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| 3 | 35+ Queens - He Still Ain't S**TThis!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 11:30 PM |
| 51 | REMINDER: Those "small signs" that you let slide at the beginning of the relationship? Those aren't "nothing" - they are 3-seconds teaser to what's coming.Great post. Couldn’t agree more. I’m in my thirties and when looking back on my relationships, all the little red flags or things that in the beginning made me go “hmm this seems a bit off” since presented as major character flaws and problems in the relationship. From the more obvious and less serious stuff such as pettiness or bad hygiene to deep rooted issues with narcissism and psychotic traits. In general, I think the latter often presents early on as a gut feeling that something about this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Negotiation tactic: always be willing to walk awaySaved. Great post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 11:28 PM |
| 10 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingI’m not going to get into some long rant here to explain the details, but basically I think what he wanted from me was romantic attachment/deep feelings and commitment way too early while we were still in the dating/vetting phase. I was always very upfront about the pace and level of commitment he should expect and I think in the end when he realized his strategy to lovebomb me into a rushed relation didn’t work, he got pissed and ghosted me. Except for the Christmas present I got him, I insiste… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:05 AM |
| 3 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingNo that wasn’t it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 05:20 AM |
| 17 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingCertainly not. But the fact that you’re continuously misunderstanding my relatively short and straight forward post does. Edit: let’s just agree to disagree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 09:19 PM |
| 16 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingJesus Christ. Read the detachment/humor this post is written with, or Google both terms in case you’re unfamiliar with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 09:12 PM |
| 50 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingI’ll spell it out for you: lovebombing isn’t being treated poorly. It’s a well known and insincere tactics to create a false bond, sense of trust and feelings early on when chasing a romantic, sexual or other interest for your own benefit. Ghosting someone isn’t the same as dumping someone with good reason after having had a constructive and emotionally mature conversation about why you chose to end a situation and not live up to the promises that you’ve made to someone. I think the only thing n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 07:14 PM |
| 36 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingCouldn’t agree more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 04:28 PM |
| 27 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingFinally, someone here with some humor! ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 04:24 PM |
| 122 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingHe did say all he wanted for Christmas was me, so the expensive present was my own foolish decision and in the end, he got neither that, nor me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 03:58 PM |
| 58 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingI’m not shocked that a man would behave like this at all, hence why I blamed my own holiday sentimentality and knowingly ignoring red flags for the lesson/reminder I just got. In the end, all I can do is laugh about it (and fortunately I am), so I’m leaving this here as a gentle reminder for other FDS’ers who, like me, tend to get a little soft around the holidays ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Just came back here to say that you were right. Wow, lesson learned 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 09:13 AM |
| 21 | As requested: Discussion about professions to avoid dating summarized into relevant conclusionsI agree and also wrote this in the beginning of the post. In general, I think you should be careful with generalizations, but stereotypes do exist for a reason and if enough women give a certain profession a bad review, maybe you should at least read the menu before entering the restaurant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:53 PM |
| 3 | As requested: Discussion about professions to avoid dating summarized into relevant conclusionshttps://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/q0d75r/when_dating_do_you_have_certain_professions_that/hfa6thp/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:05 PM |
| 20 | As requested: Discussion about professions to avoid dating summarized into relevant conclusionsI want to add that I’m aware that the fact that I mentioned certain professions in my original post leading up to the discussion will inevitably have had an impact on the final study. Fx Chefs and Fitness/Yoga/Etc. Instructors may not have been given the same attention had I not mentioned them to begin with. But at the same time, there were unprompted professions generating major negative feedback, such as lawyers. Again, these are not a black and white conclusions, so take from them for what yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 01:07 PM |
| 17 | As requested: Discussion about professions to avoid dating summarized into relevant conclusionsThanks 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 12:30 PM |
