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Logisticscarlos11111111112/r/seduction07/05/25 01:28 AM
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Most guys are provider’s, date in their social circle, date down, take super long to court a chick. All these things the PUA community says don’t do which normal guys do. Dating takes lots of resources, even that bartender guy is giving up health and potential career. You either pay with time or money, no way around it. I’ve me many PUAS and most guys in the pua community rarely get laid because it’s a huge numbers game. The guys with 30+ lay per year with decent looking girls always make good m…
/r/seduction04/01/26 09:33 PM
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Focus on SMV. Yes generally as you age you lose looks and women prefer healthy young guys. Buts it’s possible to increase status, wealth, game, and looks (even logistics mage HUGE difference) if you put in the work. Otherwise you may have to settle for single moms or older less attractive women, if your ok with that then yes dating becomes exponentially easier as their less picky once their past their prime.
/r/seduction17/12/25 03:07 PM
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They want highest value men they can get. Whether that’s fun adventure with hot guy or guy with lots of money and lifestyle. Not chasing could be a sign of being higher value but attractive women are so used to simps they expect it otherwise your not putting in enough effort
/r/seduction13/12/25 06:56 PM
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I’ve met many pickup guys. Most guys don’t get results, and then there are guys who just bang every girl. Here are the common traits for top guys in order #1 good looks #2 they use online dating #3 good logistic in a big city #4 they are very confident/experience with women #5 they make pretty good money or at least they afford nice apartments/cars/nice dates But the main attribute has always been looks when it comes to hookups. Muscles, nice hair, good style, good pics. The better the looks the…
/r/seduction12/12/25 09:35 PM
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From a legendary dead beat I know 1. They’re good looking 2. That’s all they do with their free time, they’re pretty much available 24/7 anywhere 3. They’re experienced and confident 4. The woman are either mentally or physically bottom shelf and usually desperate
/r/seduction26/09/25 01:20 AM
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Tell her “hey I really like but I want you to invest more. I know you’re interested in me and need to show it more. I’m a high value guy.”
/r/seduction15/09/25 11:32 PM
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I would suggest just spending time with them and getting to know them. My cousin is very average looking and can’t land a single girl at home. However when he’s back packing he always meets at least one chicks who’s down to hookup. Woman who travel tend to be the adventurous type and even when their with their friend their friends are not judgmental when they hookup with other guys. So if you get together know them and make plans with them in terms of places to eat and visit they’ll usually be d…
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:39 PM
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“Most guys have the product” you have very very very low standards.
/r/seduction19/07/25 12:08 PM
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It’s not so much age but maturity, confidence in dating someone older, and dating experience. As long as you’re ok guys don’t mind dating someone younger.
/r/seduction18/07/25 03:35 PM
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That’s probably his kid, and he trust you as a step dad
/r/seduction03/07/25 08:09 PM
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How are you meeting woman? At work, cold approach etc ?
/r/seduction20/06/25 09:22 AM
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Desperation. Meet 1k woman and get it out of your system
/r/seduction24/05/25 02:19 AM
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Learn how to take good lifestyle photos, the more photos you take the better you become. There are many YouTube vids to help. look at other guys who photos you think are good. Or you can hire a photographer you like.
/r/seduction20/05/25 01:08 PM
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People don’t like to hear this but the only thing that have helped me is 1. Putting in the work, approaching, putting yourself out there. But also making sure to lead and have a plan on how to close the girl 2. Constantly improving, whether that’s style, game, logistics, money, gym, better online pics There’s always more effort you can put in and there’s always more room for improvement. Just do it in a smart way
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:01 PM
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Try slowing down and say excuse me also use pauses “Excuse me…. I thought you looked gorgeous….im Mike” extend hand say it really slow It’s ok many woman will get scared. You can’t let it affect your vibe, you need a really strong frame out there.
