At what height does it not really become an issue for men, and women, what's your floor regarding height?

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-02-01T11:30:56+00:00

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plumtastic · 2022-02-01T10:59:23+00:00

It's more like the boobs for sure. Looking down on a girl for dating a short guy is downright bizzare, but maybe this happens in shallow competitive circles idk. If she's dating him there's obviously something good about him even if it's not obvious what that thing is at first, if you know what I mean. That's why a guy with a girlfriend is instantly more attractive, it's the vetting.

Aimeereddit123 · 2022-02-01T11:28:29+00:00

I’ve honestly NEVER heard another woman dog another woman for favoring shorter men. A woman doing so would be thought of as strange. I’m 43 and will ONLY date guys 5’9 or shorter. I don’t like the feeling of someone lurking over me. I’ve never been questioned or made fun of. 🤷🏻‍♀️

januaryphilosopher · 2022-02-01T10:43:29+00:00

It's not just women who look down on women dating short guys. Most of the judgement ive had for dating one has come from men. Other attributes don't really seem to matter to judgement, people just find it weird or emasculatig, and some of these guys seem to have issues about their own height. My floor regarding the height of people I wish to date is 5' as shorter than that just gets impractical.

gimpgirl555 · 2022-02-01T10:47:18+00:00

My man is short. I've never had other women care. Other men have cared though. It seems to be a guy thing tbh.

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lonely_mixtape · 2022-02-01T10:47:27+00:00

I mean. I don't really judge my girlfriends for who're they're dating (at least if we're only talking looks). Even if I'm not into it, they certainly are, and more power to them. Beside, I remember a specific friend who dated short guy (the guy was below average height, maybe 5'3" ish) but he's got alpha vibes imho. I realize it's a cringe term but idk how else to describe it lol. She definitely scored.

And on the flip side, I've had friends who have dated tall men, but they were shitbags. And generally I would start to get frustrated with them because they continually put themselves in a place where they were unhappy and being treated like crap. So if I'm gonna judge their decisions on anything, it would be always picking shitty guys (and these guys were obviously awful before they started dated. One friend even told me she felt like he had raped her... they started dating a year after she confessed that to me).

Idk how other women view the topic, but this is my perspective at least.

TheJim66 · 2022-02-01T10:47:45+00:00

Around 1.75 m is the point were your height isn't helping you but it's not hurting you either. The taller you are the more of an advantage you have and the shorter you are the more of a disadvantage you have.

chromie96 · 2022-02-01T11:16:31+00:00

I've never really been one to judge my woman friends for who they date. Unless like they're an asshole. Even if i don't think that person is attractive, she obviously does and I respect her and her relationships. I've also never seen height as a deal breaker. I've dated guys shorter than me. My current partner is the same height as me. It's never been a big issue for me. It's for sure not something i look at when determining who's attractive and who isn't.

NarniaFox · 2022-02-01T11:02:53+00:00

My floor is my own height I guess. I'm 5'2. I think it's rather short for a man though, but I could fall for him if we developed emotional connection and I liked his smell. It's short for a woman as well, but I'd date another shortie woman with no issues under the same conditions.

I haven't met a man shorter than I was, so I'm not sure that I could find one attractive. I haven't met any guy of my height either tbh, but at least a few who were barely taller than I am.

Title	At what height does it not really become an issue for men, and women, what's your floor regarding height?
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Date	February 1, 2022 10:23 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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