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Discussioncb8585b/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:41 PM
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I mean it was not good and didn’t get any better so I thought I just didn’t like sex. For other reasons I wouldn’t call for help if that dude was on fire in front of me. So it was unimportant in one sense but important in another being that sex can traumatize a person so caution is warranted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 09:28 PM
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Sounds like projection. She perhaps didn’t want kids and she still doesn’t hence she is freezing her eggs otherwise she could get a sperm doner now. I’m sure ofcourse if she stumbles on your reddit post she would take your ramblings into consideration as she makes the rest of her life choices
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:39 PM
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Never have them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:32 PM
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Yes 50 cent already had 21 questions about what you’re pondering. If you need someone to love you in poverty to validate your self-worth that’s ultimately a personal conundrum and there’s no guarantee you would feel any more worthy of love if you later came into financial stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:40 PM
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It depends on whether you’re just being idealistic or getting lost in semantics when you say “worthy”. Broke people love each other every day yet not many people aspire to ride or die through poverty. People chase financial stability because the alternative option is dire. How you make that relate to your pursuit of love is personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:30 PM
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What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:08 PM
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Are you directing this at someone specific that you believe ought to value your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 05:11 PM
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You’re also here extrapolating your own/other peoples experiences to make this post about how you think people should think or feel. There are also people that want to eat shit or be shit on and find it arousing. If I told you I find all the experiences listed just as strange as eating shit or being shit on you might try to separate yourself from the shit eating crowd. I don’t need to understand why other people find eating shit meaningful to know I don’t want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:57 PM
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Relationships are not important enough to settle or be settled for. That said most people are not supermodels so I would not be able to take this seriously if coming from a mid man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:26 PM
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And this is supposed to be sympathetic or?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 05:59 PM
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What value ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:20 AM
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It’s more revulsion actually; at the fact men really expect you to care how much they want sex, feel the need to share this with you unsolicited, and get so offended if you don’t want to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:03 AM
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I think you should go into work and spark a conversation with your boss about porn preferences and masturbation habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:58 AM
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No I don’t wish to participate in whatever male identity crisis you’re describing. Good luck with all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:39 AM
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All I know is gay men might assume you’re cruising.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 09:36 PM
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This is Indian brand incel babble btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:44 PM
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“Men like me” is genuinely so funny. Thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:08 PM
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That’s not stopping men right now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:39 PM
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> Let some men enjoy sex and intimacy in society too What’s stopping you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:32 PM
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Really what opportunity should one be seeking just because a rando is attractive ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:52 PM
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Never seen a random man i wanted to know more about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:21 PM
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I can yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 10:27 PM
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I’m assuming you learned therapy lingo recently and wanted to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 09:29 PM
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You got the name wrong and your “point” has yet to improve. Literally every serial killer gets fan mail and love letters in jail including Jeffrey Dahmer who was the opposite of charismatic and just as mid looking as Bundy. Have you ever seen a serial killer “chad” they are all average-ugly 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:45 PM
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No delusional incel babble is delusional incel babble. Jeffrey Dahmer is indeed a man who is a rapist and murderer one of so many men that’s true I agree. He was also a shy awkward loner. He didn’t how to how do you say it …vibe with people. I think you should logically engage with your own “counter point” I mean someone who can’t understand how to click with people and killed them so they could never leave. Let’s actually apply it categorically 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:00 PM
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“Logically argue the nitty gritty” and it’s just delusional incel babble that you present as absolute truth that people are “refusing to see”. Not particularly logical. I can’t imagine a person who is an expert at life and human connection positing “wah Jeffrey dahmer” as their case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:28 PM
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Is it a lack of acknowledgment or do people just not agree with you? All your replies to this comment thread sound like delusional incel babble why should we acknowledge it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:05 PM
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Vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:44 PM
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No applause from me all I see is you didn’t give him a chance, stop oppressing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:59 PM
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You’re right because maybe the alpha male dude bro camp is definitely needed if you’re here to seek womens approval to go hang out with your boys topless in the woods.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:19 AM
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Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:16 PM
