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You can practice keeping your ego in check by deliberately acting beta in order to cause her interest to diminish. Talk about your last break-up, treat her like your therapist. You get the benefit of being able to vent, plus she'll willingly disappear without any drama.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 02:56 PM
25

Recommend finding less emotionally traumatizing (read: insulting) ways to disengage with women you aren’t interested in continuing to see. Blame work, blame a past ex coming back to your life, whatever, if you’re polite and give a reasonable answer for why you’re unavailable, they won’t be furious with you, and you won’t have hurt their feelings, which by the way is a nice aim to have. It’s not cool or useful to make people feel used.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 01:43 PM
9

stop performing for others and learn to live enthusiastically for yourself. One is exhausting the other is endlessly fulfilling.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:20 AM
6

Hurts how true this is. What a fucked up game. It's not even their fault, it's just how it works. Nature is cruel.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/20 02:14 AM
1

I knew an extraordinarily successful man. He said this book changed his life. It's basically exactly what you say. READ THIS: http://432relax.com/dl/itworks.pdf
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 04:07 AM
1

I also recently downloaded the app and like you was appalled by the content. It's exactly as you describe. Scary to think children use this. But then again what adult would? It's just a garbage fire.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 03:48 PM
2

Happening to me too. Having similar thought processes.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 05:23 PM
1

Didn’t get into details. Just said he and the others in his group all had very profound experiences.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:36 PM
1

A friend told me he had a life changing experience on this program: https://eaglecondoralliance.com
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:43 PM
3

Concur with all the above. Like some I experienced it first hand and was lucky to get out with minimal damage.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 02:38 PM
15

If they have BPD sex is validation and they want it all the time.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:57 AM
7

You can’t teach a plate passion. You can’t teach a plate eagerness. You can’t teach a plate innate sexual desire. I feel like anyone who says you can has no idea what they’re talking about. Some girls just love sex and know how to fuck, and others don’t. Even if you show them what you like, they’re always doing it for you, and never with the same interest as if they were fully loving it themselves. And the difference is everything.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:54 AM
1

She never mentioned the show. I can just see she’s watching it and I am making an educated guess as to it’s influence. I think this will be a problem for a number of people.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 03:17 AM
1

Why? I like what we are/were
/r/askTRP02/03/20 03:10 AM
1

No question. Just discussion.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 03:10 AM
3

This is a personal lifestyle question. Nobody can tell you what’s right for you.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:26 AM
28

Max’s satire post is funny. Surely there must be room for satirical content that makes a point? Also, good for enforcing the rules. Definitely too much nonsense these days.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/20 08:38 PM
-3

Simple guide, I do like it. So I guess pizza and pasta are out completely?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/20 06:16 AM
1

You’re depressed because you broke up with your girlfriend and you feel rejected, compounded by insecurity over your height. You need to feel useful and competent again. My recommendation is to make advances in your career. Make money. Shoulder responsibility. Get good at something, Check out Jordan Peterson’s lectures on YouTube. You need to find internal happiness and validation. External sources like other people, girlfriends, etc. is a recipe for disaster and this is true for everyone. Frank…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 12:29 PM
1

Do as many toastmasters as you can prior to the event. Propranolol can help with anxiety if you have any.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 06:41 AM
18

100%. Ask this question in 2 years min.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 11:10 AM
0

You will be replacing one conditioning with another. My recommendation is to focus on succeeding in your career, gaining status and money. The confidence will allow you in time to be better socially. Starting with the social dynamics will be very hard, and in my opinion, a waste of time. A distraction. Even if you master it, you will look around and wonder what have you have really accomplished. The rewards are fleeting and shallow. Still, if you want to start somewhere, perhaps try Tyler’s Real…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:00 PM
2

This will be a difficult, frustrating journey. Are you absolutely certain you don’t want to just stay on the path your parents have chosen for you? You will very likely be happier. The concepts of “beta” don’t carry over well into other cultures, because hypergamy is kept in check in a way it isn’t in the West.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 12:46 PM
14

The only thing to do in that situation was obviously respect her wishes and not push her to do something she wasn’t ready to do. If you guys like each other maybe in time it would happen, but she has to be comfortable first, and being pushy makes it less likely she’ll choose to lose it with you.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 03:52 PM
2

Mocking is not the same as self amusement. Don’t try too hard. Just enjoy yourself. My style of self amusement is generally teasing and asking questions, but because I actually am curious about people and want to know the answers. And the answers give me material to make jokes, which I find funny, and they do too.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:20 AM
3

No. But don’t be so eager to reply. Be difficult to predict in your availability. And self-amusement is key.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:07 AM
12

This is all nonsense and validation shit until you meet with her. Find a way to meet or stop wasting your own time.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 05:42 AM
2

The good news is that you’re self aware. This should help you avoid any bad behavior as a result of this jealousy. In time, you will care less, as your experience grows. But it may never go away. It’s biological.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 01:35 PM
2

There are tools to help deal with your anger. Talk to a therapist.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:25 PM
7

RIP TRP.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 09:31 PM
12

100%. The best lays have higher n counts. No debate here. They aren’t shy, they know what they like, they want to experiment, they like it rough, etc etc.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 03:14 PM
5

https://thedonald.win/
/r/askTRP22/11/19 03:19 PM
3

Look at the new The Donald site. They have it figured out. Do the same thing for TRP.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 02:05 PM
3

