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Yes, that's exactly what's going on here too. This scrote is in his mid 30s, similar hedonistic lifestyle and of course he "wants to keep his options open". It's the same pattern, dress sexier, push your boundaries in the bedroom, agree to things you simply don't want (but say you do) in the hope it'll keep him around - but the reality is, he's swiping away on the apps and looking for another option. He's keeping her on the hook because she's available as a backup. I mean, they're 6 months in an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 08:53 PM
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Exactly. She says she's "cool" with the open relationship arrangement in one sentence, but will complain that the guy barely makes time for her in the next sentence. They've spoken about it and nothing changes, he is simply not into her. They don't do anything together in public, he hasn't met her friends/family, there is no relationship to speak of. This is what I mean when I say the cool girl act won't get you picked - these men won't even play along. I actually wouldn't be surprised if the gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 06:20 PM
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20 years old. Take a guess where these "kinks" have come from. Young people are so screwed from porn and liberal feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 10:01 PM
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It makes me so sad and frustrated to see young women come out with a huge spiel about how he's so perfect, the best relationship ever, they want to get married and have kids some day... BUT there's just this ONE TINY THING... and of course it's always some fucking stupid shit like how he's cheated on her numerous times and she just wants to wOrK tHrOuGh iT. Relationships should be easy, absolutely. They won't always be smooth sailing no, but ultimately it comes down to whether or not your partne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:14 PM
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It's hard to accept that there are a lot of men out there who actively hate women and will go out of their way to harm us. Pick-mes want to stay in their protective bubble because the alternative - being single - is so much worse to them. It's difficult to come to terms with the truth. I've encountered too many men who simply don't cut it - from serious issues like porn addiction, misogyny, emotional abuse, physical abuse, to small things that add up like zero hobbies or interests, unable to iro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:31 PM
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Miranda was never excited about Steve but she was afraid. Afraid of never getting married and having kids, afraid of not keeping up with her friends. So she settled. And 17 years later, her husband is still the same guy she was ambivalent about-a guy with a high school education and no real hobbies, who wants to sit around and watch tv every night. In other words, exactly who he was when they dated. Really good point. You know that feeling you have when you're with someone and you're just waitin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 10:41 AM
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Why do you need to reconcile with it? Focus on yourself, use FDS as a platform when you need guidance, but don't expect a man to understand or necessarily give you the right advice. I know he's your brother but ultimately you're not dating him and it doesn't really matter if he supports FDS or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:52 PM
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Agreed. It doesn't sound as though you even like this woman. And that's fine, people outgrow relationships, but I'd be hurt if someone I considered to be a friend thought I was "stupid". For your sake and hers, I'd call it a day on the friendship and start phasing her out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:09 PM
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"We rarely argue or fight, but when we do..." Sure. But your husband just doesn't give a shit and has checked out. That's why you don't argue or fight 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 11:39 AM
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Honestly? Why bother. Why bother writing these posts when your husband has already checked out and couldn't give a fuck. The way women are conditioned to put up with this shit is insane. Like he has a TIMER OUT and you're just like "but I ask for so little". No. Ask for more. Don't let this shit happen to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 03:12 PM
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It's the entitlement for me. Not every date is gonna be a success. It is what it is. But LVM absolutely HAVE to get something out of it that benefits them, even though they're too cheap to stump up for a £2.50 coffee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 01:57 PM
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I did similar and it really worked for me. We already had our own spaces so why sacrifice that? Yeah I could have saved money on bills but I could afford to live alone so it wasn't about money. I didn't want to be responsible for shared living costs or tidying up after someone else (to be fair he wasn't particularly messy but we know men take advantage). Don't get me wrong, sometimes it was a pain in the ass driving between two houses, I somehow ended up with two of everything, and you'd always …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 11:47 PM
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100% written by a man lol. Give me a break 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 12:00 PM
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You just know he's a sweaty neckbeard and no woman would look twice at him. That's why he's stayed with her for ten years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 09:02 AM
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High school boyfriend and on and off over the years. This was over 15 years ago now. He unofficially dropped out of school at around age 15 by just...not going to school. No idea why his parents didn't force him into going. But he pretty much never left the house after that. He was a paranoid, irrational mess, almost to the point it was hilarious. Accused me of travelling to the States (I am not from the States) one summer to hook up with a guy I met on the internet. I was 15 years old and on a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:50 PM
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Last time this topic came up, I had a scrote in my DMs who was "curious to know why I preferred 6 inches or above". He was polite about it but I obviously blocked and deleted. I'm not going to explain these things to a guy who is going to use it as wank fodder. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:51 PM
