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Question for BluePillcanwegetanfinchat/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:48 PM
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I’ve done it, wouldn’t recommend. Maybe consider it if the sex is really that worth it.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 04:27 AM
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If western women broadly are going to expect a tall, well built, successful, charismatic man; then as a man that meets those marks, there’s nothing wrong with me marrying only a virgin. If I spend years building my businesses, going to college, and many months to become a good salesman, I get to expect a woman that isn’t going to make me look like Logan Paul.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:27 AM
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The point I’m making is that anti-men discrimination causes men who would rather commit, to either put it off, fully forego, or use prenups. I’m not claiming people who don’t want marriage should get married anyway, but rather that misandry contributes to hookup culture by discouraging marriage among men that would like to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:39 PM
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If sleeping around is the safest way for men to have heterosexual relations, men are going to make that decision more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:40 AM
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Many classes of people that face oppression have to skew their behavior to accommodate oppressive policy. If getting married puts your assets, safety, and ability to raise your kids at risk, there’s less incentive to commit. Sure you can try patching that with a prenup, but those are far too easily thrown out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:03 PM
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A lot of the desire to “spin plates”, is the result of de jure (and some de facto) misandry. I’d say I fence sit between the RP and tradcon ideas. I agree that divorce laws are fucked up and that divorce shouldn’t be economically or legally incentivized. I just plan to forego such conditions by pursuing a relationship abroad. I also want to (and can) enjoy the trad-husband/wife lifestyle. But I also think that if men who are in the west are justified in acting in a redpill-promoted manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:53 AM
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I think it’s roughly equal, but that men generally have less social support. The lack of social support makes it a lot harder to handle stress. Also therapy is largely made to benefit women, making it less effective for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:17 AM
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Money only grants comfort to a certain extent, after which the additional utility is greatly reduced. Attention works similarly. You have a surplus of attention which leads to personally viewing it as innately worthless. Likewise an ultra wealthy person is going to view additional money as having no additional value (outside of reinvestment and transferability).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:22 PM
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Lots of ultra wealthy people deal with scammers trying to fleece their money. It sucks for them, but such inconvenience isn’t comparable to the plight of those who are impoverished. If you feel smothered by such attention, then that might be inconvenient. But maybe reserve such complaints for company which doesn’t have more serious issues at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:16 PM
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I mean money only has value if you value material things. Does that mean if a sex-based wage gap existed, would that be a privilege? What if I don’t value money, or see it as inherently valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:04 PM
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When a guy hooks up with a woman, it’s seldom a virgin. The way I treat it, I’ll ask a woman in a very light hearted way how many people she has been with. If it’s low, I’ll consider he a prospect and push back having sex. If it’s high, it’s a race to the bedroom and out the door an hour or two later. Sort of like when in the backcountry, there’s a thing called “leave no trace”. There are times where leaving a trace can be reduced. There are also times in which that trace can’t be reduced, so su…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:57 AM
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Idk, I didn’t coin the term. Best of luck to your brother, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:34 PM
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I think that the women that I was hooking up with, were rather audacious to think that I would agree to commit. If those women had just been more realistic about the kinds of men they can commit to, I wouldn’t have been part of the equation. So my guilt in retrospect is more of a pitiful “you did it to yourself” attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:14 PM
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Describing women’s value as going beyond sexual and related values, is a feminist ideal, no? I’m not saying it’s good or bad to think either way. Only saying that I’ve met women that seem to think similarly to how you describe, but the difference in my experience is nonexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:35 PM
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So as the “chad” (using that loosely) in a few instances, I personally have rejected roughly 5-6 women after having sex. I’m only one guy, but usually my rejections were due to the woman’s sexual history, personality, or they just weren’t that attractive. I had two outliers of that rule. One I found out had a main boyfriend and she was cheating. She offered to leave him to be with me and I didn’t want the drama or instability. The other girl, I took to my house, she was very impressed with my ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:32 AM
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Feminist values and women’s ability to handle rejection have little to no correlation in my experience. But as someone who’s rejected women after sex, I really think it’s a matter of personal improvement. There have been a number of women that I would have said yes to, if they took the time to be the person worthy of saying yes to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:26 AM
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I’m going to be seen as the bad guy here, but that was me. I would hookup with basically anyone that would agree after my divorce. I was a wreck. And I strung a lot of people along with phrases like “I’m not ready for commitment”, “I don’t want to ruin what we have”, “I’m not in a place for a relationship after my divorce”, etc. . But the women that had the lowest self esteem were always the most likely to go along with it. (I was hooking up with men and women, but I’m gonna focus on the women) …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:20 AM
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Most points of relatability come from lifestyle. You can find people of all lifestyles nearly anywhere. Others are things that you grow to appreciate in the other person as you assimilate to their culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:14 PM
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Why would I care if a woman can speak English? That just means it’s my job to know her language if I want a relationship. Men will put in that kind of work for a woman that deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:23 PM
