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ADVICECauliflowerElegant76/r/RedPillWomen19/05/23 11:39 AM
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ADVICECauliflowerElegant76/r/RedPillWomen23/02/23 02:20 PM
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He’s not an incel anymore, that’s why I said “had”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:47 PM
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Sorry, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:55 PM
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I mean I had an male incel friend irl and I’m def not a male incel😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:29 PM
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Current mood
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:27 PM
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Brutal 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:26 PM
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I always recommend people ask their friends to set them up with someone. Mutual friends are a good way to meet someone fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:22 PM
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Eh it’s good enough of a country to live in if you work hard. I guess I can’t complain bc I’d be living in the communist block back home and probs have an abusive alcoholic husband since the age of 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:20 PM
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Then just move to Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:10 PM
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I can maybe get behind it if one is playing Spotify in the back or something
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:37 PM
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Nope, these allegations are insane 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:49 PM
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3 screens is too many but 2 screens is just right. I always turn off one of the monitors at work bc having a third one annoys me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:01 PM
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You’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:57 PM
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Why not? He’s a smart man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:53 PM
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My bf thinks I’m goofy for being on here and discord servers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:42 PM
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I don’t think anyone in a relationship cares
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:30 AM
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Yeah ik they can but it’s just a funny post
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:03 AM
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Idk, I don’t keep up with sports anyways 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:02 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/2cwlevedw5yf1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1a8096257023360bf0d4603282b4dd653322c008 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:41 AM
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Hey Leo!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:29 AM
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Where did you think all these wrestlers are from? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:34 PM
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Maybe you should ask the women which bikini colour they would wear instead bc I was about to say I like the pink bikini
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:25 PM
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Big moobs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:08 PM
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Then I will fondle them 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:35 PM
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I can’t wait to make my man a DILF
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:19 PM
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That’s so unhygienic 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:01 PM
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Who sits on furniture (other than bed) naked??? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:42 PM
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I’d choose the working wife one bc that’s most likely gonna be my future in this economy anyways. Being a mistress is morally wrong so I wouldn’t do it but if someone wanted to pay for my life without having a relationship with me, I’d take it. Like a sugar daddy but no sugar involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:21 PM
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My man is the opposite of woke, just like me. And we don’t mind having trad gender roles in our relationship bc it just works for us. He’s masculine and I’m feminine so it balances well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:29 PM
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I actually agree. This is exactly my bf’s plan, he wants to propose about a year before whenever the wedding will be. The engagement is just gonna be a wedding planning time tbh. I don’t mind it bc it’s just another step in the relationship to me, doesn’t change anything about us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:23 PM
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Most times it’s the woman being the nagging one so I’d say my relationship is unconventional.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:21 PM
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This would be a punishment for both of us ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:59 PM
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I’m such a procrastinator that having a nagging partner actually helps me stay on top of my things. I’m good with day to day tasks but when it comes to mundane things like researching something to buy or opening a new bank account, I’ll hold off as long as I can bc I don’t wanna do it 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:18 PM
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My mom had menopause recently and all that happened to her were hot flashes and gaining weight 💀 no emotional changes but she’s always been a chill lady
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:01 PM
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Some women like myself actually prefer a virgin partner. I wanted someone on the same page as me about not having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:25 PM
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I’m only dating one man so I can’t really rate the “quality of men”. I can’t really rate myself either, but I work out, 21.5 BMI, have curves and visible muscle definition, slim waist, long legs and am fine facially.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:26 PM
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I got all of those except the rich part, idrc care about the money 💅 But could it be that these men just like fat girls? Ik some men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:09 PM
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Oh yeah I notice these couples too. Idk why some men choose to date women of such a different fitness level. If I was a man, I’d definitely expect a woman to be as fit as I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:03 PM
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The fat ones won’t look like they workout tho? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:45 PM
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That’s a dealbreaker… he already has a previous relationship if he’s married 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:25 PM
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Ok then just date women who don’t do hookups? As a woman who doesn’t wanna deal with this kind of baggage, I just chose a man who’s against that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:13 PM
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They started dating at 16 🤣 this is a teenage relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:56 PM
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I wish I could!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:45 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:10 AM
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Nope, still looking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 10:46 PM
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Grey eyes are sick. My dad has those. It’s a rare phenotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 08:31 PM
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I’d just be sweating if I wore all that 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:12 PM
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This sounds super warm for fall 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:05 PM
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Yup, I’m convinced that we were destined to meet 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:06 PM
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Long story short, we went to the same university and my bestie was in the same program as him. She told me about him in first year and I just remembered him since then but never got to meet him irl. My bestie kept saying we would be a good match but she didn’t do much to introduce us to each other bc I wasn’t sure if I wanted to date. Then years went on and we happened to be in the same discord server and he added me on instagram from there. More years went on and we were just following each oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:59 PM
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I love LOTR!!! Ik that makes me a geek but still
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 11:33 AM
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Meanwhile me if he talked to another woman before:
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:56 PM
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Better to pay the balance off as soon as you get your statement. I’ve gotten into the habit of doing that ever since I got mine like 7 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:32 AM
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True. I have a slight widow’s peak hairline with baby hairs and I get away with it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:30 AM
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Yay!!! Brown eyeshadow can really make your eyes pop
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:05 AM
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This is rare. Most ppl who were popular in hs don’t ever peak again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:27 AM
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When you see the popular people from high school on instagram but they’re fat and chopped now 👁️👄👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 11:46 PM
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<image> Real
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 10:30 PM
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Holding hands is okay but some people need more physical affection than that. Depends on the couple I guess. Ik some couples who aren’t affectionate at all, like I never see them hugging or kissing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 08:50 PM
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I honestly didn’t understand why people PDA until I got into a relationship. It’s really is hard to not be affectionate with your SO all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 08:37 PM
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Maybe they’re waking up to the harmful aluminum in antiperspirant. But there are good natural deodorants that work fine ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 08:13 PM
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This sounds like cap to me bc I feel like the body is smarter than attracting someone you would produce inbred kids with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 08:02 PM
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He doesn’t wanna see his wife’s booty in yoga pants… what a shame
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 07:58 PM
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Idk women’s bodies are a mystery to me. I used to sync up with my mom before she menopaused too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 07:37 PM
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Papaoutai music: 🕺💃🪩🥳😁🤪🤩 Papaoutai lyrics: 😔☹️😞🙁🙍‍♂️😓
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:51 PM
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My old manager used to always get us the same flavour of cake on birthdays bc we said we liked it once. We got sick of that cake after the first few birthdays 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:25 PM
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Classic office culture
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:13 PM
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Yes. We used to sync up!! It was nice that there was always someone around with pads and Advil. I miss my girls 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:58 PM
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I skip breakfast but I always eat dinner. Not sure if that makes a difference but eating 2ish meals a day has been a pretty good way to stay on my calorie deficit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:48 PM
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I gained the most weight when I was working in an office full of girls and we would always try new food together, get uber eats and share snacks 😭 that was a fun workplace environment though and I miss it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:40 PM
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Well I’m surprised a religious person would be okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:12 PM
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Hey dry!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:12 PM
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I’m not even religious but my partner and I were virgins when we got together. I don’t think having a previous partner is the end of the world, but it’d be a dealbreaker for me if they engaged in casual sex/situationships/ONS and stuff of that sort. Maybe this girl your friend is marrying never had casual stuff and he’s okay with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:05 PM
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I’ve definitely brought food/sweet treats for guys I’ve liked before. Many women show interest this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:49 PM
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So she had a bf in the past or something? I guess that’s bad if they’re religious or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:47 PM
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Being a stock investor doesn’t sound like a very slutty career to me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:32 PM
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Third
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:23 PM
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How did she make the millions of dollars? Is her profession slutty or is that just an assumption you’re making about her?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:18 PM
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This is why more and more people are staying single. It’s hard to find a normal person these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:41 PM
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Well I choose that guy over a man thot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:39 PM
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Some men don’t want hookups/casual sex though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:29 PM
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I’ve met some women like this before. It’s really a shock when you meet them irl and they look nothing like the pics 😭 it’s honestly impressive that they can manipulate their looks so much in photos
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 11:26 AM
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I look ok but I don’t think men find me approachable 🤣 might be my vibe idk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 10:57 AM
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Yes, but I doubt it’d be any different if it was public
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:41 AM
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The context for this is that my bf is a risk taker so it’s a valid fear 😭 although he’s a lot more careful now that I’m in his life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:46 AM
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I think my attachment too anxious for a partner like that. I’d be so annoyed if I texted my partner and only heard back like hours later 😭 I’d assume he died or something unless he told me earlier that he’d be busy with something. But it might work on other people who don’t have anxious attachment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:40 AM
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Nah, I don’t like sports. But I was glad they uncancelled the GO train bc of that game yesterday 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:09 AM
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Saw a lady at the gym not wash her hands after using the washroom. I hate it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:16 AM
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Unfortunately we’re not a match bc I’m a muscular gym girl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:04 PM
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Yesss on every social media except tik tok. I only accept people ik irl on IG and FB.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:42 PM
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Meanwhile my DMs when I was single:
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:27 PM
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No. Just get a bf who buys you things instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:19 PM
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Not a microwave but you plug it in and heats up the ceramic bowl. Lots of blue collar men use these in their cars apparently so it’s pretty nice on the go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:09 PM
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I’ll make up for it by walking to the parking lot for 5 mins!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:08 PM
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My work is returning us to office unfortunately so I’ll be there twice a week
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:07 PM
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I’m shy 🥺👉👈
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:00 PM
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I feel like a overconsumption victim for buying an electric lunchbox from Costco, but I’m kinda excited to try it. This means I can be extra lazy and not even leave my desk to eat my lunch at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:55 PM
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Kindness is only a weakness if u need a partner who will speak to the manager for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:45 PM
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Balance is about how your features work together. Her features are symmetrical and work together well. His on the other hand, do not. Again, makeup isn’t a factor here bc we’re looking at their facial structure and features.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:30 PM
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They do not have the same proportions. Her face is balanced, his isn’t. A bit part of attraction is facial symmetry, structure and how balanced the features are. He just doesn’t have the face to be an attractive man. That’s fine imo… many mid people do just fine in life and clearly he found a gf out of his league so it worked out for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:23 PM
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Her face is proportionate and well balanced. His face is weird and unbalanced. They are not on the same level in any world lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:16 PM
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I mean just judging off their features and bone structure… she would still mog him even with no makeup on. He’s definitely mid. I notice the men here really overrate white men. As a woman who’s dating a white man, I think I have a more objective view of the attractiveness levels of white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:09 PM
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I would think most normal families would teach their kids to be respectful to anyone, no matter if they’re your spouse or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:22 PM
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He is imo. He’s a mid white guy with a pretty girl. Should be hopefuel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:17 PM
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I have little hope for him improving. His bone structure is just not it and that determines a lot for a man. He’s not unattractive imo, he’s just very mid. The type of man that wouldn’t catch anyone’s attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:44 PM
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Getting married and starting a family with the love of my life motivates me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:41 PM
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Nah. His face is the problem, not his outfit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:39 PM
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There are definitely better looking white guys out there 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:38 PM
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Yeah but u work overtime. Teachers have summers off, hella breaks and weekends off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:29 PM
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I thought this was a normal adaptation in men to impregnate a woman tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:22 AM
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PE?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:17 AM
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<image> This should be hopefuel for some
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:59 AM
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Depends on how well kept it is. Most men with long beards don’t know how to style them so they’re fluffy and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:50 AM
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I really don’t care what they did. Having pre-marital sex was already bad enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:07 AM
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That’s a good salary…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:06 AM
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It’s like this in Canada too. It’s crazy to hear that some American teachers get like $50K. It’s such a high income profession here. Most teachers are well off and live in nice neighborhoods bc of how much they make.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:39 AM
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Love is conditional and it goes both ways so I’m fine with it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:37 AM
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I didn’t even mention micro bangs 👁️👄👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:51 PM
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Doesn’t seem like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:41 PM
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I don’t think bf would like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:23 PM
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French bangs are not micro bangs. That’s a different hairstyle
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:07 PM
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Might ditch the curtain bangs I always get and try French bangs next. I desperately need a haircut bc my hair is touching the upper part of my butt now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:40 PM
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They could end up killing me while attempting to rob me and I witness their crime. Home invaders often come with weapons and guns for that reason. I don’t have mercy for a criminal entering my house. But defending myself with a gun isn’t really reality bc I’m Canadian anyways. We have strict gun laws so the criminals with their illegal guns stay winning these battles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:26 PM
