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| 138 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result? | Discussion | caligulawillblush | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 05:28 PM |
| 98 | A short story about that time my LVM ex gave me a dating advice book to correct my behaviour... that he had not read himself. | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | caligulawillblush | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:30 PM |
| 61 | Applying FDS "sex strategy" when I physically cannot/ have never had an orgasm? | DISCUSSION | caligulawillblush | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Internalised Misogyny on FDS | LEVEL UP | caligulawillblush | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 09:27 PM |
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| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?3) I think men objectify women and women objectify men. But that isn't my complaint, that's just how the world works. My complaint was about why are women playing into this sexualisation and objectification? Why are women wanting to be seen as nothing more than holes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?How are they interfering with my life? By supporting the pornification of our culture and sexualisation of women. This affects all women. I don't think we should play into it, as the results are NOT GOOD for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I'm not asking about men wearing those because I've never seen men wear those in my gym. Theyre usually in joggers and a t shirt. 'when I look my best I feel my best, when I feel my best I'll do my best' dont you think it would be good to analyse why we as a society tell women that their value is based on their ability to please men sexually, and this leads to pressure for women to dress in a way that emphasises their sexual characteristics (ie the bum emphasising leggings I have been talking ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?'you basically just said' errrr no, that's not at all what i just said. are you blind? can you read? i am a rape victim myself, not really sure what you're trying to prove here? I never wished harm or rape on these girls or claimed they deserved it, that's pretty rotten thinking from you. 'No one has the right to judge you'. retarded take. When you are in public EVERYONE has the right to judge whoever they would like, just as you have tried to make judgements on my character and attitude to rape… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?i think i am very similar to other girls tbh, which isnt a bad thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?1) Choices are not made in a vacuum. The pornification of society has impacted the expectations of how women are supposed to dress, which is why we now see women dressing in ways that emphasise their sexual characteristics to somewhere as mundane as a gym. 2) Again, research showing when men look at women in a state of undress the areas that light up in their brain are the areas associated with 'objects' and 'tools'. So yes, looking at women dressed like that is relevant and degrading since they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I can relate. I like to look seductive/ 'sexy' sometimes, but the gym isn't an appropriate place for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 03:06 PM |
| 0 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I don't think I called anybody a whore, I used a simile 'dressing like whores'. Either way, I can do that and also dislike men. It isn't mutually exclusive. It does have stuff to do with what women wear, because choices are not made in a vacuum. But if you're happy for the pornificatin of society to influence every aspect of our lives then you do you, but I will not be playing into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 03:05 PM |
| 0 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?That's good, neither am I :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Rock the basketball shorts!! <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?This just proves I am right to be creeped out by it lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?LMAO I feel the same way about the butt scrunch, it genuinely is not flattering!! I get like leaving your makeup on, but you can't convince me people still have a perfect full face of makeup by 7pm after working since 9am or whatever. Thank you for your honesty, I liked my old women's gym, I found a lot of women dressed more subtly there too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?If you are out in public then people are free to judge you however they want, that's a fact of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Beauty isn't centered on the ruching up your buttcrack lmao, lets not pretend that isn't designed to emphasise your sexual characteristics. Due to porn use, when men see women in a state of undress the area of their brain associated with 'objects' and 'tools' light up, so yes, it *is* objectifying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 11:41 AM |
| 0 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Ok so if a man masturbates in public is it your fault for sexualising him? We should just have no barriers at all for our public behaviour because if you see it as sexual then it is your fault!? lmao. ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I didn't flair this as a CMV for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I think you're right. It's really sad tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Looks like somebody doesn't understand the widespread effects of the rampant porn use amongst males, with research showing when they look at women in a state of undress the areas that light up in their brain are the areas associated with 'objects' and 'tools'. Why is this a healthy thing to encourage? Choice feminism is such a mistake lmao 'if she's comfortable she isn't being degraded' like okay tell that to the men who literally are literally viewing you as an object. Why are we encouraged to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?What is the function of the bum contours and ruching that the only purpose is to draw attention to your bum and make it look bigger? Is it okay if men start wearing contoured leggings for their bulge and pad their bulge to make it look bigger? I think no, it isnt ok because it is inappropriate for the setting. Just the same as these types of leggings for women. I asked this question about women because those are the people who are doing these behaviours. Men don't wear bulge enhancing leggings a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Yeah I'm thinking of making the switch as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Also I know how the men feel because I always feel like I can't look in someone's general direction if they have their shirt off, because I am scared it will look like I am checking them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 09:44 AM |
| 0 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Yes I've been training olympic lifting for over three years, I fully understand you can't wear baggy clothing - this is why I never suggested to wear baggy clothing, so I am not sure where you are pulling that from? I train to get stronger tbh not for aesthetics, otherwise I'd do bodybuilding and not oly lifting. I hate when men take their shirts off at the gym. I don't have pickmeisha energy cos I simply do not like men enough to want to be picked. I just think it's a fair question to wonder wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Ok, so why aren't you answering my question? You don't like the true answers to my questions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?It's what the responses on this post are suggesting, yes. Can you read? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Literally, its so pathetic. I never even said I dislike these women, many of them speak to me everytime I see them lmao. I like FDS tbh but yeah idk why we should treat women as if they have zero accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:44 AM |
| 0 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Part of burning the patriarchy is not appealing to the male gaze 24/7. When we as women base our value and how we feel about ourselves on whether or not our outfits attract attention to the areas that men like to see, we are directly playing into the patriarchy. Please use some critical thinking before spouting 'lets not judge women' BS as if most women aren't handmaidens of the patriarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Thank you for your sensible opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?yes which makes more sense to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?tbh I am making a home gym when I buy my own house this year | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I never shoot glares, these women actually like me and speak to me lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I bet you can't formulate a valid response to my questions so you are just using ad hominem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I'd love that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?understanding that your social relation to men is built on them seeing you as a sex object is traumatizing and damaging. but lets not kid ourselves that by playing into this objectification it is somehow empowering. Men have proven on this thread they don't respect women who dress like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:33 AM |
| 0 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I mean, you're wrong, but ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I think society's messaging tells us that to be beautiful we must also be sexual, so it is a hard line to draw for women. So I get why it may be confusing for some | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:31 AM |
| -1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Yes, we should never hold women accountable because they are basically infants. Good take! /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:30 AM |
| -1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I lift heavy so have to take decent amount of rest, at which point I am not just going to stare at the floor for minutes at a time. Now I have answered your questions, you can stop avoiding my questions :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I have considered working out in sweatpants but I do wonder if it would be too warm, as the fabric is less breathable. I might try it one day tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:28 AM |
| 0 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?That's probably because as women we are taught by society that 'stylish' means revealing and form fitting because that's where our value apparently lies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?So it is pick-me to point out that men are sexualising and objectifying us at a rate higher than ever due to porn use, and we shouldn't be playing into it? Why would I want a man to pick me lol? They're not really worth dealing with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?No, that's not my issue here. I detailed my issue in my previous comment to you, why can you not form a coherent rebuttal? Is it because my point is actually valid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?No I don't think they want to be stared at, I never said that. I think we should not be returning to a time where a woman's main value is her sexuality and looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I am not robbing them of their agency by talking about the very real pressure on women in society to look young and sexy 24/7. I think it's good to analyse your choices, including why you may be inclined to dress a certain way. Plus choices are not made in a vacuum - yes you may *choose* to dress in a way that is highly sexual, but why does this make you happy? Is that because being sexually attractive to the male gaze is validating, and makes you feel valuable? How come men don't feel powerful … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 10:55 PM |
| 0 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Men will always try to oppress us, we should resist it where we can. This means not encouraging their sexual objectification of us :) Yes they like those clothes - *because* the clothes are sexualised and appeal to men and make them feel attractive and wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I don't think I ever said it is all women, did I? I don't need to re-evaluate why I feel this way. I think it would be healthier for these women to re-evaluate why they only feel attractive or powerful when they are pandering to the sexual gratification of the men at the gym. I don't think it is healthy to raise a generation of women to believe the most important thing about them is the size of their bum, or how many men they can get to look at them due to having camel toe and cleavage out at th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Yes that's the exact reason I expected it to make people uncomfortable tbh. You seem like a very respectful man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 10:13 PM |
