cathatesrudy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Help Needed with Addressing His Health	ADVICE	cathatesrudy	/r/RedPillWives	10/04/22 08:15 PM
4	Looking for advice on managing taking offense.	ADVICE	cathatesrudy	/r/RedPillWives	10/07/23 02:08 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Q4women would you date a trans guy? No and probably not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 05:45 PM
2	What's the difference between the red pill and misogyny? Wait. Are you unaware that there is a women’s version of red pill?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/26 05:34 PM
0	If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it? I said can, there’s obviously more to it, but the poster I had replied to did specify “good” man and I’d say inherently a good man wouldn’t cheat even on a repellant cunt, he’d more likely just withdraw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 03:38 PM
-2	If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it? Yep, this one. And “wife goggles” absolutely can be a thing if you make an effort to not be a repellant cunt 🤷‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 03:10 PM
4	Sought after men's behaviour is making it hard for normal women to get an LTR Men have never cared if a woman is in an advanced professional program. The things men seek are usually directly opposite to the personality traits exhibited by career driven women. We (as women) have decided we want to be equal to men, and you do you, but biologically we aren’t intended to be equal to men in the ways you are striving to be, we are built to be complimentary. Men don’t give a shit if you are on their level, THEY are on that level why would they need you to be also? They want some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 01:55 PM
2	Women: Do you agree with the concept of the "Chad-widow" ? He’s definitely more her esthetic than any of the other men have been. He’s rugged and handsome and reasonably tall. He has made good financial choices, and he’s also adventurous - hunts and mountain climbs and owns a small ocean fishing boat which he also dives shipwrecks from. I think biggest of all - he’s never been married, never wanted to, never wanted kids, just a wild and free kinda guy so obviously that’s super attractive cuz everyone wants to be the one that’s worth settling down for… 🙄…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 11:43 PM
3	Women: Do you agree with the concept of the "Chad-widow" ? So I don’t necessarily think this phenomenon is universal, but I do believe it exists mostly because my mom was Alpha Widowed before my dad and she’s been chasing that man ever since. For what it matters I’m turning 42 in a few days, my mom is 74. She met her Chad when she was in her early 20s. I’ve known the man my whole life, I knew his dad before he died. My dad let them still be friends, so he used to come around still when I was real little. Then my parents divorced, ultimately because my d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 06:58 PM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? It strikes me as a casual observer, who happens to be a low body count woman, that the outrage is because women recognize the male desire for a low N count woman as a judgment call on them and their choices if they have a higher N count. Women know they’re acting like men, and that men “get a pass” for acting that way, so they think that makes it ok for them to act that way too because feminism rawr or whatever, but then get upset when they’re judged for that choice. It’s a reasonable reaction, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 05:03 PM
6	Book recs for new RPW Surrendered Wife and Empowered Wife are both great places to start. Laura Doyle also does a nice podcast that is also called The Empowered Wife Podcast. For Women Only was a nice quick overview of how men see/need things differently than we do (For Men Only is the companion to explain women to men) Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus is a more comparative look at the same stuff as For Women Only (it shares things from and for both halves, instead of breaking it into two separate texts) And I…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/07/25 12:58 PM
14	I judge my friends that are in relationship with uneducated and unemployed men. Am I wrong for this? I mean, you do you, but technically my husband is uneducated (dropped out after 1 poorly performed year of college and no trade school) but he’s a six figure earner with a proper title at an international company… so uneducated doesn’t mean there’s no potential for success there. Sometimes a supportive woman who inspires her man to achieve is just as important as an education would have been. You’d be better off helping your friends learn to inspire their men than worrying about the men themselv…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/01/25 04:01 PM
–	All long-term relationships require the man to do whatever the woman wants Been with my husband for 22 years, married for 16, and while I did my damndest to call shots for a long time, our lives got immeasurably better when I woke up and realized I was far better suited to letting him lead (and that most women would be 🫣) From an evolutionary perspective women are the gentler sex and meant to be protected because we are the keepers of the species’ survival, while men are the protectors and leaders, we’re meant to work together. Modern society has shifted into women wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 01:16 PM
