TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

cashcow1 Archive

View 5 posts and 377 comments by cashcow1 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Plato and Aristotle would like a word with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 02:35 PM
0

You're completely missing the main point. It's VIRTUE. Virtuous women are not whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 09:53 PM
5

Tv shows are bluepill indoctrination I didn't believe this until I quit watching TV for awhile. Literally everything they do is pushing some agenda.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 08:56 PM
2

What did you learn from those books?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 08:55 PM
1

NEVER talk to the police if you are a suspect. Stay the fuck away from that woman.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 10:33 PM
1

If you're a Christian, you need to start reading Dalrock and Deep Strength. They have excellent advice on Christian Red Pill. Secondly, divorce in most cases is off the table for Christians. Unless she's cheating or cutting off sex completely, or in serious sin, you need to try to work things out. And she needs to quit being a bitch. Your wife is pissed because she's bored, and she dominates your relationship. You need to lead like a Christian man. Go buy another gun, and 1000 rounds of ammo. Ta…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 10:23 PM
1

Hang on, he's married. That involves giving your word. Now, if she cheated, or she persists in denying sex, then divorce can be discussed. But dropping a woman because fee fees is no different than all the dishonorable shit women are doing to men in our culture.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 10:11 PM
1

Be a man, sit down, have a clear conversation about what happened. If she cheated on you, you know what to do. If she didn't, do not "talk about the relationship." You want to TELL her what is expected in terms of loyalty. She can EARN your trust again with an apology, accepting consequences, and significant submissive behavior, including regular sex. She needs to undergo significant character growth to be a better wife, and this is her fault. This is not a negotiation or discussion. You are mar…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 10:10 PM
1

Or, you stay in a relationship with a hot woman who clearly is not a whore. What we used to call "civilization." Guys, you need to read deeper about WHY the Red Pill is necessary.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 10:03 PM
-1

Fuck this. If a woman says "I don't want casual sex" she's always, 100% lying, and needs to be manipulated? Manipulation is for women and faggots and it's dishonorable. We talk all this shit about women today for being whores (rightly so), then we see a women with some standards and we get pissed? Women that don't just fuck anything that walks in the room are RELATIONSHIP MATERIAL, sir. That's called VIRTUE. Now, let the downvotes rain in, from the brainwashed/hamstering faggots who have never h…
/r/askTRP07/11/16 10:01 PM
0

Sounds like you can go exclusive with her, or not. Be glad you have an opportunity to date a hot girl with standards.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 09:54 PM
2

What is wrong with me? Nothing. You don't want to be in a relationship with a whore.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 09:53 PM
1

This is just fucking funny. Proof that conventional blue pill advice is bullshit. She says "no sex," instead of "communicating," you basically ignore her. Then she wants to bang.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 09:51 PM
2

Unpopular opinion here: it's possible. Lots of players report getting bored with sex after banging hundreds of women. Read Roosh's blog if you don't believe me.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 09:50 PM
1

Agree and amplify next time. Laugh with it.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 09:48 PM
4

Well, try to figure out the issue. Some women actually experience serious physical pain with anal, so it could be that. Or maybe lack of attraction. You know, have a fucking conversation with this person about what happened.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 09:48 PM
2

Were you abused or something? Sounds like some kind of trauma or other psychological issue.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 09:45 PM
6

Most quick, ridiculous success stories are just luck. A few are also bullshit.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 09:44 PM
1

Maybe you need to stop just banging whores, and try to form a relationship with someone?
/r/askTRP03/11/16 02:53 PM
7

Has anyone else experienced this? Happens to a lot of players. Roosh talks about it at some length. Is this reversible? Maybe. I seriously can no longer pair bond anymore, I cut girls off for no reason other than I'm bored, and I just fuck girl after girl for no good reason other than self-validation and narcissism. You need a purpose in life besides having sex with women. Sex alone will never make you truly happy.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 02:52 PM
1

Bench press. Push ups if you don't have weights.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 02:49 PM
1

How is that a red flag? she's just crazy enough to say it.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 02:27 PM
5

Proverbs 31. Respectful, industrious, kind, trustworthy. Not a ho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 07:42 PM
1

Oh boy. We get posts that I have trouble taking seriously in here, sometimes. Uh, I guess, from a MORAL perspective, it would be ok. But holy shit, no, I would never, ever do this.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 07:39 PM
1

Jesus. I mean, if it's a real, short-term threat to your health, then MAYBE. But I'd recommend eating less and exercising before you think about surgery. I'm also not a doctor.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 07:29 PM
5

I don't mean to be a hater. But a woman that you are dating because she sort of picked you over a different fuck buddy... might not be LTR material.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 07:26 PM
2

She's screaming at you that she wants to be dominated and that she will "sign a contract"? RED FLAGS EVERYWHERE! I guess, if you want to, you could have crazy monkey sex with this woman, and have her sign a contract stating she consent to it. I wouldn't, but it's a free country...
/r/askTRP02/11/16 07:24 PM
1

Just see wants to go lift, and start there.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 07:22 PM
3

could have given her reason to fear her safety I like the post, but come on. "She feared for her safety"? This is white-knighting bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 07:13 PM
1

I've seen it. Some kids are worthless fucks. With good discipline they'll grow out of it, but I have seen some really good parents with utterly worthless kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 07:11 PM
1

I wouldn't have phrased this the same way. But it's basically correct, OP.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 07:09 PM
2

If my kid acted like that for an extended period of time, they're getting a spanking. That's not crankiness, that's insolence, and insolence needs to be sharply, decisively punished. Wife might be pissed because she wants you to discipline the kid (implicit contract may need to be discussed). You also may be doing an implicit contract with her handling screaming kids in the middle of the night. Totally reasonable since she stays at home, but still needs to be clear. When she said "you're scary" …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 07:05 PM
1

Avoidance is never the answer. I dunno, man. I've got some in laws that are fucking retards, and I've had to ditch friends over the years.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 12:20 AM
2

Don't trust a whore. But if you find a virtuous woman, falling in love is fine. Just don't make her your life's mission.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 04:47 PM
2

This link explains exactly how avoiding certain red flags cuts divorce risk from about 50% to 10%: http://freenortherner.com/2013/06/21/sexonomics-odds-of-divorce/
/r/askTRP31/10/16 04:46 PM
3

Exactly, precisely this! Women have a tendency to cheat. In past generations, we shamed the whores, so cheating was less common. Now those restraints are removed, so cheating is more common.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 04:45 PM
3

Not, not at all. WHORES cheat as much as everyone on here says. The Red Pill subs skew heavily toward men who dated whores in the past and had negative experiences. Certainly it can happen with any woman, but I've seen guys saying 90% of wives cheat on their husbands, and other stuff that is demonstrable bullshit.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 04:44 PM
1

Are you working out? What are you doing with your time?
/r/askTRP31/10/16 04:42 PM
6

Oh boy, this is a pretty general question. Meditate and change your thinking. Learn how to handle social situations. Avoid annoying situations.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 04:41 PM
1

Couldn't find the post, which one is it? I was speaking more generally about his evolution from a pure game guy, to realizing that just picking up women won't make him happy. I think Return of Kings is his quest for wisdom and knowledge past game.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 02:21 PM
-1

Bullshit. No, I definitely would not discuss this with a female doctor. Whatever you do is your choice.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 10:29 PM
1

as a Christian man how do you handle the bible telling us to only have one woman and marriage?? It's damn near impossible to find any suitable girls for such a thing Gotta look for quality women. Traditional churches in rural areas, or other cultures. It's tough, I know.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:45 PM
3

No, just bring in the chair. And don't talk about it. Asking permission will create a giant paper trail and a political mess. Just bringing in your chair will involve a 90% chance no one gives a fuck. If your boss gives a fuck, you will still win (or get a nice lawsuit for not accommodating your disability), but your boss will have a much harder time creating drama out of this.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:35 PM
5

Literally just bring the chair in, and don't say a word. If anything happens, then say "I need it. Medical reasons" and nothing more.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:25 PM
4

You can't save women like this. They need Jesus. Get the fuck out before you get stabbed, or accused of rape. Even if you have to do it like a bitch, and text her or something, that's better than being assraped for a decade in prison.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:48 PM
-2

This isn't something I would discuss with a female doctor.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:46 PM
2

War College subreddit.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:44 PM
1

Whores definitely have no personality. High quality women are a bit different, but they are hard as shit to find in America today. Try looking in different places.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:44 PM
1

I'm a bit confused on the facts here. You live with your mom, who is single? If so, work on getting out of there and propping yourself up.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:43 PM
1

Do you have anything more specific? Any specific strategies, methods, ideas? I realize I'm asking too much. But I have to ask.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 08:39 PM
2

How do you stay consistent with being an artist?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 07:08 PM
1

How do we save Western Civilization?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 07:06 PM
4

What's happening to me? You're waking the fuck up, son! Keep working on being a man.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:57 PM
1

There is the mens' rights movement... but this is pretty deficient. The closest thing I've seen is the website Return of Kings, which is sort of a "locker room of the Revolution" to try to save Western civilization from the decline. I've started writing over there, because it's the brightest thing I've seen on the internet. Why not spread awareness? I do, but the issue is lack of open-mindedness. Malcolm X said: "The greatest mistake of the movement has been trying to organize a sleeping people …
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:54 PM
2

we still end up fucking nearly every time I see her, it's just that she doesn't seem excited during foreplay but once I start fucking her she becomes an animal. There's an off chance she's been abused. my questions are, is this normal? Is there duty sex in a long-term relationship? Yeah, occasionally. I'd say maybe once or twice a month I have sex with my wife that ends up being duty sex. I've definitely duty sexxed her a few times when I was tired as shit. Otherwise, I'd say the sex is fantasti…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:47 PM
9

Well, shit, brother! The fact that you're asking for a new asshole means your mentality is at least partly right! Way to start off! Women don't mind cheating that much, if it's the right man. Now, don't get me wrong, I don't believe you should cheat if you have told a woman you have committed to her, because that is dishonorable. But frankly, there are women in lots of cultures that are happily married to a man with multiple wives. So, realize that her response to you cheating will not be the sa…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:40 PM
3