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Home invaders usually have bad intentions so I don’t think we should give them mercy. People shouldn’t be jailed for defending themselves imo. I wouldn’t say I support torturing them in other ways but something like using a legal weapon to defend yourself is reasonable in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:53 PM
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See my bf would never say this bc he says my looks are what make my personality bearable 🤣💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:31 AM
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Me at my man after I leave for the washroom when the bill comes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:18 AM
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He’s Slovak, but grew up in Canada. Still very traditional and in touch with his culture, so it’s nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:06 PM
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Doubt it. She’s just a loser who doesn’t like fun things. Many such cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:34 PM
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There’s actually a trend on tik tok right now of young American/western women fangirling over Slavic/EE men! Here’s an example. I’m a bit biased bc I’m a Slav who grew up in Canada, but I think EE men are the best!! My boyfriend is a Central European Slav and he’s much manlier compared to western men. The non-Slav men here don’t do things like open the door, pay for all dates, pull out your chair, buy you flowers and be chivalrous. The tik tok girls are catching on to these traits which are desi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:31 PM
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The man has to pay for the activity and the dinner then so it’s double the spendings for him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:19 PM
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You can dig for even more gold by expecting an activity and a dinner tho. I think she’s just boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:06 PM
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I don’t get her thinking. Why not do both??? Like what do you even do for fun if you don’t like activities?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:48 PM
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Like present time comments and history or things that happened like years ago before we were together?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:31 AM
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I’ve caught feelings for male friends before but I’m demisexual so I’ve never had immediate attraction to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:57 PM
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I don’t even remember mine bc it was so long ago and so unserious. I feel like an unc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:16 PM
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You stalk your gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:12 PM
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Every two hours is crazy 🥲 I definitely can’t keep up with that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:51 AM
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I guess the comments are right. I’ve never been that into sunscreen, but I started wearing mineral sunscreen this summer when I was spending more time in the sun. This vid makes me wanna keep wearing it 😭 I’ve had my fair share of sunburns already
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:14 AM
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You have to be broke as hell to need to go out with a guy you don’t like to get food 😭😭😭 People are weird
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:55 AM
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I can’t wait to be engaged/married, I would just show my ring right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:54 AM
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I think that’s what he means too. In one of the comments, he said he wants her to say “I’m not interested”. But either way, I think saying you have a bf is good enough of a rejection and will make the guy leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:53 AM
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Those seem pretty good too. If a guy doesn’t seem threatening, the “I’m not interested” can work. I’d just be scared of hurting his feelings and some hostility. I’m glad I don’t get approached so I don’t have to deal with this 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:52 AM
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The “I have a boyfriend” is the best way to get a guy to back off imo. Even my single friends use that bc it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:50 AM
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Super lame and sounds like torture. Even going on a first date with a guy you’re not vibing with is torturous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:49 AM
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I think most guys know you’re rejecting them when you say you have a bf. Even my single friends use that as a way to reject men. They lie about having a bf bc it’s a good way to make a guy leave once they feel intimidated by the presence of an another guy in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:48 AM
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True. I wish I could only go places with my bf tbh. Being alone in public is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:47 AM
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<image> Weird take. What does he want his girl to say then 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:15 AM
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Why would anyone be pretend to like someone and be in a relationship with them? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:05 AM
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So pretty 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:07 AM
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My bf is 6 of these, but his mom and dad look great at 60 tho so I think he’ll age fine. Also the beard thing is so true. My dad has always had a really full beard and he’s been losing hair since his 30s 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:25 PM
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I get it bc ik basic French
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:57 PM
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I guess it can be cute in high school
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:56 PM
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They do this in my home country. My mom doesn’t even have an engagement ring. But I do think having an engagement period makes sense bc you get a time to plan the wedding. It feels weird to plan the wedding before your partner asks you to marry him, even tho my partner and I do a lot of this 🤣 I’d be a lot more locked in on picking venues and stuff after engagement though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:44 PM
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LOL I’d love to see this version in a new movie
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:40 PM
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I thought that was a purity ring? Like what the Jonas brothers used to wear
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 08:59 PM
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I don’t understand the point of a promise ring. Why not just get a real engagement ring? Seems like such a waste and extra step. I guess the only scenario where I see it being ok is high schoolers dating bc they’re too young to get engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 08:54 PM
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That’s not enough people for a fun server unfortunately 😓 unless I find all the EE PPDers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:43 PM
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WHYYYYYYYY
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:05 PM
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Ah yes, the classic switch up and lack of accountability. I’ve heard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:41 PM
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Please stop with your ignorant comments
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:22 PM
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I’m surprised. That’s what people usually say when a man doesn’t wanna sleep with his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:58 PM
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I don’t think it’s a good idea to promote obesity or an unhealthy level of fat through modelling. I think VS did a good job with that bc the curvy models were a healthy level of fat and not obese. We should all strive to be our healthiest versions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:58 PM
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Probably saying he’s gay or has a corn addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:41 PM
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People do this??? 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:09 PM
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I get it, but it’s sad that men are scared to ask me a simple question just bc I’m a girl. Often times I’m closer to finishing my set than the guy they asked 🥲 I also wouldn’t assume someone is interested for asking that… it’s not a flirtatious act at all, just regular gym courtesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:59 PM
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I don’t think they’re the same women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:48 PM
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People are freaking out about the VS fashion show having curvier girls. But honestly even I don’t think they were that bad. A couple of the girls were a bit on the bigger side, with cellulite. But none of them were obese or at a very unhealthy level of fat. It’s actually refreshing to see something other than stick thin models all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:38 PM
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I usually think of someone like this. This person can still walk but her visceral fat level is unhealthy. And I think she’s at a level where she can actually exercise and turn her life around. It’s really admirable when people put an effort into getting healthier. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:22 PM
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It’s not a scam when both you and your partner are marriage minded and want a family together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:48 PM
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Republican women and men probably do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:43 PM
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Democrat women don’t wanna get married or have kids?????
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:40 PM
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I really don’t care if men talk to me at the gym. Sometimes I talk to them first to ask if they’re using a machine I need. Don’t know why men get scared of me… I don’t bite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:29 PM
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Men are like this too. If I’m using a machine at the gym and there’s a man using the other same machine, they’ll always ask the man how many sets he has left but never me, even if I’m closer to finishing my sets. I think some people just get intimidated by the opposite gender. Or maybe they don’t want someone to mistake their actions for flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:18 PM
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Just some comments earlier in the daily thread where people were downplaying SA and saying it’s not as big of a deal as women make it seem
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:11 PM
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Whoever downvoted this is a rape apologist and should be ashamed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:27 PM
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It’s gross. I can’t believe people could downplay SA like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:44 PM
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Does she include harassment in her definition? Most women have been harassed, but only some have been assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:33 PM
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Fat people in general are unattractive imo. And it’s something a person can change about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:32 PM
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I haven’t really ever been unemployed for a long amount of time so idk how it feels. But being a SAHM seems ok to me as long as I get a reasonable allowance. Idk if my bf will ever be able to afford that for me tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:49 AM
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<image> Real
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:21 AM
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His arm is gonna fall asleep in a few mins
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:16 AM
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I haven’t really met someone who dislikes travelling before. But I also grew up middle class so maybe I’m privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:30 PM
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They’re probably not very good at planning vacations. It’s a skill not everyone has.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:22 PM
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It’s a lot different here. Both engineers and teachers make around $100K so they’re in the same social class. But you need over $200K household income to buy a house in the city so people making $100K can’t marry a broke person bc they won’t be able to buy a house. It’s super rare to see a high earner with a low earner around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:40 PM
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Interesting. Maybe it’s different in the states. Around here, you really need a dual income household so most people choose to be with someone earning around the same. Teachers also make more here than they do in America so it’s quite prestigious. Like a teacher and engineer would be making a comparable salary here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:33 PM
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Seeing the world and exploring new places should be enough of a benefit. I feel like people who don’t like travelling probably just haven’t tried it. I wasn’t that into it until I had enough money to go on my first vacation at 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:17 PM
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At least we have paid maternity leave unlike America. That’s one thing Canada brings to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:12 PM
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My boyfriend is a man and he loves travelling even more than I do so idk what your point is 😭 many men travel… like it’s not a gendered activity
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:11 PM
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If you earn as much as each other, divorce isn’t really gonna be that complicated. It’s only really an issue if one partner stays home or earns significantly less than the other. But I don’t really see couples with big wage gaps around me. Most people tend to marry in their education level/social class. I feel like the idea of rich men marrying waitresses or fast food workers is really exaggerated and doesn’t happen much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:07 PM
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I mean I enjoy day to day life. But having more time to travel while I’m young would definitely be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:04 PM
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PTO is nice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:03 PM
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Yes. That’s standard around here. Once you’ve been working for a while at the same employer (like 5-10 years), it goes up to 3 weeks. I think my parents have 3-4 weeks of vacation now at their jobs and it’s quite nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:01 PM
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I’ve heard of this, I think they do it to try to repopulate some more remote areas. It might be nice to live in the middle of nowhere Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:36 PM
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I wish. That would be the ideal place to travel in too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:33 PM
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We get 2 weeks a year. But that’s not much rest for a whole year imo. You can maybe go on one overseas vacation in that time if you can afford it. It would be nice to just be able to plan multiple vacations or camp trips per year and live life to the fullest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:17 PM
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Met a really cute retired couple when we were camping. We were just there for the weekend but they were coming for a whole week. Then I told my bf that I can’t wait till we’re that age and have all this free time to travel, camp and do fun things. But I realized we’re still FORTY years away from retirement. It’s honestly sad that our best years are spent in school and then work. By the time you actually have free time, you’re already old and probably not gonna enjoy it the same way you would as …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:05 PM
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That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:59 PM
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That’s what I was thinking. They must be bots or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:35 PM
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What’s ELO?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:28 PM
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<image> Is hinge really influencers and models for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:10 PM
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Oooh okay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:48 PM
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Isn’t breach of the vows enough of a reason for divorce? I’m not religious so I’m not sure how this part of it works
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:24 PM
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Agreed. People don’t take the vows that seriously these days and it’s kinda sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:10 PM
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I don’t get this reference tac 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:59 PM
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Some men aren’t that aware. They think it’s a flex to have slept with a lot of women so they share this information with the woman they’re dating or trying to date 😭 I guess their thinking is that the woman will find them more attractive because they’re desired? But obviously it can backfire if the woman isn’t attracted to that behaviour or even if she’s okay with it, she can still be insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:55 PM
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You can tell a lot by a person’s dating history. I found that high N count men are usually open about their experiences and they’ll almost like brag about getting women. Most times you don’t even need to ask, they’ll be telling you about how they made out with 5 girls at a frat party and then took one home.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:40 PM
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28 is wild. I’ve never even found that many men attractive in my life and I’m older than her 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:37 PM
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I mean you’re already living luxuriously enough as a multimillionaire so I don’t see why you’d need a sugar daddy at that point either 😭 I thought that was mostly a thing broke pretty women did
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:33 PM
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Crazy situation. According to the comments she comes from a wealthy family too (so why does she even need to date an old rich guy?) and he’s polyamorous and she was ok with it 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:00 PM
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<image> Oh hellllll naw
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:01 PM
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What happened ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:40 PM
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Me, but I was single for many years manifesting my bf to finally make a move on me. So mentally I made a move
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:42 PM
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I mean I’ve been rejected for being tall before but it’s not a huge barrier in dating. I’ve been ok going for men over 5’10. My comment was a joke as mentioned in another comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:38 PM
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That’s impressive. It’s harder to build a butt or muscle in general as a tall person
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:30 PM
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I don’t think it gets too cold where they are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:30 PM
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Seems like an okay situation for a single person. Stability is mostly needed for people in LTRs or those who want a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:20 AM
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He’s a balding 29 year old who lives in his car and does jobs occasionally and then just chills for a few months. He doesn’t have rent to pay so he just makes enough to buy food and gas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:04 AM
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I mean short women can be masculine too 😭 you’ve never met a bulky short woman before? I feel like those are even more common bc short people are so compact and build muscle fast
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:50 AM
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My friend is doing FWB with a homeless man rn. Literally a homosexual situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:21 AM
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I’m not that tall but same. People usually overestimate my height bc I have long legs and a slim build, but I’m only 5’7.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:11 AM
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Seems about average for many parts of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:04 AM
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That’s true. It does work. I don’t think women are meant to care that much about a man’s looks tbh. Masculinity is what’s meant to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:02 AM
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Only hobosexuals are alpha apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:29 AM
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Nobody appreciates above average height women but 6+ foot tall men always get all the hype. Tall men privilege, tall women oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:25 AM
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Sounds about right. Even the more attractive ones don’t try that hard and it’s mostly just a genetics thing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:58 AM
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I mean according to the men on here, there’s a big expectation for western men to look good. It seems like Slavic beauty standards for men are kinda different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 10:39 PM
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I just don’t think Slavic men are expected to be pretty like western men are. Being pretty isn’t manly. If a man wants to wear an adidas tracksuit everyday and have a buzzcut, nobody really cares. The alcoholic part… I don’t think that’s really related to manliness. Most Slavic women ik prefer men who aren’t alcoholics, but some of the countries definitely have a problem with alcoholism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 10:11 PM
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They do!! Most expect paying for dates, gifts, flowers, opening the door, pulling the chair out and all other types of chivalry. As a Slavic girl, my bf does all that and it’s the norm in our cultures. You don’t really see Slavic men complaining about doing these things and they’re happy to spoil the woman they love. Western people see that as high standards, but it’s just an expectation for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:55 PM
