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| 403 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before... | Field Report | bythepowerofthor | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 11:20 AM |
| 124 | A new sort of rejection | bythepowerofthor | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 04:14 AM | |
| 9 | Okcupid profile switch up | bythepowerofthor | /r/seduction | 20/02/11 09:59 AM | |
| 5 | I have a night 1 with a 33 year old... I'm 22 | bythepowerofthor | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 05:21 PM | |
| 4 | to my stoner sedditors | bythepowerofthor | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 03:53 AM | |
| 2 | Not exactly a [FR] but a testament of not caring. | bythepowerofthor | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 08:16 PM |
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| 1 | Negging Alternativesworks out great! I do this a lot too. "Oh you're an X kind of girl? Shit I thought we were going to work out too!" Playful banter works wonders, and is a really easy thing to turn into a part of your life. I use it within my professional life all the time. | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 02:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm fed up.Start reading and practising now, then shine through college. It only starts getting harder 25+ | /r/seduction | 01/11/15 08:55 AM |
| 1 | 19 years old, and can NEVER get past the first date.Fair enough | /r/seduction | 12/08/15 07:33 PM |
| 1 | 19 years old, and can NEVER get past the first date.I'm just taking a shot in the dark, since I don't know the guy. But I'm going to assume that he has his marriage because he's rich and not because he's a charmer. I could be wrong though. | /r/seduction | 12/08/15 06:15 AM |
| 3 | Most bitchy, pretentious Facebook message I have ever received from a womanOne, you're blowing it out of proportion. If you're not trying to sleep with her, who cares if it's a shit test? Maybe she wants to fuck you, but has it so far into her head that she really has to make a guy work for it. Either way who cares? I'd just laugh if off and say something like "that's probably for the best, I'd probably just sell it off to some nerd on campus." | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 10:20 AM |
| 1 | That one girlI get what you're saying, though I don't necessarily agree with you. Life isn't a movie where you can just throw things away to nurture a relationship. We've been in this boat for close to a decade now and we always find our ways back to eachother. We're too focused on bettering our own lives before we take that plunge. | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 09:11 PM |
| 1 | I'm looking for a long term relationship, not just to get laid. How does that change things?I came here for this. This person is 100% right. Pickup (at least this form of it) is all about making you a better person. And it carries over to all the different aspects of life. Be strong in body and mind, and that'll build a strong relationship when you find someone you're compatible with. | /r/seduction | 09/08/14 04:55 PM |
| 2 | What is one important thing you wish you could have taught your younger self about being better with women?Don't be a pussy, say something cos she totally likes you. | /r/seduction | 29/05/14 06:40 PM |
| 2 | How to respond when you get called out... turn the table on them.Yea for sure dude. Good luck with the herpes, bruh. | /r/seduction | 21/05/14 12:07 AM |
| 12 | How to respond when you get called out... turn the table on them.She does sound like a whore. Any quality chick isn't going to give you a bj in your car an hour after meeting you. | /r/seduction | 20/05/14 11:44 PM |
| 3 | I like how she took the first step to the next levelYea, bragging about how much "tail" you get over the internet to a bunch of faceless strangers is pretty sad homie. Congrats on your sex though, sounds like you worked hard for it. | /r/seduction | 21/03/14 04:00 PM |
| 2 | How many of you guys do actually get laid from those techniques and how many are just here to learn?An alpha? Alpha has nothing to do with having money, I.e. Having the means to travel. Alpha isn't even a thing. Living your life "to be alpha" is really you wasting your time and chasing this idea of what "alpha" is. How about you just live and do the things you want to do without worrying, if you're being alpha enough. | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 06:57 PM |
| 5 | How many of you guys do actually get laid from those techniques and how many are just here to learn?I'm just saying realistically, it's not always an option. I'm a believer in getting out there and seeing all that you can, but you know not everyone has the means to do that. | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 06:48 PM |
| 3 | How many of you guys do actually get laid from those techniques and how many are just here to learn?It totally gets boring, unless you're traveling and actively meeting these 3.5 billion women; then the figure doesn't matter. In reality you only have a couple thousand to actually meet, or even less. I live in a relatively large city, and you run into the same people over and over again. | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 06:41 PM |
| 1 | You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started?No I get it. I get the whole inner/ outer game thing. It makes sense, I guess I never think of saying "I'm going to kiss you." I think it kind of ruins the moment. At least for me, we operate differently. I guess I'm just more of a actions before words kind of guy. Whatever works for ya man. | /r/seduction | 30/11/13 09:20 PM |
