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DISCUSSIONcarrothairs/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 07:47 AM
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You have deep insight. I agree! Fighting makeup is like fightint human nature i suppose, so I guess the most we can do is just learn to feel comfortable in our own skin regardless of the beauty standard.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/21 03:38 PM
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Thank you :) I love experimenting with clothes and my style! 27 is just as beautiful as I imagine you have learnt much valuable knowledge and experiences. I think I tend to rely on makeup meant to cover undereyes the most because I have a lot of very deep eye circles (not an exaggeration, people around me get concerned sometimes) from sleep deprivation more so than anything else, so if I sleep well I'll probably feel better about going natural more when I'm seeing people. I don't wear makeup for…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/21 06:43 AM
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Sorry I meant the original commenter had called me boomer. That was my bad. Its not about whether we look good natural or with makeup to me, but whether makeup is making what is considered "natural" and the norm something fake and unrealistic that pressures us to keep putting makeup to upkeep that standard.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/21 02:20 AM
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I can see what you mean. A lot of makeup is just meant to enhance features that are already there, I personally feel like makeup still is more a quick cover up and fix, cause at the end of the day, makeup is still a foreign object to the body and it is not what actually is already there. Yea silicone is a whole other ballpark. I can see it being used for trauma caused or genetic disabilities or deformities, but for the average person? Quite unfortunate
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/21 12:11 AM
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Yea same here. I've rarely ever noticed my friends have assymetric faces but then I'll have a friend like tell me one of her nostrils are bigger than the other and I'm like ok? Bahaha like as if that is gonna be noticeable and I'd be like "yea I totally saw that!". Most makeup is for accentuating pretty features, but my issue is with makeup that covers or changes those features (ie contour, lashes, etc.)
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 11:54 PM
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Lol I'm definitely oblivious to some societal standards too sometimes! I have friends who tend to talk to multiple guys at a time or whatever and there seems to be SO MANY weird tactics and mind games that they play with these guys??? Like there's a lot of like silent rules on snapchat? I also had no idea who half the popular kids in my highschool were until I graduated and people would ask me "oh you went to that school? Do you know so and so" and I'd have no clue that most people knew about th…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 10:12 PM
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Yea i suppose heavy makeup in itself is like a gym rat guy. They're so hyper focused on the outer appearance that what truly counts (their character, loyalty, intelligence) Is neglected. That sounds like a wonderful man. I'd probably cry of joy if that happened to me cause it sounds like such a beautiful movie moment haha! I guess this is exactly why I feel frustration towards makeup usage. It supports a shallow culture. The boys and girls my age right now are so stuck on hookup culture and this…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 10:08 PM
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I actually would argue i started wearing makeup a little later than a lot of the girls that went to my schools did, as many of them were wearing makeup in middle school, while I mostly started in 10th grade. Although you do have a valid critique of what I said, its not like men and women always find a natural woman's face disgusting or unattractive, but I do think there is a stigma. I guess I'm just scared of how as you said, What is a problem is when the best version of yourself is never enough…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 09:53 PM
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I'm also not afraid of being older. I think grey hair is charming anyways!
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 09:29 PM
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I guess for a homogenous town like ski town, makeup or style is what adds that diversity. For city life where diversity already exists in facial features and clothing styles, I think makeup should be scaled down a bit, because it's reaching absurd levels that almost look cartoonish but are now considered the "norm" and what's natural, so its actually doing the opposite of what you prefer. Everyone now has the same face and look in the city no matter what race or background for the most part beca…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 08:45 PM
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It's already happening, most Instagram models look like the same 3 people over and over again YES THIS!!!! I used to feel insecure about seeing them until I recognized that there is nothing unique and they all look like carbon copies, and I mean they are still beautiful. Its not their fault and I'm sure many of them are friendly women, but I no longer compare myself to that, and find myself admiring women with unique beautifulfeatures. whenever I do see someone with ears like that I can't help b…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 07:57 PM
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So I suppose your point is that the women who care about their appearance more through a little makeup, tend to have more feminine attitudes, and that the reflected attitude that goes hand in hand with makeup itself is what makes them so attractive? I love that idea and I haven't thought of it like that before. Also that sounds so nice tho having that less stressed culture. I think a good balance between the extremes of city life and something like our ski town would be ideal :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 07:48 PM
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I feel for you for so many of those points. I guess what I am tryna say is for things like braces (which are sometimes a medical necessity), or working out etc, are things we can achieve but its still our body, while makeup is more of a quick cover up. There is no shame in wanting to be attractive to others, I mean I even had an otoplasty because my ears stuck out and it was considered a deformity (and I know for a fact that I did it because societal beauty standards consider big sticking out ea…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 07:29 PM
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Ohhh that makes sense. Thanks for your insight
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 07:16 PM
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I definitely want to embrace what I have naturally more and look my best through self-care. Easier said than done but I will work towards it :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 06:37 PM
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Completely agree. Makeup and dressing have different roles, so I was focusing my attention on the makeup that is used to attract and belong, which are two factors that everyone competes on, and how absurd its gotten, and how certain desirable traits are so normalized with makeup usage which makes not having them even more glaringly obvious.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 06:26 PM
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I can see that for sure. I definitely don't think men create it necessarily and it is driven by women, but I do think that it does have an influence. I mean men compete for things that have nothing to do with women, but it gives them the confidence to compete for women which is how I feel about makeup.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 06:13 PM
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I didn't think it was a very feminist post tbh but my bad if its not the appropriate subreddit. I read the info, so I thought it didn't have to be about relationships exclusively
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 05:56 PM
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I agree that women are the drivers of fashion, but i don't want to neglect the fact that when men say "wear less makeup" they are talking about full blown glam they can't visibly see. Women do judge just as harshly if not more, but why do they do that?
