carryingfire Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	The kids		carryingfire	/r/Divorce_Men	01/12/18 11:31 PM
5	Letting go		carryingfire	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/18 03:29 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	The kids What does the schedule look like for you? Like week by week?	/r/Divorce_Men	02/12/18 12:31 AM
2	I finally did it... Awesome!! Good for you!	/r/seduction	30/11/18 12:54 AM
3	Letting go Do you mean that the fear of loneliness kept you from leaving for a long time or do you mean that loneliness brought you to the point of leaving? I’ve been lonely in this marriage a really long time. There’s always been this disconnect I feel about what’s important to each of us in terms of maintenance of the relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/18 03:09 PM
1	How did you guys know it was time? Yes. Yes it is.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/18 09:51 PM
3	How did you guys know it was time? This is such a difficult question and one that I’m struggling with as well. And truly the point already made here in the comments seems a valid one. I keep coming back to this issue of ‘what would I want someone to do for me prior to leaving if they felt it was nearly over but were not sure?’. I feel like I would want her to at least try. Counseling or change or conversation or something. I really don’t know. Combine that with me being someone who always very strongly felt that ‘marriage is fore…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/18 09:28 PM
2	Divorce Red Team Process Haven’t done it. Maybe I should. How would you score it/evaluate answers for what weight they should hold in making decisions?	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/18 01:35 PM