| 4 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I don't think I am better than everybody else, I simply want more women to be unshackled from the slavery that is the male gaze, and the commodification of our bodies. It's a shame some women feel so much pressure to sexually gratify men even when doing things like working out - why are we not fighting against that as a society? Probably because if we shame women into sexualising themselves via tight clothing and cosmetic surgery (eg BBLs) we can get more money out of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?No, the only women's gym is too far away from me, I went for a year but it was taking up an hour each day just to travel there and I just don't have the time (or fuel money) for that. IDK how I would even find a 'conservative' gym that had the equipment I need tbh. When I say it's inappropriate for the setting I mean it is a setting where anyone ages 13+ can attend, they are going there specifically for the aim of working out and self-improvement, and I don't think it's appropriate to wear cloth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?This is how I feel about the topic I brought up too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:58 PM |
| 0 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Sorry mod <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:57 PM |
| 6 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Because I worry about in the future I will have a daughter who has to survive in a world that is telling her her main value is her ability to sexually satisfy men 24/7 by presenting her body as a sexual object even when doing something so mundane as using a gym. You should probably care, unless you like the fact that men see us as sexual objects already due to their rampant porn use. We are returning to the stone age where are only value is our sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?those joggers are cute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Yeah same but they now design leggings to highlight your booty cheeks and crack even more, and some are designed to purposefully give you a wedgie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?But also if you can't feel these places contract or consciously cause them to contract with your mind, you should work on that as well to prevent injury. You can't always safely look at your muscles while you're lifting lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Me too!!! I HATE shirtless males at the gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:44 PM |
| -2 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I am enjoying this reddit thread thoroughly, yes :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?see, its gross lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:43 PM |
| -1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I actually dont really want men to pick me because most of them are gross porn addicts. But its ok you can make ur silly little judgements because i wanted to question why women are pandering so much to their own degradation and objectification. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I just dont see the point of the bum contouring and scrunchie wedgie thing. Nothing wrong with leggings or shorts themselves, but jsut the weird type that are designed to draw as much attention as possible to your bum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:42 PM |
| -1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I don't wear baggy t shirts they aren't practical for my sport. Why are you so offended? because its true that you are playing into the male gaze and degrading/ objectifying yourself for strange men? using your ability to sexually gratify men with your butt selfies to validate yourself? sorry girl but that is not empowering, it is slavery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:39 PM |
| -4 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I mean I do look better than them lmao. I've never claimed not to be like other girls, I love women. I love them enough to want them to understood their value beyond sexually gratifying men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?lmao projecting babes its ok <3 u can criticise people without being jealous you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I'm not shaming anyone, I havent said anything to these girls and I am nice to them when they speak to me. I just think its inappropriate for the setting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:36 PM |
| 0 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?lmao I wear them at home and to go outdoor swimming lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?the 2nd one, its meant to make ur bum look bigger and the seam purposefully causes wedges. if u didnt want wedgies ud get seamless ones. i wear a lot of gym gear so i know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?yeah for sure, i dont want anyone to be sexually harrassed but that includes men not having buttholes, camel toes and breasts shoved in their face when trying to work out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:31 PM |
| -5 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I dont need validation from anyone, I'm looking for answers. Men are gross porn addicts in general, and it seems a lot of women are kinda whorish. I can insult both however I want to :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:29 PM |
| -3 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Women can look pretty, but blatantly dressing like whores is very different. women *can* choose to wear what they want, but i also think they should question themselves why do they feel most attractive and powerful when subjecting themselves to the male gaze? why do you only feel valuable when a man can ejaculate to the image of you? is that all you are worth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?yeah i wear thongs as well, i just cover them with appropriate amounts of clothing when I'm in public | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:26 PM |
| 0 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?lmao yet I'm one of the only women in the gym with visible muscle definition. its ok love just say u like being degraded and objectified by the male gaze and leave <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I lift and dont feel the need to have ruching up my arse crack to help my form LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?it makes more sense to do it at home alone IMO i wear skimpier clothing when I'm alone as well, because its inappropriate to do it in public | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 08:20 PM |
| 0 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Sex is great, sure! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 07:22 PM |
| -3 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I think it does hurt people because it reinforces the male gaze and the idea that women are just objects to be looked at and masturbated with. I wish women didn't feel their best when they were being degraded and objectified by men, but you do you girl! <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?lmao I actually have a great body thank you, including a nice bum :) I never said she is asking for anything, but I am saying that if men sexualised themselves and made their bulges more prominent or something it would make me extremely uncomfortable, so I imagine it works the same the other way around. lmao I would never go 50/50 with a moid!!! I actually am a hot woman which is why I'm not desperate for sexual validation from stinky porn addicted men (like 95% of them LMAO) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 07:18 PM |
| -3 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I'm not, but I am also not having my integrity called into question by saying I don't work hard enough. I am in better shape than them, I just don't sexualise myself for male attention because I think men cause enough harm doing that themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?It's a big deal because men already sexualise and objectify us enough. Women buying into it and promoting it isn't helping, because it makes men think we *all* want to be sex objects just to be stared at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 06:49 PM |
| -1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I'd feel more comfortable wearing like booty shorts and things in a womans only gym tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?them butt scrunch leggings make it look like ur asshole is on the outside of ur leggings. they arent even flattering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 06:45 PM |
| 0 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I'm not saying men feel compelled to sexually harrass them, but to be surrounded by women who are signalling they are sexually available must be reallt difficult to concentrate and not feel some level of arousal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Butt scrunch leggings are leggings that have a shirred seem riht on your ass crack to give the illusion your ass is bigger than it is, but it ends up just looking like ur butthole starfish is showing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 06:42 PM |
| -4 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Idk all of these girls I talk about are in objectively worse shape than me in terms of muscle development and being a healthy size, I think I work harder than them cos I don't spend my time at the gym doing gimmicky arse exercises and taking selfies of my butt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 06:21 PM |
| 5 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?This is literally waht I'm concluding too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I am a woman and i simply do not buy into this sexist way of thinking. Why would you willingly become a slave to mens sexual urges? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?tbh I do feel uncomfortable when men take their shirt off as well. and no LMAO ur a liar, leggings with butt scrunches and contour colouring are not mandatory in dance class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Question to Women: how much of a factor is male fashion?Those trainers that are really bulky and horrible or that slip on like socks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Question to Women: how much of a factor is male fashion?I'm 22, any nice trainer or Converse. Nothing too trendy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 07:29 PM |
| 9 | Question to Women: how much of a factor is male fashion?If a guy was super hot but dressed bad it would be enough for me not to date them - it's embarrassing to be with someone who seems to put no effort into their look and can't just wear clothes that fit them. Most of mens clothing just needs to be simple and well fitted - there is nothing better than a nicely fitted T-shirt, jeans, and belt with some nice casual shoes to me. It's not about trends or fashion, simple clothes work really well as long as they fit nicely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?Past behaviour is the best predictor of future behaviour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 05:59 AM |
| 1 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?Yeah I’m not in the USA, religion isn’t popular in my country but I still know many devout catholics and Christians | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?I am not religious myself, but have many Catholic female friends that are saving themselves for marriage. Mostly they get their frist boyfriends age around 21 or 22, they will be the only men they have kissed and they will get engaged within a couple of years and married. I know for a fact any woman who attends mass multiple times a week and often veils, is devout and will not lose virginity before marriage. I also have male Catholic friends who do the same but this is about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 08:02 PM |
| 2 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?they clearly were not very religious. or conservative. they were being fake. Genuine conservative/ religious women exist. They may just not be picking you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?By definition they don't. If they don't follow the rules of the religion, then they aren't really religious. There are many who do, especially when you get into the catholic side of things. Find any girl who attends mass at least once a week, and they will most likely be a virgin until marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 06:49 PM |
| 3 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?100%. Number of sexual partners is correlated with higher chances of infidelity and divorce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 05:51 PM |
| 0 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?I misunderstood, I thought you meant “all of one woman” 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 05:49 PM |
| 0 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?If you’re using terms like CC and AWALT then yes you are complaining | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 05:13 PM |
| 0 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?So don’t complain about sluts then when you are contributing to the problem. If men stopped being wimps ruled by their testosterone and had standards, there would be no sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 05:01 PM |
| 2 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?So as a woman who isn't promiscuous, why should I continue acting morally and keeping myself to myself before marriage if you aren't going to believe me anyway? Like even if a woman is a virgin, you seem to be saying here you wouldn't believe her anyway. Don't you see how that just encourages people to be sloots anyway, because you are going to treat them as such no matter what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 04:40 PM |
| 20 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?Yep. They don't want women to be promiscuous, but they do want women to have sex with them before marriage. You can't have one without the other. For the record, I'm not promoting promiscuity or anything, I don't think its good for men or women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 04:38 PM |