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It's really important to do this to protect yourself. You never think your lovely and sweet boyfriend would screw you over when it comes to your home but men can, and will, do it with ease. And if don't, well, that's great. But always protect yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:09 PM
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What exactly is there to continue? The guy literally left the country. He does not see this as a serious relationship, or even a relationship at all. Why on earth would you even consider moving for a guy when you're barely dating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:03 PM
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Great advice. It doesn't matter how solid you think your relationship is. Look at this post and take heed of what other women are saying! Be very careful about disclosing your salary and any savings you might have during the dating stage. Men do not need to know your finances. They can and will expect you to put yourself into debt on their behalf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:24 PM
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And isn't it funny how the nerdy, shy guys can never hold a conversation with a service worker or, y'know, your own friends or family because he hAs SoCiAl AnXiEtY... but manages to build a friendship with a coworker just fine and eventually cheat. Lol. Beware of these guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:21 AM
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Always check the followers. Sounds like a lot of work but really isn't. A male friend of a friend mentioned he recently got ghosted by a woman he was chatting to (via OLD) after they exchanged Insta handles. He couldn't figure out why. Out of interest, I had a look at who he followed - a stream of Insta models and OF girls. Oop. She had the right idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:28 PM
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Yeah, I read this like "huh, but 25 is young". Then remembered being involved with a 25 year old guy when I was 17... So yeah. They will certainly be pursuing teenagers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:12 PM
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I really can't emphasise this enough. Younger women need to stay the hell away from these deadbeat scrotes and carve out their own lives. It is SO much more rewarding than following a boyfriend around for years and picking up after him. One of my longest friends is like this and she's now 30. She met her current boyfriend around 10 years ago. They are still together (not engaged/married) but he has cheated on her throughout the relationship and is absolutely NOT serious about her. She recently b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:33 AM
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I spoke about this a lot with my ex. He had his own issues but tried his best with his friends and got absolutely nothing back - he'd make an effort on their birthdays, try and arrange activities that weren't video games, talk to them about their mental health, etc. All for nothing though. These friends are in their 30s and addicted to video games and porn. I'm not sure what can be done for them at this point. I do feel for men here because they've been conditioned to reject support from other m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:51 PM
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Oh look, we're being asked to ~communicate~ again. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:15 PM
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What the hell has happened to these men? I remember going on days out and playing with my dad when I was a kid. I genuinely enjoyed being with him and the whole "daddy daycare" shit didn't seem to be a thing back then. These men will come up with every excuse under the sun before actually devoting time to their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:21 PM
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Same here. I've always hated makeup because I kinda suck at it lol, but I do love skincare and genuinely enjoy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:38 PM
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I agree, I think David looks good. Matt does too imo, it's not a great angle and I know he's had his struggles but at the end of the day, we simply can't and won't look like we're in our 20s forever. Like you've said, you're still you when you're post-40!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:41 PM
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It's a fair point. I lived with an ex for years during my early 20s, splitting all household bills (despite him earning more), did all the cooking and cleaning, usual stuff. The relationship obviously ended and I had nothing to show for it. I didn't move in with my ex husband (lol) until we were married. There was no reason to do it. I already had my own place, as did he. Yeah it would have been nice to save on bills but... No thanks. I wasn't getting stuck into another forever girlfriend situat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:22 PM
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Finding radical feminism was a real eye opener. I finally understood why I felt the way I did. I'm way more confident now after feeling extremely uncomfortable with libfem for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:10 PM
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I'm glad you realised otherwise! I told myself I was "fine" with OF as well for the same reasons - thought it would help keep my ex busy because I didn't want to have sex. Turns out I didn't want to have sex BECAUSE of his porn addiction and he just totally disgusted me towards the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:38 PM
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They will lie about anything if they think it will get them laid. This is why we need to constantly vet them. I can only speak for myself but I do agree with all the other comments here. I used OLD apps for a few months and this is what came of it: Guy one, engineer, had his own place and seemed to take care of himself. No major red flags. Met him in person and I wasn't really feeling it so told him after the date. He said he understood, all good. Then a week later I received a barrage of abuse …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:39 PM
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Lmao yup I saw that. Its tragic. I get such a laugh checking their post history. One guy who cross posted this is very active in a sub that shares "leaked" only fans content, said scrote can't even afford an OF subscription yet shrieks about paying for dates. Yea buddy I can just see the women lining up, get off reddit and wash your ass 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:54 AM
