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Yes and it's a real shame
/r/PussyPassDenied15/10/21 01:23 PM
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That's a mug you don't wanna chug
/r/PussyPassDenied21/09/21 01:44 PM
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That's a good attitude to have. And it sounds like you're at least aware of your emotions and how irrational they are in this situation. You seem like you're already headed in a good direction. Just don't slip back! Let her be and keep working on yourself, bro.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 06:15 PM
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This is it right here. Just forget her. That's the principle lesson in a scenario like this. I'd even go so far to say that you should've dropped it when she was going to a concert with someone and was dodging your questions. Don't let someone toss you around like that and play with you. Trust your gut, OP, you knew what was up.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 12:17 PM
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Eye for an eye punishment would really be justified here...
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/21 04:02 PM
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"Just pretend you're not nervous" would be changing your mindset. Pretending involves altering the way you're thinking about yourself or something else. Actors pretend in their minds and then act and reflect those altered thoughts. Some of them behave differently first, and then it's easier for them to pretend and dive deeper into the mind if the character. Changing your behavior can definitely lead to faster improvement in the way you view situations and your mindset would follow sooner or late…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 11:39 AM
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Excellent post. For years the masculinity sphere has preached about mindset being the number one thing. Frame. Frame is what it's all about. You absolutely cannot be neurotic and paranoid and also be a stable, sturdy, rock-like man. It's like expecting a flower stem to be as strong as a tree's roots. It's just not the same. The flower stem blows in the wind and in every direction the wind blows. The tree roots do not move when the wind blows. In America there have been more and more attempts at …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 12:49 PM
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Nothing shocking here, fellas. This is the game. What you can do for her financially or physically is always a factor in her mind. Love is a social construct. Protect yourselves by never needing to be protected. Marriage is just an idea and is proven to produce no benefit for men.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 12:39 PM
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Watch how socially confident men move/talk when around women. There is an underlying assuredness about them that you either have naturally or you learn to develop. Don Draper on "Mad Men Paul Newman in "From The Terrace" There are different ways to develop the qualities you're looking for. One way is by changing your self talk and another is by creating a more comfortable scenario in your head to help you exhibit those qualities. Example: Instead of focusing on not messing up, tell yourself that…
/r/seduction06/10/19 12:23 PM
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When it comes to relationship matters whether friendly or romantic; always pay attention to what women do, not what they say. As long as you are solid in the way you handle yourself and are transparent, you will feel the need to hang onto her every word fizzle out. Women and men have one thing in common: they will always be exactly where and with whom they want to be. If she did a 180 on you then leave it at that. Everything she had to say was in her actions.
/r/seduction05/10/19 06:42 PM
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I love this movie. So many subtle truths.
/r/seduction05/10/19 06:30 PM
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Exactly. I thought that's where the story was going but all the same, not shocked.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 10:29 PM
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You're absolutely right about fraudulent actions and people lying about simple/transient things. I think it's part of the collective "let's avoid anything that brings about discomfort" covert contract that 99% of the population has with each other. Discomfort brings about change and change is the only constant. People unconsciously wade in misery because they lie to themselves which makes it easier for them to accept lies from others. The lies feel good because the truth isn't warm and fuzzy.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 05:22 PM
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Great post. Your examples are spot on. I think one of the biggest problems is that many generations have been taught, indirectly, to ignore their gut/natural intuition that tells them something may be off or even to question things they are told by authority figures. The medical world has mastered this as have many sectors of the government. I used to be shocked at how many full-grown adults, both men and women, take 99% of the things they hear a face value without even thinking of an alternativ…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 10:45 AM
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Great post/tip. This is an awesome way to become more self-aware and in control of your emotions. You have to be aware of your current mood/emotional range in order to focus on a person and picture then with an altered head size and voice.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 02:20 PM
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Man, just don’t sit around waiting for someone or something else to shape and mold your mind and life. YOU are in the driver’s seat, not these corporate agenda-pushing wet farts that pour money into entertainment that is loaded with brainwashing material. It doesn’t matter if we’re talking about porn, drinking, music, movies, women, or art - as long as YOU have YOUR OWN point of reference and aren’t easily swayed by the attitude of the masses - you’re doing better than most men. Same RP principl…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 01:39 PM
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Can confirm; they love the rough stuff a lot. Easy recipe for for them to cum and cum good. Every woman is different, so the level of roughness required for them to get off is going to vary. But by and large they like it. Grip their necks firmly, grab their hair from behind, smack their ass cheeks, slap their face a little, call them sluts and whores, learn how to get deep in her and learn how and when to pound the pussy (every woman is different. One woman I used to bang would cum and squirt wi…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 12:04 PM
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100% agree. Moderation and self-control are the keys. If you can't control yourself with drinks, then you may be one of those people who are better off not drinking at all. There's nothing wrong with that just like there's nothing wrong drinking it and of itself; you just have to know your limit and keep your drinking days within reason. I personally used to drink like a fish when I was in my early twenties. I think a lot of people do that because it's something new and you feel liberated and li…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 02:33 PM
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Another term is the Halo Effect. It is when you assume a female is innoncent, pure, chaste, loyal, simply because she LOOKS the part. As many men have pointed out from their own experience, this is not the case. The more innocent and pure she looks, the deeper and darker her bag of sexual acts and her ability to flip covert switches to attain what she wants probably are. If she looks like the preacher’s daughter, chances are she’s fucked and sucked quite a few dicks and had quite a few relations…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 01:41 PM
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This needs more up votes. It’s much more beneficial for a man to learn on his own, and apply knowledge that directly serves him, than to blindly suck up information that he has no idea what it will do to him in the long run. Too much emphasis is put on education, but it should be practical education. Not just education for the sake of education. That is why learning about the TRUE nature of women and the REAL dynamic that exists between men and women can be the difference between an emotionally-…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 02:18 PM
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Yes, you are correct. But, if you let mainstream sources tell you, women have the same qualities innately. This of course, is folly. Women are not natural leaders/alphas. They use male characteristics to appear “strong”, “confident”, and “fearless”. When women do this it is anything BUT natural, and that is why we have so many fundamentals of society, life, and basic structure of thought and action between men and women completely fucked up. One of the greatest tricks wome play is against themse…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 02:09 PM
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I’d like to say that they hide their true nature, but it’s so innate, so wired into their very being that they themselves don’t see the failed logic in the reasons they give for their actions. It’s not even super-hyper, your average chick whether she’s a 10 or a 4, is capable of the same hamster rationalizations. I know of girls in LTRs that regularly fuck other men because their main guy is “boring” or he “doesn’t pay enough attention to her”. Really, they could use any “reason”; “he didn’t cal…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 05:45 PM
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Had a married woman tell me the same thing. That she was loyal as loyal could be. In her mind, fucking another man behind her husband’s back was justified based on how she felt about him and their situation when compared to the life she saw in her mind with me. Hypergamy is REAL AWALT is REAL Feels are REAL
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 01:31 PM
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Man, this is wisdom. It is so important to understand the difference between constructive observation/monitoring, and plain old bitching for the sake of releasing an emotional overload. A lot of people go through bouts of emotional overloads and they say any and everything they feel is right, instead of objective and constructive statements that accomplish specific things. Well said, man.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 11:23 PM
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This. Remaining “in the middle” as I call it, allows you to be in control of your emotions, and, subsequently, your actions. If a person is doing something you don’t like, your emotions are in your control, while their actions aren’t. When people’s actions don’t get to you, you always come out on top. Internal locus of control.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 11:20 PM
