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Yeah I am, I still live with my parents while i go to college, I plan on moving out, as soon as i figure things out, and i understand the lack of your own space. But try to meet people when you can, (i dont know you situation at home but if you cant bring people to your house for a BBQ then try a park, lake, beach, or even a friends house, something to that effect).
/r/seduction06/07/11 05:26 PM
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I am right there with you, though i agree with DrNgo about social circle stuff. Go to events that are in your area, such as concerts, car shows, conventions, anything and everything make friends with people and start building up that circle. Once you have people hooked invite everyone for a BBQ or something similar to get everyone together. I am probably in the exact place you are. Just go out have some fun with it.
/r/seduction06/07/11 05:17 AM
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Great Job buddy, Keep on pushing it.
/r/seduction01/05/11 11:44 PM
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Great Job buddy, Keep on pushing it.
/r/seduction01/05/11 11:43 PM
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If you want to buy(legal way) just type in Vin Dicarlo in google but if you dont there is demonoid (disclaimer: I should let you know that it is illegal downloading and as such i cant condone such things).... but otherwise ya its a great book, read reviews if you want, i think that its help me a lot. trust me when i say you have to read a few times, to fully absorb it. good luck
/r/seduction18/04/11 04:01 AM
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Iam about your age and i ve learned alot from Vin Dicarlo's Attraction Code. It kind of puts your head where it is supposed to be. I think it could help you a lot. Because i went through something like you described and it was not fun, but i am progressing forward and i am past all of that, i am not perfect, and i am not some mPUA (far from it), but i am moving forward. I would recommend setting goals for your self on where you want your progress as a person and academic goals (this does have an…
/r/seduction17/04/11 05:43 PM
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See thats the thing Its San Diego everywhere is "Viable", but yeah those are good areas for the day. San diego (the city) is really where you should be lookin then because there are all kinds of really cool bars around gas lamp, around petco park, really there are alot of really cool loungy type places, you just have to get out there and look because you'll find something you like if you go out enough. the city is your best bet if you want loungy, though i would say push your self to do differen…
/r/seduction11/04/11 12:32 AM
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How to win friends and influence people By dale somethin
/r/seduction10/04/11 12:01 AM
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I would say right now is the college areas, UCSD, SDSU, Point loma Uni, just hanging around areas like that, such as coffee shops, gyms, hobby type areas, Library on college campuses, I m sure once you get in those areas you will see where you can go to hang out, but like i said right now for day game is college areas, night game = downtown. Other than college areas is the beachs on good day of course. Like i said before if you have anyother questions just ask
/r/seduction09/04/11 05:58 AM
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The night life is pretty good in San Diego, though the best place around here would be a college/University area (coffee shops near colleges, book stores, etc) Beaches, Pacific beach and ocean beach have a crazy and odd night life, mainly sense summer is rollin up, the beaches are your best bet, tons of girls hang out at the beaches. Though the big crowds only really show up on hot and sunny days. Mission Beach, La Jolla Cove, Carlsbad (great place because there are lots of tourists), Coronado i…
/r/seduction08/04/11 11:53 PM
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I actually felt more relaxed when i wrote all this out, and when i saw your comment i couldnt help but laugh. Thank you.
/r/seduction08/04/11 06:17 PM
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I changed the question, because i agree that something like that should be posted on askreddit, my bad.
/r/seduction08/04/11 06:12 PM
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Keep it coming electronPUA, i really enjoy your FR's. Its kind of a inspiration to read.
/r/seduction08/04/11 06:38 AM
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I am right there with you i am 18 going on 19 and i think the best places would be malls, coffee shops, book stores, the beach (if your around one), really anywhere, make friends with everyone so that you can eventuallly meet someone that you like. Also try going for a girl that is 21 and up, you never know you may enjoy girls a little older than you more and you will have opened up an entirely new area of girls to be with. just have fun with it.
/r/seduction07/04/11 07:52 PM
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I honestly think, your reports are so interesting because they are so well written and i get sucked into the story. From what it sounds like i think you are doing great. Keep it up.
/r/seduction02/04/11 02:12 AM
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As a senior myself i have found that on dance nights do your best to get yourself pumped, talk to everyone you know, just say hi to people before hand, get your blood moving, be happy. Increase your state as high as you can. Then ask someone to dance, it is really that simple. if you dont know how to dance get a girl that you know to teach you or have someone teach you. most people are willing to help. Overall its all about where your head is at, i was that person who did exactly what your proba…
/r/seduction31/03/11 06:00 AM
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Ya me too, I ve had really bad reactions, sometimes good if i do it over long periods of time but anything that is quick change has not worked for me. some things like conversation tech. work sometimes but mostly just comfort building and getting to know people on deeper levels have worked. Unfortunitely over time i started to get a bad rep. because i had been flirting a lot with multiple girls (I got really confident with my new skills and took them for a spin, great results until the word trav…
/r/seduction29/03/11 05:39 AM
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Good job on that, sorry it didnt work out, but you did it. that i think is the first step to getting better, and Thats DOING SOMETHING, Anything, even if you completely mess it up, you are doing something! Just remember after you've done anything, look back on it and find a few thing that are positive about what you did and a few things you can improve on. Notice i left out a list of negatives, this is because you dont want to focus on that, its bad, it will probably hurt your progress the most.…
/r/seduction25/03/11 04:39 AM
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Thanks I will look into that, really do appreciate it.
/r/seduction20/03/11 04:08 PM
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Thanks you, ya i guess i did take that last text a little too far, i actually thought that was going to be fun/confident text, obviously i was wrong (you live, you learn). I will make sure to fix that in the future. If you have any ideas that i could do to salvage the situation, it would be much appreciated.
/r/seduction19/03/11 03:02 AM
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No, you are absolutely right, I apologize, I clicked submit before i realized that i didnt spellcheck, my bad.
/r/seduction19/03/11 02:33 AM
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DUDE!! Good Job. Keep it up. Just remember to always be pushing it, take some risks. If you see a HB8 or HB9 treat her as if she was a 5 or a 6. Otherwise i would say your already good enough to pull HB8's and 9.
/r/seduction18/03/11 05:45 AM
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Hitch and Cassanova
/r/seduction15/03/11 08:40 PM
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I would suggest texting her in about a week or even two, try again, it doesnt seem like an incredible failure, so it wont stick that long. Just try again in a week, see where it goes. I wouldn't trip too much over it. Dont over analysis (this is one of my own personal problem). If she misread the text, then tease her about it later. No biggy.
/r/seduction15/03/11 04:59 AM
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