Used to be, we had: Traditional religion At fault divorce Women pressured other women not to be whores Men didn't marry whores No internet to be a whore on Earlier marriage Women generally stayed at home and raised kids during their hottest years If you want an example of a current society that restrains women's hypergamy, look at Islam. It's far more oppressive than patriarchal Christianity ever was, but their women sure as shit aren't riding the cock carousel.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:35 PM
2

I can't say, because I'm not a pure Stoic. I think Stoicism is an incredibly useful philosophy, because it helps us to be focused on acting virtuously in the moment, rather than chasing pleasures. But I'm a Christian, so my actions are also influenced substantially by theology. For me, it means not chasing sex outside of marriage at all, because it will always lead to a cold emptiness. Read the book of Ecclesiastes, and see it in the life of King Solomon, the ultimate Alpha, who slayed all the p…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:32 PM
1

and plans to turn herself into a nagging bitch once she feels she has you hooked enough. I actually find women rarely plan to do this to betas. It just happens, because they don't respect him.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:14 PM
1

Sounds like she will have a hard time pair bonding.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:13 PM
1

Don't try to achieve happiness by banging women alone. Use moderation. Don't turn a woman into the sole pursuit in your life. Use moderation.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:12 PM
9

All women don't cheat. That's a foolish generalization. All women are TEMPTED to cheat. And since our society no longer restrains female hypergamy, only very high quality women, led by high quality men, tend to stay faithful. If you believe "all women cheat" you need to read sociological studies, and talk to people in your great grandparents' generation.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:10 PM
2

Yep, whores are of limited value. Now, you can look for a QUALITY woman to have an LTR/marriage, if you choose. Or, you can keep banging whores. But you've got to find meaning in your life outside of fucking. Find a mission, purpose, cause.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:09 PM
1

Right, because they haven't fucked enough whores to realize that whores can't meet their basic needs.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:07 PM
1

Respectfully, I would argue that there is a good argument to be made that life is not all meaningless. Although I understand where the first post is coming from.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:57 PM
1

Sounds like you want more from a woman that pure, animal sex. Nothing wrong with that. Come over to the married red pill sub if you want advice on long-term relationships.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:56 PM
1

There are a couple of ways to manage the social situation. One is to directly confront it. I don't like this one, but it could be appropriate in a few situations. Agree and amplify is my favorite. Laugh at the disrepect, and join in. Laugh like Hugh Hefner would laugh at someone calling him a fag. Amused mastery is a related concept. You laugh as a sensai would laugh at a student attacking him, with full confidence that he could demolish this person.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:53 PM
3

If you don't want more sex, don't go look for it. Go do something else useful with your time.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:51 PM
3

Joe Rogan has some great stuff. I wouldn't say he's 100% RP, but he's just interesting as hell.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:51 PM
0

Not all of it. For example, pre-marital sex is forbidden, and hard dread game in a marriage would violate the command not to divorce (unless she has committed a sin meriting divorce). But lots of things in Christianity are Red Pill. Female envy, irrationality, and hypergamy. Male temptation to bitch out and be a beta (Adam eating the apple like a faggot).
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:49 PM
1

This is good advice. There are a few Proverbs 31 women left (I got extremely lucky and married one), but your chances are far better with other cultures.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:48 PM
2

now that you know the nature of modern reality and modern women, what do you intend to do about it from a religious context? Be a man and lead my family. Use righteous elements of game to help my wife grow spiritually (i.e. gently teasing her when she's sinning), and helping her to gain some control over her moods. We shouldn't have sex before marriage and we should find a wife and so on, however this is so bloody hard and stupid in our modern society. Yeah, it's awful. You don't have a prayer w…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:46 PM
1

I wouldn't stay isolated at all.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:39 PM
2

You can learn a lot from your dad, and learn a lot from Trump. Hell, you can learn a lot from psychopaths, like Hitler or Stalin. Just think critically, reject bad ideas, and keep good ideas.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 02:37 PM
2

I'm sorry, I don't understand your question.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 08:22 PM
11

Because they're bad at being intellectuals. It's discussed in peer-reviewed, academic sources. http://www.iep.utm.edu/frankfur/
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 07:13 PM
2

This is utterly off topic to what was being discussed. If you want to argue about Christians being stupid, do it in one of the subs for that purpose. We're talking about masculinity here.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:44 PM
2

you are conditioned to believe that being masculine means being an arrogant oaf. YES! Excellent point, good sir! We've been taught the false dichotomy of either abusive masculinity or femininity. But we can have virtuous masculinity, the middle way.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:43 PM
1

What so now I'm supposed to lose control of my anger, go full caveman, and get into fights on the regular? No, go take a boxing class, or learn Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, or hunt an animal.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:42 PM
1

But, I know that I can't keep swinging plates forever and somewhere I will get into an LTR if not marriage. Yeah, our society sucks, and it's destroying marriage. But look at what guys like Roosh are going through after absolutely slaying pussy for years. It's fun, but our souls know something is missing.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:39 PM
4

We need the older women to be warning the younger women about this. Instead, they're all watching Sex and the City at the homes their husbands bought.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:32 PM
5

Over-generalize too much? They did just vote to leave the EU, you know. There's at least a few that aren't cucks.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:31 PM
1

Both true. Although, a lot of the violence by and against police comes from the War on Drugs and gun control.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:30 PM
4

And in America, an accountant like me can walk down the street with an AR15. As shitty as our culture is getting, there's still a lot to love about this place.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:30 PM
2

Yeah, some of that was an over-reaction to the treatment a lot of men got coming back from Vietnam. Many young men were drafted, and then abused for fighting a war they didn't even want to go to.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:28 PM
6

Don't forget the Daily Mail is sold to conservative middle-aged-plus people who want to be reassured they're right to stay in their loveless boring marriages with their boring little lives, and this sort of article panders to them Most middle-aged plus people ARE right to stay in their boring marriages, especially the women! You think most 50 year olds can do better in the marketplace than a basic worker drone who keeps a roof over their heads?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:27 PM
7

This is what happens when we condition women with 3rd wave feminism.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:26 PM
-3

Instead, treat her like the interchangeable sextoy she is This is going a little far. Women are certainly different than men, and some of the whores really are worthless. But not every woman is "an interchangeable sex toy."
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:24 PM
1

This is why we need better external controls. A brake lever for hypergamy. It used to be, women shamed whores. Women who abandoned their families were treated like trash. Some women still did dumb shit, but societal influence functioned to cool a lot of them off before they really burned their own house down.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:22 PM
22

Raise your daughters with NO EXPECTATION THAT A BETA IS WAITING FOR HER TO FINISH HER RIDE. Father here. This is fantastic advice. My daughter is being raised to know that she should prioritize being a loving, caring mother. And that means trying to find a high-quality, virtuous man by her early 20s, marrying him, and doing everything in her power to support him being a better man.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:20 PM
3

Jesus H Christ, I wish I could disagree with you.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:17 PM
11

BLM = Cultural Marxism = Marxism = Frankfurt Schoo 100% truth. Look up Yuri Bezmenov, former KGB psy ops agent, discussing this back in the 1980s. He even uses the term "social justice" several times. The connection between the Frankfurt School and cultural marxim (critical studies) is also uncontroversial, and well-documented in academic sources.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:15 PM
6

A partially-true conspiracy theory that gets used to explain all the ills in society.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:12 PM
3

And if she wasn't a retarded hamster, she would realize she fucked up horribly, and try to recover by marrying some older, divorced man with kids she can try to contribute to raising. But women aren't taught to be virtuous anymore (so they might at least pause and ask for advice before doing something this stupid), and the external controls on hypergamy have been removed.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:11 PM
5

AWALT is a general truth about women that has been turned into irrational, concrete claims that are demonstrably false. Examples: Truth: women are tempted to branch swing, and society enables them False: All women, 100% of them, at all times, in all cultures, are lying, cheating whores Truth: Women tend to act like bitches at times when they get comfortable in a relationship False: All women will put on 100 pounds and treat you like dogshit, no matter what you do It's really easy to falsify thes…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 05:29 PM
2

If you want to have kids, realize that TRP in general is extremely averse to marriage and families. They have good reasons for this, because many of them have been fucked over by family courts, or been stuck married to a woman who becomes a landwhale. IF you decide to pursue this, I would recommend not ever getting an official government license, so you cannot be divorce-raped. To have a Red Pill Relationship, start by developing some SMV. Then, start to look for a quality, virtuous woman (low n…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 05:26 PM
1

You're conflating two ideas. Happiness is an emotion. There is no should, or should not, it's just an experience. Should, or should not is reserved for actions. Should you be in a long-term relationship? I don't know; I know that lots of men get tired of fucking whores at some point and want something different. I'm married, and quite happy with the decision, because it works for me. But other guys have gotten divorce-raped, or married to harpies. So, YMMV.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 05:22 PM
3

No. Girls like assholes and douchebags. They love men who show parts of these characteristics (leadership, humor, control over emotions), but are mature.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 05:19 PM
2

By sexist do you mean wanting to mistreat women? No. Do you mean telling the truth about real differences between men and women? Yes.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 05:16 PM
3

I think this is a troll/sock-puppet account that I've seen ask very similar questions in here several times.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 05:15 PM
2

It's just a bummer that religion MUST come as a package deal and people be forced to accept incoherent bullshit along with the good stuff. I agree 100%. There are a few good churches out there (generally patriarchal), that teach a rational, objective approach to Christianity.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 04:08 PM
15

You're going to be raising a kid through a broken home. That's the norm now. This made me sick to my stomach, but it's true. Our society is depraved.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 07:36 PM
1

You're speaking from a specific experience, but generalizing it to all of fatherhood. I would add the caveat: IF you are married to a bitch, this is how you will be treated if you have kids with her. (Warning: most American women are bitches)
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 07:36 PM
6

