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Man, I dig your convictions and confidence. Was thinking about regurgitating some information about marriages, but honestly I hope there is a good wife for you. If you feel you’re a high quality man I can absolutely respect that. Wish you the best, brother.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:12 PM
37

“Amazing” marriages are extremely rare brother man. I’m sorry.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:53 PM
2

That’s dope bro. Glad it works for you. Some can use substances and elevate. Some crumble to addiction. I dig your strong convictions, though. You’re young, but I would encourage you to keep this mindset.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 11:48 PM
2

That’s a fair assessment, but then all mind-altering substances are a no-go. Are you ready to draw that line?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 11:34 PM
8

By going thru the loneliness and depression you had already surpassed all of them. Your success is just the cherry on top. Although I don’t want to minimize your pain because you never deserved any of it, but sometimes it seems like life gives impossible task for unbelievable rewards. Wouldn’t doubt that there are more levels for you to hit as well. Best wishes and health to you brother!
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 02:18 PM
6

Must be having a rough day Liquid lol. Relax man.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:37 PM
2

Using your social status to improve their parties. Politely reject and continue on.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:58 PM
1

What’s easy for you may be hard for others and vice versa
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:01 PM
2

Good portion of red-pill material/ideas are originally rooted in this “fairy tale”.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 07:30 PM
1

Tough one, brother. Just remember you’ll be alright regardless of her intentions.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 07:23 PM
1

Group gets a bad reputation due to many emotionally-charged responses and post. Unfortunately, many of the members are just hurt from past relationships and vent. We all have done it and some of the truth pills are not easy to swallow. But the women hating / shaming after the initial pain process never gets addressed and often times is encouraged. One cannot be free or on their own way with resentment. Once I drop my ego I can confidently say there are “good” women just like there are “good” men…
/r/MGTOW01/04/21 06:30 PM
3

Question about the last sentence... Wouldnt one want to be temporarily “low” in a peer group if the said group has immense power and/or status? Or is that beta/weak thinking?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 01:55 PM
3

Think a lot of people miss this angle, but it could potentially be the most important imo. Once rooted in a higher ideal / conscious / purpose the red pill teachings become maximized. You almost naturally become “detached” from results and singularly focused on your personal path. And for some reason (I’m still trying to grasp )the universe “rewards” those individuals the most. Almost like voluntary suffering, delay gratification and discipline are the keys we all are searching for. Could be wro…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 08:49 AM
1

I would add to this that it doesn’t have to be an “extreme”, but could be more of a focus towards one’s purpose. The constant pursuit of temporary pleasures comes at a cost and as you get older you realize that.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:46 PM
1

What exactly do you want to improve?
/r/askTRP25/01/21 01:22 PM
1

I asked what do you mean by cravings? Everyone gets them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:29 AM
1

What do you mean by “cravings”? During pregnancy or just overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 02:36 PM
1

Come on man lol... This is a solid post for anyone “beta” or “alpha”. You learned your personal hierarchy of values the same way we all have/will.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 10:33 PM
1

Patience, brother. You’ve only been at this for over a year. You’re attempting to completely rewire and reshape your entire being. Sounds like you are on the right path. We all live in the fast life that we sometimes forget the gift is in the process. Keep grinding and stay safe.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:30 PM
2

Do you like yourself the way you are right now? Do you think you’re doing everything you can to be the best version of you? Nothing wrong with warehouse work. But do you inspire to be more? You mention religion/history readings as a hobby. What about being a professor? Tutor? Do you like it enough to turn it into a “purpose”?
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:46 PM
1

Imo one is a byproduct of the other, but you’re the hero of your own story. I can’t tell you how to script your journey. Personally I’ve invested so much into self-mastery I haven’t had time to pursue any relationships/link ups. Almost get obsessed (which I know isn’t good) with improvement that anything outside of your view/purpose kinda fades out. But best of luck either way man, hope you find what you’re searching for.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 08:54 PM
1

