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| 7 | So what are the thoughts surrounding infidelity and MRP? | captainVSI | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/10/17 08:56 PM | |
| 3 | Narcissism and the female imperative | captainVSI | /r/askMRP | 02/02/18 06:30 PM | |
| 2 | Marriage seems to be on the edge of the abyss | captainVSI | /r/askMRP | 30/09/17 02:04 AM | |
| 1 | The Red Pill documentary??? | captainVSI | /r/askMRP | 06/01/18 03:29 PM |
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| 1 | Finally did my first cold approachAnd again and again and again and... | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 04:29 PM |
| 2 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.I find that getting honestly and REALLY pissed off removed my victimhood. Life is pretty much filled with shit to make you lose. No one and I mean, no one is coming to your rescue. Know why? Bc we are all tired from our own struggle. Get angry at your predicament. Don’t aim it at others. Don’t aim it at yourself. Use it to fuel motivation. | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 12:33 PM |
| 3 | Is there a sub dedicated to divorced RP?What exactly are you looking for? What could a “DRP” offer that MRP doesn’t already? It’s not like the advice would be any different | /r/askMRP | 04/02/18 09:45 PM |
| 1 | "If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present. " - Lao TzuYeah, I think the quote (DNGAF where it came from) is using colloquial expressions of the words “depressed” and “anxious”. One can feel both and not be afflicted with the condition. If one is not I would have to agree with the quote. I know plenty of people who are depressed often (self included) and it’s often about past failures. Yes I might even say a present situation sucks but the situation doesn’t stand on it’s own. It’s in reference to something else- a time when I succeeded or failed. Sa… | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Short term monogamous relationshipsLol. He used but one... | /r/askMRP | 04/02/18 02:49 PM |
| 0 | Advice for a guy disappointed in having a girlWhat YOU are is more important than what they are. | /r/askMRP | 04/02/18 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Narcissism and the female imperativeIt is a motherfucker. But it smells so fresh... | /r/askMRP | 03/02/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Narcissism and the female imperativeI know what you’re saying. What I’m questioning is more from a broader sociological standpoint. | /r/askMRP | 02/02/18 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Narcissism and the female imperativeWell said | /r/askMRP | 02/02/18 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Narcissism and the female imperativeA helping of doubt and skepticism is healthy. In fact it’s what brought us all here. Not to mention pretty much all advances in science, philosophy and psychology. That’s because truth is a never ending pit. Well unless you go the route of hard solipsism, to which there is no way out. | /r/askMRP | 02/02/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Fighting Off the GorillaI’ve studied or had experience with roughly 16 different styles and I’d have to say the the most effective is what’s most effective for the moment. Usually the basis is mental game. “Feeling” when shits about to go down and avoiding it; being confronted and diffusing/fogging/derailing; having no choice but to physically engage. Awareness, confidence and flexibility. One of my teachers, a former Shaolin monk who loved to drink. He looked tough, could fight like a rabid tiger. Often frame-tested b… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/18 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Fighting Off the GorillaLike when Bruce Lee sent that bully out on a dingy and all the rest of the ships passengers laughed at him. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel more appealing to woman as you get older? [32yo male]Yes. Generally speaking an “older man” will have the appearance of experience and solid grounding in the world. Basically the opposite of a younger man. This is why many women are attracted to older men. However there are plenty of men who are older, look the part but they have no experience and are not very grounded in the world. | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Saw this on r/getmotivated and it really hit home with meI think you might have misread. Boneless was saying that of himself. That he feels like an “unwanted piece of shit” when he gets rejected. I don’t think anyone called him that. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Saw this on r/getmotivated and it really hit home with meGhosting is for people without a spine. Just man up (or woman up - it works for both genders) and say “I’m sorry but I don’t think we’re right for each other”. Ghosting IMO is only necessary as a last ditch effort when dealing with a psychopath. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 03:06 AM |
