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catch_me_a_dream/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:26 PM
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I read first 6 and thats it. No time to waste on this kind of bs. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:53 PM
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They are using you to chat when on toilet or bored in bed, just stop responding, you are not an app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:41 PM
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I disagree with you because I see it this way: you are not in same legue as those women nor you are looking for same partner as them. So, if a guy you went out with sleeps behind your back with some girl who put it out after first date, it is okay since both of them are NOT similar to you. I would better have a lot of trashy men showing me who they are, than to have a lot of them wanting to commit because society makes them and they are not really like this. In this modern way, you know who he i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:34 PM
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I agree with everything, and I realized not everything is black and white with friends (female friends but to me its friends since most male "friends" only want to fuck you lets be honest), that advice to cOmuNicate that often goes to relashionship advice is actually okay in female friendships if they are not too problematic like they didnt stab you in the back you just don't get along in some aspects , at least you can say you were direct and not passive agressive if you chose to go no contact …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:20 PM
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Well, all pick mes are pathetic when it comes to men, they are like their idols. Its sad. She is not a close friend or a friend you meet with your bf. Today she is "lets have a drink every 1.5-2 month" acquaintance. I am not a jealous person, and he is not a HVM so if she literally started dating him I would be happy for her (but also wtf) but cut contact 100% since that shows me that she values me 0%. I am not stupid and yes I know she is currently type of "friend" that tries to steal your boyf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:59 PM
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Yes it's like I got rid of him but she kept talking about him like he was the best thing ever. I guess thats why being pick me is so bad, they are like little soldiers for men, instead of being sisters to us women. She is not a good friend, but got better a little bit after I had fight (polite) with her, her mother is abusive and she is an only child, she still lives with her, so Im low contact with her, for example 1.5 month hang out, to give her a chance, if she tries this type of bs again I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:49 AM
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I HATE that. I was seeing some guy, only 2 dates, he was cheap, not honest, very much into himself, and my pick me friend knew him from instagram, he was tall and blond and she asked me about him for 1 YEAR even though I deleted him, and during that same year I moved in accidently in the same building HER ex was/is living, I never went to his place with her so I didnt know his street, they were in REALSHIONSHIP for 7-8 months and I only told her I saw him first time I saw him, even though I saw …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:37 AM
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Because trash people get away with it... Until they don't, and than they will MAYBE change 20% in 10-15 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:22 AM
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I saw some quote that went like "when you finally start to put bondaries you will feel like an evil person, its a sign that you are standing up for your self, so keep feeling evil"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:18 AM
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Read your paragraph again, about what kind of person he REALLY is and I hope it helps you with moving on. He sounds gross, do you want your kid growing up with someone so cold towards people? You deserve love, not some dude showing you his ex gf messages, wtf? Good men dont do that. If you want you can write all bad things about him on paper and reread it when you miss him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:17 AM
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-Being 100% independent -Not feeling obligated to text/say where Im going or what I did with my day -Being very calm and rational, not risking dating manipulative liar who disrupts my peace -Being able to flirt sometimes without feeling guilty -Feeling like I can change my life in months - move for example
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:55 PM
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😂😂😂 lol he was lying himself about you and your looks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:04 PM
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Soooo why was he dating YOU if you were not his type? Don't listen to him... 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:37 AM
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Its like after years of being gaslit about my life and dating experiences even from my own gender you find out you are not crazy or imagining things. 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:14 PM
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Well that is emotional affair :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:22 PM
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This is too much for me, can you in future put NSFW and trigger warning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:33 PM
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Similar story from literally yesterday, I have been selling/buying things online on only women site for about 10 years. Everything great, about 60-70 deals, only one time I didnt get thing I paid for and account got blocked after I reported it. Sooo, I had few mobile related things, posted on all gender site, some man sent me inbox which was literally 20 messages, (EVERYTHING was already in description, from price, to price if you buy more, to shipping included but you need to pay more for premi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:18 PM
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Wow I love you confidence. (And thoughts you kept in your head)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:28 AM
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I just want to point out that most affairs are NOT with young 20 year olds. It is mostly with similar age married woman (or max 5 years younger), who also dump their husband if their cheating partner dumps wife. I feel like there is irrational fear of "20 year olds" like we are some mythical creatures. 98% girls my age including me would not be with older man, not for sex and not for relashionship. Mostly goldiggers and escorts want those guys. On one hand there are so many posts here that "youn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:17 AM
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👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I started working summer after finishing high school and before starting college in autumn. I have been working for 7 years (with few month breaks when I lived at home since I studied) and this made it possible to start to live on my own, quit while living on my own without having job lined up because of covid but having saved for rent, bills, food, having better standard than my peers even while living at home, traveling at least once a year. I'm not rich, but I have financial independen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:58 PM
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This is great, started "saving" during texting on important things during last two partners and had them show me they were insecure/not unterested. When you save it it makes texting less fun and you see does he wants to see YOU or he wants to see you because you usually pump your texts and do create movie like magic with emotional work you do via text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:36 AM
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I always refused to take birth control, and also almost always refused to have sex without condom (I agreed only with one boyfriend for few times, but on my own inciative, since I was horny and didnt think straight because of amazing sexual chemistry to be honest, sorry for that), and I realized it makes me less desirable partner to average man (before finding fds) now called LVM. All woman 20-35 years old who I know that are in long term relashionships dont use condoms and either drink BC or us…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:24 AM
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I agree with this, I eat almost no milk products for years since im lactose intolerant, but I do eat parmezan and whipped cream since I really like milk and those two dont have much lactose. So, few years back I tried keto, and stick with it for maybe 1,5 year, trying to eat more milk and fat, greek yoghurt, nuts, peanut butter... And now after that experiance I would not recomend that types of diet with low carb, since it is actually reduction diet and is invented for autoimune disorders or can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:18 AM
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They always need to make everything about themselves. Even RAPE. I just can't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:19 PM
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Proud of you for quitting! "I also have a bachelor's in psychology, graduated with honors. I am a military veteran" You speak 2 languages, have a degree with honors AND are a military veteran. I know that it is pandemic and you probably have family where you live right now, but you can work EVERYWHERE with that impressive resume. USA, South America, Spain, Portugal, etc... If you are open to moving you should start searching for jobs out of your town and maybe even country. Don't waste your life…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:49 PM
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I think it should be: Nicki Minaj: pregnant with convicted rapist Beyonce: 3 kids, twins conceived after her husband cheated on her... I think there is nothing wrong with being pregnant, even solo if you can afford it. Shout out to Rihanna: came from nowhere, private, moved on from abuser, smart, investor, dated a billionare and still stayed true to herself. 👌🏼👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:38 PM
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One thing that I didn't see: I think of all bad sex I had or on men that I didnt have that great chemistry with. I have specific type, tried other looks but they werent that hot to me, so when I miss something I think about bad sex, not amazing one. Like on annoying man that I was not that much into who wanted to cuddle. Not on one where I would want to cuddle and sleep next ti whole night. Hope it helps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:51 PM
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Next time dont replay or if you do replay without "😂" if you want to take my advice. Why? Because I realized I often put emoji when nervous and mostly one of "😂😅😆" so THEY feel better. "?" Is enough or if you are really nervous/too polite than just 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 12:22 AM
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Emotionally mature men do not even have 2 women in the same time to pick from so they do not need to chose. Dont forget that. ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 10:29 PM
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I agree with everything, I just want to ask where did she say she and baby almost died? I read that AITA as well but did not come across comment where it was said they almost died, but that is not relevant to subject, even if it was easiest birth on planet he still needed to be there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:54 PM
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