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I love how this upsets scrotes so much. Like what, you're too broke to stump up an extra few £s/$s? GTFO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:09 AM
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I always laugh my ass off when these scrotes claim it's the mOsT tOxIc SuBrEdDiT when there are subs dedicated to incest and rape. LVM are truly shit-scared of women talking. They know their time is up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:20 PM
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If you need to beg for a proposal after 5 years and one child, what's the point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:00 PM
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And that's exactly why it ISN'T empowering. If "sex work is work", then it would come with protection and worker's rights. It would be the same as any standard office job. Until then? Nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:32 PM
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Every single man who attacks this sub is low value. I said what I said. HV men simply don't have the time to spend on reddit, less so attacking and messaging the women who post here. HV men also understand why this sub exists and that they're not the ones being criticised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:50 PM
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I do find it interesting how we're told to get married and have kids so we don't die alone. It really doesn't mean much. My grandfather had three kids, and only my dad was there for him towards the end of his life - the other two were nowhere to be seen. It's not a worry for me at all. I fully intend on keeping my friends for the rest of my days and making more along the way (female friends, I should say).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:31 PM
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These scrotes should remember, it's just a fantasy and it doesn't mean anything lmao right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:21 PM
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Thank you. I'm fucking sick of seeing scrotes not only invading our space, but also brigading and singling women out. Disagree all you like but get a fucking life and focus on your own shit. It may actually help some of you sad cases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:18 PM
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Love to see the lurkers downvoting this as if it's gonna save them, lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:51 AM
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Great post and I wholeheartedly agree. Those subs are complete BS and we need to stay vigilant. Decent men will not do this. It's as simple as that. My ex and I didn't have sex for around a year for various reasons, and yes, he's now an ex (lol) but not once did he ever bring up the hallmark DB phrases - e.g. this is a biological need, it's not a romantic relationship without sex, this is the only form of intimacy, blah blah. He knew that sometimes these things just happen and we worked on it to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:49 AM
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Honestly yes, beware of your husband/boyfriend's friends. My ex's had his two "main bros" who seemed fine, but of course there was more to it. Main bro #1 hooked up with main bro #2's ex girlfriend a few months after they split. They are ALWAYS sniffing around. Keep your partner's friends at arms length. If you break up, they will no longer be your friend. Remember, they will always have HIS back, even if you get on well with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:23 PM
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Lol, I got to the bit where they split all bills 50/50, to which she said "so far, so good". Just...no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:10 PM
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What a complete waste of time and money. And for what? To him have sole ownership of the car and kick up a fuss any time you want picked up from somewhere? Sure. You want a car, you pay for it yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:25 AM
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I'd be careful about telling a stranger to fuck off because we know some men can become physically violent at the drop of a hat. I've barely been out in public spaces for a while (they only really just reopened here last month) but I'll generally take up as much space as necessary, putting my jacket over a seat etc. If someone tries to invade, I'd just say "this spot is taken". If they don't respect that and continue to persist, I'll speak to a staff member and let them know I'm being made to fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:25 PM
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Seriously, where are all these sex workers earning millions? Because I sure as hell can't think of any. I remember Dani Daniels was THEE girl of the moment a few years ago. Looks like she (mostly) noped the fuck out of commercial porn and married a wealthy older guy. And if that's what the "big names" are doing, then there's just no way these bedroom SWs are making bank.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:55 PM
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Exactly, it's like you're finally able to breathe again after months. I'm not divorced (yet) but separation was the best thing I've done for myself. I put it off for so long because I didn't feel strong enough but actually, my husband was the cause of all my anxiety and general unease that I couldn't explain. Congratulations to you and here's to the future 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:39 PM
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It's the entitlement for me. If a wife doesn't want to participate in their husbands fucked up kink, that's it. The conversation is over. But no, these husbands will seek out sex workers to act out their kink with - they will stop at nothing to access women and degrade them. And of course the libfem sex workers think this is fine because it's their "choice" to participate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:34 PM
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YUP this. Reddit is bottom of the barrel when it comes to men and most of these losers never leave their bedrooms. They're not people I'd interact with in the real world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:49 AM
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100%. I didn't have kids with this ex (thank god) but I found myself doing all the cooking and cleaning at just 24 years old, and all he could say was "I just don't see mess, I think we have different standards of cleanliness" 🤡 Absolute BS. So glad we are out of that situation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:25 AM