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Not believing women is the status quo and men are not entitled to women having charitable view of their behaviour. The purpose of these type posts is that you know full well that women don’t trust men and act accordingly. You don’t just not believe women you spend an inordinate amount of time trying to argue with women about their lived experiences because you think it would serve you. I think men think they can “it’s just a teeny tweeny tiny percentage of us” their way into women not avoiding t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:49 AM
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Sure 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:11 PM
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You tell me, is there a reason you replied?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:52 PM
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They already do which is why you still contemplate approaching women despite your self described ugliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:18 PM
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Good more of you should be afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:55 PM
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Yeah I have, have you heard gay men talk about men 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:41 PM
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How many men have you rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:32 PM
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You can be average and lame so long as there’s some other reason another person might enjoy being in your presence. If not …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:05 PM
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Hmm, the best way I could put it is that in 2026 hearing women say “I can’t believe he would do that” or something similar surprises me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:12 PM
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I don’t think of declining birth rates
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:05 AM
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Don’t worry we’ve all been informed that there’s a huge contingent of men who plan to drop out of society soon if they can’t get laid. Factor them into your analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:58 PM
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Do you think no one wanting to fuck you precludes you from being entitled or?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:08 PM
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https://youtu.be/g\_y15ozNchY?feature=shared
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:15 PM
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“What are friends?” Is this really where we are?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:57 PM
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I think you think I’m trying to make a point to you. You’re the one trying to convince me you guys aren’t creeps and if you think you’re being successful …… which was the point of my initial comment. It’s very interesting to observe how you twist yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:34 PM
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My guy I don’t care whether you think it exists lmao it’s men that quote it to justify their proclivities. Stick around you’ll see it soon enough. No it’s not offensive i infact am also a victim of freak ass old men. In fact this also another tactic added to your initial shpiel “the real victims”. Unless you’ve been on the receiving end of male fixation on young GIRLS from youth you probably don’t want to believe the severity of the issue and you would have a reason to contort around assessing y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:33 AM
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What do you mean I “can’t” link a survey. The people most interest in defending their interest in teens are most invested in having that data on the go. Anyway yes I’ve read all these contortions before it’s almost like a script with different gateways wanting teenagers, hanging out around colleges, porn, sex tourism and consent law shopping you name it. Guy thinks his stepdaughter porn is healthy dude: AS A BIOLOGICAL MALE, me: you’re probably a pred dude: nooo noooo \ insert your comment here*…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:15 AM
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Survey evidence you can collect from the brotherhood, they hold it near and dear as above to justify. And yes I’ve (we’ve all) been informed that men are allegedly biologically pedo/ephebophilic. >do you honestly think that a significant percentage of guys who talk about dating young women are looking for that? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:39 AM
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Why when you’re not heterosexual and you find women so dull just go where you’re happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:22 PM
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Why do you want your view changed? Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:17 PM
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If I don’t know the individual, I don’t subject myself to men’s complaints. Whether I care or not in the event I am however depends on what is being complained about e.g. don’t give a damn about sexlessness, do care broadly about things like homelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:31 PM
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Weirder than interest in teenagers? but anyway yes men frequently pontificate on this sub about their god given right to barely legals. They even submit survey evidence of male preference for 18 year olds. Experience just tells me “young women” actually just means whatever we can get away with. Hope that helps 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:00 PM
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Not even just college these are also high school seniors. I’ve been assigned to work in high schools I can’t imagine thinking the shits not weird af and I’m in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:32 PM
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So your answer is no. So walk through your thought process taking one example Larry Nasser had over a hundred victims and ofcourse he didn’t do it 🥺 so should those girls have been removed from their team? From their school? Logically why do you think Larry Nasser might have been suspended and then fired pending trial what do you think is the point of protection there?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:46 PM
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Is it your understanding and experience that rapists admit to being rapists ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:30 PM
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I’m proudly bigoted on this topic and would be happy to have my hard drives checked. Would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:40 AM
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No it’s just interesting watching men contort themselves to deny or justify thinly veiled pedo and ephebophilia and relating it to the image of ugly old men from your youth. And also no its for the very same reason you get constant streams of this: https://www.theguardian.com/world/ng-interactive/2026/jul/03/thailand-sex-tourism-hub-girls-exploited-ntwnfb
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:59 AM
