Back around October-January I was dealing with a horrible situationship and falling out of friendships. I knew something was wrong but I wasn’t sure what.

Then I found FDS. It was like something clicked instantly. All the gut feelings I couldn’t explain, suddenly had meanings and explanations. I remember reading the handbook in like a night or two. I started seeing things differently and seeing that Hey, I was wayyy too lenient with people who knew they were doing wrong.

Because of this sub, I started setting strict boundaries. I cut out the majority of my friends when I realized they were draining me. I cut out any guy in my life who was a lingering issue waiting to happen. FDS really opened up my eyes, it was like such a revelation.

Now, I haven’t talked to a man in over a month (which is rare for me and my codependency) and I don’t plan nor have interest to for a long time because I’m focusing on me. I’m pursuing my interests, my hobbies, my career. I’ve started going back to therapy, started meditation again and doing a ton of self reflection. I’ve been so much happier than I’ve been in ages.

Thanks to FDS, I see the world in a way I haven’t before. Songs, movies, etc are all different. It’s not just romantic relationships either but things such as friendships, how people talk to me, etc.

I’m so happy I found y’all and I’m ready to keep leveling up. All of you are such queens and I’m ready to continue my journey with y’all 💕