I understand what you're saying, and I agree in principle. I know society is tilted against men, and this is not fair. I would simply counsel men to carefully consider the research on divorce and how it affects kids. It is extremely harmful to kids, even when justified. Now, in some situations it is so bad that you should still end it. I understand. But kids really complicate the situation, and I would advise men not to lightly divorce the mother of their children.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 07:34 PM
1

Oh, Jesus. You, sir, are in a serious situation. Not insurmountable, but serious. Start off by talking to a divorce attorney for a realistic assessment of how ending the marriage would result for you. IIRC some states don't even allow you to divorce a pregnant woman, so you'll want to find an expert. She is clearly a whore, and defrauded you in the marriage. That is grounds for divorce. You also need to consider the possibility that the kid is not yours. Staying together for the kids is a shitty…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 07:31 PM
5

Honestly, I have never done this and have absolutely no meaningful advice, but I applaud your audacity. Best of luck, good sir!
/r/askTRP25/10/16 07:18 PM
1

Or GTFO, because in truth, it is clear you are full of shit. Yep. Clearly a troll.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 07:02 PM
1

Is this the troll convention? There's two of you guys!
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:56 PM
0

You are not going to do well in this sub.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:51 PM
1

Who said anything about hangovers? I did. You simply cannot handle the party lifestyle as well in your 30s as when you're younger. It's good advice that's well within scope. He's clearly at odds with people like you on TRP who insist that in your 30s everybody should be a lone wolf who creepily hits on girls at the bars by himself What? OP asked about "making up for lost time" and I advised him not to do it, for very good, practical reasons.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:50 PM
0

Are you fucking serious? You come in here asking us for advice, and tell me to fuck off for giving you good advice?
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:46 PM
1

You're overthinking this. That's the problem.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:45 PM
2

Depends on your purpose. I "game" my wife by gently teasing her to stop acting irrationally and do the right thing. That is a good use of "game" knowledge. But it can be used for evil as well. Most tyrants have a mastery of frame.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:44 PM
0

Manson is the one they caught.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:43 PM
2

As a Christian Red Piller, I reject most of the Dark Triad traits. There are elements of them that are legitimate, such as strength, power, and leadership. But these are to be used ethically, not only for selfish gain. Here is a great post on the subject: https://deepstrength.wordpress.com/2014/01/30/the-end-of-the-game-debate/
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:42 PM
1

TRP basically takes no position on morality. Unless it's dishonorable (breaking your word, etc.), TRP is going to have no position. I would advise you, and anyone else, not to be doing pump-and-dumps. Especially in the gay community, where disease is a more serious concern.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:39 PM
1

She tells a story that people want to believe.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:37 PM
3

Sounds like a sociopath. Stay the fuck away. And consider leaving the community if she's not removed. NEVER trust a sociopath, and NEVER trust an organization that tolerates them. Read up on "political ponerology" to see what these people do when they infiltrate groups.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:36 PM
1

Not that weird. And a good way to earn some extra money.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:34 PM
1

Just don't. I mean, you can do whatever you want, but I would advise you to avoid this. You can't do hangovers in your 30s like you would have in college. Also, a lot of the partying people reminisce about wasn't that awesome. It's just that they didn't know any better.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:34 PM
2

If I'm understanding your argument correctly, it's that religion contains claims that are ridiculous, and unlikely to be true under the natural laws of the universe. I agree. That's the point. For example, a person who makes a rabbit appear out of a hat can be explained by natural phenomena. So we call it stage magic, not a miracle. Some people are 'scriptural literalists', and think that the earth is 6000 or 7000 years old. That's obviously scientifically false I agree, as a matter of science, …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 02:42 PM
1

That may be part of the problem. $41k is enough to buy a middle-class home and raise a family in lots of places. NYC cost-of-living is absolutely insane.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 06:57 PM
5

Quit watching porn. Don't hold your dick so tight when you jack off. Seriously.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 06:43 PM
3

If you didn't act dishonorably, then you have nothing to be ashamed of. Telling a woman "no" is not something to ask for God's forgiveness about.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 06:42 PM
2

She's probably still banging him. Certainly not LTR material.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 06:40 PM
2

$41k is not a lot of money? That's plenty of money to live happily, and retire early if you manage things right. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 06:39 PM
3

"Alpha" isn't someone else. It's the best version of you. If you want a girlfriend, get one. There's nothing inherently "alpha" about fucking girls and leaving them. Just think about WHY you want a girlfriend? Is it to enjoy her? Or are you trying to make her your purpose and mission?
/r/askTRP24/10/16 06:38 PM
13

First of all, don't fucking kill yourself. These feelings are NOT permanent, they are temporary. Second, if it's so bad that you're suicidal, you may want to consider some medications short-term. I don't think they are a good choice for most people long-term, but they can help you get back on your feet for awhile. Find a good psychiatrist to do an evaluation. Third, start exercising. Basically every form of mental illness is helped by exercise. Fourth, get some good advice. It could be a mentor,…
/r/askTRP24/10/16 06:36 PM
1

There are certainly shades of female evil. Some women do a little branch swinging to try to upgrade from one relationship to another. Others women sleep with hundreds of men, cheat on their husbands, lie about it, divorce rape them, and then pretend they didn't do anything wrong.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 04:42 PM
2

That's why this sub exists. Used to be, you could get a quality woman if you were a quality man. That's all fucked now.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 04:40 PM
7

One can be successful, even be an "alpha" without being a narcissist.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 04:37 PM
1

If a person learns science, they have an eventual big problem. Respectfully, I believe this is a category error. Science deals in concrete theories of natural phenomena, supported by hard evidence only. Religion deals in metaphysical questions, supported by philosophy of religion, divine revelation (in the Abrahamic religions), If someone is saying "science proves/disproves religion" they're generally not doing science or religion correctly. Eventually, you either have to embrace the fact that y…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 01:34 PM
11

We need a society that functions right for the BETAS. It used to be, a man who went to work every day, busted his ass, and brought home the bacon got sex and respect from a woman. Everybody wasn't Hugh Hefner, but they were getting average sex twice a week, and fathers were treated with respect. The fact is, being a Beta in 1950s America wasn't a bad deal. You don't have to be incredibly ambitious, just show up to work and do your job, and you get a car, a home, and a pension. Every decent man g…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 01:40 PM
2

Yet, they all abandoned state-enforced atheism to do it. Look at Russia, they are returning to the Russian Orthodox Church, which was banned under the USSR. I'm not saying atheists can't be Red Pill; it's a philosophical truth that anyone can acknowledge.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/16 01:27 PM
1

Can you elaborate further on this private marriage business? Basically, you have a ceremony at a church, and commit to monogamy, but don't involve the state in any way. No marriage license, no divorce rape. Is it still recognized by the state? A few states recognize common law marriage, which you want to avoid. Do you hire an intermediary that holds you both to marriage, or is it private in that you both just agree to "marry"? Just agree to marry.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 01:19 PM
3

I want to attend your church.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:09 PM
6

The Bible warned about this: "They are the kind who worm their way into homes and gain control over gullible women, who are loaded down with sins and are swayed by all kinds of evil desires," 2 Timothy 3:6
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:08 PM
3

I agree heartily with the first 3. If you can find a quality virgin who is willing to marry you without a government contract (i.e. private marriage, commitment to monogamy, but no risk of divorce rape), then go ahead and marry young.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:06 PM
1

Yes he did. He just didn't marry them.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:04 PM
3

I agree. I left it because it has nothing to do with Christianity.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:04 PM
2

Real men don't bow down to a priest caste that rapes and abuses little kids. I'm pretty sure Catholics don't SUPPORT this behavior.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:04 PM
5

It also forbids gluttony. And tells men to instruct their wives. So, he should quit being such a faggot, and tell his wife that she is sinning by being a fat pig. And other women in the church should also have been telling her to lose weight and stop being a hambeast.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:00 PM
2

Religion used to be very red pill, it's not any more and hasn't been for a long time. You should go visit some churches that teach traditional Christianity.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:56 PM
3

It can't be red pill if it's not actually true. True. That's why I think blind-faith religion is so dangerous. But if a man accepts the teachings of Christianity because he's read Aquinas, and believes that the evidence points to a first cause, that's not blue pill garbage, that's rationality.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:56 PM
4

Christian here. I agree. One should believe in a religion because it is true. If you don't accept that it is true, you should reject it. Most religious people don't actually believe in their religion, they cling to it by blind faith. This is not what the Bible teaches, which is rational, objective faith.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:55 PM
4

Yep. The atheists shitting all over Christianity need to remember: we kept women in their proper place for centuries, and built this whole fucking civilization. Atheism built the USSR, the most blue pill, egalitarian, miserable shithole in the history of humanity.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:53 PM
5

Why is that blue pill? Humans will fuck you in the ass. God is the only one who loves you unconditionally, and he won't save you in this life. If you want human respect, you earn it. The Old Testament, especially, is full of harsh reality. Most of the patriarchs slaughtered evil men by the dozen to save civilization.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:50 PM
2

It's not any one sect. I've seen Catholics, Orthodox, Lutherans, Evangelicals, etc. that are all cucked as fuck. And I've met people from all sorts of backgrounds that understand the Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:48 PM
3

I agree that Christianity on paper is RP, but it's been reformed relentlessly to align with our feminized society. That I agree with. And there are many Red Pill Christian writers who get into a lot of detail on this.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:48 PM
5

Reddit likes to bash religion for some reason. It's out of hand. I'm sick of citing Red Pill wisdom from King Solomon (alpha of alphas) and having some fucking neckbeard come in and start screaming about how I'm sucking Jesus' cock or something. A few of the atheists can say "I disagree with some of your ideas, but I see how this functions within the Red Pill." Most can't. I seriously wonder if many of them aren't women, because they argue like women. Nothing but rhetoric, can't stay on point, e…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:46 PM
1

Tell him after you've made him a nice dinner and had sex.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:42 PM
8

