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| 1 | My good friend frustrates meYour friend doesn't give a fuck. You do. | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 08:03 PM |
| 3 | How do you be flirty and build anticipation via text before 1st date from online?Yeah i don't know man. If she isn't ready to meet you for a first fucking time, she is just a tease. If she is pissed over a day of A STRANGER not replying to her, imagine what she would be like in a relationship. I wouldn't bother in the slightest. If you are interested about buddhism and the innawoods (as myself), your best bet is to focus on RL interactions. | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 06:42 PM |
| 2 | How do you be flirty and build anticipation via text before 1st date from online?Why would you put up with her horse shit? Would you take on this kind of behavior if the person on question didn't interest you in a sexual sense? Some food for thought. | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you be flirty and build anticipation via text before 1st date from online?"She basically responded I wasn't trying pursuing her hard enough." Oh, so she has a nice princess complex. You don't owe anyone jack shit, please remember this. | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out today over textYour friend is right. | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Got 17 numbers in five days. None wants to meet.Not to burst your bubble, but simply getting a number doesn't mean jack shit. | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 03:16 PM |
| 2 | SICK OF ITNope. They will help you though. | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 12:22 PM |
| 2 | SICK OF ITThere are none. You just have to throw yourself in the fire and practice. | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Welp I did it, now what?Congrats man. I was on the same boat less than a year ago. In addition to the generally appliable advice that has already been given on this thread i would like to say that: don't sweat it, she likes you already. | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 02:46 PM |
| 2 | SICK OF ITThis is what i've been doing and i'm a clinical sperglord as well. My first dates were absolutely fucking dreadful. I've noticed that i'm starting to become a really assertive person that is in tune with what he actually wants. Don't let a diagnosis define you, being socially retarded is a given (especially in the beginning) if you have asperger's but you can drill your way past it and start playing according to your natural strengths. Stop being stagnant. | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Wearing this type of a shirt got me laid. Story time 😁Can confirm. I wore a hawaiian t-shirt with tiger patterning and a straw hat when the temps scaled up higher and got laid last weekend. | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 01:25 PM |
| 5 | Excuse me, I’m looking for…..your number. (Challenge For This Weekend)You are overanalyzing things and acting as if it is not possible to continue the interaction beyond asking her for her number. The point of this whole approach strategy is to prove that the first thing that you say doesn't really matter and that rejections are bound to happen. Overanalyzing things will make you less prone to approach girls, so don't do it. | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 12:50 PM |
| 1 | I feel like the most hopeless case everI started online. What you do have to note is that i didn't really speak to women for the first 22 years of my life and was actually scared shitless when i went on my first dates. This translated to them smelling my social anxiety and lack of confidence, which didn't really get me anywhere in the start (except to the friend zone of course). Just have a look at my post history... it does get better. | /r/seduction | 05/05/18 02:32 PM |
| 3 | I feel like the most hopeless case everThis was me less than a year ago. I was a virgin that spent the majority of his time crying about his virginity and loneliness instead of actually doing anything to resolve the problem. Seriously, start mingling with women today, you will get better fast if you keep at it. You will get the ever-living shit rejected out of you in the beginning - so fucking what? First you won't be able to land a date without a girl flaking on you, then you will land first dates that you are bound to fuck up and s… | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | I could have lost my virginity today but choice not toGood on ya. Just don't fall in the trap of valuing your virginity too much or you will become a man who was a virgin until he was 23 (just kidding, but slightly anecdotal). And yes, they're in self-denial after you've rejected them because women can't be rejected. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 07:48 PM |
| 2 | I can't dance and I'm scared of doing around girls I like.Because ultimately no one gives a fuck about how well you can dance, particularly if you aren't pursuing it professionally. Even if someone gave a fuck about how well you danced, why would you be phased by his/her opinion? | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 03:03 PM |
| 1 | 3 quickiesYes, you're mostly right. I'm actually a diagnosed sperglord so it's better if i try to filter out some of the shit that i'm going to say, because i tend to be too blunt at times or i might give out a cold vibe. Confidence is a must though. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | 3 quickiesWell it's good to hear that the first two approaches aren't retarded. I did get flaked on both occasions but i think that it had more to do with the delivery of things. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 01:22 PM |