Are you on this hero journey to actually find yourself or be better with women?
/r/askTRP05/11/20 07:44 PM
1

You trolling or serious?
/r/MGTOW04/11/20 03:35 AM
1

Imo I think the media has hyped up a lot of false allegations against him and his family. But the way people idolize him is disturbing. Have no dog in this fight though, everyone is entitled to their opinions & beliefs.
/r/MGTOW04/11/20 03:01 AM
8

Really depends on what you mean by “fit” and normal people.
/r/MGTOW03/11/20 06:38 PM
1

Happy for you bro
/r/seduction01/11/20 05:24 AM
1

Keep your head up brodie, more experiences await you on your journey!
/r/seduction01/11/20 03:37 AM
1

I would move on bro. Sounds like it’s a one-time thing especially if she’s not responded to two follow up texts. You may want to remove her from social media so you don’t tempt yourself to see what she’s doing.
/r/seduction01/11/20 03:27 AM
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Imo a man is “fully happy” when he finds his purpose/ something meaningful for his life. Happiness to me seems very temporary. Could be wrong, but I think that’s what you’re seeking. Sorry for your mentor as well. May he rest in peace.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:11 AM
2

Just be yourself and enjoy the moment(s). If something develops, great. If not, learn from it and move forward. Don’t put so much pressure on yourself in terms of “experience”. Have fun brodie, stay safe.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:47 AM
1

Great movie, but imo this is a poor representation of this community vs the outside world. Many members in here have taken personal responsibility and steered it in the favor of themselves. The joker had a “rising of the phoenix” moment, but could not adapt his shadow for his personal gain. This movie could be placed more towards the stereotypical “incel” community whereas the batman series would be a better description.
/r/MGTOW25/10/20 05:28 PM
1

Way better to be outside the matrix than in it. It does, unfortunately, get lonely sometimes. Heavy price to pay it feels like sometimes i’m sure especially with social media’s fake reality and others making disrespectful comments towards you. Hope things change around for you brother. Hang tough.
/r/seduction23/10/20 01:03 PM
5

Agree to this. Think as you push into that 8-10+ year gap you could see some imbalances in the dynamics of the relationship(s). Though it interesting how some respond to a significantly older woman with a younger male vs older male with a teenage woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 12:44 PM
4

You’re in too deep brodie :/
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:05 AM
3

What do you think about the hookah bar first then seeing how the vibe is later that night?
/r/seduction01/10/20 04:17 PM
13

Good for you brother!! Maybe give her a few days and mention you’re heading to the hookah bar this weekend & see if she’d like to come along. But either way don’t stress about messing up man. Regardless of the outcome this is a win-win for you. You’ve gained experience and confidence. Anything after that is bonus.
/r/seduction01/10/20 02:49 PM
3

Personally I’d like to have enough to make sure my parents live comfortably during their later years and some leftover to help out underprivileged individuals. In terms of salary I just try to focus on my work performance more than the money. Trying to get better everyday and push my personal standard. But I also don’t have a problem with anyone chasing money or the rat race. More power to them, hope they get it all if they’re working their hardest.
/r/MGTOW215/09/20 05:09 PM
1

JKid- Man, you don’t even realize it but you are your biggest enemy right now. Everyone is a victim. Everyone has struggles and a story. You have a choice everyday to improve and give life 100%. Find something to improve on, fitness/ jobs/ hobbies, and put all your energy into that. I get it, life sucks, but you have to defeat that victim mentality if you ever want to make it.
/r/MGTOW206/09/20 05:26 PM
1

No problem. Hit me up anytime if need something. Keep grinding bro.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 08:12 PM
1

Feel that man. You have the tools, just work hard and keep your grades right. Wouldn’t even worry about girls right now imo, college ball & a scholarship(s) would set you up real nice anyways.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 10:56 PM
1