Christian here. This is exactly what's wrong with Christianity today. Most churches are about 70% women, and the churches pander to them. Effeminized, emotionalized self-help messages masquerading as the teachings of Christ. Compare that to a church that teaches biblical, Red Pill truth, and it's night and day. There are churches that still tell women to respect and submit to their husbands, and excommunicate them if they initiate divorce rape. There are churches where men are men, and women are…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:41 PM
1

Ok, I see what you're saying. Basically it's immoral for men to do this to women, because it imposes misery on the wife. I agree, this is a legitimate criticism of patriarchal religion if it's done wrong. But this isn't what happens in practice. I work out to be attractive for my wife. Women still have a choice of whether to date or marry a man. I'm not talking about pure arranged marriage, or a complete return to medieval "women are chattel" status.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/16 07:29 PM
1

However, religion seems to remove the sovereignty of the husband; I agree in part. Certainly mainstream Christianity, and many other religions, are doing this. But Biblical Christianity does not. The commands wives to submit to their husbands in everything. Furthermore, the whole idea of the "Divine Plan" sort of removes any culpability you or anyone has This is a great point, and one that I have struggled mightily with over the years. In short, I don't accept the idea of "determinism," that God…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/16 07:14 PM
3

Can you name a single country that was majority atheist for more than 3 generations that failed? Basically all of the communist countries. They were almost all atheist, enforced at the barrel of a gun, and most of them have collapsed or abandoned communism.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/16 06:12 PM
2

For example, Aristotle made the argument that there must be an "unmoved mover" that created the universe. Aquinas elaborated on the idea: http://philosophy.lander.edu/intro/motion.shtml Another example is the teleological argument, that the universe appears to be ordered. http://www.philosophyofreligion.info/theistic-proofs/the-teleological-argument/ A subset of the teleological argument is the fine-tuning argument, that cosmological constants are within a very tight range, which makes it improb…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/16 06:09 PM
1

Are you fucking retarded? You're leaving a good, no bullshit woman because you have fee fees? Work on your anxiety issues (get some cognitive behavioral therapy to learn management techniques). But don't leave a good woman.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 08:12 PM
2

I genuinely don't think you can be fearless in the face of physical aggression. Fear is an emotion, not an act, and you cannot control emotions, only actions. You can only be courageous, which involves acting rightly in spite of fear.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 08:10 PM
1

Your definition of "alpha" might be wrong. If women that you want to date are afraid of you, you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 06:57 PM
18

Have emotions. Just don't be your emotions. Nothing wrong with being sad when your dog dies.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 06:57 PM
1

Delegate tasks. Tell the CEO if he cannot do the whole job. Taking on responsibility is good, but being a slave that is underpaid is not.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 06:56 PM
1

Find a mission in life. What do you want to accomplish?
/r/askTRP20/10/16 06:55 PM
1

I can get you into Century Club. I know a guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 06:40 PM
1

So, you think that philosophy of religion doesn't exist/is stupid. And yet you claim that it has proven that God doesn't exist. And that you know more than Aristotle. And I'm retarded? Actually, I am pretty retarded for responding to this.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 06:39 PM
1

I'm Ron Burgundy?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 06:32 PM
1

Why don't you educate me on how "science" has somehow updated the field of philosophy of religion. Let's hear more about the modern instrumentation that can detect the lack of an unmoved mover, or how anyone has created any proven explanation for the origins of matter and energy in the universe. Go ahead, gold if you're successful.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 06:31 PM
0

Your post basically states that you like traditional values and has little or nothing to do with religion. I said traditional religion reinforces Red Pill truths. I also said Red Pill truths can be known philosophically, so one does not have to be religious to hold them. That's quite different from saying religion is good merely because it conveys Red Pill truth. being retarded enough to believe in an omnipotent god then please fill me in. Please go take a philosophy of religion class, and tell …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 05:59 PM
3

Irrelevant. MODERN, SECULAR scholars reject them for their late date. The Gospel of Thomas is the earliest, and it's dated to the mid-2nd century, making it clearly pseudepigrapha, and not historically reliable. Most are much later.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 05:55 PM
1

You're upset because your post went over like a lead balloon. Bro, I'm in the top 500 on all of reddit. I can get 100,000 karma in a few days. I give zero shits about whether this post got downvoted by a couple of neckbeards. This post was a service for married men who want to raise families. That excludes you, because you don't even want kids. Why are you trolling here?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 05:50 PM
1

Don't understand the smug part You didn't say "I am an atheist because I find the arguments convincing." You said that atheism is "waking up from a fairy tale" implying that all theistic arguments are obviously ridiculous. If you reject them, fine, but pretending they are just childish is extremely smug. then I think you have a difficult argument to say that organized religion is RP. Most of it in America is not. I said that explicitly in my post. Also, as a side note, you will undoubtedly disag…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 04:52 PM
5

I have. The gnostic gospels are rejected by scholars due to their late date. Most were written in the 3rd-5th centuries.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 04:49 PM
2

I'm not seeing any data that a single country in Europe is majority atheist. You're probably thinking of nonreligious. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_atheism#Europe
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 04:31 PM
3

CS Lewis? Wht the fuck would a kid litterature writer know more about all this shit than a basic lay person? Are you serious? You're talking down to me that "There is no rational argument for religious belief" and you thought CS Lewis only wrote children's books? Please, go take a philosophy of religion class and come back when you have an informed opinion. Perhaps you could start by reading Mere Christianity, The Screwtape Letters, and The Abolition of Man. He has several dozen other books on t…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 04:30 PM
3

Are you asking if we're aware that the New Testament is a cheesy adaptation of Buddhism to a circa 0CE Jewish audience? We are. That is a position that I have never read in any academic sources. Have you studied any metaphysics newer than ancient? Yes. I've taken several philsophy of religion classes, lots of theology, and published academic work in theology. Philosophy of science? Yep. Bacon, Ayer, Popper Maybe some Russell or Wittgenstein? Nope.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 04:26 PM
1

If it is dishonourable to get a divorce, then are you saying all women who initiate divorces are similarly dishonourable? Yes. This is what I intended and should have clarified - remove the legal aspects, but beyond that she's no better or worse than any other woman. AWALT. Fair enough. I could agree with this.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 03:18 PM
1

Atheism is waking up from the fairy tale that is religion. Very simplistic thinking. I find that well-informed atheists (like Stefan Molyneux) are almost never this smug about their beliefs. If you like religion, great, I'm happy for you. I don't "like" religion. I believe that it is in fact true. And it has had a drastic impact on my marriage. I think you're missing the point of my post because you're very committed to the proposition that religion is false. You can believe that, but try to see…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 03:15 PM
7

Lets see some "no religion" incorporated into the posting guidelines. Get your fucking SJW speech suppression out of here! This isn't your gender studies class. Holy shit, I expect FAR better than this from an allegedly Red Pill sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 03:13 PM
2

Please show me a successful society that was majority atheist that existed for more than 3 generations.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 03:12 PM
1

OP here. I actually agree with the criticisms of this mentality. Involvement in a religion you know is false is not a good thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 03:10 PM
4

The data shows 100% the opposite. Virigns are far less likely to divorce and cheat.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 03:08 PM
3

I'm not going to get into a spirited debate, but there are plenty of great thinkers that are atheist that agree there are rational arguments for belief. Absolutely correct. I doubt most of the atheist neckbeards screaming about "Religion is Blue Pill, OMG!" have taken a basic philosophy of religion class. Aggressive atheists almost never even understand the basic arguments of theists. Well-informed atheists might reject these arguments, but they don't feel comfortable ridiculing, say, Aristotle.…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 03:06 PM
3

First of all, it appears that you did not even read my post. If that's the case, please go back and read it. Secular mrp has maybe a 25% success rate; I'd rate religious beta's chances closer to 5-10% The data shows quite the opposite. Religious people are far less likely to get married. since everything you do has to be approved by your pastor. Nope. That's Churchianity. My pastor's wife has told my wife to do what I tell her, even if she disagrees with it. Lifting, passing shit tests, being co…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:58 PM
5

Gosh, you convinced me. I've never read a single argument from an atheist, and I had no idea that science exists. Have you taken philosophy of religion? Read Aristotle or Aquinas? I find that almost every atheist who arrogantly neckbeards like this is completely unfamiliar with the opposing view, and usually has watched a couple shitty arguments from youtube.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:47 PM
1

Doesn't marriage have its roots as a social and financial obligation? That's a very deep question that I would have great difficulty answering completely. In Christianity, it is a social and financial obligation, but also a covenant of love. Hinduism probably sees it as a purely social and financial obligation.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 02:43 PM
1

but one can't logically take a leap of faith for those reasons. I agree. "Leap of faith" religion is bullshit. I hate Kierkegaard more than any other theologian, because he turned much of Christianity into blind-faith sentimentalism.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:42 PM
1

We're not talking about marriage in the abstract. We're talking about breaching your VOWS to a woman who stayed by you, and did not act treacherously even when he became a fat fuck. I could MAYBE see advocating a legal divorce but remaining in a monogamous relationship with this woman. That is at least morally defensible. But abandoning monogamy here would be dishonorable.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 02:41 PM
6

Mormon culture is sick. That may be true. I've never been Mormon, I was only commenting on experiences with Mormon people. A man and his wife that I know had to escape from physical, sexual and emotional abuse of the most disturbing nature. This is endemic to Mormon culture. That's certainly bad. I wasn't advocating anything like this. I would never tell someone to be involved in something like this. My church doesn't do anything like this. You think it's good because women should know their pla…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:38 PM
5

Yeah. She thanks me when we're done.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:36 PM
2

I agree, it is possible to be Married Red Pill without religion. I'd love to hear if someone else post about how they have done it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:35 PM
2

that it was my job to put my wife on a pedastal, and if for any reason she was not happy with her life, it was my fault Major problem in Churchianity. The Bible teaches the opposite: women frequently struggle with envy and inability to be content with what they have. This is their fault, and they need their husbands and wise older women to help them learn to be content. It was tempting at times to throw out my faith along with the blue pill mindset, because they were so intertwined. I had the sa…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:35 PM
2