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I thought I read all the good stuff by Bukowski already...but I don't think I've seen these 3 before. Awesome. Absolutely awesome.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 06:11 PM
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Feminism is rearing another one of its ugly heads. This is where things are now because society takes every arbitrary thing women say to be fact and true, with absolutely NO regard for objectivity, context, or anything logical. This is just a wave...it’s a scary wave, but a wave nonetheless. Men really do need to take heed to what OP said. I feel bad for anyone who has actually been abused or forced to do something against their will, and I believe that men that do those things are very, very sm…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 12:49 PM
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You need to hone your people skills. I’m an introvert, but you’d never know it in a social setting because I’ve learned what traits are my strong points and which ones aren’t. So, it’s become very easy for me to adapt to my environment, but to not lose my own core essence. When you try and be someone else, you’re never going to feel or seem organic. Nothing you do will be congruent, you will constantly be in your head instead of in the current moment. Others will pick up on your incongruence, es…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 01:55 PM
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Yes. I can confirm this. Many girls who are not high on the SMV scale are extremely enthusiastic about you, submissive, and loyal. They have had time to realize that their personality/other traits must be developed in order for them to have any kind of success in the sex/dating/relationship world (I am not saying that they arrived at this realization strategically, but at some point they put more effort into other things about themselves other than their looks). A colleague of mine and I came up…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 12:48 PM
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There really is no point in not cheating. Women overtly state that they are against cheating and are usually the more upset party when they are cheated on. There are two reasons for this; One is because women buy into the Hollywood version of love and relationships. So, when something happens that crushes that fairytale world that they've continued to build upon in their minds, they almost can't handle it. The other reason is that on a biological level women are distorted by having been beaten t…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 12:38 PM
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This post is incredibly deep. The message here is so important. We've learned over time to label everything in our environment. We do this so quickly that we give power to things, unintentionally, so that we can "make sense" of what has happened. Unfortunately, as OP pointed out, we may be completely incorrect most of the time. We say our boss was a mastermind who tricked us into something, but as OP said, maybe we just got outsmarted by a guy who's able to pick up on things and saw an opportuni…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 02:45 PM
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The same could be said about Schopenhauer, Gracian, and Machiavelli. They used parables, and long explanations to make a simple point. The way they did, though, is part of what makes them great.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 02:33 PM
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I have embraced solitude for a while now. It's better than attempting to appease the simple-minded fluff talk that can be found everywhere. Seldom do I come across real conversation worth engaging in as most people do not have depth. It's better to read books filled with information that can improve you or at least give you a different perspective on something, than to help churn the wheel that moves the insignificant bullshit that runs rampant in society through small talk and social media upda…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 02:28 PM
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Great post, and hats off to your dad.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 02:16 PM
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This is absolutely correct. Women are indeed innately Machiavellian. They use tactics that can be found in The Prince, as well as laws from The 48 Laws of Power. Only difference is they could never, ever explain to you what they do. They may describe their actions, but they could never write down exactly how to know when to use a certain tactic, and when to push/pull to manipulate the tension/desire of the other person towards you. They just fucking do it. They feel it and they do it. And many m…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 02:11 PM
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Happens all the time. This is where accepting that she is not yours, it is just your turn, comes into play. Once you accept this truth, then you will not be shocked by this behavior. Instead, you will almost expect it and learn how to work around it or avoid a certain girl because she is damaged goods.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 02:03 PM
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This! They really can't tell the difference and this is because their biggest commodity is pussy. So, giving that up means everything to them. That is why they sink so much emotion into most encounters with men that they find attractive enough to consider being in a relationship with. For men, we value things like honor, honesty, and loyalty; women fake these characteristics to get a guy's attention/affection and then the man believes he is in love with her because she will listen to him and do …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 01:58 PM
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Women have no problem endorsing that behavior because to them, it satisfies their biological need to get the highest value man their looks/status can get them. Be it a mother, daughter, grandmother, aunt, etc., these are titles, not descriptions of their characteristics and certainly not their nature. Your sister merely put into words exactly what women feel on subconscious levels, but seldom admit to men in so many words. Most men fail to pick up on the covert cues (which is why her beta bf kee…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 01:51 PM
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Well said, man. It's important for guys to learn and really understand, but above all, ACCEPT, this truth: Women do not care about you. As long as you remain for her what she needs you to be in order for her to stick around and maintain her feminine role, she is fine. Women feed off of us because we are the masculine polarity that they crave on biological and subconscious levels. They literally cannot comprehend reciprocating the type of attention a man is expected to give a woman, because their…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 10:31 PM
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It also helps if you are not focused on having a specific outcome. Your conversation and overall vibe will be much more natural and easy-going if you are not trying hard to appear as if you are Steve McQueen or Sinatra in the flesh. Adapt to your environment in your way and, even when there is silence it won't be awkward for you because you're comfortable on the inside.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 02:14 PM
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OP definitely flipped the script, so props are due. I mean, as far as interactions involving an LTR go, it's not a completely horrible situation. Flipping things around, however, was the easy part. This is where a lot of guys are blinded by a woman's feminine response to masculine/RP traits. Guys think that all they have to do is display these characteristics, once or a few times, and she will forever remain loyal to you, ready to blow you and ride you like a porn star as part of her daily chore…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 02:08 PM
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Yes. It's innate for them to avoid accountability. That is why they literally pull "excuses" from thin air that make absolutely no sense. After you bust through her bullshit, she will: A: Amplify to the max and storm out B: Cry C: All of the above
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 01:50 PM
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That is where self-awareness comes into play. You cannot be totally oblivious to any potential dangers your actions might bring about. But, you can operate with an air of autonomy and individuality without destroying your reputation.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 11:02 AM
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Well said. It's best to remain detached enough to be ready to walk away, but also attached enough to be able to pick up on the subtleties that occur under the noses of many men, but largely go unnoticed. Balance.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 08:09 PM
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All of my points add to the overall conversation which is regarding LTRs and their potential benefits/drawbacks, etc. Surely, and regardless of the intent of your original post, someone can benefit from the things I said as they were not totally out of the spectrum.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 08:02 PM
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When a person knows how to do something the right way, they most certainly only spend the time on it that they need. Guys that do not understand or know how to wield the powers of TRP are the very ones who will tell you the ridiculous amount of time they spend thinking, planning, and doing things for women, only to get a very small, if any, ROI. These are the guys that are butt-hurt and angry because they spent all their money, got embarrassed in front of their peers, or they lost their job beca…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 07:55 PM
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Having an LTR or even a semi-LTR can be beneficial because, if you're aware enough, it can give you contrast. However, I don't know if actively seeking an LTR is the best move. You may not be able to say that you have the first-hand experience of an LTR, but you can certainly learn the same lessons from reading/hearing about the mistakes/circumstances of others and take that knowledge to avoid making the same moves/mistakes. Putting yourself through an LTR just to come out having learned the sam…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 07:49 PM
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Welcome. Please read the side bar material. After you've read the side bar, read the side bar again. Then, after you've read the side bar twice, read the side bar again. Not trying to be funny at all. Take notes. Scroll through some recent posts and get yourself familiar with the overall mindset. Don't try to jump into being Mr. Stealyourgirl overnight. Granted, you may learn some things, but you will miss some really crucial things that will build your foundation for your frame. Skipping steps …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 06:57 PM
