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That “k” story was so satisfying to read, and so was the oneitis-turned-Tinder story. I really hope it’s true.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 10:31 AM
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Man, that’s so true. It’s an uphill battle for fatties to adopt healthy habits in this environment. This post reminds me of a documentary I saw on YT, “the Truth About Skinny People.” They followed around skinny (healthy weight) individuals who get hateful comments like “you never seem to gain any weight,” from fat coworkers. It turns out a lot of what skinny people do is habits done unconsciously: avoiding alcohol, eat only until full, don’t accept free food if you’re not hungry. One of the mor…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 06:57 PM
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Say all you want about Jordan Peterson being a meme, but really, in the opening chapter he discusses (the famous) lobster example: when a lobster is defeated in battle, his body literally produces chemicals that causes him to shrivel up. A lobster loser’s brain chemistry differs importantly from that of a lobster winner. This is reflected in their relative postures. Whether a lobster is confident or cringing depends on the ratio of two chemicals that modulate communication between lobster neuron…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 06:03 PM
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Money is useful. If you're cheating just to cheat all you get is sex.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 08:59 PM
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I feel like the Harvey Weinstein is the least despicable of the reasons, at least she has ambition and knows what she’s trading. The rest seem hedonistic, emotional and self centered.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 09:31 PM
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Savage!
/r/askTRP21/02/18 02:56 AM
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Feelings: Just because you “feel” something doesn’t mean it’s true. One thing that’s worked for me is during meditation, think of yourself as someone confidence and successful, bring up memories of the past successes, current and imagine future successes. Imagine women admiring you and your phone blowing up. For 30 minutes to 1 hour a day you get to think and feel like someone attractive. Overtime as you get used to it, this feels more natural to you than your habitual, inadequate feelings. Reje…
/r/askTRP25/12/17 08:04 PM
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Just assume she ISN'T a virgin. She's a "virgin" to you but not to guys she likes. You're holding onto her because you believe she is the only virtuous, virgin out there. Either choose to believe there are none, or believe that there are others. My own philosophy is sort your shit out before getting in a relationship, you should not inherit her seasonal depression and she should not inherit your weak will. Don't let your happiness hinge on some woman who's happiness hinges on sunlight.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 04:07 PM
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Hey!! I read that book. His new one “Discipline is Freedom” just came out 3 days ago.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 04:17 PM
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Oh shit you just made me realize it. I remember the beginning of Tumblr SJW I began to notice the humor that was “permitted” just gave me a chuckle at best. Back then I had friends I would joke all day with that made people literally can’t breathe (I witness this in real life) clutch their stomach and almost tear up. I noticed I laughed less and less like this, and now I don’t even expect it anymore. What you’ve said hit the nail on the head. I recently connected with an old friend of mine from …
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 04:08 PM
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This sounds completely like me, doing well, even writing the how-to’s; and now becoming demoralized, lost, failing, reminiscing about the past (but i’m getting over that!) I would like to see that post you wrote way before, and can’t wait to hear a post from you again 1, 3 or maybe 5 years from this revelation. I hope your future skyrockets!
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 04:02 PM
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It is really cool to hear you talk about playing that original lick perfectly; I’ve read about how creative people and inventors from centuries have all said the same thing, “the idea was already there”, “The man was already inside the statue” or how the archaeologist saw how the complete fish fossil looked in his dream. I think it was Faraday who saw the equations in his dreams despite not being a mathematician. It’s awesome to connect to the creative spirit, I’m so surprised to hear a real acc…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 03:57 PM
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What type of mother would raise a daughter by saying, “honey, go on out in tiny dresses and big heels and go home with any man who buys you a drink. Don’t even vet him, if you get raped that’s his fault. Completely ignore any signals that make you feel uncomfortable, remember, always blame the man later.”