| 1 | You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started?I never said it wouldn't work. I just think it's awkward. Agree with me or not, it really doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 30/11/13 07:27 PM |
| 5 | You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started?When people say "I'm going to kiss you now." I always picture it going super awkwardly and uncomfortable. Just kiss her, don't tell her. You'll know quickly if she's into it or not. TL;DR nut up or shut up | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 09:43 PM |
| 2 | You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started?Kiss her. | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Prague is introducing "singles only" dating cars in the middle compartment of every subway train. How would you approach a girl here?Facebook status, Thank you. | /r/seduction | 31/10/13 07:04 PM |
| 2 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!This is gold dude. It really only takes those face palm moments where you're like "Holy shit! It was this easy the whole time?!" to really start making strides within your own life. Don't let that one victory satisfy you though, make it fuel your hunger for bigger and better things in your life! Again props homie, you're well on your way! | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 03:17 AM |
| 9 | I am leaving you, Seddit...Eh I think thats a big stereotype. From what I've been reading the past 2 years I've been subscribed here, its been a lot of guys trying to make progress when talking to women. Granted, they may be trying to get whatever they can right out of the gate; but as they grow in their skin they start trying to lock things down with women they find endearing. Seddit has a bad reputation of being a flock of wolves in sheep clothing, when in the core it's all legitimate advice and life lessons. That's jus… | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 05:35 AM |
| 8 | I am leaving you, Seddit...Eh, it's a good thing I dont get my validation from people on the internet. I can't see guys picking up quality women who refer to them as "bitches" | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 05:27 AM |
| 8 | I am leaving you, Seddit...At least in my life, I gotten to the point where A) I dont give a fuck enough, so i try what ever I want to, or find funny. B) Never outcome dependent, I only go out with my friends anymore, and if i get a number or make out with some chick, or even take her home with me, that's on the back burner. I'd rather kick it with my group of friends when I go out. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 05:17 AM |
| -5 | I am leaving you, Seddit...Like i said in my post I barely read this subreddit anymore. Unless I find a title reeeeaaal interesting I won't really read anything. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 05:15 AM |
| 13 | I am leaving you, Seddit...Starting off with my adventure of becoming a more interesting person, and more extroverted. I would read about "game" and FR's before I would go out. It actually was kind of detrimental to my actual adventures. Now a days, I barely read this subreddit anymore. Unless I find a title reeeeaaal interesting I won't really read anything. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Will girls tolerate you if you don't have many friends?Exactly this. I don't tend to take girls home when I'm out with my friends. Ill get numbers and flirt, but 9/10 I won't be taking them home, cos I find my friends better company. | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 10:19 PM |
| 8 | The Friend Zone Myth.You know, I've been that guy desperately trying to steer clear of the friendzone. Recently though I was told by a very close female friend of mine that we have to hook up before I move out of state. A little back story I guess is needed. I worked with this chick for a couple months and we as well as my other coworkers grew pretty close. I've always been very sexual with all of them and just kept things very light and fun. She's told me on countless occasions how much she adores me and that she w… | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 05:10 PM |
| 1 | If you know a girl likes you, and wants to kiss you, what's a good line to make this happen?Pull her in close by the waist and kiss her. It's not to terribly hard | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 04:16 AM |
| 1 | I shut down in parties + trouble escalatingExactly this. Once you get comfortable you start escalating naturally, once that point hits it's all second nature and you don't even think about it. I've escalated girls I had no intention on doing anything with just because its a reflex anymore. | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Couldn't stop looking at this girl all night, at the end I got the courage and asked for her number which I got! Just wanted to say thanksI do see where you're coming from. You always have to celebrate any victory you have no matter if its a small one or a huge victory. Succeeding is succeeding no matter what language you speak. | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Couldn't stop looking at this girl all night, at the end I got the courage and asked for her number which I got! Just wanted to say thanksNah dude, seriously great for you! I wasn't saying anything to shit on your day. I was just saying how i read it. The first thing in pickup is to approach, but you can't really grow and expand if you can't figure out what you're doing wrong. From what you clarified sounds like you know what you're doing. Edit: keep on approaching! Shit gets so much easier. | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 07:44 PM |