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I find it really sad that she's opened this by saying "my boyfriend has always been the dom in our relationship". I was barely aware of BDSM and all that shit when I was 21, but now, so many young women have been completely brainwashed this sub/dom dynamic - and it is always women who are forced into being the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:44 PM
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Ditching libfem was so freeing. I don't have to pretend to be "cool" with porn or kinks I never enjoyed anymore. I never felt comfortable with it to begin with but never complained because of course, I didn't want to be seen as a "bitch". Not now though. I'm done with that shit 🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:18 AM
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Thank you for this - that's exactly it. Yeah, the headline could simply be "man and woman call for porn sites to require proof of age", but a father and a female student are a specific demographic like you say. The issue is really with scrotes referring to all women as "females" because that absolutely is dehumanising. I don't take well to someone implying that I'm doing the same - because it's quite clear that's not what's going on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:01 AM
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I'm not 100% sure either but bribes would not surprise me one bit. I think the lack of action from government speaks volumes though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:11 PM
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OK, but I'm not stripping away her humanity or equating her to an animal. I mentioned it because I feel its relevant as this is a women-only sub - in all honesty, I don't want to hear what most men have to say about the issue. Her quote in the article perfectly summarises what a lot of us have been saying here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:14 PM
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I'm confused - I wrote "female" in the title because she is a female student. "Woman student" sounded odd to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:29 PM
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Totally. I knew of boys accessing it when they were around 13, and this was almost 20 years ago when it wasn't so freely available and kids didn't have smartphones. A lot of people are completely unaware of how bad it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:02 PM
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I mean, it's a step in the right direction. It's completely unregulated at the moment. I'm pleased to see this being reported in mainstream news because most governments/ISPs etc are unwilling to touch the subject with a bargepole and they're happy to be hands off, at the expense of children viewing porn 🥴 There's plenty of other industries where you need proof of ID and there's no sensible reason why it can't be done for porn (aside from, yknow, the patriarchy). You need to provide an image of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:48 AM
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Major turn off. And these scrotes who have slept around are always fucking terrible at sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:05 PM
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Yup. That's why I'm not OK with people saying women need to have more confidence in themselves. We have plenty of confidence, but when you're a teenager/early 20s and being browbeaten into threesomes and god knows what else, porn is the issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:57 PM
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It's the way these scrotes say it with their chest. Like openly admitting you're too damn cheap to pay for a coffee that costs, what, £3? And not even feeling remotely embarrassed? "I don't have money for this" lmao that sounds like a you problem. Broke ass losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:10 AM
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I love this. Dick size does matter. I had an ex who was average sized and it was fine, no major issues, but he was so obsessed over it. He'd constantly ask me if his dick was "big enough" and it was a huge turn off. In contrast, another ex had a 8-9 incher and just had CONFIDENCE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:42 AM
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She has been with this guy since she was 19 though and likely her first relationship. We're constantly told to be cool with partners looking at porn and just go along with whatever men want when it comes to sex - this is why she feels like she needs to participate in threesomes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:26 AM
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I don't have kids but a few friends do and none of their partners pull their weight. They constantly make excuses, like "oh but he's really tired too", "I'm on maternity leave and he's back at work so he can't do too much" and all that... Nah. The father needs to be busting his ass. No excuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:45 PM
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Me neither, although separated and not yet divorced. I like my name and thought my ex's surname sounded weird with my first name so didn't change it, lol. I also just could not be assed with the admin that comes with changing your name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:59 PM
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Right. This is why I have no time for age gap relationships that started when the girl was a teenager. I don't care if its "two consenting adults". Shit like this just proves that yet again, young women are being taken advantage of and manipulated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:53 PM
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Beware the scrotes in disguise. Men seem to get off on posing as women on the internet. Seen it in quite a few places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:15 PM
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Seriously, fuck off out of women's spaces. You're not wanted here. Scrotes need not apply. Etc etc. I'm TIRED of seeing whack opinions on this website.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:22 PM
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I know she didn't explicitly say that he wanted a threesome (most likely to protect the scrote) but you just know he will have been hinting at it, because these worries don't appear out of thin air.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:38 PM
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He should spend more time working out than being a fucking creep. This belly 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:15 PM
