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| 14 | Fast track to femininity: Why competing with men has left women out of touch with their feminine side | cat_fox | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/14 04:49 AM | |
| 8 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...? | cat_fox | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 10:33 PM | |
| 2 | Ban the Word Bossy? | cat_fox | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/14 03:10 AM |
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| -1 | Underarm hair yay or nay?oh.....no.....really,..it's not even that popular in France anymore.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/14 03:58 AM |
| 5 | Female officer feels excluded over inability to grow a mustache.The women should do armpit April. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/14 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!I'll have to try it! I've only done it the traditional way of charring the skin and peeling it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/14 03:43 AM |
| 1 | So glad I found this sub! Have another question. ..Ahh...something I can relate to! Figure out where the initial "trigger" of the hurt feelings comes from. For me, if I feel ignored it's like a switch flips inside me. It took a long time for me to realize what was going on, and that some stuff that happened when I was a kid was screwing with my head as an adult. I usually am not so reactive to situations now (unless it's pouring rain, ha ha.). I'm not perfect by any means, but at least now I know why I get the feelings I do and I can look at the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/14 12:31 AM |
| 5 | Would like some outside advice/comments on at home work loadsInstead of vacuuming everyday, get a carpet sweeper, and after the kids pick up the toys, they can take turns using it. Kids LOVE this. You can get one for under $25 at Walmart. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/14 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Made a huge pot of roasted red bell pepper soup. Instead of potato for thickness, I used red sweet potatoes to make it paleo friendly. I buy the red bell peppers when they are on sale,(the few times a year they are..) roast and peel them, then freeze them for soup as needed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/14 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Any gamers here?Uh.......I used to play Centipede.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/14 11:40 PM |
| 2 | What are some good time-efficient ways to sneak exercise into your day?For Christmas, I got a bosu ball. Awesome for core strength building and balance. I use it when I watch tv. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/14 11:35 PM |
| 1 | What beauty routine keeps your skin youthful?Good for religiously using sun screen, if you are surfing. When I was younger, people didn't. We would use that Tropicana coconut oil instead of sunscreen. I didn't surf, but I used to bake myself in the water and at the beach. Now, I've had multiple basal cell carcinomas cut from me and I probably have more wrinkles than I should. I also used to look very young for my age, and it kills me now to know that I still could, except that I have more wrinkles! You should be using zinc oxide based suns… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/14 11:33 PM |
| 6 | What would everyone think of a weekly craft show-off thread?hmmm, that miiiight inspire me to take the knitting needles out of the drawer. They've only been sitting there for 3 years.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/14 04:02 AM |
| 5 | What The F*ck Happened To Dating In College? What do you ladies think?But....she's SUPER classy! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/14 03:43 AM |
| 1 | What do drinks say about your date?Oh, nothing about screwdrivers? I must really be out of style. But I like vitamin C with my gin. The guy couldn't have been more wrong with the beer/wine example. My husband's peer group drank hard liquor or red wine, so he never acquired a taste for beer. I love red wine, but I like beer too, so there are often times when he orders red wine and I order beer. The poor servers always mix it up. And we both LOVE shi shi umbrella drinks! Must be very careful with those! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/14 12:41 AM |
| 3 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The Walloh yeah. The 3 skin cancers I have had removed have all been on my left side. I certainly don't drive for a living, but I guess the bulk of my driving is during the afternoon with more sunlight. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/14 03:31 AM |
| 3 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallI just really try to be mindful about moving my face into more of a relaxed position. Not fake smiling, but relaxed and almost smiling. Sounds dumb, but I picture the Mona Lisa's smile. I just try to catch myself as often as I can and do this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/14 12:32 AM |