Used to be so much great content posted. Great conversations and insights. Such a shame. The quarantine didn’t need to kill the sub, I’m not sure why it basically deflated itself.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 05:38 AM
0

Sit down with her. Show compassion and kindness. Explain why abortion is the only move.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 03:24 AM
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It’s the ocean baby. It comes in waves. Don’t fight nature. Maximize the time the tide is out for other, more important shit. Build your sandcastle.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 03:18 AM
12

Agree and amplify. Your answer was great.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 08:52 PM
11

It’s a play to get people to sign up for their premium Snapchat’s. The stories are probably fake.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 10:43 PM
2

https://www.instagram.com/p/B4f2g25FNmI/?igshid=wlm69ssb6f2p
/r/askTRP05/11/19 08:59 PM
4

Write down your goals. If you don’t have any, come up with them. Think about the person you want to be. Imagine it. Write down your goals again. Three times a day every day. Your behavior will begin to correct itself.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:30 AM
9

I was trying to explain this someone the other day, but couldn’t except for it just is. What’s the real reason it’s a deal breaker? Like yes it can be said they’re sexual, but go another level, why is that a problem for a relationship
/r/askTRP03/11/19 05:40 AM
3

On the coasts. 30 is just getting started.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 02:38 PM
3

Is 30 now considered older age??
/r/askTRP23/10/19 02:31 PM
2

This is way too long, and does not come across as funny or impressive. Saying so much so soon communicates deep insecurity, like a cheap car salesman peddling junk. If you want to say the same thing in less words, try, “I try too hard and get possessive fast.”
/r/askTRP21/10/19 03:26 PM
10

There's no one right answer. The hardliners here are very set in their thinking, but that doesn't make them right. People make mistakes, sometimes you have to know when to forgive.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 10:10 PM
1

No.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:12 AM
1

Nobody is perfect. Enjoy what you have for as long as you enjoy it, and then kindly move on when the time is right. And in the mean time, if you aren’t committed to her, see other women.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 09:04 AM
1

Reading BPD tactics makes me feel like a WWII vet. Glad I survived, suffered a ton, but kind of feel warm about the whole thing having come out better for it.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 05:26 AM
7

https://trpbackup.com/posts/2 DEER vs DARE — IMO, if it’s valid like you say, apologize and do better. Be a human being.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 12:32 PM
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I think the idea is sexual strategy is amoral. The strategies exist whether you believe them to be ethical or not. People here are still going to have opinions on what is right or wrong according to their own personal values.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 05:22 AM
1

You have to get out of this mental trap. Don’t let your mind work against you. You’re 100% fine.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:12 PM
4

If this woman is your friend, assume the best from her. She isn’t trying to insult you, she may actually think of her girl friend really highly, having known her for sometime she may not see her looks as objectively as you do. Some people also truly believe looks don’t matter or shouldn’t matter, and so rationalize ignoring them (for others, not for themselves). Just say she’s not your type and that’s it.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 02:18 PM
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Guys, my girlfriend cares about our relationship? How do I deal with this?
/r/askTRP27/06/19 12:06 AM
3

99% chance it’s subconscious, and it’s human nature, not just women.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 10:29 PM
9

Probably wants to see how hard you’ll work to get with her for the validation. If she just ignores you, she doesn’t get all the validation juice from that delicious orbiter fruit.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 09:26 PM
2

Try this: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-jordan-b-peterson-podcast/id1184022695?i=1000439350965
/r/askTRP25/06/19 04:06 PM
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Go to the Jordan Peterson subreddit, I think there is a video suggestion list on the sidebar. Here’s a random video I found that seems interesting: https://youtu.be/V52RLZFGHUM Honestly, I enjoy his maps of meaning lectures, but I’m not sure that’s the best place to start, although they are filled with great advice and important life lessons.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 12:36 PM
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JP is great. He’s changed the way I think, act, and speak for the better. I’m not sure why you’re looking for approval here from strangers, you’re already interested, go to YouTube and see if he connects with you.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 12:06 PM
1

Definitely. I didn’t mean to deny that. But at certain point, external validation as a motivation will not be enough, and at another point, that validation will be given, and then realized as empty. If that’s all you’re after you will plateau. The BEST there are, are striving for the best in themselves. Tiger Woods has status, has sex. He still pushes himself to his ultimate.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 04:16 AM
17

Were you waiting at a bar and she didn’t show? Or was it a text flake and you stayed in? More context.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 03:14 AM
1

Wow, the James Clear stuff is great!!
/r/askTRP24/06/19 03:12 AM
1

Do it for yourself. You don’t lift, or learn or a skill, or better yourself, for women or for anyone else. You have to do it for you and stop chasing external validation. Validate yourself. Quit trying to be famous, and start working to be the best you can be for YOU. Fame will or won’t come, just like women will or won’t come, it’s not your job to chase it down. RP doesn’t give a fuck about your feelings. The facts of the world are, you have to work your ass off to be the best, to be someone wo…
/r/askTRP24/06/19 02:54 AM
2

I see, I read it like you had done it many times with other people without an issue. If it were me, I’d probably ask her about it outside the bedroom, see what the problem was. It’s possible she never liked it and now feels close enough to you to express that. I think you have to measure her reaction in relation to other elements of your dynamic. Is she respectful, kind, patient, etc., or does she take you for granted.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 11:59 AM
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Maybe a painful memory or trigger. Just say thanks for letting me know, ask her if she wants to talk about it, and then move on and don’t do what she doesn’t like. Bring it up later outside the bedroom from a place of concern if you want to try to learn more. This is not complicated.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 11:42 AM
1