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No they don't. Most men look like shit as they get older because they've been washing their face with 3 in 1 body wash for years. That's if they wash their face at all lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:12 PM
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Same. I find it disgusting. Yes of course I've seen porn but I never made a habit out of it (similar to most women - did it because I wanted to look "sex positive"), haven't viewed it for probably ten years now. It is genuinely that easy to remove yourself from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:34 PM
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Most men have watched porn, that's true. But just because "all men do it", doesn't mean they need to follow. The thing is, they WANT to do it. They do not want to give up porn. It's that simple. They do it because they're addicted and feel entitled to women's bodies. Men really need to start thinking for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:50 AM
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Yup. They know. My ex husband had a friend who was constantly liking and sharing stuff from "e-girls" who were probably 10+ years younger. Of course he had a live-in girlfriend of many years. I remember they spoke about it and my ex was like, dude, this is weird and I don't want you to send me this shit anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:41 AM
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Their reasoning is so fucking terrible. Right, yeah, because men are addicted to looking at images of food, aren't they? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:38 AM
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Yup. People hide behind "kinks" as a cover up for their fucked up fantasies. Age play, race kinks, BDSM has all been learned from porn. I've never properly watched porn in my life and always wondered why I didn't have any kinks - well, that's why! Women are shamed for every single thing they do, so yeah, I AM gonna kinkshame your DDLG fetish. These people need to seek help,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:57 AM
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The entitlement of these men is fucking vile. He should be seeking help for these disgusting kinks. But nah, hire an escort so you can act out your kinks - cool. Totally normal and acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:03 PM
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I'm so fucking tired of people squawking "dOn'T KiNkShAmE". I saw something the other day about someone's boyfriend paying for cannibalism fetish porn and the replies were a pile of pathetic garbage. Damn right I'm gonna kinkshame this shit because guess what? Your kinks are fucking weird and gross. It is always women who pay the price for their fucked up partner's kinks. These men have been so brainwashed by their daily porn use and completely out of touch with reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:35 PM
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Why is he not putting in the work here? I think we may be in the same country (also came out of lockdown last week) and you're right that places are busy but like...its not difficult to call them up and ask. A lot will have cancellations too due to the weather being bad. Definitely do not go to his place for the first date. Major nope. Honestly, I wouldn't be bothering due to the lack of effort on his part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:40 AM
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Completely agree. Every single "women's only" space I've been involved with over the years ends up allowing pickmes and scrotes in. Very glad FDS has not and never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:31 AM
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Yeah super young. I googled and she was born in December 2001 (!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:22 PM
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Agree with this. She's only 19. She will almost certainly have been pressured into this by the higher ups within the industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:14 PM
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I don't have any great advice because I also find this tough so interested to see what others say. I met a new friend via work a couple of years ago and she was a breath of fresh air - arranging catch-ups was straightforward, she made the effort and actually said yes to things, and it also felt SO effortless. Made me realise I was being dragged down by friends from school for years who were full of negativity and only wanted to catch up to gossip about people I've not seen for 10+ years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:11 PM
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Lol same. Blocked them right away. Keep shouting into the void, scrotes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:57 PM
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I laugh my ass off every time a lurker messages me. Had a scrote in my DM saying I was a "piece of shit for leaving my husband due to his weakness" like... Why are you sending me this shit? Truly. I do not care. You just get insta blocked and deleted 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:56 PM
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You beat me to it! This was my first thought 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:55 PM
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Lmao this guy. Don't worry, your ugly ass selfie, receding hairline and faded old shitty t-shirt already made you incompatible from the start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:51 PM
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That's why I don't visit any of those subs anymore. The misogyny is rife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:02 PM
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I feel so bad for Riley Reid. I remember when she just started out in porn and there was a huge hype about her (because she's petite and had small boobs or something) and she was obviously pretty innocent. Now she's known for hardcore anal scenes and it's just.. Sad. Say what you want Riley, none of your "fans" are interested in your personality or that you're funny. You're just there for them to jerk off to. You can smile and laugh about it as much as you want, but I just get a vibe that porn h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:17 AM
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Endless opportunities. Lol. Is that what they're calling it now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:53 PM
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Lol ikr. We see you, scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:53 PM
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But casual sex is eMpOwErInG! /s Also I'm really sorry you went through that. What a fucking creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:50 PM
27

