carlenvirgo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other?	Discussion	carlenvirgo	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 04:25 PM
8	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs.	Discussion	carlenvirgo	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 12:24 AM
3	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex”		carlenvirgo	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 04:51 PM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex?		carlenvirgo	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 08:45 PM
0	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective.	Discussion	carlenvirgo	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 07:20 PM
0	Men fighting for women	CMV	carlenvirgo	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 01:46 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Do you guys even like women? Why? They resent women.. if they say they hate them, then they protect themselves from rejection. They are their own worst enemies. The very thing they are being arrogant about, won’t attract a woman. So they spew venom about women so that they feel validated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 11:44 PM
–	The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are. Another study should be done to identify the reasons why women decide to ignore profile messages. They are usually disrespectful, sexually explicit, rude, selfishly displayed, undermining to boundaries, and sometimes in poor language vernacular. I could have swiped left on look’s maybe, but then that same guy couldn’t have won my attention by saying the right words. The generation of men that seem to sabotage the dating game, starts at the millennial generation. Poor social interaction. It’s a l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 10:39 PM
-2	The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are. I hate to tell you, that’s reality. Bottom line, if you want the flower 🌺 , you have to work for it. It’s good for ya. This is what males have done since the beginning of humanity and so does every other mammal in the kingdom. Why do you think your different? You could easily find guys on Grinder app and pick your position if you want. Lots of straight guys do that now and it’s considered normal. In fact it’s so normal that their are more straight guys that call themselves bisexual then their ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:02 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. It’s all good. It’s just been so negative between men and women that I can’t make sense of it. Men hate women and why? They hate them so much. I feel like it’s deep rooted pain from childhood. They blame their mothers ( that were single parents) for the fact they couldn’t get fatherly love. Therefore they are out having sex with dudes to please daddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 10:04 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Sexual arousal is measurable? People say romantic love is measurable too.. It’s about perceptions that people have which are widely varying. Lots of men that identity as homosexual are still attracted to the opposite sex. Lots of guys that identify as straight can enjoy anal by a man. By no means does it imply he can be intimate. What would you call someone like myself that can’t compartmentalize love and sex.? I don’t see how one can exist without the other.. Lots of men especially don’t agree …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 09:55 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. There’s a huge difference between sexual attraction and romantic attraction. Not everyone can do both. The term bisexual is an umbrella term for a very wide spectrum. Some homosexuals have had sexual relations with the opposite sex and have fallen in love with the opposite sex yet prefer the same sex. Some people in homosexual relationships aren’t homosexual according to the bisexual definition… This is why the LGBTQA+ keeps expanding definitions.. there’s several different nuances	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 09:35 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. In otherwords, he’s not changing what he reports his actions to be.. he’s simply saying what they are. There’s nothing unreliable about that. Social constructs just try to dictate what people’s actions label them as.. not the people themselves.. Some just conform to social constructs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 06:49 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. The term bisexual was a created sexual identity. People can identify how they want. It’s not a medical diagnosis.. lol What makes self reported studies unreliable? I could see that for transgenderism but not for sexuality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 06:47 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Ok, do you think falling for a man is a better idea, a better life or if you had fallen for a man, would your desire for a female start to take over? He said, he can’t have romantic feelings towards men. He doesn’t even like identifying as bisexual but society says that even engaging with sex automatically makes you bisexual. He completely disagrees with that definition. He said men are just easier for casual encounters. He needed that after his divorce.. Quality women don’t have casual sex typi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 06:45 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Honestly if dating men is better than continue on with what makes you feel fulfilled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 06:39 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. What does delusional standards mean? Are you saying that the simplistic, low quality standards that men have are all that’s real? Lol Because we actually don’t settle for half assed? Please explain	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 06:38 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Duality relationships are simpler. Men are simpler than women, period.. Men are compartmentalized and operate in one box at a time. Women are much more fluid and actually we have more crossings in our brain. It’s the way we evolved. We have an extra link on our chromosome. That means we are compromised of more and more data. We aren’t annoyed at men for being difficult, we are frustrated with the simplicity. The man is the alpha ABC.. meaning the beginning The female is the omega XYZ.. meaning t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 06:16 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. I’m not confused. There’s a huge array of gray area in the bisexual category all by itself. This is why the LGBTQA+ just keeps adding categories. The reason why bisexual men are in a low percentage is because some don’t identify as bisexual, some can’t romantically identify with men, yet they have sex with them secretly, some are only attracted to femininity, so they tend to be more biromantic. Then there’s everything in between. Most women and very feminine gay guys cannot compartmentalize love…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 04:56 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. So you’re bi romantic. Lots of bi guys aren’t bi romantic. In fact, some don’t even identify as bi at all, yet they still like anal sex. Unlike ( most ) women, guys can easily compartmentalize love and sex. Women associate love and sex in most cases. That’s why there’s confusion in the gay male community and lots of resentment towards bisexuals. Truly gay men resent women because of the fact some straight men and bisexual men effect the true gay men emotionally. A straight guy may use an emotion…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 04:37 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Twinks and very feminine gays that never had a woman.. actually have the same limbic system as a woman. There’s evidence to actually back that up. They prefer female friends over male friends and hate heterosexual men. Heterosexual men have bullied and harassed these type of boys even in kindergarten. They have no idea if they even like vagina because they never tried it. So, that said, the same rule would apply to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 04:11 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Right, no one is stopping you from it. Maybe give it a try and you might actually like it. Just like I tell the true twinks that never had a woman but relate better with females.. ( because there are those too ) Actually experience the other and see how it makes you feel .	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 03:34 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. If it makes you miserable to make a woman happy and the only way you can achieve pleasure is through being single, engaging in casual and going on vacation, than that’s your choice but keep in mind it comes with consequences. It might seem fun, exciting and avoiding of the actual work that goes into anything that has sustainable and meaningful. At the end of the day it’s just a shallow skim of what life has to offer. The richness and the depth that goes into true love that isn’t just sex, is bey…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 02:10 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. I get that	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 12:46 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. I didn’t say it was the cause of the fall. I said it was occurring during the time of the fall. When societies are ready to collapse. The natural need to reproduce dissipates. Men have sex with men. It’s occurred throughout history, not just during the fall of the Roman Empire. Plus if you read a psychological reasoning, it’s not necessarily that they identify as bisexual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 12:45 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. I would say that was true even 20 years ago. Men don’t shame other men modernly. People are becoming apathetic and they are losing sight of what’s actually healthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 12:36 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. I just think we are coming to a society collapse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 02:34 AM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. So again, we might as well put a cap on society.. just as it was when the Roman Empire fell..	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 02:32 AM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. So again just proves my point that men are embracing the homosexual side of themselves and because it’s more acceptable, they are engaging in sex with men to avoid the “ work “ that goes into women.. At the point of every collapse of society, this is the case.. just as it was when the Roman Empire collapsed.. It’s natures way of putting the cap on reproducing because the society can’t sustain life in a homeostatic way. Whenever new societies are born people return to gender roles and polarizatio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 02:31 AM
0	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. It’s a big deal when you’re not someone that can compartmentalize love and sex. I can’t have one without the other so I can’t understand how men are able to just get off and not feel like a used vessel. I need love and affection associated with it. I need to feel loved afterwards.. not ok thanks bye bye	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 11:17 PM
1	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. My husband is bisexual and he said he couldn’t fall in love with a man. He can have sex, but not romance.. Question for you? Would you be satisfied never being with another guy? Or is this urge never going away even if your commitment is to a woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 11:15 PM
-1	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Heterosexual female phobia	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 11:11 PM
1	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Again, I keep hearing how much women suck.. if that’s the consensus than it explains why guys are becoming bisexual and choosing guys to have sex with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 11:11 PM
1	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. The thing with that too is people change., just because you were compatible at one point doesn’t mean it stays that way all the time	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 11:09 PM
0	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Right so that said, since it’s so easy for guys to fuck in the men’s room.. men are getting validated by getting men to have sex with and putting less effort into women.. That’s why guys are complaining so much about how difficult women are.. they are too weak to actually love someone and so sex with men it is.. easy and no attachment.. Then we wonder why the sperm count has dramatically decreased in the past 20 years.. men who have sex with men have a lower sperm count statistically..	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 11:07 PM
1	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 11:01 PM
–	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. I find it interesting that my husband was married to a much younger woman prior to me and said it was the biggest mistake of his life.. The immaturity and lack of compatibility was a huge detriment to the marriage. She actually looks older than me too., lol.. fatter etc.. I have a better body and I’m 9 years older.. so younger isn’t necessarily better. And I can assure you I’m not jealous.. it’s actually that she’s jealous of me. The older we get the more self assured we get. Younger women are f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 11:00 PM
1	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. I’m a woman and I actually have been treated far worse by men than women. All of my abusers have been men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 10:54 PM
1	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. I get that but that’s only a temporary part of life..	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 10:52 PM
-1	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Not turning gay entirely but definitely more and more bisexual men are coming out of the woodwork.. they don’t have romantic feelings towards men but they have sex with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 10:51 PM
-1	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Maybe but it seems like you can be friends and sex buddies a lot easier than actually being with women.. since we reached a point of apathy in society, a lot of straight guys are becoming bisexual so they can have sex buddies that validate ego while not crossing women out entirely. Problem is not every man can fall in love with another man in the same way they do a woman.. but for sex alone from what I am finding out, guys are choosing guys for quick and done sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 10:49 PM
1	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. It’s not personal with me alone.. it’s the way males treat males	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 09:29 PM
-5	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Right so men as a whole are turning gay for this reason. It’s simply easier	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 08:46 PM
-1	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Men are less selective with each other too.. that was why gay guys seem to be happier with each other than men are with women. That’s probably why more and more men are turning gay. Society is shutting down. People are just capping out and we eventually won’t have polarity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 08:45 PM
-1	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Think about how messed up society would be if people just acted upon every sexual desire within thinking about consequences.. not just the consequence of unwanted pregnancy and STDs but also the fighting and chaos it would invoke. The the reason sexual immorality became a law 3000 years ago is because of that exact reason. The barbarians were acting like animals just taking whatever they wanted from whomever they wanted. We have law and order for a reason. Sure single people can do what they wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 08:40 PM
-1	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. That’s because men are not shamed for it	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 08:15 PM
0	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. No the Horniness is there whether we act upon it or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 08:07 PM
2	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Women can also be misogynistic.. just like men can hate other men too.. just not as common	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 07:48 PM
2	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Unattractive women resent attractive women.. I actually prefer my girlfriends to be attractive because they don’t compete with me	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 07:47 PM
0	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective. Did you know this is a huge misconception, women are just as horny, we are just far pickier than men. We don’t just fuck anything. Men will have sex with other men just to have sex. We stay aroused for 3 days once we reach arousal.. Men lose arousal rather quickly,	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 07:45 PM
1	Is the idea of being rejected by men you are interested in for shallow reasons hard to accept? Mutual is obvious and to a degree I’ll give the benefit of the doubt.. but just giving it up freely is a sure way to be disrespected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 02:21 PM
1	Is the idea of being rejected by men you are interested in for shallow reasons hard to accept? Being persistent isn’t being dishonest., and being a bit reserved isn’t dishonest either..	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 01:14 PM
1	Is the idea of being rejected by men you are interested in for shallow reasons hard to accept? Speak for yourself in the same way. I’m not giving an enthusiastic yes to someone that didn’t earn my respect. That enthusiasm comes with respect and convincing me that they earned it. I know what I’m worth. Im a hard worker, I’m classy, I’m dignified and I am not half assed in my relationships. By no means do I have to be enthusiastic to someone that hasn’t proved themselves to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 01:09 PM
1	Is the idea of being rejected by men you are interested in for shallow reasons hard to accept? Stalking and being persistent isn’t the same thing, I don’t agree.. Most healthy people will take no for an answer. Persistence is making an effort to get to know someone better, ask them out and try to keep in touch. If tells you they aren’t interested, that means they aren’t interested and any further behavior is too much at that point. We may play hard to get a bit but that’s also healthy. A little persistence is attractive. Stalking is following someone, monitoring them, showing up where the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 11:30 AM
1	Is the idea of being rejected by men you are interested in for shallow reasons hard to accept? Persistence is a different story than just being humiliated. In fact, persistence can sometimes be attractive. I prefer a man to be more persistent. If I rejected someone yet they have perseverance, that might just be what changes my mind. I do understand why that’s a turn off for men though. Persistence is a masculine trait. If a woman acts like that than she could be more masculinized and for some men that’s a turn off. Some men like it. It depends on how masculine the guy is. Women in general…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 10:06 AM
1	Is the idea of being rejected by men you are interested in for shallow reasons hard to accept? People take rejection hard regardless of age, creed, race gender , etc. Rejection is humiliating. Some people are more rejected than others and they are better prepared for it. Some people are continually rejected and some not so often. On a different OP, a guy was writing that younger women’s obnoxiousness and lack of eloquence, lady like behavior and immaturity repulses him and how pissed off they get when he chooses older women.. Another guys OP says he prefers masculine women,, Another guys …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 10:43 PM
–	What is the appeal of younger men (mid 20's) for older women (30's 40's)? I have known men that understand what it means to have self worth, but it’s not something that they have until life experiences occur. Having the strength to be vulnerable, particularly for men is extremely challenging.. not because women have a better capacity to be vulnerable, it’s just socially acceptable for us to be. Biggest mistake of the western world was to shame men and boys that crying is weak.. but teaching them to suppress sadness, until it becomes bitter resentment and anger. Women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 01:53 PM
1	As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stay Problem too is getting married too young. Some people are blessed and get it right the first time. Others of us aren’t and we don’t ever realize that people have to grow and heal before they have the emotional intelligence that’s needed to sustain a healthy relationship. Women modernly are far more likely to serve divorce papers than men are actually, but it’s usually because of the lack of emotional processing that the men have that causes us to want a divorce. It takes men a lot more to get to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 10:13 AM
1	As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stay As a woman on her second marriage I’d say yes it’s security but it’s also hell to end. I had a hell of a time divorcing my x husband. He was refusing to sign the paperwork, wouldn’t show up at mediation and was just trying to make it as difficult as possible. He promised lots beforehand and completely changed when our daughter was born. Not the same person I married. Having kids also brings out childhood trauma in people. It invokes suppressed memories. If they had a neglected childhood, they wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 12:19 AM
1	What is the appeal of younger men (mid 20's) for older women (30's 40's)? In otherwords, men with low self worth, will only approach a woman if he has no respect for her as a human? I would say that’s probably the explanation that when I was at my absolute best, shape, attractiveness, confidence, career, etc, I would get more rejection than when I was overweight and under confident. I dated down after my divorce out of safety. I thought a guy that was less desirable would treat me better but it literally backfired in my face. Less desirable men want safety even more t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/23 09:34 PM
1	What is the appeal of younger men (mid 20's) for older women (30's 40's)? That’s refreshing to hear actually. The women your describing are actually what most men are intimidated by. I’m in a “ pink collar profession” which basically is a professional job dominated by women. I’ll PM if you want details.. lol .. I don’t want a leadership role because I feel those women are more masculinized in the form of aggression. because they have to compete with men for positions. They may act feminine in attire and appeal but not by character. Masculine women that are more rural …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/23 05:49 PM
1	Men get accused of being "shallow" and "just wanting sex" but criticizing women for doing it is "slutshaming" I hear that marriage material is women that respect their bodies yet guys don’t respect women that have high body counts. I then here that slut shaming is a problem. Well your guy friends are doing most of the slut shaming that want virgins.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/23 04:24 PM
1	Why do females only posts pics of themselves and nothing else? There’s no hot women using Reddit? Why would you draw such an ignorant conclusion	/r/AllPillDebate	18/04/23 04:15 PM
1	Why do females only posts pics of themselves and nothing else? Iv seen one complaint about women after another.	/r/AllPillDebate	18/04/23 04:14 PM
1	What is the appeal of younger men (mid 20's) for older women (30's 40's)? It’s interesting to hear a younger man have an appreciation for elegance and class. Because the younger generations are now more androgynous, it seems like anything that is quintessentially feminine is now disregarded or seemingly unattractive. I never thought my lady likeness would be a turn off. My x dumped me for a masculine woman that was unattractive. A lot of men don’t like women to act like women. They prefer a buddy or a guy friend in a female body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/23 04:04 PM
1	Why do females only posts pics of themselves and nothing else? Why is this subreddit a woman hating place.	/r/AllPillDebate	18/04/23 12:47 PM
1	Why do females only posts pics of themselves and nothing else? I beg to differ..	/r/AllPillDebate	18/04/23 12:46 PM
-9	Why do females only posts pics of themselves and nothing else? Because we are hot..	/r/AllPillDebate	18/04/23 12:26 AM
1	It's pointless to even talk to women on here. So it’s determined you hate women. Maybe try men and see if your happier. But be warned, they pump and dump, manipulate, objectify, lie and use just for sex.	/r/AllPillDebate	16/04/23 08:36 PM
0	Fathers work harder overall than mothers on average. They still dominate the work force, but that doesn’t mean they work harder overall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 09:52 PM
1	If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored. This doesn’t just apply to men. It’s not someone else’s job to keep the other entertained. We need to entertain ourselves also. If she’s bored of you, than she’s bored of herself. It’s not personal. It’s not the responsibility of the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 10:31 AM
1	Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort? There was a time when that lifting and heavy anything belonged to the man without question. There are still men that do it, knowing that the woman is physically weaker most of the time. Whether it needs to be highly appreciated or not is up to your digression. I personally feel like it’s just assumed. If I’m stronger than someone, i automatically help lift. I don’t expect anything from it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 07:36 PM
–	Why do women needs groups to discuss terrible men? Are women just that bad at vetting or are men just that terrible? I can only speak upon my own experiences. Iv purposefully been a good woman because I learned that if I were to perpetuate the problems in which I experienced, I’d be part of the problem. It would then be confusing and that’s where gaslighting becomes easier. A lot of men Iv experienced have been straight up angry. I take a route of pacifism, which is not the same as passive aggression. Pacifism is a form of self defense which is different than someone passive aggressive that may provoke fights.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 11:46 AM
1	Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women. I’m not a victim because I don’t display promiscuity and I don’t dress like a whore. As far as splitting the bill.. some of us that have actual careers would love to split the bill, but the guy usually refuses. Yes men date down and it sucks for those who actually have self respect and are willing to pick up the slack. It seems men want needy yet complain about needy. So we have to dumb ourselves down and pretend to be in distress in order to not intimate. We can’t be too beautiful either.. that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 01:22 PM
1	Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women. You’re only called a misogynist when you generalize all women and put us all in the same category. The reason toxic femininity exists is because of misogyny. Men objectify women and have oppressed them therefore women have such low self esteem that they feel the need to objectify themselves for any validation. The misogynist doesn’t respect women. They don’t value a woman’s accomplishments and they lump all women in the same category. Women who use their bodies to manipulate are yes guilty and e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 11:15 AM
1	Do men actually have it better dating wise ? I don’t compartmentalize love and sex. I can’t have sex with someone that I know wants me but doesn’t love me and feel pleasure from it. I felt like a disgusting person the couple of times I experienced it. I felt violated and disgusted with myself for giving myself away to someone that could do it with someone else the next day. I can’t see it any other way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 12:35 AM
1	Do men actually have it better dating wise ? Anything transactional wouldn’t be an option. I honestly view casual sex as transactional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 12:29 AM
1	Do men actually have it better dating wise ? Yes I’m a woman and yes their are women that behave in that manner.. This is a problem for those of us that want to be respected. Sure, casual people should go with other casual people. The problem I have is when I make it clear that casual is not what I’m looking for, I don’t think it’s fair to be lied to just to get sex. Guys want low body count and everything else. They can’t have it both ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 08:27 PM
1	For most men, self-improvement has diminishing returns on their SMV because they’re still competing with the top percentile of men. Your only fulfilled for a short while because your then on to the next one, 4 days later. That’s not fulfilling, that’s an addiction. A drug fulfills too, until it wears off and withdrawal kicks in. Casual sex is using someone as a vessel and a way to avoid committing. It’s a weak and useless means to just get off and ultimately people hate it in the long term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 08:39 AM
1	Do men actually have it better dating wise ? If a man came at me with honesty that he just wants sex. I would be completely appalled. If I gave sex away to someone that doesn’t love me, than how could I possibly not feel objectified? If he comes at me for sex but can’t provide commitment in return, than I exchanged my dignity and allowed my body to be used as a vessel. Just want sex, hire a prostitute. It’s just because they want to be wanted and validated. They don’t care about how that effects the woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 08:29 AM
5	Do men actually have it better dating wise ? It just makes it bad for everyone involved. Men with low self esteem, need sex to feel validated. They are angry at women for not wanting them, they then get resentful and engage in self destructive behaviors. Women in turn, feel used and objectified, therefore either placating the men by sending sexy pictures thinking that’s the only way because it’s expected. It’s a horrible downward spiral and the people that engage in casual sex are just perpetuating the problem. It’s not helping society col…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 09:12 AM
8	For most men, self-improvement has diminishing returns on their SMV because they’re still competing with the top percentile of men. Than they are going down the wrong path of self improvement. They are just seeking validation, which is just going to lead to self sabotage and sex addiction.. it’s not healthy in the slightest. Plus in the end, men that engage in promiscuity, end up with serious mental health issues. They either just become narcissistic only looking for a thrill or they regret that they aren’t getting quality women. If a man can’t commit, he will never obtain self worth untimely. Why? Because the woman he actua…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 08:58 AM
1	For most men, self-improvement has diminishing returns on their SMV because they’re still competing with the top percentile of men. Yes because decent women aren’t easy. And the truth he told you wouldn’t respect us if we did it anyway. That’s why guys lie to good women tricking them into believing that they will commit. Then they get sex and call it a day. They just want to be validated.. nothing else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 08:49 AM
14	For most men, self-improvement has diminishing returns on their SMV because they’re still competing with the top percentile of men. Your not going to find a good woman that takes care of herself using casual sex as an outlet. Women that use casual sex as a regular activity are usually mentally unstable. Men that can’t commit to only one woman are mentally unstable as well. Casual sex even though it’s consensual, is a compartmentalized release that leaves out the emotional connection and never leaves a person feeling fulfilled. People walk away feeling used or guilty for using others. It’s honestly just a compulsive behavior.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 05:05 AM
4	CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD. What data can you provide that they do work? None! Because they don’t work	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 01:51 AM
3	CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD. No I sent you the statistics that I actually read.. there’s several studies and I only read about 2. The studies are the reasons why they fail. The facts that they fail are in the statistics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 01:50 AM
3	CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD. Why is it so difficult to believe that younger women really don’t want old men	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 01:49 AM
2	CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD. https://purposedrivenlawyers.com/age-gap-and-marriage/ There’s lots of studies to back up reasoning also. I don’t pull statistics out of my ass. That’s actually documented facts. If you want to see for yourself, just go to the court house. The proof is there	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 01:47 AM
3	CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD. It’s simple to measure.. the divorce statistics are right at the county court house. It’s easy information to obtain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 01:40 AM
3	CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD. They looked at the divorce rate and the age gap. The subjects were asked reasons why the marriage failed. Boredom and lack of compatibility were the 2 main reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 01:39 AM
3	CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD. There’s several reasons why high age gap marriages don’t usually work. Studies suggest it’s due to boredom on the younger persons part and the reasons they got into the high age gap was not sustainable in the first place. The older person becomes exhausted and the activity rate rarely sustains compatibility. It’s just the facts. Honestly it makes perfect sense why they wouldn’t be successful long term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 01:07 AM
4	CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD. Have you read statistics on the failure rate of high age gap marriages? When a couple has a one-year age difference, they have just a 3% likelihood of divorce. A five-year age gap means the couple is 18% more likely to divorce. That rises to 39% for a 10-year age difference. When the couple has a 20-year age gap, the likelihood of divorce rises to 95%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 01:04 AM
2	CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD. As an older adult woman I see younger women as far more mature than younger men. Men in general aren’t as emotionally intelligent. Young men in general, would rather have sex and use women of all ages, rather than commit. Older men that chase younger women are looking for ego validation because they are getting older, losing their ability to perform and use their finances as a tool to buy women into sleeping with them as well as using them as a trophy. Younger men that chase older women are gene…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/23 11:37 PM
–	If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women. So that said, there’s not a single man on earth that actually likes women for the people that we are? We are just sex objects and nothing else? That’s beyond pathetic and actually it’s not true. Not all men are pieces of shit. Some men actually respect women as people..	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/23 10:21 AM
1	Given we are living in an age of sexual liberation and mutual promiscuity; why is there still a narrative that men “use” woman for sex? My take is that I was completely clear on my dating profile that I was not interested in casual.. so if someone is and has no intentions on continuing on with me, do NOT try and have sex with me. If I know that it’s only “ sex “ it doesn’t feel good at all to me then. The pleasure goes away if the guy doesn’t love and respect me. He’s not going to please me because he refuses to connect with me enough to do that. There’s a huge difference between just sex and making love. If your open and blesse…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 03:13 PM
2	What is the appeal of younger men (mid 20's) for older women (30's 40's)? I’m an older woman and when I was dating, I was completely floored by the amount of younger guys that wanted to date me. I was told of course that they were only interested in sex and it was a fetish. I look good for my age. I was not going to be able to do it because I personally felt inadequate. I felt like even though I’m mature, intelligent, self assured and life experience, this would have strongly upset my daughter. It would have robbed him the opportunity to have a family. I don’t think a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/23 03:49 PM
