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I mean, don’t get me wrong, I do agree with tjat sentiment and I do think it’s sad. I just also think when he really knew he wasn’t happy, he should have suggested they go their separate ways, rather than fantasizing about a woman he met in college and posting his unhappiness on the internet. Can you imagine if his wife saw that post??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:22 PM
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It honestly just sounds like he’s looking for someone to give him permission to cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:23 PM
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Ugh. Raised conservative Christian and yeah this was a thing. Actually I used to do ballroom dance too and my instructor said the same thing - if a dude gets the guts to ask you to dance with him, don’t turn him down and embarrass him. Like.... ummm what about my feelings? Mine don’t matter ? Essentially you’re saying yes to hugging him and having his knee between your knees when you agree to ballroom dance with a dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:26 PM
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I read about this! A shelter put this ad out to get more attention for a dog in need of a home. They got tons of calls from confused men, but the dog did get adopted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:13 PM
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Omg Im so sorry. My ex did it the shittiest way too. He asked her for a relationship, asked her to leave her ex, AND THEN dumped me only after she said yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:24 PM
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Ommmmgggggg this is what he would say. Why do I care so much what other ppl think!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:57 PM
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My ex did ALL of these things. To the point that he left me for his “friend” after months of basically already dating her. Long text conversations, taking her out to dinners and insisting I couldn’t come along, flirting on social media, etc. I saw the writing on the wall but wanted to believe him. I told him I was uncomfortable and asked him to take a step back from this “friendship” and he refused and called me crazy and jealous. Well, it came back to bite him. She dumped him two months into da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:57 PM
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My ex husband also said he was completely shocked and blindsided when I left him for another man. After he had asked for an open relationship and I went along with it and wanted it too. Then he slept with his best friend the night before our wedding, struggled to get dates and then got really upset when I fell in love with the other person I was dating. He eventually demanded I choose between my bf and my husband, while still having a gf. And my bf wasn’t punching walls. So I left. Goodbye entit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:25 PM
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A classic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:31 PM
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I am sad to say, I too have been given this “apology” and it just blows my mind that someone can be so full of themselves. they really think their own opinions are the only ones that matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:30 PM
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It’s a catch 22, because many studies show that women are taken more seriously in work, interviews, etc if they appear to be wearing makeup. https://www.nytimes.com/2011/10/13/fashion/makeup-makes-women-appear-more-competent-study.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:30 PM
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Plus it’s insanely shallow and insulting. They are basically saying their worst fear is going on a date and a woman will be ugly when she wakes up. You didn’t like her that much with makeup if you lose all interest when you see her without. Grow the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:33 PM
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No, he’s not hitting me. He’s basically saying not only that he hopes I get hit - oh, worse then that, he’s implying it’s inevitable because I’m that annoying/impossible. He makes these types of comments all the time. He says that oh there’s gotta be a common denominator when all your past bfs either hit you or acted like I am right now. I never yelled like this or called any of my exes terrible names like this, so it must be YOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 10:43 PM
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With the worlds biggest ego. Seriously. He thinks his opinions are indisputable facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:01 PM
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Even worse, Leo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 07:59 PM
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He is. He’s claiming right now that I am being abusive to him because I’m not responding to anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 07:42 PM
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Interesting. My friend who has borderline has said that about him as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 07:32 PM
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“My name isn’t” Lova “Hair” Little Mix “I am not afraid” G flip “NASA” Ariana Grande “okay okay” Alessia Cara “Clean” Hey Violet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 06:56 PM
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Why is it men think they are inherently born deserving a perfect partner, lover, and apparently someone to run errands for them - and I’m out here begging men not to call me names and wish me death every time they get mad at me for whatever it is that they are upset about now. How does that logic work???? They are entitled to a whole person but I’m not entitled to basic human decency?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 05:30 PM
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It’s not sarcasm. He’s one extreme or the other. Either I am a goddess, the most beautiful and talented woman in the world, love of his life. Or he gets upset and then I’m a crazy c*** that no one can ever stand and he can’t wait until the next guy hits me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 05:21 PM
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I picked up his cat from the vet, paid the extra balance, and brought her to his house, fed her and made sure she was all set with food & water before getting myself an Uber home. He was supposed to come over after work. Then he decided he’d rather go see his cat. Which I was a little miffed about, and honestly not even mad, just a little annoyed. I was just there, your cat is fine. which, fine, I was snotty about it. We spoke on the phone and I gave short, one word answers and basically told hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 05:05 PM
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“Oh I’m a bad texter” “I’m not good at writing.” In order to graduate high school and/or college, we had to write full papers. We had to write pages and pages of thought-out, well-researched, carefully edited material. They can write when they feel it’s worth their time and effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 05:05 PM
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Hahahahahahaha that’s a great analogy. The point is to get there, not run in circles for hours lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 02:31 PM
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Definitely did some awful things. Every time we fight he starts saying horrible things he can’t take back. Like that I’m unlovable and a failure and whore, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 09:09 PM
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SAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 05:01 PM
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Make eye contact and then flutter your eyelashes down. Flirt with body language. Smile. Flip your hair (just once, don’t overdo it), shrug your shoulders, but in a flirty way not an insecure way. The dude will come over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 04:33 PM
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