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FDS HUMORburnerbabee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:47 PM
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THANK you. I don’t have one love language, I need them all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:10 PM
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God. I read a story a year or two ago about a girl (literally a teen) who was picked up by two cops around coney island for something minor, they “held” her in their police van and raped her. It was part of a larger article I was reading about how it is perfectly legal in some states for cops to have “sex” with someone in their custody. Why that is a thing I have no fricken idea. Similar article on the subject: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2018/10/08/should-police-b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:48 AM
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Looks like you fought troll with troll to me and he came up hungry. 😎 It’s better not to respond sure, but the way you did it left no room for satisfaction on his part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 12:56 PM
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Honestly... this sub is getting more and more toxic. I’m trying to use the discord more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 12:54 PM
18

I’m not dating rn but I can’t wait to use this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:03 PM
18

You just struck me with the thought of bringing finishing schools back, this time it’s to help show younguns how to be more empathetic before their brains stop developing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 12:35 PM
71

I loathe that sub. Felt like I was in the twilight zone and the guys are always so PATHETICALLY MEDIOCRE and get high scores by other pathetically mediocre men. I wish I could wake up all of the girls with low self esteem who keep posting on there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:49 PM
13

Zuckerbot, don’t forget to blink!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 10:27 PM
11

Exactly!! It’s unbelievable how mediocre this is as an existence. It’s such a waste of a life. I would truly rather die, but luckily I can just choose to have high standards instead lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:04 PM
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To this day I still cringe when I think about how I introduced myself in college. I called myself a “serious gamer” because I really loved video games! But I didn’t realize I was lumping myself in with a bunch of unwashed neckbeards who took gaming to the next level to the point where they were nothing else. Hindsight really is a bitch and I hate her lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:02 PM
1

Um, your parents really needed to get his ass therapy, not put pressure on you to fix his problems :/ that’s full on addiction and who knows what else!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 01:58 PM
15

Listen, I was wondering the same thing! Before the pandemic, you couldn’t go for a 10 minute walk without getting cat called. But now? Miraculously everyone can control themselves? So, they could have very easily controlled themselves before the pandemic but chose not to. Cool. I really hope there’s not going to be some surge in harassment after enough time passes though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:32 PM
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Omg! Ugh. It literally makes me sick thinking about it. My ex would tell me about all of his many supposed good deeds but I always had this feeling he was lying because he never showed me proof. He was that kind of manipulator. They‘re the best worst lesson to grow from imo. Stand strong girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:25 PM
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Oh god yes, repeatedly until it stuck. I vent about my shitty exes here but I won’t mention them in my next relationship at all. They’re being erased lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:15 PM
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LOL!! I’m so happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:46 PM
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Mine had the other problem. All his exes broke up with him, said he never saw the end coming. I thought awww, he was so invested! 🤡 When really he was happy to abuse everybody until they couldn’t take it anymore and they had to leave. It was so fun learning that from experience! 🙃 Next time they talk shit about their exes, ask for the ex’s numbers, call them, and get their side of the story. Or, better yet, walk away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:44 PM
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THANK you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:13 PM
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Or not 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:26 PM
4

I remembered thinking, who wouldn’t want a guy who grooms his body hair, manicures his nails to buffed clean perfection, smells good, and has a sense of style? Those were the stereotypes. Like, what!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 09:25 PM
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They? I don’t think he’s trying at all. The way he smiles the first time to kind of disarm her a bit by pretending to drop the issue...idk. He seems very comfortable toying with her to me and seems happy to pick the fight. It creeps me out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 09:09 PM
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Lmaooo! Very true! You can’t be so far gone that you won’t dress appropriately ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:52 PM
2