Don’t be surprised if she expects a more conservative relationship. Possibly no sex before marriage, serious relationships only, etc.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 12:52 PM
2

She doesn’t want to be rejected, and you’re clearly not going to pump and dump like an even higher SMV would.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 11:05 AM
3

You're free. Now pursue what's actually meaningful in your life. This is a clarity that few men are able to achieve by first hand experience. Don't waste this gift.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 04:06 PM
3

I was in the same place. After a bad break up from being a total beta and being taken advantage of, I found TRP, and became more successful with women than I had ever been in my life. I was determined to see how far I could go, and ended up spinning 3 plates for several weeks, seeing one a night, while also going on new dates. The stress of having to stay involved with each girl, texting them, deliberately keeping frame, staying sexually satisfying — it just became too much. It was basically a j…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 10:19 AM
2

That was excellent.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 10:10 AM
3

First, figure out if you’re at risk. Risk of disease or risk of being cheated on. If her sexual history suggests infidelity or relatively high degrees of recklessness, turn tail. If it’s just an ego thing, you have to grow up. A girl with a decent sex drive, who is any good in bed, will likely have a 20+ n count or more. There is no more societal pressure to not be a slut, so any girl interested in sex will have as much of it as she wants with all kinds of people, just to see what it’s like. Soc…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 09:49 AM
2

Go single and get comfortable with being alone and having a good time alone. If you can’t enjoy yourself without a date, frankly no one will want to date you. You have to master yourself first.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:59 PM
1

She has an idea that nudes = bad. She says she isn’t comfortable. Why? Figuring out that why will tell you how and if you should continue to pursue this. For example, a self confidence hang up must be considered differently than a trust issue.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:54 PM
2

If it were me, I’d try to contact them. Set up a meeting between them and yourself (with some of your boys as back up) and have a conversation. Tell them you really like their sister, you didn’t mean to manipulate her, she just has hurt feelings because you didn’t feel the same about her, etc., and basically come across as the nicest guy possible. Show them respect for wanting to protect their sister. If they aren’t going for it, tell them you’ve already filed a police report for harassment and …
/r/askTRP27/05/19 11:01 PM
1

They’re just posturing to each other. It’s not about you at all. Don’t sweat it and don’t give it another thought.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 06:54 AM
3

Obviously The Game by Neil Strauss touches on the earliest concepts, but most of it is outdated.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:32 PM
2

Not exactly. When she asks who should control women, she is not subconsciously agreeing that women should be controlled. She’s basically mocking him; she’s saying, if women are to be controlled like you say, which is a ridiculous idea, who in your opinion would have the right to control them? She’s posing the question as a way to communicate that the underlying concept of “controlling women” is a silly or outdated or dangerous point of view. Peterson’s response is perfect, deflecting her pointed…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 02:28 PM
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MGTOW hates the rules of the game and quits. I can understand. Redpill learns the rules of the game, to win, or at least to thrive/survive.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 04:21 AM
2

Get purposeful with your eye contact. Be deliberate in your frame.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 09:07 PM
2

no just conditional
/r/askTRP21/01/19 08:28 PM
1

https://waitbutwhy.com/2014/06/taming-mammoth-let-peoples-opinions-run-life.html
/r/askTRP12/01/19 01:34 PM
1

Find a mission and meaning. Chasing girls is a substitute for actually wanting to build and achieve something, and it will only make you miserable once you achieve whatever win-game scenario you’re dreaming up.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 02:23 PM
11

Girls will date the bad boy types when they don’t respect their father. if they can’t respect the nice guy dad, they will go after someone they DO respect, on the other side of the spectrum, an asshole.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:29 PM
6

Meaningless sex will make you feel empty and depressed. Most people need to get it out of their system before they realize that. It’s fine if you’ve already arrived there.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:05 PM
21

Yes, keep it simple. This is way more than I would have said, though I’m no guru. I would never compliment like that, I do not believe in giving validation before it’s properly earned. I wouldn’t use exclamation points, it screams soy boy to me. I’d never use the word invite, it’s way too try hard and nice guy. There was a time I’d do all that. Now I speak in basically half sentences — too busy to give all my attention vibes, if you know what I mean. It works much better. Very sad, but you can’t…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:33 PM
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If she wanted you, she would have overlooked this. I didn’t even register the repetition until you pointed it out. Overall, the whole line I thought was kind of weak, separate from the typing fuck up. Just a bit nice guy and m’lady.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:13 PM
2

Fuck their wives.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 01:16 AM
1

This is what they call “mysterious” and they love it. Just keep up the mystery.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 04:18 AM
1

Alpha widowed.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 04:14 AM
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You have to find a style that suits you. Not everyone is going to succeed with a “sit on it” approach. However; the confidence and frame required is the same. Work on those. Learn how to use eye contact. Don’t get caught up in “how to flirt via text”. That’s shallow game and it’ll come off as fake and constructed unless there is deeper game behind it; work on that first.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 09:04 AM
1

Learn Jordan Peterson.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 04:54 AM
6

Rejection is a process of pushing something out or away. Like a body rejecting an organ. You’ve learned these things, you have accepted these facts, but you’re still in a process of rejection, that is to say, you’re rejecting women now that you’ve accepted certain truths. This is a phase. True acceptance is accepting these truths, and also accepting a pursuit of women. Pursue women you actually like spending time with. The impulse to do this will return.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 01:02 AM
1

