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Discussioncb8585b/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:41 PM
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Not believing women is the status quo and men are not entitled to women having charitable view of their behaviour. The purpose of these type posts is that you know full well that women don’t trust men and act accordingly. You don’t just not believe women you spend an inordinate amount of time trying to argue with women about their lived experiences because you think it would serve you. I think men think they can “it’s just a teeny tweeny tiny percentage of us” their way into women not avoiding t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:49 AM
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Sure 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:11 PM
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You tell me, is there a reason you replied?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:52 PM
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They already do which is why you still contemplate approaching women despite your self described ugliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:18 PM
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Good more of you should be afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:55 PM
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Yeah I have, have you heard gay men talk about men 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:41 PM
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How many men have you rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:32 PM
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You can be average and lame so long as there’s some other reason another person might enjoy being in your presence. If not …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:05 PM
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Hmm, the best way I could put it is that in 2026 hearing women say “I can’t believe he would do that” or something similar surprises me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:12 PM
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I don’t think of declining birth rates
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:05 AM
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Don’t worry we’ve all been informed that there’s a huge contingent of men who plan to drop out of society soon if they can’t get laid. Factor them into your analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:58 PM
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Do you think no one wanting to fuck you precludes you from being entitled or?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:08 PM
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https://youtu.be/g\_y15ozNchY?feature=shared
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:15 PM
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“What are friends?” Is this really where we are?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:57 PM
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What do you mean I “can’t” link a survey. The people most interest in defending their interest in teens are most invested in having that data on the go. Anyway yes I’ve read all these contortions before it’s almost like a script with different gateways wanting teenagers, hanging out around colleges, porn, sex tourism and consent law shopping you name it. Guy thinks his stepdaughter porn is healthy dude: AS A BIOLOGICAL MALE, me: you’re probably a pred dude: nooo noooo \ insert your comment here*…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:15 AM
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Survey evidence you can collect from the brotherhood, they hold it near and dear as above to justify. And yes I’ve (we’ve all) been informed that men are allegedly biologically pedo/ephebophilic. >do you honestly think that a significant percentage of guys who talk about dating young women are looking for that? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:39 AM
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If I don’t know the individual, I don’t subject myself to men’s complaints. Whether I care or not in the event I am however depends on what is being complained about e.g. don’t give a damn about sexlessness, do care broadly about things like homelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:31 PM
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Weirder than interest in teenagers? but anyway yes men frequently pontificate on this sub about their god given right to barely legals. They even submit survey evidence of male preference for 18 year olds. Experience just tells me “young women” actually just means whatever we can get away with. Hope that helps 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:00 PM
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I’m proudly bigoted on this topic and would be happy to have my hard drives checked. Would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:40 AM
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No it’s just interesting watching men contort themselves to deny or justify thinly veiled pedo and ephebophilia and relating it to the image of ugly old men from your youth. And also no its for the very same reason you get constant streams of this: https://www.theguardian.com/world/ng-interactive/2026/jul/03/thailand-sex-tourism-hub-girls-exploited-ntwnfb
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:59 AM
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Well in that case follow your thoughts to conclusion, more men have disdain for women today because the only thing men can offer today is sex. Since women don’t need men to provide for them how many of you are complaining you can’t get laid. The girls don’t even want dick from you. That fills men with contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:07 AM
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Good for your mom bring her to the podium. Her input would be more interesting than the “genuine belief” of some dude who has thoughts he thinks are important and doesn’t even know if he wants kids himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:56 AM
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Please take this incel babble elsewhere, shoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:36 PM
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I don’t have to ask myself shit. It’s not my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:24 PM
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Work on whatever arrested development you’re going through and you won’t have to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:34 AM
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Yes you will continue to be unloved in that case. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:26 AM
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r/whenwomenrefuse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:19 AM
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So yes you’d feel envy watching your kids tummy get tickled and ass wiped ? That’s what you want ? you want mommy to blow raspberries with you? Want your food cut up into little pieces ? Told you’re a good lil boy? Jfc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:17 AM
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We already know many men don’t find it valuable when women say no. You then act with disbelief when told how creepy men are that’s the even weirder part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:00 AM
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Oh I don’t know are you going to have kids one day and get jealous when watching your newborns tummy get tickled and ass wiped?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:57 AM
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No where in your hypothetical do you even attempt to explain what the woman is supposed to gain from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:20 PM
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There needs to be a why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:50 PM
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Why don’t you take a moment to unpack why the idea of fucking someone that mothers you doesn’t repulse you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:40 PM
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About what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:31 AM
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Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:23 AM
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You’re just describing taking initiative for the things you want. If you’re not on the receiving end of anyones initiative just draw the logical conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:32 PM
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The answer is not living with someone you have to ask to do basic tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:00 PM
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So men know women don’t like most of them and yet men are more disillusioned? You need to turn this diary entry into an actual debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:34 AM
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Where is the accountability? Choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:59 PM
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No ugly men with money are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:18 AM
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I really don’t know how many pussy tingles men are out there causing. One sounds like an achievable bar though so there’s hope yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:15 PM
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Must be the famed "accountability" so many guys on here love to talk about 🙄 Until you mention sex and then divorce starts making conceptual sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:35 PM
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Yes I can’t tell whether it’s being idealistic or problematic in wanting marriage to confer ownership over another person. It’s truly odd, I’m leaning problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:13 PM
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There’s objectively nothing to see it’s marriage not chattel slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:49 PM
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I don’t “feelz” anything. I think in consequences. Which back to point of your emotional comment the consequence of “vows” is precisely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:45 PM
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Are you here to play advocate for unknown woman’s unknown husband? Marriage is a civil matter before the state. That’s it. The emotional “but but she said words in front of people 🥺”, is redundant. What you think you can tolerate is not what another person decides to tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:07 PM
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Your premise is empty what appreciation are you talking about ? words and affirmation from your family and friends, participation awards for existing, salary ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:36 AM
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Would’ve been a dealbreaker. But I do have a friend who dated one, her playing mommy seemed to be an expectation quickly. So for that reason and other co-parenting mess that can be associated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:34 PM
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No one knows what it means but it’s provocative
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:51 PM
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Has anyone thought about a man’s damn pebbles today?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:41 PM
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Interesting so at what age did you begin arguing with these feminists about the existence of porn-like women, was this in your formative years or in adulthood?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:00 PM
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Yes feminism an ideology focused on promising men “porn like women” in abundance. Do you have a favourite quote that you held on to growing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:07 PM
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That’s actually an interesting point granted sex is relatively taboo to bring up casually generally. But I never hear people describe themselves as porn enthusiasts, porn fans, describe it as a hobby. Yet there’s people that say they know directors, studios, have category preferences, favourite porn actors etc? It’s almost as if it has become akin to something like brushing your teeth. I’d say eating but there’s people that describe themselves as foodies. It’s just “something you do”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:49 PM
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts I’m sure they’re important to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:58 AM
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I hear the feminists are also trying to take arranged marriages from you. Something about exchanging goats for girls being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:22 PM
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I don’t agree with your disagreement, great debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:37 PM
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Men complain all the time in real life and online 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:35 PM
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Men complain all the time, great debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:21 PM
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It seems we just went round in a circle. What would I gain by spending my time trying to be attractive to “men”? I think a lot of men see women as an obstacle to spamming their dicks everywhere. I’m not sure “care” would be the right word to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:16 PM
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Are you suggesting broadly appealing to men should be aspirational? I have better things to be doing thanks. Why would I care about making “men” happy? You make a specific person happy if you’re compatible with them. I think you’re confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:40 AM
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I’d say “weird and creepy” would be a reductive summary of what I care to understand but yes that’s included nonetheless. And no I don’t care about what “men” are attracted to, I dont spend time researching this because what use is that information to me? If it helps I don’t think we can avoid a lot of the things men are attracted to sex sells and all that. Also are these supposed to be leading questions is there a “this is why you should” coming or ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:01 AM
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Not really and no overall to your questions but that’s not the full picture though. Best example I can give is what my friends and I are currently calling the sniffer chronicals. It started with my friends’ coworker telling her she smelled good and asking her what shampoo she uses. Fairly innocuous right? Not really. She didn’t say anything until a few times it had happened. So it became a debate on how weird it is or isn’t . “Maybe he just likes fragrances” etc. I was of the view it was only a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:15 AM
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Your question is silly tbh yes I already only have sex with men I ‘fancy’.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:50 PM
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No I just find very few men attractive and I’m opposed to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:39 AM
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I’m copying this exact text and sending it to an unspecified individual that has been duped by big watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:31 AM
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Truly entertaining read. Thanks. 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:12 AM
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no bro you just need travel to bangkok maybe they like big dick... no bro.. my dick not big no bro it actually that they only like famous serial ks and grapests THEY DONT LIKE. they not even there like you are there women there shake ass on the friends. they know men dont like fat
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:13 AM
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The real truth nuke is none of the violent freaks mentioned throughout this thread are chads 🤔 where is Chad? is this a good time to bring up “average” and “below average” men in looks and also “status” are statistically more likely to be the guy you see in the news for doing fucked up shit ? A fact that seems obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:45 PM
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It’s quite literally a claim of mutual exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:01 PM
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Dennis Nilsen was also the same way. Shy, awkward loner that couldn’t get anyone to stay with him. To the point he slept next to his victims bodies for days before keeping them under his floorboards and eventually flushing them down the toilet if I remember correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:40 PM
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What precludes a weak, shy and unmasculine male from being violent and/or a misogynist or having a girlfriend? Should we identify all the weak shy and unmasculine males that do violent freak shit. Like I just watched the Ed Gein series last year why shouldn’t we dislike weak shy and unmasculine males? Even worse if they’re loners right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:54 AM
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I have no interest in “but women” whining the post is about men. I do know most men are failures by way of observation. It’s men who actually lack self awareness on this aspect usually which is my argument - that men don’t perceive themselves as such so the narrative that men need to open up suggest they’re not already doing so when they are. You’re unreliable narrators. Male behaviours are excused as non emotional. It’s for the people around them to deal with and we’re told to care about whethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:26 AM
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Yes I’m looking at “failures” because in that case most men are failures. The narrative just allows very OPEN emotional behaviour to be excused, ignored or accepted when coming from a man. You observe this in the work place, in the home etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:58 PM
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Im saying men do the opposite of suffer in silence. They just perceive themselves to be stoic. It’s a false narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:28 PM
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No it’s just a comprehension issue on your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:22 PM
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Yes that’s my main issue with the narrative. I don’t and have never observed men to be stoic and actually bottling shit up. They walk around like a dark cloud and expect people to tolerate it. Then when they have tantrums it’s a crisis and everyone else’s problem. For me it’s either go do that elsewhere or say what your problem is, to who I don’t particularly care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:29 PM
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I agree that it would be a chosen super power by a lot of men, I disagree it has anything to do with wanting “to be yourself”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:30 AM
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Yeah I for sure know plenty of women where it’s just not possible from PIV alone would never say otherwise. But I also think women are being pushed into doing PIV when they’re not actually aroused which contributes. I think the assumption it should just feel good is a big issue and shouldn’t be accepted. How long it takes aroused is the variance. I can enjoy and orgasm(not always) from PIV when I’m actually aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:18 AM
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Yeah I understand I was the same way and don’t discount it could be biological. But I think when you have bad sex for so many years even trying x thing with that partner that you don’t associate with pleasure will make it so there’s a mental block. That was my experience anyway. I had to blank slate it with my now boyfriend and it’s completely different objectively as in the actual sex and mentally. But It took some time for me to rewire that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:06 AM
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This assumes finding value in being in a relationship just to be in one. Very “you’ll do”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:48 AM
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Do you think part of this is now psychological, in the sense that you don’t associate him/ sex with pleasure (objectively so) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:45 AM
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Where did you get that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:56 PM
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The biggest risk to the safety of women is continuing to expect too much from men. It’s actually the greatest tool men have. There was a post the other day of a dude whining that women ignore and avoid men. That is the best harm prevention method and I don’t know why men complain about it. And not allowing cognitive dissonance to keep you from having one foot out the door at all times for men you decide to be in a relationship with or allow in your life generally. Trust should be limited and com…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:06 PM
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Do you mean this in a debate/ broadly online sense or in your real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:35 AM
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To this and your initial comment I think it’s assumptive. Of all the issues I had with my ex me not finding him attractive was not one of them. But I had to reply because I find your suggestion actually kind of concerning. “Just lie there and take it” is what you’re saying and that is what I did. I lost my virginity to him at 15 he was quite a bit older and a lot more experienced than me. I was a teenage prude. Sex to him was literally jack hammering till he came in a couple of minutes. Literall…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:19 AM
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Yes I think discussing your genitals touching with the solemnity of planning a funeral has an absurdity to it. But for me it’s just any sort of beggy whiny language that becomes ick inducing. I think they’re the types of conversations that where they’re necessary should only happen a handful of times maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:24 AM
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I actually completely get what you’re saying but vice versa and also in both a sexual and non sexual way 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:36 AM
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Wait you were the culprit 🤣: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/BMotemloJ5
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:33 AM
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Why can’t men be funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:01 AM
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But not short women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:59 AM
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Isn’t the obvious answer that it doesn’t feel nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:56 AM
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Do you find jokes about short men funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:54 AM
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Your flair is women hate short men. Are you consistent?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:47 AM
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I don’t disagree with what you’re saying. But how I’ve taken her overall message is it’s one of self preservation. There’s ofcourse no fullproof way of knowing but if you start the relationship with an irreconcilable compatibility issues surrounding sex then It’s a question of being realistic about how detrimental it will be for both of you. Especially knowing that life can impact your sex life in the ways you’ve described. For me duty sex was an absolutely violating experience albeit there were…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:29 AM
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Info: Can you explain why you believe these things are mutually exclusive? You can have disdain for those who sex traffic at the top and those who write elaborate rape fantasies on 4chan from their basement at the bottom and everything in between. Yet they are forced to bleed for the sins of the elites simply because they are weak enough to actually feel the sting of rejection. Really? Lmao “Unselected men” go clock in like the rest of us. No one is actually thinking about them and you know this…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:00 AM
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It will be a tough message to get across to women with some hard truths about unpacking female agreeableness (since you’re speaking to women). There is women that are having terrible duty sex from the first month of a relationship. I was one of them. My age and naivety was a factor but I kind of think you need to be pilled about male sexuality to boundary set.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:05 AM
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Yeah you could argue at population level there is just a default incompatibility. But in that case couldn’t your argument just be there should be no long term heterosexual relationships ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:36 PM
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I don’t disagree. But it’s also knowing when it’s a red flag unless you’re the same way if you get with a porn fried overly lustful man who for example cannot touch your body non sexually. Those are the types that will begin to repulse you. I think this is basically just a sexual compatibility q.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:27 PM
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This is a reach. No it’s not because men dont produce let me smoosh your cheeks feelings. There’s just a persistent 50/50 chance as many women will tell you that a man may be waiting for an opportunity to ask you to touch his dick. I do believe men and women can be purely platonic and I have a couple of guy friends I’ve known my whole life it’s sibling territory. And I could’ve mentioned my closest male friend is gay and we don’t have the same kind of boundaries as the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:46 PM
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Yeah I feel victimized when I see a man with a house and a car. Why would he have those things if he wasn’t advertising that he has money and other tangible assets available for me to take. The ones with the expensive cars and watches are for sure walking licks. They dont buy things just because they like them or have personal interests. I don’t consent to my head being filled with thoughts of robbery but there you go. Men are always casually saying they love objectification because they say if …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:22 PM
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Well I’m especially close to some of my female friends and no I don’t envision being that close to a male friend. I’m talking I’m not giving my male friends bikini waxes and cuddling with them. But they are otherwise included in normal friendship activities with no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:59 PM
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I’m glad you see what I’m doing. Women are objectified from childhood, when do we learn to love it since you’re an expert?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:15 PM
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You mean the countries where female bodies are seen as so inherently sexual that they must remain covered from head to toe. While still being subjected to overwhelming sexual and domestic violence, FGM and child marriages ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:12 PM
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Men cant control themselves around little girl body equals older women are the problem and men are the victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:09 PM
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In my single father household?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:01 PM
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Yeah for sure I remember when I had no money to buy clothes. No not from being unemployed but from being a child. I was told to change when my dads friends where coming over. For sure at the time I was thinking about how much I could arouse those men. A vest top is obviously to sexy on budding breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:57 PM
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Woman simply exists in female body equals man is the victim akin to being hit with a baseball bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:48 PM
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So you asked because you want to talk about short men ? Is that your schtick?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:01 AM
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Bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:59 AM
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Your flair is women hate short men. Why should I take you seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:55 AM
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This comment has so much comedic gold in it. Thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:51 AM
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I’ll answer when you tell me the last time you befriended a new random man and how frequently you do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:47 AM
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Relevance please?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:32 AM
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Oh yeah I agree i do hence the automod bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:31 AM
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And then you reply with more goo goo gaga.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:51 AM
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For the type of men you speak of r.e. wanting a woman in the home I don’t think it’s jealousy about what women do necessarily, I think it needs to be understood how comedically un-special these dudes feel. When the real world makes you feel like a piece of shit compared to “better” men those Iron Age misogynists said (biblically) you are the leader of your house at least that’s the one and only place you can be “king”. Can’t give birth but it’s God, then you then woman. Taking away the household…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:48 AM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:58 PM
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They really believe it’s a sympathetic appeal to say “We’re all just inherently deranged and we need pacification through pussy, it’s the only way for us to not harm ourselves and others is if we get pussy” Like in that case my guy culling doesn’t sound like a bad idea tf?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:55 PM
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Good the last Brenda barely had a brain, couldn’t spell her name and got left with a baby. Waiting for a Chad with a boat is preferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:31 PM
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Ive observed it seems to also genuinely be a feeling of conquering for some “you’re my BM I won” comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:44 PM
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I truly think you should be locked in a mental asylum right now. Forget an asylum be realistic about who in this exchange would be more likely to be put on watchlist let alone an in an asylum. I deserve to have a chance at having a romantic and sex life. Yet no woman wants to give that chance. You don’t but also nothing is preventing you from getting it either bar consent. And your employment status is irrelevant to this. And that’s why they want to vote away your rights. But don’t blame those m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:20 PM
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My guy you’re using a just world fallacy on yourself. You think you deserve a girlfriend because you have a job. I don’t think you do. No one cares about what you want more than you do. I refer you back to my initial comment. No they voted it because they wanted to take women’s rights away. I remember some guy went on Twitter and basically told women: You don’t get to control your bodies anymore. We (men) now control them.” Yes they want government girlfriends like I said. Your comments are an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:46 PM
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It’s in the initial comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:14 PM
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You realise that a lot of white women are “trumpers”right ? “Women” didn’t tell YOU shit. You also seem to have a very rudimentary understanding of the political landscape. Women claiming to go “4B” because of an election are delusional and not actually about it but atleast not as deranged as baskets of unfuckables thinking a trump presidency was going to give them government girlfriends. Seriously grow up. All of this is even irrelevant to your initial point. “I have a job but women are not giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:13 PM
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Yeah and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:05 PM
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I find discussing these matters with men to be worthless. I respect all women’s subjective determinations of whether or not it’s something they want to or even can go through or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:04 PM
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Your perspective hinges on these things being correlated. Your existence and how YOU sustain it is irrelevant to most people you encounter in their day to day lives. When you walk out the house and go into a grocery store are you waiting for people to stop and check whether you’re working. Women are not looking at you thinking hmmm I wonder if he has a job, if he does “perhaps I should fuck him because he’s paying his bills like a good lil boy”. You need to grow up if this is your worldview, it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:56 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:45 PM
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“Women” are not thinking about you at all. Let alone whether YOU are in gainful employment or not. Everyone is living their individual lives. What an odd perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:43 PM
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Yes men are often rewarded for being sexual predators look on the bright side and don’t lose sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:03 PM
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I can’t circle around something that doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:55 PM
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Interesting “doordash girl” a scenario you feel you can point to as an example of your? Punishment. See with sexual violence it’s so pervasive there isn’t one singular case that comes to mind. No we just see rapists being interviewed in front of millions on late night TV. Or become president. Telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:26 PM
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That’s very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:45 PM
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There’s thousands of years of history of abortion. Imagine if the issue boiled down to giving a fuck about some random men on the internets “sympathy”. Like is this question supposed to elicit a plea for “sympathy” really?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:42 AM
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What power ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:14 AM
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On this sub no choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:37 PM
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Who tf are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:34 PM
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No noone has to do anything you said that was obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:05 PM
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No, “men” are not. You individually might be if you don’t wish to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:03 PM
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No one is putting you at a disadvantage then if this is obvious to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:52 PM
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You don’t have to do anything either, you don’t have to have people be attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:17 PM
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What is this “punishment” exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:16 PM
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No that would suggest confidence is immutable. It’s not and therefore you can only put yourself at a disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:01 PM
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Out of the two I would personally choose that. But no most people want well adjusted and secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:53 PM
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Clingy, anxious, dependent. Nope. Big ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:52 PM
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Not really the point of your post but I do wonder what the “if men don’t get government girlfriends they will become roving gangs of pillaging rapists with all the free time they have from being NEETs by choice” crowd would say if it’s men opting out on their own volition.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:25 AM
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I spend little if any time thinking about men I don’t know. Depending on the issue presented to me by any individual man I may or may not have empathy/sympathy. Also telling people to seek help, push through, try harder and no one owes you anything are all valid responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:08 PM
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“Supply every man in the 1st world with a girlfriend” The fact you people never see the things you say. But anyway sure; so long as the mail order girlfriend visa doesn’t require anything but an attestation from you both saying you’re dating. Meaning she can live in her own house, there is no revocation after break up even if you were to break up the day she lands in the country and no other requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:49 PM
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No it’s actually the opposite of entitlement; they are rejecting you ergo wanting nothing from you. You can feel sad about methods of rejection but it doesn’t mean anything in the grand scheme of things you should be so lucky you don’t have to risk assess and manage the emotions of random men who want something from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:54 AM
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You’re not putting yourself out there on some type of altruistic mission you want something from the women you’re approaching. Women you don’t know. They don’t owe you much they especially don’t owe you a real number.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:09 AM
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No I’ve never been particularly interested in what the “manosphere” has to say about anything. I’m anti sex-work, I believe casual sex is a net negative for women, and I don’t particularly respect the decision to be a “home maker” without completing further education and having independent income. I defer mostly due to being nonetheless quite libertarian but these views are largely antithetical to ideas of choice feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:24 AM
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No you’re just told if you want to pay for sex you can go and do that because it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:46 PM
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I assure you men would complain whether they get a fake number or no number at all. And men who are inclined to be aggressive would be aggressive either way. The hostility is to the fact the woman doesn’t want you. I refuse to read the entire length of your essay but a lot of anguish would be saved for people generally if you learned to walk away at any sign of disinterest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:48 PM
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It was very much clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:35 PM
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Apologies I’ll make it clearer I am denying that women just perceive men as repulsive for no reason a lot of you just ARE repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:40 PM
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No this is not a “third world culture” problem it’s a male one. I mean what happened after hurricane Katrina, what happens during any conflict, the red army and allied forces raped their way across Europe too, what did the U.S military do in Abu ghraib, Vietnam, why are frequent sexual assaults by American soldiers stationed there currently straining relations with Japan, why has there been numerous child and sex trafficking rings in frequent passport bro locations involving western men includin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:31 PM
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If men want women to be receptive to displays of their sexuality the onus is on men to not be perceived as repulsive. Men would have to take responsibility of PR here. Also men are actually repulsed by male sexuality. Loudly proclaiming across different platforms as so many men do that you seek indiscriminate access to a variety of holes (not women) in a desperate and aggressive manner is never going to be viewed positively especially when women are being subjected to often aggressive, anti-soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:01 PM
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There’s no magic girlfriend genie, dating is not a dei program and online strangers don’t know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:38 AM
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Well regardless this is the type of shit women get asked regularly. What type of responses would you feel are not “condescending and unhelpful” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:28 PM
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We? You for some reason framed this as an issue with women’s response. The issue is with the garbage being asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:11 PM
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Men : https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/UbycoVMkN6
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:58 PM
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What has anything you said got to do with “despising” young men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:34 PM
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Perhaps stop looking at interpersonal dynamics as an equation you can apply a singular set of rules to and you will stop being so confused. And that applies to how you interact with people in any area of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:35 AM
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Dick posters usually just go ask another sub to make them feel better about their cock. And repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:19 AM
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What do you mean why? No one will care if you do or don’t. Reach whatever conclusion makes you comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:56 AM
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The actual question you need to ask yourself is what you are going to do with this information either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:17 AM
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Absolutely putrid levels of desperation here my guy. You are providing an answer to your own post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:18 AM
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This is more a statement of fact than of pride. It’s pretty funny how this confuses you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:01 AM
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What do you mean “find impossible” ? desire is there or it isn’t. I can assure you it’s of great ease and doesn’t require a thought process to not lust after random strange men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:31 AM
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Indifferent but leaning unattractive not so much the tech and computers but the collecting toys. I think it would depend whether he spent much time playing with the toys as opposed to collecting them for some other perceived value such as resale or to trade them. Even then I wouldn’t want to see that shit displayed around my house. And I also don’t like hoarders.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:20 PM
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No women are incapable of all the things you listed it literally never happens because ovaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:24 AM
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Because they were never actually mad at it, they were mad at it being said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:11 AM
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This is the funniest part of it all!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:00 AM
