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Dated the braggy rich guy in my pick me days. Turns out that Mercedes was bought by mummy and daddy 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:37 PM
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Can confirm bumble is trash and is specifically targeted at lazy guys and at women to feel EmPoWeReD by asking a guy out. Last NVM I dated was through this app (pre FDS) and I basically planned every date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:54 AM
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These men 100% know they’re low value. My last serious relationship was with a guy like this. (Think sTaR WaRs nerd/I’m into kink). He would constantly mention he regretted not being a guy who could “sow his seed” aka some typically hot fboy who might get girls. And would constantly slut shame me for having sexual partners prior to him. You have hit the nail on the head with this one. Stay woke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:27 AM
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Bitch pigeon 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:24 PM
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Same can be said if they can only schedule you in for a very small window on the weekend .. My nex would be busy almost every Saturday night but miraculously Sunday morning breakfast was the only available time. Safe to say it ended pretty fast from there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:27 AM
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What is it with NVM getting worked up about directions? My ex would literally get angry that my maps would notify you twice when a road was coming up 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:23 AM
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Ugh this is everything. I hate that libfems have even coined anything that isn’t kink “vanilla”. Has taken a while to get out of the mindset, but I’ll never be ashamed of safe and VaNiLla ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:24 PM
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I see scrotes writing this kind of stuff to their friends all the time 🤦🏼‍♀️ it’s time we reclaimed it back!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:22 AM
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HAHA dead @ don’t kink shame me 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:31 AM
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Yep, I got a direct message from some scrote saying “did you get dumped because you’re fat” after my last FDS comment. Didn’t even entertain, just blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:37 PM
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Oathhh 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:49 PM
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Doesn’t get better, I would get out of there ASAP. He values $ over his relationship. Had the same conversation with my LV ex when we lived together .. we were looking to buy but he didn’t want to put me on the title. However wanted 50/50 mortgage repayments. Nahhhhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:16 AM
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Ironic most LVM men I’ve dated had the smallest packages 🤣 God sure does work in mysterious ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:02 AM
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Of course this article was written by a male. Nothing more disappointing than a small dick, sorry not sorry. Last LVM I dated couldn’t even make up for his with personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:12 AM
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The tarot cards 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:02 AM
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Ahhh you raised a good point. Mine was a covert narc (based on intimacy with drawls, gaslighting etc) I wonder if narcissism fits into this description too or fuels them to develop those traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:58 PM
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This is so relatable. First and last time I ever met my abusive ex’s mother. She was so overbearing towards him i started to feel ill. Think lots of “my son ..this” “son can you? 🤢 The biggest red flag of all? He was never allowed to sleep over anyone’s house or go on holiday. That is how controlling she was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:51 PM
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I see a lot of 24 hrs and 48 hr averages, no judgement on what everyone is comfortable with - however - given how much everyone is connected to their phone these days. If I don’t get a reply at least after dinner time or next morning, ima respect the dead and move on 🤞🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:54 PM
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I used to unrealistically think this way lol, and I’m glad to say I’ve come a long way since. Have the mindset of wanting to impress myself above all else, and honestly lifting up other women that put in effort to look/dress nice when I’m out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:50 PM
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Agree. I’ve also found in the past that men of higher value would rather call me then waste time texts back and forth as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:16 AM
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Mine said his last relationship ended because he was “always doing chores for her dad when he came to pickher up on a date”/ their breakup was humiliating for her “friends at a uni ball told her he was breaking up with her in front of everyone” .. my relationship ended with him because he was a covert narc in the end, playing hot and cold constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:01 PM
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Thank god I took off the rose coloured glasses with my “KiNk FrIeNdLy Ex”. This picture is spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:55 PM
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Also, from experience the “shy guy” is a disguise for “covert narc”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:15 AM
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I feel you sis. I begged, cried, and did a lot of wifey shit for boys who did not deserve a second of my early 20s. I’m in my late 20s now, and it’s only just hit me now how much shit I’ve put up with and the persistence to focus on myself has been liberating. Don’t be too hard on yourself, you ended up where you were supposed to be all along 💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:02 PM
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The same men that call themselves feminists or pride themselves on consent are the same ones that are “kInK fRiEnDlY” or narcs IMO. They know their gig is up, so they use other methods such as a kink to get away with their abuse thinking people won’t bat an eye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:57 PM