3	Why are you a red piller ? Since you didn’t get a ton of responses from this side figured I’d throw my $.02 in even if it’s been a day since you asked… The women I grew up observing were all very modern, “pants wearing” women who wanted to be equal to or more in charge of everything in their relationships. And all of them were MISERABLE. They were naggers, cajolers, and monkey branchers. And they were all constantly stressed. Their men were constantly harried and cowed and frequently acted out in retaliation. Most of thes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 12:41 AM
8	How can I look more “conservative”? I want to wish you luck on your journey, because I myself am too far gone to come back without laser treatments that I don’t intend to get. Luckily I’ve been married for years and he’s less upset by my former bad choices than I am. I feel like a cuttlefish though, people get real chatty when they think you agree with them, then I get to say some (to them) off the wall things about how my relationship is or about society and surprise the heck outta them while looking like (at best) a kooky but de…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/11/24 12:41 PM
1	What with the trend of women claiming their partner doesn’t notice other women? #observation Oh for sure, and they are commendable, the western world as it is is working so hard against men who just want to do the right thing	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/24 12:58 PM
6	What with the trend of women claiming their partner doesn’t notice other women? #observation Personally it sounds like copium to me, I’m not aware of the trend, but women in competition with other women seem to need to tell people that they’ve got things better than others do, how valid it is could be debated for days I’m sure, but given how visual men are it sounds deluded. The flirting part? Maybe. Plenty of single men are oblivious to it too and it can somewhat be assumed to be because of the way feminist society/me too has trained them to ignore advances lest they get accused of som…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/24 09:31 AM
3	Wondering about how I was raised The first one I read was Surrendered Wife also by Laura Doyle and I think it’s still the one I’d pick if I had to only pick one. Fascinating Womanhood (the updated version is the one available as an audiobook, the original is still lovely but outdated) is also worth the time if you’d like to hear from a different voice. For Women Only I think is probably not worth it as an audiobook as it is a pretty short one (I also felt more need to take notes in the margins of that one!) My mom was TOO empow…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/09/24 11:34 AM
5	Wondering about how I was raised I think John Gray is probably the big one that inspired Laura Doyle, most people know him for Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus though he’s done plenty of others. Not by John Gray but I also enjoyed the books For Women Only and What Your Husband Isn’t Telling You. They’re all sort of similar in how they approach the differences between the genders within a relationship, I find it helpful to read lots of different takes on the same theme to help reinforce it all. As for your mom situation, …	/r/RedPillWomen	05/09/24 02:12 AM
3	CMV: Airlines allowing women to avoid sitting next to males is a step in the right direction There are exceptions to every rule, but men are genuinely pulling back from the serious dating market as a result of the kinds of assumptions that make someone think being allowed to avoid sitting next to a man on a plane sight unseen is a good idea. It isn’t ALL about bad behavior, sometimes it’s about “why bother?” Like if you go into every wildcard situation in your life trying to avoid all unknown men because there’s a statistically insignificant chance they could be a predator, so your back…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 02:16 PM
3	CMV: Airlines allowing women to avoid sitting next to males is a step in the right direction I didn’t say it was justified, but yes that’s how human nature works, even good people can be pushed to behave badly when they’re constantly met with suspicion and ridicule. If you’re biased against a stranger they have no incentive to prove you wrong, people will generally live up to your expectations of them (either for real or only in your own perception) if you only see the worst in every man, you’ll only see the worst in men. Within a relationship, if you treat a man as capable he’ll strive…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 01:15 PM
10	CMV: Airlines allowing women to avoid sitting next to males is a step in the right direction It is wild to me how many western women cry about how hard it is to find a good man while simultaneously assuming all men are predators until proven innocent. Used to be that people met friends and partners through random chance encounters like both sharing the discomfort of a long plane ride, or accidentally grabbing the same tomato at the store. But if every strange man’s intentions are assumed to be malevolent, it’s no wonder finding a good man organically has become so difficult for so many …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 11:52 AM
