Daily Community Chat Megathread

alberto-hoff · 2021-06-29T23:06:11+00:00

First time I've actually been down about covid since the first time it started. Hmmph.

Slipthe · 2021-06-29T22:50:37+00:00

Just watched a video of an obese lady who has decided to lose weight for her own health. She read her medical documents and found out her doctor documented that she had a fatty liver for years and never mentioned it to her.

Kind of crazy how PC doctors have become where they feel like it's a waste of breath to tell a fat person they have fat on their organs and that's bad.

_lemazaki · 2021-06-29T22:36:59+00:00

hy·per·ga·my

/hīˈpərɡəmē/

noun

the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background.

why people say that hypergamy is about looks?

YoMamaz_azz · 2021-06-29T22:24:08+00:00

The importance of cultivating abundance mindset and to have actual abundance:

To be in a position where you can afford to walk away from suboptimally favorable deals and still be fufilled is to be in a position of great power. To have such abundance of good options that you can choose to only engage in deals which greatly benefit yourself and still be fufilled puts you in a position to continue to negotiate from strength. When you can negotiate from strength, you are far more able to leverage a most favorable outcome from those you can bring to the negotiating table.

This logic also extends to women. Very many men in the SMP are negotiating from a place of great weakness. You have many men that are willing to sacrifice everything for the chance at a woman, and you have very many women who can demand nearly anything they want from a large portion of men because of the leverage they have. This shows very clearly where the power balance currently lies.

Women have a natural inherent advantage in the SMP due to on average being sought after far more than men stemming from the fact that as a group men want sex far more than women do. This puts women more in the position to negotiate from strength as what they bring to the table is more valuable.

Now that we know the reality of where the power balance naturally lies, how do we counteract it?:

We have one major saving grace.

People make mistakes.

People do not always act rationally or optimally play their hand, and there are those who do not even know the game is being played. Being that you are at a inherent disadvantage, you need to do everything you can to push the odds in your favor to create an unnatural advantage for yourself.

You need to capitalize on your adversary's mistakes, and do everything you can to cause them to blunder.

How do you accomplish this?

First, continually improve yourself so you have more to bargain with. The more you are able to raise your value to women, the more women who will be willing to come to your table and sit down to play the game.

There is a minimum buy-in, and that is set by the woman. You have to meet their minimum threshold for composite attractiveness, which is some individual calculus by her weighing pros and cons, and finding the cost/benefit analysis and risk to be favorable enough to engage in this game, and deciding that she would potentially have sex and/or a relationship you, if you played your cards right.

Your are your own wager, and she is hers.

You both have expectations, parameters and wants you are looking to have fufilled, and often times those wants are adversarial. A woman wanting a long term relationship and to be catered to is going to be in conflict with a man who just wants a plate.

Now the game begins. As a man of skill, you employ your refined game tactics to get your desired outcome, and perhaps if she is skilled she employs hers as well (most women are skilled in the art of machiavellianism, on average I believe much more than men).

Now, you win some you lose some. For most men, most women will not even come to the table to play. Most men will lose most games, as the woman's leverage and or skill is too much to overcome. But, if you have done all you can to refine your skills as much as possible, to meet the minimum threshold for as many women as possible, and play as many games as possible, you should start to accumulate wins.

This is how you get the snowball rolling. The more wins you acquire, the more suited you are to continue to win due to gained experience, and the more leverage you have with abundance.

Abundance begets abundance due to preselection and women's hypergamous tendencies. Abundance allows you to walk away from any deal which would be suboptimally favorable, and allows you to have more leverage with an implicit or even explicit threat of leaving the negotiating table. A good analogous situation to this is the person who is negotiating with a car salesman, who cannot come to their desired outcome, so they start to walk out the door and the salesman says "Wait a minute, come back..".

Being able to do this as a calculated risk, when successful, will give a greater picture of the true power dynamic, and put you in a better position to have your terms met. It also makes you look more high value, to be able to reject a woman, it may make her believe you have many options, and thus are more valuable. Potentially to the point where she may throw sex at you as a hail mary if the power differential is great enough.