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She’s only 2 years older. He just does all this stuff bc Slavic men are romantic like that 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:44 PM
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My bf does all that and he has an older sister 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:40 PM
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I don’t think AI can do my job tbh. I have a job that you really need a person to do. My old job could’ve been replaced by AI easily tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:24 PM
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That’s what happens when u bought ur house for 10 potatoes and never had to be broke
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:21 PM
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What? All I’m saying is “nice guys” are men who fake their niceness and switch up once they get rejected. I’m not sure what you’re arguing here tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:10 PM
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I look at mostly IG reels when I have downtime. Tik tok is a bit annoying to me but I’ll watch a few of those a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:51 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:28 PM
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The smaller one bc I ain’t dating Mr booble head looking ass
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:05 PM
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People who are actually nice are called nice guys, not “nice guys”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:55 PM
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People in smaller cities/towns tend to settle down faster. City people are unserious and like being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:46 PM
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Dumb professional standards. At least men are finally allowed to have beards in offices. It must’ve sucked before when all men had to shave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:44 PM
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It’s bc who else would get triggered by that definition other than someone who fits that description… 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:43 PM
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Sounds like something a “nice guy” would say
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:20 PM
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Yes, I’ve read 1984
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:02 PM
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I agree but they have that association bc of the propaganda and liberal ideas they’ve been fed. That goes for most other liberal opinions. It’s a sheep thing and western women are really prone to it for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:40 PM
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I thought so. That’s why the term has a negative connotation. “Nice guys” aren’t actually nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:33 PM
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Some western families are more individualistic so people don’t care about family members as much as people from collectivist cultures. Some people leave the nest at like 18 and then they’re on their own. As a mixed person, I see these differences in my own family too. If you’re fully western/european, I can see how you could end up feeling lonely as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:31 PM
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Weird, I didn’t think it was a attraction thing but more of a behaviour thing. Like they’re fake and show their true colours after hence “nice guy”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:25 PM
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Isn’t nice guy usually associated with a man who fakes being nice and then crashes out when he gets rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:19 PM
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Liberal women are against guns because they associate them with violence. Conservative women associate guns with protection and carry them where legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:13 PM
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It’s cute!! Heart shaped rings get hated on for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:09 PM
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Me too but it’s bc I’m Slavic. I can’t imagine the average western woman gets this much exposure to Slavic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:05 PM
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You’re beating the stereotypes at least!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:05 PM
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Men have more physical strength than women do though… I’d argue women need the guns more than men do for protection. But I’m all for men protecting themselves too. Anything for self protection is illegal here so I just share my location with bf and hope for the best. If I was American, I’d 100% carry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:00 PM
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Except there aren’t many of these men in the west so the chances of a non-Slavic girl coming across them is rare
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:50 PM
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Women with guns/weapons can walk freely at night*
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:47 PM
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They’re getting a bit better at dressing nice and styling. But plenty of them still don’t care about all that 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:41 PM
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If you compare them to western men. The average Slavic guy knows how to renovate, chop wood, make barbecue, lift heavy and be chivalrous. Soy boys aren’t as common in Slavic men bc they’d be shamed by everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:39 PM
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He doesn’t. But the point I was making is that most don’t look that vid, not that they’re feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:31 PM
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Not American, but I don’t see why Americans would do this when their wages are pretty reasonable and many parts of the country have low COL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:08 PM
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Sure, they’re masculine. But most look Iike this and not like the ones posted in the tik tok <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:03 PM
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Just avoid the countries with a war rn 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 03:12 PM
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Idk about other women but I personally don’t hate them. Maybe some western women get upset that passport bros hate on them for being masculine boss babes. I would’ve maybe been a passport sis too if I didn’t meet a good partner here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 03:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:42 PM
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Only if I’m not talking to people. I tend to smile a lot once I’m actually talking to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:06 PM
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<image> Me, except the always overdressed part bc I can dress down when I do outdoors activities
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:53 PM
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There’s a trend of western women fetishizing Slavic men on tik tok rn. And they’re only posting the good looking Slavic guys. Most of them def don’t look like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:04 PM
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Damn, she’s thicccccc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:32 PM
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If you have a private room, it’s pretty easy to have some intimate moments
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 03:25 AM
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You’d be surprised at how many people in the west don’t know how to do these things. So many people buy takeout or hire cleaners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:38 PM
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It’s not valued outside the western world bc all the women are expected to do that in other parts of the world. Then in the west, men are impressed when you can cook and clean as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 09:51 PM
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Higher pay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:07 PM
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That’s a nice, kid-friendly place to do it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:19 AM
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That’s not even long. I drove 7 hours one way last month. My longest road trip was probs 9-10 hours one way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:33 AM
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Apparently the more you spend on a wedding, the higher chance you’ll get divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:32 AM
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Bc they’re perverts 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:31 AM
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Officer, this man right here 🫵
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:31 AM
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Sounds like something a person who doesn’t travel would say
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:29 AM
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How to get unmatched in 1 second
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:54 PM
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Maybe men need to pick better women who don’t get ran through while travelling 🤷🏻‍♀️ not every woman travels to meet some dusty bums. Many women just enjoy sightseeing, visiting new places, learning about new cultures or exploring nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:53 PM
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The average woman doesn’t have this option… the men who assume that women who travel are having men fund it are weird to me. Only the IG models, OF girls or regular models have that opportunity. Red pill men are just intimidated by women who have enough money to pay for their travels so they use the “she’s a hoe who gets men to pay” as an excuse. In reality, they just don’t want a woman who’s experienced travelling bc their masculinity is too fragile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:49 PM
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Who’s offering this external help?? I’d like to sign up. I’ve been paying for my own vacations even when I go with my parents or bf 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:42 PM
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She doesn’t travel and she’s single now so nobody’s paying for anything anymore 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:40 PM
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You can do non self-funded travel??? Where do I sign up?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:23 PM
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Getting an interview is the easy part. If he gets the job, then you’re cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:13 PM
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That’s what I was thinking too. The ring she liked is an oval cut and she got round…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:55 PM
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It’s nice in the moment but the pain afterwards makes you regret your decisions 😭💀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:32 PM
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It can be a good foundation of knowledge for some professions, but most of the stuff you need to know is taught on the job anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:31 PM
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I agree. It’s sad that the beauty standards for noses are so Western European centered. The small upturned noses don’t even look good on most non Western European women imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:30 PM
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Ungrateful af. That ring is pretty imo. I feel like social media really brain rotted women into unreasonable standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:18 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:09 PM
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Basically a man that has a more softer, feminine look. Random example: <image> I honestly don’t get the appeal, but ik some women my age go crazy for guys with this look.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:59 PM
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Nope, never been on birth control!! I’ve always liked masculine men (muscular, strong, bearded, big nose). I noticed my friends who are on birth control tend to like feminine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:51 PM
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The men I’m describing don’t have masculine features. They’re literally soy boys…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:48 PM
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I guess I’m an exception to this, but I do have friends who are into soy boys/femboys/feminine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:12 PM
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Most of the other guys she talked to were pretty weird but her husband is awesome. I guess that’s how any dating app is. You have to sift through the trash to find a hidden gem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:58 PM
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First time I read this, I thought you said the women are round 😭🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:33 PM
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I have a friend who met her husband on muzz match so probably that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:02 PM
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Aw :( why not?? It sounded so fun
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:50 PM
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I wouldn’t mind the parents thing. My mom actually tried to set me up with a guy many years ago and he was ok. Kazakh guy, over 6 feet and knew how to play a traditional instrument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:45 PM
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Did you ever go to that wedding in Italy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:53 AM
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First
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:24 AM
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I mean some of the stuff she mentioned is about her growing. Like he supports her in any ventures she might wanna do or her interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:40 AM
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I’m not sure if she does anything in return for her partner to make it worth it 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:00 AM
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Which of these bare minimum standards are valid?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:59 PM
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I’ve lived in Canada since I was 7 🫢
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:22 PM
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The teens at my bf’s job call him unc and he didn’t even know what that meant so I think he deserves to be called unc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:11 PM
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Idk maybe ask the girl who made that reel 🤣 I doubt she was thinking that deep about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:09 PM
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Yesss
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:09 PM
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I swear he comments on all of them 🤣💀 I always see him there
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:53 PM
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Valid assumption considering how cats act
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:38 PM
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Those replies are wild…. She needs to check what her definition of a HVM is bc that’s certainly not a high value trait 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:36 PM
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And also doing intimate things on the first date 😬 yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:31 PM
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Her comment replies make it even worse 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:23 PM
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Pretty sure they’re both Romanian but ok…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:22 PM
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That’s horrible 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:16 PM
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Bait for who? Weird men to hate comment on? 🤣💀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:02 PM
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RPW is always such a mess. I listen and I judge these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:54 PM
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Adorable 🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:14 PM
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Yeah no… I’m the last person who will be told that men aren’t crazy because I have a mentally ill, abusive father myself. There are many men like that out there… there’s a reason why women initiate divorce first. I’m not sure where you’re meeting men who hate being in a relationship… most of the men ik irl are happy to be in one and the ones who aren’t are looking for one. Plenty of men on this sub are even looking for relationships. I do believe the actions of the men around me… and none of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:10 PM
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I already read it slow enough and you’re wrong because both men and women are annoying… it’s not a gendered issue at all. Plenty of women are with bummy men that they don’t like too. And there are men in genuinely happy relationships… the fact that you’re not around any men like this says a lot about you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:47 PM
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Awww that’s cute 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:14 PM
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Many men are annoying too and women also avoiding dating them. Finding a normal man was like finding a needle in a haystack around here. And the only reason my man is normal is bc he was raised in a traditional Slavic family that raised him right. The issue isn’t really gendered… it’s the fact that there are many crazy people out there and you have to interact with them before finding someone normal. The west, especially America, seems like it’s kinda cooked when it comes relationships. But hope…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:13 PM
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Plenty of average and below average people find love. It’s not something reserved for attractive people only. And chances are you’re underrating yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:53 PM
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Is dating in America really that horrible? Everytime I visit, it seems close enough to Canada so I’m surprised the dating sounds so different
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:51 PM
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Don’t say that, you’re only 22
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:49 PM
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Why gay? It’s a man and woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:48 PM
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<image> Cute
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:42 PM
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I wouldn’t want a partner with the baggage of having slept around and wouldn’t want the same for myself either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:20 PM
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Fair enough. Some of them are kinda annoying. Brett cooper is the only conservative girl I enjoy watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:17 PM
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Left or right wing beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:12 PM
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With more baggage? No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:11 PM
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I’m so behind on his lore. I didn’t even know Angie left him 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:09 PM
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Sleeping around is for losers. Falling in love with the love of your life is the real flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:06 PM
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That’s lame
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:01 PM
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Are you byron Gaines from fit and fresh ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:59 PM
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I’m half Kazakh!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:40 PM
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If women shouldn’t vote, then soy boys shouldn’t either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:56 PM
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Me watching this as a Russian girl with a tall, muscular, brunette bf 👁️👄👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:21 PM
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WHY’S THE INTEREST SO HIGH???? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:19 PM
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Did he buy it new?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:05 PM
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My dad is where my white genes come from which is why I will likely age after 35 😔 very unfortunate reality of being mixed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:56 PM
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What if he’s already tall with a big 🍆?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:43 PM
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The physical changes don’t happen to all women. My mom bounced back fast after she had me. She doesn’t even have a single stretch mark from her pregnancy. One time she went to the doctor and they thought she was lying when she said she’s been pregnant before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:40 PM
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You can make her boobs bigger by impregnating her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:30 PM
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I appreciate the self awareness you have 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:28 PM
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If all your options for a LTR are mentally ill, it might be a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:09 PM
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It is cultural though bc western women don’t seem to have the same expectations Russian women do. Like none of my western friends expect frequent flowers and chivalry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:03 PM
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Aw I’m busy all Wednesday 🥲 I have work and then swimming
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:40 PM
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The only time I’ve been approached was at the gym tbh. This was years ago when there weren’t as many tik toks hating on men who approach at the gym. I honestly didn’t mind it, but still didn’t give the guy my number. I still appreciated the bravery of going up to a woman, it must’ve been hard to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:31 PM
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Best part of being in a LTR is that you can leave some of your clothes, toothbrush, hairbrush, hair clips and other stuff at their house. I’m assuming you can’t do that in a casual relationship bc if they bring anyone else over, they will see all that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:28 PM
