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Their point is that you're arguing "they didn't know that they didn't know"... you're jumping around trying to disagree with a point you're actually entirely agreeing with. You're actually proving my point. You can lead a horse to water...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:35 PM
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this isnt up for debate . OP asked me for my experience with it, and you disagree that this was my experience? the gall.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:24 AM
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Yes it has worked for me. It resulted in ONS, FWB, and ltr. It's satisfying, yes. It's eye opening. Most women really don't know what they want. And what they say they want is a lie. It's always a shit-test with(most) women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:27 AM
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do women view men as desperate for approaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 10:21 PM
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tbh "not wanting to fuck" is effectively congruent. you're not meeting his main argument's point, in fact you're agreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:24 PM
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Not everybody that you find attractive is going to find you attractive, no matter how good you look. And not everyone you find attractive is going to vibe with you. I might find a woman super attractive, and she might think I'm attractive, but if we get to the talking stage and i find out she's awful? mood and attraction ruined. Escorts can help with that. no need to "get to know" them, just bang it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:22 PM
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you need help bruh, the "who you are" is the only part that's relevant, which you don't address
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:09 PM
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Unfettered access to a cell phone is not just checking for cheating. It's checking for conversations for advice about the relationship. It's checking for embarrassing googles. It's checking for silly pictures they don't feel like showing anyone. You know this. You just can't help but to make awful arguments because you're too stubborn to admit you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:55 PM
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If men get a paternity test, they don't care about women's feelings? You're weaponizing love, you absolute psychotic bellend. GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:45 PM
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Checking for infidelity is one thing. Just spying for spying-sake is creepy and controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:21 PM
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It would be comparable if it was just a search into cheating/abusing, but this isn't. Going into a phone has many unrelated private matters. A DNA test only checks one thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:54 PM
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That's one hell of an assumption. You can't think of any other reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:00 PM
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You can trust someone and still be wrong about them. What is your problem? You consistently avoid and dismiss all reasonings of why you're a fool if you blindly trust someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:57 PM
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it, also, shouldn't be a problem if she found out about the DNA test, by accident. It shouldn't need to be hidden. Just like an escape bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:42 PM
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I almost expect sex with a man so sexless relationship would be a deal-breaker. WTF does this mean. You don't expect sex? But you want sex? wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:22 PM
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An attractive woman makes any clothing sexy. Yes. If an obese woman asks me what she could do to make herself sexy, I'm not going to tell her "buy lingerie". The same way when a man asks what he can do to be sexy I won't say, "do dishes"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:24 PM
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Then what women should do is say this isn't a "sexy thing". It's a thing that makes you feel warm/good on the inside. Very different. And very manipulative to tell other men it's attractive. Otherwise "nice guys" would finish first. This would be like a man telling women they find yoga attractive. It's only true only if they're attractive already.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:29 PM
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my god... I'm upvoting u/Windmill_flowers ... what's happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:19 PM
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If you keep thinking about him in-between, it might be worth revisiting. You must be new. If your definition of "having fun" includes having sex, I haven't had my fun yet I didn't say it's what you meant, I'm saying it's easy to construe it as such, especially if you never told him your thought process. It might be nice for him to hear the reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:42 AM
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I disagree with this view on chemistry. The chemistry that exists in romance novels, that grant the ability to read minds, doesn't exist. Girls like to tease guys. A LOT. With complete sincerity, the fact that these guys aren't confident enough to know you like them, shows they aren't "players", in a good way. They aren't the type to experiment with feelings. I truly believe you had good taste in men but threw it away, due to bad advice about mind-reading chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:12 AM
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A more cynical view would say you just wanted to "have fun" with others first, putting him on the back burner. Your intentions, admittedly naive, were nice, at least... Have you ever told him? What's stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:02 AM
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It shouldn't be a surprise that men don't know who/what women like, women are rarely open about what they like. If women want more attractive men, they should be more open and honest about what they like, stop this BS about "I'm so shy" stfu you're the reason there's few hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:51 PM
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This doesn't seem like a natural gender role thing lmao. It sounds like your ideal is just a girl, the penis doesn't even factor in until sex. Isn't a strap-on workable? Do they need to act manly in other ways? I'm sure they have a café like this in Japan, it's be crazy if they didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:08 PM
