bumbumboleji Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Half of the participants were told that the target was single and half read that the target was currently in a relationship. The results showed that only single women were more interested in pursuing an attached target rather than a single target. It’s a moral failure and illegal in many places. I could kill you and the whore you cheat with and get away with it as a crime of passion, because most people who have a brain understand that cheating is wrong. Even cheaters else why hide it. You can’t justify the selfishness, ever. There is not excuse only moral failure.	/r/BlackPillScience	07/08/25 11:34 AM
1	Half of the participants were told that the target was single and half read that the target was currently in a relationship. The results showed that only single women were more interested in pursuing an attached target rather than a single target. Gross, I feel bad for them.	/r/BlackPillScience	29/07/25 12:37 PM
1	Half of the participants were told that the target was single and half read that the target was currently in a relationship. The results showed that only single women were more interested in pursuing an attached target rather than a single target. So is cheating in many places. Huh.	/r/BlackPillScience	29/07/25 12:37 PM
1	Half of the participants were told that the target was single and half read that the target was currently in a relationship. The results showed that only single women were more interested in pursuing an attached target rather than a single target. Girls who have their head on straight never want to share, the kind that will go ballistic and smash your car to pieces might try to play cool but they expect to be the “winner”. This would not end well for anyone.	/r/BlackPillScience	28/07/25 03:21 AM
3	Half of the participants were told that the target was single and half read that the target was currently in a relationship. The results showed that only single women were more interested in pursuing an attached target rather than a single target. Yeah yeah I know about the “vetted man” thing but we are not monkeys I somehow managed to not cross that line with a married man, ever despite married men begging me for sex at times. Despite sometimes being attracted if I get to know someone’s taken it’s a huge no for me, I will never ever break another woman’s heart, and, if that guy REALLY wants me he can leave her FIRST (that he would never do despite 1000 promises) Any taken man that would hit on me is not the kinda man I’d want anyway. No …	/r/BlackPillScience	28/05/25 03:10 PM
7	Half of the participants were told that the target was single and half read that the target was currently in a relationship. The results showed that only single women were more interested in pursuing an attached target rather than a single target. The funny thing about that is it will only attract women with low to no morals. Eww. How’s she gonna be loyal to you?	/r/BlackPillScience	27/05/25 04:38 AM
12	Physical attractiveness influences reproductive success of modern men Wet.	/r/BlackPillScience	27/11/24 11:25 AM
0	The Effect of Wearing Eyeglasses on the Perception of Attractiveness, Confidence, and Intelligence I think glasses can be really attractive so count me out lol.	/r/BlackPillScience	19/11/24 04:59 PM
35	Life teaches women to be givers, be a taker I don’t think it’s polite to use others of any sex to get along. I’d rather get myself along by myself or with a worthy equal partner. While I respect your right to your own opinion, I don’t agree with this at all.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/21 07:41 AM
1	If you hold that women are hypergamous, can you explain in detail what do you mean by that? What exact traits women as a group are seeking to what degree in men that makes them hypergamous? How is what men do is different than that? The clothes and the IG followers would actually be a turn off for me. Shrugs	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 02:45 PM
54	The same energy as "not all men" and "she asked for it" Some Dudes be out here fucking holes in couches smh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 02:45 PM
40	5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit piece The really awesome thing is that SO MANY of us are banding together to educate and uplift each other into more positive happy fulfilling lives with or without a man, and that’s ALWAYS been a thing..and always will be even if they ban FDS, thanks to the Internet we can reach each other to teach each other... no one can stop us from trying our best to be our best and help our sisters, mothers, friends and fellow women to hold heads high and say NO! To being abused and mistreated.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 11:24 AM
952	5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit piece We don’t hate men, in fact we Love them too much even when they mistreat, beat, and abuse us? is it so difficult to see that this sub is just about leaning to make sure we give that love to someone worthy of it? Nothing wrong with wanting to be safe and happy Sisters. *EDIT TO ADD: Have now received a few very nasty messages (reported of course) from people stalking my account to find out where I am and telling me to “be careful because of FDS” um, yes, just proves our point ladies, stay safe. A…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 02:08 AM