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It really depends on what the man is looking for… some men like the first option because they don’t want anything serious. If you’re going with the second option, you’re more likely to meet a woman who wants something long term. There are guys who can get casual sex/club hookups/take girls home, but they don’t want to be with that sort of woman, so they just take the second option instead and form a real connection with a more serious woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:18 PM
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They have 24/7 flowers shops in Russia for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:13 PM
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It is for the all the men who complain about having to be chivalrous 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:10 PM
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Chat is being in a happy, healthy relationship being miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:10 PM
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Did they ever try? I haven’t met a western guy who held the door open for me, pulled my chair out or carried my bags
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:09 PM
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The chivalry rocks tho. Western men should learn
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:18 AM
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I don’t know any Vietnamese influencers 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:16 AM
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I never knew that!! That’s a crazy gap
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:08 AM
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Russian women always try so hard on their looks bc the country has more women than men so you have to be pretty to find a husband. But it’s surprising that they still have high expectations for the men like paying for dates and buying her flowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:56 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/gst705dlyztf1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=313975d7a4e79e82618c7f4c9c2dc0da452cb224 Real
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:26 AM
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Muscle mommied too hard, now I’m androgynous 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:36 AM
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I was leaving the pool changing room with a towel on my head and there was a little girl walking in front of me and she kept staring at me. Then she asked her mom if I’m a guy or girl 👁️👄👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:29 AM
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I can see that. It’s an intellectual profession, but the money isn’t extraordinary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:08 PM
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My parents are cleaners and I’m middle class 😭 professors are upper middle class here 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:58 PM
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I’m too middle class for this I think
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:55 PM
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Denying demisexuality is like saying gay people don’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:54 PM
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The women here all agree that husband material is superior… hence why we have debates that go in circles. For some of us, hookup material isn’t even a thing bc we don’t hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:43 PM
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There’s households where they don’t fart in front of each other??? Are you even family at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:27 PM
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I definitely don’t agree with showing no interest to a man, that would be sad and I don’t blame men for not wanting to date women who show 0 interest back and expect to be treated like a princess
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:22 PM
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Maybe baking him something or getting him a present? I used to do that for men when I wanted to show my interest. Would never do anything intimate with a man who’s not committed to me tho so I think blowjob is too much to ask for personally but could work if you date women who are ok with casual stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:12 PM
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He never mentioned anything about men having standards…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:04 PM
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I guess to each their own. It hasn’t affected sexual attraction/tension in my relationship, but we’ve been farting around each other as long as we’ve been intimate 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:03 PM
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Sure if they want to set that as a standard, but they can’t expect all women to do that, just like we can’t expect all men to agree with the paying on the first date thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:00 PM
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I’m a handful for sure 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:58 PM
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My mom was considered an old wife and mother for getting married at 25 in Russia 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:51 PM
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I don’t do Dutch oven, but I fart under the covers sometimes and he usually gets mad at me. There’s no line, but I’ll back off if I’m annoying him too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:49 PM
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It’s valid bc if a man doesn’t even wanna pay for the first date, he probably doesn’t like you much so why would you date someone who doesn’t like you… And contributing financially is different than paying for dates imo. Like sure, I’ll pay bills, but I won’t pay for all the dates bc I’m not the man in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:46 PM
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Yes, we do this to each other all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:43 PM
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I’m Slavic, so it’s an expectation for the guy to pay for the first date. The Slavic men don’t really complain about it ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:41 PM
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Wanting him to pay on the first date is valid but everything else is too much imo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:38 PM
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Reddit app is so glitchy that the devs might be vibe coding
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:22 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:08 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:05 PM
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So sad 😔 poor dodo bird
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:02 PM
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So sad 😔 poor dodo bird
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:02 PM
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Seems like she’s looking for husband material and can’t find him. Husband material isn’t Chad according to the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:53 PM
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0 survival instincts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:52 PM
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I had braces for 6ish years so I feel your pain!!! It’s so nice when you finally get them off and everyone compliments your smile. You’re almost there 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:43 PM
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Brutal 😔 but it’ll be worth it when you get a beautiful smile!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:35 PM
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Not sure how the egg freezing thing works but I don’t think they rot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:23 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:53 PM
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I’m pretty sure most these women are just with rich men so they probably don’t care about spending that much on a ring. Obviously a regular man isn’t gonna have the money for something like that and it’s definitely not a good financial decision for him to buy a 4-figure ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:46 PM
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They exist but they’re usually older women. Although there’s a trend of women going overseas to find more masculine men so maybe more younger women will join in soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:44 PM
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I’ve basically accepted this already but a nice ring I can wear forever will make it official. My parents got married after a verbal proposal though and it worked for them bc they were dirt poor!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:05 PM
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This just seems like a demisexual thing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:03 PM
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I want him to pick it bc that makes it more special for me, but we do look at rings together and are planning to go to some stores to check out more rings. I think he has a good idea of what I’d like so I’m trusting him to make a good choice. He’s gifted me earrings before and they’re perfect and I wear them daily :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:02 PM
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I’m assuming most of them have fiancés who can afford that. But I’d be scared to wear it it everywhere too 😭 plus I feel like too big of a ring would annoy me by getting caught in things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:56 PM
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I assume most of them are lab diamonds, but even then, sizes like that are multi thousand 😅😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:35 PM
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If he can’t even be bothered to get me a ring I like, he’s not husband material
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:19 PM
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As long as it’s not a ring pop or something non-yellow gold, I’d say yes. I only really have an issue with men who purposely get a bad ring to humiliate their woman or “test” her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:14 PM
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Is most her jewelry real gold and gemstones or just costume jewelry? I don’t think a ring needs to be expensive to be pretty and last long. I’ve seen pretty good ones for under $2-3K. You just need a good stone that’s high on the mohs scale so it lasts long.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:04 PM
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She doesn’t send you or show you any rings she likes? Bf and I have been looking at rings online for a while now so he kinda understands what I like. Sometimes he’ll send me a ring and it’s exactly my taste. I feel like as a bf you kinda know what your gf likes? My bf got me gold earrings for my birthday and it was exactly my taste in earrings bc he sees what I like to wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:52 PM
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Rubies are so goated!!! We’re considering lab ruby for mine bc we wanna be 💫different💫
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:46 PM
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Aw that’s adorable!!!! He manifested that ring with the painting 🥺 that makes it so special
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:38 PM
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I agree. Some women think their partner will pick a bad ring, but I feel like if you’ve been dating long enough, he should know your taste. $100 is so good!!!! Kinda hard to find something nice in that price range around here 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:29 PM
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Well I doubt haribo, the gummy bear company, makes diamond rings
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:27 PM
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If he shit tests you with a fake ring, he’s not worth the marriage imo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:16 PM
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Bf is getting it, why would I fund it when it’s a gift for me?? 🤣 I want him to choose and customize the style bc I think that’ll be more special.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:14 PM
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Looking at engagement rings makes me realize how unreasonably expensive all these tik tok/influencer girls’ rings are. Before, I’d just assume they were like $4K rings, but now I know they’re like $20K rings bc of the size 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:06 PM
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Exactly. The whole wedding industry is a big scam… pretty unfortunate that it’s a consumerist thing rather than celebrating the start of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:02 PM
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Having sex with someone you don’t like sounds torturous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:27 PM
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People want a celebration but everything wedding related is inflated in price so it’s super expensive. I’m in this situation rn. I don’t care about the celebration part but my boyfriend does so we’re waiting until we can afford it. I would 100% be down for just going to the courthouse and skipping the wedding part entirely but he’s super against this so I have to compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:02 PM
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I’m good, hope you’re doing well too!! 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:39 AM
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Hiiiiii Sarai!!!!!!!! Long time no see 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:46 AM
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Brutal 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:43 AM
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I’ve been trying to do that but I guess I’m not too consistent with core workouts. I didn’t get as much result from training core as I did from calorie deficit. I lost basically all the fat on the sides of the abdomen (like the love handles) from just eating less and doing lots of cardio. The problem with that method is that I lose my other gains and can’t really build muscle bc I under-eat. But I think you got a point. Maybe I just need to lock in on the core more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:54 AM
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It’s probably not that bad unless you fall down a flight of stairs or something
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:51 AM
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Thanks!! Not much muscle in my abdomen tbh 😅 but yes in my lower body
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:50 AM
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I started bulking again and am slowly creeping back to my pre-weight loss weight. While it’s nice I’m seeing more gains in my glutes and legs, I’m seeing my tummy coming back again a bit 😥 It always feels like I have to choose between my gains and having no tummy. Why can’t I have both??? 😓😓😓 I’m trying to cope and tell myself it’s fine bc my waist is still small
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:20 PM
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That’s pretty cool ngl. I love pregnant women being strong like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:16 PM
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Same. Especially stuff like hip thrusts 😭 I feel like the baby will fly out with an exercise like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:32 PM
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There’s a pregnant lady at my gym who looks like she’s gonna pop any minute. That’s dedication 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:15 PM
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Rip 😔 makes sense tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:09 PM
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Middle aged men who do that probs don’t understand how IG works and think they’re sending the girl a DM by commenting 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:13 PM
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I don’t care about them tho… it’s not an issue that affects me personally so why would I bother thinking about those women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:09 PM
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What’s hypocritical about that? Why would I care about random instagram thots?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:05 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:04 PM
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Nah, I don’t really care about them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:00 PM
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And even if they did like her… it’s not like they made a move or anything so that reaction is just weird. I don’t get being upset about someone you liked getting in a relationship when you never made an effort to show interest 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:42 PM
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She’s an engineer tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:40 PM
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Yessss, I love this energy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:32 PM
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You got a point there, but also how is he gonna see his beautiful gf then????
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:27 PM
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That makes sense. I imagine their partner would get a lot of hate from fans too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:27 PM
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It makes you realize how strange people really are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:06 PM
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The ideal man doesn’t follow women at all but perfection is too much to ask for I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:59 PM
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My bestie has been losing a bunch of instagram followers since she hard launched her husband. Must be all the men who thought they had a chance or jealous girls who wish they got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:51 PM
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Only white people can afford that boujee store, but you’re also in NS so I’m assuming you have more white people there in general 🤣🤣🤣 Costco and Walmart are always full of non-white people when I go 💀 I’m assuming that’s bc they’re cheaper
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:49 PM
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This reminds me of girls on tik tok saying the magic mike strippers look better with suits on than they do shirtless 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:59 PM
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This might be the most sus thing you’ve said 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:36 PM
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I must’ve missed that lore 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:32 PM
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<image> What in The Challengers is going on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:55 PM
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Chocolate chip pancakes, eggs and coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:53 PM
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If he lied about that, there’s probably other things he’s lying about. And building a relationship with no trust is a bad idea. Better to just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:52 PM
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I need your feed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:39 PM
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Brutal for the other guy. It be like that sometimes. I’ve had it happen to me too where a guy said he was taking a break from dating and then he started dating a different girl in like a month of so 👁️👄👁️ people should just say “you’re chopped” instead of making up an excuse 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:38 PM
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True, I should do this. Most of my feed is pretty good, but I occasionally get weird reels like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:33 PM
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Unless there’s no guy who could do it in 2 hours. Not everyone likes the hookup life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:28 PM
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<image> Why am I on this cursed side of instagram??? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:59 PM
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I kinda doubt it being a norm in those places… maybe there are a few men who can’t find gfs and they do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:56 PM
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I don’t think it’s a thing in Russia or other more progressive post Soviet countries… I’m Russian and Kazakh and I’ve never heard of men in my cultures doing this. Seems like a Caucasian thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:50 PM
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Why’s this a thing in all Caucasian countries? Are the women too conservative to sleep with men and that’s why they resort to going to prostitutes? I once went out with an Azerbaijani guy and he said he lost his virginity to a prostitute. It obviously gave me the ick and I didn’t keep seeing him. I appreciated his honesty though. I didn’t understand it at the time but I guess he didn’t think it was a big deal bc he grew up in a place where people do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:20 PM
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I’ve blocked one person who was kinda like stalking all my comments? Like he’d write hateful responses to all my comments. I got annoyed of seeing his username in my notifications all the time so I blocked. Me everytime I saw a new notification from him:
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:12 PM
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Run away bc he’s probably a weirdo who feels the need to test women or conduct social experiments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:03 PM
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If my man closed the car door on me like Justin did on Hailey, he’d be catching these hands
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:35 AM
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Why not? Not all of us are approachable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:20 AM
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This would’ve been a good idea actually!! But I’m aura farming and unfortunately nobody would understand that costume 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:19 AM
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Might do Lana del Rey and her husband as Halloween costumes 🤣 we already have most the clothes for it and I’m on a budget
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:47 AM
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Depends on where you live. I’m in a high COL area so the salaries are higher. Most men with a bachelors degree or tradesmen are making around $100K.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:43 PM
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I’ll give him a break
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:29 PM
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Median salary in my city is like $63K so many middle class guys are making that salary. My bf isn’t one of them yet, but maybe one day he will be once he’s further in his career.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:20 PM
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I’m just reminding you of our other homie. No hard feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 09:25 PM
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Is this AI? His skin is so perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:15 PM
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I’d wanna homeschool ideally, but we have pretty good public schools over here worst case scenario. I guess I don’t have a very high standard for life, I’m very happy being middle class. Living in a detached home with at least 2 cars is enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:11 PM
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10 Bomboclatt eggs???????????