| 1 | What would you be doing if women didn't exist?Sorry. I completely missed your last paragraph. You are absolutely correct. Keep what you love, make new hobbies, new connections, other people and places. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | What would you be doing if women didn't exist?Yep. I travel for art conventions about 2 times a year. But you can’t get away with the excuse that you’re the only person like yourself where you live. Go find your peers. Go online and find out if there are other programmers in your town. I highly doubt you’re the only one. All I hear are excuses not to get out of your comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 07:53 PM |
| 33 | Saw this on r/getmotivated and it really hit home with meNOW you’re asking the right questions. IME self value comes from a couple of different places. On one hand it is realizing that previously you were seeking validation from the outside world, something that said “Jed is good enough” which translates to you as “I’m acceptable”. Next is tossing that belief aside. Next is getting an “I’m acceptable” from yourself. This comes from knowing what your values are and what qualities you find admirable or noble. Make a list. And work at creating or improvi… | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 02:49 PM |
| 1 | What would you be doing if women didn't exist?Not necessarily true. You can go to gaming conventions, programming events. Now if you’re taking care of yourself and going to these events, you’ll really stand out. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 01:13 PM |
| 38 | Saw this on r/getmotivated and it really hit home with meI think it’s much more valuable to consider this: Do you think it’s attractive to be a guy who is concerned with rejection? Much better to be a guy who isn’t concerned with rejection at all. Calm. Not giving a fuck. But that requires having a positive self value which requires some self-work. Lots of dudes here are lacking in self value and seek value/validation through external means (ie. girls). This is a fools errand. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 12:25 PM |
| 17 | Saw this on r/getmotivated and it really hit home with meIt is best not to base personal value on the personal preference of another | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 12:17 PM |
| 1 | When do women feel the need to start dreading?I’m not sure that’s across the board. I think it’s simply about being in the right mindset as you stated but I don’t think it’s absolutely necessary to actually have options on deck. I feel that it’s enough to have the mind that you can’t be dreaded. No fear of loss. A man can have no fear of loss with 3 other women in his pocket or none at all. It shouldn’t matter. However if in order to “counteract” a woman’s dread it is contingent on having other women at your disposal then I think that needs… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/18 01:50 AM |
| 1 | I was told by a girl today that I’m not fucking material and instead more of dating material, what does this mean?Yep. You don’t give her the tingles. You provide oxytocin (comfort hormone). You do not provide the turn on hormone (dopamine?/PEA). You are perceived as, dare I use the terms, beta not an alpha. You’re possibly a clingy type that showers undeserved attention simply bc you find a girl attractive. As mentioned read No More Mr Niceguy by Robert Glover. Also you could read the Sex God Method (but maybe a bit later). | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 05:42 PM |
| 3 | The Bed: A Shit TestI was gonna suggest what Triadis3 said. Get a new pillow top for a twin bed, install it then toss the old one. Done | /r/askMRP | 28/01/18 02:24 PM |
| 1 | I've got some insecurity issuesAs it’s been said: abundance is the cure. “Cheating” as it were, isn’t cheating until both parties are in an agreed upon committed relationship. Not an “assumed” commitment but a verbally agreed upon one. If you’re dating or hanging out or whatever non-committal term is used these days, then everyone is up for grabs. | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Rude Awakening - need some adviceWait a minute. Violent how? Like physically (though verbally can be just as damaging)? If that’s really happening and you’re not exaggerating I’d call a lawyer STAT. Forget about your BP issues. They are the least of your worries if there is true violence going on with those kids. Christ man! Fuck us too! Reddit??? Call your lawyer bro. | /r/askMRP | 28/01/18 04:17 AM |
| 0 | Argument - critique requestedYeah I spoke too broadly. More so talking about the apology he made. But I already addressed that. The entire interaction was not botched. | /r/askMRP | 28/01/18 12:29 AM |
| 1 | When you sober up battle for the frameRight. The aim at fixing the faucet is because it needs fixing, whether OP is single or not. NOT bc it’s something she wants done. This is part of the captain/leader mindset. What would Picard do? He gets the thing done whether Riker is on board the ship or not. And if he is, Picard is certainly not thinking to himself “Gee wiz, Riker is so gonna think I’m more awesome than I was yesterday because I did the thing. Just wait til he notices. This is gonna be great!” | /r/askMRP | 27/01/18 08:57 PM |