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Well in that case follow your thoughts to conclusion, more men have disdain for women today because the only thing men can offer today is sex. Since women don’t need men to provide for them how many of you are complaining you can’t get laid. The girls don’t even want dick from you. That fills men with contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:07 AM
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Good for your mom bring her to the podium. Her input would be more interesting than the “genuine belief” of some dude who has thoughts he thinks are important and doesn’t even know if he wants kids himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:56 AM
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Please take this incel babble elsewhere, shoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:36 PM
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I don’t have to ask myself shit. It’s not my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:24 PM
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Work on whatever arrested development you’re going through and you won’t have to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:34 AM
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Yes you will continue to be unloved in that case. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:26 AM
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r/whenwomenrefuse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:19 AM
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So yes you’d feel envy watching your kids tummy get tickled and ass wiped ? That’s what you want ? you want mommy to blow raspberries with you? Want your food cut up into little pieces ? Told you’re a good lil boy? Jfc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:17 AM
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We already know many men don’t find it valuable when women say no. You then act with disbelief when told how creepy men are that’s the even weirder part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:00 AM
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Oh I don’t know are you going to have kids one day and get jealous when watching your newborns tummy get tickled and ass wiped?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:57 AM
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No where in your hypothetical do you even attempt to explain what the woman is supposed to gain from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:20 PM
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There needs to be a why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:50 PM
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Why don’t you take a moment to unpack why the idea of fucking someone that mothers you doesn’t repulse you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:40 PM
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About what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:31 AM
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Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:23 AM
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You’re just describing taking initiative for the things you want. If you’re not on the receiving end of anyones initiative just draw the logical conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:32 PM
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The answer is not living with someone you have to ask to do basic tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:00 PM
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So men know women don’t like most of them and yet men are more disillusioned? You need to turn this diary entry into an actual debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:34 AM
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Where is the accountability? Choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:59 PM
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No ugly men with money are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:18 AM
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I really don’t know how many pussy tingles men are out there causing. One sounds like an achievable bar though so there’s hope yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:15 PM
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Must be the famed "accountability" so many guys on here love to talk about 🙄 Until you mention sex and then divorce starts making conceptual sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:35 PM
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Yes I can’t tell whether it’s being idealistic or problematic in wanting marriage to confer ownership over another person. It’s truly odd, I’m leaning problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:13 PM
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There’s objectively nothing to see it’s marriage not chattel slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:49 PM
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I don’t “feelz” anything. I think in consequences. Which back to point of your emotional comment the consequence of “vows” is precisely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:45 PM
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Are you here to play advocate for unknown woman’s unknown husband? Marriage is a civil matter before the state. That’s it. The emotional “but but she said words in front of people 🥺”, is redundant. What you think you can tolerate is not what another person decides to tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:07 PM
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Your premise is empty what appreciation are you talking about ? words and affirmation from your family and friends, participation awards for existing, salary ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:36 AM
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Would’ve been a dealbreaker. But I do have a friend who dated one, her playing mommy seemed to be an expectation quickly. So for that reason and other co-parenting mess that can be associated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:34 PM
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No one knows what it means but it’s provocative
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:51 PM
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Has anyone thought about a man’s damn pebbles today?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:41 PM
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There are entire bodies of research related to factors associated with socialization. Your “quick google” tells me nothing about your initial comment. No not being obtuse as i asked you when YOU were taught that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:09 PM
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Interesting so at what age did you begin arguing with these feminists about the existence of porn-like women, was this in your formative years or in adulthood?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:00 PM
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Interesting and of this expectation to be in contest with your friends and not show solidarity with them. What age did it become true and how were you instructed to do so? And how did you distinguish friends from non-friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:46 PM
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Yes feminism an ideology focused on promising men “porn like women” in abundance. Do you have a favourite quote that you held on to growing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:07 PM
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Assuming this is true can you pinpoint the age when you were taught boys weren’t allowed friends only sports teams? Is there an age you stop being invited to family gatherings, christmas cancelled, no birthday parties etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:02 PM