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I’m so confused by the parasitic proposition from men in this comment section (and these common talking points generally) that men will either hurt themselves or others if not provided access to a woman body. The suggestion that you are inherently deranged and need pacification by a woman body just lends one to believe the current course (if this worldview is accepted) is the correct one, ignore you even more and we will supposedly have less deranged people going around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:00 AM
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Why exactly is this supposedly a serious topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:35 AM
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Career woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:25 AM
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Yes every single one of them are like that. Go save her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:53 PM
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I once saw a couple a while ago now where the man transitioned soon after his wifes gave birth and he/she was adamant to breast feed the baby. Mind you this was on Twitter so I don’t discount it could be rage bait. Anyway my point is you can’t anticipate that type of insanity so knowing beforehand to me would be like accepting a ticking time bomb into my life. In case he gets those feelings again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:02 PM
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What is so bad about asking a stranger on the bus to scratch your back? Why don’t you ask a stranger to wax your asshole? Why don’t you ask a stranger to do your meal prep? Scrub your toilet? Ask your coworker to exchange nudes during lunch? Learn life omg.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:34 PM
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Why does it need to be widely proven. You can find many men claiming this is true for them. Atleast offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:52 PM
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Reddit deleted my comment so I have to be nicer. Not my problem. You’re basically asking “would you agree to being extorted”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:49 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:46 PM
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You could both go find a cock to suck today what’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:18 PM
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Is this another “men voted for trump because” question? I think good luck with all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:50 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:41 PM
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I really couldn’t find the words to express the extent and gravity of my NO. But fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:40 PM
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There’s an example in the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:31 PM
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Nope it doesn’t take much because of fragile egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:32 PM
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Yes that’s the pattern any topic descends into “I want to drop out of society without women”. It’s so incredibly unserious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:17 AM
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I would agree with that yet If that was actually the pervasive belief in both Ukraine and Russia this war would have ended a long time ago. You historically can’t wage war without soldiers. Luckily for all of us the future of war is likely drone warfare and nuclear icbms. If Russia/Ukraine has proved anything it’s that trench warfare is pointless and will soon enough become obsolete and therefore men’s role in “serving their nation” will also become obsolete. I wonder what the complaint will be …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:43 PM
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So no you haven’t thought about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:28 PM
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What are people supposed to be listening to? (Not counting actual Ukrainians) if you were to call up your representatives ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:27 PM
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There are over 30 million people in Ukraine, what do you propose for immigration during war time? And the impacts of flight from Ukraine its impacts on the war, Ukraines economy and neighbouring countries ? How do you envision Ukraine is going to recover economically after this war ends?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:25 PM
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You understand why this is why “men’s rights activism” is bunk right? “Sexist emigration policy” is not even rudimentary analysis of both domestic and foreign policy in Europe right now. How do you intend to advocate without effectively communicating these issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:22 PM
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If you believe what you’re saying is logical how do you intend to position your fears to the people who would think you’re in fact unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:07 PM
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How do I advocate for that? Have you never thought about how?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:01 PM
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You regularly make me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:58 PM
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The majority of advocacy I see for Afghan women comes from western women. And by that I mean lobbying, grassroots campaigns, work with NGO’s etc seeking tangible solutions such as sanctions, aid, free online learning platforms etc I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman claiming she is being oppressed by the taliban. Ukrainian men are used as a talking point on Reddit from what I can see and otherwise from people questioning why we’re sending the Ukrainians aid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:39 PM
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There’s a difference between identifying systemic issues and analyzing them, proposing solutions that impact a group or groups and having a victim mentality. You can only achieve results if you have clear messaging and tangible solutions. What I see with male whining is there is never any correlation between systemic issues and individually feeling like a fuck up. It looks to me like: “men are in Ukraine dying…. Me yes I’m in USA … I work in tech women don’t like me… I am oppressed … I’m not tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:23 PM
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I think I’d call it lasting emotional harm though it’s not so much triggering anymore just more so that I think even by the time I’m 50 I’d still be happy to hear that dudes dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:06 AM
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That was misunderstood. I meant that I liked thinking they would find her so attractive that they might do that later. You like thinking about dudes jerking off to your wife? What’s being misunderstood?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:13 PM
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Pretty sure I saw comment here somewhere a few days ago where the dude was like I love watching guys check out my wife so I can think of them going home to jerk off while I actually fuck her……
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:53 AM
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There are also plenty of non abusive men that do well in dating. So those abusive men probably share much of the same characteristics. You likely just share none of them and if you do you’re not selling it well. It’s one thing to claim you’re funny and charismatic and another thing to be genuinely perceived as such. But hey reddit doesn’t know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:43 AM
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It doesn’t need to be probably go ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:52 PM
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Please go ask women in real life why YOU should like them and report back with the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:39 PM
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Right 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:32 PM
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No marital rape laws were introduced for a reason and I think most people are quite content with them. Anyone else can just become a bible basher and leave the rest of us out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:02 PM
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“I’ve been fucking hoes and popping pills I feel like a rockstar”…..is literally the chorus
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:37 PM
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You know you’re being fucking obtuse that’s the funny thing. You want people to list every song ever made about sex so you can prove what exactly? And you also want those men to not be black for some reason? Kings of Leon- sex on fire, Justin beiber-daises, confident, pyd to name a few, any the weeknd song, zayn- pillow talk, Bruno Mars - fat juicy and wet, post malone - rockstar, Ed Sheeran- shape of you …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:27 PM
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They also make sexual music, hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:56 PM
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“Wait till you see my dick, hey bitch” also comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:35 PM
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It’s not. I don’t know what reality you people live in. Drake literally just released a song talking about “smack that ass like its cheetah print”. Justin beiber please be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:31 PM
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From finding the man attractive. Every woman feening to suck every basic bobs cock as she stares intently at him sitting opposite her on the morning commute is not going to happen get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:15 PM
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What is the different mindset exactly? It truly amuses me that you believe men are having original thoughts and revelations. And what makes you think love was being feigned ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:31 PM
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The irony with that is that they can’t see past the revenge fantasy of it all to get to a place where they can even realize they are acknowledging men require pacification individually and as a group and how much society is structured around pacifying their emotions and often volatility. All while scoffing at the idea of women relying on community and such things. So yeah that nicely expanded my point it makes the lack of self awareness seem quite insidious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:50 PM
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Sounds reasonable. No expectation of clairvoyance here. More so a general perception of wilful ignorance especially wrt how your (general) friends act around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:48 PM
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Yeah I’m not someone who claims all types of therapies are effective for everyone. If not a discussion I just think some self reflection would help “I did that because I felt sad”, “I’m acting this way because I’m insecure, I feel insecure because…” , “I’m irritable because…”. It sounds simple but it’s because it goes to the point I’m making. Women will be saying they’re tip-toeing around a man’s emotions and the man will act confused. This also does apply to men and women. But men are the ones …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:41 PM
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I’d say it’s this : they don't particularly get much out of discussing their emotions or trying to seek sympathy, otherwise they would do it. I just tire of the farcical narrative that men are just bottled up stoics. It’s a lack of self awareness of how they’re displaying their emotions. How that reflects in their behaviour and how it’s impacting the people around them. Additionally how often they think they are being logical instead of going through rationalization processes to justify feelings…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:13 PM
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This is the type of shit that can make you hate having eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:03 PM
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Men are incredibly emotional and sensitive. This is not a slight, I think it’s normal (to a degree for people generally). What I find abnormal is the lack of self awareness about this amongst yourselves. Also how many of you have creeps as friends. And this is me taking it in good faith when men claim that’s not the case or they’re not aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:34 PM
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Then I’d argue your situation is not really even a typical sahg dynamic. You’re just dating and willfully unemployed? you could contribute more if you wanted to. If your partner is also wealthy enough to not need your contribution then that isn’t anyone’s business. It’s kind of like if two trust fund kids were dating I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:28 PM
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It’s not an early retirement unless you’re adequately planning for the relationship degrading. Wealth may skew the conversation but most people are speaking of traditional stay at home moms when discussing these dynamics. Their contribution is often not seen as a contribution at the point a relationship ends. We know this by now so accepting that is a risky choice. When I see women crying online about their cards being blocked, scraping to find a lawyer, how they’ve never worked, struggling to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:47 PM
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Yes they (and IMO OP) are often just describing bravado. The cracks show quickly in those cases. It’s otherwise just the same uninteresting asshole v nice guy dichotomy. Confidence must be referring to a cocky asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:15 AM
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Yea confidence is a belief in self. What happens when you lack confidence ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:50 AM
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Insecure is defined as lack of confidence. I think maybe you should’ve got the definitions down before making your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:18 AM
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I disagree. No one likes dealing with insecure people. They tend to require a lot of reassurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:13 AM
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Confidence is largely a belief in self. Hence someone can be riddled with imposter syndrome at work for example while outwardly projecting something completely different. Likely by being charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:03 AM
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You’re confusing confidence and charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:57 AM
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Great, make sure the next time a man is posting claiming being a male is isolating and he’s seen as a threat make sure to confirm to him that he’s delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:04 AM
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Autism? Learn to detect sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:42 PM
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Tf you talking about dude
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:31 PM
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What are you talking about men have no agency at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:40 PM
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I read it. You did not explain why YOU view the desire as a privilege. I’m not talking about women here. Your post is about what you think is a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:05 AM
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We’d both be able to explain why water is both a human right and a privilege. Access to clean water is literally a life source. Yet I don’t think either one of us will be able to explain why your desire is a privilege. And you’re yet to. “It just is” is a non answer. Envision yourself walking up to a woman in a bar, a grocery store, or dming her on Instagram or whatever tf. You think she’s hot, maybe she makes your dick react, you want something from her. She hasn’t even noticed you. If you were…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:00 AM
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My guy it’s your post and you’re the one that believes in the privilege. How do you convince women that it’s a privilege that you want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:33 AM
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what mens desire isnt worthy? and who desire is? and how does the filter process it? what do the men who desire is a privilege have what other men dont? No you tell us, tell us whose desire are women privileged to have, what is it worth ? How do you pitch your desire as a privilege when you talk to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:12 AM
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Like omg some rando asked to fuck you in the dms, so blessed and highly favoured
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:05 AM
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Well on the bright side yall must clearly value yourselves highly based on your insistence that your pursuit should be viewed as a privilege. I think it benefits the self esteem to look at things this way. Maybe if you could actually adequately explain to the people you’re pursuing why your pursuit on an individual level should be viewed as a privilege more of you wouldn’t have such a hard time finding dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:19 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:11 PM
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Haha you’re right. I guess the difference is I see one as more delusional than the other. If someone’s tweeting from a village on the outskirts of Mogadishu their reality is a lot different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:57 PM
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Guilty. I often can’t tell apart the ones who are 1950s “good ol days” trad propagandists and culturally non western.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:45 PM
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“Lie back and think of England” comes to mind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:26 PM
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To what, pointing out the obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:56 PM
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Yes and I guess especially to men it seems, the extent romance historically was held of much importance is greatly overestimated when pining for the past. Pairings were just often very practical at best, oppressive at worst. Whether people did or ended up liking and valuing anything else about eachother almost seems secondary to me when discussing the core of this dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:26 PM
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Not sure ? Depends on your interpretation. I don’t see it as a positive to be needed for survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:10 PM
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Sure yet, If I look at a country like Niger, Chad, Mali, Afghanistan etc in modern day where many parents are still essentially selling of their daughters to men. They are not doing so, so that said daughter is assured companionship and love. They just can’t afford her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:02 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:47 PM
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I think the people who are not fine with it are the loudest voices you’ll hear lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:26 PM
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Yeah that’s because the “gender war” is fake in the way it’s presented online. I’d just say these people see no reason to prioritize relationships and the idea of being in one is not appealing for varying reasons whether that’s past experience or just doesn’t fit in with the life they want to lead. Point is they’re not rotting away or hyper focused on dating they are just living life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:21 PM
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No im describing people I know between around 22-36.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:13 PM
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They’re just living life lol? Like I have friends and siblings who are not on dating apps, they go out regularly some also in further education, quite career focused etc I also have a friend who is a bit of a nomad, works remotely around the world etc they’re not just one way. My sister though you asked for under 30s is in her mid 30s got divorced some years ago now, she moved to Berlin she deadass has no interest in relationships or children etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:11 PM
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Plenty especially those who have been in previous long term relationships through their teens and early twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:04 PM
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Sometimes it’s relief “I finally don’t have to act like I want to fuck this man because someone else is”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:10 PM
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It’s a statistical inevitability that the majority of the worst violent offenders are average and ugly men. You only have to watch the news to confirm this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:13 AM
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“Abusive” is not a fixed personality trait, these are actions and patterns of behaviour. Where abuse stems from whether that’s personality traits or whatever other underlying factors will vary. These questions also always assume human beings are one dimensional.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:34 AM
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Good thing we’re talking about observable interpersonal skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:31 AM
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You caught me, it was I. It’s my mission to let the womenfolk know where the only real male human beings are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:45 PM
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True, the only real male human beings are short, ugly, neurotic, unemployed and homeless. I always recommend my single friends to take annual trips to skid row to hunt for the most quintessential male human being. I hear the dating apps don’t have filters for this so. One of my friends got married to a dr two years ago our friendship hasn’t been the same since, he even has a full head of hair. How weird of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:47 PM
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No what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:04 PM
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So you’d agree it’s only an issue because of male tantrums. Those they wouldn’t consent to don’t cause societal issues so it doesn’t warrant an enhanced “acknowledgment” and hence there’s no “cognitive dissonance” there?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:01 PM
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I can absolutely, correctly point out that it’s harmful to society for there to be significant portions of 18-25 men who, at the peak of their ability and willingness to harm society with violence and other crime, are unable to get the women they desire to consent to sex and relationships with them. We know men like to throw their toys out the stroller what else is there to acknowledge ? But the point I find interesting here is who THEY consent to. Why do you use this language ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:42 PM
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Nah I’m American my dads sides Latino though so a lot of machismo but I still think this is just broadly observable. Cultural differences are relevant too though my bf’s English and the British generally seem a lot more “brash” in their communication e.g. insults as terms of endearment, endless sarcasm etc which I actually am more partial to. Generally I think most people know that they have to adapt their communication style when necessary. My perception is that women are generally better at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:57 PM
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Oh no it’s definitely not just in work places, it’s just in general interactions with women. I can remember as a child my dad refusing to read the instructions when he was assembling a new bunk bed for me and my sister. My mom was reading it and tried to tell him he was doing it wrong and behold he didn’t want to hear it, tried to move it into place and it basically collapsed in on itself. He kicked it and stormed off. Probably the embarassment of it all but if the bros said it …… women talk abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:08 PM
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I could give plenty. For all this talk about banter and honesty and to add edge lord humor and contrarianism that is also common with men. Men have incredibly fragile egos and being seen as a joke by women can trigger volatile reactions. And I don’t think men are cognizant of how much women are required to tip toe around their emotions. Like OP speaks of criticism try tell a man you don’t like sex with him in a constructive way and let women tell you some stories. It’s the mansplaining but it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:44 PM
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Okay and so since you said in your OP that you should see women’s discomfort positively you won’t be one of the many men who cries foul if let’s say a woman screams at you, tells you to fuck off. Can women make you uncomfortable as well ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:00 AM
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How should women react to your harassment?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:35 AM
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Men despise when women mirror their interpersonal skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:20 PM
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Ha amazing. Anyway the point was me trying to gather how you actually analyzed the video and it served as a demonstration of why your “misandry” claims are doubted. Also your emotional response demonstrates what she was intended to do was effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:23 PM
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No what did she say that you specifically believe was incorrect and what do you believe her contention is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:10 PM
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What do you disagree with and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:52 PM
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Yeah we should continue doubting it. But you have demonstrated that there is broadly a media literacy crisis. I think this was a great video actually. Did you watch it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:44 PM
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The vibe it’s giving is like when kids do a cartwheel and say “mommy watch this”. That’s nice dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:38 PM
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It’s not putting anyone in a box of creeps , assholes and perverts unless you are one. It just so happens that there are many creeps assholes and perverts. For the women that don’t want to be cold approached it’s because they do not care to find out whether or not you’re a creep asshole or pervert. Because of experience they just dont want the interaction at all. It’s that simple. Added on top any other reasons one may not be interested broadly or in that specific moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:40 PM
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But that’s the whole problem. The “negative reaction” is often just refusing to be interrupted. Which we should also have the right to do. Not wanting to taking the time to interract IS what yall find insulting. A no just rubs salt into the wound. You’ll be walking down the street and a man will try to get your attention even grab your shoulder if he’s coming up behind you, you may take your AirPod out, respond “no thanks not right now”, and I’ve had a dude literally say “well fuck you then” and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:32 PM
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Clearly I have nothing to refute. Why do you think people should care to talk you out of your paranoia, grow the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:36 AM
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>And even if a woman tells me she has never done any acts with women in the past or had lustful thoughts about women, how am I gonna convince myself to believe that when the statistics are clear? No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:39 AM
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I don’t know who he is. Is it a term made of conspiracy by people trying to denigrate men or not? Reading the book reviews men have been raving about being part of said manosphere for over a decade here’s a few: > But but but. If you think women are God's Graceful Creatures, or incarnations of the Virgin Mary, then you are going to get a nasty, nasty shock. They know about women in the Manosphere. Lord knows they have bedded, wedded, been divorced by, dumped by, flaked by and generally disappoin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:11 PM
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Reading the link you posted it seems you have an Ian Ironwood and his book to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:42 PM
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There is no male loneliness epidemic. Trump is president right now….. and how is that going?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:28 AM
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What is it that you don’t believe? It’s contextual and can be for safety but I think if the guy is remotely stable it’s less effective than directness e.g. If you’ve been on a date and something uncomfortable has happened you try to end the date “pleasantly” and then it’s either easier to say you’re not interested then block if they’re mad about it or it was to the point where you think it’s best not to communicate at all. For guys whose persistence is escalating not replying/blocking can be bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:42 AM
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Not good enough, he should’ve picked better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:53 AM
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No there really isn’t. Don’t you know they will pick the poor waitress because women are just liked for who they are 🥺 unless her ex had a big cock that she sucked every Tuesday at 12pm as identified on the 2nd date questionnaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:39 AM
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>The theoretical data sheet should include all that plus their historical credit scores, income history, extended family tree, etc. Nah men don’t care about that clearly, where are those posts? It’s just whether the last guy had a bigger cock and how often she sucked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:34 AM
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Stalking his insta trying to find a pic with a dick print to attempt to see how they measure up perhaps…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:30 AM
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Maybe for the porn brained autists of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:28 AM
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It does men choose all the time, if you can’t you need to do better. Be chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:18 AM
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I never mentioned women at all. Are you trying to dodge the accountability conversation. Please reread the initial post and my comment thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:11 AM
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Whether you think it applies more or less is irrelevant to me. The point stands thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:00 AM
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More excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:57 AM
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Find a way to have options. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:47 AM
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Excuses excuses .. if you acknowledge it’s a solution you acknowledge there’s options so there needs to be accountability. This is red pill 101 is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:46 AM
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Sure you can, permanently move to the country with the shortest population on earth. After that consider seeing a facial balancing aesthetician or plastic surgeon if you’re really about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:33 AM
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No you can take accountability for having limited options too and the option you chose if you’re not getting the sex you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:11 AM
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I’ve formed the impression that ppd males must be asking women to fill out questionnaires on the last dudes cock and balls. Day by day and year on year spreadsheets too on sex positions, sex acts, number of orgasms….
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:03 AM
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He should’ve picked better in the first place where’s the accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:59 AM
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So who is billy the accountant ? A beta stupid fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:57 PM
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Nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:26 AM
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I have never thought about this in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:23 PM
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I find this ironic when you were just in another thread claiming all women want to be jack hammered so that’s what you do because they are lying if they say otherwise and because all pussys are the same. Not to get it twisted to the point of this post that’s the attitude a lot of women deal with, the “effort” is often about what a man enjoys. So I agree in the sense that women should immediately cut off a man who doesn’t listen to what she enjoys/ doesn’t enjoy or reacts badly to feedback. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:56 PM
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It’s not an insult, it’s an accurate description. Go back to the post the OP linked and read why women feel the need to fake. It sounds like it’s applicable here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:31 AM
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Rapist logic. Also a demonstration of why there is an orgasm gap. Amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:26 AM
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It’s a case of asking the person you’re having sex with what they actually enjoy. Limited/no foreplay and aimlessly hammering into a vagina for a couple of minutes is going to be an uncomfortable-painful waste of time for a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:47 AM
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Some of them might be. But I know what I’m observing. You know how often I’ve seen a thread of a man trying to argue a woman down about dick size leading to a woman essentially describing the inner workings of her own pussy while he just “but… but … so you’re saying … 🥺🥺” sometimes it’s angry, sometimes it’s whiny, my conclusion is the same. It’s fishing? For something or other. This is just the new hot topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:42 PM
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That’s what I’ve observed and the conclusion I’ve reached🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:07 PM
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Yes it is covert in the sense that they don’t outright go on ‘looks’ subs and ask for validation they prefer an odd pattern of online behaviour where they seek to extract women’s thoughts and experiences to put themselves at the centre of it. The reasons for doing so seem to vary which is why I asked the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:54 PM
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It’s only not useful if you think male sexuality is default. But like I said I don’t care to change your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:20 PM
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I honestly don’t know what the threshold is for when casual viewing turns into gooner/porn brain territory. But I was asking that because i think porn is making some men delusional. Anyway to answer ofcourse your dream world probably looks like the reality a lot of gay men live. Not all gay men are ‘hypersexual’ but I’d say they are probably moreso on average than women. Cruising, glory holes, dark rooms, bath houses etc and other behaviours are quite common that only women who participate in ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:10 PM
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I promise I have a more substantive response but first can you confirm whether you consume a lot of porn ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:52 PM
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I don’t care to change your view but because of my own observations on male sexuality I’m nearing the conclusion that this emerging cohort of men on this sub wanting to debate women’s sexuality are just seeking women to describe their sexuality, libido and turn ons either for perceived validation that they might one day attract a woman or for sexual gratification. Can you confirm the extent either of these is true or false for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:40 PM
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Sex is as important as an individual makes it out to be. If one person says they’re going to die without sex, someone else might think they’re delusional but that’s how they feel. If someone says they’re the happiest celibate the person who is claiming they’re going to die might think they are delusional but that’s how they feel. If sexlessness is a problem it’s an individual one and it’s for no one to address but yourself. If the fact that someone has to agree to have sex with you pains you tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:08 AM
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For many men, however, the bar is much lower, so they accept even socially maladjusted women (if she has an aesthetically acceptable body — though for some, it's enough that she's breathing). For some breathing isn’t even a requirement. Like and??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:52 PM
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Idk but I can’t envision a scenario where I would be attracted to obese men just because they were around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:12 AM
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What problems are being created by a “gender war”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:51 PM
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There’s a lot of abrahamic garbage that would suggest so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:26 PM
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No, I don’t care to question feminists on male grievances.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:47 AM
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I don’t feel anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:24 PM
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Cool get over that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:53 PM
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Women are not men, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:06 PM
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Anything WE want to do we do, anything WE don’t want to do we don’t. Not sure why our exes would even be part of that equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:56 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:00 AM
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So you’re asking us to help you with your own interpretation of these statements? I understand this as a positive response to your question. Maybe your issue is not seeking clarity when you don’t understand ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:27 PM
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If those responses are an example of your point, it sounds like a comprehension issue on your part without further elaboration.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:23 PM
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If that’s true go get yourself put on a psychiatric hold. Hopefully you don’t ask the female health care professionals about lesbian porn while you’re there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:36 PM
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If only users accounts could come with different warning labels since women keep providing this guy with material to jerk off to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:39 PM
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I’m just confused how a man can come on a sub (this sub in particular) with a grievance about women having children so that they can be provided for when women are either not having children, delaying children or having less children when they do decide to have them. Also going to college at higher rates and continuing to work even while having children. All while in an era of male screeching about women’s sexual selectivity, declining marriage rates and birth rates. Since you’re here I just kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:30 AM
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Yes there are certainly white supremacist talking points there. Anything else ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:18 AM
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Well I don’t know if I agree on that but I’d say it’s entitled by default. What do you think of the rhetoric surrounding declining birth rates and where it’s predominantly coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:13 AM
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How do you feel about men that say they want to be fathers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:50 AM
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They also want a "provider" without providing any real value, apart from having kids, which even animals can do. Female animals*. Anyone can have a job though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:33 AM
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I’m dead; no I don’t but okay yeah that username is all I needed to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:14 PM
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Agreed but also not even about what she hasn’t done: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/w1PHvRzc1e
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:08 PM
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The filter is increasingly “is this man necessary at all” you’ll get it one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:03 PM
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I don’t think it’s a bad idea tbf. I think it could work great for single moms not a marriage necessarily but cohabitation and joint childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:55 PM
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Funnily enough some do also get married I don’t think that’s in any significant numbers though. Also this isn’t me passively suggesting lmao it was just because you mentioned you don’t factor in romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:49 PM
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This is actually all sensible sounding but the blunt pragmatism actually made me chuckle. Curious what are your thoughts on increasing trends on people choosing “platonic life partners” instead ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:15 PM
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You really just have to laugh lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:37 PM
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So you don’t even care to read it but your OCD is making you ask women about lesbian porn everyday 🤣right right
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:22 PM
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100% agreed. I have a lot of boundaries due to this now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:55 PM
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This sub actually made me understand how cuckoldry came to be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:47 PM
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I don’t even think this is gendered a lack of reciprocity is just that and I wouldn’t say it’s fair to accept in a friendship or a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:52 PM
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That's of course valid. I didn't want to sound like i don't care about my friends birthdays (or don't care about them at all, besides going for a beer). No that’s not really the vibe I got it’s just describing low maintenance friendships. I do also have those friends you can go years without seeing and meet up and it’s like time hasn’t passed. I don't have my birthday visible on any social media and no one ever really asked me. And i won't just randomly say "btw my birthday is..." Put it up, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:35 PM