1	Why do so many men here obsess over that some men get women more easily than them? First off misandry is secondary to misogyny. We would never have needed to work as women if men were able to provide on one income. What exactly do you think the problem is? Fighting against women isn’t going to be the answer to your problems. You’ll just end up in the default pile. We don’t get turned on by red pill. We literally find it appalling. Blue pill men will end up happy. Always getting laid and everything else you want will back fire if you fight against us. Why? Because while your ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 03:03 PM
10	Your value doesn't increase with the more women you sleep with I look at guys with high body count as dogs. Most of us don’t want them. We aren’t more compelled to be with them	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 12:38 PM
6	Men don’t care about women’s career? The above comment shows itself with the, “ she ain’t gonna buy me shit anyway “ Low socioeconomic mentality	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 09:47 PM
4	Men don’t care about women’s career? Uneducated men don’t care about a woman’s career because they don’t value education. Educated men prefer educated women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 09:46 PM
3	Hookers customers are the equivalent of promiscuous women Promiscuousness in either gender is a bad idea and only done to fill a void. Prostitution just gives promiscuous people an opportunity to make money off it. The people that couldn’t be promiscuous even if they wanted to, are the ones that pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 06:24 PM
1	The idea that men's dating issues is merely the result of them having to treat women as an equal now is to reductive and dismissive of their actual dating issues. There’s no delusion in documented facts. All stated as such	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/23 04:32 PM
3	The idea that men's dating issues is merely the result of them having to treat women as an equal now is to reductive and dismissive of their actual dating issues. That’s a solution too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/23 02:06 AM
3	The idea that men's dating issues is merely the result of them having to treat women as an equal now is to reductive and dismissive of their actual dating issues. That’s called prostitution. If that’s what you want then call a sex worker. By no means is my body for sale based on a free dinner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/23 01:33 AM
1	The idea that men's dating issues is merely the result of them having to treat women as an equal now is to reductive and dismissive of their actual dating issues. Women have always been picker, so that hasn’t changed. Men have always had to do the work In courtship as nature in the entire animal kingdom which is exactly what they need in order to produce enough testosterone. Men have always fought for women and the fact men are now fighting against women is ridiculously unattractive and bleeds a femininity among modern men that that actually act more like women than women modernly. That said, there’s a androgyny among genders modernly that for the more fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/23 12:02 AM
1	People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing today It’s honestly more of a state by state than anything else. It used to be that America was actually united. Now every state has contradictory policies that justifies where money is spent to the agenda. I lived in NY most of my life where the taxes were so ridiculous that no working person could afford a house. So I moved to FL 10 years ago. Although Florida has low taxes, it absolutely shows in the lack that goes into education and anything regarding the future and the small businesses have so ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/23 11:03 PM
1	People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing today Are they more ungrateful than the modern day “ it’s not fair “, “ what about me” mentality. I’m going out on a limb and I’m gen X that the millennial and gen z mentality is 100% my generation X fault. I’m not gonna blame boomers because they still had the save money mentality. My gen x can’t wrap their heads around the fact that we are worse off than our parents.. and so we wanted our kids to feel special even when they haven’t got off their I pad in weeks. We created the absolute disgusting dis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 12:57 AM
1	People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing today The policies line up with party agendas. Neither here nor there, no one could have seen this coming.. it literally blindsided them. My parents were preparing me to live in a world that they lived. I was not prepped appropriately at all for what actually happened. I was treated like an old paradigm girl in which I was not expecting to provide.. guess what? Iv been a provider my entire adult life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 05:54 PM
1	People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing today If you give people of any generation an inch, they will take a mile.. that’s what happened with the boomers. My generation X has literally experienced leaps and bounds from what my boomer parents told me it would be. They were distracted and blindsided	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 05:04 PM
1	People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing today So what would you do right now that you could be certain of the outcome in 20-30 years? Especially when we have no real idea what’s happening behind the curtain	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 05:02 PM
1	People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing today Your asking the Boomer generation to have been able to predict the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 02:06 PM
1	People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing today The Republican candidates at that time period, would have been democratic today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 01:27 PM
1	People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing today You should know that the peoples vote is meaningless. Plus we can’t blame the vote for the actions of the government. They all paint a great picture prior to election.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 01:26 PM
1	People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing today The system failed when loans were given out undeservedly. When people were given astronomical credit limits who couldn’t pay and when corporations decided to cut wages just to make themselves richer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/23 09:41 PM
2	People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing today We are the first to be worse off than our parents yes.. but it’s the system that failed, not the people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/23 09:39 PM
2	To advise men to "just be confident" is useless. We just underwork and overthink today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/23 05:32 PM
6	People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing today Every generation blames the one before.. the boomers blamed the WW2 generation who blamed the WW1 generation, who blamed the pioneers, who blamed the Native Americans who blamed the white man ( British) who blamed the Spaniards, who blamed the British again.. It’s always a blame game to avoid accountability. Also keep in mind the party platforms are not at all similar to how they were years ago. Republicans and conservatives used to be wealthy.. democrats and liberals used to be poor. Yes they o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/23 04:59 PM
1	How can a man attain power and status, to be more attractive? Are you unattractive? The way your making it seem is as though you are not attractive at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/23 04:37 PM
1	How can a man attain power and status, to be more attractive? Attractiveness comes in many forms and it’s arbitrary to the beholder. We don’t all find the same things attractive. I’m actually turned off by high muscle mass and arrogance. I think high levels of vanity is unattractive. I’d prefer someone deep and spiritual.. someone that has artistry. Someone that feels. Shallow meathead men seem like primates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/23 11:12 AM
1	How can a man attain power and status, to be more attractive? Power and status is only attractive to people who are shallow and money hungry. In the long run, it’s really not what matters. What matters is love and commitment. There’s so much more to a person than that. Why not just become who you want to be and the right person will want you for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/23 08:37 AM
1	Try to meet women organically isn't working for me and I need some advice... If dating apps haven’t worked for you, you can try meet up groups, churches, gyms, definitely yoga studios. Bars and clubs at one point in time were good, modernly coffeehouses, book stores and places that women go. I would say be subtle in your approach. Say something funny or charming. Maybe hand her your number instead of asking. See if you can find one that’s by herself as opposed to in a group. Another way is take a class that women might take. Show her you’ll be willing to do things she do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/23 12:59 PM
1	Do women cheat at a higher rate than men? Not necessarily	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 01:01 AM
8	Do women cheat at a higher rate than men? Women have a higher potential to cheat because we have more willing participants. But because we generally prefer long term relationships, we don’t seek out cheating opportunities as often. We don’t need as much validation as men do because we continually get validation by aggressively sexual men	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/23 05:35 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. In order for men to produce adequate testosterone levels, they have to work and perform. They have to exert energy to achieve a mate. That said, we have men that are not willing to work because it’s just too high maintenance to actually court a woman, they instead, use toxic masculine tactics accompanied by toxic feminine tactics to get a piece of ass. The sperm count has dropped drastically in the last 20 years. Why? Because they aren’t producing enough testosterone. Women now have to compensat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 02:21 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. 🙏🏻 absolutely	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 02:13 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. I absolutely have evidence that that family values have been broken down to a minimum.. people don’t commit because the first moment they realize actual work is involved in relationships, they flee to the next person, only to repeat the same toxic patterns over and over. They never have to take accountability, therefore not a single lesson is learned. Little by little, bit by bit, we keep lowering the standards.. obesity is fine, toxic/ selfish relationships are fine, as long as they are falsely…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 02:12 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. I care because it effects the entirety of humanity.. not just the people involved. I care because it bleeds over into what is sacred. Sacredness is no longer existent. Everything is just a mish mosh of anything goes and that’s ok. I’m being told that I’m the problem for wanting self respect and that my values are a problem.. That’s why I care. Believe me, I know I’m now in the minority and that people who think like me are being phased out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 10:35 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. //There’s nothing wrong with crashing and building up a new system /// That’s actually what needs to happen The lack of family values and support has study after study with evidence based causing negative effects. We can strive for the top of the needs hierarchy but just like every celebrity and wealthy person, it’s never enough.. and love is really the only thing that matters.. People don’t Value each other enough to commit. They are willing to engage in intercourse with anyone just to have a v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 06:32 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. No, it’s actually happening..	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 01:59 AM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. I’m not a dude.. I’m a woman. The fall was just referred that way because of the society collapsing. As a result people became apathetic. They lost vision, empathy, nobility, integrity, fortitude, and acted like barbarians. Is that what we are doing here. Moving into a lack of civility that everything’s just ok, and we have no care for anyone other than ourselves. Ya, who cares about devoting ourselves to anything.. it’s just a poor excuse to say it’s just different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 01:58 AM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. I’m talking about the lack of awareness of what might be sacred or even the existence of care or passion. What it seems is that the lack of effort is just weakening our species. We lose our capacity to feel. We then become like drones in a withdrawn state of existence. Which lacks vibrance, vision, love, compassion, courage, nobility, integrity, or any other kind of positive emotion. From that lack, depression sets in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 01:46 AM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. Are you not seeing the apathy pandemic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 12:43 AM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. We have potential to be zombies if we lose passion	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 12:39 AM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. Here’s the difference.. the US and I’m going to narrow it down this way so there’s less confusion, has never had the population this large, hasn’t had a dept to income ratio this high and hasn’t had the levels of broken families and fatherless homes to the high degree it does now. What’s occurring now has not occurred even in the fall of the Roman Empire. Even then when apathetic behavior kicked in, the family unit didn’t come to this level of destruction that we see modernly. The order that is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/23 09:04 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. Maybe we are meant to have negative experiences sometimes. Yes my gender has negatively effected me most of my life. It’s a predators dream, it’s a disrespected, disregarded, and abused.. Then I see men wanting to be women.. why do you want to be beat and raped. The problem is they get the luxury of having the strength of a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/23 06:39 PM
2	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. Progress didn’t happen.. just more destruction. I’m not blaming the LGBTQIA community. Societies collapse.. this one is just about to	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 09:56 PM
2	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. In western culture the boundaries are just moving outwardly. We have freedom to just do as we please.. We have laws for a reason.. people aren’t emotionally intelligent enough collectively to make good decisions especially when the life experience is that we just get what we want. No energy exertion means people become soft. “It’s not fair” “what about me “ Soft times create soft men and soft men create hard times.. that’s the cycle it’s repeating itself and proved true over and over again. Soft…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 09:17 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. Apathy has set in.. every thing is ok and nothing matters.. people can just do what they want and everyone thinks that’s normal.. If something is too hard than they just move on to something different.. no effort is needed or necessary. It’s all just at our finger tips. That said, we exert no energy, with no energy exertion we lose the ability. Objects at rest stay at rest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 09:08 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. There’s no contradiction to what I meant there. I gave examples, men are more attracted to masculinity in general modernly. Femininity is shamed and women become more masculinized. I don’t know, this who subreddit seems like men against women to me.. Yes people can have family values if they want, but it doesn’t negate the fact that people simply don’t want to anymore.. and that’s considered okay! There’s nothing unacceptable as being wrong or boundless. If you think we are smart enough to live …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 09:01 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. No, no, no, no. Again, wrong understanding. The only theory regarding homosexuality in men that even makes sense by biology is for the beta to penetrate the alpha so the prostate is stimulated so he produces more sperm. The other would be for some sort of domination. Both are theoretical ideas, not proven. There’s a genetic component to the structure of the limbic system in homosexual men but not even all of them. Lots of men will have homosexual sex because they like the vigorousness of it but …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 08:55 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. It has to do with the entirety of attitudes and distortions that without a boundary on what’s moral, we lose our sense of what to value. Then we have apathy towards each other and ourselves. With no care about ourselves or others, we have a dead society. It’s not about me telling people what to do.. that’s not the message that was being conveyed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 08:49 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. Sure, but that’s not the topic I brought up. I get that ideas change over time. Where do you see this going?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 02:45 AM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. This is the normal when societies collapse. The same thing happened when the Roman Empire fell. It becomes androgynous when life conditions are not ideal. When men choose to begot men due to an apathetic inadequacy, than put a cap on it because the society is over. Life won’t exist in a society where men choose to have affairs with men on the side and resent women. When crisis hits and people are ready to go into a new zone… everyone goes back into gender roles. Just like early America. This is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 02:42 AM
6	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. Yes I get that, the flexibility does have benefits. I’m more directing this at the apathy that’s kicked in	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 01:50 AM
-2	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. Noble and honorable have a specific definition. It’s not up for interpretation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 01:48 AM
2	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. No the topics overlap. Less energy going into courtship means more apathy.. more apathy equates to androgynous behavior because the lack of effort keeps the poles weak. Weakness in poles means loss of bonding, loss of bonding means isotopic conditions which is basically stored energy that’s not being used. What happens then, death.. life ceases to exist	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 01:47 AM
0	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. I made a broad topic. Lack of energy exerted means less exchanged	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 01:44 AM
-6	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. No, they don’t have them at all.. boundaries don’t come in different colors. The moral compass has a gray area but it’s shifting further and further away from what is considered noble and honorable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 01:34 AM
-1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. Nope, it’s a collective problem. I’m speaking from a large scheme, not on a personal level.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 01:32 AM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. I think the political shift has bled over to cultural shift. If it’s just a trend, than so be it. As far as everything else I mentioned, it’s clear that apathy has kicked in just by the lack of care alone. The lack of work people are willing to put in. Is it as bad as it could potentially get? Not yet.. but it doesn’t look promising	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 01:31 AM
-1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. “ Forming a life path with integrity “ If the life path is being formed on the basis of no boundaries.. the biggest concern is the lack of boundaries and apathy. Nothing is sacred anymore, it’s just a big everything is ok	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 12:54 AM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. I agree but the social construct has shifted drastically in the west	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 12:49 AM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. I agree it’s an American normal but check out some of the latest on China and other eastern countries.. it’s bleeding over that way too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 12:34 AM
1	Men aren’t creepy or gross for preferring young adult women lol. This entire subreddit is a bunch of projection, my post isn’t special.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 11:38 PM
1	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women Unless we had a complete understanding gap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 12:09 PM
2	Men aren’t creepy or gross for preferring young adult women They may want to marry them but again your not seeing it turns out unsuccessful most of the time. Their reasons for wanting to marry much younger is superficial. They aren’t interested in mature conversations, interesting topics or anything else that has value. You’re missing the big picture here. I dated 2 guys much younger than me. It wasn’t going to work because 1.Both had mommy issues 2. We had absolutely nothing in common 3. They couldn’t follow a conversation to save life. 4. They both wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 11:54 AM
27	Men aren’t creepy or gross for preferring young adult women I don’t know where your getting your information from. Young women DO NOT prefer daddy figures on any form of average. Sure it happens for celebrities or perhaps rich narcissistic a holes. Men can prefer all they want, by no means does that imply they will get what they want. Men at all ages have a harder struggle to get a mate. The men that think they could get a younger woman when they are old themselves are just having delusions of grandeur. They also have not gotten past the teenage mentalit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 11:29 AM
1	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women I’m specifically talking about the trials and tribulations associated with what guys lack when they are younger. Nothing else. I’m far too aware of trials and tribulations that happen over a lifetime. Chads tribulations happen when they get older because they were used to getting anything they wanted and bam 💥 they get older and have to learn humility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 11:08 AM
4	Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect) If men were in a healthy sustainable marriage that “ passion “ you describe would be only for their wife, no one else. It’s called lust. It lacks love, it lacks integrity, and even intimacy for that matter. Only narcissists lose love for their wife because she ages. Good men simply don’t. They have enough respect and honor for her. Yes she absolutely can be the problem and the respect isn’t mutual.. but to say “ men lose attraction for their wives” because of age.. then maybe men need to “ self …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 03:12 PM
61	Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect) “Just be yourself”, is the most apathetic comment a person can make. It’s vaguely insidious and just a form of gaslighting. People don’t even know themselves. Maybe the person they are has serious character flaws and needs improvement. Maybe they are just a down right asshole. Maybe they are so wounded they don’t know how to heal. Regardless, I’d prefer to say, “learn to know yourself..” because until we do, our effortless attempts at life from a lack and incomplete understanding of thy self is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 03:06 PM
-2	Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect) Your talking about the way men and women have interacted since the beginning of humanity. Lol Not once did you hear your grandfather complain that courtship was, “ too much work “ . The problem is modernity, is the young men that are now adults, didn’t have to work for a blessed thing. They got trophy’s for participating.. they got instant gratification from video games and their parents. Society in general has become passive and apathetic, therefore so has romance and relationship work. “Hard t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 02:55 PM
1	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women No they don’t have the same trials and tribulations as everyone else. They are entitled, narcissistic and grandiose. Most people aren’t that. Most people lived out their trials and tribulations earlier on and learned life lessons. Chads walked around like they have superiority. Therefore they don’t learn lessons in humility, when everyone else has.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 12:53 PM
1	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women Yes they get married, they cheat, they lie and they live self destructive lives. That’s what I’m telling you the outcome is of a Chad. Go ahead and talk to me in 20 years, you’ll be in agreement with my words, I assure you. Iv lived it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 12:49 PM
-1	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women Only in that regard.. not ultimately, because what it has done has destroyed society. The apathy that is behind sex for no meaning, has produced situations that have destroyed human lives. It’s degrading overall. It has no positive outcomes in the long run, I assure you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 12:47 PM
1	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women Sure it’s consensual, but the ultimate meaning behind it is completely self destructive on everyone’s account.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 12:38 PM
-1	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women It’s like a guy saying.. “ I’m a narcissist and I think I’m entitled to use women and have sex with whoever I want” do you respect that honesty? Because that just means he has such little respect in general that he even has the gall to admit it, like a grandiose, narcissistic SOB.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 12:36 PM
1	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women Don’t respect the honesty. Disrespect the same disrespect they are giving you and other women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 12:33 PM
1	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women Ya, perfect description.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 12:32 PM
1	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women Ya, it just means your engaged with meaningless self destructive behavior. You’ll be involved with either using good women, which is just wrong or involved with casual women that don’t respect themselves. One of the 2.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 12:31 PM
1	Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s? The average relationship age range is within 5 years.. everything else is not the average and the higher the age gap the slimmer the chances the relationship will sustain. Nothing in common.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 02:03 AM
-3	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women That’s not exactly how it goes typically. Most people have had sex by 40. Plus if your looking at sex without love, you missed the purpose	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 01:31 AM
-1	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women Physical Attractiveness eventually doesn’t matter	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 01:19 AM
1	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women Eventually, I’m talking for older people. We leave them for who we believe is a better partner. Less shallow relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 01:18 AM
6	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women A lot of young men don’t want commitment either.. it’s not always because he can’t find a woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 01:17 AM
1	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies I get that and sometimes cramps are so bad people can’t function at work. Those are different situations.. generally cramps can be controlled with ibuprofen Or Naproxen..	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 01:16 AM
-3	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women People don’t stay with Chad because he’s a narcissist. He’s a liar and cheater. He will self deprecate in his 40s. It’s a fact. Iv seen it over and over	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 01:04 AM
4	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women That’s the biggest fallacy that exists.. How many chads do you think actually exist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 12:58 AM
6	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women Isn’t that ironic and is why less attractive people are more successful in relationships. Attractive people aren’t necessarily harder to get. That’s a total misconception. Sometimes attractive people are rejected for being too attractive. It’s assumed they would be too much work or too high maintenance.. too many other guys want them etc .. Then the attractive person doesn’t even get looked at for who they are. People can’t get past the looks. We attract narcissists because narcissists like beau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 12:56 AM
0	Some questions for women I’m going to touch on only number one because it’s a complete mystery to me how sex can be compartmentalized from intimacy when the act of sex cannot possibly be more intimate. I know how people can screw someone and be totally gratified from it yet have intimacy issues. They can’t make love to anyone yet they can fuck. Other times they can fuck one person and supposedly make love to someone else interchangeably..	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 01:12 AM
1	Men will be at a disadvantage with dating until the interest gap closes or reverses, which might actually happen Yes both genders that engage in loveless sex. Apathy is the result of many factors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 11:35 PM
1	Men will be at a disadvantage with dating until the interest gap closes or reverses, which might actually happen I’m older than you and yes they do	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 11:03 PM
1	Men will be at a disadvantage with dating until the interest gap closes or reverses, which might actually happen There’s no confusion on the fact that casual hookups are just a bad idea for society as evidence by what it’s already caused. Broken homes and fatherless homes has caused broken men that don’t value commitment. Not valuing commitment has one reason after another of why it’s a bad idea. Children absolutely need stability in a home. They need 2 parents, Casual sex is meaningless and apathetic. It never evolves to a higher standard or anything like it. We keep validating lower standards by what you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 11:02 PM
2	Men will be at a disadvantage with dating until the interest gap closes or reverses, which might actually happen Chad eventually self destructs	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 05:08 PM
2	Men will be at a disadvantage with dating until the interest gap closes or reverses, which might actually happen Good so we understand each other. I’m not looking to counter, just discuss	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 04:01 PM
6	Men will be at a disadvantage with dating until the interest gap closes or reverses, which might actually happen That’s only because less women are willing to hook up for just casual nothing than men are. Women are lied to continually because some men just want sex. They don’t want sex from whores though. They want sex from clean decent women that won’t sleep around. Women who are clean and decent end up getting fed up with being sexualized and objectified that they just stay single and abstinent until a man comes occasionally around that actually cares about commitment.. ( and they are out there )	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 01:32 AM
3	Men will be at a disadvantage with dating until the interest gap closes or reverses, which might actually happen Men need women as much as women need men. There’s a problem because people are turning away from heterosexual relationships and engaging in dualism which is not life sustaining. What your saying is that men are satisfied with just casual hookups that are easy and validating and can live happily without connecting or committing. I don’t believe this is actually true from a long term perspective. That lifestyle is only sustainable for a short period in a man’s life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 12:55 AM
5	Men will be at a disadvantage with dating until the interest gap closes or reverses, which might actually happen Casual hookups are toxic for families. People don’t stay 25 forever where hookups are a thing. Eventually to be mentally healthy people will need companionship that actually is sustainable and grounding. Men otherwise begin to have sex with other men. ( which is also a thing modernly ) except kept on the DL out of shame. They can get laid plus have an apathetic attitude towards each other. We are going to die off from apathy before natural disasters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 12:20 AM
1	Women of PPD: How do you prefer a man shows off his masculinity: Thru status and wealth, thru wisdom and knowledge or thru competence and actions? Personally it’s competence and action as well as wisdom and knowledge.. I’m not interested in wealth. Wealth brings shallowness and greediness. I’d rather have humble.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 12:13 AM
1	Women of PPD: How do you prefer a man shows off his masculinity: Thru status and wealth, thru wisdom and knowledge or thru competence and actions? I’m attracted to wisdom as well as competence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 09:50 AM
6	Women of PPD: How do you prefer a man shows off his masculinity: Thru status and wealth, thru wisdom and knowledge or thru competence and actions? I’m a woman and I’m attracted to masculinity that is embodied by a male body. I’m not attracted to a man just because of a penis. He has to be masculine with a penis. Lol A woman can carry masculine traits but that isn’t attractive to me. A man can carry more feminine attributes and that isn’t attractive to me. So, yes the above that he posted are masculine qualities.. women that carry them are just women that are more masculinized.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 09:47 AM
-1	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies Mensural pain can be controlled with medication.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 03:51 PM
1	having sex while moderately drunk isn't rape Enthusiasm for someone new is just a temporary fix and you can have that with anyone while the oxytocin is still kicked in. Even if intoxicated, if she consents to it, it’s not rape. If he induced drugs or alcohol upon her without her awareness, it is rape. Because he then impaired her judgment without her knowledge. If he penetrates her in her sleep, it’s rape. If she decides she would have said no. And women can drug men too.. ( although rare ) so that would be rape on her end. He could just a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 09:26 PM
2	Older men like younger women but how true is it that younger woman actually like older men? I kept my dating age range within a 5 year window because I firmly believe people should stay within their age range. I for one never liked much older men. I’m not sold by money or assets so that’s of no consequence to me. I witnessed more than one situation where the wife was much younger and it was a disaster. Most of the time, it’s the wealthy men that take a younger woman and wow her with material possessions until she caves in. Particularly he might choose a woman of a lower socioeconomic c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 12:27 AM
1	How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women? Because they choose a casual sex lifestyle they choose low quality. It’s that simple.. They want it both ways. They want ego inflated by many partners but they don’t want to commit. Well lack of commitment just means people with no self worth, which equates to casual encounters. People who actually value themselves don’t sleep with random multiple people..	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 07:12 PM
1	“Give an ugly girl a chance, and after a while she’ll treat you like YOU are the ugly one” Ok and you know what I look like?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 12:28 PM
1	“Give an ugly girl a chance, and after a while she’ll treat you like YOU are the ugly one” Your actually the minority. Most guys prefer to date down because they need their ego validated. After my divorce I worked hard at myself and transformed from overweight and frumpy, to fit and beautiful. I was in high demand in the dating pool because of my independence and self assurance.. ( at least I had for a moment) I learned fast that attractive and successful was not high in demand.. not in my age range and especially dealing with a bunch of damaged goods. They all needed their ego inflat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 01:04 AM