A man who is attractive enough (meaning able to acquire by whole value, including game, status, wealth etc, not just looks) and has the ability get beautiful women whenever he so chooses in itself is attractive, and that is the ultimate goal, but the snowball is rolling long before you get to that point.

Your initial goal is to put yourself in the position to have maximal leverage at every step. This is by increasing your game and SMV (a plethora of more specific material about this already on trp)as well as your abundance.

You should strive to have a rotating soft harem.

You start with games with individual women, you continue to do this until you have several women on rotation. Then you start upgrading them. You drop the ones that become too much of a hastle or could be hotter, and replace them with more favorable options. It starts off very hard, but the more momentum you have, the easier it becomes to acquire more, and the more you can have your demands met until you reach a limiting factor that bottlenecks you, which is going to be different for every man. Some guys are destined to plate Victoria secret models, some men will never lose their virginity. This is just about increasing your odds of success as much as possible. You very well may shoot for the moon and miss but end up landing somewhere among the stars.

thatguyfromrichmond · 2021-06-29T22:05:16+00:00

I really don't see the use any either gender chasing a person that they are "settling" for. I think how much someone is into you has nothing to do with how attractive they are. Like the fact she's a 4/10 doesn't change how she will feel about you, maybe she will "settle" for you, but is that the kind of relationship you want? So basically don't chase people who you aren't 100% into, especially im saying this to my fellow men. (Of course casual sex is different).

SerpentCypher · 2021-06-29T21:47:45+00:00

Also, it's coming home lads!

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-06-29T21:40:02+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/oaa9l0/z/h3hjabi

Pls laugh at my amazing joke

PickleLine · 2021-06-29T21:39:12+00:00

Is this a weekly thread now?

SerpentCypher · 2021-06-29T21:07:46+00:00

Why do people have such an issue with others describing themselves as nice?

I bet almost everybody here thinks of themself as a nice or 'good" person, whether they vocalize it or not. It's weird seeing some of the interactions on here.

PPD poster- "I think I'm a pretty nice guy, I don't know why people think i'm not."

"Ummm, us nice people don't refer to ourselves as nice, besides, I've seen some of the things you post about women on here. You're definitely not nice." -Person who has said equally heinous shit about men on PPD

MisterFlipside · 2021-06-29T21:05:37+00:00

I think the only reason why hypergamy got associated with women is because the effect is so much more pronounced with them; sure, men want the best mate available too, but they dont have nearly as many demands or dealbreakers.

Making it seem like an equal thing is kind of bad faith.

catchtowards12345 · 2021-06-29T20:32:54+00:00

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jax006 · 2021-06-29T20:05:39+00:00

My ex got extremely salty and it was the most classic BP woman hissy fit ever.

Just remember everyone, women have no agency regarding entering and exiting relationships, it is all the mans fault!

Historical-Agency334 · 2021-06-29T20:00:41+00:00

debate me it is significantly easier to get into the top 1 percent of income than it is to get into the top 10 percent of looks.

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-06-29T19:54:35+00:00

For those of you I’m not friends with on social media, this tweet cracked me up:

While I nodded, nearly napping, suddenly there came a tapping,

As of some one gently trotting, trotting ‘cross my chamber floor …

“Thou has eaten,” I muttered, “I shan’t feed you an more.”

Quoth the kitten: “feed me more.”

iiiinfinityyyy · 2021-06-29T19:51:07+00:00

watch this

They were doing things like this a 100 years ago, imagine what they're up to now? 👁️

Book of Revelations 2:9

A_N_I_M_A_L_ · 2021-06-29T19:29:19+00:00

What the fuck do the female regulars on here get out of posting here. I genuinely cannot get what benefit women get from analyzing these kinds of discussions when they seem to largely revolve around how modern dating heavily favors women, and fucks men.