42	If you take nothing else from FDS, take this Always, always have some money set aside that’s yours, and yours alone. Even if it’s just an extra $5 every time you do the shopping stuffed into a sock drawer. That “sock drawer” money can mean a world of difference if you ever need to get out or get away. In an ideal world you will never need it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/20 04:44 PM
2	LVM love to say that women hit the wall by the age of thirty, but this is Katy Perry at 36. Spoiler- they won’t, But Some of the more asshole ones will drop off because they know they can’t get away with being a complete dickhead to an older woman who could call him out on his behaviour.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/20 01:17 PM
49	Not "questionable age differences", but a list of pedophiles... Cheating is really never about the person being cheated on, it’s about the person doing the cheating!!! Men’s heads are on springs I swear, “New” seems to mean more to them than anything a lot of the time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/20 11:32 AM
101	Not "questionable age differences", but a list of pedophiles... Notice how the majority of these couples are no longer together? Hmmm almost as though these Scrotes didn’t really care about the person but just fetishised the youth?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/20 09:44 AM
2	CMV: "Monogamy is the way that we can ensure that average Joes get to get married too" I’d just like to point out that being attractive and being loyal are not mutually exclusive, and lots of women get cheated on by some Mr ugly who they “gave a chance” to because his personality was okay. Hot Men can be loyal: Ugly dudes can stray. May as well be with the hot guy then cause Ugmo is not going to be any more loyal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/20 01:54 PM
39	Anyone else notice this? Yes! I’ve gotten through a VERY nasty Ed so for me it’s a huge red flag if I state my boundaries around food and they are not respected! Being able to say “no, I have had enough” and be heard is bliss. Don’t settle for anyone who doesn’t respect YOUR body and YOUR choices. Imagine if you squished a guys arm and said, hmmm, not as muscular as you could be, let’s get you to the gym!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 09:17 AM
251	Anyone else notice this? They sometimes also try to feed us to make us chubby. Or encourage us to look sloppy. (Nothing wrong with being chubby or sloppy) when a man gets you in sweatpants and feeds you pizza, sure it’s nice but you gotta wonder is he doing it so you enjoy yourself, or is part of him doing it so you get down to his level and don’t leave him???	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 04:19 AM
2	Half the thread is them talking about how its not forever, and the other half is talking about how this is bliss until you get neck cramps and your ass goes numb 🙄 Eau de Stale beer with a hint of cig butts and ball sweat	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/20 12:45 PM
102	paultrick over here is full of red flags 🚩🚩 So much of this going on with desperate COVID times, it’s like they are going through the list of contacts...circling back lol. Like “haaaaaayyyy remember we met 46 thousand years ago that one time? My pee pee wants a sucky” EWWWW.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/20 05:17 AM
15	Sounds like a winner Excuse me, what? 🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 09:22 AM
1	Wtf Will Smith... I thought you were one of the good ones To be fair this is heavily edited..who knows what the truth is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/20 08:58 AM
2	Do NOT let a LVM leech ruin your life I totally agree Sis 🙂nice breakdown	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 02:27 PM
127	This Buzzfeed article shows older celebrities now and when they were 30 years old. This makes me happy as I was so afraid for my twenties to end and for the mythical "Wall" to hit - I see these cherub cheeks on lovely women at 30 and feel good about my future. Sometimes I feel like this “wall” is just the age by when many women have learned a bit and won’t put up with LVM bs anymore	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 04:16 PM
3	Problems with fiance making comments and gaslighting Yeah i don’t know what to call it, but it doesn’t sound fun. I would talk to him again about the same subject at a time when you are both relaxed (after work or on weekend/ day off) to see if you can get a little more clarity. I wouldn’t write him off but I would keep a close eye, reading this i didn’t like how he totally didn’t seem to understand or empathise with WHY you don’t like the sleep pattern being brought up and also that you feel the need to modulate your emotions, yes it’s nice to ha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/20 07:38 AM