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For clarity, you want a female face, female body with a penis? Or a masculine face, feminine body, with a penis? Genuinely curious, this is interesting. Do you have a IRL femboy pic you could show?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:41 PM
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I mean, should you tell men what women want them to look like, if you're not the target demographic? IE passing lesbian. I mean, you could, just add the disclaimer... To be transparent
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:31 PM
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Isn't this literally the thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:28 PM
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I absolutely believe that IRL manpixdream girls are pretty crazy, but in movies it's not really shown. The trope isn't about the crazy part. IMO the crazy girl aspect just comes with the territory of being attractive, see hot/crazy scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:34 PM
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99% of the time, we just put up with the craziness. We don't seek it out. See hot/crazy matrix. Manic pixie dream girl isn't typically crazy, just a bit head in the clouds, daydreaming type. Though I don't watch too many movies, so I don't really know the trope well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:53 AM
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I'm going to need to know your Operating Thetan Level before continuing this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:21 PM
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Scientology is scientific and logical because it has science and -logy in the name. Therefore it's illogical for you to not be a scientologist. It is a logic and a science.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:14 PM
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You really got me there. i had never thought of it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:07 PM
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might catch flak for this but seeing through a logical lens and believing in god are somewhat going to conflict. faith and logic are somewhat discordant, although I do see it as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:32 PM
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It seems like you just throw out buzzwords hoping one will stick. Nothing about wanting to be physically attractive is insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:12 AM
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Or we're working with different definitions, one being "reduced to an object, incapable of holding other values" which I believe, is so extreme it's not realistic to discuss. The other is "to be liked especially for your looks", which is a far more practical definition. I also think it's the only one worth discussing. If you believe fetishizing of the first kind occurs consistently, we have nothing to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:01 AM
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Everytime a women proclaims they're no longer a human if a man thinks they're physically attractive You, u/windmill_flowers did this when you declared you're no longer seen as a person, if you're fetishized. If I'm fetishized, I'd be stoked, and I'd still think I was a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:42 AM
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It's only recently some women have tried to pull any card to feel like the biggest victim. Fetishizing is just another way to twist a natural feeling into something awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:39 AM
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Absolutely nothing sad about it. What's sad is women conditioning themselves to hate, and be miserable about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:34 AM
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Its been co opted. No reasonable man wants a bimbo trophy wife. Those are crazy status seeking narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:17 PM
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Term is misleading. It doesn't mean the wife is attractive. It means she's useless for anything other than existing. Like a trophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:00 PM
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Didn't bother me when my ex wasn't attractive to other men. Unfortunately, this led to her being insecure, and ultimately cheating. We had sex often, I always told her she was pretty, etc. it was never enough for her bottomless void of security.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:57 PM
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It's called hyperbole
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:15 PM
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Men can now carry and birth babies? as though this matters in relationships? does who CAN birth babies have meaning in relationships that are supposed to be 50/50? sexism when it benefits, i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:37 PM
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holy crap. You think the ABILITY to have children, not even having them, makes women deserve more in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:18 PM
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women are required to have children if they're in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:13 PM
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Ad hominems? Not a good look on you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:19 PM
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unrelated, but you come across as the equivalent of a self-assured neckbeard with this BS Turn this around…you’ve almost got it. How about…drum roll please… stop relying on this snarky attitude, i have no doubt you do this irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:12 PM
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Incorrect, it's all about how the approaching and rejection is handled. Imagine if you will, this girl hitting on you, like so: https://www.tiktok.com/@con10thub/video/7300544064334613765 bruh a rejection would be more on the rejecter than the rejectee. case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:58 PM
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Feeling worse about themselves is different from being intimidated. If they leave because of that, I would say it's similar to a woman leaving because "he's too good for her". As in, it's breaking up without saying the real reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:16 PM
