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Not "questionable age differences", but a list of pedophiles...

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November 5, 2020
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Title Not "questionable age differences", but a list of pedophiles...
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Pretend-Valuable

Upvotes 249
Comments 41
Date November 5, 2020 9:21 AM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/joftx7/not_questionable_age_differences_but_a_list_of/
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[โ€“][deleted] 203 points204 points205 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

What would a 29 year old man and a 17 year old girl even have in common? The 29 year old doesn't date in his own age range, why is that? Oh yes, because 29 year olds are not that easy to mould, abuse without consequences and take advantage of. Disgusting.

[โ€“][deleted] 63 points64 points65 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yea he is just obsessed with her youth and wants to manipulate her. Other women his age don't want to be with him because they can see past his bullshit. So he targets young women because they are naive and unaware of red flags.

[โ€“]wayward_woman187 points 5 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link

Barf. We need to shame men who date teenagers--legal or not. We need to change the culture so that it is social suicide for a man to even express desire in teenagers.

[โ€“][deleted] 5 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

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[โ€“]chateauduchatFDS Newbie 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

EXACTLY. Not long ago I had an 18 year old coworker and a 19 year old (very handsome quarterback/model) ask me out (who look much older than they actually are), and I'm almost a decade older than them (but I don't look like it).

They weren't bothered at all by my real age, but I obviously told them no thank you. There's just too much of an age gap and life experience and even if they seem mature, they're literally still teenagers in their brains. It's not my job to raise boys to become men and be their moms because inevitably that's what will happen. Plus I don't think it's right.

[โ€“]AdawritesrulesFDS Disciple 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly, I get younger men trying to date me left and right. I donโ€™t need that for a self esteem boost like men depend on it for something, in fact the idea of it is so gross- getting self esteem from a child? The idea of saying a boy is gross, but then again Iโ€™m starting to find most men gross too. I am living proof you canโ€™t turn gay just because you want to.

[โ€“]royaldetourFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Spot on!

[โ€“]Pornruinedsociety 84 points85 points86 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I was 19 when I met my first husband and he was 29, I was in a very vulnerable position and he saw an opportunity to take advantage. Men are opportunists. I wised up and literally walked out with our daughter. Massive power imbalance in the beginning but I got stronger and wiser despite him trying to make me weaker and mould me. Didn't work out how he planned.

[โ€“]romantickittyFDS Newbie 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I think an age gap gets (7+ years) gets less significant the older you both are when you start dating. But I fundamentally don't understand how society has normalized men being attracted to children. Heck, under 25, some women are still way too young for these guys to be chasing after them.

[โ€“]wayward_woman19 points 5 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

It's true that an age gap gets less significant the older you get, but large age gaps are still a bad idea. The divorce rate between couples with large age gaps is very high, and it is still very objectifying on the man's behalf to seek out younger women, even if they are over a certain age (e.g. 30+). Let's say there's a couple where the woman is 35 and the man is 50. Chances are the main thing that attracted him to her is her age. Would he date her if she was 50? Probably not.

Besides, what does a woman get out of being with an older man? Women live longer than men, which means she will end up a young widow. He will also get old while she is still relatively young which will affect their sex life and relationship. She will eventually end up being his caregiver. FDS teaches women to seek out relationships that give us maximum benefit. An age gap relationship will always be one sided in the man's favor.

[โ€“]romantickittyFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean, personally 8 years difference is my limit and I'm more comfortable with 5 or less. The advantage of a slight age gap is that you might meet a HVM at a time when he's ready to settle down whereas a guy your exact age is still working on himself.

I think we agree that with a huge age gap and particularly with actual children, it can't be an equal relationship. The man sees her as a prize and is mainly focused on her physical appearance.

[โ€“]bumbumboleji 100 points101 points102 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Notice how the majority of these couples are no longer together? Hmmm almost as though these Scrotes didnโ€™t really care about the person but just fetishised the youth?