1	Anyone else getting the "Coronavirus excuse" for cheap first dates? Very good point, I agree 👍🏻	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/20 03:44 AM
28	Anyone else getting the "Coronavirus excuse" for cheap first dates? Yeaaaahhhh now is sooo not the time to be meeting people let alone new ones, he can order food (and maybe a present?!) to be sent to your house and you can have a Skype/zoom date Stay safe ladies, none of us needs the D THAT badly lol Also part of being a HVM IMHO is not just about how he spends on you but how he treats you and respects your boundaries and safety.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/20 05:56 PM
41	Women risk death and permanent damage to our bodies when we birth children for men and this is our reward. Preach sister, always ALWAYS have a stash of your own cash ladies.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 04:47 PM
17	If a man is this stingy, I don’t see the point in staying with him. I would have laughed in his face, omg.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/20 02:35 PM
39	After five years together and no ring, I broke up with him and got myself my own diamond! Gorgeous ring!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/20 12:58 AM
1	A guy picking out flaws and telling you? Please let me know your experiences. It absolutely is just your opinion. It makes me feel sick that people who have already been abused and been through so much would still have to put up with people who have a HUGE stigma about mental health issues, especially considering you work in the field I’d expect more understanding and empathy. Truth be told, it’s your truth and I don’t think you would find many people supportive of such a backward stance.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/20 09:06 AM
1	A guy picking out flaws and telling you? Please let me know your experiences. Omfg what a rude and hurtful thing to say!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/20 09:01 AM
2	El oh el. So true, I found out one guy I was seeing didn’t even scrub his feet in the shower..”because the soapy water runs down there anyway” 😫 so so wrong!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/20 08:41 AM
12	Promiscuity and hooking up is not beneficial, I honestly recommend remaining celibate until finding HVM It’s good to remove dickstractions	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/20 08:27 AM
2	Miss sparrow gotta point A very pleasant surprise and delight is how clean my house is now I’m the only one in it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/20 07:29 AM
6	Husband upset that wife is tired after 65+ hour work week What an absolute pig, that poor woman. Those poor kids.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 09:44 AM
69	Friend found out her boyfriend has been messaging another girl behind her back for 3 weeks Yes we should all look out for each other ladies, it’s the men who lie and say whatever to keep plates spinning, not the “other girls” fault.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 06:27 AM
19	What is the best thing that happened to you after your left your bad relationship? Anxiety and panic waaaaaay less like automatic 90% reduction. Feels good.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/20 06:15 AM
68	Disgusting meme on the frontpage. Most commenters acting like this is the most normal and funniest shit. I'm scared for so many women out there. Stay safe, beware of red flags and learn some self defense techniques, it might sadly prove useful, "consent" or not. Ew, those comments.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/20 08:43 AM
5	My moms bf dumped her. He hadn’t been responding to her, and there was issues going on with his ex wife, so naturally she was concerned. He responded to this by gaslighting her and breaking up over text message. I had a few glasses of wine and couldn’t stop myself. TBH I would have just left it alone. Now he’s got something he can show his lame ass buddies like sEe EveN HeR DauGhtEr iS CrAZy Not that that’s in any way true, and I understand you wanting to look after Mum, but he won’t learn shit from this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/20 05:11 AM
27	Highly intelligent women - are you with, or only date, other highly intelligent men? Stupid enough that he spoiled things with me! Best thing that happened to me in years!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/20 02:42 PM
119	Highly intelligent women - are you with, or only date, other highly intelligent men? It’s not so much about the education but the general level of intelligence should be stimulating to you, my ex was painfully stupid (even he knew it) and while it was okay and I never resented him for his lack of intellect, what I did find myself resenting was having to dumb myself down and being scolded for “acting smart”.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/20 11:47 AM