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men straight up feel intimidated by women with careers not that they will ever admit it This logic leaves no room for argument but if you would care to listen, every "intimidating career woman" I've dated have been rude and argumentative. Their career was their life and it wasn't something i wanted to talk about when we're alone. Maybe there are SOME men that are intimidated, but most men I know just don't like traits that tend to come with these career-oriented women. Women with careers tend to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:05 PM
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Bruh you're so incoherent. Have you graduated grade school?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:25 AM
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Do women like seeing tight shirts on guys that aren't buff, an average(no workout) build? If this is the case it changes a lot to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:16 PM
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tbf there is no refuting the argument, "I reject your reality and substitute my own" it was an invalid and childish point to begin with. which is what u/AreOut was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:01 PM
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On the other side of the fence, I think men are teased and prodded with attractive make-up, decolletage, skirts, and booty shorts way more. ofc men are going to get carnal and lewd more. men can't even get groceries without seeing this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:53 PM
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Yes, different places think and act differently. yes you're a big brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:54 PM
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You mean cultures are different, in different places? what a worthwhile comment. next you will tell me different problems exist in different areas. truly a forward thinking mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:51 PM
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apparently they're Satan incarnate. Saying "apparently" has the implication that it's undeserved, If you're new to English.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:52 AM
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Then why did you comment like girls that did this didn't deserve the ostracization?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:48 AM
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I don't discriminate, that guy is a shithead. Everyone that acts like this is an immature knob.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:46 AM
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Seriously bro, you have no ability to imagine. A blackhead-riddled face? yellow teeth? some people grow up without a good teacher, they need to be told this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:22 PM
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if a woman rejects me because I have hair like Anton Chigurh, its her fault, not mine. if i like to dress like a geriatric clown, its her fault. are you incapable of seeing nuance? theres situations in which his advice is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:22 PM
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Sexist af. Yes, biology is my fault. My bad let me change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:15 PM
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If I pay the WHOLE BILL, the woman isn't interested because she didn't pay. If I let you pay HALF THE BILL, the man isn't interested because he didn't pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:11 PM
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bruh where did i say i dated women that aren't comfortable splitting? I'm purporting what women in twoX and other social media sites say. Don't downplay the thoughts of these women by saying they're dumb. they're just following norms, which I'm saying should be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:03 PM
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This kind of "interpretation" can be had the reverse way as well. If a woman isn't comfortable splitting the bill then she was just there for the food, she wasn't interested in the date. It's a self-fulfilling belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:56 PM
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Not getting upset when bills are asked to be split is a great start. just need this to be normalized. most times when women are "fine" with splitting the bill, they won't want a second date.(they secretly aren't fine with splitting the bill).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:15 PM
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The same way many women assume a creepy guy is an SA'er. There are signs. I don't know what to tell you beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:35 PM
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What a Trump-like argument. "they don't live like me, how sad!" It makes no sense in the first place, because there's nothing sad about being a protector and provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:45 PM
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This says 16%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:12 PM
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I have rarely seen children grow up to despise their parents for this, and if they do, it isn't for very long before they go, "Oh no, I get it. Mom just loved me and the world was a more frightful place than I could imagine". Your personal experience is the only one that will continue to happen, i suppose. if you haven't experienced it, it won't happen. You have an extreme us vs them mentality. You have misinterpreted everything I said. I wish no luck being you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:43 PM
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IMO, it's mostly they'd rather be the pool boy and get something, than be someone who gets neither attraction or respect. I think most women relate to the Pool Boy feeling of not getting respect. Of course, I think most men and women want attraction and respect. When you can't get either, you'll take whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:14 PM
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The person who won't hire women or blacks isn't protecting anyone. False accusations from women happen, they do hurt. I don't hold them to it, but you hold men to your conniptions. The mom who won't let her daughter go over to a quasi random dad's house is protecting her daughter. Maybe some would say over protecting, but her intentions are not about dominance. If/when your children grow up and despise you for it, they may go full-tilt in the opposite direction. You're likely inadvertently hurti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:27 PM