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In my opinion, dating and hooking up in the US is pretty easy. The hard part is finding someone worth being with long term. Hence why I’m a passport bro, it’s just easier to find the best partners overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:47 PM
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I appreciate the sentiment. I only think about it like that because I want that eventually, but I don’t make enough yet to comfortably support a wife and kids. Granted I’m only 23, and I should be ready when I graduate in 3 years.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 12:46 PM
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Just assess how enthusiastic the guy is about having a SAHM as a partner. If it’s an “ok, I’ll survive” vs “I think that’s a great idea”
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/23 10:51 AM
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That may work. Do use caution however. I can say as an “above average” guy, that a lot of that attention being offered is there for sex only. But if you get a month or two in without allowing advances, that should weed out most of those types.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/23 06:05 AM
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It’s a global market, people move all the time. Don’t be afraid to go where you’re treated best.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:04 AM
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“Why the bleep am I still single”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:02 AM
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I’m a man, but I’d want upfront honesty. To me, having a woman that wants to be a SAHM is a big green flag. Consider going to a christian college for an “MRS degree”. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/23 10:02 PM
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You don’t even need sex based scholarships. Just lifting the caps congress put in place over the number of new therapists that can be licensed per year, and preventing schools from prioritizing women through affirmative action policies (which haven’t been fully dismantled).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:29 PM
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80% of Tinder users claim to be looking for a meaningful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:17 PM
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Why not improve enough to get women anywhere and be a PPB? Then you get more choices of marriage material partners, low cost of living, and you get to enjoy more traveling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:53 PM
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I mean a big motivator for me is that I come from money in the states, and I personally tend to experience less gold digging overseas. But also American culture gets exported everywhere to at least some extent. So finding someone that understands your culture is really easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:12 PM
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Have you ever been to any of the common PPB destinations? Like is this coming from experience or vibes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:09 PM
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Worldwide, only ~15% of births were out of wedlock. It varies widely from country to country. But by and large, birthdate simply isn’t an accurate indicator of the promiscuity of young foreign women broadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:00 AM
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Well you seem like a happy, well adjusted person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:08 AM
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I’m just wondering why you’re so undecided on whether racism is bad. Pretty sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:58 PM
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The question has nothing to do with gender. “Is racism acceptable if one particular race commits a majority of crime?”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:48 PM
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That doesn’t answer the question. Is racism acceptable if one particular race commits crime disproportionately? Even if it’s a worldwide issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:37 PM
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Just because black people in the US commit a disproportionately high amount of crime doesn’t make it ok to treat people differently for being black. Likewise for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:31 PM
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Are sex workers exploitative? No. Is onlyfans capitalizing on loneliness? Yes, but there’s not much to be done fixing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:25 PM
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I never said “had to”, just “should”. If you want to be an asshole that’s a personal issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:22 PM
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Murders between people who are already partners don’t have a lot to do with the topic at hand. But I really appreciate the thoughtful write up on those studies. I’d be interested to see if women who commit domestic abuse have similar reoffender rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:43 PM
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I actually changed industries to be a digital nomad. I’ve always had interest in “far off” cultures. As far as objections to visiting Russia, I know and accept the risks I take when I travel. I want to visit every country on earth plus Antarctica. And yes I mean every country.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:59 PM
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I’m not trying to be rude, but it sounds like your trying to convince yourself as much as me. And I’m not solely choosing Poland. I actually wanted to check out Russia until the war started (which is why I speak Russian). So Central Europe was my backup plan. I like the cold weather, top tier skiing, and the Black Sea is beautiful. I’m also moving to the Philippines this December because I’m an avid hiker and want to get myself a beach house to surf/fish for a while. The lifestyle is reason enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:34 PM
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I’m only 23 so most of the expats I know are below 30. So it might just be my bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:40 PM
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American culture permeates everywhere on earth to varying degrees. So understanding of American culture really isn’t hard to come by. And what’s wrong with you? (Aside from the obesity) I don’t know anything about you. Is it that much easier to find someone abroad? It’s easy to find someone everywhere. What’s hard is finding someone worth putting a ring on in the west. As to cultural differences? I’m pretty well versed in many other cultures, and I speak Russian decently, I’m learning Tagalog ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:52 PM
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“I’m not interested.” Is perfectly quick a phrase to get out of something. And not rude either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:50 PM
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The vast majority of kids worldwide are born to a married couple. The idea that the behavior of mostly married people mirror the behavior of non-married people makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:48 PM