| 4 | Couldn't stop looking at this girl all night, at the end I got the courage and asked for her number which I got! Just wanted to say thanksI'm not following. | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Couldn't stop looking at this girl all night, at the end I got the courage and asked for her number which I got! Just wanted to say thanksThere's nothing wrong with being attracted to someone (like another girl more than others.) that's how it's suppose to be, that's how we find partners. What I'm saying is that if you invest to much time/energy right off the bat things won't work out. I hope the best for OP though, I just want to give him some perspective. | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Couldn't stop looking at this girl all night, at the end I got the courage and asked for her number which I got! Just wanted to say thanksI hate to be that guy, but here it goes. From what you've said, you googled over her all night (so you probably put her up on some pedestal) When you finally went and talked to her, you immediately complimented her, and then asked for her phone number (the asking part is the big deal here.) just so you can ask (again with the asking) her to come out with you sometime. This automatically set her up to flake, or just not respond to you. Small victories are a great step in progress. But some one ne… | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Getting your waitress' number...I disagree, as a guy who's been serving for awhile now, I always make time for tables I like or tables with hot girls. So if they want to sit and chat for a second I make sure I give them the time of day, not only to affect the tip but also those sort of tables usually help me get rid of some of that "oh shit I gotta get x, y, z for table 31." Those are just my two cents though. Edit: I posted this under the reply when it was suppose to under the first comment. | /r/seduction | 25/12/12 12:02 PM |
| 0 | A girl I've been hanging out with called me "boring husband material" and it shook me.I only read a little bit of what you posted but I agree with atleast the first part. Last girl I dated or whatever, I had met her at work, we went out for drinks and literally the first thing I did when I saw her was give her a big ole kiss. Set the whole interaction for a very sexual tone. | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Help... Should i be scared? worried???Here's my 2 cents holmes. Don't let this subreddit be the end all be all for what you learn about pick up/ self improvement. What's on here may work for some, but it won't work for others. All this information is exactly that, information. Pick up isn't a linear path, it's a fucking windy sonofabitch. You're young, don't rush things. It'll all unfold just the way it's suppose to. | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 11:21 PM |
| 1 | A new sort of rejectionThis is awesome! I'm totally going to try this out. | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 10:26 PM |
| 1 | A new sort of rejectionI've always talked like that! No one has ever called me out on it though. Do I mind you doing it? Naaaahh it's cool man. | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 01:50 PM |
| 1 | A new sort of rejectionNot at all. She was in HR. she did all the billing and hiring for an advertising agency in my city. She worked with people already in my profession. | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 01:48 PM |
| 2 | A new sort of rejectionI'm entirely thankful for everything I have. My folks have helped me through a lot and for that I can be nothing but grateful. Keep on keeping on homie, you've got no where to go but up. | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 08:42 AM |
| 3 | A new sort of rejectionIll definitely check it out, anything to expand my mindset, will never hurt. | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 06:55 AM |
| 9 | A new sort of rejectionI've been studying Zen Buddhism since girl #1 and its really made things a whole lot more peaceful within myself. Do I meditate every day? Nah, I do on occasion though. Inner reflection is really the only way to grow as a person. | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 06:22 AM |
| 12 | A new sort of rejectionWow so much negativity. I wonder how successful you are with that sort of mentality. Everyone goes their shit, it's how you come out of it that makes you how you are. Way to be a douche though! | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 06:15 AM |
| 1 | How do I let a girls know I want to be more then just a friend?You know I've never gotten that, I've usually only gotten a giggle and an arm slap. I'm always better on my feet than in front of a computer. | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 04:58 AM |
| 2 | How do I let a girls know I want to be more then just a friend?I always just straight up tell them I don't want to be their friend. Usually along the lines of "It's a good thing we're not friends then huh?" sly smile | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 03:21 AM |