| 6 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?Yes I agree. But most men complaining about CC/ AWALT? Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 04:36 PM |
| 8 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?Male sexuality is yes 'all for me, and none for thee', combined with "but i also want to spread my oats" or whatever the term is as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 04:36 PM |
| 5 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?You aren't the people concerned then. Good on you for having good morals and sticking to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 04:35 PM |
| 55 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?If they dated a religious girl they would actually have to follow her morals ie not have sex before marriage. They don't want that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?This guy above me is saying if you can’t be an athlete what’s the point in playing sports. So yes he is saying that. Which is of course a pathetic victim-mentality mindset. I also agreed it’s not the only thing- I said people should have a physical hobby as well as other hobbies. Sports is the best way to learn a good mindset, no other hobby requires you to withstand as much physical discomfort, discipline, and possibility of meaningful wins and losses. It really teaches you the rewards of delay… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 07:50 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.I’m not making a blanket statement, I don’t think any of my female friends have ever disagreed. If women loved orgasms just as much as men don’t you think they would be equally as addicted to masturbation and pornography, and would watch porn focused on BDSM and rape that doesn’t involve female orgasm at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.I am a female, I physically cannot orgasm (probably due to mental trauma). I still love sex. Women don’t need orgasms to be satisfied with sex, otherwise there would be a lot less women having sex as most women cannot orgasm from sex. Don’t confuse men’s need for an orgasm with a woman’s, women’s sexuality is a lot less physical than a mans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?The average person (man and woman) is low quality. This is the main reason for our problems. You can only save yourself - so do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?Sounds like low quality women to me. Not interested in having more women like that in my family. Plus you're wrong, women like masculine men. We are in a severe shortage of masculine men, so many women settle for thug-like men because those are the only types that have any sort of self-respect and dignity and aren't simps. A good masculine man is preferred by any mentally sane woman, and this would be proven if more men worked on themselves and stopped themselves being indoctrinated with liberal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?False lol many years in the gym and training alongside men, I have very realistic expectations of how much work somebodies physique takes. An impressive / above average physique by today’s standards is literally one year of big three lifts 3x a week, considering the average person is either obese or skinny fat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?To pretend that exercise isn’t beneficial is a bit silly. I’m not athletic naturally, I’m clumsy and weak and skinny. Over time I learned to be athletic through dedication and hard work. I would have preferred it if my parents raised me that way originally, but instead I had to work it all out on my own. I am not going to lead my son (or daughters) down a path of laziness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?I think everybody (man and woman) should be athletic, it is important for your physical and mental health. Whether thats martial arts, gymnastics, rugby, weightlifting etc. These all foster good attitudes towards discipline, accepting losses, having responsibility and respect for your team/ opponent/ yourself etc. Of course he would have other hobbies and skills, but this question was about getting girls to like him. As a 22F dating right now (and I am in shape myself due to almost daily weightl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?LOL. I go to the gym 5x a week and have done for a few years now, I am not underestimating anything, I was just saying his physique isn't that impressive by (even natural) bodybuilding standards, it was just of a fit man. The average man is not fit, in fact the average person (man and woman) is obese. What I was intending to get across, was that even 3 or 4 sessions a week at the gym can make you stand out from the crowd of skinnyfat men. You don't have to train every day for two hours and starv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 09:00 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?This is true, but it is uncommon to be so ugly that it can't be saved by having an aesthetic physique, charm, and success in career. Many 'ugly' / 'unattractive' people are just too lazy to work on themselves, eg fat women refusing to lose weight, stick skinny men refusing to get ripped. Sure it doesn't change your face too much, but it helps your overall look. I know someone with a facial deformity who gets girls because he is charming, successful, grooms himself well and has an above average b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 07:47 AM |
| -2 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?I am an athlete and wouldn’t date a lazy man. Schools in the UK are less sport focused so we don’t have many legit school teams like they do in the US. But if you practice any sport from a young age you usually get good at it. Even if you don’t get skilled, you learn discipline and responsibility and many other masculine qualities that are missing in many young men today. Do you prefer I stick my son in front of a games console and feed him cheetos? Will that give him a better shot at life? 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 05:30 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?Care to explain? Being a moral person = virgin? 😆 👍🏻👍🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?That’s the highest praise, thank you. I can’t wait to have sons so this means a lot 🙌🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?What do you mean lol? I know what giga chad is but confused in this context | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?I like that advice. I think it’s very common sense advice that unfortunately is no longer common sense 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?Thank you. What do you think a mans answer would be? It would be interesting to know :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 05:13 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?I don’t imagine that happening, I would raise my son to be quite masculine, at least do some form of sport if not weightlifting. It will give him the confidence he needs to be comfortable around women and women will most likely find him attractive both physically and personality wise. Obvs I can’t get anymore specific than that cos there may be specific reasons that girls don’t like him that don’t have anything to do with looks or confidence. So it does depend on the situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 04:50 PM |
| 11 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?I would raise my son to treat everybody with respect (so long as they deserve it) and to act with integrity. Instil him with the correct morals to make good decisions about his actions and about who actually deserves his respect. I would teach him that men and women are different and experience things like love and sex differently, and encourage him to only behave in a way that he can be proud of that doesn’t compromise basic morals and respect. I would also ask his father to talk to him about t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 02:35 PM |
| 5 | Beauty is like a social exchange. I don’t like it.Thank you. I am not sure why it's assumed we would only ever do certain things just to please a man, just because it so happens that some men would like them. I don't even speak to any men besides my father. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 09:57 PM |
| -2 | Beauty is like a social exchange. I don’t like it.I already have a good core, I just have a bad habit of slouching. So now, what is wrong with me wearing a corset? Why is it so personally offensive to you? I would love to know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Beauty is like a social exchange. I don’t like it.Please see my reply to strainedcrow. I think your comments represent internalised misogyny which isn't really appropriate considering this is supposed to be a pro-woman subreddit. To try and tell me that I am wrong for enjoying wearing a corset or cincher is extremely bizarre, unless you want to pay for my FDS-approved posture brace? Please examine why you believe a woman can't possibly wear such an item for her own enjoyment and pleasure, and why you choose to ignore me saying I enjoy wearing t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Beauty is like a social exchange. I don’t like it.OK so corsets aren't FDS-approved, are you going to pay for my posture brace then? Or should I spend more money to please you and not wear oppressive shapewear (even though I have already said I enjoy wearing it and it makes me feel good???). Please examine why you are so uncomfortable with the idea of a woman wearing certain clothing for herself. Both of your comments reek of internalised misogyny at worst, and insecurity with yourself at best. Pretty sickening actually considering this sub is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 09:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.No lol they literally are just grabbing on any chance that they will change and commit. That’s why after 3-6 months they give up and realise he won’t change. Source? I know many women, I am 22F and have spent the last four years at university around women who make this very mistake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 07:15 PM |
| 5 | Beauty is like a social exchange. I don’t like it.It improves my posture so I am sitting and standing straighter, and this makes me feel more productive. I am not sure how to explain it - but the way your body feels strongly influences how your mind feels. Like how people tell you to do the 'wonder woman' pose before an interview. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 07:00 PM |
| 9 | Beauty is like a social exchange. I don’t like it.Personally I do my grooming routine for myself. It’s about what you enjoy - giving myself a pedicure and moisturising my skin in the evening is gifting myself a spa session/ massage. I style my hair whether I leave the house or not, and I wear corsets/ waist cinchers when inside my house as well. I find these things make me feel good mentally, and more prepared to take on the tasks of my day. It’s fine if you don’t enjoy those things, but I don’t think it’s fair to say women only do it for exter… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 06:17 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.I am not listening to gurus, she is one of the few people out there speaking the truth about how women are being told to live lives that don't make them happy - including participating in a hookup culture that leaves them traumatised. If you don't want to do your own research into it then you are being willingly blind to appease your own conscience. People are different, but every person (including men) I have met who is promiscuous and engages in casual sex has mental health issues, or ends up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.Watch Suzanne Venker on youtube talking about casual sex/ hook up culture and women. It does not benefit women, it makes them feel used and mentally unwell. You're the young and naive one for thinking otherwise. Please watch what I suggested, you seem like you need more insight. Men and women generally do not have sex for the same reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.Yes because they hope it will make chad like them. Are you retarded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.The fact you are measuring sex by if the woman orgasms or not proves how little you understand female sexuality. You are thinking it is just like mens sexuality when it isn't at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 01:48 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.I am an unmarried non-virgin 22F. I don't think anybody is a slut witch, I just don't think casual sex is acceptable or desirable. I am more connected to reality than anybody who genuinely believes women would rather sleep with randomers casually than be in a committed relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 01:47 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.yes women have to drug themselves to be able to have casual sex because they secretly enjoy casual sex soooo much. makes perfect sense. nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 01:45 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.So if they only do it a couple of times in 10 years doesn’t that refute OPs point that women secretly want casual sex? If I wanted something I would do it a lot more than 3 times a decade 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 09:25 PM |