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 03:48 PM
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Now that you mention incels, it does make me think about their motto: “life for women is easy mode” at first I thought it meant because it’s easy for a girl to get a bf unlike how hard it is for an incel could get a gf, but maybe it is because of the abundance mentality. “Always think of what you have to do is easy, and it will be” - Émile Coulé. It’s hard to make sales, but it’s easier for the salesman who sees there are plenty of customers out there and lots of money to be made. I wonder if th…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 08:03 PM
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The idea that we’re more susceptible to basically mind-control when we’re more emotionally aroused brings up some ideas: Is the reason why motivational seminars work because they hype you up with excitement and then use that state to alter your old ways of thinking? (“Paradigm shifts”) Is heightened anxiety making itself worse by coming up with horrible thoughts at the moment (oh god we’re all gonna die) and then it becomes believable to them in that heightened state? Could we take advantage of …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 01:11 AM
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It seems more like TRP is teaching men consciously how to attain their goals that may come naturally to other men who already get women. I don't think they despise women, they just see their nature and accept them for it. Maybe an analogy is like trying to hunt deer by going to a stream and waiting for them expecting them to behave like fish. At first you get angry that they should have been coming to you, but later you learn to their nature is to live in the woods. When you go to the woods, at …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 02:24 AM
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She might not know when Christmas day is but she's smart enough to know her body is her only asset. Imagine the same scenario but she's a 220lb woman.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 08:06 PM
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Interested to hear more on acing college and remaining disciplined I had a brief 6 month period where I was really disciplined and now I need it back
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 07:05 PM
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Thanks. I don't think we have, butter_coffee is a hella dope name though
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 05:00 PM
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E-famous girls have attention issues/ narcissism.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:19 AM
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Every dude who's ever said their unicorn is a smart girl has a bad time. First, they're either out to prove that all girls are dumb, so the first smart one is special. But being dumb is the tactic. Second, the guys are usually insecure and want to banter about how much smart stuff they know, usually pointing out when the girl lacks. Third, who wants to debate all the time with a girl? When you lose, you'll carry that resentment all day. No one wants an argumentative combative girl. Usually the "…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 02:34 PM
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9mph!! I'm so proud of you. I remember starting out at 5mph and just recently got up to 7. Never ran this fast in my life before. Feels great man
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 11:21 PM
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She liked being "led" by you so it could get pass her asd. If you ask her want sum fuk, and she says yes, that makes her a slut. If you just lead her implicitly, she can pretend she wasn't.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 10:17 PM
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Some more: "I feel like" "I'll try to" (saying you'll try is like saying you're going to fail) Added: "it would be nice if" Added: "haha" or "lol" ("haha I think you're great", "lol so true")
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 06:05 AM
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I think she doesn't want to be "alpha" chick to a beta dude, she wanted to "get over her ex" by testing and testing a beta guy to see if he would stand up for himself and be even more dominating to this new independent or whatever version of her. Of course he failed the shit tests. They both wasted their time.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 11:56 PM
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Another great tip I heard was to say "Something wonderful is going to happen to me today." You go through the day positive and attuned to opportunities. Even if nothing good happens, at least you spent the day excited.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 03:56 AM
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Entitled shitlord, dang that's an amazing idea. I'm going to have fun with this. Even against myself when I'm making excuses. I didn't know there was a term for this, "Victimocracy", thanks I'm going to look it up right now.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 03:46 AM
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This should be a post itself man. I avoided social media for a while, came back to observe how some women speak and it was insane how much they loved to play the victim (often disguised as complaining or gossiping) They played the victim for everything under the sun: their period hurts, the weather was bad, "you made me feel bad" (other people are responsible for their emotions), they're broke (who spent your money? Who is responsible for earning it?) they're depressed but it's not their fault, …
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 07:06 PM
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If females have better cognitive performance but are set back by their emotions, does this mean the women who achieve success (becoming doctors, business leaders, inventors, engineers, millionaires) suppressed their emotions, or were born with more masculine brains? Would they achieve the same level of success as men if they controlled their emotions?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 06:54 PM
