| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 425 | If He Wanted To, He Would: A Short Story | REMINDER 👑 | camelCaseC | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Coming Home From Work: Some Short Stories | REMINDER 👑 | camelCaseC | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 02:36 PM |
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| 6 | 20 Things to Think About When Dating a Man Who Games 🎮I have a good example and a bad example about men and gaming. Me and my boyfriend play smash bros together from time to time to chill out. I never played much til I met him, but picked it up pretty quickly. Now he brags to our friends about how I always beat him lol. Not only that, but we will sometimes have chill nights where we play games, always cooperatively as a team even if they're technically competitive games, and every game we've played together that I didn't already have, he's gifted t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 02:50 AM |
| 11 | "You guys it's not misogyny if I call her a KarenSo obvious how Karen is just the new way to call some random women (especially older women) bitches and to get them to shut up. That women or her dog was probably almost ran into by that jackass, and so she was miffed. It's not unlikely that woman has encountered either that guy or others like him trespassing and maybe harassing her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 01:34 AM |
| 8 | Dude makes 6x more and refuses to adjust the 50/50 budgetMy partner makes 6x as much as me, so I don't pay rent or other bills because he wants me to invest. He acknowledges that any money I'd give him would be a bigger negative impact to me than it would be a positive one for him. It's really that simple: if someone loves you, they want you to thrive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 06:24 AM |
| 15 | Male Neurodivergent PANDERING, and my seething resentment about itThere's much more to life than school. A diagnosis can help you understand yourself better and get you treatment that can help you succeed at work and in your day-to-day life. Maybe it felt like just a label to you, but for some, it could help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 05:18 PM |
| 27 | Stop being defensive about your standards, sis"I have to bear the risks of sex, pregnancy and childbirth due to my biology so he pays the bills." Sex and money shouldn't be put into relation. Hard disagree. Reproductive labor is labor. It should be treated as such, and women should be compensated for it, and saying it shouldn't be compensated only serves to diminish the effort behind reproductive labor. Our reproductive labor has been the basis of our exploitation for millenia. Let's not diminish how import it is and how it truly is labor. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 03:20 PM |
| 32 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.As a bisexual woman, the only other women who have tried to get close to me did so to rope me into threesomes. One girl wanted me to take a 2 hour train just so she could use me as bait for some LVM she was pining after and was ignoring her. Sidenote: she met him after he left jail for a DUI (red flag 1), an offense he kept commiting (red flag 2), including while my friend was in the car with him (red flag 3!!!). I had another girl hit me up like six months after not speaking to me, and the firs… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 07:48 PM |
| 4 | 'Mainstream' media catching on? These Gen Z Women Think Sex Positivity Is OverratedI'm glad they included quotes from young gen Z women, but it was filled with a lot of fluff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 03:14 PM |
| 12 | Google bans Sugar Daddy apps… finally upholding its EXISTING anti paid sex policy: https://www.androidpolice.com/2021/07/28/google-bans-sugar-daddy-apps-from-play-store/:) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 04:55 PM |
| 11 | Cutting off LV friends/family?Definitely worthwhile. I have cut off a large number of people within the past few months who would constantly fight in groupchats over the most stupid bullshit. Like multi-hour long fights over which playstyle of magic the gathering is the best one. And they weren't playful, like real fights. It was so exhausting and so stupid. I've had so much more peace and time to focus on work and hobbies without those people in my life. I am pretty thankful for that, too. I found out from one of my friends… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 08:08 PM |
| 97 | Just because a guy appears to be altruistic, it doesn't mean he's a HVMMost of the altruistic donations from the mega wealthy is a way to dodge taxes, anyway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 02:09 PM |
| 120 | “Build with him”My LVX told me that if he miraculously got rich that he was not going to stay with me. They really do tell on themselves sometimes lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | If He Wanted To, He Would: A Short Story❤❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 02:28 PM |
| 64 | If He Wanted To, He Would: A Short StoryYeah, that's why it's always suggested here to vet for at least a year before you label someone as a HVM. Sometimes it just takes a while for the bullshit to seep through the facade :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 03:48 PM |
| 34 | If He Wanted To, He Would: A Short StoryDefinitely a good addition :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 03:46 PM |
| 60 | If He Wanted To, He Would: A Short StoryThat sounds like an incredible recipe, and also a potentially cool dude!! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 02:24 PM |
| 25 | This is Lilith from the FDS Podcast. I'm deleting my Reddit account because I'm tired of misogyny and harassment on Reddit.I'm sorry you have received so much harassment. You haveade such a huge impact on this subreddit and, moreover, the lives of the thousands of women on this subreddit. Real, tangible differences like supporting women leaving abusive relationships and learning to avoid abusive relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:38 PM |
| 13 | Know Your Enemy: Friends with Benefits and the Sex Positive MovementThat tag is given to some users who posted some questionable or pickme sounding stuff before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 06:16 PM |
| 92 | Stats on how FDS is spreading compared to male tactics. They’ve been strategizing for 15 years, it’s our turn. 💪Interesting, I would have expected pickup artistry techniques to be more searched for than MGTOW. Hopefully some of those men actually GTOW :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 03:19 PM |