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I don't care if my friends remember my birthdays, or if they check on me when i'm sick (and to be honest, how would they know? Am i supposed to send big group message with "hi all, i'm sick"?). All i want from them is to invite me for meet up from time to time (and to accept my invitations). Yeah like I said in the OP this isn’t to question how your friendships SHOULD be as this will vary. But to me yeah remembering birthdays is basic af and yes with my best friend on some days I’ll know what sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:19 PM
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You know I don’t think that’s even a ‘hot take’ necessarily. Has this reduced your motivation to date/be in a relationship ? And can you provide an example of those expectations and how often have your partners struggled to meet them? I’ve also on the opposite side had my ex who had a lot of what I’d say were close friends yet still struggled to meet expectations (as in treating friends better.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:53 AM
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This was perfectly said I think that summarises it for me too. Keeping it on topic because obviously people can also form their standards/expectations for a number of reasons not just influenced by their friendships. But in my thinking this is a reasonable minimum because that’s how my closest friendships have always functioned; there’s something about the nature of romantic relationships and dating that makes things that you’d assume are almost second nature when you like and love someone becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:38 AM
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So your expectation of your friends is to enjoy their company and share goals. In enjoying your friends company; do they put in effort to see you, check in on you, take care of you when needed etc In your relationships do you not expect to enjoy their company ? And how do you expect that polarity/duality to present itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:31 AM
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That wasn’t my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:23 AM
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Oh yeah the first one is a good one, although I’m quite big on having separate lives but together, probably not the best way to put it. But I’d def take a flaky partner more personal than a flaky friend among other things. We diverge on the other two points because my friends are quite blunt and honest with me and vice versa and I don’t believe in leadership. Last q, do you have any opinion on why these expectations get so ‘warped’ in romantic relationships as opposed to platonic ones? and this …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:08 AM
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Am I clear?? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:55 AM
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Yeah for me it’s a bit of a spectrum I certainly don’t value all of my friendships to the degree of my relationship just my closest ones. My position is just that my friends do set the bar for me to the extent if I was seeing less in my relationship I’d question the whole relationship. Outside of sex (too obvious) what are a few key things you’d expect from your partner or when dating that are above what you see from your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:54 AM
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Yeah this is one I hear a lot and it’s not even just in initial first few dates but often becomes an ongoing issue in relationships. Like my bf and I knew eachother for a while before we started dating so when we started dating everything was much more I’d really like to try abc come with me please type thing and that has continued. But I think that requires familiarity sometimes. So I’ve experienced the opposite on dates where it’s that exact cycle. I guess to some extent the core reason is pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:37 AM
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Friendship is about TIME and INVESTMENT, it has surprisingly very little do with those list of things you listed. Prey tell, how do you decide who to spend time with and invest in? And why is it not everyone? Not "connect" with people. Its whether you want to spend TIME and INVEST positively towards someones life. "Connection" is fairy dust Why don’t you spend time and invest in everyone, man or woman that you come across? Women think I am boring, my friends don't. My friends don't care about my…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:30 AM
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If you spent additional time with them and they were your demographic, you would be very likely become friends with them. If you have no interest in becoming friends with them, ITS BECAUSE YOU DO IN FACT DISLIKE THEM The men on this sub struggle incredibly with black and white thinking. No not having things in common with someone, having different values or beliefs, different ways of communicating, different sense of humor etc are the things that contribute to whether you connect with people. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:13 AM
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From previous partners and/or dates you’ve been on what do you think has been lacking the most in comparison to your friendships?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:01 AM
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This was erratic.. Sexual attraction is the threshold, so it’s what matters the most. The rest of it barely matters, Yes attraction is important. The rest also matters tremendously. MOST PEOPLE CAN GET ALONG WITH EACH OTHER AND ENJOY EACH OTHERS COMPANY. I disagree, it’s like how I can exchange pleasantries with some of my coworkers, I don’t dislike them I also don’t want to spend any additional time with them. This stupid bullshit where women think 99% of men are trash company, "not compatible"…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:59 AM
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No I love her too much, familial type love that’s my sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:43 AM
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You’re kinda highlighting why I was interested in asking this question. My friendships do influence my expectations for romantic relationships. My male friendships are based around spending time together. The act of spending time together is what keeps the relationship alive. Thats not good enough for women. They don't value my time, they value my ability to entertain them, including inside the bed room. Dating and relationships don’t involve fucking for 24 hours a day. To these points what diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:36 AM
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I didn’t take it personally I provided an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:04 PM
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It’s an answer, did it help?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:48 PM
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Nope they’re valid and we care about them 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:17 PM
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Not really he could be asking on the pages he’s frequenting, he’s not and he has a position already so I’m asking what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:45 PM
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Why are you telling me this, is this for the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:20 PM
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Have no idea what you’re talking about. But actually YOU should probably “care” more about the factors of criminality and criminals given it’s a disproportionally male issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:10 PM
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How many men do you think are “high status” and by what metrics and how many men do you think can listen to your advice and have it work for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:34 PM
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Your suggestion is to all gen z men, they would then be “high status” compared to who in your worldview?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:26 PM
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That was a painful watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:14 PM
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You’re suggesting an entire generation of men do this so top 20% of what? Anyway … Okay he quits his job becomes an OF manager, approaches 1000 women, secures two dates out of that and is still overall “unsuccessful”. What should he do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:11 PM
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Sure, what’s your contingency plan if they still can’t get dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:04 PM
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Sure, what’s your contingency plan if they still can’t get dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:54 PM
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In the sense of male identity crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:44 PM
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They may or may not hate men. And they may just agree with the “rhetoric” or maybe they don’t. You should ask the source but either way you seem to have already drawn your conclusions, so what affirmation are you looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:19 PM
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Delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:46 PM
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Third, men are expected to do two of the most important things in a relationship: Protect and provide. You’re also expected to be the emotional rock, despite what women say about wanting emotionally vulnerable men. Why would you go up to a woman and ask her permission for you to protect and provide for her? Those are massive advantages for her. Women should therefore be the ones proving themselves to be worthy of such advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:23 PM
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He’s probably fetish posting. The kick he is likely looking for is for women to describe their porn watching habits and sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:45 AM
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No that was the OP of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:17 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ZlfFYcJvfU The lengths you people go through to deny is what leads to posts like this one btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:29 AM
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To be blunt it’s not even annoyance it’s just finding you pathetic. Like the second paragraph is just something to roll your eyes at if you’re wondering why you don’t get the responses you’re seeking. But look if you find this effective to fill your void, best of luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:58 PM
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Yeah it is has become pretty obvious that’s what you’re doing. And no one can stop you no matter how clearly ineffective it is. Also to your point this isn’t the point of the post but no one has to accept your idea of the “truth” either. based So for the purposes of the OP which ultimately denies male entitlement, do you have an explanation as to why we should give a fuck? Women are famously whiny and emotional compared to men. You get a taste of your own medicine when you're on this subreddit. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:43 PM
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It was this one but it’s since been deleted : https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/7lb0rFZJzR
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:59 PM
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Are you reading what you’re writing? You don’t ask a question for women in a debate forum if you don’t want to solicit responses. Funnily enough though, if the responses hurt your feelings you could also just exit off the post. But this actually exemplifies my point yall would like to open up these posts and see “omggggg this is going to keep me up at night talk to me in my dms stinka butt”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:23 PM
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No you’re forgetting the key here is that a lot of you specifically want to whine TO women about women. Anyone can be whiny, you just also then have to accept it’s a bit silly to whine about the responses also (this is literally a question to women). But again I believe the intention is simply just validation seeking/sympathy fishing from women 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:15 PM
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No it’s that women aren’t dating you which is the ultimate way to “help” right. Men don’t want advice from women. And so you want to whine to women in the interim until the red pill starts working for you then I guess? Their “revelations” have been out for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:05 PM
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They don't genuinely want to help you... Yall don’t want help, you want women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:57 PM
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Well Ive just come to form the impression that a lot of you are validation seeking/sympathy fishing from women online as it’s the closest thing to an “emotional” connection to women as you can currently obtain. There’s some version of this question for women multiple times a month just on this platform. “That’s sad for you” never seemed to be an adequate response yet a lot of men are quick to say they also don’t want advice from women. So you just need an audience for your grievances and you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:15 PM
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Her: “men do not have sex like they like the female body, they use it as a fleshlight” You: “nuh uh they like getting their dicks sucked too”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:10 PM
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There’s always a new ppd male post that reminds me of this: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/huF0ofBHbr
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:30 PM
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Because the “choose better” posts are just an outlet for men to continue their self absorbed whining about their dating struggles and shut down any discussion about male behaviour. The odd thing is the platforms women go on to discuss these things are not intended to have said men as an audience. They also often display a rudimentary understanding of human behaviour and delusional thinking based on cock watching men they perceive as “Chad”. You only have to watch evening news to realise the men …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:40 PM
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What makes you so convinced that a functioning society only protects women. Ofcourse rights and living conditions are fragile, yet in Afghanistan there are few wealthy male warlords with guns yet a lot of destitute men, some of who get stolen from the streets in their youth to get raped by older men. Only to be released destitute when they’re no longer sexually exciting for said men. Perhaps to get sent on dummy missions to blow themselves up for allah because there’s no other reason when you’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:53 PM
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Is it passivity or is it just not compulsive? I have never had a compulsive drive to seek out men in any space I’m in. It’s not “I’m waiting to be found” it’s I’m not waiting at all. My relationships have never been a man has been chasing me down, it’s more “were in the same spaces and got to know eachother over time”. Fwiw I believe the women specifically those who engage in casual sex and have a compulsive drive to seek out men are often treated poorly and are demeaned. But those are the women…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 10:14 AM
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Primarily fatness, bad teeth and balding (better to just be bald imo) and then universal things like obvious lack of grooming e.g dirt under nails, overall bad hygiene, smelling bad, looking greasy, dressing bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 09:23 AM
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Completely average as is usually the case with these dudes. The catastrophizing is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:59 PM
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Now typically when you vent, you aren't expecting some coming and blame you to make you feel even worse so i really can't understand the gaslighting, they always assume it's your personality but never ever fathom that it could just be that you're unattractive? I think you’re on the wrong sub go post on am I ugly or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:56 PM
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At his mama house sent me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:03 PM
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This is genuinely fascinating so I’m going to help you, I’ve interloped my comment with your post. Sound it out or whatever tf helps. Why can’t women just tell men when they’re unattractive? Ugly people usually already know they’re ugly. Due to biology some men are just not attractive, it's harsh but there are evidence backing that up unfortunately. That being said most people are actually just average. Their preferences are very well respected, and I'm not seeing myself living with a woman that…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:37 PM
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Yea I did because a lot of you are just like to repeat the same delusional talking points. Ugly and Hot are at the ends of a spectrum, most people are average. You think a lot of women are calling the vast majority of men ugly and they’re not they’re just not attracted to them and say as much so who tf is lying to you? Who needs to tell someone who looks like fucking shrek that they’re ugly? Hello the sky is blue. BTW fail. Abysmal lack of comprehension ability, do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:20 PM
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You missed the opening line? Ugly men know they’re ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:11 PM
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No I won’t but how about you prove to me your ability to actually read and comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:06 PM
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Ugly people usually already know they’re ugly. That being said most people are actually just average. It will continue to be amusing that PEOPLE being most attracted to hot people is a daily revelation though. A lot of women are already very open about their low levels of attraction for most men and minimal and/or contextual spontaneous desire. But it’s yall that continue to be delusional and project male sexuality on to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:00 PM
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This is such a funny thread because unironically “accept sexual advances from strange men or you hate men” is why women hate cold approaches. It’s reminiscent of when men demand you explain why you don’t want to give them your number.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:59 PM
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Megan stallion lied under oath about that incident No she didn’t. But that’s the point. is currently being charged with sexual harassment by a former employee She’s being sued for a multitude of things yet your framing is inaccurate. And yet even in your framing that’s not what she gets attacked for. She gets attacked for having sex and rapping about it. and has a long history of cheating on her partners. You know this how? And who? And yet she’s the one getting praise while Klay is shamed No sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:19 PM
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Using Megan the stallion as an example was a choice, like the same lady who has been the subject to deep fake porn, blamed for being shot by a guy, had men literally jerking off to the idea of her being cheated on, keeping track of how many men she’s dated ….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:01 PM
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Imho I think what doesn’t click with this conversation broadly for men, is there’s no new “tricks” (because I don’t have a better word) in the book. When a woman has been accosted dozens and dozens of times to varying levels of okay interaction to creepy to downright scary; you’re attempting to take her from “oh not this again” to “you know what hell yeah”. So for me it’d be hell no because i already wouldn’t believe it lol. Another woman might tho, but you can never know what reception you’ll g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:29 PM
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No thats worse, they just call their phone so they have your number.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:09 PM
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Can you clarify what you feel the observable impact of female radicalization is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:41 AM
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I don’t have a line it’s not my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:58 PM
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If you’re content being single be as picky as you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:33 PM
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Scenario 1: he should’ve picked better Scenario 2: he should’ve picked better Scenario 3: the man is abusive, she should’ve picked better. Is what I’ve heard anyway. So accountable to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:58 PM
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Its not a great analogy but the way I can think to describe it is it’s like when a kid draws on the walls “mommy look” and starts crying when they’re told no don’t do that, the kids upset because mommy usually likes their lil paintings they do together on paper. It’s one thing to self improve for yourself, which exists and has always existed outside of dating advice and yet men act like they’ve discovered ground breaking information when hearing things like exercising and dressing well makes you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:54 PM
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No it’s displaying emotion and no they literally never do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:32 AM
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Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:25 AM
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Crying, smiling, laughter, frowning…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:24 AM
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Sure, yet to the point of the post loneliness is broadly ignored but cat lady, die alone jokes are primarily directed at women and anti-radicalization and counter terrorism measures are primarily directed at disproportionately male patterns of behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:22 AM
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No I’d say women tend to display emotion, externalized behaviours are more male.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:33 AM
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Men have a tendency to externalize all their feels? Yes, to terroristic levels. It’s quite well studied. it also comes off as telling men to just be quiet and suffer in silence. Well it’s an option, whatever you find is productive. The only men that the great majority of women really care about are their fathers, brothers, or sons…and not necessarily them either. So the majority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:46 PM
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There’s centuries old literature on “surplus” men (and youth). I think it’d be more accurate to say there’s cyclical male ontological crisis’ and people are asked to pay attention because men have a tendency to externalize all their feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 08:26 PM
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This is also a largely fictitious identity claim for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:46 PM
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Yet the fact you think those are the only two options is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:20 PM
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The depth of a lot of yalls understanding about human behaviour is at the level of chick flicks from the 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:13 PM
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Great I think an environment that completely discourages accosting strangers with sexual intent would be perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:24 AM
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How old were you when you had your first kiss? 13 First relationships? 14/15 Casual sex? Nope How many relationships/partners have you had? 2 What's the longest you've gone single/sexless? 2 years Do you find sex and dating to be unimportant? Kinda Were​ your best experiences in life strictly outside of these things? No, but my worst experiences in life were while in my first relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:15 PM
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There are few “great” people. Even fewer that are actually remembered.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:11 AM
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Right perhaps but it’s one thing to say sex feels good and is fun to do but mind you your OP said : At that point all your friendships, purpose, health, money, emotional competence, and community will not have mattered. I’m just saying there’s a difference between “ah I want to nut” and an existential crisis because your lizard brain is telling you “you won’t carry on your genes” because you haven’t ejaculated. Most of yall don’t care about that. So I’m not seeing where what the OP is saying sou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:17 AM
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So masturbation should easily be able to trick lizard brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:00 AM
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I don’t think it was the OP but what he said could be boiled down to “what was she wearing” lmao. He said not verbatim that if women post pictures on social media or specifically “wear tight pants to the bank or supermarket” then they are asking to be objectified.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:49 PM
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There was a Muslim woman who posted in a niqab and abaya with her face cropped out on X just giving an update on her pregnancy. She received an onslaught of abuse from men about how she was demonstrating to the world she’s getting fucked. And other lewd comments. One day you’ll get it into your thick skulls that male lust has no boundaries and how a woman decides to dress makes no difference to whether a man wants to give unwanted sexual attention. This is something women learn from childhood. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:04 PM
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These arguments are incredibly autistic it’s either that you just truly don’t understand appropriate social behaviour or you understand it and don’t care. I think that’s what you need to establish before you try to argue the nuances of what is or isn’t objectification. A frequent complaint from men is they can go their whole lives without even a compliment from strangers; so it seems pretty clear to me it’s not difficult for women in general anyway to not externalise their inner sexual thoughts …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:07 PM
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No, I don’t find them attractive either they just exist. As do most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:55 AM
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But it still doesn’t make sense. If that was the case men would be invested in getting women pregnant, they’re not. They’re generally quite adverse to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:00 PM
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No it’s not what you do, it’s what YOU do. There’s an instance that men are incredibly pathetic on here that I’ve asked before if it would offend the actual average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:53 PM
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So basically “men are very horny and women having to consent makes it difficult”. Yeah we’ve heard. By all means attach your self worth to women if you think that’s the healthy thing to do. It blows my mind that men feel so insistent on this platform about their existence centering on women looking at you but honestly have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:42 PM
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Interesting but I mean I just don’t buy it because it just sounds like an elaborate way to describe being horny. To the extent you are suggesting the biological “components” that lead to one’s libido are demonstrating a biological imperative I can kind of agree. But If it was truly and solely a lizard brain imperative to impregnate and spread genes then men have already overcome this largely by wanting sex and lots of it without reproduction. Like you not only have to ejaculate but it has to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:21 PM
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That’s not true, the explanation IS “want sex”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:53 PM
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Out of curiosity, I never understand this claim which I predominantly see coming from men. I understand wanting a family. But the idea of “passing on your genes” mattering so your life wouldn’t have been meaningless, not to get philosophical but matters to who? You’ll be forgotten anyway, most people are?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:38 PM
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Btw the only reason I’m saying it seems like a lost cause is that the men who catastrophize in the manner you’re describing seem to genuinely believe their position is the logical one. Perspective is a helluva thing. The things I’ve read on this platform alone in particular I often think of a woman verbatim repeated it she’d be getting bpd allegations. I think perhaps as a start it’s just about exposure to well adjusted men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:07 PM
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Although I agree; it may be a lost cause. You’d think the lack of women sharing a reciprocal viewpoint on life would be enough to change, just on principle but no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:25 PM
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Isn’t it obvious, the birds are scared of female hypergamy. They sense it. They also are trying to solve the male loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:30 AM
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Sure it’s a strong identity claim for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:58 AM
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No I’m not confused about my sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:36 AM
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People can call you whatever they choose to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:28 AM
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I can call myself whatever I choose to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:19 PM
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Again im not attached to heterosexuality, “hehe youre gay” only tends to work on men and especially between men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:17 PM
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I don’t have to say anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:12 PM
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Also to add that I’ve experienced on this platform men interpret women’s agreement to this type of suggestion as spitefulness or even snark. I almost don’t know if it’s because it feels like rejection. It’s also that desperation tends to be an ick for women (and men too) and that’s what they display when they say these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:54 PM
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Yes I can, I don’t need to specify what YOU know you said. The fact is you question selection patterns and standards right, in response to bad experiences? And you think you’re right, and you’re asking me why you questioning “selection patterns” is wrong? When the crux of your post is women get validated for their choices and bad experiences and men don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:22 PM
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Yes I can, I don’t need to specify what YOU know you said. The fact is you question selection patterns and standards right, in response to bad experiences? And you think you’re right, and you’re asking me why you questioning “selection patterns” is wrong? When the crux of your post is women get validated for their choices and bad experiences and men don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:04 PM
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Do you validate women’s bad experiences or do you seek to question their selection/standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:51 AM
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Nope I recall “selection patterns” and such that should be questioned🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:40 AM
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Really ? I thought it was choose better and her standards are questionable because “unselected men”wouldn’t have done that in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:19 AM
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I have no attachment to being heterosexual so not sure what this comment is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:25 AM
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to a feeling of waiting for a ad to finish. Just had to say not seen it put this way before but so accurate lol going to a bar can be like trying to watch a short YouTube video with 10 non skippable ads.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:53 AM
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I think all these posts and the responses you usually get about this similar topic get lost in translation to yall because of how you interpret attraction vs arousal. I certainly prefer looking at women yet women do not arouse me nor do I have sexual attraction (thoughts about having sex with women( I mean it hasn’t happened yet anyway) but most men don’t arouse me either. I can find any person objectively attractive and not be sexually attracted to or aroused by them. So can most people. To me …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:35 PM
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The question is how to vet a man’s character and your response is about what men want and how to be what men want. Which unironically serves as an example of characteristics to vet for, for future readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:49 PM
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Fair but it’s one thing to say I don’t like any generalizations and feel this doesn’t apply to me. And in that case let it not apply. And another to dismiss that women are talking about men when they’re talking about men and their behaviour by saying no this group are better you’re just not picking them which is another generalization just one that fits a desired narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:37 AM
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You keep listing every type of bad male behavior like it’s all one thing. catcalling, creeps, abuse, relationships… and then wrapping it into “men.” that’s exactly the generalization I’ve been pointing at. Bruh. No it’s not all one type of behaviour. I’m telling you it doesn’t matter what the behaviour is. Regardless women are talking about men, when they are talking about men. You can choose to distance yourself from any “group” that you like which is what I initially suggested but women are st…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:41 AM
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What’s confusing to you. Whether it’s dating dynamics or any male behaviour there will always be a fucking man not wanting to talk about those behaviours. However many groups of men you think there are and which ones you want to claim on any given day does not change the fact you’re complaining about women talking about their experiences with men, period. It doesn’t matter what you think unselected men are contributing to, if those same unselected men are the ones catcalling, dropping dick picks…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:29 AM
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No I genuinely advise you to reread it and reflect on your lack of comprehension which led to you restating everything I already said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:10 AM
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Or maybe I just think he should’ve picked better .. hmm..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:08 AM
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Another demonstration of lack of comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:03 AM
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Yeah sure women can do that too. It wouldn’t quiet down the “I’m so lonely I’m going to either drop out of society or throw myself off a bridge” though would it? It would make it worse no? Repeal the 19th would get even louder no? Revenge fantasy’s would be flying no? The dangers of too many single men isn’t that the historical narrative 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:51 AM
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Yeah it was intended to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:17 AM
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I disagree that you have undeniable evidence. But regardless yeah sure you shouldn’t judge all men from experience, right and women don’t. If women did I promise you the internet whining from men would get even WORSE. But yet Imagine that you don’t judge men based on prior experiences or experiences of other women, you experience some form of victimization and the response you’ll likely receive if you attempt to speak about it is to choose better. The basement dweller would never have done that.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:16 AM
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So you agree the attempt is to minimize the behaviour? You can’t math your way out of people’s own experiences though feel free to attempt to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:00 AM
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No, you’re just not comprehending. It doesn’t matter HOW women talk about men because yall will minimize it anyway BECAUSE they are talking about men. “What was she wearing” was and still is sanctioned by the legal system. You do it for criminal behaviour even when it’s from a man she doesn’t know. Of course you would do it for dating; this idea that somehow there’s just so many nice innocent good boys sitting at home unpicked is just the angle yall go for to make yourselves feel better. It’s in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:58 AM
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Obviously things like assault, stalking, drugging etc are just straight up wrong. nobody is defending that or “minimizing” it. those are criminals, not normal dating dynamics. Yes they do. And those “criminals” you’re talking about are people’s dads, brothers, sons, even husbands. As an example someone posted a police investigation of a man who was arrested for child pornography, the wife turned him in. Instead of focusing on the matter at hand, people were asking how she didn’t know. That’s the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:39 AM
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Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:28 AM
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Meh, women could be talking about unsolicited dick pick senders, drink druggers, public transport molestors, cat callers, stalkers, street harassers you name it and yall still find ways to minimize the behaviour or make it women’s fault. So yeah they’re talking about MEN. Also being unselected is not a virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:06 AM
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Don’t get me wrong you’re one of many men who says similar things and lol. But as a point of correction no the fact that “low” crime rates are “appreciated” is actually the issue when we see and experience the “lack of self restraint” that goes un convicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 08:00 PM
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There is no gender war.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:38 PM
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No I consider whining to be whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:46 PM
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What is the purpose of incessantly whining to women about loneliness, sexlessness and rejection, if not that you want women to do something about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:40 PM
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Men’s problems should be filtered through a rape lens when they insist women’s autonomy is the cause of their dating issues. Don’t do that and you won’t be asked why you think like rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:30 PM
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Sure, the quantity of food they appear to require; I often stare at my bf in disbelief…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:19 PM
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“Let”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:15 PM
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Seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:49 PM
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if she doesn't dab your taint like perfume This is a brand new sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:29 PM
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Dwarfism or a minor? Neither
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:58 PM
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Right and most of you don’t care either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:09 PM
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Then you’d need to have a unified message and issue. The fact is you don’t so you can’t. Men catastrophizing online about matches and chad and sexlessness is one terrible for pr and two not going to get any consistent level of care because no “issue” does. So yeah go cry to your mom sounds more effective at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:03 PM
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Some might some might not. There’s a damn near weekly question asking women to care, I do wonder why you don’t just go collect the care from people that know you in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:47 PM
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I’m not confusing anything. Unless you are polyamorous or just looking for people to fuck, dating does not work this way and I already stated men tend to have an any woman will do mentality. That doesn’t say anything about liking someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:46 PM
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It doesn’t make sense? If a woman went through your whole friend group and landed on you last, how enthused would you be at the proposition?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:09 PM
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No you don’t LIKE more than one woman. It’s that “woman” is the criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:53 PM
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No it’s pure mockery of thinking hitting on every woman around you is ever what people were ever suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:46 PM
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Dear god I honestly can’t believe life confuses you people so much. Spamming dick to everyone you know is obviously going to look desperate. The idea of having a wider circle of people you can connect with, means you increase your chances of connecting with individual people you actually like? But ofcourse the common male “any woman will do” approach to life may be incompatible with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:23 PM
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Not cheating because you can’t doesn’t say much about whether you want to or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:03 PM
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The men are wonderful effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:54 AM
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They say it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:26 PM
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In summary, dating appears harder in some ways not insurmountably though. No I don’t believe “sexual privilege” is a thing. I think most dudes complaining actually just wish they could have access to endless casual sex and no I don’t care how hard it is to have sex, nor can anyone explain why it shouldn’t be. I also don’t observe average men struggling to date in my real life but im from a big city so it could be that and so I think a lot of dudes whining are below average. Yes we know how many …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:25 PM
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So basically men are too incompetent to form independent thoughts for the entirety of their lives or participate in raising their children and it’s all because of their mommies?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:06 AM
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Obvious desperation to the point it comes off very aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:02 PM
13