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Excellent post. As men, we are born to take risks and accept the hard truth that life isn't worth living without doing so. A lot of people hate Kanye West, but dammit that man has taken risks. Say what you will about his spouse, or any of his random rants, but his overall career is based on risks. Like OP said, The Beatles took risks by changing the content of their music, Kanye West did the same with his music and even his sneakers (none of which look or feel like traditional sneakers). Look at…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 06:41 PM
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Women are wired to compete with other women because high value men are scarce. They put on heels to make themselves taller, they change the natural color of their hair and even the style of their natural hair (curly haired women want straight hair and vice versa), put on eye shadow and eye liner (which I will never understand), and they color their lips and nails. Women will pay whatever amount to do something to themselves that they believe enhances their image, which subsequently changes the r…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 06:21 PM
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I can confirm this. I fucked a married woman multiple times that told me straight up that I was not her type. She also told me that she did not like sucking dick, and, wouldn't you know it, not only did she drop her thong for me, but I received many blow jobs from her (and they were damn good). One blow job took place as she texted her husband in between sucks and licks about how much fun she was having at the "bar" with her "friends and sister". This same woman is now back to playing good wife …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 06:13 PM
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So, because someone you consider to be an idiot thinks he is those things, that means they’re empty words?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 11:02 PM
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He specifically asked for rational advice. The definition of rational is: logical, reasonable, sensible, cogent, intelligent, etc. If you browse through TRP threads, you will see that the highest rated comments and posts are rational, reasonable, and contain sound advice. We have to ask for advice on things because our own viewpoint may be severely lacking and completely incorrect, though, we may not see it that way. Having multiple sets of eyes on it, some more experienced than ourselves, reall…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 06:59 PM
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Assess her value and go from there. If you're spending more than an hour or so (total) thinking about her worth in relation to you, or vice versa, then it's not worth it. As a man, your objective with women is to provide value, but never more than she's worth. The presence of value attracts her, but you are to only trickle your value out to her as she earns more of it. Do not ever dig into your bag of value and start handing that shit out to her. She'll get comfortable and you'll have an obese w…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 05:38 PM
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This is an awesome post and easy to understand for both newbies and well-seasoned RPer's. What this boils down to is the classic understanding of feels for women. Women run off of feels, not logic and deep understanding. For men, logic and reason are king. But for women, it's the polar opposite; they operate on feels. If they feel your energy is masculine and congruent, then they will stick to you glue. If your frame is strong and she can sense that she has not moved you at all, you've demonstra…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 04:48 PM
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This right here is great advice. It's concise, but also deep. We worry a lot about what people will think about us, and we often think that things will come crashing down if we don't adhere to society's standards, no matter how unreasonable and completely ridiculous they actually are. Most "standards" have very little merit, and they often only serve others instead of yourself as an individual. It's important to be a part of a team, a working unit or group that moves towards something better; bu…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 02:46 PM
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Always remember that women benefit from relationships, especially if you demonstrate higher value to her, and men lose a lot. A woman's IOIs will increase as she learns more about your frame, value, sexual energy/abilities (yes, this counts), and your overall lifestyle. This is where a lot of men fall victim to the act that women put on. She's incredibly horny, always requesting or hinting at sex, she cooks for you/buys you food, she does things for you that shows she's the 'one', but this is on…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 02:30 AM
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The best thing to do when engaging feminists is to not engage them at all. This. You can use all the logic in the world; they won't understand it because they're incapable of understanding anything. When you run off of feels, you can't think. You can't think at all.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 01:54 AM
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Not a bad list at all. It's important to have an awareness of these things because a lot of them, if not all of them, are common causes to guys getting sucked into oneitis and bad LTRs where they have no power, and/or they are the beta bucks guy spending all his money on a girl or any girl that shows him attention. Women are constantly shit testing because of their hypergamous nature. So, at any given time, she could be looking (subconsciously) to see if there are any cracks in your armor, and i…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 01:45 AM
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All solid. You can't be ready to hold onto every girl that comes into your life. Doesn't matter how good the pussy is, or how ready and willing she is to do things for you; she is a woman and therefore AWALT is a natural default for her. Smash the pedestal and keep the door open, always ready to throw her out or walk out yourself.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 07:51 PM
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It is disrespect, in every sense of the word. But a woman will only do that if she senses you're not worth the time of day anyway; if she feels you're not of high value. I've seen guys lose their shit when a woman puts them down or cracks a serious joke on them in front of other people. Losing your shit equal not having a strong frame.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 07:02 PM
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Pretending doesn't do the trick with women. It simply doesn't. They were born in the pretend, and they lived it in all their lives. You are merely a newcomer trying to fool a native on it's own turf. You have to implement TRP and tailor it to fit your personality. Make it your second-nature, not your 4th option on the list of things to do to impress women. Acting brave doesn't mean you will be brave in the heat of the moment, just like pretending to be RP will only work when you're in a calculat…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 06:53 PM
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Women used to fuck the milk man when milk deliveries were a thing. Women have fucked the mail man, the Maytag guy, their professor from college, the family friend, they fucked other guys while their fiancees were overseas in the war, etc. Women acting on their natural urges isn't new. It's just that the further back you go, the easier it may have been to do these things and not get caught. Now we easier access to cars, Uber, and social media and smart phones, so tracking a person down takes a lo…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 06:47 PM
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You can pick apart your reality to fit your narrative that you're happy, but that doesn't erase what has been proven to be true about women, TRP, and anything else. You may feel happy/content, but that doesn't mean that a woman/your woman won't act on her natural instincts as long as they fit into her reality. AWALT is a harsh reality. You're just trying to deny it so you feel better. But, in your defense, you said you're a massive BP beta, so it makes sense. Everything your girlfriend is doing …
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 06:41 PM
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I like how they always use the word naive. How can they possibly be so naive at the time of the event, and later on they have this incredible insight into intentions, covert communication, and other mischievous actions? Where was all of this psychological insight and wisdom when they were pounding drinks back, dancing on tables, flashing tits, grabbing guy's junk, and sucking cock in a circle? These girls are just expecting something, like I said, and when they don't get it...they twist everythi…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 05:07 PM
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Listen, man. Women create their own reality, but they do it in a way that is psychologically harmful to themselves and everyone around them that can be affected by the way they operate. There is objective reality, the reality that exists and is unyielding to your desires, and then there is reality that you choose to see regardless of whether or not your situation in life improves or not. It's okay to see things in a different light in order to be able to thrive (one example would be seeing a bad…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 04:55 PM
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If you have to ask yourself how much influence a girl has on your life, then she probably has more influence than she should already. She should not affect your job/career in any way. She should not affect your purchases/money flow/anything having to do with finance. She should not affect your living situation. Where you choose to live and how, is your business and your business only. She should not affect your friends/social life. She can tag along, but I'll be damned if she's going to dictate …
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 03:05 PM
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The fact that all a woman has to do is say that she was assaulted or harassed by a man, and she immediately is deemed correct and is then viewed as a victim who needs praise for speaking up, is a manifestation of how crooked the scales of justice are for men. A man and a woman can have sex, and, because at the time, the woman is into it and she is loving the attention and whatever other prospects she thinks are on the horizon for her, she has no issue with the sex. It is only when the woman feel…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 02:43 PM
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Good stuff. Women respond to solid frame. They need/want that and that is why they constantly test men for it. A man with unwavering frame gives a woman the tingles and she can't resist. And, as you said, if you're high value, the dread game takes care of itself with little to no manipulation from you. She will be the one checking to make sure other females aren't getting to close for her comfort.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 03:22 PM