| 28 | As requested: Discussion about professions to avoid dating summarized into relevant conclusionsI may not personally agree with the final lists either and fx I was surprised that Fitness/Yoga/Etc. Instructors ended up so high and would definitely consider Psychologists to be “Avoid”, but these are the results based on the overall inputs/most objective conclusions according to my study. So I guess we can read it as an opportunity to learn something new even if we don’t completely agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 12:29 PM |
| 12 | As requested: Discussion about professions to avoid dating summarized into relevant conclusionsYou’re welcome and thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 12:15 PM |
| 1 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?They were mentioned, but didn’t qualify for the final categories. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:55 AM |
| 3 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/q132xw/as_requested_discussion_about_professions_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:17 AM |
| 9 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Also even if I’m dating someone who isn’t into or has ever practiced yoga himself, the fact that I have done a lot of yoga lures out so much obvious creepyness in men/makes them more interested in me to the point where I try to tone my experience down or not even mention this interest when dating. Why? When guys find out that I’ve done a lot of yoga, I can sort of see Christmas lights turning on in their eyes and they’ll always be super eager for me to give them lessons. If they find out I have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:12 AM |
| 6 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Oh where do I begin..so I’ve met a lot of yoga instructors from all over the world since I used to be really into yoga and traveled around for courses. My general impression is that men are often attracted to this profession because yoga is seen sort of as a “woman’s sport”. This gives them easy access to women and big classes of students where often there’ll only be a few guys present ~ easy hunting ground. Now in the yoga/spiritual scene in general, I’ve just heard about and witnessed so many … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:41 AM |
| 2 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Yup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 09:49 PM |
| 12 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Great tip, it’s just that..I never heard of a sexy accountant 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:48 PM |
| 15 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Oh I have and I also have a close friend who’s a chef and an overall amazing person and old school gentleman/great caring guy who doesn’t drink, abuse drugs and treats women and everyone else with respect and genuine care. However I’ve worked in the restaurant industry too and have experienced chefs who are real assholes/completely insane. So as you’ll see from the comments, there are good and bad experiences with all professions. I like hanging out with people who I can have fun experiences wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:38 PM |
| 26 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Oh I should have checked for previous, similar discussions before posting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 01:06 PM |
| 14 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?So much new insight/warnings to be gained from the comments here. Great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 01:04 PM |
| 98 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Well I had to end the list somewhere ;) Actually I’d also never date a musician again. Except for them just being way too sensitive and touchy-feely for me, I’ve done my part in playing the supportive girlfriend, listening to the same annoying guitar riff over and over again pretending to be amazed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 01:00 PM |
| 80 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?After reading just a few of the comments, I was thinking the same thing. “Well this is useless. As expected, they all suck.” 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 12:57 PM |
| 50 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Ready for the stories 🍿 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 12:03 PM |
| 17 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Agreed on the chef part. I’d only date top tier chefs and am aware of the downside of drug abuse etc. For me since I need a lot of alone time and freedom, their schedule doesn’t bother me, but I’m not sure I’d ever be in a serious relationship with a chef. For dating, having fun and being spoiled though, absolutely ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 11:28 AM |
| 9 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?👆🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 10:39 AM |
| 15 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Obviously there are exceptions to most generalizations, but overall, yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 10:31 AM |
| 33 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?They work crazy hours and if top professional, often move around a lot between places and countries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 10:29 AM |
| 47 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Small dick syndrome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 10:28 AM |