So would you eat her pussy or not? You don’t view that as helping ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:27 PM
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Explain the difference in what you’re asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:20 PM
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Would you lick an elderly neighbours pussy when asked if she told you she misses the experience from her youth and she’s just been so lonely since her husband died?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:12 PM
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I’d love to see the reaction of those men if that same virgin woman rejected their proposition to fuck her. Is it biological or societal? I think it’s whatever category you’d place common sense in. What do you gain from pity fucking men you don’t want to fuck? If it’s such an altruistic thing to do envision a make a wish type foundation for these dudes with the ask to come touch the dicks of these lonely men open Monday to Friday 24/7 and see much buy in it would get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:55 AM
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Irrelevant to what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:17 AM
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This veered slightly off topic with a lot of conflation which would require breaking that down and it’s not what I was curious about as your original comment was not about sexual orientation. So if there is not a baseline, what is it that you’re expecting to see and based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:16 AM
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Your question is disingenuous when you’re really just referring to the authority women have over themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:46 AM
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Sorry to clarify I’m asking specifically what is the baseline, how horny do you think people are/should be and how you came to that conclusion ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:27 AM
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How have you determined what a baseline libido is/should be?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:18 AM
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I often wonder if men who don’t frequent this sub would get offended at how pathetically male posters like to depict men as a group. It’s amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:48 PM
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Same in a relationship, but this is the only reason this sub fascinates me lol the takes are…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:36 PM
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I think it’s really simply that you can’t operate on the assumption that a person will be interested especially if they haven’t indicated they are in anyway. I’m not sure the reason for lack of interest is truly important and there often isn’t one but it actually speaks to why approaches by men become so uncomfortable so quickly. You’ll have men seeking justification for your rejection as if you were the one that summoned them over. It’s the same old sales analogy you go to the mall and someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:33 PM
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20 inches and thick but only if attached to a 7’2 billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:48 AM
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For clarity I think it’s ironic that the OP posits that women have a parasitic approach to dating, in an environment where men are claiming access to women is as stated above. This isn’t even new it’s historic we’ve all heard of the “dangers” of having hoards of sexless men, and men also state this in various revenge fantasy storytelling of what will happen if dating isn’t “fixed” for them while simultaneously claiming any standard or expectation a woman has is unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:02 AM
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I don’t think you need to infer that I’m painting it as toxic and entitlement within the context of the original post I stated it quite plainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:48 AM
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Well this was interesting philosophically, but I’d disagree this is a “spiritual” default for human beings and can therefore be overcome. The rest in a round about way is the typical nature argument and I guess an appeal to our biological imperative. I guess you’d then be debating how far we actually transcend any theorized primal instincts as it relates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:46 AM
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It’s not mutually exclusive you can want something and also believe you’re entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:37 AM
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Whether it’s fair or not seems like a pointless question but if you fail earthside the Qur’an has some fairytales about this I hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:13 AM
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Or it means they parasitically believe they are entitled to women and resent any level of effort they have to put in. Perspective, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:35 AM
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When you consider that you have droves of men claiming that access to women and validation from women is the source of their will to live and without it they want to drop out of society and or kill themselves; it makes the parasite allegations kind of hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:25 AM
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No I don’t. My answer would likely change when I’m in my 30s, 40s and 50s etc but again most older men just look like uncs there’s not many David beckhams who likely has had a hair transplant Botox, fillers etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:50 PM
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There are some men that age well. But I think a lot of men are either ignorant or just down right delusional about how terribly they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:35 PM
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Who is they ? And what actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:02 PM
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Why do you want women to care ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:55 PM
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I just came back to this post because my first instinct was this was a typical PPD male diatribe leading to women’s maternal instincts should lead them to pity fuck undesirable men. Gender dysphoria seems more fitting though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:12 PM
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No it’s warped. You’ve even shifted from using maternal instinct to protective drive, no use of the word warmth either. Toddlers are on a suicide mission most days, I can protect a toddler without feeling warmth towards them. People will protect strangers in times of need without them being a baby or disabled. The other day a lady tripped on the subway I promise you I didn’t want to smoosh her cheeks, and call her stinka butt when I helped her up and picked up her things. People will help the Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:40 PM
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Most women won’t even notice this is how you feel or notice you at all they’re living their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:01 PM
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There’s no point to dodge you’ve got a warped understanding of what maternal instinct even is. No people don’t always feel a “warmth” towards a strange child, a misbehaving child in a busy restaurant triggers nothing but glares towards its parents. People also don’t go around wanting or trying to hug other people’s kids either. It’s also interesting you keep using “masculine man” as if there’s a drive to hug strange women either, nor would they a plump man with Down syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 02:42 PM
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No why tf would anyone want to hug a stranger in the streets be so serious. Affection also doesn’t require “maternal instinct”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 02:21 PM
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It’s a false dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:42 AM
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I wouldn’t ask my dad to tell me if the sky was blue. But apart from that I value my bf’s opinion. I seek advice when needed from anyone whose opinion I value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:20 AM
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Then the interaction will be forgotten as I go about my day that’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:48 PM
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Depends how quickly he goes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:46 PM
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No you’re wrong there was just such raw animalistic attraction going on that women were birthing to death /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:55 AM
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Win for men they don’t want to be “beta providers”. No. Women legitimately liked men and were attracted to men. Women today are so masculinized that they don't even find men attractive. Any supporting evidence ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:45 AM
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What shelters and what women are “deeply” against them? Though this feels like a non-sequitur. Is this an answer to how men demonstrate universal care for poor people as opposed to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:15 AM
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Uh huh. So if we take an example from your post “men care about poor people” “women care about poor women”. In your world view how do men demonstrate this care for poor people as opposed to women only focusing on women i.e. what patterns have you observed socially, politically etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:32 PM
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And how did you come to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:25 PM
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For clarity are you acknowledging men don’t care enough about men’s issues and you just think it’s not a problem ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:09 PM
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Perhaps. But women don’t need true crime stats to start piecing their own life experiences together and drawing conclusions especially in conjunction with talking to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:52 PM
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Sure. Similarly there seems to be widespread belief amongst men that feminist indoctrination (and also true crime documentaries?) are to blame for women not liking men. Rather than just interacting with men. Also find that funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:38 PM
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Women aren’t sentient participation trophies for undesirable men… I’ve asked numerous times what is there to gain for women by catering to their desires and there’s never a coherent response.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:27 AM
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Hmm interesting. Because when I read this all I get is the typical resentment of the effort you have to put in to access sex that you need to satiate your obsession with women (yes it’s not healthy and it’s not unique making the title of your op a bit redundant). Women who likely don’t share that obsession with men. So I don’t set you off again I mean that in a broader sense. Now imagine how many other men are out there proclaiming they also share the same obsession with gaining access to women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:37 PM
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Whether you fit in or not isn’t really my concern? I asked a question about whether complaining(and or blaming )that women are NOT interacting with you is futile, you posed it in your OP as how women ARE and that is clearly not the biggest source of internet whining. And for clarification you’ve gone on the generic elaborate shpiel about how women aren’t attracted to most men and don’t initiate dating with most men. Yet you claim you have women begging for you cock in your screenshots. You’re bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:52 PM
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I was actually talking generally but you got triggered. But do tell us about all the women allegedly begging for your cock and how that aligns with being blackpilled and 5’4 I’m intrigued now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:11 PM
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women are at fault and I think we need to take a look and correct how women specifically are interacting with men. The biggest whiners are those that complain women are specifically not interacting with them. Sure you can blame women for not interacting with you but it seems pretty futile no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:54 PM
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I dont know either. If the bills are paid I can’t conceptualize this. But what I can think of is maybe yall were just seeing too much of eachother. Like especially when one of them was a SAHM “You’re just always here” type thing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:20 PM
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What is an alpha career?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:02 PM
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Which version of sports ball is this referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:34 AM
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On Saturday my bf and I argued for a good 20 minutes about reorganizing the kitchen cabinets. Ofc it ended in laughter because why be so passionate about where to put your spices. I say that to say it only gets worse depending on your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:31 AM
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None of those things actually, why are you trying to silence me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 04:18 PM
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No need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 04:14 PM
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Easy inference to make; you say you can’t say women are cowardly because people call you a misogynist. People are allowed to call you a misogynist just as you’re allowed to call women cowards. No one is being silenced in such an interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:11 PM
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You probably take people disagreeing with you as silencing you because you don’t like that they’re disagreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:56 PM
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Nope I’m not claiming to be silenced.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:11 PM
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You only need to look at people’s visceral hatred for single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:47 PM
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You probably just dislike that people disagree with you and can state as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:17 PM
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I don’t know what country you’re from but if you’re in USA people are big af how delusional would you be to say majority of fat women are single lol fat couples every fucking where.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:52 PM
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From the looks of it fat men find fat women to date which means those fat women also like fat men so what’s the problem ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:49 PM
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I don’t know I see a lot of fat fuck couples everywhere so I think they find eachother just fine if that’s what you’re looking to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:44 PM
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Do I even have to explain pr0n? Like think about why step-sister/mom/etc. is so popular, it’s because these fantasies are more relatable to lonely men, lonely men don't have female friends or dates in their life. Whats more relatable to them? Some socially awkward guy that gets caught jerking off by their (step) female family member. NOT the guy actually going on a date and getting lucky at the end of the night. And it’s pushed by the industry, so much so that it’s a stereotype of the industry n…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:38 AM
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And the mass sexual violence against “enemy” women and children wherever troops land.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:13 PM
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It’s so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:13 PM
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Great post. And it’s wild it’s such an identity claim for them. You’ll have the most useless of men larping as legionaries under Julius Caesar or Julius Caesar himself. It’s a claim of physical strength and prowess and yet if it was me I’d personally take offence to it like the world is ultimately saying “eat this artillery in a trench because we don’t need that many of you”. You can see it in Ukraine. Go be some slop in a meat grinder basically. Meanwhile in any cumulative period let’s say 10 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:42 PM
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What’s gay about rotating a sex robot?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:29 PM
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And if they’re too expensive you can pool together funds with the bros and share it each one gets a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:27 PM
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No but cohabiting is going up every year as is delaying children and overall “settling down”. It does have a cumulative effect that more people are single for longer. But you don’t care about these factors demonstrated by the rest of the whiny and self absorbed I’m talking about. When men sit and home and think the world revolves around their cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:58 PM
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They may not; there isn’t someone out there for everybody but most people end up partnering up. But if you can’t connect how economic stressors impact socialization respectfully I don’t care to help with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:45 PM
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Maybe or maybe not they may just be fuck ugly. But if fundamentally the socioeconomic environment is not conducive to healthy human interaction then it makes sense where critique of capitalism is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:28 PM
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They don’t exist in a vacuum. They often sound self absorbed and whiny too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:24 PM
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Argument has its merits but can be vague. But it is an accurate response to men who can’t afford shit, can’t afford to live alone, maintain a social life, complain there’s no third spaces blah blah blah and then the conclusion they come to is all my life’s problems boil down to the fact no one will fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:15 PM
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Frankly I just get the impression it’s greatly overestimated because of social media discourse how much time women are spending thinking about whether men they don’t know are lonely or not. There’s clearly a very vocal demographic of men who ponder “what are women doing as opposed to being with me” and I don’t think women should bother answering the question (to your question).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:55 AM
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“Save yourself tomorrows discomfort by joining this new outlet for men’s desire today” is just not a winning pitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:33 PM
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You acknowledge the space already exists in dating apps there’s also events for singles etc the women that want to be on there already are, so what’s even the suggestion here?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:32 PM
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So all I’m hearing is no women but maybe your sister value your opinion and look for you to take them seriously? And you believe that would be because they’re feminists and like yes men. I get that you posed this on a macro level but another question you seem to see yourself as somewhat of a contrarian, you said in another comment you’re from India, so an Indian computer science graduate. We import tens of thousands of those a year over here, if I narrowed it down to the ones who regurgitate the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:59 PM
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I can’t take the lonewolf free thinker great mind larp seriously to address anything you said. But question how many women in your life do you think actually value your opinion and whether or not YOU take them seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:02 PM
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Either way your claim is in effect that men’s value comes from women or rather the women they have access to, so how is your view any less pathetic ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:24 PM
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I couldn’t tell you I’ve been in 2 LTR’s and dated a few guys in between and have rejected many others. The guys I dated didn’t go any further due to incompatibility though so it’s just not a relevant question to me. They were attractive imo. I don’t think I’m specific but I know what I don’t like when I see it like jacked up teeth for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:48 AM
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It would really depend on the face because I think it’s the largest variable in men bar height. Hair, eyes, smile usually is what I notice first. I love my bfs face and I would if he was shorter, skinnier or his legs didn’t work, fatter is debatable because I just find that really unattractive but you can always lose weight I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:29 AM
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Yes because you positioned it as continuing to want to have sex with the person you’re currently with in consideration of a drastic change to their physicality. Not likely. The rest is just the same old what percentage of men are you attracted to that gets asked often. Not many inclusive of looks and personality. Hence if his face stayed the same, the first part of my last reply applies. Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:05 AM
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Maybe if his face stays the same and applying your hypothetical to real life; male bodies aren’t that “varied” to me on average thinking about my geographic location to imagine something so drastic. If he lost weight it wouldn’t bother me, if he got fat I’d tell him to fix that, if he became disabled I’d stay but you’re talking about a possible gender swap or other drastic physical change and I’m saying he could factually get breast implants and a neovagina tomorrow that objectively looked good …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:46 AM
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Well we’re in an era where a hypothetical isn’t really needed tbh If my bf decided to transition to a nb or transwoman hormones and head to toe surgeries and all, I wouldn’t stick around for that so I’m going to answer no on the same principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:22 AM
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I’m absolutely not into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:06 PM
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Are you posting this from Afghanistan? Location would be a useful indicator on whether or not to bother engaging with a post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:29 PM
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Wtf is a scatophiliac I don’t even want to google it. Find someone into kink. No amount of asking would make me even think to do certain things, therefore if I was with someone who was trying to pressure me into it we would just be incompatible and that’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:59 PM
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You have to take time out of your day to convince a man you’re not interested so he will go away. The fact it takes convincing is crazy. Reactions ofc vary so you have to still be oh so nice and gentle about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:30 PM
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I don’t want any men approaching me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:12 PM
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Good but there’s still work to do some men haven’t stopped. Spread the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:47 AM
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Could be, could not be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:52 PM
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Anyone who participates in incel subculture virgin or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:47 PM
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Or I just disagree with you, see how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:16 PM
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There are a lot of miserable circumstances. Not having sex is probably one of the least miserable. This is even a privileged take. Also most people date and have sex, you’ve never been freer to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:12 PM
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Or you just can’t accept that people don’t share your perspective of “this kind of suffering” or that it’s even a “consequence” and not just the way things should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:57 PM
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Well I just went on the sub you mentioned and it looks like people post about a wide variety of topics. If it was being contaminated by whiny incels it makes sense but if it was one or two infrequently you could probably just ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:33 PM
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I’ve always had the same male friends. My closest male friend is gay though. I don’t view the friendships differently than all of my female friends/acquaintances. But my closest/best friends are women and nah I doubt I would ever be that close to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:52 PM
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Not attracted to would probably be a better way of saying it rather than unattractive because that more so suggests ugly. But it’s pretty neutral if there was a pile of bricks (or some other inanimate object) in front of me I’d notice the pile of bricks walk around them and move on with my day. The best way I can think to describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:53 PM
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No to the first q, maybe to the second q.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 03:42 PM
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This is a really stupid question. You don’t know how grief will manifest till it hits you. Fact of the matter is life goes on even if you can’t move on. Most people especially if they have kids will have to attempt to navigate their grief in a way that facilitates that. When my grandma died I would get triggered by songs, smells, birds, fabrics, patterns she’d like etc until one day I had to flip a switch to find those things comforting instead. So I’d probably be much like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:26 PM
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What serious weight, these men were mocked because they are so pathetic it’s funny. It became a viral trend of women posting their graduation pics with the caption “look at the degree on that chick” which further angered the men. And this is becoming a pattern not isolated extremism so it contradicts the title of the post. And for the rest to care about what the opposite sex is attracted to you may have to give a shit about attracting them. If you don’t then no you shouldn’t concern yourself wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:28 PM
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Right so incredibly arrogant that the mens main point of contention is that they think her eggs are going to waste and that she should be more concerned with what men are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 06:10 PM
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Men have frequently gone on tirades when women post their accomplishments online. It’s very amusing actually. https://thetab.com/2025/11/21/eggs-arent-getting-younger-oxford-grads-brutal-clapback-to-vile-sexist-messages-over-phd
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:09 PM
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“Still treat him as a masculine man” meaning what exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:29 PM
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Wouldn’t be offended unless the person was being offensive. It’s usually just “how can I make this interaction end faster” in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:52 PM
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The leftovers don’t sound too great either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:43 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:42 AM
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Oh wow sounds like men are terrible “protectors” all around then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:11 PM
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They don’t want empathy they want someone to date them. Since we can’t force anyone to want them, you’ll soon realize positive affirmations are a waste of time if you can’t fix that and they respond angrily. Aside from that in the online sphere they are just so fucking whiny it comes off too pathetic and bitter to evoke anything but perhaps annoyance. In real life no one gives a fuck about any individuals dating life unless you know them. And even then…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:02 AM
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Have all the insecurities you want, finding someone willing to deal with them is another question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:14 PM
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No you mean subjectively based on how she may or may not objectively be. The point is irrelevant though because ultimately we agree women are typically the default parent. This view on only conditionally wanting to raise your children is why there’s child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:45 AM
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Yes because women typically ARE the default parent right? Hence your argument that your love for children should be predicated on how you feel about the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:35 AM
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Yes because women typically ARE the default parent right? Hence your argument that your love for children should be predicated on how you feel about the mother. So yeah buddy we already know this very well I agree being outright with it is better for everyone. I already roll my eyes at most “she’s keeping me from seeing my child” claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:33 AM
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Again you hilariously think you’ve had a groundbreaking revelation. Men already abandon their kids every day and also don’t do enough because they view women as the default parent. This is often due to that woman not wanting them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:19 AM
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Men already act like this. It’s the typical deadbeat dad, it’s cute you thought you had an original thought though. Maybe you can expand on this idea and make your fellow men understand by this admission that you view women as the default parent and they’ll finally stop complaining about outcomes in family court.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:10 AM
3