I think a lot of the angry atheists in this thread/sub need to read this sub. You can hate religion and think it's foolishness all you want. The fact is IT WORKS. We have successful marriages. People actively involved in religion are far, far less likely to get divorce raped. You can mock all you want, but the results simply exist. One could even say "Christianity is false, but the practice of their religion clearly improves family life." The problem is, apparently half this sub is utterly unwil…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:31 PM
3

My explanation of how my marriage survives in a fucked up culture.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:28 PM
10

In a proper context, with a just society, sacrifice can be quite manly. For example, storming Normandy to save the world from genocidal Fascists is quite sacrificial, and quite Red Pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:28 PM
3

It's extremely damaging, to marriage, to your mind and to your life choices. Is it possible that your religion was toxic to you (I had similar experiences), but that this is not universal? But the fact remains it's all fairytales, and if you're cherry picking parts of the bible, then it's no longer religion, just wisdom. And of course, wisdom can help you. I'm glad you can at least recognize that there is profound wisdom here. I can recognize wisdom even in other religions that I believe are the…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:26 PM
4

This is false, there is no rational reason for religious belief. This is an incredibly arrogant and narrow-minded statement. Look, if you're an atheist, be an atheist. Say "I have read the arguments for religious belief, and reject them on the merits." The majority of experts in philosophy of religion don't even believe this. You are so much smarter that you are comfortable not just rejecting, but ridiculing as utterly worthless the likes of Plato, Aristotle, Augustine, Aquinas, Maimonides, Anse…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:23 PM
2

I disagree with your statement about them being honest. Mormon men will fuck you over. Fair enough. This has not been my experience, but if you have experienced this, then I would defer to your experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:18 PM
6

This is the atheistic neckbearding I was referring to. You narrow-mindedly rejecting a whole post simply because "religion bad!" (which is not a rational argument). I doubt you even read the post. In the future, if you are so offended by discussion of anything related to religion that you cannot even read the post, please simply stay out of the discussion. This contributes absolutely nothing.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:17 PM
1

I agree, anyone here can accept the ethics (patriarchy). That was the primary purpose of my post. However, I also believe that the theology is in fact true. And that is an important factor in religion: you ought to believe that the religion you practice is true. Others may disagree with me, but ought to respect the fact that there are rational argument to support theistic belief.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:15 PM
1

Religion is the biggest blue pill you can swallow. If you believe in SkyDaddy, you can not hold a rational discussion on the matter. You are simply not using adult logic. Your SkyDaddy stories belong to the infancy of our species. This is the atheist neckbearding I was referring to. There have been smart people who have debated these issues since the dawn of time, and pretending that YOU have easily settled the debate and know all of the answers, to the point of ridiculing others, is patently ri…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:12 PM
0

All of this traditional religion could also be seen as "pre-alpha-conditioning." Meaning that women are taught that they are submit to their husbands regardless of whether they have earned it (for lack of a better term). I agree. And as a man who is not always on my A-game, I appreciate not having to constantly perform or face divorce rape. This could be why, as /u/hydrogenesis mentioned that even though the women are sort of pre-selected to be submitting to their husbands, some still cheat, sin…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 10:53 PM
1

Those sounds like fair criticisms. I don't have any experience being a Mormon, or being married to a Mormon, so I will defer to your experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 10:50 PM
1

Don't think so much. Just go do shit, and see what works. Get things done, meet people.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 10:39 PM
2

Just send her a text: "Movie tomorrow, I'll pick you up at 7" She will probably say no, which will define the terms of the relationship.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 10:27 PM
1

Set your frame around your personality. You should become the best possible version of yourself and not an entertainer for the world. Great advice.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 10:25 PM
1

Try something new. Go get a hobby. Volunteer. Join a club or civic organization.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 10:24 PM
1

I seriously question whether any woman with 20 partners can pair-bond effectively. I'm not saying it's impossible, but the evidence says it's nearly impossible. I feel like some higher power wants me to be with her, at least for now I'm religious and God speaks in strange ways sometimes, but I assure you, this is brain chemicals. The only way Icould see this working long term is if she lets me have sex with other people while she remains faithful to me - or at least lets me raise children with o…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 10:22 PM
4

Go find some draft dodging faggot I agree that shirking responsibility is faggy, but I can understand men not wanting to fight in Vietnam. That was a bullshit war that had nothing to do with protecting our national borders.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 10:17 PM
1

There's no draft right now. If there were, I suppose I'd consider being a conscientious objector.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 10:16 PM
8

Honestly, don't try to be an "alpha." Try to be genuinely masculine. Try to be YOU. I find that a lot of men get messed up trying to act like their caricature of "alpha" (back-slapping salesman, athlete, etc.) Much of this is a function of their personality, and they're trying to emulate a different personality. This even depends on situation. I've had job interviews where I was slapping partners on the back and making dick jokes. Other times, I took a very technical, competence-focused approach…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 10:15 PM
8

Your comments are true, as aimed at the modern, feminist institution of marriage. But in this case, they don't appear to be correct for this marriage. OP said he admits he became a fat, worthless fuck, and she didn't leave or cheat on him. Didn't even cut him off from sex. That's about as virtuous of a woman as you'll see in modern society. I have serious questions about the honor code of a man who would leave this specific marriage.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 10:09 PM
2

This is my experience, too. I know many people that are Mormon, and they are all good, wholesome, honest people. I can't recall a single case of a Mormon I knew that was dishonest, or unreliable, or anything like that (I'm sure they exist, though). I have studied Mormonism, and do not believe it is factually true, but I respect the people and the culture. Mormon culture is generally Red Pill, and a good place to find a chaste woman, and raise kids. Women will actively encourage each other to sub…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 10:07 PM
2

Sorry bud, but I can see we aren't going to agree here. That's fine. I don't agree with my own pastor on some matters of religion. There's no way you're every going to convince me that the fundamentals of Christianity are rational. I'm simply trying to show that some of us have rational reasons for our belief. You may examine the evidence and reject the argument. For example, I reject certain arguments for atheism as incorrect. But they are still rational arguments. They are categorically differ…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 09:37 PM
2

how do I reconcile that many of the religious women I've met over the years were unfaithful with their partners? Some of them simply made bad choices. Women are hypergamous, and religion does not completely cure this, only help curb it. It's also likely they were in some form of feminized religion that justified female cheating. This is common, even in Evangelical circles. The movie "Fireproof" is a perfect example of utter bullshit, designed purely to justify female hypergamy.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 09:34 PM
1

I'm all ears if you'd like to specify what the "many rational reasons for belief" are. That wasn't the point of the post. I was discussing the importance of religion in family life. But, I'll give some info. Thomas Aquinas has literally tens of thousands of pages defending theism and Christianity, both from a theological and philosophical perspective. In modern times, William Lane Craig is an academic philosopher who defends theism and often debates atheists. I'm not defending the specific of my…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 09:13 PM
3

For every benefit you point to, you could point to a harm. I agree. Religion can also be harmful. Especially when it's feminized, abusive, or toxic. One of my main concerns is that traditional religion is irrational. This is where I disagree. Many religions are irrational. Part of this post is criticism of irrational (often woman-led) religion. But religion can be quite rational; for example, look at the rational arguments of Thomas Aquinas. You may believe that, say, Christianity is false. I ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 09:01 PM
8

This is irrelevant to the discussion, and directly addressed in the post. If you want to argue about religion, do so elsewhere. This post is about the role of religion in family life. This response is like if someone wrote "How to succeed in sales" and you responded "Working in sales is stupid." It's just not relevant to the discussion.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 08:52 PM
1

I'm not sure I know what you're referring to.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 08:35 PM
5

I wouldn't. It's bullshit, but likely to hurt OP if he does this.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 05:29 PM
3

One option is to laugh very loudly at these jokes. Not sarcastically, but heartily. Pretend you're Hugh Hefner and someone just joked about you being gay.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 05:29 PM
1

Married Man Sex Life.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 05:27 PM
6

Fantastic point about the dishonorable hamsters in this sub. Hypergamy is evil, but divorce your wife out of the blue.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 05:24 PM
5

It's almost a statistical inevitability. Sorry, but that's a huge myth in this sub. It's perhaps 50-50.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 05:22 PM
10

AWALT! EVERY WOMAN WILL CHEAT, EVEN IF YOU ARE LITERALLY ALONE ON A DESERTED ISLAND! /s
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 05:22 PM
8

Jesus H. Christ, are you insane? Just on a purely legal level this is horrible advice. It's also pretty dishonorable to just divorce a woman, rather than trying to work out your problems. That's the type of shit we rightly criticize hypergamous women for.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 05:21 PM
9

getting married is an increase in your obligations and a decrease in hers True, but I don't think this leads to your conclusion. It's posts like this that make young men think that marriage might be a good idea after all, so long as they are "alpha enough bro, yo" That is simplistic thinking, and it is far more nuanced than that. For example, I would also recommend not getting legally married, but making a commitment to monogamy based on your word. It's not. It's a terrible fucking idea. In many…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 05:18 PM
2

Yes. An extremely ugly woman will have trouble, but an average woman in good shape with a good personality (respectful, kind, submissive) can bag a high status man with little trouble.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:13 PM
1

Just try talking to people. If you're funny and loud, make some jokes. If you're a good listener, ask interesting questions. Get over the idea "I have nothing to say," and just talk about shit that interests you, and interests the other person.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:11 PM
1

Married guy here. Marriage advice: Don't get a marriage license or a formal contract. You may commit to monogamy and raise a family, but keep the government out of it. Find a good woman. Low n-count, family-oriented, low debt, low drama, traditional religion. Talk to her friends and family to vet. Roosh V talks about the role of religion etc. right about here. Thoughts? I've not met a single virtuous woman in the younger generation who is not actively religious. They may exist, but most virtuous…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:02 PM
0