So true. Especially 6 for me. I could never bring anything up because "I thought we were just going to have a nice weekend together", "do we need to go over this again? I just want to relax after work", "I'm tired and don't want to talk about it". Going to bed was a huge trigger for me because that's when my ex would look at porn - I knew the second he said goodnight, he was straight on the sites. It was always super upsetting. But of course, I was "going over old ground" every time and he was j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:10 PM
22

It's not ironic at aaaaaaall. Men need to stop playing dumb. You can accept someone for who they are, but they also need to take responsibility for their own growth. I've accepted exes who struggled with depression and anxiety, but they didn't want to seek help and were happy to use it as an excuse to do absolutely fuck all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:03 PM
8

Accepting that you're childfree is such a weird (but amazing) feeling. I'm also in my 30s and have never wanted kids. I had this huge feeling of unease in previous relationships because all I'd hear was "well, I might want kids someday, but I feel too young" - like... these men were in their 30s. Make a damn decision. Was I was supposed to stick around until they flipped and decided they wanted kids? Nah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:34 AM
57

This one jumped out to me too. Like...the lack of dental hygiene is NOT the issue here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:12 PM
58

There's probably some context missing here - this guy probably was a tight ass and got shitty with her and demanded she pays for her own sandwich. Like, it's a sandwich. I'd expect the man to foot the bill during the dating stage. Men who think that the third date is the cut off point are gonna be stingy as hell in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:08 PM
26

Is this satire?! Please be satire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:00 PM
43

Right? We've been led to believe that rape is violent and a random attack by some degenerate - and sometimes it is. But a lot of the time, it can happen within a relationship or situation that was initially consenting. I've too many stories from friends who have been on a date and coerced into sex, or have had consensual sex but woke up the next day to find the guy was touching her while she was asleep. No one takes it seriously though because "you had sex with him the night before, so what did …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:02 PM
92

Yeah. My husband (we are separated) went to therapy for porn addiction and his therapist just... Endorsed it. Said that porn was fine "in moderation" - bear in mind he was addicted. So you can imagine how that went. She also dished out some nonsense about how I should show more affection and make time for each other, blah blah. But again. He had a porn addiction. Could you really blame me for feeling disgusted and not wanting to go near him? Sometimes there just isn't two sides to every story. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:16 PM
80

Lol let me take a wild guess, said boyfriend and his friend are what, solid 3s? Maybe a 4 if they can bring themselves to change out of their pizza grease-stained basketball shorts and put on a fresh pair of underwear? 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:26 PM
60

Seriously. The men I know openly say they only use dating apps for hookups and finding "easy options" when they're bored or lonely. None of them are looking for an actual relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:54 PM
51

I'd laugh my fucking ass off if a guy tried to charge me 1.50 for a coffee date. This busted ass scrote really thinks he did something 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:43 AM
21

Yes exactly, and surrogates are often women from poorer countries/living in poverty. They are being exploited. You sure as hell don't see high-earning women being surrogates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:39 AM
32

I don't use Discord but is this a normal customer service channel? I don't think it is, right? It seems like your workplace should move to use something designed for customer service like Zendesk. This is very weird and creepy and seems completely open to abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:39 PM
46

Yup it's the financial illiteracy for me. An ex of mine was so heavily reliant on his parents for money advice and just didn't have a clue. And he was well educated, came from a good background etc so there was no excuse. This guy didn't even understand the basics of debt repayment (pay back stuff that has highest interest first). He had some savings but about 3k of car debt and didn't think to just... Pay it off?! Instead, he carried on making the minimum repayments and accruing interest for th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:34 PM
24

To an extent. I've always made time for people I care about and it doesn't feel like I'm forcing myself to make an effort when I want to speak to someone. When I was dating in my early 20s and speaking to guys I just wasn't that interested in, I'd constantly pull the "oh wow, I'm so busy, sorry I ignored you for days!" - except I wasn't that busy and knew exactly what I was doing. I just didn't have the courage to turn them down politely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:53 PM
14

If you find him average looking, I'm assuming you're not completely attracted to him? It depends on what you value. If you want your partner to be in shape and not overweight then that's totally valid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 12:40 PM
72

Lol same. Blocked immediately. Couldn't care less, although they gave me a good laugh 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 12:32 PM
132

Jeez, posts like that are like a bingo card. 10 year age gap, CHECK Pathetic husband who doesn't wash his ass, CHECK Woman with childhood trauma, CHECK Fucked up kink, CHECK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:31 AM
83

The funniest thing is when a scrote decides to be bold and DM on here - ya, that "you're ugly lol" message really cut deep, I'm reconsidering everything now, damn 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:57 PM
22

This is why I have very little time for any men. Most men will sniff around you for years and pounce when you're vulnerable. Fuck that. A pickme friend has started hanging out with a LVM who has a pregnant girlfriend, but he didn't tell her. You'd think it would come up lmao. And of course this scrote is still living his best life and our with friends every weekend while his pregnant girlfriend is left at home. Like... 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:23 PM
2

