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He didn't 'do really good', he probably went into traumatic shock, his penis is permanently damaged
/r/MensRights27/02/19 07:35 AM
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Hundreds of boys die from it as 'complication' and there are even penile amputations because the procedure is risky, it also increases your odds of getting Erectile Dysfunction, and you lose the majority of sexual sensation in your penis, and it should be his body his choice
/r/MensRights27/02/19 07:30 AM
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Less than 0.01% of intact men ever require the surgery, and it can simply be done later if the need arises. So this makes no sense whatsoever, until you bizarrely believe it's an inevitability that every male must have their foreskin cut off 'either as a baby or later'.
/r/MensRights27/02/19 07:28 AM
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Two ways to look at it, one, he 'lost frame', or two, he stood up for himself against a rude manipulative dishonest girl who was trying to score free dinner and drinks etc. Maybe he lost frame but at least he didn't let her walk over him, and she probably respected him more after his outburst than before. I disagree with commenter who says he 'made an ass of himself in public'. On the contrary, he stood up for himself and said the right thing without cowardly fear of what everyone around him mig…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 09:59 AM
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you generally aren't allowed to beat someone to within an inch of their life unless they continue to pose a threat This is an invalid argument because unless you are a medical expert, you cannot tell if someone is 'still a threat' - i.e. how do you know they aren't just about to get up and start beating you or chasing you again? Or for that matter, pull a gun and shoot you? You don't. So you're supposed to just take a chance with your life and see if they can get up or not? That makes no sense. …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 01:40 PM
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Legally, it'd probably depend on the jurisdiction and the lawyers and courts etc. involved - e.g. in jurisdictions that are grounded in 'duty to retreat', a prosecutor might indeed be able to convince the jury OP had the option to run away, say. (A prosecutor might also say he should have stopped beating the guy up as soon as he was under control - that's ultimately not really a valid argument but a jury might fall for it.) Ethically (as opposed to legally), I'm not a fan of 'duty to retreat' ..…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 04:29 AM
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On the face of it, it sounds like you engaged in valid self-defense (as it was attempted murder on his part), however, legally that could depend on the precise law in your jurisdiction (and more precise details of what happened) - that said, if the cops decide they're going to push a case against you for whatever reason, even if you're in the right, then most importantly, you're still stuck in the situation of then having to pay for a good lawyer to defend yourself - which almost nobody can real…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 07:05 PM
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Imagine any male public figure saying "Cause X is about helping women understand..." Holy living Christ, we'd never hear the end of it. I think it's time we do start saying things like that, loudly and often. E.g. 'Cause Y is about helping women understand that men are equally often the victims of domestic violence' ... why not? Sounds good to me.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 01:40 PM
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Any predominantly male space represents a threat and therefore must be taken over and assimilated into the Feminist Imperative This is also why their emphasis against supposed 'sexism' in video games. And it's for the same reason fascist governments always control state media - it allows them to brainwash the public and the next generation with their message. This is just another case of femfascists starting to increasingly control media channels. Of course the guys here keep telling me we shoul…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 01:35 PM
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Thanks for posting this, great advice, this couldn't have come at a better time for me.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 02:41 PM
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When a girl uses the word "creepy" I tend to ignore anything about it The further irony is that if a guy was genuinely "creepy", she generally wouldn't call him that (in cases where they say it to a guy's face) because she'd actually be scared. If she's confident enough to call you creepy, it's because she thinks you're totally harmless ... if you thought someone was dangerous you usually wouldn't insult them as it might provoke them. "Creepy" is almost always just an insult.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 12:56 AM
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Read up on 'alpha widow' syndrome.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 04:03 AM
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Don't have much to say here other than, fully agree, and, kudos to the men here who were overweight and have put in the effort and self-discipline to get it under control and lose weight.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 11:02 PM
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Chinese girls in (North) America get the full deal on a regular basis. Maybe they also just aren't as so promiscuous as girls in the West seem to be these days.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 01:55 PM
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My suspicion is that Chinese girls in China only experience 3 inch dicks while Chinese girls in (North) America get the full deal on a regular basis Interesting. In my case, I was the one who broke her virginity - I was (definitely) her first. So I guess that's probably why her V was nice and tight. I had such a huge case of oneitis for her. Hm, I will perhaps try that site. Standard warnings understood of course.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 03:47 AM
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Thanks for the detailed response. One common theme is that all three women think my dick is huge In my 20's, I had a ~4year LTR with a Chinese girl (in the US - her parents emigrated to the US when she was young) - she was hot (~HB8) and the sex was great (she was one of those 'hot girl with low self esteem' types), better sex than any white girl I've had - animalistic - and she had a lovely tight V (I'm (excuse the pun) bang on average in the size department, for a white guy), but she also thou…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 03:24 AM
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Here's the thing, even if it starts as just an LTR with the man not intending to get married, sooner or later the woman will start dropping hints that she wants to get married. And you can give your bit of advice that he'll hear once in 6 months, but she sees him all the time and no doubt drops hints all the time etc. ... add to that, she has him in the grip of the magic V, the false promise of endless poon ... I don't think anything you could say is really going to compete with her influence. S…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 02:48 AM
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Lawyers are the ones making big bucks off 'the system'.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 02:35 AM
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Oh sure, yes, women are hypocrites all the way.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 01:33 AM
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Women have to think about whether it was rape As a general rule of thumb, if you really have to think long and hard about 'whether it was rape' - it wasn't.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 01:13 AM
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I'm not defending their behavior, but in a way they're doing you a favor by dropping off quickly, as you don't want these gold-diggers wasting your time anyway.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 12:57 AM
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Do you use TRP etc. to pick up Chinese girls there? Does it work well, e.g. do you find it quite easy or difficult to sort of 'game' them? Are they very conservative or actually quite easy? Etc. Am interested to hear your experiences, I like Asian women.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 12:43 AM
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Men gave up the helm of society, too Reality check: Men still run society. And this will always be true, because women aren't as up to the task. Look at institutions of justice - mostly run by men. Look at the mines and power stations that drive our economies - mostly run by men. Look at the factories that build everything from our cars to ships to airplanes to computers - mostly run by men. Look at the transport systems and infrastructure - mostly created and run by men. Look at agriculture and…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 09:39 PM
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I think it depends ... I think the only time this could work is if the dude is genuinely successfully being 'alpha' enough that his 'main squeeze' is just that, like one of his 'harem', and he has genuine abundance. I suspect in reality most 'open marriages' are probably more like, the woman fucks Chad and anyone else that catches her eye while the guy is lonely most nights. I don't think I could ever manage that in a conventional LTR. I'd rather not know; I think most guys are by default wired …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 09:10 PM
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It's actually worse than this - female infidelity hurts the man even when he doesn't know about it. This is a subtle point and sounds counter-intuitive until you really think about the dynamics of the situation.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 09:06 PM
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If feminists are not reined in, they will have paternity testing banned everywhere. Men, fight back.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 09:04 PM
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I think this is good advice and a good attitude to try cultivate, though I think one must be careful to not necessarily apply it to everything 'blindly' always - what I mean is, say you (like I did) got yourself into a marriage where there is lousy and minimal 'duty sex', I made the mistake of initially telling myself in a BluePill way 'suck it up, I guess this is what fatherhood is supposed to be like' ... what I should have done was take action and do something about it, i.e. think clearly abo…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 12:38 PM
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This. I've traveled a lot and screwed around with women from several different cultures, it really is a lot of fun. (I don't know if this is a general thing, but my personal experience has been that 'Western' women tend to be both the worst in bed, and the biggest princesses. I suppose I might get downvoted for that comment. Like I said, that's just my one single 'data point'.)