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Thank you! Didn't see this article.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 05:05 AM
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Yes it made me cringe
/r/askTRP14/05/17 10:40 PM
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I didn't know it was going to be this hard People who are afraid of hard work don't deserve good things. You did good, don't let this one part of your life affect others. Keep focusing on your health and career, women aren't everything.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 08:10 PM
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I'm currently reading "Maximum Achievement" by Brian Tracy; TRP is one of the few places that accepts these self improvement type book so I highly suggest people to read this an achieve their potential and learn methods to achieve their goals. He mentioned that some people don't set high goals because they don't feel like the can achieve them. But one of the most astounding things I learned from him is, "It's better to set a goal and be disappointed, than to not set a goal and guarantee a life o…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 08:02 PM
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One productivity tip was to "Act as if your boss was always watching you." I guess girls act as if Chad is always watching them.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 11:35 PM
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Why is the shit women do so cringeworthy?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 08:58 PM
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I don't know when it just clicked for me, but I realize the joy of self discipline is far greater than whatever "hit" I get. I haven't craved junk food for the first time because I realized that the dopeamine hit is nothing and fake compared to the long lasting calm of knowing you have control. When my friends say dieting is hard because of temptations, I don't understand that anymore. I know whatever it is, it's not worth it. Nothing compares to the long lasting joy of success. It doesn't feel …
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 02:19 AM
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There was a post I saw a while back (NSFW) where a girl sent this guy a nude with smileys covering the important parts and said "send me a pizza and youll get the rest ;)" The guy went to the pizza website, got all the way to submitting her address info, then sent her the screenshot. He didn't buy the pizza for her. She didn't know and sent him her nudes, and after a while asked when's the pizza coming?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 12:19 AM
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Men who feel entitled to pussy and mope about why girls never give the time of day without working on being a high value man himself. "They always go for Chads." "Well I don't want any random slut, I want her to like me for my personality." "The right one will come along." Meanwhile he never approaches women or work on his game. "I have never kissed a girl." This is 100% your own fault. "I just want a nice, loyal girl but girls these days are all sluts." "Why don't girls like me? I'm a nice, fun…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 11:35 PM
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Not fat is pretty much everything. Shows self control and discipline. This restraint will help with fidelity and financial issues. Cares about her appearance, by extension has healthy self esteem and cares about looking good for you. Good genes. Will teach her daughters to be high value, beautiful girls. Being not fat is pretty Redpill. She knows you can't be a ugly nasty fat ass and shame men into loving them. Takes responsibility for her own health, is mindful of her actions impact. (Eating ha…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 02:11 AM
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There was a post on AskTRP where a guy's ex texted him, said something like "Hey I'm going to be in town, do you want to meet up?" and he responded "IDK how fat are you now?"
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 09:18 PM
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I love this. There are people who say "Everything is my fault" and become a victim or like some kind of matyr overwhelmed by their feefee's Then there is the option to say "Everything is my fault- so I can change it and stop whining about it"
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 09:15 PM
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Ah, I don't mean you actually have to take an interest or care about what they say (as manipulative and sociopathic as that sounds) but it should be worthwhile to learn about social conduct, such as understanding when to change a topic, showing appreciation, kind of like soft skills. I hate the adage "If they don't like me, then fuck off" Everyone has some flaws. I think you have the moral values stuff down, this guy was doing stuff like being way too invasive, emotional, prying, double texting,…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 10:49 PM
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Oh god, you have no idea how relevant this is right now. This guy who is 25 I added off a forum- talking with him is like pulling teeth. I was surprised we used the same simile. There are a few things I generalize about someone like this: They are self centered; not in charismatic narcissist way (at least they have enthusiasm and interest!) but in a "I don't care if you are enjoying this conversation" way, I'm going to take this convo wherever I want it to go; aka stick to a topic only they care…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 09:14 AM
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Maybe the reason why so many people refuse to accept it is exactly what makes it more valuable. You know how success is rare because people have to overcome many hurdles to get it (time, energy, focus, patience) so most people give up at the various "levels" is my theory, leaving the top most piece as valuable as it is hard to obtain. in this case accepting the red pill is one of those gate keepers that most guys will never pass (being controversial, too long to read/ understand, too lazy for li…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 08:52 AM