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:01 PM
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Something something when’s the proposal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:55 PM
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You really don’t need 300K to survive in most places. A husband making 150-200K can comfortably support a family. In some areas, even 100K is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:55 PM
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It’s good labour!! I love taking care of people I love. I don’t see it as something negative at all. I don’t get nearly as tired from cooking, cleaning and doing housework all day than I do from a 9-5.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:53 PM
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I can’t imagine loving labour though. Having a family has always seemed more rewarding to me than working. My career is just a side quest before I become a wife and mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:42 PM
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You do 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:39 PM
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You got it backwards 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:33 PM
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No, I mean girl inches <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:27 PM
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Can u convert these to girl inches?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:19 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:00 PM
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Thought it was gonna be the Middle East or something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:57 PM
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It’s true… most of my friends who’ve tried it regret it now bc they can’t hold their poop in anymore. They rlly need to run for the toilet before they shit themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:39 PM
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Where does bro live?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:35 PM
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LOL you got a point there 🤣 like it just seems so awkward to talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:10 PM
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His walls are pretty thin too but we just try to be quiet 🤣 His parents probs know but they’re pretty chill with us being physically affectionate with each other so we don’t stress over it too much. They even moved him to a bigger room and got him a bigger bed now bc I stay over so often. My house is the complete opposite tho… my parents don’t even let us sleep in one bed 😭 so I def wouldn’t try that here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:07 PM
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We usually stay at his house and he has his own room so we can get away with anything, especially at night. Sometimes his parents are away on the weekends which makes it even easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:54 PM
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Lmfaoo 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:47 PM
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A relationship with no physical affection outside of sex sounds very sad tho. Like where’s the cuddling, hand holding, hugging, small kisses, resting your head on their shoulder, forehead kisses and all the other good stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:55 PM
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Around the same amount of time. The sex happened when we realized we were in love and would stay together for the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:50 PM
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I waited 6 months in my relationship and that was perfect imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:42 PM
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<image> Iconic vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:11 PM
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She’s taking her character from Babygirl too seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:01 PM
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Nah bc I’m a woman and I get upset that he even talked to women before me. My bf is lucky he doesn’t have exes or else I’d fight them all like I’m Scott pilgrim.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:00 PM
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Ofc unwanted sexual acts exist but consent works differently in a committed relationship. It’s rare for a partner to ask for your permission bc it’s assumed that you can touch each other. If you don’t feel receptive of it, you can always just say no and they would stop if they’re not a grapist. It’s just way different than a stranger touching you because they don’t need to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:12 PM
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Well if a man is attracted to you, he’s gonna wanna touch your curves so I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. It’s not really immature imo, men of any age would do something playful like that. I’m surprised so many women are against it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:05 PM
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Sexual and physical affection go hand in hand when you’re in a relationship though. You usually have both, not one or the other. And if your partner being sexual with you makes you uncomfortable… I think there’s bigger problems in that relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:47 PM
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Oooh I see now. I’m not really into East Asian guys so I don’t consider any of them attractive, but that’s just personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:39 PM
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I keep seeing vids like this of women complaining about their man being too physically affectionate. It’s crazy how so many of the comments agree with it. IMO if your man isn’t like this, he’s probs not that into you. Idk how anyone in a relationship could see physical affection as a bad thing 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:34 PM
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Why are they so blurry? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:04 PM
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Pretty sure BPD women treat their partner in a very toxic way, like being abusive and controlling. Do you really want a partner like that? I feel that it’s pretty difficult to have a healthy relationship with a person like that unless they’re medicated and receiving treatment. They could literally be a danger to you if they aren’t undergoing treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:00 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:55 PM
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Women with BPD are probs not that rare considering how often you hear men complaining about dating them. Idk why anyone would voluntarily date a mentally ill person though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:52 PM
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I have the opposite experience. Younger women often fall for love bombing and other emotional manipulation tactics that men use. The older you get, the better you are at detecting it. Plus your standards go up the older you get because you get a better understanding of what you like in a partner, so you’re less inclined to settle for lower commitment, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:49 PM
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It’s bc they expect princess treatment instead of giving it. The first problem is viewing yourself as an equal to your partner when in reality men and women have distinct roles in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:46 PM
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It’s cute, I love a chivalrous king. Many men don’t even know the sidewalk rule or carrying heavy things for their lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:08 AM
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I mean there aren’t many losses as you age, if anything you get better, smarter, more educated, become a more skilled worker, more successful career, higher salary, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:44 AM
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Cute https://preview.redd.it/07q92z7mmetf1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2aaaecfa8bf12d9cc0feacfb4942381b9633c846
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:41 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/n3lbtyltgetf1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a622f9376430baeb77b62197908b4711ea074a19 When ur frontal lobe developed 🧠
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:09 AM
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Likely a volcel which is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:06 AM
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And he has all these good things about him on top of it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:02 AM
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Not necessarily if he’s a volcel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:02 AM
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Could be a volcel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 04:56 AM
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From a bit of stalking, they’re 27
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:04 AM
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Yeah no, having an ex still counts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:18 AM
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Most young women, like 20s and 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:17 AM
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Ikr!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:16 AM
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<image> Bunch of girls in the comments have a man like this or want a man like this. So cute
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:20 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:12 PM
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Yes, you’re besties now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:04 PM
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Lmfao yes 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:51 PM
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He was a devout Christian waiting for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:07 PM
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<image> And he mogs her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:54 PM
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I hope I get proposed to in 2026 so I can make a vid with the chorus of the second song 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:56 AM
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I got one in my first year of uni too and just opened it and took a look at it for fun 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:54 AM
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Ooh very nice 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:39 PM
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Yeah no… my sexuality didn’t change even when I met my bf who’s my 10/10 Chad. I didn’t choose to be this way, it’s just how I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:38 PM
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Half Asian and half white as well, but more specifically half Central Asian and half Eastern European
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:25 PM
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Yes and u can pee in their fancy washroom
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:39 PM
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Even as a demisexual, an initial spark exists, but it’s not a “I wanna get into your pants” type of spark. Most women take a longer time to get to that point than men do. It’s really hard for a man to understand how we experience attraction and I feel like a lot of the men who expect instant attraction are projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:27 PM
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No way!!! It’s my anniversary today too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:08 PM
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Kind of, we’re recreating our first date. It happens to be our anniversary today as well 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:08 PM
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So cute 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:00 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:34 PM
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Zair is just being zair
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:28 PM
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I’m not saying all women are demisexual, but many of the women I know have demisexual-like attraction to men. It’s different than “settling” for a man because you do genuinely feel attracted to him, it’s just something that’s built-up and takes time to get to. I don’t agree with dating someone you have no attraction to, but there’s nothing wrong with experiencing attraction differently than men do. The only exceptions I’ve seen are women who do hookups bc they obviously feel that connection righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:25 PM
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That explains it then… she likely still had feelings for you the entire time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:41 PM
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It’s not my coworker, my friend’s coworker who did that. I don’t have a place for bitchy people in my life so I keep my circle small.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:30 PM
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Then why did she date him in the first place if she was already hooking up with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:23 PM
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Oh yikes… exclusivity makes it more complicated. Sus way to start a relationship tbh. Brutal for the other guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:15 PM
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I think attraction just works differently for women than for men. Many women need something more than a cute face/body to feel attracted. Personally, I’ve never felt attracted to a man before an emotional connection was formed. I label myself as demisexual for this reason. In the past, I’d think a guy was handsome, get to know him more and then feel attracted to him with time (usually took weeks or months to get to this point).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:11 PM
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I guess it’s not cheating in theory if they weren’t bf and gf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:02 PM
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How did that work? Was she committed to that guy or was it just casual?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:57 PM
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Divorce. Cheating is a dealbreaker. Staying isn’t worth it because the relationship would be toxic and love-less from that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:35 PM
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But the cropped look is kinda cute, especially with high waisted pants!! I’m tall but with a short torso so I don’t have this issue, but I purposely buy cropped tops bc I like that look
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:27 PM
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I think it’s orange county, California
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:19 PM
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Yes, but I don’t relate to this post bc I have daddy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:08 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:59 PM
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Engineering is a manly office job. Especially if they get to work onsite sometimes and get to wear hard hats. Super hot when my man does stuff like that 🥵🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:36 PM
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Not all women are good people. My friend recently got married and invited her coworker to the wedding and this girl talked shit about the wedding… calling it too cheap and estimating the cost to be $2K 😭 some women can be bitchy like this. But I don’t think being a girls girl is defending ALL women’s decisions. I criticize other women a lot and I’d still consider myself a girls girl bc I have good relationships with the women in my life. You have to be selective about who you allow into your lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:26 PM
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lol yes 😭🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:07 PM
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I’m not the pink haired girl so I don’t share her opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:00 PM
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Might be a good idea to ask the girl who made this reel
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:24 AM
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Either way, men are being used unless they find someone who genuinely loves them 😬 brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 12:14 AM
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Idk what it is tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 12:12 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 12:00 AM
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What’s on her thigh? A thigh bracelet?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 11:33 PM
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Sounds like she just wasn’t attracted to the first guy even tho she says he’s good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:56 PM
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It depends on the case tbh. Most people i know had braces for about 2-4 years. If it’s a less severe case, it can be fixed faster. I recommend going to several orthodontists and see what they recommend to compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:49 PM
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It took 6ish years. I wear permanent retainers and also an overnight one for the top
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:19 PM
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Well for a while I had bad body dysmorphia so I perceived myself as overweight even thought I was on the slimmer side. Now I’m a bit better mentally, but I still lift weights and work out so keeping my body fat % as low as possible is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:19 PM
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5’7 and 137 pounds. I look slimmer than that weight bc I have a pretty high muscle mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:13 PM
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Idk about that… there’s a bunch of skinny women in this sub who are trying to lose weight and I’m one of them. Anyone who feels secure being fat is strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:04 PM
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I wouldn’t expect the actors to be freakishly tall at least. I didn’t realize books mention exact height like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:35 PM
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Fattening someone up is easier than making a fattie lose weight, so this shouldn’t be hard to do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:29 PM
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Men who can get sex but have enough self control to say no are even more superior
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:16 PM
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With a cake
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:14 PM
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What about romance movies?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:03 PM
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Most men didn’t have the energy to lie to me 💀 which is fair considering they could easily meet a woman who doesn’t want these things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:12 PM
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One of the biggest “looksmaxxing” things I’ve done is get braces. Sometimes I wonder what I would’ve looked if I kept my teeth natural, but I imagine it would make me go down a few points in looks. My natural smile looked something like this: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:10 PM
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I took it even further by telling men I want marriage and kids before I’m 30. It worked well to scare men off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:25 PM
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If the robots were sexy lumberjacks with beards, I’d consider it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:05 PM
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Clanker propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:50 PM
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Does she ever go out without makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:44 PM
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You forgot the part about having no body count but also being hypersexual for them because of 💫raw attraction💫
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:39 PM
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Thanks!! I did have a couple pimples at one of the weddings I attended but otherwise it was okay 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:33 PM
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Yesss, I love this energy!!! 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:25 PM
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Yesss, I love this energy!!! 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:24 PM
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The dress honestly makes the whole look!!! Everything else is extra lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:15 PM
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I feel this!! Doing makeup is so difficult. People around me say I look worse with it on than I do without it so I guess I’m not that great at it. It takes some skills and some women are naturals at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:15 PM
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I think there’s just more of a social expectation for women to look pretty, especially when you’re around other women who care about their looks. It can just rub off on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:01 PM
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I doubt many other women can do it tbh. Some are so reliant on makeup. I never really wore it much to begin with, mostly just on special occasions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:48 PM
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I ditched makeup completely a little while ago. Going to two weddings with no makeup on was a little weird though because all the other women were wearing it. I feel like social pressure is partly the reason why so many women wear it. You feel like the odd one out being bare faced.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:40 PM
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I don’t think they’re indicative of the average tbh. Most men ik irl are pretty chill and like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:53 PM
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We both work 9-5 and have weekends off so we don’t really have career stuff outside those hours… His career will be better once he finds a new job, I’m manifesting it for him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:48 PM
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Wanting marriage and children is a big thing in the culture but not mutually exclusive from hookup culture being common.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:19 PM
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It’s called being obsessed with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:06 PM
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Many EEs are into hookups, it really depends on the individual. Even cheating is quite common in my culture so it’s far from traditional imo. My bf’s culture is a bit more conservative bc they’re catholic, even tho he’s not religious himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:05 PM
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I’m medium distance and both of us are clingy so we def need our weekends together. It sucks to be apart for even a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:57 PM
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Most likely did at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:45 PM
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I’ve had the flu vaccine twice for nursing school and never got sick from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:38 PM
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That sounds lame… unless it’s a millionaire’s yacht, idk why anyone would go
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:36 PM
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I suppose I got my unicorn young, he was only 22 when we started dating. I was lucky to get a man who didn’t fall for the whole “hookup while you’re in college” thing even when women would want to hookup with him at parties and clubs. He’s definitely a rare type of man, but they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:08 PM
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It does, some men just don’t know how to use their 🍆, hands or tongue
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 12:45 PM
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Nope… this is a pic of makeup that men will think is no makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 12:42 PM
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I found my unicorn so she can too!! There are non-religious men who have values that stop them from engaging in hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 12:41 PM
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A taken man can tell when his gf is wearing makeup bc he sees her without it all the time. But that same man won’t be able to tell if other women are or aren’t wearing makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:34 AM
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Longer eyelashes, clearer skin, added freckles, slimmer nose, bigger lips… these are significant appearance changes with just “light” makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:33 AM
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You’d be surprised at how many men are clueless about what makeup looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:30 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/jdq5fb6glmsf1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=11806e0d4a88702a02a75c2b857f03b9a4b0561c Men will look at women like this and think they have no makeup on 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:26 AM
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Men aren’t very good at telling who’s wearing makeup and who isn’t. Lots of women get away with clean girl makeup looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:23 AM
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That’s literally how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:01 AM