I feel like if you're in a position where you hold a solid portion of the cards, what the fuck motivates you to research and discuss this kind of stuff? It'd be like me reading about and debating how to escape extreme poverty except I'm born into a first world wealthy area and none of this is relevant to me. Like no joke, I genuinely don't get what would get women into these topics.

All of the women I know IRL don't put a single critical thought into dating because why would they? The experiences they want and relationships they want come to them with minimal direct effort.

CantBonkThis · 2021-06-29T18:53:14+00:00

The only two things that matter (NSFW)

throwaway213091345 · 2021-06-29T18:16:45+00:00

Re: Miss Nevada being won by a trans woman.

Pageants are the female version of a male bodybuilding contest. Misses should represent the pinnacle of femininity (sexy, pretty, graceful, sweet, etc). I was in a pageant, and you actually do learn a lot. May be controversial, but I don’t think a misses should be trans as I think being trans is, in itself, not a feminine trait. There are miss trans pageants for this separate reason.

blue_dandelions · 2021-06-29T18:02:42+00:00

Ppl who tell others online they are gd ppl are usually not, CMV

Special-Armadillo-99 · 2021-06-29T17:53:10+00:00

Women, why is dating purely for sexual attraction "real" or true and dating for literally any other reason somehow bad?

Trying to figure out why you think your tingles are sacred

SonicBackScratcher · 2021-06-29T17:53:00+00:00

I'm still amused that people think Victoria's Secrets problem was they were "too sexy" and aimed at men. No you nubbins, they were being out competed by the internet like every other store is. When you ask women online for where to get sexy stuff NO one says VS they say things like Yandi or any dozens of others.

I put lingerie as a search and VS doesn't even show up on the first page on google or duck duck go.

VS is dying because malls are dying. Was JC penny's too sexy? Is that why Lord and Taylor are failing?

Putting ugly ass women on posters is just a dumb idea hoping for a viral kick to a dying brand.

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-06-29T17:28:40+00:00

Tfw you look like a bad person but are genuinely nice and other people treat you like a bad person without knowing you.

Slipthe · 2021-06-29T17:14:51+00:00

As an update, creepy pizza boss guy still sent me another email this weekend.

This time it's titled "Please Contact Me" and he's asking for my files as well as additional help designing for him.

It's pretty innocuous, but I can tell he's just using it as a means to an end. Plus! I had those files on a shared drive for him for 8 months! And I just delete them two weeks ago to make room on my drive and NOW he needs them?

throwingwearethrowin · 2021-06-29T16:47:44+00:00

Is coerced sex considered rape?

MisterFlipside · 2021-06-29T16:19:37+00:00

'In all relationships, there is the lover and the loved.'

How true do you find this? Which one are/were you?

Siukslinis_acc · 2021-06-29T15:23:21+00:00

I like looking at this bird. The tail goes boing boing.

Throughawayman80808 · 2021-06-29T14:54:45+00:00

There still isn't much difference between a faux manipulative "Nice Guy" and a genuine nice guy, the only real distinction comes from after they're rejected, one will lash out in anger, and one will slink away into the shadows with his tail between his legs. But ultimately they suffer the same fate. The authentic nice guy has a minor advantage in that he doesn't risk gaining a bad reputation but I don't doubt that many real nice guys get accused, or assumed to be faux "Nice Guys", so any advantage is negligible.

Point is, don't ever be execptionally nice. Whether you're doing it as a scheme or doing it as a result of your morals or upbringing, either way it's not going to end well for you.

Slipthe · 2021-06-29T14:41:38+00:00

How do you guys feel about debating incels here?

Cybercunt2069 · 2021-06-29T14:13:23+00:00

Men are literally better at being women than women lmao

noletterstoday · 2021-06-29T13:26:44+00:00

What kind of sociological study related to dating/sex would you conduct if you had unlimited resources?

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-06-29T12:56:30+00:00

There’s a lot of women who think they’re in “relationship”, like they tell their friends/family that they have a man, but are just girl number 4 on some dudes roster.