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He had and has the opportunity to have biological children to raise. I wouldn't tell him to give up on that because of a hideously beastly monstrous witch. no he doesn't. he's not immortal. he doesn't have time to be young for his child's youth. It's obvious you've given this "thought" the smallest of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:36 AM
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I would hate for a scumbag like that to be free to raise terrible children. I would love it if the victim of paternity fraud were to have the final say; whether she raises her kids or she goes to jail and he gets to raise them. I am petty enough to raise her kids(and treat them well) while she rots in jail. I would find comfort in having those children with me and her in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:15 AM
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"Chads" actual turn me off then they aren't chads. even you're talking about meme-chads, those are obviously exaggerated archetypes, not meant in sincerity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:34 PM
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Get better prostitutes. Or, get better looking so prostitutes are somewhat attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:38 AM
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This is so painfully surface level. Men try and get rejected so many times, they become numb. If, once in a blue moon, a woman strikes out, no shit it's gonna hurt; it's likely her first time. When we test this, we find that this isn’t true Who the fuck are you to say something so ludicrous like it's fact? Even if there were a study performed, there is no objective way to measure emotional pain. It's going to be a subjective study, highly dubious in any capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:34 AM
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I disagree. Just because in theory doctors have options doesn't mean they have the time. I can imagine OP sister just having been in the right place, right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:25 AM
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Why did you post this as "change my view"? You're not giving a second thought to reasonable counterpoints. You just ask if anyone agrees or disagrees, yes or no. You're being an ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:50 AM
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... Are you autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:47 AM
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If they're (RP) telling you your expectations are delusional, I will agree with them. Honestly you sound insane. This is an unbelievable level of delusion imo. The only situation I could imagine where you're not, is if you're under 20 years old and just not fully grown.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:40 AM
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Are you a robot? Do you not understand the points being made? You will NEVER find someone perfect. You're advocating for an abstract concept, that only exists in the head. If you're looking for Mr perfect, stop looking, because you're only wasting other people's time. The answer is disagree. Get out. You're toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:51 PM
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Get out of here. It serves no benefit to a romantic interest. If you want to try it, go ahead. If you really need to vent, have a close friend or therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:32 PM
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being vulnerable is a trap. don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:06 PM
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true enough... although obesity is such an overcome-able hurdle, it's like, a curb-height hurdle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:04 PM
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I think you mean incorrigible. not trying to be a pedant but this one took me a bit to decipher.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:25 PM
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Where do you live? Chicken breasts are 4 dollars a pound where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:51 PM
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I can agree with that. The problem comes when you two end up disagreeing on the necessities. for clothes, thrift store should be fine. If you cook everyday, food shouldn't cost more than $7 a day. that's how much i spend as an adult. beans, lentils, chicken, salt. I know it's tight, but theoretically, 20% of his paycheck and 20% of your paycheck would amount to something livable for your child. depending on where you live, if you earned more money, it would make him need to pay more, as child su…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:23 PM
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It's child support, not child-is-a-free-meal-ticket. Cost of living is disproportionately high right now, I'm sorry about that. Now is a strenuous time for having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:50 PM
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I find deep exception to this. The virgins you know are almost certainly unattractive. Almost every virgin girl I knew was very strange. For the same physical attractiveness, a man would prefer the same woman with a lower count, ten times out of ten, if they weren't trying to virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:30 AM
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"not always" the most worthless kind of comment. You're not adding to the conversation. We're talking in generalities here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:30 PM
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Really, dude? Im not an expert, but i imagine it has to be done this way because she was avoiding it. Meaning of she was an adult about this it wouldn't have been public.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/22 04:55 PM
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As i said, only accept the 20%. Meaning, women with high libidos Absolutely nowhere in this graph did it say ANYTHING about high libidos. You pulled that out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:57 AM
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it depends on the state. but what you should acknowledge is that it's generally a dick move to take kids away. taking loved ones away does indeed cause anguish, whether it's against the law or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:42 AM
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We do. that's called parental kidnapping. https://talkingparents.com/blog/december-2019/parental-kidnapping
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:45 AM
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Where in the graph does it say "we only interviewed women with high libidos?" you think 80% of women wanting sex at the beginning of the relationship is high? son, that's normal. I don't want to be rude, but it speaks more of your sexiness that you think it's disproportionately high.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:19 AM