| 0 | Argument - critique requestedIn my difficult situations I quickly say to myself “what would Picard do?” | /r/askMRP | 27/01/18 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Argument - critique requestedIMO you didn’t avoid DEERing when you said “I’m sorry, I didn’t think of it”. Own that you fucked this interaction up, learn from it for the next time. | /r/askMRP | 27/01/18 03:57 PM |
| 2 | the elephant in the roomOh crap. I had no idea. ROFL. OP- listen to this guy. Drop the crap and get on with being awesome. | /r/askMRP | 25/01/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | the elephant in the roomWow. I have to agree with what has already been said. Side note: as I have immersed myself in MRP and personal development I can see so much in you that is a reflection of where I was. I know how you’re feeling. You are a walking hamster. Seriously, if you ain’t got kids I’d say it would be pretty easy to walk. | /r/askMRP | 25/01/18 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Girl Stops Make Out - What Did I Do Wrong?There’s also the power of the social conditioning of slut shaming to consider. It’s programmed hard in most women. | /r/seduction | 25/01/18 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Never been on a date and I'm 27 years old. I need help.What I mean by suggesting other reading is that it can help if you’ve got more in your head other than PUA techniques. It frees the imagination. It’s not necessary of course but depending on the person it can help. You obviously didn’t need it. Everyone is different. Noticing stuff about people is an easy in to casual convo with strangers. I’m just guessing that someone in his position is very far from expressing himself the way you mean, in a casual and controlled way without feeling unsure and… | /r/seduction | 25/01/18 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Never been on a date and I'm 27 years old. I need help.First off you probably put a ton of pressure on yourself. Ease up man. Go lift regularly like 4 days a week. It builds confidence esp when you start seeing results. Read books other than pick up stuff. Whatever strikes your fancy. Practice small talk with strangers. Make a goal of say, 2 strangers a day. Then add more people as you get comfortable. For instance say to the cashier at the grocery store that you like her earrings. Start noticing interesting things about people. Remember, most peopl… | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Talking to my wife makes me feel like I am insaneWas it Robert Glover that said women are like the weather? Unpredictable and change on a dime. If it’s hail out there, don’t go outside. Stay indoors (stfu). My response to those weird spouts is “hmm, interesting...” And nothing else. Just letting that raft drift... | /r/askMRP | 23/01/18 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Teach me your ways!There are so many WTFs to come... | /r/askMRP | 22/01/18 01:46 PM |
| 1 | If I’m taking care of everything in the house by OMS and my wife isn’t doing anything, isn’t that rewarding her behavior?I guess it’s only a problem is you have covert contracts and expectations for tending to your home. If your inner dialogue is ever saying “wtf? I do xyz, whine whine...” then you’ve got a CC going. If you’ve always been this way (tidy, organized) then I wouldn’t sweat it. I cook. I’ve always cooked even when I was single. I like it the way I like painting. I believe all men should know how to make a good meal and not just simply searing flesh on a grill. I also clean my house mostly. She does so… | /r/askMRP | 22/01/18 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Under cover shit-tests?I think it’s one of the initial downsides to RP (I kinda don’t even like using the term). Upon seeing some of these things in action both internally and externally many dudes (self included) are like HOLY SHIT! and get hyper aware. Combine that with wanting to solve their problems yesterday you get a hamster on a Deca/Tren cocktail. | /r/askMRP | 21/01/18 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Under cover shit-tests?ROFL | /r/askMRP | 21/01/18 12:25 AM |
| 1 | FR: wherein I try to cultivate abundance with the oldest, rustiest tool on my farm, the cold daytime approach.It’s also great for loosening up verbally/mentally. Going into “pick up” situations repeatedly with OI has the potential of building up more of the casual form of NGAF. This will build into muscle memory for when talking w the SO. Not proven but this is my opinion/experience anyway. | /r/askMRP | 20/01/18 03:33 PM |
