, it can also be interpreted as "actually be who you say you are" & "be the best you can be" - which is good advice. Like i said, often …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 03:50 PM
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Open the door if it's something of a habit for you already. Too many times guys try to be too much of a gentleman at first, when all is new and they want to impress the girl, but through no fault of their own, eventually they fall back to their old habits and stop doing it. Thing is, girls notice this shit. So unless you make it a habit, don't do it. In fact, take this advice to heart about everything. If you try to be someone you're not and later fall back to your old habits/old self, girls wil…
/r/seduction29/04/15 04:27 AM
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That has always been my goal. It's just that, perhaps there's a limit to how far i should take it, before i start seriously hurting people and jeopardizing friendships.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 03:48 PM
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My current LTR doesn't like it, but she is starting to learn. She has a more dominant personality type, which is something that attracted me, because all of the girls i've dated so far were submissive. We playfully wrestle to see who is going to end up on top, and she is very keen on inflicting pain and discomfort, with both tooth and nail... It's an interesting dynamic. Neither of us want to be the sub. This turns me on, because i see it as power play. I don't actually like pain, but i'm not tu…
/r/askTRP23/04/15 05:10 PM
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There is no logical explanation for a girl that has a boyfriend to go out with a man she has just met, other than she wants something out of him. It's then up to you to figure out if she sees you as a better man than her current LTR, in which case she might be setting up for a branch swing, or if she just wants another orbiter/beta bucks. It's then up to you to figure out what her game plan is and act accordingly.
/r/seduction21/04/15 05:14 PM
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You should definitely ask for advice from the guys over at /r/personalfinance You may have a good job, but you're also pretty young, and if your priorities right now are having nice things to impress the ladies, then those priorities aren't where they should be. With that being said, having a nice car is, well, always nice, but before you break out the checkbook and take the plunge, take a moment to evaluate your spending and, more importantly, your savings & retirement account, to make sure tha…
/r/askTRP17/04/15 03:49 PM
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Women as friends, lesbians especially, can be a very good thing for a redpiller. Girls usually have a pretty solid social network. They know people, and they know people that know people. I have a lot of girl friends. Two of my best friends, in fact, are women. They both know that they shouldn't expect any favors of me that i wouldn't do for a guy friend, and they've helped me out in several situations. One of them is a lesbian, while the other is not. With the not-lesbian, we sometimes fuck, so…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 03:47 PM
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If i don't get at least a kiss out of the first date, i don't go for a second date. A girl's refusal to kiss me means that she simply isn't interested in me sexually. I'm not interested in a girl that isn't interested in me sexually. Seriously, a kiss, nowadays, means little to nothing. Going on a date and not getting laid is fine, especially if there are circumstances that would make it difficult for the sex to happen in the first place, but not getting even a kiss means the interaction has to …
/r/seduction05/04/15 06:11 AM
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Then you know what you do? You keep those responses in your mind and use them when the timing is right. Did you not get the memo about "things start to escalate"? That's right there on the OP? OP asks for good responses, i give great responses. When and how to use them, that's something to figure out in a case by case scenario. Do note that i didn't say when or how to use them, so you're just nitpicking.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 06:52 PM
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Here "According to the study, more than 80 percent of the online dating contacts initiated by whites were to other whites, with only 3 percent going to blacks. This trend held for both men and women, young and old. Although black participants initiated contact to members of their own race more than to whites, they were ten times more likely to contact whites than vice versa, according the the study." Still working on the sauce for the black men & muscle mass study, been a while since i looked at…
/r/seduction02/04/15 04:44 PM
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To me, it depends. If it's because i did something wrong - maybe went for the kiss before the timing was right - and i have the opportunity to recover, then i try to recover. If there's indication that it's not going to happen even if i try to work her more, then i drop it and move on to the next. If it's a girl in one of my social circles and i know that i'm going to see her again, then i'm definitely not going to try and work her any more that night, unless she goes out of her way to keep the …
/r/seduction02/04/15 04:34 PM
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No need, bro, i'm covered. My experiences with Tinder have been less than stellar, but in real life, i have absolutely nothing to complain.
/r/seduction02/04/15 04:06 PM
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On Tinder, you are judged almost exclusively by your looks. I also wouldn't recommend Tinder for grabbing LTR material. The girls there are 99,9999999999% sluts. It's a hook-up app, after all, and the girls there are matching with dozens of guys per day, going on dates and fucking with god knows how many per week. They're receiving so much fucking validation from that, plus what they receive on a daily basis, that i don't know if you'd find LTR material there. It's possible, definitely. I did go…
/r/seduction02/04/15 04:05 PM
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If you look like the cover of Men's Health, sure, but anything less and you have to work for it. I'm by no means unattractive, hell, i did mention i pulled pics from a modelling portfolio. But i'm slim, on the short side and completely beardless. There are chicks who absolutely dig that look, but it doesn't have the universal appeal that a David Beckham look has.
/r/seduction02/04/15 04:01 PM
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Unfortunately, it's true. There are studies that show that black, asian and hispanic men don't have the same success as white men on dating sites. Fortunately for you, there are also studies that show that black men have an easier time on the gym getting chiseled as fuck, so you keep on working it and you'll have tons of chicks no time flat.
/r/seduction02/04/15 03:55 PM
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Here's the thing, with Tinder, women are almost in complete control over who they match with. With almost every other online dating solution, women can't really filter which guys message her, so she has to siphon through those who did, and choose amongst them, because almost none initiate contact. In Tinder, women are already picking and choosing exactly those kinds of guys that appeal to her, and, keep in mind, she's matching with almost all of them. So whenever you match with a girl, you gotta…
/r/seduction02/04/15 08:22 AM
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What i don't get here, is this: You said there were two girls, a 7 and an 8, and they both lit up when Chad Thundercock arrived. He wasn't banging both, i wager? I don't know. Seems like you wasted a guaranteed 7 in lieu of a potential 8. Any reason why you ceased to pursue? Shifting attention from 8 to 7 might have worked in your favor. Changing to another venue to continue the interaction wasn't possible? Seeing your other comments, you seem to be a bit inexperienced yet. Working on just the 8…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 08:52 AM
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It's not, but the female hamster makes it somehow different in their head.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 05:25 PM
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Thanks, just brainstorming here!
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 04:52 PM
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What if an already active user wanted to create a new account to post in TRP, could one, hypothetically, use the older account, message one of the moderators from the team, to ask for approval for the new account?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 06:18 AM
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AWALT isn't an assertion that women are all identical in behavior, its a request to be proven wrong. Women who can reject the sway of society, and the endless succession of bridges it wants to sell them are rare- as rare as a man of quality- and appropriately described by some as, "unicorns." That's an amazing way to put it. Well thought out, well written. A++ post. It's exactly what i've been trying to say to anyone that's willing to hear it. Just because you're unlikely to find a woman that ca…
/r/askTRP27/03/15 08:15 AM
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I can't help but make a software analogy here, it's too good to pass up. Way i see it, it's like having a game engine. You can take that game engine, and you can make several completely different games. Of course, sharing the same engine means that all of the bad parts of the game that are related to the engine will be present in all games, but all of the good parts of the engine as well. You then build a story, a personality on top of that game engine, something that will draw you in. And a goo…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 04:25 AM
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When i go for the kiss and the girls reject, i instantly shift my focus. I may return to her if i feel like there's an opening, but as a rule, the minute i try to close the deal and i get brushed off, i'm looking for another girl.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 01:17 AM