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That’s actually an interesting point granted sex is relatively taboo to bring up casually generally. But I never hear people describe themselves as porn enthusiasts, porn fans, describe it as a hobby. Yet there’s people that say they know directors, studios, have category preferences, favourite porn actors etc? It’s almost as if it has become akin to something like brushing your teeth. I’d say eating but there’s people that describe themselves as foodies. It’s just “something you do”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:49 PM
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts I’m sure they’re important to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:58 AM
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I hear the feminists are also trying to take arranged marriages from you. Something about exchanging goats for girls being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:22 PM
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I don’t agree with your disagreement, great debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:37 PM
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Men complain all the time in real life and online 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:35 PM
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Men complain all the time, great debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:21 PM
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It seems we just went round in a circle. What would I gain by spending my time trying to be attractive to “men”? I think a lot of men see women as an obstacle to spamming their dicks everywhere. I’m not sure “care” would be the right word to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:16 PM
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Are you suggesting broadly appealing to men should be aspirational? I have better things to be doing thanks. Why would I care about making “men” happy? You make a specific person happy if you’re compatible with them. I think you’re confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:40 AM
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I’d say “weird and creepy” would be a reductive summary of what I care to understand but yes that’s included nonetheless. And no I don’t care about what “men” are attracted to, I dont spend time researching this because what use is that information to me? If it helps I don’t think we can avoid a lot of the things men are attracted to sex sells and all that. Also are these supposed to be leading questions is there a “this is why you should” coming or ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:01 AM
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Not really and no overall to your questions but that’s not the full picture though. Best example I can give is what my friends and I are currently calling the sniffer chronicals. It started with my friends’ coworker telling her she smelled good and asking her what shampoo she uses. Fairly innocuous right? Not really. She didn’t say anything until a few times it had happened. So it became a debate on how weird it is or isn’t . “Maybe he just likes fragrances” etc. I was of the view it was only a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:15 AM
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Your question is silly tbh yes I already only have sex with men I ‘fancy’.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:50 PM
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No I just find very few men attractive and I’m opposed to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:39 AM
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I’m copying this exact text and sending it to an unspecified individual that has been duped by big watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:31 AM
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Truly entertaining read. Thanks. 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:12 AM
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no bro you just need travel to bangkok maybe they like big dick... no bro.. my dick not big no bro it actually that they only like famous serial ks and grapests THEY DONT LIKE. they not even there like you are there women there shake ass on the friends. they know men dont like fat
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:13 AM
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The real truth nuke is none of the violent freaks mentioned throughout this thread are chads 🤔 where is Chad? is this a good time to bring up “average” and “below average” men in looks and also “status” are statistically more likely to be the guy you see in the news for doing fucked up shit ? A fact that seems obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:45 PM
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It’s quite literally a claim of mutual exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:01 PM
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Your argument is just “nuh uh” an analogy for you would be no we can identify with a speck of red sand in a black sand beach. If I wasn’t bored with this interaction I’d ask if you would like to discuss male patterns of behaviour but it would likely just hurt your feelings and make you go “but women” again? But the funny thing is i can instead just leave it a few days and a debate post will come and men will lean on relevant data when they want to instead fish for sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:34 PM
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Dennis Nilsen was also the same way. Shy, awkward loner that couldn’t get anyone to stay with him. To the point he slept next to his victims bodies for days before keeping them under his floorboards and eventually flushing them down the toilet if I remember correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:40 PM
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Great we agree on the same thing it’s a narrative one that is part of a male identity claim yet for the most part unfounded in reality. And also yes you’re getting it most men are not stoic they just claim to be (my point). I’d go further and suggest most men have never even read into the philosophy of stoicism. Without even looking into data on male patterns of behaviour you can just take a population sample of PPD men; what do you think of the frequent proponents of this singular claim in all …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:32 PM
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What precludes a weak, shy and unmasculine male from being violent and/or a misogynist or having a girlfriend? Should we identify all the weak shy and unmasculine males that do violent freak shit. Like I just watched the Ed Gein series last year why shouldn’t we dislike weak shy and unmasculine males? Even worse if they’re loners right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:54 AM
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You used the word failures buddy. Calm down and read carefully. And it’s funny that you prove the point that men see being stoic as an identity claim rather than actually being stoic. Great how does that change the fact that in all their abusive and shitty behaviour it’s being drummed into us that men are somehow bottled up and stoic and we just need to help them open up 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:54 AM
