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I prefer grabbing drinks or stroll in the park you can incorporate the cup of coffee or tea and yes the first date shouldn’t be set too far in advance increases the chances of a flake
/r/seduction23/04/26 08:56 PM
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Well it comes down to resistance. When a girl has 'medium interest,' she’s not sold on you yet. If your game isn't on point, you'll lose her. Conversely, when a girl has 'high interest,' the attraction is already there; your main job is just to not mess it up.
/r/seduction23/04/26 08:22 AM
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I say a guy who can get medium interest girls has more game then a guy who’s mostly getting high interest girls. With that said I believe in a holistic approach work on looks and everything to be well rounded!
/r/seduction23/04/26 06:18 AM
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first step is the hardest you gotta go out socialize and also be on apps with good pics summer is coming & NY is competitive
/r/seduction04/04/26 01:59 AM
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Thanks I get why you're asking, but here’s the truth most guys miss: The conversation was actually very 'normal.' We talked about her family, her school, and life. There was no 'magic' line. The reason I focused on the highlights is that the logistics and sub-communications are what actually move the needle. While we were talking about 'normal' stuff, I was doing three specific things: 1. Intense Eye Contact: I wasn't just looking at her; I was looking through her. 2. Proximity: I was slowly clo…
/r/seduction02/04/26 10:35 PM
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3.5k views and everyone is quiet. Most new guys would’ve reached the point of no return and got ghosted I'm answering everything before I post Part 2
/r/seduction02/04/26 08:55 PM
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You’re right about the leach off sets especially if it the guy is good looking and has a lot of approach anxiety being good alone is paramount
/r/seduction01/04/26 06:24 PM
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In NYC currently I closed last week from cold approach in midtown things seem alright to me
/r/seduction26/12/25 07:54 AM
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Go on Feeld app make a joint profile looking for unicorns
/r/seduction06/12/25 06:13 AM
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For awhile I barely got anything on the apps. That was because of bad pictures and incorrect archetype presentation but. I was decent looking and got women from cold approach these days. Since I approved my online profile I do really well. Lots of dates. Hookups etc but the women I meet in person are more attractive
/r/seduction19/11/25 09:47 PM
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I’ve had great experiences talking to women outside of the club and had my share of. Hookups and pulls etc but you’re correct you need to move fast every second counts people are getting Ubers, planning the next move etc
/r/seduction30/06/25 08:47 AM
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No it’s easier for her to respond to a text especially one that was sent right after you met her!
/r/seduction30/04/25 07:50 PM
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Just text. Asap if she ignores it I delete seldom double text!
/r/seduction30/04/25 07:48 AM
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First step is the hardest so congrats trail and error and you will need more volume it’s numbers game aim for 10 numbers or more
/r/seduction30/04/25 07:19 AM
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First you need the right prospect whether it’s cold approach or from a dating app. I’ll ask where does she live? Does she get along with her roommates? She says she doesn’t have. That’s the perfect answer. Next I seduce, eventually kiss and seed the pull let’s go to yours listen to music etc sometimes she will just ask you
/r/seduction26/04/25 09:17 PM
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NYC
/r/seduction16/03/25 08:53 PM
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In real life yes he will probably get similar attention as a 7 woman but he will still need to approach or at least respond to the ioi- the indicators or interest . Yes you’re correct about the average woman issues on apps although she will get lots of matches. She is not gonna wanna settle and will aim for best and the 8+ men will not respond or will just use her for easy hook ups with no commitment As for the 8+ man with a great dating app profile he will do fine as long as he knows how to con…
/r/seduction13/03/25 08:11 PM
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the power of an 8 man would likely have about same power as a 7 woman” I agree with everything you said except that. A average woman a 5 will out perform a 8 man on dating apps there’s plenty of experiments online. Because most Men will swipe on anything women won’t
/r/seduction13/03/25 07:18 AM
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That’s uphill battle tbh I’ve got an east asain male friend who’s got the same problem. Go on Ig and look in the comments of good looking dudes see the girls they attract and what you can copy if anything
/r/seduction06/03/25 11:20 PM