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I've seen this happen. Girls that aren't even friends will protect another girl when she's doing slut shit like that. They hamster their way out of looking like a slut by highlighting some weak reason (usually something related to bp behavior) as to why were sucking Brad off in the corner of the dance floor. However, if the roles were reversed, we'd see girls storming in the bar to reprimand the guy for cheating on their friend, to which he would reply that they are not exclusive. Oh, but they w…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 03:16 PM
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I said in another post this week that feminism's core beliefs and theories are a contradiction of the entire movement. How can you put men down for being men, and then use masculine logic/frames of mind to justify your actions as being different? The whole empowerment and irrational confidence thing is exactly what men do, but somehow it's different because she has a vag?! This woman is confused. Somehow, she thinks that be embracing being a slut, whore, and skanky stripper that she's getting ba…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 02:38 PM
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This. A woman will not turn down an opportunity for attention, even from betas. The only exception is if the man she is with is extremely high value, and she does not want to fuck that up so she doesn't need the attention from another male, she can get it from her female friends. Think of all of the "friends" women have in IG and Facebook. Some women have followers in the millions and it's all because of attention.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 06:32 PM
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There is no such thing as "just a friend" with men and women. Right now, a plate I have refers to me as a friend in our conversations, but I fuck her on the regular and this girl does not hold back. I'm pretty sure whoever she ends up marrying will be surprised by her honed skills, but she will make him think that he brought it out of her, or that she only ever did things for him. I'm sure she talks about me as her "friend" to her family members or her girlfriends, but this just goes to show you…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 06:19 PM
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Well, yes, you're correct. The context of the happiness also plays a part. I thought that was a given. Surely, no one on here is encouraging people to take meth to have an air of happiness to attract women, lol.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 06:13 PM
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Very good point. Can't forget about the nonsense drama that women create in order to have that constant buzz of external stimulation streaming to them.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 05:03 PM
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Women are attracted to happiness. That in and of itself is the answer. They are attracted to it because it's coming from someone/somewhere else - not them. Women are drawn in, and men are the magnets that pull them in with value/excitement/status, etc. It's like being invited to a party and you walk in and there's 5 people there, all of them are bored and quiet. There's no excitement or value. Now, there's another party and you walk up hearing the beat thumping, girls dancing, drinks flowing, li…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 02:55 PM
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I think psychology and psychiatry are useful, but unfortunately, there are a lot of people who are so used to relying on external thinking that they can't rely on their own. At all. For anything. So, they go to a therapist fully expecting to be told what to think and feel, and when hear these things they abide by them like the law. They internalize it and they get fucked up because none of what they were told had any pre-existence in them, so it is completely foreign to them. I think what a lot …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 02:44 PM
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Women do not realize the origins of their complaints and issues with men. It is not that men are innately evil or that they have a burning desire to stifle women for the sake of advancing themselves; it is that women (feminists) do not want to accept that their best commodity (looks and pussy) deteriorates at a faster rate than the variety of commodities that even your average male can possess. Allow me to explain a bit further. Because women are hypergamous in nature, their constant thirst to b…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 02:26 PM
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No shock value here. Women do this covertly, of course only revealing their nature casually when they are completely comfortable doing so (amongst their friends, or relatives/siblings). This is innate, and they would never tell you how they do this roster because they can’t explain it. It’s wired into them to be hypergamous and to seek out those with the most value that their looks or status can get them. A woman with a lot of money, but not so great looks can get a high value man (looks-wise) j…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 08:31 PM
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I think the answer lies in the medium. For instance, you can't be overly concerned about what others might be thinking of you, and you can't be under-concerned either, to the point that you literally do not care about your behavior regardless of who you're around and where you are. You have to practice being in the middle. At work: You want to care what your bosses think, but you don't want to completely tweak/stifle your personality so that you are not yourself, but instead a watery version of …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 04:28 PM
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I hear you. I don’t usually refer to shows, but some of them are really well done and you can see things in them that have actually happened in real life. If anything, we can applaud Mad Men for not painting the picture of Don being a beta and Betty loving it/not going astray. Don was portrayed as alpha/high status/many options with women, yet his wife cheated on him and left him. They showed that even if you’re an RP dude. AWALT, buddy.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 11:08 AM
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I just make the water cold, and get in. Took me a few days to get used to.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 11:03 AM
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You’re right, he did. It’s easy to reasonably justify what she did as a reaction to his actions, but she did what she did as a result of qualities that all women possess. It’s just a matter of them feeling like they need to do those things to feel better or to get revenge.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 11:00 AM
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Exactly. But, you asked if they thought about it; they don’t. When something is innate, you seldom realize you’re doing it. So, to her it was probably something that popped in her head that she wasn’t actually conscious of.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 10:31 PM
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"A monkey won't let go of a branch unless it's got a firm grip on another." This sums everything up perfectly. This was seen on Mad Men and I've actually experienced it in real life. On Mad Men, Don Draper's wife pretended that she had forgiven him for cheating on her, and that she was trying her absolute best to come around to being forgiving him. However, behind his back she was meeting up with a guy for make-out sessions and building an emotional life raft with him. So, as soon as she had tha…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 07:24 PM
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Yes. It's quite subtle. So subtle that they don't realize how frequently they lie to themselves, thinking they're fooling someone else but they are really fooling themselves. But they must fool themselves, for if they don't they will have to deal with the harsh realities that lie just on the other side of their little white lies. Their realities are built on a false foundation, but they are none the wiser. That's why it's so easy for them to shift blame and move on to another guy once they've be…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 07:05 PM
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Well, that would be correct. I said, 99% of what we think is important, actually isn't. For instance, a lot of people focus on their status on social media, likes, reblogs, etc. They put emphasis on these things and other things like what other people think of them, getting approval from certain people, and appearing to live a life better than they actually are. They stress themselves out and put themselves in very uncomfortable predicaments because they were putting transient things on a pedest…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 07:00 PM
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Gold. Makes perfect sense that a feminist would have a deep-seeded hatred for a woman that can 'make it' in society and get attention from men by doing very little. Whilst the butch, manly, rough feminists can't get any of that attention, and they can't get as far in society as women who are 10/10 can. So, really, feminism is a way for women to justify their shitty existence and shift blame to literally anyone but themselves. Blue Pill men fit right into their world where every man is useless bu…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 09:03 PM
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You hit the nail on the head.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 06:59 PM
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Elon is a modern day Tesla, IMO. He's thinking outside the box and creating things. He's adding value and he's reshaping the way we look at things. Much like Steve Jobs, Elon is worth his weight in gold and I admire him for not sticking to traditional systems of, well, anything. I don't know much about his personal life, but his work is definitely something that I can say has inspired me to think like him and have the boldness that he has to laugh in the faces of all those men that are trying so…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 05:17 PM
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Never knew that, but it makes perfect sense. It's exactly how things are now. They want us in line, doing what we're told, and not questioning any thing they do. Ever.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 05:12 PM
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Lol. Besides the fact that taking a cold shower helps to wake you up more and give you a sense of alertness in the morning, there are some other health benefits. I don't know how many of the benefits have been scientifically proven, but I've seen the same benefits listed multiple times from different sources, so I think there may be a ring of truth to the majority of them. https://www.menprovement.com/benefits-of-cold-showers/
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 05:11 PM
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Solid, brother. Keep the momentum going!