| 7 | I've been "virgin shamed" by 2 girls in the last week. I'm 18 years old and it hurts bad. What gives?Don't tell people about your virginity. It will only give them a reason to bite on you. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Im 21 (M) never had a GFStart now my friend, it's what i've been trying to do and I wish that i had made the step sooner. Don't let a fucking diagnosis define you. I'm a sperglord (diagnosed at a young age of 6) such as yourself, but that doesn't mean that this stuff can't be learrnt. You are probably emitting an aura of neediness and desperation which is enough to repel most girls. This is why you should start living for yourself, but don't forget to get out there and play around with Girls (the key is in the word PLA… | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Every girl I run into in college is taken or uninterested in me, and I have no idea how to change it.This man has the right idea - and this is coming from a guy who was a virgin a month ago. I used to be the epitome of a needy person, someone who was always seeking for external validation and having a constant worry about the opinions of other people. Then i made the sudden realization that i have to start living for myself: got my lazy ass to work in a part-time job, started doing martial arts and started an active war against the social anxiety that had been fucking with my life for years on … | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Never been in a relationship and I'm almost 22 yrs oldOh and i forgot to tell one thing: don't sweat it with your virginity and fake it till you make it ;) | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 01:03 AM |
| 2 | I lost itYeah, this is a pretty accurate depiction. I have this constant urge to fill in the blanks when someone is thinking about what they are going to say next. This may be to my ADD tendencies and a good intuition on how the conversation is going to advance. | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 03:25 PM |
| 1 | I lost itHang on there. You're not a wizard yet, just don't let a succubus infest your magic wand by the age of 30 and you will gain the true powers of a wizard. In all seriousness, she was drunk and I was drunk. It would also be fair to say that it was fairly evident that she wanted the D, so the only thing that I had to do was not to fuck it up. I had to do what a man has got to do: as in approach her when she was giving clear indicators that she was interested. Other than she made things easy for me d… | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 03:01 PM |
| 13 | Never been in a relationship and I'm almost 22 yrs oldYour main problem is your lack of self-esteem. Not only that, you are doing the classical mistake of not keeping your options open in regards to women. The general advice of keeping yourself occupied whilst having an abundance mentality seriously works: I'm 23 and i lost my virginity last week. | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Getting it on with a hooker?23. | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 01:15 PM |
| 1 | When a girl responds 24+ hours after you texting her. Do you then need to wait 24+?Just text her whenever it is the most convenient for you. There's no pre-determined fucking time. Just don't text her all Day, every god-fucking-damn day | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Help getting this girl?!One doesn't simply get a girl. It only works ouy if it is meant to be so in mutual agreement. | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Getting it on with a hooker?Probably because I jumped into the game at a relatively old age and i'm still learning. | /r/seduction | 03/12/17 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Getting it on with a hooker?Hahah! This is actually a half-decent idea since I could combine it with the thai boxing that i've been practicing for a while now. | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Getting it on with a hooker?This was the kind of answer that I was looking for. I have been able to arrange dates but I never make it past the first date. I'm not in a situation where all hope has been lost, but i think that just having sex once could make a world of difference. I'll probably give it a spin if things don't change in 2018. | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Is it really safe for a 6'4", educated, 23 yo "nice guy" black male to approach random women?Why the fuck wouldn't it be? | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 06:42 PM |
| 1 | I might be the biggest beta known to manYeah... The funny part is that we sat on my bed while i listened to her. Like a little puppy. I think that a primal instinct told me that it was the right time to escalate, but the fact that i haven't even kissed a girl probably made me back off. | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 05:37 PM |
| 12 | I might be the biggest beta known to manYeh, pretty much. She pretty much gave me a nice hint in the end and said that "you should have more faith in yourself". | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 12:02 AM |
| 18 | I might be the biggest beta known to manYeah. I was starting to feel a little depressed but then I realized that I am 23 years old and still a virgin. How could've i expected things to go well with absolutely no fucking experience? | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 11:59 PM |
| 1 | A small problemWell she flat out told me that she was quite experienced, as in over 100 sexual partners. Needless to say: I fucked up (made a continuation thread on this) | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 11:52 PM |
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