Honestly, I don’t know. You failed the comfort test. Look up what to do in that situation. It’ll probably be something like change the topic of conversation proceed if she’s Ok if she’s not OK, have conversation about what’s bothering her (double comfort test) pass comfort test proceed
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:57 PM
1

This is a classic comfort test, which is virtually the opposite of a shit test. Look it up, you’ll learn what you need to know.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:42 PM
1

Yes you can. You need to visit it first on pc tho.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:40 PM
1

Friendship is the result of repeated positive interactions between people over time. This is why it develops in school. You have class with someone everyday, you like what they say, you enjoy their company, a friendship develops. Put yourself in situations where you can have that repeated interaction. A class, a routine, a place you request. It takes weeks.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 04:34 PM
0

No, I don't miss being a slave to my emotions and feelings.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:01 AM
12

Women and sex are not an all-fulfilling goal, as you're learning. Focus on your mission, focus on your purpose, what you build, what you make, what you craft. Focus on what you ARE passionate about. Struggle and improve, and get better at a real skill. ​ What happens when you lose passion for women? ​ You become free. ​ Most men never get there. They spend their whole lives chasing pussy, wasting mountains of effort and time. You now see the matrix. Don't waste this. ​ The passion will come back…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:03 PM
2

There was one book I felt way over cooked it, specifically. The rest was fine, and the language and intent of most of the posts were fine. The book just went in hard on women calling them absolutely useless, stupid, evil, etc etc, fundamentally less than men. I much prefer the complementary model, and the ammoral approach of nature, hypergamy, dating skills, etc.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 01:42 PM
2

Exit polls showed, those who identify as Orthodox were the most supportive of Trump on Election Day and continue to give him high marks. https://religionnews.com/2017/09/13/most-us-jews-oppose-trump-but-the-orthodox-stick-with-him/
/r/MGTOW28/09/18 02:51 PM
1

NYC has the largest Orthodox community, which always votes right.
/r/MGTOW28/09/18 02:10 PM
1

Nope
/r/MGTOW28/09/18 01:41 PM
1

That’s just false. There were many of us on CA, there are many of us on T_D. You’re just misinformed.
/r/MGTOW28/09/18 01:41 PM
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This is BS. As a member of the group you reference, this is horse shit. We want to MAGA.
/r/MGTOW28/09/18 01:00 PM
-2

There was unnecessarily misogynistic literature on the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 05:44 AM
2

So basically the red pill is going to be known by The Giver and that’s it
/r/askTRP28/09/18 05:43 AM
2

They weren’t celebrities at the time they started...
/r/askTRP20/09/18 06:16 PM
1

Nootropics sub
/r/askTRP20/09/18 03:55 PM
1

Surely you’ve seen those quotes about people starting things older. Oprah and JK Rowling are often mentioned.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 03:25 PM
0

Practice. You have to pass the comfort tests without becoming an emotional tampon. Gas and brake. How do you find the balance? By trying to find the balance.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:00 AM
2

Why would a girl pretty enough to get with someone without problems, get with someone with problems? You have to work to make yourself better, that’s the journey of life. Keep at it.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 12:11 AM
2

Your looks are only a part of it. Become interesting. Develop your career. Make money. Get in shape. Become someone they would want to be with.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 06:16 PM
1

It’s probably their outrageous uniforms. If they dressed like standard military men no would get in their way.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/09/18 02:21 PM
2

Make yourself into someone worth replying to.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 01:29 PM
6

Became a full time job of keeping 3 plates spinning, the pleasure of sex transformed into something more of a chore, the drinks and dinners out became an unnecessarily large cost. Cut off 2, happy with 1 FWB.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 01:35 PM
4

Expect the plate to break if you know she wants commitment and you know you don’t want to give it.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:16 PM
12

I’m pretty sure this is a well established cultural ritual. The idea is to kiss the Priests hand out of respect, but the priest pulls his hand away as a sign of respect back, like you are not beneath me. The hand kiss / pull thing is definitely a real thing, I just can’t say if that’s for sure what’s happening here.
/r/MGTOW24/08/18 04:36 AM
1

You have to have the capacity to feel shame to be embarrassed. Entitlement and shame are not close relatives.
/r/MGTOW24/08/18 04:33 AM
8

Program not responding.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 04:28 PM
2

The Office, Steve Carell says it.
/r/MGTOW18/08/18 07:32 AM
1

Great question. Was thinking the same just last night. Seems like a shit test that gradually becomes a comfort test. Definitely dangerous waters to navigate, like sailing a ship through shallow shoals. Try not to run aground on your way to docking in port.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:47 PM
22

Break the fuck up you lily livered coward. Stop fucking around. Go read r/deadbedrooms and see your future if you fail to grow some balls. Cut this bitch shit and end it like a fucking man.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 08:45 AM
7

I can live with a girl with a (reasonably) high n-count if she knows how to fuck. If she can fuck better than most, I can accept her experience as a necessary prerequisite to being fantastic in bed. I can’t allow girls with high n-counts if they suck in bed. That’s the fastest way to get me to bail. I’ve also been with girls with low n-counts and they have no idea what they’re doing. They’re tame as fuck, and bore the shit out of me.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 04:55 PM
1

What is enough money to be considered multigenerational wealth? And what do you do once you’ve achieved it, or if you are the beneficiary of it?
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:38 PM
1