| 35 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Some obvious additions: Students - I’ve been a student, been broke, had roommates. Now I’m in a different place in life and he has to be too. Unemployed - Red flag. Waiters, bartenders, baristas, cashiers, dog walkers, doormen etc. - Those aren’t professions, but in between occupations - level up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 10:16 AM |
| 110 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Interesting. As someone who’s never dated or even known people with that profession, for me that’s relevant insight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 08:22 AM |
| 50 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Please do elaborate on the film industry, I’m curious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 07:56 AM |
| 5 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guys❤️🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 10:57 AM |
| 12 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysGrapes over raisins. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 06:04 AM |
| 6 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysExactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 06:02 AM |
| 7 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysI’m so happy to see all the responses. Both from women who agree/have the same experience and from women who are now opening their eyes to new possibilities. Yes my queens! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 06:02 AM |
| 7 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysHell yeah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 05:57 AM |
| 65 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysAmen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:11 PM |
| 66 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysThat’s true. Which I think is another reason the younger ones treat you better. Plus actually I find that younger men are more likely to pay the bill, hold the door etc. They’ve grown up in a society that’s (slowly) learning to respect and appreciate women, whereas older men still expect you to be their mom, maid and sex toy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:11 PM |
| 89 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysI disagree. Most of them are fuckboys. Regardless of their age. No reason to go older. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 07:46 PM |
| 139 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysYes! Go explore and be appreciated. If men your age look like old socks, why settle for one? You’re a queen so you don’t have to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 07:31 PM |
| 108 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysRange -/+ 7 years, but definitely preferably to the - side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 07:18 PM |
| 163 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysExactly. I’m in my thirties and I’ve never dated someone in their fifties (yuck), but I’ve met and know men of all ages, and my conclusion is the same. I find it funny how most of my life, I’ve thought it would be totally okay to date someone 10 or even 15 years older than me, while dating someone even a year younger somehow felt wrong. Now I theoretically go max -/+ 7 years, but prefer the younger men. Honestly, I’ve never been treated better than after I let go of this ridiculous idea that soc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Ladies and gentle..ladies, welcome to Tinder! There is literally one line in my profile text. Solely stating where I’m from.Alright, in that case obviously just disregard my question. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Ladies and gentle..ladies, welcome to Tinder! There is literally one line in my profile text. Solely stating where I’m from.Maybe it’s a mistake/technical glitch. But for me it shows your comment about the hookup as deleted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 12:06 PM |
| 8 | Ladies and gentle..ladies, welcome to Tinder! There is literally one line in my profile text. Solely stating where I’m from.As I answered the last guy who called me a golddigger after I bluntly asked what he had to offer (obviously I wasn’t talking about money etc. for those who might misinterpret this) when he tried to get me to go out with him by sending an unsolicited Instagram DM, “Welcome to 2021. Pussy isn’t free anymore”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 11:52 AM |
| 6 | Ladies and gentle..ladies, welcome to Tinder! There is literally one line in my profile text. Solely stating where I’m from.Why did you delete your other comment? I think this is a relevant discussion and if you stand by your view / stay on your high horse that a FDS woman wouldn’t use OLD (thereby also saying that I’m not one even though I’ve been on this sub pretty much from the beginning), there’s no reason to hide a comment stating what you think about someone who does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 10:30 AM |
| 16 | Ladies and gentle..ladies, welcome to Tinder! There is literally one line in my profile text. Solely stating where I’m from.I’m not looking for a hookup. Never had one, nor a one night stand or a FWB for that matter. I am however a realist and not wasting my life dreaming of winning the lottery aka finding a HVM/my soulmate. There are things in between hookups and a soulmate a woman might enjoy for a while on her terms if she so chooses. I’m not American and people here use Tinder for more than a hookup. But thanks for the judgement. Again, I recommend you listen to the podcast to broaden your horizon on this subject… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:40 PM |