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 09:13 PM
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At least you didn't have to go through a crappy betabux marriage with kids to really have your blue-pill reality shattered. (To be clear though, I was aware of RedPill stuff and had read some of it and agreed with a lot of it before my marriage - but I somehow stupidly still thought "NAWALT" - thought I had that unicorn. Now I'm really starting to properly internalize TRP. I was definitely not sexless before at least - I had a lot of great sex before I got married. Getting married was a mistake.…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 10:04 AM
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Low-carb - it works. (And maybe up your protein, for building.)
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 10:00 AM
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Yup, sometimes just a seed of doubt in their minds can be good enough or helpful. Even just getting them thinking about you a bit .. e.g. 'hm did he or didn't he', you've moved from off the radar, to onto the radar.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 09:58 AM
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Sounds to me like you and entrz are basically saying the same thing i.e. actually in agreement?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 09:40 AM
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I believe even relatively 'beta' men more naturally 'behave' like captain of their ship, when their woman is more inclined to treat them as such to begin with. And the opposite is true, treat a man This is part of the difficulty with modern Western women ... most of them have picked up at least some degree of confrontational feminist harridanism - they've been basically taught by feminism to try go in and lead or try go into head-on conflict with their husband to ferally assert what they want, a…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 02:41 PM
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The best way to "fight" this if you really want to fight, is to boycott it You can't boycott it. E.g. the state taxing single men to pay for welfare for single moms IS a form of forced cuckoldry (feminists openly advocate this, it's part of their goals). And in some jurisdictions, there's even open talk of a 'bachelor's tax'. Trust me, it's going to keep getting worse too. And precisely because boys like those on here allow it, as they're too scared to actually try take charge in this world and …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 07:15 AM
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also fighting it will just be responded with straw men arguments and shouts of '' patriarchy'' or '' mysoginistic'' So basically, you're scared a few girls will call you names?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 06:17 PM
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Because they enjoy the privilege of being able to leave shitty jobs and rely on their husband to support them Yup, men don't have the luxury of 'burning out', in fact they have to work even harder as they're also supporting the wives in these situations, in addition to themselves. Men have to succeed, and if they don't, the stakes are higher, they tend to commit suicide. Want to know why men aren't 'burning out' at a higher rate ... because the failures are partly reflected in the higher male su…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 02:22 PM
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And yet when I suggest men at least try make some collective effort to get pro-women divorce-rape laws rectified, I get criticized. If you don't want to even try shape your world, then you get to stew in the world other people make for you.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 02:00 PM
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She tried to talk us both into not wearing condoms when we were tag teaming her (lol wtf who's that wreckless?!) True story, I was having sex with a prostitute once (a very sexy one too) and as I was getting close to finishing, she suddenly urged me to take the condom off and come inside her (!) ... wtf ... I had the sense not to do it. No idea why she wanted to do that (I live in a nice house so I dunno, maybe she wanted to let me impregnate her so she could try hook me for child support or som…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 05:53 PM
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Only two years older, that's negligible.
/r/seduction05/03/16 10:28 PM
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Speaking of blatant gold-digging - I recently met a woman online who actually put a link to her Amazon wishlist (with a list of things like expensive watches, jewelry etc.), in her online social media profile, along with a sexy scantily clad pic of her! I asked her if guys actually buy her stuff, she said yes they do, and started soliciting. I told her 'buy me an Xbox thx', she told me I'm being rude, lol
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 09:38 PM
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Then she tried to stop me by telling me that she’s attracted to dadbods and that she doesn’t find me sexy. I wonder if this was basically a shit-test. I've heard of this kind of reaction from women before.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 09:30 PM
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What's your suggestion for change?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 09:53 PM
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This is why I think we need to support MRA groups, to fight back (legislatively and in public advocacy) against these trends (like men) instead of simply accepting them. The laws will keep getting worse if we don't. Never internalize defeatism.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 05:50 PM
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She sounds envious ... why can't someone like Leo go for someone like her, she probably wishes deep inside. Older (and often fatter) women have to try shame men into avoiding attractive younger women by trying to stigmatize the dating of younger women. Sadly it probably works to some degree - I've seen my share of white knights parrot the kind of drivel she spews - so I'm glad there are men who keep unashamedly dating young hot women when they can. I'll get the youngest woman I can
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 06:40 PM
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How is it "counterproductive"? If you just do nothing, they're ANYWAY going to remove more and more of your rights. And they will see, "hey, men are going to do nothing about it, great, let's remove even more of their rights". Real men at least put up a fight, and say, no, we won't stand for this. Defeatism is beta. And even if you lose, at least you fucking tried, and at least you put up some resistance, and didn't make it easy for them like a pushover/doormat. And what's the worst case? That m…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:16 PM
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To repeat myself again: This shit is going to keep getting worse and worse and worse, UNTIL men start organizing and standing up against this and saying, enough is enough. Get involved with MRAs, they're the only ones pushing back against the deterioration.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 02:12 PM
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You're the one being an ultra conservative pussy little girl, saying posture correction for a YEAR is necessary Where the fuck are you even getting this? I said perhaps 'a few months'. You can't even read my comments, no wonder it's too much effort for you to read up and study on the topic to make an informed opinion.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 08:42 PM
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No, there's no "impasse" at all, since all you need to do is use the Internet to start doing some research and studying up on a topic you clearly know embarrassingly little about. There is no such thing as an "impasse" on matters of fact - these are questions that we simply answer with science, not use our hamsters to rationalize holding onto predefined opinions while throwing around ad hominem on whoever attacks our precious egos by disagreeing. For example, a little bit of research turns up: "…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 06:30 PM
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If you took this stupid shit to the fitness sub Lol! ... you've brainwashed yourself with because you're weak as fuck at powerlifting exercises There we get to it, the primitivism and hamstering behind your mentality. Your ego is blocking your view of the science. "Hurr hurr me strong, only weak dudes need 'posture correction', hurr hurr" .. NO self-awareness, full-blown hamstering - it's like reading comments from a woman.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 02:05 PM
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reginass, sorry, but you honestly DO NOT KNOW THE FIRST THING about posture issues ... please FIRST go LEARN all about posture issues, stop talking out your ass, because you WILL eventually cause someone to injure themselves with your "advice", guaranteed. So, just lift, WITH CORRECT FORM, which CANNOT HURT YOU This is the stupidest thing I've ever read on reddit so far. Seriously, you are so clueless, you don't know WHAT you are talking about ... please stop. This is really dangerous advice. Wh…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 01:52 PM
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Sorry but you're giving damn terrible advice - you are sure to cause injury to someone, STOP giving out this "advice". I won't comment again on this thread, but I hope people reading this just have the sense to trust experts rather than your complete ignorant nonsense. Doctors don't know about lifting, but what they can do is refer you to a good physio who does.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 11:13 PM
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No, I had bad posture (a.o. forward head and shoulder posture) from working on a computer 60+ hour weeks for years - lifting is the worst and most dangerous thing you can do if you don't FIRST do special exercises and stretches for a few months to correct the bad posture - THEN start your strengthening program. A "basic lifting program" WILL NOT correct forward head posture - you WILL just fuck up your rotator cuffs or spine / neck vertebrae. Doing a 'basic lifting program' is exactly what will …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 11:01 PM
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their posture is really fucking bad This is very important. Years ago I did a started on a building 'kick' and within weeks had a nasty rotator cuff injury due to bad posture (and I didn't even realize at the time I had bad posture). Take it slow, and FIRST make sure your posture is 110% right, get it checked if unsure.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 08:41 PM
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women want to replace betas with a welfare check Yup, and this is also effectively state-mandated cuckoldry, i.e. this would allow her to have Chad's baby, while forcing all the beta bux's to pay for it through taxation. Feminist is really a fascist cult. This is the ultimate entitlement ... make men into slaves for women. I have spent most of my twenties single, sometimes by choice ... I spent quite a lot of time being sad about that, even though my life was full of friends, fulfilling work, in…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 10:55 PM
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Or was putting in overtime to pay alimony/support etc.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 03:49 PM
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Yeah, it's possible. I wasn't there so I may be filling in the blanks a bit, trying to read between the lines. It's also possible that maybe this guy flipped out mainly because (and I suspect) she may have been flirting back. And/or maybe she had done something similar before to the guy - I wouldn't be surprised either. She might have omitted to mention her boyfriend on purpose. There are many reasons a guy might react like that ... e.g. I can imagine if she'd, say, been saying 'no I'm not in th…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 09:40 PM