| 3 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallGood article. Another thing, if you have a natural resting angry face, make conscious efforts to relax it. It gets worse the older you get, but you can practice yourself away from it! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/14 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Sexism in the workplaceOk, so maybe instead of this devolving into "oh my god, my boss slapped my ass today! Human resources! lawsuit!" we can give advice to young women on how to react and how not to react to certain circumstances? That happened to me when I was twenty and I ignored him. He didn't do it again. He was there another year and was transferred out for other reasons while I worked my way up the ranks. Life went on. I didn't feel the need to escalate on him in any way as he didn't do anything more after I i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Motivation Thread!After a two weeks of viruses at home and one hormonal fright fest, I'm ready now to get back to the gym AND eat clean again. Must make an appointment to get my hair fixed, too. I'm feeling kind of raggedy so I've got to nip this in the bud. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 09:03 PM |
| 1 | RPW examples?Mrs. Miniver. Love that movie. I'm a sucker for historical drama and a bit of wartime propaganda! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/14 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Here's an idea for being more soft-feminine: wear a skirtI used to wear skirts and dresses quite often when I was younger, but I'm older and after 3 kids I have some gnarly varicose veins that creep me out to no end and I am not comfortable showing my legs anymore. Maybe someday I will get them taken care of. I would wear maxi dresses but I am very short and I haven't found any to fit. Skirts make you have a sexy/feminine attitude and they make you move differently. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/14 04:28 AM |
| 6 | Ban the Word Bossy?You have never heard anyone saying to small children, both boys and girls "stop being so bossy!"? It is not emasculating to a boy child of 4, nor is it taking away power from a girl child of 4. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/14 04:08 AM |
| 5 | Ban the Word Bossy?And another major point in this discussion is that we DO call little boys bossy. I said it to my own sons when they were pre-schoolers. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/14 03:12 AM |
| 1 | A warning: Be extremely selective of which kindergarten you choose for your child. It's influence is much greater than you might believe. (x-post from /r/theredpill)Ah! We don't really have the same type of system at all. Sounds like a combination of daycare and pre-school. Here, kindergarten is for children ages 5 - 6. I can understand how the vast majority of men in this field are of a very high quality. When they first start their careers, they are viewed with some suspicion and questions about whether or not they can be nurturing. And yes, this is wrong, but it is the way it is, sad to say. If a male teacher makes it through "the gauntlet", then they wi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/14 12:13 AM |
| 2 | A warning: Be extremely selective of which kindergarten you choose for your child. It's influence is much greater than you might believe. (x-post from /r/theredpill)Ok. I'm not going to address the black/white judgements you are making about women educators and their ages, as you do not work in an American public school. I do. What I will say is that I HAVE seen many boys suffer because schools are set up for a certain type of behavior that is friendlier to girls. This has been researched and written about extensively. So many boys are labelled hyperactive or disruptive, and they are just going squirrelly because they are made to sit and listen too long wit… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/14 08:27 PM |
| 6 | A warning: Be extremely selective of which kindergarten you choose for your child. It's influence is much greater than you might believe. (x-post from /r/theredpill)OP has witnessed teachers dragging injured children along the ground while they were crying? He must not be in the U.S., otherwise as a teacher he would be required by law to report that to CPS as child abuse. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/14 03:51 AM |
| 5 | Finishing college--is it worth it?A million years ago when I was in college, I dropped out junior year. It took about 5 years to regret it, but regret it I did. I immediately went to work, full time, then got married, had kids, etc, etc. You never know what is coming down the line, economically, job-wise, and showing that you earned a college decree is pretty major for many decent jobs. Yes, you can go a long ways with experience, but not always. And not having the degree often limits your advancement. You are so so close! If I … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/14 12:44 AM |
| -1 | Female Princeton Graduate and HR Consultant tells young women to get off the cock carousel, stop career chasing, and preaches accountability and sacrifice if being a mom and having a family is a priority.Seriously? I wouldn't play Russian Roulette if there were 10 bullets in the chamber. That's dumb. So 2 out of 3 women are fertile at age 40. All that I am saying is to stop perpetuating this myth that women's ovaries shrivel up and die after age 40. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/14 03:55 PM |
| 3 | How would you handle this situation?I agree with Dana, that if you do not want any further conversation, just acknowledge his greeting and keep going. You don't even have to smile, well, not a real smile, more like a nod of the head. If you do feel like you need to say something, I would say "hey! I see you around a lot, but I can't place you. Do you know my husband?" If he doesn't, I'd just say "huh, that's funny, ok, well, gotta go now, bye!" or something similar... | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/14 05:18 AM |