| 32 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.No. Women date attractive guys who make poor partners in hopes they will change. Women don’t like casual sex, which is why they generally need to be drunk in order to engage in it. Research shows shame and regret are the most common emotions a woman has three weeks after a ONS or casual sex. Anecdotally, I’m 22F, and every promiscuous woman I have met is mentally ill and is usually put on antidepressants eventually. Women are not built for casual sex emotionally, because we have so much to risk … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Older women in this subreddit are in denial about younger women being attracted to older men, and that seems to create a lot of conflict hereOf course, I wasn’t suggesting otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Older women in this subreddit are in denial about younger women being attracted to older men, and that seems to create a lot of conflict hereThis is just my observation of friends boyfriends, boys on my (STEM) university course, boys I’ve seen on dating apps in the past months, my most recent ex and his friends. A large enough sample size to say the large majority are more focused on partying and going on holidays than building a life and legacy. Also do not confuse ambition with action. An ambitious man who lacks discipline is bound to fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Older women in this subreddit are in denial about younger women being attracted to older men, and that seems to create a lot of conflict hereMost guys my age do seem quite dim, no real plans for life and no financial preparation. I have over £25K saved up, a job lined up for when I graduate in less than a months time, and I’m ready to buy a house next year. It would be a financial burden to date someone who doesn’t have similar priorities and preparation, and most people my age do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Older women in this subreddit are in denial about younger women being attracted to older men, and that seems to create a lot of conflict hereThere is no contradiction? You said financial reasons are not the main (pre-dominant) reason for dating older. I’m saying they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 07:46 PM |
| 5 | Older women in this subreddit are in denial about younger women being attracted to older men, and that seems to create a lot of conflict hereYep! I’m 22F, the reason I consider dating older is 1) older men are more mature and more likely to be marriage minded 2) they’re financially better off. In the OPs quote they said “security” was cited as a reason to date older men - I am 99% sure this means financial security. If I’m attracted to an older man, his age is purely coincidence - I am usually attracted by their nice beard or great physique long before I realise they are older than me. If I dated someone my age, they would be a finan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | All players do ultimately commit, just not to *you*It’s not about the number of people you slut shame, it’s the specificity. Basically if someone isn’t a slut, then don’t accuse them of being one. So shaming multiple guys as “fuckboys” is fine if they are all displaying fuckboy behaviour. Same rules apply when calling women sluts. And yes my views are very consistent (if not a little lenient towards men as they have a biological imperative to slut around) don’t you worry!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | All players do ultimately commit, just not to *you*I think 'nice guys' calling all women sluts is stupid because its a generalisation. I don't think its comparable to a woman calling one specific guy a 'fuckboy' based on his actual behaviour. tbh I think slut shaming is acceptable anyway. It isn't good for society to allow promiscuity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 02:02 PM |
| 1 | All players do ultimately commit, just not to *you*I am a woman, of course I think like one. Being crazy with desire does not equal love - because you can become crazy for desire with multiple people at once, and one person after the other, and that doesn't lead to settling into a long-term committed relationship. And like I said, wanting to start a family is a big part of the desire to commit to a woman as well. Being a player gets easier with age on the condition that the man looks after himself - works out, grooms himself and dresses well, ea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 01:56 PM |
| 2 | All players do ultimately commit, just not to *you*The key word here is ultimately. In the end, when getting casual sex frequently is more difficult and they begin to think about starting a family, yes a player will settle down and commit. This is usually in a mans late twenties. Before then, he is very unlikely to commit unless that is the only way for him to get sex. Doesn’t a revenge fantasy have to include actual revenge??? Not just calling someone a rude (but accurate) name? 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | men/women who won't date a promiscuous person why?Why should he feel down? That girl probably isn’t compatible with him. So he should move on and find someone who is. Tell him that “past is past” simply does not work for the reasons stated in this comment thread. And that it’s perfectly fine to have standards, even if other people question them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 10:04 AM |
| 2 | men/women who won't date a promiscuous person why?You are 100% correct bp4 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 04:32 PM |
| 6 | men/women who won't date a promiscuous person why?100% my feelings too. Wouldn’t date anybody who frequently posts on social media (I don’t have any at all unless you count Reddit). Too much attention/ validation seeking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 03:12 PM |
| 50 | men/women who won't date a promiscuous person why?“Past is past present in present” is simply not true - past behaviour is the best predictor of future behaviour. If somebody is constantly chasing the next high of sleeping with a new person, then why would that urge stop just because of marriage or whatever. In honesty, I [22F] wouldn’t date a promiscuous person because I feel their pair bonding ability would be compromised. I think your ability to respect and appreciate your partner is extremely diminished when you have slept with 50 odd stran… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 12:43 PM |
| 53 | Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men?Yes. A lot of women want to ignore the biological reality of things. As a woman I often find myself explaining this to other women who think they could defend themselves against attacks by scrawny men. It's why nasty 13/14 year old boys can intimidate and beat their mothers - they are already stronger in their early teens, nevermind as adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive?Stereotypes exist for a reason whether they are fair or not. I won’t try and pretend all my thoughts are “fair”. As long as you are being honest and have good morals then I don’t think it’s bad faith. Maintain respect for yourself and the people you choose to interact with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive?Oh I’m not disagreeing with you on those things :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive?You’re missing my point - immature, pathetic, nasty etc men do not want to be held accountable because that means they won’t get away with treating people poorly. Good men enjoy being held accountable, but there a plenty of men that want to lie and cheat and behave immoral without any repercussions. Women in their twenties who are new to relationships are more likely to forgive your “mistakes” and make excuses for you as they are naive. Of course older women are more serious, geriatric pregnancy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 03:56 PM |
| 10 | Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive?No because women in their thirties won’t waste time with gross guys that have horrible attitudes and bad jobs, but younger women are more naive and will automatically like them more because they are older. I’m 22 and the thought of dating a 28 yr old is more appealing than dating someone my own age, but I also know a lot of those men don’t have good intentions and will go for a younger woman in hopes that she is naive and will be able to use her for sex. Women in their 30s are harder to deal wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 03:37 PM |
| 12 | Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive?Generally if an unattractive/ gross(attitude) man in his 30s is dating much younger I would assume it’s because he can’t get someone his own age to put up with his BS. If it’s an attractive guy I assume he could get someone his own age but doesn’t want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 03:25 PM |
| 14 | If all women watched and actively got off to porn of just men with huge dicks, men would feel insecure.They already do feel insecure. My ex said I shouldn't watch it (even though he did) because he was jealous. He naturally had a great 7 inch one (it was honestly the perfect penis if there ever was one) but thought it was too small, and used a penis pump until I convinced him it was unnecessary. I then found him following a pornstar on Instagram that looked nothing like me and had the word "Slut" tattooed on her arse, very classy (he always said he was so happy I wasn't promiscuous, but clearly l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:11 AM |
| 169 | If your partner does this, RUN in the opposite direction. This is abuse and a power play.Yeah thats exactly what I said to him - "Why invite me to run with you if you won't run with me". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 05:04 PM |
| 520 | If your partner does this, RUN in the opposite direction. This is abuse and a power play.If I asked my ex to slow down so I could run alongside him he said I was holding him back and ruining his progress, and being unsupportive. His attitude quickly changed when I became faster than him, and would threaten to go home if I ran ahead... why even be that fragile about running pace it’s so pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 04:33 PM |
| 9 | Let's discuss: my walmart is locking up condoms and pregnancy tests! This upsets me, these items need to be easily accessible. They literally page an employee to family planning for the whole store to hear and make you checkout asap.Yes but they haven’t done this because they think buying condoms is wrong or because they want to make it awkward, they’ve done it for loss-prevention. Im not coming at you and I never accused you of being immature, I’m just saying the whole “stigma” thing doesn’t make sense - if it’s comparable to buying soup then it shouldn’t be embarrassing to have people know you are buying them. I don’t see how this is a barrier to kids buying them unless kids are somehow buying condoms secretly whilst in t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 08:52 PM |
| 15 | Let's discuss: my walmart is locking up condoms and pregnancy tests! This upsets me, these items need to be easily accessible. They literally page an employee to family planning for the whole store to hear and make you checkout asap.I think stores make rules independently about what they lock up, so each store has different things restricted, that’s how it is in a lot of UK supermarkets. If we need to get rid of the stigma then surely getting used to asking for them and having people know you are buying them is part of that, it’s not something to be embarrassed about. I think it’s more of a stigma if you feel you want to hide them and pretend you aren’t buying them which seems to be what you are suggesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 08:29 PM |
| 59 | Let's discuss: my walmart is locking up condoms and pregnancy tests! This upsets me, these items need to be easily accessible. They literally page an employee to family planning for the whole store to hear and make you checkout asap.Tbh if they are getting stolen then the shop needs to protect their stock. Stealing makes prices go up so it is best for us customers too. Although they should be more discreet (like how cigarettes and alcohol are often behind the counter, so you just ask the cashier when you check out). That’s my opinions :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Debunking u/LillthOfBabylon self-reported study on sex statistics, and why self-reported data is not credible for gauging people's sex lives.Yeah I agree. I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with high bodycount, they can date by whatever standards they want to. But more than 30 partners is definitely above average. Most people don’t do 2 partners per year, cos most people are in monogamous relationships or at least the people that I know. My average is 1 new partner every 4 years, so if I carry on with that average I will have a count of 4 by the time I’m 30. I think 5-15 is within the normal range for most 30 year olds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 11:43 AM |
| 5 | Debunking u/LillthOfBabylon self-reported study on sex statistics, and why self-reported data is not credible for gauging people's sex lives.It’s far too much for me to look past lol. I would say it’s definitely more than the average person. By the time you’ve had more than 15 I think it damages your ability to pair bond and you’ll constantly have GIGS (grass is greener syndrome) and end up cheating or just struggle to maintain a LTR. This is just my opinion, but based on observations I have made. Also apparently the number of partners a person has is a strong predictor of if their marriage will last or not and the lower the better. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 11:31 AM |
| 4 | Debunking u/LillthOfBabylon self-reported study on sex statistics, and why self-reported data is not credible for gauging people's sex lives.I hate this is true because as a woman with a low bodycount I always feel like people don't believe me lol. I don't doubt the numbers guys tell me unless its like above 30 cos thats crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 10:49 AM |