| 6 | How does one deal with a relapse of their one-itis ?I think this is the worse idea ever. Just my two cents. Here's why a) yea she's "just a girl you're flirting with, where you've had feelings in the past." But you're gonna re-kindle those same feelings while flirting with her. Those embers only burn out with time. B) after every break up she has, she'll look to you as a rebound; and you'll probably be there for her. Now, I don't know you, and you don't know me. Im just stating my opinion as I've been there before. Do what you want to, just know … | /r/seduction | 14/12/12 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Start using womens hairdressersOh having hair is glorious, I've started to let it grow out, so when I'm in the shower I can do that seductive whip back and get water everywhere. | /r/seduction | 14/12/12 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Start using womens hairdressersI've always wanted to go with the bald/beard combo. Alas I have a full head of hair, I wouldn't want to waste it. That's what I call hairymaleproblems | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Facebook: The simplest way to demonstrate higher value towards females.texting isnt a way of building attraction. It's more about maintaining your already built attraction, or creating more tension. Very recently I met this girl who came into the restaurant I work at. We conversed, I did my job and sold some product that I really enjoy. Turned out that so did she. Long story short, she gave me her number but we couldnt go out for a week or so after we had met. So the only thing we could do was text and set up a date. We've been out like 5 or 6 times now. Point of t… | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Facebook: The simplest way to demonstrate higher value towards females.Now don't get me wrong, I'm a strong advocate of texting while doing pick up. It's like everything in life though, moderation is key. The thing is though, you can't be boring. You gotta make it so they look forward to reading you're random text messages. If I'm just touching base (you know so they don't think I fell off the face of the earth or anything) I'll keep it short and funny with either something weird/interesting that happened to me that day, or some inside joke we have together. Inside… | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Facebook: The simplest way to demonstrate higher value towards females.I doubt the community will ever embrace Facebook as new technology. We're in text game and online dating. Facebook isnt for that, yea it will give them "some insight." Honestly though, 9 times out of 10 when you're out doing something awesome you wont have people to take pictures of you. (Unless you're Brad Pitt.) Work on your real life game, leave this bullshit "internet gimmicks" alone. A girl wont fall in love with you over facebook, yea you might get a fuck or two picking up girls over faceb… | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 03:12 AM |
| 1 | I have a night 1 with a 33 year old... I'm 22That probably was the worse way to say what I really meant. What I should have said, I doubt she's wanting to pursue a relationship with me. So naturally I feel like it will be more about enjoying the evening and satisfying ourselves. Just because of the age difference we have. Granted I could just be a naive 22 year old that mostly thinks with his member. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 06:19 PM |
| 1 | I have a night 1 with a 33 year old... I'm 22I plan on just using the boozing environment as a stepping stone for the night. Not planning on getting us super fucked up, actually I'd really like to stay away from getting plastered. Nice little buzz to loosen up the tension, as we've only talked very little. I served her at my restaurant, and she left me her number. I have worked in the bar industry since I've been old enough to work, so alot of my stories/adventures include boozing. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 06:13 PM |
| 2 | I've convinced myself that living at home, at age 24, to save money and complete my degree is enough of an excuse to not date since girls don't like guys in my situation. Should I continue with this mindset or change my attitude?I think i hit a funk, or maybe I'm just lazy. I went from meeting new girls regularly, to now I go out get wasted go home alone, smoke weed, eat and play wow until the sun comes up. I need to rethink some things. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 05:49 PM |
| 1 | I have a night 1 with a 33 year old... I'm 22I dont doubt that she knows I'm younger than she is. What I do doubt is that she thinks Im younger than 24. Solid advice though, Im going in assuming all she wants is sex. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Ideas for the first few dates??Happy hours, dude! A lot of bars (at least in my area) have started a reverse happy hour. | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Ideas for the first few dates??This is pretty solid. Women love salsa dancing. It's so sexual, but classy. It's not like going to a club and booty dancing. I will have to try this, there's a salsa bar across the street from my apartment. | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Ideas for the first few dates??4th date? Maybe some sex. Unless you can't pull the trigger. | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 06:55 AM |
| 3 | Ideas for the first few dates??I always like going for drinks. You can go to different bars and try their specialities. Gives you plenty of chance to switch up the venue, plus getting a little drunk is always fun. Also, you're probably going to drop some cash. It will be way less than dinner. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 12:30 PM |