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I wonder if guys have AWALT and all women are sluts/assume high n count/ assume she will cheat because it's a self fulfilling prophecy. The women who don't do these things are "unicorns" but my theory is it's not that they don't exist, they just don't register on a guys radar (e.g ugly but loyal/virgin) so the few who are attractive and get around are more in your social circle and you hear about them sleeping with so and so. Or they don't register on a guys radar bc men are actively avoiding LT…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 08:40 AM
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that followup question made me chuckle. I'm going to use that from now on.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 10:16 PM
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What are your tells for a fake rape? How would a real rape victim react? Not sarcastic, just curious to share notes. I think fake rape is the easiest thing for a woman to get sympathy and attention without having to prove anything. edit: I finished reading the Sally Rapehoax article and apologize for having nothing new to contribute.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 06:59 PM
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It's the internet, just lie your ass off. If a gay man gets angry at you, tell them you're gay. If a black person gets angry at you, tell them you're black. If a rape victim is proudly announcing how she was raped, tell her you were gang raped. "Why would anyone go on the internet and just tell lies?" I used to wonder when I was a weaker self, now I know it's fun and easy! Edit: plus they don't listen to logic anyways this is the only reason why it works.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 06:27 PM
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I remember Seneca encouraging us to take cold showers and wear cheap clothes to get ready in case we lose it all. I tried it out to see how spartan I could make my life. It's more fun to see how frugal you can be, knowing it's a choice, than when a friend I know had no choice BUT to live that way because of bad spending habits. Lack of money is a lack of self discipline (forcing yourself to work, plan ahead, budget appropriately)
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 05:03 AM
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What if she comes onto you for sex because that's what she knows you want? (Barter sex to get what she wants)
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 04:31 PM
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Yeah, no the innocent ones are always the sluttiest. In high school there were these two girls at my art table who always cracked vulgar jokes and during one of the free days made a penis out of clay. The quiet, sweet voiced chick said, "that's not what a penis looks like." Turned out she slept with four dudes and one of them she only slept with to get him to buy her a 134 set of prismacolors.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 01:57 AM
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You have to ask this stuff on AskTRP, anyone answering your questions may get banned for a week and OP may get banned for 30 days.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 06:03 AM
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Go out somewhere without her tonight: 1. Takes your mind off her. 2. She'll wonder where you are. 3. If she does turn out to have cheated you'd be a leg up in finding a new plate already- if she hasn't, get some numbers anyways for dread game.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 05:42 AM
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Wait until they hit the wall lol. The girls who are studying, working on their future are keeping themselves pure and are dignified wife material. Parties are not the place you will meet future wife. Like you said, if they are an easy lay/urban chick, next them. The ones worth keeping require much more dedication and work, they will probably have maybe 10x the amount of shit tests and ASD. The conservative girls are probably just as frustrated all they meet are chads who just want a quick fuck.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 09:10 PM
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I agree with the nofap; I think porn/video/fatty foods is the depressed person's go to for instant gratification, which worsens the "downward spiral". When you build resistance to your biological urges you apply it to other areas. Letting go of your parents could be considered TRP too, since it takes confidence to let go of people holding you back and looking out for number uno. Anyways, good job on changing your life for the better.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 06:23 PM
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Self esteem is based on self efficacy (ability to do something) and self respect. I believe tinder gave you easy self esteem because you were able to act and control in that environment, and had a solid basis for self respect in the number of responses and likes. There is a whole book about self esteem (The Six Pillars of Self Esteem) but what I would do is push through the discomfort and you will get better at IRL dating. Even if women suck, use your superior knowledge from TRP to your advantag…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 10:02 AM
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Uke in Japanese slang is the bottom in a gay relationship.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 04:16 AM
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It's female solipsism. They only care about themselves and have never had to work for anything in their life, so they don't know the hard work that goes into making money. Why be frugal when you can use your husbands money and give into instant gratification?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 01:07 AM
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I got curious and played Depression quest. It is the most cringe-y, asinine B.S in the planet. It's solipsism and narcissism. Almost 100% of the problems could be solved with a RP mindset. Too scared to socialize? Grow a pair. Can't get out of bed? Don't want to go to work? Marcus Aurelius' says people who don't do their job are not worth being a human being. Self discipline that shit. Too many feefees? Suck it up. Quit making excuses and being a victim. Your brother is more successful than you?…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 08:06 PM