| 4 | Can't even shop online without being shown sexualized images of women models taken by gross photographers.I don’t disagree. But the social attitudes toward women and how most women feel about themselves and their sexuality right now is not geared towards micro-boycotting these companies or else they would be doing that already, as they do for all the companies that offend their moral codes in other ways. This starts with how women are socialised and treated. It’s not going away. I really can’t blame the fashion industry. Fashion is not an island, it’s a response (to the cultural, economic, and polit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:03 PM |
| 10 | What motivates some women to to buy things and financially invest in their boyfriends even though he has his own job? Why would a woman want to be the gift giver which has traditionally been the guy's role in dating?Extremely common. If I love somebody I try and show them in every way possible, and that includes buying gifts. I like to surprise him with favourite foods, practical things that he could use, a nice belt etc. Anything I know he would like and use often. We do it because we are in love, and this is a very small way to show it to each other. That’s all there is to it. Don’t read too much into it, just appreciate it. Say thank you, give her a massage or cook her a meal. Anything to let her know yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 06:58 PM |
| 5 | Can't even shop online without being shown sexualized images of women models taken by gross photographers.Women have the large majority of the spending power, what we buy is what companies make more of. Sex sells whether we like it or not. I understand what point you are trying to make, but you can’t deny that a lot of women are choosing this hypersexualised model of a woman to base their life off. We can’t blame the fashion industry- it is a problem with how women are brought up in society and what they feel their place is. I mean all of this respectfully. That is why so many of us here would never… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:18 PM |
| 22 | Can't even shop online without being shown sexualized images of women models taken by gross photographers.I don't mean to be controversial but I feel like this is what sells to young girls nowadays (which is the real shame here), I think the company is just supplying to the demand. I'm 22 and shops that use this type of modelling are really popular amongst my age range because the girls want to be sexy and revealing, and they want to look like the models. I think its a supply and demand problem - we should really teach women they dont have to sexualise themselves to be loved and then there would und… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 12:27 PM |
| 279 | gIvE nIcE gUyS a ChAnCe waaaaaaahLiterally “wanna be my cumdump and then I will ghost you when it’s no longer convenient for me?” (Sorry vulgar language but guys like that are vulgar) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:47 AM |
| 530 | gIvE nIcE gUyS a ChAnCe waaaaaaah“I hope you don’t mind the confidence” did he misspell audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:40 AM |
| 1 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?I answered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 07:58 AM |
| 2 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?I treat people with the same respect that they show to me. You started off being vulgar and calling me a liar, don’t expect me to be sweet in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?A secure man wouldn’t be threatened that women have standards of who they will or won’t sleep with. As I said, my standards match what I have to offer - I think that’s very fair. I don’t expect a guy to do anything that I don’t do myself or have traits that he can’t control. I can’t comment for other women, I do know there are horrible overweight/ ugly/ annoying/ other negative trait women that demand a 10/10 6’4 millionaire husband, but why worry about those women anyway? Most women just want y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 07:25 PM |
| 3 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?My standards are only as high as what I also have to offer :) if you can’t match that and it makes you insecure, that’s not my fault! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 07:18 PM |
| 2 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?I love that they are mad that women have standards... like is it really a surprise that humans like to have sex with other attractive humans? 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 06:14 PM |
| 2 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?Cos you’re sad that women are turned on by attractive men. What is the problem with that? It’s too much work for you to become attractive and fun to be around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 05:46 PM |
| 3 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?"Isn't it so unfair I have to be attractive and treat a woman nicely and flirt with her to make her want to have sex with me and risk getting diseases and pregnant. Their standards are just SOOOOOO high" 😂😂😂 go lift bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 05:28 PM |
| 3 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?He excited me because he worked out, flirted with me constantly (even after 2 years together), made me feel loved and trusting, and groomed himself well. He wasn't born a 'Chad' and I'm not sure if he ever was one: but there is a saying - 'Man is both marble and sculptor.' and it's very true. I never said 'Chad' excited me, I said my BF did, and you just assumed he was a Chad lol.. And I agree most people don't get enough physical activity, it disgusts me personally. But I think a lot of men com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 05:26 PM |
| 21 | Being hot is the female power fantasy.You're saying these women "don't fight the patriarchy" because they choose attractive characters, but why are you assuming they even want to fight the patriarchy by playing video games? Playing video games is very much an escape for men and women who choose that as a "hobby", so it makes sense that both men and women tend to design their characters a certain way that reflects what they wish they could be. It doesn't really mean anything IMO. And by conan you mean the barbarian? he literally just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 05:04 PM |
| 3 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?I never said anything about pareto distribution. If all men started working out and getting jacked, learning how to make women want them, being confident and funny and working on their careers, a lot more women would be happily in relationships with them. Most men don't look after themselves, don't have much direction in life, don't understand how women like to be treated, and so women don't want them. It's not due to statistics, it's due to most men not meeting the standards of most women (whet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 04:09 PM |
| 5 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?Yes TRP is accurate in some aspects. Although their chad vs beta dichotomy isn’t. I’d say in this argument it’s more about “seduction” tactics (eg using a bit of push/pull with physical touch to tease and build up tension) than just looking hot. Probably at least 60% of guys could become “Chad” if they wanted to put the work in - most don’t. It’s that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 03:34 PM |
| 2 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?I’m not sure where money and social status come into this? Married women have the better financial prospects and social standing compared to a woman who sleeps around like it’s a sport? So actually being married and in monogamous relationships is the optimal situation for a woman, and was much easier when everybody acted like women hated sex and would only do it after marriage because it forced men into monogamous marriages from a young age. Now it is normal to get married in the late 20s and ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 07:38 AM |
| 4 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?I’m not shaming, I’m saying you seem bitter, which you do. I can also see you are dogmatic and not truly open to debate. So we can end this here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 07:32 AM |
| 10 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?He wasn’t a natural “Chad” tbh he just worked hard (gym, good at flirting, good at holding intellectual conversations so not boring, grew a real nice beard). He was like 5’9 I think which is average height in my country. If most guys went to the gym and actually put the work in to seduce a woman, they would feel like “Chad”. Idk why you’re all mad about that. If women are born unattractive then they are unattractive and no amount of exercise will change that, but men are made to be sculpted anyw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 07:28 AM |
| 4 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?I haven’t lied, I’ve written my (obviously subjective) experience. I don’t think it’s fair to accuse anybody you disagree with to be a liar. Seems like you are bitter about women ngl, hope you can work through that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 07:21 AM |
| 3 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?What exactly do women gain by lying about their sex drive? In fact it would be better for us if women pretended they hated sex, stopped selling their sexuality, stopped sleeping around etc as it would bring back the need for more men to have monogamous relationships. So why would we lie when back 100 years ago when we hated sex so much we only had it after marriage, women were in much more successful and long lasting relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 07:13 AM |
| 10 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?A sex drive is defined as “a desire to have sex”, so how is it possible that women don’t have that when we do want to have sex as long as it’s with a man that turns us on? Or are you defining sex drive differently? It makes sense for women to be a lot more selective in who they mate with - and that is the biological reality of the situation. Al | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 07:07 AM |
| 4 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?I’m not sure what your question is asking. But simply a lot of women date guys they aren’t really attracted to, combined with a lot of guys not really understanding how to turn women on properly. A lot of people are stuck having duty sex, which leads to dead bedrooms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 07:00 AM |
| 4 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?And what responsibility is it running away from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 06:55 AM |
| 11 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?No, I think a lot of women haven’t had the experience of dating a man that can make them feel genuinely excited and longing to have sex with them. So they may think they have low libido but really they just haven’t had the right stimulus. Female sexuality is (generally) very reactive, so without the right input you won’t have a high output. It’s a common story for women to think they are asexual (or even sex-repulsed) until they meet the right person who can make them want it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 10:04 PM |
| 2 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?That's a reasonable analogy yes :) It is largely unconscious which is probably why a lot of women don't realise it at first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:27 PM |
| 11 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?Yeah honestly actual penetrative sex for a woman in my experience doesn’t feel that great, it’s not bad or anything but it’s just not great- it basically just feels like there is pressure or friction. Obviously everybody is different but a lot of women will probably know what I mean. I physically cannot orgasm (probably something psychological that’s stopping me IDK) but it doesn’t really make a difference to me, because the fun of sex is probably 70% mental/ psychological for most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:15 PM |
| 3 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?Yep sorry you are right, closest to view 4. I should have said that :D it’s what I noticed in myself (like seriously I thought I was asexual and that couldn’t be more wrong) and noticed the same in a lot of my female friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:09 PM |
| 52 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?I think a lot of women are unaware of their true sex drives and so it may appear as if they are lying. I [22F] genuinely thought I was asexual until I met my previous boyfriend, because I hadn’t met anyone prior to that that made me want to have sex. Women’s desire is heavily based on how a man can make her feel, so if a man isn’t flirting and teasing and building up sexual tension, it is hard to feel like you have a sex drive at all. Personally I’m single now and don’t desire it at all, but I k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 08:44 PM |