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Hm, that's not how I read the OP, but it doesn't really say, it's ambiguous ... it's that ambiguity though that makes me feel like certain details have been left out or glossed over. (Unless you actually know the people and know about this incident?) I interpreted the way he phrased it as, either they waited for the boyfriend to be out the room (i.e. saw him go for drinks, took the opportunity to move in), or possibly the girlfriend even sent him on a little 'errand' to get drinks (this is a typ…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 05:56 PM
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He was around, he was getting drinks. From the OP: "... one girl who happens to be by herself at the moment. Beta bux who was getting drinks ..." I know precisely your mentality and why you're arguing he 'wasn't around', and I also know it's just a BS form of hamstering: In your mind, since he was 'getting drinks', that 'counts' as 'not being around', because your hamster rationalizes it as a sort of 'plausible deniability' that he 'can't have seen anything suspicious'. But in fact, their action…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 05:06 PM
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Uh, if you're hitting on someone else's girlfriend while they're around, you aren't really the victim, lol ... sorry but that takes some serious female-level hamstering to try rationalize that you are the victim there.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 04:58 PM
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He was nowhere near his girlfriend when my friend hit on her. He had no idea You mean you thought he had no idea - but sounds to me like he saw exactly what was really going on. Being beta doesn't necessarily mean being stupid ... it seems that 'ipso facto' your behavior was more obvious than you thought.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 04:13 AM
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If you hit on girls in front of their boyfriends, it's not exactly surprising you're eventually going to get attacked ... you got lucky this time that you came out of it OK.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 12:51 AM
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Our grandparents fought in messy wars where they saw friends and colleagues blown to pieces, just to stop Hitler ... but the girly boys of today go 'ew, too disgusting' about a birth operation? Seriously? My grandfather was a doctor who brought hundreds of babies into the world, and my other grandfather fought at the frontlines of WWII ... neither once spoke a negative word about either of those experience. I guess that was back when "men were men".
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 11:25 PM
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As I said before, the laws are going to keep getting worse until we as men start standing up and saying, enough of this shit ... instead of whining helplessly, support or get involved with MRA groups who are fighting these trends.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 10:39 PM
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I really loved seeing my kids born. I don't know if I just have a strong stomach ('messy shit' doesn't phase me) but your comment sounds a bit girly to me (like you're saying 'ew, gross, I don't want to see that' ... you scared of a bit of placenta and blood and shit and whatnot? Really now, what has become of MEN.)
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 10:37 PM
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I've seen two and really enjoyed the experience both times.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 10:34 PM
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Yup. There has been a deliberate effort, particularly by feminists, to try conflate prostitution (which is common, and victimless) with sex trafficking (which is actually very rare) ... the reasons are twofold - one, they know it makes it harder to advocate for decriminalization when the public has been conditioned to confuse a victimless crime (i.e. not-a-crime) with an actual crime, and two, certain people gain personal profit and power from creating this 'moral panic' (e.g. the people whose j…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 09:10 PM
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Prostitution is legal in Europe, but women are empowered and feminist-oriented anyway It's legal in a number of countries, and the reality is it doesn't dramatically change society (partly because the social stigma is so strong, as you say). What it does do though, is save taxpayer money, decreases injustice in society, and increases career happiness of sex workers as well as their legal protection options against injustice, as it means the state is obligated to protect their rights, not violate…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 06:28 PM
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you're still paying for sex so you're a loser Before you blindly repeat this meme again, just think about the following a bit. Who do you think created this stigmatization meme? Women, to control men and reduce sexual market competition (and the white knight BluePill manginas who parrot this are usually just trying to either put down other men to try make themselves look 'better' or try signal that they're 'not losers' because of this silly stigma, or attempting to pander to these women). It's t…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 06:16 PM
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I think you underestimate network effects. What will probably happen is another company, like Facebook, will buy out Twitter, take the assets and userbase and integrate the service more tightly with their own (migrating some of it to their own infrastructure), and Twitter will continue under slightly different branding and a more workable business model, and the consolidated company will have more power and influence. There are actually relatively few companies dominating social networking and o…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 06:02 PM
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Low stock price => cheap takeover => consolidation => more centralized power and less competition.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 04:36 PM
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If it still hurts you have not gotten over it. You are not transformed I think we never completely 100% get "over" past hurtful situations in our lives ... there will always still be some leftover pain, the key is to get it to a level where it is manageable and has minimal influence on your life (and e.g. if that hurt surfaces now and then, being able to deal with that in some way that doesn't damage your present life). I think it's a dangerous idea to try believe there is such a point where you…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 02:41 PM
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I'd learn who they really are AWALT ... we already know what women are like, and they will think less of you for your past - I've experienced this myself in a few relationships when I started talking about my past. Women are not really 'friends'.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 02:36 PM
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I keep hearing guys on here say 'women aren't going to allow ...' (this or that) changes to the law. Have we all given up on the idea that men have any say in the law whatsoever? I've said before here, men created and built civilization, we still mostly run society, we have a lot more power than we think. Many men seem to have been convinced of some kind of "learned helplessness" .. it's real victim-think, and IMO it's 'beta' behavior ... betas say "aw, women won't allow us to change any laws", …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 02:26 PM
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It's mainly (non-sex-worker) women who try keep prostitution criminalized or try stigmatize visiting prostitutes, because they don't want the competition. They don't want the competition when trying to get a man. They don't want their beta husbands having someplace else to go when they're withholding sex. It's a victimless crime, so it must be decriminalized.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 02:20 PM
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It would be 'satire' if these people weren't being handed increasing political power and influence in the world. Unfortunately it's not so much a circle jerk, as the zeitgeist ... Jezebel is huge, it's close to one of the top 1000 sites in the world and have over 11 million readers each month. It might make one feel better to dismiss them as nobodies, but being dismissive is careless and dangerous - these women are everywhere and a major threat to society, and as they have now realized they can …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 02:08 PM
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No, we take society back. We are the rightful masters. Would you let your toddler take over the driving seat while you're driving on the freeway? 'Opting out of the social contract' sounds like 'hand more power to them'.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 11:23 PM
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If you have any doubt on whether this seems plausible, search for a Jezebel article "Have You Ever Beat Up A Boyfriend? Cause, Uh, We Have" and read the comments. Many female commenters openly brag about beating their boyfriends. No sense of shame. They think it's funny, and have realized the whole of society is so 'BluePill' that they can behave with impunity. It's the true heart of feminist women exposed. "My last boyfriend crossed the line ... so I beat the piss out of him" "When I was in hig…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 10:43 PM
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Twitter is clear of any First Amendment violations This may be legally true, and is certainly convenient for the 'femfascists', but still leaves us with a problem - social networks and other tech infrastructure providers are going to increasingly be used to control public opinion, toward fascist ends. E.g. Facebook has now started 'clamping down' on gun groups - to what end? Obviously they have an anti-2nd-Amendment agenda, and they're using their 'propaganda power' to push it down everyone's th…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 01:04 AM
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I understand, though I am thinking more along the lines of how one might scold a child because they did something wrong. It's not about the anger, it's about there being a consequence, some sort of "scolding". If a child does something wrong, and you just keep quiet, the child would simply take this as meaning they can do more of the same. But I will think about this some more, as I'm divided in my own mind, I see both arguments. I don't think I agree that keeping quiet is 'more of a punishment'…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 01:17 AM
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the MRA movement is very active, and so far it has achieved exactly fuck all. This isn't even true. E.g. I just read about a Steve Hitner, who started a group "Mass Alimony Reform" to try reverse certain injustices in Massachusetts alimony laws (e.g. a.o. lifetime alimony), and he was ultimately SUCCESSFUL in changing and reforming the laws. That's because he's a man, and didn't whine 'waah it's impossible to change laws' like a girl ... he just got stuck in and damn did it. And that's just ONE …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 09:21 PM
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Do not complain. Do not show anger. I understand your point but isn't this akin to her having no (or minimal) consequences for her actions? Doesn't that in some way condone it? She'll never change this behavior because nobody ever calls her on it.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 05:20 PM
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I suggest you have more than another single measly paragraph to reward my click Lol, I must be tired, I read that as "to reward my dick".