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You gotta optimize. You need a process Only deal with the high interest matches example the girls that message you first or respond to your messages fast. As for first couple messages what do you mean ? I soft close within 5 to 6 messages usually then go for the number. And for the final point you’re referring to time wasters! there’s a couple red flags and words to watch out for
/r/seduction22/02/25 04:54 AM
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Good better then her saying you’re so nice
/r/seduction02/12/24 07:19 AM
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I’ve had this bunch of times my advice if you think she really has dating potential don’t kiss on lips just hug but if the vibe is there and you kiss go for the close
/r/seduction04/11/24 07:21 AM
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Yes but be in private
/r/seduction26/09/24 04:42 AM
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Don’t over think it you don’t have to touch her every single second you see her. long as you escalate. Verbally and physically she will know you don’t want a platonic relationship
/r/seduction26/09/24 04:33 AM
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Playfully but you’re in luck you don’t have to be a PDA guy to get her just ask her to hang then you can get physical . but keep in mind to be careful how deal with her as your reputation could be affected or worse
/r/seduction26/09/24 04:15 AM
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This^ there’s a downgrade. Risky to go for the home date with the high quality girl you would date
/r/seduction07/08/24 08:21 PM
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You don’t know him personally you just follow him on Ig just continue getting to her like you would any girl
/r/seduction07/08/24 07:06 PM
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Some don’t like it but still meet anyway but if she’s coming to your place or vice Versa first date she will. Listen to music, tv show or movie what really happens is a massage 30 min in that’s turns into sex let’s say an hour or less from the moment to arrive My place is regular. The distance is the bigger factor 1 mile or less is preferred if she drives doesn’t matter or you could get her an Uber
/r/seduction07/08/24 06:40 PM
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28, they ages range from 24 to 36 Good logistics, great profile, bad weather actually helps she messaged first or flirts a lot in text. FaceTime call to ensure worthy candidate is coming to your place
/r/seduction07/08/24 04:02 PM
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Don’t over think it enjoy plenty of guys would like a sugar mama also you say NYC fyi no one cares every one’s a character there
/r/seduction26/06/24 10:00 PM
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You sure that’s a woman kidding just ask if she wants to meet for coffee or something else chill and don’t be weird
/r/seduction26/06/24 09:52 PM
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You can do both easily soft looks maxing doesn’t stop you from doing the inner/outer game but obsessing over looks and getting surgery could
/r/seduction26/06/24 07:33 AM
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Yes and no you need to find your niche example im better with certain girls and have a harder time with some identifying the girls that like guys like you makes game easier.
/r/seduction18/06/24 05:27 AM
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Approaching more girls definitely increases your chances but bad game and not being that attractive or approaching the wrong girls will decrease your chances
/r/seduction16/06/24 09:25 PM
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There’s your problem you waited a couple days general rule is to ask them out as soon as possible girls can ghost at anytime especially during the early stage. Get over it and Go get more leads!
/r/seduction14/06/24 06:23 AM
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Hate to break to you but non white guys are getting women off dating apps all over the world shocking right lol and yes you do have an adventure if you’re a white male but you’re forgetting looks and height I’m guessing you’re not tall or have a attractive face for your ethnicity all hope is not lost …..
/r/seduction14/06/24 12:40 AM
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Just match her energy take as long to respond or give it the benefit of the doubt and respond in reason and try get her out sooner then later
/r/seduction14/06/24 12:33 AM
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Sounds like she is not ready to date past trauma .Three dates with a woman in her thirties sex should happen by the latest on the third or fourth it’s its a home date only
/r/seduction07/05/24 02:25 AM
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Well if you got the looks like you say Get on tinder read the post how to make a quality OLD profile and what that other guy said here
/r/seduction07/05/24 02:13 AM
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Does one ever truly stop once he becomes good at this I say .No me personally I take breaks whether for work or focus on one or two girls only things that could truly stop you is if your sex drive plummets or old age!