| 3 | What is the average relationship duration for you?Yes I think by 2 years, you know that person almost 100% (unless they are deliberately hiding things). And then you are able to make an informed decision if their flaws are ones you can accept or not and vice versa. Both my relationships I ended after 2-2.5 years, never enjoy breaking up but know it is for the best long-term if I don’t see a future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 07:47 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?I guess everybody is different. I’m very much into the gym and lifting so I guess I couldn’t imagine myself dating somebody who isn’t. I also don’t like skinny men as I like being smaller than the man, a lot of skinny men have chicken legs lol :) there is somebody for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?I think under that height your dating prospects would lower a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 02:52 PM |
| 15 | What is the average relationship duration for you?2 years. By then the cracks start to show and you realise you are never going to marry that person (in my experience) and it's not wise to waste any further time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 01:31 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?Well that’s their loss. There will be plenty of (better) women out their who won’t discriminate solely on height who would date him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 10:15 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?me: But I don’t think I would raise my kid to be a loser.. you: Right, so you’re just gonna raise him to be 6’3 then. \<sup>\</sup><sup>\</sup>^ The quote. Yes my advice to my son would be to make his life the best he possibly can, and that all starts with self improvement. As I said in my original comment "I wouldn't want him to sit around complaining about how unfair life is and how unlucky he is, I would want him to do something about it." Who you end up marrying and having a family with is v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 09:52 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?Yes but you made it specifically about height by saying anybody under 6'3 is a loser... as I already said I would rather date a jacked shorter guy than an above average height skinny-fat guy. And my therefore advice for my son would be to get jacked. As in my original comment.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 09:22 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?Ok I understand now its not a fair comparison but what do you suggest we do about that? Women are biologically programmed to like certain things, so how do you suppose people change what they are innately attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 09:05 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?This is brilliant 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 07:16 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?So what is the statistic for men under 5’7? Anyway, it’s a fact of life that things exist in a hierarchy, idk why there is so much obsession with women generally liking height - it’s a biological thing, just how men like breasts and hips. I’ve got small boobs, you don’t see me going “what about the girls with A cups!!!!?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 07:14 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?Yeah I know I couldn't believe it when I found out what he was doing (he tried to hide it from me). Most guys would love to have one like that, it was thick as well. I think when I broke up with him he started doing it again too so obvs hasn't gotten over it.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?tbh I think if you disagree sometimes they ban you, so I mostly just ignore it instead of arguing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 06:32 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?I think both groups can get very dogmatic about their beliefs but both also offer some decent advice. it's just filtering wheat from chaff to find the useful bits of each | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 06:14 PM |
| 8 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?Honestly I wouldn't know what advice to give for this. I genuinely feel bad for guys with micropenises because it must be very embarrassing and a big source of insecurity! My ex was at least 7" erect and he was still insecure about his, so he used a penis pump until I convinced him to please stop lol. So I can't imagine how being below average or 'micro' must make you feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 04:56 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?Haha I'm actually more of a "redpiller" in terms of politics and stuff so don't really agree with demonising men or anything that can be often seen on FDS, and I do admit there is a lot of that lately. There is the occasional post about superficial things like looks but it makes me eyeroll anyway, especially as I know the average woman does not really deserve to have such a long list of expectations so the likelihood of the author of the post to be a 10/10 woman is very low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 8 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?I just googled it and apparently 20% of men are under 5'7, and 20% of men are over 6' (so tall). So it's actually roughly equal chances. I'm average height woman, so would probably date average height man or taller. Shorter women may be better suited to these men under 5'7. No matter what your height is, workout, groom yourself, dress well, and work hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 04:47 PM |
| 11 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?I follow the FDS sub and comment, and don't see too often posts that focus on physical looks. Most of the posts about men that I read are about how they treat women mostly boiling down to advice about not letting a guy disrespect you. HOWEVER I could be biased as I know what I find attractive in a man and I don't need to read reddit posts to tell me who to date anyway, I just need advice now I am dating for the first time about what red flags to look for. Obviously physical traits are important … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 04:37 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?Yes I would hope his father would teach him about that sort of stuff as my training as a woman has different goals than that of a man. Totally agree it's not mums place - but if I was in the position this question asked then that's what I would do :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 04:30 PM |
| 10 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?No, probably 1% of the planet is 6'3. It's a non-issue whether you are 6'3 or not. Being under 5'7 is probably dangerous territory for a guy, most guys who complain about height are perfectly average height and just use it as cope for their genuine personality deficits and physical flaws (eg being skinny fat). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 04:25 PM |
| 13 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?I would tell him to go to the gym to improve his looks (As a woman I'd rather date a jacked 5'8 dude than a skinny 6'2 guy), and devise a plan to get a better job - does he need to go back to school or some sort of training course? I probably wouldn't talk to my son about his genitals. I wouldn't want him to sit around complaining about how unfair life is and how unlucky he is, I would want him to do something about it. But I don't think I would raise my kid to be a loser with poor job prospects… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 04:16 PM |
| 15 | My heart is getting really heavy as I'm preparing to leave my boyfriend. Any support appreciated.Hey girl. I can relate so much - I tried to forgive cheating due to the circumstances (it was about as accidental as possible and he didn't actually go through with it) but really I couldn't forgive it. Along with not being in the same place in life and his multiple personality flaws (aggression and jealousy despite me never even speaking to other males lol) I couldn't cope anymore and decided to leave despite being madly in love with him and wanting to be with him forever. This was almost exact… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 03:59 PM |
| 3 | What do men have to gain by putting effort and resources into a woman rather than himself?I don't have any comments on divorce as I personally don't really believe/ agree in it and I don't agree with the marriage/ divorce system as whole anyway. Really, so a woman that wants a kid would love if her husband spent his savings on a new Harley? I don't think so This is a stupid example - thats a matter of being irresponsible with your money if you can't afford that motorbike and to have kids. You can have hobbies and have a life outside of your wife that doesn't mean spending 10K or howe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 01:41 PM |
| 2 | What do men have to gain by putting effort and resources into a woman rather than himself?Why not just be your own person, take the best characteristics of Guy #1 and Guy #2, and then the world is your oyster. You talk as if passion fading and dead bedrooms are inevitable, when really it's just a matter of maintaining attraction and excitement - workout to stay attractive, flirt with each other, be fun to be around, make time for romance. You're saying "oh you have to put more effort into others than yourself as Guy #2", when in reality most women would prefer that their husband work… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 01:25 PM |
| 7 | Mens health and stature improve after divorce?Yes Elon musk and Donald trump are probably top 1% in the world. You are not. Statistically men are worse off after divorce than women. Forcing your kid to choose between you and her is stupid. If you aren’t bitter anymore then grow up and be a proper dad to your kid without trying to punish your ex-wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 11:27 AM |
| 9 | Mens health and stature improve after divorce?If you were that powerful of a man, I don’t think your wife would have left you, and you wouldn’t be okay with your offspring being raised by another male as will eventually happen. Also you wouldn’t be trying to make your ex-wife miserable and “degraded”. Historically powerful men were warriors and kings, you are neither. You are a divorced man with a bad attitude who doesn’t want to look after his own kid. Honestly you seem pretty terrible, and bitter that she left you. Hope you can get over i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 11:18 AM |
| 5 | Mens health and stature improve after divorce?I strongly advise you to reconsider not playing a big role in your child’s life. It’s really important for a kids development to have a male role model and will impact them greatly. Generally men benefit more from being married than women (marriage statistically increases men’s health and life span but decreases a woman’s, and women tend to do most of the work in a marriage such as housework and childcare so men kind of get it easy in that respect too) so I don’t think your title question is ver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 11:08 AM |
| 8 | Mens health and stature improve after divorce?I think actually the data shows men are generally less depressed at the beginning of a breakup (or in your case a divorce) and then after around 8 months they begin to feel more depressed, and women tend to be the opposite (really depressed at first and then feel better after around 8 months). I’m not sure you should take social media to mean anything- I don’t use social media at all but I am perfectly happy with my life, in fact I don’t use social media because I don’t need other people to vali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 11:00 AM |
| 89 | OH NO! I’ve been outed as ‘vanilla’ by some p*rn-sick scrote who says my sex life must be boring. Whatever will I do?!?!? #VanillaIsValidWait you actually experience pleasure during sex? He doesn’t spit on you?? That’s depressing!! You poor thing. 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 08:29 PM |
| 213 | OH NO! I’ve been outed as ‘vanilla’ by some p*rn-sick scrote who says my sex life must be boring. Whatever will I do?!?!? #VanillaIsValidSo you have miserable sex life, as opposed to a great sex life where you let a man hit you and call you a whore? 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadYeah I do agree men overestimate how much physique matters and a probably a lot of people aren’t fully aware of what they are actually attracted to. I think anyone who claims they don’t care about their partners (male or female) physique is deluded 😆😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 08:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadIdk as a woman I specifically am looking for somebody to be in shape, I don’t care if a guy has a nice face if he is skinny and doesn’t exercise. I may be biased as I am into fitness myself, but I don’t see myself ever dating somebody who isn’t physically fit and in good shape so IMO body>face. I know a guy with a facial deformity (something to do with his nose) who was still hot because he worked out, and girls still fancied him despite having a genuine facial disfigurement, so idk seems again … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | How attractive or unattractive does everyone imagine the users of FDS are?It's OK I am just doing yoga daily to try and improve my flexibility/ mobility, as it will help me when I get back into olympic lifting and HIIT classes. I have a sandbag and a kettlebell so going to start using those again too as gyms open soon. I will build my strength back up quite quickly, I got back to lifting 1.2x my bodyweight within about a month when the gyms reopened briefly last summer. Also yes 100% I hate training on my own too. I think with my ex he felt like a child to me because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 01:21 PM |