3	What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill? Red pill women’s spaces are definitely not the same as men’s and that’s the way I lean. Recognizing the value of my man’s leadership, embracing my femininity, being respectful and more modest in my day to day life. I see and understand where RP men are coming from and why (both from an on paper perspective but also from watching examples all around me of the women they’re warning against) and strive to be a better complement to what my husband brings to the table because we are a unit. Blue pill…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 12:38 AM
2	What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill? There was no giving in, it was something I found by and by on my own from realizing I was walking a similar path to my mother and didn’t want to drive such a good man away. I spent a lot of my early life depressed and anxious as a result of a somewhat shitty upbringing and bad early experiences and similar to a lot of modern young women part of running from those things and my past involved suppressing my femininity and trying to always be strong. Adopting an RP woman’s outlook has done more in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 08:48 PM
9	What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill? Honestly my life has gotten so much more peaceful with my husband since red pill, I grew up with a blue pill father who is comfortably hen pecked by his third wife and a screeching harpy mother who can’t keep a husband for more than 8-10 years but keeps trying anyway and it’s increasingly obvious to me that neither will ever be truly content with their love lives, and it makes me incredibly sad. I am surrounded by essentially blue-pilled friends as well and same thing, they’re almost constantly …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 03:33 PM
4	Discussion - dead vs active bedroom - what really is the norm Your comments are always so well put together and thought provoking, thank you so much for being here and contributing like you do	/r/RedPillWomen	05/05/24 02:27 PM
1	Disappointed in misleading articles about childless women recently, does anybody why these are being pumped out recently? Incidentally 26 is the age I had my own first kid after years of swearing I was gonna get a hysterectomy and keep my uterus in a jar to show anyone who had the audacity to ask about when I planned to have kids… I always knew I wanted to settle down and be in a committed marriage though. As an elder millennial I’m seeing a ton of peers do the mad scramble to find partners and settle down post wall because they spent too long ignoring their clocks ticking til their clocks were screaming and are no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/24 10:16 AM
0	Disappointed in misleading articles about childless women recently, does anybody why these are being pumped out recently? But will they still be different in 10 years? Doubtful. From the outside looking in a lot of the “single and loving it” gen Zers looks like a cope to me, like social media demands an image so they’re playing to the image they think is expected of them - carefree and happy with their freedom. But social media is incredibly performative and not really representative of how people actually feel or what they really want deep down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/24 02:22 AM
3	What would porn made for the female gaze look like? As a generalization women just aren’t built this way, like, the gaze thing is a specifically male trait and while some women enjoy porn it’s not quite the same for us. Honestly high tension rom coms with explicit finales would be my best guess Something where there’s heavy investment in “will they/wont they?” with like one really spicy but intimate sex scene at the end as the reward for having spent the lead up rooting for them to get together. Basically romance novel in video form, which would …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 03:39 PM
8	“You don’t need his permission” - Company named Make a Mom advertises on Twitter product that allows women to impregnate themselves with a man’s sperm without his consent or knowledge Iirc spermicide tends to react with the ph of the vagina (or just being generally drying) causing micro tears in the flesh allowing for additional potential bodily fluid exchange, not sure what effect it would have on a penis necessarily but introduction of blood or plasma to the mix from the micro tearing could certainly cause her to pass infection more readily (full disclosure: this information was definitely shared with me in a more woman focused way - with the emphasis being that the micro t…	/r/MensRights	12/12/23 02:39 AM
3	Best way to act when husband is on a boys trip I set myself up to have the easiest possible time without him. Paper plates, easy pre planned meals that everyone likes enough to eat twice (less time spent cooking!), knock out any big chores asap so I’m more free to be flexible later on if something comes up, and then I just kinda roll with the attitude that things don’t have to be perfect to be functional. Usually I set aside a chunk of time for close to when he’s coming home to tidy up anything I’ve let go while he’s been gone so he’s not co…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/11/23 03:16 AM