They make your penis not work as well, they can make you suicidal in some situations. They will take several weeks to work. I see them as a bridge for some people with severe issues. Take them to get off your ass and get a job, get to the gym, and get a social life, but cut down and get off of them if at all possible (with advice of your psychiatrist).
/r/askTRP19/10/16 02:56 PM
1

She has mentioned her father saying it to her and disliked him strongly for 5 or so years for it. She started crying just thinking about it and went to therapy for a while, but then quit for some unexplainable reason. Explore this further. She probably has trouble taking criticism and thinking rationally (most women do).
/r/askTRP19/10/16 02:53 PM
1

The Mindfulness Action Plan is a pretty tame, gender neutral presentation of it.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 02:51 PM
1

Be fit, and have a personality that men are attracted to. Dress attractively, but not like a whore. A good example of "girl game" that a man will actually be attracted to is the Book of Ruth in the Bible. She is trying to attract a man for marriage. She is kind, respectful, and treats the man with great honor. Treat men like that, and you will bat well above your average. Hell, I bet the average millionaire would gladly take an HB5 that has these characteristics. Want to make a man happy? Sex an…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 02:47 PM
0

There's a bit of a fallacy at work here. "Latino" is not exactly a culture, it's a language. Mexicans, Spaniards, Puerto Ricans, and Guatemalans are different cultures. Different Hispanic cultures are going to be different. Mexican women generally don't date white guys, but Mexican men love white women.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 02:43 PM
1

Can you take her to the gym with you? Is she getting help for the eating disorder, and do you have some idea of what was causing it? Sometimes it's just goofy women, but other times it's real trauma like abuse.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 02:41 PM
1

If she's depressed, help change her MOOD. Plan a fun activity with her, say something funny, go out with friends. Getting her to the gym will almost certainly help. If that isn't working, just go take a walk. Any physical activity will help. I wouldn't apply for jobs for her. That's too far. She may need professional help. I'm not a big fan of antidepressants for most people, but they can be a bridge for serious depression.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 02:38 PM
1

I don't have enough personal experience to say. I'd be inclined to say it's good IF she has an understanding that her husband is to be the leader in the home, and she will have a respectful attitude.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 07:22 PM
1

I agree that marriage licenses are problematic and should generally be avoided.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 02:14 PM
1

So do you still think one can alpha through a successful first marriage to the end without divorce? There's a good possibility, especially if you are careful. Especially with a good prenup/private marriage, proper vetting, traditional religion, and a good support structure.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 02:27 PM
1

If that's basically your life goal, I'm sorry but ur in for a world of hurt. That's not my life goal, that's my actual life. Currently. What if ur wife dies? Or ur child dies? If u place ur happiness on the externals, u are bound to suffer because of its changeable and capricious nature. Agreed, we should strive to not derive happiness from externals. But society is broken. And we must let it die it's inevitable and natural death. I disagree. Societies in decline are often able to reform. Marcus…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 02:25 PM
1

"I want the state, to FORCE me, to stay in my marriage, even when I've concluded that it's best to leave, for the good of the children as determined by the state" This is, in no way, what I'm saying. Please refrain from arguing with straw men, it's completely unproductive.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 02:23 PM
1

Step one: don't call us faggots. Step two: hit the gym, even harder Step three: find men that you can discuss your feelings with. Fantasy football league, poker night, civic organization, bowling league, etc. Step four: express that you want sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/16 07:04 PM
1

This is absolutely horrible for children.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 06:38 PM
2

That simply isn't true. According to the National Conference of State Legislatures, only 8 states recognize common law marriage: http://www.ncsl.org/research/human-services/common-law-marriage.aspx
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 06:37 PM
2

What you are basically proposing is "Hey, guys! I figured out a way to have the blooper 'Disney fantasy' in a red pill way, sort-of!" I agree with your characterization. Marriage in this fucked up society is fraught with peril, and the risks are real. It's bluepill at its core with some red pill window dressing around it, IMO. Here's where I disagree. Marriage has been the basis for society since the dawn of time. Kids need mom and dad, and they need them to be committed. If you disagree, you ar…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 05:03 PM
1

how this law works in other parts of the world? Generally, this is how it works in America. But divorce courts can get this wrong, or invent whatever laws they want. That's why you don't want to be subject to the jurisdiction of a family court if at all possible.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 04:54 PM
9

I go to one. We excommunicated a woman a few years ago for trying to divorce rape her husband. They tend to be overwhelmingly conservative and traditional. I'd guess the majority are Catholic and Orthodox, although mine is not. I've found the best indicator is if they practice real church discipline on adultery and immoral divorce. That shuts hypergamy down quicker than daddy's belt.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 04:53 PM
4

I wish I could fall in love with a woman and get married and raise children together but the odds of that happening successfully are minuscule. I wish I could say that you are wrong, but I can't. And it really grieves me to the bottom of my soul that you, and other men of my time, have so little hope of this. I'm sorry.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 03:48 PM
1

the second comment was more meant for the bozo talking about 10% less chance of getting cucked. That was me. And it wasn't a 10% less chance, it was reducing the total risk to 10%. I do believe Archwinger or vasily has a post explaining this well, one of the top of all time here. I did a search before posting, and did not find anything discussing this. Do you have a link?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 03:45 PM
4

mega churches I'd avoid them. They tend to be the worst purveyors of Churchianity. I'm Protestant, but I've actually found Red Pill Christianity to be most predominant among traditional Catholics, Orthodox, and Mormonism (which is an offshoot of Christianity).
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 03:43 PM
13

I concur in your criticism of much of Christendom. They have a blue pill, unbiblical understanding of Christianity. But Christianity itself is Red Pill. Jesus righteously games people all the time. The Old Testament is full of patriarchs, handling their shit, killing evil men by the hundreds, and holding civilization together. Churches that practice biblical discipline on women who cheat or try to divorce rape their husbands (excommunication is prescribed by 1 Corinthians 5) are far better place…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 03:41 PM
1

The absolute best way to avoid divorce rape is to not get married at all. Thats it. I agree 100%. It is not for everyone, and men need to be aware of the reality before they commit to marriage, especially in this fucked up culture.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 03:36 PM
1

I agree with all of your criticisms of bullshit blue pill obligations and Churchianity. I don't believe, as an extension, that there are no ethical obligations in the world. Where I disagree is that a man has an obligation not to divorce rape his wife. Having a marriage ceremony involving a commitment, having her bear and take care of your kids several years, and then abandoning her without cause would be dishonorable as well. Would you want someone to do this to your mother or daughter? I am no…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 03:34 PM
3

Wisdom on avoiding divorce rape is not "blue pill shit."
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 03:29 PM
2

Please read the post before you comment. This is directly addressed. Some states still have "common law marriage" where a couple that holds themselves out to the community as married can be considered legally married after a time. Before you do a Private Marriage, you need to talk to an attorney that is familiar with your state's laws.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 03:23 PM
1

In a legal sense, yes. But we're still talking about living with a moral commitment to monogamy and raising children together, not just finding some woman to impregnate and live with.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 03:18 PM
1

That's the good thing about us Christians. If someone is a heretic, we get all the bishops together to have a conference and condemn them. We don't just cut their head off or stone them to death.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 02:08 PM
1

A deeper question is: do you have some advice on how to succeed at marriage (the proactive orientation) rather than how to "reduce the risks" to a still-unacceptable probability level. Sure, and I might post about it elsewhere. I mean, really: if I told you I have just bought a new 10-chamber .22 revolver would you write a post about how all red pill guys should rush over and Play Russian Roulette, because the odds are way lower than they were with the old 5-chamber .44 blue pill guys were using…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 02:04 PM
1

It's not reducing risk by 10%, it's reducing risk to 10%. So, basically you're cutting your risk about 80% by proper vetting.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 02:02 PM
3

Enjoy the decline. No thanks. I'd rather fight to save it. If we lose, then so be it, but I'm not going to bend over and take it.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 02:01 PM
1

Did you read the post? It said NOT to marry sluts.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 02:00 PM
1

As a Christian man myself, I believe marriage should be nothing more than a promise a man and a woman make to God, there is no reason for the Government to get involved. I agree. But, what about things like common law marriage where a woman is liable to seize your assets if you have been dating for at least two years? Depends on state law. Most states have abolished it.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:59 PM
1

Seriously, what does marriage offer a man? Raising children. Kids need to be raised by a married couple, the data is crystal clear on this.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:58 PM
3

she will only love you based on the value you provide to her and her/your children. This is a tendency women have. And I will be chastised for believing in unicorns, but virtuous women who resist these urges do exist. Ask your grandparents.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:56 PM
1

That may be true. I was certainly surprised by the data.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:55 PM
1

Lose western civilization which is weak and decadent af. Do you prefer the alternative? I mean, we have problems but I think it's worth saving. The Muslims will replace. I'd rather die than live under Islam. They never had a reform movement to get rid of the crazy medieval shit like Christianity did, so they will never have a modern society.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:54 PM
1

No, it is a statement about law. You can have a marriage without a government license. Go to a church and have a ceremony symbolizing your commitment. This is what we did for centuries before governments decides they wanted license revenue.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:53 PM
3

What are your thoughts girls whose parents divorced? I think it's a medium red flag. Her mom remarried shortly thereafter to a beta chump who didn't have kids of his own. Sounds like mom is a bitch. You'd want to keep her out of the picture.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:51 PM
2

would the black divorce rate more have to do with black men? Probably. Also the welfare state.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:50 PM
1

Or perhaps it's the "I've won" feeling of greatness you think you feel when you're 35 with your loving subservient wife by your side and 3 well behaved kids who look up to your strong headship in the family? I realize I'm a unicorn, but that's basically my life.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:48 PM
1

You see, none of that requires you to be married. You can have an LTR and live in the same house without getting married. You can have children just fine without getting married. I agree. However, kids do a lot better with married parents. I believe this can be done without a government contract (marriage ceremony, commitment to monogamy but no marriage license).
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:45 PM
1

True. I also suspect that women who are less likely to divorce are also less likely to completely give up on the marriage and turn into a land whale.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:44 PM
1