1	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? I have a lot of psychology background so I’ll gladly explain.. Boys that didn’t have a tight relationship with their dad tend to crave masculine affection. Sometimes it’s in the form of boyish women and sometimes they can take on bisexuality. This isn’t uncommon. What your craving is love from daddy. I have the exact same issue except I’m a female. I pick men that resemble daddy. Controlling, dominant, strong providing, etc. If I were to take on a boyish role and character, I wouldn’t attract th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 11:40 PM
1	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? No it’s not a problem if there is a balance. My only point was that too much sameness is usually not conducive to a romantic partnership. It simply lacks balance., Since you said you carry more feminine characteristics, than it’s understandable why you’d prefer a woman that is more masculine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 09:20 PM
1	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? When I think of a heterosexual masculine woman, I think of a female laborer or a woman that has a blue collar job.. or a woman that has a high ranking white collar profession.. a woman that has a type A character or a woman that prefers traditional manly activities. It’s acceptable for women to be who they want. But it’s also acceptable for women to act and engage in feminine activities. Your comments that were generalized that women are more fun and more compatible as masculine, I gave examples…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 09:16 PM
1	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? A masculine woman is a woman that carries masculine characteristics that which resembles most men. Low testosterone is what causes low sperm count. Higher testosterone means higher sperm count and quality	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 09:09 PM
1	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? https://news.virginia.edu/content/male-fertility-declining-studies-show-environmental-toxins-could-be-reason	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 09:06 PM
1	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? There are several studies.. these are 2 that are from viable sources	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 09:03 PM
1	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? https://www.focusonreproduction.eu/article/ESHRE-News-Sperm-count-decline https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32168194/	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 09:03 PM
1	What even makes a woman unattractive, really? I’m going to ask the age and demographics your talking about here. This might be true for young people or country people but hardly true for city people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 11:43 PM
1	It's exhausting to make female friends Some women have tons of guy friends and relate better with men. I’m not one of them but they are usually sitting up at a bar stool watching sports with men on Sunday afternoons. Maybe try a sports bar	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 06:04 PM
1	i truly believe most women are oblivious to how attractive thier partners are, and women value being competent or the illusion of being competent Right, people explore in early 20s so that they can sift out biologically what will produce the best offspring. We are attracted to traits that are going to produce the highest level of offspring. If someone appears biologically unhealthy, they will be considered unattractive by society collectively. Because society has role confusion at this time. People aren’t drivin to reproduce as they once were, therefore becoming more androgynous. When this happens either from a result of a fallen empire o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 02:58 PM
1	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? Masculine women can be gay, straight, transgender, nonbinary, etc. At this point in time, we aren’t allowed to use femininity as a specific to biological women term. I am older so I saw first hand the transition from my generation to my daughters. When I was in my 20,s in the 90s, there was little to none of this. I get arguments regarding the social construct which has now crossed over to gender identity and sexuality identity to the point that young people have lost sight of what’s natural to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 02:46 PM
1	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? “Normal people” don’t typically date the way your saying it’s normal to date. No, compatibility comes in many forms. You can be compatible in a romantic sense that doesn’t have to have a buddy sense to it. My husband is a country guy and a badass. I’m city girl and not a badass. I’m not street savvy but I’m intellectual and intelligent. He’s extremely street savvy. He teaches me things and I teach him things. We are both open to learn new things. I like conversations about things that he wasn’t …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 04:57 AM
1	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? “ I’m insecure and afraid of being genuine “ Ummm no.. because if I dressed like a dude I wouldn’t be genuine. Genuine doesn’t mean dressing like a man and acting masculine. Genuine to me is feminine and dressing feminine. I’m a lady yet I can still call out bullshit. I’m a lady and still fun. No girl I know wants to hang with guys and act masculine. My hobbies aren’t masculine hobbies. Why would I want to do the same things as a bunch of men? Your shaming women for being themselves.. your makin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 01:38 AM
1	i truly believe most women are oblivious to how attractive thier partners are, and women value being competent or the illusion of being competent I’m wayyyyyy past that point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 01:13 AM
1	i truly believe most women are oblivious to how attractive thier partners are, and women value being competent or the illusion of being competent Yes younger people in general will explore before they have children. It’s ok and developmentally normal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 10:42 PM
1	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? I beg to differ about the stereotype you just made about femininity being snobbish and boring. If that’s what you perceive, than you have no clue what femininity actually means. I’m feminine and I’m far from either one of those things. I’m sorry but I like to be sensual and sexy. I don’t wear work boots. I sit with my legs crossed and don’t sit at the bar guzzling beer and using potty mouth with the guys. Lady like it’s calling and never has a masculine man had a problem with my being a lady. My…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 07:06 PM
1	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? Ok, than I guess you want a buddy. Lol.. Feminine women are what Masculine men find attractive. Masculine women are usually not attracted to masculine men because there is no balance for sexual attraction. Even gay couple have a balance, otherwise it’s a buddy not a romantic partner. Too much “ same ness “ intrigues no interest or sexual compatibility. Sure for buddies and friends we want like minded in the sense of what your describing and yes your partner should be your friend.. But at the sam…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 06:59 PM
2	i truly believe most women are oblivious to how attractive thier partners are, and women value being competent or the illusion of being competent Women virtue signal because they aren’t validated by their men, particularly misogynistic men that don’t value a woman’s accomplishments. Men will compliment women initially but as soon as he has her hook line and sinker, he no longer feels the need. He wants her to want him, so if he compliments her too much than his fear is that she’ll become too confident and leave him. He doesn’t understand that the more he compliments her, the less likely she’s going to seek it elsewhere. If he insults her …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 03:09 AM
1	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? lol.. It seemed sarcastic the way that Iv heard it used in context. Almost like an obvious statement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 09:19 PM
1	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? Your sarcasm definitely falls in the masculine category. My husband is bi, yet he doesn’t like masculine chicks. He said with those characteristics, a penis needs to be part of the equation. He likes women feminine and men masculine. If I were to be attracted to females, I would prefer someone feminine like myself. Masculine women aren’t different than men. So if I’m dealing with those characteristics, it might as well have a penis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 07:49 PM
1	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? It would have to be you, if she’s more masculine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 02:10 AM
1	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? I do but where’s the contrast? Someone has to take the role of being nurturing soft and sensual. Otherwise it’s too much “ sameness” which statistically is unbalanced in a relationship. The masculine and feminine have to be balanced. There’s no other way around it otherwise you throw off the whole homeostasis of the dynamic. Gay or straight couples need a balance for a functional relationship. If your a guy that’s more feminine in character that would make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 02:06 AM
2	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? Femininity and masculinity don’t always align with gender identity. However, most masculine men prefer the contrast of what they are. Too much of the same is a duality not a polarity. That’s why we see type A women with type B men. We can be feminine in one sense and masculine in another. When I was providing for my x husband, I started to feel too masculine and to me it was gross. I embrace my femininity which is alluring, compassionate, sweet and gentle. When I run into women that treat me the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 01:31 AM
0	Women Tend To Change Their "Tone" As They Lose Options If she made a bad choice and still got a great kid out of it, it makes no difference. Your looking at the selfish aspects of “what’s in it for you” attitude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 03:19 AM
2	Women Tend To Change Their "Tone" As They Lose Options That’s ridiculous. Pure hearted people can’t be blamed for manipulative scum bags actions. How would a young naive woman know that her man was lying to her? That just means she was raised right and wasn’t exposed to those type of people. She can’t be blamed for not being street wise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 01:59 AM
4	Women Tend To Change Their "Tone" As They Lose Options I’m raising my husband’s kid and it’s fine with me. Not everyone is selfish in that regard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 01:57 AM
5	Women Tend To Change Their "Tone" As They Lose Options Why did the woman lose her options? It’s not her fault the scumbag is a dead beat father? Some men respect women for being independent single mothers. Why is she at her worst when he was the one who left?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 01:07 AM
3	Your past matters, but it isn't just who you have screwed. In my experience, considering I lived a pretty vanilla life and had no experience that crossed over into the zone your describing, those kind of men love me for some reason. Badass men that I was never allowed to date growing up, absolutely love the naive, aloof, pixie that I am. However, the women in that demographic, hate my guts. I would say it’s best to share the information. I would respect honesty above all and I see that as courageous. Sneaky liars that are ashamed of their past, will be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/23 10:16 PM
–	This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective). Yes and as a result of the rejection, resentment has occurred and as a result of the resentment, many of them have become emasculated to the point of becoming bisexual and teaming up with other men to form strange groups and cults. ( same occurred when the Roman Empire fell) As well as ancient Egypt. It’s going to get worse before it gets better. Men are not manning up in our culture and they are blaming the feminist movement because of it. At one point in time, men would have laughed at that co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/23 07:30 PM
1	Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women? Your forgetting that it’s just as easy for a woman to have multiple men as it is a man to have multiple women. In fact, women have more options and opportunities overall. Especially if your talking about casual situations. If your talking about the men that have multiple families that don’t know about each other, than he’s a most likely a narcissistic POS. If lying and deception is involved, it’s destructive. There’s no, “ biological privilege “ just because he’s wired to spread his seed. As far…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/23 10:40 AM
1	Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women? Fortunately for me my child was never neglected and I always had a career. She’s now an adult. No, I provided for my x husband and never did I feel like taking was ok. So because I provided I had the right to cheat? Nope, that’s not how it works. If you want to cheat, than don’t get married. It’s that simple According to what social construct? In what culture?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 11:36 PM
1	Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women? Secondly, women in America are providers also. Women work and support the family. He doesn’t get special privileges just because he has a penis. Again, if she’s ok with it and accepts it, than it’s on her. I don’t know a single soul that accepts cheating as ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 10:29 PM
1	Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women? Male sex isn’t cheating? Ummm wrong.. in a court of law cheating pertains to all genders. It absolutely undermines the function of the family. It’s a dishonor to the wife and deception to the entire family. So does the cheating man love all the women he fucks? No of course he doesn’t. If you want polygamy move to Islamic countries. If love is not 100% mutual and devoted, than Id be dishonoring myself to allow it. It’s completely hurtful and disrespectful to the woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 10:26 PM
1	Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women? No man or woman regardless of gender should be committing adultery. If the need is to be with multiple partners for just sexual variety, than the right thing to do is communicate that to the spouse ahead of time so that the understanding is there before marriage takes place. Sure some are open to polyamorous situations. Than that’s fine as long as everyone is aware of it. Deception is destructive period. There’s no exception to that. Would you want to be lied to and cheated on?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 10:18 PM
1	Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women? We may be genetically the same but we have become civilized. Having sex with random people just because you feel like it, is uncivil and unnecessary. It’s deceptive to your partner. Women also have urges to have sex with better men and do cheat also.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 08:27 PM
1	Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women? Only the most oppressed and vulnerable women would accept what your saying as ok! Absolutely not by no means would myself or any respectable woman I know be ok with her husband being able to fuck any woman he wants behind her back. If a man is married, he automatically is off limits to anyone that has self respect. If he has to have variety, than he can be single. We always find out eventually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 08:25 PM
2	Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women? The fucking of other women is a compulsory behavior and it’s pathological. It’s deceiving to the person they are in a relationship with. If the urge to fuck other women can’t be controlled, than he shouldn’t be in a committed relationship at all. Also, women that allow married guys to fuck them are a huge part of the problem. Chances are they were lied to from the beginning. Otherwise find someone who’s willing to be in an open relationship. That means she gets to have sex with who she wants als…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 02:33 PM
17	Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in Europe, with women a small superminority in both Yep, because we are tired of being asked for sexy pictures and used as objects. Some guys are getting smarter and braver by meeting us where we go. Match and eharmony actually have more women on them. I would choose better sites. I met my husband on Facebook dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 12:48 AM
3	Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet. If you’re shaming less than perfect women than chances are you’ll get shamed in return. As far as your preference, do as you please. The stricter your criteria the less likely you’ll score. Unless of course you fit the criteria of the cream of the crop woman that you desire. Women have more options as it is. Even the top notch guys have less options than the top notch women. If your going by looks and age alone, your pickins get slimmer. That’s all I’m saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 12:44 AM
3	Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet. No one cares about your preferences. People just have issues with arrogance and attitudes that perpetuate judgments against people that don’t fit into your mold. Sometimes people’s criteria is better than what they can actually attract. A pretty innocent young woman will have a lot to pick from. If you are tall, handsome, well off and prepared for the competition that will be placed before you, than go for it! Otherwise, the less than perfect women will probably do just fine with the less than p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 12:36 AM
1	Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women? Yes I saw that. I thought your response was for me. I was pointing out that lack of empathy is due to a lack of oxytocin production at infancy, which is a result of lack of pair bonding at infancy. The oxytocin mechanism is activated when we are infants. If it’s not in existence than an inadequate oxytocin supply goes into development causing narcissist tendencies. You’ll notice the children that never get out of the sharing phase, become narcissistic adults. Along with those that come from lowe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 01:14 PM
3	Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women? Right so it’s resentment that would steer a guy to say things like marriage should be treated like a transaction. If you have to treat it as such, than you shouldn’t be married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 09:51 PM
2	Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women? Notice I said nothing about autism. I work with autistic children and they actually in general are extremely compassionate. Because they have social interaction issues, that can be perceived as narcissistic. It has nothing to do with empathy. While studies show a lesser degree of oxytocin in autistic people. It’s also determined that the social stressors and increased cortisol production due to social stress, lessens the oxytocin levels. Studies need to look at both sides of every equation. Ther…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 03:23 PM
7	Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women? That’s a pathological man that has compulsive behavior. That’s not a healthy stable man your describing. Sure men want sex, so do women actually. If your experience is a bunch of women that don’t want sex, look and see where YOU are coming from. Healthy relationships have sex at least a few times a week. It’s unhealthy to have sex as an addictive behavior. As long as your responsible, sure we go through phases. The people who engage in high levels of sex compulsory behaviors are not usually resp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 03:12 PM
0	Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women? Absolutely because while we are physically weaker, we have developed strength through evolution in other areas. We can be picky because we can be picky.. lol. It’s not about let’s get as many as we can. We don’t need to have that compulsion because we aren’t in lack. The compulsion for hypergamy comes from a lack in self worth caused by either a negligence childhood, narcissistic parents, lack of oxytocin production as infants and poor genetic makeup. Hypergamy in modern day, is a compulsive beh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 02:59 PM
2	Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women? There’s love and there is lust. Lust is just the urge to have sex and love may or may not be accompanied with it. Initially at first attraction, before we know the other person, lust is all we are working off of. Sometimes oxytocin hasn’t really kicked in full effect initially, especially for women. We don’t get an immediate first encounter lust feeling like men do. Typically it takes more for us to feel the oxytocin effects from a man that we meet at first glance or even first encounter. We nee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 02:30 PM
10	Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women? Oxytocin therapy is available for anyone that has low levels of empathy which is linked to narcissistic tendencies. On average, men have less oxytocin production because they don’t give birth, that’s not to say the average msn doesn’t produce enough to sustain a healthy monogamous relationship. There’s a lot more that goes into cheating and lack of monogamous tendencies than oxytocin production. Sometimes it’s the opposite. Men produce oxytocin quickly when they fall in love. Which is actually f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 04:12 AM
1	Men on this sub are obsessed with young women because of rejection wounds, not biology If you came near my 19 year old daughter, we’d have problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 10:44 PM
1	Men on this sub are obsessed with young women because of rejection wounds, not biology Are you hot enough to get one? Do you have enough money?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 10:42 PM
1	Promiscuity should be frowned upon by both sexes What age men are you talking about? Younger women are not attracted to older men either. It’s hard enough for men to get women at all. So why would you feel entitled to younger than you to boot. Unless your hot and younger yourself, got money, good luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 03:24 PM
1	Promiscuity should be frowned upon by both sexes Why is that? You’d think an experienced woman would know better how to please?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 01:07 AM
1	Promiscuity should be frowned upon by both sexes What is N?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 11:24 PM
1	As a woman, does it matter to you if a guy is a loner or not? and why? My husband is a loner. I think it’s to keep people at distance because of distrust. I personally am also a loner and I’m ok with it. Did you ever read anything about the sigma male? It’s pretty interesting	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 03:57 PM
1	Men on this sub are obsessed with young women because of rejection wounds, not biology I can assure you, based on the experience I know he had and the opportunity I know he had, he’s not lying. He has had younger women that wanted him. Prior to and during our relationship. He is not swayed by age. On top of the fact, I too, have had younger men. I’m not swayed by age either. Youthful looks are just a shallow reason to be with someone. He already has 4 kids. He has no interest in any more. He’s got a vasectomy. Grow up? He settled? I’m very grown up and I’m hardly a settle, I can a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 12:14 PM
3	It's fine for women to be jealous or insecure in a relationship, but when men are it's a "red flag" I prefer if they are jealous. It makes me feel more secure to be honest. If they aren’t jealous, I question whether or not they are cheating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 12:54 AM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” Also, in regards to anal sex… what the gay man community doesn’t want anyone to know and a female will only know if she’s been with a bisexual man. Gay men are hard core telling women especially that they can’t like anal sex because they don’t have a prostate. Truth is, that the clitoris runs all the way to the anus and the g spot can be stimulated. It’s just that it takes a lot of work for a man to work on an anus to reach penetration. The vagina is always right there and lots of straight guys …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 11:35 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” Ya, that actually doesn’t matter either.. I never sleep with them right away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 07:34 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” I get that but I would feel selfish giving myself to others when my partner isn’t into that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 07:08 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” Yes because I look at ice cream as a whole and every flavor should only be experienced with my beloved. If I’m eating mint chip with Jimmy and rocky road with bob, how can my beloved experience mint chip and rocky road with me sacredly. ? Even if he’s getting Ben and Jerry’s ( which is my favorite)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 07:06 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” My husband was a casual player and got away with it because he’s attractive. I stayed away from highly attractive men in my past for this exact reason. I’m intimidated by how desirable they are to others. On top of that he’s experienced with sexual behavior that I have not experienced with. Well ironically, I became more attractive than my self esteem has caught up with. Im still very uncomfortable in my own skin especially because I know how experienced he is. I feel like he has a lot to compar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:58 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” I get that too. Most casual players are dishonest unfortunately. Guys have always wanted to have sex with me. Many lie just to get in my pants. That’s probably why I resent it so much	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:46 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” That’s what I can’t wrap my head around. How can someone divide themselves in pieces yet say they are giving each piece equal space. If he has a pizza that has pepperoni on one side and veggies on the other. I am aware that the whole pizza is divided into 2. I’ll only be receiving the veggies if he’s giving the pepperoni half to the other.. lol. In a devoted commitment the other gets the whole pizza. There’s not sacred spaces that only are reserved for one other person. Because I can’t give 100%…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:43 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” Iv been cheated on and told that it had “nothing to do with me” This is where I can’t shake it. If I’m enough, why would I be cheated on	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:27 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” People lie to committed people all the time. Especially people online	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:25 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” I feel like if I don’t jump On the casual ban wagon, he might be tempted to cheat with the bottom dwellers	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:24 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” I’m trying to understand my husband who was a casual player before we met. He had people become attached to him I believe but when he cut them all off when we committed, they are still compelled to text him and try to convince him to cheat. Im the women he was looking for because im the good girl that hates casual. He was the first person to penetrate my butt. He loves that im pure and inexperienced.. I am intimidated by his experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:23 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” That actually makes me feel worse about it than I already did. Iv been cheated on in every single one of my relationships. I’m a naive good girl that is aloof to manipulation. If my partners were seeking connection with each and every one of their sexual encounters than what makes me special? It just causes others to continue to try to have sex with my husband, who was a casual player before I met him. We are newly weds. I was and am clear that I don’t like casual sex encounters. I entertained t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:18 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” That’s a bit closer to how I feel. I’m still not comfortable with knowing I’m not good enough to be committed to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:11 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” See when you said it’s a fun collaborative activity vs sometimes it’s a sacred act.. That said, it would never be a sacred act if the fun collaboration still exists with others. That’s the whole point of what makes it sacred. It’s purity. If it’s tainted by shared sexual relations with multiple people, the sacredness disappears completely with the beloved. So I disagree with it just being different.. but the the other were is second to the favorite, will never be equal in worth. If the mistress …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:07 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” Secondly, the people that just want to fuck me are in complete lack. Why would I placate them by giving away my body so they can use it. Quite honestly that’s worse than prostitution because at least the prostitutes get paid.. they are somewhat aware of their worth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 05:55 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” I have been cheated on when I have given the other 100%. Nothing feels grosser than that. Especially when the people that they’ve cheated with were scumbags	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 05:53 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” Ahhhh but how about the people who are 100% loved yet still cheat with casual encounters just to have an easy quick fix. Casual encounters happen through cheating all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 05:52 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” I’m aware but I feel like I’m order to be part of society and understand everyone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 05:49 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” Here’s the thing.. I think that most people who have it are just in denial of their issues. Just because I’m willing to address it doesn’t mean I’m in lack because I don’t understand it. It could mean that the others are in lack for actually accepting less than, just because of self esteem issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 05:46 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” The skanky women that were able to achieve this are using a man cheating on a good woman as a bragging tactic just as a man would who got a hot chick. That’s why I’m repulsed by casual sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 05:43 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” Yes because the man married to the good girl would seek out skanky women because he doesn’t have to prove anything to her. He can be free to just get laid and not have to work for anything. I’m the good girl and Iv been in this situation with more than one person. I’m not even high maintenance, I’m just integral and devoted. That’s hard for men to sustain sometimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 05:40 PM
–	For the casual sex people. I really am in need of answers on how to dissociate love from “just sex” I don’t think it’s hard to explain. I think if we look deep enough within the answers are there. I just think some people don’t care to look or question why. I can’t do anything if I don’t know why I’m making that choice. So again, I need more of an explanation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 05:22 PM
1	A man's asset is what he brings. A woman's is who she is. I’m a woman and I loathe the idea of casual sex because Iv been used as a vessel and it feels disgusting. I can’t detach from people I have sex with and move on to another. My husband has a different attitude about sex as I do. He has a pansexual sexual history and can dissociate sex from love making easily. I can’t relate to that because for me it’s completely about the person. If I’m making love to my spouse, I can’t compartmentalize him, while I have side kicks that are just “ sex “ He said t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 03:22 PM
1	A man's asset is what he brings. A woman's is who she is. It has to do with dynamic of the couple and the compatibility. It has nothing to do with how many partners they had in the past. The past is over with. Age has a lot to do with it too. The only thing that matters is this moment. Living in the past keeps trauma bonding which is toxic to a marriage. If they love and respect each other and willing to accept each other for all of who they are is all that matters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 03:07 PM
1	A man's asset is what he brings. A woman's is who she is. I’m a woman and I agree with your statement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 03:01 PM
2	A man's asset is what he brings. A woman's is who she is. No, it’s an opinion that your stating as a fact. Younger women are better with younger men. They raise a family together and it’s perfect. Older people that think younger is better are usually wrong. They are better for other younger people.. not older people. When I was 25 i didn’t want an old man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 02:37 PM
–	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? Your in the minority	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 02:17 PM
1	A man's asset is what he brings. A woman's is who she is. I disagree about women being at highest value in the younger years. This is true for child bearing completely but definitely not in other aspects. I am 100% better now that I’m older. My husband can attest. His x wife was 10 years younger and absolutely not better by any means. He learned that younger doesn’t equate to better or better at sex or sexier, etc. I’m 10 years older than his x wife and I have satisfied him beyond anything that she did. She was and is immature, inexperienced, selfish a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 07:51 AM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? What does that have to do with my self esteem?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 07:39 AM
0	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? I understand there are legal sex workers. I don’t see a point to anyone using a sex worker at all. How can pleasure be obtained from someone that couldn’t give a rats ass about you..? If someone doesn’t love me, sex feels vile.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 03:42 AM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? No, I’m sure there’s several different types and situations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 03:39 AM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? I’m not just talking about myself. I’m talking about all women that experienced the same thing. Trust me I was dumped for trash and it was only because my being classy and intelligent made the other feel inadequate. People date down because of low self worth, nothing else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 01:26 AM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? Ummm yes I am married and I have life experience. I’m angry that women are objectified and devalued period. This subreddit breads those things. I have a right to defend women that have ambition. Especially when they are called arrogant for being responsible and displaying self respect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 01:23 AM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? I’m pretty sure it’s the last thing I’d want for my daughter. It’s not a commendable profession. It takes a pretty low self worth to think that’s the best you can do. Money has nothing to do with it. It’s about dignity and self respect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 01:20 AM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? I’m not talking about myself btw..I’m married. I’m talking about a social issue. Why make it personal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 10:42 PM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? Maybe not everyone can be an executive prostitute but it doesn’t negate the fact that your selling your sacred to people. Ya it should be free so why are they paying for it? I could be a prostitute if I wanted. It takes a lot less Skill for the average person than you’d think. Ya, wealthy people will pay for expensive which I would expect skill for those prices. They are more or less performers that have sex. It’s a step up from a high end strip club	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 10:41 PM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? Ok 👍 then I’ll lower myself and see how that works. I get accused of being an arrogant narcissist if I express my accomplishments.. so I’ll try the other and see how that works	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 10:35 PM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? In my past I thought by dating down I’d give myself an edge. It actually works in reverse. Men want to feel superior to the women	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 10:19 PM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? They don’t need men to pay. Yet men feel more comfortable with trash	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 10:10 PM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? Successful women are rejected because of mens fears of inadequacies. We date down and men prefer less intelligent women. They are just easier and less intimidating	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 10:09 PM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? Narcissistic? Why? No it’s anger that hard work doesn’t pay off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 09:52 PM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? Classy women are modest in the bedroom but they also have a voice. It’s annoying to put effort into life only to know prostitutes are preferred and respected over accomplishments	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 09:51 PM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? Right so it’s easier.. wasted effort to have achieved anything in life. Thanks for confirming. Beautiful and intelligent is annoying and high maintenance. I’ll just become sleazy and lower myself .	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 09:38 PM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? They feel inadequate	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 09:36 PM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? If beautiful and respectful is damaged goods what’s a whore?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 09:33 PM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? The more beautiful Iv been the more rejected Iv been	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 09:32 PM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? Wrong. We get rejected and replaced with trash all the time . I am not undesirable	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 09:31 PM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? We degrade it because it’s degrading.. it’s a skill less profession and takes no intelligence to perform	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 09:30 PM