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I find it ridiculous when people dismiss the notion that your gender has anything to do with your personality, or that there aren't certain traits that are suspiciously found much more commonly on one gender over the other. It flies right into the face of science. You have a whole chromossome devoted to sexual dimorphism. You have a host of hormones that deeply and significantly affect the brain's development & function, and it has been exhaustively proven that certain genes are extremely good p…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 01:14 AM
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Before TRP, i would always try to work out issues with my girlfriends. I'd do it again, and again, and again, until we were both burned out from so much fighting and discussions and near break-ups. Now, what do i mean about being ready to jump ship? I mean that i have learned, through both TRP and through personal experiences, that i have some things that i can simply not put up with. I have also learned that there are some aspects about a girls personality that i CAN'T HOPE TO CHANGE. No matter…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 12:55 AM
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I wasn't talking about re-approaching the same girl, more like i was saying that he should learn from his mistakes so that he doesn't repeat them.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 12:43 AM
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Women almost always know when a man needs sex and when he has had that need fulfilled. It's an evolutionary trait. Women are much more suited to perceive the subtle body language that tells so much more than what you verbally express. With good practice and discipline, you can try to be less obvious about it, but many women will still know, despite all your best efforts. It's best to learn to live with it and harness it for positive results. Women preselect, and knowing that you're banging hot p…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 12:38 AM
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I think AWALT is misinterpreted some times. When we say, for instance, that all women are manipulative, we're not saying that all women are Grade A bitches. There are degrees. Some will be so manipulative they'll be unconsciously weaving webs of lies and intrigue in everyday interaction, while others will just go for the occasional shit/comfort test and sex withdrawal. When i think AWALT, i always have in mind that all of the bad traits that are common to all women have degrees to which they pre…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 12:33 AM
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You need to read the sidebar material, especially The Rational Male Year One (It's red pill 101), before you start to "get it". To actually respond your post to my satisfaction, i'd have to type an essay. Luckily, there's already several of those written and linked in the sidebar of the main sub. Best of luck to you.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 12:11 AM
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Many RP men found TRP because of some bad past experience with women. They've been divorce-raped, they have lost custody of their children, they have been accused of rape by a batshit crazy slut, they have suffered from severe Oneitis and got stuck as Orbiter most of their lives, etc... Every story is different, but the gist of it is, many RP men have had several BAD experiences with women and that has coloured their view of TRP. Personally, i have had bad experiences with women, but i absolutel…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 12:03 AM
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You need to grow as a person and as a man. How do you do that? Several ways. First, invest in your appearance. The first thing people see when they meet you, is how you look. If you're fit, well groomed, and attractive, it goes a long way in helping people form that good first impression of you that makes them want to talk with you. This means you should work out, you need to wear good clothes, wear nice cologne, always have a clean haircut and a groomed beard. Don't worry too much about style, …
/r/askTRP22/03/15 11:48 PM
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You need to maintain frame, and say to her that you assumed she was seeing other guys, since you two aren't committed.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 11:29 PM
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Call your mates, get a fuckload of attractive chicks on board, and text her the pictures of your night out. You need to crank the dread up, and she needs to see that, if she wants you to behave, then, she needs to behave as well. Otherwise, downgrade her to FWB, and if she gives you any more grief, downgrade again to Plate, otherwise, hard next her and find a more suitable girl. You don't need to put up with bullshit that you don't want to put up with. She's exhibiting behavior you disagree with…
/r/askTRP22/03/15 11:18 PM
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Several ways, depending on your level of intimacy, on how your previous interactions happened, how she responded previously to cocky/funny/witty responses... If it was me, i'd probably reply with a picture of Dory, from Finding Nemo, with the caption: "I'm changing your contact information to 'Dory' ". or maybe "This is how i'm picturing you right now." Maybe something in the lines of "Oh, so you're already in need of a reminder, are you?" could work out well. I just like to throw in pop culture…
/r/askTRP22/03/15 11:07 PM
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Last night something happened with me that totally illustrates this point. I was out at a party, and with a lesbian friend of mine, and she introduced me to these two chicks, one of which was more attractive than the other. I immediatelly start to chat up the more attractive one, doing some light kino, talking, pulling her strings, but nothing comes out of it. She's constantly being approached by other men and shooting them down, but i'm in her group so i keep working at it. Meanwhile, her less …
/r/seduction20/03/15 09:17 PM
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The fact is, for most of our lives, we've come to accept that we are not sexually desirable to most (or all) women. Our advances left us crushed and depressed, were treated as creepy or worse than murder. Our relationships left us broken or broke. Our marriages crumbled. This, this a hundred times. Before i got my shit together and started getting acceptance from myself, i used to get massively depressed due to the repeated rejections. Some directed at me, personally, to put me down "in my place…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 05:50 PM
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You multiply the wives, and you multiply the nagging, the shit tests, the comfort tests, etc... LTR's, marriage especially, are already considered TRP in hard mode. Now imagine doing that, but instead of dealing with one wife, you are now dealing with two, three, four, five of them. Their menstrual cycles synchronize, and you now have to deal with multiple women going through that time of the month, simultaneously. Bickering amongst themselves, fighting for your attention, sabotaging each other.…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 10:27 PM
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Plating a girl that's cheating in an LTR with you is not the best practice... Maybe it's going to happen, maybe it's going to be just a few times of messing around and sexting. If she goes single, then i'm definitely going to plate her, but, in the meantime, i'm her bootycall and i'm going to milk that for what it's worth, without giving more than a couple seconds thoughts to anything in the long run. I may be posting a longer post about this if it doesn't flake, but tonight i might go to a priv…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 06:48 PM
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I did, in fact, i recall laughing my ass off at the thought lol
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 06:40 PM
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The correct stance here is DGAF. You don't care about the other men she's seeing, just make sure she's using a condom. In fact, that's an appropriate response for next time she comes bragging about some random dude: "Just make sure you wear a condom".
/r/askTRP18/03/15 02:34 PM
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I'm seeing a girl that likes to take the "man" role in the sack. Just this sunday, we had a playful brawl about who would go on top. I ended up letting her go first, she pinned my arms and rode me till i came. Then i railed her from behind. Not all women like it, which is why having plenty can pay off big time. You can't really ask a women to take the lead without giving away some of your power and control. But if you find one that naturally has that disposition, it's different. You fight to tak…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 06:15 AM
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She's incredibly hot, incredibly kinky, and incredibly fun to be around. I'll skip at the first sign of real trouble. She's not LTR material. Hell, she's not really plate material, either. She's just fun.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 02:07 AM
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Do bloodwork, check your hormone levels. What you say about emotional breakdowns coupled with high libido, followed by periods of low libido, might mean that your estrogen/testosterone balances are off.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 08:26 PM
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What really strikes me about this video isn't the RP truths he is saying, is how there are very very few dislikes. People listen to Eddie Murphy saying the shit we say in a stand up act? They're completely fine with it. You hear the crowd cheering him like fucking crazy, clapping and shouting and whistling him on. Try saying the same shit with a straight face, pulling statistics and news reports and studies, you'll be hard pressed to find ANYONE that will hear you speak a complete sentence befor…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 06:20 AM