| 19 | Ladies and gentle..ladies, welcome to Tinder! There is literally one line in my profile text. Solely stating where I’m from.Who said I was on there looking for my soulmate? For people here who like to frown at / act superior to other FDSers still using online dating services, I recommend you listen to episode 17 of the FDS podcast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:18 PM |
| 17 | Ladies and gentle..ladies, welcome to Tinder! There is literally one line in my profile text. Solely stating where I’m from.Stating the obvious.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 07:10 PM |
| 35 | Ladies and gentle..ladies, welcome to Tinder! There is literally one line in my profile text. Solely stating where I’m from.I’m Caucasian. Pretty sure he’s just an average stupid guy and that’s it. No reason to read anything more into it or to react other than to have a good laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 06:02 PM |
| 64 | Ladies and gentle..ladies, welcome to Tinder! There is literally one line in my profile text. Solely stating where I’m from.Wait this actually happens? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 05:51 PM |
| 89 | Ladies and gentle..ladies, welcome to Tinder! There is literally one line in my profile text. Solely stating where I’m from.Well in that case I guess he’s disappointed since it only resulted in losing his place in the audition for my scrotation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 05:32 PM |
| 96 | Ladies and gentle..ladies, welcome to Tinder! There is literally one line in my profile text. Solely stating where I’m from.Wait, give the guy some credit! He did write “Ehy” before that. Which I’m assuming was an attempt at “Hey”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 05:27 PM |
| 162 | Ladies and gentle..ladies, welcome to Tinder! There is literally one line in my profile text. Solely stating where I’m from.I’m not even annoyed. The male level of effort or attention to anything, but the way I look is so minimal it’s actually making me laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you ladies feel about friends that prioritize their boyfriends?I feel the same way about this as I feel about men. I will not prioritize someone who doesn’t prioritize me. I will not give my friendship, love or attention to someone who doesn’t fully appreciate it. I will not hold a place in my life for a friend who doesn’t respect or value my time and energy. Sadly, I have just ended (another) friendship with a woman that meant a lot to me after consequently being put on the back burner since she got into a relationship (with a LVM) two years ago. It’s not … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Men who catcall on the street 🥱Men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 06:51 PM |
| 6 | A couple of years ago, I wouldn’t even fully admit to being a feminist in a dating situation cause I didn’t want to scare men away. Today this quote is the only text I have on my dating profile.Also it’s funny, I don’t even think this is the most provocative post I’ve made, but the amount of men actually being intimidated, trying to reach me with aggressive messages is ridiculous. Thanks guys. I haven’t really needed to block anyone unimportant for a while, it’s nice to be reminded how it feels :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 06:03 PM |
| 4 | A couple of years ago, I wouldn’t even fully admit to being a feminist in a dating situation cause I didn’t want to scare men away. Today this quote is the only text I have on my dating profile.That’s very understandable. For me my problem in my last serious relationship was not admitting to or standing up for my feminist beliefs because (unfortunately) I was madly in love with a man with the emotional intelligence of a five year old who I knew would never understand or accept this. So our strategies have different backgrounds :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | A couple of years ago, I wouldn’t even fully admit to being a feminist in a dating situation cause I didn’t want to scare men away. Today this quote is the only text I have on my dating profile.I think you’re overestimating men a bit here or maybe you’re just younger than me. This is in no way meant in a demeaning way, but after enough experience with “gamers” their tactics/real personalities do become quite obvious :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 05:42 PM |
| 10 | A couple of years ago, I wouldn’t even fully admit to being a feminist in a dating situation cause I didn’t want to scare men away. Today this quote is the only text I have on my dating profile.They’re gonna do that whatever you write though. And at least if you get the important conversations going early on, you have a bigger chance of catching especially those men who might initially appear to be HVM, attracted to strong and independent women till the moment the woman actually commits to a relationship with them and they start despising her for not being the submissive housewife they ultimately want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 05:33 PM |
| 3 | A couple of years ago, I wouldn’t even fully admit to being a feminist in a dating situation cause I didn’t want to scare men away. Today this quote is the only text I have on my dating profile.;) Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 04:48 PM |