[โ€“]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist 61 points62 points63 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yep! Also notice how a 17 year old was still cheated on by the led zeppelin guy? People always put it on the woman (girl!) if the guy cheats - itโ€™s because she got old, or โ€œlost her looksโ€ and if he could just have a teenager he would be happy for life and never look sideways... yea right. I swear those girls are the most likely to get cheated on.

[โ€“]bumbumboleji 48 points49 points50 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Cheating is really never about the person being cheated on, itโ€™s about the person doing the cheating!!! Menโ€™s heads are on springs I swear, โ€œNewโ€ seems to mean more to them than anything a lot of the time.

[โ€“]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly! 100%

[โ€“]FireflySky86FDS Newbie 43 points44 points45 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Disgusting that this has been so normalized. 17 men (one listed twice tho I'm sure there's plenty more) and 1 woman. None of this is cute or romantic; it's pedophilia. And any parents that gave their blessing / permission for this kind of relationship is just as guilty. Gross gross gross ๐Ÿคข๐Ÿคฎ

[–]CB4life17 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Can you imagine giving guardianship of your daughter over to a rock star sex drug addict so he can have sex with her? Unbelievable. That poor child.

[โ€“]Pornruinedsociety 70 points71 points72 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

But, but you can 'mould' them young and make them idolise you, a woman my age would have too much life experience and see straight through the empty shell of a man I am.

[โ€“]purasangriaFDS Disciple 29 points30 points31 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I was married to a man who was 10 years older than I. I left him because he was shitty and abusive, and he started dating the week I moved out and married literally the first woman he met. She was 21years younger and much easier to abuse and manipulate, Iโ€™m sure.

[โ€“]Silverpool2018 56 points57 points58 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Gosh Woody Allen makes me wanna puke.

[โ€“]delawenFDS Newbie 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And his other adoptive daughter has something to say too: https://www.cbsnews.com/news/dylan-farrow-woody-allens-adopted-daughter-speaks-out-on-sexual-assault-allegations/

[โ€“]AdawritesrulesFDS Disciple 27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

My scumbag ex was so unaccomplished yet obsessed with celebrities. I cringe when I think about it now. His fantasy was if he won lotto he would โ€œhave parties on a yacht with a boat full of young womenโ€ and then I discovered him creeping on local kids. So gross. He had no goals, motivation, accomplishment, or self esteem. He fed on my self esteem and lived off of pot, video games, porn, nicotine, and pedophilia.

[โ€“]throwaway23004345FDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

๐Ÿคฎ๐Ÿคฎ๐Ÿคฎ

[โ€“][deleted] 50 points51 points52 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

My own father married my mother when she was 17 and he was 45. Yup divorced 10 years later.

[โ€“]DrildoBagurrenFDS Apprentice 27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have a friend who had to move into a women's shelter with her kids because she married a man 40 years older than her when she was 20. He beat and verbally abused her - she's so kind and beautiful - he pretty much married her straight away and she's from a country which really prioritises submissiveness and young women getting married asap - he controlled all the money and it was so hard for her to leave him especially with the kids. Young, alone and in a foreign country.. what a sick old man.

[โ€“]chateauduchatFDS Newbie 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Age gap relationships NEVER work. NEVER. Please take it from me. I dated a narcissist who was nearly 20 years older than me. A man who has that sort of experience over you knows all the ways of pulling you in. At first they make you feel special, they make you feel mature, they show you a world that's unlike most men your age have. They'll say things "I'm a child at heart" and "men take much longer to mature". It's fucking bullshit. They know exactly what they're doing. You don't exist that long on earth and know how to not treat your partner like shit. When it serves them, you're "mature to have a relationship with them" and have sex with them, but you do something that they don't like even though it's entirely understandable that "you're immature". Ok then why are you dating me again? Oh yeah, because you're a fucking groomer and a pedophile.