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it depends on who's answering. it doesn't specify, so whoever's answering it can interpret it as however they want. however, you can apply the same logic with the women too. it doesn't specify for them, either. so you can infer on that alone, women lose their appetite for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:20 AM
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it says, right there on the graph. "I want to have sex often". that's it. it's not complex. that's the question being asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:58 PM
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bruh. You need to learn how to read graphs. or you somehow managed to pull up a completely different graph. this graph is "duration of relationship vs horniness" for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:54 PM
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Now imagine someone taking your kids from you. you lose them. it hurts you. you would want to hurt the person who took your kids, right? Now replace the kids with their mother, supposing you were capable of love of someone who isn't blood related, and she's the one who takes your love of her and abuses it. it hurts like hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:31 PM
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lmao, are you saying you wouldn't love your own children enough to take a bullet for them? and you think I'm the one with issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:04 PM
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if you can't imagine loving someone enough to hurt yourself over them Dude, read better. and thanks for proving that you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:47 PM
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lol, yes. however, if you scrutinized the context, your implication was there's not enough dead men for it to be an issue worth considering.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:39 PM
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Show me the dead males then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:12 PM
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Information is power. Misinformation is equally powerful. If there was a significant gap between 13 and 14 year old molestation, of course I would agree with you. But I'm going to go out on a limb and say there isn't. ​ But lets go on with your point. let's say we took this information and applied it to one school alone. I'm going to guess that MAYBE if there is a difference between 13 and 14 year old molestation, the age isn't the cause, but it would be helpful to determine "hey, they're gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:57 PM
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Imagine a graph of "People who've drunk water" vs "people who've died" there is no editorialization. it's just false implications. You can very easily have misleading information, without any editorialization. Seeing a statistic like "Men deaths via women" vs "Women deaths via men" in a relationship is pointlessly gendered. The graph could be read in any which way the observer's bias already leans. A better graph wouldn't include genders, as that is obviously not the primary factor. A good graph…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:55 PM
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Oh, you sweet summer child. information is very often misused. https://www.fastcompany.com/1822354/7-ways-lie-statistics-and-get-away-it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:35 PM
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I stand by what I said and I'll clarify my meaning: Your sexism doesn't matter. Scales of which gender has suffered more are meaningless. It's like saying which age group gets molested more, 13 year olds or 14 year olds. they're both bad. the people who molest are the bad people. it doesn't matter what genders they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:33 PM
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I am the question asker. I asked because it matters to me. Also, holy shit, the narcissism is just off the charts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:21 PM
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The point is your generalizations demonize men. and now you just made a comparison, unwittingly, of men to asbestos. you really don't understand how sexist you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:11 PM
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it would make the issue of women killing men less important than the issue of men killing women, since it is a prevalent problem in our society. It's like you try to miss the point. Okay, this time try not to be the center of the universe: All deaths matter. It's not women vs men. it's Abusers vs the Abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:59 PM
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You completely missed the point. Incredible. Simply beautiful 💕 I am arguing the scale these things happen at are different. The scales don't matter. If men were killed more often than women, that would not make the women's deaths less important. So why are you doing it to men's deaths?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:36 PM
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Have you never had emotional distress strong enough to make suicide a lingering possibility in your mind? The emotional damage lasts. It absolutely destroys. While emotional distress is not as quantifiable as something physical, I would say I'd rather get my leg broken than lose a loved one in that way. I'm willing to bet you're narcissistic, if you can't imagine loving someone enough to hurt yourself over them. You may want to look into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:28 PM
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Show me the dead males then. Lmao at the flippancy. At the misdirection. The absolute selfishness. Are you seriously arguing that if there are more women who have died, the men wouldn't matter? Flip those genders and see how fucked up you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:10 PM
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No. You don't get it. Lmao. Almost anybody can look good with make-up. Heck, I could look like a pop star with the right makeup. What men are trying to get at, by having women stop wearing make-up, is a more even playing field. Right now, women who lost the genetic lottery can weigh favorably thanks to makeup. Women who are natural 5's end up thinking they're 8's. Effectively, women who have no idea how to take care of themselves(acne, overweight, little exercise) end up being passable to date. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:42 PM