1	Why do beautiful, intelligent, successful, classy women get rejected ? Yet sleazy, low cognitive, low socioeconomic women get men to pay them for sex? Because a beautiful successful woman can also be a prostitute if she wants. It is effortless to be a whore. So why am I better? Because I have worked hard to be better. I earned a higher status	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 09:29 PM
1	Reason why women can stay single easily is because sex is easy for them If all women only swipe the top 5%, than that means the top 5% are getting the top 5% of women. Then why the rest of the population getting mates also?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 08:07 PM
1	Reason why women can stay single easily is because sex is easy for them The market is completely different on various sites. The big women site prefers large women. The shemale site, prefers shemales. It’s not a general consensus	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 09:19 PM
2	Reason why women can stay single easily is because sex is easy for them Who decides that some people worth more than others? One persons trash is another’s treasure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 12:37 PM
5	Reason why women can stay single easily is because sex is easy for them Actually they value it far more. That’s why they are WILLING to stay single.. because they would rather be abstinent than we used as a vessel. That’s what knowing your worth actually means. Sex brings attachment and connection. If someone is deliberately trying to keep themselves from attaching to the people they are intimate with, that’s pathological and the question should be asked why would you rather have sex with no intentions than an actual commitment. Sex with no intentions to commit is i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 12:32 PM
2	It is almost impossible to talk redpill men out of their positions because doing so would contradict their lived experiences. Bluepill needs to provide a better explanation for these experiences, not argue that the experiences themselves don't happen College girls would hook up with older guys that would buy them things, etc., College guys especially modernly, aren’t gentlemen.. plus they are broke. They don’t have much to offer. This however changes when girls get out of college, start making their own money and don’t need an older guy anymore. When I was in college older married guys would come to hang out at campus or at college bars to buy us drinks and try to take advantage. I found it gross and creepy. There were however some of my sor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 01:13 PM
0	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. Short women like myself don’t care. Everyone is taller than me. Height is of no consequence. Taller woman and short guys run into this issue	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 02:45 AM
1	Women suggest being platonic friends first because that’s what they usually do, but this never works for men Iv know several women that prefer male friends and do just fine watching football and can speak a man’s language. Men can be from with them all day long. Plus, these are the women that willingly have casual hookups at times. They probably are satisfied hanging with men, getting mens attention and men like the ease of not having to court a woman. They’ve been offered opportunities to keep distance and have an occasional sex. As for the girly girls like myself, this poses a problem. We don’t like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 02:39 AM
0	Men are happier in marriage and women are happier single Yes we are different.. I had the study from a continuing education class. It was in the psychosocial domain of my profession.. Yes, the Y chromosome is deteriorating. There’s studies to back that up as well. You are free to do your own research.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 10:38 AM
1	Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women? The idea that crying and seeking help is weak, is absolutely incorrect. They kept men in emotional check so that they would fight better when the fear moved into anger.. ( which is all anger is repressed fear ) This goes back to Ancient Greece and Rome. It’s not “ men will naturally “ hide weakness.. This is a western world mentality.. in the East men don’t repress emotions in that manner. It’s all cultural social structure. It’s unhealthy and abnormal to repress crying to look tough. Men don’t …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 12:08 PM
0	Men are happier in marriage and women are happier single In the previous generation yes women lived longer.. however this study was based on the depression of men after their spouse passes away. Women living longer in general had nothing to do with the mental status of the subjects upon the death of their spouse. It had to do with the coping mechanisms between 2 genders In handling being alone. Women are far more likely to emotionally endure loss than men. We are just wired more emotionally resilient.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 10:41 AM
1	What do you think of Jordan Petersons claim that “marriage is for children”? I think it’s more than just about having kids. It’s supposed to be about letting go of ego and surrendering to another person with the guard taken down.. sure you don’t need the piece of paper to do that but some feel that the paper holds them accountable. Giving half assed to relationships is not untimely going to bring you happiness. Casual gets old very fast and it’s just a drug to get a quick lustful fix. Untimely having a partner to share life with is far more meaningful and secure. Knowing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 11:56 AM
2	Men are happier in marriage and women are happier single You’ll have to specify the age of the men and women because the statistics are completely different with older people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 10:39 AM
24	Men are happier in marriage and women are happier single There’s been a study of 10,000 widowers and 10,000 widows, all over the age of 65. They were studied for a 5 year period after the spouse died. 90% of the men died within a 5 year period of their wife dying. Only 5% of the women died after their spouse died. The study suggested that men are unable to emotionally handle the loss of a spouse and women were able to handle it far better. A man ultimately needs a woman more than a woman needs a man. The men died of self care lack. A man is far more l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 10:38 AM
2	The rise of Red Pill ideology in younger generations. Truth is, guys do want to provide and they are resentful of the modern women’s stance on independence.. however, without a double income household, people would be complaining that they can’t keep up with the Jones family. Hooks ups get old after a while.. who wants to live a life of sex without love? Most healthy people don’t. So I would ask the point that’s trying to be proven by the red pill? Most adult men get over this crap and grow up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 11:18 PM
2	Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older women No older women don’t care.. we have options regardless of how old we are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 12:00 AM
1	Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older women Young women aren’t attracted to older men in general. I’m talking more than a 15 year difference. The statistic is low for high age gap marriage success. Unless he’s extremely wealthy, she won’t be happy or devoted to an old man. Those are the facts. Men might be attracted to younger.. but younger isn’t going to want older.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 11:59 PM
2	People from broken homes and dysfunctional families rarely make good partners. Than most people are screwed. I believe that this is mostly true, but not always true. Some people actually hated the way they grew up and had enough insight to learn from parents mistakes..I was abused as a child and had a father that ignored me.. Others repeat the same bad patterns.. but even the pastors kids are rebellious however taught morals. I think there’s a huge gray area regarding this..	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 10:14 PM
1	"Fat woman dont want to date fat men" Some people were fat children and then became fat adults.. they can be comfortable in their own skin. Some men like bigger women.. they even have dating sites for BBWs. They’ve made it quite comfortable for people to be overweight.. I was trim and fit, got dumped for overweight..	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 07:52 PM
2	People should be picky and have incredibly high standards I agree.. and when the people in Rome became androgynous, is when the Empire fell.. When the gap closes, the veil always lifts.. We created this whole social dynamic.. now we are seeing the repercussions of it all.. We are living in the cyber world and reality seems to be changing along with us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 09:29 PM
1	The ideal red pill man and the ideal "blue pill" (or any other dating strategy other than red pill) man are essentially the same I threw in the badass, which I perceive the red pill to be and women in control are what they resent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 08:46 PM
3	Nobody is judging you for having standards. We're judging you for being a dick about it. There’s nothing wrong with high standards if the person can live up to the potential of the standard they are setting. For example, if an overweight, lazy guy sets his standards for a beautiful, ambitious, fit woman, he can’t get his panties up in a bunch if she rejects him. ( which is extremely common) These guys that continually complain about being rejected, it’s probably for a good reason. So In otherwords, if your overweight, don’t be critical of women that are. If you don’t like your count…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 07:33 PM
5	The ideal red pill man and the ideal "blue pill" (or any other dating strategy other than red pill) man are essentially the same Not all women want the same type of man. Some women want the badass and some don’t. Some women want to be in control, others don’t. Some women want to be independent and others want to be supported. Some women have trauma bonding and others don’t. Different aged women have different wants and needs. Different cultured women have different wants and needs. So, can you specify what age range, culture and socioeconomic group your referencing here when you say all women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 10:16 PM
1	Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girls I could definitely see that.. the Bible Belt has a very narrow perspective and lacks diversity. It also lacks eloquence and artistry. Whereas Europe is the polar opposite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 03:21 PM
1	Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girls That explains it.. lol.. because women in more progressive areas are less overweight and work in a far greater array of professions apart from nursing.. I do however understand what you mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 07:08 PM
1	Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girls What part of the country do you live?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 07:01 PM
1	Why should men still be the ones to pursue? For several reasons..Because the chase and fight invokes testosterone production in men. It stimulates sex attractant, and keeps the fittest circulating into the gene pool. Otherwise you have a mass production or apathetic men that have no sex drive, impotence, and feminine qualities, which by nature are unattractive to females. By nature in all animal species it has always has always been that the strongest male gets the mate. If females are the aggressors, which is actually happening, than mal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 05:48 PM
2	Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girls It’s because in the south particularly, it’s still acceptable for the women to stay home and bear children while the men do laborious work. Women weight when they are SAHMs. Running after toddlers doesn’t take weight off. There’s no competition around them, they aren’t working so they see no point to eat right and exercise. Since complacent people have no desire to change, since the societal norms don’t put pressure and everyone around them is overweight, why would they care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 10:28 AM
2	Standards for men on dating are rising because relationships are becoming a luxury That’s the disgusting reality. Ultimately, what fails is family, community, devotion, integrity, and the moral compass shifts to nothing. Anything that takes work is going by the waste side. As far as relationships are a luxury rather than a need.. that still varies. In my experience, men are picking needier women so they don’t feel emasculated. We have to pretend to be needier than what we are because they need to feel like a hero. I know someone that lied and told a guy she has less money, so …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 02:34 PM
0	Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girls That couldn’t be more incorrect. Attractiveness doesn’t automatically make us hold out for wealthy men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 12:22 PM
5	Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girls I actually agree. Beautiful women are a threat. Even the most attractive guys have ego issues, in fact, they probably have more than average guys because they are used to getting whatever women they want. Less attractive women feel safe. The truth of the matter and based on personal experience. I was just as safe in either my heavy vessel and light vessel. We carry the same emotions with us regardless. Our experience is what invokes our behavior. If people would spend less time worrying about ph…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 12:21 PM
1	How do you think things would be framed socially and culturally if the dating dynamic between men and women was totally reversed It goes against the laws of nature to be honest. All the attractive girls can only still be pregnant by one man and have one baby at a time. Plus not every guy is attractive so he would have to sacrifice sex because there wouldn’t be enough to go around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 09:43 PM
1	Something most women just wish men understood Woman’s contribution.. We bring life into the world.. We only need a few guys to donate sperm and we are set. Guys need to fight for dominance.. it’s just nature	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 10:38 PM
1	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous They only use it on guys.. the boost	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 04:31 PM
0	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous Yep. It’s far easier for women.. it’s a 60/40 ratio on average, more men than women.. Problem is people are enhancing their pictures.. so who you meet up with might not be as hot as the pictures.. people misrepresent themselves on there all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 04:30 PM
1	Something most women just wish men understood That’s exactly what I was referring to.. unless you see a woman getting beat up in public. Women can’t on average defend themselves against men. Pure fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 10:33 AM
1	Something most women just wish men understood Where are your contributions to women? You just want to have sex and move on to the next? That’s what you call a virus. It’s a useless, infection of a life. Unless your a huge community contribution by doing volunteer or something to help a cause..	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 10:48 AM
9	Are women just overwhelmed with the dating options they have, or do they truly dislike the majority of them? Right, so you’d think they’d treat women better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 10:38 AM
1	Something most women just wish men understood Don’t men want to protect? Wtf is the purpose of them then? They don’t want to protect, they don’t want to provide.. what’s the contribution?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 10:37 AM
2	Something most women just wish men understood That’s just vague venom. No I don’t live in illusion	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 10:35 AM
1	Something most women just wish men understood Who said anything about being owed? I said women need protection.. we don’t have it. That’s the bottom line	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 10:34 AM
1	Something most women just wish men understood Evidently.. even the toxic men say that about the toxic previous.. where are these good men? Probably all taken. What’s on the market is a bunch of other womens leftovers, while some other women has mine. Damaged goods. If there’s good men out there, I’m probably too hurt to receive them.. because I have healed and rehealed myself several times.. Yes, I’m part of the problem. I don’t know where my boundaries are because I have no point of reference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 10:33 AM
1	Something most women just wish men understood It’s not an entitlement, it’s necessary.. I watched a woman get allured by a rapist in my last apartment complex. Next thing you know there’s cops all around.. Women aren’t safe from men. Men rape and abuse women on a daily..	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 10:27 AM
-1	Something most women just wish men understood It comes in both forms.. aggressive and passive aggressive.. Guys that don’t commit, that use monogamous women for sex and that pretend they will love them, are my problem.. Are you in that category?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 10:25 AM
3	Something most women just wish men understood The red flags are hidden for a long time.. my x husbands red flags came after our daughter was born. Last relationship, the pandemic brought them out. He became obsessed with Joe Rogan, Trump and red pill mentality.. I then became the enemy. The very last one, I was being used as a revenge tactic for the x wife to make her jealous. Some love bomb, others don’t. Since I’m a romanticist myself, love bombing is actually attractive.. Uggs.. by the time the red flags emerge, my heart is already veste…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 10:07 AM
7	Something most women just wish men understood How can you possibly say women are equal in strength? If the strongest woman can beat up the weakest man, that’s rare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 10:01 AM
4	Something most women just wish men understood Equal in wages, but not equal in physical strength. Huge difference. I’ll never claim to be stronger than a man. Im literally small and fragile. A large guy could kill me if he tried.. with his bear hands.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 09:43 AM
9	Something most women just wish men understood So why do women need less safety now? If anything we need more. Men are more dangerous now because we don’t have their protection. We have groups of guys that are actually teaming up against women. That’s the truth.. this red pill is against us.. and we are physically weak and vulnerable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 09:39 AM
4	Something most women just wish men understood That’s different than what my dad and grandfather said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 09:32 AM
3	Something most women just wish men understood No one knows what to tell me.. I bring out their anger and resentment.. my energy alone does. It’s like a gift and a curse all rolled into one. I was complacent and boring in my earlier years. I blended in with the main stream better.. but still, I was married to a covert narcissist for several years. I was put down and insulated that nothing was good enough. I’m different than most people.. I don’t blend well. I don’t dress particularly flashy. I don’t wear a lot of makeup, I don’t have a lot o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 09:31 AM
4	Something most women just wish men understood I hate that word.. it actually makes my skin crawl. Please refrain from using the word ( p….) Even men with daughters behave this way. Maybe not ALL men.. but it’s been my experience at 💯. According to men that want to date me, I’m beautiful, insatiable and alluring.. yet this has been my experience. I treat men like gold. I am generous, considerate and loving. I make it a special point to be all of those things, so that when the true colors come out, there’s no confusion on who the a hole was. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 09:11 AM
5	Something most women just wish men understood It’s not projecting, it’s venting.. I’m not lashing out at anyone	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 08:54 AM
4	Something most women just wish men understood It’s actually the truth.. I experienced it several times already.. They act like babies that have been rejected their whole life. When what they don’t see is their behavior is the reason. They project anger for every disagreement. Their anger is scary and triggering which makes us react.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 08:49 AM
7	Something most women just wish men understood Ya I completely agree.. I wish I was in the Vatican with you about now. Lol We have to be cautious because they have the advantage and believe me they use it. The scariest thing is it’s guys that have red pill mentality, that are the worst of the worst. They already have resentment, so they are the most likely to use force than anyone else. A little disagreement turns into a big fight in an instant because they usually have a huge temper. When they see in us is every rejection they ever had. The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 08:31 AM
3	Are women just overwhelmed with the dating options they have, or do they truly dislike the majority of them? You can’t tell who they are from dating apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 08:19 AM
1	Are women just overwhelmed with the dating options they have, or do they truly dislike the majority of them? Ya I’m super picky.. I look for the extraordinary types.. usually they are artists..	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 07:44 AM
12	Are women just overwhelmed with the dating options they have, or do they truly dislike the majority of them? Let’s put it this way.. on a dating app.. I have an average of 40 messages a day and I swipe left on about 90% of them. I don’t chat with more than a few at a time. Then I narrow it down even further.. who takes the second cut is the ones that don’t ask to meet up.. the wishy washy half assed I call them.. they make it known that they are there, but they are afraid of rejection so they keep distance. They may even call.. but the ones I choose are the ones that stand out.. Like one asked if he co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 07:39 AM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women It’s fine..lots of guys do that on here.. you wouldn’t be the first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 07:19 AM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women I believe I mentioned that it’s both genders. I blame any cult that has tried to prove points from resentment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 11:44 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women Don’t try to figure me out from Reddit.. you’ll be shocked that’s a poor representation of who I really am, lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 08:56 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women We were victims of it for centuries but risen above. I made sure I didn’t fall victim to it. Lots of women are still oppressed, particularly in underdeveloped countries	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 08:53 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women Why are you tracking me on other subreddits?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 08:50 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women When was I complaining about equality?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 08:42 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women Right.. why don’t you think I recognize it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 08:36 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women We are fortunate in America	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 08:36 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women That’s a generalization big time.. I only want equal wages for the same job. I don’t expect to be paid for on dates but men want to because they need to feel like a provider.. honestly I don’t care. Iv provided myself.. lol. I supported my x for 10 years . I don’t ignore data. I know we have risen as women.. in America.. and men loathe it	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 07:34 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women I don’t want to excess anything.. Just equality	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 06:56 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women Believe me I’m no victim, I’m a survivor.. I spend time advocating for abuse victims.. In America they are equal but the old country mentality is carried over..	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 06:45 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women Lol.., the way things should be.. really? Why’s that? And if it’s not, than women have proven themselves not submissive.. If you can’t control me, than your not dominant over me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 06:36 PM
2	Why RP is bad for men as well as women Misogynistic men want to control women. They see women as less than equal.. it’s no buzz word. It’s a distain towards women	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 06:35 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women I’m American too.. and I understand European culture because my relationships have been European men for the most part. While they are better at taking control, they are also extremely misogynistic and don’t believe in equality.. Hence the reason why foreign women are so submissive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 06:03 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women Americans in general are fat.. that’s why keeping fit and eating right is important. I don’t disagree with that.. and American men have boobs and soft hands which is gross. American men bitch about women like little bitches themselves, when foreign men actually know how to allure and masculinize a woman. Foreign men aren’t joining the red pill.. they are just using work ethics to actually capture a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 05:56 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women Lol.. why do you suppose that is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 05:34 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women We have been trying to find these men.. but often we are lied to and led to believe we have commitment, only to find out we are deceived..	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 05:30 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women It’s not always on the men to be moral.. But the immoral men and women can have each other. Unfortunately, moral people get manipulated by immoral people all the time.. either gender	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 05:29 PM
1	Does any of the ideologies here offer solitude as the solution, or do all of them after relationships and sex? Should one be "educated" by any of the ideologies, or do you think it's better to stay away from any pill for any person? Those breakups didn’t have to do with my not represented myself.. it had to do with my allowing myself to be manipulated and not standing my ground earlier on. I have a tendency to be a people pleaser.. so anyone that has a tendency to manipulate will take advantage of that. I have been working hard at rewiring everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 05:26 PM
1	Does any of the ideologies here offer solitude as the solution, or do all of them after relationships and sex? Should one be "educated" by any of the ideologies, or do you think it's better to stay away from any pill for any person? No, every time Iv broken things off, the reason was known..	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 05:23 PM
1	Does any of the ideologies here offer solitude as the solution, or do all of them after relationships and sex? Should one be "educated" by any of the ideologies, or do you think it's better to stay away from any pill for any person? If someone ghosts you, than move on.. it’s not everyone else’s fault that you were ghosted by one person.. it’s only that person’s rudeness. Why should the rest of us be punished because a woman ghosted you..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 05:22 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women If the individual decides to use women that want monogamous relationships, than it’s just part of the problem.. Giving guys ideas to attract women that are actually tactics against women, is completely toxic and will never attract good people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 05:20 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women So do you believe feminism makes women hate men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 05:17 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women If RP is supporting casual sex and using women that want commitment, than it’s bad for society..	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 04:07 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women Feminism by definition is the support of equal rights. Feminism even supports mens rights. There are plenty of male feminists actually. While there are radical feminists that might hate men, most of feminism supports men.. that’s just not what’s propagandized.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 04:05 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women Narcissists, particularly the covert type your describing was neglected as a child. They are needy and have victimized mentality because they were victimized as a child. However, they can turn it around and be a productive survivor, if they were self aware. She blames all men because her perpetrators were men.. and the men that abused her, were also abused. It’s a nasty viscous cycle that people need to stop. It’s not about the gender.. it’s about the narcissism, going from one generation to the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 02:33 PM
2	Why RP is bad for men as well as women It sounds like a narcissist your describing.. and it applies to both genders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 02:30 PM
1	Does any of the ideologies here offer solitude as the solution, or do all of them after relationships and sex? Should one be "educated" by any of the ideologies, or do you think it's better to stay away from any pill for any person? I can assure you, Iv been upfront with every single person Iv ever dated. Not once did I misrepresent myself.. it’s drew me in a lot of liars and manipulators.. but I’m not compromising my integrity and lowering myself to the same bad behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 12:51 PM
1	Does any of the ideologies here offer solitude as the solution, or do all of them after relationships and sex? Should one be "educated" by any of the ideologies, or do you think it's better to stay away from any pill for any person? Why should you be upfront? I don’t know., maybe because you know it’s wrong to be fake and a liar. Not every woman is a liar and not upfront.. so why just assume that’s how you’ll be treated and start off with honesty. It’s cowardly to just assume that you’ll be lied to. It’s a clean slate every time with each person.. otherwise, you just become part of the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 12:48 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women Sure tell them to work out and focus on career, absolutely.. but your missing the component that’s most important. The RP is also diverting men away from commitment and family. That’s where it becomes toxic.. especially because they are so focused on sex, they aren’t seeing that they are lying to women that aren’t toxic and just want commitment. They can’t have it both ways. If you want to be casual for the rest of your life, find women that want the same. Don’t lie to women that want commitment…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 12:42 PM
1	Does any of the ideologies here offer solitude as the solution, or do all of them after relationships and sex? Should one be "educated" by any of the ideologies, or do you think it's better to stay away from any pill for any person? Oh, for example, these type of men with RP behavior have been around forever, yet they went under the radar. Now there’s a cult and a name to it.. they actually admit to using women and never wanting commitment.. which actually has made things worse for them because women are aware of what’s actually happening. I’m fine with people that don’t want commitment but just stay away from those that do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 12:34 PM
1	Does any of the ideologies here offer solitude as the solution, or do all of them after relationships and sex? Should one be "educated" by any of the ideologies, or do you think it's better to stay away from any pill for any person? Don’t settle for abuse and being used. If your looking to have sex with different partners and not settle.. make sure the women don’t want monogamy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 12:21 PM
1	Why RP is bad for men as well as women It literally does the opposite. It gives young guys the wrong idea about women and perpetuates the rejection. Women with class and strong morals will stay away from a guy with those ideas. It literally is a form of toxic masculinity. That comes with a whiny toxic feminine aspect. These guys actually present themselves like little boys that never got a trophy. They act like they are having a temper tantrum because mommy didn’t buy the power ranger that they wanted, so they lay down in Walmart and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 12:14 PM
1	Does any of the ideologies here offer solitude as the solution, or do all of them after relationships and sex? Should one be "educated" by any of the ideologies, or do you think it's better to stay away from any pill for any person? Everyone needs to contribute to the situation.. otherwise it’s dysfunctional or a co dependency.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 12:06 PM
1	Does any of the ideologies here offer solitude as the solution, or do all of them after relationships and sex? Should one be "educated" by any of the ideologies, or do you think it's better to stay away from any pill for any person? Freedom of choice is way too loose, when peoples choices are continually bad. We don’t have boundaries on what’s going to be destructive, unless there’s evidence to back it up. Another problem is that evidence is there but has a different name to it.. the labels create diversions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 01:34 AM
1	Does any of the ideologies here offer solitude as the solution, or do all of them after relationships and sex? Should one be "educated" by any of the ideologies, or do you think it's better to stay away from any pill for any person? Yes, an already damaged society is what led up to a culture that lacks values and Integrity 😞. Even though everyone is aware of it, no one is going back because the technology is already there. The hooking up is because people are weak and they keep thinking there’s someone better out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 12:53 AM