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The rule is that hoes like hoes and non hoes like non hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:07 AM
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Not everyone wants a ran through man hoe 💅 I certainly didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:56 AM
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We want gold and precious stones, not headphones
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:21 AM
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I don’t think that’s true, my bf didn’t have experience and he has hella rizz. Some men are just boring with no personality I guess. If a guy is lame, no amount of women will make him cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:04 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/2up734neslsf1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dd9dfc8d045faec91131266dccd1339fc07c5eed Women in male dominated fields
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:42 AM
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The creeps are kinda a given for any pretty girl who posts publicly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:39 AM
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We have a Stacy over here 👀🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:32 AM
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Possibly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:30 AM
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My coworker was telling me about his model sister who gets invited on free yacht trips with unlimited food. Pretty privilege is so real.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:22 AM
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My car is a hatch and AWD!!! I love the hatchback vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:00 AM
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Why jealousy? Is the author single or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 12:38 AM
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Why can’t men do the sports they like too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 12:20 AM
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Aw that’s actually so cute 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:54 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/k0hrthwj7lsf1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b56719e04c7df17e009725d1907af94304eddc72 And he’s 84
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:45 PM
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I thought zair said something unhinged again
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:31 PM
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What’s the context?? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:28 PM
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18 BMI is way too low. Nearly impossible to have curves at that BMI. I was way flatter at that BMI. But it depends on preference, most men like some curves so you’re better off being in the 20-22 range with some body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:22 PM
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How expensive is the ring 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 08:45 PM
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I feel like I’ve always just gravitated towards women in my league. I did have one Stacy friend a while ago but it didn’t make me delusional bc she dated chopped guys that I wouldn’t date anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 08:34 PM
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IMO 20-25% body fat, some curves/fit body, long hair, pretty face Being fat or flat probs makes u not a Stacy lite
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 08:30 PM
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Yup, I’ve seen these before 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 07:34 PM
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True, this makes the most sense to me. The right just validates their struggles so they get pulled to that side.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 07:11 PM
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That’s pretty crazy. I’ve just seen too many clips of him rejecting women who try to date him so I assumed he was gay but this confirms it 🤣💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 07:10 PM
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True, they’re like an extreme 😭 nick fuentes also just comes off as not interested in women at all, idk if his followers are like that too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:59 PM
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Who are groypers? Is that nick Fuentes and his followers?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:56 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/hxdk1zthpjsf1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c6e176da7c476e77b44aaa84b20235a19aeb7176 Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:42 PM
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https://youtu.be/2GE7wxG8uJ4?si=w4dffnpppvy_4yjs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:56 PM
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You should be allowed to dress like a homeless person and still have ur man be down bad for u
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:43 PM
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He said it in a video though…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:24 PM
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We don’t really have that here unless you work for some boujee bank or Google
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:24 PM
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A relationship without passion and attraction just seems weird and platonic? Like sure you can love them as a friend, but you need intimacy and romance too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:56 PM
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Bragging about their wife’s DAP?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:45 PM
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I mean you’re not gonna be super fat if you take a break or anything. Becoming fat takes a while and you have to be super sedentary to reach that point. It can be stressful at times but it’s worth it in the end if you want a fit, muscular body or just want strength. I used to just be skinny before (around 120 pounds at 5’7) and that was an ok build, but I just looked less feminine bc I had less curves. Starting weightlifting was definitely a good decision for my health too bc I felt quite weak a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:35 PM
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<image> Top 10 funniest Ben Shapiro moments
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:25 PM
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It’s called settling and some women do it for stability, comfort and security. I don’t get it either, especially in a time when women have the freedom to work and support themselves. There’s no reason to settle for a man nowadays if you can be happily single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:22 PM
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Tim’s tastes like sewage water. I only drink high quality coffees. Idk if my office has a coffee machine, I haven’t explored the kitchens much bc I’m here so rarely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:05 PM
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Working in person makes you broke bc the $5 coffee becomes very tempting halfway through the day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:40 PM
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I don’t really do much for upper body and it’s fine. I used to do a few abs exercises to keep myself toned, but now I’ve started yoga which works out my abs enough. Whenever I start gaining visible fat in my abdomen, I just do a bit of a calorie deficit and increased cardio. I did have a period where my tummy looked flabby so I had to go harder on the cardio to lose it. Otherwise, I mostly focus on the lower body to maintain the curves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:12 PM
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If you start weightlifting and mostly focusing on lower body exercises, you can def achieve this build
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 01:53 PM
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So the men are feminine? Hard pass on whatever culture that is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:53 AM
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This!! Just observe how she reacts to different things. Sometimes the woman herself hasn’t discovered what works for her so the best method is to just try things out and see what she likes the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:30 AM
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You’re not a real gf booty gooner then if you’ve never done this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:06 AM
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You’re not that obsessed with your gf’s booty then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:06 AM
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You don’t keep pics or vids of ur gf for later? My bf loves taking vids of me walking and stuff so he can watch them later. If he was a strange man, it would be weird but it’s acceptable bc he’s bf
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:10 AM
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I was answering tactical’s question… not sure why you’re acting like I’m at fault for these women posting only high credit scores
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:30 AM
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Having a gf as a man means you can film her booty and slap it while walking behind her with no social repercussions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:04 AM
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Well duh… nobody’s gonna be posting a low score
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:30 AM
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I doubt he meant that… he said anyone with an opinion (liberal or conservative)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:26 AM
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You don’t have to post your opinions to have them… I wouldn’t wanna date someone who’s a political commentator for sure. I have my opinions, but I don’t really talk about them with people other than close friends or family. But someone with 0 opinions is just a person who lives under a rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 01:58 AM
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I think most of the women posting it were in the 800 range
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 01:56 AM
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This reminds me of when there was a trend of women posting their credit score on dating app profiles
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 01:47 AM
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Not having opinions is a bigger red flag imo. Some people are really just clueless about everything going on in the world or they’re uninformed voters which is even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 01:45 AM
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I don’t like minivans, they look cringe. Sedan is kinda small if u wanna take kids camping or something. My bf and I barely fit the camp gear with the back seats down when we go just the two of us. If we were to keep the seats up to make room for kids, it would be impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:18 AM
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That’s the plan. I’d like to keep this car for myself for the long run. Bf doesn’t have a car so I’m hoping he buys something that’ll be better for the family, like a big SUV or truck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:42 PM
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I paid off my loan early!!! Now I’m debt free 🙏 no student loans or any other loans either. It feels nice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:14 PM
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If you have a partner earning a similar amount then you can definitely afford a house. And a used car… you can definitely afford that… I make less and bought my car new.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:52 PM
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But she’s carrying his baby which means she’s fertile
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:50 PM
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I did about a month ago but haven’t since then 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:49 PM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:03 PM
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Rlly weird. I’d expect a man to be more attracted bc pregnancy is the peak of fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:31 PM
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Idk I have no regrets about not dating more before my bf. Dating always felt like a hassle and waste of time when it wasn’t with the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:26 PM
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This is super common and there’s no good way to stop it. Hopefully she gets better eventually, it’s more of an internal fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:44 AM
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You’re wrong. It stands for science, technology, engineering and mathematics. So it includes biology… there’s also no such thing as a male lead stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:16 AM
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It’s the science part of STEM
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:11 AM
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Hopefully me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:34 AM
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1960s where I’m from maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:17 AM
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Dw, time goes by a lot faster after like 23
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:36 AM
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He’s double cheeked up but that doesn’t mean we need to sexualize him 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:57 AM
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He’s double cheeked up but that doesn’t mean we need to sexualize him 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:56 AM
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Why don’t they just move into her new apartment and split the rent?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:52 AM
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If someone goons to a twerking bear gif, they’re cooked fr
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:51 AM
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🎶'Cause I may be bad, but I'm perfectly good at it 🎶Sex in the air, I don't care, I love the smell of it 🎶Sticks and stones may break my bones 🎶But chains and whips excite me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:10 AM
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Nice buns
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:47 AM
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Those seem kinda lame. You have to be original to catch people’s eyes. I feel like these people just google their prompts or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:50 PM
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Agreed. Milk alternatives are unhealthy and cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:43 PM
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I used to get a lot of responses for the first prompt so I guess men liked that one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:33 PM
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I found a screenshot of my hinge prompts from years ago when I was single 🤣 they’re still accurate though <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:25 PM
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That’s the complaint I often see from women who date gamers… their boyfriend neglects them for the game. I’m all for having personal time. My bf and I have weekends away from each other sometimes. He goes camping with the boys or whatever else he wants to do. I would have an issue with him choosing to game over spending time with me though, but that’s never been an issue for us because he games 1-2 times a year at most and will always choose time with me over gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:20 PM
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My thoughts exactly. It’s not a good idea to wait for the pool of divorcees and single parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:05 PM
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Okay, stay delusional then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 09:09 PM
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I ain’t getting surgeries for that. The nails are something I don’t mind changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:46 PM
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If you’ve seen my other comments, you’d know I’m not biased towards women. Your lack of awareness is what’s funny here. Also learn to read… not once did I say men are at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:45 PM
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Where did I say that only men are at fault? It takes two to tango. I’m just calling out your bias since you chose to put all the blame on women picking the wrong man. I equally call women and men out on their shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:29 PM
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It’s ok dune, ik u don’t like tik tok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:18 PM
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thoughts? I disagree with him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:15 PM
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It does make me feel like a baddie tho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:15 PM
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Thought this was Bella Thorne
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:09 PM
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So is that a yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:08 PM
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Do men not have a choice to stay and raise their kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:42 PM
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Gonna attempt to remove my manicure today. Goodbye to being a baddie 😞👋
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:34 PM
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Is he lactose intolerant or a soy boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:30 PM
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Makes sense. Accountability is not a thing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 06:10 PM
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I have a dad…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 06:09 PM
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Why’s “fatherless” used as an insult to women when it’s the father (a man) who failed?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 05:58 PM
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Pretty much. Some gamers just use that as a way to escape their relationship as another commenter on here said. If it gets to that point, then the relationship is kinda cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 05:52 PM
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If it’s a weekly thing, that might be a bit much, especially if it gets in the way of our relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 05:38 PM
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I know a 0.7 waist to hip ratio when I see it 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:32 PM
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A full day hike would likely be something I’d do for 6 hours on a Saturday.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:31 PM
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Six hours every Saturday is too much, that’s basically a part time job at that point. If it’s a one off kind of thing, then that’s okay imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:24 PM
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Correlation doesn’t mean causation. Republican women are just more likely to be married because they have traditional conservative values. These women were republican before they got married, not after.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:19 PM
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Daily or weekly gaming is probably too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:15 PM
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Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:14 PM
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Who still smokes cigarettes these days? Beers are nice tho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:06 PM
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This would look cute with a blazer or turtleneck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:05 PM
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If that were true, there wouldn’t be so many liberal women. The fact that the west is so politically divided by gender disproves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:04 PM
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Liberal women are unlikely to be converted to conservatism. To your second point, I guess they are more open to casual relationships and have lower standards than conservative women do. But I wouldn’t really consider a man conservative if he engages in relationships like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:54 PM
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I can see this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:38 PM
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Conservative men always complain about liberal feminist women, yet they keep dating them. Like if you actually cared about conservatism, you wouldn’t be with someone who doesn’t share your values. Most of these men are fakes fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:27 PM
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Men ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:14 PM
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Well I support both men and women striving to be the best version of themselves. Too many people nowadays have issues and problems. Dating is not fun for either gender. I’m glad I don’t have to go through meeting new guys ever again bc it’s so hard and rare to find a normal person these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:03 PM
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I honestly don’t know much about that way of life. I’ve never lived it myself bc I got my first LTR right from the first time. But I imagine if I didn’t get it right, I’d just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:54 PM
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Or the guy just doesn’t appreciate her for what she is and they’re two people who shouldn’t be together. This is perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:33 PM
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Agreed. A man with “daddy’s money” was always unattractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:32 PM
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It doesn’t have to be a matter of her being a bad gf, maybe the man just doesn’t like her and they’re incompatible which is why he doesn’t wanna spend time with her. She could simply leave him and find a man who actually wants to spend time with her over gaming. My boyfriend games like 1-2 times a year at most 🤣 it goes beyond gaming, he chooses to spend time with me over anything else. He doesn’t even wanna see his friends on the weekends anymore because he’d rather spend weekends doing random …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:29 PM
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Exactly, men tend to game because they don’t have good relationships. A man in a happy relationship will choose to spend time with his partner over gaming. So if a man is choosing the game over you, it’s time to leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:06 PM
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This would be an ick to a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:04 PM
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Everything good in moderation. There’s a difference between occasional gaming and being a “gamer”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:58 PM
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Sounds pretty nice if it’s not forced. If it’s just a matchmaking where your family introduces you to a suitable person, then I’d be down for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:51 PM
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Even then, that’s too high of a chance of cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:44 PM
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Unless he’s making a career out of gaming and actually earning money, there’s no reason to put in so many hours on something so unproductive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:44 PM
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Anyone who calls themself a gamer probably games too much
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:47 AM
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Was he one of the guys fighting over the bachelorette? Or was he the bachelor himself and a bunch of women fighting over him?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:57 AM
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Same here. The only time I paid for myself was when I wasn’t interested in a guy so I felt bad making him pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:25 PM
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<image> He’s not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:00 PM
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Picking 25% chance of cheating is wild 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:20 PM
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Damn we got a zair 2.0 over here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:13 PM
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Ikr!! How come we didn’t get a crazy column? I love me a possessive man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:04 PM
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There will likely be lonely people, as there are in a normal society… not everyone gets paired up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:41 PM
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Yes. Very cute for the winter
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:01 PM
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Why would broke hot men date ugly women if they can date attractive women? Again, in my initial comment, I said hot women date rich ugly men bc they offer something other than looks. Ugly women can’t offer much to an attractive man so that pairing doesn’t happen as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:57 PM
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I’m answering Tamasachan’s question
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:39 PM