Why? Curious. What does an interest in threesomes indicate that makes her ineligible for LTR?
/r/askTRP13/08/18 10:29 PM
9

You will have it again. Look for the next thing. You’ll miss out if you’re too focused on repeating this specific sexual experience. It’ll happen again, just believe it, and let go of the stress of making it happen literally right now.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 06:50 AM
25

70% of this post comes across to me as extreme mate guarding. Definitely agree with the need for abundance mentality, and the like, but the main emotion I get from this is fear. Fear of losing her to Chad. Which seems incompatible with abundance and doing things for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 07:50 PM
42

You can’t operate constantly afraid of losing your girl to “Chad”, that’s a completely useless mindset. There is some truth to what you admire in someone, was likely taught by someone else. My ex girlfriend bought a motorcycle and rides it around town and all over her Instagram. People think she’s badass and a rebel. I taught her how to ride. I helped her get that bike. I got it serviced.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 07:40 PM
2

You’re fine.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 05:31 PM
1

Check, check, check.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 01:23 PM
17

Weak men create hard times, hard times create strong men. Cycle of life, I suppose...
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 04:19 AM
18

Sure, but you can improve it. Your personality is something you 'are' too, but it's more empowering and usefully accurate to frame it as something you 'have', because it's easier to think of changing something you 'have' vs. something you 'are'.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 01:16 AM
2

Yes, I'm willing to find out. What's your hard truth?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 01:06 AM
1

So fucked, but it seems to me you’re correct. Sad for the future.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 12:14 AM
13

So what the fuck can be done to reverse this decline? Serious question. What has to happen now?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 11:04 PM
1

If she steps back one foot, you step back two.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:26 AM
13

This reads like a monopoly card. ...you are now the tribe leader! Collect $200!
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:24 AM
3

Build a company, help people in need, explore space. It’s your decision. Self actualize.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:16 AM
1

Do whatever amuses you. If you enjoy doing things out in the world, bars, comedy shows, nature walks, whatever, and would enjoy being with a companion, then do it, because YOU want to be doing it. If you start going out because you feel like you ‘have to’ or to check off some box, it will show, and your plate will drop faster. If you’d be happier with the show up and fuck routine, then do that. What’s attractive isn’t what specifically you’re doing, it’s how you’re doing it, it’s for whom — YOU.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 05:44 AM
1

I think you can hold frame and still be polite when cancelling. Usually that means giving a reason. If you don’t, they may be forced to hate you in order to compensate for the bruise to their ego. Anything past that, like profuse explanation or apology, then you can talk about dropping frame.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:34 AM
4

It is the culture of America. Gatekeepers like the media and tech companies, Twitter, Google, Reddit etc. have fully embraced the hypersensitive wokeness of the “progressive” Left, and forced this tyranny as mainstream culture, even if many average folk are against it. That’s the big joke. Trump, Rogen, Peterson, anyone fed up with regressive leftism is now the counter culture.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:31 AM
2

Hahahaha Christ.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:26 AM
1

If you don’t have to work hard any more, and it’s easy to satisfy your vices, how do you force yourself to do better, specifically?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 09:24 PM
8

This was completely inevitable. You have some good thoughts but I think you’re way overthinking it. She started dating you at 19. You successfully maintained a relationship for YEARS after. It’s obvious to me that at some point she’ll feel a need to experience other people, especially as other circumstances in her life change and evolve.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 01:41 PM
3

Seems like you’re a very useful beta orbiter. The holding hands shit is not building attraction, it’s killing it, especially before you’ve ever had sex with her. You’re demonstrating boyfriend behavior, which is dependable and safe, and wonderful for girls who feel alone after a break up and want attention. It isn’t hot though, and doesn’t make them want to fuck you. They also don’t need to give sex because you’re giving everything they want already, they’ve already won you. Plus, you’ve even go…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:17 PM
3

Make friends. Make friends and go out with them, and meet other people. Follow where the night takes you. That's it.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 07:33 PM
13

For men it’s a combination of looks, height, wealth, background, job, intelligence, pedigree, hobbies, influence etc. For women it’s like 80% looks.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:27 PM
3

High SMV wave their dick around school, figuratively. Also the best response is agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:02 PM
2

Could do this, but go funny instead of serious. "Commanding. Wear a bunny costume."
/r/askTRP17/07/18 09:42 PM
1

If you're offering your time, which is how I read it, it seems to be more from a position of power. 'I'm offering you the chance to spend time with me', sort of thing.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:45 PM
1

I like this... feel smooth.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:10 PM
1

Make her decide. "What do you think?" A flip... very nice. Fnord -- you're truly a genius with this. Do you see any downsides to someone else's suggestion of "Offering ;)"
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:20 PM
7

Find people you legitimately like talking too.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 11:40 PM
3

How do you know when to settle down with that one girl? 6 months ago I came here after a rough break up. TRP got me over it, and literally allowed me to thrive in a relatively short period of time. I have 3 wonderful plates, which I never had before, but I feel the pressure of juggling these relationships. Like you said it’s hard to say no. Do you just keep building and breaking plates until someone “special” comes along? A year ago I would have been comfortable getting into a relationship with …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 04:18 PM
1

Find some Jordan Peterson talks on the subject. Here's one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C3oO8yz2RJk
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:36 PM
2

Same boat. It seems to me they really all have issues, diagnosed or not. As if there's some kind of psychological trauma barrier all girls must pass through before 25. I cannot find ANYONE who doesn't have some kind of disorder. Seriously. I think it has to be a unique product of the times.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:34 PM
1