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 05:46 PM
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I'll definitely to check out that YouTube video. I wonder tho, would we care about a little asymmetry if a facade of normalized symmetry created by using makeup didn't exist?
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 05:43 PM
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Completely agree, and I feel for girls who put heavy makeup on because I could be like that, but I know itd make me feel more selfconscious without. I wish that price that is paid wasn't that drastic or that they had to feel ugly without it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 05:40 PM
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I love the way you use makeup at home. Very unique and I can see being very beneficial :) I think makeup has many uses that can be good, I am more concerned about makeup that is used for purely cosmetic purposes that changes the way our natural, beautiful faces look, that kinda pushes that constant face perfection.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 05:38 PM
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Thats what I feel as well. Its been a cause of conflict and frustration that I have learnt to accept, that most things i do is serving a purpose in conformity to society. Ill have to check out C right Mills :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 05:19 PM
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Thanks! I'll definitely check it out :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 05:17 PM
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I definitely know it makes me more confident as well! I don't care whether I am serving the patriarchy or not, but more the impacts it has on confidence. I think the more you enjoy how you look with makeup on, the more it takes away from your love of your natural face, and turns into a necessity in your routine over an accessory where you feel bare or unfinished without doing it. It doesn't mean you hate your face or don't love, it just means that it isn't getting the appreciation that it should…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 05:16 PM
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I am all for accepting human nature! I don't mean to dismantle the patriarchy, but more so I wish I could manipulate it into what real faces are. I mean sexuality and beauty is reality, I just wish that what was deemed sexually attractive was more inline with what we are all born with, and more about health and wellness over things are literally unattainable naturally like contour or false eyelashes.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 05:11 PM
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That is a really interesting way of putting it. I definitely see what you mean about it kinda just being like clothing! That makes me feel a lot better about it :) Also about it being from the ancient and automatically meaning its not effected by patriarchy, I don't agree because makeup has had a different role throughout history. And also, there is makeup that enhances what you already have to work with, but there is also makeup that changes. Contour for instance changes the way our faces look …
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 05:07 PM
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Bahaha you could've atleast retaliated my points. I'm 18 and I'm not bad looking at all, actually I'd say I'm attractive, but it doesn't mean that I don't have things I cover or enhance. Using "😂" and still saying ok boomer, and then tryna say I'm outta touch lmaoo. I've literally had a lot of my childhood and all of teenage years swallowed by social media and constant changing makeup trends. I used to also say that i did makeup for myself, so just because I've decided to see things for the cons…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 10:37 AM
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I totally agree. It takes away a lot of what makes us real people with changing bodies, and puts our focus on getting fast results rather than putting in the time to make sure we are healthy. There is such a stigma and fear of looking old that often people resort to covering it up, when embracing these natural changes would be so wonderful, and maybe it'd allow us to connect with our health and happiness more. About women competing with women, that's true because its not like everyone woman is s…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 09:53 AM
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You missed some of my points, why do you consider yourself pretty when you have makeup on at home? What about the makeup makes you feel pretty and doesn't that imply that you don't feel as pretty otherwise? Is it because with makeup you look more similar to the beauty standard? My point is that makeup as a concept is created by others for others, and subconsciously we feel confident knowing we look good based off those societal standards without even realizing it. I also put makeup on at home so…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 09:38 AM
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