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you have some issues. now you're assuming i'm a sex offender for not agreeing with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:53 PM
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Don't put them on the same level. People who have your overreaction is why the harassment movement isn't taken as seriously as it should be. It's simply virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:29 PM
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The issue is when people hear someone has been sexually assaulted, they're not sure if it's something to have an uproar over or a stern talking to. that is misleading homie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 08:21 PM
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No, we don't. If I told you I was sexually assaulted last night, you wouldn't know if I should report it to the police or not. Sexual assault is ambiguous and practically intentionally misleading. This is from RAINN: What is sexual assault? The term sexual assault refers to sexual contact or behavior that occurs without explicit consent of the victim. Some forms of sexual assault include: Attempted rape Fondling or unwanted sexual touching Forcing a victim to perform sexual acts, such as oral se…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 06:30 PM
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Where did i dismiss women's enjoyment of sex? I only stated a fact regarding hormones for older women, which also applies to men. which is hormones don't have as strong of an effect as people age. Don't get pissy with me dude. it's not an attack on you, or anyone else for that matter. why are you taking this so personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 07:55 PM
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you know, it's interesting how you make personal attacks at people when they make a point you don't agree with. "you have weak stroke game" if you don't agree. "give it time", implying I haven't thought about it. nothing of substance to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 07:48 PM
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what do you think I meant by having sex more? you think women want to have sex more when they're older? Everyone's hormone receptors become less responsive as we get older. at best, they just become more open about their already present desires. if you think anything else, you're more than a bit looney. https://www.ourbodiesourselves.org/book-excerpts/health-article/hormones-affecting-sexual-desire/#:~:text=When%20it%20comes%20to%20sexual,proportions%20differ%20between%20the%20sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 07:41 PM
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Enjoy GETTING sex more, sure i can agree with that. Having sex is equal or lesser. That's just hormones. Please don't try to shame anyone who disagrees with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:55 PM
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Jim Jefferies has a bit that addresses the sentiment. Not that I'm saying you should slutshame. Pretty much just echoes what you've said. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X_CULy_-5FI
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 06:08 AM
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I’m curious how you don’t see four as conflicting with all your other criteria. Is it so crazy to you that a man is willing to be with someone less attractive, just to ensure there will be no cheating/jumping ship to the next bloke? Many men have had their hearts broke so badly by this that they refuse to play that hypergamous game anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 04:24 PM
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You're the one who keeps talking about other men in reference to your expectations for your relationship. I can imagine when you were told the story of the tortoise and the hare, you kept asking the storyteller, "but why didn't the hare just not sleep?", "yes, dear, if the hare didn't sleep there wouldn't be a story, would there?". The story isn't about the sleeping hare, dear, and it's not about the ex being liked more... yes, yes, they were involved in the story, but it's an allegory, where al…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:56 PM
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I think what many guys believe is that Though the girls are pretty, they were prettier before the alteration They don't like the alteration when it doesn't appear natural, with negative attractiveness as surgery becomes more ridiculous. The poses in their pictures are provocative. Most natural beauty IG models don't show nearly as much skin. It's practically porn. Kind of like seeing a train wreck, it's interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 02:02 AM
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You're clinging on to a facet of the argument that i've long dropped because the analogy threw you for such a loop. forget about the last person for god's sake. If you had proof that your partner only loved you 50%, you'd drop that partner, because you know that as soon as she found someone who she could love 60%, she'd drop you. that's what's going on here. it has nothing to do with an ex. If you don't understand this blatant, undeniable reason to leave a partner, you have got to either be a tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 07:26 PM
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Your reply is particularly frustrating to me, because I can tell you think you've made some amazing point when you haven't. You've fallen into a circular logic of your own providing. It's not about loving me as much as her ex, as it is about proving she could love the next person more...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 05:45 AM
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I have no idea what you're talking about. this "trp" excerpt is not in context, and i don't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 10:53 PM
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No, I'm afraid you don't "get it". You can't empathize with the fear of being cuckolded because women can't be cuckolded. They will always know if a child is theirs. The thing most women in this thread don't understand about being sexually desired is that it's the best gauge of determining whether a woman would seek sexual gratification elsewhere. They cannot possibly understand the the fear only being used for your financial resources, while raising another man's child. It's a huge fear, and up…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 10:50 PM
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Her attraction matters. not him. jfc I know you don't want to get this, but jesus christ. why not? does it strike a nerve with your perception of the world? are you using these mental gymnastics in your current relationship? get rid of your personal biases on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 10:22 PM
