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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 11 | Which one of you Queens was this?How can a man basically announce to the world that he is cheap and not be embarrassed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 09:15 AM |
| 5 | Are men who offer coffee/drinks first and step up to dinner when you’re not accepting their low effort ever HVM?That’s an amazing tip. Effort from my part is the best indicator that the guy is a waste of time. It is especially hilarious when I say “I don’t drink alcohol” and they say “Coffee then?” Basically yelling how cheap they are. But if they instantly step up, I could give them a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 07:33 AM |
| 3 | excuse me.... what? He never got a response.Hahahahahahaha right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:46 PM |
| 14 | I live in Boston and this guy matched with me and messaged me who lives in Maine. He mentioned taking me out for dinner and drinks then mentioned this. I live in the city and don’t drive. Was he really expecting me to somehow meet him halfway?I am constantly liked by guys who live like 1000 kilometers away or don’t have their location visible at all. When I ask why, they say “just to chat” (get therapy dude, I’m not free entertainment, I don’t get anything out of texting you). When I say that they’re too far - surprise surprise - they have no plans on traveling to my country, expecting me to come to theirs. They must be really unpopular where they are if they have to look for a text pal from so far away... The conversation ALWAYS end… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:16 AM |
| 3 | Should women thank their date for the dinner or other expenses?That is the best way to go about it. I will keep that in mind. Thanks! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 04:46 AM |
| 6 | Reasons why I am done with dating appsI agree with your last sentence 100%! That’s also a bit problem I have with dating apps. My best HVM relationship grew out of friendship. Or it can be a common hobby, volunteering, etc... On OLD, the only thing you have in common in wanting a romantic partner, and everything revolves around that. Both parts are in some way auditioning as potential romantic and sexual partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 06:14 PM |
| 10 | Reasons why I am done with dating appsThat’s the way to go! I love this mindset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 11:13 AM |
| 26 | Reasons why I am done with dating appsYou expressed it so well! The lack of manners is appalling. I respect myself too much to expose myself to that amount of disrespect in a context that resembles a prostitute catalogue or a slave market. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 11:11 AM |
| 12 | Ladies, when you hear a "I did nothing and she suddenly went crazy for no reason" type of story, rest assured it's complete bullshit and the guy is omitting a lot of things to make the girl look insaneI had a man tell me precisely this kind of story once. “Me and my ex were on holiday, and then she started yelling at me out of the blue, calling me an awful person. I was confused, tried asking her why, but she took her things and left”. That was the last time I saw him, so I never figured out what he did to drive her to leave. I am sure I would have, if I stuck around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:31 AM |
| 5 | Why do some HVM marry “shallow” girls?Thank you, that's an interesting perspective! It seems hard to believe that HVM would put looks above everything when choosing a partner, but that is probably true in many cases. For me, looks have no value if my partner is not educated and well-read, but I can imagine that for some men a beautiful appearance is a value in and of itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do some HVM marry “shallow” girls?He is my brother's coworker. They came to dinner at his place a few times, so that's how I met them. Both are very active online, and actually the majority of complaining are in his Insta stories where he films himself bored on a shopping trip while his wife is endlessly choosing clothes or her talking about how much she wants new shoes and him jokingly rolling his eyes and agreeing. The majority of his insta stories though are of him alone with their children, while they rarely appear in her st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Why do some HVM marry “shallow” girls?It seem to be exactly the opposite, from my point of view. He does whatever she wants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 11:44 AM |
| 9 | 1. Lawyer who can’t properly use grammar 2. A real king. I have no words 🤮 3. Classic “I’m a 3/10 but I only accept 9s and 10s” 4. Fucking criminalThe second guy’s bio is overflowing with passive aggression. I wonder who hurt him so much in the past. Already from his bio I can tell he would drag a ton of baggage into his new relationship and needs a pick-me who will prove herself to him. Thank you for being honest Ian and preventing us from wasting time on you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 05:20 AM |
| 3 | Things seem to be taking a negative turn here. Please, let's focus our energies on building each other up and IGNORING trash men.Yes! Endless LVM tales are honestly sickening at this point. We shouldn't really give so much of our energy to them and focus more on ourselves and our strategies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 09:40 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Can anyone recommend some good resources/books to help with leaving an unhealthy relationship? Maybe some blogs, websites, subreddits or forums with motivation and tips? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 08:12 PM |
| 5 | I am finally moving out - but my mom thinks I should stay in an emotionally abusive relationshipThank you so much for sharing this. It makes me feel like I am not alone in this. I really want to believe that the hardest part is the choice to leave, as you said. I don't understand how one day he made me feel like everything to him, but now he makes me feel worthless... It is so hard to imagine for someone who hasn't gotten through this, that's why I didn't even trust my own feelings for a long time while experiencing this. Always thinking it will go back to how it was in the start... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 05:36 PM |
| 6 | I am finally moving out - but my mom thinks I should stay in an emotionally abusive relationshipThank you so much. I will call the hotline tomorrow. I have been doubting whether I should do it since he doesn't abuse me physically, and I worry about not being taken seriously (talking to my mom only reinforced this fear), but I am putting it on my calendar and I will go through with that. I have lost all hope about my parents taking this seriously. I was vulnerable with them and they just didn't take me seriously. Because of that, I can't bring myself to open up to them anymore. I will try t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 04:45 PM |
| 7 | I am finally moving out - but my mom thinks I should stay in an emotionally abusive relationshipShe was always on my side in my childhood, but she was also emotionally distant... I moved out very young. And even now, after I told her what is going on in my marriage, she very quickly turned the conversation to herself: "So what about me? Why does no one think about me? Will I have to cook for you if you come here?", etc. It is so difficult to stop believing what my mom says, since she is the person I am so used to believing and relying on... Her indifference is absolutely shocking though. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 04:34 PM |
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