1	Does any of the ideologies here offer solitude as the solution, or do all of them after relationships and sex? Should one be "educated" by any of the ideologies, or do you think it's better to stay away from any pill for any person? Sure but most people don’t have self control and they over do all of it until it. It’s too easy for people to be toxic and lazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 08:40 PM
1	Does any of the ideologies here offer solitude as the solution, or do all of them after relationships and sex? Should one be "educated" by any of the ideologies, or do you think it's better to stay away from any pill for any person? “ Women shouldn’t be settling on anyone “ as an independent woman and a provider.. I could reverse that statement in about a millisecond.. I know more females that provide than males. We can’t depend on men.. so classy women that value education, provide.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 08:38 PM
1	Does any of the ideologies here offer solitude as the solution, or do all of them after relationships and sex? Should one be "educated" by any of the ideologies, or do you think it's better to stay away from any pill for any person? Amen! Agree 💯.. I volunteer and advocate for narcissistic abuse among other things.. I do group volunteer work and promote community unity. That’s exactly right… hook up culture and it’s disgusting. The damage that it will do in society is off the chart. We are going back to our barbaric roots… People are failing miserably at virtue, nobility and integrity.. they don’t even respect themselves, of course they disrespect others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 08:33 PM
1	Does any of the ideologies here offer solitude as the solution, or do all of them after relationships and sex? Should one be "educated" by any of the ideologies, or do you think it's better to stay away from any pill for any person? My resentment doesn’t lead me to use and manipulate others. While, I might vocalize the ongoing female experience… I’m not acting upon revenge tactics and ways to hurt men. I’m still staying within my lane of kindness and respect within my relationships. I also don’t choose men according to their physical appearance alone.. while attraction is necessary.. it’s not solely based on muscle mass and finances. I don’t need a man’s money and I don’t care if a man doesn’t have a lot of money.. I’ll tak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 07:47 PM
2	Does any of the ideologies here offer solitude as the solution, or do all of them after relationships and sex? Should one be "educated" by any of the ideologies, or do you think it's better to stay away from any pill for any person? People who find a decent relationship dynamic modernly are blessed.. so many people are so far down the rabbit hole as to what’s important that they lost insight of the bigger picture. It’s truly sad that so many kids are completely controlled by the internet and have no energy or confidence to get out into the real world, become physically engaged and functionally dynamic. The disease is using the internet as your life source and never really experiencing the real thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 01:42 PM
–	Does any of the ideologies here offer solitude as the solution, or do all of them after relationships and sex? Should one be "educated" by any of the ideologies, or do you think it's better to stay away from any pill for any person? I think this red pill ideology is coming from a place of resentment rather than open heartedness. ( which In and of itself breeds negativity and invokes narcissism) The way things are now has just perpetuated lack of community, unity, forgiveness and anything sacred at all. It’s just about selfishness and what’s in it for me. Since none of it has seen the damaging long term effects… and no real wisdom is involved, as an older person, I see it as disastrous and highly toxic. The whole ideology is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 01:34 PM
3	Are women actively looking for a relationship on average less attractive than women passively seeking a relationship while casually dating partners? Self reflection already happened.. Experience of being used by those with this mentality is and was the problem. You don’t even begin to enjoy the depths of pleasure with a one night fling or someone sharing themselves with others. This is because the energy is split between different people making it impossible to receive the amount of power that can go into a highest stated desire romance. 2 people that actually love each other deeply have the capacity to feel pleasure in a way that others can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 08:10 PM
9	Are women actively looking for a relationship on average less attractive than women passively seeking a relationship while casually dating partners? That’s not true by any means.. lol.. If we don’t have places to meet men, we look on apps. It has nothing to do with being rejected. I work with all women, I don’t hang out at bars. Men don’t do yoga, that’s where I go.. all my friends are married.. so there’s no opportunity to meet men anywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 11:30 AM
2	Why is commitment so important for so many women? That’s just gross.. can’t enjoy it if the person doesn’t love me. There’s no point 👎 No, it’s unstable to have different people all the time. There’s a huge difference in actually making love to someone you have a bond with than random people that don’t respect you enough to stay. There’s no enjoyment in that. It just chips away at the soul.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 09:42 PM
1	the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren't Again, we aren’t primates anymore	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 06:56 PM
1	the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren't Women are attracted to different men as well. Biologically we look for the fittest. But we aren’t apes anymore.. just because your physically attracted to many women, doesn’t mean you need to act on it. If that’s what you want than don’t commit to anyone.. see what you end up with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 05:20 PM
0	What do you think about Living Alone Together (LAT)? It seems to me like it’s that typical casual attitude that we can be as selfish as possible and still have a quid pro quo arrangement. It’s a, “ I don’t trust you but but I’m still willing to give myself to you physically, “ arrangement. On a personal level, I think it sucks. I think having the second house might not be a bad idea, but if both can’t live under the same roof, than they probably shouldn’t call themselves a couple. Unless of course they have a casual arrangement and they are open t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 09:10 AM
1	Unless a girl tells you expressly that she's looking for a relationship its fair to be coy about whether or not you are because that's the exact same thing she's doing. And I’ll ask again how old are you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 08:42 PM
3	Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women? No one said women don’t self medicate.. men are just more like to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 08:41 PM
6	Unless a girl tells you expressly that she's looking for a relationship its fair to be coy about whether or not you are because that's the exact same thing she's doing. We learn with experience sister! The only reason why I’m this hardcore is because Iv had 4 narcissists in a row that have made me rethink all my actions. I have been deceived, one worse than the next. Yet, it’s my “ victim mentality “ that keeps me in these situations.. ( that’s a little snide remark)	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 09:19 PM
1	Unless a girl tells you expressly that she's looking for a relationship its fair to be coy about whether or not you are because that's the exact same thing she's doing. Commenting on your peeing standing up double standard ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 07:12 PM
3	Unless a girl tells you expressly that she's looking for a relationship its fair to be coy about whether or not you are because that's the exact same thing she's doing. The question was how old are you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 06:40 PM
1	Sure women want the top 20% of men but is it really that hard to be in that 20 percent of men? ~70% are obese/ overweight Check demographics on that.. because socioeconomic and rural vs city has a huge variance	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 06:12 PM
2	Unless a girl tells you expressly that she's looking for a relationship its fair to be coy about whether or not you are because that's the exact same thing she's doing. How old are you? Narcissist number 3 used the peeing standing up tactic as a way to provoke me. He would arrogantly and point proving try to pee outside just to show that he had some sort of male privilege.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 05:53 PM
5	Unless a girl tells you expressly that she's looking for a relationship its fair to be coy about whether or not you are because that's the exact same thing she's doing. Where to start here…. This tactic only works on people that are too oblivious on picking up on it. Those of us that are on to it and are aware of it, will reverse it on them in about 5 seconds. If I’m with a guy and I’m getting responses that are vague.. right there is where my questions get very specific. If I still get vague responses, I then ask why the specific answer isn’t being revealed. If he creates a diversion, I keep bringing him back to topic. I take note of what specific questions ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 05:48 PM
1	the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren't Peoples trauma and upbringing has a lot to do with choices that they make. Mommy issues/ daddy issues.. who to please.. etc etc. lots of psychology involved. When people begin to heal, they become more self aware and choose according to what serves. If there is no even give and take, the relationship can’t exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 03:38 PM
3	There's no such thing as a bad personality. A bad personality to most women = "you're not attractive/powerful enough to be able to say that shit to me" If your going by biology alone, women are attracted to power and money because that’s what provides for her young. However, strategies are in place for society that even the least desirable, least intelligent and least capable can still obtain a mate if they are willing to provide and be devoted. Not everyone is money hungry and shallow. There’s humble people that still exist. Yes, particularly highly attractive younger guys, get away with alarmingly arrogant attitudes and behaviors. Younger peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 01:35 PM
12	Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women? I’m a medical professional.. Men are less likely to seek professional help for depression so instead choose to self medicate with street drugs and alcohol. It’s not that women are more depressed than men, it’s just that they are 10x more likely to get a legal prescription.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 12:41 PM
0	the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren't If your going by biology alone, than women won’t choose biologically unfit mates. Those guys will just die out because they don’t provide. If they make attempts to steal women from the biologically fit men, than they will be killed trying. So, if every man thinks he’s going to be successful in spreading his seed, he will be humbled rather quickly. Biology alone will make sure that the strongest seed is the only survivor. So, maybe it’s a better idea to be devoted to one woman.. if your lucky eno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 12:24 PM
5	the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren't That’s terrible.. I love when guys cry in front of me. Fear leads to anger if it’s suppressed. I’d prefer tears over anger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 04:44 AM
4	the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren't I’m completely different than that. I prefer artists over meat heads. I can’t speak for others but artistry is what I appreciate. I’m literally a romanticist.. so I appreciate anything that’s eloquent and charming. I have an appreciation for hard core working men as far as work outside, etc. but I have no interest in investing time in anyone that doesn’t acknowledge emotions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 02:33 AM
9	the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren't If your an artist than you must be very feeling and emotional… otherwise why would you allude to art. I’m an artist also so I appreciate artistry in men . I’m not very traditional.. Although I do believe family is best for children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 02:03 AM
11	the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren't No I would call anyone pathetic if they refuse to look at what matters and base their entire agenda upon sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 01:53 AM
5	the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren't That’s sad. Men will actually lie and pretend to want a family because they want sex alone. That’s a pretty pathetic person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 01:49 AM
1	Why is generalization treated as a bad thing, when it's the most efficient way to approach the problem of dating? Your perspective is based on women that are unhealed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 01:26 AM
1	Why is generalization treated as a bad thing, when it's the most efficient way to approach the problem of dating? BP men also put effort into attracting women and careers. They do it for the sake of the family. Only women who are trauma bonded despise them. Only narcissistic women despise kindness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 01:21 AM
0	Why is generalization treated as a bad thing, when it's the most efficient way to approach the problem of dating? The likelihood of a RP man to attract someone that is actually stable enough to sustain a relationship, is very slim considering that she knew from the start where he was coming from. He’s blatantly admitted that he doesn’t want commitment or respect her. The only women that will respond to that are women with no self worth. Blue pill men are going to attract stable women that want commitment. He’s proven himself to be a fatherly family man. Women that don’t want families or enjoy attention from…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 11:51 PM
1	Why is generalization treated as a bad thing, when it's the most efficient way to approach the problem of dating? Also keep in mind that attractive men have a totally different experience than attractive women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 01:13 PM
1	Why is generalization treated as a bad thing, when it's the most efficient way to approach the problem of dating? Not true..being attractive doesn’t necessarily get you more preferences. That’s illusionary. Being attractive deters people also. Lots of guys are in fear of beauty. They think they want it but once it actually reciprocates, guys can’t handle it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 12:27 PM
1	Why is generalization treated as a bad thing, when it's the most efficient way to approach the problem of dating? Which women are you referring to that do not? Highly attractive younger women will want highly attractive younger men. That’s how it is.. why? Because the highly attractive stay within the highly attractive realm. Younger people will typically be more shallow in this area. Lesser attractive will still make attempts for more attractive mates because they don’t have self awareness yet. Then when they get rejected they get resentful. Yet, there might be lesser attractive person that is suitable for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 10:02 AM
3	Why is generalization treated as a bad thing, when it's the most efficient way to approach the problem of dating? Because it’s nature. The red pill is in resentment of nature. Women are picky naturally because we are seeking the fittest to fertilize our eggs. We don’t want the red pill men because they are not fittest. They literally admit to not wanting monogamy. Right off the bat, that’s a turn off. We want monogamous relationships by nature because we need security for the infant. Red pills admit to using women.. again not the fittest. Innately we know that’s insecurity which doesn’t protect young, there…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 02:43 AM
-5	Men should stop blaming feminism for the problems in society If men were are strong and dominant as they once were, women wouldn’t have needed to compensate. It’s not the woman’s fault that men became weak. Hard times make hard men, hard men make soft times, soft times make soft men and soft men make hard times	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 02:08 AM
1	Is it harder or easier to date as a man with a low sex drive ? Not in the slightest ..	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 06:53 PM
1	Is it harder or easier to date as a man with a low sex drive ? Then match up with a woman with a lower sex drive. I think this is an important thing to not be unevenly yolked. It’s not about validation, it’s about satisfaction. 2x a month does not fly for most people.. plus intimacy is important for connection. Women don’t need sex for validation.. it’s too easy to get it if that’s all that’s wanted.. I’ll be honest, that wouldn’t work for me, but communication is important for that reason..	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 06:52 PM
1	People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for that US .. I lived in the NYC metro area for a good portion of my life and now in fL.. Is Chad in his 40s wealthy? Because I’m in my 40s	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 01:49 AM
1	People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for that I was in college for 10 years.. Went to 4 different colleges.. I’v been in my career for almost 20.. I was married for 17 years. I moved to different locations, had several different positions where I worked. Not once, have I met someone that is being described here as Chad. I see that as some fictional character that doesn’t line up with reality. Social media has skewed peoples sense of reality. Adults that have reached maturity and actually have lived, don’t even think about these things. This…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 11:07 AM
1	Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)? When you grow up you’ll realize the ignorance of that statement	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 04:36 PM
1	Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)? There is no definition.. it’s not defined anywhere	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 04:36 PM
1	Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)? Secondly, in my experience as well as the other women I’m chatting with here.. plus my girlfriends, Insecure men are far more likely to cheat than secure men. It’s a misconception that secure men cheat more because they have more options. Insecure people cheat because they need validation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 02:16 PM
1	Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)? And my argument is that they shouldn’t expect it. Not all celebrities cheat anyway	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 02:14 PM
1	Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)? It’s misconceived that the best looking men are the cheaters. It’s actually the insecure men that cheat the most.. which aren’t the best looking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 12:03 PM
1	Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)? Stating what they do and if a woman should just accept that because she’s privileged enough to marry a celebrity.. no.. no one should accept that. But because people are willing to compromise dignity for money, many of them know and choose not to look.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 12:01 PM
1	Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)? What’s the point of pointing out the obvious that it’s what they do..? HVM are not celebrities anyway.. what gives a man value is integrity and righteousness. Cheating regardless of who he is, just makes him a POS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 11:59 AM
1	Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)? Because it’s not true across the board. Lots of guys are faithful to their wives. I mean good looking men that have opportunity	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 11:22 AM
1	Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)? That doesn’t justify its lack of integrity. Celebrities don’t get a free ticket to adultery just because they are celebrities. They are just people.. they aren’t special	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 11:18 AM
1	Women who hang out with old sugar daddies are often emotionally manipulative and should be shamed just as much as the old men What’s sad is people willing to compromise their dignity to get out of a bad situation. If the conditions were normal, the foreign women would not have taken the ugly old sugar daddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 12:02 PM
1	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Men don’t hate women.. they resent women.. There’s a difference	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 01:04 AM
1	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Males in all species have to actually work to court the females.. why is it so hard for human males to accept? It’s like they resent nature.. it’s not our fault that’s how we were wired. We can’t change that the fastest sperm gets the egg.. it’s the same thing but in larger form. The guy that puts in the most effort gets the women. Effort increases sperm count because it increases testosterone levels.. sitting home doesn’t win the race.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 12:23 AM
1	Women who hang out with old sugar daddies are often emotionally manipulative and should be shamed just as much as the old men Oftentimes they buy mail order brides from overseas.. it’s basically human trafficking but in a sort of legal way . Those women want a ticket out of their horrible country, that they will take any chance they can to get it. It’s very sad	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 12:18 AM
1	Women who hang out with old sugar daddies are often emotionally manipulative and should be shamed just as much as the old men Those relationships are proven to be toxic, as evidence by the high divorce rate of those marriages and yes the manipulation that happens by the younger person. The older person in that regard is less to blame because they are just trying to not be lonely. Since they have the means, why not hire a young person to marry them and basically prostitute herself for his money upon his death and or her death. Yes, young men do it to older ladies too..	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 12:16 AM
1	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. I’m not chastising anyone and I have no reason to be insecure.. I wouldn’t date an older man so I can’t relate to it but if other women want a limp one, that’s their problem.. lmao. Older men have been trying to date me for years. They have never succeeded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 01:10 AM
1	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. 10 years is not a big deal.. Iv dated men 10 years younger	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 07:11 PM
1	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. Maybe you do realize to my every 10 men trying to date me of all ages.. a man my age will be lucky to have 2 .. my fiancé is attractive and still didn’t have the same amount of approaches on the dating site I did. That’s just a hard truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 04:06 PM
1	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. That would be like saying I’m jealous of my daughter.. and the answer would be no.. Im not jealous because Iv been there and done that. If an older woman is jealous of a younger woman that means they didn’t get men when they were younger. I got men then and I can get them now. Nothing at all has changed for me, so no I’m not jealous of younger women. Im sorry if that disappoints ya!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 04:04 PM
1	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. I wouldn’t expect a 25 year old to find a 40 year old attractive.. that’s perfectly acceptable.. ( even though they do for some odd reason) Mommy issues.. But when I hear old arrogant men thinking they can attract any 20 year old they want.. it’s ridiculous and comical. Unless they have lots of money.. they will be shit out of luck ..	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 02:19 PM
1	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. Hands down.. older to me is 100% more attractive.. men or women	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 02:11 PM
1	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. Sometimes they are.. but not always..sometimes older women trump younger for several different reasons including physical appearance. There’s character traits that attribute to physical attractiveness also.. listen to them speak for 5 minutes and see if they are still more attractive. If your going by snapshots alone, than your highly in illusion .	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 02:11 PM
1	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. I sense a lot of insecurity coming from this sub of guys that can’t seem to get one woman at all.. lol 😂. I can assure you, I have far less to be insecure about than the guys here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 02:06 PM
1	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. I’m not dictating a thing.. I only wish someone could have saw my dating profile page and how over half of the men trying to date me were cubs. Some of which were very attractive and are saying the polar opposite of what I’m hearing on this sub. Maybe younger guys are afraid of being shamed for having older preferences.. So it’s not just older guys that like younger women.. many younger guys like older women.. Sure you could say mommy issues.. just as you could say daddy issues for girls that ta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 02:04 PM
1	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. If I’m being corrected by 25 year olds perspectives., than I’m damn eligible to correct a 25 year old on something they have not lived through..	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 01:38 PM
1	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. And physical attractiveness does not disappear with age necessarily.. There’s an attractiveness in an older person with a bit of wrinkles that is absent in a younger person. When I was younger I thought just the way you think now.. I thought people my parents age were ugly as hell.. Now that I’m older, I look back and understand why I thought that way but looking at that same scenario through older eyes. I wasn’t correct on the way I was perceiving the situation. I just didn’t appreciate what ag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 01:35 PM
1	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. Not all younger people are shallow.. we are speaking in generalities here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 12:41 PM
1	Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place. There’s several things that make a person attractive. A younger woman in general may have less wrinkles and more elasticity but they lack other characteristics that older women possess. I didn’t even come into my own until I got a bit older. As a younger woman I was highly insecure and my character was undeveloped. I said ridiculous things and was irrational. I was simply put immature. I’m far more secure with myself as an older woman. I’m more comfortable in my own skin. Bedroom skills and driv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 12:21 PM
1	People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for that I don’t know any Chads.. I don’t think I ever did. In high school, the guys that attracted the most women ended up gay. Gay men are attractive for some reason..	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:58 PM
1	People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for that Yes it is.. what country are you from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:46 PM
1	Older men hitting on younger women is not harassment, nor immoral, nor illegal As long as they are legal.. don’t forget plenty of younger guys hit on older women. I personally don’t understand it but they disagree that the younger women is at peak attractiveness. I was far more attractive as I got older, so that doesn’t stand true across the board. When I was 22, myself and my girlfriends at 22, had zero desire for men our dads age. We actually saw it gross. I don’t understand why it’s so matter of fact that older guys can get younger women so easily.. It’s not really that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 08:36 PM
1	People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for that The guys on this sub can’t get women.. I’m curious of why a successful handsome like yourself, would be wasting time here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 07:43 PM
1	People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for that Ok wonderful! I’m wondering if that his story is even true.. Otherwise why would he need this sub? This sub is for guys that can’t get women.. and the women here are just trying to explain why	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 07:41 PM
1	People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for that So, what’s the complaint then? Who cares what other people do	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 07:30 PM
1	People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for that I’ll take boring over arrogant..	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 01:35 PM
1	People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for that Looks are shallow and only immature people are infatuated with that idea	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 01:27 PM
1	People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for that He’s appeared in front of me on more than one occasion. Iv been asked out by a cardiologist, a lawyer, a chiropractor, a high class business owner.. yet Iv chosen the humble type men.. I’m not impressed with arrogance and I can’t be bought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 12:10 PM
1	People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for that That’s not the guy I’d be chasing,	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 11:22 AM
1	People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for that If a man states that he’s attractive and gets all these women, I find that bragging unattractive. I’d take the humble guy that would actually appreciate me. I’d rather someone that cares enough..	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 11:21 AM
1	Why do men shame women for wanting a man with money, but shamless profess how they want a beautiful woman? I think that in modern day women are also making decent money and holding high positions. In my experience, beautiful women sure can be abundant, but so can low socioeconomic beautiful women.. In my experience also.. educated men prefer educated women.. you don’t see women collecting from the system with many classy guys.. beautiful or not.. Class and status plays a huge role.. Educated men are turned off by improper English vernacular and trashy taste.. my family is from a relatively high middl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/22 10:10 PM
1	Why do men shame women for wanting a man with money, but shamless profess how they want a beautiful woman? I was an extremely beautiful woman in my 20s. In my 30s after being emotionally abused I gained weight.. in my 40s I gained perspective and now I’m back to working on self care again, faced with the same issues I did when I was in my 20s. I’ll just say that men with low self esteem think they want beauty but truly they can’t handle it. No one thinks that with a beautiful woman comes levels of security. That’s why men with low self esteem prefer women that aren’t attractive after being tantalized…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/22 05:58 PM
1	Why are most divorces initiated by women? There are good devoted men, that believe in marriage., some women get lucky	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 10:49 PM
1	Why are most divorces initiated by women? Because women want to re marry .. women want devotion and commitment	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 02:34 PM
1	What are traits and pastimes that are typically deemed "masculine" vs "feminine"? Uneducated when it comes to country activities but more educated in other areas.. It depends on the topic. Sure I don’t know a damn thing about flattening rabbits.. but I can haul a cab in Manhattan.. I won’t watch football with the guys but I’ll sip on my cosmo with my legs crossed. It’s just different, I get it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 09:57 PM
1	What are traits and pastimes that are typically deemed "masculine" vs "feminine"? My favorite topic because I am a city girl that moved to the country.. Country women carry a much more masculine demeanor than city girls.. City guys are more metrosexual than country guys.. City women are more likely to be educated and less domestic but they have more eloquence and cultural awareness. Country women seem to be more aggressive and participate in masculine activities such as fishing, muddin and farming.. City women are perceived to be Princess - like by country people..	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 06:17 PM
1	Men and Women both do the exact same things they complain about in dating. We also became civilized at some point.. so choosing primitive behavior over what’s logical and moral is actually regressed behavior. A man doesn’t have to act like a chimpanzees or a dog. People can be devoted and monogamous.. The rest is lack of self control and ego driven… nothing else.. The seed of certain men shouldn’t be spread. It prevents humanity from evolving.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 11:57 PM
1	Men and Women both do the exact same things they complain about in dating. When men cheat it’s not usually for the same reasons. Men can cheat and be perfectly happy back at home with the women.. it doesn’t seem to need any good reasons.. it’s just because they want variety or they need stimulation to inflate the ego. When women do cheat, it’s because they aren’t getting enough attention or they are being abused. It could also be because their man cheated and they are getting revenge. Women are more likely to actually fall in love with their lover.. they have romantic …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 09:39 PM
1	Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men? Making prostitution legal is still placating the lack. It’s actually making it even more assessable to cheat. Sure, they will do it illegal anyway but why make it justified.. Putting womens sexuality on display and giving permission to fornicate is a quick fix, but the guy who pays for a prostitute is still not truly validated.. He then becomes a sex addict and uses that as an excuse to put the work into anything real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 06:17 PM
1	Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men? It’s never our intention to not align with men, but in my experience it’s men that don’t want to align with women.. It’s a jump on my bandwagon but I’m not jumping our yours. In otherwords, placate emotional immaturity while allowing them to feel like hero’s all in one.. Placate sexual desire while sacrificing our own right to choose who we want to be with. I have no problem aligning with men, as long as the respect is mutual..	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 06:13 PM
2	CMV, Relationships aren't as difficult as so many people make them out to be. We understand this.. but sometimes they don’t see it until it’s too late.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 01:44 AM
1	CMV, Relationships aren't as difficult as so many people make them out to be. How sad is that.. This is the ruination of humanity.. Women are usually who file for divorce and it’s not until it comes to that, the man then wants us back almost every time.. They don’t appreciate what’s in front of them..until it’s not there.. They think the grass is greener.. only to find out that the greener was the woman that was devoted to them..	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 01:43 AM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? So they don’t alternate? Bottom is always bottom and top is always top? Doesn’t seem fair	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 09:43 PM
1	Being a short guy is not the dating handicap its made out to be. Really?? My tall girlfriends were far pickier about height than me	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 01:10 PM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Yea I get that but I can’t wrap my head around it. Sometimes it’s just about the sex. Sometimes a straight guy wants anal sex performed on him but has no intentions or interest connecting with the person emotionally.. I feel like that’s where it becomes true sexuality as opposed to sex alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 01:41 AM
1	Being a short guy is not the dating handicap its made out to be. I personally don’t think height matters in guys only to very tall girls. I’m only 5’1 so everyone is taller than me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 12:28 AM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? So he prefers women..? This was a generalized statement and based on the men on this sub. What was it about being with men that was fulfilling to him that he couldn’t get from a women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 10:31 PM