Idk man. Something about the way he wears those wool cardigans...the sensuality in slowly lacing up your canvas shoes...dependable, good, and loving. /s sortof lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:50 PM
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I was into it. Especially as a teen. But I was more into the spoon-fed myth that the bad boy is “misunderstood” and boy do I love a mystery to unravel. But they’re just assholes. Mystery solved. Would still love to find a big softy with maybe an alternative look, but not a “badboi”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:48 PM
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This is a right of passage no one else needs to go/grow through. God, I so wish I’d listened to my mom more and got away from that faux-liberal, “progressive” sex and bdsm bullshit. I didn’t realize but my clown makeup was sitting pretty and I was even bending over backwards for men whether I was in a relationship or not...didn’t even see it. FDS needs to spread to more ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:15 AM
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Also, being a “good girl” gets you NOWHERE but stepped on. Fuck that I’m done. We’re not dogs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:29 PM
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This to me is the only reason I’ve ever needed. I was in a group where I saw different men sharing pictures of past hookups and gfs. Saying, “look at how hot she was! Gimme brownie points of masculinity!” No sense of the other person’s right to privacy. So forget it ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 01:45 PM
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This is a textbook example of malicious compliance I’d say. He put the chilli away but not to completion and he’ll expect you to finish up the rest of the task. I grew up seeing how difficult it can be living with a man who refuses to help enthusiastically and it is hell! I have roommates and it’s almost as bad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:17 PM
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As am I!! I’ve never heard of this before. Ugh public pools. Fun fact: the “chlorine” smell we smell is the result of people peeing in pools. If you had a 100% clean pool with chlorine, it wouldn’t smell at all. :c
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 02:58 PM
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It sounded like he was apologizing for a really stupid prank in class instead of actually feeling remorse for taking people’s lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 06:52 PM
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Midnight Eggs-Fucking-Benedict with Wine sounds romantic af if we’re being honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:02 PM
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I had to speak up, I remembered this boyfriend I had who just constantly had a pissy smelling dick and got mad at ME for constantly refusing to put it in my mouth. Wash yo dick! He was all like, “I’m doing everything I can! I don’t understand! It’s because of my foreskin!” (It was NOT because of that). This is graphic I know and I’m sorry but this dude was probably just so disgusting in so many ways I didn’t know about. Never had that problem before him and haven’t had that problem after 🤢🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 10:46 AM
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I can never take out the trash lmao! My hands just don’t work? So weird!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 12:55 PM
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Exactly, with the beads and everything. Baby wannabe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 12:49 PM
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No way!?! Ok, that surprised me though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 12:36 PM
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Haha what would you do if I were there with you rn?? 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 10:43 PM
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Yesss!! Omg. The shift an ex of mine had with this was so gradual I almost gave into the gaslighting but there were lots of texts from the beginning. I couldn’t believe all of the lies he’d eventually strayed from. So, yeah, idk. I want to keep a track record moving forward and I guess you’ll just have to note if you feel silly or if you feel justified doing that with a guy you’re dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:43 AM
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That comment made me rage close out of that sub. Everyone in there is trash as far as I’m concerned. Not to mention the other would-be fathers mentioning they weren’t that bothered by various miscarriages either [insert shrug]. 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:05 AM
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I’ve been seeing a lot more guys heading into nail shops in my lovely gentrifying neighborhood though lol times could be changing 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:04 AM
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I just keep my read receipts off. I like them wondering if I even got their “Hey” message at all. I used to dutifully respond to everyone and get back to them in a timely manner but these guys don’t deserve that! And what do you gain from them seeing you read their message? It might even give them hope that you read it and are playing games now by ignoring them on purpose. Nah. They’ll know you read and cared about their text if you deign to respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 12:39 AM
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Wow! I hate that she died this way. But she’s a fucking hero.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 12:29 PM
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Same girl. Down to the convo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 12:21 AM
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Woah! I’m passionate about roommate issues and it might seem annoying or ridiculous but I would take some plates and utensils and store them in your room for you to use. I never share utensils because I’ve lived with people who don’t clean well and I have allergies. My principle is that I simply cannot clean up after another adult human being. Fuck them I’ve got time to be petty My roommates have been 0 help with Covid-19. They don’t clean and they haven’t gotten any supplies. So I have my own t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 08:54 AM
