What do you do the next day after a one night stand?

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NoRefrigerator4969 · 2024-03-19T06:23:08+00:00

Text her immediately (like an 30 minutes later) and tell her you had a great time. She’ll say “me too!” and now she can never come back and say it wasn’t consensual.

Then you can ghost her, follow up later, etc.

bambaclaaat · 2024-03-19T06:38:36+00:00

I try to rub one out

norwegiandoggo · 2024-03-19T06:38:08+00:00

If I want to see them again: I tell them to text me when they got home safely. And then when they do I just continue the conversation as normal.

If I don't want to see them again; I don't text them but they have my number in case they want to text me.

The_Core_Shadow · 2024-03-19T05:03:24+00:00

the next day after a ONS I usually change the bed sheet and clean the whole place to make sure my wife does not find out when she comes back.

I dont text the girl as usually I do not want to see her any time soon. They are called ONE night stands for a reason. If you fuck her again, its not a one night stand anymore.

PuroPincheGains · 2024-03-19T06:49:03+00:00

Have sex one more time before she leaves bruh, c'mon now. Then, act like a man who has shit going on in his life. Forget about it for a few days. If she reaches out, amazing, she's into you. If not, you can invite her to do something fun in time for the weekend. You're honestly gonna push girls away by texting the same/next day. They're gonna get needy vibes, and you don't want that.

slowbreaks · 2024-03-19T08:46:39+00:00

Ignore her? Play hard to get?

You not showing any interest in her could drive her crazy.

P.s: i hope you do everything in your power to increase your options with women. If you don't have any other options you will just keep thinking about her and fuck it up.

4SHO710 · 2024-03-19T03:30:42+00:00

No you don’t text her. You wait for her to text you. Your job is done.

InteralFortune1 · 2024-03-19T09:16:38+00:00

This might be controversial, but I never text back first. I used to get excited when I was younger and over do it, so I stopped. It’s been pretty damn successful, sorry to sound like a mega douche.

cassidy-sinatra · 2024-03-19T05:21:58+00:00

Ghost or if I see potential I send a 🖤

bahadurJoe · 2024-03-19T09:40:21+00:00

Text.

Practical_Window_919 · 2024-03-19T10:13:52+00:00

Go for what you want. If you enjoyed your time with her and want to see her again, tell her. It's important to be honest about your feelings and desires. However, make sure your intentions are pure. Overwhelming her with affection early on isn't about liking her so much as seeking validation and the rush of good feelings. That's not being true to either of you.

If you genuinely liked her, that's your feeling and it doesn't hinge on her reciprocation. Sure, you'd hope she feels the same, but it's not a necessity. If she doesn't, it'll sting, but such is life.

If you want something, go for it, but don't chase it if it doesn't want you back. There's no success guarantee, but not trying won't do you any favors.

cooliocoe · 2024-03-19T14:12:32+00:00

Regret wasting my time on a girl that i don’t love

elStoogeDR · 2024-03-19T15:06:24+00:00

Ghost

Title	What do you do the next day after a one night stand?
Author	Joan_Beach
Upvotes	22
Comments	24
Date	March 19, 2024 3:17 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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