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I'm currently seeing a girl that has a boyfriend. The hypocrisy is stunning. I didn't even know she existed, she wasn't even in my radar. Out of the blue, one day she friended me on Facebook. I said, sure, why the fuck not. We started talking and hit it off soon enough. Got her number. Next day, she was sexting me and we set up a meet, fucked her in her car. The very next day, she went on to see her boyfriend, and i see a new post on her wall about how she loves him yadda yadda, while the boyfri…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 05:10 AM
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/r/fatpeoplehate is pretty up there, too.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 04:59 AM
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Noice!
/r/askTRP13/03/15 09:54 PM
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Google is your friend!
/r/askTRP13/03/15 08:16 PM
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Whenever i talk about TRP outside of this sub, i wait until the subject matter is brought up. For instance, a good friend of mine recently (couple months back) has broken off a 9 year relationship, and started dating again. He stumbled upon PUA culture and the manosphere on his own, and started to talk about it with me. He had never heard of TRP, and as he doesn't speak English very well, i started to share with him the core concepts of TRP and discuss the merits of the PUA articles he was readi…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 03:09 PM
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I'll say. I'm 1,67m, no facial hair to speak of, yet i still manage to succeed. Do i have to try harder than the dude that's 1,80+ and can do his beard however the fuck he wants? Yes.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 04:05 AM
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In my country(Brazil), they do. You have to make sure it's all well documented, though. In some instances you do need to make sure you have proof that the asset(car, house, etc...) was acquired with your income exclusively, with no participation from the other spouse. But, as long as you have proof that the couple's finances were separated, and that the asset was acquired using exclusively only one of the spouses income, AND you have a prenup that stipulates that the finances were indeed agreed …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 09:32 PM
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If you want to marry, get a proper prenup. With a good prenup, divorces are way easier. I do plan to marry sometime, and when i do, i'm going to have a prenup with completely separate assets. What's mine is mine, what's hers is hers. I also plan to keep everything documented, just in case, so if/when i need it, it'll all be good and ready.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 05:47 PM
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Women get extremely horny when they're having their periods. If you show that you're not grossed out by it and are willing to fuck her as hard as you would do normally, that will increase her level of attraction towards you. If you're a bit grossed out by the blood, fuck her in the shower when she has a period. You fuck her good, you'll get blowjobs like there's no tomorrow. You fuck her REALLY well, she'll be down with anal.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 04:45 PM
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That's the proper way to go about it.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 04:38 PM
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I agree, this would be the appropriate level-headed response. That way, actual victims wouldn't be disincouraged to seek out law enforcement, since they know what happened is real, but it would dissuade the liars.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 01:26 PM
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Tattoo removal leaves scars... It's not 100%.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 02:25 PM
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Amazing tip.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 02:23 PM
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Indeed, knowledge is power!
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 12:02 AM
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Didn't know that. Still, hardly her accomplishment right?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 10:31 PM
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I made a comment about exactly that a few days back. It's absolutely true, men simply do not benefit much from a woman's status or money. If a man's SMV is composed of Looks/Money/Status, a woman's SMV is almost entirely composed off of Looks. Prince William might have married Kate Middleton, who had nothing to her name, but i doubt if he was a princess instead, she would've married a peasant. Perhaps not a noble, but it would've been a wealthy & sucessful man. Women in social media love to comp…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 05:07 PM
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Online is just the medium you're using to get to know these girls. Once you close the deal in person, she becomes like any other girl you could've met anywhere else. There's a catch, though, one that you need to be aware of. If the girl is online dating, you better bet that she's going on several dates a week, quite possibly fucking a good amount of them first night, just like they did with you. They're riding the CC hard, and so you need to be aware of that before you succumb to oneitis and att…
/r/askTRP07/03/15 02:24 PM
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I think it depends on the time and place. I've been on clubs and received zero IOI's, and in clubs where i have my ass grabbed by at least 3 or 4 sixes during the night, and at least a couple instances where a girl literally threw herself at me. That one caught me off guard.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:41 PM
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Daytime dates are a bad idea. It's much harder to escalate to sex if it's daytime, and if it's a first date, you're going to try and gauge whether the girl will put out in a timely fashion or take you for a spin. If you're going to a coffee/cinema/library date, you're shooting yourself in the foot if you're hoping to get to sex soon.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:15 PM
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25 here. Single greatest tip i have to give you: WAIT. If you think a girl is LTR material, wait. Even if you're certain, wait a little bit more.
/r/seduction06/03/15 08:13 PM
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I have very much enjoyed helping women achieve high accomplishments, including my ex-wife, but this was part of a relationship and had nothing to do with why I desired to be married to her. This is the right mindset. In the right RP kind of relationship, the Captain/First Mate kind, you'll help your woman accomplish her goals, and she'll help you accomplish yours, and that may in turn strengthen the bond that you share. But you didn't marry her in order to help her achieve her goals.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 08:05 PM
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Yeah, it was an exaggeration... But the hamster can bend the law, i don't know about striking back.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 08:01 PM
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Cascading effect. TRP gets mentioned in a popular post that hits front page, lots of posters get here to check out what TRP is all about, like what they see or just want to "watch the freakshow", subscribe. This goes on for a while, then TRP shows up in the front page as a trending sub. This, in turn, brings even more people here.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 04:22 PM
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I'm trying to catch video footage of his breaking a fight with the cold towel but i'm not finding it... Though i question the practicality of having one handy at all times...
/r/askTRP04/03/15 04:04 PM
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The problem with this approach is that you may leave bruises in her arms/wrists that will look suspiciously like those left by an attacker who's pinning his victim to a surface. Couple that with scratches, skin beneath her fingernail, and her bruteforcing some foreign object in her pussy after the fact, she has almost everything she needs to convict you of rape...
/r/askTRP04/03/15 03:49 PM
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+1 to first one to call the police, that was what i was thinking.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 03:47 PM
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99,9% of the situations won't have a camera involved, though... And any sort of response you give that even seems violent will fuck you over 100 times if there are witnesses, because they'll never take your side of the story, and even if they do, isn't guaranteed you won't get fucked in court...
/r/askTRP04/03/15 03:45 PM
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That seems interesting, i'll definitely check this out.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 03:43 PM
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I think I, and most of TRP, would happily marry a poor HB9 farm girl that was raised with traditional values and has had a minimal amount of contact with dicks. That hypothetical girl has no social status to speak of and she brings no money to the table, and yet, she's marriage material because she: A) Is hot B) Hasn't ridden the CC C) Is family/tradition oriented My point isn't that we should strive to find that hypothetical woman to marry her, but to highlight the fact that, in the end, money …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 06:59 AM
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Plus, the man is not held liable for the child, and, unless he chooses to do so, isn't required to have his name on the child's birth certificate, or have any fatherly duties towards the child. That would be fair.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 05:47 AM
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I acknowledge their accomplishments. There are many other women that have made history, as well, in all fields of knowledge. Women are absolutely capable of merit. If they weren't, we wouldn't have women CEO's or Nobel Laureates. However, those accomplishments do little for them compared to what they do for the men.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 05:36 AM
4