/r/seduction06/05/24 11:03 PM
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Two things can be right I think indirect is great for new guys or those that can change the topic seamlessly. Also I agree I’ll go as far to say the majority here on Reddit have never or seldom approaches Your situation makes sense for me I Seldom do it I feel incongruent. Soft direct is like a middle ground where you’re not too direct
/r/seduction01/05/24 03:16 PM
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That’s true when you get down to it you could open with anything and make it work if she’s interested but some openers are definitely better then others
/r/seduction01/05/24 02:36 PM
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Good guide, my MO is similar. I've optimized my profile to the fullest, from the prompts to the pictures; everything is planned. I wait a couple of hours to message when I get a match, giving her a chance to start the chat. It's always easier if she initiates it. If she doesn't, I'll open with an observation or send one of my pre-canned openers, mostly fun statements. Nothing direct or about her looks. Next, I find that three to four texts from me are generally enough to get her number; there's …
/r/seduction01/05/24 08:11 AM
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Great question. The mind plays tricks; even after doing something hundreds of times, you doubt if you still have the skill. I recently experienced this. I was consistently getting new women every month, then one month, I had nothing. I did all the same things, but nothing worked. However, this made me hungry to prove it to myself once again, and I had a great comeback. I had a hot streak and could do no wrong.then things went back to normal Athletes in sports also go through these cold streaks. …
/r/seduction01/05/24 07:27 AM
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I don’t Advocate indirect unless someone is new to this and direct is better if you’re handsome. I approach with a soft- direct example hey excuse me you have like a different energy to you I wanted to hi 👋🏾
/r/seduction01/05/24 04:06 AM
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Gotta be careful even if you want something deeper and go on three or more dates she could just end things leaving the guy with nothing
/r/seduction01/05/24 02:21 AM
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First off I don’t know how you look but I’ll say looks max and learn game. Get a girl on a date first take this step by step don’t rush the process!
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:42 PM
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No I think it’s fine do what’s most comfortable also some girls hide things about their appearance whether they’re aware of it or not
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:36 PM
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That's still a cold approach most people feel comfortable approaching in a bar or club. But once that woman steps out of the club, you're not allowed society says. Then there's the warm approach, where everybody kinda knows everybody or their a friend of a friend. By the way, whether approaching in a store, park, or club, it's because the man found her physically attractive; her personality is what will keep him."
/r/seduction30/04/24 10:59 PM
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Amazing every flavor I could ask for and restocks everyday there’s a reason every pick up guy has come here to film some infield
/r/seduction29/04/24 10:18 PM
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I’ve been doing this for a couple years I’ve had everything you mentioned YES! it still works hooked up with a girl last week from the club. Go outside and try
/r/seduction29/04/24 12:38 AM
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Search this group for that topic
/r/seduction27/04/24 12:35 AM
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I think your method is fine .Remember what every you do some women will be ok with it and some will not my method is to not spend much money have a price cap til we have sex. Now if we get into a relationship I’ll treat her sometimes and expect to be treated back in return
/r/seduction19/04/24 01:44 AM
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Do you have a phone get on the popular dating apps and cold approach on your way to work or from work or just doing everyday activities and read the old posts on this subject in this group
/r/seduction19/04/24 01:35 AM
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I wear the star lord jacket from the guardians of the Galaxy movie it got compliments in 2022, 2023, 2024 year doesn’t matter bro wear timeless cool stuff
/r/seduction19/04/24 12:23 AM
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Walk before you can run. First you should be able to pull one girl from the club a couple times then bring a hot girl that you already slept with to the club with you and look for threesomes together
/r/seduction02/04/24 01:28 AM
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You’re overthinking it I’m 29 and hook up with some 18 to 21 girls and older from Europe and from the states some times Good looks/style + game/personality + a little money/logistics will work just about every where only exception strict religious girls
/r/seduction01/04/24 04:38 AM
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This ^ if more people just read through the archive we can stop seeing questions like example ‘I saw a girl in class how to make her mine ? lol
/r/seduction30/03/24 11:18 PM
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Hanging out with her the majority of the day flirt a little in the gym I suggest you do most of the escalation outside of the gym
/r/seduction30/03/24 09:36 PM
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They both have positives and negatives I always recommend doing both for best results
/r/seduction25/03/24 12:18 AM
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He should find out what a one night stand is first
/r/seduction24/03/24 12:35 AM
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I’m not sure you know your self or how others see you I suggest you go out with a honest wing man also voice record your interactions with your phone play them back
/r/seduction23/03/24 12:46 AM
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Ghost or if I see potential I send a 🖤
/r/seduction19/03/24 05:21 AM
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I do well on hinge one of my prompts is I go crazy for! And I list things I like red wine, love island uk, Giving massages, cuddling etc and ladies will comment on it and I use it to pull back to mines or there’s
/r/seduction16/03/24 10:23 PM
