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SELF IMPROVEMENTcastawayc/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 07:26 PM
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DATING ADVICEcastawayc/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 03:59 AM
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DISCUSSIONcastawayc/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 01:54 PM
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Isn’t there a saying that goes, “show me your friends and I’ll tell you who you are”?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 07:00 AM
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My boyfriend passed away in April from a heroin overdose. I love this. I learned a man can't implement RP principles when he is in active addiction, especially when he has reached the point where he is no longer "functioning." I actually found TRP when I was being a crazy, worried bitch. I thought he was cheating on me with someone else, then I found out it was something else: heroin.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 06:36 PM
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• Twirl Dress Boutique • Down East Outfitters • Shop Stevie • Called To Surf Then of course, Zara or Express.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/17 08:06 PM
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Lol I think you're missing the point, OP. Regardless of where you stand politically or how long you have been dating - be honest with yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/17 05:48 PM
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If I read that correctly, you're saying that supporting your SO publicly diminishes your SMV because it makes you look far-right ring or Nazi? To who? The opinions of these people are clearly important to you. Coming out on the left and yelling at your boyfriend would make some think that you have no SMV but you don't seem concerned about the people who will think that. The point I was trying to get across is that being dishonest in your beliefs will knock you down in both RMV and SMV regardless…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/17 03:50 PM
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I was very scared to open up and risk damaging my reputation Fear of honesty will always set you back and apart. yelling at my BF things wich I did not even believe in. Someone else also asked, what do you believe in? Because why would you condemn yelling at your boyfriend things you don't even believe? I'm sorry, it's almost comical for me to wrap my head around. I would not support his philosophy in public. Public or private - always support one another whether you agree on certain issues or n…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/17 08:30 PM
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Been there. The thing about New York is that everyone is so involved in their career that no one ever seems to stop and ask, how are you doing? or even breathe for that matter... Lol anyway, here are some of my suggestions: join a gym/fitness class or... since you're into jogging, there's so many NYC running clubs/groups! take a class (cooking/dancing/art) are you religious? get involved in your local congregation. sign up to volunteer for a charity that you are passionate about (this will proba…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/17 09:10 PM
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Maybe she doesn't want you eating bacon
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/17 11:00 PM
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Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/17 04:21 AM
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Feel free to look at my post history. I loved a very wonderful man who lost his life to addiction last month. I never thought that it would happen to him, or to me, but it did. If you continue down this path, I promise you that you will find love like never before and experience the deepest sadness known to humankind. Dating an addict is a trial I would not wish upon my worst enemy - but we do not choose who we fall in love with. I am praying for you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/17 04:20 AM
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Thank you so much! This subreddit is definitely helping.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/17 03:31 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/17 03:29 PM
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Literal tears.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 11:18 PM
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Thank you! I don't think I'm waiting for perfection... but I do want to become a healthier version of myself and I don't want a man to become a distraction. However, I do have that "perfectionist" personality and I can definitely see how that can be emotionally damaging in the future... One step at a time haha.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 08:47 PM
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Lol! Discipline and patience. Wouldn't you rather have your underarms never be totally gross?!
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 03:16 AM
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Thank you. If you shave, stop shaving! Lol - I stopped shaving my underarms right before I entered high school. I began plucking, then finally let them grow out to have them waxed. Wax every 4-6, pluck in between services.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 03:03 AM
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Naturally, I don't grow thick body hair anywhere except for my head (I have thick, dark, Asian hair)... The hair everywhere else on my body is thin and sparse. Anyway, the idea of shaving grosses me out. I like being smooth. Skincare is something I am extremely passionate about. I moisturize daily and exfoliate regularly. I get Brazilian waxes every 4 - 6 (sometimes 8) weeks and add on my eyebrows, underarms, and cheeks to this appointment whenever I see fit. I also don't like using toilet paper…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 02:51 AM
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I agree with most of the comments: stop trolling his social media and dump him. he exchanged overly affectionate messages with a girl he dated for three years The only people receiving affectionate messages from your boyfriend should be members of his family and you - anyone else, especially an ex or ex-fwb, is just an act of disrespect towards your relationship. It sounds like you have made your boundaries clear and have brought up how uncomfortable his actions have made you... and he's arguing…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 08:24 PM
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I am so sorry to hear about your mother. If anything, I hope that you can learn from her and become the "strong and positive female role model" you have always needed/wanted in your life. I can really empathize having grown up with a verbally and emotionally abusive mother. Thankfully, I see her as the perfect example of what I never wish to be. In my early childhood, I played soccer competitively and was considered a "tomboy" - I even wore boy's clothing! So I totally get being considered "one …
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 02:29 AM
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I think social media presence says a lot about a person, male or female. It's a highlight reel of your life and in some cases a first impression. Even if I meet someone in person it doesn't take me too long to find out their full name, where they went to college, where they grew up, etc. Social media profiles have made my vetting experiences so much easier. For example: he posts too many selfies, he just got out of a serious relationship, he goes out drinking too much, the list goes on. Social m…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 02:06 PM
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I think it's disrespectful to mention exes in any present relationship. I think it is permissible when explaining a specific situation and how you learned from it. I think it brings up unnecessary questions on both ends. It's disrespectful for him to be nostalgic and reminiscent about any other woman except for his mother. If anything, heartbreak should harden a man. I agree with a lot of the other comments, let go and respect yourself first and foremost.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/17 06:28 PM
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Pedicures are a must in the summer. You won't regret it!