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 01:02 AM
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the "hard-working single mom" In reality, children of single moms are (statistically, on average) less successful, more likely to suffer from mental health issues like anxiety and depression, and more likely to engage in crime. Women who deliberately become single mothers should be shamed; instead we've portrayed them as heros.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 01:00 AM
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If a woman wants to stop being 'harassed' for a while it's simple, she can just wear a burqa. Well, perhaps not that extreme, but there are other ways for a woman to dress to reduce the amount of attention she gets. Reality is these women probably do want to be hit on or get some attention, but only by 'alpha', so they dress to look attractive.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 12:39 AM
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George Orwell said, "In a time of universal deceit - telling the truth is a revolutionary act" ... we're in grave danger if it's reached the point where merely criticizing feminism can threaten your livelihood, to the point that most people toe the line out of fear.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 12:12 AM
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the MRA movement is very active, and so far it has achieved exactly fuck all The MRA movement is largely in its infancy, and it's only thanks to technological changes (e.g. the Internet) that they've been able to start organizing and growing into something of substance recently - e.g. groups like A Voice for Men have only been around since 2009 - that's the blink of an eye. Maybe I'm a bit older and have a bit more perspective, but that is fucking brand new, saying a group has achieved 'fuck all…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 03:27 AM
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So because 'defeatism'? I see. Your comments aren't grounded in reason ... advocacy groups have been responsible for the bulk of non-violent political change throughout history, but suddenly it's ineffective because ... ? Things are actually going to get worse, much worse, until men stop acting like pussies and stop tolerating this legal environment. Getting a few laws changed isn't some magically mystically impossible task ... men created and built civilization, we still mostly run civilization…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 03:03 AM
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"Of course I hit him, he was a little bitch" Not uncoincidentally, Nicole Arbour's choice of words in her response to his accusations were: "Heard the little bitch I dumped months ago is still trying to use me to get attention on his vlog channel. Ew." Obviously it shows that same disgusting mentality (and in my view, confirms his story is likely true), but it's one thing making 'little bitch' type comments privately amongst your friends, it's another making those comments publicly where thousan…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 02:58 AM
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So remind me again why we aren't more supportive of, and involved with MRAs here?
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 10:40 PM
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Yes, well put. They're two steps ahead of us; we're playing from behind. Imagine a whole generation of boys who grow up to be bigger white knight manginas than the worst today, sensitized to every obnoxious SJW ideal (e.g. that viewing or admiring the female form is 'wrong', that there's a 'rape culture', etc.), and ready to do their bidding and dismantle the Bill of Rights to institute 'femfascism'. I think it's more important than ever to create so-called "sexist" media for boys, to defend the…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 05:52 PM
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I think they want to control the content of comics and video games because it's about brainwashing the next generation of men, not because they want some sort of representational fairness or inclusivity. Same reason fascist governments control the media in their countries.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 08:42 PM
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How old are you? I'm going to guess that you are very young, e.g. teenager or early 20s, as if you're not trolling, that's the only thing that might explain your naivety. You obviously don't have kids. If you had, you'd be aware that one of the things girls love to do after leaving school, is travel in Europe, and I'm sure my daughters will want to do this. This isn't just abstract strangers - it's literally the daughters of men right here on TRP. Not to mention mothers, sisters etc. (no women i…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 03:23 PM
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Hm, I think you're just trolling ... nobody can be this stupid. There's something very wrong if you actually want women to get raped ... not even I'm that bitter.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 02:40 PM
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Yeah, "unrealistic" ... if you're feral and lack any self-control.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 07:32 PM
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These women are all someone's daughter (or sister/mother etc.), and it could easily be one of yours or mine - e.g. if my daughter is on holiday someday, say, in Cologne over a New Years eve, innocently travelling, it's OK if she's raped? Are you seriously unable to connect the dots?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 05:02 PM
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I think that's partly because 90% of today's "Christians" ignore what the Bible says about relationships and marriage, and instead have blindly followed feminist ideas, and call their ideas "Christian" even when they are contrary to the Bible. Most of today's "Christians" would be shocked if they fully realized what the Bible actually says about what a Godly marriage should look like (it's actually a lot closer to TRP than to secular feminist views). Dalrock has some great discussions on this su…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 03:46 PM
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not because strong independent wife, but because universal education dropped wages so far that your wife MUST work This. It now basically takes the income of two, to obtain a comparable quality of life that in my parents generation required only the income of the man.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 02:26 PM
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Today's feminism has morphed into nothing less than fascism. 'Femfascism'.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 02:23 PM
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the good old days of when men would bow down on one knee to profess their love The flip side of chivalry is that in the days when men used to open doors for women, women would also generally treat men with more respect, and e.g. consider it sweet to be 'wooed' in the above-mentioned manner by a 'potential suitor' (and in those days divorce was almost unheard of) ... nowadays if a man got down on one knee for a woman, he'd probably get nothing less than caustic insults of being a 'creep' or somet…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 02:16 PM
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So again then, you'd literally be ok with it if they raped your own daughter or mother? Really? How far gone are you? If I caught someone trying to rape my daughter I'd kill them. What kind of man would say 'hey, it's ok'? If rapists entered your home you'd let them have their way with your girlfriend? Really? Being protective of your women (yes, "your" women) doesn't make you "cuckservative", and it's not at all contrary to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 11:31 PM
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So you'd be ok with your sister, mother, daughter being raped? If anything screams 'mangina' it's being passive about your community's women being raped, and saying 'stop whining' when someone complains about it.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 08:49 PM
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That's not strictly true; overall evolutionary fitness is a function of a trade-off between genetic diversity and so-called 'fitness'. There is no such thing as a single "best" gene, because the measurement of "best" is always relative to a selection pressure. (E.g. cheetahs are the fastest mammal, but they have very low genetic diversity, so the day a disease comes along that they aren't genetically immune to, they could all be wiped out.) As a simple example, if one man has a gene that allows …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 11:59 PM
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Perhaps you're thinking of "Rule Zero" in the TRP sidebar, where it states: "TRP's mission is to increase men's sexual power and options, and improve their lives. This is the mission. Support the mission. Or go somewhere else." To me that does sound like it contradicts the claim that TRP is 'not about anything', but perhaps I'm missing some broader point or just nitpicking over irrelevant minutiae.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 11:37 PM
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If laws (or societal values) don't protect 'low value' males they won't protect any males.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 11:21 PM
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Honestly, I think not much would change. There'd be a few more relationships between e.g. 20- or 30-something men and teenagers, and people would realize the world doesn't end, that those relationships are mostly just normal shitty relationships like everyone else's shitty relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 11:10 PM
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Feminists are on the verge of advocating effectively Muslim dress codes and social norms. We need to fight this shit, because it's going to keep getting worse if we don't.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 11:06 PM
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I dunno, I have met women before who were physically very attractive but had such repulsive personalities that it literally turned me off to the point where my dick would crawl up and hide inside my body, so I don't find this contradictory. Surely having game doesn't mean you shouldn't have some standards.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 10:47 PM
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she is a nurse and makes good money, so she doesn't need me financially Women always make just enough to get by .. once it gets as far as marriage and talking about kids, there's a good chance she'll 'decide she wants to stop working to focus on the kids'. Well, if he wants to be beta bux, he can repeat my mistakes of the past. There's nothing wrong with a woman not working if she's truly got 'old-fashioned values' and intends to focus on family and husband ... but women like that don't seem to …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 10:39 PM