You definitely have some tools and have good pursuit to the ball. You’re still raw and will have to work on your fundamentals, but you have a good frame that a good coaching / weight room system could maximum My first question is how are your grades? How is your work ethic? Have you received any looks from schools? You’re a junior, right?
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:47 PM
1

This is facts bro. Them Bosa boys were made in a lab somewhere i’m convinced lol 😂
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:36 PM
1

Just a little D2 school, nothing special. I wasnt very good tbh. But if you grind man, you can make it.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:33 PM
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I played with some really shredded defensive lineman in college, so it’s possible man. You’re only in high school though, working on your internal hardware and physique should be your main priority imo. The women will come, but you gotta put in the work on & off the field everyday.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 04:15 AM
2

Why not get your body % lower just for yourself?
/r/askTRP28/08/20 04:09 AM
92

Don’t be too hard on yourself brother. Nothing wrong with you.
/r/MGTOW22/08/20 09:47 PM
1

Hope it works out for you brother.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 06:47 PM
7

Like he said^ most of us have been there. I’m not trying to invalidate your feelings, but it’s the idea of her you’re missing. I would advise against contacting her. I understand it’s hard and tempting, but very little good can come from it. Keep grinding man, you’re almost healed.
/r/MGTOW19/08/20 04:32 PM
8

Yeesh that’s nice man.
/r/MGTOW19/08/20 04:19 PM
1

I can see your perspective, but I wouldn’t stress it. Just part of the game seems like. Older they get more bodies they pile up.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 03:36 PM
1

You’re 100% correct. I read the post as if he was referencing the divorce as the issue. Child should be taken care of regardless of what happens, period.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 04:25 PM
1

Man, I feel like your mental health/ mission are priceless. I get being technical, but I don’t think there’s a price you can put on your happiness imo.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 11:44 AM
2

You wrote an entire essay for this lol? Come on lil bro.
/r/MGTOW04/08/20 08:13 PM
5

Honestly man you’re in a really good spot if you use it correctly. Don’t get me wrong, no one wants to be cheated/broken up with. But if you use the pain you’re experiencing and translate it to daily disciplines that completely change you, you’ll look back and appreciate these times. Don’t suppress your emotions and dont feel bad for hard days as they’ll come. But try to set-up some short term goals for yourself and you’ll be amazed at what it does for you. Stay strong and patient brodie, you wi…
/r/askTRP26/07/20 09:14 PM
3

Yeah bro always wear a condom imo. I know it doesnt feel as good, but ill give you a much clearer mind. As for the gel never heard of it. Im sure you’re fine, just give it a few days then see. Deep breath man
/r/askTRP26/07/20 04:24 AM
13

Congrats man, thats a nice car!
/r/MGTOW15/07/20 07:16 PM
1

Cant Hurt Me by David Goggins has helped me. But I wont lie, my discipline has been exposed during this time.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 09:33 PM
4

Maybe im tripping, but I feel like you overreacted man. Sounds like shes just joking with you. But I dont know what the picture/or comments were, so I dont want to judge you. Regardless of what you decide, just be cool dont let it bother you.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:32 PM
13

...Are you sure you want to turn her into a LTR bro?
/r/askTRP09/07/20 07:27 PM
1

Taoism is one of my favorite philosophies to study. Its dope to see it helping you. Keep studying and best of luck on your journey brodie!
/r/askTRP03/07/20 12:58 AM
3

Solid Joker reference at the end lol
/r/MGTOW216/06/20 03:51 AM
2

That’s up to you to find out bro. We all have different talents and callings imo.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:05 AM
3

I think you may value sexual activity and romantic relationships too highly. Not saying it shouldn’t hurt, but your purpose is still intact and this breakup is a perfect opportunity to grind even harder. If you use it to fuel your fire, the jealously will evaporate because you’re on your “mission”. Keep ya head up, brodie.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:02 AM
2