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Attractive people date other attractive people… thank you captain obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:25 PM
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To me, it’s more unbelievable that more unattractive women are with attractive men. The opposite is more common because unattractive men can offer other things like money, humour, charisma, etc. In contrast, unattractive women don’t have much they could offer because men are so visual and they value the way a woman looks. For example, a man isn’t gonna be motivated to date an unattractive rich woman just bc she’s rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:54 PM
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I’m not recommending he date someone less attractive. I’m saying if he’s a 3, he should date another 3 or a 5 at most. People should date someone in their looks range.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:54 PM
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Why’s he with her 😭😭 ppl should just date their looksmatch or someone a couple points off
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:25 PM
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Awww adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:14 PM
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Guns and alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:35 AM
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It’s an L for both
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:28 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:52 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 11:21 PM
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Men who lift and skip cardio days are probs the highest in testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:31 PM
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I don’t personally know any couples like this (most of my friends are with their looksmatch), but I see a lot of fat woman and fit/slim man couples when I’m out and about. I always wonder if these guys have a fetish for fat women or if they settled for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:47 PM
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Held my baby cousin today and she fit so perfectly on my hip. I’m so ready to be a mom 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:23 PM
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It wasn’t always a status symbol. Being a SAHM was more accessible for previous generations. With the current economy, most households need a dual income which is why women work and only rich men can afford a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:45 PM
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This is how most relationships are. My bf usually pays for the bigger expenses bc he likes being a masculine provider man. Only reason I pay for some things is bc we’re saving for a house and he doesn’t have a good job yet so he can’t be spending too much. If he gets a better job, he’ll be paying for dates entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:25 PM
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She never called him ugly… she said he’s nerdy which is how he presents himself. She wouldn’t be dating him if she thought he was ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:16 PM
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I think the women here just lean above average in height. Most of the women ik irl are much shorter than this and are dating guys below average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:59 AM
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Most of us are like 5’7 so we can’t date short kings unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:46 AM
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Some girls are hobosexual
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:45 AM
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This is actually funny af 🤣 I should’ve picked $1 for humour instead
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 03:25 AM
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Beauty is subjective imo. Some traits are kinda objective like height or build, but otherwise everyone has their type and preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:52 AM
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He’s a 10/10 GigaChad to me 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:44 AM
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Yesss Robert Pattinson. Not sure about how funny he is tbh 🤣 I’ve never seen him outside twilight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:41 AM
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Most of them aren’t even comedians, they’re actors 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:24 AM
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$2 looks, $3 height, $3 salary, $2 humour and $5 loyalty. Easy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:20 AM
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Couples where the girl is prettier are just better. A man has no business being the pretty one 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:12 AM
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Literally 😭😭 came here to say this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:09 AM
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<image> Cute
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:33 AM
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Lamb stew for lunch and scrambled eggs for dinner. I have free will to eat breakfast foods at any time of the day 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:19 AM
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Turns out chatgpt is pretty good at estimating your body fat %. This is super useful for gym progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:35 AM
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They’re too independent and don’t have men pay for things so they don’t see the value in a provider man 😔 brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:31 AM
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That explains it. Pretty boys can’t be rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:57 PM
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EE ofc 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:27 PM
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I hope you find her 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:21 PM
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A real man would get a second and third job
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:18 PM
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Being a high maintenance woman is the best way to motivate your man to make more money. If you ask him for things he can’t afford, he will get like 3 side hustles and become a millionaire in the process to please you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:12 PM
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Yes, I’d skip non-math classes to focus on math. I was a nerd dating a nerd so studying math was a fun bonding activity 🤣 sometimes we would just hang out or go for a walk
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:53 PM
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I did but my school would call my parents when I skipped so I had to make some dumb excuse. I would just hang out with the guy I was dating at the time. We would go to the Tim Hortons and do math and chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:26 PM
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It just seems like an annoying excuse to hear if ur meeting someone on an app where the intention is to find a relationship 😭 but I agree, you just have to move on and keep searching
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:43 PM
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Going on strike is not really up to public sector workers. When a collective agreement expires and the union’s demands aren’t met, the employees go on strike by direction of the union. It’s just part of the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:36 PM
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I think people keep the “with you” part silent
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:34 PM
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<image> The fact that this is a real thing that happens to so many ppl 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:45 PM
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Anyone who’s 40 and in a situationship is tweaking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:46 PM
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There are men who have all those things, but aren’t fuckboys. To each their own I guess, I wouldn’t be able to date someone I don’t respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:20 PM
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He might also not be training hard enough. Many people don’t train to failure when they’re first starting off. I only started seeing real muscle growth when I trained to failure and pushed myself to go up in weight every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:36 PM
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Fuckboys are cringe. How can I take a man seriously or respect him if he went through a phase of sleeping with random hoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:29 PM
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It sounds like alpha probably just needs to burn off some fat before getting to the muscle building part. Men have an easier time with that bc of testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:24 PM
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Months aren’t gonna do it, you need years to build a good physique. Sounds like you’re making great progress though so keep it up!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:50 PM
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You can make it a bit better by weight lifting and cardio. Or just accept that your fat will always be in the tummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:42 PM
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Good time to be an above 21 BMI fattie 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:50 PM
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Third
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:23 PM
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I would assume men are trying to flirt or make a move if they’re sliding into your DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:34 PM
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Mine is private too, the only people on there are whoever I’ve met irl and have been close enough to add. I guess my IG people just aren’t as friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:27 PM
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This doesn’t happen to me (thankfully). The only men who send me reels are bf, dad, uncle and cousin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:19 PM
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They aren’t chalant enough. Like wdym you’re not gonna drown me in love and worship the ground I walk on??? Thank u next
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:50 PM
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They’re losers to me. I would never date one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:48 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/banc4f17tfrf1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a1cb6f5c6b25298f3a24016ba46c87285b51befc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:32 AM
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Any country if you’re brave enough to run from the law
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:07 AM
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Where tf are you working 👁️👄👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:56 AM
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Snitches are the worst people. Anyone who snitches on a coworker is a shitty person
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:42 AM
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Exactly why I’d go there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:07 AM
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Flair checks out, you are degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:24 AM
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bruhhh what is catholicism even about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:55 PM
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She has several posts about this and has said that she only ever kissed... it's really not a flex to never have loved at that age, so I highly doubt anyone would lie about that. There is just way too much value in having a perfect n count Well clearly she doesn't have a perfect n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:54 PM
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Because she never got to experience a loving relationship 😔 but that’s still better than being used for sex or in an unhappy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:24 PM
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That’s what I call
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 09:40 PM
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Based but also a bit sad at that age
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 09:22 PM
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Does it really???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 09:09 PM
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Idk why someone would lie about something like this. Not really an accomplishment at that age, it just means you’ve never been in love as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:40 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:18 PM
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Exactly. Buying a house and being financially stable to start a family are a lot more important than spending thousands on a big celebration. Weddings kinda lost their meaning now bc it’s more about consumerism than actually celebrating love and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:12 PM
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I’m trying to convince my bf to do this bc we likely won’t be able to afford the kind of wedding he wants yet since we have other financial goals. I don’t think it’s too uncommon for couples to opt for a smaller legal ceremony rather than a big wedding these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:02 PM
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Women are wonderful and men have cooties
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:56 PM
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Some guys might be simp enough to do all that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:35 PM
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I will duel with the locals
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:22 PM
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If I was a man, I’d just go straight to Kazakhstan and get myself a kelin (bride) while living in a yurt in the mountains
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:15 PM
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<image> Western women ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:01 PM
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Mom’s spilling the tea
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:52 PM
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Homegirl slept with a tweaker 😭😱
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:50 PM
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Second
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:27 PM
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They would not need to hire dozens of people… but they wouldn’t have a person with industry knowledge, which is why they pay them double or triple of what a government employee makes. Consultants really don’t do much work, they’re just there to give guidance and bring in a different perspective. I’m not gonna listen to what someone on reddit who doesn’t work in my industry or field is saying when I’m literally there everyday and see what’s happening. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:27 PM
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Being able to do more doesn’t mean actually doing more… the workload is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:11 PM
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Apparently most of the Russian women are old. RIP to the guys going there after this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:05 PM
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I’m not saying these are foolproof methods but it’s a good set of rules to avoid red flag people. It worked for me so I’m recommending it. It’s a good idea to reduce your risks of ending up with a cheater if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:29 AM
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Promiscuous people cheat more. Previous cheaters are more likely to cheat again. People who party a lot likely engaged in hookup culture and might be promiscuous. Idk about you, but I wouldn’t take my chances with a partner who has any of those traits. That’s always been a big part of the vetting process for me and I avoided those men like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:14 AM
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The consultants don’t really do much more than the rest of the staff. I work with a couple of them and they’re just like the rest of the us, but with more diverse industry knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:10 AM
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They usually pay more to consultants than to government staff actually
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:03 AM
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There are some risk factors you can look out for though - Are they promiscuous? Have they cheated in the past? Does their lifestyle revolve around being partying with the opposite gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:54 AM
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I don’t think you can overtake the market of the government
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:40 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:15 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:14 AM
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Old lady energy is being retired and not having a job tho 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:57 AM
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I was hard to impress even as a teen and early 20s woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:52 AM
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So you gave even more of a reason to wash each other’s backs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:31 AM
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If this is a punishment, I’m loving it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:52 PM
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Idk where you’re working, but my employer has so many women, especially in management positions. Women def get hired over here loool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:49 PM
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They should just donate those boobs to small boobed women to even it out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:48 PM
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Well some people genuinely enjoy doing what they do. I’ve had a couple careers and liked both of them. I can see the appeal in being a career woman, but being a mother and wife seems more rewarding and I think I’ll like it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:52 PM
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Being raised by Eastern Europeans made me immune to this propaganda. I’ve wanted marriage and kids since a young age and a career is just a side quest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:23 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:06 PM
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I love when he does that!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:27 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:26 PM
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We should get the pregnant women on that fent
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:06 PM
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I doubt these women are feeling any pain, they’re just making a political statement in spite of trump 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:05 PM
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American women purposely taking Tylenol while being pregnant to make a political statement is wild 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:27 PM
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My dad’s car AC broke and he just uses a neck fan bc the repairs are too expensive 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:49 PM
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Awww that’s adorable 🥺🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:33 PM
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To each their own. I like being the one making the sandwich.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:15 PM
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Idk, I guess it’s a hobby for some men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:06 PM
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My man doesn’t know how to cook well and he’s too slow at washing the dishes, but at least he’s hot so I accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:46 PM
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Why would a man lie about something like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:45 PM
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Get yourself a man who says you look hot when you cook and wash the dishes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:39 PM
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I had the opposite experience, people said it underrated me. I think it’s programmed around IG/social media beauty which is where the problem comes from. It’s a very narrow view of beauty which doesn’t leave much room for unconventional attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:20 PM
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Looksmax GPT said I’m a 6.5–6.75, which is where my flair comes from since that’s Becky rating. Regular chatGPT said I’m a 7.5-8, so idk what the truth is 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:18 PM
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Looksmax GPT was more brutal than regular GPT. But I think they discontinued that GPT, I haven’t been able to find it since.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:03 PM
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If you’re her only experience, you can easily be her best experience. No competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:45 PM
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You’re missing my point, broke men already complain about this so they already think they’re the target even tho they’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:40 PM
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It’s the broke men that most worried about “gold” diggers… like bro, u have no gold, dw It’s always the McDonald’s worker who thinks gold diggers are his biggest threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:19 AM
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That’s what broke men think to feel more important
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:22 AM
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Gold diggers are going after cars and houses, not a $20 dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:03 AM
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Those are broke men…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:03 AM
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Gold diggers are not going for men with a net worth of $2K
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:54 AM
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Broke men don’t need to worry
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:51 AM
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So many people make out in the clubs tho 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:26 AM
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Period sisters 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 11:28 PM
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Steak and eggs. That’s my period meal bc I need that iron.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:53 PM
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Face 8. Body 5, doesn’t look natty and kinda uncanny looking, I don’t like dudes on droids. So overall like a 6?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 07:44 PM
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gramps would cut off a girl my age
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:38 PM
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They’re just not hot when compared to younger people at their peak. So why would you choose to crush on a less attractive older person when there are attractive people your own age. That’s my thinking behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:16 PM
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The poster needs to clearly say “some men” or “unattractive men” or “old, unattractive men” rather than generalizing and saying “men”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:15 PM
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It’s still weird to me personally. I’ve always viewed them as “old” as a teen girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:57 PM
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So this means that women do like men… the initial statement in the screenshot is wrong. That’s all I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:56 PM
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The convo isn’t about approaching… it’s about women not liking men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:53 PM
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I never found 30 year olds hot when I was younger 😭 they were too old for me…. It’s super weird to me that people can look at a much older person and find them attractive… older men just remind me of my dad and men his age
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:51 PM
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That was old to me when I was 19
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:45 PM
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Older men aren’t hot tho 🙅🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:37 PM
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They just love to generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:31 PM
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I don’t see women LUSTING over men, I see them loving men and having a desire to be in a relationship with a man. Sure, misandrists exist but they’re the minority and inkwell content on social media often uses this sort of stuff to generalize women disliking men, which is far from what’s true in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:30 PM
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I see the opposite thing online… it might be the type of content you’re consuming. The messaging I see online is women in happy relationships with men they adore and want to be with, which is in line with what I see irl too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:07 PM
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Rejection is one thing, but I don’t see the narrative that women aren’t attracted to men as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:06 PM