| 1 | FR: wherein I try to cultivate abundance with the oldest, rustiest tool on my farm, the cold daytime approach.I was hesitant until your ps. I think flirting is fine. It’s quite fun too if the girl knows how to play. Closing for real (fucking some strange) is not necessary. I do however think it’s necessary to know without a doubt that you can if you wanted to. | /r/askMRP | 20/01/18 03:22 PM |
| 7 | Under cover shit-tests?I’m with Alphaphux here. I think part of being more of a leader and being present is in recognizing what needs doing and doing it. What are you doing? Thumbing your phone while the baby cries? If you’re doing something else is it so important that it can’t be put down for 2 min? Also, lighten up a bit on “interpretation” of her behavior. Sure keep a radar up for shit tests but don’t go crazy. Just simply do what needs doing before she nags. | /r/askMRP | 20/01/18 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Why would an attractive man need TRP? What's the purpose of it for men with ability with women?He’s not RP. But he does need to learn how to assert himself and stand up for his own feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Does dread game work on men?Yes women use dread either consciously or unconsciously. And I think if a man calls “NEXT!” it’s because the dread worked, maybe not in the way the woman intended but he essentially left bc he was afraid of getting hurt if he stayed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Why would an attractive man need TRP? What's the purpose of it for men with ability with women?I know a good looking, highly charismatic man who can literally get any woman he wants (and he does). He’s at least an 8.5 in terms of looks and personality. However, at home with his LTR GF, he is a total kow tow bitch to her bossy, prickly sexless attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 06:49 PM |
| 2 | If not than the Redpill or Pua, where else should nerds go to get advice on how to get casual sex?That’s considering those women have a positive self image and aren’t insecure. Society has made certain that the majority of women are insecure. That’s why some PUA tactics work. That’s what push/pull activates. In theory yes, women hold the gate keys to sex but if she’s insecure like most women, she won’t take advantage of that asset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Sudden lack of a Driven MindsetSorcererking really is correct. It’s all too easy to just pin some oil in your butt and think it’s a cure. It’s not. Slight edge sure, but don’t think that just cuz a dude is on TRT or AAS he doesn’t go through bouts of depression and lack of motivation. There’s likely a mental issue at play and while yes you should get your levels checked because you’re a thorough dude (right?), I’d say you probably know what’s the issue. Just be quiet for a bit and be brave enough to admit (to yourself) whatev… | /r/askMRP | 18/01/18 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Sudden lack of a Driven MindsetWhat was/is your treatment? | /r/askMRP | 18/01/18 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Sudden lack of a Driven MindsetNo. I’m more so looking out for the ugl’s. | /r/askMRP | 18/01/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Sudden lack of a Driven MindsetWas gonna mention that but wasn’t sure if it was kosher to link that reddit page. | /r/askMRP | 18/01/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Sudden lack of a Driven MindsetQuestion: was there anything in your life that happened out of the ordinary around the time or shortly before the falloff? Low T: pay out of pocket for the test. Be sure it’s a full panel (free and total test, E2, LDL, PSA, HDL, etc) There are legit underground labs that sell test (as well as designer steroids) and the needed aromatase inhibitors so you can self medicate as needed. | /r/askMRP | 18/01/18 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Warrior Book/ Warrior WeekNever heard of it. Looks like he found a way to really cash in on the manosphere. Just read an article about a dude here in nyc who pays $25,000 for a yearly membership. ROFL I’ll find a torrent for the book. I’m down to read anything once. | /r/askMRP | 17/01/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | ManipulationGot it. Thx! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/18 12:45 AM |
| 1 | ManipulationStill nothing. Maybe it’s my phone? I’ll try on my laptop later. Really want to read it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/18 12:02 AM |
| 1 | ManipulationLink doesn’t work for me | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/01/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill HeresyYou’re only doing it for her if you search your feelings and find a “Dancing Monkey”. Yes your current situation and how you interact with your wife lead you down a path to eventually plop down here in the muck of the lions den. That is the case with most of us I’m sure. Shit got fucked up. Men went searching for answers. Found a support group. Big deal. It’s about how you see it (frame it). But as you act NOW, ask yourself: would you continue this path if you were suddenly alone? If yes, then y… | /r/askMRP | 15/01/18 08:12 PM |