| 40 | A couple of years ago, I wouldn’t even fully admit to being a feminist in a dating situation cause I didn’t want to scare men away. Today this quote is the only text I have on my dating profile.I rarely “like” anyone and therefore rarely match with anyone in general. But yes, I am sure I could still drown in matches if I wanted to. There are plenty of LVM out there for every woman and tbh, a lot of them aren’t even intelligent enough to understand and/or care about this quote. Since I put the quote, I have however noticed a significant decline in “superlikes” and a couple of my existing matches magically disappeared. Before I’d usually get a match on a “like” around 99% of the time. I’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 04:18 PM |
| 84 | A couple of years ago, I wouldn’t even fully admit to being a feminist in a dating situation cause I didn’t want to scare men away. Today this quote is the only text I have on my dating profile.Good for you. I always wished I was good at classic “masculine skills” like engineering, building or fixing stuff. So be happy that this is another aspect of life where you are able to take care of things yourself instead of relying on a man (I’m sure you already are :)). I can imagine this is intimidating to a lot of guys though (easy vetting huh - the $300 bottle of wine was a clear giveaway). I experience the same thing because of being into martial arts, so obviously I bring up this hobby im… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 01:12 PM |
| 113 | A couple of years ago, I wouldn’t even fully admit to being a feminist in a dating situation cause I didn’t want to scare men away. Today this quote is the only text I have on my dating profile.Ps. A quick shout out to the mods. Whenever I post here, I never actually get to fully read the bad comments before they’re gone. Thank you for keeping this space safe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 12:16 PM |
| 77 | A couple of years ago, I wouldn’t even fully admit to being a feminist in a dating situation cause I didn’t want to scare men away. Today this quote is the only text I have on my dating profile....well I saw it, but I was too much of a pickme to hold men accountable to this standard or openly admit to my actual beliefs and strengths. Probably from being the kind of woman who’s always been told she’s “too strong, tough, hard, intimidating, honest, straightforward etc.” I felt like I had to make myself smaller to attract or keep a man, so my realization lies mostly in the fact that I’d rather be alone than be with someone who makes me feel small or prefers a princess to a queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 11:46 AM |
| 178 | A couple of years ago, I wouldn’t even fully admit to being a feminist in a dating situation cause I didn’t want to scare men away. Today this quote is the only text I have on my dating profile.Exactly. I’d only want a strong, confident and independent man in my life. I don’t know how for so long I failed to see that this kind of man (if he exists) should appreciate, not feel intimidated by, an equally strong, confident and independent woman. 🤡 -> 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 11:12 AM |
| 5 | How do you end a date early?I like to always have a get out excuse ready. Fx saying you have plans after the date giving you a valid reason to leave after a while or not to plan too long of a date to begin with (in my experience men always try to drag out dates, convince me to grab an extra drink etc. even though anyone with the slightest intellect would be able to read my lack of interest and respect that). The excuse could be finishing some late report for work, meeting a friend who has xx urgent need for your company et… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 09:54 PM |
| 61 | How do you end a date early?I’m mentally removing my hat while taking a bow to you. Also can’t even count how many times I’ve ended a dialogue with a guy simply by saying “I’m too old for this”. Mainly cause that’s how they make me feel. Old and very tired. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 09:41 PM |
| 57 | Please, sign this petition!! https://t.co/vtYfrSVCGT?amp=1I understand. A woman is killed in a domestic violence /partner related case every three days in France. It’s definitely a relevant issue there specifically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 02:55 PM |
| 204 | Please, sign this petition!! https://t.co/vtYfrSVCGT?amp=1I’m from Europe. I think the legal system is unfair to women everywhere. Which is why it’s so important that we raise our voices and stand together. For Valérie Bacot and for all women, all over the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 11:28 AM |
| 413 | Please, sign this petition!! https://t.co/vtYfrSVCGT?amp=1I’m happy to see someone else here paying attention to this case. It is such an important example/trial for women in general in connection with how the legal system views women, domestic violence and the right to protect yourself against male predators. I read an article making a relevant point on how the current laws/procedures surrounding domestic violence and self defense in that connection have largely been determined by men, meaning a general risk of bias in judging these cases from a male … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 10:51 AM |
| 54 | I'm done with men and have never even dated oneI want to write a more in depth answer because your post deserves it, however I’m too tired right now, but just have to say this: That title is the most “women in 2021” I’ve ever seen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 09:19 PM |