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Women with low standards want a man with low standards… sounds about right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:54 PM
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Who has an issue with men setting standards? I would only date a man who has high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:52 PM
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Usually older men who are creepy are told to leave women alone, but I don’t see that as something that younger men are told
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:09 PM
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Are we really telling men that we aren’t attracted to them? Really weird bc many women spend their teens and 20s chasing boys/men. Finding a bf was a big goal for a lot of girls around me since high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:52 PM
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Is staying up late being a “bad boy” now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 02:36 PM
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My hot take is that most women are fake pretty bc they wear lots of makeup and get surgeries or procedures. Men are naturally good looking because they don’t do any of that and still look nice so it’s a bigger flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:52 PM
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I don’t dream of labour, my dream job is to be a wife and mom. But rn I work in IT and it’s not too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:48 PM
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A woman in an age gap marriage on instagram walked down the aisle to this song
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:45 AM
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No, but ik people who have and they say it’s incredibly easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:20 AM
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Getting complimented on your humour feels the best imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:05 AM
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One of my school projects was a girly Barbie-themed realtor website and it was so fun to make
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:41 PM
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This is why you should get her off at least multiple times before you penetrate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:16 PM
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Much easier than working a 9-5 job like a regular person and making less money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:15 PM
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I’ve heard about that. Golf club workers usually get great tips
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:50 PM
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I take the have a man in my life who knows how to repair pill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:08 PM
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Bottle girl is such a low effort job with high rewards. All you need to do is show up pretty in a nice outfit and people tip you 100s. Perfect example of pretty privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:00 PM
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Unironically how some men are moving these days
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:36 PM
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I don’t think they touch grass or interact with couples irl. Most are just believing whatever weird ideas they read on the internet and just going with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:55 PM
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I think I can just find better things to spend the money on than a vehicle to get around. A cheaper car can do the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:26 PM
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One time I bought airplane tickets on a scam website but was able to get it refunded after threatening the scammers. I learned my lesson and only buy tickets from reputable places like airline websites or costco.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:18 PM
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I don’t think I’d get into working on it myself anyways. I’m too much of a girl for that 🤣 I just ask my dad to help me with things. Even when I take it to the dealership for an oil change, I call my dad for advice whenever they ask me to change something 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:13 PM
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I’ve never tried finding the forum but I check out the subreddit sometimes and that’s pretty useful too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:55 PM
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I didn’t even know huawei makes cars
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:24 PM
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Smaller cars are also easier to park so it’s nice. Even a sedan could be good for families. I plan on using mine when I have kids. I might have to get roof storage to fit camp stuff though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:24 PM
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Even if I was really rich, I’d never buy a luxury vehicle. The parts are expensive AF so good luck with those extra expenses when something breaks. On top of that, you have to worry about it getting damaged or stolen everytime you take it anywhere. If I ever become rich, I’ll drive a Toyota 4Runner at most and even then, I’d worry about damaging that car too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:00 PM
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I’m the latter and my values were so strong that I never participated in hookup culture at all. There’s just no appeal in it for someone with my values. I’ve met other men and women who were just as principled and didn’t ever compromise their values for a partner. If you could just be convinced to give up your principles, then you never had them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:43 PM
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My man would never cheat. I didn’t choose a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:05 PM
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Most women who are principled/against casual sex have those values because of religion or strong personal beliefs. If someone thinks they’re so special that they can sway these sorts of views, then good luck to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:39 PM
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Nope. Some women are highly principled.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:15 PM
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This works if a man is okay dating a woman who’s into casual relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:00 PM
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10K on a purse is crazy 😭 good to hear u were able to dodge that bullet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:45 PM
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She was a multimillionaire before she met him. She’s in no way the unambitious trad wife stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:02 PM
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I never liked party guys bc I automatically associated it with being promiscuous. Guys like that didn’t even get a chance with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:45 PM
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I don’t need your sympathy. I have a taller bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:39 PM
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I’ve only been rejected once for it so it doesn’t happen too often
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:55 AM
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I’ve been rejected for being tall before. But it’s not a big deal… you can just date a taller man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:55 AM
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It definitely cuts down some dating options to be a tall woman but surgery is so extreme 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:23 AM
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Dating apps are stupid anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:05 AM
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<image> Wild
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:02 AM
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Tattoos are an ick but he also just looks cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:35 PM
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Dune rn
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:42 PM
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Nope. The guys I’ve rejected were not boyfriend/husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:31 PM
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Probably something about tradwives having a body count of 0 and being able to be into sex while at the same time hating sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 06:56 PM
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I’ve never been attracted to a man just based on appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:25 PM
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Yes, no bodies sexually and otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:15 PM
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I agree with the reply. There are def good men out there, you just have to be open to meeting them. A lot of women have a bad attitude and dismiss men bc of a few bad experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:14 PM
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🥺😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:53 PM
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Super weird to be friends with an ex. I’ve always immediately blocked all the guys I’ve dated before, even tho no sex was involved. I just don’t wanna keep ppl who have no meaning to me in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:50 PM
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Atheists are cringe too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 02:30 PM
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Many women are choosing to be childfree… most of the time, it’s a conscious choice. I don’t see any evidence to suggest women are unhappy in dual income households… that’s just the reality of the economy. Few can afford to be SAHM and many women don’t want that anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:38 AM
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Not true at all. This isn’t 1950.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:22 AM
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Bruh what. That’s so not true. Plenty of women are happily married to men who make the same or below them even.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:51 AM
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Religious ppl are cringe like that I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:33 AM
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I don’t see a problem with any of those other than ur house, church or family function
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:47 AM
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The chances he’s earning the EXACT same salary are low… there are many salary variations in STEM
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:27 AM
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Being a regular at a bar should be the first red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:52 PM
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I’m just referring to the finances
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:19 PM
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He’s not doing the vast majority… it’s an even split. Idk how you’re not understanding this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:06 PM
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Yes, because I don’t see anything wrong with their split
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:47 PM
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Both, but I like mountains slightly more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:45 PM
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I don’t know why you’re asking that when it’s irrelevant to what I’m saying… I literally just said that the expenses are split evenly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:44 PM
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There are so many guys in STEM… it’s a male-dominated field. I don’t think you need to worry about women in STEM not finding a partner in the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:37 PM
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I didn’t say she does more than the man. I said they split expenses evenly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:36 PM
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He’s also in STEM. I ain’t dating a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 03:41 PM
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I’m a woman in STEM and he loves my nerdy ass so idk what ur on about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:57 AM
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She literally pays for half of everything… did you watch the vid?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:14 AM
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I guess it’s awkward bc it’s like a breakup? This situation could easily be avoided by not having a FWB tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 10:20 PM
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Depends on his reason for not being able to hold down a job. Usually this is a sign of a bigger problem like mental health, addiction, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 10:12 PM
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Most young men seem to have pretty good work ethic in my experience. Pretty rare to meet a bummy man. I know far more women who are unemployed, have no passions in life and 0 work ethic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:07 PM
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Tik tokers are some bum ass women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:29 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s heavily in her favour, other than the car. Not sure if she just doesn’t drive or what the reason for that is… otherwise, it’s fairly even outside of dates, but idk how many dates they go on. Some couples in LTRs go on dates so infrequently that it’s not a huge financial strain. But the fact that he does more chores than her does seem like a huge benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:25 PM
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Kinda crazy how in posts like this, girls are always hating on the split of finances. I see nothing wrong with their split tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:10 PM
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Okay I might stare a bit if I see that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:01 PM
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Thanks for reminding me 🤣😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:00 PM
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Nah, I’m just dating a based man, unlike most women. Not everyone cheats on their gf like you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:00 PM
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That’s his only and real account…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:31 PM
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I don’t care how good someone looks, I ain’t staring at anyone in public bc that feels weird and illegal 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:26 PM
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Nah, it’s all politically incorrect reels. He clicks “not interested” if a girl reel pops up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:10 PM
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It’s fine, he’s just not into beauty like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:31 PM
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I changed from a middle part to a side part and he didn’t notice 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:25 PM
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Qphobia and rcsm match my aesthetic the most
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:42 PM
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I’m more so talking about random girls’ thirst traps in a man’s feed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:14 PM
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A taken man should curate his feed not to have any women in it by clicking “not interested” each time a woman comes up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:45 PM
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Why does your feed have women in it? That’s already enough of a reason to be mad as a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:20 PM
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Yes bc why are you even looking at other women to begin with…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:06 PM
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I guess you can niche twinkmaxx then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:35 PM
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You could just go to the gym and not be skinny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:27 PM
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I wasn’t even talking about single moms but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:25 PM
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Most of the babies are born from ugly women???? That’s horrible 😭 think about the babies’ genetics!!!! We can’t just keep making the gene pool uglier in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:23 PM
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Sounds like cap to me. Fat and ugly women often struggle to find someone to commit to them. They have sex in hopes of winning a guy over but it rarely works bc men see them as temporary. Their self esteem is low so they think this is a normal part of dating. You have much more leverage in dating as an attractive woman. You can choose to only have sex on your terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:19 PM
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Different definition than what I’ve been hearing here for years
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:16 PM
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Considering some men here have really low standards for being a Chad, he seems pretty common. Like having any woman interested in you ever makes you a Chad according to some PPDers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:10 PM
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Are women not married to Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:06 PM
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Nuance*
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:29 PM
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That’s what a Stacy is …never mind I misread that. Why would an unattractive woman have an easy time finding commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:28 PM
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So finding a forever partner on your first try makes you a Stacy by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:21 PM
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“I would get women drunk”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:07 PM
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I don’t mind the swim shoes part bc I always wear those swimming in lakes. But this is a dealbreaker bc I wanna wear sandals and go barefoot at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:30 PM
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We never had an engagement rings in my culture, all we had were solid gold wedding bands. But I hear people back home are doing engagement rings now too bc of western influence. “Your boyfriend probably has experience” No, he doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:28 PM
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When she’s 25 and realizes money is hard to make and you need a downpayment to buy a house
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:15 PM
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My culture doesn’t even have engagement rings so I don’t care for it much, it’s very much a western thing. I think it’s kinda a dumb consumerist thing. My preference is $1K but it looks like none of the nice lab grown diamond rings are available at that price point. Bf doesn’t want to settle for an ugly ring so he’s probably gonna spoil me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:59 PM
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Not sure about soon but we are going ring shopping in the winter. Likely won’t buy it then, but we just wanna see what styles we like. I want him to pick one on his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:50 PM
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It’s stupid. I don’t want my partner spending over $1K on it bc that’s a bad financial decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:49 PM
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Yes, I’d be upset if he wasted his money on a natural diamond
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:43 PM
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<image> Why are tiny lab-grown diamonds still this expensive??? The whole jewelry industry is a scam
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:09 PM
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No, I wouldn’t date someone who refers to themselves as a gamer or games daily. Occasional gaming when you have free time is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:02 PM
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I don’t get why people don’t just date and marry 10s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:19 PM
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Sucks to be them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:16 PM
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That’s so crazy 😭😭 men ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:15 PM
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Trash panda and Bambi 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:24 PM
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If he had other options than me, I wouldn’t even bother investing any time in him. Like go date those ladies if u want, I ain’t gonna be part of the competition. I always expected loyalty from the day we started talking 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:20 PM
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Isn’t Columbia sex worker central?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:05 PM
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RIP. I guess it’s ok if u got a battery bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:16 PM
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I have an iPhone 13 which also feels kinda old these days but I refuse to get a new phone until it breaks. I’m surprised you got ur 11 to last so long. How’s the battery life on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:49 PM
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I’ve never done casual and my boyfriend is the hottest guy I’ve ever met!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:27 PM
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I wouldn’t date a soy boy but some women do so I can’t discount their alternatives
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:04 AM
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Oh hell naw. I wouldn’t wanna be on that podcast with a bunch of thots and dumb men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:00 AM
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My bf is a gun guy. I wouldn’t date a soy boy or a man who’s not traditionally masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:58 AM
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Dating, gender dynamics, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:18 AM
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That one trad wife woman who likes when her husband fires people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:21 AM
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I wonder if anyone from PPD has ever been on the whatever podcast
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:14 AM
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I think most men would, unless they’re not into guns but then u can find an alternate gift
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:20 PM
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Those are nice gifts!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:19 PM
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Lesbians are based once again
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:18 PM
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I like booty on man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:18 PM
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Super based
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:18 PM
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Why would u need to threaten a lovely fiancée? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:18 PM
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This is a good alternative for men who like sports
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:17 PM
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I think they’d appreciate a gun too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:16 PM
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Only the wedding band!! It’s sad they get no special gift before the wedding 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:36 PM
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Women should get engagement swords or guns for their fiancée after getting engaged. It feels weird to get such an expensive gift without giving another special gift in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:26 PM
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Booty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:18 PM
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Couples are better when the woman is prettier anyways. There’s no reason for a man to be the pretty one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:34 PM
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I said that bc I’m right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:50 PM
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It is 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:38 PM
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I’ve met several men like that when I was single. They’re always hung up on some girl from the past. Not a good person to date if you don’t have any baggage, this is why I’m glad my bf doesn’t have any ex gfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 03:18 PM
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Or Stacy widow. Stacy widowed men are not it either 🙅🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:52 PM
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I’m gonna do this to attempt a healthy bulk. I don’t wanna be fat but I need to keep my muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 06:25 PM
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