My mother, of all people, gave me this advice just today. I was in the hospital with my father, who's currently battling through cancer, and we had the following exchange: ME: Shit, [Sister] has so many gorgeous friends. I'd totally date any one of them, too bad she's so protective of them. (laughs) MOTHER: Yeah. Why don't you hang out with more beautiful friends too? No offense, but all of your friends are kind of ugly. You're the only one that's good looking. ME: Well, i don't know. I'm their …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 05:14 AM
1

Great stuff, i chuckled heartily throughout.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 05:02 AM
11

It doesn't really matter, because men don't(normally) fuck women over status. We fuck them based on their looks first, and how they're enjoyable to be around second. Status has little to do with it, except maybe to help you notice the girl(Exceptions exist). But, like it has happened time and time again before in history, a wealthy man will happily marry a farm girl if she's hot enough. Even kings have fallen to this biological imperative, even going to war over some hot poon. Feminists are mad …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 04:51 AM
11

They waited too long to monetize, going for the large cash-grab, and now are pushing the price point too high and making people abandon the app in droves. It's ok, though. Tinder clones will be popping up any time now, just a matter of time before the next big thing happens for online dating.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:13 PM
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I get a feeling this is a modern thing. Only with the demonisation of masculinity has male love been conflated with female like emotional dependency. Damn straight. Before, women were raised knowing exactly what to expect from their husbands in a marriage. They knew exactly what a man was bringing to the table, and because of that, they noticed it. Now, we have media feeding in all kinds of shit to women, and they create completely unrealistic and dissonant expectations of what a man should brin…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 09:55 AM
1

♂ I would've commented something, but i think you covered it.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 06:58 AM
1

I feel like there are some good advice from the PUA community, but the major problem i see is, even the good advice, even the stuff that works, only works for the short term. Fine, you master the art of the cold approach, you have all your routines down, you escalate kino masterfully, make out in the club, get a cab, fuck her. Now what? All that stuff you just did, is it really you? All those canned routines, those cheesy pick-up lines, that textbook approach, they worked, but... Do you have tha…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 04:55 AM
4

I think OP is trying to illustrate the point that women will go to some serious lengths to try and rationalize their whore behaviour. They are willing to be urinated and shat upon, have foreign objects being thrust into their various holes, and become the sex playthings of unknown foreign man in return for what is the equivalent of loose change to these arab oil tycoons, but, somehow, they aren't prostitutes. It's an extreme example of the female hamster and how it completely dissociates from re…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 04:39 AM
1

I see what you mean. But that partly depends on OP's goals, too. I OP's goal is to maintain that woman around him, i actually think that he should do both - get her a better job so she gets out of an environment that's completely toxic to relationships AND improve himself so that she doesn't lose attraction. Everything you said is true, i just think that your advice hinges on what OP wants.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 06:51 PM
1

It's all in the head man! But seriously, i did meant it as a sincere contribution. Travelling the world is, by far, the best way of leveraging money to get more pussy. Everywhere in the world, there's chicks craving foreign dick, especially in underdeveloped countries. Just by being foreign, you'll have an edge over the locals. Add in the fact that in these underdeveloped countries the dollar is a much stronger currency, plus things are oftentimes cheaper, and you'll have SEVERAL TIMES the cash …
/r/askTRP02/03/15 12:29 PM
1

I personally try to avoid brands specifically designed to broadcast wealth because I often find that they value marketing over quality of product. There are better watches for the money over Rolex, for example. There are better quality leather bags over Luis Vuitton. That's sage advice. Even better, that can, in itself, become a conversational piece quite easily. You can show that you know your shit when you can explain why you didn't just get "Brand X" but instead bought a similarly expensive o…
/r/askTRP02/03/15 08:58 AM
1

Honestly, if i had a lot of money, i'd travel the fuck out of the world. I'd go to every continent, of course documenting the entire time. All the places people dream to go to, but almost never get around to. The classics - Paris, London, Berlin, St. Petersburg, Moscow, Rome, Venice, Monte Carlo, Cairo... The lesser known: Mumbai, Bangkok, Shanghai, Tokyo, Hokkaido, Morocco... And the adventurous: Africa, Australian Outback, Caribbean, Oceania... I'd have pictures of me next to every fucking maj…
/r/askTRP02/03/15 08:54 AM
4

Fear of rejection/Shame is a hell of a thing. Approaching a woman you have never met before in your life, without knowing whether she'll absolutely demolish you for even daring to breathe the same oxygen as her is hard. It's an acquired skill, one i'm still having trouble with. Practicing is key. One thing i found that helps is online dating. In more ways than one, it's a completely different beast than cold approaching a girl at a club/bar, but it will do some things for you: It's a hell of a l…
/r/askTRP02/03/15 08:08 AM
10

Women want prince charming. They want the best male available. Every time you relinquish power, you get further from that ideal of a "perfect male". It all goes back to what women SAY they want versus what they ACTUALLY want. They SAY they want a guy that is fully honest and upfront with her, but they don't respect a guy that holds no secrets from her. Part of the reason a woman stays faithful and strives to please the man is because she fears that, if she doesn't, he'll walk away. If she knows …
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:34 AM
2