| 0 | How attractive or unattractive does everyone imagine the users of FDS are?Oh I could never date a doormat personally which is probably where I start to disagree with some of the FDS advice. I need somebody who isn’t afraid to call me out and disagree with me, otherwise I would feel they aren’t on par with me intellectually. Also not bothered about being rich I just want somebody who has ambition and doesn’t sit around watching TV all day, if someone earns around the same as me that’s perfectly fine with me. As far as the toxic side of TRP, I find it encourages men to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 12:31 PM |
| 3 | How attractive or unattractive does everyone imagine the users of FDS are?Lol I think I tick all of those boxes except I have lost a lot of my muscle tone since the gyms closed last March. The only thing really missing is the social circle (moved locations during pandemic, everywhere is still shut so haven’t met anybody, hoping to make friends when I go back to the gym) The dating advice I would follow from FDS is more about not accepting disrespect, looking out for red flags, advocating for myself so that I am able to keep my boundaries where I want them. These are t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 12:19 PM |
| 2 | How attractive or unattractive does everyone imagine the users of FDS are?There are success stories on there mainly about dating eg finding a good boyfriend by using the FDS principles, which makes sense as I guess it is a sub focused on dating. I think there have also been more personal success stories eg leaving abusive partners, getting a better job, learning to look after their health better. I agree some of the users there get a bit dogmatic and aren't very balanced, and I find that quite cringe even as somebody who uses the sub. Really I think TRP and FDS are co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 12:10 PM |
| 6 | How attractive or unattractive does everyone imagine the users of FDS are?I use and post in that subreddit, but don't agree with some of the things posted on there. I do agree that women generally put up with a lot of shit from men and the sub helps me to remind myself not to settle for being mistreated as I have done in the past. So yes the sub kind of is just helpful for me to navigate dating (I've never dated before as I have been in long-term relationships since I was 14 lol), so not accepting tactics like the manipulation tactics they talk about in the TRP sub, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Having Pickme Dreams?You will get through this. I promise things will be better once the divorce is finalised and the business stuff is all sorted out! I hope you feel better soon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 05:16 PM |
| 10 | Having Pickme Dreams?Hey! I had a couple of dreams like this where I basically try everything I can to make it work and he just comes and breaks my heart all over again lol. I don't really know what advice I can give, and your relationship was 5x as long as mine was, but really it's just having to fully accept it's over and move on. In my experience I found out he had a new GF, realised we hadnt spoke in almost a full year, deleted every trace off him off of my computer and phone, and it automatically just felt like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadEverything exists in a hierarchy, that's just how life is. Either way, doing something with your spare time is a whole lot better than doing nothing. "It only helps if XYZ" - but it still helps. Remove girls from the equation, you are better off having passions and hobbies than doing nothing all day anyway. My advice wasn't necessarily 'hobbies will get you girls' but that by working out and having hobbies you will eventually be in a better mindset that attracts girls. Again, I am a girl, I know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 08:19 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadBeing an interesting person whose time is valuable is very attractive to girls. Hobbies also show you have the mental discipline to start learning something and stick with it instead of giving up and just playing video games all day, which is also very attractive. I should know, I am a girl and will not date a guy who doesn't have hobbies. The hobby itself won't get you a girl but the implication will - your time is valuable, you have the drive to see it through, you have interests outside of wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 07:57 AM |
| 6 | 3/14, Steak and BJ DayOMG yes this irks me so much!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:23 PM |
| 70 | 3/14, Steak and BJ DaySorry if off topic: I hate when men act like blowjobs are some sort of gift to the man, and that women hate them. Or when they use it in a derogatory way like calling their friend a 'cocksucker' or whatever. It just makes me think, if you think being a cocksucker is so degrading and awful maybe girls should stop giving blowjobs lol??? This holiday is stupid. If a guy maintains attraction in a relationship and is attentive then most days will involve some sort of blowjob personally lol (I know ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future?Yes this is something I have noticed as well. A lot of the supposed sexism is really from just the different behaviours than men and women naturally show - men being less agreeable means they are more likely to negotiate a better deal for themselves, and more likely to ask for a promotion or pay rise. My dad was pretty high up in banking and said to me men are in the higher positions because they ask to be, and apply for jobs even if they don’t fulfil all the criteria, whereas women don’t. It’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 12:52 PM |
| 132 | He just ended things because I was making him wait for sexHahaha what a loser. You are so much better without guys like that anyway. It doesn’t even make sense to me, surely sex is better when the girl is actually comfortable with it and isn’t just doing it out of obligation 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:23 PM |
| 124 | He just ended things because I was making him wait for sexJust out of curiosity - Can you let us know what the text said? Did you explicitly tell him you were waiting 3 months? How could you tell he was being resentful? Anyway I'm glad he took himself out of the game, you can be on to better things now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:01 PM |
| 2 | What type of men do you have one night stands with?Never had ONS but my guess is these women who have ONS with you aren't searching for a relationship, which is why they don't seem interested in a LTR with you. Don't take it personally. Also I can imagine it's awkward to have a ONS with someone and only after that start to actually get to know them. Maybe it's better not to know all your flaws and annoying habits, or else they might regret the ONS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 09:17 AM |
| 5 | Women feeling "chemistry" or "spark" with men is not real.As a woman who has had 2 sexual partners, both of whom I dated for 2 years, and has no social media at all (unless you count reddit) your theory is wrong. I 100% know if there is a 'spark' or not. If I go on a date but find there are many awkward silences and feel like we don't have anything in common or we don't agree on fundamental things, then I would count that as not feeling a spark. My standards are to provide the same things I do - I am active, good looking, intelligent, and open to learn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 02:19 PM |
| 15 | Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future?In my country (UK) I have been offered every career/ education opportunity that my male peers have, and have never really felt held back by being female. So I feel pretty equal. It is mostly social things (porn use, “consequence free” sex, lack of good role models for healthy masculinity and femininity) that make gender relations poor IMO. The real equality gap is by class and wealth, although I wouldn’t know how to fix that either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 08:34 AM |
| 5 | The majority of men WILL NOT do 50% of parentingHaha we have been having the same thoughts it seems. I still want to be a SAHM, but I recognise I am in a very privileged position to be able to take that risk. Obviously it isn't something I would enter into lightly, and I plan to get experienced in my career first too and probably keep up with my career in other ways during my spare time if I were to be a SAHM (EG small consulting jobs so that I can at least have something recent on my CV and stay up to date with changes in the field). Perhaps… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadYes, it's not nice to think about but people tend to treat more attractive people (both men and women) much better, I am guessing it is innate. Congratulations on the weight loss that's an awesome accomplishment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 08:04 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadI am a woman. We have very strong intuition and gut feeling, and can tell pretty well on the first or second date if you are desperate or not by the types of compliments you are giving and how often, how anxious you are acting, is you are being a people pleaser or not. If you feel desperate, it pretty much subconsciously makes us think "oh so other women must not like him, there must be something wrong with him'. Then it's hard to be attracted at all. It's part of why when you are dating it is o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 05:07 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadGood I am happy women still have standards and don't settle to date men who are unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 04:20 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadJust commenting to say you are 100% correct and I think you have explained OPs argument better so that it actually seems reasonable. Although my stance hasn't changed on the necessity of self-improvement :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 04:11 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadFind something you love to do - I tried many different sports until I found my favourites to be olympic lifting, HIIT workouts and yoga. Even as a woman I found this really made me look more muscular, within around 9 months I was getting comments about my biceps so I can't imagine how much more muscle a guy could get in that time with a dedicated routine. Many guys I know love cycling, or calisthenics, or just straight up bodybuilding. I guess it depends on your attitude and mindset but I really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 04:04 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadThere is some truth to that because you are heavily influenced by the people you hang around with so your point is 100% true IMO. But my point is that if you are making friends with someone purely because you think it will get you laid, then yes that does sound like you are far too obsessed with girls to me. I just don't understand the idea of hanging around a "Chad" but not just trying to be one yourself. Although OP has a point that befriending women is probably not the right way to get sex ei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 03:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadAhhh okay I get you now. That makes sense. But I still standby the easiest way for a man to get attractive is to workout, and there are no downsides to doing it anyway. And working out is also sort of a hobby so its feeding two birds with one scone. But yes attraction is most important, and then having your own passions and hobbies/ interests is just icing on the cake :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 03:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadI really hope this is the case because that gives me better chances 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 03:42 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadI am a woman. I would not date a guy who doesn't have hobbies. Active hobbies are obviously the best because they also make you look and feel good. I am probably going to meet my next BF at the gym when that reopens. Most of physical attraction for women is about your body, I used to work with somebody who had a facial deformity but he made sure to work out and keep his beard trimmed nicely and hair styled, and he was very attractive to most women and had a girlfriend that was begging to get mar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 03:40 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend Chadlol yeah you are 100% right, guys still are attracted to them though so its less of a problem for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 03:33 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadI think this method has more longevity, as well as having other benefits mentally and physically for yourself. I'm a woman who is looking to start dating but the amount of guys that don't take care of themselves physically or don't have hobbies is shocking. Most "Chads" workout and have hobbies (usually sports hobbies), and that's not a coincidence. You can't be a "Chad" if you aren't confident in yourself and how you look. Really its just about addressing the cause of the problem, and not the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 03:28 PM |
| 187 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadNo. Direct your effort towards the gym and making gains. Get a hobby that makes you interesting. Live your life so that you aren't obsessed about girls. Then women will naturally like you because you aren't desperate, and you show that you take action to get over a problem instead of whining about it and trying to get some sort of pussy-by-association. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 03:21 PM |