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I’m gonna sound like a hater and that’s because I am. This charismatic girl at a job once was lusted after non-stop because she was thin and had blonde hair. Never-mind that facially, she looked 2x her age with sun damage on top and no lips to rub together. But it didn’t matter to anybody. It was like watching magic happen the way doors would open for her there. Everyone remembered her, wanted to get to know her, envied her, or wanted to be with her. I’ll never forget it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 02:43 PM
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You can use would too. “That would be nice, that would be great!” Technically you’re right no matter what cause the if is implied. “If he’s a HVM it would be great to go on a trip somewhere.” Swoon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 07:41 PM
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Serial monogamy (though I doubt he was monogamous through all this) is a big red flag for me. You need to be okay with being alone for a bit. After every relationship, even his 14 year partnership, he was ready to move on right after. Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 09:24 AM
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Thanks! I can’t unsee that now 🤣🤣🤣 Edit to say I love this show but I’m so behind. I can’t believe how much I’ve missed out on. Yeesh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:41 PM
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Just about the only thing he can’t do is spell!! What a catch! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:35 PM
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It’s like they’re trying to convince themselves half the time. He’s pErFeCt except for this little thing where he’s much older than me, treats me like an interchangeable object, and his love of dehumanizing women trumps his concern for me and our young child. Except for that, he’s the love of my life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 01:23 PM
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It’s very tongue in cheek. It’s trying to get these military guys to pay attention by using a pretty lady but it’s saying that being kind and considerate is a good tactic to succeed with anyone, from brunettes to your boss to the elderly. I think it’s sweet, if dated!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:43 PM
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I love videos like this! I wish we could instill some of these values back into society. At least where I am people are just so rude and inconsiderate and callous. There are sweet people too but it’s just not enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:41 PM
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I’ve used public bathrooms at a beach...sometimes the women’s has a huge line so one time in a desperate rush I went into the men’s...omg. There were puddles of stagnant water and urine everywhere. Some men were walking around barefoot in this. The stench...one of the sinks looked like it was broken and don’t even get me started on the toilet! Nothing was clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 09:34 AM
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Midsommar! A strange and gruesome spin on things for sure but there were a lot of interesting principles to analyze here. Plus the movie is absolutely stunning!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:22 PM
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But those lips...hmm might be worth it 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:37 PM
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It took me sooo long to go from wanting to hold people accountable to understanding that it doesn’t matter why, it’s just not okay. Would spend so much time rehashing arguments, trying to understand the situation, and trying to fix things. You just gotta pack up and go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:43 PM
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Saaame! The one about the gamer lifer boi spending more money on video games than his secondary education....drop the F-in mike sis! I have several male friends like this. All I kind do is support and encourage FROM AFAR.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:21 PM
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I can’t wait to feel the satisfaction of starving out some sex obsessed dude who tried to play me. I’ve never done this so I’m curious what it’s like!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 12:40 AM
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I used to think the advice was too harsh but the post is always just a “little” thing like rating a random woman in front of his friends and you. But as soon as you get more info, other red flags start coming out of the woodwork. 4 month relationship. He’s quarantining with her and he’s a doctor. It was his idea, she said she’s stuck with him, he said he just wants to keep an eye on her. He’s 30 and still sitting around rating girls for fun?? He has a whole group of friends she has to side eye. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 11:21 AM
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I’m in the same situation. I tell myself that it’s okay to miss something; I only miss the sex, not him. It’s only natural to miss something that’s not around anymore. I constantly remind myself of the many reasons I broke it off with him followed by thoughts that “you’re too good to be treated like that.” “ you don’t deserve that kind of treatment”. If you don’t trust yourself, by all means delete all his info. All of it. And move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 11:03 AM
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This show always kills me lmao! Notice how she hung up? No need to engage. This is what they do after you block them and move on with your life 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 05:36 AM
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Yep! It was eye opening. There are lots of them out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 12:04 AM
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I binged this whole show last week. I’d say finish it because the way it resolves gives a little satisfaction. But it’s apalling the number of creeps and degenerates in that world. For sanity’s sake I also paid special attention to Carole I think? Her transformation is legendary. From a pickme to a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 12:02 AM
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They’re really coming out of the woodwork. It’s like they think you’re stupid 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 11:56 PM
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Ugh, exactly!! 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 11:19 AM