I don't usually see a plate more than once a week, sometimes not even every week.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 02:53 PM
2

All true. I'd add that being Alpha is not what you do, but what you are, how you think. Alpha is a mindset. It's putting yourself above all else, and doing what you want to satisfy your desires. Do you want a HB9.5? Improve yourself until you're able to get her. Do you want another one? Go for it. You think you've found the mythical HB9.5 marriable unicorn? Marry her... at your own risk. Life is all about taking risks, all about doing what you want despite what other people say or think about yo…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 07:27 AM
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You can really see how if you just do some simple math. If a guy commits to it, he can pull a ONS per week, especially if he's willing to settle for HB 7's instead of gunning for the elusive HB 8+'s. That's 52 girls a year. By comparison, if you're spinning 4 or 5 plates, and you're switching one out every 2 months(while the average is actually usually about 3 months), you're getting only 6 "new girls" every 12 month period. Even if you bump that up to switching an old one out for a new girl eve…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 07:09 AM
1

Emotional cheating is just as bad as physical cheating. It's just semantics. If she's already unplugging herself emotionally from the guy, literally the only thing it takes is one failed shit test and she'll fuck the one she has on reserve. There's a reason you need to really pay attention to women who maintain male friends. For instance, would you keep your girlfriend if you find out that she has a profile on OKCupid, or is using Tinder, even if you 100% knew that she hasn't gone on a single da…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 06:28 AM
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I believe it's fine if you live in a major city where it's unlikely that you'll catch a reputation for lying to get laid, or if you're just passing by on a city. In this day and age of social media, you really got to watch out for your reputation.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 06:14 AM
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I've been with many hookers, but none have been as good as the pussy i got for myself. It's not just the mechanical, professional and acted-out sex - some were really good at it. There's a psychological component to fucking a women you conquered that's irreplaceable.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 05:40 AM
1

Holy shit. I was just thinking this would make everything so much easier. I wonder how they'll get around the 24 cooldown on swipes, though. Goddamn, i wish this was around before they changed the way Tinder worked.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 05:38 AM
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She might have long term potential, but i'm steering clear off of that for now. I just got out of a LTR because i got "caught" cheating, and i'm not planning on settling in on one woman anytime soon. I'm also assuming she's batshit crazy until she proves me wrong, because that's the kind of girl i normally attract.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 08:14 PM
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I'm not trying to present myself as the almighty poon slayer of the order of cock. There are other stories that ended up with sex, but they're not as interesting. In those, the girls didn't put up much of a challenge, it wasn't as hard, entertaining, or would foster discussion as much as this one. So, as much as this is a half-assed victory, in as much as i didn't actually get my dick wet, it's a good anecdote for what i have learned about ASD and how i, personally, dealt with it. If any mistake…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:58 PM
1

I might have failed to convey just how much ASD this girl was putting up. Yes, i didn't fuck her - but i did everything in my power to do so. Every trick in the bag was used. In the end, even though we still didn't fuck, she fessed up and showed her true colors. I didn't need to prod or ask anything, she just went and talked. I was already suspicious, and this confirmed why she was so shy around the dick, why she said she'd never give a blowjob(they're disgusting), etc. And then her demeanor cha…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:51 PM
1

Agreed, i would definitely have gone that route if i had my own place, but i'm fresh out of college and still with my parents, so that's out. If i had my own place, this would've been Date nº2, definitely.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:35 PM
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Did you know that statement is also true for any girl you meet and fuck, no matter what kind of strategy got you that fuck in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:33 PM
1

That's what i'm going for, here. I'm playing the long game with this one, and it's going to pay off.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:32 PM
5

I'm not leaving any marks or bruises, i'm not scratching her, hurting her, or ripping clothes or anything of that nature. I'm not forcing her: do note that i said that if she wanted me to stop, she could end the date at any point - just say the word and i drop you off at your place, but as long as you're in here with me, i'm going to try and push it forward, as it's clear to me that you're enjoying it. Plus, we're both not drinking - there's just no way anything's going to happen if there's not …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 02:48 PM
2

Well, since you'll only be able to be present once every other weekend and you have disposable income, then it might just be a matter of finding the one woman who has the optimal genetic makeup & motherly personality and getting her pregnant. Prioritize women who have much younger siblings - it's virtually guaranteed then that they have helped raise them, and thus already have some experience with children. Also, go for women who already have some sort of stable income/career, since you won't wa…
/r/askTRP23/02/15 03:58 PM
2

We all make mistakes. It's harsh, but as long as they teach you something, it's more power to you.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 05:49 PM
7

She wants a break? Fine, give her one. Let her have some perspective - work the dread game big time. Go full no-contact, act as if you were single. Let word get out that you're partying, that you're enjoying yourself, that you can be happy without her. She needs to know that you don't need her. You might want to be with her, but you don't need her. That will make her need you.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:51 PM
4

She left because I wouldn't give her commitment but I don't even miss the pussy or the blow jobs. You said you waited for three months before sex. This signals to the girl that you're looking for commitment. If you weren't looking for it, then why did you wait? Of course the girl left you because you didn't want commitment. Everything you did prior screamed commitment.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:48 PM
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If you exaggerate too much, you might put off some girls. If you're a guy that's already in his hundreds, you might even want to dial down a bit. Girls can get a bit paranoid about STD's and stuff. Which i think is somewhat reasonable. I think that rather than playing the numbers game, a better way of approaching the preselection thing is to humble-brag about some cool shit that you have pulled off, like threesomes, foursomes and interesting(and sexy) stories. Granted, you want the girl to know …
/r/askTRP21/02/15 08:31 AM
4

To me, the best way is by estimating. You probe with some questions that girls usually have no problems answering, like: How long was your longest lasting relationship? How many serious relationships you had? How long they've lasted? What's the longest you went without having sex? You won't come to an exact number, but you'll know many important informations, especially from the last question. The advice about bragging is, also, very VERY good.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 05:56 AM
2

No use crying about it. If the situation comes up again, though, try and make stuff happen before noping out, it's not like you have anything to lose by trying, either.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 03:54 AM
2

You laugh, because you have now found the key to self-fulfillment and happiness, and no longer depend on the preconceived notions society has fed you on what you should or shouldn't be. The world is your oyster. Red Pill gives you all the tools, it's up to you to learn how to use it. Now, you know that whenever a girl rejects you, it's not like it's something personal. It's her lizard brain telling her you're unworthy, and it's up to you to change that dynamic. Now, whenever you see a 9.5HB with…
/r/askTRP21/02/15 12:39 AM
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You can never let a woman take you for granted, if you do, she'll walk all over you. This guy didn't get this, but hopefully after this he'll start to realize how it works.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 09:20 PM
3