/r/seduction09/05/25 01:03 AM
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Yup I like the “not too far from here line.” Seems like the plan from now on is to baby step. “Let’s take the path to Hoboken” and from there take another to deeper to watch a movie Jersey while making out, teasing, and push pull. Maybe even suck her tit while on the train 🚂
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:24 PM
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I was hoping to overcome it with game. I feel like if your game is really tight they will be down. Of course no chick want a 50 minutes train ride for potentially a bad one night stand, but if you vibe well show you can lead and at persistent it could happen
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:03 AM
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NYC is very expensive for a tiny apartment
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:01 AM
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From meeting lots of guys doing pickup I can say that you might be lying 🤥 when it comes to your looks, social awareness, and smv. I’ve met many guys they always try to paint themselves in the most positive way. Taking photos certain angle, hiding their receding hairline, lack of awareness of their bad hygiene. If you really want advice you have to hire a top dating coach like Owen Cool or Mystery
/r/seduction06/05/25 12:08 AM
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People will spout the strategy they resonate with or the ones that have given them the best results. Learn from everyone, test your own, put in the high numbers and see what gets you the best results. The guys that get laid the most guess what, they just focus on looks/money and online dating
/r/seduction25/04/25 10:58 PM
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Cold approach is extremely hard. Woman usually date guys in their social circle who they see often. Looks and social skills are going to be the biggest factor, unless you really want to get good at this I would not even try
/r/seduction24/04/25 12:06 AM
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She needs to do it. You just have to keep playful fun be cool and not f up
/r/seduction23/04/25 06:47 PM
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Who cares. You act like body count is stamped on everyone’s forehead. You would be the to not date your perfect partner because they slept around too much
/r/seduction19/04/25 06:11 PM
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Why don’t you just enjoy as many guys as you want until you find the one? It’s extremely difficult to find someone who you genuinely click with and you may never find that person, the pickier you are.
/r/seduction19/04/25 03:11 PM
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Top reasons why guys ghost. Overweight, stained teeth, girl has loser behavior, red flags, boring, no genuine connection
/r/seduction18/04/25 09:40 AM
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Excuse me, you’re too cute, I’m Mike.
/r/seduction16/04/25 04:47 PM
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If it’s calibrated. This will not be effective on plain women w boring personalities. But outgoing cute chicks will be more into
/r/seduction16/04/25 03:02 PM
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Start approaching other woman and putting her in the back burner unless you really really see yourself having a family with her. Either way I don’t like dating a woman a bunch or times before testing the goods first
/r/seduction16/04/25 01:02 AM
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You need to be better looking or do a lot more volume until you find one that’s into you
/r/seduction15/04/25 12:01 PM
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Most of them seemed to find you attractive. Only thing is you come off as not very serious even at the end you always say “No worries it’s ok, no worries.” Kinda like just throwing darts 🎯 at a wall. I used to do the same thing that’s why it stands out so much to me. Ask them out like you mean it and you are into them.
/r/seduction12/04/25 10:31 PM
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Could be luck streak. I’ve seen guys in long dry spells get with multiple women in a months Also he could have been good just discover a few things that go unnoticed that made him much better Example being more persistent, going for the close more often, improved looks hair/smell/teeth, social skills
/r/seduction27/03/25 06:08 PM
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When she says she has to take a train home I say grab a coffee with me and take the next one When I say let’s go watch a movie at your place and she says I can’t go to her place, I tell her ok let’s watch a movie at my place When I try to make out and she says no I keep flirting with her and try again later Just close that’s it.
/r/seduction26/03/25 11:23 AM
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Most popular non closing behavior: can I get your phone number? Gay best friend/ dad jokes behavior Closing behavior: going for make out, let’s go grab a drink, let’s go to my place and watch a movie
/r/seduction25/03/25 11:59 AM
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Seems like chicks are out there trying to get laid and your just hoping your pua techniques and looks will get you laid. That’s the first thing I teach guys to just close. I remember going out with this guy and I slept with 10 girls that showed interest in him because he can’t go for the close. Women realize he doesn’t get it and I swoop in. Remember if you don’t close she’ll find a guy this is how I get laid while guys come out for months never losing their virginity till they’re old and passed…
/r/seduction24/03/25 02:20 AM
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If you can afford it Manhattan hands down 🙌
/r/seduction16/03/25 09:41 PM
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Nice looking bar
/r/seduction23/01/25 02:21 AM
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lol some women are really into it so it works on them. I use it just to tease women. Most women have strong opinions on it being complete bullshit but they just engage in the teasing and flirting.
/r/seduction24/11/24 12:16 AM
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Demonstrating attraction. Could be serious funny direct indirect
/r/seduction22/11/24 08:52 PM
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You don’t make a lot of money or your not very good looking
/r/seduction16/11/24 01:20 PM
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Alpha and provider dynamic. A chick might sleep with a guy just based on looks, it they also want someone they can trust and is pleasant in the long term.
/r/seduction16/11/24 10:56 AM
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Good pictures
/r/seduction15/11/24 11:50 AM
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You should at least have sex by the 3rd date. More than that likely not going to work out. You invested a lot in her that’s why you feel this way. It’s common to feel down if things don’t work out but your too extra.
/r/seduction10/11/24 12:09 AM
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Smile, joke around but back off when he takes it too far, flirt hold his hands, let him do most of the talking, I prefer talking then hearing a girls voice.
/r/seduction07/11/24 05:31 PM
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💯
/r/seduction02/11/24 02:51 PM
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Because they want you and find you attractive. They’ll forget about you when you when they meet another guy.