I’m trying to figure out the balance between giving in to what’s being asked (more time, attention, affection, whatever) making them feel secure, yet holding enough back to maintain interest. I guess this is the push pull mechanic.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 07:31 PM
24

Make suggestions that require effort and they will fuck off
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:47 PM
2

Focus on your mission. You already knew the answer. 90% of the benefit of TRP is getting to the point you’re at now, where sex has lost its scarcity based value, and you can finally focus on what does bring lasting fulfillment.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 07:53 AM
1

It's a joke.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:08 PM
1

Go for the meet always. Some variation of — If you forgot, meet me Thursday for drinks. 8pm...
/r/askTRP25/06/18 05:30 AM
3

Just dread for now.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:38 AM
24

Now you understand why they are good at math and sciences.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:38 AM
6

What does this mean
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:37 AM
-1

Kids do better in a married home. Just choose the right partner.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 08:59 PM
2

It depends on the specific person, which should go without saying. But you can’t expect undying commitment just because someone said I love you.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 05:42 PM
2

If she didn't say it to your face while looking into your eyes, than it actually doesn't matter at all. And even if she had, it still just means, I feel strongly for you, right now, for now.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 03:55 PM
3

Relax. It’s going to be completely fine.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 03:32 AM
2

Try improv classes
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:51 AM
9

'I get extra pay at my call center if I bring in new numbers'
/r/askTRP12/06/18 04:19 AM
6

For one she definitely checked who watched her story so she knows you already did. If it were me I would have just replied to it with a 😝 or something, and then said let’s meet up this thursday
/r/askTRP05/06/18 01:06 PM
9

Did she put it up cause you said something funny or because she was laughing at how creepy you are and trying to publicly shame you?
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:17 AM
1

Do not sleep or even flirt with your friends prom date, no matter what. Don’t ask if you can. If he suggests that you can, still do not. One night, one girl is not worth causing issues over. Take a date of your own. Ask her to suggest a couple friends of hers.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 02:28 PM
70

Second to last panel is the moment the red pill hits.
/r/MGTOW30/05/18 08:57 PM
2

Join the military.
/r/MGTOW30/05/18 03:22 PM
10

My girlfriend broke up with me, blocked me on all social media and filed a restraining order. Do I soft next or dread?!
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:06 PM
2

They hate them, and also need them. These nice guys are usually clueless conditioned men that live in blue pill fantasies and freak out when being nice doesn’t get them what they actually want. That’s funny in a pathetic way no matter how you look at it. The nice guy is the ultimate feminist wet dream because they can be easily controlled. And then once they’re there, you just have to laugh at how sad they are. It’s hypocritical for sure. Most people don’t know what they want, or why they want i…
/r/askTRP27/05/18 12:26 AM
49

Fake fasting. Keep the drama level low.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 07:29 AM
-2

The lord and savior complex OMG LETS MAKE HIM OUR LORD AND SAVIOR is as basement dwelling as it gets. What kind of adult with normal testosterone levels says something like that? It’s the guy with that classic open mouth, help me function in society, face. I stand by my comment. I like Patrice, but holy shit... let’s definitely get into an argument over what is pathetic.
/r/MGTOW18/05/18 05:05 PM
-5

“Lord and savior..”. Juvenile soyboy language.
/r/MGTOW18/05/18 03:23 PM
3

I used to get angry and yell or say hurtful things. What I realized is that this is a win for whomever I’m speaking to. The woman would act a certain way and I’d get frustrated with the behavior, and we’d get into an argument, and I’d get angrier and angrier until I exploded and said something that was hard to come back from. As someone who likes to win, realizing that to argue is actually to lose, gave me the tools to walk away. You cannot win an argument with most women. The point seems to be …
/r/askTRP17/05/18 01:24 PM
1

You didn’t understand my question.
/r/MGTOW17/05/18 01:06 PM
10

In what context could a man ever admit to abusing a woman, and somehow it is presented to elicit sympathy??
/r/MGTOW17/05/18 06:33 AM
3

That’s kind of the whole trick, really. If you’re acting a certain way ‘just to get girls’, no matter what you’re doing, you’re a beta, falling into pedestal traps by the very nature of the motivation of your behavior. As soon as you do things FOR YOU, for your own benefit ... now you’re actually, legitimately attractive, instead of just pretending like you are and hoping they don’t notice you’re faking until after you fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 06:09 AM
3

Every time I go to a new page, the left side menu bar comes up. Slows me down and frustrates the hell out of me.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 06:04 AM
2

Just know when to get off the ride. These girls are great at sucking you in and getting you hooked to the point that they control you.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 10:36 AM
6

Here are your options: Don’t disclose, and spend time meeting people who in most cases will be annoyed and turned off immediately. Keep in mind, they’re not simply turned off at your height, they’re turned off because you immediately and viscerally do not satisfy the impossible idea of you they’ve dreamed up. Disclose, and have less options for dates (which is not the same as less dates), and meet people who have an accurate expectation and thus will not be turned off when their idea of you meet…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 04:14 PM
6

The other subs are infiltrated by feel-good coddlers, white knights, SJWs, agenda pushers, reality-deniers or brainwashed ignorant sheep. Subs like this, or Peterson, get to the heart of the matter, with little regard for how you FEEL about it. We live here in reality, not in the land of make believe. We do not care about what’s fair, only what IS. And we don’t care how that makes people feel! So no time wasted being P.C.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 02:25 PM
5

