Example: a chick who's wait staff at a bar I go to will catch me looking at her then accidentally bump my chair. I know she was sending me "code" for "approach me", but here's the thing.
I've seen her there for probably 4 months and never had a chance to talk to her. What in the fuck does she think my Casanova ass is going to do with that? I mean the only real discourse is to just walk straight up to her and come up with a blatantly B.S. excuse just plain out of the blue.
Other example: Planting. A girl drops by some place where you're sitting to yourself and stops and does something for just a little while. Maybe 30 seconds tops. I still know it's an approach invitation but in 30 seconds you've barely got time to collect your thoughts. - In general what I'm shooting at is that there are some really really bad approach invitations / weak ass IOIs that if not accidentally then intentionally seem be set up in ways that are almost too difficult to work with.
It almost seems that it's less of an approach invitation and more of a challenge to see how interested you are in them. Which is in-and-of-itself fucking straight up just fucking annoying. Honestly I'd rather her mind her own business and just let me cold approach than throwing me through some fucking gauntlet. It almost can appear like they're just trying to humor their latent curiosity other than get some guy to actually get with them. I would really like some breakdown insights such as these:
Approach invitation a: (wtf she thinks you're going to do with it)
Approach invitation b: (wtf she thinks you're going to do with it)
Approach invitation c: (wtf she thinks you're going to do with it) More examples: Just barely getting within your visual range at a dance club. They'll dance and of course you have to haul your obvious-ass a quarter way across the dance floor just to get next to them. So you look like sargent-douchebag-mc-run-up-and-bump and smash your crotch on some group of women who were ostensibly just chilling minding their own business or "just having fun", as it may seem.