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based is internet lingo for "basic truth bomb" "not bullshitting" "spitting straight facts"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 10:17 PM
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whoa how you twist things. other men don't matter, my girlfriend's attraction to me matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 10:09 PM
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There is nothing to "magically know". it comes naturally if you like someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 10:06 PM
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Once again, it depends if you DID like it. why are you not getting this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 10:02 PM
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lmao, no. it's contingent on my girlfriend liking me at least as much as her ex, sexually. boy your reading comprehension sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 09:58 PM
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My point is that if you're not getting what you want out of a relationship (including sexual attraction), you should leave. This is far from the point. I can be content with the sex I'm getting, as long as I know that to the person I love, I am the sexiest person to her. If it ever comes to light that I'm not the sexiest person to her, THAT is the dealbreaker, and THAT is why learning about how sexually attracted she was to her ex is important. Otherwise, I'm letting myself get fooled into think…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 09:54 PM
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Your viewpoint is shallow. The issue is if she DID enjoy things with her ex, not if she didn't. As in she used to like having crazy amounts of sex with her ex, but decided she needed a "mature" guy to help her take care of financial needs. So she shacks up a financially stable man and the stable guy eventually learns she was much more sexually attracted to her ex. This is the fear all stable men fear. That they are not sexually attractive. This fear can be alleviated by learning what you were wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 09:22 PM
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Who is indoctrinating them? Not sure about the point of this question but to answer it's general society. Friends, Family, television, internet skits. It's ingrained, but the fact you asked me twice makes me think you are either trying to grind my gears or have the social circle of a puffin. Perhaps you could make a post about it if you're interested in hearing from them? I'm not. "hey are you kinda sociopathic" "yeah i guess lol".... good post. I've yet to hear of any woman needing to manipulat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:58 AM
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Ok, I get it, you're special. I'm talking about the majority of women. and the majority of women are indoctrinated with sociopathic tendencies, making the baseline for clinical sociopathy higher up that it would be otherwise. General sociopathy can be taught, as it has been to women through these sexist mannerisms.(using appeal, hitting men, stringing orbiters) and can be unlearned. When women become older, they see how fucked up these privileges were, and admit they were being "evil little shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:24 AM
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Be brave, man. screw karma. Spread the word. Shit's a good read.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 01:27 AM
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I tried anal sex with my high school boyfriend, and I did a threesome with my boyfriend in college, but I did not enjoy those sexual acts the issue isn't if you didn't enjoying those acts, the issue comes from if you did enjoy them. Like if you enjoyed sex with the ex, but decided you wanted a stable guy. The stable guy you aren't as attracted to sexually. the stable guy sees that you were much more sexual with your ex, and becomes hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 01:00 AM
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*former sociopaths don't you think it's mildly sociopathic to use your appeal to get free drinks? or to string an orbiter along? or to hit a guy, knowing you won't suffer consequences? this kind of thing is baked into most women as being normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:42 PM
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you're coming off as thinking men are emotionless. women are not more naive than men, they are used to being the manipulator though. when i talk to older women about when they were young, more often than not they talk about being an "evil little shit" as well as being naive. men are definitely not colder. they are required to hide it by society's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:37 AM
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I'd say it's because 99% of men have been "taken advantage of" by women through buying them drinks, movies, dinner. so they become immunized to the more lucrative scams. women had no such "vaccination"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:46 AM
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Nobody’s going to think you’re creepy for asking a girl out. That is LITERALLY NOT what I was talking about. Nowhere did I say it's creepy for a guy to ask a girl out. I said it's "creepy" for a guy to go out of his way to look for you. My bf asked me out first and we’ve been dating for almost a year so that disproves your theory. Not even the situation we're talking about. you gave exactly zero context for where your boyfriend asked you out, so it disproves nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 09:24 PM
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I guess people who suffer cognitive dissonance really rustle my jimmies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 08:38 PM
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Why would I ask out my boss or someone at a funeral? YOU SHOULDN'T ask someone out in those situations, and that's why HE WOULDN'T. That's why you, as the woman, can ask him out when it IS appropriate. Such as after you left the funeral, or changed job position. If the man went out of his way to look for you, it's "creepy". Life isn't a Rom-Com, men can't go after women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 08:08 PM
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too shy/scared/lazy These are not the only reasons a guy wouldn't ask out a woman he likes. Like professional atmospheres, where he was her boss. Like just not having a good opportunity due to a busy schedule. Like meeting at a funeral. I hope you see my point. I love how you're obliviously falling under the tenet of OP's statement number 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 07:30 PM