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These guys do it for social and emotional benefit - to look good and feel good in the moment As a guy, I find it hard to believe that there isn't still some sex-related aspect, because (unless they're unattractive) when I used to do women favours, part of me was always hoping for some nookie. Claiming otherwise seems like hamstering, or white-knight pandering to the feminist narrative that men 'shouldn't expect anything in return'.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 10:36 PM
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" If only my pride/morals allowed for that" And of course it's women who created this idea it's 'wrong' to pay an escort for sex. Because they hate the competition.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 10:32 PM
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This 'keeping her name' business is also really a bit of toxic feminist ideology, and if she's been poisoned with this one bit of feminist ideology, you can be sure (even if she claims not to be a feminist) that she's also been poisoned with hundreds of other bits and pieces of toxic feminist ideology that are going to probably ruin your life and drive you to eventual suicide if you marry. If you want to be happy, stay far away from feminists, and anyone who has been contaminated by feminists.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 10:19 PM
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More proof feminism = fascism
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 10:00 PM
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the feminists have already won I hate defeatist talk. IMO defeatism is a 'beta' habit. This 'war' is by no means over, on the contrary, it's just getting started.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 12:25 AM
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There's a huge, qualitative difference between 'having options', and actively engaging in actual lying and cheating and covering up. Or are you claiming basically all women cheat anyway? Maybe, I don't know, the stats I've seen suggest about 50% of women cheat in the West, but it's obviously difficult to come by accurate information on that.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 04:30 PM
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Lol .. I constantly do this as 'inner monologue' but never verbalize it, going to make a note to try this.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 03:57 PM
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I think many women also don't understand the value of money since many have never had to genuinely earn it. Women make most household purchasing decisions, which is partly why the media is so feminist-biased - they constantly pander to their primary advertising demographic.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 03:41 PM
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Long story short, she was behaving 'increasingly suspiciously', e.g. she'd often go 'visit her sister' or do other things and increasingly she wouldn't invite me. And there were other suspicious signs, e.g. one day she was supposedly with her sister, I couldn't get hold of her, tried to call her sister and couldn't get hold of her either - then very late at night she got back to me and told me 'sorry both their cellphone batteries died' - uh really? Alarm bells were going off in my head like cra…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 01:33 PM
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I'm not sure :/ ... I know I'll be angry. My current thinking would be to try get her (possibly through the courts if need be) to make the biological father support them. (This would likely be a legally expensive mess.) My older one I'm very bonded to so I may still want to raise and support her. The younger one is just a baby, IF it's not mine, harsh as it sounds, I don't actually want it. This may sound 'silly' but I only ever wanted 'my own' kids - I've never had any desire to raise someone e…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 01:11 PM
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I see eddiae deleted his comment, so now the context is lost as to what I replied to. He commented to me, amongst other things, "Fuck you and your morals", and attempted to claim it's good for the children because they'll be 'healthy' and 'have a good immune system' (!), and also some nonsense that the engineer will always love his wife and be happy anyway or some-such silliness.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:09 AM
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Yeah, this is sad as hell. I mean, when I was young and naive I spent 'months' in a friendzone before I wised up to the whole 'scheme' ... and I thought that was long. We should have this stuff taught in schools, so that men collectively stop enabling this shit. And decriminalize prostitution so the desperate guys have an outlet instead of pathetically orbiting.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 11:08 PM
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The downside is that a woman who'll easily cheat into a relationship with you will also easily cheat into another relationship as soon as someone else comes along who she perceives as 'better'.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 11:04 PM
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(assuming no kids are involved yet) Two girls :( I will be doing paternity tests on them soon. Thank you for your comments, it's appreciated, this is a difficult time. I can honestly say I wish it on no man to have to look at his own baby and not be sure if it's his.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 10:49 PM
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Impregnating a woman also gets you permanently involved in that woman's life - so it's also fucking dumb. What do you think that woman will be thinking when she lets him impregnate her? She's thinking "Ooh, ooh, now I can get my 'true love' involved in my life, as we'll have a child together, and he will want to be involved in raising the child and come to love me, or I can strongarm him into being involved!" We evolved in a world without things like paternity tests. So now you need to evolve to…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 09:35 PM
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Uhm, wake up, this is the real world. Yes, it makes you a disgusting sub-human speck, I can see your hamster spinning from here trying to rationalize this kind of immoral behavior. Fuck your complete lack of morals - not having morals isn't a good thing, and you should be ashamed. The kid won't be 'healthy' you dolt, because he'll grow up in a severely broken and dysfunctional home with parents who are acrimoniously at odds with one another, and multiple studies have shown repeatedly that kids i…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 09:30 PM
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Don't be too sure that this husband will always take her back. I just kicked my wife out for cheating. She had everything, a picture-perfect life - I'm attractive, and wealthy enough that she didn't have to work a day in her life again. Now she has nothing, zero savings, and is already poring over job ads and sending her resume out. She had everything and threw it all away. For what? Because some loser player gave her gina tingles and like a 12-year old she couldn't control herself or understand…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 09:18 PM
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this is the perfect occasion for you to have children with her raised by an engineer cuck Bad idea, considering he's bound to figure this out eventually. And beta or not, engineers are NOT stupid or naive. He'll get a paternity test, find out the kids aren't his, and everyone's lives will be ruined. I can tell you this also because I'm living this ... just kicked my wife out for cheating, and soon I'll be doing paternity tests on our kids. Anyone who would deliberately impregnate a woman in a si…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 09:00 PM
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I can understand why you feel that way now, wrong as it is. What she did is a form of bullying; in fact, a form of abuse called 'abuse by proxy' (this is where the abuser lacks the physical power to use force against their victim, so they call some authority and then get the authority to attack their victim, in this case, you). What right-minded people need to be doing is calling this behavior out for what it is and standing up against women who do this - they should be shamed all the way out of…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 03:22 PM
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No, the actual problem is that you fail to address anyone's actual points. 'Intimidation' .. 'sensitive' .. all of that is just misdirection, sleight of hand, to AVOID rationally rebutting any points that anyone makes. And it's really obvious, sorry, as I said before, manipulation ploys like calling my comments a 'massive tell' (as if you've 'exposed' me or some-such BS) aren't going to work here. Address the points. (I can spot logical fallacies a mile away and I'm immune to them.) Use reason.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 09:17 PM
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Thank you for that. Agree with these comments. On a rational level, I realize that resentfulness toward women in general is wrong and only going to harm me, but at the same time, I can't just turn off some of the current anger - it's going to take some time. And right now I don't yet know if my 2nd child is even my own, and it's disturbing but when I look at my baby I can't stop wondering in my head 'who does she look like' ... that's the type of shit I'm dealing with right now. It is going to b…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 09:14 PM
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?? Seems like you don't know what 'Pandora's box' is? It's an idiom deriving from a story in Greek mythology which describes situations where, in brief, the consequences of some actions (e.g. say a secret that is made publicly known) cannot be 'undone'. To attempt to do so (e.g. to attempt to convince everyone again that TBP is really the truth) is said to be 'attempting to close Pandora's box'.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 09:05 PM
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'Intimidation' - huh? Sounds to me like you're annoyed someone let TRP out of Pandora's box, and now you're trying to close Pandora's box again.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 08:59 PM