My heart breaks for those women. You know they're busting their ass trying to keep everything together, AFTER going through pregnancy, and these deadbeat "dads" sit on their fat asses crying about being tired. Nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:17 PM
14

You're here now and you will be fine. I'm recently separated from my husband (I'm early 30s) and some days are a struggle, but I know I've done the right thing. I always knew something felt off and when I realised that if he wanted to, he would.. I felt destroyed. But we will be fine. Like you say, you'll never tie yourself to a man again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:31 PM
18

The fact this almost has 8k upvotes is killing me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:22 PM
33

This is one of the many reasons why decided not to have kids. Fuck being associated with one of these useless scrotes for the rest of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:20 PM
145

I'd say we're already there. I'm in my 30s and the majority of men I know have been looking at pornography since their mid teens, so we're talking 15+ years now. They're screwed. You need to prove your age for gambling and online betting (usually by a photo of your passport/drivers license) but porn is a free for all. I don't know how people can justify it. There's nothing normal about teenagers being able to freely access porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:11 PM
19

I've never really thought about it until now but that's such a good point. There are things about myself I don't love (staring at your face on video calls every day will do that) but it's nothing I can't improve. It's so nice to not sit in meetings at work feeling uncomfortable because you can just FEEL people weighing you up and assessing your hair/makeup/clothes - instead of just focusing on what I'm saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:06 PM
269

I'm so happy I found this sub. I used reddit sporadically in the past, but every sub seemed to be full of trash opinions. It's so nice to be around women without scrotes ruining the vibe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:00 PM
38

I genuinely hope these posts are fake but I think a lot of them are actually real. What the fuck has libfem done to these women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:35 PM
172

I mean, OK, but he'll still cheat on you 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:54 PM
244

For me, it depends how they handle it. If they simply don't want to have sex while you're on your period then that's fine, I'm not gonna force them (period sex isn't for me either). If they squawk about period blood being "disgusting", make a face whenever you mention tampons or pads, or cry about a little bit of blood ending up on a bedsheet then they're absolutely an immature scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:25 PM
33

My ex husband had many issues but he did most of the cooking, driving, and, shock, knew how to clean the shower! What a life! Shame about his porn addiction lmao. But seriously. I lived with another ex before that and he was fucking useless, I don't think he ever cleaned a surface in his life. He used to get home from work about 2 hours before I did but of course he could never prepare dinner, no, that absolutely had to wait when I got back. Loved coming home every night to a LVX sitting on his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:15 PM
24

I've only recently noticed one of my longest friends is guilty of a few of those red flags. I could never understand why I found her tiring and I felt reluctant to reply to her, but turns out she's just never really grown up. She's still working the same kind of job she had when she just left school and never tried to progress. The conversation constantly comes back to her and how hard her life is, the usual stuff. She only gets in touch to talk about herself. It sucks but I'm slowly phasing her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 11:08 PM
72

Even if you think you have the most perfect partner in the world who would never break your trust, it's still a no go. You never know what will happen in the future. Remember how quickly guys can flip - he might be a sweet guy today, but what about a few years down the line after a messy breakup? They might not end up on a revenge porn website but they sure as hell won't be deleted. It's just not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:01 PM
41

It's the way that people expect sex to progress to BDSM. Like you can't just have gentle, vanilla sex - there's always an expectation for it to go further. Because otherwise its "boring" and we need to be "spicing things up" and it always means BDSM. And if we don't want it, we're prudes and kink shamers. I'm so tired of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:34 AM
6

This is exactly why I don't have male friends. Not interested. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:55 PM
27

Same. I've worked hard over the last 10 years to get to where I am in my career. I'm not giving my life up. I've never wanted kids and I wonder how much of that was to do with the toxic attitudes around pregnancy and the motherhood penalty. Meanwhile you have NVMs claiming they wAnT kIdS sOmEdAy but do absolutely nothing to prepare - because, you know, women will pick up the slack anyway. Are they going to give up their career to look after their kids? Are they going to show up for their partner…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:49 AM
6

The entitlement these men have to other women is crazy. It's so frustrating that even men we think are high value end up disappointing us. Of course there were a lot of good times but reflecting on it, his porn addition overshadowed everything. I remember we were on holiday and I noticed his phone was open on one of the numerous hookup sites... He just could not stop. Live and learn indeed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:43 AM
23