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No, it’s not bothering unless you already know the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:46 PM
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Random violence plays no impact on the calculation of whether to be honest or dishonest in one’s rejection. But I’m not singling out one type of killing or the other, both are relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:37 PM
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I never claimed “no” wasn’t defensible. Only that dishonesty is wrong without some imminent threat of harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:31 PM
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To be fair, the proportion of women committing infanticide is much higher than men. Additionally when it comes to reprisal violence due to rejection, men experience the VAST majority of rejection, so that would definitely skew numbers regarding such reprisal violence. Say there’s a micro country of 100 men and 100 women. The men collectively experience 75 rejections resulting in three acts of violence. But women collectively experience 25 rejections and one act of reprisal violence. That would m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:30 PM
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If one murderer out of 3.6 billion men is reason to justify dishonesty, then is one case of a mother killing her children justification enough for all men to get sole custody in case of divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:47 PM
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If it’s a visibility thing within the community, that’s a two pronged issue. For one, those guys are almost always living in the host country full time. So that means up to a 12 hour time difference which slows response times on places like Reddit. Second, those are the guys with families and stuff to do. So it’s mostly selection bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:22 PM
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I mean it’s not just a travel thing, it’s just looking for a decent partner. As the the sex tourism? It’s perfectly fine to go on vacation and sleep around if that’s your prerogative, it hurts no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:08 PM
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Divorced after marrying an American woman. But that was a long time ago. But after doing some traveling, I just don’t see myself settling for an American.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:02 PM
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Birth rates don’t strongly indicate sexual activities among unmarried people. Have you been to any of those countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:54 AM
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I don’t have any plans to move back to the states once I get married. By then, I’ll likely be working on citizenship in a host country. I’d still want my kids to know American culture, so I’d take them for trips, but I’d rather emigrate elsewhere full time. I know nothing about ausie issues or politics, so perhaps it was a problem however.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:21 AM
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I never mentioned Thailand, nor was it on my list.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:49 AM
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I don’t think I’ve heard of many out of shape or broke guys traveling overseas for dating. And even living in such social circles, I haven’t seen it. Social awkwardness though, I think is something that can be worked on anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:00 AM
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Not a deal breaker. Many things can be worked through.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:33 AM
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Yeah, lots of people have varying opinions. I’m just explaining what the majority of a given group usually states.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:21 AM
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If I have any reason to think that my date has a poor track record, it’s a no. But if you’re going to withhold pertinent information from me, and take a meeting with me under such pretenses, I’m going to be at a loss for my time. That’s just a means to recoup lost time, money, and effort. Is it moral/immoral? On a scale from -5 to 5, I give it a -0.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:20 AM
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That’s valid for you to feel that way. I just choose not to fight certain biological drives that natural selection appears to have gifted me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:12 AM
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I mean it was a perfect illustration of how sexual dimorphism results in opposite expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:10 AM
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Different sexes have different expectations. If a woman has large breasts, that is conventionally attractive. If a man has large breasts it’s not conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:08 AM
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Widely held personal preference. There’s really no reason why gold is so expensive. It’s valuable because people widely find it to be so. But if offered a pound of aluminum or a pound of gold, which would you choose? I personally just prefer women with little to no sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:35 AM
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No one has to be shamed. It’s just a personal preference that many men hold to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:19 AM
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If a woman has big boobs, is it hypocritical to date a man with no man boobs? Both sexes have different icks. Men get shamed for low body counts, women for the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:12 AM
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I will usually ask during the first date about sexual history. If it’s a long history, I’ll usually act interested. If I think I can get laid easily, I’ll probably go for it. But after doing the deed, I’ll probably mention being just friends with benefits. If it’s a yes, great. If not, oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:10 AM
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It may just be that I’m not on tik tok, but I haven’t the slightest clue about any threats. I just got into it because I’m a tad salty. I joined the army to travel, didn’t get to travel, but now I have the money and time to travel on my own dime.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:24 AM
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I’m still working on my degree to make the remote work thing happen. But 2 out of 3 ain’t bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:22 AM
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I’ll be sure to keep that in mind during my travels.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:20 AM
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Yeah, ever since the rotations started in Poland, lots of joes have been coming back with polish wives. It’s wasn’t uncommon by the time I got out this last may.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:17 AM
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I mean if you think I’m lying, check out my post history. Keeping some account about a double life would be way more effort than any normal person would apply. You’d see I was in some relationships as a teen, joined the army (which was a train wreck), started a business, fixed up an investment property in North Carolina, got out of the army, started college, and now I’m working my degree. I’m just spending the next few semesters abroad in the Philippines. Will I come back eventually? Probably, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:13 AM
