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So the tall guys treated them "like crap" Read between the lines here boys...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:58 AM
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because hes either hot or the women are dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:14 PM
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I have a job, like....we dont all sit on reddit monitoring our posts "cOnTest in mOd mAiL"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:33 PM
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yes, they need MORE than JUST hotness....but hotness is needed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:41 AM
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Due to the sheer amount of content promoting the reality of the vast majority of womens preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:20 AM

how are people gona help you get laid then, will you want them to make her cum for you too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:35 PM
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just hurts dunnit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:37 PM
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yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:30 PM
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debating in good faith, dude you're lmao'ing over women and kids being "ass naked" on the streets? Who cares what happens to you if you stop paying taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:39 PM
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Okay? Lmfao? Go masturbate into a sock and stop paying your taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:35 PM

they probably dont care about your tiny drop in the ocean of contribution tbh pal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:31 PM

What you're saying doesnt make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:30 PM

Ok, women and kids dont care about you, leave em alone and crack on with your own life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:21 PM

Monks are nice. Spiteful rapists arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:20 PM
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So they should just turn a hot guy down if theyre horny because it'll spoil them for mr average future husband? A very male centric view. Women are sentient beings too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:53 AM

I'm a libertarian so less taxes the better, make your own way bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:52 AM

question makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:46 AM

You do have a viable path to happiness. YOU. Not others FOR you. YOU have to make it down that path.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:45 AM

cool, i think your approach is the best. Leave em alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:41 AM

therefore women shut lay back open their legs and shut their eyes and squirm, for society eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:03 AM
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"just be hardcore 21st century christian bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:03 AM
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"Just be hardcore 18th century christian bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:39 AM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:39 AM
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Like, a hissy fit? Like a big pathetic hissy fit? I'm sure we'll be fine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:01 AM
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But it happens anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:52 PM
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Well we can't lock em in the closet. All that can be "done" is individual men make themselves attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:50 PM
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No they wouldnt commit genoicde, they cant even get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:15 PM
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what you gona do, lock her in the closet and take away her phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:04 PM
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Then you yourself should have no problem settling for the equivilant of the hottest girl.youve ever fucked. Would a girl like that be enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:03 PM
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yes, but the reality is unless youre a top 5 percent guy, she WILL want to fuck other guys. This just tempers the downsides of that within the LTR, removing constraints and social pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:02 PM
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The alternative is frustrated, bitchy wives who cheat....like....Unless MOST men buck up their act and become genuinely attractive its literally the BEST deal for all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:13 PM
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Doesnt work like that, women are attracted to who theyre attracted to, it cant be tempered or curbed by "only exposing them to average men"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:26 PM
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Women will be less inclined to dead bedroom LTR's who they don't resent. And they can focus on deeper connection and love with them as opposed to thinking of them as an obstacle trapping them who they have to sneak around to have sex with attractive men...this will lead to MORE sex for these men as their relationships will be more positive and less resentful
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:30 AM
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I do describe benefits to men, re read entire op
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:16 AM
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Its happening anyway whether they like it or not....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:16 AM
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Because it's comfort and familiarity that cause a lot of breakups
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:43 AM
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sounds like the problem is with the individuals ability to handle being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:38 PM
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Because....the ability to find a new partner has never been easier for WOMEN
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:32 PM
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Because most relationships end or go sour or filled witg resentment. Yes, MOST. And if you're contesting that based on the fictional world you live in where the majority of relationships are happy and long lasting then I dont know wtf to say
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:26 AM
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Yes but women can get it and act on it, most men cant
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:21 AM
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Yes it does, give your grandparents smartphones and chances are you wouldn't even exist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:19 AM
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Not unstable men, i dont say that in my OP at all. I mean, I can't word my OP any clearer, read it again I suppose?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:44 AM
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It makes you wonder why she does it, or is her attempt at betafication just one big shit test
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:43 AM
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Ye but men have less options so they dont. Women are like men with exponentially more SMV per capita
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:42 AM
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I know this sounds like arrogance on my part, and I know you know your friends and I don't, but trust me when I say (you won't) that all of your friends relationships ARE NOT stable....whether you believe them to be or not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:14 AM
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They sensed you slipping away, to them it wasnt boring
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:11 AM
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Obviously you're looking at relics from a pre-2000 era. Things are simply not the same now. Long time couples are companions, theyre family, theyre friends. Under 40's are different. And what do I see? I asked my mother once when she was trying to pressure me into settling down "do you know of any relationship, friends, family, colleagues, that you'd wish upon me?" And fair play to the woman, she said no. Because real life is full of unhappy couples, whether you see it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:32 AM
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Best thing you've posted in any of my threads
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:28 AM
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The ability to find a new partner has never been easier. It's exponentially different now, despite your dismissal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:26 AM
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What makes me think it does? Oh nothing, maybe I just need to go outside, silly me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:57 AM
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I'm annoyed at myself for wasting my own time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:56 AM
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We can't really compare pre 2000's relationships to modern day. There's literally almost an entire technological age between us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:45 AM
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So she stuck with a violent abusive alcoholic, as a lot did back then before the internet and social rights blew the world wide open. You believe in loyalty, and you're loyal to the guy you believe your partner to be right now. And you're probably right about him. But as with everything in life, you don't KNOW 100 percent, and ANYTHING is possible. He may "not be who I thought he was." But maybe he is, hopefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:43 AM
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I'd argue that you can't "talk" somebody into having a spark for you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:33 AM
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I think the point is you don't know... Like you may be 100 percent certain now that you think you won't leave him, because you believe him to be a certain way. But it's not IMPOSSIBLE that if he lost his job, he may become frustrated if after a while it turned out he couldn't get one so easy, and one day he lost his temper at you or burst out crying or went into a depression. Suddenly he'd be a "totally different guy" who just "isn't the same person any more." Now I KNOW you're 100 percent sure …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:31 AM
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Do you think? As in a woman is ALWAYS essentially looking for a better guy to end things for?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:15 AM
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Yes....but THEN.... There's always a "but then" in an LTR. Murphy's law, whatever can happen will happen. Over a long enough time line...stuff ALWAYS goes bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:07 AM
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...That's literally what "enjoy the decline" means
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:12 PM
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Its entirely consistent with what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:00 PM
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Its pretty straight forward
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:59 PM
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So you think manipulating sex out of a girl on date one and then faking it into a relationship because youre actually a beta is GOOD?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:22 PM
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Chad wont stay on the boyfriend track though, he'll fuck cos of his looks and leave. He always wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:04 PM
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Well in reality those guys will and are doing exactly that. The guys who think youre better than them are showing you all the affection
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:24 AM
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true true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:08 AM
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Because it means they don't value what you have to offee because they're getting better offers elsewhere, which means they must have a lot to offer on various levels
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:26 AM
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I think biologically and evolutionary women want a man who spends ALL day killing mammoths and sabre tooth tigers and bringing home food, fucks her good and proper, and is ready to spring to action and protect her if something comes into the cave. A man who wants to lay in bed and cherish his wife is "docile" and not as useful. I think female attraction is actually almost 100 percent pragmatic, whereas males is more idealogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:15 AM
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Its not so much cold energy as "too busy and not too bothered" to reciprocate energy. It just conveys you can do better which triggers "they must be high value" in their head
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:48 AM
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I suppose it conveys higher value
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:47 AM
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Evidently so, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:39 AM
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You don't have to be actively "mean" to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:38 AM
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True but that's the very LEAST a man should be doing. But I think in addition, affection and comfort translate to complacency, which kills anxiety/attraction and renders the dynamic "boring"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:06 AM
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I think it's like with going to the gym... "It's not who you are" is really just another way of saying "it feels uncomfortable"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:03 AM
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Fair. How do you HONESTLY believe (in summary) a man should be behaving towards a woman, and if he doesnt "love" then, WHY should he be exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:45 AM
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The kinda guy who is that desperate for sex aint just "leavin" any girl who gives him some after a few dates
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:20 PM
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neither does the analogy of beating women and having sex with chad.... And yeah, she may have changed. Maybe she doesn't ALWAYS have sex with somebody on first date just because theyre chad, maybe the guy is physically attractive but dumb as bricks and she just fancies a bit with this guy she sees ZERO long term future with because she likes poetry and art and hes a fuckin roid head. Women are humans with nuances like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:10 PM
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If you behaved like a beta bitch to every woman and finally learnt not to simp, and then had a bit more emotional intelligence and self control and didnt spill your guts to the first girl who showed you interest and she started to date you long term and not dump your needy ass, are you being manipulative and deceiving?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:55 PM
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and you wont even be her last probably loool
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:45 PM
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totally different. one is not morally wrong or harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:42 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:00 PM
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Men in general are most fuckable between 20 to 35, like all other human beings. Having money doesnt get a vagina wet, the same way a prostitutes client doesnt become "fuckable" because theyve paid and tipped for an hour
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:55 PM
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Everyone ages, Im starting to not actually get your point? What do you think youre arguing against here? After 35 is goes downhill for everyone. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:53 PM
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Hot girls who marry young are still hot at 30 plus if they look after themselves. No woman improves her looks and busts her ass in the gym like a youngish divorce. And they get PLENTY of attention. What you're saying is revenge fantasy. And what would the "right" choice be, a billy beta who she dead bedroomed within a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:28 PM
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Mid 30s is not 30, hence wall being pushed back. Revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:26 PM
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Men at 35 to 40 are unfuckable for the most part too. And a lot of 30 year old women are single because theyre coming out of 10 year relationships. Regardless, they'll settle and resent and dead bedroom the guy theyre with. Men are fucked at all ages unless theyre attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:59 PM
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The vast majority of women dont spend 2 hours on make up. Ive seen way more naturally pretty girls than men. If most men arent fuckable to women then the "minimal" upkeep isnt enough, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:42 AM
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Whats that recent stat that a third of men under 30 have had ZERO sex this year?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:50 AM
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Being a childless single mom is fast becoming a non issue for a lot of women. Times have changed vastly within the past two years, let alone 50. There's a whole lot more "do your own thing" mentallity being promoted, especially among women. Men arent able to have sex with young sugery maxed girls unless they themselves are hot. Which pushes those options to "post wall women" who are hotter than ever and still choosing who they want OR happily going without. WE men joke abouts cats and wine. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:48 AM
1

I think the 80/20 rule is true for women. 80 percent of women find only 20 percent of men attractive (though they dont ALL find ALL of those men attractive, they find only a percent of that 20 percent attractive. So the average woman will find maybe 5-3 percent of men attractive) And the other 20 percent find men from the other 80 percent attractive (this is where outlier examples come from) And then the remaining 60 percent of men are literally almost never found attractive and WHOEVER ends up …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:38 AM
1

All good points. Though id add that people's preferences dont change based on how attractive THEY are. A woman who was scorching in her youth and having sex with 9 outta 10 men regularly will still have that standard if she gets fat. She'll just "compromise" on what she can get now, whilst harbouring some resentment, or stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:27 AM
1

Not true, culture is rapidly changing to normalise and encourage not settling, single being okay and empowering, and the "wall" being pushed back by a third life gym+yoga+hiking crisis a lot of western women go through
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:24 AM
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Most men look even worse without make up. A woman of healthy BMI has an arousing body, or at least arouses a large portion of men. A naked female body with common, normal proportions and averaged sized breasts and an NPC face is more than fuckable to most guys, maybe not their ideal but still enough to get hard. A healthy BMI male body is NOT arousing. It's shapeless, unremarkable and has no sexual quality to it. Same with face for the most part. A woman with a normal no ugly "npc" face is still…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:14 AM
2

It aint the 1950's pal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:09 AM
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No, I do, my point is that if most men are unattractive because most men are apparently chubby, then the average man is not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:06 AM
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Your theor of the ratios being skewed equalling women are swiping left on their looksnatches assumes men and women as a whole are exactly the same level of attractiveness. I think women on the whole are hotter than men on the whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:00 AM
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Ok I've thought of the potential reasons. She doesn't want to have sex with him. She doesnt like having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:51 PM
2

the problem is she isnt attracted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:36 PM
2

To be honest, unless you're VERY young, this is a strange and unrealistic mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:43 PM
1

Yeah, discussing "whats the matter" will turn her RIGHT ON. The delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:08 PM
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Don't bother with him, he's old school trp and pua, sall about "masculine energy" with this guy. Maybe one day he'll catch up to 2022 and smell the roses. Looks are king.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:46 PM
3

Not me dude, I'm saying why some do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:46 AM
3

End it. And with that, end thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:33 AM
0

Scarcity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:31 AM
1

bit scary
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:24 PM
1

You played amazing in a game of sport? Brother, don't give up. Work on yourself and I see a Chadley shaped future ahead of you...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:23 PM
2

True, maybe dumber people are happier
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:06 PM
2

I think the best thing to do is obviously forget about it and move on, but its harder than that especially if you really consider what it means on a wider level
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:38 PM
1

Both
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:52 AM
2

Ok cool thanks for the tip
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:38 PM
0

My point proven?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:13 PM
1

Cool. Shoot lower and maybe you'll do better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:12 PM
1

Your situation and my situation are not connected
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:25 PM
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They all have weakish looking skinny bodies and odd (NOT ugly, though some of the inbetweeners are a bit ugly) faces with really meek demeanours. They have more actively off putting qualities than attravtive or neutral qualities. As I say, Joseph Gordon Levitt is the perfect example of a man e whose entire physical look is neither attractive nore unattractive. Hes just totally unoffensive and provokes absolutely zero feeling of repulsion or attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:33 PM
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You're the one barely getting laid out of delusion, no skin off my nose pal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:30 PM
2

IF helps some people manage low calorie consumption. For some it doesn't. It worked for me.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/22 11:25 AM
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No, I respect your opinion, but having looked them up they are ALL below average (though not "ugly")
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:21 AM
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You're having ALMOST NO SUCCESS dude, you can't RATIONALIZE your way into making these women YOU deem worthy be attracted to you, as they mostly clearly arent
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:19 AM
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Nope, hes pretty NPC. His appearence doesnt invoke anything. Theres nothing wrong with him, hes just "man". Not attractive but not repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:17 AM
1

yep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:50 AM
3

Nobody is contesting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:47 AM
5

Yep, thats what a photoshopped average man looks like with professional lighting, hair, make up and photographer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:45 AM
6

Jack Black is not a 1, he is not deformed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:09 AM
2

he is the most average looking guy there is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:32 PM
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No, if youve never been laid its because you are shooting for women who don't want you. If you shoot for lower your terrible success rate would go up. Its quite simple, though painful to the ego
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:32 PM
1

Beiber is a billionaire pop star, the same does not apply. Hed be hotter ig he WAS taller though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:30 PM
1

I work in a gym. Strong women on steroids date almost...exclusively....you guessed it....roided out monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:28 PM
1

Thats like saying "stats on girls not liking ugly guys" Stats? Girls dont like short dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:49 PM
1

Women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:22 PM
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Because it's not you that detetmines your league...leagues are determined BY success...that's what a league is.... You're having no success in this league, obviously, so you're league is lower for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:21 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:19 PM
2

Its more like 5 foot 10 height then face
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:59 AM
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If you're rejected 9 out of 10 times then you're aiming well above your "league"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:56 AM
7

its 2022. 5 foot 9 is basically considered short
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:51 AM
7

Literally like....1 guy would get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:33 AM
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I mean the men described as "5"'s are more like 4/3s. Overrweight? Balding? That's BELOW "average" so that 40 is 4's and 3's. A 9 is like calvin klein model and a 10 is subjective, its basically flawless with an added flair thats uniquely attractive to whoever beholds them. Above perfect almost, whereas a 9 is "pretty much perfect" and 8's are hot and 7's are people like Ryan Gosling (hed not be considered as hot as he is if not for being an actor) and 7's are the kinda guy who gets called since…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:03 PM
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there are WAY more 6's and 7's. 9's and 10's are less than a percent each. Its EASILY waay less than 1 out of ever 100 guys thats a 9 or 10
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:39 PM
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Most men dont approach because they fundementally KNOW theyre bringing nothing of worth to the table and that theyre probably going to make a woman uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:51 PM
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The above commenter is right. Its much more about physical appearance and OLD. Especially early 20's and below. An attractive girl and a very attractive guy message eachother on insta or OLD and its simple and to the point. They meet and fuck. Chat is minimal, maybe they talk about netflix or music. Then the one who doesnt text first causes the other to think loads about them and they confuse their anxiety for feelings and pursue the other and are either rejected or they keep fucking. Rinse, rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:19 PM
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Women FUCK hot guys. Women FUCK status and access to clubs and drugs and money, but not the man eith those things. Being physically attractive is the only way to get "true" desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:14 PM
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Survey? Men dont rush to admit they dont fuck...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:04 PM
1

