burningburner123 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Eye contact with strangers Cheers. And absolutely this: I realized you actually can't fake charm. It's about being in a moment and so happy that others want to feel what you feel.	/r/seduction	02/06/17 04:56 PM
3	Can anybody explain / breakdown various weak approach invitations and WTF women imagine what guys will do when they really do? Get out of your own head and just talk to them for fuck's sake.	/r/seduction	02/06/17 04:52 PM
1	Eye contact with strangers This is true, but it also takes much more courage (or shamelessness) than more passive looking. But yes, I've found it to be the case too – I'll actually get an aggressive double-take from a woman if I turn my head to look at her.	/r/seduction	02/06/17 04:50 PM
–	Eye contact with strangers 100,000 times this. Everyone, this right here, look no further. Same experience here. Except I wasn't always a "natural." For a variety of reasons, I've come to a place in my life where I have this level of openness and appreciation to everything, and I'm far more gregarious than I used to be. I used to have resting asshole face, but now I'm almost always smiling at least a little bit, often just in my eyes. Also, overall confidence and satisfaction with life, and some conscious work, has given …	/r/seduction	02/06/17 04:44 PM
1	[intermediate] Approach'd, spent WHOLE day together, got to my place and then things got weird. Constructive feedback please! You're thinking too mathematically (for lack of a better word) about this. Just because you had an apparent emotional connection doesn't mean she should fuck you, and if she doesn't, you did something "wrong" in that you could have fucked her that day if you had done x, y, and z differently. As I said in my other comment, you seem too invested in the endpoint and the mechanics of how you could have gotten there. To be frank, that speaks to a bigger problem.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 03:05 PM
2	[intermediate] Approach'd, spent WHOLE day together, got to my place and then things got weird. Constructive feedback please! I agree with the others - you were too aggressive. At some point you probably missed a subtle (or not so subtle) signal from her that she didn't want to fuck you that day. Or possibly you may have done something during the make-out that put her off. Hard to say. Women are very fickle creatures. If I were you, I'd still chalk it up as a victory. You met then made out with a random stranger, and an attractive one from what you say, after meeting her for the first time during the day. My advice is …	/r/seduction	31/05/17 02:47 PM
–	Eye contact observation A few months ago I was having lunch at a Whole Foods ($15 for a small carton of food, I know), when this really really cute, young girl at a nearby table kept glancing over at me. Then I'd glance at her, she'd glance back, then look down with a little smile on her face. This was before I learned how to hold eye contact and move to an approach, so it came to nothing. But my god it was exciting.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 12:06 PM
–	Fragrance at a club Versace Eros. A girl last weekend at the bar spontaneously told me I smelled good while wearing it. It's a sexy smell. But don't overdo it.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 02:50 AM
3	Dealing with first impressions meeting women. As a person who naturally tends to look serious/intense, what's worked for me is to consciously think to myself, "Life is some amusing shit, isn't it?" and let my face assume a subtly wry look in response. Pro tip: This is a lot easier to do (and more genuine) when you actually get involved in mischief of some sort. Take risks, put yourself out there, challenge people (in a playful or at least not overtly hostile way). Flirt all the time. Strike up conversations with men and women alike about wh…	/r/seduction	30/05/17 08:58 PM