7	Your favourite book! I’ve genuinely enjoyed all the normal fare recommended by this sub that I’ve found so far. Laura Doyle, and For Women Only were helpful, as was What Your Husband Isn’t Telling You, I also found The Flipside of Feminism by random chance at a used book store and enjoyed that too. Also, though not directly related I found The Hunter-Gatherer’s Guide to the 21st Century to be an engaging read. I don’t really read any fiction that I’d consider uplifting or directly correlated to the concepts of this …	/r/RedPillWomen	23/10/23 02:10 PM
3	How do we radicalize American men against infant circumcision? Not into nagging, no. But I am into advocating for the protection of children, and gentle education. And I’m not mad, not anymore, just really really sad that so many men were violated as babies, all to the detriment of their sexual function, some irreparably so. I’m sorry that it makes you angry that a stranger would care about your loss. You aren’t less of a man, and your parents did what they thought was right, but when you know better you do better 🤷‍♀️	/r/MensRights	19/10/23 02:59 PM
12	How do we radicalize American men against infant circumcision? Fellow woman intactivist - honestly I feel where you’re coming from, but from my time shouting down the internet over the topic it honestly always seemed to me like the biggest way for women to help this cause is with converting other women. With a few notable exceptions, in most places they require the mothers approval to perform the procedure, it can’t be done without unanimous consent of both parents. So getting future moms to stop agreeing to allow it to happen is the easiest way for us as w…	/r/MensRights	19/10/23 02:10 AM
7	According to a trans man, to be a man is incredibly hard despite all the "cliche privileges" like...walking alone at night without pepper spray. This is exactly the breakdown of how my thoughts went as I read it too, like, it’s all womanly whining about why men aren’t women. This person is trying to “reclaim” masculinity by… denying it. Which ultimately does a disservice to men AND women.	/r/MensRights	07/08/23 08:13 PM
3	Looking for advice on managing taking offense. I had forgotten about how to use OUCH thank you!	/r/RedPillWives	10/07/23 07:58 PM
2	Looking for advice on managing taking offense. Honestly writing it out last night was incredibly helpful. I came here initially seeking advice on how to ask him to be more careful what things he brings up, but after writing it all up and thinking about the forum I was bringing it to (by choice because this is the place I know I’ll get the advice I actually need) I ended up erasing and re writing the entire post when I realized the issue was with my response and that I needed to get help with that first and foremost.	/r/RedPillWives	10/07/23 06:38 PM
1	Looking for advice on managing taking offense. It isn’t that I have a hobby it is that some of my hobbies are “pointless” and don’t “enrich” our lives aside from just being fun to me. He has LOTS of hobbies but they are generally all mentally or physically stimulating. I am definitely more in the camp of non stimulating hobbies and it’s ok that we are in different camps, and he’s got every right to want to try to understand WHY I derive benefit from something that is ostensibly non enriching, and to check in to make sure it is not going to b…	/r/RedPillWives	10/07/23 06:34 PM
2	Looking for advice on managing taking offense. I really appreciate this take because video games are another thing that he can get on about occasionally (because similarly I enjoy them and he does not) I struggle with the idea of letting him dictate my free time since his free time is often spent doing things that I don’t enjoy so to me, it’s ok to keep those things separate. But at the same time I want to respect his judgement if something is bothering him and could have potential to become an actual problem. Again often I can look back and…	/r/RedPillWives	10/07/23 06:28 PM
1	Looking for advice on managing taking offense. I have always felt as though tone was a factor, the problem is he just has a big voice. Growing up a big voice was a mad voice, and I still struggle with not immediately getting my back up when the subject is anything less than positive because it’s so so easy to hear his big voice and go into fight or flight instantly. I have been trying so hard to not read into “tone” because 9 times out of 10 there is no tone, it’s all the same and I’m attributing a tone to the fact that he is just a loud spe…	/r/RedPillWives	10/07/23 06:24 PM
1	Looking for advice on managing taking offense. I don’t think so as it is not something I do often, and the discussion last night actually centered around our kids also enjoying it in their free time. Some of the other things he has brought up in the past could be, and I admit many of my hobbies are not a “constructive” use of my time, though I’ve gotten far away from letting them interfere with getting the things I need to do done. I am often left feeling as though the only acceptable hobbies would be a parallel to his own despite his hobbie…	/r/RedPillWives	10/07/23 03:23 PM
1	Looking for advice on managing taking offense. I think this is exactly the kind of reminder I’m in need of. I know that what you are saying works in theory, I’m just struggling with how to actually do it, likely because of a lot of formative conditioning to the contrary. It’s like I can see where I want to be and how I want to behave but when the opportunity arises it all goes out the window.	/r/RedPillWives	10/07/23 10:20 AM