It doesnt work like that. There are less 1's and less 10's, but more 5, 6, 7's The "average" looking guy is a 6.5 outta ten and exist in the most abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:39 AM
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They are???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:38 AM
1

im 30 and it still feels way too early
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:08 AM
0

A 6.5 is average
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:32 PM
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Wrong. The guy you described is undateable, maybe a 5 on a good day. The guy I describe is unoffensive but fundementally expendable and easily replaceable and offers almost NOTHING to spike the emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:05 AM
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No, NOT likewise sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:00 AM
2

Theres no source because its UNDOCUMENTED
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:59 AM
-1

Its exactly the same just on a micro scale
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:09 PM
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A large portion of posters on here are basically saying women not being attracted to them is causing them mental health issues, depression and suicidal tendencies and implying women are morally obligated to negate this by showing them attraction/affection/sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:02 PM
2

Why's it the "wrong" direction?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:37 PM
1

His most famous role is literally an average frustrated chump in 500 Days of Summer He was cast because of his "beige"ness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:09 PM
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Not really, nuclear families are not really humanities "natural" state. They were forced over the past couple of hundred years. We now, like before, are entering a state of hot guy impregenates most women (more than we know) and average guy raises it. So a soft harem but with heta bill to pick up the check and deal with all the responsibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:06 PM
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Hes pretty average. Face not defined but not ugly or fat. No striking feature but no obvious deformity or ugly feature either. Bland hair, average height. He could not be more average.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:24 PM
1

He is average, he gets lots of "average man" man roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:22 PM
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If he wasnt an actor then yes, he would be considered absolutely run of the mill unremarkablely average looking. He is neither handsome nor ugly. Hes just famous so people assume he has to be above average. He is not, he is the most beige looking male I could think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:08 PM
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What do you mean astonished by hypergamy? If its inherently natural why would it astonish you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:04 PM
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Id say hes an average looking dude. No real strong features, would blend into the crowd, not handsome but not ugly. Literally plain as it gets. Like I said, he aint ugly. Hes just as NPC looking as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:43 PM
1

What you've described there is actually what we call in the industry "an unattractive man"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:20 PM
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Women are attracted to "douchebags". These attractive men can cheat because they have options. Most men don't have options so don't cheat, but would if they could. Most women have options. Most women cheat when a relationship is failing. Conclusion - most people who can will in the right circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:57 PM
3

Sooo much has changed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:51 PM
1

swallow that pill
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:46 PM
4

Yes but I mean people who meet NOW
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:46 PM
0

So it's "psychologically abusive" relationship or nothing? I'll take no LTR thanks
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 10:55 AM
-1

Who has posters on their wall in 2022
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 10:48 AM
3

Would you say feminism is collectively women saying en mass "Men...DO THIS!" and "Men...STOP DOING THAT!" which essentially puts MEN at the centre of the entire ideology and the driving force
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:11 PM
1

lift you lazy lump
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:19 AM
0

Straight up lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:48 PM
2

Yeah, but there KINDA are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:53 PM
7

You're right, its closer to 90/10
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:49 PM
1

No its not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:46 PM
1

All of em dead or in prison. And those kinda guys arent in relationships because theyre freaks to start with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:51 AM
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The kinda guys cheering for murder of women are scum. Not a CLUE what that has to do with average chumps somehow putting up any sort of fight against the most well equipped millitary and police in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:50 AM
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They're NOT gona say that they're settling and that when they doggy or she gives him lights off/eyes closed starfish sex that she imagines Chadley Chadsmitherton is she?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:40 AM
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See you again soon ✌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:05 AM
12

Not exactly but its universal enough to safely generalize about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:57 AM
8

Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:42 AM
6

Nope. 4's find 7's 8's 9's and 10's attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:42 AM
3

What? Dude....youre claiming sexless men...you know, the guys masturbating between COD sessions....are gona REVOLT Behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:09 AM
4

Nobody is going to revolt because they're getting left swiped on tinder dude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:41 AM
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The ideal man, and you'll see it portrayed in fiction aimed at women, is basically an emotional robot (yet passionate) Obviously they claim to want emotional availability. But what they actually want is to WANT that emotional availability from somebody who doesn't give it to them. Don't show your insecurities fellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:34 AM
2

I dont think we should control who women have sex with, regardless of the consequence. The have nots are always in favour of giving up their freedom if it means they get more scraps
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:23 AM
3

Its not a fault
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:17 AM
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We're not on about the bottom 50, the slobs, the 5s and below. We're on about the clean well dressed averaged height guy with the friendly smile and kind eyes and combed hair who wouldnt hurt a fly and pays his way. He is being snubbed constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:17 AM
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I think the AF/BB dynamic will become begrudgingly mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:59 AM
5

Ye so 80 percent of women are attracted to 20 percent of men. The remaining 20 percent are attracted to 20 percentish "alternative" or "unconventionally attractive" or "unique taste" guys. So that leaves 60 percent. If you're a 6 outta 10 or less you AINT her 1st choice pal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:30 AM
4

It is for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:22 AM
25

Not sure if this comment is parody/satire
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:54 AM
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Innocence or guilt has nothing to do with anything. Attraction is amoral. And attraction can't be negotiated. I think the way it'll level out is that it'll be more of a cultural norm that very attractive men have multiple "girlfriends" even if it's not acknowledged overtly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:52 AM
18

If only we could "thats so toxic" our way to a more blue pilled world eh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:43 AM
1

Nothing that youre saying contradicts me
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 03:41 PM
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Terms like "masculine energy" and "frame" and "game" being emphasized more than good looks, circumstance and authentic chemistry, etc. Remember channels like RSD? Outted as con artists using highly edited "in field" footage of guys picking up drunk girls? The fact that "game" and "frame" and "masculine energy" almost can never compete with a better looking guy who she justs....vibes with.... Obviously PUA is a con designed to suck sexually frustrated men dry of their money. But I think maybe TRP…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:44 AM
2

Not true, this is something we tell ourselves to cope with the fact that women find less of us physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:50 AM
1

Jobless by far. Women are an add on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:44 AM
-2

This place has gone soft. Just get better at it and internalize it more. It may come crashing down, but it all will anyway. The moment shes got you, youre done
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 11:07 PM
5

ZERO argument from you there mate. What I'm saying makes sense if you observe the world with that realisation in mind. Old school PUA and pre 2010 TRP is snake oil aimed at AFC's to suck em dry of money. "Masculine energy" lol They're human like us. They work like we do. People like hot people. The rest helps lube up the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:48 PM
1

Social media and OLD and lockdown has affected everyone Its almost impossible to fins somebody who isnt inuenced by it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:15 PM
6

Female arousal mechanism is exactly the same as mens. Men are ALSO turned on by a womans charm, by their personality, by their sensuality, by their other qualities besides looks. In fact ive fallen for girls HARDEST based on their looks AND personality. Women are the SAME. They are alsonaroused by personality, by charm, etc. These things DO increase attraction, as they do for men when a "bookish" or "unconventionally attractive girl" becomes fuckable because of their personality. The ONLY differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:04 PM
3

Its as if men can ejaculate more than once
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:36 PM
1

And are all happy? And people are right about beta bucks and relationships of convinience. Relationships of true attraction are rare imo. The exception, not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:03 PM
2

Yeah of course, I dont disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:54 PM
2

Most of them will end, and a lot of them arent happy and a lot of them arent healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:53 PM
5

Alls "fine" in the dating world then. Lets all log off and go enjoy our "healthy monogamous relationships"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:52 PM
5

How hot a girl percieves herself to be doesnt matter. 1's and 10's are physically attracted to the same few remarkable stand out looking guys. They cant help it. People arent only attracted to who they "can get" otherwise gay guys wouldnt find hot straight men attractive, but they do, despite having no chance with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:51 PM
2

Its the majority of young westerners though. I agree, find a girl who is not active on social media and has a deep personality. How many girls are like that, and how can most guys find that when most girls are not like that. Its like telling a guy in a desert to just drink water bro....ye....cool.. .but....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:48 PM
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Most are not in regular monogomous relationships and relationships arent all fine and dandy. And not being concious of something doesnt mean its not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:46 PM
9

Dating is a struggle for most men...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:44 PM
3

Yes but avoiding reality is pointless in the long term. You should work out and train hard but understand youre never gona look a certain way...and thats OK. You know you tried. But youll never be gifted. Same with dating. Some men will simply find it VERY hard no matter how hard they tey. Thats reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:44 PM
1

Yeah but as a man a womans personality and character can influence our attraction too... Im saying basically men and womens attraction is EXACTLY THE SAME, but for women its like being a guy but literally only maybe 1 girl every couple of days actually turns your head or makes you think "hot" The rest is the same, connection, personality, charm, all of that can increase attraction. I just dont think it "levels" it out by being MORE personality based for women, I think they are just as influenced…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:40 PM
1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:32 PM
3

Ignores the stats
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:30 PM
15

No, women are only physically attracted to a FEW men. Which kinda makes her being with you for beta reasons worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:27 PM
3

Yeah, I think trp needs to evolve a little. The idea that you can game your way into most girls pants and that "masculine energy" is enough without looks is snake oil from the pre 2010's made up to make money....and prey on drunk girls
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:14 PM
5

Yeah, so imagine how it is for the other side
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:12 PM
2

For below average and ugly guys dating WILL be VERY VERY hard. This is just a shitty fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:11 PM
5

Thing is dude this is a post social media, online dating, lockdown world. Early 20's and below is EVEN MORE looks based than before. A lot of kids barely talk, they interact online based on nice pics then meet up and have minimum chat because theyre not capable but they dont care because theyre not capable and havent really encountered or learnt to value it. They bang then either ghost or play the social media mind game and amp up attraction by posting pics and waiting a day to respond to messag…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:08 PM
4

Id argue women CAN be MUCH hotter in early 30's than in their early 20's. Gal Gadot at 35 to me personally is hotter than her when she was Miss Israel
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:04 PM
2

Yes but it IS operating on it.... HOW would we test the theory? If we were to do an experiment? How would that experiment look? Well, we'd get men and women to look at pictures of a large same of the opposite sex and swipe left to unattractive and swipe right to attractive.... Its not a myth at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:59 PM
2

I also think the confusion is that the average girl IS fuckable to most men. The average man or her "looksmatch" if that term even has any weight in reality, IS NOT fuckable. Thats the truth and its ok. Just find a way to work on yourself and either become physically attractive or work on other aspects. Keep working, dont give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:49 PM
1

Im not saying men should not improve and work on themselves. In fact, dont let the truth of my OP hinder you one bit, have a winners mindset. But I dont see why we cant acknowledge reality then grab it by the balls and make it better for ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:48 PM
1

Its one of my favourite bits, how is it not a benefit??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:39 PM
2

Thing with women mate, if you find her attractive, over a long enough timeline somebody more attractive than you will think that too.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 04:17 PM
1

Yeah obviously walk away from women who aren't worth it but don't expect it to actually gain thr attraction of women in 2022 if youre average lookin
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:31 PM
4

I dont know what you mean about ratios, and why are we talking about dating from the early 90's
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:29 PM
5

What do you mean dude I don't get your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:10 PM
8

Women get to know men in universities. On apps its JUST looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:47 AM
-2

Yeah, and is this a bad thing? Shouldn't all men STRIVE to be the best
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:09 AM
5

But I'm not an incel, and it's also true, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:44 AM
21

I think a good rule of thumb for straight guys to go by, as it tends to line up a lot with what women vocalise when casually stating preference, is if you notice a man and you as a straight guy think "He looks good, I wish I could look like him or as good as him" then he's physically attractive. This doesn't happen often. And it NEVER happens with average dudes. Not even average dudes who are well put together. Its usually only with guys who have something remarkable about their appearance or ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:19 AM
1

Relationships for unattractive people are actually even worse. You're the same level of attractiveness, difference is now she's "stuck" with you. Women hate being stuck with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:14 AM
0

Yes, which is every man they encounter, and your philosphy of "walking away and giving her nothing" as a man is old school TRP that quite simply has zero affect on any women anymore. Unless you're physically very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:07 AM
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Because a very small amount of men are PHYSICALLY attractive. This is a pill that even TRP'rs seem to struggle to swallow, but is the answer to a LOT of questions and everybody would benefit from acknowledging this and working on their own solutions from that starting point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:56 AM
-2

Got a time traveller here who just got out of his trp anger phase from 2007
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:23 AM
36

Was that high paying medical job director of bio containment in Wuhan
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:20 AM
3

are you homosex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:52 PM
2

To me they are absolutely benefits. I think there is no right or wrong, some people just prefer one or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:51 PM
3

I'm rooting for you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:51 PM
7

This sounds like you would end up in a relationship where your emotional state is determined by your partner, and if they leave you, may lead to those suicidal tendencies worsening, which means it may not be a good idea to seek a relationship out until you've tackled that aspect of your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:52 AM
1

That sounds amazing, and is the true definition of unconditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:14 AM
3

Not to be morbid, but given historical patterns and the way the world is headed, aren't you worried that a child who is born in the next 10 years may end up dying a horrible death (nuclear war, a genuinely horrific pandemic such as ebola or another man made virus or biological weapon, an authoritarian empire, a world war or major natural disaster or climate or solar event) Personally looking at human history, between 1940 to now we have been DAMN lucky. It's only a matter of time before somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:32 AM
3

Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:25 AM
1

Ok fair but what I'm saying is, I suppose, not why do you want a fantasy relationship....why do you want a relationship as they actually exist (I suppose im partly curious as to whether people just view ltr's through rose tinted glasses, especially when they're not in one or have little experience of being in one)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:54 AM
2

No "propoganda campaign" (?!) was needed to normalize singledom, we've just grown up without the old fashioned stigma attached to it from what's now decades ago. Like I said, 2022, nobody in their late 20's/30's has this attitude anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:52 AM
7

Not true. Most people are straight, in 2022 we don't call gay people weird because they are the minority. Single people living in a nice house they saved up for isn't weird either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:50 AM
0

Women become bored and resentful with too much comfort and monotony
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:28 AM
6

Yeah, doesnt make it weird if somebody does though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:14 AM
9

all the cultural things you listed are irrelevent now. Nobody who is a young adult now is going to look out of their window at the house of the "single person" who lives across the road and think "weirdo" And in 10 years WAY more men and women in positions to promote people will be single themselves. You sound like a 40-50 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:04 AM
-1

if you want a relationship because you dont want adventure, the relationship will fail
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:00 AM
6

its 2022, not the 80's
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:58 AM
1

gay people make up less than 5 percent If it wasnt a deviation then in theory if everyone was gay human kind could exist and procreate as normal without issue, instead we'd go extinct
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:34 PM
2

"nice guys" are guys who have no other quality to offer as far as charisma, confidence, assertiveness, drive, decisiveness or wit. They ONLY have "niceness" to offer, which is coincidentally the qualities in a person that are easiest and most comfortable and pose the least risk to display. Being agreeable, compliant and "caring" They demonize men with the above qualities, out of jealousy and try and take the moral high ground by brandishing all confident men arrogant, all men in shape as self ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:10 PM
0

Yes but its more dominating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:47 PM
1

well according to one poster not so "straightforward" as he claims to have a boomerang
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:46 PM
2

Well its totally outside the realms of normal reproduction and obviously a biological deviation. But sex imo is amoral and so I dont mean that as a bad thing...its just different because they work differently and have different desires...but are irrelevent to the disucssion of natural human reproduction
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:45 PM
1

Ok cool now back to asking girls on this sub reddit more specific questions about dique
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:42 PM
2

Yes, and you're right about both of those things being a genetic shortcoming and both sides are within their right to disqualify somebody for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:18 PM
2

No, you've bought WAY too much into the "inner game" side of things, which is mostly cope and supplementation to old school PUA tactics, aka money making schemes. You have to have a physically standout genetic quality to...shock horror...physically attract...the opposite sex. Women are human beings, they aren't a fuckin magic lamp you have to rub and chant to in just the right way. Hot mates with hot. Its real simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:47 PM
2

Aka, survivors
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:44 PM
6

...I mean, yes they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:26 PM
-1

https://psmag.com/.amp/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:03 PM
2

I mean....that IS pretty much how it was. Only 1 in 17 men reproduced during early humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:46 PM
0

People dont "reason" who they are physically and sexually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:36 PM
1

Also this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:29 PM
0

You certainly sound zen from your comment dude....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:15 PM
-3

Yes, because you're right. Women find very few men attractive. That ain't changing. So men have two options. BE more attractive or lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:31 PM
2

Ok so the opposite of the redpill is what works does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:40 PM
3

its still in there. its always in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:29 PM
-3

Well no, maybe MOST men really ARE unfuckable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:44 PM
-8