0	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? That shouldn’t change your sexual preference..	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 03:23 PM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Hell no.. they don’t like these topics	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 09:18 PM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Ok 👍… than that’s the answer.. they only want sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 09:17 PM
0	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? That might be true.. but it’s because they choose that. The minority want exclusiveness	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:48 PM
-1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? It can’t be the same. It’s a completely different dynamic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:47 PM
2	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? I’m not guessing.. I just see a clear difference. Men are more willing to participate in promiscuousness.. therefore there’s more swinging and swapping.. I know this for a fact. Also high drug usage..	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:46 PM
4	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Exactly.. for that I’ll agree..	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:43 PM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? I absolutely do.. in my family.. friends and it’s not the same at all.. huge differences	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:20 PM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? No.. I have both.. I get that .. Iv been told	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:17 PM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Men are easy because men are easy.. lol.. Lazy guys will have gay sex so they don’t have to work so hard for it. That’s sad	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:17 PM
0	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Are you sure about that? Lots of straight guys have gay sex and don’t tell a soul.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:15 PM
0	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? It’s not nearly as much and it’s not nearly for the same reasons.. they move on quickly and don’t worry about cheating as much .. Not all of them want exclusiveness.. they like experimenting with others.. Yes, apparently that phenomenon occurs too.. straight guys that hide the gay tendencies have an exclusive understanding with gay men and other bisexual men that it never slips out.. These men are generally heterosexual but like occasional gay sex. Also for some guys it’s hard to get a woman, th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:14 PM
0	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Yes.. but they don’t care as much as women do about the cheating	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:07 PM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Not exactly the same type of problems in general	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:07 PM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Are you bisexual?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:06 PM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Yes.. a lot	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:05 PM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? I wanted other opinions	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:05 PM
-1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? They are closer to understand each other than straight couples	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:04 PM
-1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? I feel like it’s in a different way..it’s not in the same context	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:03 PM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? It depends on the women.. ugly chicks can be friends with men or women that are into guy activity.. feminine women can’t relate to guy activity so we are more like objects	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:02 PM
0	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? It’s not	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:01 PM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Right so gay guys have it easier	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 08:00 PM
0	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? It’s not.. straight guys don’t like feminine women as friends.. they only want sex with them	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 07:59 PM
0	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Yes, several gay male friends.. Those are the only guys I can be friends with. Yes, lesbians are typically feminists so they don’t get along with straight guys often. Gay men are often also feminists because they support equality.. so again, another reason why attractive females aren’t friends with straight guys. Ugly chicks and straight guys often make good friends because they aren’t really attracted to them and ugly chicks take on boyish characteristics often. Why? Because they couldn’t get a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 07:58 PM
0	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Yes.. the exceptional few that want to commit, definitely struggle	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 07:54 PM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Then there’s the answer for the all the women haters!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 06:11 PM
0	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Absolutely.. so for all the guys that don’t want monogamy. There’s what you should do and keep women out of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 06:10 PM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? It’s not nearly as passionate… men just have swapping and it’s an understanding.. With women that will be far less likely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 06:08 PM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? I understand that but the tribes intermingle and actually form relationships..	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 05:20 PM
1	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Yes actually.. they seem to be fine with sex alone and move on.. they do have relationships but oftentimes they are promiscuous	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 05:11 PM
3	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? So basically what your saying is exactly the point of my post.. men and women can’t relate.. so unless they form a complimentary connection and a yin/yang	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 05:01 PM
7	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Some men never grow out of that phase unfortunately..	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 04:30 PM
–	What are the consequences of having a colourful past? I pity people who don’t have enough self respect to abstain from allowing someone to use their body as a vessel. There’s no amount of pleasure in the world that erases the feelings of being objectified by another person… and there’s no amount of justification that excuses it. This is not gender specific.. it’s for any gender that doesn’t respect another person consensual or not. People consent to sex because they feel like they have to in order to have any connection.. but it’s a horrible aftert…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 01:26 PM
1	Good looking men are more confident than their counterparts as a result of positive re-enforcement Yes, people who feel inadequate will lash out at those who are willing to demonstrate vulnerability.I was describing my experience and got an attitude from someone that obviously would have been right in line with the perpetrators that I’m describing. I attract these people in my personal life and even online. I’m not trying to play the victim.. I’m just stating truth.. Thank you for the respect and understanding 🤜🤛	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 11:32 PM
1	CMV : You can only be attracted and aroused to biological aspects of a human being, not abstract qualities such as wealth and career There’s chemistry that your describing and there’s also compatibility. Both are equally important. Our social construct plays a huge role in that decision. We may be biologically attracted to certain people but if we aren’t compatible, the relationship will fail. Chemistry will wane, compatibility will be less likely to. For a woman raised to look at status as a reason to pick a mate.. and if her father had a high status. She will also look for a mate that has a high status or intelligence. The …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 04:01 PM
1	Good looking men are more confident than their counterparts as a result of positive re-enforcement I’m not claiming to be a victim	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 03:34 AM
4	Q4W: Do you care whether or not a man has been “run through”? Yes, his past relationship status is important because it shows whether he’s had commitment issues in the past. If he has a history of promiscuous ness, that is a red flag.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 06:29 PM
1	Good looking men are more confident than their counterparts as a result of positive re-enforcement The pretty girl gets unwarrantedly attacked and bullied.. gets unrighteously judged and is hated for absolutely no Reason.. I experienced it from 2 different sides. When I was overweight and less attractive, I saw exactly what the less attractive person sees.. I wasn’t hated and no one cared what I said or did. I was treated with more respect also.. I made a transformation.. I became fit, lost a ton of weight and was fortunate to not have had stretch marks or skin sag.. My x husband who insulted…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 05:13 PM
1	Good looking men are more confident than their counterparts as a result of positive re-enforcement There’s literally articles written about these topics so this isn’t so obscure. I had to take a lot of psychology and these topics get brought up continually. They aren’t abnormal and they are extremely common. Character and personality does play a huge role as well.. however attractive women particularly aren’t being judged by character most of the time. If someone is attractive and a great character, they are hated. Less attractive people will find everything wrong with them as an excuse to ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 04:31 PM
1	Good looking men are more confident than their counterparts as a result of positive re-enforcement I’m bringing up the flip side to point out that even attractive people have their own set of problems. The happiest couples I know are average looking. Attractive people get more temptation because they are more desired.. however they also have the biggest commitment complications because of the insecurity that they invoke in others. It’s not ever thought of that attractiveness comes with its own set of issues.. Not just that.. no one has pity for attractive people. They aren’t allowed to compla…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 04:01 PM
1	Good looking men are more confident than their counterparts as a result of positive re-enforcement The OP above 👆 is completely wallowing that good looking men get positive reinforcement and ugly guys get ignored. I brought up the flip side of the equation from the beautiful women perspective. There’s no wallowing.. just bringing up experiences..	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 01:26 PM
1	Good looking men are more confident than their counterparts as a result of positive re-enforcement Attractive women are hated by both men and women flashy or not. They are automatically assumed to be conceded and narcissistic just because of beauty. Only attractive men like attractive women. Unattractive men resent attractive women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 12:35 PM
1	Good looking men are more confident than their counterparts as a result of positive re-enforcement I’m far from an incel.. I’m a female first off… lol.. secondly I’d probably be considered the opposite of an incel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 12:30 PM
1	Good looking men are more confident than their counterparts as a result of positive re-enforcement No, people treat attractive people like shit because of jealousy. I don’t want other women’s husbands.. but often I get accused of trying to..	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 07:24 AM
1	How are women finding dates in 2022? Right.. we don’t need them.. they need us	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/22 11:44 PM
1	How are women finding dates in 2022? We don’t necessarily have to go on apps. Guys approach at various different places such as the gym, work or even the grocery store.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/22 11:44 PM
1	Good looking men are more confident than their counterparts as a result of positive re-enforcement Eventually good looking people end up abused. Both attractive men and woman are badly threatening to the other therefore the less attractive jealous counterparts abuse them. As a woman who was considered beautiful for most of my life, I was treated better across the board when I was overweight.. More women wanted to be friends with me and guys found me less challenging.. When I returned to being fit and beautiful after a weight loss and divorce.. I became threatening again. Less attractive peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/22 05:36 PM
1	If a maidenless man is a bad relationship choice because "there must be something wrong with him", then so is a woman who's had a string of failed relationships. What’s wrong is poor choices most the time. Women continue a stream of dysfunctional relationships because we may have issues with boundaries. By no means does that infer that she has “ something wrong “ necessarily. It might just mean that she’s caring and loves without conditions. She might reach a point where she’s sick and tired and actually change her patterns of bad choices. So what’s defective is her allowing men to treat her like shit. There might be some situations where she has commitm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 10:06 PM
1	Men fighting for women You were the one that said for me to shut up.. Who are you to control my freedoms..	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 06:49 PM
1	Men fighting for women That’s exactly what I’m talking about.. the incels that team up because they can’t get a woman.. They are angry at women because they can’t get one to be attracted to them. Sure jump in male feminists too.. Male feminists get women.. misogynistic men use women and are usually single	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 12:49 AM
3	The vast majority of male problems in getting casual sex or relationships stem from an overwhelming fear of rejection I absolutely respect everything you said.. Going with the flow is absolutely the best route for everyone to take. Men are probably more afraid than women because they have the whole pressure that other men put upon them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 10:29 PM
1	Men fighting for women I don’t know your age range.. but the fact your calling them girls tells me you are young. Women that are mature don’t act like that.. that’s a teenager behavior your describing. Women aren’t interested in making their man jealous and don’t hang around guy friends that orbit just for ego purposes.. If a man orbits me knowing I’m committed, than he’s an idiot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 09:08 PM
1	Men fighting for women Than they are losers.. because the government barely provides	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 09:04 PM
1	Men fighting for women A real woman doesn’t have to shut up… Only an oppressed uneducated woman takes that role	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 09:03 PM
1	Men fighting for women Fighting for equality because we can’t physically defend ourselves is nothing to disrespect.. If anything it should be commended. Real men do defend women’s rights .	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 09:02 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Yes, I’m just saying it doesn’t have to be physical in humans but still has fighting components.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 09:00 PM
1	Men fighting for women First off, I’m not a bro, I’m a woman.. lol I’m clearly stating what “ women “ find attractive. Your point of reference is that I’m a man making these statements.. that’s hilarious	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 08:59 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Suppression isn’t what I’m talking about.. it’s using it the wrong way with the wrong intentions. If you are committed with respect for the other, you won’t have to suppress it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 08:22 PM
1	Men fighting for women They are using each other.. just for sex. They don’t care because they both have the same agenda	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 08:20 PM
1	Men fighting for women I said it doesn’t necessarily mean it is.. not that it’s not.. just that’s not the only way to handle it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 08:19 PM
1	Men fighting for women Everyone has an opinion. The animal kingdom was a representation of how males behave naturally. Defeated males behave differently. If you saw the lion king.. you’ll see a representation of how Scar behaved. Slimy and crafty because he didn’t have the skills to actually win against the alpha physically.. he then eluded to the low road. The males that are defeated here on this sub are evident. They disrespect women, don’t commit and use slimy tactics to get a woman to sleep with them. There’s no b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 08:18 PM
2	Men fighting for women That’s the most insightful mature comment I read on this sub. And your 100% correct.. They see it as such because women are still figuring it out too. That’s why teenage girls or early 20s, end up dating older men. It eventually evens out like you said. These here complaining are either late bloomers or just raised poorly	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 03:50 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Fighting doesn’t have to constitute violence. I’m talking about pursuing past the other guy. The man that got my attention isn’t a passive “ I’ll call you sometimes” it’s an I’m interested and I’m going to get to know you as a human being and not treat me like an object. The guy that’s willing to stand up to other guys that disrespect me or dishonor me. Someone with nobility and integrity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 09:46 AM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? So men have no respect or value but women do? Some women don’t? Than where could that be turning the family unit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 11:39 PM
1	Men fighting for women I’m over 40 and I do know how my man feels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 11:37 PM
1	Men fighting for women If it’s overall sexless yes.. but not occasionally not in the mood. Plus, men don’t provide solely anymore. Thank God.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 11:36 PM
1	Men fighting for women Still not following	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 11:34 PM
1	Men fighting for women If fathers are removed it’s because they are abusing or they are not providing	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 11:33 PM
1	Men fighting for women No they are losers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 11:32 PM
1	Men fighting for women That’s pathetic…and it’s unfortunate for them. It’s a bad choice for life and they will regret it	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 11:31 PM
1	Men fighting for women What does that mean flexible?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 11:30 PM
1	Men fighting for women Not “ fighting over a woman “ but actually doing to work to get a woman. They are on this sub complaining that the top 10% always win.. why do you suppose they win? No they don’t see her as prey.. that’s ridiculous. They see her as a life partner if they are noble. Only scumbags see them as prey.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 11:29 PM
1	Men fighting for women The lazy sperm doesn’t get to fertilize the egg.. and it dies. Same thing in the micro as it is in the macro. The lazy man loses and complains that the top 10% get the women. If the coward is wary that the woman is baiting him to see if he’s man enough to father her offspring, than he loses the opportunity to have offspring.. It’s survival of the fittest.. and the wary coward loses.. that’s nature.. so either you buck up or buck out. Your choice… Women who are oppressed and desperate might take …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 11:25 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? If you have such little respect for the opposite sex than that means you don’t value love or family. It means that your self worth is non existent and you’d rather just use your body or someone else’s body for a vessel of cheapness, than actually be brave enough to be vulnerable. By that statement you lose. There’s no winning in dishonor and apathy..	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 11:20 PM
1	Men fighting for women I think the point is that people don’t honor each other enough. Sex is just sex, it has no value and people just allow themselves to be used.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 10:56 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Then he should clarify	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 09:53 PM
1	Men fighting for women If your having sex with someone at least be stand up enough to see the person as a friend or worth fighting for. You just admitted that sex isn’t important enough to fight for, therefore your saying that a friend is worth more to you than a woman your having sex with. If your not caring enough for even a friend ship with the women, than you don’t deserve to have her for sex. Yes, it’s her lack of self worth that allows it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 09:52 PM
1	Men fighting for women The resentment of women based on a man’s ego and pride is the most cowardly way out that could ever be discussed. It’s pathetic really. Any real man would recognize how pathetic it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 09:47 PM
1	Men fighting for women Yes, thankfully some people are righteous	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 09:45 PM
1	Men fighting for women If she’s a real woman that loves you, she’d appreciate it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 09:44 PM
1	Men fighting for women People who get away with deception and lies eventually will get their own. It comes back around.. trust me on that. Iv lived long enough to see it… the walls eventually cave in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 09:42 PM
1	Men fighting for women I’m not justifying deception and using in either direction.. no I’m not triggered. I’m just grateful I found a good man knowing that your type is out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 09:38 PM
1	Men fighting for women That’s only one factor.. there’s several more.. but most of the other ones, are completely vile.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 08:21 PM
1	Men fighting for women If your going to be vile enough to just have sex with women without respect or care, it couldn’t be more cowardice to actually admit that and not be brave enough to tell her first. That would just make you a pure scumbag.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 08:19 PM
1	Men fighting for women Why would you want sex with someone that’s not worth anything to you..? Secondly, do you lie and tell her she is worth something? Or do you own your vile statement?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 08:18 PM
1	Men fighting for women Nope.. the deterioration has only be found on the Y. Do research if you want	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 06:53 PM
1	Men fighting for women No, I’m pointing out that modern man has become so apathetic due to the deteriorating Y chromosome that they would rather be with men romantically or team up with other men against women	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 06:41 PM
1	Men fighting for women Not caring is a form of apathy.. Apathy comes from complacency and giving up because the vitality isn’t there to be alive and live with passion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 06:35 PM
5	Men fighting for women That’s correct	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 06:34 PM
1	Men fighting for women Resentment leads to apathy	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 09:54 AM
1	Men fighting for women Please don’t use that word.. it’s rude and disrespectful. It’s degrading actually. Fighting for doesn’t necessarily mean physical fighting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 09:54 AM
3	Men fighting for women Alpha has changed from brute strength to ambitious.. but that still doesn’t change the “not fighting for” and the” teaming up with men against.” That’s a new thing.. that didn’t even exist 30 years ago. Since we have no choice but to be educated and independent.. the roles have shifted. It’s still doesn’t change our biological wiring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 09:52 AM
1	Men fighting for women Not all women get the top 20% .. otherwise no one would be married with families.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 02:27 AM
1	Men fighting for women Men that support women are the men that get mates.. lol.. They gave you backwards view and you believed them	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 02:25 AM
1	Men fighting for women That men on this sub team up with other men in hatred of women	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 01:54 AM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? That’s shallow and lacks connection..	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 01:47 AM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? No.. because human men can’t both fight for their women and respect her at the same time.. One doesn’t cancel out the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 11:52 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Actually it’s attractive.. a man that will fight for me..	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 11:50 PM
0	When will things finally start looking better for men? He said us females act like we are Gods gift.. so my response is.. if you don’t like females, gay men are an option	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 11:48 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? It’s not a hierarchy for anything other than physical strength.. emotionally and for child bearing the hierarchy goes to women..	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 11:47 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? How does protecting cancel out respect?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 11:45 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Actually I’m older than you .. I’m in my 40s. You hate women and don’t respect them.. yet you’ll still have sex with them.. How is sex even enjoyed if you disrespect the person your with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 11:43 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Than the gay community is always an option.. if you don’t prefer females..	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 03:57 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Equal doesn’t mean inferior… men are stronger that’s why they should	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 03:56 PM
0	When will things finally start looking better for men? So I can only imagine the type of women you are associated with.. No one with class would just share your bed and be disrespected	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 01:22 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Successful men have standards.. Sometimes.. and financially successful?? I don’t care about a man’s money so that’s of no consequence.. Women that sleep with men just for money, might as well be prostitutes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 01:01 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Some PEOPLE have no standards.. hence the reason why they enjoy casual hookups with no love.. PEOPLE that have standards.. don’t give themselves away to just anyone for just sex.. You have it completely backwards	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 12:58 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Sex with someone that you don’t respect is vile. How can you enjoy it? The whole pleasure aspect is pleasing the other.. If you have no emotions towards the person, than it’s meaningless	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 12:36 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Why would you have sex with people you don’t respect	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 12:34 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? There’s a huge difference than sex and love making to someone you love. Sex is meaningless.. might as well get a blow up doll.. If you find more meaning in shallow relationships.. than you again have issues. Lack of commitment is just a weakness.. inability to love someone enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 12:33 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? If women didn’t exist neither would life.. Women as a group ., what are you talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 12:30 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Nope.. because I have a man that absolutely wants and appreciates me.. Secondly, men absolutely need women.. That piece of ass thing. Gets old really fast.. when you see how meaningless your life is without love, you’ll change your mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 12:29 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Why are you speaking for all men?? Real men do care and absolutely respect my opinion.. Your attitude that has zero respect, won’t land you a decent woman.. you’ll just get women with no self esteem that will take it. No one self assured is going to tolerate being disregarded	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 12:27 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? No, we are the same as we were.. we are just educated now.. If you don’t fight for someone, than you’ll lose out.. There will a be an alpha that fights harder. Sure, I get that it’s easier to act like you don’t care. It would make you look vulnerable to admit you’ve been defeated.. but your only lying to yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 12:24 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Lots of people give a single fuck.. Your the victim actually.. only victims try to demoralize and use people.. And say stupid things like “ Men don’t care about women “	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 12:17 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Again, if we aren’t worth it the gay community is always an option.. If you don’t think you have the capacity to love anyone.. than that’s your problem.. Your apathy and resentment, is completely no one’s problem but yours.. No, real men don’t follow your narrative.. Only betas in denial don’t care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 12:16 PM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? If modern women aren’t worth it,. The gay community is always an option..maybe you’ll find more joy out of that!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 11:12 AM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? It has everything to do with masculinity. The only type of women that go against women are female misogynists.. that’s because it’s the only way they can relate to men or get men to notice them. No we didn’t put anything upon ourselves.. We work because men can’t provide anymore.. with the lack of providing, comes their self loathing and pride. Real men don’t team up with other men against women.. weak men do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 11:11 AM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? Yea that’s nature.. In the animal kingdom, males fight for females..some species will fight till their death. Human men have come to teaming up with other men against women.. you don’t get less masculine than that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 11:00 AM
1	When will things finally start looking better for men? When men become men again. When they stop complaining about not getting women and actually work for a woman. Men that don’t work for us aren’t attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 07:37 AM
3	Why are married people on here? What do you get out of this? This ….. no.. that’s not what women on here enjoy. The very thing you are accusing us of, is what’s perpetuating dating problems	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 02:38 AM
7	Why are married people on here? What do you get out of this? I feel like this sub represents the destruction of marriage and the family unit. It all about shallow resentment towards women and devalues people using them as commodities. It’s about what can be controlled and used. It’s about ego validation and the promotion of meaningless encounters. It doesn’t help us make the world better, it just destroys the very thing that’s good. What’s promoted here is immature ways of thinking.. lacks a lot of wisdom and ignorantly spewing disrespect. There needs to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 12:20 AM
1	HIGH BODY COUNT DOESN'T MATTER How does anyone truly know? People can easily lie	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/22 02:25 PM
13	Is it a deal breaker if she does not want to ever try anal? You nailed it.. it needs to be done correctly	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 08:16 PM
4	Is it a deal breaker if she does not want to ever try anal? That’s because straight guys should learn from gay guys the correct way to approach it.. it’s a huge process to actually loosen up enough that it’s not painful. Guys should accept it in their ass too so they can understand why it hurts. Supposedly prostate stimulation is awesome for guys but most are too ashamed to try it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 08:14 PM
1	Taller woman, shorter man dynamic is underrated and should be normalized Yea I get that. Being a short girl has never been a problem for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 10:32 PM
0	Marriage has value for men Gross.. it shouldn’t be legal.. it just promotes infidelity. I’m actually appalled by its existence so I won’t agree anything about it. It’s a lower than low business. It’s bottom dwelling.. legal or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 02:22 PM
0	Marriage has value for men I literally had to take a course on human trafficking. In America- 4.8 million people are trafficked for forced sexual exploitation. (ILO,)	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 09:34 AM
2	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men In my experience with dating.. not as many want young as you might think. Iv had young guys trying to date me..it’s not that black and white. When I was 25, I wouldn’t have ever taken a guy my dads age.. that’s ridiculous	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 07:54 AM
2	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men Lol, younger women don’t pick good guys.. Especially don’t want old men.. I can assure you.. Unless the old man is wealthy, even then , he’s only buying a young prostitute.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 07:52 AM
1	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men It’s impossible to find perfect anything.. that’s the other problem, people think that relationships shouldn’t take work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 07:50 AM
1	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men Where are they? lol. I’m in my 40s. They are all taken	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 07:05 AM
1	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men No, he showed a good side..	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 07:04 AM
1	Marriage has value for men Yea it’s gross.. I am the girl men love bringing home to mom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 07:02 AM
1	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men No I hold myself accountable for the more recent mistakes I made not the one I made in my 20s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 06:57 AM
1	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men Yes, I accepted him.. because he was completely fine initially	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 06:56 AM
1	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men All the good guys are taken	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 06:55 AM
1	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men But that’s not even the point.. I was fooled more than once.. they take different forms and it’s not always recognizable. Ironically these guys were all neglected as children..	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 06:54 AM
1	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men That’s not true either.. we lived together before marriage.. lol.. He didn’t change until our daughter was born literally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 06:52 AM
4	Marriage has value for men What lifestyle?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 06:52 AM
1	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men Yep.. naive I was indeed.. and more than once	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 06:51 AM
1	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men That’s always what they say too.. This was your choice.. you don’t have to accept me	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 06:50 AM
1	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men Again, no accountability goes to the abuser.. only the mother for being fooled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 06:49 AM