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Sincere question: where does the expat hate come from? Is it economic issues in the host country?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:05 AM
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I actually got the idea from my time in the army. I was going through a nasty divorce. A good friend was an NCO in my unit with a polish wife. She told me to go to Poland to find a “good woman” as she called it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:04 AM
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Not traveling to fuck. If all I was looking for was sex, I’d stay in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:22 AM
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I learned to speak Russian and wanting to learn Tagalog. But most PPBs I know speak at least two languages. Spanish is pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:21 AM
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Go get that foreign bf, I wish you the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:47 AM
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Sounds like you’re talking about two very different groups. I already speak the language in many of the countries I visit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:47 AM
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My biggest fear would be wasting my time I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:02 PM
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I am doing well enough that I could support a large family, SAHM, and retire by ~45. I’m only 23 now, and I only work maybe 20 hrs per week at most. So why would I choose to get with another nurse who’s pulling 50+ hour weeks, when I could be with someone with a slower paced life like myself? It’s a matter of matching lifestyles. I wouldn’t mind being a SAHD if I’m being totally honest. But for now, I’m just working on finishing my degree, growing my business, and finding a place to settle down …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:50 PM
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I agree it’s not difficult (for me). But I acknowledge that guys without my advantages have a right to be miffed. I got lucky being born into wealth, being tall, and being mediocrely charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:01 PM
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I’ve traveled to a half dozen countries and speak English and Russian. I’m working on learning Tagalog. What is marriage material to me? Someone who is good with kids, humble, wants a large family, and someone who isn’t wrapped up in their career. I also have personal preferences, which are nice to have; but as long as I am happy with someone that meets those minimum standards, preferences matter little.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:59 PM
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Dating is just better elsewhere. Whether a woman is financially stable or not. It’s a lot easier to find a “marriage material” partner in other parts of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:32 PM
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Fair point, I am exceptionally lucky to be moving to the Philippines in a few more months. I turned 23 today and just can’t bother sticking it out in the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:59 PM
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From what she’s saying she expects, the men she’s looking for are almost certainly in a relationship. And those who are single simply have other options. I wouldn’t say it’s harsh per se, hence the props for finding solo happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:43 PM
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Understandable, it’d be pretty absurd to expect a guy to want more than sex when you’re already pushing 40. I think it’s good you’re happy and making the most with the hand you’re dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:27 PM
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Gay man or straight woman, both come with more options than a character with my current build: a bisexual/hetero leaning man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:17 AM
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I guess I’m red pilled? But it’s signals. Sometimes verbal, sometimes non-verbal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:52 PM
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I’m sorry someone hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:08 PM
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Mens loneliness is one of the issues that spurred on the “red pilled” movement. So to call either one a causation would be to call both causations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:32 PM
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You have a decent point but it’s a bit broad. But yes marriages between two men are much more likely to be successful than a marriage between two women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:49 PM
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My apologies, I was on mobile. I mistakenly sent that to you rather than another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:43 PM
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Child abuse stats haven’t shown any correlation like you suggest. Men’s loneliness has.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:53 PM
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A woman that is just agreeable and pleasant to be around doesn’t stay single long unless it’s by choice. That’s why you don’t hear about it. And I’m happy for those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:45 PM
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For many men, that is the case. Is it sad? Yes. Do I think most men are that way? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:22 AM
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Very true, mentally ill people can get guns. But also the number of mentally ill people is increasing. I would consider things like shootings, ramming attacks, and other random acts of violence to be heavily linked in root causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:21 AM
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I actually answered this same question previously. But it depends on the country. In places like the Philippines and Thailand, the growing rate of gay men, foreign workers leaving and trans women more than offset the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:14 AM
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I’ve been overwhelmingly successful dating in the US. I unfortunately did marry an American woman, but one divorce and a few years of enjoying hookup culture later, I would only (seriously) date foreign women. I still date when I’m in the US, it’s just that the goal is very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:08 AM
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Perhaps you’re right, then more men leaving would be the remedy. Generally speaking, there are just better partnerships to be formed elsewhere for most American men. So if it’s a normal thing for American guys to do, and American women are happy single, that sounds like the perfect solution for American men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:20 AM