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And worse, they’ll show them off to other people without your consent, like you’re a collectible trading card. I’ve seen it happen, called the guys out on it, they just laugh it off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 11:12 AM
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You are blowing my mind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:30 PM
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Exactly!! Both old geezers I gave the time of day to admitted hiring women for sex. I could go on about how maladjusted, entitled, and downright creepy they both are, but you’ve all heard it all before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:11 PM
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Facts. I think that’s why I hate it. Cause I know this dude is LV now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:01 PM
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Omg, I’ve been obsessed with roller skating for a while. I can’t skate though and was just about to start ice skating lessons when everything was shut down. Now I’m saving up for some nice skates to practice on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:26 PM
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Cooking like I’ve never cooked before. All the time trying new things and techniques. I’ve got a whole chicken marinating/brining in yogurt and plans to cook up some cinnamon apples as a dessert later. I have a ton of studying to do. Taking this opportunity to prepare myself and to prevent anxiety from ruling the day at all costs. Dancing, lots of it. In my room, no holds barred, wild! Checking in with friends and family. Covid-19 keeps hitting closer and closer to home, but that’s to be expecte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:19 PM
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Right!? Please don’t drag brown/black women into this. We don’t need that kind of representation thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:54 PM
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I personally can’t stand “wyd” texts. It pisses me the fuck off. Half the time I don’t answer, but I don’t have a go to response for why I hate it. Why don’t YOU tell ME wyd and use that to start a convo? Stop keeping tabs on me weirdo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:18 PM
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Aww, I’m so glad, thank you 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:51 PM
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lol for every scrote I lose empathy for I gain that empathy tenfold for women, children, and animals. I feel like my heart just keeps swelling with love and it’s a con-man’s loss, not mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:39 PM
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Proud to say I ghosted some loser who was “trying” to talk to me. I left a groupchat oh Kik 🚩and he messaged me immediately🚩. Barely using full words and sentences to communicate 🚩. Said he was a project manager at a gallery (ooh, cool). Then, with no preamble, said “you should come over. Smoke chill”. Has no idea WHAT my drug habits are, like I’ma come out of my social isolation to come to your place and suck your dick for FREE!? For WHAT? I’m not risking my health for you. Blocked, no response…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:32 PM
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Geez it’s like the manipulation knows no bounds! I always trust my inkling of anything. Even if you’re partially wrong, you’re right enough to listen to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:26 PM
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Holy shit! (Pun intended I know, sorry lol) But the worst relationship I was in did this to me but I didn’t understand until just now. My stomach was always upset, which was particularly annoying because this guy was obsessed with anal (never again). Funny enough I was and am perfectly fine without that level of stress in my life. Not even college did that to me. It was just being around him. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:17 PM
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That’s a very good point. I used to work in a logistics brokerage and one of my coworkers had this guy he did deals with over the phone. One of his tactics was to legit cry and whine for a better rate. It was pathetic, but then again that was probably the point. To surprise and disgust someone into caving sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:10 PM
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I don’t usually like to hear about people in distress but man, that must’ve felt sweet af 🤣 bawling!? Like ok dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 11:58 AM
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He looked like a cat playing with its food. So creepy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 11:42 AM
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Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:47 AM
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100% they’re not applauding him at all. Zack is grinning like an idiot and letting them know what a fricken creep he is, only he seems unbothered. They’re laughing at him not with him but I don’t think that’s enough here. Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 08:52 PM
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The smell. Omg. That’s the one thing I can never get over. I went to Magfest this year and everywhere in that convention had that stench 😭😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 06:11 PM
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Not to mention historically too. Painted women = prostitute. Maybe it’s tapping into that urge to exaggerate the features to attract a John.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:31 PM
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That is heartbreaking!! Omg. Traumatic no matter which way you look at it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:27 PM
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If you can conceive it, you can achieve it. I never even heard of a porn free lifestyle until a week ago and I’ve been cutting it out. Millions of other people can do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:25 PM
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It’s not just him though. I see videos like this in different languages and from different cultures. Thousands of views and stupid scenarios between men and women. It’s like a short, cheap soap opera
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:20 PM
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Ahhh it’s just that simple
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:19 PM