/r/seduction02/11/24 02:15 AM
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I guarantee just by what you wrote if you were a women you would be worse then those that are blocking you. Women date the hottest guy or best option for ltr
/r/seduction29/10/24 11:01 PM
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lol idk what you mean by rejection. If a woman does not sleep with me I consider that a rejection even if we go on a date or she gives me her phone number. An easier number is how often I don’t get rejected which is like ~ 1/800
/r/seduction27/10/24 12:43 AM
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Move to a big city, at least near. You gotta migrate to reproduce.
/r/seduction25/10/24 04:05 PM
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Just by what you said I can tell 1. Your stupid 2. You don’t get laid
/r/seduction25/10/24 04:04 PM
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Find a wing who cold approaches. They help with anxiety. Ugly and average looking guys are forced to approach many women other wise there is 0 chance, so they are forced to develop self esteem and confidence. Which city your from?
/r/seduction25/10/24 12:46 AM
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Agree cold approach gives you a chance with women who are not on dating apps. Too many option on there, and every guy is doing it.
/r/seduction24/10/24 04:29 PM
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Your advice is pretty horrible. This will only work for very attractive guys. This might be shocker to you, just like women who think guys can get laid just as easily as a women, your on the same boat. You’re a very good looking guy and this is why you get away with horrible texting. Try this, use pictures of an average black or Spanish looking guy and try the same texting you just did, I know you’re going to respond without even trying the experiment for yourself.
/r/seduction24/10/24 04:02 PM
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Facts. Finding someone who you really connect one and find each other attractive is not an easy task. You have to meet lots of people, but most people just settle. My sister is dating a guy because they were both in the military and he always visited the grocery store where she worked, so over time they got closer. Had they crossed patch for a brief moment they probably would have never met.
/r/seduction20/10/24 04:40 AM
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These women are definitely not shy. This is from cold approach instadate where I tell them they look good and invite them for coffee or drink in the spot. Have you ever closed a women who said something along those lines? Mystery usually takes these as a positive because it because they are thinking about it
/r/seduction13/10/24 10:56 PM
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lol your just inexperienced. Getting an instagram means less than a phone number which means nothing. I make fun of my work my men because they constantly get phone numbers but never laid. I’m the opposite I get very few and actually close.
/r/seduction10/10/24 06:40 PM
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I’ve had women use me for sex or attention as well. They say yea they’ll see me again and just block me.
/r/seduction09/10/24 07:18 PM
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Keep improving yours looks and stop counting. Smell, teeth, clean are most important and putting in work
/r/seduction20/09/24 07:33 PM
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You don’t realize it but you’ve just confirmed you don’t go out. lol phone numbers are just rejections. Going out 2x a month you’re definitely not getting laid more than once a year. Unfortunately there are inexperienced guys in these forums who believe the bs coming out your ass
/r/seduction17/09/24 09:09 PM
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You don’t realize it but you’ve just confirmed you don’t go out. lol phone numbers are just rejections. Going out 2x a month you’re definitely not getting laid more than once a year. Unfortunately there are inexperienced guys in these forums who believe the bs coming out your ass
/r/seduction17/09/24 08:59 PM
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That’s why I said if you’re good looking. Also cold approach is not magical 🧙
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:32 PM
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I’ve heard this 100s of times. Yet when I meet guys like you in real life you don’t get laid at all and get blown out the water by guys who actually go out. You think your theory is so good go out and start closing 2+ new women a month
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:31 PM
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If you’re good looking take good pictures and do online dating. Also make friends with women and let them make first move. Social circle is 100x easier and effective then random girl
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:41 PM
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Online will always be easier specially if you are good looking. I don’t know any guy who gets laid a lot from cold approach. The most successful guy I know closes about 12 per year, but he goes out pretty much every single day. You can try deleting your account, giving it a break and making a new one, this will boost your account. Also play around with preferences or visit other cities
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:31 PM
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Take massive action
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:31 PM
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Kino and be good listener
/r/seduction27/08/24 01:24 PM
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My mom is a a tranny, u 44 year old cuck typing on Reddit who supposedly makes money…. Something’s not adding up I’m willing to bet your autistic or homeless
/r/seduction19/08/24 07:27 PM
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What you expect? You never invited them to your place the probably think you swing for the other team
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:35 PM
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Beta
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:34 PM
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lol 😂 most upvoted message says sub-communication. If a girl is down to hookup it’s going to be pretty obvious. She will flirt, tease, get close to you and look you in the eye (kiss now!), comfortable when you touch her, follows your lead and does not give you a hard time.
/r/seduction21/07/24 01:24 PM
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Seem like you want it. Pull his shirt a bit, moan, breathe heavy, be in the moment. Don’t worry too much first time you’ll be in you head a bit but just try to enjoy the moment
/r/seduction04/05/24 03:15 PM
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