| -1 | When did you guys cut her loose?What happened? We both moved on, I fucked more girls, she got preggers. The breaking point was when I finally manned the fuck up. It was hard up to the time I found out she was pregnant. Major lawls were had after. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 02:24 AM |
| 8 | What are some funny things you say that can be considered flirting?Usually when a girl does something like snort while laughing or squeal, or overall make a weird noise, I usually say "oh my god that was so sexy." In the most dry sarcastic tone ever. Then I just smile at them. | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 08:31 AM |
| 1 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...I'm 12, what's this? | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 12:30 AM |
| 1 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...ay thanks bruh | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 04:30 PM |
| 2 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...'Xactly | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 06:23 AM |
| 2 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Atleast the way I think of it, when a husband or guy is in trouble he usually has to sleep on the couch, I.e. dog house. So I flipped it on her saying that she wasnt even in trouble yet. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 01:51 AM |
| 1 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Nah, then no newbies would be able to access the sub | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 01:25 AM |
| 1 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Feminist trolls are rampant. Never very funny, just sort of shameful. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 01:13 AM |
| -2 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Sarcasm is never interpreted over the net. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 12:56 AM |
| 4 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Seems to me that no matter what I say, you're just going to twist it into some Misandrict mumbo jumbo to justify these thoughts inside your own head. Is that the reason you hang out on the seduction reddit? To make yourself feel righteous in your hatred of men? | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 12:42 AM |
| -3 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Whatever gets you off mang, it really just depends on what I'm trying to set up with a girl, if I'm going to get to know her or not. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 12:33 AM |
| 4 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Thats fucking awesome! It's never ever wrong of both parties are down. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 12:25 AM |
| 3 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Never at her expense. I actually have a lot of respect for the girl. She came at me with with some female shit test and I shut it down. I was never laughing at her cos of it or exploited her. You make these general and frankly sexist assumptions all because I posted a report of a night I had with a girl. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 12:11 AM |
| 3 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...So you exploit yourself for a cheap laugh at others expense? Man you seem like an awesome person. Keep up the good work. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 11:59 PM |
| 9 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...It absolutely could, that's why you gotta know the girl or type of girl you're talking to. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 11:49 PM |
| 4 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...This coming from the girl who posts copious amount of noodz on gonewild just to have your white knights to praise you up. You're no better than anyone in this subreddit or anywhere else. You crave attention guys give you over the Internet. Get off your high horse and get back in front of the camera. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 11:43 PM |
| 1 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...I think you're reading way too far into my interaction. The girl in the post and I have already set up and maintained a "fuck buddy" relationship, where we talk to each other when we want sex. We don't sit there texting/calling all day. We get what we want and we bounce, it's mutual. Nah have your opinion it's really no skin off my back, I just don't see what kind of point you're trying to make with a useless rant. I've always like this one saying, I think it goes like this "chivalry is dead, an… | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 11:16 PM |
| 2 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Don't get me wrong, I definitely don't mind a dominant women, I actually find it pretty sexy while we're already fooling around. Pretense though, it's not really my thing. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 10:07 PM |
| 5 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...plus with bar game it really is all semantics. I don't feel like you build a really big connection when you're both out at the bar getting drunk. It's just bullshitting and getting her number/kissing her/fucking her. I can't say that day game isn't about the same thing (wouldn't know, don't really day game very often.) | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 10:03 PM |
| 2 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...It really depends on the context, I do see what you're saying about the sure thing statement though. When a girl calls a guy at 3am saying she wants to come over, it's not cos she wants to play battleship or connect 4, she wants to fuck and pass out. Hence why we're FWB's. Me saying it was a sure thing was pointing out what it was. It doesn't help much that she's 20 years old. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 09:59 PM |