| 4 | Women, what is your reproductive strategy?Married at 24. We had talked about kids, but did not have a definite "start" date. Got accidentally pregnant at 25, had a miscarriage, then had a baby the following year. Traumatic birth, emergency c-section, vertical cut, etc. Had 2nd baby at 32, then the "oops" baby at 41. Apparently I'm fertile myrtle. I also had extremely difficult pregnancies with my first two, due to hyperemesis graviderum, with hospitalizations, which is probably why there was so much time between pregnancies because it t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/14 11:27 PM |
| -4 | Female Princeton Graduate and HR Consultant tells young women to get off the cock carousel, stop career chasing, and preaches accountability and sacrifice if being a mom and having a family is a priority.Not arguing at all against the article, but I've got to take issue with your statement. I know plenty of women over the age of 35 who have given birth. Plenty. I'm one of them. My last child was born when I was 41. We are not some crazy, weird mystery! When I was a kid, I had THREE classmates who's mothers were mid to late '40's in age. My main concern here is that a lot of people here keep saying that you aren't going to get pregnant if you wait until you are 40, or that you will have miscarria… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/14 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Why all forms of feminism are inherently damaging to the male-female social contract [X-post from TRP]I agree with this. I just want to say something about that feminist label. I know that many women are hesitant to say they are NOT feminists because of certain assumptions then made. Like, if you are anti-feminist, you want to go back to a time when women were not allowed to wear pants to work. You want to go back to a time where a female accountant would make half as much as a male accountant and be happy for her job, or where the female accountant would be fired the instant her pregnancy was n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/14 09:54 PM |
| 4 | I'd like to hear your opinions on this woman being harrased at school for having performed in pornIsn't most of the harassment occurring on her Twitter feed? It's so easy nowadays for people to act stupidly and say things that they would never say to a person's face. I believe that is what is happening to her. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/14 02:20 AM |
| 2 | I'd like to hear your opinions on this woman being harrased at school for having performed in pornUgh. That's what hanging out with Frat boys gets you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/14 02:13 AM |
| 1 | I just got challenged and thought I would share it with everyone...omigod, number 11! Thank you for getting me to start my work day with a smile! Now I gotta get off the computer... That is a skill that men develop at a very early age. The boys I work with are still developing this skill set and practice by making the noises with their mouth. You can actually see the progression over the years. ha ha ha ha ha! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/14 04:19 PM |
| 4 | How come feminists see hot women as "demeaning"? (X-Post from /r/TheRedPill)Because feminists are taught that women should only use their minds to assert any power or control over others. That's why feminists shame other women when they dress sexy or flirt. They consider women who dress sexy and flirt to be dumb. Of course, if said woman is using her feminine wiles in a higher-powered position, then other women around her will be trying to back-stab her asap. This is more of an American phenomenon, though. I know French women who are very sexy at work. This is just a th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/14 08:44 PM |
| 6 | Weekly Thread: What's your favorite beauty secret?Somewhere here on RPW a while back, someone advised using oil on your face rather than a cream or other beauty product. I thought that sounded crazy but gave it a try. WOW! Has made my face softer and amazingly my hormonal acne has been diminished greatly. I use argan oil and rub it on my face in the evening, and then let it sit for a couple of minutes then pat off the excess with a towel. All these years trying to find the perfect product and it's so easy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/14 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Wondered what your thoughts were on Huff Post article (especially #1) "26 Lessons Your Son's Future Spouse Will Thank You For Teaching Him"Many of the original article's commenters called her out for "superior beings" which is good to see. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/14 08:28 PM |
| 5 | Wondered what your thoughts were on Huff Post article (especially #1) "26 Lessons Your Son's Future Spouse Will Thank You For Teaching Him"Oh, great revised list! Spot on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/14 08:27 PM |
| 0 | Curious about the Red Pill Perspective on opposite sex friendships.Hah hah...When Harry Met Sally was on tv last night. I love watching the two of them pretend there is no physical attraction when in actuality one wants to jump the other's bones at any given time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/14 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Fast track to femininity: Why competing with men has left women out of touch with their feminine sideI think women easily become batshit crazy when they try to live the lie that they can have it all whenever they want, that to work with men you've got to act like men and that femininity is weak. Batshit-i-ness ensues. Then when they actually come to the realization that it's a lie, their entire psyche is rocked. The realization and transition isn't always pretty. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/14 04:27 PM |