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 03:53 PM
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12 straight days of cold showers No fap Low to moderate alcohol consumption Successful dread game in LTR worked as expected Learning a new instrument Increasing revenue for my new company
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 03:49 PM
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These situations are known to crush men and some of them don't come back from it and become alcoholics or something like that. Good for you that you were able to maintain a sense of reality and responsibility for your own actions. A lot of guys would start trying to shift blame or become so angry at the woman that they further complicate matters by giving her evidence of you being "unstable" or something of that nature. Keep up the good work.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 03:43 PM
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Sounds like you have a healthy view of it all. I don't think, and I could be wrong, that any self-respecting RP man hates women. I don't. But, what I do hate is the lie that's been told for years, and continues to be told. That's what bothers me and what gets me worked up when I see young men and even older men under the BP trance. Women are going to be women regardless of how many feminists t-shirts are created and sported by delusional women who think they can be men, whilst proclaiming their …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 03:38 PM
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Important stuff. For those guys out there who feel compelled to comply with society's version of a man, please print out OP's post and carry it with you. Please understand that women operate on a different plane than men. Men understand and operate on loyalty, honor, integrity, and we learn through taking risks. We also utilize Machiavellian techniques when needed. Women's operating system is designed to use those very things as their main repertoire of tools to get what they want; value and val…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 03:26 PM
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Good for you, man. My father was around when I was growing up, but he wasn't the best example for me to learn RP truths from. Looking back, I can tell he struggled with RP truths and BP dogma. He wanted to be RP but was afraid of being looked at differently, so he went back and forth between standing in line like a good boy, and being RP and doing shit the way he fucking wanted to do it, regardless of someone's opinion. Eventually he got away from my psycho, BPD mom and started living life on hi…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 02:19 PM
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Public schools (most of them, anyway) are part of the problem with society today. They're not trying to shape young minds into strong, independent people. What they want is for everyone to believe blue pill and feminism are reality, and that anything contrary to those things is shameful, wrong, and low. The school system has been brainwashing young men for decades. Grooming them to become little beta bucks holding women on their shoulders and working 2 and 3 dead-end jobs to keep up with society…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 02:01 PM
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I was involved with a bpd chick when I was younger (and unaware of TRP). So, I can confirm that they WILL try their VERY best to fuck your life up. They're usually a really good fuck, and you'll be hooked on the pussy or "that thing" she does that no other girl can do. But, without proper knowledge/awareness, you'll get caught in their webs and suffer. I was lucky to get away because I didn't let her "in" too much (wouldn't fully commit, was trying to fuck her better-looking girlfriends), I had …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 06:06 PM
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These women don't know what to do with themselves so they throw themselves into the abyss that is Tinder and any other mass dating application/platform. They look to these platforms and apps as a means of entertaining themselves, seeing how much they can get from guys without giving up their wet, warm holes. It's funny that women consider Tinder their world of dating when it's really just a way for them to juggle beta plates and use them at their disposal while waiting for an alpha fuck to take …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 05:58 PM
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Good point. It's like their go-to excuse for trashing someone or some group of people that are actually very accepting, diverse, and open-minded to different things. They're threatened by this because it goes against everything they stand for - uniformity.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 05:54 PM
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Them bringing up race, seemingly out of nowhere, is probably their way of dismantling what's going on here. If they can't do it with focusing on what is said about women here, they will do it through some other medium: racism. They're trying to divide up what is clearly a strong group of men who are self-aware, or at the very least trying to become more self-aware, better human beings, and better men all around. They'd prefer it if we all abided by the bullshit rules and regulations they spew ou…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 05:41 PM
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As soon as I saw CNN I saw bullshit. What the fuck do they know about any of this stuff other than it is opposite of their soft/blue pill agenda? I've never heard of any color discrimination. Where the hell is this coming from?? I have read stories from Arab guys, Indian guys, white, and black. Nobody on here shames or discriminates at all. If anything, we point out things about other enthnicities that we may be able to learn from or understand better.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 04:44 PM
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Stretching ourselves outside of our comfort zones is what makes us grow. We can't learn by staying in a constant loop of self-perpetuated fear and observation of the external and expect to improve. You can't learn how to close with a girl or in the boardroom by only watching - you have to do. You can't gain muscle and tone your abs by watching someone else do it - you have to fucking do it yourself. A lot of people give up after a setback or if the results are not what they expected, and this is…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 03:10 PM
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Very true. I’ve always been naturally guarded/careful with whom I trust completely. It’s almost sad to say, but you really can’t trust anybody completely. Even family will fuck you over and never think twice about it (and I’ve had this done to me by the closest family members to me). All in all, you’ve gotta maintain a healthy amount of self-awareness because people will test you. They will check you and they will take advantage in any way they see fit, so long as it benefits them. How you turn …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 12:55 PM
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It all comes down to experience, and self-awareness. You can be aware of your gut reaction/feeling, but temper your actions with RP principles so you don’t lose your shit out here. New RP guys don’t have the experience so they are more likely to go off the deep end when a woman shit tests them or they get a feeling that she’s straying. More experienced RP’ers know better than to start busting out flowers and candy and extra attention because they feel that somethings going on. The moment you rea…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 11:51 AM
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People will always have a million reasons as to why they haven't done something that they know they should do and need to do, and each reason is tied to themselves, but they've convinced themselves it's something external. This way they can acknowledge the problem, but shift the blame entirely onto some imaginary scenario where they are completely helpless and hopeless. Then, the crazy part is, doing this activates the reward part of your brain when you do something like eat bullshit snack foods…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 01:45 PM
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I'm not a specialist/psychologist or anything, but I can't see the harm in doing it once in a while. In moderation, it's probably okay and shouldn't throw you off balance enough to be affect your mental state. However, with the incredibly easy access to porn that we all have, fapping has probably reached unhealthy levels around the world. I highly doubt that men in the 1800's were fapping as much as your average 17 year old today.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 01:36 PM
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These books are great. I've read The Rational Male and 48 Laws of Power, and I'm ordering No More Mr. Nice Guy soon. The Way of Men is another one that I've been meaning to read.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 01:06 PM
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Her truth is seen by her as THE truth. It's a scary thing if you think of it. Someone can be that deluded that they are literally fabricating things in their mind and then using those creations as truth. It's also made easier by society since it's laced with feministic ideologies to brainwash everyone into seeing women as equal but better no matter what.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 07:33 PM