| 1 | How does it change during pregnancy and some other notesYep. All that has been said. The “rules” get sorta tossed out on her end bc of the extreme hormonal bump your wife is enduring. She likely feels literally crazy. Stay stoic, deal with shit tests and comfort tests in the same usual way and keep doing as you are doing. | /r/askMRP | 15/01/18 02:08 AM |
| 3 | I don't care for anyone anymore. I don't wanna live as a shell“A girl won’t cheat if you treat her the way she wants to be treated” And how is that my friend? Let’s say this girl has some issues (we ALL do). Let’s say she’s fairly attractive and has had many years since she was a teen observing and understanding how her appearance and behavior effects the opposite sex? She then learns that she wants to be treated well, adored. Well I’ll tell you from experience that she will get bored. I’ll also tell you from experience that being a funny, cocky dude will … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/18 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Wife Birthday AdviceI think I’ll re-read it again. I’m still processing. Would it be a bitch move to not give her anything because she did that to me? Or would it be a bitch move to keep doing what I’ve been doing even if she treated me like shit on my birthday? -they are both bitch moves because your mental base is the same in both decisions. Her approval. When you get to the centered mindset that does not act based on her approval, THEN you are free to give or not give based on how YOU FEEL. Not based on how you … | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Best response to "all you think about is sex.". Have been STFU, but is there a better response?“And your point is...” | /r/askMRP | 08/01/18 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Caught fucking around by LTR, I would prefer we stay togetherAm I alone in thinking this girl sounds loopy? I would walk based on that nutty behavior. | /r/askMRP | 08/01/18 02:01 AM |
| 3 | For those who lift and train martial artsHe’s basically correct in that Krav isn’t hard on joints like BJJ, isn’t as rough on muscles like Muay Thai or MMA. There is a fuck ton of conditioning (military origin) with practically minded striking. People here in nyc treat it like a “get in shape” martial art with some pragmatic use. Lots of women in the classes usually. Good place for pick up lol. | /r/askMRP | 05/01/18 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Reading materials openly?Blue Pill Professor actually advises leaving reading materials out. The comment was a minor shit test. Don’t hide it. It’s now known. Leave it out along with the other books. I would have said “Actually, no”. If pressed on what it’s about I’d tell her not to worry about what I’m reading or that it’s a personal development book. In any case it no doubt got her hamster running. Let it be and continue on. Remember, who give a fuck what your wife thinks about what you do with your own mind/time?? | /r/askMRP | 25/12/17 04:09 PM |
| 8 | When they shit-talk about their husbands to you.Yes she might screw you if you gamed her. No you shouldn’t. Yes she was giving IOI. Get over it and get back to studying. Have a nice holiday. | /r/askMRP | 16/12/17 12:15 AM |
| 5 | STFU, DNGAF etc... Have I went Rambo?I like to think of it like, who was I before her or any other significant woman? You are getting in touch with that person again. At first it feels crazy and you are still considering her perception of you. This creates tension in yourself. Keep at it and that will go away. NGAF isn’t being an asshole. That’s too much work. NGAF is actually RELAXING. Conan the Barbarian is relaxed. 007 is relaxed. Tyler Durden is relaxed. Lester Burnham became relaxed. Relax that part of your mind man. The mount… | /r/askMRP | 14/12/17 12:35 PM |
| 3 | 'We need to see a counsellor'IME, therapists are only useful for individuals who don’t know themselves. Statistics show that “marriage councellors” do not help and in fact increase divorce rates. If you’ve never been to one on your own you might want to consider it. And the wife can do solo as well. Marriage councelling IME turned into the therapist and my lady in a unified force against me. Do you want this marriage? If yes, there’s difficult shit ahead. If no, there’s difficult shit ahead. But don’t be afraid to say yes o… | /r/askMRP | 14/12/17 12:16 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Just Say NOI was in a very dark and sad place not too long ago. And I came to some serious realizations about myself and my partner. I let go of so much fear after self confrontation. Getting at roots of feelings and acknowledging them. Now when my partner says “we need to talk”, I’m like “ok, what’s good for you, I’m free to talk at XYZ” (we’re both very busy so we need to schedule shit like that). I used to be so scared to talk with her. So afraid of the rejection. Now I don’t give a fuck. I killed the p… | /r/askMRP | 09/12/17 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Any