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Thanks for write up mate, well put together and I like how you explain the journey over the years and what you can expect vs not to. What do you think about Eric Helms Upper / Lower Hypertrophy routine? https://www.instagram.com/p/BKCYfw4gjvo/?taken-by=themuscleandstrengthpyramids in comparison to your suggested progression after SL5x5? You seem to imply it, but can you clarify that putting on muscle has been many times slower than cutting? From your story it appears you got to a shredded 195 in…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/16 12:26 PM
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Look up /r/psmf or Lyle McDonald's RFL
/r/askTRP23/06/16 12:49 PM
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For context, what was it about your second LTR that made him more Alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 05:25 AM
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I can relate to this. This might be an initial stage where she is viewing her interactions with others also through the lens of being 'better' in your eyes. Support her with a mix of acknowledging when she is the way you like with others and rewarding it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 07:42 AM
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I think what @stonepimp is asking is more about what TRP truths have you observed. Who do the hottest women pair up with? Etc?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 04:03 PM
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Agree and amplify. 'I'm fuming' - with a smug grin
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 02:21 AM
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I have a similar problem, warm core cold hands and feet. After sex or exercise all normal and warm. How much body fat are you? I've read that being lean and / or doing things that make you lose fat make your core hold warmth as takes it away from your extremities. Example, don't do IF / leangains as while fasted your body tends to burn fat. I'm sub 10% body fat now and the problem is much worse. Back when I was 25-30% I had really warm hands. I've been using hot water bottles without the cover a…
/r/askTRP22/09/14 07:32 AM
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This. I have sex almost every day and still don't feel satisfied. Being alpha, always initiating and succeeding isn't all it's cracked up to be. To have your brains fucked out because you are truly desired by your woman, that is where satisfaction is. Is that even possible in a marriage? Frequently? Consistently? Even MMSL doesn't seem to think so. Alluding to types of sex including meh, maintenance sex etc.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 06:46 AM
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Glad that's working for you. What's an example of the why... Wanting to make you happy?
/r/askTRP30/05/14 07:15 AM
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It is possible to be nice and accept TRP. You are always changing. You can choose how you change. Look back at how you were years ago. Look forward a few years and think about how you want to be, for yourself (like someone else commented).
/r/askTRP30/05/14 01:10 AM
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Fuck agreements. You don't feel like saying it, don't. Tell her you're not going to say it unless you want to. She's playing you, mate. I get the same shit sometimes. I tell her as calm as I can that what she did is disrespectful and I'm disappointed in her. And that I'm not going to respond to her unless the next thing that comes out of her mouth is an apology.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 07:29 AM
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This. Told like it is. Have an upvote.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 06:16 AM
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Subtle dread game :) and preselection. It works. I can vouch for it.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 05:32 AM
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You're going to read almost every post on Red Pill Room :) Get on to the MMSL forums. There's a link to a light version of the MAP (Mindful attraction plan) which is pretty good. Buy the book if you can.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 04:15 AM
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Read Married Man Sex Life and Ian Ironwood's Red Pill Room I agree with KyfoMyoba, if you are the high desire partner, which you will be if you're alpha, you're going to have to initiate most. Having said that, stoking desire in your woman is the way to go about her jumping you. If all other aspects of your day to day relationship are from a foundation of alpha frame, then some teasing, doing your own thing or talking about things passionately, drive by gropes & kisses, breaking the kiss first, …
/r/askTRP23/05/14 03:53 AM
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What does your man do to keep you in line? How does he not tolerate bitchiness?
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/14 05:15 AM
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I'm up for this
/r/askTRP18/02/14 02:15 AM
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Caveman sex?
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 06:18 AM
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How or what did you do to introduce your girl to TRP that made her cry? I am considering doing this myself.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 05:38 AM
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This is interesting.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 08:04 PM
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I did feel jealous at the start. Now it's a mix of curiosity and a turn on.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 08:01 PM
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Answering your questions. *How often is she alone with your children? * Right now it's weekends and the occasional week day. From next week we're going to have her be at home with all the kids, 5 days out of 7. Older two will go to school. *What is her relationship with her ex-husband like? Does her ex pay child support? * Shit. He doesn't particularly want to see the kids, doesn't pay maintenance. *How often does she have her kids with her (what's the custody arrangement)? * Full custody Why di…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 07:59 PM
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You make some good points. I'm going to update my post to add some more relevant info about finances and the ex. But it's important to know that she has agreed to sign a prenup waiving her right to have any claim over my wealth or my kids if we divorce.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 07:53 PM
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The former
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 07:51 PM
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Happiness shouldn't be contingent upon anyone other than yourself. Agree with what you say about trust 100%
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 07:45 PM
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Hmmm. I have two boys. She has a boy and a girl.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 07:43 PM
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Isn't an au pair like having two parental figures anyway? We have discussed the possibility a kid of our own and are not closed to the idea but I was clear that it ain't happening for years if at all.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 07:41 PM
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This. Hits. Home. Especially the bit about any woman less insane being appealing.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 07:39 PM
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You might be right about the honeymoon phase. I've seen her in adversity, she does stress but is pretty capable of sorting shit out on her own, has been doing it for a few years. Money, she's reasonable with it. She's been working part time and managing things. She feels uncomfortable when I offer to pay for things. She has shown jealousy when I've spoken to other girls or they've shown an interest in me. Not crazy batshit jealousy but in the normal range.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 07:37 PM
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I would like both, a mum figure and a partner. I don't think they are mutually exclusive. I wasn't actively looking for single mums but felt that mums would be better suited for my situation. So I did have a preference I suppose. I'm getting some hard hitting advice on here. Gonna have to process it...
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 07:33 PM
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Feel for you. PM me if you want to keep in touch and talk. Just hang in there and do what makes you happy.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 10:19 AM
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Yes. In a nutshell.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 10:18 AM
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This is the most common argument I have with my friends and family. I think a mum knows what being a mum is really like. I found myself ruling out non-mums because I just couldn't see them looking after my kids. I'm not saying a woman like that wouldn't exist but like you said, it's going to be rare.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 09:46 AM
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Thanks.. Your dad's story makes me think. Trial run is underway now. My kids get along really well with her, call her mummy and she treats them like her own. Is very protective of them. It helps that the kids are the same ages and they get along for the most part. Some jealousy and problems sharing which are par for the course and should settle. She also has experience dealing with young traumatized children in a professional capacity and it shows. Appreciate the well wishes.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 09:36 AM
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My parents are quite old. They live overseas and can only visit a few months at a time which I've arranged a couple of times.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 09:29 AM
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The lying does bug me the most :(
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 08:14 AM
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She wouldn't be a mum and love the kids like someone who was committed in a relationship I think. But you do have a point.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 08:10 AM
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It's not clear yet how many ONS but she's indicated that a bunch of them were dating, boyfriends but not serious. Some were straight FWBs
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 08:03 AM
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