Not sure if TRP is declining, but I think it’s clear that blue pill is increasing. Political correctness, group think, identity politics, virtue signaling, etc., seems to be spiking, though I don’t think it will last.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 03:08 PM
2

I’ve gone through the comments. I don’t see an unfair mob attack. The general consensus is that you’re probably doing something wrong, but there isn’t enough context or detail for anyone to tell you what that is. The only thing anyone can say, is that you’re probably coming across differently than you think. People don’t usually attack someone or call someone creepy. So likely, it isn’t them, but something you’re doing. That is to say, somehow you’re coming across as creepy. That could be false,…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:59 PM
3

It’s a fair question to ask. What you’re describing is really strange. What’s that phrase... If everyone you meet is an asshole, then you’re the asshole. This girls behavior of calling you a creep has no explanation. So we can either question how effective you are at reading yourself and others, which is fair considering none of us know you, or we can agree this is weird and unusual, with no obvious reason for happening.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:18 PM
5

We can deduce what it means through reason and contextual clues. Earlier in his post he writes “mental point of origin”. Good guess that’s what MPO stands for. Then he says ‘ make yourself and your own good the only driver of your actions ‘. Thus, we can assume that MPO is a term to identify your mental point of origin, or the perspective that drives your action. We don’t want HER to be your MPO, we want you and your own well being to be your MPO.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:55 PM
331

Men are biologically programmed to pursue women, often above all else. If you put women in an environment with young men, the men will become focused on gaining the attention of the women. They will not care for building bonds between each other. Competition for her attention will be the focus. In some places, that's perfectly fine. Summer camp is great for that. But that wasn't the point of the Boy Scouts. The point of the Boy Scouts was to strengthen specific skills in males and encourage coop…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 10:46 PM
1

Definitely help him disengage and care less about social media, or at least start the process of disengagement. I wouldn’t frame it as Redpilling, at least not in the context of this sub, it doesn’t help him much to teach about hypergamy and SMV, etc., at least not yet. But show him studies about social media making people depressed. Find the videos of people saying how pointless it is. Here’s a good one. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.washingtonpost.com/amphtml/news/the-switch/wp/2017/12/12/f…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 02:10 PM
1

No, that’s off an asktrp from some weeks ago. Wish I had known about the group earlier. I’m mostly out of the woods now.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:21 AM
1

It was intense. I wrote this on another post recently: I’ve dealt with this exact type. Down to the T. If you’re not careful, it’s easy to develop feelings, and then you’re fucked. Their behavior makes no sense and you will drive yourself crazy trying to understand why she is acting a certain way, and how your behavior is triggering these responses. Why is she asking to go home this weekend and meet my parents and then the next weekend is blowing me off and going off the grid? Why is she offerin…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 11:39 PM
1

Yes. You get it. What was that Reddit group you mentioned?
/r/askTRP02/05/18 11:13 PM
1

True, but you don’t know you’re doing it as it’s happening. You allow the process, misguided, believing that by doing things for her, being there for her, you’re strengthening the bond. The fucked up fact of it all, is that in most cases, that just isn’t how attraction works. Especially if there’s SMV flux.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 09:58 PM
1

I was so close to going under too. They’re impossible. But the girl does things in bed no one else can do. I know, I’ve slept with others since...
/r/askTRP02/05/18 09:53 PM
1

I guess my question is what is there to do now. Did I play this intelligently, do I continue playing it, etc. thanks fnord. Love your input.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 07:37 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 07:35 PM
1

Yes. Diagnosed.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 07:35 PM
2

Ignore the guy, speak directly to the girl, and say “you’re too pretty to be with an insecure loser.” and skate away.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 02:04 PM
3

You wouldn’t be here. And you would likely not understand the mechanics of why girls like you. Things like hypergamy, SMV, ‘you are the prize’, none of these things would be defined to you, they would be too obvious, there would be no need to know these words or definitions.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 01:45 PM
5

BPD woman brought me here / red pill too. Their behavior is so irrational, you have to look for answers somewhere, and these forums are the only place to find them.
/r/MGTOW30/04/18 05:35 AM
2

As soon as your behavior indicates that you *have* to be in this relationship, that you're living in a scarcity mindset, she will either lose interest or start to beta bux you.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 02:36 AM
1

Look into Dread Game. That’s what you need right now. I’d say, consider this as an opportunity to learn and experiment. Try for a week or two to fix this, if for no other reason than to practice this stuff. You can always Next her if it’s not working.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 01:08 PM
7

“You weren’t spending enough time with me.” Could mean many things. Could be exactly that. Could also mean in the time we were spending together, you were boring, unchallenging, etc.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 01:12 AM
2

Good luck. This shit doesn’t always work. If they get used to a certain power dynamic, it can be hard to go back. But the alternative, continuing down that road, is a nightmare. If it doesn’t work out, if she doesn’t respond to dread, it’s probably time to move on.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 05:48 AM
2

When I was about 10, he told me not to argue with my mom, even if she was being irrational, she would not see my points, and it would just be miserable for both of us. At 10, I basically had to be the adult.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 05:40 AM
4

Look into dread. Seems to be what you need. Backing off doesn’t look butt hurt if you’re actually moving from a negative stimulus (her action) to a positive stimulus (something that’s good to you, the gym, a friend, work, a hobby) etc. The idea is that she will see you gravitating towards a positive, and so, she will become positive to get back your attention. You don’t react negatively or angrily, or whatever, you just neutrally shift attention to something that makes you happy.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 05:23 AM
2