There are also a lot of women who know they’re on some dudes roster and are totally ok with it. I made a thread on sidechicks based off this topic months ago. Like they play their position because they would rather share him than have a lesser dude to themselves. It’s like cars there are people who would rather share a 2021 Bugatti with 2 other people that they get twice a week to than have a 2006 Honda Accord exclusively for themselves

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-06-29T12:55:51+00:00

I drove by the Wendy’s near my parents house where I got my first part time job and I saw a sign in the window saying hiring no experience starting 15 dollars an hour lol. I worked there for 8 in 2005 during the summer and I remember shift supervisors were barely getting 15.

CantBonkThis · 2021-06-29T12:51:08+00:00

If you ever needed a proof that fatcel is volcel (Well he's 5'4" so he's still an incel but you get the point)

avolcando · 2021-06-29T12:30:38+00:00

Where are you on a scale of "that guy" to "not that guy"?

Artistic_Guest4386 · 2021-06-29T12:25:32+00:00

Female biological attraction filters for and rewards psychopathic behaviour.

The VAST majority of female human beings are PHYSICALLY AROUSED, sometimes even exclusively, by behaviour associated or in line with psychopaths.

Total coldness. Pure strength.

Let that sink in, and reflect on what that says about female andnour species as a whole...

iiiinfinityyyy · 2021-06-29T12:10:54+00:00

This is officially a u/gimpgirl555 stan account

Zetsuclone · 2021-06-29T12:09:35+00:00

1 out of every 20 women in USA (aged 18 to 30) has opened an onlyfan account

ChromaticVengeance · 2021-06-29T10:13:22+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/tynock/

Would you say he is a "Chad" ?

☑️

❎

passepar2t · 2021-06-29T09:42:26+00:00

That feel when a girl super likes you and your opening line makes her unmatch you.

I am not a witty guy, I don't know how to do the zippy quippy openers that get 20,000 upvotes on /r/tinder.

ChromaticVengeance · 2021-06-29T08:59:46+00:00

One of my toddler students naturally has a Norwood 3 hairline.

Raven-Ray · 2021-06-29T06:34:49+00:00

Okay but what is pink pill I keep seeing everywhere and can’t get a clear answer as to what the pill is???

owta_this_world · 2021-06-29T06:34:15+00:00

"You will own nothing and you will be happy."

Have redpillers on realising the slow movement to neo-feudalism where the masses will own nothing and live in servitude to the elites to eat + sleep also applies to dating + relationships? Do they predict that the masses of men will have no woman and will just rent a woman (prostitution, OnlyFans, maybe Rent a Girlfriend like in Japan) while the elite men have polygamous marriages with many women?

Feudalism and polygamy were very common in the past.

kbct · 2021-06-29T05:32:47+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/o9v54n/what_do_women_gain_from_being_married_in_this_day/

So this post says, 'its proven that marriage shortens a woman's life', without providing anything to back that up. So it their claim really true? I haven't been able to find anything.

I think it's really annoying when people say 'studies show' or 'there's proof', without providing a source at all.

blue_dandelions · 2021-06-29T05:00:03+00:00

Back to n count hysteria I see.

Can the non westerners here just accept our SMP is vastly removed from theirs & such opinions hold no water in a western dating market.

Historical-Agency334 · 2021-06-29T04:54:09+00:00

there should be a maroonpilldebate sub where it's about black vs. red pill, that's what the interesting content is.

CantBonkThis · 2021-06-29T04:36:08+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZEnxmzqXJN8

Raven-Ray · 2021-06-29T04:26:43+00:00

Some of y’all a bit too obsessed with virginity.

But seriously why ? It is religious/spiritual? Or is it control? And if you aren’t a virgin yourself why are you obsessed if your interest isn’t ????

PickleLine · 2021-06-29T03:11:59+00:00

Women, a man who doesn't care about your N-count is a man who doesn't care about you and who doesn't see a future with you. If he's looking for a relationship and seriously considering you, he would care about your N-count.