You play the lottery 👀👀?
/r/askTRP22/05/20 04:50 AM
9

Ayy man .. are you trolling ?
/r/askTRP22/05/20 04:10 AM
12

Welcome brodie 🤟
/r/MGTOW22/05/20 01:53 AM
1

....Did she follow you back?
/r/askTRP21/05/20 02:36 AM
3

Complacency, man.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 02:16 PM
1

Man.. I felt bad for you until the minority comment. Lot of minorities, such as myself, go thru the same dark days as you. Only difference is I don’t complain or have a victim-mentality, as it does nothing. Seek therapy or a career change.
/r/MGTOW20/05/20 01:55 PM
1

I smile a good bit at negative situations or hostile situations. I’ve found theres no point in letting someone control your emotional response, so I smile majority of the time. Maybe I’m wrong, though. Just always felt “beta” allowing others to shit talk me and get me upset. Once I became secure in myself, I just began smiling.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 07:56 PM
0

Fair comment, ill edit that. Wasnt my intention.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 09:34 PM
2

I have my man and im not disagreeing with you at all lol
/r/askTRP14/05/20 09:20 PM
3

But its still not worth STDs and/or kids lol. I cant vouch for raw sex as crazy as some girls are these days
/r/askTRP14/05/20 09:02 PM
1

finasterade and minoxidil can help, but theres side effects as well start really hitting the gym hard and dont break frame if someone makes a comment about your hair. Had a couple buddies who were balding in college still pull girls just by keeping frame all the time
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:58 PM
13

Props man, thats a toxic situation. Hang tough.
/r/MGTOW14/05/20 08:39 PM
33

Dammmmmmmn bro... Good for you to keep a cool head. You dodge a bullet that would’ve ruined your entire life. Good vibes your way brodie.
/r/MGTOW14/05/20 08:36 PM
1

This whole victim mentality will keep you down you’re entire life. Take full responsibility for your world.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:30 PM
2

Think this could go in many ways, but to me the men I’ve seen encounter difficult situations and not folding are “strong”. But also the men who have folded in difficult situations but come back stronger & no bitterness shows “strong” traits.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:28 PM
6

Honestly man, just wrap your shit up. Raw sex really not worth the risk imo (could be wrong tho). In terms of “risk” for pregnancy, its probably pretty low so I wouldn’t stress about that part.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:59 PM
1

I dont really know what you said dawg, but nah revenge is lame. Just do you and get better
/r/askTRP13/05/20 02:30 AM
6

Ayyy good shit bro keep pulling them
/r/askTRP11/05/20 02:10 PM
2

You have as much value as any other person that roams this earth. Don’t let someone else’s opinion cloud that bro
/r/askTRP08/05/20 08:57 PM
3

Ah yes, the shit test. Keep your frame, you’re fine.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 06:10 PM
3

Honestly, I appreciate all the pain and anger from past women. Made me reach levels I didnt think I could. Be careful of the bitterness man, it only hurts you. Instead maybe try being thankful for them and wish them well. I know it sounds ridiculous and its hard as shit, but it will set you free. This is your life and your journey only. Keep up the monk mode bro, it pays in the long run.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 02:23 PM
4

......... I was honestly expecting you to be better man 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:59 AM
6

Are you going to continue to recycle your sisters jokes? Back in Modern Warfare 2 maybe you wouldve been funny. But now? It’s just kinda boring, lil bro :/...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:50 AM
3

Wait... how do you get banned on Tinder 😰
/r/askTRP08/05/20 01:46 AM
6

People go to the gym to better themselves, since thats the most important part of life. Many successful people attribute some of their success to the discipline formed in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:49 PM
1

You’re entitled to your opinion my guy, but im not reading all of that lol.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 04:21 PM
2

...You missed the whole point of this post.....
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 04:05 PM
5

Bro remember- Even the average girls have 10-20 guys messages her at one time. Dont sweat it, just say whats on your mind and have fun with it.
/r/seduction05/05/20 03:32 PM
3

Do you have any hobbies?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 01:17 PM
1

That’s impressive, wow. Good for him.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 11:02 PM
1