Yeah especially so on a date I went on where I knew i wouldn’t even be replying to him again when I got home.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:35 PM
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Oh please trophy wife is a term for a reason. Men often seek access to women for validation from other men. To say otherwise would be beyond delusional and yes it applies to their wives and girlfriends. If my friend was with an ugly fat smelly man yes I would interrogate what tf she’s doing. If she has a reason, then there’s no reason I’d be dictating what a grown woman should be doing. “Do better” otherwise applies to treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:30 PM
2

I mean calling it demand imbalance is generous if we’re to take your post seriously. If no one is buying what you’re selling that sounds more like bankruptcy not inflation induced. We’d need some macroeconomic theory on cock to look at this holistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:14 AM
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Dudes funny af, we also have a similar sense of humor and I like how I can peep some shit and know he has too before I even lock eyes with him across a room (I hate being with him in serious situations sometimes because of this because now’s not the time for jokes), he’s smart, his curiosity, his whimsy, being able to talk about any and everything, I don’t have to fake anything w him good or bad, we will absolutely hurl insults over snacks or some other dumb shit and fallout laughing the next 5 …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:59 PM
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At which event were you held at gun point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:50 AM
2

Aw no that’s not what either of those words mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:29 PM
1

I don’t think you know what that word means pookie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:26 PM
0

I don’t care to be proven right or wrong.. I don’t care at all lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:22 PM
2

What wonderful advice I’ll add it to the bottom of my list of priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:51 PM
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I don’t pay attention to men I don’t know or wonder/care how their dating life is going. The men I do know who date/are in relationships all have different attributes so it seems like a pointless exercise to just describe different men. What conclusions are you even hoping to draw from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:14 PM
3

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:40 AM
8

I agree the male loneliness epidemic doesn’t exist. The whiny males definitely do though (in abundance). They serve as an optimal propaganda source.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:37 AM
2

In theory it could be useful for individuals to view themselves that way for nothing else but their own self esteem. But reality will hit like a brick if there’s no competitors in the game for which you’re “the prize”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:51 PM
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I notice something different. Men really struggle to be disagreed with. So it must be that the other person doesn’t understand the basis of the argument not that they find the basis stupid. But to the point of your question there are very few posts on here that are anything more than emotionally charged ranting from the oh so logical ones. So when it comes to semantics specifically unless you have the inclination to argue someone out of their feelings; you may need to parse through the drivel to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:49 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:42 AM
8

