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Yeah I know. I'm not willing to fuck my shit up down the line for more muscle right now though. Natty 4 life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:29 PM
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Regardless of how I look my strategy would be the same. I would only date men who were in my league. Not trying to date up would give me more power to select for behavioral traits that are important to me. If he doesn't put lots of effort into the first few dates I cut him off. Wait until commitment before having sex. Ez
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:22 PM
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Yeah it's a shame. I've been going to the gym for years and see so many guys go straight on the juice without even lifting for a year natty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:57 PM
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36% of men on tinder admit to using them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:36 PM
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The difference is that when guys follow these guides they get no results. There isn't a lack of effort, it's just that they are doing something which doesn't provide results. Men aren't out here paying for dating coaches just to sit around and do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:19 AM
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There are a lot of guides, but not ones that work. Otherwise it wouldn't be such a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:57 PM
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"For most men, most women will not even come to the table to play." You completely skipped over the part where most men fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:47 PM
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The problem isn't being socially inept, it's that they never get the opportunity to show who they are. If ugly guys had this opportunity and still fucked it up, then maybe it could be a social problem. But you are attributing their failure to a variable that isn't part of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:47 PM
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Other than shaving legs and pits, guys do this too. It's just that what makes a man attractive can't be changed as easily as what makes women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:41 PM
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Ugly men are trying to commit to ugly women. They just aren't seen as options to those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:29 PM
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Who knows. They don't tend to swipe right on guys who state they are looking for a relationship, so I figure it's probably a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:21 PM
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but the difference is they are still seen as valuable if they don’t meet them and people just generally think less about men’s looks. Hahaha I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:29 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:57 AM
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Yes, plenty of men have and are willing to look over those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:37 AM
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Witches aren't real. But I'd be fine with dating a girl who believed in that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:09 AM
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What I'm getting at is that those things won't come up if she's high n, because the fact that she's high n already makes her undatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:08 AM
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what
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:52 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:52 AM
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No sexual contact with another person. This really isn't hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:24 AM
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What's more important than n count to you? I can't think of anything myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:23 AM
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You think they weren't on roids. It's not like guys go around telling everyone they're on juice. I'd be surprised if most of those guys weren't on steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:25 AM
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With top genetics maybe, that's way more muscle than the average natty can put on. Its more likely that he's juicing though. Plenty of guys on steroids don't even look half as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:36 AM
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I wasn't talking about you specifically, but it seems like most people have no idea what is natural muscle and what is from roids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:19 AM
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women on here are always saying "i dONt LiKE tHe rOIdeD uP lOoK" but are into this guy lol. Dude's juicing on the juice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:02 AM
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Well she should be grateful her father picked her a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:59 AM
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You can't change a person's biological drive to reproduce. Telling bottom tier men to just suck it up only makes the problem worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:25 PM
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I'd say rp iss closest to what I am, but I'm not fully rp
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:00 PM
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It's so hard to find someone looking for FIRE :( I only know one other person irl who lives below their means.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:39 PM
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That RP example sounds so perfect. Dream relationship right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:35 PM
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This perfectly explains why unattractive young men can't get relationships. Women give them no opportunity to show who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:59 AM
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Why are some women more visual than others? Do you think it has to do with my own aesthetic shortcomings? Most women are like this. It's biology telling you to mate with men who have good genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:49 AM
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It works for attractive men, not for average or below average men. Maybe some exceptions if you have lots of money or fame you can use. You can try, but without something exceptional like being hot or wealthy women won't get to know you. And of course, if you can't show your personality, why would she choose you over all the better looking options?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:39 AM
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Yeah. I wish it was a vote for which mod to remove if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:35 AM
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Men's standards are non existent, other than the handful of good looking guys who can have their pick. Post a pic of a guy you are attracted to. Also, since you clearly don't know what it's like for ugly men, they don't get the opportunity to show any of their personality. Women don't interact with ugly guys unless forced to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:23 AM
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It's different for ever generation and location. You never see ugly young men dating around where I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:01 AM
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Sure, men want to date up. The difference is that men realize it's unrealistic and so we settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:47 AM
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I don't think women see ugly men at all tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:32 PM
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Also, OP, the bar for men is already beneath Hades. It's crap to now place the onus of shitty male behavior on women Riiighhhttt, having a bunch of specific genetic features is a really low bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:30 PM
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tried, doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:51 PM
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Yeah I'd rather an average girl. But above looks I'd want someone with a personality that goes well with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:37 AM