Stay balanced man, its a process. Not too high, not too low. Try to learn something new everyday and try to improve something everyday. Best of luck brodie
/r/askTRP04/05/20 02:19 PM
7

My bad man if I was coming off as a hoe, I haven’t been a teen in years lol. I was just trying to say some of us are ignorant to female ways and have to learn thru heartbreak that our purpose isn’t getting married/having kids/miserable life. Society pumps this fairytale about relationships that teens flock to.
/r/MGTOW04/05/20 12:41 PM
6

yeah man maybe just chill for awhile. You’re in the borderline addiction/ grieving stage and girls will sense that desperation a mile away.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 12:32 PM
11

I was in this boat for awhile. Unfortunately, most of us have to learn the hard way.
/r/MGTOW04/05/20 12:30 PM
2

You speak the truth, man.
/r/MGTOW01/05/20 07:38 PM
6

Those pet stories have me shook. I knew it was bad, but wow.
/r/MGTOW01/05/20 07:00 PM
7

congrats man, best of luck
/r/MGTOW01/05/20 06:39 PM
36

Broooooo you dodge a BULLET. Be thankful
/r/MGTOW01/05/20 04:32 PM
1

Huh?
/r/askTRP01/05/20 04:31 PM
1

You’re 100% correct and I was not trying to sound insensitive to the OP. I’ve done the whole victim mentality bs too. Sucks though, so many people go through life with the “woe is me” mindset when they could be killing it.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 03:11 PM
2

What in the world are you talking about man lol?
/r/MGTOW01/05/20 01:26 PM
9

Philosophy will change your life.
/r/MGTOW01/05/20 01:22 PM
13

Bro....you have to drop the victim mentality first. You can get bigger, it just takes time. Maybe bump your workout frequencies up to 4-5 days. Examine your diet, make sure its clean. If your LTR is coming at you while you’re actively trying to grind, may be time re-elevate the relationship.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 01:09 PM
2

Social media can be toxic imo. Really depends on the user. It can create destructive/ victim-mentality type thoughts when comparing oneself to other’s best moments. Just have to be selective when roaming social media.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:56 PM
3

Im not saying what you believe is wrong, just might need a little more guidance. Best of luck!
/r/MGTOW230/04/20 12:59 PM
6

Check out Taoism. It’ll help with these thoughts.
/r/MGTOW230/04/20 12:51 PM
10

Are you being honest with yourself about just being “curious”?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:17 PM
4

...I have zero clue what you’re trying to say man...
/r/askTRP29/04/20 06:09 PM
1

Kepe me posted bro, ill definitely subscribe. Stay blessed brother!
/r/seduction29/04/20 05:05 PM
2

Ayy bro.. That’s one of best explanations I’ve ever seen. You should look into doing podcast/videos. Theres a huge base for learning the game.
/r/seduction29/04/20 03:19 PM
-1

Check out Taoism and stoicism if you haven’t already brodie. You got more years/experience than me, but this stuff really helped me elevate my game.
/r/seduction29/04/20 02:53 PM
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Don’t want to disrespect your father, but some people just get stuck in their ways. Keep doing what you’re doing man.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 02:23 PM
27

Use to be the same way until I realized the idea of aggressive/ dominant is kinda corny (with other men). Being confident and relaxed has been way easier than trying to one-up another man imo.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 02:33 PM
2

I mean if they’re inviting you to netflix and chill off the bat, you’re already in a good spot. Just be yourself and relax bro.
/r/seduction28/04/20 02:23 PM
22

Should look into therapy, bro. Your issues are rooted far too deep for a stranger to really help.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 01:17 PM
5

Its not stupid imo. If ya’ll are happy, thats awesome.
/r/MGTOW228/04/20 01:28 AM
15

If you truly feel a pull towards being a Dentist, no questions asked- go for it. We are granted one life, go after your purpose. The roadblocks you mentioned (age, loans, etc) are just a test to see if you’re willing to work for your purpose. Best of wishes brodie, youll make it.
/r/MGTOW27/04/20 12:56 AM
1

All blessings to you too my man
/r/askTRP24/04/20 02:17 PM
1

Im blessed bro
/r/askTRP24/04/20 02:02 PM
1

You caught me lil bro.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 02:00 PM
1

Honestly bro I had an ex blast my mental illness on social media and took constant jabs about how her new man was so much better than me. Best thing that could’ve ever happened to me. Helped me find the red pill and focus on my purpose. Felt like the universe blessed me for not responding by giving me tools I can use for the rest of my life.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:56 PM
8

This is life goals right here
/r/MGTOW24/04/20 01:45 PM
1

Nah man, unless it has some legal implications , just let her rock out. That silence triggers them.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:44 PM
1

When is your lease up?
/r/askTRP20/04/20 08:12 PM
4

Probably should leave her alone for awhile. If she messages you first, play it cool. She may feel you’re over aggressive/ needy. If she doesn’t you back, dont stress use it as a learning tool.
/r/seduction20/04/20 08:08 PM
3

I would focus all of your energy on losing the weight. Sounds like thats an issue for you.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 02:26 AM
1

Bro..... what.......
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:38 PM
1

Simply for the radio.
/r/MGTOW216/04/20 01:14 PM
2

You gotta drop the girl and the victim mentality. Use whatever pain you have towards running, eating healthy, reading, etc. Set up some short and long term goals. Discipline yourself. Push to be a even better person than the one in those videos.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:55 PM
2

Touché
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:43 PM
6

Idk man, doesn’t it come across as if she’s thinking about him?
/r/askTRP14/04/20 08:13 PM
2

Bro..... you gotta chill out for a second. This whole victim mentality is why people take your lunch. You need to delete any and all contact with this girl immediately. After that, push all the emotions to the singular goal of getting better. This quarantine is a perfect time to go monk mode and get your shit together. Turn off social media and go dark until you stop all this negative self-talk.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 05:35 PM
3

I couldnt imagine man. I give you the upmost respect for how you’re trying to handle it. Good times are ahead, hang in there.
/r/seduction14/04/20 01:29 PM
3

Hey, good for her. But as long as YOU are progressing, you are winning. We all have our own race to run. Try to be careful about negativity towards her because that only hurts you in the long run. Forgiving her and wishing her the best will be the hardest thing you do, but it will free you I promise. One day at a time brother.
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:38 PM
2

That’s awesome man, good for you to use it in a positive way!! Maybe check out some podcast that talk about your passions/hobbies. You don’t even realize it, but you’re heading in the right direction.
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:31 PM
3

Do you feel the urgency to date because of your ex’s life? Its easy for me to sit behind a screen and give advice, but I believe working on yourself now until theres a clean break will provide the greatest benefits later. Use any pain as a motivator to discipline yourself. Shit will be hard until August, but if you stick with it you’ll be in a great place.
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:22 PM
2

Your body is probably adjusting to the new workload. Make sure your diet is as clean as possible.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 07:08 PM
4

That’s really only a question you can truly answer. Anyone can give you advice on this, but its mostly from their perspective. Joe Rogan talks about believing we can all be a “hero”to our “story”. Work your hardest (dont bullshit either on this), be good to everyone but do not worry about their opinion and remember to have fun with this shit called life. Once you’ve set up this foundation of discipline, I believe you will have the feeling you seek. But its due every single day.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 10:45 PM
5

Have the same issues as you. I’ve found treating them with “kindness” but not giving a fuck what they think/say has helped.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:40 PM
1

Unfortunately, you’re correct. Wish you the best man
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:58 PM
2

Had the same thinking. All it takes is one more “bad day” at work and her not getting the attention from you she thinks she needs to justify cheating. Might want to let her go brodie.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:54 PM
2

Remembering the process to my purpose and not the actual result(s) helps me let go of any worries related to women. If you’re doing the best you can (dont be like me and lie to yourself) its only a matter of time, not if youll get women.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 10:17 PM
1