| 6 | Fast track to femininity: Why competing with men has left women out of touch with their feminine sideI think the last few lines pretty much sums things up. "I can see that being feminine is about allowing oneself to yield more and control less. Two nights ago, I went to dinner with a male friend, and for the first time in years I looked more feminine, acted more femininely and, crucially, felt more feminine. Not in a simpering way, but with a profound realisation that being able to show vulnerability isn't a female weakness but a sign of a woman's strength." | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/14 04:50 AM |
| 1 | 24 Signs He's a BetaSure, it's really outdated since both parties are totally corrupt. I just personally do not believe that judging whether a man is republican or democrat makes him an alpha or beta is the right way to go about things. It's just a major trigger for people. You are right about the other thread and that is the key. It should be really clear upfront that Redpill woman isn't about your politics or religion, but when you stumble into a thread like this and only see democrats being bashed, and others wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/14 02:40 AM |
| 1 | 24 Signs He's a BetaWhat I'm trying to say is that by insulting people's political beliefs, people will be saying "oh look, see, all those RPW are right-wingers and hate democrats. Maybe the majority of women here do, I don't know, and that is their prerogative! But is that what RPW wants to do here, or do they want to attract people from ALL walks of life to work on RP and RPW strategies? Believe me, I can take political insults and I can fling them right back, but I do not believe this sort of rhetoric belongs in… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/14 01:31 AM |
| 1 | 24 Signs He's a BetaIf you cannot see the difference between generalizations about a person's politics and generalizations about habits and traits that people have that contribute to them being alpha or beta, therein lies the problem. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/14 10:35 PM |
| 1 | 24 Signs He's a BetaThat's all well and fine, but do you really want to start flame-wars here? By bringing in subject manner that really has nothing to do with redpill? Are ya gonna bring in race too? Where do you stop? Whether or not I am a democrat or republican has NOTHING to do with whether or not I am redpill. Now if I said that I support certain feminist policies, and certain divorce laws that are unfair, etc, then rip away! But as far as being democrat republican or socialist or a frikkin' teabagger, it does… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/14 05:02 AM |
| 3 | 24 Signs He's a BetaIn my point of view, feminists, pushing pro fat views, have to do with the RP beliefs. A person's political affiliation does not. A person's beliefs, yes, but to say that ALL democrats are pansies and pro feminism and weak or to say that ALL republicans whatever.......THAT has nothing to do with Redpill! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/14 02:17 AM |
| 1 | 24 Signs He's a BetaCan we possibly leave politics out of our discussions on RPW? I was taught not to discuss politics and religion around the dinner table in groups that were not my immediate family (even then it can be rather hazardous!) and I feel like that should go for this discussion board too. Our political affiliations should have NOTHING to do with whether or not one is redpill or not. Yes, each person can have their own opinion on whether a democrat or republican or whatever attracts them, but I'm not sur… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/14 01:51 AM |
| 2 | 24 Signs He's a Beta"he's a democrat". That's a tease, right? If not, do politics really belong here? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/14 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Women patting themselves on the back for being moms. Commence circle jerkNot always. We are talking young baby here. Sometimes the longest block of sleep is maybe 3 hours. Then, when the baby does sleep, the parent with the child tries to nap, shower, cleanup the massive loads of spit-up pads, laundry, etc.etc. This is just the way it is when the child is this young. Women used to have more female help and company in past history, but now new mothers are more isolated. Yes, it is difficult for the man to go to work and be productive, but at the same time, while he is… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/14 10:00 PM |