MisterFlipside · 2021-06-29T00:51:53+00:00

Does anyone ever just pop off on someone's post for no real reason, and then cant delete it because you'd look even dumber if you did?

poppy_blu · 2021-06-28T23:37:24+00:00

Brittney Spears’ man

Hot or not?

Edit: the picture I meant to post https://images.app.goo.gl/WG39YRc5rLUxt6ENA

Sad_Top1743 · 2021-06-28T23:04:33+00:00

re-posted the virgin/height/ income shaming thread on my post below... it was entertaining

GridReXX · 2021-06-28T22:19:00+00:00

I'm sure there are words women came up with or expressly adopted that singularly denigrate “men” but I honestly can’t think of any.

Closest is FDS sub regularly using “scrote” and “males.” But that’s literally them sardonically reacting to men calling women “whores/hos/sluts/bitches/harpy/c*nt” and “femalesssss.”

The one I'm thinking of is "creep." But "creep" seems universally used by men and women and boys and girls alike for a person or situation that makes their spidey senses tingle.

"Virgin" seems to be one. But I remember every boy and girl being called that teasingly in middle and high school. I think boys may have felt more embarrassed by it, but girls were teased for it too.

Same with "loser."

I honestly think men like pedantically classifying things.

I see the same thing IRL when something bad happens at the hands of adult men and women will say "some men are legit animals." And the guys will reply, "no those aren't men those are boys." I think that distinction means a lot to men, but it means nothing to women. Some men do "good," some do "bad." They are not "boys" when they are "bad." They are unsavory men. In the same way, some women do "good," and some do "bad." They are not "girls" when they are "bad." They are unsavory women.

Men apply this same logic to women I think. They have this compulsion to "label" everything.

She's not a non-virginal woman. She's a slut.

She's not a sex worker. She's a whore.

She's not a rude woman. She's a bitch.

She's not an annoying woman. She's a harpy.

She's not an insufferable woman. She's a c*nt.

So many words! Very, very creative.

ThuleBoy · 2021-06-28T21:53:42+00:00

FUCK FRANCE HAHAHAHA

GridReXX · 2021-06-28T21:49:06+00:00

I know it's pretty meta to share a Twitter thread of a Reddit post, but alas my friends are more on Twitter and this is the recent prompt they're dissecting in the group chat today:

AITA for inviting my (29M) Girlfriend (28F) on an expensive vacation and expecting her to pay all of her share? (I make a lot more than her)

Hello. My girlfriend, myself, my parents, and my brother and his wife all went on vacation in another country a week ago. My brother and I were the ones who did most of the planning of the itinerary although we did ask everyone else for input.

So it's his idea more than it is his gf's. This is important.

For background, I make around $150,000k as an IT consultant, my girlfriend is a teacher making $45,000k. My parents are pretty affluent as well as my brother and sister in law.

Also important. I went on a very fancy vacation out of the country with my SO. I also suggested the place we stay at which happens to be not a place my SO would have suggested because it is out of their normal budget. I also make more. Knowing all of this we did not "split the trip" evenly. It just doesn't make sense.

My girlfriend knew this trip was coming up and took on a second job waitressing on the weekends for several months to get ready for it. We have always split things 50/50 in the 2 years we have been together.

Again... when one person makes outrageously more and wants to live that expensive lifestyle unless they're okay with their partner never coming, it can't be a 50/50 split.

There were a few times on the vacation when she did not go on outings with us- wine tasting/scuba diving/etc. She also would only eat 2 meals a day, simply stating that she was on a budget. My family does favor more high-end (*expensive*) places. My parents thought it was very strange that she only eats 2 meals a day although normally she eats 3.

record scratch

he is in fact okay with her missing out

At this point, I can't even believe this is real. This has to be fake right? He can't be this out of touch?

When we got home I asked her why she skipped out on several of the outings and only ate 2 meals a day- I mentioned how I heard her stomach growling one night and said I was concerned about her having an eating disorder. She got teary eyed and said that 3 meals a day wasn't fiscally feasible for her and neither were the outings that she chose not to go on (she went on 3 of 6 outings). She said she was not expecting everything to cost so much and she was overwhelmed.