3	Good male psychology books I like this one as a quick refresher if I ever need reminders!	/r/RedPillWomen	09/05/23 09:04 PM
11	looking to date again; how to express my no sex (ever) boundary to prospective dates before meeting? You might want to go spend some time on r/deadbedrooms and focus on reading what the HL partners are saying over there. Most sexless marriages got that way over time, they didn’t start that way, and many if not most are not “just as fulfilling” for both partners, but often the HL partner suffers through it because they are entangled already and don’t want to break the commitment. Realistically if they had known from the outset that the marriage would be sexless they would never have entered into…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/23 10:32 PM
13	Are boys discriminated against in schools? This was my first thought on the subject as well. The school structure itself just doesn’t fit how boys naturally behave and the proliferation of drugging to “cure” them of being what they are is pretty egregious	/r/MensRights	09/02/23 12:00 PM
1	Your definition of conventional feminine interests I did this toooo! They were always way too small for the squirrels I intended them for though 😂	/r/RedPillWomen	04/12/22 12:28 PM
8	Should I just keep faking it? Hello fellow RPW creative person, I’m so relieved to know I’m not the only one that has this struggle. I wish I had more advice to offer, it can definitely feel isolating, but I’ve found that most people don’t really ask about my private life or political views and I can still essentially be myself I just don’t get to develop deeper relationships with the people I interact with in the art world which ends up being fine because I still have lots of deeper relationships with people outside the art…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/22 11:40 PM
15	Stay at home moms - what do you do during the day? This is the absolute dream congrats	/r/RedPillWomen	20/11/22 12:00 PM
9	To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense? Watching the failed relationships of all the adults in my life as I was growing up and settling into my own life. I always knew I wanted to do things differently, take their failings and figure out what went wrong so I could do the opposite. I floundered for a while, didn’t really see to the bottom of that murky ass water, but we got by. I didn’t have any concept of red pill for a long time, but re examining the people I still think of as “the adults in my life” (my parents, his parents) through…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 11:49 AM
1	Unpopular opinion: Obesity is not the insane problem that it is made out be here and the average person is not obese Hi. 201.8 lbs this morning and medically I’m morbidly obese because I have hypertension. At a glance you’d call me overweight and move on, but words have meanings and I won’t fall into the “just obese” category until around 176 according to my medical care providers. The problem here is that obesity looks different on different people and we’ve gotten so used to what it looks like that we no longer recognize it for what it is. Even to me I don’t LOOK obese let alone morbidly so, despite the fact…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 10:19 PM
3	Is this a sign that men aren’t attracted to me? There’s no one alive who couldn’t stand to do something to increase their attractiveness (be it keeping active, eating better, dressing better, and so forth), however as plenty of others have indicated, your general appearance is not the core problem here. The core problem is that you are asking for advice in a red pill women sub without the self awareness to recognize that the two of you are just wasting each other’s time. Stop fishing for compliments and start working on valuing yourself enoug…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/04/22 04:03 PM
1	Help Needed with Addressing His Health I have no interest in asking him to take on more of the domestic activities, he is out of the house 50-60 hours of the week as the breadwinner and I am already working to take over as many of the jobs at home that are in within my ability to handle so that he is freed up to do more things around the house that I can’t do. I do see where you are coming from but it runs counter to what my jobs at home should be versus what his jobs should be. The only reason he still cooks two dinners is because b…	/r/RedPillWives	15/04/22 11:28 PM
1	Help Needed with Addressing His Health He did call someone about a sleep study, back before our first child was born so at least 12 years ago, and then when told that he had to sleep overnight at the place decided it wouldn’t be worth it because he wouldn’t be able to sleep. I heard that there may be an at home way of testing, but the snoring being apnea is a major concern for me. My cousin died in his sleep from untreated apnea and weight related complications - he was much heavier than my husband but it still paints a stark picture…	/r/RedPillWives	11/04/22 01:30 PM
2	Help Needed with Addressing His Health Thank you for this I often struggle to find things to listen to on my commute so I’m excited to check this out!	/r/RedPillWives	11/04/22 01:03 AM
1	Help Needed with Addressing His Health Thank you so much for your insights	/r/RedPillWives	10/04/22 10:26 PM