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You'd better be thiccer than your skull is or you're getting nowhere in life lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 05:35 PM
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it’s that they don’t have to So you're saying they don't have to risk it, so they don't. Meaning they're risk averse. it’s smart, you still get what you want in the end. Except you don't get the guy that doesn't ask you out, which is the point of this entire thread. So it's dumb. The only "risk" in most cases is being shot down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 02:48 PM
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Cowardly is the perfect word. Being nervous would imply you have the capability of following through. Cowardly implies you can't. Which is the case, in 99% of situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 02:03 PM
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takes a special kind of stupid to never be able to look past[deluding themselves into being 9/10]. No. Just makeup, photo filters, and a social circle of friends telling you how beautiful you are. I can definitely see how 2 & 4 can pervade the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 01:57 PM
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That problem is the same when genders are reversed. It sucks to chase. The chaser is always(usually, 99%) the one putting in more effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 04:40 PM
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The issue is that it's harder to spot, and therefore prove. A woman would have to be stupid to leave a paper trail detailing her thought process. While your studies are nice, the point he's making is that it's much harder to prove emotional manipulation over a physical assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 08:09 PM
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GennyX. In no way did I claim these were tests. I did not ever say that these are conclusive. I even specifically pointed out that these items must be within context. Meaning that they vary from individuals. On another note: I like how my clues, ultimately, were correct about your attitudes towards promiscuity. The fact that you are incapable of grasping this is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 01:16 AM
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Did you really just walk into my trap card? You're so generic that it's comical, GennyX. I don't want to list them here because I have a feeling I'd get bombarded with "well I do those things and I'm not promiscuous". .... You just did this, GennyX. GennyX, I don't even. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but EVERYTHING that ANYONE does is ultimately about survival or sex. Yes, even your girls night's out where you only "want to dance and spend time with friends." If you only wanted to dance, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 05:27 PM
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I never said instinctive. Its mannerisms that guys notice as they date the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 03:56 PM
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While there are things to look for, I don't want to list them here because I have a feeling I'd get bombarded with "well I do those things and I'm not promiscuous". Edit: Fuck it. All the clues have to be taken into context. Not a single one of these is meant to be a red flag in itself. Being very defensive about anyone's N count. Avoiding talking about past relationships. Having friends that are promiscuous. I'm on the fence about: Listening to "call her daddy" Blue-haired, rainbow flag waving …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 12:08 AM
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You're missing the point. Men don't use studies, this is true. However in the back of most men's minds they know that ANYONE who hands out sex like it's candy don't think of it as something special, and thus aren't likely to be faithful. Also, men usually have a good sense of how promiscuous their partner has been without asking. Usually it's in how the woman acts. Men don't normally feel like asking if their spidey sense isn't tingling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 10:02 PM
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Well on one hand yes, it can disguise a bad chin. On the other, the beard is also genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:21 PM
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which is why it's an overvaluation. Otherwise it's just a valuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:43 AM
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It's been argued that women overvalue themselves aesthetically due to their hypergamy. I don't quite agree with this. I will say women overvalue themselves because of makeup/filters/camera angles. makeup causes them to receive more attention than they deserve. which men can do, too, but they don't do it nearly as much and therefore isn't nearly as much of a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 10:21 PM
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Dude, she literally admitted it. That you doubt it is a textbook case of how fucked our society is with regards to rape accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 01:19 AM
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I recommend writing down what you did wrong. It doesn't have to be here, but the sooner you can write down what you did wrong (without feeling terrible about what you did) the sooner you will realize you've truly let go. It's not necessarily the act of writing down that helps, but real introspective thought is only possible after realizing it's not who you are anymore, and are comfortable saying what you were out loud. To provide anecdotal evidence, In my case I am only able to talk to friends a…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 06:54 PM
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You girls are lucky that you have an "out" of being "less than pretty." :-) How disgusted would most women be with a man using shoe-inserts, to make himself taller?
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 04:49 AM
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As there is in yours. You're being a little snarky. He's offering advice as an American, where it sounds like you are located currently. Where you came from doesn't matter in terms of the law. Are you in the US or the Middle-East?
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 08:20 PM
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You are right, so I wouldn't think too much of it. All I can guess is the majority of people downvoting you are subconsciously identifying with those women, and don't like it; Even though this is the thread specifically for that.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/16 02:15 AM
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