She also said she doesn't know if this is going to work long term if she is expected to go on vacations like that with people who make so much more than her. I feel bad that I did not pick up on her discomfort sooner. But we did agree to split everything 50/50 and I don't know why she agreed to come if the cost was an issue.

Is this a larp or an idiot? It's like he thinks "equality in finances," which quite frankly isn't equality holistically, equals being an inconsiderate human.

Zetsuclone · 2021-06-28T21:48:23+00:00

I lost 60% of what I won this week. Thank you Jrue holiday and Killian mbappe I will never forget

I just needed Jrue to get his usual 20 points and Mbappe to play like an human being fuckk.

QuenchlessGato · 2021-06-28T21:47:41+00:00

FRANCE GOT REKT

evanstown21 · 2021-06-28T21:35:38+00:00

The only way to know for sure that you’re hot is to start making more and more ridiculous requests and watch people scramble to accommodate you. People only tolerate bad behavior from hot people. CMV

cruciod · 2021-06-28T21:27:19+00:00

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Luciansleep · 2021-06-28T21:26:01+00:00

So after my time in college I figured out I’ll become an officer in the military to help pay for my masters degree. So far everything is looking good right now.

death_by_1000_cats · 2021-06-28T21:12:52+00:00

Why is everyone so mad about it being a daily thread now? Jesus Christ I've never seen so much whining over something so stupid

wekacuck · 2021-06-28T21:02:29+00:00

Daily Community Chat Megathread

This weekly thread ...

😖

boomcheese44 · 2021-06-28T20:54:14+00:00

Mostly everyone that settles down

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMd5gPoeV/

2021-06-28T20:51:58+00:00

These euros have been incredible. Both games today just woww

Squiddy-the-wise · 2021-06-28T20:43:19+00:00

At what stage should a man just shave and go bald?

Sad_Top1743 · 2021-06-28T20:34:07+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/NotHowGirlsWork/comments/o5wjpk/just\_so\_you\_know\_you\_can\_only\_prefer\_tall\_men\_if/h2ufs6m?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3

Damn...these girls went in on this poor guy lol

Virgin, height, size and money shaming. It's all here folks, grab some popcorn

mudeating · 2021-06-28T20:29:47+00:00

Don’t slack today's workout and don't cheat your diet, you fat piece of pig, you disgusting slob.

Dulce__Criatura · 2021-06-28T20:26:12+00:00

Has or had anyone here a Pixel phone? I was considering getting a Pixel 4a bcs I am tired of fucking big screens but I haven't had a google phone in the past.

Zetsuclone · 2021-06-28T20:24:18+00:00

VIVE LA FRANCE I ALMOST $6000

POGBA OMG

EDIT:BROOO

milkyymochii · 2021-06-28T20:23:50+00:00

I wonder if Elder Scrolls 6 is going to be good. I’m tired of replaying Skyrim tbh.

passepar2t · 2021-06-28T20:19:12+00:00

My (happily married) buddy from a while ago is in town and invited me out for a drink. I show up, he's there with a cute girl he knows from some random thing.

The three of us shoot the shit and have fun for a few hours. Then he says he's got dinner with another friend but we should stick around if we feel like it and takes off, leaving me alone with her to enjoy a beautifully romantic summer evening together after he's talked me up and laughed at my jokes. I'm probably going to hang out with her later on.

Wingman status: legendary.

Kalvaire · 2021-06-28T20:16:06+00:00

I don’t know who needs to see this but you are loved

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-06-28T20:01:39+00:00

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passepar2t · 2021-06-28T20:00:43+00:00

Paenus

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Try_Reasonable · 2021-06-29T17:41:41+00:00

Men that are not naturally desired by women have to rely on manipulative and coercive tactics just to bed women, even just "average/below" looking women. Because women, more often than not, flock/throw themselves on to men that are extremely attractive or attractive. Everything comes so easily to them, they have no need to lie or rely on dumb tactics to attract or sleep with women.

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