appropriate time for mate guarding? Dread game in reverse?More like the fact that your thinking “if I do this or that or maintain frame this or that” will maintain her attraction still has you doing all of it for her. What sounds better: 1) I’ll do all this shit and read all this shit and become a “high value man” and she’ll want me. 2) I’ll do all this shit and read all this shit and become a high value man. I’ve realized over a short period of time (past few months?) that if you’re here doing the work, yes that’s good. But if all the while you are pr… | /r/askMRP | 01/12/17 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Any appropriate time for mate guarding? Dread game in reverse?Why be bothered with the thought “she’ll want me”? | /r/askMRP | 30/11/17 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Non-covert contracts... just contracts... how to handle?Just one day. Next day, act as though nothing happened. | /r/askMRP | 30/11/17 05:58 PM |
| 1 | shit test typesThe irony in talking about shit tests with this example, :D | /r/askMRP | 07/10/17 02:37 PM |
| 2 | So what are the thoughts surrounding infidelity and MRP?You mean an ovulation cycle? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/17 01:48 PM |
| 0 | So what are the thoughts surrounding infidelity and MRP?Not necessarily. See, the exec job that he wants her to take is a huge pressure job. She’s not ready for it. He’s trying to butter her up at the same time teach her some things about what responsibilities to expect in the higher ups. If this is just a work thing I know from that perspective if I were in his position I’d take her to a nice place. Not Panera Bread. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/17 11:31 AM |
| 2 | So what are the thoughts surrounding infidelity and MRP?You know, I have been battling with that notion for some time. I can’t figure out if it’s because of my mind or because she is the bigger breadwinner or some other thing. For a long time I thought it was about the money. Lately I’ve been thinking it is more about my frame of mind all along. Not a matter of 1950’s work/life idealism. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/17 03:45 AM |
| -1 | So what are the thoughts surrounding infidelity and MRP?Thank you for a less emotionally charged reaction. I don’t have enough to go on and I draw the line at peeking at her phone. I’m not gonna fucking get hard proof and slam her or some vindictive shit. She isn’t sleeping with him is what my intuition tells me. But there is a possibility of an emotional affair and for good reason (if it’s even happening). I haven’t been there. I’ve become a full on blue pill nice guy for the last 5-7 years. She like most females operates from an emotional place. Sh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/17 03:36 AM |
| 3 | So what are the thoughts surrounding infidelity and MRP?ROFL | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/17 01:29 AM |
| 3 | So what are the thoughts surrounding infidelity and MRP?Yes I do believe I could be in denial and have entertained the possibility. Hence the hamster wheel. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/17 12:36 AM |
| 2 | So what are the thoughts surrounding infidelity and MRP?I gotta find a regular job that won’t make me want to shoot myself in the head. Then save some money for if that time comes that I gotta get out. We can’t afford a divorce (average cost in nyc is nearly 20k). I really feel bad for my kids. I came from a divorced family and it really fuck up me and my two brothers. I want this to work but I’m becoming more comfortable with the idea of it not. It’s just hard to imagine that she would opt to screw her kids just to get another branch. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/17 12:33 AM |
| 2 | So what are the thoughts surrounding infidelity and MRP?Sex has been dead for a while. Last fuck was in August and it was emotionless. We now barely even touch unless by accident. I’m loving the info and wake up from reading RP stuff but for this relationship anyway it might be too late. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/17 12:26 AM |
| 4 | So what are the thoughts surrounding infidelity and MRP?Actually she’s the big breadwinner. I am a freelance illustrator and raised our kids, take care of all the other shit. She makes most of the money and I operate it all. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/17 12:20 AM |