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Men who leave are ones who can afford to. This most applies to younger PPBs: every guy I’ve met while traveling keeps on good shape, makes good money, and is definitely an above average guy. (in the economic sense) societies’ most attractive men are the first out the door. I’m 22, done very well in the states. But you just can’t find women worth marrying in the quantities you can find elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:17 AM
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My solution was a change in men’s behavior. It had nothing to do with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:13 AM
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What isn’t at an all time low is the randomized violence of people with no stake in the future. Especially but not only mass shootings which have been steadily rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:11 AM
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I never said “taking women down a peg” or anything of the sort. Only that men are broadly undervalued. And I suggested a means to correct a market failure in value assessment. Would it flood foreign markets? I doubt simple social encouragement would create such huge swings in social behavior. It’d only need to be ~0.5% of young western guys. Which really wouldn’t be enough to create a proper shortage or saturation anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:09 AM
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The rights to access education and attain employment. Rights to access that should be merit based were never made so. They usually went from one sexist quota system, to the one we have today. Though this may be changing since the Supreme Court is restricting affirmative action policies. That will be made clear in the next year or two. Women though are given greater rights to bodily autonomy. If a woman has sex and is accidentally impregnated, she can abort or give the baby for adoption. If a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:31 PM
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I never said it was, just that criminal treatment results in criminal behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:16 PM
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You didn’t indicate in the question you were discussing history, my bad. I thought you were only talking about the modern day. Yeah women had it pretty rough for a while there up until they gained the same legal rights as men, sometimes even exceeding the rights of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:13 PM
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Most people have children, romantic partners, close friends, home ownership, or other things that provide a stake in society. young men broadly don’t have those things. Which is frankly the most oppressive structure of a society imaginable without making more discriminatory laws than those presently on the books.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:10 PM
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That’s a big claim, can you prove it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:07 PM
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If women were socially ostracized like men, more suicide would follow, accompanied by similar acts of violence. When you’re treated like a predator on the basis of sex, the persecuted class will always respond with violence and other social issues. This is called Theory X, which is mainly workplace focused but also applies to broad social policy. It’s actually very similar to the treatment of black and white Americans broadly. Poor treatment and over policing consistently results in higher pover…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:36 PM
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Young, single men have a large impact on crime, drug use, suicide, and homelessness rates. So fixing the “issue” of dating for men would make other societal ills better (not fixed, just less terrible). But I think most women are actually not willing to be single for life, that due to the availability heuristic, most of such single women sincerely believe that they’re capable of achieving commitment from the men they are able to hookup/go on a date with. I think the best way to reduce it is encou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:04 PM
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At the same time, let’s assess what happens if an average man approaches an average woman. It reminds me of unemployment going down during the ‘09 recession. People weren’t finding jobs, they just eventually gave up on applying. There’s scarcely any point applying for a job which either doesn’t exist, isn’t hiring, or won’t hire you. As far as solutions to such a problem: Men self improving, normalization of men being able to approach without predatory perceptions, expanding the number of third …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:29 PM
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…look I’m gonna be honest, the more I see her face the less good she looks 5/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:38 PM
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I’m speaking in international terms. For American woman, being not obese puts you at a 6/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:15 PM
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Hm, maybe I just don’t see it. I’m bi and I think the guy is like a 6/10, the girl 5.5/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:11 PM
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I mean internationally, in america a woman is “above average” by being not obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:10 PM
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That’s definitely two average people. I’m not seeing a disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:43 PM
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Do I care if someone sleeps around? Not at all. Promiscuity among women has definitely played to my benefit. But the body count is one of those questions that divides keepers, from the ones who are fun to hang out with but not to treat seriously. So my opinion on it? Mixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:26 PM
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Where the law is concerned, women have significantly more autonomy and rights than men. So I’m unsure of the source of your critique.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:48 PM
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RP dating videos lit a much needed fire under my ass. It got me to self improve to be a better man. And now, I’m moving to the Philippines this December.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:20 PM
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“High quality partner” would mean low risk of divorce, sharing in your primary values, agreeing on life goals (kids, career, family dynamics, etc.). A high quality woman (broadly generalizing to the taste of the majority of straight men), would include low debt, taking care of one’s physical appearance, low risk factors in divorce, feminine personality traits, honesty, agreeability, ability to work as part of a team, looks, (if she has a career) positive work-life balance, etc. It’s true that so…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:45 AM
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That’s not a “men don’t like my decisions” issue. That sounds like they just want a woman that wants children. High quality women that want kids are really rare (especially in the US). So it sounds like a desperate play to convince you to change your mind and have kids, more so than disapproval of your decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:18 PM
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I don’t think I’ve ever seen any hate towards childless women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:13 PM
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