And even then I don’t get why you’d have the expectation that they sincerely care more than you do. No one can fix sexlessness for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:57 AM
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You’re on a debate sub where people talk about these things. In reality no one is thinking about whether you fuck or not more than you do. The brainworm of being sexless is the time all the people interacting with you are spending thinking about bills and groceries or even whether they fuck or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:30 AM
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If this is how you armchair psychoanalyzed this comment I’m now of the belief your grieving harem may have just told you they had a headache or lost their keys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:25 AM
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I work with kids and teens many of whom are overwhelmed with “negative” emotions. Have you considered asking yourself why you are surrounded by supposedly grief stricken women? And also my first question was whether you are looking for anecdotal stories ? Because I have many women in my life in their 30s and 40s that are not consumed by a depression causing dick and baby void. What would those examples actually mean to you if you can’t even describe what you believe “happens to women over 35”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:58 AM
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And what’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:39 AM
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The other side of what? “Comfortable again” again from what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:28 AM
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Lmao “let me call up that divorced dad from three years ago to tell him my womb aches from its emptiness”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:23 AM
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Better from what exactly? And what answers are you actually looking for, anecdotal stories of all the women over 35 we know? My older sister got divorced at 28. She 36 now and moved to Berlin. She travels a lot, no plans of “settling down”. Like….
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:08 AM
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Nope you’re the one mentioning “this guy”. Where did you read shut up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:45 PM
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Where did you read that ? sounds imaginary like the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:36 PM
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What is the relevance ? But knowing some of the demographic of men on here, I’d bet he’s be struggling to get women to even talk to him while fantasizing about pumping and dumping. I’ll save my concern for something worthwhile not imaginary women thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:28 PM
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I don’t care, the point is yall will complain regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:10 PM
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So ? Even if women do settle yall would be complaining about “raw animalistic attraction” and “betabuxx”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:55 PM
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By “not productive” you most likely mean “doesn’t agree with me”. Your example is idiotic too. The tradcon type women are hardly ever sex positive. There’s a difference between saying sex is not wrong and promiscuity is right. It just breaks your mind probably because men believe and tell women everyday that they’re radioactive and ruin any woman they touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:09 AM
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One’s married and doing well. The other I don’t know and don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:01 PM
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It’s funny how theres supposedly so much advice from men out there already. Yet droves of whiney men complaining about how invisible they feel. What’s the disconnect?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:05 PM
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Why don’t you reply to their comments and ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 11:08 AM
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Yes. Usually listening to them talk did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:45 AM
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Words can’t express how much I don’t care about anything you just said. I’m amused you even thought to reply with this useless information on such an old post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:34 PM
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Yeah the bar for content approval here is low, and?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:58 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:57 PM
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I haven’t negated anything do you have the ability to read to comprehend or do you just need someone to talk to? The question remains why seek validation for your sexpating, who is asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:09 PM
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Idgaf about your dating life and I don’t know why you’re sharing this information. It’s men who constantly bring up the topic of how they want to go find a bride in a rural village in Vietnam. He posits reasons why these women actually like him. Who is that for exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:07 PM
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Why would i give a shit about criticism from men who say they need to fly across the globe for pussy? The question remains as to why he is seeking validation for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:59 PM
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Why do you want validation on your passport bro activities ? As in writing a whole essay to convince other people those women actually like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:15 PM
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I wouldn’t see anything or go out of my way to interact with that person. Most people will have or be an anti social coworker at some point, they’re usually kind of like a corner lamp but no one cares (usually) if they get the job done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:53 PM
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Constantly I hear posts and comments from so many men: “dating is so hard for us” “we feel invisible” “we want to drop out of society” Yeah it’s a load of crap anyone who needs to constantly post about how much their life sucks is just seeking attention. If it was really all that bad they’d be doing something more productive with their time. No need to victimize themselves for attention. So question how do you decide which online discourse to take at face value from whoever it is you’re watching…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:05 PM
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What makes you think I care what you think “the convo” is about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:32 PM
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Other factors are way more important. I wouldn’t sleep with someone I’m not attracted to. But physical attraction is only very loosely linked to sexual arousal for me. I also didn’t orgasm with my ex in 7 years and only started liking sex in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:40 PM
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“The maths”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:54 PM
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Spend enough time on this sub and it’s easy to come to the conclusion that it doesn’t matter what the advice is. Men are autistically looking for a magic equation to make women flock to them. It will never happen ofcourse because attraction and interpersonal relationship don’t work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:07 AM
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Tell that to the op he’s the one complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:23 AM
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I don’t necessarily think your post is a hot take but I think people in reality care a lot less about this shit than the online discourse over the years would have you believe. I’ve not been presented with anything that has convinced me a sex change is currently possible and the rest unfortunately does sound like gender woo woo to me. I can accept the medical consensus that “transitioning” is the most effective “treatment” for people with gender dysphoria. What that means policy wise I.e. the ID…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:31 PM
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“We don’t get flowers until we die” “we don’t get compliments”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:25 PM
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Idgaf what misogynistic men are talking about. Hence they don’t appear in my algo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:21 PM
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Not everyone is that desperate so again it’s a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:25 AM
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Your friends may just well not like you like you think they do. Whether it’s because you’re a man is tbd, random internet strangers don’t know the dynamics of your interpersonal relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:01 AM
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No ideally people like a person not a performance. If there’s a woman who likes men who wear dresses and paint their nails, some dude faking that shit to get laid will eventually grow resentful and/or revert to someone said woman is not in to. People are saying yall should be free to do you. You may find a person that likes you for you or not. If you need to be told someones going to fuck you as motivation to be yourself or reinvent yourself that sounds like a personal problem women shouldn’t co…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:50 AM
3

Yes, agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 01:37 PM
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For me low effort can still look good but if you have a poor sense of style (which is subjective) that’s given me the ick in the past. Like anyone wearing jeans and a t shirt can still look good especially if groomed well. But if you’re actually dressed bad I’m talking in 2026 I’m still seeing dudes wear tight ass skinny jeans ankles showing fucking loafers with a tight ass shirt. (The pose in front of a car with a cigar archetype) then yeah no. Not a fan of the cargo shorts and graphic tee arch…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 09:18 PM
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Lmao oh no pookie. Did you go to college and are you unemployed ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:16 PM
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The complaint is the fact that they in earnest think anyone cares whether they get their dicks wet or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:03 PM
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How have you been punished lately out of curiosity? We have a monthly quota to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:44 PM
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There hasn’t been a post this funny in a while. But anyway if you’re so concerned you should think about why it’s so easy for feminists to spread said “propaganda”, in reality they don’t need to they just need to say go interact with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:28 PM
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I can confirm I’m sober as fuck and it’s gibberish. I think he was going for passive aggressive but instead achieved incoherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 02:00 AM
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My asks are basically my bf. But to answer the other q if I was single I’d eliminate anyone already balding, fat, ugly, poor prospects, bad vibes, heavy substance user etc. Also has to be same or similar age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:25 PM
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Children
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:48 AM
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It’s probably more so that before even thinking about invasive surgeries and immutable features there are men out there who put no/minimal effort into even looking presentable or maintaining/ enhancing anything attractive they might have e.g. there are men now taking the initiative to prevent or slow down hair loss which is a thing women have been doing forever. Men will spend so much time talking about fat women when biologically being fat as a man makes even less sense yet so many men are fat …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:53 AM
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Does this answer the question as to whether attention from old men is something to be jealous over, or ? But yes totally but I wouldn’t say bitter I would say that listening to men speak about their sexuality has confirmed to me that a large percentage of yall are pedophiles. I mean getting sexually assaulted as a child did it, as well as continued harassment by old ass men since I was a child like many women but yall just speak and confirm it. And I find it amusing you jump to jealousy and not …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:30 PM
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Yeah the more realistic thing people are thinking about is the fact that Toby macguire can watch his daughter grow up, was wiping her ass while his girlfriend was being born, could’ve been playing doting dad when his daughters friends came over all the while thinking about how he would fuck them if he could. Not “omg 50 year old Toby macguire is off the market I’m so jealous”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:06 PM
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Yes him dating a 19 year old at 50 is gross period.It would be gross if he had a sister that age. And it’s gross in the reality that he has a daughter that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:55 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:48 PM
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Yeah Toby macguire is dating a girl his daughters exact age. It’s gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:44 PM
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Unrestrained male sexuality looks like the Epstein files.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:25 PM
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No women don’t just spawn at 35 most deal with attention from old ass men from youth and know what they’re about. I’d like for you to explain whether you think attention from old men is something to be jealous over realistically?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:11 PM
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Well how consistent is this advice because theres a non insignificant amount of men who aren’t listening to that advice; they instead come on reddit to beg women for empathy. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:31 PM
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So the TLDR of this is “getting women to like me is hard”?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:25 AM
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Men don't want to approach women out of fear or lack of courage. A self sufficient man who respects himself does not seek to be disrespected by a system that is against him. Why would a man want to ever be married or date women if this is the paradigm he is to face? The people whose “disrespect” you’re complaining about would not care either way. I think that’s the key take away for said man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:47 PM
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Maybe you do find men more attractive than the average woman and that’s great. What are you going to do with that information?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:52 AM
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Right we should end this shadowy power play the women are probably missing out on some quality edge lord humour and Jordan Peterson shorts due to this censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:39 PM
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Yes thinking about whether men are agonizing over their memes giving us the ick is a truly vitalizing pass time. Thanks for asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:01 PM
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I don’t think you know what egotism means buddy. See here, thinking your praise would mean anything could be an example of egotism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:38 AM
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No most normal people don’t walk around assuming the world is attracted to them. What and who men will fuck if given the opportunity is not worth spending time thinking about. But seems to me you’ve answered your own confusion in your post; you’re projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:29 AM
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Let’s just say I’ve never seen a woman make a post on here questioning whether or not they’re attractive to their partners friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:59 AM
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That probably made sense in your mind and that’s quite amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:48 AM
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This sub is so funny. Post after post of men lamenting about women generally not being attracted to most men but it suddenly becomes confusing that would also apply to their friends partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:20 AM
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My great grandmother didn’t even attend her husbands funeral. Many such cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:19 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:27 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:20 PM
3

Sure Google is your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:46 AM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:29 AM
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More women are single now than in those past generations and it’s still a majority of women don’t engage in casual sex. So it’s difficult to answer a question with your framing when realistically are you “winning” something you don’t want?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:59 AM
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For all you know he died happy with their arrangement and he will never know that you’re wasting time being angry on his behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:35 PM
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I don’t watch porn but it’s safe to assume most content is fake. Like someone could be both being abused and also looking extra tormented on camera because people are into the shit. Same applies to anything recorded for entertainment purposes I don’t even automatically believe most influencers when they review things if they have too large of a following.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:53 AM
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No. In fact I think we land at completely opposing conclusions. We clearly live in a culture that makes people too comfortable to “indulge” in their perversions. There’s rot everywhere power is concentrated and silence has been rewarded to the point of I’ll say it in the least judgemental way I can almost complicity. Sure you can reserve final judgement for legal proceedings (that will never come) that’s fine but also in this case discomfort seems necessary for anyone who knows they associated w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:58 AM
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It’s beyond tone deaf you don’t see that? Child sex trafficking, rape, torture and possibly murder spanning decades, involving world leaders, “royalty”, intelligence agencies and a justice department that is still trying to cover up the shit (and likely will do so successfully). And you’re here like “look at people tweeting about jay z and pusha t .. that could be me, you, anyone one day what would we do if we were implicated in a child sex trafficking ring like yeah false accusations are a tiny…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:00 AM
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Yes that’s what your post boils down to. Worried about the wellbeing of groups of elites and their dealings with eachother. Like save the performative concern, the fact that is where your mind is about a billionaire man like Jay Z who mind you has had a few accusations regarding underage girls and has the resources to protect himself just like the other sick mfs we’re looking at here, you sure don’t need to lose sleep. Not to mention the likelihood of these victims ever seeing justice is slim to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:09 AM
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You almost have to laugh. Implication of child torture .. “but.. but … jay z”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:44 AM
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I don’t call this a high school sweetheart situation but I was with my ex from when I was 14(officially 15) until I was 22. He was 21 when we met. Wont trauma dump how it ended I’m just glad it did. Dude got more abusive every year that went by. My best friend though she was with her husband from 16-18 they broke up didn’t see eachother really for fiveish years and reconnected and got married at 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:41 PM
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When I was young and in my first relationship I was genuinely stupid about a lot of things I tolerated. I would never be that person in a relationship again. So in that sense yes but I disagree it’s a difference in love but a difference in maturity and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:06 PM
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I’d also add this projection also applies to the way some men on here talk about approaching specifically cold approaching women. They think this is something women are both compelling men to do and holding themselves back from doing. Women will be telling men that they have no desire (meaning it literally) to approach men they see in public because there is no compulsion there based on any attraction and also not being receptive to it because it’s like who are you? It seems they’ll pop out with…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:06 PM
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Yeah looking at most men is about as arousing as looking at a plank of wood. Neutral. But it’s unlikely that means most women are getting wet over “bobs and ars”. Some might. Women also won’t find having sex with men they like and find attractive disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:53 AM
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Don’t like it, never have never will. Even in your best case scenario assumptions in reality can quickly become awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:45 PM
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(there's a growing gender divide on certain base assumptions about gender equality and fueling those trends is laying the ground for future discrimination and disenfranchisement of women). No there isn’t there’s just men lamenting women can’t be forced to be/stay with them. It’s the average chuds way of coping. You’ve just framed the usual dickpockalypse revenge fantasy as if men have any leverage to demand your perceived view of loyalty. We only have to look at how men behave when women are for…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:47 PM
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What is too fast to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:57 AM
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Yeah It’s like I said people will continue to feel lonelier with further societal atomization. There’s people out there especially in bigger cities who live alone, wfh, see their friends once a quarter don’t know their neighbours, barely even feel the need to leave the house everything’s ordered in etc some people like it that way but it’s mentally damaging. But if you mean specifically about the sisterhood point in your OP, then i don’t have much to say really. Men often brag that they have low…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:28 AM
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I don’t think there’s a male loneliness epidemic. In fact men on here have claimed it’s feminist propaganda. I think people do and will continue to feel lonelier in general and I have no idea why people focus on dating. I don’t take “people seeing you as a monster” particularly seriously. Id need more info on what you specifically feel because the people that say that usually just mean “women don’t pay attention to me”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:07 AM
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Sure to the extent I care about social issues that affect everyone they would be included and on an individual level it’s more likely I feel and demonstrate specific empathy to people I know. Do I feel empathy for Men™ though? No and I genuinely find reddit MRA’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:52 AM
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No the court found the allegations substantially true based on evidence not just “we reported what she told us”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:48 PM
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Nope. In the U.K. media outlets can call that man a wifebeater all they want and he’d lose again so she probably has a point yet I don’t care to watch whatever you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:56 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:43 PM
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Oh dear lord🤦🏼‍♀️ if you insist you’re on super soaker 3000 mode because you are just so in love I have no reason to not believe you. But for most women (especially considering a large percentage of women can not orgasm from PIV alone), what stimulates them will vary and to enjoy sex with a partner you have to be with someone who cares to stimulate you in the way your body responds to in order to get you off. If they refuse to do so the sex will be bad. Consistently bad sex = desire killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:20 AM
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No. A pretty face won’t do shit if for example your entire sex life is minimal/no foreplay PIV focused and the man’s idea of sex is jackhammering you in a way that’s painful for 2 minutes until he cums and rolling over.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:04 AM
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Have you ever had sex with a woman and do you know how women’s anatomy works?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:38 AM
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No it means the sex is bad, bad sex kills desire lol why would you want to continue doing something that’s uncomfortable or painful and you don’t get an orgasm from it? PIV is a terrible experience (like actually a physically terrible experience) when you’re not aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:25 AM
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Bad sex to me meaning uncomfortable or painful and orgasmless kills desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:00 AM
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Do you have any insight as a man? I’ve been asking this for a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:17 AM
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I’d be wishing for a real eater because I have no interest in getting penetrated at all until I’ve orgasmed regardless of size.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:15 AM
1

How if the person is “waiting for them to cave”?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:54 PM
1

That’s probably because you’re viewing that behaviour as passive. Someone who will not accept no for an answer is doing so intentionally. It’s not a secondary consequence or rather them hoping for “the best.”They are trying to wear the person down or make them cave. In any legal system courts are now or starting to look at how pressure functions. Here you’re looking for a reason a victim ought to have escaped the situation being that their no is clearly not enough. A yes in this scenario is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:44 PM
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I already set out a common scenario? how many times should a person have to hear no to accept it and back off?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:08 PM
2

How does it seem to you that they can say no if they’ve already said it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:29 PM
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Yeah sure if you imagine someone just sitting in a corner asking “can I have one sex please” over and over with a smile on their face, it might be harder to conceptualise. Context matters often this behaviour is not in isolation. If someone’s hands are on you and they’re getting more aggressive and not stopping when you say no and instead it’s just “come on” “why not, it’ll be quick” and and not backing away tugging on your clothes etc. To keep pushing after someone has already said no does not …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:17 PM
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I guess it depends on how we’re applying meaning because I do find women “aesthetically appealing” but I don’t know if I’d call it physical attraction because I’ve never been sexually attracted to a woman so no. That said I don’t find most men sexually attractive either so it’s not a stretch to think I possibly could.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:43 AM
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Well what made me actually choose him when I had all but sworn of relationships is that there was always honesty and transparency with him we had both seen eachother at our worst before we even got together. No fake shit here I can tell him anything and vice versa. That and my best friend likes him a lot. What attracted me to him is his looks and sense of humour to this day we will be in the house just laughing. He’s smart and curious, always responsible, competent. So many things really.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 07:05 PM
8

Sure, you just have to find women willing to talk to you long enough to let you lie to them. Have you got a plan for the first hurdle?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:10 AM
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Sure let me search my comments I’ll come back to you if I can lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:17 PM
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I’d prefer to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:06 PM
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What a useless reply, can I help you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:03 PM
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I saw this pop up and laughed remembering a man on here saying he got used for walks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:48 PM
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About?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:46 AM
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I’m not sure women show no interest in me unless they’re intoxicated is what you wanna go with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:32 AM
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Why are you back I already told you to stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:39 AM
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I do and did. And no one cares, you know this by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:30 AM
2

No you think you are, all of you that make these kind of statements on here thinking you have a sympathetic position do and it’s genuinely so funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:30 AM
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Ha, the funny thing is you contribute to it every time you whine about how hard it is to get access to sex and how that’s all women are good for. You think you’re better? You’re one step away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:02 AM
6

Isnt it just, if only more men would choose monasteries over sex work, there would be no demand. But alas that’s not reality, so go open your wallet. Don’t have to put up with shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:36 AM
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Put up with what? If you’re someone who seeks casual sex and no one consents to having it with you that sounds like a you problem. Go pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:24 AM
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Oh you’re not ? Then again why are you bothering with this question, you must have plenty of anecdotal data sets right? You’ve never been rejected, mr high value ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:30 AM
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You don’t give a fuck about the answers to this question. And even if you did if you’re not retarded you’ll know it would depend on what any individual woman’s priorities are. So instead of idiotic thought experiments why don’t you just say what you want? You want women to resist “high value men” that you don’t think they deserve. “Notice me the low value man who is your actual match and I won’t waste your time, low value men never do that because we’re so desperate”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:23 AM
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They could attempt to adopt a new framework through a different philosophy I guess. But I observe this be a slippery slope for people who try to “believe” or lean in like religion so relief might be fleeting to the same extent of yoga like you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:47 AM
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This is about cold approaching. Women generally don’t cold approach men. Men do that. If they were to start doing so as I’ve already stated it won’t make any difference to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:14 AM
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No average people get together all the time through their social circles. Women are not driven to approach like men do, because first of all a lot of us don’t like it and we’ve said it enough and we’re also just not interested in stranger men in public. What difference would women approaching super attractive men more do for anyone if they’re not doing so already? It would just give those men more options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:04 AM
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And you made a debate post for your premise to be challenged. You make multiple posts about women approaching men. Everything you wrote is noise, women are simply not as interested in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:58 AM
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Improve your comprehension, I responded to what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:52 AM
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No I really think you’re overestimating/projecting on women’s interest in men they don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:43 AM
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Attractive guys would be approached enough so they'd reject average women, which in turn would approach average men and you can see where this'd go No you think you see where this would go. Because you’re projecting on to women. Many women have said outright they don’t like getting approached and see men as NPC’s. All the other things in the OP are in fact background noise. Women are not like men. They are not going to en masse start noticing random men in public and thinking “I just must speak …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:40 AM
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I don’t know why you’re stuck on this topic. Do you realistically think women approaching in the ways men do would change men’s dating prospects ? Who do you think women would be approaching if they were going to go out of their way to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:03 AM
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Yeah maybe this is just a semantical issue. Physical desire I.e. attraction does matter for the act of sex itself. But speaking for myself and I’m sure a lot of women would agree physical desire is not validating in of itself. Or much. Especially in a relationship if the emotional connection is shaky. Someone who engages in casual sex may have a different view on things. Maybe if I put it like this if someone I think I love doesn’t demonstrate want for me the person and only their need for sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:52 PM
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No we don’t agree. Your perspective is that lust= desire for the person. That lust in of itself is validating. That sex in of itself is validating. I disagree. No one says sex does not matter in a relationship. The importance of sex in a relationship will depend on how good the sex you’re having is, your libido, your circumstances, your bond etc e.g. it also doesn’t matter how good the sex is I can lust after you and it won’t mean a fuck thing (again if the relationship is going to shit) Duty se…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:01 PM
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Sure, random sexual interest from men is abundant and cheap just as a random job offer is cheap. But an offer from a company you want to work for is validating. Validation comes from who is offering and why. I can’t really agree not for nothing an offer of sex can also be meaningless in a relationship at any point in time; why do you think duty sex is a thing? That is exactly what I think of when you say who is offering and why. If the relationship is going to shit I won’t feel loved and “valida…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:39 PM
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What’s the damning part? Male sexual attention is cheap, abundant and pervasive. You admit it yourselves that you’ll fuck anything it’s only a bonus if she’s not fat. What on earth is there to be validated by lol Women have sex because good sex is enjoyable it just so happens that there is not always a strong chance sex will be good or even “meh” for women. Pump and dump the phrase men use as a pejorative, commonly after admitting they lied about their intentions ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:30 PM
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Partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:09 PM
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Mercy that’s what you call consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:25 AM
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“Men are vulnerable little babies with no agency” it’s barely a debate, it’s venting hence I asked and?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:40 PM
4