| 8 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Honestly what I've gone through to get to a point like this has just been putting myself out there. I've started studying zen Buddhism so that could relate to not having a outcome dependent attitude. Working in te bar/service industry has taught me to talk and interact with different types of people successfully, and going out and partying with my friends taught me how to be the life of a party and give value to everyone. Best advice would be just get out there and give it a shot! | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 09:53 PM |
| 5 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...So having a guy jump through hoops just so you'd come over isn't playing games? I'm not following your logic one bit. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 09:31 PM |
| 8 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Annnnnnd? Thanks for your input? Young you're gonna play the game, expect to be gamed back. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 09:15 PM |
| 2 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...She was absolutely trying to be dominant, she even said something along the lines of "you have a problem with dominating things, don't get me wrong I find it hot when you dominate me so don't stop." | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 09:14 PM |
| 5 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Oh I don't find it difficult at all, boring at times anymore. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 09:12 PM |
| 2 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...I guess I really can't say no effort, but its so menial I don't really feel like I'm making an effort. I've picked up a lot of girls while I've been serving tables and I can't tell you how many numbers I've gotten from just being friendly. Bar/club game it's the same thing, I don't make a huge effort anymore and I think it's really helped me out. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 07:45 PM |
| 23 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Very much see your point. I have gotten quite lazy recently. Having worked a huge bar scene in my city I've gotten bored with it I guess. I really need to step up and switch to day game. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 03:45 PM |
| 0 | Anyone have any "Guaranteed Laugh" phrases?I do the exact same thing, only I throw in "fuckin." or if I'm with Hispanics I say "pinche gringos." | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 10:08 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up, basically. Not gonna lie, it hurts to get rejected. How do you deal with it?I drink a lot. | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Does it make me look like a loser if I go out alone on a Saturday night?Dude going out alone and succeeding is probably the greatest feeling ever. It's just like "fuck yea, I had no one watching my back but I rocked that shit out like a fucking bau5." the ultimate test is staying in a fun state while you're just enjoying your own company. Stay at it, when you excel by yourself; you are the man. | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Show of hands, who has actually gone out and approached solo?Yea that whole punk/hardcore scene is pretty hard to break into. I use to go to a lot of shows back in the day with some friends. It never really came of much, now a days I feel way too self conscious to really go to anymore. Metal shows though, different story. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Show of hands, who has actually gone out and approached solo?It's a beautiful thing, it's basically a full city block full of bars here in sunny kcmo. Nothing's better than walking into a bar, seeing a wide variety of people you know well; it really gets the panty soup-a-flowing. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Show of hands, who has actually gone out and approached solo?I go out solo all the time, I'm usually pretty successful as well. Granted I know the staff at all the bars I go to (we all work together.) so it adds a lot of social proof. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 07:58 AM |
| 3 | Oneitis, tell me your story (If possible, help with mine).Actually in a certain sense I can totally see that. Don't ever let a women dictate who you are as a man. Do it for yourself. | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Can an introvert be "sociable"?I'm pretty fortunate, I work at the biggest bar district in my city. Turning on my switch is as easy as walking through the doors of my work. It is possible though, you just gotta talk to everyone. | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 08:37 AM |
| 4 | Oneitis, tell me your story (If possible, help with mine).We've all been there atleast once, and one broken heart is all you need to learn from what happened. I dated a girl for a year who I thought I was in love with and could possibly marry. Needless to say I was kind of a puppy dog to her. She cheated got knocked up by some other guy and crushed me. Took me a solid two years to get back to myself, as it stands now, I can't go a week without meeting and dating a new girl. It just takes some you time to get over it, stay true to yourself, surround you… | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 07:14 AM |