31	Husband cheats on wife after she spends 10+ years taking care of him and paying off his debts. Stay away from LVM People leaving people to suffer alone when they are unwell is the worst, I wouldn’t even do that to an enemy!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/20 09:05 AM
23	I feel like I was coerced into having sex. I feel like if you took away all the things you thought internally from this post and just looked at your actions from start to finish, based on what you have said you act very immaturely and your actions don’t match your words. This created confusion and grey areas for the other person. In future I would kindly suggest you follow through with what you say, and saying no and acting yes (for anything, not only sex) is confusing AF and waters down the strength of your no in future. All it does is …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/02/20 12:39 PM
3	V-Day Plans Well he texts pretty much immediately whenever I message him, and back and forth a few times a day, normally morning, afternoon and then for longer in the evening. Hasn’t missed a day so far, if for any reason he can’t text back straight away he will let me know ahead of time “hey, I’m at work until five so sorry if I can’t respond” I’m sorry your thing didn’t work out hun, it’s So SO hard to gauge sometimes I know. This guy has passed all my “tests” so far it’s just he hasn’t verbally said more…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/20 09:00 PM
13	V-Day Plans I’m waiting to see what the guy I’ve been seeing does or doesn’t do, he’s asked me if I’m working or not so I’m hopeful something is in the works, and I purchased a gift for him and a have a plan myself, BUT I’m going to wait and see his actions before I reciprocate (or not) and I’m planning to use it as a springboard for a nice relaxed conversation either way. If he doesn’t acknowledge the day then I’m gonna have to have a “what’s up?” Talk and then act from there. (Possible bye bye) If he does…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/20 02:48 PM
59	Changing the mindset to be attracted to HVMs It’s just my opinion but you are focused and generalising too much about outward appearance, But of course you should be attracted to your mate! There are for sure 100% HVM who look the way you like, not all big ‘manly men’ are LVM’s, ya just gotta find yourself a gentle giant. I hope I’m making sense, I’m not saying not to focus on looks, just don’t judge so much on them as I’m omg he’s HOT and forget to vet his personality properly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/20 08:32 AM
4	FDS Therapy Tool: The Johari Window I just want you to know this excited me so much I pulled down my whiteboard, and wrote this down for myself. I love this idea and thank you so much 😊	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/20 10:41 AM
28	How long should / do you wait before texting them back? I would love to hear what everyone has to say about this, as I’m in a somewhat similar position where I’m not sure about how to go about texting/ timeframes having been out out the game for a looooong time. I understand I should leave some messages on read or not reply straight away, but I’m finding it hard not to see this as manipulative I guess.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/20 05:52 AM
23	How to Join /r/DarkTriadWomen If I don’t have a desktop/laptop is there any other way of gaining access? This sounds right up my alley and much needed atm Please kindly let me know	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/20 03:57 AM
10	Love this video and the outcome! Most of us have been in a similar place at some point Hilarious	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/20 04:58 PM
8	Looking for advice on how to proceed Straight up ask him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/19 05:58 AM
44	No Contact Broken: Seething With Rage I’d be seething, and hurt. I wish I could make you a cup of tea and give you a friendly hug. How dare he play stupid games with you like this, such a child! I hope you one day are treated in the way you absolutely deserve to be treated, this wasn’t it babe. I’ve lurked here for ages but your post just did something to me, I’m so upset on your behalf! I don’t think I’d ever ever treat someone like that, the lack of respect is just horrible! And I wonder if this new girl knows he’s been wanting to…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/12/19 06:22 AM
14	Don’t settle in a LTR 💕 Truth!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/19 09:25 AM
22	Advice: Reliable Attachments without a Boyfriend or Husband? Oh sister I’m feeling this post like I’ve never felt something before. I sometimes fantasise about women only communal living where all the single ladies help each other out. Realistic? No, amazing to imagine? Yep. I’ll be keeping an eye here in case someone wonderful has some actual advice, as I’d like to know myself! It’s all good and well being strong independent and brave but god if someone gives me a hug and a cup of tea and wants to listen to me I swear I’ll bust into grateful tears, it’s …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/19 04:20 AM