Whether this is true or false, And? What are you going to do with this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:31 PM
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Reading your posts feels like watching someone’s first day on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:37 PM
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I don’t. The people including men in my life are plenty empathetic. Basic “politeness” and pro-social behaviour is all I give and like in return for people I don’t know or don’t know well. In fact I generally avoid interacting with men I don’t know outside of that let alone expecting demonstrated individualized empathy/sympathy from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:20 PM
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Or they can work and pay tax you know …. like they do in reality. The unfuckables can drop out of society if they so choose to, do you have no agency ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:01 AM
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Oh they have jobs to house and finance themselves, I thought they were doing that for women? But yeah if paying tax is such an insurmountable burden there’s options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:34 AM
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He has; he doesn’t have socials except tiktok so I see his comments when he comes on MY account. He even only finally downloaded tik tok because I kept sending him stuff and he got sucked in. On here I’ve just seen him asking questions on subs related to his job but I don’t generally know what he thinks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:27 AM
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They could quit their jobs, not pay taxes and chances are they are not men that are building anything anyway. That way they can remain unfuckable without the resentment right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:34 PM
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Who knows. The diatribes from men here are comedic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:05 PM
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Does it matter if it’s ok or not and what difference would answers to your question make to you. Do and feel what you want no one will give a shit unless you’re trying to make your feelings other people’s problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:12 PM
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I hope you overcome being slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:12 PM
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Waste of time challenging retarded views. And your reply to my comment was a waste of time also.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:11 PM
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I don’t care what you’re advocating for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:07 PM
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You’re right, we need to open mega-orphanages and require the abandonment of children in the event of separation, divorce and death. How dare those women raise their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:04 PM
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Sure I guess for some people theres a fine line between being a pushover and turning into a bitter asshole if you’re only doing nice things out of expectation of something in return. If you don’t get said thing in return and it enrages you, you probably shouldn’t have done the “nice” thing in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:22 PM
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If you say you do. Same still applies then all I’m getting from this is you’re not actually bothered by hurty words you see online but by women not acknowledging men’s existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:29 PM
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All I’m getting from this is you’re not actually bothered by hurty words you see online but by women not acknowledging your existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:11 AM
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Well that’s a lot of women who are “a lot more empathetic” to men’s issues then being that every man is born from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:41 AM
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Yeah you can being alone is an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:29 AM
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“Especially Childless women” is there a reason you’d be looking to childless women specifically to care about your problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:51 AM
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Yeah well sex is not a civil right/ equal opportunity activity. There’s nothing to fight for lol just find someone who wants to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:38 PM
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There is zero incentive for women to provide a free for all to our bodies. This is just sounding like “it should be easy because we want sex and that’s that”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:01 PM
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Why should we ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:44 PM
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I don’t care about your feelings nor did I share frustrations. The OP made a debate post on whether it should be difficult to get laid or not. Do you have anything useful to add or are you just here to victim puke?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:01 AM
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Yeah incels tend to compare not having sex to rape so wouldn’t be surprised. Blah blah blah his post is about not getting laid. Do you want to answer the question for him since you feel so passionately; why shouldn’t it be difficult and who is supposed to make it easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:51 AM
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Sensitivity for what exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:13 AM
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I look at these questions sometimes and wonder what the point in answering is. It’s actually probably more entertaining to let yall stew in your delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:09 PM
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That’s just you saying you’re sad because it’s hard to get laid. Why specifically should it not be difficult and who is supposed to make it easier for you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:50 PM
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You haven’t explained why it shouldn’t be difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 04:44 PM
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I don’t watch porn. I think more women have started watching porn over the years but if I remember correctly some studies have been released on this. But women who watch porn are still the minority of women. I don’t know what categories among the women who watch porn are watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:29 PM
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Don’t know, don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 11:40 PM
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Yes the same women who you cry about not acknowledging your existence are keeping track of whether you’re attending that (insert male activity) you’re part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:18 PM
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Everyone gets told this. Maybe it isn’t about you? Thought of that? You can have all the sinful intent you want so long as you’re not expecting it to be reciprocated from random women you don’t know in the streets. Have you considered that it just means enjoy your life, expand your social circle through things you actually enjoy doing not just hunting for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:06 PM
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There’s never a consistent narrative; I’ve also heard women are forcing their way into every male activity and space and they can’t and don’t have anything to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:02 PM
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Yes Bob from IT is not drake. He can stew about not being drake all he likes regardless he will clock in, buy his groceries, pay his bills and repeat. No one but Bob will care that he’s bitter, angry and resentful that he is not Drake (or the other guy you mentioned). There’s also no analysis here really to agree or disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:42 AM
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Your question will get deleted as it’s “internal” so I think you’d be better asking on a women’s subreddit or something. I know some people are happy to have sex even with lack of sensitivity or lack of orgasm but there’s a difference between not having an orgasm and not being aroused AT ALL. If you’re saying you’re initially aroused it may just be that you need external stimulation during and that’s normal. But if it’s a case where you’re going into PIV before being ready; I’d generally and fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:58 AM
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So if a parent is “dating” their child we should just turn a blind eye? Or do you have incest thresholds?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:26 PM
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Yes you can only date men you find ugly and the closer to homeless they are the better. Otherwise it’s the evil hypergamy duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:50 PM
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1.13 2.no idea 3.eh don’t know what counts here 4.15 5.15 6.13 7.15
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:24 AM
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Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:04 AM
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Most guys are too insecure to ask about past sexual experiences of the girls they are with, Lmfao the irony. so you have nothing to worry about honey. What do you think the concern is cockwatcher?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:59 AM
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Does the line of questioning involve length, girth and curvature? Anything in your line of questioning involving categorizing prior penises by frequency and duration of orgasms? A personal rating for each dick size? Do you conduct the prior dick interview as pillow talk after the sex or over dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:50 AM
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Do you do send out a dick audit form to all new romantic interests? Perhaps a tick box table covering length, girth, curvature ? Is this usually before or after the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:43 AM
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It’s not just low value. It’s cheap and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:35 AM
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So translation: I don’t have a big dick so therefore can’t have good sex, I can’t give a woman butterflies, I don’t have charisma and I don’t believe there’s any reason for a woman to like me ? Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:33 AM
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So what is ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:30 PM
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So like I said find a woman who doesn’t have flings if it keeps you up at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:59 PM
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I wouldn't know. I am a stunted 33 year old virgin.I am not gonna make a fool of myself trying to imagine a future version of my self who has achieved ordinary human happiness. Yeah well this explains the rest of your shpiel lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:20 PM
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Gosh how fucking dense. The point is there is a whole world of sex out there that mostly AVERAGE people are participating in. The idea of people enjoying sex in their relationships is unimaginable to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:14 PM
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Are you so delusional that you believe only the supermodels of the world have and enjoy sex? Like you really think that? The people buying out of sex stores, people in kink communities, people in swingers clubs, the people who still fuck in old people’s homes etc they’re all perfect 10’s? You people are so fucking lost it’s genuinely mind blowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:18 PM
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Yeah well I think the message is to stop dick watching “Chad” especially if you know you’re not “Chad”. If you can’t magically become “Chad” you can either whine about it or approach relationships focused directly on the person you’re with in the now. Prior sexual history is kind of a separate topic; you know you can just be with someone who hasn’t had casual sex if it keeps you up at night? And yes no one is entitled to anything especially when it comes to sex. No ones going to give a shit if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:00 PM
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Take out a billboard ad maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:32 PM
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You’re not, you’re driven to because you want women. So either pursue one or wait to be pursued.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:02 PM
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Yeah for sure. There isn’t actually any external solution imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:59 PM
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Did you ask your gf why she shared the info? Not sure what you’re looking for from the internet. Don’t think I’ve ever had a detailed conversation about cock with my bf. But there was obviously a reason for it to come up for this conversation no? Besides she said what she said, you spiralled, what now? Does she know how this affected you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:56 PM
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You don’t have to you can wait for a woman to initiate with you etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:44 PM
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I’m coming up blank as to what information you’re really looking to gain. Do we know men are sensitive about their dicks? Obviously it’s talked about enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:43 PM
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Well I agree with 4 of 5 of your bullet points. The 5th one is too subjective. If I’m being honest I only care if the man I like thinks I like him. How this is interpreted(leads to belief) generally; I don’t care. Going outside (sorry) and seeing normal couples might help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:56 AM
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Men can create any subtext they wish. Or they can just find compatible people who are comfortable with intimacy with strangers. It’s just like how I can twist your post into a subtext of the quicker you let me penetrate you the better it is for my ego “validate me please validate me.. something something .. raw .. something … animalistic”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:18 AM
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I swear im starting to get triggered by the words raw” “animalistic” “desire” lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:48 AM
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I required seeing an sti panel. I know other people who do too. Also lmao seeing the lackadaisical attitude towards birth control from a man on this sub, other men act incredulous when it comes to abortion/child support arguments when I say men don’t care and “baby trapping” is not a common thing. No the way you see it as being a logistical, I can’t fathom why you bother with dating and don’t just see sex workers. No it’s all things it’s comfortability, it’s safety AND romantic connection. I gat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:05 AM
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A lot and it can be more that two dates sex will happen when it happens. Like do you present a current sti test ?Do you verify whether the woman is on birth control or not? Where do you go your place or hers? Why should she feel comfortable coming to your place immediately ? Does she want you to have her address right away? Will she even get an orgasm out of this? Will she be in the headspace to have good sex with someone she doesn’t have a strong enough emotional connection with? Why should she…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:37 AM
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I’ve heard it depends on if Chad is free after the date or not. But for a serious answer it’s really not complicated for me if I wanted to have sex I would and on a first date that has been never.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:46 PM
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I would maybe consider taking this repetitive talking point seriously if men didn’t also hate single moms, divorcees, anything you consider serial monogamy (hence why you put 1-2 previous partners) and so on and so forth… Anything to do with a man that isn’t you and even then let her break up with you and it’s “still fucked” because ultimately it boils down to men are dirty and tarnish women. In reality the incessant whining would stop if there was a sexual free for all that involved most of you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:50 PM
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Yeah well you can be more or less attracted to anyone for any reason. So like I said it ultimately doesn’t matter. But you said it’s BECAUSE they are black. That phrasing just makes everything else you’re saying sound like it’s precisely based on bigotry it’s giving “they were smelly and tasted foul even after I washed them with my own soap because they’re black”. I guess what is also making me now read it even further like that is I’m a quarter Dominican, I grew up in my aunts salon she did ple…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:31 PM
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Well you’ve just perfectly demonstrated why the lines between preference/ bigotry are hard/impossible to draw. You could’ve said if it was your truth i prefer x whatever race of women. The explanation could be cultural compatibility, you like x thing about their looks. But no you said you don’t date black women BECAUSE they are black and it would be the same as eating food that makes you sick, like really? Meaning what exactly? Not that it even matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:51 PM
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For their money and that alimony settlement duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:04 PM
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Interesting, the thing is I see that for the unfuckables in the world. Think the rest of us are just worried about the economy and shit 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:48 PM
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Firstly you are so porn brained that you conjure up an idea that women are just getting fucked in the ass by randoms in bathrooms or whatever tf you said as if that’s even physically practical. Only a porn brained individual would think that’s something a woman would find enticing or pleasurable. Secondly most women don’t engage in casual sex yet you use the most degrading language to describe women who do/did engage in casual sex. You want access to the same type of sex you think a Chad gets, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:26 PM
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Well my view is a lot of you are delusional. So let’s just go along with your worldview yeah. Which option are you choosing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:13 PM
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Does it matter ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:10 PM
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So be Chad, choose different, or get over it. Which one we going with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:08 PM
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So you weren’t Chad in college and you’re not Chad now. Seems consistent, what’s the problem? P.s. this post is porn brained.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:04 PM
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Amazing plan and while the simps are pumping and dumping the rest will be alone and waiting to be chased. Any other particulars we need to consider here?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:57 PM
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Well you sound like you’ve got it all figured out. If you don’t want to pay the simps have you considered a podcast? We don’t have enough of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:10 PM
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I just think you could take some initiative unless you’re just pontificating. You have a good amount of money to pay right? Start a fund where simps can collect a monthly dividend to stop talking to women. You can go in with other likeminded men. What we thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:59 AM
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Pay the simps then. How many women have you made crumble by your lack of attention so far, could be a starting data point no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:33 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:18 AM
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Try it and find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:18 AM
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Yes men should be alone until they get chased. I think it would work out well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:34 AM
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I think people who know they couldn’t tolerate their partner fucking other people would agree with this mostly. It’s like those Reddit posts that have basically become a meme across social media atp where a man begs to open up a relationship and the women agrees and until he realises she can fuck 10 men in the time it takes a woman to even give him a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:29 AM
1

That would require a level of care I don’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:03 AM
1

Me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:03 AM
1

Got any women pregnant lately for this to be a concern for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:02 AM
7

So label them cringe what’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:22 PM
5

Eh I don’t know on the second point when it comes to this sub the default for people would be it’s everyone else’s fault not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:47 PM
2

Tough shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:23 PM
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I think it’s more that the men stating they don’t want to wife up sluts cant even get a match on a dating app. So it sounds like whining about something they’re not even involved in you know? And yes men here claim they’re oppressed because they can’t get laid. It’s a moral failing to be so pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:03 PM
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No if you’re undesirable people understanding you are undesirable wont make you suddenly desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:55 PM
4

The personal perspectives being that men are slaves and are oppressed because they can’t get laid and women should lose their rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:54 PM
4

The incessant whining isn’t doing the trick?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:43 PM
1

Crazier thesis: people couple up everyday likelihood of anyone who is out there dating giving a shit is zero to none.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:43 PM
12

What would be the end result of this experiment; would it help men stop failing at dating as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:33 PM
1

Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 07:11 AM
9

No one’s judging a man that can’t talk to women. He just doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 02:35 AM
1

Their victim complex inspires the most creative writing I must say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:19 AM
0

Duh, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:11 AM
2

Absolutely women are so wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:08 AM
2

So?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:06 AM
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No point wasting thoughts. If he is unable to talk to women that’s where the story begins and ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:48 PM
9

Jude sounds fucking pathetic. “My world has been turned upside down because my friend has sex”. What a sad little life. And also how do you get used for a fucking walk?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 05:12 PM
1

I can only assume you’re unemployed if you think this is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 11:42 PM
2

What makes you think I’d give a fuck about how you interpreted my response?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:10 AM
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I only hear this phrase from men that are clearly going through an ontological crisis. You can’t predict what you will or won’t do in life threatening situations but knowing my bf and I we’d probably be on some die or live together shit; whatever is realistic at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:22 PM
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“Top tier cock” “elite cum” “king cock” “top seed” “great cock”. The men on this sub are such porn brained dick worshippers wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:37 PM
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Single women make up the highest percentage of solo home buyers so I think they’re good. If you’re not unhoused, have food in the fridge and have a job that’s just being a functional adult. Being used for your money requires resources that most people don’t have. Makes sense ? Most men can’t be providers in the traditional sense anymore so I don’t know what you’re worried about genuinely lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:17 AM
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Probably should be shallow tbh if you can’t provide best not be ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:12 AM
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And if so they’re delusional it would be like waiting to find a Hermes bag in a dumpster for most of the male population. Most households need two incomes. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:07 AM
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Most of you are not equipped to be providers so you have nothing to worry about. This is not a mudsling; it’s the economic reality. Broke. Don’t lose sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:59 AM
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I’ve had none of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:06 AM
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This sounds like an elaborate typed with one hand fantasy about Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:52 AM
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The male loneliness epidemic doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:10 AM
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This is kind of a pointless scenario because it depends on individual circumstances. If I take the harshest interpretation where you say “it is checked” I am not setting out to prioritize someone else’s career. And my bfs career should in the most ideal circumstances have no effect on mine and vice versa. I also don’t care who is the “primary earner” so long as the bills get paid. My bf and I have been both. Compromise r.e the moving scenario can be met based on what’s in the best interests of b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 09:08 AM
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Physical attraction means “nothing” to me. By that I mean I can acknowledge someone is conventionally attractive but it doesn’t mean I’m attracted to them. I think a lot of people are like this. So in that way everyone has to “grow on me”. There’s no lust, no butterflies, no curiosity just “he’s cute” same way I would look at a woman and think she’s pretty. When I met my boyfriend I thought he was physically attractive right away (I was in a relationship at the time though ) We spoke for quite a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:15 PM
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I disagree that people should seek to “punish”. It’s why 4B and MGTOW movements are for the most part failures. If you’re ideologically incompatible with someone not dating/sleeping with them should be the default not a “punishment”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:22 AM
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Has she said why she’s doing what she’s doing I’m confused I just saw her with the Kirk bride and kept scrolling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:55 PM
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I don’t keep score in my relationships. Theres no need , if there was a complete lack of reciprocation they wouldn’t be someone I would call a friend. I have acquaintances who I see occasionally that it’s more transactional in the sense of “should I invite them to x thing I haven’t heard from them in a while anyways”or if we meet for coffee or whatever we’re def going to be splitting the bill in a “mechanical” sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:53 PM
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I was going to say; I really don’t think this is a joke. And it’s telling that they think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:22 PM
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For me i think it’s really just that (if you want children that is) men can’t get pregnant nor need to recover from pregnancy. A lot of women are strong enough to get right back into work kudos to them but being that not all countries are good with parental leave; I’ll only have children at the point I can afford to take extended maternity leave. I’d be supportive of it if he saved the money needed to take whatever amount of time off work. But I’m not going back to work post partum to pay for it…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:46 PM
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If this is in real life I’d wonder where I personally went wrong for a man I know (or don’t know even) to think I’m a safe space to approach with this. In any case i doubt the conversation would be too different to online; you have two or three exchanges on average before it would devolve into I’m oppressed because I can’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:43 PM
2