I'll take a wild guess here and ask you a question: Are these hot girls you talk about seeing older guys?
/r/askTRP18/02/15 06:03 PM
1

Most likely. Girls who look for orbiters don't tend to stay without one for long.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 10:27 AM
2

Women want the truth, they don't want full disclosure. This is a RP truth you need to internalize. What this means is, if the conversation comes up, and you absolutely need to talk about it and there's no way of changing up the conversation, you need to keep it to the bare minimum, and skip over all details. Go as bare bones as possible, but don't outright lie. Things you can safely say: Number of relationships/sexual partners. Stuff you did/didn't already do (no naming). Do mention stuff you re…
/r/askTRP16/02/15 06:50 AM
2

If you find yourself doing things for a female "friend" that you wouldn't do for a male friend, you're doing too much. Learn to say "no", because once you open yourself up as a resource, they will start exploiting you. Word.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 06:30 AM
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Telltale signs that a girl is trying to make you into a beta orbiter: She only ever contacts you if she has a need that you can take care of (non sexually). You constantly see or hear about her going out to fun parties & other gatherings, but you're almost never invited, and if you are, she's always with some other guy, or finds one there. She gets jealous of you being with other women, but is not romantically or sexually interested in you. Your approaches are always not flat-out refused, but th…
/r/askTRP16/02/15 06:29 AM
1

Yeah, but if it's someone you really care about, you'll want to bring him over to RP. I've got most of my friends halfway to converted by now. One is being a little bit more difficult because he doesn't speak english...
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 05:15 AM
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Whenever i'm faced with a situation such as this i think to myself "If i do this, is it going to hurt me in any way shape or form down the road?" if the answer is no, then i do it. I don't see any way in which you walking a girl to her car can backfire. You can absolutely 100% signal to the girl a dozen different ways that you're not into her romantically and don't want a LTR and still do chivalrous things like walking her to her car, opening the car door for her, etc. I mean, you have to offset…
/r/askTRP15/02/15 10:04 PM
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Is this even a shit test? I always do this without even thinking, especially because depending on location and time it can be dangerous to let the girl go alone. Never once i thought this is beta/BP behavior, to me it's just common courtesy.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 09:50 PM
1

Yes, you could probably do a good generalization with BMI and height, at least. What i'm saying is even that approximation is still a ways off of what the reality is for each man individually, though. Some of us are content with a 7 body with a 4 face if it's just for one lonely night, others are much more selective, is what i was getting at.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 09:16 PM
2

It's hard to come up with cold hard numbers when talking about subjective things like physical attractiveness and desirable psychological traits. I can safely say it's a very low %, though, since you're likely looking, in a LTR, for a college educated, currently employed, single woman that lives by herself and is between the ages of 20~30 (pre wall). By themselves, these criteria already reduce the available women by quite a bit. When you start adding all the subjective criteria, the numbers sta…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 04:54 PM
3

That's so true. Even if you have a 1% success rate, if you approach enough women, you'll end up with a few plates and FWB's. The real trick here, is to never pass up on an opportunity. You can game Tinder/OKC and still work on your day game without too much of an effort. As long as you commit to it, you'll eventually have enough girls that you'll have to start dropping some. Then, you really start giving off an alpha vibe to girls all around. And it gets easier and easier and easier. If at first…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 04:46 PM
0

When you're talking about LTR it's a pretty big deal. Since i've switched majors, i'm 25 and still living in my parents house. I've been feeling that through the past few years girls have been increasingly more and more conscious about the fact that i still live with my parents. The reason couldn't be more simple: if you don't live by yourself, the "action" needs to happen either in her place (if she lives alone), or you need to go to a motel or improvise. I have friends that are lower SMV than …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 02:46 PM
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-I like you but youre such a player and I know you will hurt me! -- Baby, that's why we have safewords! -You are such a man whore! -- Of course not baby, i don't charge. -you are just trying to sweet talk me -- Is it working? (wink wink) -All you want is sex -- And drugs, and rock and roll! -Youre an asshole -- No, i said i LIKE assholes... -Why do you have to be so mean...or...Youre so mean! -- I know, i'm such a bad boy, right? (wink wink) -Why are you not in a relationship, is there something…
/r/askTRP14/02/15 08:18 PM
1

Never jump to conclusions, but never ignore my gut. This is solid thinking.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 08:24 PM
2

5'10" is more or less the cutoff point. 6'+ yields best results.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 01:32 PM
6

I'm 5'6", 5'7" on a good day, and i'm constantly faced with this situation: Meet girl on Tinder, conversation is going well. Girl asks my Height, i answer truthfully, girl never responds again. Unmatched. Shit's fucking unreal. So, i've taking to avoiding this subject entirely by making them uncomfortable. If they ask about my height, i ask about their weight before even answering what my height is. I still get unmatched a lot after that damning question, but i've managed to sidestep the issue a…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 08:59 AM
3

I'd say her wanting to keep her privacy doesn't necessarily equate with her wanting to cheat. I learned long ago that you don't necessarily want to share everything about your life with your SO. Even if she's not cheating, she might gossip about you with friends, possibly in a negative way. Perhaps, her friends like to message her naughty pics of guys they're fucking, and she comments on them. All of these things would upset me if i found out were happening. Do i want to know? No, i don't.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 03:58 AM
1

I'm a single father. I have done everything i could to stay with the mother of my child, but it wasn't meant to be. Do people judge me? Absolutely, they do. Going to court was stressful, and there are several downsides. But there are many, many upsides. Don't be afraid to leave her if that's what you want. You'll find your center.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 03:52 AM
1

The worst mistake you can ever make, is trying to do something for the sake of others, instead of for your own sake. If you start doing all this self-improvement for her to notice you, as soon as you figure out it's not working, you'll lose ALL motivation to continue that improvement. I've been there, i've done that. I couldn't get past the first bumps on the road. Every time, i would try to do something for her sake, and every time i would fail, because something would happen that would shatter…
/r/askTRP11/02/15 05:49 PM
2

You need to focus on yourself, and only yourself. Part of swallowing the pill is recognizing that you DON'T actually need women. If anything, they need men more than men need women. They're nice, they provide comfort, companionship, sex, happiness and status. But you can live without them, if the situation calls for it, and not be any less of a man because of it. I would suggest that you go full monk mode, focus entirely on yourself. Hit the gym harder than ever before, work mercilessly towards …
/r/askTRP11/02/15 05:40 PM
10

She gets good girl points, internet points, and probably has a lot of freedom to bang alphas on the side whenever she wants to. She gets her exposure, then bails and cashes in on it.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 05:17 PM
3