| 6 | I'm fed up, but not sure if this is the right place for me.Welcome aboard brother. Most, of not all of us has been there. Like mentioned before pick up a hobby and or physical activity. Go out to bars and just converse. Become a better you for yourself not just cos you want to get some tail. Girls follow in that wake, and they'll be more attracted because you don't seem like that's all you want, you're just a cool guy to be around and they love that. For the most part we're a good community to be around; lots of advice and encouragement. If you haven't … | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Drugs and pickup.Personally I would suggest trying cocaine for sarging purposes. I know whenever I roll I'm usually too euphoric to really form thought provoking and/or very suave conversations. On the other hand, whenever I'm blown I'm a god. I probably talk too much but nothing else matters at that time (except more coke). Saying all that though, I have to throw this in. Cocaine and MDMA Are helluvah drugs, they can be dangerous, and they can be very habit forming. Use with caution, and care. | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 03:36 PM |
| 7 | What do you guys do to feel manly/masculine?Basically, when I get down, I stop being down and just start being awesome. In other words, change something. You don't feel manly? GO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! Feel the wind hitting your face, go outside, fucking build something with those two lumps of meat on the end of your forearm. What I do to always get out of those funks, I go disc golfing for hours on end. It makes me feel alive. | /r/seduction | 19/03/12 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Doing fine with girls, until my friends shoot me downPersonally, I have a lot of co-workers (I work at a restaurant/bar) who love to bust balls and laugh at each others expenses, which I'm okay with; cos like you I don't really care enough to get butt hurt about it. Whenever they do that to me in front of girls though I usually just fire back with something embarrassing about them. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 09:45 PM |
| 47 | Sedditors, what single personal improvement has improved your seduction the most? I'll start.who starts doing pull ups at a party? | /r/seduction | 21/02/12 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Not exactly a [FR] but a testament of not caring.Yea I understand where it's from, I'm actually a big fan of the show. I don't see why that's such a big deal. | /r/seduction | 08/02/12 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Not exactly a [FR] but a testament of not caring.I never said I made it up now did i? what's wrong with re-hashing jokes you've already heard? | /r/seduction | 08/02/12 03:13 AM |
| 9 | What do I do when I get hit on?it's all innuendos and sexual advances, you're a guy that's what is expected of you. Read the side bar and take notes. | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Improving yourself is worth it.Relevant upvote for relevant user name. | /r/seduction | 22/01/12 11:01 PM |
| 4 | What do you think of my game?You sound like a condescending asshole, imo. Most girls I know would either scoff at your immature attempt of being witty/funny/cute or they would tell you how it is and leave you as a shell of a man. | /r/seduction | 15/01/12 11:51 PM |
| 43 | Good response to "You have beautiful eyes"?that seems really cheesy. | /r/seduction | 27/12/11 08:27 AM |
| 12 | General socially awkwardness situationIt's cos you analyze everything, quit thinking about everything and just go out there and be yourself. The brain doesn't like being uncomfortable, but it needs it. | /r/seduction | 03/12/11 02:32 PM |
| 4 | The world is full of women who want to get laid and can't.And my magnum! | /r/seduction | 18/11/11 11:38 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I was the Chodiest of ChodesIf you're doing it right, and they still get pissy/offended you probably don't want to socialize with them much. That's just my two cents. I have a pretty dry and sarcastic sense of humor, that's just how I've always been and if someone can't understand that and gets pissy the fuck em. | /r/seduction | 10/10/11 05:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I was the Chodiest of ChodesThe easiest way portray sarcasm without giving people the wrong impression is use a completely opposite tone of voice when getting to the sarcastic part. | /r/seduction | 10/10/11 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Having trouble flirting, connecting on datesUpvote for the wisdom and those 3 little numbers at the end of your name | /r/seduction | 08/10/11 10:12 AM |
| 6 | Having trouble flirting, connecting on datesThis... a thousands times this. I got through a week and everyfuckingtime i saw a NSFW link i had to basically talk myself out of clicking it. It only takes one time to break a week of hard work... | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 04:51 PM |
| 1 | So what is seddit dressing up as for halloween?The second amendment. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 11:38 AM |
| 0 | Cooking Date Ideas/suggestion?Whats that even mean? You're cooking for a female, no matter how many ways you cut it up, you're seeking approval. It doesn't matter if you're gonna do it all nonchalant, you're still trying to impress her by showing her "hey chick, check this funky shit out.... yeaaaaa i cook like a bau5" Most meals within the guy community that takes little to no input from the women are pre-frozen. | /r/seduction | 12/08/11 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Cooking Date Ideas/suggestion?have her stay over for breakfast | /r/seduction | 12/08/11 06:33 AM |