Whats your reasoning against this? The data, actually. I was really surprised by it, and my inclination would have been to avoid career women.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:43 PM
1

This post is glossing over the lengthy discussion that has culminated in not getting Married. I did not intend to gloss it over. This post is merely wisdom for those braving the minefield with their eyes open. In the future, would you prefer if I included a link to the warnings in those posts? I strongly suggest not taking advice from what looks like an unmarried hopeful Nope, happily married.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:43 PM
2

I agree, American culture is a cesspool. Dating non-American women, or even leaving the US to marry, is a serious option to consider.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:41 PM
1

As for the rest, I did not say " don't have a mutually monogamous relationship with a woman", I said - DO NOT GET MARRIED ( stipulation - legal marriage or something similar. I would agree with this. Government-licensed marriage is almost always a horrible idea. In the few situations where it might offer significant benefits (certain tax situations, etc.) it's still a very risky option.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:38 PM
1

My folks were really in love with each other and were married for several decades, but they were also from a different generation and the kind of storybook love they had is even more rare today. Excellent point. Our culture has changed, and that's part of why people here believe silly myths like 100% of women cheat (it may be high, but it's not 100%). For a man, most of the benefits of marriage can be had outside the legal structure of marriage, I agree. Private marriage (a moral and spiritual c…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:37 PM
2

The kid thinks it matters The DATA shows that it does matter. News flash. Any girl, every girl, no matter fucking what will do exactly what girls do. Yes, women are hypergamous by nature. They are tempted to cheat. However, not all women DO cheat. Not all women DO divorce-rape men. I'm here to inform you that my second ex wife was a virgin with a bs who never smoked, drank, or did anything bad, plus she is highly intelligent, probably more so than op. To top it off, she is homely, so her chances…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:35 PM
2

Respectfully, I think this is extremely simplistic thinking. For example, one can have a spiritual/moral commitment to a woman without a marriage contract is a far more viable option. Also, marrying a woman from a more traditional culture, or foreign culture, is going to drastically cut the risks of divorce rape.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:31 PM
2

I am generally in agreement. Certainly I think it is unwise for any man to sign a marriage contract in a place where he can be divorce raped so easily. The point of the post was merely ways to mitigate this risk. Sort of like "if you're going to a war zone, here's the type of armor to get."
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:28 PM
1

a woman can't have a sexuality, but I guess men can? I made no comment on this. The post only addresses the fact that women with lots of partners are far more likely to divorce. I would actually counsel men likewise not to have a bunch of sexual partners. Go read Roosh's posts about realizing that banging hundreds of women didn't make him fulfilled like he thought he would. a woman can't have an education Actually, the post said a bachelor's degree made divorce risk LOWER than lower education le…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:27 PM
1

I agree that divorce rates are high, but that sounds insanely high.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:25 PM
6

Private marriage. The way all marriage was a few generations ago.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 11:51 PM
8

Then take this as "How to pick a woman with whom you plan to reproduce, stay together and parent together with"
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 11:47 PM
1

i feel like you don't understand women at all It actually sounded to me like he was married and has significant experience.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 11:46 PM
1

Yeah. Be really fucking careful marrying a woman in this culture. She'd better be the closest thing you can find to a unicorn: a low N-count, religious woman with a strong father.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 11:45 PM
2

I wrote it for people who want to get married. Read the title: "Selecting a wife"
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 11:35 PM
-2

Not the kind of odds I want to play. Then the post wasn't written for you.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 11:05 PM
10

You've rationalized marrying by thinking of yourself as saving civilization?! Fucking wow. Yes. Civilization needs kids, and kids need parents. You think MGTOW or spinning plates is going to keep the West around?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:59 PM
8

I'm married, I don't regret it. And I have several close friends that say the same. You're projecting your own subjective views, and those of the majority of this sub, into objective laws.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:58 PM
1

That would be a pretty fair assessment. It's tough as shit to find quality women. And I wouldn't recommend anyone think about marrying anyone other than a quality woman.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:56 PM
7

Ok, then don't get married. This post was directed to those who choose to get married.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:55 PM
1

If you actually want to involve the government in your relationship you are dumb. I did not advocate anyone getting a marriage license. But I would strongly advocate that anyone wanting to have kids do so within a committed relationship commonly understood since the dawn of civilization as marriage.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:43 PM
6

This post is wisdom for men who choose to get married. If you don't want to get married, then don't.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:41 PM
7

Look at the data, I did. That's the point of the post. To provide data for others to make their own decision. Even all the data in the world won't help you accurately "vet" a woman for marriage. You might think you can "vet" a woman for marriage but there is no such thing as actually vetting a woman for marriage. Do you really think a man runs the same risk marrying a virgin from a traditional religious family in rural Idaho as a slut he met at a club?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:34 PM
3

So you want to get married I already am married, and I want to share wisdom for other men who may also make the same decision. Because unless you say that you WANT a LEGAL CONTRACT, then you do not want to get MARRIED. I agree on this point, that a government-licensed marriage is a horrible choice for men.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:32 PM
-1

You are projecting. "I don't want to get married" does not mean "no one could ever rationally want to get married."
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:30 PM
3

It's not for everyone. But those who dare need the wisdom of other men. Or else we lose civilization.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:28 PM
7

I don't understand why marriage keeps coming up Because everyone doesn't make the same choices you do. Why does it bother you that a man would give wisdom to other men who chose to get married?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:26 PM
22

You're speaking directly against the data cited in the article. You're appealing to some authority as if it's common knowledge that marriage is ALWAYS wrong for EVERYONE no matter what. That is projecting your own personal choices onto others. If you don't want to get married, don't. This post isn't for you.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:25 PM
8

How about the odds of your wife becoming an obese, nagging she-monster? Virtuous women are going to tend to be less likely to do this. Game helps. Again, risks are not eliminated, but they can be mitigated by not wifing some ho you met at a night club with an N count over 100.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:23 PM
10

This is good advice, but prenups are not bulletproof.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:20 PM
3

I have a government-licensed marriage, but if I had it to do over again, I would go this route. Far less temptation for the woman to divorce-rape you, which leads both parties to be much happier.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:19 PM
11

you don't need to be married to have kids. You do need to be married to raise kids properly. Children of single parents are far, far worse off than those from homes with married parents. I'm not saying you need to go get a marriage contract from the government. But children need to be raised in a situation where mom and dad have committed to be together and care for them.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:18 PM
9

And you also lower your chances of having children and raising them in a proper family to zero. If YOU don't want to get married, then don't. No one is telling you to. But you're pretending that "marriage is bad" is a universal law of some kind, rather than your own choice.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:15 PM
115

Protestants are heretics Glad you settled that 500 year theological debate with a 2 line post on reddit.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:14 PM
5

That's literally the point of this post. You can take it from ~50% to 10% by avoiding red flags.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 07:37 PM
3

Again, this is not the topic being discussed. Please go start a topic "why marriage is stupid." This does not contribute.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 07:31 PM
3

please get married and post back here in 5 years how it went :) we all will love to hear it Done. Don't regret my decision.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 07:30 PM
16

Some men choose to get married. There are risks today, but many of us choose to manage these risks rather than falling into MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 07:02 PM
4

Children do much better when their parents are married. Most of the slutiness, criminality, and other societal bullshit you observe is lack of strong fathers.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 06:53 PM
1

Yep, traditional religion is a big factor. There are a few virtuous women out there.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 06:53 PM
1

Thank you. I'm sick to death of this sub just bashing marriage to death. If you don't want to get married, don't. Some of us want to talk about it with like-minded men because we make our own choices.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 06:52 PM
2

How about responding to the topic being discussed? Some of us want to populate the earth.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 06:50 PM
8

Dude marriage is basically placing your life's work and reputation on the hands of a woman that has nothing to lose and everything to gain. If you don't want to get married, don't. But that's not the point of the post. Some of us want to get married, and if you think that's stupid, go talk about it somewhere else. This does not contribute anything to the topic of discussion.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 06:50 PM
1

Gotta work on better vetting of any woman you plan to have a relationship with.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 06:47 PM
1

There isn't an ideal body fat. For a model, or a man simply trying to look cut, you'd want it low as hell. For a warrior, you would want to be in the teens to allow yourself to go without eating for a few days. For an NFL lineman or strong man competitor, you would probably be in the 20s, so you can lift for pure strength and endurance, and not worry about losing mucle mass during a cut.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:43 PM
2

Yeah, she's clearly a cheating whore, and cannot be trusted. That's why she left.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:40 PM
2

Gotta modify things to your culture somewhat. American culture is oversexualized as hell, so men respond by taking game to ridiculous levels. 60 years ago most men would not feel the need to lay down so much game, and women would more naturally be attracted to stable men who could provide for them, and would have been trained to avoid bad boys.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:39 PM
1

Who cares? Get some solid game down and you can initiate with either one.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:33 PM
1

Why? They're a solid, traditionalist Red Pill site. Not much different than anything you'd see on Dalrock or Vox Day.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:32 PM
2

Depends on the situation. Is she speaking honestly, or shit-testing/spewing rhetoric. Honest responses to honest questions, rhetoric to rhetoric.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:11 PM
1

I agree with the advice to do something about politics. But one man can't have any appreciable effect on national politics. Start at the local level, and you can have an impact.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:09 PM
2

She's gonna win, and nothing major is gonna happen. I'm sorry, but this is just not true. Hillary is immediately going to start implementing policies that are harmful to men and freedom in general. We ought to be concerned about how we should respond.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:08 PM
2

There isn't much left. We have to save the Republic.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:07 PM
2

Sometimes. Gotta go make quality friends. Join a civic organization, start a hobby, go volunteer.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:07 PM
0

Be a man, do your job. Pretend you're in a war zone and he's your lieutenant. Do the best you can to follow orders and get the job done, because winning the war is more important than showing up this idiot. If it really is insufferable, find another job.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:04 PM
1

You're going to the gym, that's good. But you've got your sights set on a girl that is not interested. Time to move on. http://www.artofmanliness.com/2010/07/18/stop-living-for-the-approval-of-women/
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:01 PM
5