I was verbally and emotionally abused and his abuse escalated to violence (punching my tv, throwing a brick through my window, threats, etc.). He also when he was 16 got a 14 year old pregnant and she had an abortion, but years later she had a daughter by someone else who reached out to him and this daughter confessed she had sexual feelings for him (WHEN SHE WAS 13) and he continued talking to her because the mom wanted a father figure present in her life even though her biological father was not present. He also was obsessed with daddy/daughter roleplay with me and other fucked up fantasies that have to do with impregnation. Now that I've been long out of that and slowly processing how depraved this type of behavior is and I have felt so ashamed and sickened and disgusted by how I was roped in to this trauma bond. I wish I never met him. Therapy and self-help has done wonders though.

All men who go after much younger women are ALL PREDATORS. NO WOMAN my age (in my 20s) is equipped with the kind of experience and knowledge that a man twice her age has, and to go against someone who is a narcissist is a whole other demon.

[โ€“]OrangeyPanda 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Here's another:

Celine Dion was 12 when she met her husband (now deceased) he was 38 at the time. Although they waited to publicly date until she was legal age she was definitely groomed.

[โ€“]MyDarlingGirlFDS Newbie 47 points48 points49 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow did not know that about Dakota Johnson's parents. Moved in with him at 15?? Sheesh. I don't even remember being 15 since it was 10 years ago but I definitely know I was not close to being emotionally ready for a relationship let alone cohabitation with some 22 year old.

[โ€“]ALISHAISHERE123FDS Newbie 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jerry Seinfeld got with a 17 yr old at 49. How come Chris Delia got crucified over texts with young girls while Jerry is worshipped?

Edit: just saw he's the first person on the list. His now wife is also 18 yrs younger than him.

[โ€“]SaitschikFDS Disciple 34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men and their (sexual) obsession with children is the creepiest, nastiest thing in the world.

[โ€“]deviloooFDS Newbie 35 points36 points37 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This!! This is what some people need to see, I just scrolled through a post earlier today about some 19yr old girl apparently kissing a 14 year old boy, news then claimed she didn't know his age and was sorry. Sure that was a messed up thing to do, I don't condone her actions and all that.

But all the comments in that thread were "now reverse the genders"... and all I could think of is we don't need to pretend reverse the genders, there are so many celebrity couples out there where the guy is above 20yrs old and dating...DATING 14-15 year old girls, getting them pregnant, marrying them. And you know what? There's barely any backlash anywhere, barely any outrage in the media.

The genders are reversed, so what's their point?!! It's fucked up either way but they don't see it when it's a guy dating an underage girl, they just wanna complain about genders for the sake of it.

[โ€“]entpgirl415FDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I hate when thats a persons first comment too! "now reverse the genders". Like nobody is saying that men dont go through shit... if thats their first comment on such an awful topic (to make it still about them). Like that point is SO irrelevant. Right now we are talking about this topic, and its gross. If that topic ever comes up we will all gladly talk about it too, without ruining it by saying "now imagine if that happened to a woman".

[โ€“]sikedykeFDS Newbie 18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The Jerry Lee Lewis one is absolutely awful. I feel sick.

[โ€“]SashamorningmidnightFDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh gawd, i had no idea David Bowie would be on such a list. One by one all my chuldhood heros go onto the pedo list.

[โ€“]Mella_20 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I can't believe that Woody Allen hasn't been cancelled or arrested to this day.

[โ€“]juliettejuliette 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I was so disappointed with David Bowie :(

[โ€“][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is child grooming, not age gap relationships. Some of these cases have parents that basically sell their kids to these men. It should be completely illegal no matter what the parent says. Itโ€™s disgusting and makes me sick. There should be no legal loophole for pedophilia and child abuse.

[โ€“][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

The Woody Allen one really gets me

[โ€“]Magnolia_Mirage 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm glad of the comments regarding this post. Everyone sayings, it's pedos. Call it for what it is.

Shows who can get away with things huh?

[โ€“]EntireTadpoleFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hey, they left out Paul Walker.

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