| 12 | Women patting themselves on the back for being moms. Commence circle jerkI just want to mention that she was talking about a baby, not an older child. Staying at home during the first 4 months with a baby can be the most physically and mentally exhausting event that ever happens to a parent, both mother and father. The main culprit is sleep deprivation. If you go for that long with a baby waking up multiple times per night, you will suffer from it and it makes the daytime experience with the baby that much harder to handle, especially the crying. And some babies do c… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/14 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Did your parents relationship make you a RPW?What an eye opener for me. Sad stories here. My parents were traditional '50's style husband and wife. My mom was a bit high strung, but my dad was her anchor to keep her even keeled. My mom is a very smart woman, and she was a stay at home mom. She did work part time to help pay for parochial school for me. It's funny, because my dad was only about 5'7 and very mild mannered, but very strong. No one would peg him as alpha, but he was definitely the captain and my mom the co-pilot. My dad did be… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/02/14 05:34 AM |
| 1 | When Asking for Advice: Answer These QuestionsOH! That is freakin' hilarious! and ouch! touché | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 07:13 AM |
| 1 | When Asking for Advice: Answer These QuestionsBut to me, the rain wasn't the issue. I was asking about dealing with what I knew to be an over-reaction in my brain. And if that over-reaction happens due to being stuck walking by myself in a downpour (12 inches of rain in 12 hours), or some other silly thoughtless thing that happened, or if I freaked because we were driving too fast and spun out into oncoming traffic in the snow (long ago freak-out cause) my emotional response was still the same. The end result was the same and those were the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 05:47 AM |
| – | Preparing for a bumpy roadIf you have a sports chiropractor near you, I would whole-heartedly encourage you to try them! Over the years I went to a couple of regular chiropractors, one good, one horrible, but the SPORTS chiropractor was like a miracle worker for my knees. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 05:13 AM |
| 2 | There is a girl in another subreddit who I am trying to help, regarding her boyfriend and lack of sex. He is too tired for sex most days. Is the advice I am giving her good advice?I can imagine the poor guy isn't getting enough sleep, getting up at 4am. Is he getting to bed at 9pm? 10 at the latest? Then he's probably sleep deprived. If she's stopped with the make up, at the very least she should use eyeliner and mascara and a lip balm with color. And she's got to step up the clothing. Believe me, I love my cozy sweats, but with her problem, I'd be dressing much differently! She can suggest they just shower together, no sex. After a while, that may take the pressure off h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 05:08 AM |
| 2 | I want alphas, but seem to always end up with Betas....why?1.When you think your guy needs advice, you can't just tell him unannounced. You have to wait until he mentions his issue, then you can ask him if he wants your thoughts on it. or lead him into talking about it. You know he's having a lot of stress at work or a co-worker is being a dirtbag to him? Ask how his day at work was. Ask how his project is going, etc. If he starts to tell you the problems, THEN you have and opening to talk about it. If he says things are fine, leave him alone and just g… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 04:54 AM |
| 1 | I want alphas, but seem to always end up with Betas....why?Just don't go overboard on the long and oud story and joke telling. I well placed funny comment can go very far. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 04:21 AM |
| 1 | "Sometimes the First Officer actually overrules the Captain in a crisis and gives the crew an order" -MMSL Primer- Have you ever needed to overrule your captain? Why?HA! That's funny! My best friend's husband is like that, and when they moved back to my town, I was scared of him because of this! It took me a little while to figure him out, even with my friend assuring me that "oh don't worry, he's just like that". Now I play along and try to come up with ideas just as crazy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 04:08 AM |
| 2 | "Sometimes the First Officer actually overrules the Captain in a crisis and gives the crew an order" -MMSL Primer- Have you ever needed to overrule your captain? Why?Adding on to my comment, on these rare occasions, this is a cause for a serious sit-down discussion. It's not like you yell NO and leave the room, it's more like "No! Here's some info that I know about this that I don't know if you've heard yet" or something to that effect. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 04:03 AM |
| 2 | "Sometimes the First Officer actually overrules the Captain in a crisis and gives the crew an order" -MMSL Primer- Have you ever needed to overrule your captain? Why?StingrayVC, this, exactly! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 03:59 AM |
| 1 | I want to plan a surprise weekend away for my SO, and would like your input ladies of RPW.Check out your destination on Travelocity. Many reviewers have great ideas and tips on the destination that you wouldn't find elsewhere. Helped me out A LOT when we went to D.C. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 03:55 AM |
| 2 | How do I keep on top of the cleaning?When I leave a room, I try to take one thing with me to put away wherever I'm going, or on the way. I change out the bathroom hand towels every couple of days, and when I do, I use one to quickly wipe down the faucet, mirror, counter, and lastly the outside of the toilet. Helps out a bit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 03:50 AM |