Re establish religion that will actually attract young people, not feminazi Churchianity. Teach young people moral philosophy. Read Aristotle, Aquinas, and others, and teach their principles.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 03:58 PM
1

Sorry, but there is no way YOU believe this. If I kicked down your door, stuck a gun in your face, raped your wife/girlfriend, and stole all your property, you would not shrug your shoulders and say "wow, we have a different perspective on ethics." You'd say "I'm gonna kill that motherfucker" and you'd be right.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 01:03 PM
1

How did you get to here? From the main subreddit. I too love how compatible some of Red Pill is with Christianity Obviously, some of it is incompatible (sexual immorality). But the truths about the nature of men and women, the nature of power and how it works in society (people are sheep and they need a good shepherd), the need for social controls on women's hypergamy, etc. I like reading Dalrock, Deep Strength, and Biblical Gender Roles for a Christian perspective on this stuff.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:00 PM
1

How do you reason that? We dismantled a corrupt, elitist government in 1776, and plenty of good men lived on and passed their genes.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 12:57 PM
1

Let me clarify, I'm talking more about a localized, informal group of men. Not a formal union.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 12:56 PM
3

I think each group will be a bit different, but basically you give short speeches and get feedback, then listen to others and give feedback. Good practice and networking.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 12:54 PM
2

I don't think it's a right vs left thing anymore, It's not. Ralph Nader has a great book discussing how real conservatives and real liberal agree on probably 70% of the major policy issues, and they are up against a small minority of apologists for the elites.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 12:53 PM
2

Again, I'm not talking about fatass MGTOWs banding together to protect their lifestyle. I'm talking about real men banding together for mutual support. The "Good Old Boys" network, that let you know who was trustworthy in your town, or your industry.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 09:20 PM
14

Try to find a local Toastmaster's, too. They'll give you concrete feedback.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 09:15 PM
2

Wrong sub, Hansel.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 09:14 PM
1

Honestly, I've not met any quality younger women who are not involved in traditional religion. This is not some implicit endorsement of religion, but an actual, empirical observation. Edit: realized you were looking at plating. My advice applies to those looking for marriage/kids.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 09:12 PM
4

Stephen Covey's 7 Habits of Highly Effective People helped me a lot with time management/prioritization of activities. I would worry much more about whether you are accomplishing things vs. whether you spend every waking hour on "productive" activities.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 09:10 PM
1

Make sure you know damn well what you're getting into. And get into excellent physical condition BEFORE going in, so you can kill it once you are in.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 09:08 PM
1

Go watch videos on something useful. Or take a walk.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 09:07 PM
2

Good job getting sober. Sorry you didn't have a father. Sorry you were abused. You've had real trauma and real disadvantages in life. Now, get the fuck off the couch, and do something. Go take a walk, go lift, go do something social, GO FUCKING DO SOMETHING! Go drive for Uber. Get off your ass and start earning money. You'll feel less worthless immediately. Then, work on getting yourself a job as a doctor. You're a goddamn doctor, you got through medical school! You can get through this!
/r/askTRP11/10/16 09:05 PM
1

If you've only been lifting a short time, I'd focus primarily on building strength and muscle, and perhaps making some small diet changes (cut down junk food, etc.) You'll see a ton of changes just from lifting.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 09:00 PM
2

Came across it here. Then I started reading blogs. Then I realized how Christianity is full of Red Pill truths, and learned a lot more from the ancient writings than I had before.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:59 PM
1

The Red Pill is not against love. The Red Pill merely warns about the dangers of love in our modern society. In a traditional society, a respectable man could unreservedly love a woman and trust her not to run away with Chad, but we don't live in a traditional society that enforces chastity on women. So, we warn men to be careful, and to understand why women leave.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:55 PM
1

Yeah, there's a good chance of that. Work hard and try to find a virtuous woman and the chances go down significantly, but there is always a risk in this culture.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:53 PM
1

You have to find a VIRTUOUS woman to trust with these kinds of things. Most women today are untrustworthy whores, which is why men here treat them like sex objects. Check out Proverbs 31 for ancient wisdom on the value of a trustworthy, industrious, modest, chaste woman. "A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies."
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:51 PM
1

Return of Kings is fantastic. For Christian Red Pill, I like Dalrock, Deep Strength, and Biblical Gender Roles.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:45 PM
36

Do you mean public speaking skills? I recommend a book called "How to Argue and Win Every Time" by trial lawyer Gerry Spence for those looking to learn how to speak with real emotion and conviction.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 08:40 PM
8

When Females can secure the perimeter through the use of drones we (men) will absolutely be fucked and will be unable to revolt when the tipping point is reached. The possibility of armed, covert resistance is not going away anytime soon. The best militaries in the world have repeatedly failed to defeat multiple insurgencies in the Middle East in recent decades.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 08:08 PM
7

the jews control everything. I don't think it's primarily the Jews. It's a ruling elite, and there is a higher concentration of Jewish people there. But it's certainly not a class made of exclusively, or mostly Jewish people that's doing it. I really believe this "Jews rule everything" is mostly false flag propaganda, like reptilian alien conspiracies.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 08:04 PM
7

No, we want to burn down the plantation and rebuild a just society.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 08:03 PM
5

I'd like to point out that this is a man's world and the only men that are truly struggling with feminism are the lower class tiers No shit. But that doesn't make it ethical or good. Mistreating weak men who have been manipulated and deceived into weakness is not virtuous.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 08:01 PM
1

Yep. And many who reject religious truth are actually rejecting wussified perversions of the truth told to control people.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 07:59 PM
3

it was just a side effect of serving the big invisible sky ghost though. Maybe that invisible sky ghost who caused wise men to write Red Pill truths thousands of years ago might not have been such a silly myth after all...
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 07:58 PM
3

I cringe a bit at the thought of men "banding together" to unionize and fight our female oppressors. What's wrong with manly unionization? Back in the day, craftsmen would form trade organizations to promote their trade, vet members, and work on contracts where many artisans were needed. So long as it's based on true merit and skill, why is a union dangerous?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 07:54 PM
1

I have never done steroids, but I strongly recommend regular exercise to help with depression. In some serious cases, antidepressants can be helpful for a time, but be aware there are side effects, some potentially serious. I would generally consider these as a short-term solution until you can get longer-term solutions in place.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 03:50 PM
1

Exercise is great for depression, so keep doing that. But what's your mission in life? How are you working on it?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 03:47 PM
5

This is pretty questionable. I would certainly have questions about your honor if you pulled a stunt like this. It's not 100%, because it's not like you were sleeping with a friend's wife or something that is clearly dishonorable. But this was clearly not the best way to handle things. There is more to life than being right, and trying to get people to take the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 03:51 PM
-2

I don't know why this got downvoted to hell. This is a major part of the thinking behind power elites that are pushing blue pill on everyone.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 03:49 PM
1

I specifically included a disclaimer on that. What are your thoughts on the actual content?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 09:41 PM
14

Yep. Trump is questionable on some things, but he's also clearly right on a lot of things. And Hillary is clearly Lucifer.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 07:36 PM
1

I agree with your conclusion that we need a state, but I'm not convinced that anarchy always leads to civil war.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 07:35 PM
3

the only good moment Trump had was the TPP question which made Hillary backpeddle and fumble quite a bit. I disagree. I think he won the first 3rd, where he really nailed her on being an establishment hack and a criminal. Then it fell apart.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 07:54 PM
3

why are people drawn to politicians with meaningless talking points rather than people that talk specifics and at least try to address the complexities of real problems? Most women have great difficulty thinking rationally and concretely about public policy. Many men do as well, because they have not been taught critical thinking skills by our dogshit education system.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 07:53 PM
0

They still have rifles and their country isn't being flooded with Islamists. So, I'd still take it over the rest of Europe.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 09:02 PM
12

Russia and Switzerland aren't going cuck. And the UK appears to be fighting back with Brexit. The rest of Europe, though, is in trouble...
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 07:47 PM
1

If they don't know you, pepper spray is the best method. Can't follow you, can't see your license plate, etc.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 03:16 AM
12

Pray that the revolution is something nonviolent, like peaceful secession of a state that understands reality. But also get yourself a rifle, and learn how to use it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 03:11 AM
1

If this generation would have had to fight WW2 we probably would have been making excuses about how Nazis weren't that bad after all. If this generation had to fight WWII, it would have created men out of most of the generation, like it did for our great-grandparents.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 05:10 AM
1

A psychiatrist probably needs to listen to feels. A surgeon should give absolutely no fucks about feels.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 01:46 PM
2

I don't like the terminology, because it implies that you can sort of do whatever you want under biblical Christianity. But I agree with the conclusion. You can have a spiritual covenant with a woman that doesn't involve submitting to the divorce-rape industrial complex by signing a contract.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 01:40 PM
2

Start by going to a church that teaches the Bible, not Churchianity. That means men are the leaders in their home, and anyone who initiates divorce (except for adultery) gets excommunicated. If your church is teaching female leadership (this is what egalitarianism or fake complimentarianism ends up as), or assumes men are always at fault, your marriage will be hopeless.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 01:31 PM
2

I agree, we shouldn't base our strategy on people's anecdotes and peak performance. But, we can get ideas from this, and then investigate on our own and decide if the strategy can do well, don't you agree?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 03:08 PM
1

Here's a pretty good summary of the outsized returns that one person achieved on a similar website, Lending Club: http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/the-lending-club-experiment/ Personally, I only invest in highly rated debt on these websites, and I outperform corporate bonds of similar length/default rate by about 2-4% annually. The reason I stick to highly rated stuff is that I use these sites for the "bond" portion of my portfolio, so I want less volatility. If I wanted higher risk/higher return,…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 03:06 PM
1

Real estate and prosper.com (only A rated and better).
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 09:21 PM
1

Thanks for the response. So, something like a boxing or martial arts club or the like?
/r/askTRP11/05/16 03:45 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter