| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 747 | Well… you chose him! | RANT | caromaro23 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 08:43 PM |
| 535 | Got out quick | RED FLAG 🚨 | caromaro23 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 06:24 AM |
| 480 | Public Displays of Disrespect | RANT | caromaro23 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:11 PM |
| 74 | I'm finally putting me first thanks to FDS! | MINDSET SHIFT | caromaro23 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 04:28 AM |
| 1 | I no longer post where I work or what I do. In OLD | RANT | caromaro23 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 12:37 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 26 | Know your worth ladies! Don’t offer to pay for a first date you were invited to attend. And never offer to drive a stranger home. Boy, bye.This makes me wanna throw up in my mouth. Like what is he even talking about… he must be broke or something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 10:37 AM |
| 3 | Well… you chose him!Yes I love this. I learned from my mistakes and am doing the work so i dont do them again thats for sure. But Him choosing to be terrible is on him, not me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 03:10 AM |
| 12 | Well… you chose him!I definitely agree, I get upset hearing about the garbage treatment my friends receive. But saying “you chose him” doesn’t help them or change anything. I know what it’s like to want to leave but not have the strength(pre fds) I also know what it’s like to dump someone at the very first signs of a red flag. I wish they could do it too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 06:26 AM |
| 13 | Well… you chose him!This I understand, but I also know these people aren’t able to hear a damn thing. I had to tell my friend who was actively tricking herself with her bread crumbing husband. I told her you need to want better for yourself, him looking in your direction slightly does not mean your relationship is saved! They only “i told you so” I gave her was when I told her “you’re going to grow out of this behavior and want more for yourself… you’re going to be on the moon with your degree and therapy and you c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 03:02 AM |
| 39 | Well… you chose him!Yes exactly, everyone makes mistakes. He was shitty and I stayed too long. But I am not responsible for his actions regardless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 02:56 AM |
| 43 | Well… you chose him!Yes. It’s a false sense of trying to hold someone accountable. Like who called the accountability police. Literally all you can do is protect yourself from the lies and manipulation. Almost as if these people have never been lied to or treated like trash and stayed too long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 11:01 PM |
| 29 | Well… you chose him!Those analogies are so perfect. Also a good example of “THESE ARE THINGS TO NOT SAY TO PEOPLE” lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Pickmes in the media and the perpetuation of misogynyIts a gross segment to begin with. It literally could not thrive if she was telling these men how much they suck. Think about it.. these people don’t wanna be responsible for their acts. They’re definitely not gunna handle being told they’re wrong well either.. just take it off the air | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”What a fucking loser 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 05:12 AM |
| 1 | What's a 🚩red flag you encountered this week?Busy everyday til 8pm even on the weekends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 09:49 PM |
| 16 | A supportive motherIts cringey lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Public Displays of DisrespectWhat an asshole, that shit makes you feel like you’re in emotional jail not a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 07:16 PM |
| 9 | Public Displays of DisrespectThats so slick 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 05:30 PM |
| 7 | Public Displays of DisrespectYes lmaooo but ive been in similar situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 03:41 PM |
| 188 | The Devil’s Advocate! I wish we could delete and block these men in real life situations…Playing devil’s advocate is admitting that you’re arguing from the wrong point of view | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 03:30 PM |
| 13 | Public Displays of DisrespectYeah it’s more of a rhetorical why. Im also not going through this right now thank god lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:38 PM |
| 26 | Public Displays of DisrespectIt just is frustrating that onus is put on the one who is being beatin down. The embarrassment of continuing the relationship and the sadness of letting it go are all on you. It’s garbage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:04 PM |
| 35 | Public Displays of DisrespectI’m glad you aren’t with him anymore! What a dumbass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:35 PM |
| 94 | Public Displays of DisrespectYeah, like why does YOUR significant other being happy make you so mad that you have to take their light away? My ex used to casually tell me to shut the fuck up but got mad when i didnt talk to him for a full day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:34 PM |
| 50 | Public Displays of DisrespectBig manipulation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:23 PM |
| 82 | Public Displays of DisrespectSheesh, they stay at the ready | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:19 PM |
| 259 | Public Displays of DisrespectI just got a notification that someone is concerned about me. I’m fine yall and I’m not currently going through this lol I’m just very passionate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:17 PM |
| 8 | woman calmly dumps and kicks out cheating bf (as she should)Can you elaborate on this more? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Got out quickIt’s a huge thing that we sometimes can’t help but ignore when other things in the relationship are any sort of base line of normal because we’ve never had a normal HEALTHY relationship. Still a silly game where we compromise our needs and fall into a trap… straight garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Got out quickI honestly didn’t even see the rest of your comment somehow but my guy did the same shit. Shit that makes you tip toe around your feelings. Makes you feel like you were being needy when that wasn’t the case at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 01:22 AM |
| 4 | Got out quickThe men that are mad at this post are hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Got out quickIt’s a hard thing to do but you’ll be so much better off in the end! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 07:01 PM |
| 41 | Got out quickRight? No one asked for you to “love me” or for ANYTHING to “materialize” so fuck all the way off! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 02:16 PM |
| 94 | Got out quickThis is what pisses me off the most. NO ONE HELD A GUN TO YOUR HEAD AND MADE YOU SAY IT. Fucking coward… “I can’t promise you those feelings will materialize” ugh. I’ll be over it soon but wow I’m so mad lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 11:20 AM |
| 65 | Got out quickSo I’m gunna be honest. Compromising your needs for someone who can’t pick up the phone is only detrimental to you. Asking for what you need is not telling a man what to do. Communicate that need. See what he does next. Does he call more? Does he say he will call more and then doesn’t? Remember it’s up to you to decide if HE is enough and not settle for less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 07:02 AM |
| 105 | Got out quickOmfg this keeps coming up for me… it’s crazy cause I move on and then end up with another one. It’s almost disturbing lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 06:41 AM |
| 52 | Got out quickThank you! I forgot to mention we only started talking like early May. I’m glad you were able to get out too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 06:41 AM |
| 9 | Remember to love yourself first and don’t let anyone dull your sparkle.A 5 year old wrote this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 11:36 AM |
| 26 | Women are always shit on for acting on sexual desires but men NEVER areI was saying to my friend a while ago... men are so easy.. they literally fuck on the first date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 01:58 AM |
| 5 | Why don’t men call out their friends for being sex offenders???Maybe because first off... my friends aren’t ugly! The fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 01:39 AM |
| 16 | Both of these are very straight to the point :)Same thing with my “friend”. Never has done a DAMN thing for me but I need to be available always. Suck my ass and catch this block. I don’t have time for useless people in my life. Why you always want a hand out but never give a helping hand? Spoiled brat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 12:52 AM |
| 8 | Both of these are very straight to the point :)He knew calling you would be a annoying af, like GOOGLE IT?????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 12:45 AM |
| 55 | What to put in a post-nup before becoming SAHMSounds like you should talk to a lawyer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 12:11 AM |
| 38 | Both of these are very straight to the point :)It’s really crazy how much a man’s entitlement can drain you, even if it’s a “friend”. One friend would call me for baking advice all the time and if i didn’t feel like helping then I was the devil. Apparently if a white man(we are both black) asked me for the same help I’d be like “YES SIR RIGHT AWAY” but when it’s him I’m not excited. I had to explain to this man child that the “white man” pays me for my time and he doesn’t. You are not entitled to my brain or my time like I’m a human encyclop… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 12:08 AM |
| 8 | Never mention that you're a foodie or that you like to cook on OLDI don’t even mention that I bake anymore either, “WhAt’S yOUr fAvORitE tHiNg to BAke?” SHUT THE HELL UP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Low blood sugar can cause seizure or death but scrote needs his candy.Imagine if the tables were turned... hooo boy. I used to say to my ex all the time... why do i know what’s important to you... but when it comes to me you have no clue? He fucking knows, he doesnt care and if you just couldn’t help yourself but to eat the candy... why not just fucking replace it?! Ugh this triggers me so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:41 PM |
| 2 | I'm finally putting me first thanks to FDS!I appreciate it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 12:06 AM |
| 7 | I'm finally putting me first thanks to FDS!This is the most comforted I’ve felt... EVER | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 12:06 AM |
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