| 51 | The majority of men WILL NOT do 50% of parentingYes this is all accurate unfortunately :( Tbh, I believe there is biological reasons for the way either gender parents, which lead to women doing probably over 80% of the childcare. Which is why I think it's unfair to have to work full time as a mum. But I am not really sure what the solution is because being a SAHM is so risky (and some women dont want to be SAHM). Personally I feel in my childhood the childcare was split somewhat evenly, my mum often worked nights so she was usually in bed dur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:13 PM |
| 12 | A short story about that time my LVM ex gave me a dating advice book to correct my behaviour... that he had not read himself.No, the best surprise gift that freed me from him was him "accidentally" getting head from somebody after church. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 02:40 PM |
| 8 | A short story about that time my LVM ex gave me a dating advice book to correct my behaviour... that he had not read himself.No. He genuinely was that dumb. And then whenever we would argue he would start using terms from the book like 'See I am going into my cave now'. 'You need to let me go into my cave'. Like excuse me you cheated on me and we are trying to discuss it you cannot just 'go into your cave' until I am not mad anymore. Yes I obviously ended it once I realised my self-worth lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 02:30 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is wrong about the SMV of menMale SMV is only high in their 30s if they have maintained a consistent workout routine and progressed to high earning jobs. Most men cannot say they have achieved both (or really either), with a lot of 30 year olds having beer bellies and receding hairlines. So if we are talking about a mid-thirties man who has gotten buff and has a good job, then yes his SMV may be higher than that of the average mid-thirties woman. But if he is the average mid-thirties man, probably not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 11:21 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Do you think it’s important to go through a “Ho/Slut” phase?Yes mine cheated too and the 'sexual revenge' aspect of wanting to engage in promiscuous behaviour is not talked about enough. I just wanted to hurt him and make him feel inadequate the same way he did to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 08:35 AM |
| 16 | A short story about that time my LVM ex gave me a dating advice book to correct my behaviour... that he had not read himself.I honestly am too embarrassed to say. At least this gift I actually think it’s a decent book, one gift he got me I found so offensive it made me cry and I put it in the bin (it was a sexual thing and I don’t know why he thought I would like it). And another was for last years Valentine’s Day, a foot spa... which of course he had a foot fetish.. so not really a present for myself??? So I never accepted that gift either I said “I’m not having that sorry” 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 07:34 AM |
| 18 | A short story about that time my LVM ex gave me a dating advice book to correct my behaviour... that he had not read himself.Wtf. He actually did recommend that one to me... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 07:32 AM |
| 22 | "Don't protect women, teach men how to behave" is a naive, bad faith argument100%. I am not sure why people think this is so controversial. I am fed up of hearing 'teach men not to kill' as if murderers somehow don't realise what they are doing is wrong. Or 'give men a curfew instead' - if a man is going to kill a person and break the law, why would he listen to a curfew? I hate these arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 09:18 PM |
| 5 | Loss of Self-belief -- An underestimated impact of toxic relationshipsYes so I guess you are in a similar position to me in that you will need to study to achieve this certificate, so everyday I just make sure to do something to get me closer to being successful in my course. Even if it is just one hour of study, it is better than nothing. I find it really easy to just sit around doing nothing all day feeling sorry for myself, but once you commit to choosing to do something everyday it gives you something to be proud of and reinforces these behaviours. It is tough… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:59 PM |
| 26 | Loss of Self-belief -- An underestimated impact of toxic relationshipsSo relatable. Thank you for sharing your story, I think we can all relate. I remember when I first left my toxic ex and I would get anxious over deciding what to eat for dinner because I didn't have to consider his opinion anymore. I couldn't make even simple decisions like that for myself. And it's funny because just like you, I was the one doing everything for him and us when we were together anyway - he was the incapable one! And I 100% relate to "it’s almost as if I don’t believe that I can … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:10 PM |
| 22 | If you are not married do NOT give your baby your boyfriends last name.I was thinking this the other day. One of my old friends just got pregnant, she is 22 and has been with the guy for around 5 years but not engaged. They announced the pregnancy last week sharing a photo of a romper with the words "Baby *Dads Last Name*" and I immediately rolled my eyes. You have some great points here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:03 PM |
| 15 | Man tries to demand wife to return boots because "they make him feel uncomfortable" yet felt free to post a video of her wearing them for reddit to judge.Honestly I think this is a fake post from somebody with a shoe fetish. If you look on youtube there are so many videos of women walking around in high heels like this (I like high heels so they get recommended whenever I look up for shoe reviews lol). They basically want comments talking about how slutty they look or how sexy they are or whatever its some sort of fetish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:32 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Do you think it’s important to go through a “Ho/Slut” phase?Yes I can see that being the case for some women, however I am not sure if it really helps them at all. When my exBF mistreated me and I broke up with him, the only desire I felt to be "promiscuous" was because I knew it would hurt him - it wasn't about me or enjoying myself, it was just about "I know he would hate to think I was doing this and I want him to feel the pain he caused me". Obviously I didn't give in to those thoughts in my head but I am sure a lot of women feel the same way after t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 04:49 PM |
| 12 | [Q4All] Do you think it’s important to go through a “Ho/Slut” phase?From my experience the women I know often do not want to admit that they aren't capable of casual sex without it affecting them negatively. They will cry about how they are treated, complain they aren't being dated by these men who just want them for sex etc, but won't admit that casual is just not suitable for them. There is a lot of pressure on women to be "sex-positive" and "open minded", or else you're a prude or a tease. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 04:27 PM |
| 12 | [Q4All] Do you think it’s important to go through a “Ho/Slut” phase?Yes I agree it is because of depression as well, which is a shame because it usually then becomes a cycle. I have three friends who started sleeping around a lot including several one night stands and they all ended up on antidepressants. I am not saying it is causal, but I think there is a strong link to suggest that casual sex can be detrimental to a persons (especially a womans) self-esteem and mental health. Also found it interesting how most women who I know who sleep around always like to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 04:06 PM |
| 28 | [Q4All] Do you think it’s important to go through a “Ho/Slut” phase?No, I am 22 y/o female and will not be ever having a ho phase. It seems like people just wanting external validation from people and the only way they know how is to sleep around. I haven't seen anything good come from it whenever my friends or siblings have had such a phase. It really just seems to me like a lot of insecurity coming out as sexual promiscuity. Of course there are exceptions, but from the people I know this has always been the case. As for the excuse of 'But I settle down early a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Applying FDS "sex strategy" when I physically cannot/ have never had an orgasm?Well at least we are together in this then right!? I can totally relate to feeling like it was wasting time and feeling guilty when trying to reach orgasm with a partner. I never had complaints but I think naturally it does feel quite selfish and awkward to expect someone to focus on pleasing only you for a very long time. I would definitely advise against starting to drink or do drugs, even if they help it will only be a crutch and not address the real problems that we seem to both be facing. A… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 11:10 PM |
| 33 | Watch pickme take a tiktok completely out of context to advocate for men who are against kinky sex and are afraid of false allegationsI don't like this woman (with the tattoos), all her videos are repeating basically 'redpill' BS except most of the men who she is trying to appeal to have no respect for her because of her tattoos and because she is a single mother (As far as I am aware anyway). She might be the Queen of the Pick Me's. *I am not saying she doesn't deserve respect, just that her intended audience are quite judgemental and would judge her for those things AFAIK* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Applying FDS "sex strategy" when I physically cannot/ have never had an orgasm?Wow 2-3 hours you are both troopers!!! Oral just makes me too sensitive after like 30 minutes and I'd rather just have sex (despite not orgasming I do actually enjoy the act of sex a lot, i just feel like having an orgasm would be a good milestone for me to achieve). Glad you mentioned the vibrators not working for you because I have tried at least 7 different toys and while they feel great, they just don't get me over the edge. Thanks for your reply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Applying FDS "sex strategy" when I physically cannot/ have never had an orgasm?Maybe when I move out next year I will invest... for now I barely use the one I have as it is too loud and heavy to hold in position!! Thank you for your help. It's nice to feel supported in this way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 09:42 PM |
| 5 | Applying FDS "sex strategy" when I physically cannot/ have never had an orgasm?OK You're the second person to mention like "clenching" techniques so I will definitely look into that, we actually do kegels a lot in pilates so I think I will be able to incorporate them. Thank you very much for your advice :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 09:40 PM |
| 6 | Applying FDS "sex strategy" when I physically cannot/ have never had an orgasm?Yeah I have definitely tried all of that, manual feels good but I definitely feel more with a clitoral toy than using my hands :/ and actually being on top did feel really good but in a way that I couldn't even carry on doing it because it felt so good I couldn't carry on making my body move ? It's so frustrating lol. Tbh my partners have both been very attentive and didn't watch porn so it's not their fault either. Definitely not focusing on penetration that seems like a lost cause orgasm wise … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:39 PM |
| 39 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.This is how I feel too but I know it is highly unlikely it will be possible for me to be a SAHM, and I don't think men are trustworthy enough to risk it... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:31 PM |
| 10 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.100%. I have always dreamed of being a SAHM - I want to do the hard work of bringing up my own children and looking after my home, I know it is a lot of work and I would be so happy to do that instead of working for a company. However I realise now how dangerous it is :( Kind of feel like the game is rigged for women whatever we decide to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Applying FDS "sex strategy" when I physically cannot/ have never had an orgasm?I had never heard of that before thank you for letting me know about it :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 07:49 PM |
| 7 | Applying FDS "sex strategy" when I physically cannot/ have never had an orgasm?It's encouraging to hear you were able to train yourself to respond to manual stimulation without a toy, honestly it gives me hope I might be able to make some progress too :D Thank you for your insight! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 07:49 PM |
| 19 | OLD Red Flags and Field Report: Catfishing, Heightfishing, and more.This is such a nightmare. I actually feel sorry for you for having to go through this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 06:56 PM |
| 19 | Why so many women dont have orgasms or sexual satisfaction in relationshipsI wonder if there is even a way to get men to understand this without explicitly telling them "you need to do X now, and then Y tomorrow, and then surprise me with Z" etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:21 PM |
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