Well, lower them to wherever you find results There's no external mediator between men and women, there's no objective ranking or chart - You're worth what you can get
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:24 PM
2

most mens then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:56 PM
2

Yeah but most men aren't single and are in happy relationships, apparently, so how are they being targeted?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:10 PM
-1

Why do you find it interesting though, what's drawn you to it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:09 PM
3

But it won't if they're happy. If men whining on reddit affects a happy relationship the relationship isnt so happy and healthy to start with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:29 PM
2

How has an ideaology of man haters seeped into the mainstream if most people's dating lives are healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:15 PM
10

But why this subject, there's so many topics on reddit to debate...politics, philosophy...art....science....why debate men who can't get a girlfriend, especially if its a minority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:15 PM
2

Why would it seep into the mainstream if they're all content and dating is early easy though?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:03 PM
3

Whats that got to do with what I said. Most people have no trouble with dating and are in or capable of being in happy relationships. Why would incels whining affect them if thats the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:54 AM
4

Why would it have any affect on the mainstream if most of them are in happy relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:43 AM
2

Why is this particular subject fun to you? Why do you care what a minority of socially inept men say on the internet about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:40 AM
0

Why are you here debating, with as you literally put it, a minority of socially inept men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:16 AM
15

Because it makes you look good, youll last longer, you do feel better (fatties, you have no clue how much lighter and young you feel lean, you're literally carrying around a backpacks worth of useless shit) and its cool to have a goal that isnt video games
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:55 AM
3

atlas is ripped dude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:09 AM
2

we are all fucking prawns bickering about which gods thunderbolt is bigger. fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:38 AM
1

atlas too busy fucking to shrug mate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:27 AM
3

We will sooner invent libido killing pill which we distribute to incels than totally turn society inside out so that they can force a woman to be miserable with them in an involuntary relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:23 AM
1

Were the majority of relationships decades ago based on genuine attraction? If not, those relationships probably were hell yeah. But we couldn't go back to that if we tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:04 AM
9

Yes it CAN be worse than what we have, and will probably fail...because....well....think about it.... You think a society forged on the foundations of an incel revolution is going to be a successful one? At BEST it will be like a shariah crossed with a kinda half assed socialism....it'll last about a fuckin day if that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:03 AM
2

Yeah but burn society to the ground and replace it with what? A system where you force women to be with men they dont want....leading to the situation above.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:51 PM
0

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:49 PM
2

Yes, but, MEN are failing EVEN MORE than women. At least some of them are getting some results, whereas the majority of men are not getting who they are attracted to, therefore their standards are unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:22 PM
2

Ok, but how is that relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:13 PM
0

Men should be able to do what
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:13 PM
2

Sex is who we let touch our insides. The decision is entirely individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:46 PM
2

Sex isnt societal its individual. It's not "supposed" to be "fair"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:28 PM
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There's no such thing as "fairness" when it comes to who a woman lets have sex with her. Its who she wants to or who she doesnt. End of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:14 PM
2

Ok, they're undesireable, so I'm not disuputing that....so what is your point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:46 PM
3

You view yourself as enough but if theyre not reciprocating it then clearly they don't, so your standards are unrealistic. Its EXACTLY the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:45 PM
3

Well neither are men so what, everyone is unrealistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:15 PM
1

They're not attainable if they cant attain them. Calling something attainable when its not is literally the definition of unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:02 PM
1

So if they're so aware and not deluded, why not chase more attainable women, because if they did they would be more successful....but that's not happening...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:49 PM
-1

So? What does that REALLY mean? Or is it just a passive hamstered version of"I can't get laid because women are bad people"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:37 PM
3

Yes but it's often claimed that men have less success than women as a whole....so mens standards are more unrealistic as they are achieving less success with the women they want
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:29 PM
2

If this was true more men would be having more success with women but they arent because women they find attractive and chase do not give them anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:27 PM
2

Yes but men are getting even less success with the women they find attractive...so unrealistic standards of theirs should be lowered, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:26 PM
-2

How is it cognitive dissonance... Men are the ones having LESS success with the women they want.....sounds like the cognitive dissonance lies moreso there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:25 PM
0

Yes but AT LEAST they are shagging these men. Most men aren't getting ANYTHING from women they're attracted to. So it's clearly these men who also have unrealistic standards...because what they want isn't happening at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:10 PM
9

Well if men are having LESS success, then its men who should look at their preferences objectively and be more self aware....no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:04 PM
10

youre tired of the hot men sleeping around
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:09 AM
2

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:01 AM
6

pre selection IS a thing. Its comments like this that blow my mind. And the effort following it to argue it too...when it's like.....what you're saying is straight up false. Whether you believe through some idealism, amazingly lucky and shrouded life experience or not....I dunno....but by saying pre selection isnt a thing, you're straight up lying. Why have you commented saying that? Genuinely curious?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:57 AM
7

Independence, no responsibility but your own happiness, do what you want freely, THE WHOLE BED FOR YOURSELF
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:14 AM
-1

ye but you know the answer...so just stop "discussing" it with people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:13 AM
-5

Most do, and even if they all did, it wouldnt benefit you one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:32 PM
1

Men go for women out of their league constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:46 PM
1

You forsake the others because youre not attracted to them. NOT accepting one option doesnt automatically make you entitled. And you can pursue men, being attracted to them, wanting them, without thinking you are owed it. And if a man thinks a woman should settle for him, then its because he cant get her, but thinks she SHOULD, which is entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:20 PM
1

Its not entitlement, entitlement is if you think youre entitled to it. You can want something and not be entitled to it. Do you feel entitled to EVERYTHING you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:01 PM
2

If all your nerdy friends are in LTR's with fucking MEN then MEN aren't picky beggers, are they?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:59 PM
13

Yeah, women find very few men attractive. 2 things. So what? Secondly. Who cares if they say it's not true, get over it and focus on your own life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:44 PM
1

Wanting and expecting and believing are different words, so they have different meanings. My point above stands Anyone thinkin anyone SHOULD be with them is entitled. Wanting but not settling for less is not entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:30 PM
1

Anyone thinkin anyone SHOULD be with them is entitled. Wanting but not settling for less is not entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:48 PM
1

I think a man thinking a womans standards are too high and the she SHOULD settle for him, IS entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:30 PM
1

No that's not entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:26 PM

Not just for wanting they aren't no. Expecting and believing they should have it, yes, entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:15 PM

Yeah, maybe, but my point stands
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:54 PM

What do you mean? I'm saying that somebody not wanting somebody to cum in them doesnt make them entitled. Whats delusional about not wanting somebody to cum in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:53 PM

You can have a standard "I only date 6 footers" and be attracted to a 5 foot 9 guy but NOT think you can get them or deserve them...so no, you're wrong...those 3 things are all seperate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:41 PM

Have yoy read op? If so youre comment makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:40 PM

Nobody not wanting anybody's biomass put into them is entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:38 PM

Yes but you're not explaining what you think the individual terms are, as they are different or do you think they are the same? A woman who is a drug addict, over weight and ugly demanding from others or conplaining that it is unjust and wrong that she, without effort, hasnt found a physically attractive rich and charismatic man IS entitlement in my eyes... A woman not being aroused by a man on a physical and biological level, despite that man being "perfectly fine" isnt entitlement, its just la…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:03 PM

Doesn't really answer my question, you've just whined about women being entitled with no insight into what you believe that to mean
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:50 PM

As far as entitlement goes, you say the expectation to get and achieve something... Lets say a man or woman is very out of shape, but they expect to get an attractive partner... We mock them and call them entitled...but theyve already started an intense diet and exercise regine and are on their way to becoming fit and the owner of a great body...are they entitled then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:39 PM
4

A redditors nerdy female friends....call me presumptious but.....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:51 PM
1

This aint true, revenge fantasy post
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:58 PM
1

Who cares what low value women settle for, hardly a point proving example
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:40 PM
15

....its in your own post title.... EVERY woman is a bad boy chaser
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:21 PM
2

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:30 PM
3

Ive known countless women say to me "id fuck him" about random men theyve seen and found hot. I once worked in a female dominated office where a girl stuck her tongue out, spread her legs, panted and pretended to rub herself whilst speaking about a guy who visited from another office...and all the others laughed and agreed. Low and behold, women are a LOT more like men than we think. And god bless em for it, why CAN'T they be?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:18 PM
1

They do like em mate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:15 PM
1

Don't we as men have random sexual encounters and individual kinks and fantasys?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:10 PM
1

This but more chill
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:46 PM
1

Ive had sex with average looking girls who werent my type if they were fun and charismatic and had sexual energy....havent we all...but the core of my sexuality isnt based around that....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:42 PM
21

loooooool
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:08 AM
1

Work on yourself and do your best to control your situation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:40 PM
1

No they don't lol They're not "mystical" creatures who can be aroused by the rigjht combination of words and moves, despite a guys looks. We as men arent that special, and women arent any different, better or worse. Its 2022. Women like HOT dudes. Its simple, and they are allowed to be simple, they are allowed to be "like us" Us men spend INFINITE amount of time trying to "decode" female sexuality....but its sometimes just damn simple, they, shock horror, are attracted to physically attractive p…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:37 PM
2

They're right about a lot of things imo but have the wrong attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:58 AM
1

Yeah anybody can increase their sexual energy and sensuality by having a sexual personality. But women masturbate to pictures of hot guys dude. I lived with a nurse who had a "guy of choice" and it was just a static picture of a guy who looked like zyzz. Women arent "above" being primarily turned on by the physical and visual like men are
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:56 AM
3

High angle? Belly dangle...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:32 PM
3

Ask to see their SCREENTIME? How romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:16 PM
13

This, the whole "go outside" crew need to ACTUALLY go outside and see this reality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:34 PM
1

We cant reverse that though or change it, its like covid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:49 PM
3

A very interesting and thought out response, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:34 PM
14

If I was "against people dating whoever they want" I think that would be weirder
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:30 PM
4

smv not rmv
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:48 PM
9

cognitive dissonance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:28 PM
6

You know the RP guys WANTED exactly what you described first right? And then the reality of "women want the hottest most emotionally disconnected man possible" hit them in the face multiple times. And the denial of that truth IS the gaslighting we talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:25 PM
2

They don't want to cope, they want to win. They don't want to just sit it out and take the L, they want to come back and play like the guys who scored do. That's what TRP is for. Not coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:19 PM
1

Why does this sub exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:35 AM
1

No?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:33 PM
2

Its a discusson forum, not a laboratory
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:26 PM
2

This comment is vague, low effort and doesnt contribute. Pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:07 PM
1

Hitler has nothing to do with it....attraction triggers are evolved to spot good genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:42 PM
1

"Would you rather be alone than date a simply above average guy?" - Yes, there's nothing more lonely than being with somebody you're not genuinely not attracted to. People don't get that being alone REALLY is better, on a deep emotional and psychological level, than being with a "slightly" above average guy you'll end up resenting in the long run and all the other complications a relationship brings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:09 PM
0

Projection
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:12 PM
1

Yeah, Id say only 1 in 10 men are truly attractive. Would probably reject WAY more than half of all professional athletes. Athlete doesnt automatically = attractive A meek pushover is easy to spot with unattractive body language. Why settle for an "average 5 foot 9 guy" when the attention is there from taller fitter better looking guys? Any girls dm's are FILLED with at least a few messages from 6 foot handsome guys....thats like, the floor these days. Youre right about "deserve". Wrong wording …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:17 PM
3

They like being fucked nice and deep with a big penis dude, yeah the clit and g spot are at the entrance, but sexuality is psychological and they just love the sensation and the IDEA that they are being filled up by a big bulls penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:12 PM
0

Fast forward 10 years from now... Girlfriend cheated and left.... 3 of those marriages are over And ya'll KNOW this isn't even that unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:10 PM
2

These days 9 times out of 10 they just wont reply and block if you keep trying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:23 PM
1

Yes but attraction is based of biological triggers, a woman sees a fit man and a "gamer" who is soft with bad posture and their brain and hormones go "fit guy will create fit baby" The same way men look at women and signs of fertility and go "yes, great ass, great tits, nice face, nice hair, wanna bang" despite ALL those things being easy to fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:58 PM
1

I appreciate your honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:56 PM
4

Yes but if they regularly get 6.5 plus then 5 inches is a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:55 PM
1

Nothing here contradicts my OP
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:06 PM
7

I think in 2021 its become apparent that what girls consider good looking are what us lads think of as borderline model tier
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:55 PM
1

Its not evil, how is it evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:51 PM
0

If its their nature its not their fault therefore they arent morally responsible and therefore "deserve" doesnt come into it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:07 PM
1

Nothing in my OP about women deserving anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:22 PM
2

What dude? No, they're not naturally unworthy of love. What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:22 PM
0

Of course it does, only YOU know your truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:20 PM
3

Yes, not 100 percent of human beings behave the same as the rest of their gender, I agree. MOST do. There's nothing right or wrong about any of it, you're you, which is as "right" as you can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:15 PM
1

No its not, how is it? A woman stating she is OWED that is entitlement. A woman being biologically and psychological unfullfilled without what I speak of ISNT entitlement ig they can't help it. Entitlement is concious. I'm proposing its literally in their nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:13 PM
10

I'm open to discussion, its more of an invite to debate than "this IS how it is"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:11 PM
1

No, I dont think women are entitled, some are some arent like all human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:10 PM
1

Recognizing means nothing if innate attraction cant be changed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:01 PM
1

More women as a gender are attracting other human beings than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:41 PM
1

I dunno dude, please tell (why ex?)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:37 PM
1

There's a million "logical" and "rational" and "sensible" reasons why a lot of men should go gay, find a nice rich provider man for themselves or change their preferences (lol) to just magically become attracted to a cool guy who they'd get on with REALLY well. But they're not aroused by men, which is the same for women, a guy below physical standard is like a straight man trying to force themselves to be attracted to another man. At best its apathy, at worst its disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:20 PM
1

There's always mgtow. A lot more men would be happy if they took that path.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:15 PM
1

Well, in the context that matters, male female sexual dynamics, we define each others beauty. Women don't want most men. Men want a much larger percentage of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:07 PM
1

Yes but womens heads DO turn, women DO eye a man up in a bar, women DO masturbate over pictures of men, women DO fantasize and often close their eyes and visualise ANOTHER man whilst having sex with their partners....but all this is for a very small amount of men. They ARE stimulated visually by men, but by far less men. Think about it. A slightly skinny fat, plain faced, standard haircut guy in jeans and a t shirt...its just the most unremarkable thing to look at...why WOULD women look at that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:07 AM
1

If you havent had sex for two years its not because youre ripped, its clearly other major flaws. Nobody is saying being ripped alone works. You have to be ripped AND something else, AND something else on top of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:41 AM
1

Not possible though is it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:35 AM
21

...christmas day dude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:59 AM
1

for who exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:54 PM
3

yeah of course I agree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:47 PM
1

I am a dude....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:40 PM
-4

No, thats what youve wanted to hear. I remember even as a 10 year old boy seeing the coca cola ads where the attractive guy takes his shirt off because it sprays all over him and the girls swoon. Plain as day. All the girls at high school going after athletic popular guys. Youd have to literally make an effort to avoid this obvious fact in your day to day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:36 PM
2

Revenge fantasy, they STILL WANT attractive guy post wall. Watch out out there fellas
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:15 PM
1

Yes but women still dont want to fuck them, the same way every guy isnt constantly trying to DM girls who are phd students, girls who are plain but brilliant and caring and interesting, girls who are intelligent and loyal. They are mostly hitting on traditionally attractive hot girls OR kinda quirky looking pretty but bookish girls who seem accessible and have a couple extra braincells in their head....(spoiler alert, these girls are getting attention from "chad" too which is what leads to all t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:07 PM
2

Yes, but compared to other men hes weaker.....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:00 PM
0

Im a dude fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:59 PM
-1

I dont once mention a man being an idiot sterotype, where do you get that from? Great, you like weak men, good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:58 PM
1

Or do both
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:54 PM
0

OG redpill is outdated when it comes to the importance of looks, but how you couldnt come to the obvious conclusion early on in life that you have to be good looking to do well, for the most part, with women, I dont know
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:53 PM
2

?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:43 PM
0

you said big shoulders big thighs and a big chest....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:43 PM
4

Was prince a millionaire recording artist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:41 PM
3

This probably
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:31 PM
-8

Most men want and think they deserve a woman they are physically attracted to, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:30 PM
0

How was it EVER in doubt that looking like an underwear model was attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:30 PM
4

Yeah, the same way a pretty nice looking woman MIGHT be a bitch, but at first glance on a superficial level taller is mostly better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:29 PM
2

Of course it matters. AS WELL.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:20 PM
2

Yeah but you like him for his other qualities. Or is he chubby, ugly, short, bald AND weak and meek?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:20 PM
-2