| -1 | Cooking Date Ideas/suggestion?what? Making omeletes isnt even trying... seriously, your suggestion screams "LIKE ME LIKE ME LIKE ME!" like no other. You're cooking for her, you're already trying. Swing for the fences. | /r/seduction | 12/08/11 03:27 AM |
| 10 | Whats a good response to "how big is your dick?"I always say "hung like a field mouse in wintertime." Then I usually laugh/smile | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Just Curious about you guysin my perspective i was a complete anti social nerd. Moving out of state for a period and then moving back, then meeting up with old friends from high school turns out I was just anti social, but popular. I've met up with a bunch of of the "popular" girls from my high school in the past couple of months and they all remembered me, and a lot of them have shown new interest in me. Pretty much playing video games 24/7 instead of being social or taking my education seriously. | /r/seduction | 04/06/11 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Pointers for messaging a girl way out of my league on OKCupidatleast you've seen her naked... | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what's your fragrance of choice?Play by Giovani, I've had random girls tell me how good I smell. Big big props. | /r/seduction | 25/05/11 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Jenna Mourey (JennaMarbles on youtube) on girls that piss her, and likely, most sedditors, off.I'm not here to erect pedestals, I'm here to destroy them. | /r/seduction | 19/05/11 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Jenna Mourey (JennaMarbles on youtube) on girls that piss her, and likely, most sedditors, off.I just fell in love. | /r/seduction | 19/05/11 08:02 AM |
| 1 | A movie cure for Ex One-Itis (first Seddit post)same boat i was in bro, saw it first time with what I call "cuntface killuh" thought the movie was dumb. Got dumped by "cuntface killuh" thought the movie was following my life. | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 04:22 PM |
| 1 | A movie cure for Ex One-Itis (first Seddit post)I can't up vote this enough, i found the movie put a lot of stupid shit I was doing in the past in perspective. | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 02:44 AM |
| 0 | to my stoner sedditorsI never said I was going to be smoking around her, or even before the date. All I wanted to know, was if the seddit community thought it would be better if I told her up front or wait for it to come up naturally in conversation. | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 02:46 PM |
| 2 | to my stoner sedditorsI don't really care what she thinks, I'm gonna smoke anyways. It was just more of, should I bring it up now or wait for the topic to come up naturally. I mean honestly if she doesn't like that I smoke, she can gtfo. | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 06:14 AM |
| 1 | How do you pick your clubs/bars/venues for sarging?everytime i went to knights library it was nothing but drunk UCF girls and dude bros. | /r/seduction | 17/01/11 09:15 AM |
| 2 | How do you pick your clubs/bars/venues for sarging?depends on your taste my man. Hipster girls? Ibar/backbooth on friday/saturday nights. Thats downtown orlando, if you're 21+ sky 60 and bbq bar is pretty dope, so is dragon room. I always went to the knights library though when i wanted to hook up. | /r/seduction | 17/01/11 04:29 AM |
| 2 | When the girl negs you, is that a good thing or a bad thing?Honestly, I say she's just giving you your shit right back to you lol. I give girls a hard time ALL the time, thats one of my tests; I have a super sarcastic and dry sense of humor, if she can hang, then we'll get along great. If she can't or just doesnt understand it, we probably wont hang out. Just depends on how you take it, I don't ever get offended when a girl "gives me a taste of my own medicine." I see it as GAME ON! | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Can't tell if she's interested... how would you read this?man i wish someone would have told me about the whole "just enjoys having fun" thing... would have saved me alot a year ago lol. | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 07:32 AM |
| 2 | The difference how men and women perceive each other (i.e. how to make yourself more attractive)meh, you just gotta rock the right style of glasses for your face. I wear glasses and they always compliment what I'm wearing, women love that. | /r/seduction | 20/11/10 11:26 PM |
| 11 | Worst OKCupid date EVERdude the crazy bitches are GREAT at hiding the fact they are crazy from strangers. Real talk, I dated this chick once for about a year; seemed normal and everything until about the 3rd-4th month in thats when the crazy started to come out. | /r/seduction | 20/11/10 07:16 PM |
| -5 | First date after a bad breakup....I'm suddenly nervous as hell.smoke some green if you got some. the first one out of the gate is gonna suck balls dude. seriously, you will think about your ex, and you will probably feel like shit. Shit it's been 3 months for me (after a year relationship filled with lies... fucking bitch) i've been out on a couple dates, Ive smashed a couple times. It still fucking sucks. I know though when I smoke before I go out, or hell while we're out lol everything slows down and I can make more level headed decisions and actually not… | /r/seduction | 20/11/10 04:34 AM |
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