| 3 | So what are the thoughts surrounding infidelity and MRP?I am still following the protocol no matter what. I seriously don’t think she is sleeping with him or is going to. It would compromise too much. Cause weird work shit (unless they fall in love). Make her advancement hairy in the company especially if things went south between them for a myriad of reasons. And I don’t think she wants to be a home wrecker for two families. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/10/17 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Self-esteem, sidebar, lifting, STFU, and YOULifting also releases brain chemicals that help change one’s mood. I have yet to come across someone after a workout who feels worse than when they walked in the gym. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/10/17 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Marriage seems to be on the edge of the abyssWelp. We had a long talk over the weekend. She is pretty set in stone (presently) that she has no desire to be a wife, nor is she interested in figuring out her own shit. I told her very generally that I know what I did in the past (ignorant/drunk captain) and that I am working a plan for the future. I told her that it might result in her being drawn to me and might not but I didn’t care. Felt good to say that. Assertiveness training at work. She got a bit weepy, realizing what this could mean f… | /r/askMRP | 02/10/17 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Marriage seems to be on the edge of the abyssFor those of you that have kids. Did you talk to them? Wife and I just had a chat. She has no desire to be a wife to anyone. She has no desire to put in effort. I told her that’s fine. I am focusing on myself. BUT I know children are sponges. They are not learning from an ideal example. I would like them to know that what they are seeing (two distant parents in a parallel marriage) is not a good example of a healthy relationship. | /r/askMRP | 01/10/17 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Marriage seems to be on the edge of the abyssIs that really true? The past doesn’t go anywhere. Just bc someone becomes fit doesn’t magically make their issues vanish. I’m not smitten with Hendrix’s imago model but it makes sense when viewed from his context. | /r/askMRP | 01/10/17 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Marriage seems to be on the edge of the abyssAbsolutely. Yes, my marriage is fucked and needs mending. That cannot be ignored by any MRP. Otherwise they wouldn’t be here. So there is that awareness of the situation. I have focused my attention to myself and not payed much attention to outcome driven behavior. | /r/askMRP | 30/09/17 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Marriage seems to be on the edge of the abyssShe has checked out. For at least 5 years. Probably more. I read a lot of what to do which is great but I want to also read success stories. Of people bettering their lives and as a result either drew their woman to them or have drawn other women to them. To be fair I’m new to Reddit and it’s layout. Navigation is odd on mobile. | /r/askMRP | 30/09/17 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Marriage seems to be on the edge of the abyssSo no Carl Jung? Ever read or listen to Ester Perel? | /r/askMRP | 30/09/17 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Marriage seems to be on the edge of the abyssI understand. Didn’t come here for coddling. Came here to find some woke men. | /r/askMRP | 30/09/17 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Marriage seems to be on the edge of the abyssAt this point I believe I am at stage 2. I have a Morpheus pal and I have stopped my outcome driven behavior some many months ago. Now if I do something helpful I quickly ask myself if I’m expecting a reaction or if I wanna do it bc it’s the sensible thing to do. If I do it I make no hopes of praise. I am neutral in this area and mostly distant without being an asshole. | /r/askMRP | 30/09/17 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Marriage seems to be on the edge of the abyssI’m guessing this is snark. Does standard psychology play no role? Or is it more like “you can’t change that shit, it was in the past. This is what you can do now.” | /r/askMRP | 30/09/17 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Marriage seems to be on the edge of the abyssI’ve been trying to figure out what I want from my life, well all my life. Yeah, sure I’d like to be with a woman that sees me as her captain because I am. Someone who takes life a little less serious all the time and knows how to play. Yes, I would like this to be my current wife. I’ve been with her like that before I became a shriveled Beta. I know the potential exists. I pressure myself a lot to figure out a larger career path but nothing I come up with is enough to light the fire. Instead I … | /r/askMRP | 30/09/17 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Marriage seems to be on the edge of the abyssYes. I meant swift plan of action as in, what is it I should be doing and quick? Not what can I do to quickly turn things around. But I posted before reading about Career Betas, thinking I wasn't one. The description is almost my marriage exactly. Stuff about me Vision for my life: no idea. I've not had a strong connection to desires/proving myself/achieving things. Except learning new skills. Thats always been constant. Vision for my career: no idea. I'm a freelance illustrator. I have no clue … | /r/askMRP | 30/09/17 03:12 AM |
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