No its not. Women look better as a whole. Men as a "whole" are stronger and more athletic and tend to be less emotional....women, as part of femininity, just look better on average. We're not equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:18 PM
5

Yeah and most men are fat too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:17 PM
7

Dude....READ her comment....she basically said she likes BUILT guys with big shoulders who are thicc with big legs....her "overrweight" guy is a fucking linebacker....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:15 PM
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No they dont
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:08 PM
-7

Its because most men are not attractive but more women are, so of course there's an imblance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:07 PM
-2

As a masculine man with confidence and a brain in your head and test in your balls you should KNOW what noise to ignore and be true to yourself without letting loudmouth feminists blow you off course. Be a man, do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:05 PM
1

You provided ZERO evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:18 PM
1

No they dont, they are actually fairly transparent on here, and say a mix of personality traits and physical traits. And who cares what girls on REDDIT say, I hate to be that guy, but go outside dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:29 PM
1

Women like hot men. They say it in mainstream media, they say it on social media, they DO say it here (which is the tiniest part of your universe, hopefully) your sisters say it, your mothers say it, its all over advertising and in music.....How you can pretend women are "lying" or hiding the fact that they like attractive men is you literally putting your head in the sand and plugging your ears deliberately. You have to be purposefully out to cut your own nose off to spite your face if you let …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:21 PM
1

So if a woman asks you face to face "what do you want in a partner" you're gona look em straight in the eye and say "hot" are you? YOU'RE pathetic in your total lack of social awareness and callibration
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:57 PM
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Dude it's pretty much assumed everyone wants a physically attractive person...women admit their superficiality all the time, once again, its not 10 years ago, girls CONSTANTLY make it clear they want hot guys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:04 PM
1

What are you on about dude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:02 PM
0

Well they're not going to say they like guys with no sense of humour are they? If you said "I like girls who read a lot" you assume its part of an overall attractive package....you dont assume "oh they said they like girls who read a lot, therefore thats the ONLY quality required to attract them"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:03 AM
2

Your comment makes no sense. Botton line, everyone allows who they want and only who they want to touch their genitals Peace
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:00 AM
2

Two things that make food and sex different. You don't die without sex, you just feel shit. Sex for somebody, is somebody else having to allow somebody to literally enter their body. Its not an external resource like food, its SOMEBODY PUTTING THEIR PENIS IN YOU. Its IMPOSSIBLE for one man to have sex without a woman having to be the one being fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:18 AM
-1

women do not lie about what they are attracted to its not 2007 any more they CONSTANTLY say what they want, attractive cool men, its plastered all over social media, lets not KEEP using that "they lied" crutch
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:14 AM
-1

I'm massively open to the alternative, which is what people answering the question will provide....I'm not being conflictive or even defending my "implied stance"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:43 PM
0

Well im asking a question not making a statement
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:16 PM
1

I'm talking 2 plus years down the line, AFTER limerance, passion and lust inevitably wears off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:14 PM
7

looool
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:55 PM
1

Women dont only want to have sex with poor violent men....just taller, leaner and more confident men than 99 percent of this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:45 PM
-5

No, they think starfish is the only position for YOU As you said, Chad gets her full inventory of sexual experience, Beta Bill Beta-smith gets closed eyes silent missionary
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:51 PM
1

Yeah ideally they do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:25 PM
8

....no...dude.....women would rather fuck the fit good looking guy over elon musk.... Theyd rather have Elon Musk pay for their lifestyle, yeah, but the younger attractive guy IS way more sexually desireable....sorry to break it to you dude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:19 PM
5

No, the reason a mans SMV is higher between 20 and 35 is because he has high test, tends to be fitter and leaner, has better skin, has harder erection, is fitter and looks better. That all decreases as you age. THATS what's sexy.....not....immaterial benefit or whatever?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:34 PM
5

No dude, youre looking at this from a beta provider point of view. MONEY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HOW SEXY YOU ARE.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:49 AM
0

so tall and attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:10 AM
1

So? Don't listen to her yapping?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:15 AM
6

The alternative is that plus a man they don't want to have sex with sat next to them. Literally don't blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:56 PM
4

Its not like that anymore dude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:43 PM
7

Yesh but have you read my OP, NOBODY "knows" what the average woman can get or who they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:42 PM
2

We don't encourage men to adjust after rejection after rejection, we use it as a "reference" point, tell ourselves eventually we will prevail and "keep approaching"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:41 PM
7

But men confuse woman being polite or maybe laughing at a joke to she wants him to ram it in her ass all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:17 PM
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It's 2021 - women have careers, friends, social media, pets, less pressure to get married. It's a safer time than ever in the history of humanity to have the "chad or bust" attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:00 PM
1

They sacrificed themselves for video games and pizza for this long, for their teens, their twenties, their sexual prime....why would they STOP when their T drops in their 30's and above?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:53 PM
4

Michael Buble quite often references Madonna, whore's and sluts in his annual Christmas cover release.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:37 AM
1

Yeah and they'll keep going and doing what they're still doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:07 AM
4

There's NO difference, you treat them all the same. An LTR should just be a plate who became obsessed with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:06 AM
4

95 / 5
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:08 AM
1

ye, so?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:03 AM
0

The rest of the world's sociological and political problems =/unattractive men not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:23 PM
0

Just a sad fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:25 PM
8

I tried the hole dating game, my efforts fell through
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:18 PM
1

Yeah but you couldn't get all the sexless men in the world to stop working if you tried....it's never going to happen. Its just pathetic revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:45 PM
-1

this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:40 PM
1

I think human beings struggle to tell the difference between "wanting to want" and actually wanting what they're asking for. Women enjoy TRYING to get a man to open up. They enjoy the wanting, as with most other elements of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:37 PM
1

You're an A I describing dating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:52 PM
1

r.i.p naked me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:39 PM
0

You're oddly specific
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:30 PM
0

Ah, rejection 1,456, I remember it well... "We don't have much in common..." - A colleague at theatre group we both frequented
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:29 PM
1

Healthy and grounded philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:41 PM
2

Thats great!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:40 PM
0

fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:40 PM
3

ok, their problem
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:37 PM
1

No they dont have a right to rape every woman....in my OP I make that point pretty clear.... Hypergamy is not similar to rape my guy. And who men give their resources to is their choice....I fully advocate vetting the hell outta an LTR and making sure she's not just leeching you for cash, but if you willingly decide to give resources over to her, your fault, and she doesn't owe you here life long attraction and lust regardless of what you provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:09 PM
2

How is it wrong to get the best you can get? Its a biological drive. Love is a choice, not something that "exists". You both have to agree to "love" eachother and be loyal, buts its mostly cognitive, like sobriety, not a "binding force" as people envision it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:53 PM
1

Whats wrong with hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:44 PM
1

Nothing is going to stop people fucking like rabbits. Theres 8 billion of us. We like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:43 PM
4

Yeah, fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:26 PM
3

While your example of drink driving and trespassing to relieve yourself on somebodies carpet are both against the law, with one violating property rights, and therefore shouldn't br compared to something legal like consensual sex, I DO agree that people can judge whoever they want for whatever they do, so I admit that by including the word judgement in my OP I was wrong on that front and agree with you on that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:06 PM
2

What I'm saying is that nobody but the persob having sex is an authority on who the persob theyre having sex with should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:43 PM
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So you're suggesting people have sex with people they're not attracted to...or are at least pressured to do it....and this will lead to positive outcomes HOW? And how the hell do you even, as an outsider, deem who is "right" for somebody to have sex with anyway? Who women have sex with has nothing to do with heroin or financial scams. Only SHE should have autonomy over that decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:32 PM
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No, I'm saying it's immoral to force somebody to have sex with somebody they don't want to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:09 PM
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Doesnt matter, somebody that you're not attracted to is always going to be worse than somebody youre attracted to, by the nature of being attracted to them. Somebody could be the perfect partner on paper and "objectively" but if you dont want them inside them then they are both wrong for you and wouldn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:08 PM
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You can't solve it. Individuals can only solve their own circumantance. One mans "loneliness" is another womans freedom to do with her vagina what she wishes. The reversal of that scenario is worse than swathes of man being alone and sexless
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:54 PM
0

Ok, but it's immoral to restrict that freedom, whether it happens or not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:52 PM
0

Its their own vagina, judging indicates you think you know better who should be putting their penis in there. And the answer is there is nobody better than only the men she wants and allows.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:10 PM
3

Women are allowed to let who and only who they want into their vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:05 PM
1

So the problem is taking autonomy away from women when it comes to who they have sex with is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:00 PM
1

I'm a dude but what youre saying is fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:55 PM
5

So youre saying for the better of society women should be guilted and pressured into having sex with men they dont want to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:54 PM
1

Also fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:53 PM
0

Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:52 PM
1

Youre right I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:51 PM
1

Yeah of course
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:51 PM
1

The human population is not going to shrink to levels of concern just because women only want to fuck good looking guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:50 PM
1

Because whats your point dude? Vaginas birth babies...ok, so what. Theres nothing emotional about any of it, there is nothing immoral about a woman not letting men shes not attracted to fuck her. Youre just trying to hamster around that and failing epically
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:34 PM
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Women and their vaginas are part of the process of giving birth.... Owe you sex then do they??? Whats your point dude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 12:27 PM
2

Nope Women get sex all the time and from wherever they want, so its not a problem pal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 12:26 AM
2

We are not running out of people or babies. Society will not collapse because women like good looking guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:07 PM
3

Well I'm a dude so...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:04 PM
4

So women should let men theyre not attracted to touch their genitals because they contribute more in taxes, as not doing so is evil? What bro....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:28 PM
2

So what are you saying, women's sexual preferences will bring about mass rape due to the downfall of society, so maybe they should consider letting people theyre not attracted to fuck them? Okaaaay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:27 PM
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Men not getting laid is evil is it lol Women not allowing men they dont want into their vaginas is evil is it? okaaaaay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:15 PM
2

Men not getting laid whi air grievances about these societal problems that stem from them not getting laid do not actually care about those problems, they care about not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:08 PM
4

Nobody should be forced to have sex with people...(I know you say this too) But....I agree with the rest of your comment, in principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:56 PM
6

Well youre talking about human bodies as a resource during dire circumtances. And we are never going to hit a point of underrpopulation (I thought OVER population was our problem?) because a portion of men can't get laid. It will never reach a point where human genitals become something we have no autonomy over who is allowed to touch them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:42 PM
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Yeah its not great, obviously its not something that anybodh wants to endure. There is lots of suffering around the world, most of it circumstantial and lots of it unsolveable...I do feel bad for these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:16 PM
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Well that's like arguing that human flesh is a resource during a famine with no other food sources. Eating human beings is still bad and fucked up, regardless of circumstance. But let me tell you, forcing people to let you touch their sex organs is NEVER justified and nobody owed anybody access to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:08 PM
14

Human beings have no moral obligation to let other people touch their genitals. No amount of hamstering around that fact negates it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:55 PM
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Yes but people are still not selfish for not giving it to people, and it shouldnt be treated as an "inequality" that has to be forcibly resolved...People let who they want touch them, end of, and should have full autonomy over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:51 PM
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No, somebody's vagina is NOT a resource and should not be treated or discussed as something to be distributed fairly. Nobody has any right to touch the bodies of others. And "denying" intimacy is to deny that person access to your body. There is NOTHING selfish about not letting people you don't want touching you touch you....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:36 PM
11

who will end up fine if they posess the qualities you mention
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:20 PM
7

Surely those women don't need your consideration as they're loyal and married?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:15 PM
7

ok, so? Are you trying to say from the bottom of your heart that you truly care about the satisfaction of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:58 PM
3

so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:52 PM
45

This "intimacy" and "sex" isn't a resource, it's not currency or food or water.....it's access to a human body. Calling people "selfish" for not allowing somebody access to their body is....uncomfortable to read
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:51 PM
2

Youre correct, everyone should be allowed their preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:15 AM
2

youre right, its way more masculine to get angy wangy when women say they like tall guys
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:14 AM
1

...dating, relationships and sex are primarily centered around touching eachother dude..... Youre the troll here, with no real counter point or point of your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:13 AM
1

How did that prove your point? Youre not making a point. Youre just saying theres an "inequality" in who lets other people touch them....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:05 PM
1

No, because what one party is "lacking" in dating is access to the bodies of others. So end that argument right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:18 PM
1

How are you defining inequality in dating then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:01 PM
1

There is not such thing as inequality in dating. It is a ZERO sum game. What the "have nots" are not having is other peoples bodies. Its not a commodity, its currency, its access to human bodies of which NOBODY is entitled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:55 PM
2

Ok, well what's THE point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:49 PM
2

There is no such thing as unfairness when it comes to who we let touch our bodies. And if your sexual preference or standard doesnt violate anybodies consent or harm then, then no, sexual preference and standards are not "not good" and no they should not be shot down (you cant change arousal, which is why quite rightly the idea of being gay as a choice is mostly laughed at and considered bigoted in modern society)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:42 PM
1

ooooookaaaaaaay
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:00 PM
2

People are held accountable for their actions by the law Sexual preferences are neither illegal nor immoral (unless as you rightly stated, minors are involved)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:39 PM
1

I dont get your point, you havent been clear. I feel like we agree but you seem to think we dont?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:24 PM
2

Ok, so I've been wasting my time arguing with some religious fundementalist or something - great
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:09 PM
1

People should only have sex with the future parent of their child, or its immoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:06 PM
1

sexual standards and preferences are personal and amoral (unless as somebody stated, peadophilia is involved) so there's no such thing as "standard" inequality or unfairness
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:50 PM
1

I don't get your point dude... Women are reluctant to say the truth because men get mad at them....thats my point...whats yours? Men don't lie though do we? And women shouldn't rage if we do state our preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:48 PM
1

How have I moved what goalposts? Women shouldn't get pissed at men for having a preference for DD virgins...I mean, that sounds great to me? And it's not bigoted to have those standards....No sexual standard is bigoted... Your "counter points" arent really making sense dude
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:16 PM
1

Has nothing to do with sex my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:14 PM
2

I can't see it no... Sexual preference between consenting adults is not immoral Criminal acts are immoral....raising kids incorrectly is immoral....but having sex with and being attracted to another consenting adult is not immoral.. otherwise you may aswell argue against anybody having any attraction to any human being who isnt the absolute societal ideal, right? Id argue having sex and kids with a weak willed beta male who wont raise a strong child is arguably problematic, but, its not wrong or…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:58 PM
5

How IS it a bad sexual preference? A "bad boy" selling drugs is a crime and is immoral A woman having consenting sex with a bad boy is neither a crime or immoral....its just two people having sex.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:47 PM
3

Id agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:44 PM
2

Yeah but when they tell the truth, it makes no sense to be angry at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:39 PM
4

Yeah, nobody disgrees that pedophiles are morally wrong for abusing children. But the majority of female sexual preferences arent anything to do with pedophilia....so....dunno what all THAT was about....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:38 PM
2

Stand by their decisions? What decision? To tell the truth after being asked to tell the truth....?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:36 PM
6

....sexual preference can't be "wrong" dude....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:34 PM
8

Yes but their anger makes no sense....WHY be angry at women for telling the truth....when its what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:32 PM
4

Because being dishonest is arguably wrong, their actual preferences are not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:11 PM
2

One is a morally wrong truth and one is not a morally wrong truth though, theres nothing wrong about womens universal preferences....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:56 PM
11

what they mean by that is being on the cusp of financial success
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:50 PM
4

Well no the criminal analogy isnt right, because women's preferences arent "wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:29 PM
2

This is a simple post. Men complain about women lying to them about their physical preferences, and "only ask that they are honest" But when they ARE honest, a huge proportion of men jump in with vitriol and call them hypergamerous sluts with unrealistic standards and that they should lower their standards, blah blah blah....then when a girl posts preferences counter to ripped 6 foot lantern jawed chad....calls her a liar... How about we stop attacking the women who are honest and accept it matu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:13 PM
1

Why is he a 3 to your and what is you type. I don't want "alternative" or "long hair" etc.... Raw physical genetic preferences please....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:33 AM
1

You have to ask yourself why are all those redditors in "happy marriages/relationships" REALLY spending so much time on these forums.....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:12 PM
1

ultra chad aint on reddit mate, its loser nerds who have ZERO success all the way up to chad lites who get a reasonable amount of interest but high flakes, failing relationships and ghostings from short term flings
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:55 PM
1

Who's look was based off a then young Tom Cruise
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:00 AM
-1

Nobody believes they are going to be the chosen one because of fiction...why would gettind laid be any more believeable? Or did mommy not wanna admit daddy was either an alpha fux OR most likely beta bux
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:23 PM
0

Make no mistake, if a woman has branch swung from you to a new guy and your sex was very infrequent towards the end, those two are fucking like rabbits
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:33 PM
2