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I said this in step 5 I isolate the girl once I gained their trust! mixed groups are fine :how do you guys all know each other take it from there often times groups break apart by themselves you may approach the girl from the group as she getting a drink or coming from the bathroom
/r/seduction11/03/24 09:27 PM
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You . Hey man how’s your going ? Guy blah blah You my boy just left u know any spots around here who you here with Guy blah blah Friends enter the convo blah Small talk Does this work all the time No but it works
/r/seduction11/03/24 09:19 PM
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Assuming you get the third date chose dancing or something you need to make a move! Go for a kiss in the middle not the end of the date! and if the kiss goes well then invite her back to your place to watch a movie
/r/seduction10/03/24 04:52 AM
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Cool I’m in NYC anyway you’re not getting any younger you will have to make approaching a normal thing for your life. Also stop overthinking and etc. etc hit me up if you want tips
/r/seduction04/10/22 06:35 AM
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What city are you in I teach and I can give you all the tips but it won’t matter if you can’t get past the anxiety
/r/seduction04/10/22 05:58 AM
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Jesus Christ It’s Reddit and they intertwine somewhat
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:16 AM
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I teach but here’s a tip less is more just fixing your tonality making your voice deeper is a game changer
/r/seduction02/10/22 01:46 AM
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Well if you’re referring to New York City, Manhattan the Night before the date or day of you could say hey btw I’m driving want me to pick you up or just meet at the spot generally women here like to just meet at the spot
/r/seduction12/09/22 08:49 PM
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Trying to understand so you messaged girls who put their Ig in their tinder bio and you slid in their Dms curious how many followers did they have and is your Instagram cool
/r/seduction06/09/22 08:07 PM
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I’ve been dealing with your problem to a lesser extent. I suggest like others have bar or club best bet is to close her that night if not possible go for her number if you see potential. First unless they insist! instagram and only take instagrams if they don’t have many followers also do some day-game less flakey numbers and work MORE volume like as much as possible
/r/seduction05/09/22 05:36 AM
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Yes I have ticked many off my list but there’s still some left like a proper threesome,Indian, midget Mother, daughter lol just for the stories. Also I believe as men we are naturally hunters and people want what they can’t have also porn can contribute to these wild fantasies and goals
/r/seduction04/09/22 08:12 PM
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Sounds like the girls were not that interested example if you get her number Monday the date should be set before the week is over strike while the iron is hot, girls lose interest fast
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:31 AM
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Don’t over think it youth is on your side experience, will come with more practice. Simply pull them to your dorm bed kiss them on the lips then neck start taking off their clothes then yours start fingering her at this point taking your underwear off should be no problem
/r/seduction13/08/22 08:25 PM
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That true to a extent gotta be the right person though for me I like to wait for the other person to be vulnerable first then that will make me comfortable to reveal things
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:14 AM
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I agree but not every guy is polarizing, and shouldn’t try to be because people can smell a fake. Be true to yourself, voice your opinions when it comes getting women or making friends the less you talk the better .Screen the person before telling them your most controversial options, and views
/r/seduction11/08/22 07:30 AM
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I say be yourself you have masculine in the title like it’s bad thing if a guy is naturally that then he should be that my style is rebel, bad-boy works for me not a act. Right now I would say most young guys are trying the soft boy trend masculine is the minority right now
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:21 PM
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That’s what I’m going though currently doesn’t matter if I make out or they promise to meet up in person again they mostly flake. I’m about 42 min away from the club Uber is 60$ I suggest u screen if they have a place or pull to car/bathroom like mentioned until u get better logistics
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:10 AM
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Shorten distance on dating app and go outside and approach girls also go to a club/bar
/r/seduction16/07/22 07:21 PM
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If the first date is not ending in sex then you pitch a idea of something you can do together next time. No need to get too specific just gauge her interest
/r/seduction13/07/22 02:16 PM
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When I do match with hot ones they tend to go cold, I did a experiment with chad, pics and got a bunch of matches the average girls were down instantly but the hottest ones were still difficult I gotta start opening in the gym.
/r/seduction11/07/22 07:28 PM
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Wow interesting, I’ve had similar findings mostly average to low quality matches I would not approach outside with some exceptions but by far best from cold not even close 8’s and 9’s
/r/seduction11/07/22 10:36 AM
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Ok could be correlated with the rise of, Incels have grown and I don’t know the stats but women from Europe have told me their men don’t approach much vs in America in popular city’s it’s super common sometimes too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:27 AM
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Very anecdotal evidence but still That’s interesting, Curious what, city and I’m assuming your generation is the early twenties ? My experience in nyc as a 90s baby most guys were chatting up girls like it was a sport .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:33 AM
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Send a funny Gif couple days before
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:07 AM
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