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I am
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:00 AM
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It depends on what they are after. If they want to lock down one of the best looking men that most women are competing for, then yes, they need to look good. But if they are fine with a guy in their own league then why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:33 AM
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Maybe if you are one of those women who considers an 8/10 as average sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:08 AM
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That's bullshit and you know it. How are these unattractive men dating when they can't even get a conversation ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:38 PM
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So close Plenty of women date men they're not attracted to. This doesn't happen in any meaningful amount But you cannot know if they're good for you unless you know and interact with them several times. This is exactly why the dating market is fucked for so many young men, because they never have the opportunity to show women who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:33 PM
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I wouldn't start a ltr with someone who wasn't a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:27 PM
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Literally just be friendly towards men who are in your league
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 04:34 AM
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I expect to see lots of women saying they have nobody competing for them, when in reality they have orbiters but don't see them as options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:10 AM
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Attractive men are the only ones who don't have to date down. You see the correlation, but are missing why the correlation exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:01 AM
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What do you think is more likely, the possibility that you choose bad men, or that all men are bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:34 PM
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If she's not a virgin she belongs to the streets bro
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:10 AM
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Men aren't the ones being hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 08:47 PM
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Maybe they should get with guys in their league
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:20 PM
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Low value men by a long shot. Low value women at least get female privilege, men are basically forced to sink or swim.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:17 PM
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Unfortunately if you are the type who dating apps don't work for, irl dating doesn't really work either. Since it doesn't take much time to swipe everyday I think it's a good idea for guys to do it. The odds of finding someone are slim, but better than irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:51 PM
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In my experience they care less about men's career than other women but more about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:06 AM
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What people find attractive is heavily influenced by the media they consume.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:03 AM
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All women can, they just aren't willing to date people in their own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:28 PM
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3, most young men can't reach the requirements no matter what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:27 PM
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Extremely skinny, bad teeth hair falling out. Basically the meth head look. Oh and she has to be somewhat near my age
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:23 PM
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Sharp/pointy facial features. Unmasculine facial features ???? Sharp facial features are masculine, how could you want someone to have neither masculine facial features nor unmasculine facial features? I'm convinced that women have no idea what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:18 PM
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36% of men on tinder admit to using them...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:13 PM
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And men are jealous that women can date regardless of how their face looks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:06 PM
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Outside of the very best colleges it doesn't mean shit. Most professors aren't allowed to fail bad students anymore. And there's more people graduating with honors than those who don't these days. Bachelor's degrees have been lowered to the point where any average Joe can get them if they show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:48 PM
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I hope so, they are the only ones that could try to fix this mess. Realistically though, the government has never and will never care about men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:35 PM
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Men's standards are only so low because women's standards are so high. To fix the dating market, we need both for women to lower their standards to a realistic level and for men to raise their standards to someone they can actually be happy with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:04 PM
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If that's true then good for you, but 99.99% of women aren't going out of their way to meet guys they aren't attracted to. There's a reason most men complain that women won't even talk to ugly men, we aren't making it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:19 PM
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I don't really see it happening but it does seem more likely than women ever lowering their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:17 AM
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"my boyfriend looks like this 8/10 guy" Are you even trying to have a good argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 07:57 PM
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Yeah I know what you mean. I tried dating women I met on discord before. They didn't know what I looked like because it was online. We had great conversations and got along perfectly, but she blocked me after seeing what I look like. It is what it is. Dating as a guy is basically all about getting lucky and finding a unicorn who isn't shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 07:40 PM
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No woman goes out of her way to get to know a guy who they aren't attracted to. Unattractive guys can't even find women who are willing to talk to them. Being interesting and having good personality traits only matter if you are good enough looking to have women get to know you, which disqualifies 80% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 07:20 PM
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If I was gay it would solve most of my problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 05:33 AM
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Do a video where you have an ugly guy approach if you want to see why in person is not an option for many guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 03:35 AM
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Nope, it would definitely ruin our relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:23 AM
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All of the data from online dating sites disagrees with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 01:40 PM
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So maybe.... women just like different traits and not just one type of guy. then they wouldn't go after the same few guys
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:12 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:05 AM
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If effort was all it took most men would have no problem finding relationships. It's super easy to find a guy who will put in the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 11:48 PM
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Guys who want hookups want women to be as easy as possible. Guys who want relationships want non promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 12:43 PM
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