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Part of the problem is you trying not to sabotage it. That right there is putting the relationship and her, by default, on a pedestal. You don't have to make an announcement that you're implementing RP principles in your life because your actions will say much more than your words. And, yes, she WILL shit test you, multiple times. This means she's interested in your integrity - Can you handle your shit? Can you protect me? Can you handle me?* That's what she'll be saying and fishing for when you…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 07:20 PM
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Never understood why guys keep their hair on the back and sides when they're balding.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 11:51 PM
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Yea and if you didn't pipe her that night, best believe she got piped by someone that night and it wasn't that dude on her cover pic! Why you ask? Because...feels...vagina...her bf didn't text her back fast enough...it was Friday...all of the above.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 07:49 PM
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First off, fuck that dude that was kicking the special needs kid in the stomach. Secondly, and just as important, you dodge a bullet my friend. As you an see, 20 or 29 years old, these chicks are aware of the wall. She was already colliding with it and thought she had herself a nice catch (young man, no kids, and probably a promising future). She fucked that other guy because it wasn't about YOU it was all about HER and her need to validate herself by getting someone to commit to her because she…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 06:47 PM
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The Calm app is great. Sometimes I put the rain screen on and let that shit play for a while. It really helps me focus on what I'm doing.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 06:25 PM
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This week has been great. 5 days of cold showers No alcohol Low carb intake Low junk food intake Maintaining self-regulated positivity Operating on my own terms Needs Improvement: Haven't hit the gym this week due to being busy at work Haven't read much of my book this week I've also been on this subreddit all week taking notes and commenting, just trying to contribute for every time I've gained something from someone else in TRP community. If we're not working on something, we're not doing anyt…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 06:23 PM
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This is comical. The fact that women use cheating/fucking guys as a means to get a reaction just shows that sometimes, just a small portion of the time, women know that their only commodity is pussy. Much like rich men of the world throw money around to get things done/get a reaction out of people - women throw their pussy around to make things happen. If this isn't a manifestation of a hamster being a hamster, but trying to deny it's a hamster...I don't know what is.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 04:59 PM
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That's because they don't want to face the TRUTH. A lot of guys claim they know about women, but they just copy some bullshit version of an alpha douche from a tv show or movie and they think it actually works because they've gotten some laughs and some attention from females. But, these are the same guys who get into LTRs or even have ONS' and they obsess over the girl because she gave it up to him and he lives in scarcity. That is why when they hear real, concrete RP stuff, they push it away. …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 02:09 PM
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I think the more attractive she is, the more she has learned that she can gain twice as more (attention, money, material things) with just her looks (no sex) than a woman that is not as attractive as her. Those stunning Instagram beauties that get 50,000 likes on a picture of their face and torso can get a lot more out of the majority of guys than a female that is not so pretty but has a nice body (or vice versa). If her looks are a 10 or more, she knows she can make eyes, flirt, giggle, and may…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 02:01 PM
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BudLight was Definitely a BP'er. You showed up, created value, added something to the party, and she sensed that and probably got the tingles in her vag. He didn't know what he was doing and she probably ended up giving him a peck on the cheek and he went home alone and jacked it to her in her costume.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 01:44 PM
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I would say that respect for women has to be transient. You can respect them in the moment for something, but, you can't let that spill over into everything. If you start respecting her for everything she will sense it and she will feel that she has the upper hand - and you know how women behave when the feel something. They take it as truth and run like hell with it. If she's doing things for you that you appreciate, let her know, but don't start kissing her ass or letting her tell you how to d…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 01:33 PM
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Exactly. Only hamstering can foster a "reason" for her being spread eagle with a guy she just met. It's never THE truth, it's HER truth.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 01:20 PM
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This happens all over the world and is probably happening right now as I type. Women run off of feels. It's only after they satiate the desire their feels gives them that they start to hamster and rationalize their behavior in order to abscond from feeling bad or looking bad in the eyes of others. It's comical to watch them come up with reasons for why they deliberately opened their legs for another guy whilst in a relationship with another one. It always comes down to how they feel. This is why…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 01:14 PM
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Your status will get you laid. Don't overthink it.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 09:21 PM
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You're assuming I want ice cream now? GOOD LORD WHEN DOES IT END?!?! Lol. This stuff cracks me up. I can't imagine actually being serious about it.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 08:26 PM
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Whoa. She didn't confirm that you were ready to talk? WHAT IS GOING ON IN THE WORLD?!?!?!?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 06:32 PM
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metoo Fucked a girl and she told her friend. Her friend then hit me up and I fucked her shortly after we exchanged some text messages. They proceeded to fight each other for a couple months after that and my phone was going off at all hours of the night because each of them wanted assurance that they would be the chosen one.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 06:31 PM
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I was on a bus once and a girl sat next to me and started rubbing my balls. She asked me "do you like that?" I nodded, but removed her hand as I wasn't sure where it had last been, or what the fuck her problem was seeing as it was the middle of the afternoon and I was just trying to get home after a long day of classes. #metoo
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 06:29 PM
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Please report this to Starbucks. How dare she assume that you were interested in receiving any kind of flirtatious advances from her.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 06:28 PM
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Chads DO bang post-wall women, but there's not enough of those Chads willing to do so. The post-wall women would have to be the upper echelon/in shape, no kids, etc. So, these post-wallers are always holding out, waiting for the Chad they think they deserve and that they can actually get, but it's rare.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 05:15 PM
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There are always a handful of post-wallers who are attractive enough to get laid, but they are far and few between when compared to the vast majority of them who are undesirable or only attract a certain type of guy. I've bagged a couple post-wall women and they are always grateful for the lay, and I get to put another notch under my MILF category. A few of them have tried to get into an LTR but it's never going to happen, at least not with me.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 05:08 PM
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This was a very concise way of explaining the female wall/post wall. I know a few of these leftover women myself. Some of them actually have a boyfriend that they've been with for years, but they still try to flirt/dress sexy to get attention but it doesn't work because nobody wants them. They're used/damaged goods. End of story. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 05:06 PM
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This. People need to step out of the mindset that society has pushed that tells us that we NEED college or we are nothing. Lots of people are successful that either dropped out or never went to college. Fuck it. It's nothing but a business and they only care about you while you're enrolled they are receiving money from you or from your loans. Nobody asks about you when you get your degree(s) and you're struggling to buy food and shit because you're trying to pay those loans off. Fuck college unl…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 05:00 PM
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Absolutely awesome post. Should be put on a poster and handed out to high school guys and college guys and guys that work in a big office building that are probably ready to blow their brains out from their monotonous and woman-controlled life!