Even better bro
/r/askTRP03/04/20 10:13 PM
3

You could try minoxidil maybe?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 07:27 PM
2

Everyone has the potential though imo, but I hear you man.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:54 PM
3

I see where you’re coming from, but personally I hope others reach their true potential. Especially lifting. Its cool seeing others grind and reach new heights. I don’t really view it as competition. Business-wise, you’re probably right though
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:45 PM
1

Competition with what/who?
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:30 PM
3

Feel you man
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:29 PM
26

Hopefully it wakes people up that life is fragile and one should pursue their purpose with discipline & appropriate urgency.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:22 PM
4

Not necessarily a class, but I’ve enjoyed learning about stoicism & taoism.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:51 PM
4

It probably makes one look weak when giving into their emotions, but we all say shit at one point that we wish we hadn’t. Personally, I try to remember if the shit wont matter in 5 years, let it go- but I’m in the same boat as you sometimes. Just have to take responsibility for our shortcomings and actively try to correct it. Don’t stress about it too much, man.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:44 PM
6

You really want to entertain a girl that’s that thirsty for attention?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:51 PM
8

You trolling bro?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:35 PM
3

Never really got into smoking cigs, so I don’t want to give you bullshit advice. I would seek methods to stop, though. Your lungs will thank you when you’re working out.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 05:00 PM
2

Gotta stop smoking that poison first brother
/r/askTRP20/03/20 03:46 PM
7

Monk Mode is my best advice for awhile.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 01:18 PM
3

Personally, I would let it go since you’ve corrected your mistakes (which is the best “apology”).
/r/askTRP16/03/20 01:28 PM
5

Wait..... what?!!
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:55 PM
1

I’d let her go if it causes you this much stress.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:14 PM
0

The situation... what prompted you to check her phone in the first place? Had there been an incident before or is this a self-inflicted issue?
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:07 PM
2

bro........what
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:05 PM
2

Living life to the fullest because at the end of the day this shit dont matter lol.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 01:36 PM
2

Yes sir! I mentioned how they could be hurting worse because we honestly wouldn’t know. People seeking validation through social media is at an insane level now. People are almost forcing happy moments just for some likes/RT’s lol
/r/askTRP02/03/20 04:48 PM
6

Yeah man you don’t need validation from anyone, from what you’ve described you’re doing a damn good job. Best of wishes brother!
/r/askTRP02/03/20 02:57 PM
70

Something that helped me out was cutting social media out. You’re essentially scrolling thru people’s best moments giving off the impression your life sucks when in reality they could be hurting worse than you. Sounds like you have good disciplines, so try and stay patience with your process. Try to find happiness in the actual process and not all-in for the results. Also- try early am runs and cold shower/ meditation after. Sounds corny, but it helps jumpstart your day.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 02:49 PM
1

Reddit is the only one I use too. Way better because you can in a way customize it to your personality. I’m sure there are some downfalls, but I enjoy this site/app
/r/askTRP25/02/20 05:56 PM
3

I think from a quick glance, your program is fine. Personally I would break them up into 4 different segments. Maybe add some deadlifts, power/hang cleans and abs to your rotation. But clean eating, sleep and patience are going to be your best friend to trim that BF% down. Keep grinding bro.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:39 PM
2

I think people miss the boat on solitude. I know I did for a long time. Nothing wrong with being alone sometimes. Great way to learn about yourself.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:33 PM
1

100% feel you man. The time I would waste on social media I’ve now switched to reading & audio books. Way more productive. Reddit is the only “social media” site I use currently.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:22 PM
1

Have you been seeing gains? Do you do any cardio/abs? Not a bad workout plan, though. If you wanted to you could probably break it up into 4 different segments.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:19 PM
18

Taking a month off from social media was one of the most beneficial times of my life. I, like many others, fell into the self-validation/ preservation trap. I really push people in my circle to try it out.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:14 PM
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