You're right, I do think that despite him going to therapy and "improving", I always knew in the back of my mind that it wasn't going to work out. We did talk about selling our homes to buy a new place but put it on hold due to covid and jeez, it felt like divine intervention haha. It's so disappointing that there's very few success stories and it feels quite overwhelming at times. A few years ago I told myself I was OK with porn and come to terms with it but now.. Absolutely not. Zero tolerance…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:20 PM
24

Ah thank you so much ❤️ honestly, if this happened a few years ago, I'd have pleaded with him to change and stuck around even longer. I'm grateful I built myself up in my 20s as it made leaving so much easier - no financial ties and thankfully no kids either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:16 PM
32

For me, it was a few things. The key one was erectile dysfunction and delayed ejaculation. There was no real other reason for this other than excessive porn use, he wasn't on any medication etc that could have caused it. The second was huge bouts of anxiety and even panic attacks over nothing. Again, no real reason for it other than porn withdrawal. I noticed that he would become extremely anxious if he wasn't able to look at porn, so for example if we were away from home for a couple of days. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:42 PM
42

You're completely right, it is a losing battle. And while I do think he made some progress, ultimately it wasn't enough. And when I say progress it was like... OK, you've stopped with the hookup sites and you're "only" following Instagram models and girls from onlyfans - still terrible. I tried my best to be a supportive wife but I just couldn't keep doing it. Once I found out the extent of his addiction it seemed to follow me everywhere, I didn't even need to snoop - he stopped hiding it. It co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:37 PM
8

Completely true. My grandfather died about 5 years ago after a sudden illness and his funeral was on new years eve. My ex came back to my parents house with me on December 27th and then left to go home on December 30th because "it was too intense and he thought it would be better to stay out of the way". ... Aaaand that was the beginning of the end really. He was never there for me when I needed someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:49 AM
122

It's not a prehistoric notion at all lol. Seriously, men cannot even manage the bare minimum. And that's not me speaking in hyperbole - based on my experience and the thousands of women part of this group, its absolutely true. Most men don't want to put in time and effort and that's why we've ended up in the situation we're in today, with zero effort coffee dates and poor communication skills. So yes, they should be expected to pay for a damn date or initiate conversation. Aka the bare minimum 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:42 AM
21

Oh yeah! These guys really peaked at 21.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:59 PM
45

This is so pathetic lol. I'm an aPpReCiAtIoN aSsEt 🤡 The thing is, beauty doesn't fade. That's what we've been led to believe, because y'know, rampant misogyny. The reality is, if you take care of yourself and build up your confidence, you will look incredible in your 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s...and so on, because there's just something about confidence that makes people beautiful. I'm in my 30s and so much more comfortable and confident in my own skin than I was at 18. The scrotes I knew in high schoo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:56 PM
31

They usually have a girlfriend/wife 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:49 PM
14

Same. I didn't, in the end. I just didn't have the strength to tell them. I quietly deleted them and he never mentioned anything to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:44 PM
55

I just... No. This is not a jealousy issue at all. She knows something is up. This guy isn't even trying to hide it. Fuck that shit. There is absolutely no need for a grown man to be following these people. And for the love of God do not buy a house with him, jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:40 PM
44

This guy is the image I see whenever someone says LVM 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:44 PM
17

Same here! I played an MMO (I still do, lol) and these games attract entitled little scrotes. The original guys I played with were supportive, good at the game and genuinely helpful. I was pretty good too. A couple LV guys eventually joined the group and would try to suck up to me but the minute we screwed up up in the game, they would blame their mistakes on me. Their masks would drop straight away. Horrible guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:56 PM
12

I had to look. Seems like there's a lot of people practicing their creative writing. Seriously though, how the fuck is this allowed? Vile. These people are truly the lowest of the low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:29 PM
13

Agreed. OP please don't waste your energy on this guy. I've worked with similar people and the second you give them an inch, they will take a mile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:48 PM
6

Lol these sad scrotes rating her out of ten like they're the pinnacle of perfection. Please. "sHe'S aVeRaGe" yet you're sleeping in a single bed with one greasy pillow and duvet set you haven't changed in 8 months 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:46 PM
35

Lol yup. So shy and "don't really use social media", but spring into action the moment the second a pick me shows him the tiniest amount of interest. Next thing ya know he manages to overcome his shyness to cheat with the pick me 🙏 so brave!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:11 PM
28

I don't have tattoos but I have many friends who do and they're all very successful women. The people who are telling you that you won't be successful or be taken seriously are completely wrong. It sounds like your family members have very dated views unfortunately. If you were literally covered in them and had face tattoos, maybe i could see their point, but a few small tattoos is completely a non issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:41 PM
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