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 03:35 AM
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For the month of May: • Make my bed each morning upon awakening • Pray when I wake up and before I fall asleep • Walk to work instead of grabbing a taxi or uber (I live 1 mile away from my office) Small things can make a big difference.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 03:34 AM
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My condolences on your loss as well. I am glad to really delve into therapy and discover myself and work on my personal issues. I am positive that my future will be fulfilling.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 12:17 AM
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Believe it or not, he was the one to introduce me to RP. His addiction was a mutually acknowledged red flag. I never broke up with him, but if it continued I sure would have. I did everything I could on my side of the street. Long story short, I loved him. The night he died, I left to stay with a girlfriend and said, "I love you, but you need to get help." I even packed a backpack for him to take to rehab before I left.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 03:48 PM
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This is my concern for the future. I wouldn't want him to think that he would be second to a junkie, but it will be inevitable for any man to think that.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 03:03 PM
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Yes, monk/nun mode for the next year. Physical and mental health #1. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 02:59 PM
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So you're saying that I shouldn't share this portion of my life with someone I potentially want to spend the rest of my life with? Let's say you got into a car accident, suffered a minor brain injury that now effects your ability to learn or retain information. Would you not tell your future husband that the injury is why you're "slow"?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 02:38 PM
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Let's say I meet someone. It's not everyday that a man meets a woman who's ex-boyfriend died in a home they shared from a heroin overdose.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 02:25 PM
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Obviously, this is why I didn't want to delve into details on his addiction. I wanted to focus on me and my journey into self-improvement so that something like this doesn't effect what I would like to happen in the future. Anger is a part of the grieving process. There are ups and downs. But that's why I started bereavement therapy with a counselor who is familiar with this type of death from addiction. I wanted RP women to give me insight with: okay, this tragic thing happened, do the right th…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 02:21 PM
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Thank you! I have heard of that book and few women have recommended it along with the 1 year of "nun mode" - advice is noted and will be implemented.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 12:26 PM
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I went to one Al-Anon meeting when he was still alive and I realized I wasn't the only woman in the room who let the experience make positive changes in my life (hyper-focusing on self-improvement). I figure the only thing I can do now that he is gone is learn how to live and do the best I can. It's not that I want to dismiss his passing or our experience together, I am in fear that it will stop me from having a future with someone else... Example: He will always be a part of me, I loved him. Al…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 10:32 AM
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His family dynamic is interesting... We used to live with his parents before they moved to Greece. They are good people, from what I have seen. I agree addiction does stem from something and it's odd that both him and his brother ended up turning to drugs.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 07:01 PM
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Why do you think you can't be RP while in a relationship with a using addict?
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 03:47 PM
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Before we moved in together, I was living in a different state on the other side of the country (I went out of state for school). Our original plan was for him to move there - but I think he was too scared of change. Now that he is trying to get clean again, he is very open to moving and even started applying to jobs near the school I attended. His mother loves it there and has encouraged him to move since we started dating. I hope that this happens!
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 03:43 PM
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He is very close with his family. His father suffered a series of two strokes last year and they had to sell their family home in the US, the closing occurred in the last two months and his parents had to leave the US abruptly for their other home in Greece. He did not take being away from his parents well. Up until 6 months ago, he was living with them his entire life. Last month, his brother was incarcerated for possession of over $30,000 worth of narcotics and intent to distribute cocaine and…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 03:36 PM
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Thank you. He is showing that he does want to get clean, he is currently in withdrawal. This is the first time since we've been living together that he has relapsed. Thankfully, I caught on before everything started to fall apart. He still has his job and I am still trying to do what I can to save the relationship
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 03:20 PM
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Physical and mental wellness/health go hand-in-hand. "Love yourself" can be defined in so many different ways. I personally believe you must do what works best for you - and that goes to everybody. If you are feeling self-conscious about your weight (or generally, your looks or body image): be realistic. Nothing changes if you don't make any changes. Eat nutritiously and exercise regularly (you don't have to go crazy with this, commit to improving your health). As you know, this will take time b…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/17 07:43 AM
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Make damn sure you never deny him anything you gave to someone else. Make sure you do it with a smile and enthusiasm, even if you didn't do it that way with the others. Best practice is make sure you do more with him than you did with all the others. Keep in mind, he won't just imagine you doing these things with other men, he'll imagine you being extremely into it and compare that with any string of ongoing meh sex you have. Sexual insecurity in men is far, far easier to prevent than to cure. T…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 05:15 PM
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Genetics always played in my favor as far as aging from drinking or smoking. I definitely stopped doing both once I described I wanted to change and become a decent woman, or person for that matter. I don't smoke because I'm crazy about my dental hygiene, but I still drink occasionally - maybe twice a month. I think you're right though, maybe they aren't wall related. He knows everything about me. Like I said, we were friends before we started dating. So I would openly talk about all of this. No…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 05:49 AM
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Definitely not being too hard on myself but definitely around 30.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 05:44 AM
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I don't believe in the checklist in the sense that... I don't think any one person will ever meet each and every single requirement. A checklist CAN be negative and it does block out potential partners if your checklist looks like: - Must have attended highly selective private college - 6'2 or taller - (insert specific eye/hair color) - Etc. There's never a list when it comes to love. College-educated, well-off, and emotional availability - are not unrealistic requirements. In fact, I consider t…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 01:13 AM
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