1	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men I was married for 4 years before I had a child.. They flip a switch.. that’s what I’m telling you.. as soon as they think they have control over you, they change..	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 06:48 AM
1	Marriage has value for men I never behaved like a prostitute.. I was married to one. They aren’t all from low socioeconomic groups either. Sometimes they are just regular guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 06:46 AM
1	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men They choose them because the abusers are manipulating them…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 06:45 AM
5	Marriage has value for men If red pill is trying to remove the family unit and make men resent women.. how could that possibly be good for society? Broken families is the reason why things like the red pill exist.. so why perpetuate it by encouraging lack of unity between husbands and wives? That defeats the purpose.. How about love and unity.. ways to get along as opposed to not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 06:31 AM
1	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men Iv chosen toxic abusers. I had no idea that’s what they were initially.. because these men can flip the switch in an instant. Usually the flip doesn’t even occur until the baby is born because that’s when they are triggered. I’m all too familiar with how these men operate.. no red flag to be seen until after the fact. The mothers can’t be blamed for being fooled. They were trusting. They lore you in and spit you out..	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 06:10 AM
1	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men Why is it justified that toxic abusers get no blame but the mothers who are manipulated by these men do get blamed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 06:06 AM
0	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men Because it’s called trauma bonding.. Women that were beat by their fathers continue to choose abusers over and over.. They don’t know what is acceptable because being abused or neglected is all they see as normal.. When people are in first in lust they produce oxytocin which blinds all the flaws.. it’s when it wears off that we see the forest for the trees. You talk disgusting on here… your language is vile.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 07:03 PM
2	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men How are you going to blame an abandoned woman for making a wrong choice when she was presented with the right choice in the beginning? Every one of them have to take accountability by supporting their own children.. It’s not the woman that walks away and changes alias. Yes, women do cheat too.. no one denied that.. If he just wanted sex then he should have used a condom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 03:21 PM
1	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men Nope.. it has nothing to do with race. I was talking about gender anyway. How do you even know what race I am?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 09:44 AM
2	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men Women are looking for providers, because of children and it’s nature. Resenting women because of what’s natural is not attractive. Men today are such spoiled little bitches because they got everything they wanted as children that they see no need to provide yet get mad at men that are successful. How about learn a trade, educate yourself or do something that can provide instead of getting pissed of the amount of abandoned women out there with young children. It’s sad that women have to sacrifice…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 09:42 AM
0	Women’s dating issues are a result of a very very small percentage of men, and they attribute those behaviors to all men Most heinous crimes are committed by men. That’s why there are far more prisons for men than for women. As women we have to be mindful of men because they are physically stronger and more aggressive. We are the ones in danger, point blank.. Iv actually found more danger in insecure men than secure men. Security equates to nobility and integrity. Insecurity results in bad behavior. Why do you think that your intuition to know when a woman is bad is stronger than a woman’s sense of danger? We natu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 09:32 AM
4	Women don’t find crying attractive That’s completely false.. I would much rather see him cry than get angry, which is just repressed emotions. Women want men that aren’t afraid to be vulnerable. It’s not a weakness it’s a strength. Men have just as many insecurities as women, they just show them differently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 09:17 AM
1	Unconditional Love Unconditional love does exist… without question.. would you die for them? That’s the question you need to ask.. if the answer is yes than the love in unconditional. A parent loves their child unconditionally. Can we love a spouse that much.. I honestly believe so.. people have risked their lives to save their spouses..	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 11:24 PM
–	men, know your worth- you literally look better than most women! You can’t compare women to men.. It’s like comparing apples to oranges.. Even the least attractive woman can still get a mate.. men are far more desperate for sex… Women can go without until they find a better choice.. men are desperate for women to want them.. Some straight guys even have gay sex just to have sex at all.. Women don’t have to pay for sex. Men are keeping the human trafficking industry alive. If you don’t want to court a woman because your afraid of her being too confident, than …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 11:18 PM
1	RedPill - sexual deviancy and casual sex is bad for society. Why endorse it instead of building families? It’s America where it’s a concern. Some countries forbid more than one child .. Other countries birth control is against religion views. Those countries have strong family units. A	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 10:08 PM
1	RedPill - sexual deviancy and casual sex is bad for society. Why endorse it instead of building families? Birth control is free.. it’s ignorance in those cultures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 08:33 PM
14	RedPill - sexual deviancy and casual sex is bad for society. Why endorse it instead of building families? Also the housing market was much more affordable that many years ago.. that however is neither here nor there. That still does not justify the toxicity in using people, fornicating with no commitment and treating women like a commodity. Children are going to be born regardless of the poverty level. In fact, the community with the most poverty has the most illegitimate children.. that are neglected and mistreated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 09:36 AM
1	Why do men care so much more than women about promiscuity? Promiscuity is unattractive to both men and women. It shows a lack of self respect and commitment. It’s absolutely unattractive to straight women. The only people that applaud it is guys to other guys. Fathers even applaud their sons for it.. It originates from spreading the seed and passing down the lineage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 09:25 AM
8	Are older women really jealous of younger more prettier women? As an older woman.. no not jealous in the slightest. Our value is not becoming less with anyone that had wisdom and maturity.. ( which is what we want anyway) I wouldn’t want to go back to my 20s ever.. I’m much more self assured now than I was 20 years ago.. I’m more confident and definitely wiser and stronger.. We become better at sex too. We are in our prime.. I couldn’t move my hips properly when I was younger.. there’s a million reasons why I wouldn’t be jealous of someone younger..	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 09:22 PM
1	This sub just doesn’t believe in love I would have preferred safe and stable, even in my 20s	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 09:18 PM
2	'Toxic masculinity' is only half of the equation There’s clearly a difference.. toxic traits are Anger, blame, arrogance, selfish, egotistical, prideful, misogynistic Healthy masculine traits Protecting, nobility, devoted, honorable, leader.. All the toxic traits are unattractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 09:16 PM
11	Would you prefer to have a single monogamous sexual relationship for your entire life with somebody you loved but only found moderately attractive. Or would be prefer to have an endless supply of causal sex with people you found extremely attractive but never formed an emotional bound with? There’s nothing meaningful about casual encounters that are just physical. There’s no point without a bond.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 12:18 AM
1	This sub just doesn’t believe in love That’s not why people commit… people commit because they want a family and they want a love that’s actually meaningful.. Giving yourself away cheaply to different people is a dishonor for the others body and a disrespect for yourself.. I have had tons of options but it didn’t raise my standards in the past. I repeated bad cycles.. which is extremely common. I finally learned a bit but it doesn’t erase my trauma. More partners is not better.. it’s actually damaging. People don’t see it until they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 11:24 PM
2	Taller woman, shorter man dynamic is underrated and should be normalized Tall women are completely attractive.. It’s never that the man doesn’t want them.. It’s that they aren’t comfortable with shorter guys. I’m American.. Ya, tall girls have options they just choose not to take them.. whereas short guys have issues.. I get it ..	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 09:40 PM
1	"Fat woman dont want to date fat men" I get that.. some kids are fat and happy.. But I think modernly obesity is accepted more than it was when I was a kid	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 09:05 PM
1	Taller woman, shorter man dynamic is underrated and should be normalized I’m in the opposite situation because I’m a short girl. Height is of no consequence to me.. The short chick and tall guy piss off the tall girl and the short guy big time, especially when we are together.. like my fiancé is a foot taller than me. Short guys don’t care if the woman is taller. Women care if the guy is shorter.. I get it.. we want to look up to our man, not down. There was only one time that a 6’4 guy told me I was too short for him. But that’s rare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 09:04 PM
2	"Fat woman dont want to date fat men" The overeating is a coping mechanism.. Sure sometimes genetic predisposition but usually can be controlled by diet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 08:43 PM
6	"Fat woman dont want to date fat men" Or, those who were fat children and lost weight as adults.. still suffer trauma.. The overeating in and of itself is traumatizing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 08:38 PM
7	"Fat woman dont want to date fat men" There’s 2 kinds of fat people.. the ones that were once thin and became fat, and the ones that were born to be fat. The born to be fat are much more comfortable in their own skin than the ones that lost weight. Being comfortable in your skin has nothing to do with weight, it has to do with trauma. Notice some fat people don’t get picked on and others do? It’s all in how they carry themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 08:05 PM
1	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. They may have more variety of partners because of all the casual situations.. but they have less sex because women are more likely to be in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 08:01 PM
1	This sub just doesn’t believe in love Actually I went through a period of obesity to being completely fit.. I accomplished a 50 lb weight loss.. I fortunately didn’t suffer stretch marks or saggy skin.. I always had a pretty face.. that was never the problem.. my weight suffered though. I have to work at it. I went from 180 to 125. I became beautiful after the weight loss. I absolutely saw it from both sides.. When I was heavier I got treated better because no one was threatened.. 5’6 is no big deal… I’m a short woman, so height is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 07:59 PM
1	This sub just doesn’t believe in love Right.. I’m middle aged which modernly doesn’t seem to matter much.. maybe 50 years ago it would have. Because I’m Petite, I have gotten that my whole life..	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 03:18 PM
1	This sub just doesn’t believe in love It’s just some misconception that being a beautiful women is some asset. No, it suck’s actually. Especially when you get turned down BECAUSE your beautiful.. It’s such an illusion that being beautiful makes your life beautiful.. because it doesn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 03:16 PM
1	This sub just doesn’t believe in love I find it funny that you think I’m old, but ok.. I’m not old by any means… I guess I’m fortunate that I don’t look my age. Alpha and beta I learned on here.. They actually aren’t new terms.. they just get used here frequently. Yep… he’s got lots of experience.. which equates to wisdom.. most of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 03:12 PM
1	This sub just doesn’t believe in love Yes and sometimes people make bad choices..	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 02:55 PM
1	This sub just doesn’t believe in love What does having kids have anything to do with him being my fiancé? ., we both do.. we are in our forties. I take it your young… you could probably be our kid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 02:54 PM
1	This sub just doesn’t believe in love Yes.. Im a short girl so height is of no consequence and to be honest the shorter less confident guy dumped me for an unattractive dependent woman.Iv come to realize that the less confident the guy, the more they can’t handle attractive women. They think they want them but the insecurity of them finding someone better, ruins the relationship. Guys want sex with beautiful women but they can’t handle relationships with them. That’s why alphas get them.. and alphas are hard to find. 1 alpha to ever…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 02:50 PM
1	This sub just doesn’t believe in love Yes guys that dm.. that’s because society has made it acceptable that men display that behavior. Now society is even making it acceptable that women placate it.. Don’t forget character and integrity… There’s reasons why the ancient Israelites came up with laws of morality. The barbarians were acting primitive and uncivilized. People fornicating with no regard for others, is uncivilized and quite honestly degrading. If your question is .. why would he commit? Maybe because he’s an integral person…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 02:08 PM
1	This sub just doesn’t believe in love Project manager, veteran ( medic in army) college educated, business owner, homeowner, responsible father, Leader, and takes absolutely no shit from any one. He scares other men. (Iv seen it with my own eyes.) Good looking 6’1 (which matters the least) highly intelligent..	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 12:38 PM
3	This sub just doesn’t believe in love And my response to that is a guy could have 100 options and still choose to commit.. Attractive women have that on a regular.. No one views everyone as the same.. we are all vastly different from each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 11:56 PM
3	This sub just doesn’t believe in love No, it’s not an obvious he’s not going to commit.. lol.. oftentimes highly attractive men commit. My fiancé is committed and he’s very attractive and an alpha. There’s insecure women that feel inadequate with highly attractive men as well.. How they see me, is just a reflection of themselves. Lower class men don’t value women’s accomplishments because they don’t value their own .. Iv come to also realize class has a lot to do with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 04:13 PM
17	This sub just doesn’t believe in love It’s actually simple but people are so bitter and resentful to actually get it. If you go into the relationship with the expectation that it will fail.. it then becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. If 2 people walk into a relationship with the attitude that it will be beautiful and successful and manage to keep that same attitude even through hardship, they will succeed. If the pendulum can swing in either direction than who cares what the statistics say. That just proves that people are weak and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 11:24 AM
1	You cannot have high standards and expect to find a partner if you don't match their equally high standards I guess it depends on the context of what we are discussing.. I’m not saying people should stay in bad marriages.. but I also don’t think people shouldn’t just jump around either.. both are unhealthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 04:53 PM
1	You cannot have high standards and expect to find a partner if you don't match their equally high standards Instead they risk never finding true love happiness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 04:48 PM
1	You cannot have high standards and expect to find a partner if you don't match their equally high standards You’ll never grow or change if you don’t dare to jump!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 04:46 PM
1	You cannot have high standards and expect to find a partner if you don't match their equally high standards Because I like having a life partner.. I wouldn’t want to not be committed..	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 04:10 PM
1	You cannot have high standards and expect to find a partner if you don't match their equally high standards Instead of people taking the high road, they choose to just use the other, the same as they were treated. Which has now become a perpetual cycle that is full of lack.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 03:50 PM
1	You cannot have high standards and expect to find a partner if you don't match their equally high standards They have a guard up because they are too weak to remain vulnerable.. they are afraid of being used.. I get that but we can’t live in fear either. People aren’t brave anymore either.. that’s another virtue that is lacking big time. Cowardice is shameful and yet so common. I literally will plow through the arena rather than take the Luke warm way through life. I will do it just for principle sake. I’d rather die in complete effort than to have just wishy washed my way through life.. using people …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 03:47 PM
1	You cannot have high standards and expect to find a partner if you don't match their equally high standards I believe that the roles have changed but the emotional need for the other is still there. People just live in fear of commitment because they are prideful and don’t want to put the work into it. There’s nothing about being used for sex that’s appealing. There’s nothing about having multiple partners knowing that your partner is sharing themselves with others that I would agree to. I would rather be alone than be shared.. not because I’m not social, but I refuse to be a vessel for someone to get…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 03:37 PM
1	You cannot have high standards and expect to find a partner if you don't match their equally high standards It’s called gluttony.. take take take.. it’s disgusting..	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 03:08 PM
1	You cannot have high standards and expect to find a partner if you don't match their equally high standards People don’t think they need each other.. but the truth is, people couldn’t possibly be needier in this day and age, than they ever were before. People absolutely need people.. we are community beings.. we are not hermits. People are insecure and socially inept because they are unexposed and live in fear. It’s pathetic actually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 03:07 PM
2	You cannot have high standards and expect to find a partner if you don't match their equally high standards It’s hard to say.. I feel like people in general have lost all concept of devotion, nobility and integrity. Why commit when everyone is now a quick fix. ( so gross ) I’m a little older than the people on this sub but I’m completely repulsed by half of what I read. It’s a horse shit attitude towards life.. a disrespect and disregard for the other. It seems like we are diverting back to primitive behavior as opposed to getting stronger and wiser. A select few that actually are awake and aware, eve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 01:16 PM
3	You cannot have high standards and expect to find a partner if you don't match their equally high standards Commitment may get worse for those who have never been married.. those who are divorced and who are used to being committed, will continue to seek commitment with others. If a man has never been married by 40 years old, the likelihood of him getting married after that, drops significantly… not saying it never happens, but the statistic drops.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 12:54 PM
3	You cannot have high standards and expect to find a partner if you don't match their equally high standards I’m not sure it gets worse as they get older. Unless they are wealthy, they have a harder time finding anyone once they get older.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 09:50 AM
-1	You cannot have high standards and expect to find a partner if you don't match their equally high standards Beta girls typically don’t have money. Beta girls are the women that are dependent and needy that beta males feel comfortable with. Alpha females are independent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 09:48 AM
2	Q4RP: If women are only attracted to hot and/or wealthy men then why are the majority of men still able to find relationships? The red pill theory is illusionary. They base it on only attractive womens standards and not the majority of the world. Mature women aren’t looking for hot chads. Also hot chads aren’t always hot forever. Sometimes they go bankrupt. These young guys that follow red pill are living in an illusion.. they are being programmed to act arrogant which won’t get them any woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 09:44 PM
1	Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzone Only women that have never learned do that. Plus those emotionally distant men aren’t emotionally distant in the beginning.. They usually change over time. What was once a good communicator could become distant..	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 06:43 PM
1	Women deserve absolutely no sympathy for their issues. What hasn’t effected you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 06:07 PM
2	Women deserve absolutely no sympathy for their issues. How about the fact that even to this day women have no rights or freedoms in many undeveloped countries. Women are killed for going outside without a hijab. It wasn’t until the 1960s that women could even get a loan or credit. Women were not allowed to get an education, refuse sex or even work in certain industries. If some women are cruel to men modernly, it’s only a tid bit of what we had to contend with overall and still most all rapes, sex offense and the most heinous crimes are committed by…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 09:54 AM
1	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question Oh ok! 👌	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 03:49 PM
1	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question I’m referring to your disrespect and disregard for women specifically? You don’t have to use self worth to answer that question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 03:22 PM
1	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question It absolutely does.. Why do you have disrespect for women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 03:19 PM
1	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question What you feel about yourself can change drastically if you know your worth. People see themselves as crap.. therefore they treat themselves and others as such. If you think it’s ok to use women and disregard their feelings with no appreciation for their character, than your showing a lack of self respect, which equates to self worth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 03:15 PM
1	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question If your concerned about what other people think of you, than you’ll only be hurting yourself. There’s always someone that won’t approve of who you are. Who cares what the world around you thinks. That’s the problem.. people are so wrapped up in others approval. Looking for validation outside of themselves, instead of just being true to yourself. Half of what we perceived isn’t even true anyway.. So much of our perception is illusionary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 02:56 PM
0	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question I’m going off your direct words plus your definition of self worth.. which is polar to actuality. How we present ourselves to the world has everything to do with our own self awareness and esteem.. which equates to self worth. If your looking for validation outside of yourself, than you are in lack.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 11:15 AM
2	The Red Pill’s biggest shortcoming and why men need to actually work on understanding women (and how to do it) They see women in one big category with all the same characteristics and attracted to the same type of guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/22 11:41 PM
1	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question If you don’t like the word self worth than replace it with self respect. Those who disregard the dignity of others, lack respect for both themselves and the others. And by not respecting the other, you disrespect yourself. Those who are only in it for what they get in return, are both arrogant and narcissistic. // usually I get what I want so that’s not an issue// You are only filling voids. You think it’s fulfilling, but only in the way that is using and disrespecting others. Therefore it’s no …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/22 08:25 PM
4	CMV: Wanting a virgin/low body count woman isn't about pussy Are you mentally healthy? Because the Virgin women must be highly honored and protected. She’s like a fortress. Ask yourself if you are worthy of a woman like that. If you have this type of entitlement that you deserve someone without trauma that would only be true if you have no trauma yourself. What’s your body count? Virgin doesn’t equate to mentally healthy either. When I was a young virgin, I was more mentally unhealthy than I am now. Body counts could also improve peoples wisdom. Which is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/22 12:50 PM
2	The Red Pill’s biggest shortcoming and why men need to actually work on understanding women (and how to do it) Not all women can lock down an alpha. Alpha men are attracted to a self assured confident woman, not a needy dependent woman that betas seem to prefer. Alphas are confident enough in themselves that they aren’t resentful of women who are intelligent and ambitious. So you can’t generalize that all women have the capacity to get an alpha, because it’s not true. That’s just your perception.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/22 12:35 PM
1	Why do people think misogynists and misandrists exist for no reason? If we smart enough to be aware of why we resent the opposite sex.. than we can make changes accordingly. The repeated bad experiences have a lot to do to the projected resentment, therefore causing the other to react and therefore causing the repeated bad cycle.	/r/AllPillDebate	04/09/22 10:20 PM
2	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question Only stupid to those that lack it .. With your apathetic don’t give a shit attitude, see how far you get. Your just depriving yourself of anything valuable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 01:46 PM
3	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question So you expect a woman to just tolerate your lack of respect for her. Self worth is not just used by women btw	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 01:44 PM
1	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question That’s one sided .. She has to be willing to tolerate your lack of care	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 01:29 PM
4	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question The reason so many guys can’t get women, is because they show no respect for women. It’s real simple. No woman that actually has a self worth is going to tolerate verbal abuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 01:27 PM
2	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question Lol, So you’ll take any desperate chick that’s willing to sacrifice her dignity to put up with your lack of care and respect	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 01:26 PM
2	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question Nope… it’s absolutely true.. I’m projecting my personal experience..	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 01:24 PM
1	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question Then what do you want ? Just a piece of ass? If your not appreciating me as a human being than your not worth my time. No woman that has self respect will accept that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 01:23 PM
3	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question On several occasions Iv been told by various men that self assurance is attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 01:20 PM
3	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question You have no appreciation for a woman’s character? And who’s we? Because only men with low self worth could care less about a woman’s character..	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 01:19 PM
9	Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend breaking surprised absolutely no one, however is the whole “no over 25 rule” intentional? Celebrities do this.. they already live a shallow life with material and image is important to them. It’s not even like they care about any substance in relationships.. they just want to look good on covers and have a trophy like he won a young catch. The truth is he bought a young catch and in many cases when they get too old to perform, she’ll be seeking younger sex partners to fit her needs. In real life these relationships don’t succeed and the divorce rate for high age gap marriages is astr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 12:02 PM
5	Women, how important is finances? If he wants her bad enough he will do the work. The part your not understanding is where one guy is bitching about doing “ too much work “ for the woman.. other guys will actually fulfill the masculine role and actually want to provide for the female. No they don’t have to pay for everything.. we work and have jobs. For the men that want women to remain submissive.. it’s canceling out opportunities for guys who are pushing the “ it’s not fair “ narrative. It depends on what you want. Do you want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 11:52 AM
2	Tinder Outcome Related Data Puts the 'Chad Harems' Notion Into Question The illusion that all women want Chad is false. We don’t all want Chad because we know Chad cheats and is manipulative. Chad is only out for control and dominance. Only naive women will fall for it. Women that are confident, self assured and ambitious, won’t want Chad because she doesn’t need him. She doesn’t want his money because she can’t be bought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 11:07 AM
2	What is the end goal according to redpill? Just gives false hope to guys who have trouble getting women.. it’s a tool alright but it’s not the tool that it tells you it is.. It gives you an illusion that if you do certain things and have a certain attitude, women will be attracted to you.. But what it’s actually doing is repelling women entirely. The men that created this “ tool “ aren’t actually using it.. but they sure are creating a diversion for the rest of ya ! I would be a little bit more aware of what this “ tool” is actually help…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 12:12 AM
2	So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame? It’s not going against nature.. it’s just a sudden influx of androgynous tendencies that by social construct was not there before. We have to ask why all of a sudden? Was it always there and are we just pre-deposed to what society is now calling normal or ok.. We are biologically male and female to reproduce. In modern day, the need to reproduce seemed to have capped off as well. The family unit as once was, is changing and people are more into “their own” than they ever were before too. It’s mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 11:14 AM
2	I believe the reason men are so resentful about the dating scene is because men have to deal with a shit ton of social coercion and pressure to be in a relationship like 10x that of women In my experience, that’s the role men want to be in. Otherwise, they wouldn’t be threatened by women who are independent and self assured. In modern day those pressures aren’t really even there anymore. Not half of what they were back in the day. In the 1960s, as women we couldn’t get a loan or a credit card. Men were forced to provide and most served the country. Women were forced to stay married to controlling abusers. Now men can literally stay home while their wife works. So where’s the pres…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 10:03 AM
1	How do you feel knowing that a decent portion of your male friends, coworkers, acquaintances, etc. would rail you if they had the chance? Guys don’t accept me as one of them.. they see me as a girly girl.. There are guys that I can be friends with but they are more in touch with feminine Side..	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 03:39 PM
1	as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship. If you weren’t in dating apps, how would you go about getting a woman? I can give you my experience and exactly how my fiancé succeeded in catching me. I used Facebook dating this time around. Even in my age range, I had guys from 25 to 70 trying to date me from all over the state. They were willing to drive hours to meet up. That was my indication on how hard it is for men on dating apps. So I do sympathize. I admired the persistence of these guys. I didn’t want anyone that was outside of a 30 …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 10:07 AM
3	How do you feel knowing that a decent portion of your male friends, coworkers, acquaintances, etc. would rail you if they had the chance? Ya, it’s the participation in male activity that the country girls do. City girls do nails, go shopping and get massages.. lol There’s a huge difference between them. I’m a city girl and I don’t fit into a country girl world	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 01:14 AM
2	How do you feel knowing that a decent portion of your male friends, coworkers, acquaintances, etc. would rail you if they had the chance? I hear that from lots of women.. particularly since Iv moved to a rural community. When I lived by NYC, gender roles were more defined.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 01:09 AM
2	How do you feel knowing that a decent portion of your male friends, coworkers, acquaintances, etc. would rail you if they had the chance? That’s exactly what it is.. I wasn’t close with my dad at all. He wouldn’t allow me to participate in men activities with him. He thought women should do separate things. My dad was misogynistic also. He didn’t accept females as equals. I was raised to be a lady.. and that I shouldn’t hang with guys. Therefore guys think of me only as a sex object. They don’t know what to do with me in other ways. I hate sports, I hate male activity such as fishing, hunting and riding a quad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 12:58 AM
1	How many times in your life have you became attracted to an "ugly" guy AFTER he opened his mouth? And how about the opposite? Lots of times.. it’s all about chemistry. Sometimes I found myself attracted to someone I wouldn’t have looked at. Other times, the hot guy that I thought I wanted was a horrible kisser and I just wasn’t attracted as I thought I’d be. Just no chemistry..	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 12:40 AM
1	How do you feel knowing that a decent portion of your male friends, coworkers, acquaintances, etc. would rail you if they had the chance? Why is that? I feel like sometimes women like being one of the guys so that they can be among them yet they don’t have to give them sex. Sometimes women can even be misogynistic.. this was a phenomenon that I didn’t know existed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 12:36 AM
4	How do you feel knowing that a decent portion of your male friends, coworkers, acquaintances, etc. would rail you if they had the chance? Because I’m not a Tom boy, men don’t want to be my friend ( unless they are gay ) so it kind of sucks that I can’t have straight guys as friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 11:43 PM
1	Why is pink tax a thing? We pay more because we don’t want to smell masculine.. I don’t know they want to screw us at every corner	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 11:23 PM
1	TRP and TBP are just different forms of simping and exacerbate two real issues Women are the catch… men do the catching.. Your trying to change nature. It’s real simple.. if you want a woman, you’ll do what you can to court one.. if you don’t, you’ll maybe get lucky enough for a woman to spend money on you and put moves on you.. ( also expect her to be masculine and controlling) You can’t have it both ways.. this is how it’s been done since the beginning and your complaining about it as though you have the authority to change nature.. If you have vagina envy, we can’t help…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 11:20 PM