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Omg. Actually I just saw Midsommar and I immediately thought of this sub. Her man is trash, but when she figures it out, she’s terrifying and basically a force of nature in the end. Very satisfying, creepy, and a beautiful movie to boot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:25 PM
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What are the point of these videos?? They’re all over facebook...like I don’t get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:51 PM
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Also, I wouldn’t trust a word she says. She could easily be exaggerating how good things are to validate herself. And if she isn’t, who cares? Good for you. People don’t change overnight, you’ve been warned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:58 PM
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Nothing says “I don’t understand basic hygiene, care, and maintenance" like ugly feet 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:50 PM
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I stay away from men who fetishize entire races. It never leads anywhere good, even if it seems like they’re putting you on a pedestal. It has nothing to do with you. They just put you in a box to get at your box
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:44 PM
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Girl gang!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:24 PM
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Are you telling me that we need a rock opera space saga of this woman getting her space rocks off? Cause that’s what I’m hearing and I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:23 PM
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Thank you! I'm still wildly attracted to a man who uses his hands. Having a small mind is the real limiting factor here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:18 PM
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His teeth and smile are actually terrifying.... An 8!? Meanwhile gay jerks are dissing cutie patootie Andie who I KNOW has self esteem issues despite being handsome af. And he can cook world class dishes, has a great job and is hilarious. Damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:13 PM
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I'm super conflicted rn. I've always been a bit fixated on sex and darker kinks and I have NO idea why. It was just a dirty part I hid. Then when I found BDSM I was like, eh this seems close why not? And it was incredibly liberating. Or so I thought. I've never been crazy about porn though I've watched tons of it. I feel like I've changed perspective overnight and idk who I stand with anymore. I'm still sex positive, always will be, but what kind of people don't take a step back and analyze why …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 01:25 AM
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You're a fucking badass! I SO wish I'd done similar 😠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 12:44 AM
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No, he should've asked. It's so rude to just up and leave it there. I would never! You can take care of your oral health without being an ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 12:39 AM
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I like the way you think 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 11:58 PM
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Thank you for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 11:32 PM
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Wtf!? How is his predatory and creepy behavior normal? And if it were normal, how is it right?? I can't stand the amount of support creeps seem to get sometimes. You're amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 08:34 PM
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My pleasure! ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:24 PM
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I have the Instant Pot Smart WIFI by Instant Brands Inc. https://instantpot.com/portfolio-item/instant-pot-smart-wifi/ I'm so excited for you! Literally just made soup this morning. And with the coronavirus craziness I picked up all the dry beans people didn't want to put up with because you can cook them all in under an hour and it comes out perfect. I made split peas yesterday in 3 mins... Insane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:23 PM
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My mom is actually dating again after divorcing my LV Dad (sorry Daddy but it's the TRUTH). She has slim pickings on the site and I'm honestly shocked. She is talking to one guy who seems unbelievably great so far but he's unverified as he's on the other side of the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:58 PM
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If you're talking about THE instant pot, yes you can slow cook. And pressure cook. And saute. Set it and forget it. Use an app on your phone to control it. Make yogurt. Perfectly cook rice. And all you need is an outlet. It's the best thing I bought last year and I'm only just scratching the surface. I like good food and I've been addicted to ordering food, but not anymore and so I'm using my pot all the time now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:55 PM
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Me too!! It's caused a fundamental shift in how I view myself and I can't shut up about it -- I won't!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:46 PM
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Also, you can still go to parks and stuff if the weather allows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:45 PM
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I'm new here, but I've definitely been picking up on the toxic nature of flairs around here. They're pretty useless so I ignore them. But I absolutely hate seeing women on here tear into other women who are just trying to survive and are doing their best. We don't need to laugh in each other's faces with a million laughing emojis. I'm a strong believer in the power of empathy and compassion. Anything else in this sub reads as bitter and pretty low value if you ask me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 11:53 AM
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Saaaame. I'm a different person because of those experiences but like... We didn't have to go through all of that. I would rather have found fds first and skipped all of those steps to basically arrive at the same place lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:12 AM
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To me, this is what being human is all about. Care, love, support. Beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 09:55 AM
7