Do some of you just NOT read the red pill side bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:16 PM
9

It was literally a 5 second clip of a guy singing like one line, not even in a weird way, and my colleague went RIGHT off the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:16 PM
2

"Somebody else." They're always having sex with somebody else. They're always waiting for a message from somebody else. They're always in love with somebody else...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:12 PM
1

So youre saying every man youve ever met or worked with....got more ass than a toilet seat? Its weird to lie so blatantly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:38 AM
0

you dont remember the ones you dont remember
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:05 AM
1

you mean the guys you remember
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:35 PM
3

your icks are reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:34 PM
4

Those things are definitely big positives and contributors to attraction. All falling below looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:11 PM
7

Maybe that face aint a 7 (props on your other achievements though brother)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:57 PM
5

Ok but youre STILL vastly underestimating the importance of looks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:52 PM
16

You are VASTLY underestimating looks. Its 2021, looks are king, its no secret anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:14 PM
5

So closer to 1 in a thousand then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:57 PM
4

...yeah but......first bit...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:18 PM
16

The equation being long term relationship. Casual sex, not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:55 PM
-1

You cannot be a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:51 PM
10

Please expand on that, getting out of your own way?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:39 PM
2

She's a nice girl but I'd admit it may be an extreme example, I'm not saying all girls would react how she did
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:01 PM
0

because they need to procreate... so they do it with the absolute strongest....HOW does that not make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:20 AM
2

Because she's reading about an alpha being devoted to somebody else... ...Am I being punked or something....how hard is this to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:19 PM
3

Your reply doesnt have any relevence to mine, doesnt address any of my points and doesnt even quote my comment correctly, if thats what you were trying to even do? Ironically YOUR comment is an example of "I'm right and any disagreement is just wrong simply for disagreeing"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:06 PM
1

Its because its happening to the female character in the book....not HER the reader....her brain registers it as an ultra alpha being devoted to SOMEBODY ELSE, not HER....pre selection goes into overrdrive and obviously the reader isnt experiencing the downsides of such emotion....only fantasizing about the positives.... If that guy was like that with her in real life her attraction would wane.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:25 PM
3

It's 2021. Negging does not work. What DOES work is disqualifying her in a subtle way, NOT complimenting her, ignoring her beauty and GENUINELY being able to walk away. Having to low key insult somebody makes you look insecure and its amateur game to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:59 AM
11

I was recently chatting to a very hot girl who said she "liked guys with sticky out ears, they're so dorky and cute." The two pics she showed me were two absolute chadliaths with sticky out ears. I've also known a female friend, who was into alternative guys, who liked long hair, unconventional faces and skinny guys. Her ex and the guy she was seeing at the time were both a few inches over six foot and had tattoos and were skinny ripped. My own mother says she LOVES bald guys. Her celeb crush is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:12 PM
2

I'm red pilled but the answer is literally covid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:34 AM
10

what fuckin world do you live in dude, amazonia?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:13 PM
1

....erm....they do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:20 AM
17

Such a vague pointless comment. Every human being with sentient thoughts will have a degree of idealism towards anything with significance in their lives. Male and female dynamics are arguably one of the most sigificant aspects of human experience...of COURSE people will idealise it. "Complete human beings, blah blah don't idealise..." - Do YOU even know what your own comment means? Mods can we do something about garbage low effort replies with zero substance like this one? Only fair considering…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:21 AM
1

brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 12:29 PM
1

Its not super computer accuracy, it's prettt rough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 07:58 PM
1

No dude I'm saying that to each individual woman who claims to only be attracted to one guy at a time, the stat is 1 in 3.5 billion. Not every woman. So my point is technically, the raw data as we put it, shows that those women are only attracted to 1 in 3.5 billion people. Sounds crazy, yeah, but its the literal stat ACCORDING TO WHAT THEY SAY. So when women claim to be attracted to average guys, or proclaim that most women are attracted to "average men" what theyre ACTUALLY claiming based on m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 07:11 PM
1

Half of all people are either gender....there is 7 billion people on the earth Monogomy equals ONE. You can finish the rest of that math... The Delusion Calculator provides the damning figures....go ahead and type 6 foot, 50k a year and not obese into it.... All youre essentially saying is yes....when people mean average...they mean "kinda attractive..." Which AINT average. And its WOMEN AND BPers saying most people ARE attracted to average people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 06:44 PM
1

By your logic people only "consider" and are attracted to 1 in 3.5 billion people, if we are going by the fee fees of "who will I let put their penis inside me" based on the idea of women being attracted to "one special hubby wub" at a time.... All youre doing is confirming what I'm saying dude....that women only consider the top thirdish of men as even existing, and that "average" is the middle of those men, hence top 20 or 10 percent of men are dateable. THOSE are the rough stats by your own s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 06:26 PM
1

That calculator is not asinine, it's just the raw data. It unbiased and objective...if the stats don't sit well with your fee fees then I don't know what to say. Quasimodo DOES factor into the equation because he is a HUMAN MAN who may have the same emotional and physical needs as every other human..... So you're saying that some humans should literally be totally discounted...and that "average guy" girls talk about really IS the average of the top half or so of men, therefore proving the the 80…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:19 PM
2

Im not and never have said that though.....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:48 PM
3

You can be "hot" ugly. Think "thug-ly"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:34 PM
3

So the "bar" "should" be set at the average of the above average...so admittedly....top 25 percent of men being datable.....so the 80/20 rule is literally true....by your own admittance...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:31 PM
15

Its considered "short" by most girls, though plenty of 5 foot 8 guys have girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:27 PM
7

So, average actually means above average, which means it's "evolved" above both it's staistical meaning and it's meaning within the english language.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:15 PM
6

"The average man" Is bang in the middle between most undesireable man alive and the most attractive man alive. So what you're admitting is when women say average, they actually mean average of above average?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 03:55 PM
6

Good old fashioned unabashed blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 03:53 PM
11

So "below average" is anything below the top 25 percent of men to them? How over is it fellas?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 03:25 PM
2

Muscles attract some women the way tits attract some men and ass attracts the others. It's usually a positive, but for a portion of women it's a negative. Being lean is a vast positive, the way a woman being slim is a vast positive, tits ass or not. Get as many broad positives going for you as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:05 PM
0

this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:41 AM
0

Women are UNABASHEDLY hyper feminine....with a lot of cold selfishness thrown in..... Just remember that next time you want to.....mute....your self
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:30 AM
2

You get to a point when youre good at dietinf that you start to register hunger as "body burning through fat" kinda sensation and you start to like it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:54 AM
2

No, I think she's attracted to people born hot who stayed hot and are hot, almost effortlessly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:28 PM
2

Suppose women don't get moist about whats fair or moral or commendable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:59 PM
3

Not really. Youll just have lots of single mothers and "fathers" will be a coveted but rare form of man, physically attractive and dominant. The next generation of males will be much physically better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:00 AM
6

"iM nOt sUrE if IM reAdy tO poSt iT yEt"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:55 AM
4

I'm listening to this and only this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:27 AM
3

"Body building" once you nail HOW to enjoy hunger is actually pretty easy. It requires no skill, no real cardiovascular stress (though do your fucking cardio kids) and makes you look great. High protein, low cals, basic body building split, 5 hours of your life a week, within 1 year youll look fuckin great
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:24 AM
4

Yeah I didn't even reply to this, just read it and instantly disregarded it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:27 PM
2

Nah, both
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:26 PM
4

You're not a liar, I believe that you believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:21 PM
5

Funny how immaturity and having a lot of options coincide...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:09 PM
-3

I didn't call anybody a liar. To believe that the majority of LTR's comprise of individuals who are attracted to eachother IS delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:53 PM
3

The real Red Pill is, in the fictional fantasy world, Jennifer Aniston ends up with Ross Gellar....a mild mannered Beta as all hell intelligent nice guy. In REAL life she was with LITERALLY Brad Pitt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:50 PM
0

Women tend to fuck their husbands like crazy after cheating or being rejected by somebody else. NOT saying this is whats happened but its a well known trait
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:17 PM
0

And yet the post is upvoted by almost a majority of 40....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:26 PM
0

Most people you know have a relationship like yours do they? Or is yours not that special
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:46 PM
5

oh no but they are happy how do you know everyone i know including my hubby is totally in love trp misery loves company.... etc...etc....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:42 PM
1

Not really, as they often leave or cheat or are unattractive themselves and selling the house, making the kids unhappy or going through divorce just aint worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:37 PM
2

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:19 PM
4

The way they show it is different because its less....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:19 PM
1

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:15 PM
4

I literally say "attraction" in my post
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:02 PM
-3

Yeah, and staying a healthy weight is just NOT eating too much, but soon we're gona hit a point where MOST people in the west arent capable of that. Most people arent able to have a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:01 PM
2

A few may be happy, most arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:00 PM
0

No, I'm claiming it's the obvious vast majority who are generally unhappy in their ltr's. What we see, the smiley pictures, the date nights, the limp hand holding and glum faces with the odd smile here and there, is the vapor of happiness that they manage to muster periodically for the public and even themselves. This is the face, and youre in denial if you think most couples are jolly even in public, they mostly arent, and 9 times outta 10 things arent as great as they seem on the outside, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:53 PM
6

.....how does this not prove my point, as it clearly wasnt enough for you two was it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:42 PM
-12

Oh, things are mostly BETTER than people portray them publicly are they? Its willful just ignorance at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:34 PM
7

Most people arent capable of genuine spiritual, self aware, unconditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:33 PM
-20

Just world fallacy. Look beyond the public smiles couples may or may not put on and the majority of them are not overrjoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:22 PM
0

cheating, thinking about cheating, stuck with eachother through utility and circumstance. Its in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:20 PM
-24

Quite frankly, you don't know whats going on behind the sheen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:05 PM
11

I think believing that a substantial amount of ltr's are comprised of couples who are genuinely attracted to eachother is a case of wanting the world to be a certain way, not how the world actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:04 PM
1

because it would just become the red pill sidebar....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:52 AM
6

the majority of couples in day to day life are not attracted to eachother...oh, and santa aint real. This is basic shit you should have figured out by mid 20s at latest
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:49 AM
4

r.i.p
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:41 PM
3

Well then yeah? Whatever you want to call it. Modern dating and pre marriage dating is a minority of men hoovering up the majority of women in a soft harem
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:25 PM
3

....its not mathematically impossible....17 women would father the child of 1 man....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:04 PM
4

its not impossible pal, and it isnt about what I support or agree with. It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:41 PM
5

theyre not your equivilant. Women have inherently more sexual value by default. The genders are not equal. In early humanity it was 1 man for every 17 women that got to procreate. Screw your heads back on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:56 PM
1

its not incel content, its against incels, its pro self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:00 PM
2

If this woman is legit and real then props and credit to her for the introspection and open mindedness to her own behaviour and expectations that shes demonstrating in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:45 AM
-3

r.i.p
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:42 AM
0

r.i.p
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:29 AM
1

20 to 30 year old 6 foot tall good looking musucular men are literally the main SEXUAL preference for so many women it literally might aswell be thought of at 100 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:57 AM
1

NOBODY on these forums opted to sleep around instead of marrying a childhood sweetheart lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:41 PM
0

dude they pretty much do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:29 PM
1

Yes but still as a grown adult who has eyes and ears youd figure things that obvious out right, like, as a grown ass man you learn to observe the world and think for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:16 PM
1

Yes but 90 percent of childhood is a protective fantasy....you grow up and move past it???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:03 PM
6

You know EVERYTHING from the left, specifically female led left, is a giant shit test right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:50 PM
10

Physically unattractive people find it much harder to date and have sex. Why's reddit treat this as some kind crazy conspiracy or "great lie" The moment you become sentient this should be a blatantly obvious fact???? Move past it. DADDY society, politicians or reddit of all places aren't going to solve your problem of a dry penis....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:46 PM
8

Reads like a man pretending to be a woman on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:20 PM
-1

then y u post here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:49 AM
1

nah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:48 AM
1

"mY bOyfRiEnd iS sO hOt to ME anD hE haS a DaD bOd anD is SHort anD" - BLAH BLAH BLAH
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:06 AM
3

Literally don't get your point dude. Economy would be fine. Men need to live and entertain themselves. Theyll pay for it. Or should women wretch inside while fucking men theyre repusled by just so the "economy" is better? Fucking incel losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:59 PM
1

they consume more...food....electricity....subscriptions.....why would they consume less
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:50 PM
3

Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:48 PM
4

Nobody cares about what some woman on reddit claims to feel or not feel
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:42 PM
1

ye but I dont get your point this affects economy how?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:41 PM
0

housing will just adapt, more apartments, more renting, etc. The economy is crazy adaptable. If money can be made, it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:40 PM
5

Single men spend most of their money of technology and consumeables. Sounds EXACTLY like what's causing the economy to grow already?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:47 AM
4

The answer is no lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:33 AM
2

r.i.p
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:19 AM
7

Women don't "care" about any man. So that being the case, I'd much rather be the man she doesn't care for that arouses her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:19 AM
1

Evolution isnt concious and doesnt have a point of view. She only doesnt get pregnant because of birth control which has nothing to do with evolutionary science. The guy who fucks is percieved as the strongest genetically.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:04 PM
6

Didn't you get the memo? Society IS sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:58 AM
1

One step further, break up with all women and never LTR them, ever. It only ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:58 AM
1

Let me ask you a question. And I GENUINELY don't mean this as an insult or to undermine your comments and opinions on this. I ask sincerely for the sake of debate. Are you overrweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:57 AM
1

A good chunk of us RP'rs are well beyond highlighting hypocrisy. We simply KNOW they're full of shit and we watch what they do not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:32 AM
4

sum1 got burnt
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:36 AM
7

1 in 100 men isn't that rare....if you really think about it....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 11:56 PM
2

Just because you're paranoid doesn't mesn they're not after you....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 11:56 PM
0

Yes but a BIG part of the "like" is a response to the other person being "better" than them (more so on the female side) and signs of being better than the girl include treating them like an afterthought/disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:29 PM
1

Yes....did you read the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 01:23 PM
-1

Salmas body on Angelinas face tell me im wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:23 AM
1

You all know the answer lads. This thread is a hamster wheel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:15 AM
2

I date mid 20s to 30s... I never said i was hitting on 18 year old girls....i said 18 - 30 year olds are the subject of who im talking about regarding social media...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:27 AM
1

Im not trying to hit on 18 year olds, wtf are you on about? Reading comprehension, do you have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:24 AM
1

30
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:14 PM
6

God this is so accurate...the french bulldog "fur mummy" thing too looool
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:33 PM
3

thousands isnt even crazy, i have 830 followers and I'm not "trying"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:32 PM
2

I'm talking 18 to 35 age range
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:52 PM
2

I'm not stating it's bad. I'm just stating it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:52 PM
-1

Loads of single professional mothers flaunt themselves on insta. I live in a town of 60k people, and yeah, it's very prelevent. Head has to be in the sand to deny it 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:51 PM
5

No that tik tok meme is a shit test/watch what they do not what they say situation... What they're saying is "its so hot when a guy isn't being given attention by lots of women" It's kinda like when they say "If I see a guy i like surrounded by women at a bar, I'm instantly turned off..." No you're not babe, no you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:41 PM
9

Im 30, live in a RURAL town in england, and a lot of the local women 20-30 years old have thousands of followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:39 PM
1

fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:03 PM
2

No, its more a fucking somebody you shouldnt kinda thing. A bit like why people like danger sex or cheating etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:58 PM
1

You'll need a lot more, but you'll still at LEAST need those....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:57 PM
4

A lot of women get aroused by doing something "bad" or "wrong" Getting fucked raw by somebody others fear or think of being bad really can be a turn on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:11 PM
10

The point of the thread is that the "standard" - Meet woman in 20's, settle down, have kids, stay together for 20 plus years etc - is as dated as sending letters to friends or analog television. SOME people still have those things, but it's simply a product of its time and not the norm and our generation of men are the ones facing the change head on. Next generation will be fine as the new norm will be established by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 10:13 AM
2

There wpuld b more tpyos
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:19 AM
3

Is being rejected because you KNOW youre physically unattractive and that women think that sack of DNA between your legs is worthless and weak from an evolutionary standpoint something that fills you with an existential dread, almost as if comprehending death, not your own, but that of the child no woman will ever deem you worthy enough to have? And do you feel that physically superior men who are maybe having sex with and impreganting the women you want are almost "killing" or "beating" those u…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:09 AM
5

Don't "talk" to women, they don't like it. Unless you're using your words to supplement attractive vibes, your words are a waste, as anything you say rational or not is only going to killer her attraction.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 09:15 AM
1

Even with augmentation yeah, tits are tits. Good fake tits are barely noticeable and look real.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:21 PM
1