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No shit I have 'pain and anguish', justifiably so, as I recently discovered my wife's been cheating on me, my marriage just ended, and now I hardly see my own kids - it's not a secret, it's all in my recent comments - you bet I'm angry. But that has NOTHING to do with the point I made, in fact you failed to address my point completely and just made a weak attempt to change the subject in order to distract from my point. I.e. all you've done is commit the logical fallacy of attempting to 'poison …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 08:40 PM
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Why fuck up some poor girls perception of men just because he wants a quick shag on the long DL whilst she wants more If that's what she wants she's free to go after men who are interested in something more. Oh wait, she's friendzoned them? Women make their OWN choices, and she's not off the hook here if she keeps going back to this guy and it's not what she wants ... he's made it clear there's no LTR here. Just because women keep making choices that contradict what they claim to want, men aren'…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 07:40 PM
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Why? Doesn't this just send the message they can believe whatever bullshit they want? I suppose it depends on context, e.g. are we talking about, say, a conversation with a group of friends over (for example) whether women 'deserve 50% of everything' in a divorce ... or are we talking about, say, an argument with one's spouse over something like, she's subtly bitching you 'didn't brush your daughter's hair right' or some-such BS? If a woman starts mouthing off with opinions like 'women deserve 5…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 08:39 PM
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Another example of the trend toward states forcing men to be cucks at gunpoint - and a rather blatant one at that. This kind of thing is going to keep getting worse, much worse, until men start organizing and pushing back and saying, enough is enough, roll back femfascism. Unfortunately, people who think we can ultimately separate our sex lives from politics are mistaken. The state is like the farmer and we're the livestock.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 04:26 PM
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We get "old-fashioned" comments all the time Of course when I use the term 'old-fashioned', I mean it in the most positive way possible! So yes, ignore the fools who use it in the negative way most people mean it. You have nailed it precisely - (Western) women today act is if values themselves are 'out of fashion'. Worse, the next generation won't have had grandma around to remind them that our culture ever had values. The next generation will have had these feral hypergamous feminism-ruined wom…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:38 PM
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Some people don't want to be helped. I used to try 'lecture' people on using a more science-grounded approach to health, always just trying to be helpful, but got a lot of flak e.g. from tards who mindlessly regurgitate memes like 'low-carb is a fad! it's dangerous' ... now I mostly just do my own thing and 'let Darwin sort em out'. (These are also the types of people who tell me I'm 'lucky' that I'm 'blessed' with the right 'genes' to 'just stay in shape without effort' ... uh, yeah, ok.) The e…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 03:58 PM
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Also, she comes from a little village in Mexico (.. the kind place where everyone knows each other, where women milk cows and make cheese, so women can't afford to be sluts Somehow I just knew already while reading your above comments that it must be a foreign (non-US or non-"Western") girl with more traditional values. Yes, women used to be taught principles like this as a value system, and in some areas still are. And in my experience foreign women from places that haven't yet been destroyed b…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 03:45 PM
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simple.. just pick up their phone. do they lose their fucking mind? Just from seeing you pick it up. RED FLAG ^ This, this, this and this. I used to think my wife was a 'sweet girl'. But when her behavior became increasingly suspicious, one night while she slept I opened her browser, her Facebook was logged in, and found messages from in the past where she's arranging to hook up with some loser player dude (after telling me she's 'visiting her sister', or while I was out of town) .. they're talk…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 03:36 PM
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I'm a noob here too so don't read this as 'red pill advice' but just another 'reforming beta's' thoughts (I think I've been on a similar road to you in some ways). Sorry if it comes across harsh. Your 'new girl' is slutting around, and you seem fine with that? I don't understand. I mean it's maybe ok if you're not emotionally invested but it's clear you are. She's not LTR (long term relationship) material by a long shot. Sounds like you're putting all your emotional eggs in two flaky baskets. An…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 02:51 PM
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Lol - I have at least a few of those where I looked back and kicked myself afterwards. Back in college, one girl who was pursuing me even started kissing me one day, and I stupidly did nothing because I was confused because 'she had a boyfriend' ... I am a dumbass. My very blue pill brain who thought women were noble creatures didn't understand what was going on ('why would she cheat on her boyfriend?' confused) Ironically though, I think this dumbassery has helped me score by dumb luck too, as …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 10:14 PM
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Really? I thought one of the common complaints around here is that women have become too promiscuous? These two aren't inherently at odds with one another if most of the fucking around that women do is mostly with a relatively small percentage of men who have game. And this is probably to some extent true. It's just not an absolute rule. And there is always something one can do to improve one's own chances.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 10:09 PM
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Hm, it might make one less desperate. But OTOH it could also become a bad habit that you fall back on in laziness.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 10:05 PM
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a Red Pill awareness is not just vital to a man’s personal development with women, but how it can help in various other aspects of his life I only joined TRP about a week ago; I listened to this podcast last night, and started thinking about this, then today found two areas in my 'general' life where I found less 'beta' and more 'red-pill' thinking helpful: 1: Managerial: A female employee had a job she was supposed to do today, but she just dropped me without even letting me know what's going o…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 09:38 PM
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We still have time to colonize other star systems. And within a century years we'll probably be able to cure aging, so some of us on the forum might still be around for 1000 years or more, living with the consequences of the unfolding 'fempocalypse'. So if I can do some small bit to slow it down, I will. Regardless of the fate of our sun and earth, and regardless of whether the universe ends in heat death, I still want my life to have purpose and meaning and pleasure (both 'hedonistic' pleasure,…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 08:30 PM
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Cultural Marxism won the last round, but the battle isn't over, the fight continues.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 08:20 PM
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It will keep getting worse until men start saying, stop, enough is enough.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 07:36 PM
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This culture of single women + pets is part of the whole feminist deterioration of society - Western women treat their dogs better than they treat their boyfriends (and then they wonder why they 'can't find good men'). Pets are absurd if you really think about it. They are ultimately mostly just substitutes either for human companionship, or babies. But we're human, and what we really want is human companionship. "Do not accept substitutes" is how I think of it. We simultaneously have an epidemi…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 05:50 PM
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People write her paragraph on paragraph and she writes back one line without even a fucking question mark Hm, yes, it suggests that she doesn't really listen but already has an answer to everything without even considering it, and I'm guessing that is probably how most conversations with her in real life go. Which probably also contributes to men losing interest in her.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 02:55 AM
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Heh. I came across a blog article yesterday by a then 28yr old (ex-?)carousel-rider who claimed to be 'looking for her prince charming' to settle down with, ok, but she insisted she was very picky and had a very long list of requirements that simply HAD to be met - and that her requirements were becoming stricter all the time, the older she got. The article was written about 5 years ago and she's still single ... so I have a crystal ball that tells me her future doesn't look too promising. I've …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 01:24 AM
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Hm, what I do know is that defeatism is always a losing strategy. It's time to stop accepting defeat, and start pushing back. If not, well, believe it or not there are movements afoot to make the laws WORSE - e.g. feminists are pushing to ban paternity testing, and some jurisdictions already have. It will just keep getting worse, and worse, and worse, until men start growing a set and stop simply accepting it. There are millions of screwed-over men out there, and they do care. How do you think p…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 01:00 AM
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Having kids out of a sense of 'duty' is a bad idea, because if you have kids without having really, REALLY wanted kids, you're going to end up resenting them because they take over your life. You have to really want kids in order to have kids. That's the only valid reason to have kids. That said, I agree with all else, we must NOT let single moms take over society, and even if you end up divorcing, do all in your power to raise those kids with discipline (especially daughters) - if MOM raises th…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:04 PM