Apart from what has already been said here about broadening your shoulders and getting bigger, what i can also suggest is that you take a look at the hairstyle of older, more mature(and serious) celebrities, and cut your hair like that. If you're trying to look older, it really pays off to copy the haircut that older successful people use, instead of going for a haircut straight from the cover of Teenage Idol. Just something simple like that can dramatically change how people look at you.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 04:00 AM
1

I ceased to be surprised when my friends don't respect point number 1, and then wonder why they never manage to have sex with the girls they pick up...
/r/askTRP11/02/15 01:07 AM
1

If you do want to save them, i'd recommend using encrypting the folder or setting up a private password protected FTP, if you want to have remote access to them. Do be forewarned that if somehow these files are leaked, even if you had nothing to do with it, you may still be held accountable for them. There's nothing inherently wrong or beta about wanting to keep good homemade videos for personal amusement, so long as you aren't doing it out of an emotional attachment to the girl and/or the relat…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 11:08 PM
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There have been developments. I'll put an update on the OP!
/r/askTRP07/02/15 07:38 PM
2

Wish i thought of doing this/actually had the money to do this when i was struggling through major depression.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 04:13 PM
16

You owned your first car at 13?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 04:05 PM
5

Takes balls to challenge your sexuality enough just to prove a point. Kudos to you, sir.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/15 03:53 AM
0

I agree with the sentiment, but your last statement is a bit questionable. Taller guys have bigger reach, and reach is a BIG part of fighting... All other things being equal, a taller guy vs a smaller guy is in favor of the tall guy - so much, that in MMA fights, they showcase the guys reach in his profile summary, as well as his height.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 02:24 AM
0

I'm 5'7", so shorter than you. Sure, there are some girls who will absolutely positively NOT date guys that are shorter than 6'. Big fucking deal, there are 7 billion human beings on the planet, so, no shortage of women of fuckable age and hot bodies who WILL date shorter guys. The mother of my son/ex-fianceé is about 4 inches taller than me. Most of my other LTR's were taller than me as well. And that was when i was a skinny ass near-beta. After i've redpilled and hit the gym, i'm having less a…
/r/askTRP07/02/15 02:20 AM
1

I agree with this sentiment.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 07:29 PM
1

For me, personally, the blowjob is the tell. If there's too many teeth, not enough saliva, the girl doesn't use her hands, doesn't play with your balls, or otherwise doesn't put up any sort of effort and the blowjob is really bad, it's a telltale sign that she is inexperienced. Ever had a girl give you an insanely amazing blowjob? Well, that takes practice. You better be sure she has sucked a mile of dick before getting to that point. Other signs include being very non-interactive, sex-doll like…
/r/askTRP06/02/15 06:10 PM
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My only question is this: why don't these guys get a nailbed already? Much more effective than jumping on top of the hood. Guy tries to drive off, gets his 4 tires popped. His fault.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/02/15 12:58 AM
1

I don't think Tinder has a priority system... As soon as a girl swipes right on you, if you have swiped right on her before, you get a notification. I don't believe there's any priority system where you get a match, but there's a big delay in it happening and you getting notified it did. Could be wrong, tho.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 07:09 PM
1

To me, a 7 would be a very pretty girl with a not-so-attractive body, or a girl with a very attractive body with a not-so-pretty face. So, basically, either her body or her face is 8 or 9 material, but the other is a 5 or 6 material. Talking pornstars, Jada Stevens, for me, is a 7, if a high 7 at that. She has an amazing body, but her face is just meh. If she was prettier, she would easily be an 8 or above. A slightly chubby/non-fit girl with an amazing face, would, similarly be a 7. Of course, …
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 07:08 PM
1

Even if you're not chiseled yet, if you're not unnatractive or fat, with a good selection of profile pictures & description, plus an auto-liker, you can still expect easy 7's from Tinder. Wouldn't hold my hopes up for anything higher than a 7 until there have been some gainz, though. That's been my experience with the app. I had about 30 matches over the course of the last 30 days, disregarding the occasional hambeast (courtesy of autoliker) who i instantly unmatched. I have gotten about 3 or 4 …
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 01:38 PM
1

Yeah, it's really insane how different Tinder works for women vs men. Even a 7 woman must be getting at least 50% matches if not much more. Feeling tempted to try and work out the math on women profiles, too, but there's probably some study already done on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 01:26 PM
1

Wow, i was MUCH closer to the mark than i expected with my rough math. That's really nearly exactly the % i was expecting. Makes me feel pretty good with my near 1%, too.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 01:24 PM
0

Yeah. I might fish around on my email to see if i can't find the photos from when i did my modelling portfolio.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 04:38 AM
2

Ah, from what i've read and seen, i don't doubt it for a second. As soon as a girl thinks that she has secured a high enough value target, she'll push to pin him down.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 12:23 AM
1

Yeah, i've been getting results on Tinder, but it's slow going. I decided to try a Tinder bot to work out the math on my matches, and it's worked out to less than 1%, and i'm by no means an unnatractive guy. Not fat, but not fit either - lean and below average height, 5'7". Even went into modelling for a bit. Gonna try and bring that percentage up through gainz and better profile picture/description.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 11:26 PM
11

Very nice. Hopefully in a few months, when the gym starts showing off more appreciable results, i can attract more girls that are DTF and not fishing for a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 08:51 PM
1