Could be a validation thing. Got what she needed and that’s that.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 04:51 AM
2

It’s never a loss if you learn from it!
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:29 AM
2

Saying I’m busy is so transparent. You’re clearly butthurt. You should have responded 4 hours later saying yeah, why?
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:02 PM
2

What a perfect analogy.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:12 PM
3

If you want to learn how to dance so you don’t chase plates away, then you’re changing a behavior for someone else, and that change is rooted in scarcity and fear. Meaning you’re DOA. Learn to dance to other music because you want to fucking get loose to shit you don’t usually listen to. Do it for YOU. Then watch a couple concert videos and see how people move to hip hop, country, or whatever. Or better yet, do whatever the hell feels good and natural to you, and dgaf.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 12:03 AM
5

Touch it, you buy it. Easy on the merchandise. Yeah, it’s real. Aka a joke.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 11:55 PM
2

You are only ready for trp when you find it yourself. Do not take him here, he is not ready.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 11:53 PM
1

Yup. Right with you. If you’re lucky you come out more aware. If you’re not lucky, you could waste years of your life trapped a n unhealthy cycle of behavior that slowly kills you. If you’re not lucky, you get an STI from when she cheats, or sleeps with someone unsafe, or you get her pregnant and she OWNS you. The lesson is worthwhile I think, to a point. I thank God I got out before my life could be ruined. There were some close calls.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 07:51 PM
2

Not enough context. If you made plans and are now backing out, then maybe she’s mad because you’re betraying an agreement? I’d be made at my SO too if they pulled something like that. From her perspective she should probably next you because this appears to be a massive failing of a comfort test that you set up yourself to fail. You made this trap for yourself to fall into. If she doesn’t see a future, if she thinks your relationship is going backwards, she is going to bail unless she’s absolute…
/r/askTRP21/04/18 04:29 PM
2

Whether you know it or not, you are gearing up to go deep sea diving with sea monsters. Keep your spear sharp and your headlamp on. We’ll pump you oxygen from the boat. Make it back here alive, whatever it takes. Avoid getting lost in the dark.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 02:39 PM
11

I’ve dealt with this exact type. Down to the T. If you’re not careful, it’s easy to develop feelings, and then you’re fucked. Their behavior makes no sense and you will drive yourself crazy trying to understand why she is acting a certain way, and how your behavior is triggering these responses. Why is she asking to go home this weekend and meet my parents and then the next weekend is blowing me off and going off the grid? Why is she offering to cook me dinner tonight but tomorrow she won’t answ…
/r/askTRP21/04/18 09:42 AM
2

Seems like you’re over thinking it and triggering an anxiety. You can’t have blood in your head and dick at the same time. Just relax and stop thinking about this for a bit.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 09:31 AM
1

“You’re a pussy.” “Oh you think I’m afraid of you?” “Yeah...” “Oh I’m so terrified.” — as you get on top and start taking off her clothes.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 06:21 AM
1

If she stays on her phone... then you’re just waiting. Seems pretty beta. Run into this a few times. Still haven’t found the best way to deal.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 06:14 AM
2

Id be freaked out if she was at Maroon 5 concert and didn’t freak out about the lead singer. I’m reminded of that creepy girlfriend meme. ‘No babe you’re better than Adam Levine..” That’s creepy and reveals some deep scary shit. It’s normal she’s into a rockstar. Just have fun and don’t let it get to you.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 06:03 AM
4

That isn’t interest in you buddy. You have a lot to learn. Serious question, are you possibly autistic? The fact that you wrote so much is frightening. It’s abnormal and demonstrates some kind of cognitive disconnect. I don’t think you’re able to predict other people’s behavior, given that you presumably expected someone to read all of that. Go work out, get in shape, stop over analyzing, stop overthinking. Care MUCH less than you do. Clear your mind. Maybe learn to meditate. And take fucking ca…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:02 PM
1

It seems unfair to criticize your response. It’s fine. She showed way too much interest too early, she either scared herself, felt embarrassed, or is so emotionally fickle that she either fell in “like” with someone else, or simply went 180 degrees and lost interest for you, through no fault of your own. Sucks when a sure thing falls apart. Keep your head up.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 09:36 PM
2

So fucking with you here, you have no idea.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 03:14 AM
10

I'm in the same place. This subreddit opened my eyes to what's happening. When she values you its like you're an absolute God, and it's the best feeling in the world. So when she goes cold, it's so confusing, and I would find myself fighting to attract her again. It was a constant battle, and drained all of my energy. I would 'lose' one week, get bailed on or disrespected, and then 'win' the next weekend, she'd be blowing up my phone, and I kept trying to understand WHY and adjust my behavior. I…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 03:11 AM
7

I had a great relationship with a plate for the past few months and I actually started to like spending time with her. If we're to trust everything that's said here, 'actually starting to like her' probably influenced your behavior and made you unattractive in some way. Maybe the validation was all she was after.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:23 AM
1

You’re either trolling/joking, or autistic. If you’re autistic and actually serious, here’s the bottom line. Unfriend her block her on everything and move on.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:30 AM
5

Because you friended your oneitis. “Hi I put a gun in my mouth and pulled the trigger and now I’m dead. Suggestions?”
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:20 AM
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