| 2 | When Asking for Advice: Answer These QuestionsThis is good to have; thanks for putting it together. Most new users are used to other more casual forums where anything goes, so it is good to know up front what behaviors are expected here. Being someone who was accused of making a mountain out of a molehill, I am a bit leery of #6. Sometimes one person's mountain is another person's molehill. Or, a person might just be looking for a different perspective on dealing with minor issues. Just a thought... | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 03:01 AM |
| 2 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?"Dudes ain't mind readers." I've gotta make that my mantra! All good reminders here, thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 10:31 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?Yes, the trick for me is to think things through as soon as the anger wells up, not an hour later! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 10:26 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?oops, typo. Not 28, but 26 this coming summer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Hi RPW, new face here! I know my post might seem out of place, but I hope you can provide some help.I knew a man who's wife cooked him a cheeseburger every night for dinner, for decades. His taste never changed, even with him owning a restaurant! Yes, this is unusual, but I would just go with what you're cooking him now and continue to make your own food that you like. Stop trying to get him to eat different foods. Just have the other food around, and eventually he may decide to try things on his own, when he wants to. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 02:22 AM |
| 2 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?omigosh, Lady_ Motido, you almost made me cry! Thank you for such a thoughtful response! Don't worry, I'm not one to back down so easy, so I'll still be around. :-) See, when I first started lurking here, I dug around through many, many old posts and I was impressed with the smart no-nonsense advice given here from the women. I had never heard of this philosophy, and having just kind of grown up living like this and marrying like this, I've become a major onlooker here to see how the actual phil… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 02:08 AM |
| 2 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?Lady_Motido, perhaps you've had too many bad experiences with women coming on this site and trying to justify their bad behavior and you are being defensive from the get go. That is how I gauged your reaction to me on this thread. Nothing more, nothing less. I did not address my concerns about people jumping to extreme conclusions directly to you, because it wasn't just you, but a handful of people. I also wanted to wait and see what else you posted, because as this conversation goes on, people … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 12:40 AM |
| 2 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?You and me both.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 12:14 AM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?I believe in providing the facts of what happened. Glossing over what happened between both of us would be wrapping it up in a pretty wrapper. By providing the information, people were able to respond to me in a more productive way. I was in no way being disrespectful to him. I was trying to get advice to improve my own reaction. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 12:13 AM |
| 2 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?This is sound advice. ha ha, same thing here with the short legs. I just freaked last night because I couldn't run after him in the torrential downpour because of my wrecked knees. I know he didn't do it on purpose to hurt me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 12:02 AM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?Very true. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 11:56 PM |
| 2 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?This is good. Like I said, this happens rarely, but when I do start to feel/react like I did last night, I need to intentionally think about this. Covert contracts - I like that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 11:51 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?That's what I need to hear and to work on. Thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 11:48 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?What did I say that was disrespectful? I was recounting the event as it happened. I was NOT being disrespectful in how I told what happened. I fully acknowledged that my reaction last night was not the right reaction and that is why I came here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 11:46 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?Very true. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 11:40 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?Yes, total sense, and that response is exactly what I should have done in hindsight. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 11:37 PM |
| 0 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?No, danabanana9, this is not another bitchfest, at least on my end of it. I came on here sincerely looking for advice on how to change my perspective of it on MY END. I was aware of the last bitchfest post and the horrible response thread to it and I was very careful to word this in such a way to make it be shown that I wanted helpful advice about my reaction. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 11:33 PM |