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Yep agree with this. My fight or flight instincts were on high radar from date 2 and I ignored it thinking they were butterflies. Never again. Trust your gut always!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:53 PM
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What did I just read 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:02 PM
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👏🏼 love this. The ones that truly care will always go above and beyond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:30 AM
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I’ve put myself out there career wise more so in the last month and landed a new dream job. Have also noticed that Im also more honest, in a polite way ie. similar to your jeans story if something doesn’t sit right with me I share my concern. My tolerance for LVM of any kind is also extremely low since the fEminISt fog has lifted - I’m quick to tell friends to reconsider LVM in their life and share articles/stories from our subs in the hopes of improving their lives too 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:11 PM
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I’ve culled all my apps. Every man I’ve met on there had always turned out to be abusive or waste my time. Better focusing your energy elsewhere !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:20 AM
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Yep! Always have given the nIcE or ShY guy a chance and they have always turned out to be the most abusive men (I should say boys) I’ve dated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:27 PM
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I remember specifically the first night my ex was over. We had my bedroom door closed. Opened it when he had to go home, and my cat did a cute belly roll in front of his feet (asking for rubs basically) and he STEPPED over him and completely ignored him. That made my heart sink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:04 PM
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Feeling a bit down the last couple of days, bad nightmares about my last ex NVM. saw him on bumble a few weeks ago posting pictures having the time of his life and it’s just triggered me into thinking patterns of - why did he treat me this way? Basically was idolised, devalued, and discarded for “aSkInG for TOo MuCh” (to see him more than once a week). It’s just exhausting, but I feel like he will keep being a narc and getting away with it which infuriates me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:36 AM
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Oh it absolutely helps with the healing process ... it’s more so about eventually letting go over that anger to move on and focus on being your queen- self 💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:47 AM
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🙌🏻 yasss girl! Well done. It will only get better from here for you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:40 AM
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“AlL gUyS Do iT” was my ex LVM favourite response to this 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:32 AM
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Thank you for giving me the final sign I needed to delete all my OLD apps. I was put through a toxic “relationship” just over a month ago from someone I met online and it’s just not worth it. Exactly what others have said ... these LVM tend to be on all platforms & if they were so high value they would have met someone through friends and family by now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:53 AM
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**ex LVM I should clarify
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:26 AM
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I am so triggered seeing this lmao. My ex’s Instagram looked like this .. but he was claiming “AlL gUyS Do It” ... run!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 10:22 PM
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Ironic as well that the guys with the smaller penises tend to have the biggest egos. Last LVM I tried to sleep with had a disappointing package .. and if that isn’t karma I don’t know what is ☕️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:49 AM
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Yep 🙌🏻 I must have communicated until I was blue in the face about his lack of effort (should have just blocked but was in a toxic cycle) .. and he had the nerve to say on our last day you didn’t CoMmUnIcATe clearly what you needed 🤥 men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:28 AM
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Wish I read this 2 months ago. Was stuck in a “texting relationship” 🤢for nearly 5 months. 2 of those was unbearable breadcrumbing. Gave him the satisfaction of being hYsTeRiCaL and “going into crises mode” by sending paragraphs and calling. Wish I just blocked that mf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 01:38 AM
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Where do I start? - I planned all the dates and initiated contact until I was exhausted - withheld sex/didn’t want sex during the honeymoon period because he “couldn’t get it up” / high as a kite on anxiety tablets - introduced me to his friends and family but didn’t want to label the relationship - had more female friends than anyone I’ve ever met in my life but couldn’t prioritise a date for his gf 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 05:44 AM
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Or any male Lannister from GOT ... also this post 👌🏻👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:05 AM
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I was told gay by so many friends. We tried to have sex once, and he couldn’t keep it up. Blamed it on medication, but seeing the posts on here I’m thinking porn addiction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:35 AM
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Oh 100% I brought it up and his response was “AlL GuYs Do It” - no fam, no one I’ve dated before has ever done it to me 🙅🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:33 AM
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I was crushed now I feel relief, thanks sis!! It’s my time now!! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:38 PM
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This guy had a therapist but yeah I get exactly what you mean! Funny thing is I was the one trying the moves on him 😂 but he would always say no? Which I always found super weird. Could be LVM way of making me self conscious?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:37 PM
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Agreed, if I mentioned I should then keep my options open he was not impressed go figure. And this guy was actually nothing amazing on paper tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:36 AM
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Yep agreed. Bit me in the ass a week ago. Wanted to end it for ages and was stuck in a toxic cycle. He had no issues ending it himself. We have to look out for ourselves!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:59 AM
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