The guy she REALLY wants does nothing. He just turns around and leaves her alone like the annoying no longer source of fun shes become and doesnt give a shit if she changes her mood and scurries on back. He doesnt try to manage anything. He yeets.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/21 05:11 PM
1

Im a 30 year old man. I just find breasts hot as hell. I remember once being in a nightclub in my early twenties and there was a thin girl, curvy but thin, who had a tight tube dress on with NO cleavage showing as the neckline was really high but her breasts were quite big for her size and almost forcing themselves out and all I could think was how it was as if she was so feminine that it was just trying to burst out of the packaging, like she's got so much estrogen flowing through her that its …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:42 PM
0

30
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:38 PM
0

For me intelligence and chemistry lose their shine after a while. Physical aspects are always consistently arousing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:37 PM
-4

Amazing breasts. If another woman turned up with better boobs, id be "fixated" on her trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:35 PM
1

"Stable emotional connection" ....you mean... Scarcity.... ....Co-dependence...or... ...Convenience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:34 PM
-1

ditto on the condoms thing. Ive literally walked away from one night stands because of the insistence of using condoms (to which I respect their want to use then and wasnt an asshole to them for it)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:00 PM
0

You mean you lose a scarcity mindset and are less inclined to put all your eggs in one basket
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:57 PM
2

Some aren't. Some definitely are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:57 PM
-1

How can I have ED if fake tits get me hard
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:53 PM
2

Im good
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:35 PM
0

I enjoy massively having sex with women, I like their faces, their bodies, the fewlnof their lips and vaginas. I just also REALLY like tits. And picture those of that one girl almost every time I have sex and am massively underwhelmee by anything smaller or less shapely. Its even the way fake boobs are full at the top and the way the skin shines theres just something really hot about looking down at that cleavage and knowing your dick is inside that body
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:26 PM
-2

I am not fixated on her as a person, just her body. Hell, somebody elses head on her body would be just as hot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:07 PM
1

Fat nerdy couples are like this. A LOT of the girls on reddit are in relationships like this, the kind that say things like "i am turned off by muscular men and I like it when my man cries" Its because, and in a way its an enviable quality to have, they have abandoned the confines of seeking physical arousal and literally only value eachothers character and personality. These relationships are more like friendships, but still sweet and admirable to a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:05 AM
1

Texas abortion bill/= ugly mens ability to get laid or not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:34 AM
3

If youre in a long term fulfilling relationship, why are you posting on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:49 PM
1

Sexual arousal stems from polarity, being different, new, opposite, masculine to her feminine, cold to her warm, hard to her soft, unfamiliar, etc. The only sex you can friend your way towards is starfish sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:37 PM
1

Online dating as we know it was invented in 2012
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:47 AM
1

Yeah of course, I don't disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:05 PM
2

Woman would be using OLD and social media to the same extent whenever it was invented. It was invented recently so they use it now....theres nothing more to it than that... And yeah you have to meet them in real life, but if most women have an inflated sense on their smv because most of them are on OLD and Insta etc, then it affects most men too, so thry become more thirsty, so they may meet a girl in real life who isnt as attractive as she makes herself out to be on socials, but he still bangs …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:58 PM
17

There probably isnt a conspiracy. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:59 PM
2

Yes but my point is regardless of reality, insta and tinder etc ARE the main arena's for dating/advertising yourself. Whether its real or not is irrelevent, if an ugly girl makes herself look hot using make up and filters and tons of guys are DM'ing her and even the odd hot guy or two is locking her down for casual sex once or twice a month, to her, THATS her real value and she will behave and act as such
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:53 PM
1

The top 5 percent of men are the prize
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:11 PM
1

Yes butnin my post I outline that women don't see themselves or evaluate their own value as their make up free naked, tired, bloated selves...they judge their own smv based on their best selfz their profile pic etc, as its the version of themselves most people see in the palm of their hand or on a night out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:10 PM
1

Im not trapped in my own despair. I am a good looking guy. I do get regular sex. And I don't call it "pussy" either. I just recognise the advantage I have.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/21 03:55 PM
0

Yeah, sometimes guys thugmax. Sometimes guys are loaded or a drug dealer on the downlow. Ugly or out of shape guys that are just "saying the right things and behaving the right way" Myth. And youre only here on this forum debating me because youre not even 100 percent sure of even yourself and your own points.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/21 03:54 PM
4

Ok well you need to appreciate youre circle is an outlier. Ive lived in both London and a tiny rural town currentlty, and almost every single girl I know in her 20's has had casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 08:12 AM
2

yeah i mean its always worth trying
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 10:18 PM
0

Yeah youll get some weirdo good looking guys, but most of them are well adjusted socially because of positive feedback loop from the halo affect. And id argue its game that gets average guys foot in the door....but it isnt true desire....
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 09:04 PM
1

I dunno mate. The top 20 hoover up most of the top 50 percent of women. The rest settle for the 30 percent of men below that. Out of necessity some pair up begrugingly with the 20 percent below that. The bottom third of men NEVER feel true desire from a woman. And a good chunk of the average women who settle for average men often lay next to their partner almost restless with thoughts of "what if" about better men who once gave them some attention.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 08:05 PM
1

You're correct that maybe only 10 percent of males are truly fucked. MOST men will achieve success if they work to their strengths and improve their weaknesses. That success will vary, and that success may not ever live up to your desires, but you will find some success.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:05 PM
8

Men who have had lots of success due to their looks have natural condidence and abundance due to positive feedback loop. EVEN if he fucks up with a very attractive girl, he's over it tomorrow because he's got other girls on the hook, whereas Mr PUA is agonizing over his "field analysis" lol
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 06:16 PM
3

There are two truths. From your personal perspective, the BEST mentality to have is a winners mentality, and to try and improve yourself as best as you possibly can regardless. The second truth is, sometimes you ARE just fucked (too short, too ugly, heavy autism, all three) This is what's known as reality.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 06:02 PM
7

There's being pilled and then there's judging somebody on half their face....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:57 PM
0

I'm sure it is, I don't deny. It is pretend sword fighting though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:43 PM
-6

Is akido where you pretend sword fight? Are you both quite nerdy then? Youre in shape and fit, fantastic, wrong assumption on my part. My point on overrwreight couples still stands though. I also echo the same points on nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 02:21 PM
-17

Like I said GENUINELY not being insulting and judgemental, and as I also said it's actually enviable the way overrweight couples genuinely seem to mostly value the human connection more than the superficial physical elements. You and your partner are overrweight arent you? (If you're not then I am the fool, if I am right then what I said rings true, but like I said not meant as an insult.) Only you know the truth, I dont know what you look like. But im 99 percent sure you are an overrweight coup…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:13 PM
3

He killed the younglings both sand and jedi r.i.p
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:44 PM
3

complicit in the murder of a teenage boy is your kinda crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:42 PM
7

Hes a regular on a pill sub reddit so probably a programmer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:59 PM
1

Hmm, I suppose so. I believe those who don't experience it tend to romanticise it more, therefore put the idea of love and soul mates etc on a pedestal. Like some unattainable dream, when the reality is just as mundane as pie is to a first world citizen, where as a kid in africa may dream of the day of a bite of pepperoni with cheese
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:31 PM
1

This aint about me I dont cold approach, I work in a gym and havr other hobbies and friends and do well on OLD. I made this thread as a point of debate, not out of personal frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:14 PM
9

If you have never had sex and are constantly rejected by women, do you subconciously feel like you are being rejected by the human species as not good enough to exist, and therefore reproduce? From a natural standpoint, not a intellectual or character standpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:12 PM
7

It instantly gets into patriarchal territory the moment we try and regulate who a woman has sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:18 PM
5

What does a girl call a short guy with an average face who has a great personality and charm and wit? A best guy friend who LOTS of girls (not her) would be lucky to have....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:16 PM
3

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:12 PM
0

dude this hasnt nothing to do with me, im quite successful with women, I work in a gym and do theatre as a side hobby, I have a massive range of bases covered. Im talking about this as a subject of debate not out of personal frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:26 PM
3

Why would they want to make friends with some random guy they dont know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:11 PM
1

Yes you're right but most guys who aren't confident enough to cold approach arent confident enough to turn an opportunity into success.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:58 PM
2

Why would they do that...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:57 PM
1

Going up to a woman you don't know with the ultimate aim of having a sexual interraction with them. "Normal' guys don't do this. Attractive guys don't need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:49 PM
2

You'd personally love it if you were so attractive a woman would go against her innate female instincts and put herself out there to be rejected by you.... ....wouldn't we all....but you gotta be THAT attractive first
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:48 PM
3

This is true and I agree with you actually. But such as is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:45 PM
0

The kinda guy who doesn't have the balls to go up to a girl and speak confidently won't have the ability to convert an approach from a woman i to success anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:40 PM
5

Because the HOURS of cold approach it would take for any success could be spent in the gym or working on your career.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:18 PM
1

Humanity isnt going to hypergamy its way to extinction. End thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:41 PM
1

so?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:40 PM
3

NOBODY actually cares, in a nutshell its just losers going "You should have sex with me, Mr below average, because otherwise low birth rate!" They don't actually care, they're pathetically trying to get sex via rationalizing which we know doesn't work, you can't negotiate attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:11 PM
15

OR forget about them and live your own life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:35 AM
1

It sounds like I said id do gay oral if i wanted to exchange sexual attention to access money....yeah....the entire POINT of that is I don't...because I don't care about money in a sexual partner. I care about how physically attractive you are, a bank account doesnt give me a boner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:43 PM
2

Couldnt give a shit about a womans bank account, literally nothing but total apathy for it. Id suck dick on the down low if I wanted access to money like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:12 PM
2

Yes but youre a woman on reddit, probably not attractive, probably a bit nerdy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:30 AM
2

Statistically the cold hard fact of the matter is that they usually can hold out for somebody better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:53 PM
5

whiney voice SHATAP PUSSio...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:51 PM
-2

Abundance mentality only comes from actual abundance. Doesn't matter what we think of women or how insecure they may be, most of them still have a bunch of above average guys in their dm's. Next a woman? Great. But she genuinely doesn't care 2 days later. Whereas you may well go 2 years without a crumb of pussy.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/21 05:00 PM
-6

Quite frankly I don't see a bunch of average guys dating hot girls out and about in the world, and it's weird that a lot of people on here pretend to.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/21 04:55 PM
2

Without going into it AT ALL It probably has something to do with how rape is being reported, and who is being accused and why. But let me make one thing clear. Rapists are scum. As are any kind of sexual abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:49 AM
1

r.i.p
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:46 AM
0

a generalization is a generalization, trp works in generalizations as it makes more sense to apply methods that work in general... its not called the outlier pill or the exception pill....or the special case pill..... Singular examples don't disprove generalizations, only that not 100 percent of human beings behave that way, which trp does not refute, but it does claim that chasing unicorns is a waste of your time, which it is even though they may exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:58 PM
3

sexual attention does
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:55 PM
2

Fellas, you CAN'T change your height, so just fucking forget about it, don't read or write posts about it and focus on what you can control. If a woman is unattracted to you based on height alone, shrug and move on. Peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:51 PM
3

a lot of people here use themselves or a "friend" as a singular example to disprove awalt....works both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:48 PM
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Because MOST people struggle very very hard to change. So if they were in lust/love with one type of individual before, or treated an ex better than you, then it's USUALLY (but not ALWAYS) only a matter of time before the scorpion stings the frogs back....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:46 PM
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They will in the same way a fat chick getting thinner gets more attention. What's your point here OP? I genuinely don't understand people who try and ice skate uphill against simple obvious, albeit tough, truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:41 PM
3

Its really not complex. You get exceptions to the ruke but mostly everyone agrees on who is of high or low status in any given setting. Fitness girls fancy fitness model looking men. Rock chicks fancy guys in bands. Etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:34 PM
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Most of the women I am attracted to are 30 - 35. Gal Gadot for instance, hotter in her 30s then when she was miss Israel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:55 PM
3

unfortunately, not. Body really is just the icing. If youre short or not good looking, it barely helps and sometimes it actually works to tour detriment as it makes you look thuggish/serial killery in a bad way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:53 PM
1

depends on his face
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:50 PM
6

height and face >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>personality>>>>>>>>body
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:33 AM
6

...epic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:31 AM
5

Yes you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:20 AM
1

I had a life outside reddit for 12 hours......wow
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:21 AM
7

Pointless thread as no guy on here will ever have that problem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:19 AM

Yeah thats exactly my point. Now read that again and think about what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:34 PM
1

Wome literally ALMOST NEVER settle down with the man who aroused them the most unless it was very young. The man who has that title over most women is either with a very attractive female or still bouncing from vagina to vagina or burned out and turned into a mess
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:53 PM
2

Yea because its still "unplugging" The Matrix analogy is pretty applicable to the entire thing, which is a testement to the film and its metaphorical applicability to a lot of different power structures, not just gender
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:52 PM
1

Pretty sure that's the entire point of enjoy the decline
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:57 AM
3

Dude, sex is fun as hell and quite frankly good satisfying sex is a damn priority especially when you've experienced it a few times. It's not just a chore, it's like half the relationship dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:42 AM
1

Every man is trying to have that much sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:29 AM
3

No thats more akin to fake tits
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:41 PM
2

Absolute myth that attractive men are dumb. Soz pal, plenty of tall lantern jawed guys are also high earning and smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:44 AM
7

tldr hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:00 AM
1

No, both men and women feel EXACTLY the same emotions. They are just amplified by characteristics of the male female brain, and the context upon which they are experienced varying dependent on the individuals situation which is often determined by their sex. Let me explain. Men feel intense attraction more often than women and know how to handle it less due to scarcity being more prelevant in males. Women feel it less because they have more options. Women who do feel intense attraction act CRAZI…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:45 AM
2

Maybe use an example older than a child. 18 to 22 hoe phase, 25 to 30 with the new guy. 13 to 16 and 20 now is just childs play and passes in the blink of a fart
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:40 AM
0

Body is easiest to avhieve, just 18 months of literally working out and eating like a bodybuilder (you grow to love it) and after that its half the work to maintain....Being lean maxes out face aesthetics too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 08:37 AM
2

Yeah its because what they say they wants isnt what they actually want
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:50 AM
5

I mean they're literally evolved to filter out weak men so yeah, but that's a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:09 AM
1

You don't, you get on with your own life and let them chase, be rejected by or used by whoever they run into. I think a lot of people need to get it in their heads that women's standards aint dropping any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:06 AM
8

Kindness is easy. To simp is easy. To submit is easy. It's MUCH harder to say "No" to an attractive woman than it is to say "Yes darling, how much and when???" Being kind to women has no value because even the weakest of men can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:04 AM
8

Men are almost 100 percent of the time in an LTR with their second best if not lower. You literally need to be Henry Cavill to snag your absolute dream girl. And anybody who commits before having sex with somebody is a fucking idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:02 AM
1

Why do you want a yacht? I've never personally understood this, it's just a boat with maybe one or two smaller uncomfortable hotel rooms inside. What's the big deal about being on a boat....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:05 PM
3

RP doesn't tell men that women withdrawing sex or attention is a mind game. It tells men that those things are a sign of loss of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:45 PM
9

As you can see fellas, the majority of the women here say they simply wouldn't date a man who won't give them head. So quote simply, it's your call, but I personally wouldn't date a girl who didn't satisfy me sexually....but if you're of a scarcity mindset, then you may be more inclined to clutch onto your bi yearly starfish sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:41 PM
9

People with low options and scarcity mindset cant relate to ever willingly being alone, almost ANYONE is better than being single for thwm, r.i.p
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:12 PM
6

A relationship without attraction is a nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:10 PM
1

Nah, I love big tits
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:09 PM
6

Constantly supressing that urge to just STEAL a sportscar....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:01 PM
1

Ok so what's your point dude? Mine is, in a nutshell, women are aroused by the hottest guys around. Yours is....?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:51 PM
3

Women are aroused by notable genetic superiority to themselves and the majority of men they're exposed to. If you could somehow biologically engineer giga chad and populate society with him, a 15 out of 10 if you will, then THEY would become the "hot" guys, chads would become average and only slightly arousing and anything below that an NPC. How attractive the female in question is has NO bearing on what she's aroused by. She'll settle at the point where a man is attractive enough not to be tota…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:35 PM
1

Yeah, I've heard it all before xoxoxo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:52 PM
1

Not an advice thread, not really a post you should be censoring, but you do you hun! x
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:25 PM
5

Yet the majority of women on tinder dont agree....based on a photo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:34 PM
9

You're LITERALLY judging the dude right here in this thread based on a PHOTO.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:24 PM
1