| -1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?Yes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 11:24 PM |
| 3 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?Let me get this straight. I said that this does not happen very often at all in this relationship. I was not blaming my husband or saying he was a bad guy, just that this happened and I got emotional and wanted to see what you all might have done in a similar situation. Some of you say this would NEVER happen, yet in another thread, I read that everyone on here is trying to IMPROVE themselves and help each other on here do the same. Some people seem to be jumping to really extreme conclusions he… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 11:23 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?Thank you, boydeer. I think that this is exactly what happened. He's not dumb, he just didn't think in that instance, and I had a really emotional reaction to it. I mentioned things like this don't happen very often at all, so I think it is very unfair to say our relationship is "like that" though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 11:20 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?I cannot run, as I have torn meniscus in my knees. ha, yes indeed! true I know in my head that it is small stuff, but I had a negative emotional reaction. That's why I posted here, was to get advice from others as to how to look at this in a different light. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 11:14 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?I was driving. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Getting to know you- MBTI styleHeh. I've never taken this particular test before. Just did it and came out as ISFJ. The profile is freakishly accurate. I've always poo-poo'd these tests, but..yikes! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/14 04:35 AM |
| 3 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)Can you elaborate on this a bit more? I'm seriously trying to understand the different understandings of the concepts of loyalty and honor that you say men and women have. I'm not being snarky, I really want to know what you think? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 02:46 AM |
| 3 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)Got it. The confusion is there; terms and acronyms still being learned... | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 02:32 AM |
| 4 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)I am curious, though. IYO, what is the difference between loyalty amongst men and loyalty between a man and his partner, from the man's point of view? If his wife or girlfriend has changed during the relationship, how does honor and loyalty come into play on the man's end of it? I see a lot of talk about dumping her right quick for a better model, right? What is the difference, from your perspective, between this and a woman losing interest in her guy because he is taking her for granted? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 01:27 AM |
| 2 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)Would depend on the context. We're talking about sexual relationships between men and women. Not loyalty to the team at work, etc. I'm sure THAT could be debated too, but I'm not gonna go there at the moment. What softharem says above about men getting too comfortable is absolutely true, at least in my experience. Had it happen early on in my own relationship with my husband, before we were married. Luckily we figured it out before too much damage was done. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 01:21 AM |
| 7 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)It's being said when they are extremely angry. It's like when a woman is bitching with her girlfriends saying "all men are dogs". | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 01:04 AM |
| 11 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)This is good. I only wandered on TRP, and hence RPW very recently and I was a ...bit ...alarmed at some of the comments I read at first. But I'm much older than probably most of you, and realized rather quickly that many of these men (or even still boys to me) haven't grown up, or evolved to where they do have the experience to know how to go about things the right way. I also realized that many of these men didn't have the same upbringing, or role models to emulate as my brother and husband did… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Married Ladies Roll CallSummer romance, high school. Loved his curly dark hair. Together all through college, except for a while when I dated another guy. Married at 23. 3 children. Been married for 26 years. One thing I love? That the sexual tension has not diminished. Sure, there might be some down times, but always know that they will pass. And that you CAN teach and old dog new tricks! :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/14 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, is there a way to gracefully approach 'the wall'?As long as you protect yourself from the sun and keep strong, physically you will do very well. When I was younger, we all burnt ourselves to a crisp at the beach and I'm paying for it now. Not just wrinkles, but skin cancer. Nothing serious, at the moment, thank goodness. That's life...take it as it comes but plan ahead when you can. Good job realizing this at the age of 21! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/14 08:50 PM |
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