Lmaooo! I heard about that too but TO BE FAIR this was due to her husband or boyfriend's desire to eat her out with ranch dressing. Because it tastes good. And not properly cleaning after... And then she sought medical attention when she kept having orgasms for no reason. And then they found the maggots. And THEN I lost my lunch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:52 AM
31

Might have to get this tattooed on my arm until it's automatic cause I'm sooo not there yet sadly! I'm gonna practice lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:11 PM
8

I'm going to take all this to heart. I used to play into the dynamics all the time just trying to make friends and fit in. I didn't make any lasting friends from this. Everyone and everything is fake. This is what sheeple do to pass the time. It's all a distraction!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:52 PM
5

Very true! I wouldn't want to bend over backwards. I actually love for my exes to see how easily I just forget about them and live normally. But idk, it felt almost like a spiritual disconnect. Like she wasn't just over him, she was over it all. I'm sure her FB had the 5 years worth of relationship junk all over it and whatnot. New job, new city, no social media, friends and family on board - a fresh start to deal with the pain and put it behind you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:32 PM
18

I think she was just saying she was set up to cut all ties anyway and she conveniently took them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:23 PM
3

"permanently changes your standards" that is such a good point!!! Once you go HV you don't go back. Can't wait to get a taste of it myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:15 AM
17

My husband once opened up that he had a developmental disability and I said, oh, I can see that. Apparently he was joking (ha?) and his sociopathic narcissistic ass never ever got over it. It pleases me to this day and it wasn't even intentional! Sue me for being understanding lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:07 AM
8

What is he a fucking customer satisfaction survey?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:02 AM
4

100% I was comfortable at the time and just needed a place to generate some cash but truly it was a strange company run by immature assholes who made good business sense but neglected to address a toxic culture and working environment. I quit a while ago but I stayed far too long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:59 PM
4

I just want to say, remember to hold firm. I did my research and went in with a reasonable number but I was told no flat out and that my role was different from what was typically associated with the market (it was, but regardless I was still compensated less than I should've). I didn't push because I didn't realize that my company was still in start up mode and was cutting as many corners as possible. They could well afford what I was asking, but my boss didn't want to look bad by going back an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:23 PM
65

As a lover of champagne idk why I haven't done this myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:43 PM
6

Thank you, I appreciate that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 10:16 AM
8

I need me a HV frontier man like that! -1800s woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:44 AM
30

I stopped talking to my fuck buddy for this reason. I no longer need casual sex to validate myself. Sure it feels good, but now I can't see why for the life of me I was treating my body like some casual hangout spot. It kind of makes me sick but it's ok, we're growing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:03 AM
3

I put the podcast on immediately (true crime lover lol) but I wonder this all of the time. I used to think lowly of myself, but I still never would have put up with anything like you just described. The mind is so so powerful and perspective is everything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:25 PM
2

Hey! I watched some Discovery channel show on self defense and a flashlight/torch is apparently really useful. You can hit people with it but you can also shine it into their eyes too if you need to apparently, and that can help you get away. But I haven't ever tested it myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:45 AM
21

Literally every man I've been in a relationship with did this, the red flag version. Even the one who thought of himself as a "nice guy" after a while 🙄. I so wish I was on Reddit and found this sub like 5 years earlier at least lol. I'm a reasonable person, I'm not asking for much, and yet even the bare minimum is too much for these guys to give.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:09 PM
45

What a creep!! Also, the implications that he prefers when a woman isn't turned on and is dry af is extremely disturbing to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:00 PM
35

Fuck this is so on point. I'm in the bdsm community and it's been part of my identity for so long. But when I got into bettering myself lately I've been struggling to reconcile wanting the best for myself and some of the kinks I'd picked up along the way. And I've long wondered if my kinks were really just a way of self harm. I've had terrible kink partners and experiences and now I'm wondering if what I'm really looking for actually exists outside of kink anyway. There are good guys in bdsm I'm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 09:07 PM
2

Took me FOREVER to learn this myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:35 PM
3

Wow I actually did the same at your age. I got out of a shitty meh relationship and I was so done. I said I was taking a year off and then I started seeing guys casually. Meh. Now I'm totally uninterested in fun sex. I really want intimacy and I need to revaluate the standards I set for myself. You'll be okay though! You've got time, there are good people out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:33 PM
1

Well done I'd say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 08:36 PM
3

Same! I was happy a lot of the songs I already listen to were on there. Everything slaps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:00 PM
5

I dated a creep for a long time who admitted to using what I said against me. I've finally cut off all communication but he's def low key a sociopath and there are plenty of them who are passing as normal charming people out there. Stay vigilant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:17 PM
4

Girl I wish I were gay I swear. It ain't a choice 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:03 PM
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