Well what’s the alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:17 AM
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This exchange is a demonstration of why therapy probably wasn’t suitable for you. She just explained precisely what a therapist did to support her autism and what a solution for her was.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 06:11 AM
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There are different types of therapy and different reasons people go to therapy. If someone chooses to go to therapy, they’ll need to consult with mental health professionals to make sure they’re getting the right treatment. Some people just seek counselling and use it as a stop gap when feeling generally disgruntled with life and it ends up being helpful e.g. some people are bad at identifying when they are self sabotaging, or how low their self-esteem is etc. I had a friend who started this wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:20 AM
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Even Brock Turner gets his life blown up every time he gets noticed, so much so that he tried going by his second name, despite coming from wealthy parents, and he still faces consequences for his actions. The consequences of serving a couple of months for sexual assault ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:59 PM
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Of? What? A man getting accused of rape? That happens all the time. I'm not talking about a man getting falsely accused. I'm talking about a victim pointing at a man and accusing them of SA. That happens all the time, and the world, quickly knows about it. No the “world” doesn’t. There are hundreds of thousands of reported sexual offences annually. How many do you think anyone knows about ? There are law enforcement departments sitting on rape kits. Even finding out someone has been convicted of…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:56 PM
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Because often times when the guy is accused, the public knows about it and it blows up? Nope. If this was true there would be more conclusive data. Yeah, I knew a guy who lived on my floor who was accused of SA in my uni. His entire life was blown up, he became a social pariah and was kicked out of school, even before the law got officially involved. He had to go to the authorities himself in order to get a proper investigation outside of the college institution in order to clear his name, and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:39 PM
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Exactly sex offenders don’t go around admitting it. Yet so many of you know people who have been falsely accused. Quite curious isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:36 PM
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Also just to note online it’s difficult to take people seriously on this topic. There are so many men online who will claim to have a friend that was falsely accused yet you will never encounter a man who has had a friend that has raped/otherwise sexually offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:07 PM
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Every other day another person makes an age gap post and they seem to be becoming more and more ridiculous. No being attractive and/or young in of itself does not create a power imbalance. Being “able” to cheat does not create a power imbalance. Interestingly there are reverse power gaps that can occur as you age that mirror those that are considered for minors and other people who lack capacity. If you’re in a jurisdiction that has elder abuse laws carved out especially then yes; the older a pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:51 PM
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Lacking a desire to do something does not necessarily mean you're incapable of doing it well. And you don’t think this applies vice-versa? I think you’re just trying to make an argument that physical prowess > everything else in value. We’re in a post-industrial service economy with increasing levels of automation as a reminder. People are losing jobs across multiple sectors. But sure as it applies to critical infrastructure yes women would struggle but not necessarily in the long term sense you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:51 PM
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The majority of male dominated careers are harder than female dominated careers. More physically demanding* Men don't do those jobs because they pay less and men generally care a lot about how much they can make for that effort. Men will even take on those higher mortality jobs because they pay well, not because the alternatives are too hard. So then you’d agree there is no altruistic nature to the choice to enter these “trades” right? If the majority of the workforce is outside of these blue co…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:13 PM
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We do know that women can do the physically demanding jobs because there are a minority of women already doing it and share in the workforce specifically in on site trades has been incrementally increasing. We don’t know what the future holds because industry is declining at the same time. Do you know how few people work on oil rigs btw globally? I don’t know why men love to talk about oil rigs. And the point is a lot of you have a delusional opinion of women what only want to work in “high stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:39 PM
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The question wasn’t directed to me I addressed what I wanted to. If you want to fucking answer his question go ahead and do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:17 PM
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Yes women only work in cushy offices ofc. Daycare jobs right? Not nurses, home health and disability , elder care, pre school teachers, education generally, daycare providers, social services, assembly lines, food processing etc etc I really question if some of you people actually leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:00 PM
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I was attracted to him when we met but I was in a relationship. He was my friends boyfriend’s friend. We’d seen eachother multiple times at hang outs, parties etc whatever and we’d talk. Over time we became friends. Lots of flirtatious banter between us though. He moved back home but we kept in touch like almost daily. When he moved back I had already by this time BEEN broken up with my ex and he told me he had feelings for me (so technically he actually initiated), I told him I didn’t want to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:12 PM
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I know you’re being dead serious but this comment sent me 💀🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:47 PM
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Hopefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:53 PM
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Tbf while yes reddit feels pretty niche in places before I started actively using reddit this year I had been on instagram and twitter for over decade before; A lot of people DO argue in comment sections and replies actually lol and it’s more often about specific people (which I find “odd”) I find comment sections (especially Instagram) so pointlessly nasty a lot of the time. Old Twitter used to actually be alright with general discourse before Elon turned it into what it is. But if you’re on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:20 PM
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Right right. Good thing no one needs to be superior then huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:57 PM
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“We’re so superior” Proceeds to list basic bitch dude bro activities. Side not a lot of men can’t even assemble flat pack furniture; please tell me what you have built lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:11 AM
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I don’t really see how there could be a magical answer here; find someone that is compatible with your lifestyle. Most average people are just trying to pay their bills and enjoy life in a way that’s relevant to their personality, interests morals and values. Is the point of dating not to figure out whether you’re compatible with someone on these things? If you feel like you need to go on a self improvement journey it should be for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:30 AM
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I disagree; women can read. Why are you claiming that women are illiterate and do you have evidence to support this assertion?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:10 AM
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So do the opposite and do as those women do. don’t have a social circle. Don’t socialize. If you have remaining friends, hit on every single one of them. Don’t brush your teeth, don’t shower. Once you’ve checked these off. Cold approach 100 women a day. Heck sit in the middle of a mall with a sign that says “need girlfriend”. All the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:25 PM
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This man is a fucking pervert who cross posts and has posted multiple times about some idea that women want to be raped and rape victims fantasize about their rapists. He posts this to get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:17 AM
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you’re a sick fuck that repeatedly posts about women having rape fantasies so that you can get off. Literally fuck off. Fucking pervert.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:10 AM
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There is no male loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 12:39 AM
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But who is saying “you will die” you will obviously die. But not procreating doesn’t kill you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:36 PM
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But I’m more confused about how that relates to men being told they will die specifically. The only thing inevitable in life is death. A family is not inevitable; I think that’s how I took the original comment. You can’t tell people that they will or won’t procreate so isn’t the idea of saying it’s not inevitable realistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:04 PM
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Society has told men, that men will not die. But they will die. We should prepare them to die" I don’t understand the thought process here; everyone dies what does that have to do with procreation?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:44 PM
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Lmfao. Unironically though as a little anecdote I was so traumatized by my ex that when me and my bf started dating this is quite literally the tone i would ask him shit in man went through it 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:14 PM
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I’m not an expert in the mindset of pedos. But yep I’m pretty sure that’s part of how it works. Read a couple of age gap posts from this sub you will definitely encounter pedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:56 PM
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Love it “men of all ages are predatory so what’s the problem”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:10 PM
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Do you not think you should direct this question to old ass fucking men ? (not that they’d admit it)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:03 PM
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It does matter because I guarantee the same men when you’re 13 are the same men when you’re 18. You only have to look at the people who do sex tourism for lower age of consent laws to work that out. Being predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:02 PM
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At what age?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:50 PM
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The childhood when I was sexually assaulted when I was 8. The childhood of old men honking and yelling out their car windows on the way home from school. The childhood > teenagehood> adulthood of old men catcalling obscenely at you, harassing you. That childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:50 PM
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Please what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:43 PM
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Based on being on the receiving end of attention from predatory old men and talking about it with many other women who have also been on the receiving end of attention from predatory old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:42 PM
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🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:09 PM
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Or how about it’s both. They often look LIKE THAT and are often predatory? People find leonardo dicaprio quite weird in his behaviour; people don’t describe him that way though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:29 PM
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And ??? this is all besides the point; the actual criticism lies in the often predatory nature of these relationships whether the old person is attractive or not. You’re saying that it’s a slight/teasing to describe these men as they’re often seen when it’s a reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:22 PM
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I don’t know why men think they’re the authority on this subject. Many women state plainly we’ve been on the receiving end of sexual attention from old men since childhood. Including from ugly, obese, balding wrinkly creeps. I fundamentally disagree that this is a trope. We know what those weirdos looked like and can describe it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:02 PM
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It's honestly quite frustrating that the advice I'm getting from women is just "go focus on your hobbies and get a roommate or a pet" like girl be fr, many of us women are aching for a male romantic partner and here you are talking about getting a mutt???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:53 PM
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Ah thanks for this post my fav so far: why date you if there is no desire from you besides pure materialistic interests? If you think, he must pay, you seek wallet, not a person. Why would he want to be your wallet?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:17 PM
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Since when was hating poor people a reasonable stance? It’s not that was my point. Poor people like any people are not above reproach for poor decisions or being shitty parents. But for single moms people just assume shitty parenting and can never connect that poverty is the highly correlating factor for things like criminality etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:56 AM
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Makes sense don’t be settled for. You deserve the yearning and devotion that Stacy got. ( I think I need to insert the words raw and animalistic here somewhere).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:40 AM
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Ew, this is your most offensive post yet. Go back to calling us scheming witches please I don’t know wtf this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:36 AM
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Even one genuinely caring adult in a kids life has been shown to be the most significant factor for mitigating the negative effects of childhood trauma. I think what we are poor in is society. Yes these last two points are so key especially. We’re losing/have lost community building recipes also multigenerational family support etc I don’t have the answers but I know it’s not ridicule.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:25 AM
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Yes I agree with this. These women especially those leaving abusive situations especially need intervention and strong support networks. But I guarantee these are usually absent. Our systems are struggling and people are isolated. So it’s like how can we stop this from happening in the first place (not speaking of the kids that are already here); when you see young women who have grown up in dysfunctional households, could have self-esteem issues etc whatever multitude of factors, there has to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:02 AM
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Well you’re correct that the venom towards single mothers is often misinformed and pointless but most of it isn’t from women. But anyway the single mothers everyone hates the most and blame for all of societies ills are often the ones in poverty; I work with a lot of them. I’m personally angry at the poverty and the generational cycles of dysfunction it creates. The second thing I agree with is people losing their way on their pro choice views and ending up projecting. I’m pro abortion but I als…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:46 AM
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Yes women won’t fuck me nazism is a growing ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:28 AM
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Requires participating women; the idea is dead on arrival for a lot of you but good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:23 AM
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I’m not remotely interested in attempting a serious discussion with someone who compares himself to victims of the Holocaust even as an analogy, like please be for fucking real 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:17 AM
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This is kind of off topic but it’s so rare to see a sensible comment on this sub. Like actual root cause issues. This also correlates not just to couples being kid free (I know this much because my bf and I want kids but don’t at the same time) but also opting to remain single. When people find stability on their own they may not want to disrupt it especially where future prospects seem so dire in terms of home ownership, cost of raising kids, detriment to career etc This gender discourse just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:24 PM
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Right. For me it’s the lady outside just shrugging and saying “I don’t have any” “Steal these bitches fertile years” Reality for the men he’s talking about: Women: why are you talking to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:05 PM
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This reminds me of this viral video where a man tried to rob a nail salon and all the women just looked at him blankly and he ended up just walking out empty handed for ref: https://youtu.be/KO07h7qrWEY?si=mHX2FPZChuXlpleK
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:18 PM
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You’re talking to a bunch of men who can’t even pass the first step of getting a woman interested in them. Please be more organized. Good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:41 PM
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If you’re both enjoying your sex life other peoples opinions are beyond irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:37 PM
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Same reason I’m not a nurse, a gardener or mortician? Why don’t you do onlyfans?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:04 PM
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I actually think #5 is a good idea! And while we’re at it - take that DNA and run it against the DNA on file for SA offenders. This is perfection. Can also run it to find any other kids in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:41 AM
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I heard yall the first time; this isn’t any more compelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:36 AM
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Men say all sorts of things all the time I can’t pretend I give much thought to it; this in particular I couldn’t care any less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:35 AM
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Yes fucking disgusting. So soon they forget the men who can victimize everyone under these systems. They just assume they will be on the otherside doing the pillaging and raping.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:32 AM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:27 AM
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You mean the country with the cultural practice of Bacha bazi they are still to this day trying to be rid of. The idea of oppression and repression so severe that women are quite literally used as breeding stock and little boys for “the fun”?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:00 AM
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Yeah i know a majority are likely rapists in wait. But these posts are often framed as though this would somehow suddenly make these men attractive and I find that funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:12 AM
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No they recognize it they just to their core resent it and always have and always will, source: the bible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:00 AM
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Tell that to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:34 PM
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Another iteration of a revenge fantasy post blah blah blah … Listen say this comes to fruition; the men that require being pacified by women finally get their government girlfriends do you think they’ll agree to the condition that those women don’t have to pretend to like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:14 PM
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I can’t believe how many men on this sub can’t seem to grasp that they can’t get pregnant. It’s a sight to see for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:43 PM
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Just flailing. Like buddy if you could you would so where do you want to go from here ? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:25 PM
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I’m 💀🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:23 PM
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If YOU know you are unable to get access to casual sex and have never been able to have access to casual regardless of the woman’s sexual history; then you are wasting your own time here. You’re saying why would I not just have casual sex with this promiscuous woman when said promiscuous woman does not want casual sex with you. A non promiscuous woman may not want casual sex with you either. If both women are not up for casual sex with you, then???? Figure out wth you want. To the point of your …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:46 PM
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And what is your bar for that? What if she had one fwb ten years before she met you and is otherwise not promiscuous. That would still mean you’re not that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:30 PM
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Regardless any woman who doesn’t hook up with you does not find you hot enough to hook up with in your world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:25 PM
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This reply just proves to me the incoherence of the things you people say. It’s said that the idea of not being seen as hook up material and only relationship material is a great crime. So direct this question towards men so you can actually figure out what it is you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:11 PM
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Most of you complain about not having access to casual sex. There are also so many men even on here who are proud about the fact they lie to gain access to sex instead of actually pursuing women who want to have casual sex. So I don’t know who is telling you to marry for sex. But if the idea is that people who frequently engage in casual sex are likely to have higher libidos and are more sexually experienced then it could make sense. But I also don’t think it follows that libido strictly correla…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:04 PM
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A wife who will be their maid, better?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:14 PM
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Oh yeah you don’t know poverty is also a great crime /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:53 PM
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Also, I hate to say it because it sounds more sexist than I intend it, but domesticity is one of the main reasons men will marry a woman. If he’s getting a woman who wants ti turn the house into a home, he’ll marry her. If he’s getting a woman who just wants to complain and score keep everything, a lot of men would rather just stay single. He’s not getting a wife, he’s getting a roommate. Those men could easily just hire a maid and they should otherwise lead with the fact they are looking for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 10:38 AM
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Staying with someone you don’t want to be with is an even bigger waste of time for both people. Staying with someone you don’t like or even hate would lead to a more hurtful outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 10:31 AM
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What makes you think she made a “value” judgement about you apart from the fact your friend said so. She doesn’t know you. Could’ve just thought you were hitting on her and she didn’t find you attractive no biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:12 AM
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Single mothers are devil incarnate to these mf’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:29 PM
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She said men are not protectors. This is true the people who get paid to protect are. So what additional benefit is owed to those people?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:05 PM
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You complain that “omg society is teaching women to be financially independent what a horror” then in the same breath complain about financial risk in divorce. And why tf should a relationship break up carry stigma?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:58 PM
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There’s probably about a .2% of men who work in a law enforcement capacity. Less than the amount of violent criminals and rapists. Which men are you claiming today?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:50 PM
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If modern feminism doesn't find a way to help young men feel happy, loved, valued members of society with purpose (perhaps as fathers) “Perhaps as fathers” Lmao feminism should encourage women to give up their bodies so these men can gain self worth followed by the typical rape revenge fantasy. This is not an incentive infact it makes one just one want to create conditions where they are pushed to dispose of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:15 PM
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No you read to understand. If that’s an issue for you in your relationships you can either keep bitching or : This can be solved by having some self respect, raising your standards and being alone until you find a person who meets your values and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:56 PM
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You’re right I only skimmed it. I’ll read next weeks iteration though for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:06 PM
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What big words, big wall of text yes. Well if you’re not using AI, and just have a copy and paste bank then actually in this case consider using it prompt : condense to two paragraphs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:59 PM
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Say that’s true do you discover this every two days and use AI to remix the shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:54 PM
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Oh it’s even worse than I thought. What’s your exact diagnosis and what country are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:53 PM
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Your comments just read like an an autist found a how to do misogyny : for dummies textbook and is following it by the letter. It’s cringeworthy. Please improve your material.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:47 PM
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This same post AGAIN. 🫩
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:40 PM
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This post lacks substance you haven’t even defined what “bad” means to you but I’m gathering in summary that your definition is something along the lines of “women aren’t what I want them to be in dating”. So then I’d go to and so? This can be solved by having some self respect, raising your standards and being alone until you find a person who meets your values and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:03 AM
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Lmfao I seen you said he stopped but I just don’t understand. Like the pillow cases I guess you can rationalize you don’t want to get up and get a tissue ew But like the toilet is rightttt thereeee no? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:14 PM
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PEEING IN THE SINK ?!!?!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:05 PM
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This is quite an autistic response. There are only so many ways to load a dishwasher, make a bed, turn a washing machine on the right setting etc if you’re not ending up blowing up the house you’re probably on the right track for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:08 PM
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He’s a functional adult and has his own standards. If something needs to be cleaned one of us cleans it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:59 PM
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Yes, I honestly rarely have to ask him to do anything unless it’s really specific. Also we balance things around our schedules to meet each others needs. I often have to be called out for emergencies for work in the night and I’m also studying; so I’m damn near insomniac and because I’m usually up quite late I always get his lunches and breakfast ready/prepped before I go to bed. He works extra long hours but can wfh more often than I can so he usually does most of the laundry. He also makes din…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:51 PM
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Oh yeah the whole we want government girlfriends thing. Good luck with all… that😊
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:43 AM
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I’m just against anyone who does sex tourism for the purpose of finding lower age of consent laws. They can die. Apart from that we only know they’re doing it because they feel the need to announce their departure. I do find it crazy how some of them disparage the women in the countries they’re shopping in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:19 PM
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What objects did your mother give you to play with? And do you by any chance have a basement with a large freezer in it? Heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:29 AM
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Well good luck with your endeavours.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:00 AM
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Phew I’m glad for her was sounding like a close call there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:44 AM
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So that’s a yes? Did she gain the status and fame from you or was it a wasted effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:36 AM
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Just to confirm is this how your mother felt about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:59 AM
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Date people that like you and you may get romance. So yeah choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:53 AM
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Yes ma’am 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:38 PM
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Thats my point, violence comes from men, yes. And its something ive noticed women have a hard time accepting, which again, is why i made this post. It hits an ideological nerve which results in "i dont want anything to do with this", which is the equivalent of refusing to accept reality. Maybe this is just a matter of perspective clash. Women don’t refuse to accept the violence especially when those that have had it inflicted on them; they don’t have a choice. It doesn’t hit a nerve, I know viol…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:41 PM
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You are acting as if wars havent existed for centuries. A world war happened literally less than a hundred years ago. And a war in europe happened in less than 10 years ago. Yup and tens of millions of people died. I don’t know what country you’re from but tell me if a world war broke out in 2026 what do you think that would actually look like (in consideration of nuclear threats and the realities of modern warfare) Because I think I probably have different more home grown fears than you. The is…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:09 PM
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For me it’s simply that a tiny percentage as in less than probably 1% of the population of the country I live in are in the military and law enforcement but I acknowledge the majority of those people are men. I also appreciate social cohesion and civilization. On the flip side most men alive today have not seen war, have not protected anyone and will not be in the position of having/being able to protect anyone. Now add to that in everyday life it’s quite literally only men that have physically …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:40 PM
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I am legit so curious to understand this too. Everytime a news story breaks of a woman being killed by their partner the man is 9 times out of 10 an absolute troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:38 PM
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And so you’re validating this crazy post. That’s why I linked your comment. And these further comments are supportive of it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:10 AM
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And if they feel like voting to legalize rape you would find that understandable. That’s exactly what I said you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:00 AM
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Nah I read the entire thing. You maybe wouldn’t vote for it but you’d see men who did sympathetically and see the action as equivalent to them being sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:50 PM
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Never in a million years will you see. I can only connect with other loser men and I will through my writing. That's all. I should stop wasting my time here, really. I am tired. Sigh. No I actually can see. But also I think you’ve conflated MULTIPLE things here. Sincerely without meaning this as a joke but have you considered talking to a sex therapist? I don’t think the perspective you’re coming from can be addressed by online “gender discourse”. I also don’t think it can necessarily be strictl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 10:55 PM
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And see this is the problem and where I disagree and it kind of waters down what women actually dislike. Yes it can be factually a nuisance having to placate a man’s emotions when you reject them. But that’s not even at the top of my concerns when it comes to male attention. It often doesn’t just “feel” dehumanizing it is. This is not because some abstract sense of not liking men finding you attractive like you’re suggesting it’s a pattern of things that men actually do. It’s your body essential…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 10:10 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/1QtUkBbS8O Someone replied basically saying the same thing about time and place so. “Let it suck for men” means what, It sucks, where do you want it to go from here? Also what do you actually mean by “you hate your gender role” and “you still are a sexual being” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:02 PM
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If you insist on either accosting random women you don’t know (cold approaching) or making friends with women only with the intent of it leading to romance. Be prepared for rejection and stop complaining about it but perhaps it will work out one day it does for some. Attraction (when it exists) is often palpable and clearly reciprocal between two people. You people act like these things can be applied down to a science. If there is someone you’re interested in usually you test the waters be flir…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:56 PM
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Posts like these are what lead to this type of extreme thinking: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ZW3VyoNvwu https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/uSprVa0g5v If a man is reading this that has ever commented some type of dickpocalypse revenge fantasy then you can’t say there aren’t actually men out there that would agree with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:27 PM
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Well it’s likely no one was in the wrong in this case but also yes you may be seen as a disgusting nuisance and not saying specifically you but you can also objectively be being one or the person is just not into you. And? Also I’d need further context. You’ve given an example of someone you met online that you didn’t initially know was a woman. I don’t do online gaming etc or whatever it was but I’ve heard a few women say they have to not use mics or have anything female associated linked to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:51 PM
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So basically “it’s hard to find women who consent to the imposition of our sexual desires and keeping it to ourselves is distressing” ? I disagree that this should be of any difficulty. Most people understand something along the lines of “time and place” with many aspects of life. You can’t loudly exclaim you need to shit in the middle of a team meeting either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:02 PM
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So many threads have been saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:19 PM
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Yep, that vp. You can either genuinely enjoy what you do or have this type of “I keep the lights on in this building” self-aggrandizing when ultimately no one else would think you did anything more than your job as what sounds like a corp middle manager. There are a lot of women who are corp middle managers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 04:29 PM
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You probably think you’re more important than your VP does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:58 PM
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Sorry your comment reminded me of this post: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/HMAWUiPn5y
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:29 AM
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Ah haven’t seen a get back in the kitchen schizopost in a while. The answer is no and if your premise is women are choosing between slavery and slavery then let us choose the slavery we prefer. It shouldn’t concern you, unless you just had a lot of thoughts under the night sky in the wilderness I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:23 AM
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