| 23 | Dating in Scandinavia👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 08:43 PM |
| 4 | Dating in ScandinaviaSee this discussion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 08:41 PM |
| 4 | 👇Genius | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:04 PM |
| 4 | Young Christian Slater (young because like most men, unfortunately he did not age like a fine wine, but oh..back then❣️)Those eyes 😼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Young Christian Slater (young because like most men, unfortunately he did not age like a fine wine, but oh..back then❣️)Me too! And I like Marissa as well. Watched that movie so many times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 05:27 PM |
| 9 | Young Christian Slater (young because like most men, unfortunately he did not age like a fine wine, but oh..back then❣️)Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 04:29 PM |
| 15 | Why is it that most milestones in life that are celebrated include a man and procreation?Yes! Please post pictures | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 12:52 PM |
| 30 | Why is it that most milestones in life that are celebrated include a man and procreation?I often say no too, but it is so frowned upon. Last year my friend invited me to a big two-day party where I’d be the only single, childfree person (I checked this with her beforehand). I didn’t know any of the other guests and knew my friend would be too busy hosting to hang out with me, which was completely understandable. So I told her honestly that I didn’t feel like spending my summer weekend having meaningless small talk with people I’d never see again, being surrounded by screaming childr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 12:16 PM |
| 55 | Why is it that most milestones in life that are celebrated include a man and procreation?I couldn’t agree more. This has been bothering me for years. Not only are people not interested in celebrating/prioritizing time for my personal milestones/find it ridiculous if I arrange a party in connection with a promotion, my dog’s birthday (just an excuse to throw a party) etc., meaning being single and childfree, I’ll never actually get to have any big celebrations in life unless it’s for my own birthday which I have no interest whatsoever in throwing a party for. But in addition to that,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 09:20 AM |
| 2 | I have a dog, just bought my first car (cash), for my birthday, I’m gifting myself my dream engagement ring, I could get a house, but prefer traveling the world, and I never wanted kids. Basically, if a guy wants a place in my life, he has to be really good in bed. Don’t need one for anything else.I feel the same way. Still haven’t managed to find women who share my way of living and thinking and though I have good friends, we live very different lives and I can’t share all my thoughts or adventures with them since they’re all focused on the classic husband/kids way of thinking, so I wish there was a way to get to know people from here in real life. Fortunately, I love traveling solo and I recommend that you give it a try! There’s something so freeing about just being you and your suitcas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 10:42 AM |
| 3 | I have a dog, just bought my first car (cash), for my birthday, I’m gifting myself my dream engagement ring, I could get a house, but prefer traveling the world, and I never wanted kids. Basically, if a guy wants a place in my life, he has to be really good in bed. Don’t need one for anything else.Yes, I suppose I could have just ended there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Idea: while they’re distracted by porn, let’s take over.Lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:34 PM |
| 8 | I have a dog, just bought my first car (cash), for my birthday, I’m gifting myself my dream engagement ring, I could get a house, but prefer traveling the world, and I never wanted kids. Basically, if a guy wants a place in my life, he has to be really good in bed. Don’t need one for anything else.Definitely. I need those too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 08:47 PM |
| 7 | I have a dog, just bought my first car (cash), for my birthday, I’m gifting myself my dream engagement ring, I could get a house, but prefer traveling the world, and I never wanted kids. Basically, if a guy wants a place in my life, he has to be really good in bed. Don’t need one for anything else.💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:07 PM |
| 13 | I have a dog, just bought my first car (cash), for my birthday, I’m gifting myself my dream engagement ring, I could get a house, but prefer traveling the world, and I never wanted kids. Basically, if a guy wants a place in my life, he has to be really good in bed. Don’t need one for anything else.Thanks, yeah I’ll definitely look into that, but I still don’t know where I’ll eventually want to retire and currently housing prices in my country are seeing the same development as before the financial crisis, so it’s definitely not the time to invest here right now, unless you’re in it for the long run. My plan is to wait until I know where I’d like to have a base/live for long enough to make an investment and then buy a place there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:53 PM |