Well it's entirely your choice I suppose. This day and age, if you're young, the expectation is to be AT LEAST lean to be considered attractive. If you don't want to learn the fundementals of diet and exercise, then understand that women will struggle to find you more attractive then the plenty of guysnin her dm's who are lean....yes, even the frumpy ones...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:18 PM
2

.....lol....the real red pill = you CANT shit test your way out of a baseline physical preference. MUCH easier to just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:11 AM
2

You may do if you get lean enough.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:10 AM
2

I don't fancy her, we lived together for a year and not once did I even find myself tempted, not every single male and female dynamic has to have a sexual undertone to it, but saying that i have had sex with a few of her friends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:49 PM
2

She doesnt know im a "redpill guy" why the hell would I talk about what reddit boards I read with a normal girl pal in real life? I genuinely meant it in passing as a compliment, her reaction caught me off guard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:03 PM
1

I am not sexually attracted to her. He does seem like a good dude, I was trying to compliment her, was totally thrown off by how she took it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:01 PM
1

Not at all, was literally just a comment in passing that I actually meant as a compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:59 PM
1

I didnt even intend to do that but yeah I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:59 PM
2

Went college together and rented a flat in London because we were both moving down there. We just get on and hang out, like most human friendships?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:58 PM
6

We were havin a casual chat, she mentioned him, I literally just ticked the polite box you do when somebody has a reasonably new relationship and you're catching up by saying he looked nice, relationship kinda guy, not really thinking much too it. It was meant casually and positively.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:15 PM
9

Thing is I didn't even mean it like that, and she certainly doesn't know that I believe that's what it means, it was just a fascinating knee jerk response from her side
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:32 PM
10

Maybe she hangs out on here, I was taken aback by it because of how randomly defensive she seemed to what was a sincere and throwaway comment meant as a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:05 PM
6

Just wanted to see people's thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:04 PM
10

....sex pest? I've had sex with a few of her friends....how am I a sex pest? Usually she can gauge how I mean things pretty well...he isn't even ugly, and I didn't mean it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:03 PM
8

Ive known her for years, we're just pals. Ive had sex with her friends sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:21 AM
18

Well, I said it in a sincere manner, and she snapped the "Oi!" and then proceeded to defensively say he was better looking than me....and all id said was "Yeah he seems nice, looks like a relationship kinda guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:48 AM

just a mindless un self aware lemming
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:12 AM
3

This is what happens when you're physically attractive but "beta"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:22 PM
2

literally a fictional entity then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:18 PM
3

You were fwb's with guys who had less options. That's not a slight against you, if you're a very high value woman then it just means you were their best option. MOST of the time the guy a girl is willing to give sex to on their terms Is of higher value than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:06 PM
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you can't "just be a fuck boy" instead. You have to be born traditionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:31 PM
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they probably do care about him, they just don't masturbate over him when he's not around like she did with her best a couple of years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:37 AM
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If its hard or uncomfortable, do it
/r/TheRedPill30/09/21 03:36 PM
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it's low key more common than you realise. Soft "harems" are like the coke scene....its kept hush hush, but way more people, and people you'd not think would be doing it, are doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:22 PM
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Confidence is not the main attraction killer. Being ugly and being submissive are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:33 PM
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Some would argue there is no such as attachment styles, only those with abundance and those with scarcity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:46 AM
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If she's that good that she meets his high threshold then she's going to have loads of high value options, the guy committing to her is going to appear less valuable than the guy who has his fun with her but continues to exercise his many other attractive options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:44 AM
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swallow this fellas
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:43 AM
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How much of the Red Pill is cope, and is it not realistic ENOUGH I think the red pill has the right idea when it comes to servicing the individual. You take the advice, absorb the knowledge and do with it as you wish for your own ends. It's basically "Hey guys, this is the raw reality of dating. It may suck, but here is the truth, now deal with it as you wish, no judgement." But how much of the red pill is actually cope? The attitude of "don't let your shortfalls make you give up, here is how yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:29 AM
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We speak often about how a man who dates a woman and committs to a woman, expects and is frustrated by, women who have sex with a very attractive guy straight away, and makes him, the boyfriend guy wait for the same...or often slightly less enthusiastic sex.... But if you are the kind of guy who is literally giving away all his freedom and essentially selling out, taking any other sexual options off the table, so that you can secure the sex and affection of ONE woman...how can you expect her to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:07 PM
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No, they're not attracted to how confident you are in your own level of attractiveness, they are human beings and get physically around by lean muscular handsome men. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:22 PM
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We speak often about how a man who dates a woman and committs to a woman, expects and is frustrated by, women who have sex with a very attractive guy straight away, and makes him, the boyfriend guy wait for the same...or often slightly less enthusiastic sex.... But if you are the kind of guy who is literally giving away all his freedom and essentially selling out, taking any other sexual options off the table, so that you can secure the sex and affection of ONE woman...how can you expect her to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:31 AM
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Before date 1? He goes BACK in time to have text with women? Watch out fellas....now you don't just have to worry about her past....her future can cuck you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:32 AM
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....makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:07 PM
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I'm a 30 year old man and all my celebrity crushes are mid 30s and I've been REALLY attracted to some women my age or older. Maybe I am an outlier but the idea of having sex with a fully grown adult woman, her voice, her mature face, her experience, damn its WAY hotter than a dough faced puppy eyed girl in her 20's
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:40 PM
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I doubt your above average man is the kind of man to have half an office dripping over him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:49 AM
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Makes you wonder just how much they're settling when they have an average guy all to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:37 AM
2

its not enough to not be unphased about having a small dick, you need to ACTUALLY not have a small dick
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 11:30 PM
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"how to become a badass emotional stoic who can handle anything, put yourself in harsh emotionally testing situations..." PROCEEDS TO LIST A VIDEOGAME MISSION AS EXAMPLE
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 11:26 PM
1

Its not a rant, its a fairly succinct post with examples to prove my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:18 PM
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I don't even need to reply to this one fellas... Truths right there for everyone to see. 100 Dm's for this BP woman ladies and gents.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:24 PM
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Yeah it horrific the way women are treated in a lot of countries, hell, most countries. In the west there is still a lot of sexism and I'll treatment of women... Yes... Terrible things I Dont condone and sympathise with. Still doesn't mean you don't have dating easier... And you just admitted you're blue pill because essentially you are an idealist. There's your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:48 PM
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Yes I'm sure blue pill suits you, you're a woman, dating is infinitely easier and you have the luxury of sitting back and enjoying the ride much like a child on Christmas day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:18 AM
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No, we next at the sign of any negative behaviour. We don't seek it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:17 AM
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There's no convincing myself it's realistic. I think I'm displaying a fairly strong confidence in my understanding of what RP is and it's reflection of reality. And the "silly pill" thing is just a vessel for the ideas, it came from the idea of the film the Matrix where a red pill wakes you up to the reality and blue pill puts you in the dream world. And yes they are questions that people ask day to day... But they are questions a lot of men have asked and come together to answer in great analyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:05 AM
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.... It is literally the point of TRP TRP began as two questions... "Why am I not able to be successful in love?" and "Why am I and my partner not happily in love" From it came the search for answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:42 AM
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Most human beings are NOT happy in love... And that includes those in relationships... If you can't see that very very basic and obvious truth then the answer to my question at least in your case truly is just ignorance and naivety. It's like an upper middle class white girl denying poverty and wealth inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:36 AM
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Yes but RP is literally just reality... It's not an ideal, it's a admittedly gritty and unforgiving reality, but accurate non the less. And you know what, if it became apparent that certain aspects were mistaken... RP would adjust...to that. If we woke up tomorrow and the vast majority of women were attracted to fat guys red pill would advocate getting fat, if being kind dropped panties and created unconditional love red pill would heavily advocate holding open doors for women. Red pill by defin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:33 AM
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I know but you have to understand you're basically saying that reality isn't reality right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:25 AM
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Well in theory it would leave men with women close to the BP ideal as we've nexted all those who do display negative awalt traits... Which are the vast majority.. Instead TRP heavily advocates not getting into LTR's and no cohabiting based on the sheer statistical unlikely hood that you'll meet a woman you'll never next
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:25 AM
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You just need to look closer or let time tell. Some people don't have analytical capacity, not your fault. One day those LTR's will end, or one or both will eventually become unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:15 AM
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RP is a practical tool, so regarding generalisations, it makes sense to apply them. AWALT for instance. Yes, it's true, there will be a percentage of women who are not like that. But it's large enough a percentage that as an individual you HAVE to operate as if they are all like that, as your chances of finding an exception are so so so slim. And RP is literally in a nutshell "hey guys, this is how gender dynamics Actually are... Sucks huh? Well here is how you realistically navigate these reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:12 AM
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No what I'm saying is every couple Does fit into RP ideology if you look close enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:07 AM
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I'm saying it's every couple ever. But yeah I know a few personally, and a few from a distance. Some better than others. I think a lot of BP is much like religion or santa clause. You need to literally have an element of faith in the supernatural definition of love, as some isolated force/emotion totally detached from the natural world that binds people together. I personally am more of a thinker than a feeler. I'd rather know the harsh truth and tackle it head on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:01 AM
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Interesting, maybe it's dependent on how analytical and realistic a human being is then, or a general sense of idealism in BP people. I see lots of "blue pill" examples in real life.... Happy "average" couples.... Fat/short guys getting girlfriends etc.... And I suppose a BP person sees that and goes oh, look, variety and a con tradiction of what RP says about attraction..... But as an RP guy.... When you scrutinise these average couples...when you question it and observe it closer.... The less …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:55 AM
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What do you think the main reason's are for somebody subscribing to blue pill, naivety, denial or cope? Edit : I don't mean for this question to appear antagonistic I just literally havent found a softer way to word it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:29 AM
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I am pretty red pill. But I've luckily had success with women. Those guys who aren't getting any and are constantly lashing out and displaying their bitterness instead of sucking it up and doing something about it or being good old RP stoic about their lacklustre situation do not have my sympathy. I have no bitterness towards women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:31 PM
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Those older women you're speaking of are no different than the younger girls, they just have less options so overlook a bit of low value behaviour and push past the lack of excitement that comes from sitting across the table from a man who she knows is a sure thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:28 PM
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If a man makes it obvious he's trying to limit his supply of sex to one woman for the rest of his life, especially early on, it kills attraction as it's indicative of low options. Dress it up however you want. That's the raw of it all. That's how it's been for hundreds of years before bumble existed and candle lit dinners. How that square peg fits into whatever shaped hole is up for men and women to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:52 PM
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Its a metaphor.... Does the age old saying "plenty of fish in the sea" offend you? I am getting some.... Where did I say I wasn't? It's not fundamentally flawed. Just because the reality of attraction dynamics is a bit grittier and in some ways counter intuitive to our idealised minds doesn't mean it ain't true. Nine times outta ten the truth isn't pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:21 PM
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No, it's NOT far removed from reality. When people finally get it into their heads, especially the men out there "looking" for a relationship, the easier it's going to be for them. To the men out there dating with the intention of finding a monogamous relationship here's a tip : Showing a woman, ESPECIALLY early on, that you are looking to limit your sexual supply to literally ONE girl, indicates you have VERY limited options and are trying to cash out by tying down one girl. There's a reason wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:53 AM
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No, not a minority at all. I live in a rural part of England. I've had sex with the sweetest girls when I first met them. I've had sex with skanks straight away too. They're all for the most part lower to upper middle class, majority of them have a degree and a full time job. They for the most part are normal girls who had and have gone on to have relationships with various types of guys. Its not some niche slutty minority. A massive subsection of the population have chill casual sex, especially…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:43 AM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:37 AM
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Men actively LOOKING for a relationship and approaching the dating scene as if they are LOOKING to commit to one single girl will without a doubt be coming across as unattractive and beta AF to the majority of young single girls. Attractive men who don't treat women seriously at all and couldn't give a hoot about getting an LTR have girls banging their door down looking to tie them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:40 AM
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My last twenty or so lays were with women who I had sex with the day I met them. This has been over the last three years or so. A couple went on to be longer term things, a few are now friends, a few don't talk to me at all anymore. They were all different kinds of women. Women absolutely do have casual sex and it absolutely can be with people outside their social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:40 AM
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Sorry bro, besides being obsessed with monkeys (lol) you're now just essentially coming at me with "women are attracted to all kinds of men"....ok, they are attracted to those men for their strengths...they are attracted to the facially attractive fem boy....the confident charismatic overrweight guy....its their STRENGTHS and masculinity and genetic qualities they like.....these women are not attracted to the overweight charismatic guy BECAUSE he's overrweight....its because hes CHARISTMATIC... …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:29 PM
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Women are not attracted to simps dude....like, you're saying they are or what? How is a simp chill anyway? Seems like you're "cherry picking" terminology now... How is being assertive and domineering being an assehole? You can be those things and not be an asshole (being an asshole about it usually involves loss of frame, like...losing temper....or gloating and being arrogant aka being insecure, which is weak....) Little men have families....yeah, ok, cool. How does that disprove anything? And I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:28 PM
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RP does NOT state being aggressive is attractive. Being aggressive is often a result of losing temper and losing frame. It's emotionally volatile behaviour....often percieved as weakness. Stoicism and being non reactive is constantly banged on about by TRP...aka....being chill. Anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:12 PM
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How did I admit to cherry picking? And what points do you contest, I'm happy to address them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 06:30 PM
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Nothing in my RP points says anything about aggression being attractive, I dont use the word alpha and I never discount being chill (usually a sign of emotional resolve and stability, a strength) as being unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:50 PM
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So is it just willful delusion, or do you genuinely think those who subscribe to RP actually WANT dating truths to be harder than they really are?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:03 PM
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Yes but the point is irrelevent. You need to understand the REALITY of it before you even attempt to change it, and to acknowledge the base you are working from. Blue pill essentially says "hey, everything will turn out great for everyone who is nice and loving"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 02:25 PM
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Ok, so you're saying WITH IDEALISM, what I'm saying is wrong. Yeah agreed, but my point was reality as is, not ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:48 PM
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I have listed a few points of both the red and blue pill. My question is, to you, what seems more like it lines up with actual biology, void of idealism and naivety. Keep in mind if you can we ARE biological being, are part of what is essentially the animal kingdom and exist in what is a relatively NEW societal frame work. We are at our core still the homo sapiens of thousands of years ago, and MOST of us are unable to detach ourselves from our primitive drives, which is totally understandable a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:35 PM
1

Value is what you make it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:34 PM
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30 year old man here. Weird how "being and adult" and "growing up" seems to often, in the eyes of some' coincide with becoming MORE naive and idealistic when it comes to attraction.... Looks matter, most women have a universal preference, do yourself a bloody favour if youre a single guy and just accept the truth and make yourself as universally attractive as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 10:11 AM
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Womens brains dont comprehend their own emotional and biological reason for doing things. "Hes a great guy to settle down with and I'm going to give him a chance but I've never masturbated at the thought of him" translates in their hamster as "He is relationship material but I'm not comfortable having sex with him just yet." These are BASIC things us fellas should just be aware of by now...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 10:01 AM
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Women hold it higher, they just hold everything else higher too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 09:24 AM
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Just cos she does it doesnt mean she likes it, she likes the additional benefits of it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:32 PM
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Relationship fatigue, bordeom, him slipping into beta behaviour over time, attractive man flirting at work PLUS unflattering angle...is sometimes just enough to flick the switch
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:01 PM
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......right... ..... .........
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:32 PM
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Its SJW and white knight to suggest us men don't keep banging on about returning to the gender dynamics and patrichal societal structures of the 50's and instead focus on ourselves? Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:30 PM
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.....why else would people on a pill reddit board advocating it in this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 02:41 PM
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Shed be less attracted over time. Womens attraction even to "chad" wanes over time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:54 PM
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There are people in this thread advocating it...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:08 PM
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Youve also gotta remember that a big portion of your attraction comes from his reluctance to committ
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:16 AM
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An average guy does not have more rmv than a hot guy. An average guy has more relationships because he allows women to settle for him and is totally unaware he's being settled for because he doesnt have the reference point of how a woman who truly wants him would treat him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:18 PM
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This is true. I slept through a lot of whores, met an amazing madonna, felt bored and unsatisfied with her, and now sleeping with madonnas kinda feels hollow and pointless. Men can kinda ruin themselves too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:22 AM
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For a year I had a girl spending time with me, acting submissive, asking me for committment. I then ended it with her and she still talks to me and arranges hang outs. She isnt in control of a damn thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:22 PM
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They like tall lean men with good hair and rectangle heads. They dont like small chubby men with no hair and round heads Everything between those two is a spectrum, but its pretty linier
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:20 PM
1