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Yup, this is already happening. Single-motherhood has increased (and is even treated as heroic by the feminist propagandists, even though studies show it's harmful to kids, i.e. those kids are less successful, more likely to commit crime, more likely to experience mental health issues). Productive males (including single ones) are meanwhile milked (taxed) and forced to pay various forms of welfare for her kids, even if she had them by slutting herself to some alpha. The state is thus basically a…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 01:52 PM
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Note 'women don't like younger men' is of course just a generalization, not an absolute 100% rule (maybe more like, 90% of cases) ... so I guess if there's a chance in a particular situation, may be worth a try to go for it. But one will probably have a better 'success rate' if one goes for women closer to one's age or younger. Do you 'look younger' than the average man you that is your age? I know I have a 'young look', I look anything from 5 to 15 years younger than I am. So the girls hardly n…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 01:39 PM
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One of feminism's goals is to destroy marriages, destroy the family unit, and undermine love itself - alienating people from one another, creating a lonelier society where people are more vulnerable to self-destruction. Of course, it's not an overt goal, but an indirect implicit goal, and once you understand this, almost everything promoted by feminists that seems bizarre and nonsensical, suddenly make sense (e.g. they literally advocate things like, 'never do anything to please a man' - how muc…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 11:06 PM
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Yup, almost nobody 'marries a bad wife' - most women are very good at presenting a fake front (some even believe their own BS), and it can take years for a person's true colors to become evidence. Generally men who are getting married are, at that moment, experiencing a good quality relationship. Also, it is the trying times that reveal a person's character, not the good time. There's an old joke that goes something like, a young couple are excited as they're about to get married. The man is tel…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 11:00 PM
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She may even be capable of enough mental gymnastics to convince herself that she just rejected a guy Hm, in all honesty, I think some men do this too.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 09:39 PM
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Marrying her was a mistake She wasn't behaving like any of this at all when I married her - was I supposed to have a crystal ball? Things were great when we got married. You are partially right in that I did let her treat me poorly for too long - and that stems from self-worth issues - and that is something I must deal with. But that's just one part of a much more complex situation than you seem capable of comprehending - you really are honestly a clueless and arrogant child, you think you know …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 08:10 AM
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Whoa, Your wife did this shit? Yup, it's a long story. (And it wasn't even with someone decent, it was with the most pathetic loser in our social circle, an unemployed alcoholic who can't hold down a job, leeches off his wife, and is a pervert who is banned from seeing his own kids - but hey, he's 'fun to be around'. WTF is wrong with women? And the whole time she pretended she didn't even like this guy.) That's not even half the story either, see my comment history from past couple of days if y…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 07:55 AM
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It could be a troll, but I've met many real women over the years who really do genuinely behave and talk exactly like that. And many talk nearly word for word the same as this, including statements like 'It's not my fault I keep getting manipulated' - I've heard that one before too. So it could be a troll, but I'm inclined to say it's probably real.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 07:37 AM
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I don't know, I think it's really these women who deserve to have their lives ruined for behaving that way; men should be campaigning for legal reform (e.g. reverting the discriminatory alimony laws and so on to their pre-feminist state). And 'divorce rape' behavior should carry negative consequences - social (e.g. society should be shaming these women) and legal.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 07:32 AM
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That was my first thought too .. probably part of a 50% settlement or something. If so, she may be looking for men with money ... that's the other thing about 18yo's, they generally have few financial assets.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 02:22 AM
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If I was 18 again, I'd probably focus on dating women around the same age e.g. 17 or 18, and just trying to have fun and enjoy myself, most relationships from that age mostly don't last anyway. There is no love like young love ... and there will be girls who want sex too. 'Gather rosebuds' as they say.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 02:18 AM
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25 and divorced already is a bit of a red flag in itself. I can practically guarantee she didn't pay for that BMW, unless she was doing hooking or something.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 02:00 AM
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Women don't like younger men ... when I was 18 few women looked at me, I thought I was ugly. Around my mid-20s I started getting a lot more attention, getting told a lot by women that I was good-looking, it took me a long time to believe it. But you need to work on it.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 01:59 AM
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One of the characteristics of a cult is to alienate people from their traditional support base ... once they're isolated they are more vulnerable to indoctrination into the cult. E.g. constantly saying crap like 'boys are dogs and rapists bla bla, but we're here to offer emotional support', then they get told all this emotionally supporting crap by the cult, e.g. 'body acceptance', mutual bitching, girl power, whatever. It becomes self-fulfilling - the more they isolate themselves from men, the …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 01:35 AM
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Lol @ her questions in the thread ... "I don't reject a lot of guys on appearance unless they're really ugly or creepy looking. I still need at least some standards though." ... "How is being pickier the solution?" ... can a real person be this dense? If I didn't come across women behaving just like this all the time I'd probably think this is fake ... however, it's most likely real. I hope she doesn't end up breeding.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 01:13 AM
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@"Almost every guy I meet seems to be a shallow selfish asshole ... what is wrong with most men that causes them to act so horrible all the time?" Wonder how many perfectly decent men she rejected or friend-zoned or ignored along the way while clamoring to suck the dicks of the multiple guys who keep her at arm's length for hook-ups ... wait, that's rhetorical. @"who only has eyes for younger women" Urgh. Translation, 'a few years ago men were into me because I was young, now I sense I'm quickly…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 01:07 AM
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Even the biggest toughest looking alpha male can be a little bitch when alone at home with his broad Yeah. I read some tabloidish article recently in which the ex-girlfriend of some big, tough, famous sports star - the type you assume is 'alpha' - was 'coming clean' that she had treated him really badly, that he used to be depressed and cry at night and that she'd be mean and just do nothing. I guess she felt guilty, she was taking responsibility and saying how it was wrong of her (amazing, a wo…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 12:51 AM
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Yes, to women it really is the case that if things aren't completely one-sided in favor of them, it means they are the victims in the situation who "have to be the strong ones" - lol! Really shows you the mentality. Though I guess I'm sounding a little bitter. There are some good underlying points to be learned from it, as in the 'Lesson Learned' above, in spite of the absurdities. I'm guilty of being 'afraid to approach' many times.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 12:41 AM
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Speaking of bossiness. I recently split up with my wife and I brought a girl home the other day, first attempt at bringing a girl home since we split (I'm kiinda new here) ... she'd told me I was sexy, bla bla, we were ready to get it on. Then suddenly she went crazy bossing me around, damn non-stop until we parted, you wouldn't believe ... I barely knew what hit me (it started with her demanding I use my tongue on her, and my answer was 'no that's not safe', then it morphed into the most crazy …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 12:24 AM
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I honestly have no idea, but it sounds to me like you're one small step from being friendzoned permanently. Actually, no, it sounds like you're already there, and she's making you her bitch. (If she genuinely has a good, giving heart and reciprocates in kind, well, she might be offended if you won't do those things, but I'm talking out my ass.) I agree with @max_peenor's comments.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 12:13 AM
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@"a little chubby" I suggest to read up on low carb, you'll be in better control of that.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 12:02 AM
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Oh, mainstream feminists are still very much pushing this idea 'with a straight face'.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 12:00 AM
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Young, impressionable, vulnerable teen gets flown out to California for a free trip and promises of a "modelling" job. I think you're mostly on the money, except for the above, as it seems she was doing porn webcams well before the GDP video (see the comment by @Samantha_Cruz elsewhere in this topic) ... so I think she knew full well what she was getting into. Looking at the video I think the sex might have been slightly rougher and the guy slightly bigger than she was expecting, but overall she…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 11:33 PM
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This woman is saying that she is incompetent and easily led Difficult to be sure I think she's just dishonest, and knows exactly what's what. (I just watched the video in question too.)