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 02:15 PM
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Most of the time, if not all of the time, when you tell a women you're done with her - her tears are not tears falling because of a potentially lost love, they are tears for herself. She is facing reality that she's not all she thought she was and that, as she knew in some small part of her brain, there are other pussies out there for you to have. Unfortunately, many BP men aren't trained in the ways of TRP, they don't see the act, the facade that women put on ALL without doing so on purpose. So…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 08:36 PM
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Awesome. I'll be looking out for the details as I think this is incredibly important and helpful to TRP community.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 06:02 PM
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Just like with anything we have to sift out the bullshit and focus in on what works. Of course something like TRP which has picked up in popularity over the years, is going to attract some trolls and people who are just looking to make a mockery out of it. I don't see an issue with people from TRP community meeting together to discuss information that they find to be useful and important in their lives, and that they believe will help the lives of others as well. This is what men do. Motorcycle …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 03:09 PM
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Guard your knowledge and your reputation with your life. You can help people, but you cannot be receptive to their every beck and call. 48 Laws of Power and The Prince by Machiavelli teach you how to use logic and cunning to your advantage. These teachings, when used correctly, will keep you in a good position for life - or at least give you guidance when you need it in a sticky situation. You can never, ever be 100% transparent with a friend, girlfriend, wife, etc. You may have a best friend, b…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 02:57 PM
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This is the kind of stuff that won't be broadcasted. Folks, we have to really tune into what this guy has written. Women are not held to any kind of standards in society other than the low/meaningless ones they set for themselves and the bullshit expectations that society pushes through media. The female mind has permeated bars, gyms, sports, and the workplace and men have had to battle (those of us who are aware enough to know that a battle is required) to maintain manhood and masculinity in it…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 02:38 PM
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Quite possibly one of the best and most important posts on here (besides sidebar stuff). Men need to realize that TRP is not a magical formula meant to boost your confidence, looks, and understanding of women and society overnight. The change does not occur because of external things, but rather, the internal - the man's understanding and ability to implement what he has read or heard into his own life and stick with it (making necessary changes along the way that suit him personally). RP method…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 02:00 PM
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As long as you're contributing something of substance then I'd be willing to be it's worth reading. I read mostly every response to any post that I read in full, so chances are you're helping SOMEone or inspiring someone.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 08:36 PM
2

A lot of people do overthink their problems. In fact, a lot of people overthink to the point that a small issue is then made into a huge issue which they then have to figure out how to get out of but they can't because they are overthinking every little thing.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 08:21 PM
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Agreed. Crab mentality is huge among men AND women. There are a lot of guys that are jealous and envious of other guys who are doing well in one area or maybe a few areas. Some guys don't know how to handle it when another guy is successful or possesses some trait or ability that they don't. Often, these crab mentality guys will actually try to sabotage you in some way - be it by cockblocking you while chatting a girl up, or by trying to shame you in front of other people so that you are below t…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 08:13 PM
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I think there's a middle ground with this. If a woman is just saying she likes how a guy looks and that he's a candidate for her to possibly fuck, then Agree & Amplify does the job well here. That alone throws most women off because, innately, they are expecting you to get uncomfortable and protect her from the big strong Chad that might take her away from you. If she is flirtatious with another guy, and this could just be a cashier ringing you guys up, then you hold frame and correct her ass im…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 08:03 PM
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That story is fucking heartbreaking, but that's what happens when men get blinded by how she looks and that "happy wife, happy life" bullshit. If you continually put her needs ahead of yours, and sacrifice yourself for her - she will repay you by kissing you after she's sucked a guy or 2 or 7 off and got fucked by all of them. Then, she will hamster her way out of things and make you look like the bad guy. THEN, the courts will decide in her favor, leaving you in a one bedroom apartment with rat…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 06:15 PM
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Very awesome. Especially the divorce, soberness, and Rational Male! That books is a must-have.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 05:49 PM
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Been snacking a lot and need to hit the gym on a regular basis again, but had a really good work week. Also, ran some dread game on my LTR as I felt it was needed and it yielded some sweet results. Sometimes working hard can make you miss some things in your relationships but if you have even an inkling of self-awareness, you can reposition everything back to where it should be.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 05:44 PM
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It is pretty sickening to see women take advantage of these situations. This is how they have learned to survive. Their commodity is their body and that is why they are outraged about everything else because facing the truth about their nature is very, very tough to do.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 05:09 PM
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I have only been involved with one woman from the Middle East in my life. She didn't wear a Hijab or anything, but she was extremely sexy and very pretty. I never thought about any of the things you mentioned, but I guess it makes total sense that there is a game to be played even by women wearing a Hijab and that are part of a very close clique/circle. Kudos to you for recognizing their bullshit and for putting this post together for those guys that are around these women on the regular.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 05:07 PM
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Exactly. This is why she kept throwing shit at him. She was waiting for him to freak out over the thought of losing her pussy or maybe her blow job skills, but when a man holds frame they cave. Usually when they come apologizing, it means you held you frame well and you've got some "I'm sorry I'm an emotional idiot" sex coming your way. She will make up for it by overworking her jaw and riding like a porn star. At least, this has been my experience.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 05:01 PM
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This is interesting to say the least. Doesn't matter where you live, women have cried and complained their way into the courts/legal system and caused a shit storm for us men to deal with all of the bullshit that their feelings and emotions cause. It may sound vague and it may sound cliche' but really, the three most important words you can ever say to another man is Don't. Get. Married. Fourth word - EVER. I'm going to come up with an organization called M.A.R.E. - Marriage Abuse Resistance Edu…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 04:46 PM
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All of her kids are his, but she spent about 5-6 years fucking a dude at her job, doing all kinds of things with him that she would never do at home, all while playing "good wife" with her husband. It was a classic example of alpha fucks beta bucks. Even her friends supported her in her cheating.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 12:21 PM
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| Men have this crazy delusion that marriage motivates her to stay. Like.. how exactly? I think this comes from society's brainwashing scenario where men have to cater their every move to their woman's desire in order for things to be "right". That is why you see these sitcoms showing men as bumbling idiots who just can't get it right, and the "strong" woman who has to whip him into shape and get him doing things the "right" way...AKA her way. Things are never "right" until he does what she want…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 06:24 PM
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Works for me. Maybe the fact that it has a name will prompt men to ponder LTRs like they should ponder marriages in the first place. That way, we're placing a huge buffer between the LTR and actual marriage and most men will balk at the idea of actually marrying a chick because the LTR itself is a complete a total risk exposure for him. These chicks don't just take your money, they take your property, friends, and even turn some family members against you..especially if they all think she's a un…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 05:46 PM
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Well said. I agree with you that it was a dumb move on his part. However, as you pointed out, the courts will never force the woman's hand like they do men's hands to cough up either a large check or several checks over the course of a few years. I overheard a woman in a bar say that she bought a Cadillac for herself as a "divorce present". Another woman then chuckled and said "Hey, I oughta do that for myself!" You see? It's a fucking economic advantage to them because they get prizes and every…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 05:43 PM
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Just didn't type his name...has nothing to do with fear. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 05:38 PM
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Upvote this gold people. UPVOTE. The fickle female mind is responsible for so much turmoil and divisiveness in families.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 05:37 PM
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See? She'll change her mind about him soon, too.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 05:12 PM