| 25 | I'm 25 years old. What advice would older women give me?No such thing as saving too much 😄 As long as you're not investing instead of, say, paying rent or buying nutritious food lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 12:40 AM |
| 4 | Horror movies about the risks of letting LVMs into your lifeI commented the same thing before reading the comments lol. Definitely a good example of what the worst case of getting with a LVM looks like | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 12:35 AM |
| 7 | Horror movies about the risks of letting LVMs into your lifeAnother horror movie that fits LVM as villain theme is the recent Invisible Man that came out last year. Abusive ex bf stalks his gf, and there's even more other LVM monsters in the mix. Fairly decent suspense/thriller/horror movie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 12:34 AM |
| 102 | Date with a LVM starter pack 😂😩🥴I'm impressed you found a foot licking stock photo emoji | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 02:12 PM |
| 11 | Why I forget things at his place.then why are you on an advice subreddit 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 12:17 AM |
| 8 | Leveling Up By Moving on UpIt depends how nice the "not nice" place is. Like if it's crime ridden and there's a bunch of homeless junkies, it's worth moving. However, I've lived in the nicest part of HCOL areas, the less nice part of the same HCOL area, and the nicest part of a LCOL city, and honestly, the quality of life difference isn't that stark. One thing I'd note, though, is that being next to nature or parks or walking trails or something similar makes a huge difference. I didn't care how many nice bars I was next … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 04:18 AM |
| 33 | Are you proud of yourself?hell yeah, we love a business savvy queen 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:54 PM |
| 33 | Are you proud of yourself?I have taken up needle felting (sculpting out of wool), and I have just made a very realistic pair of cat ears for a Siamese I'm making 🥳 Also, I'm about to be able to invest like 2x what I make in one month into stocks after tax returns + signing bonus from starting a new job 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:47 PM |
| 10 | TAKE NOTE OF THE MEDIA A MAN CONSUMES: A LIST OF RED FLAGS TO WATCH OUT FOR IN 2021As someone who has persused 4chan a decent amount back in the day and unfortunately had to deal with many 4chan users and 4chan adjacent people in STEM programs, here are some other books that might tip you off he's in the 4chan realm of the manosphere: Infinite Jest, Ulysses, Gravity's Rainbow, and Stoner. Especially if these are just one their shelves and they haven't actually read them lmao. Another thing to look out for is if they bash audiobook listeners and ebook readers cause I just shrim… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:44 PM |
| 39 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 11 - FDS Gets Entangled with Sex Work TwitterThank you for talking about Sugar Babying. I hope every young woman hears about it and listens so we can undo some of the grooming. It rings true to my experiences, as well, and I wish this subreddit and podcast existed before I joined and got traumatized for life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:20 PM |
| 75 | The Tiger King v. Carole Baskin: The “hate” surrounding Carole is worse than you think. It’s really a microcosm of how ACTUAL corrupt, evil men in power with greedy, hypocritical agendas, manipulate low IQ scrotes all over the world into hating powerless women.Asking men about their opinions on Carol Baskin is a great litmus test for sussing out the character of a dude. Men I knew were LVM universally had not only negative but un-nuanced opinions on her and tended to turn a blind eye at the legitimately awful shit Joe Exotic and the other dude with the greasy ass pony tail did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 10:24 PM |
| 16 | Bullet Dodging Chronicles: Where Are They Now?Last I heard from a mutual friend, my LVX was obsessively going to the gym and taking steroids. When I left them, they were addicted to WoW and Kratom (a quasi-opiod). Think I'm doing a bit better lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 05:49 PM |
| 23 | Why do men hate us? My theory.I was going to reply on the main thread saying something pretty much along these lines. While I agree that men may be jealous of traits inherent to women like intuition, stronger bonds with offspring, etc, I think that's only a small part, and that the vast majority of their resentment towards womankind is that men know women have the power to delete them from the gene pool if they so choose. It's a highly existential threat to them. Everything about an animal is pushing them to survive and repr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 02:40 PM |
| 9 | The anime obsessed🚩🚩In a purely abstract way, Im more okay with animated porn than live action porn because yeah there aren't real women or girls in it getting actually abused. That would be a great erotic outlet in theory, but in practice, hentai and other animated porn is just the most depraved shit people can think of. I remember when I was a young teenager, one of the first porn videos I stumbled upon was (TW) a hentai gang rape scene where the main woman was pissing and shitting herself. Idk what exposure to t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 02:44 AM |
| 28 | Something for the scrotesLmao, my ex acted like the victim and all "how could you do something like this to lil ol me 🥺" when I reported him to the police for hitting me. Oh, also, he was like "well, my ex didn't report her bf for threatening her with a knife, so there was no reason you should have reported me just for punching you 😤" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 12:49 AM |
| 27 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!Yeah, it's like I don't think motherhood should be idealized/romaticized, but at the same time, we can acknowledge that mothers do an incredibly important job in society and should be respected (at least the good ones) for their hard work and sacrifice. While right now, I am not gunning for children, I don't understand the utter vitriol redditors have for parents and children -- especially mothers. Maybe it's just because it's a chic and acceptable way to hate women online nowadays. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 06:28 PM |
| 147 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!I thought the childfree sub, at least the main one, had been overrun my males at this point. Every time I ever went on there, it was just people complaining about "mombies" which I found disappointing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 01:31 PM |