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 11:24 PM
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I think if you find someone who is really 'marriage material' in college (the 'wife zone' on the hot crazy matrix), then go for it. That's rare, maybe less than 1% of women. I knew a girl like that in college.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 11:05 PM
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So many dumb white knights who don't realize how deceptive, dishonest, and manipulative these 'sweet innocent victim' women can be ... she's obviously an opportunist.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 10:16 PM
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I think you're right on all counts there. I was determined to 'do the right thing', be a good husband, determined to work hard to raise and support my family and offer them everything.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 07:55 PM
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Damn I miss that kind of sex. Haven't had sex like that since before my first kid was born .. i need to start getting out.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 07:40 PM
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I think you're both right. Back before I was married, I had the chance of fucking a married woman ... she worked for me, and she (in hindsight now I understand, I didn't fully believe it then) clearly seemed to be in a sort of 'four-year itch' phase, bored of her beta hard-working providing husband and being trapped at home raising a child and looking for some excitement ... I never closed the deal because I felt 'ethically' like screwing another man's wife would be wrong, just couldn't bring my…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 07:25 PM
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A bit more info: Firstly a correction to the above, physical abuse didn't go on 'for years', but only one year - last year, while she was pregnant. There may have been pregnancy hormones at play, and she had developed a thyroid issue that had 'increased aggression' as a symptom. So part of me wanted to see if it would end after the pregnancy, and also she started taking medication for the thyroid issue. The relationship wasn't always bad - when I met her she seemed sweet and loving, and the sex …
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 05:30 PM
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You're absolutely right I should have kicked her out sooner. BUT, in my situation, I could only actually know this now in hindsight ... these types of situations become a lot more complex when you are married and have kids together. I wasn't trapped 'by a woman' - but by the SITUATION. It's a long story, I'm not even sure I could make you understand, there are so many different facets to such a decision, I think you really need to have been in such a situation to really understand it. If you've …
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 04:57 PM
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Man, the comments there are equally grim, half the women seem like they got wet just reading her story.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 05:55 AM
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Feral. No self-awareness, no insight into her own thought processes, just endless post hoc rationalizations. "Attachment issues" - lol! The next step is predictable, she'll 'turn over a new leaf', maybe even swear off sex for a few months, then 'settle with' a beta, she'll then let him pay for everything while she's never 'in the mood' for sex, then she'll cheat on him, then screw him over in a divorce, garnish his wages, then raise their kids largely as a single mom, and with no male discipline…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 03:31 AM
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Definitely leave. I would at least crap her out too, tell her simply and clearly that what she is doing is wrong, firstly because I think bad behavior shouldn't have no repercussions (that's why women behave like this - people don't say anything and let them get away with it because hey, they're cute) and secondly just for yourself to help get it off your chest. Of course, don't be violent or aggressive - just firm. But then after that, don't call again, don't hang around, just move on. She soun…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 02:08 AM
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who can make a choice each and every second, that is: to be cheerful or grumpy. Given the fact that we have a choice to either be happy or unhappy, wouldn't we naturally choose happiness You're assuming two things. First, you're using logic; most women don't. Second, your reasoning, though sound, presupposes a level of self-awareness that many women either don't have or don't bother to exercise. My ex would never make such an analysis, nor (for the most part) did she even have enough insight int…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 01:52 AM
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but as long as they don't think they have to, they just decide not to Yup. My wife and I had a great relationship with passionate sex, then one day soon before our first was born she made an ominous-sounding "joke" that there 'won't be much sex once the baby comes'. I wasn't amused, and though she insisted it was a joke, it soon became my nightmare and reality for the last several years. She seemed to almost genuinely expect that I was supposed to be this 'nice guy' who should just accept a marr…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 01:44 AM
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even if it was to keep a girl you should have nexted Life isn't always that simple; in my case I stuck around for too long trying to 'make it work' because I had two kids with her. Divorce is expensive and painful .. I did the math and literally couldn't afford to divorce in the beginning.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 01:33 AM
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I get what you're saying, but I strongly disagree with this. My wife was abusive to me for years, and one of the reasons I put up with it so long is I had this silly belief that somehow it was my fault, my failing, because I had read comments like yours and believed them, that somehow I needed to do better, that I was failing to 'lead' correctly, that every time she did something wrong, it was somehow my failing as a man. Wrong! All this only made me feel worse - more trapped, more depressed, mo…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 01:23 AM
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That happened with me too, sex was awesome in the beginning. But the whole thing ended in me becoming just another AF/BB statistic with me on the losing end.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 01:03 AM
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If she bangs you that easily, she probably won't have any compunction about banging a Chad a couple years later during an inevitable lull. Hey, this happened to me. So yeah, that's a good point and a real risk.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 12:58 AM
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Apart from gun control being unethical, more importantly, that would be like treating the symptoms of a problem rather than the problem itself. Even if you had a 'stop all mass shootings' magic wand, that still would only treat the symptoms, and the ugly rotten painful problem would still be there (e.g. lonely hurt 'outcasts' living in a cruel society where many maltreat them and reject them, instead of a kinder more inclusive society where people see the structural alienating loneliness in subu…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 12:47 AM
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Hi Sorry only checking reddit now - thanks for this, I agree with all you write, and that may be (partly or maybe even fully?) a causative explanation (though I don't think our knowledge of neurobiology is advanced enough to be sure). Most doctors prescribe antidepressants indeed as, in a sense, a way to cover up underlying problems. I have been off and on AD's for years. Last year I started trying a different approach (after reading a book called Get What You Want), and that is to seriously lis…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 06:16 PM
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Sorry if this is a noob question or something but what's kino?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 04:05 PM
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There is actually solid scientific evidence demonstrating that many of these drugs do increase the propensity to commit violence: http://healthland.time.com/2011/01/07/top-ten-legal-drugs-linked-to-violence/ http://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0015337 (this is based on actual FDA data) Obviously it doesn't mean 'everyone who takes these drugs is going to commit violence' - obviously many people take these drugs without becoming violent* - but what it does mean that i…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 03:19 PM
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