How can anyone watch porn without fapping
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:18 PM
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If you havent noticed the sheer amount of guys on the pill forums literally venting tbe sheer disappointment at the fact that a nice women is not something promised to them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 10:20 AM
1

exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:20 AM
1

Hey, could be!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 12:32 PM
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I work in a gym and a lot of attractive girls are on there, my town is small and the gym is the biggest one here so its basically like real life tinder for me. Its a bit surreal, I have spoken to a good portion of them online only but in real life we barely say a word to eachother. Most of them look like their pics. On the other hand, I have seen Tom Cruise in real life, up close, and he has a much bigger nose and looks older and has frightening hooded eyes that you dont really get a sense of on…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:33 AM
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Recently I saw a girl I used to have casual sex with at her house post a picture on social media of her and some average at best looking guy who was clutching ber from behind with his chin on her shoulder and just seemed happy as hell to have ANY girlfriend Months before I was literally having anal sex with her whilst choking her and at one point she was gurgling so hard I had to stop to check I wasnt killing her. I wonder if he has any idea or if he does the same thing. She was just an average …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:28 AM
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My mother once described her attraction to my dad as "being so strong I literally wanted to climb inside of him" So yeah. But remember, women DO settle for men simply to provide then with a father/provider/resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:57 PM
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You know red pill, of which I advocate, warns us AGAINST getting into ltr's, marriages and creating familys? It sounds like you're frustrated at blue pillers for restricting you from achieving blue pill goals....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:07 AM
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Its not telling people their life is going to suck dude....its telling people hey, NORMAL men will have a "tough" time dating the way MOST men have trouble becoming a millionaire... If tou told EVERY kid they will grow up to be massively successful, and they hit 40 and are only making 60k, they may feel shit about it. But we dont promise success...we say its POSSIBLE and HARD but fairly normal and nothing to be ashamed of if like most people you just end up making a comfortable living
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:25 PM
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Well if youre not brainwashed into thinking youre going to grow up and have an amazing dating life and find love, you dont become bitter and disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:47 PM
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You know this is partially to avoid male kids growing up to be sucidal?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:27 PM
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Would be interested to see your example of a "dad bod"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:52 PM
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What the poster is saying is that some people have an "they have to be AT LEAST this good, or I'd literally RATHER remain single" attitude. Which reflects how most women do and should approach dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:40 PM
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He wasn't chad enough basically
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:38 PM
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Interesting, thanks for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:24 PM
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Yeah cool, I'll let the lady answer for herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:24 PM
2

Yes but who ended it and why
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:51 AM
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It's because a woman chasing you has high interest. A woman with high interest will always be easier to work with
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:49 AM
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No, YOU need to be the snack on the shelf
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:32 AM
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Whether they're unrealistic or not is irrelevent really. If you're not aroused or attracted by your partner, then eventually the relationship will crumble. I think women need to maintain their arousal standard (for the benefit of the guys more than anything, you don't want to be settled for physically fellas, you'll end up getting fucked over) and they may need to adjust the more academic stuff, like earning brackets and meanial things like arbitary measures of social status and level of degree …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:48 AM
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Yeah well whatever, we as men want what we want, but my point is lets not make out to our male kids that it's gona be the easy ride with the happy ending we were mostly told it was going to be
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:39 AM
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.....why's this emotional sweet sensitive and anxious guy your....ex....?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:04 AM
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Its not "eat shit men" Its, hey young guys, OUR parents and media and society sold us this dream of finding love easy, it almost being something we are all destined for, and that being yourself and combing your hair is all you need to do to achieve this. I'm saying we learn from our own disappointment, our own frustration at what we were told not lining up with reality, and change the narrative early on with the next gen so that they dont share our disappointment and pain, so that they understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:39 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:06 AM
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Ok, great, every other failed civilization in history used forced monogamy, keeping women unhappily married with men theyre not biologically attracted to. Cool. I wonder if last civilizations all shared other aspects that we now look at as abhorent? Hmm... And its 2021. You gona force monogamy now? lol And I dont care if men would rather this or men would rather that. My OP states that its WOMEN who are attracted to a minority of men....and we cannot change that..... So your points are....force …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:14 AM
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Even better. My point is veer them away from the programming that says you WILL be destined for true love
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:09 AM
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I didnt say brie larson....I said her MAMMARY GLANDS
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:43 PM
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Successful people understand how HARD the competition is and how HARD they are going to have to work to win. Im not saying teach people to expect to lose....I'm saying teach them to expect it to be HARD... Until now, society has taught us that winning the game of love is for granted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:41 PM
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Yeah....I dont disagree....so we need to learn to set our expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:39 PM
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They will spend even more money on the fastest growing and most lucrative industry there is....the industry THEY want us pouring money into.... Tech
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:37 PM
1

On some level betas KNOW they arent attractive enough for their woman. Thats WHY they act beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:26 PM
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No, its that 80 percent of women find 20 percent of men genuinely attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:25 PM
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No need to tell them they WILL be a genetic failure. Just that its unlikely they will experience dating and relationships and sex in the "everyone is destined for happiness" kinda way we've been pushing on them for the last few decades
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:24 PM
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Its the womeb who are mostly unhappy with average guys. Average girls date/fuck average guys as 2nd place....they really, like all human beings, desire 1st Unless you are a high value guy or gal, you have been settled for to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:22 PM
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They are desireable by a lot of people, once they are conditioned towards it and see the apparent benefits when blasted with idealised versions of monogamy. Theres also a MASSIVE industry around undoing monogamy, a lot of unhappy couples, a lot of cheating and a lot of people veering towards staying single or having multiple partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:18 PM
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Dude, you LITERALLY CANNOT negotiate attraction. Women CANNOT be changed. What they are attracted to is an unmovable variable. And as men, who have agency of ourselves, we can attempt change.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:15 PM
1

And whats the prescribed cure for oneitis? ....fostering the opposite of scarcity....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:10 PM
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lemmi tell you i dare you to find an ass as sexy as brie larsons tits on the jimmy kimmel episode she hosted. not her, just her amazing elastic are they fake or not tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:02 PM
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Because 9 times outta 10 the "unconditional" loves these people think they feel is just MASSIVE scarcity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:00 PM
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Yeah, it IS normal for anything but the top men to experience true desire, lust, attraction. I stand by that absolutely. The majority of men may get some muted version of that, I also agree. But never the real deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:56 PM
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Oh I'm sure MOST men can "get" a woman in some shape or form. Men who make women horny? LESS than 30 percent. Probably by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:42 PM
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"Ask not what my country can do for me, but what I can do for my country." - JFK ....but the sex equivilant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:07 PM

People get what they get. If a fat woman "asks" for a hunk, and for YEARS gets nothing, then she'll either lose weight, stay alone or go for an out of shape guy. Let them ask and demand and expect all they want. Thats not the issue. The issue is US MEN banging fatties out of horniness/desperation. Yourself on an individual level? Tune out to the noise of Chubby Chloe's demands, work on yourself and stick to your own standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:04 PM
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Its not telling an entire generation to eat a shit sandwich. Its NOT telling an entire generation that a unicorn sandwich is promised to them in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:51 AM
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Ok, tell them they WILL have what their parents have....and when they realise they probably won't, or that what he thinks his parents have is actually a lot bleaker than the facade portrayed, find out the hard way when its too late to really do anything about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:09 AM
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.....what does adjusting women's expectations have to do with anything? We don't need to adjust womens expectations...as men, just don't give it to them, problem solved... How the hell does my OP imply I'm advocating for simping? If ANYTHING its the complete opposite....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:21 AM
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....Yeah, they arent entitled to anything from a man....so don't give it to them??? This thread...nay...sub...is about attraction....I don't understand the point you're trying to make in your reply to my OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:48 AM
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Ok but my point is dude, whether they are conditioned to believe theyre entitled or not, its IRRELEVENT to us men, because they're still not gona be attracted to most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:37 AM
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'According to stories' - lol Regarding stories and the forced monogamy era of yester yore, you don't hear the stories they didn't want to tell you. (Women being unattracted to their husbands, cheating, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:35 AM
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No, I am not correlating those circumstances at all, my point was about DESERVING. Whether you deserve a circumstance, has nothing to do with anything. And I didnt mention deserve in my OP, whereas you claim that in my OP I said we should tell young men they dont deserve love. Reading comprehension, attain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:33 AM
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I mean tbh....if youre a short bald indian janitor with an overrbite...you should, for your own mental health and emotional well being, kinda accept the raw deal and find other purposes and pleasures in life. Hell, you may even get lucky. But people should not lie to you and pretend you arent fucked romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 06:25 AM
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It does happen dude. Not humble bragging but ive had it, not every day, not every month, but every now and again ive been bang on some girls type and theyve literally bahaved like a CRAZY person for me. Other more attractive men will get that more frequently than myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:29 AM
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Forced monogamy, fine whatever, but the women STILL arent attracted to their forced partner. Thr attraction this is UNCONTROLLABLE.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:24 AM
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When did I say most men dont deserve love? Deserve has nothing to do with it. Some people are wonderful souls and they are born disabled. They certainly dont DESERVE that, but you dont fill their minds with the cruel fantasy that one day a miracle will allow them to walk. Maybe it will, but its unlikely. And neither did I say ee should perpetuate the "prince charming" narrative or whatever to women. We cannot control what they find attractive, biology has that role, theyre a non controllable var…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:16 AM
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I think the not shaming men for being sexually unsuccessful is a BIG part of the solution. You should not be shamed for being undesired by the vast majority of women. Its NORMAL for the average guy not to be lusted over, not shameful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:13 AM
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You cant negotiate attraction. Its impossible for us to alter things on the women end. They are attracted to what theyre attracted to. Its not a variable in our control.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:12 AM
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Well you cant action anything to make women love those men unconditionally so theres really not much alternative, on an individual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:11 AM
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Youre not born expecting a long term loving monogamous relationship. Thats not human nature, thats society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:10 AM
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Well not really. Sex ed doesnt fill young mens brains with fantasies of true love and that every one of them will be desired unconditionally. Sex ed just teaches people about the science of sex. That does not need to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:08 AM
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I believe wholeheartedly that its much LESS than one in five men on this planet who experience true tingle inducing desire from a woman. If you break it down it really doesnt come as a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:57 AM
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Ok cool, this thread aint about debating if magical love and fate exist though so trot on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:43 PM
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Thats not what I said at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:40 PM
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This all sounds like good stuff, lots of realistic healthy values
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:57 PM
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epic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:55 PM
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Ok but you cant change what their biologically attracted to. You cannot bargain attraction. So "dealing with the woman" side of things, as men, is out of the question. They are how they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:47 PM
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The purpose of this thread is to debate whether setting male expectation is a viable solution to future emotional and psychological pain/frustration because most men wont experience true desire from a woman, which until now they have been conditioned to think is normal and that if they dont achieve that they are some kinda freak. Which isnt true, as not being lusted or desired after has been revealed to be NORMAL, and its only the top men who experience it. Its basically like saying, hey, just b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:45 PM
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Theres something about being a genuinely good person, with loving family, and a few friends and a PURPOSE to your life, that makes REAL happiness. Happiness does not come from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:40 PM
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Ok cool, I had no idea the majority of average guys in the western world were being lusted over, there's no problem then lets shut this subreddit down and end thread
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:30 PM
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I wish your son the best, I'm sure you'll do a great job
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:19 PM
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Ok cool well talk about idealistic love in another thread, this thread is more to do with the raw realities of modern society and attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:17 PM
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ok cool well debate that in another thread
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:02 PM
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Sorry this isnt really a "blue pill/redpill" debate thread. Its admittedly more of a "disney romatic fantasy isnt real, ok how do we deal with this as a society" kinda thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:38 PM
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Theres being treated differently and then theres who you allow to potentially impregenate you. Attraction based on looks is not discrimination. Its entirely freedom of your OWN body.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:18 PM
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Yeah but imagine being the guy who your woman had to force her minimum threshhold down for. Either way you cut it, its a raw deal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:14 PM
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They dont proffess it isnt true....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:15 PM
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Allowing somebody to inseminate you is a lot different to living and working and sharing a water fountain with somebody. A crazy failed mataphor you got going on there. And disrespectful, to equate a ugly guy who cant get laid to a race of people being enslaved and discriminated against until right up to the modern day....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:38 AM
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Ok, but as a man, of which I am too, we don't need mommy females to give us empathy, we god damn grit out teeth and carry on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:35 AM
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Incels who cant get laid pretend the world is literally crumbling around them. Narcissicm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:34 AM
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So natty bodybuilders have banging girlfriends then....doesnt disprove my point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:27 AM
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Lots of men, attractive men, still go for fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:26 AM
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Its all just different words for "what turns me on in a man"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:42 AM
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Imagine being a man a woman had to "try" to be attracted to...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:40 AM
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What can possibly be done besides bio engineering women at birth to be attracted to less attractive men, or installing taliban esque laws to force women to be with men they dont want to be with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:38 AM
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They are allowed to have their preferences. Find me an example of ANY female saying shes attracted to more than 1 in 5 men she sees or encounters....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:48 PM
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Most couples long term comprise of people who arent that attracted to eachother. Abrahamic religions managed to enforce an artificial monogamy bubble that has now burst. More news at 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:42 PM
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Allowing somebodys sex organ inside you is a lot different to racism dude....wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:40 PM
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Why do you NEED empathy? Youre an adult not a small child
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:38 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:38 PM
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Meanwhile they and the fuckboys are getting laid, while those of you mocking aint
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:54 PM
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MOST bodybuilders are facially ugly dude. Fitness models always have BANGING girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:52 PM
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I cannot for the life of me encourage my cock to be more realistic about what makes it hard. Same should be applied to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:50 PM
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And you shouldnt be villified for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:48 PM
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So? Should we villify men for wanting women they cant have, aka, literally most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:47 PM
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Theyre not denying it though, it isnt 2007
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:46 PM
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I am a man dude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:54 PM
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Attractive or semi attractive women do not label it shallow objectification, they are instead playing the damn game. Its the unattractive women barking on about that. And who cares what they have to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:21 PM
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These women literally CHOSE to be alone over being with average guys. Why cant people fathom women would rather nothing than what actually satisfies them? Projected desperation?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:19 PM
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Yeah, it is, so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:18 PM
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It didnt used to be the norm. No internet or phones Old school abrahamic values Smaller localised social circles
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 11:33 AM
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They did make sure they'd rather be single....the poster said that these women actually TRIED dating men who were not hot....and it back fired....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 11:25 AM
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Only 8s or above for you eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 11:08 AM
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Ok, I don't think we disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:18 PM
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Whats that got to do with dad bods? Women always PREFER fit men. Some of them will tolerate skinnyfat or "dad bods" in conjuncture with other positive qualities. But they always prefer fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:45 PM
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Take a 5.9 man between the age of 18 to 30, put him in a crowd of other people from his age, and he will look slightly shorter than most. 6 foot is pretty much standard for young men these days. Nobody cares about older shorter generations, theyre not the compeition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 02:05 PM
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Women don't view it like that. It's 20 percent of the MINIMUM standard. So women are only attracted to thr top fifth pf that 30 percentile of non obese men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:12 AM
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An adult man should be grown properly, like it's not a MAD expectation for women to want a man who looks like he grew up to be as big as a grown up. They want a man who other men and women take seriously. 6 foot is the MINIMUM for this. Its not something I blame them for. Being short is like a woman having a chest as flat as a surf board. It invokes the same feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:09 AM
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No, they DON'T like dad bods. They do NOT. Some of them may EVEN say they do....but.....they DON'T....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:01 AM
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Fellow dudes....do you REALLY want... A woman eating up all your money All your time All your attention Nagging you Judging everything you do Taking up more than half the bed Being there pretty much 24/7 Not having the freedom to explore other options Always being the bad guy Awful star fish sex.... Or do you want... Your own time, space, freedom, choices and a world of open possibility? Relationships are MOSTLY not worth it. Stop cravint something you don't even know you don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:20 PM
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Oh no youre right theyre reading books and exploring nature and grinding on their next novel soz my bad you got me there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 03:14 PM
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....and ALL young females do is stare at instagram all day. The fringe is their norm. I feel like the standard good looking guy just doesnt cut it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:56 PM
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It has EVERYTHING to do with looking good. Way more than most care to admit. Game, status, money, blah blah. It helps a touch, but the vast majority or attraction and arousal is looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:45 PM
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The lying is part of the manipulation. You're not lying honestly lol, how is that a mindblowing concept to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:32 AM
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Attractiveness gets you a knock on the door, attractivness gets her in the door, attractiveness gets her on the floor. If you nail looking good, your margin of error for everything else is massive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:21 AM
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No, the physically attractive man will always be more attractive. The guy earning is only as attractive as his physical naked body allows him to be. His bank account and posessions and professional status are not physically arousing. Social and economic CONSTRUCTS like money isnt attractive/arousing. It may appeal to a womans rational mind, but not their sexual emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:39 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 06:09 PM
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