1	Help Needed with Addressing His Health His food choices are somewhat random, the hot dogs was just today's example. I would say it is more about convenience than anything, hot dogs are easy to make, as are cheesesteaks and cheesy eggs which are other "go-to" foods when he is cooking for himself. If it were easier I could just as easily imagine him grilling himself steak for breakfasts. I think I sort of realized that ultimately I'm going to have to let him come to it on his own after posting and just scrolling and browsing some more.…	/r/RedPillWives	10/04/22 09:50 PM
5	Why do women need a redpill group ? So I’m no authority by any means but the reason I’m here is because I see what TRP stands for and I respect it, and I’d like to support my husband in a way that doesn’t emasculate him. TRP generally recognizes feminism as a bill of goods and I agree, but there aren’t a whole lot of spaces for women to get information or advice without a feminist bent, especially if you happen to be secular, so here I am. Even for men red pill extends beyond the chase, women don’t stop being manipulative once a r…	/r/RedPillWives	24/03/22 12:59 PM
1	[Q4W] how important is it that your man is intelligent or smarter than you? Like , is it ok if he's kind of dumb if his other personality traits are good? I mean, I was 17 when I dated that guy and I was a StRoNg InDePeNdEnT wOmAn at the time. So whatever it painted me as no longer applies as the person I was then is a massively far cry from who I am now, I wouldn’t date that bitch and my husband wouldn’t either, she wouldnt be worth the hassle. People change.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 10:26 PM
2	[Q4W] how important is it that your man is intelligent or smarter than you? Like , is it ok if he's kind of dumb if his other personality traits are good? Looking back he had the attraction and arousal traits but being unable to hold a conversation meant we had no long-term staying power. I was young at the time and don’t usually retroactively examine things that way even now but yes, it was a beta thing for sure. Though this alone paints me in a shit light depending on your pill. I’m married to a man who is a mans man and a good provider who I still find attractive years later and who engages me mentally. Personally I enjoy maintaining myself and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 01:29 PM
8	[Q4W] how important is it that your man is intelligent or smarter than you? Like , is it ok if he's kind of dumb if his other personality traits are good? Personally I need someone who is intelligent enough that we can have challenging and engaging discourse for the long term. A big part of emotional connection for me is having stimulating conversation that gets me thinking, not necessarily debate though that is often related. We don’t have to see eye to eye or be on the exact same level in this department but it’s definitely important. One of the nicest, sweetest, most devoted (and incidentally most conventionally attractive) people I ever dated …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 11:56 AM
2	Weight loss I am on a weight loss journey myself and agree with the other poster who explained calorie deficit, by far that is the biggest factor. I use that in combo with keto and intermittent fasting and am having better results than anything else I’ve tried and it’s easier than I had expected it to be with a little planning. Now caloric intake is the primary factor in weight loss but it is certainly also beneficial to do some exercise if you can and working out around kids can be a hassle, recently I’ve …	/r/RedPillWives	28/05/21 03:24 AM
6	Wives, how did you meet your husband? Prob not really helpful but... High school geometry we sat near each other in class, became friends, kept missing each other’s interest for YEARS, then finally after we had both graduated hs something clicked and we’ve been together since, more than half our lives at this point.	/r/RedPillWives	21/05/21 10:13 PM
1	Career Motivatiion Differences Between Men and Women 37f married with 2 kids and my motivation to develop my career is largely based around wanting to be a partner in this whole thing. I am lucky to have fallen into a career path that is relatively flexible and high paying with a pay scale based entirely off the work I am able/willing to do. I was well established before marriage/children and able to drop comfortably to part time when the kids were young, and have recently returned to full time without missing anything in either my work or home li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/21 07:46 PM
0	Discussion: what are your Big 5 Personality Traits? Extroversion 13, Emotional Stability 43, Agreeableness 0, Conscientiousness 46, Intellect/Imagination 73 37F Red Pill, Married for 12 years together 18 No idea if it tracks or not but there it is, interesting test 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 12:50 PM
3	Feminine role models with glasses? I also don’t have any role models to offer but I am -7.5 scrip and haven’t worn contacts in YEARS because of irritation and I think at this point even if I found a contact type that didn’t annoy me I still wouldn’t go back because my glasses are my favorite accessory! A friend turned me on to online ordering and it is far less costly than buying from the optometrist so I can snag several pairs for a similar price and switch them out depending on mood or outfit and it is wonderful! I have been us…	/r/RedPillWives	22/03/21 09:30 PM