I chuckled! Love these movie puns.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 03:14 PM
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I posted this on that thread: Because viewing things that way is the politically correct way, and going against that is very unpopular, so very few people actually do it, since they'll only end up being downvoted into oblivion. Same reason that you'll see many people defending a woman who cheats on her husband/boyfriend because he's not being the man she needs, but not people defending a man who cheats on his wife/girlfriend because she's not being the woman he needs. She's an independent strong…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 01:46 PM
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And, somehow, Ginger Banks has been doing this for god knows how long and nothing has happened to her... For my satisfaction, of course.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/15 08:39 PM
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Took me a long time to figure that one out. I still get bummed out when things don't work out perfectly when i approach a girl, but at least it has gone from a major to a minor inconvenience that i forget about after a couple of hours max.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 12:37 PM
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I don't have strong game, but i have relatively good looks and a pretty solid text game, so online dating/Tinder has been doing wonders for me. If you need a quick confidence boost and need some "practice" on getting and maintaining plates, i'd definitely recommend you using online dating and Tinder, as it's relatively quick to produce results, is very low-maintenance, and doesn't require a lot from you. From there, you can figure out what works out best for you. You are free to try multiple way…
/r/askTRP31/01/15 12:35 PM
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I've heard that eating bull's testicles might help raise T levels, but tried to confirm via googling and didn't get definite proof that it does so. Might be worth a mention, anyway... If i find somewhere that does them, i might even try just to see what they're about.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 03:27 AM
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There are at least some hot chicks on reddit, as you can garner from the GoneWild family of subreddits. Sure, a lot of them are professional camwhores, but some aren't. I'm nitpicking, though, you're absolutely right... I wouldn't want a slut that posts on Gonewild except if it's for a plate, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 03:22 AM
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I have literally never seen a top rated comment on TwoX defend the man, in any situation, ever. I honestly don't even know WHY women ask for advice there, except if they have pretty much already decided that they're right and are just looking for confirmation in order to feel good, which, i suspect, it's exactly what they're trying to achieve. This also applies to /r/relationships, but to a lesser degree. So many white knights... For example, all the bashing on the guy that was feeling insecure …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 03:19 AM
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You don't tell the pig you're taking them to the slaughterhouse.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 01:55 AM
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As someone who was recently trying to defend TRP to people who hate TRP, but actually have no idea what it's all about, i feel you, OP.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 01:53 AM
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I'd love to meet such a feminist in person and ask them if they have attempted this line of reasoning with a Bank, perhaps. "Oh, no, Mister, you don't understand. I retroactively withdraw my consent for this loan. I have thought long and hard about this and i don't feel like i was in my right mind when i signed this piece of paper." I don't feel like these braindead women even obey the laws of logic, unless it benefits them.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 02:16 PM
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Sigh... I'm getting tired of having to tell people that the friendzone isn't created by woman, but by the men who put themselves into it. Every time i see someone on FB post that they're tired of getting put into the friendzone, i cringe. Hard. I feel that everyone that falls for the whole friendzone kool aid is an entitled little bitch. No one is obligated to kiss/fuck/marry someone else just because they're nice to them. I don't feel women have any obligation to refuse the things beta orbiters…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 12:52 AM
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After reading that massive wall of text... I'm going to have to call bullshit here. With that high of a pay grade, i find it extremely hard to believe that she didn't do anal. Even more unbelievable is when she says she hadn't even heard about anal before clients requested that of her. Anal is whore bread and butter these days. Half the reason men look for escorts is to get what their wife doesn't give them, and anal is one of the things men look for, as well as other, more uncommon fetishes.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 11:59 PM
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There's no way of telling if she's a virgin, like others have said - there are too many variables to be sure, so unless you're trained as a gynecologist and manage to get her to spread her legs to you while you give her a detailed exam... And even then it's not 100%. There is, however, a way of telling if she's experienced, if you're experienced with woman yourself. Just seeing how she behaves in the bedroom can give you a number of hints.
/r/askTRP
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This: I think maybe I only cared about how she made me feel rather than the actual girl. does not compute with this: I know my value isn't directly tied to a woman's desire for me but still. If you feel bad after a girls interest in you has waned, then it means that your perception of your self-worth is in some way tied to that attraction that girl felt towards you. Do note that i mean "feel bad" as in, feeling defeated, being actually emotionally affected. Being bummed out, just thinking "damn,…
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Understanding it is the first step towards change. But, since you apparently get more out of emotional connection than just pure physical interaction, you might want to look for good LTR material. I truly don't understand why you didn't want commitment if you are like that...
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I couldn't help but pry a little bit deeper, so i went to your user page, and found out that you almost exclusively post in game related subreddits. I'm going to make some assumptions here, and you'll correct me if i'm wrong about any of this. You find it easier to interact with others online, and you don't have a lot of experience socializing outside of those circles of people that share the same interests that you do. That being gamers, TCG enthusiasts, people who like the same kind of sci-fi/…
/r/askTRP
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I'm often in the same boat you are, but i'm even worse off. I'm not tall, i'm between 5'6" and 5'7", and i also can't grow a beard. And it's o9nly recently that i've started lifting so i'm not yet muscular, only average/fit. I still have no problems pulling in girls that are anywhere between 7 & 9, even if they're taller than me. A lot of it has to do with where you're trying to meet girls, and how you're going about it. If cold approaching them is not working, then you might want to work on dif…
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She asked for commitment as a way to check if you were still her backup, then you played right into her hand by agreeing with it - despite past history. The only reason she chased you in the first place was because she thought you were slipping past the point where she could reel you back in if she ever felt the need to. This is her exerting her power over you. Go completely radio silent on her, ignore, block on social media, and get a move on with your life. It's time to hard next this girl. As…
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This is possibly one of the more common questions asked here. I always give the same answer: if you want to do it, go for it. You're a man, and as a man, you need to be able to make your own mind. The only one that can correctly gauge the cost/benefit of fucking a hooker is yourself. No one else has all the information necessary for making that assessment. To me, it just seems you're seeking validation: a pat in the back saying "shush... it's ok bro, you can do it", just so you can feel better w…
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"I won't tell if you don't." "Don't worry baby, i'm not jealous." "I know. kisses passionately" "I'm so going to steal you for myself." "What the eyes don't see, the heart doesn't feel."
/r/askTRP
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I usually respond to that by saying "Nothing will happen that you don't want to." Short and to the point, and gives a girl reassurance that you'll not be going to force yourself onto her past the point that she gets uncomfortable or feels violated.
/r/askTRP
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This. Go wild, trust your gut, and don't do it again if you crash and burn.
/r/askTRP
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You really can't help someone who won't help themselves. I know, i'm on the same boat as you. I have a friend that i really like, but, i'm basically one of very few people that will go out with him. He's so Omega, that i KNOW that if i'm going to go for a couple of drinks with him, there is basically ZERO chance that i'm going to get a chick that night. He has that kind of aura that women simply instinctively know to avoid. But we share a lot of the same interests, so i like to hang out with him…
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OP did not make a good call getting her that job at all. Women are naturally hypergamous and already have an inflated sense of self worth. They're always getting hit on, always getting compliments, facebook likes, etc... In an upscale wine bar venue, she'll constantly be getting hit on by men that have, possibly, higher SMV than OP does. Do you not feel this will get the hamster spinning and her thinking that she can do better? Even the boss is a perv and is probably trying to bang her every day…
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This 100 times over. Now i adhere to the maxim "Women want honesty, they don't want full disclosure". I used to confuse the two and share way more than what needed to be shared, which meant i told them some super unflattering shit about myself, lowering my SMV in their eyes. At the time, i had no concept of SMV or anything like that - i just kind of assumed that whatever the girl might think about the unflattering tidbit of information i told her, she would think highly of me for sharing this wi…
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You went full no-contact and she contacted you. You mention elsewhere that she has never done this... Yes, she could've been trying to reel you back in, but if that's the case you could've just brushed it off and noped out of the "date", going no-contact again. It might have worked, might have not, but it would at the very least make it clear that you're not noping out because you're butthurt, but just because you're not interested into the "just being friends" bullcrap. In the end it doesn't re…
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