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I don't have information on any other celebrity cases like this one, however, I have read countless stories of non-celebrity men who have been in this situation that ended with the woman receiving money from the courts regardless of the details. Even with those details you gave, which of course seemingly justify the court's decision, it's not as if it would make a difference in the outcome. Whether or not he actually did anything for her business-wise is beside the point. If the situation was re…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 05:11 PM
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I would bet money on that, my friend. She, like all women, are prone to changing their minds on a whim because, feelings, and emotions, and womanhood.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 04:35 PM
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LTR is acceptable, but I'm sure someone will come up with another term that is specific to this situation with Shakira. Husbands and wives go into business all the time, and when it dissolves she gets the lion share, if not all of it, leaving him to start over and deal with debt that she helped him accrue but is no longer responsible for because, vagina. Edit: I think every time we see something like this we need to bring it to TRP as a general buffer. To alert men to the fact that they are seri…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 04:04 PM
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Still, the way these hearings go is very clearly lopsided. Even with all of the legal jargon you're using (which is all probably accurate), the outcomes of these court cases where women have their hands out almost always ends up with them getting the money and something extra like a house or access to some other property that they never worked to earn themselves. Overall point was that females get away with this shit, but when the man is the one looking for something similar (for whatever reason…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 04:02 PM
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I like that last line..."if she's well fed and well fucked, she won't need anything else". It's true. Those two things meet base level requirements for the majority of women. They mostly just want to know that they're taken care of, that they have access to things they want and need, and that sexually you are delivering efficiently enough that she does not need to wander astray looking for a quality fuck. Good post OP.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 02:54 PM
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The majority of court cases that involve a woman seeking money from a man because she felt she did X amount of work or that she provided a "loving environment for him" end in her being awarded money.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 02:47 PM
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You’re not the only one to be shook from something like that. Hollywood has pounded the idea into people’s head that each woman is special simply because they have a vagina and breasts. They made us believe the lie that women are innately innocent and that they can do no wrong; that they are naturally chaste and would never do anything like fuck a stranger or suck a dude off when they have a boyfriend or fiancé - yet the most seemingly perfect women have done those very things without batting an…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 11:48 AM
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This is funny...I see this type of stuff on TV shows (mostly older ones) all the time. The girl dresses up and looks really fucking good, and the male makes a comment. Suddenly, the guy who makes a comment and a pass at her is the lowest, dirtiest, filthiest, scumbag on the face of the Earth! Yet, it is her who is half naked wearing Chanel No.5 and no panties. They want the attention, but if you don't have the type of frame they like, they make you out to be the bad guy. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 04:13 PM
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Sometimes we learn the hard way. I was in a position years ago where a girl was clearly toying with me because I was so BP that I chose to ignore the flags and press on. After learning about TRP and absorbing it's principles, I was able to look back and see exactly what I was doing wrong and all of the signals she sent me that told me I wasn't solid enough at the time.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 04:10 PM
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Haha, this brings a smile to my face. This is the general operative mode of women. They like to follow that fairy tale shit from Hollywood that makes them seem like they have angelic status. No drinking, no partying, very chaste and damn near perfect by all counts. Except, that's not who they really are...who they really are is the chick that posted the ad on CG to get fucked. That may have been the first time she did that, but it certainly won't be the last. The poor schmuck who marries that gi…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 04:01 PM
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Very helpful tips here, thanks! I think a lot of people are uncomfortable with silence and that's the reason that small talk is so common. I can't stand small talk, but most people I talk to at work on the phone and people that I see in public (supermarket, bar, etc.) are hell bent on saying SOMEthing, even if it's cliche'/not organic/insincere. It bothers me, but then I remember that not everyone knows how to actually have a conversation. Perhaps this is something that should be taught in schoo…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 03:55 PM
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I just commented on another thread about outcome independence. I think it's a huge part of why so many guys get worked up over a girl not responding or them not being able to get the kind of response they want from a particular girl.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 02:20 PM
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This made me laugh because I've seen this happen so many times. One of my aunts is very controlling and demanding and her husband has become a beta cuck over the years, but he sometimes inadvertently does RP things. This very thing occurred before when he bought food from a particular restaurant and she said she didn't like their food and complained about how he should've asked her before ordering from there. However, upon the food's arrival, she quietly ate the food.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 02:07 PM
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The Rational Male is a classic. I have my copy sitting on display in my room. Thinking of reading it again just because it's good to have that stuff fresh in your mind as often as possible. Can't be caught slipping out here.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 02:04 PM
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I can't say I'm surprised. Women will actually freak the fuck out if a guy doesn't notice them (because a lot of them learn around the time they start developing that their worth is tied to how much attention they get) and they will do the same thing if a guy who's trying to hard DOES notice them and says something. Really, it's all about the attention itself and the fact that, as OP said, they each put their pussies on a pedestal and wait for the admirers to line up and oooh and aahh at them. T…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 01:56 PM
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Classic material. Scarcity is just a very constricting frame of mind and it can be overwritten with time. This is also another angle of outcome independence which teaches us that we shouldn't think and act with one specific outcome in mind. Doing so freezes us in that imagined outcome, rendering us babbling idiots when things don't turn out in that specific way. For instance, you see a girl in Starbucks and she's attractive. Nice body, pretty face, all that. You imagine in your head that you say…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 01:51 PM
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Short and to the point. Well written and well said. This is just another example of how the male and female energies complement each other. A woman wants to receive texts, Facebook and Instagram likes/messages from other females and she comes to know that as the norm. She gossips and talks and gets feedback from her female friends because that's female energy. They have no issue with being needy of each other. Masculine energy is not needy and it is not clingy. It's that solid, rock-like energy …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 03:25 PM
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"she wanted to be fucked in a car on a Friday night in the football parking lot." It's funny, but if you were to ask women if this is what they really want, they'd all say no and that behavior like this is for "tramps" and "sluts" but it's exactly what they fantasize about and talk about to their girlfriends.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 03:18 PM
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Using something that occurs naturally to your advantage - dread game is a pillar of TRP and of life.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 03:10 PM
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Sometimes, even the acknowledgement that the way society has taught men to think and view themselves is not reality and that there is a much better, healthier, and TRUE way of life for men is enough to throw someone into some kind of depression. So, I will agree with another post on here that said that this particular young man may not be ready for TRP. With that said, I definitely think that while he may not be ready for TRP, there is a way to bring him into it gradually, so as not to make his …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 02:58 PM
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This is absolutely sickening and it is very clear, at least to those of us who can see things for what they are, that this is wholly tied to attention like OP said. Attention is what fuels the feminine fire.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 02:46 PM
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These days it's hard to have a real conversation with people because phones and TVs are constantly interrupting the flow. A good conversation can only happen if there is flow. Most talking that happens is small talk (and I personally absolutely despise small talk) because it happens on the fly, and you don't need to really invest a lot of thinking into it. You just mutter a few cliche' things and chuckle and bam - you just talked to someone. If you can reduce the distractions and you're speaking…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 09:18 PM
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This is insanely insightful.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 09:07 PM
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This stuff is always gold. It's a shame that a lot of guys aren't privy to this information early on. It would save a lot of headache, confusion, and even heartache. I've seen friends and family members go through some tough situations because they simply did not understand the way females really work. They were completely oblivious to the covert ways of the female species and they fell victim to the overt display that females put on and unfortunately trick men into believing is their actual fra…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 08:52 PM
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It works. Every single time. Without fail.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 04:01 PM
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