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I saw this a few days ago but didn't comment but holy hell i have something worth saying now: I believe the reason why asian girls have "life on easy mode" with their pick of the guys is because they are basically raised to be TRP of women. I went over to that sub out of curiosity, they basically dominate all the traits that men subconsciously want: femininity (small, pretty, childish, hardcore "cute game"- aegyo, kawaii, etc), hidden agenda (as you said, manipulates betas), intense shit tests, …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 07:56 PM
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lmao i bet that last bitch who has a lot of male friends doesn't want to admit she likes the validation and they only tolerate her for the chance of future pussy (beta orbiters) she wants to believe they just want to be friends. "I cut myself for the first time in ten years" SOLIPSISM. What does reading about how reality works make you so overwhelmed with emotion that you are such a poor, boohoo victim of what actually works in life? As they say, women can smell crazy (stays away from the girls …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 07:24 PM
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Depression is a waste of time. When I got out of it, I dedicated myself to work; school work, hobbies, lifting whatever. No point in hemming and hawing about my feefees; if you want to do something in life you might as well be the best at it- because why not be the best? You only get one life.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 05:17 PM
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If his views are so "correct" why is his life so miserable all the time. Obviously they are not working and wrong.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 10:34 PM
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It's funny how they always say guys don't have sex accidentally, they don't just land pants down on a woman. Well here she is trying to hamster her way into saying that the sex was totally accidental, she had no responsibility in it, it was all her husband's fault for being away so much.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 03:14 AM
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Damn, was waiting for the ending where he turns out to be a total RP and dumps her.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 03:01 AM
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Hey I just finished the book Ego Is The Enemy too, today actually. In the ending interview, I recall him saying he is content with his amount of success. He was driven to write books, but not so much to the extent of wanting more material wealth than he needs (although he probably does have a ton of money); What I was curious about after reading the book was how to balance passion, confidence and daydreams with humility and realism. I recall being wrapped up in the "law of attraction" which work…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 03:48 AM
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They get hundreds of likes and get their confidence from it. Not only that but their confidence and self-worth is entirely dependent on it Women are only valued by their looks, so no wonder their egos are so dependent on photos and likes.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 03:32 AM
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My theory is that women have nothing better going on in their lives where they will get the validation they want (v.s concrete achievements men get). Taking photos of themselves take next to no effort or talent, and gives them instant gratification. Work hard and delay gratification and reap the kind of rewards these girls would never feel!
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 03:26 AM
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This isn't even the oppression bs feminists talk about, this is just common sense that makes both wife and husband happy. It's like purposefully antagonizing him for the sake of your "individuality" and "freedom" makes both parties miserable.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 07:31 PM
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Wanted to share an amusing story too: In the fall, on a Wednesday I invited a girl to go to a renaissance festival with me on Friday. She gladly agreed. On Friday, she said her work conflicted with the schedule. "It's just as well, I was raped at a ren fair anyways."
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 12:28 AM
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Whoa, you gave the perfect explanation of what victim blaming is. I made a long winded post on another website about how self-victimization is a mask for selfishness, helplessness, irresponsibility/excuses, and instant gratification (validation and attention); and that it would feel better to take action and admit your own faults. Someone with depression was very angry at this (a risk I knew could happen), and said something along the lines of "This is victim blaming and making it worse!" And in…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 11:38 PM
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If it's a goal you're passionate about, you don't ever give up. You'll regret it and have a void in your life. You clearly care about getting laid or you wouldn't ask for help. It's subtle but ditch the victim mentality, "other guys have it easy, it's unfair I'm bald/short" you are you, play the cards you have. Personally I think about my own mortality and how if I don't achieve the things I want in life that's my own loss. There's a solution to every problem and if you give up you'll never find…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 03:11 AM
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Not procrastinating will actually help you feel better. You'll accomplish small things, start to believe in yourself and grow in self esteem. Many therapists recommend doing small things everyday for their patients. It'll also start rewiring your reward mechanism, so that your brain doesn't default to instantly gratifying activities (sleeping, binge watching, eating) because it feels so miserable. Instead you force yourself to work for something, and get a greater high that lasts a longer time s…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 09:37 PM
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