1	Why is pink tax a thing? Ok 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 11:12 PM
1	Why is pink tax a thing? Men don’t have tampons, feminine wash, monostat, douches, pregnancy tests, ovulation tests, menopause supplements, feminine spray, feminine powder, or lubricants.. so what do you think we can go without????	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 11:11 PM
1	Why is pink tax a thing? How is not fair that tampons receive the lowest tax possible? Pink tax refers to feminine products that men don’t need. What products are you referring to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 11:05 PM
6	as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship. Before dating apps, do you think it was any different for men? How would you expect a woman to sympathize with a man in the dating scene?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 10:45 PM
1	Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates? I don’t think it matters in humans. Some guys don’t even become interested until they get older.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 10:39 PM
1	So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame? If the woman is from a low socioeconomic group, she probably has kids from different men and in that case, she’ll be looking for a provider because she can’t go to school and raise kids at the same time. At the same time, men want to provide most of the time. They feel like it’s their role and feel inadequate if they aren’t needed. So, you have guys on this sub complaining about women wanting their money yet they wouldn’t want a woman supporting them.. It’s like fickled. Which is it? Do they wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 09:24 PM
2	So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame? Yes, I also live in a state where women earn high because of the high medical professionals which is mostly women as far as nurses and therapists like myself. That doesn’t mean that women aren’t capable of providing for families.. even if men make more money. Why are men complaining about women wanting them to provide if they want to provide anyway? Lol, it’s like a contradiction. We literally are in the workforce contributing to the family and men are still complaining that we want their money.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 04:15 PM
3	Women have very high standards for a first date, but very low standards when they get into relationships It depends on the self esteem of both the man and women. Guys in low socioeconomic groups typically set the bar low for dating because they get what they can. They are even willing to dump a higher quality woman for a lower at times because the higher quality woman doesn’t inflate his ego. Women will date down at times when they have lower self esteem as well. ( just not as often) because we have more options. We just need to be validated by a better man that sees our worth.. Men with low self w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 03:04 PM
1	Women, what do you think the average man's dating life looks like? It depends on the age, culture and educational level of the man. In which case that answer Varys completely. For example, low socioeconomic men are either looking for a rich woman that they can use or a dependent woman they can control. Middle to higher class educated men are looking for mates of equal class and same educational level they have. They look for partnership not some way to manipulate. The class thing is huge in the dating arena.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 02:56 PM
2	So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame? My money would be his money the exact same way.. when your committed.. that’s how it works. Women support men don’t forget also.. so your theory about women chasing mens money is old school.. that’s not how it is modernly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 02:51 PM
1	So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame? I think that’s the problem.. I’m not in it for just the pleasure. I don’t get pleased if I’m not loved. I guess that’s what I’m trying to imply. If someone has sex with me and then wants to move on.. I find it hurtful. I feel like I’m nothing but a vessel	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 11:13 PM
0	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally So basically it comes down to men not knowing how to please women	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 08:57 PM
1	So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame? My daughter is in your generation.. are gen z just about flings? Aren’t some of you in long term relationships?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 08:01 PM
1	So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame? Ya, probably.. I just can’t understand the casual thing. It feels like I’m just selling myself short because if he doesn’t love me, it’s obvious. I’m not just a number for him to pick and be used as a vessel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 08:00 PM
1	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally I feel bad for anyone that just lays there.. she must be miserable with herself. That almost sounds like someone defeated.. but definitely not all women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 07:53 PM
3	So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame? Iv always been in long term relationships. When I started dating after my divorce, I had no idea about all the casual players in the market. I found it complicated and confusing. It was like this on on Monday a different one on Friday, lol.. I can only concentrate on one at a time.. but I’m not in judgement of anyone that feels differently. I have friends that are polyamorous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 07:50 PM
10	Dating After 30 - The Dating Flip - Does It Exist? I started dating at 40 after a long marriage that failed and I had lots of options.. I’m not sure where those numbers came from. In fact, I was hotter at 40 than I was 30. I was fit at 40 with a great body. At 30 I was fat because I gave birth. I was insecure and I wasn’t at my best. I think people have a huge misconception of reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 07:47 PM
1	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally I’m not upset, I’m just explaining why	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 07:40 PM
2	So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame? I personally don’t like casual but that’s because by experience I don’t like feeling used. I don’t like sex with someone I don’t love. It just feels cheap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 07:38 PM
1	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally The only reason any women would just lay there, is if the man is unable to please.. or the relationship has no chemistry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 07:34 PM
3	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally It’s no one’s fault.. it just means the sex is terrible. Sometimes people don’t have chemistry. Not all women just lay there. If I’m passionate about my connection, laying there acting dead is the last thing I’ll be doing..	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 07:33 PM
3	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally Who said laying there and doing nothing? That’s not what I do at all. If I’m with a dud, than that may have happened but the relationship is then over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 07:31 PM
1	Women prefer toxic men If you say so.. I think it’s just self respect that would make me not tolerate being cheated on,	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 07:30 PM
2	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally “ laying there and doing nothing “ You must not know how to please her then. I hardly lay there and do nothing. I’m extremely active with him. He also knows how to please. If I’m just laying there, than the relationship is over. That means theirs no juice in the connection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 07:28 PM
3	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally My partner wants me to be pleased, so I don’t have that problem. No it’s not just to orgasm. We are more interested in the satisfaction of the other instead of ourselves. If you go into it selfish, than there’s no point at all. It’s supposed to be caring for the other more than yourself..	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 07:26 PM
1	Women prefer toxic men If men settle for more than one, they lack integrity. Quality women won’t tolerate that. If you want several casual flings, you’ll get what you put into it. If you one block of gold, than you’ll be devoted to one woman. If you want a bunch of copper, go for several casual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 07:23 PM
1	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally It depends on the women too. Some women take longer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 07:19 PM
0	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally That’s not the only way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 07:18 PM
9	So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame? Not true in reality.. especially because if it were, we’d be disappointed on a regular because men don’t necessarily have more money than we do. We can be providers now.. we can be corporate CEOs, we can be what we want if we have ambition. So why would a man’s money be so important when we make our own money? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 03:19 PM
1	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally It’s too much of a gray area..	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 02:58 PM
1	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally Than why can some go either way? Why is their a spectrum? Lots of guys like gay sex but prefer heterosexual sex. It doesn’t mean they are truly gay but just like the sex. They don’t want the relationship with the guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 02:56 PM
1	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally No.. not true.. we just know that it takes longer and the guy gets off and doesn’t care that we haven’t.. in my younger past, I stopped even trying because I knew he’d be done first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 02:56 PM
2	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally Thanks that’s refreshing..	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 02:54 PM
3	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally Girl, I literally said the exact same thing,, lol 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 02:53 PM
2	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally Heterosexual sex is a double standard for both. Men get off and women go unpleased. For the men that put in effort, they get more reciprocated activity.. pure and simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 02:52 PM
1	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally He’s bitter because nature isn’t on his side.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 02:50 PM
2	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally We take longer to orgasm.. that’s again nature. It seems like your more pissed off at nature than anything else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 02:49 PM
2	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally Yep- that’s how it works because there’s plenty of guys that are willing to put the work in if you don’t. If I have to get myself off, than I’d rather just masterbate. That’s how nature works.. one egg and lots of sperm. One woman and lots of options. If you don’t like it, the gay man community will welcome you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 02:47 PM
1	Women prefer toxic men In my experience, men have a high toxicity rate in general.. they see toxicity as cool or attractive so they take on toxic traits. Women, particularly younger women, are accustomed to the hottest guys being toxic, so that’s what they find attractive. As we get older we are far more interested in nobility than partying hard so we want men with integrity..	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 02:37 PM
1	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally It’s only genetic in some men. If you notice some have never been with a woman and have no desire to be. Others just have a preference.. Sometimes straight guys like gay sex but could never be romantically involved with a man. I’m learning that this is far more common than men are willing to admit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 02:34 PM
2	Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturally I’m still trying to figure out the evolutionary purpose of gay man sex. According to the gay man community, prostate stimulation is more pleasurable than penis stimulation. If the alpha gets more prostate stimulation, he will produce more fluid and therefore more likely to be the fertilizer of the egg. Would gay sex have a biological purpose to help fellow men produce more seminal fluid? If so, why do some men refuse prostate stimulation and others want it	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 02:13 PM
3	Is there something about autism itself (absent any deliberate behaviors) that are turnoffs for potential mates? People label these traits as socially unacceptable but who actually made these rules? If people look at you strangely right off the cuff, than they may too, have autistic tendencies. They may see something in you that they are ashamed of themselves. I’m an OT, I work with autism.. mostly those who have more severe symptoms and have no self awareness. Since your already self aware, you’ve conquered half the battle. Try mirror exercises, try recording yourself and see where you might be doing some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 10:04 AM
0	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Naaa, I just prefer honest and humble. I’m not to be bought by anyone	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 11:55 PM
2	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice It was his problem.. the whole thing. His problem with me is that I could hold my own. He didn’t want that. It made him insecure. The fact he knew I was a catch and desired, pissed him off. He was angry when I did things to take care of myself, money wise. He would have rather had me be dependent on him so that he could control what I did. He was more concerned about his own control issues than having a quality mate with ambition. Secure men don’t think that way. They would prefer a woman to be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 11:53 PM
1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Let’s see.. I was dumped by a guy that continually told me I was too good for him. I have a professional job and was never dependent on him. His new woman is unattractive and dependent on him. He was short and bald. An electrician apprentice. Never owned a home. My new man is educated, a veteran, tall, has hair, a project manager, a business owner, a home owner and war hero.. He thinks I’m amazing.. Interesting that the better catch has no issues with me but the lesser catch found flaws in my ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 08:32 PM
1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice If a guy is arguing with me about these topics, he comes across defeated..	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 08:26 PM
1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Iv got a professional job… not rich by any means and I only have been rejected by men with low self esteem. Higher self esteem men are not intimidated by me.. but men with no education are very intimidated. They prefer lower women because they feel safer with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 08:25 PM
0	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice I choose the poor guy that’s confident and humbled	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 08:23 PM
0	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice No confidence vs defensiveness. If real women are telling you what they want and your producing arguments, do you think that’s gonna win the catch, when the confident guy isn’t doing that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 08:22 PM
1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Why is it that I don’t get that response from confident men? In fact, I get the polar opposite. Confidence is really much more attractive. Defensiveness is not getting the catch.. otherwise you wouldn’t be defending at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 08:19 PM
6	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Go for women that don’t need your money.. that might be an idea. Don’t chase women that will be out for someone’s paycheck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 10:09 AM
2	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice That’s not entirely true.. if your in a self help bubble, if your not social and segregated, than you won’t obviously meet anyone, If you get yourself to a place comfortable in your own skin and confidence that you aren’t in need, but actually whole within yourself, you’ll be an attractant and not a repellent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 10:06 AM
1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice We accept who is genuinely confident. It’s that simple. If your going into it defeated than it’s evident in just how your carrying yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 10:03 AM
-1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice As the woman’s perspective, If your in a place of “woe is me” it’s going to be obvious in what your projecting. It’s going to be clear which fishermen is in a place of true confidence vs fake confidence. If one guy has been focusing on himself by self care tasks and ambition and the other guy is spending time pissing and moaning about what he doesn’t have. The confidence and ambition will shine through just in small talk and casual conversation. It’s evident who is confident and who is self loat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 10:00 AM
1	The other sex really is the opposition. If it’s a general dig on women, it’s personal	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 08:47 PM
1	The other sex really is the opposition. Do you think women are attracted to this? We find this appalling. You best not let women in the flesh know you feel this way..	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 06:37 PM
1	Freely available sex may be the issue of a lot of problems in society Yes I agree especially for the unconscious and unwise. It’s just promoting primitive behavior. We can’t prove ourselves to be better than apes when we act like them. Peoples morals are declining. Peoples decency and self respect is gone. People are just looking for that quick fix, that satisfies no one because it lacks integrity. People think casual sex is harmless but that couldn’t be further from truth. Anyone with wisdom can see that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 10:46 AM
1	What are the future consequences of RP going mainstream? It just promotes destruction. Mutual surrender is the only way a relationship can work. Otherwise you have co dependency, which is toxic. Promoting control and dominance just permeates resentment into relationships. Women who are unhealed will ride the wave because they are desperate. Women who are independent won’t ride the wave therefore the same perpetual problem that the club started upon, will circulate back and nothing is ever solved. It’s just a vile tactic for resentment to perpetuate. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 09:55 AM
1	Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same. Women generally will be more willing to go without sex instead of the wrong person..	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 09:47 AM
1	Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same. Men have more partners because they seek more. Some of which aren’t relationships but just casual flings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 09:46 AM
1	Do men lose attraction to their partners over time? I have no interest in younger guys. I have no interest in older either. I like a 5 year window in my age range. Anything outside of that is too old or too young. I had a boyfriend 6 years younger and it was a bad idea. That’s not saying it is for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 09:43 AM
1	Asking a girl out after she rejected you It depends on her personality. Is she just trying to get your attention or was genuinely flirting? Sometimes people in general want you to want them but that doesn’t necessarily mean they want you. If you already asked her out. Let her say “ does the offer still stand ? “ Sometimes offers change as much as the recipients interest changes. You could say to her that the offer still stands on your end and see how she responds. It’s not a general answer for everyone. It depends on her personality to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 09:38 AM
1	Intimate Partner Violence Also keep in mind that every abuser is a victim.. they just choose to victimize others because they can’t get back at their own abuser. They project venom upon the other just to validate themselves. To see themselves as powerful. It’s a viscous cycle and it can only be broken if we are self aware.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 11:11 AM
1	Intimate Partner Violence I get that 💯. Especially when there’s financial dependency. Iv been accused of being a victim myself. I was called a victim and told it was my fault for allowing myself to be abused. I was told I had victim mentality and that until I get rid of it, I’ll always be a victim. I was a victim because I was victimized and I was victimized because I was a victim..etc etc I now call myself a survivor. I’m a therapist and a coach, so I too have training on how to treat abuse victims. Compassion is what t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 11:07 AM
3	Do men lose attraction to their partners over time? Yes, anything that puts guys in a vulnerable place is overlooked. The arguments here are all ego driven. As women we’ve had to surrender our egos for centuries. They may not have been allowed to show tears, but we have been defenseless by society fighting against males aggression and pride. Yes, I’m in my 40s and I was stunned by the amount of much younger guys that wanted to hook up. Some of which knew my age and absolutely didn’t care.. even after I made it clear that I only date within my age…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 10:06 AM
1	Intimate Partner Violence I can empathize with abuse 💯.. but I can’t sympathize with staying in a situation. We have to grow courage and handle it.. it’s not easy at all but it’s necessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 09:59 AM
1	Intimate Partner Violence Domestic violence is obviously bad regardless of who is being abused.. as women we are expected to leave the situation, why would it be different if a man is being abused? How does any domestic violence situation get handled? Take it from someone that has been abused. Males have a privilege in this area. They can be intimating .. especially when they are big and loud. It’s not an attitude, it’s just fact. I’m not justifying females abusing males, but I certainly believe that if little petite me …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 09:57 AM
1	Intimate Partner Violence If she’s physically abusing him and he just takes it,that’s obviously wrong but he has the capacity to fight back. She can’t fight back in that same circumstance. If his woman is stronger than him, he needs to leave the situation, the same a woman would have to do..	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 09:52 AM
1	Intimate Partner Violence Sure it happens but it highly unusual.. if a female is emotionally abusing a male.. than he has to do the same thing women have been doing for centuries. Move on.. women couldn’t even get a loan legally until the 1970s. We had no capacity to escape abusive relationships.. and it’s supposed to be pitied that a low percentage of men are abused by women.. lol In undeveloped countries to this day women have no rights or freedoms.. yet American men are complaining that the women is abusing him? This …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 09:50 AM
2	This trend of women feeling entitled to a man of much higher SMV will end up with a lot of women getting cheated on and/or replaced. I would have never wanted a sugar daddy. I’d choose the poor guy that can love me genuinely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 11:38 PM
3	How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special? It’s confidence, persistence and character.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 11:32 PM
1	Intimate Partner Violence It happens both ways but much higher percentage of males abusing females.. they have the capacity to abuse both emotionally and physically. Females can really only abuse emotionally. If she can beat him up than that’s a rarity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 11:30 PM
2	General attractiveness Right, the attitude. https://amp.theguardian.com/technology/2016/apr/14/the-red-pill-reddit-modern-misogyny-manosphere-men Women are aware of this attitude and it seems to have folded in on itself. It’s not going to win the mate because only the women with the lowest self worth will comply with it. Maybe that’s a perfect match to the men with the lowest self worth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 09:46 AM
1	General attractiveness It has to do with needing to belong to something. If people use labels they are creating an identity for themselves. It makes them feel like they are taking a stand. The problem with a stand against the opposite gender, is that the very thing that’s being taken a stand against, is just keeping away the very thing that the stand is against in the first place, lol. They may not realize it but women aren’t attracted to guys that are resentful of them. Since there are plenty of other guys that aren’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 09:40 AM
7	Do men lose attraction to their partners over time? That’s because we are realistic and actually like having things in common with our partner. A huge age gap leaves compatibility depleted. Generation gaps are an issue in relationships. Statistically age gap relationships don’t work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 12:58 PM
19	Do men lose attraction to their partners over time? Just because they are physically attracted to younger women doesn’t mean that number 1# a younger woman would actually want them and number 2# that all men would leave their wife for a girl their daughters age if the opportunity arises. In fact, many men don’t prefer younger. There’s a large group of younger men that actually prefer older women. Sometimes maturity is a factor. As most people mature, the physicality becomes less important. If we are talking about shallow, stunted, ego driven or v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 12:53 PM
2	what truly dictates promiscuity ? Ewww.. I feel bad for her	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/22 09:05 PM
2	what truly dictates promiscuity ? The question should be asked why do they have all the encounters that they do… why do they need validate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/22 09:04 PM
1	It’s women’s nature to exploit men’s sex drives, they evolved to be this way It could be you haven’t discovered it yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/22 01:07 PM
1	It’s women’s nature to exploit men’s sex drives, they evolved to be this way Women can’t all gold dig. Sometimes we don’t have to gold dig because we are self sufficient. In response to everything you posted about female anatomy. I’m not sure of the point your trying to make there.. particularly as we get older, our pleasure response actually increases as we age. Yes, in many instances , I had been left frustrated because some guys don’t know how to pleasure and get annoyed when they are corrected. You have actual women giving you experiences here and they are varying. O…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/22 01:06 PM
1	People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality. Well, Iv had several take me seriously, so again your truth doesn’t align with mine	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 04:33 PM
1	People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality. A quality man of what age?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 04:33 PM
1	Which gender role is easiest to fill? Your truth doesn’t align with mine	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 03:06 PM
1	People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality. They may want younger women but younger women don’t want them. When I was 25, a man my dads age was furtherest from my desire.. ( money or no money) My fiancé had younger and regretted it.. He purposefully chose someone closer to his age. Younger doesn’t equate to better.. I can assure you..	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 02:26 PM
2	People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality. Maybe a 25 year old wouldn’t want a 40+ but we don’t want that age either.. Don’t make it seem like no one over 40 is attractive, because it’s not true..	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 02:18 PM
0	People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality. I am desirable for a relationship as well.. I’m in one.. Again, do you think men over 40+ don’t exist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 02:17 PM
1	Which gender role is easiest to fill? Than I find your definition of alpha unattractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 02:16 PM
4	People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality. Lol, if you think for a minute that being over 40 makes a woman undesirable, than your completely mistaken. I’m over 40 and I had absolutely no problem in the dating arena. If we are fit and petite, we have minimal struggles. Remember there’s lots of 40 + year old men out there that are looking for mates as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 02:12 PM
3	People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality. Is there something about your appearance that you can improve upon? Bitterness doesn’t improve the capacity to get a mate, it only hinders it. If your bitter because you can’t get a mate, unfortunately the bitterness has to stay at the front door, otherwise it will hinder you from getting a mate.. yes it’s not fair, yes it’s a double edge sword and yes it sucks Letting go of the bitterness and be strong enough to take the hit, let that be your driving force to improve yourself enough to get a ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 10:41 AM
1	If age gap relationships are frowned upon due to an experience gap, then can’t the same be said if a higher n count woman dates a man with a lower n count? There’s nothing that can change nature for what it is. If it bothers you that women have the pick of a mate for the most part, than the only thing you can control is yourself. If you want a mate, than fall in line with what women want. If your looking for a particular type of woman, figure out what that type of woman might be looking for. But honestly most women are attracted to masculinity that’s not toxic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 09:59 AM
1	Which gender role is easiest to fill? It depends on how you define an alpha.. My definition is completely different than yours. It takes strength to be vulnerable and fearless.. I guarantee you that the notorious leader isn’t always as strong as they portray. Trump is big and loud, got money.. but when push comes to shove he’s a child.. he’s all ego and even throws temper tantrum’s. The guy that had to actually work hard his whole life is a hell of a lot stronger than the spoiled rich boy that always had everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 12:43 AM
1	Which gender role is easiest to fill? I’ll take the poor man that’s genuine and kind over the notorious leader.. I don’t need a man’s money, I have my own profession. I prefer honestly and integrity. I’ll sacrifice all the material in the world for those traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 12:18 AM
0	If age gap relationships are frowned upon due to an experience gap, then can’t the same be said if a higher n count woman dates a man with a lower n count? Most younger women that look for older guys are only looking for a father figure or to be taken care of. Modernly, young guys look for older women as well. Never would an intelligent women be in that situation. Women know that independence is the best route if they are smart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 11:58 PM
1	Which gender role is easiest to fill? They make a huge deal out of notorious leaders, yet they ignore that some leaders actually were integral	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 11:51 PM
1	Which gender role is easiest to fill? Who does he lead??? Lol The most ignorant of America, that’s about it.. I only used them as examples of character.. a real figure of actual honor might have been Ben Franklin, Thomas Jefferson and Daniel Boone.. Whoever.. the only point was the character of the men. Real men that weren’t notorious. Humble and heroic..	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 11:50 PM
1	Which gender role is easiest to fill? Trump is a very poor example of a true alpha. He lacks integrity, he’s emotionally unintelligent, he’s shallow and disrespectful in just about all aspects of life. He has zero wisdom. May be business savy but that’s about it. He bought his women… if he was being judged by what actually mattered such as kindness, morals, selflessness and compassion, he would have no one. He’s not attractive, nor was he ever. Despite his continued phrasing “ I’m a very smart person “ etc.. he’s vile. A wise man do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 09:37 PM
1	Which gender role is easiest to fill? Yes, stand your ground, but still be a “ gentleman “ That’s across the board for everyone.. No, I understand the difference between pompous and assertive.. assertive is attractive.. pompous is unattractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 06:10 PM
1	Q4W: Would you be turned off if a man told you how much he's worth on a first date? I always present what I bring to the table and quite honestly, most men prefer women that bring dependency and neediness. This truth was a hard reality to face that my achievement by certain men didn’t mean anything.. it’s only men that value education that find my achievements attractive. So I get why a woman would be hesitant to exploit herself	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 04:19 PM
1	Which gender role is easiest to fill? Because you said being a gentle man is only respected when your capable of standing for something… Which is completely untrue… It’s never respected to be a pompous ass.. it’s perceived that way but women actually hate it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 03:59 PM
1	Which gender role is easiest to fill? It depends on the culture..	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 02:24 PM
1	Which gender role is easiest to fill? It’s just the wiring of what was needed for survival. We still see this model in many parts of the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 10:05 AM
0	Which gender role is easiest to fill? No, that’s an illusion. There’s a difference between being brave and assertive and being weak and aggressive. The assertive guy will ultimately win. The aggressive guy ends up losing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 10:02 AM
1	Which gender role is easiest to fill? Amen! Only insecure guys are arrogant. True confidence is wise and kind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 09:58 AM
1	Which gender role is easiest to fill? A masculine dominant guy can also be nice. In fact, true alphas are generally very nice and non toxic. Mens ides that they have to be nasty in order to get women, Is false. Those arrogant guys ultimately don’t end up with the best women. The best women will eventually get fed up and the nice guy absolutely wins in the end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 09:57 AM
1	Which gender role is easiest to fill? Yes, culture does influence it but it’s also our genetic wiring. Personality does also factor in. A feminine woman that is nurturing may be better suited for a traditional guy that is more dominant. A dominant guy typically won’t mesh well with a more dominant type A woman. ( there’s a power struggle there)	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 09:55 AM
1	Which gender role is easiest to fill? It’s just that we shifted into a new paradigm that no other previous generations had to deal with that both genders have to work to support a family. Sometimes the female provides as well. Traditionally women had to be more submissive and men more stoic but modernly that doesn’t necessarily fit the reality of life. Our wiring hasn’t changed though. It’s just ingrained in us that we have to be traditional but because it’s not matching up with reality, there is conflict in dating and establishing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 09:46 AM
1	Do men in general envy women? Actually that’s not true.. poor men can absolutely have a rich woman.. sometimes rich women seek poor men because rich men cheat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 01:20 AM
1	Q4W: how many women believe that guys “enjoy the chase” and that you have to be a little aloof to get them to want you and work for you? If a man isn’t going to pursue, he doesn’t want it bad enough.. If he resents the chase, it’s only because he won’t win. By nature men chase women. The strongest sperm gets the egg.. Yes we enjoy it because it’s a turn on. We enjoy the extra testosterone he produces while chasing us. He produces more sex attractant when he chases. The lazy man loses. He gets the desperate chick that doesn’t get chased..	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 01:01 AM