| 20 | Media portrays victims of domestic violence as vengeful exwifesYeah, everyone seems to think women just bring forth abuse cases to light to screw over their ex -- not because he, you know, abused her and should see the hand of justice. Revenge is apparently only valid when men nuke or burn down cities 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Well. There you have it ladies.I don't understand how the graph is titled. Does it mean if you post about service staff or wife/gf or sibling, etc? Or if you post as one of the people on the Y axis? If it's the latter, that definitely supports the hypothesis that Reddit hates women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:33 AM |
| 148 | wage gap isn't realthank you reece's chocolate for the scathing social commentary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:03 PM |
| 4 | The reasons behind the myth of short men having a “hard time” dating is other men, their own insecurities and how vicious they are to a taller woman who dares to show any interest.I will say something slightly different than what other ladies here are saying, but height matters in making a dude attractive. To me, any dude my height or shorter is automatically unnatractive. It's not that short dudes have weird insecurities or complexes. I mean, some of them sure do, but that isn't a short dude only thing. I just find a dude being short incredibly unnatractive -- as unnatractive as if they were obese or had really bad acne, and I'm sick of pretending like it isn't a big con… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 04:45 AM |
| 14 | Some art for my new favourite subLove this ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:48 AM |
| 4 | When roommates/ or family bring over new men 🚩 🚩🤢You're probably right, thanks for the encouragement ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 04:44 PM |
| 29 | When roommates/ or family bring over new men 🚩 🚩🤢I am thinking of living alone when my current lease expires. My current roommates have contributed nothing but bullshit to my life. But it's so nice to be able to invest those extra several hundred dollars a month I'm saving on rent 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 02:11 PM |
| 18 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘Lmaoo, love this. Plus, it will infuriate the boys out there who don't understand basic statistics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 01:50 PM |
| 17 | VICE Media Darling Cat Marnell Takes Issue With Our Characterization of Her."I'm a successful professional writer" "I haven't had a job in 9 years" Girl, pick a story and stick with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:07 PM |
| 30 | Strategies for neuroatypical ladies and why following FDS rules is especially relevant to usThis is a great guide. This is the sort of quality content I come on here for! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 04:16 PM |
| 103 | Mass shootings have been solved everyone! Turns out lack of access to women's bodies is why men go on violent rampages killing women/poc/children/everyone.Exactly. It disgusts me when libfems act like in-person sex work is significantly distinguishable from paying to r*pe someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 08:53 PM |
| 27 | Mass shootings have been solved everyone! Turns out lack of access to women's bodies is why men go on violent rampages killing women/poc/children/everyone.If only men had easy access to vulnerable women to rape in exchange for cash, then maybe violent crime would go down. Genius. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Fantastic article questioning the current obsession with consent above all, focusing on bad sex. "It may well be that men learn that they can get away with not caring about a woman’s pleasure, and that women learn they must prioritise male pleasure over their own."Thanks!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Fantastic article questioning the current obsession with consent above all, focusing on bad sex. "It may well be that men learn that they can get away with not caring about a woman’s pleasure, and that women learn they must prioritise male pleasure over their own."Which article are you talking about? Would love a link 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 11:23 PM |
| 15 | More examples of blatant misogyny on Reddit. The advice he is giving other men in this post "Go for women you don't find attractive, so you can do depraved sexual things with them""while looking like bill gates" lmao, do men think Bill Gates is physically attractive? He's like 70 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:57 PM |
| 34 | Screencap, video and meme posting: let's work together to ensure quality!second this idea! keep FDS open for philosophy, move the fluff elsewhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:29 PM |
| 47 | I'm tired of hearing men complain about how they're expected to "perform" in the bedroom.Honestly? Yeah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 04:10 AM |
| 97 | I'm tired of hearing men complain about how they're expected to "perform" in the bedroom.Straight men just hate women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:59 AM |
| 11 | Momma’s boyI guess it makes sense the parent of a woman beater would be a handmaiden. Still pretty whack | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 08:52 PM |
| 4 | I wish I could invoice my abuser.I often think of venmo requesting my NVX for a a thousand dollars for my phone he threw across the room and smashed up and the sculptures I made for him that he'd smash in front of me when he got mad at me :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 08:26 PM |
| 30 | Momma’s boyAfter my NVX assaulted me multiple times, his mom tried to convince him that I had BPD and that I was the crazy one. She would send him books like Walking On Eggshells with highlighted passages she thought were relevant to me and wrote notes in the margins ._. Pickmes man. If I ever had a grown son who laid his hands on a woman or child, I would disown him in the spot. Fuck that shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | If this isn't Queen Energy I don't know what is! Makes me happy to see a woman on tiktok showing what it means to be a HVW 👑nooo, the sun and clouds were so cute 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 04:45 PM |
| 49 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?Bigger dicks just feel better 🤷♀️ Sorry not sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 09:10 PM |
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