| 26 | I have a dog, just bought my first car (cash), for my birthday, I’m gifting myself my dream engagement ring, I could get a house, but prefer traveling the world, and I never wanted kids. Basically, if a guy wants a place in my life, he has to be really good in bed. Don’t need one for anything else.I know. I wish more than anything that I could be free from that as well or magically wake up a lesbian. Actually when I showed my mom the car, she said “ooh you’ll really get some male attention driving around in that”. To which I replied “nah, quite the opposite, most guys will go limp seeing a women in a car that’s cooler than theirs” ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:46 PM |
| 13 | I have a dog, just bought my first car (cash), for my birthday, I’m gifting myself my dream engagement ring, I could get a house, but prefer traveling the world, and I never wanted kids. Basically, if a guy wants a place in my life, he has to be really good in bed. Don’t need one for anything else.Exactly. Somehow the “selfish” part of the car makes me appreciate it even more. Plus my dog’s definitely gonna be less of a hassle than any guy I’ve ever brought on a road trip. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:37 PM |
| 22 | I have a dog, just bought my first car (cash), for my birthday, I’m gifting myself my dream engagement ring, I could get a house, but prefer traveling the world, and I never wanted kids. Basically, if a guy wants a place in my life, he has to be really good in bed. Don’t need one for anything else.To many people, also in my own circle, somehow this is still perceived as a sad life for a woman in her thirties, and maybe even here on FDS, some people will be offended by me showing off my personal success markers. But I’m proud of what I’ve achieved and I’m happy to have found a community where I can share this with people who understand, so thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:32 PM |
| 7 | I have a dog, just bought my first car (cash), for my birthday, I’m gifting myself my dream engagement ring, I could get a house, but prefer traveling the world, and I never wanted kids. Basically, if a guy wants a place in my life, he has to be really good in bed. Don’t need one for anything else.Thank you, see my comment to the other post about the house :) There are different kinds of freedom. Financial is definitely one, but not being tied down is another that I value very highly. So it’s a balancing act and at this point in my life, I want to be completely free - also from a mortgage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:18 PM |
| 28 | I have a dog, just bought my first car (cash), for my birthday, I’m gifting myself my dream engagement ring, I could get a house, but prefer traveling the world, and I never wanted kids. Basically, if a guy wants a place in my life, he has to be really good in bed. Don’t need one for anything else.Did I mention the car’s a convertible? ;) Very unpractical if you wanted to fit a tall person (aka man) or kids in it, very perfect for just me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:14 PM |
| 64 | I have a dog, just bought my first car (cash), for my birthday, I’m gifting myself my dream engagement ring, I could get a house, but prefer traveling the world, and I never wanted kids. Basically, if a guy wants a place in my life, he has to be really good in bed. Don’t need one for anything else.Thanks for the tip, I know. Actually almost bought a place this winter for the financial benefits, but I don’t want roommates and when I say “traveling”, I mean being free to move around for months or years in different places as I want, not being tied down to one place because I have a mortgage there. I am currently focusing on getting a remote job for that exact reason. Plus I live in one of the most expensive cities in the world when it comes to property. But I will buy a house someday when t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureI’ve been thinking the exact same thing. I actually only started using TikTok because of seeing relevant content being posted here on FDS, but somehow I ended up in a whirlpool of women teaching me how to contour, do a winged eye or fill in my brows while randomly throwing around thoughts about men, dating, race and misogyny through an additional, this time digital, makeup filter to the rhythm of one of the apparently only five songs available to users on the app. The only feminist, female accou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 10:58 PM |
| 11 | Applying FDS Values in Nordic Dating CultureI’m from a Scandinavian country and the only times I’ve been asked out on proper dates have been when dating foreigners or when traveling or living abroad. Men (aka boys) in my country are bland, weak, insecure and lack initiative to the point where I feel like I’m the one wearing the pants, even when I don’t want to be. They bore me so much that I no longer date them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 10:13 PM |
| 36 | How to use crushes to our advantageThank you for a quality post. I just did A and while both during and after dating him, I knew he wasn’t worth it and I was already aware of a lot of the mechanisms within myself causing me to continue with a situation that I shouldn’t have accepted, this was great additional food for thought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:15 PM |
| 23 | Friendly reminder before the 14thI wish I had a friend like Dorothy. And after reading your comment, I wish I had a friend like you too :) Dorothy has had a whole life to experience and experiment with the company of men. This is her conclusion. All women should listen to Dorothy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:57 PM |
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