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It’s true that I’m not particularly interested in men, but it’s a good demonstration of the emotional response. Where did you glean hate from my observations that’s very testerical. There are whores but I would disagree simply because men would love most women to be whores then this sub wouldn’t exist. Women aren’t the ones doing logical gender ™ and then going home ruining their families day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:43 AM
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I have no interest in “but women” whining the post is about men. I do know most men are failures by way of observation. It’s men who actually lack self awareness on this aspect usually which is my argument - that men don’t perceive themselves as such so the narrative that men need to open up suggest they’re not already doing so when they are. You’re unreliable narrators. Male behaviours are excused as non emotional. It’s for the people around them to deal with and we’re told to care about whethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:26 AM
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Yes I’m looking at “failures” because in that case most men are failures. The narrative just allows very OPEN emotional behaviour to be excused, ignored or accepted when coming from a man. You observe this in the work place, in the home etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:58 PM
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Im saying men do the opposite of suffer in silence. They just perceive themselves to be stoic. It’s a false narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:28 PM
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No it’s just a comprehension issue on your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:22 PM
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Yes that’s my main issue with the narrative. I don’t and have never observed men to be stoic and actually bottling shit up. They walk around like a dark cloud and expect people to tolerate it. Then when they have tantrums it’s a crisis and everyone else’s problem. For me it’s either go do that elsewhere or say what your problem is, to who I don’t particularly care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:29 PM
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I agree that it would be a chosen super power by a lot of men, I disagree it has anything to do with wanting “to be yourself”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:30 AM
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Yeah I for sure know plenty of women where it’s just not possible from PIV alone would never say otherwise. But I also think women are being pushed into doing PIV when they’re not actually aroused which contributes. I think the assumption it should just feel good is a big issue and shouldn’t be accepted. How long it takes aroused is the variance. I can enjoy and orgasm(not always) from PIV when I’m actually aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:18 AM
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Yeah I understand I was the same way and don’t discount it could be biological. But I think when you have bad sex for so many years even trying x thing with that partner that you don’t associate with pleasure will make it so there’s a mental block. That was my experience anyway. I had to blank slate it with my now boyfriend and it’s completely different objectively as in the actual sex and mentally. But It took some time for me to rewire that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:06 AM
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This assumes finding value in being in a relationship just to be in one. Very “you’ll do”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:48 AM
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Do you think part of this is now psychological, in the sense that you don’t associate him/ sex with pleasure (objectively so) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:45 AM
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Where did you get that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:56 PM
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The biggest risk to the safety of women is continuing to expect too much from men. It’s actually the greatest tool men have. There was a post the other day of a dude whining that women ignore and avoid men. That is the best harm prevention method and I don’t know why men complain about it. And not allowing cognitive dissonance to keep you from having one foot out the door at all times for men you decide to be in a relationship with or allow in your life generally. Trust should be limited and com…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:06 PM
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Do you mean this in a debate/ broadly online sense or in your real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:35 AM
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To this and your initial comment I think it’s assumptive. Of all the issues I had with my ex me not finding him attractive was not one of them. But I had to reply because I find your suggestion actually kind of concerning. “Just lie there and take it” is what you’re saying and that is what I did. I lost my virginity to him at 15 he was quite a bit older and a lot more experienced than me. I was a teenage prude. Sex to him was literally jack hammering till he came in a couple of minutes. Literall…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:19 AM
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Yes I think discussing your genitals touching with the solemnity of planning a funeral has an absurdity to it. But for me it’s just any sort of beggy whiny language that becomes ick inducing. I think they’re the types of conversations that where they’re necessary should only happen a handful of times maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:24 AM
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I actually completely get what you’re saying but vice versa and also in both a sexual and non sexual way 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:36 AM
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Wait you were the culprit 🤣: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/BMotemloJ5
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:33 AM
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Why can’t men be funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:01 AM
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But not short women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:59 AM
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Isn’t the obvious answer that it doesn’t feel nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:56 AM
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Do you find jokes about short men funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:54 AM
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Your flair is women hate short men. Are you consistent?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:47 AM
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I don’t disagree with what you’re saying. But how I’ve taken her overall message is it’s one of self preservation. There’s ofcourse no fullproof way of knowing but if you start the relationship with an irreconcilable compatibility issues surrounding sex then It’s a question of being realistic about how detrimental it will be for both of you. Especially knowing that life can impact your sex life in the ways you’ve described. For me duty sex was an absolutely violating experience albeit there were…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:29 AM
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Info: Can you explain why you believe these things are mutually exclusive? You can have disdain for those who sex traffic at the top and those who write elaborate rape fantasies on 4chan from their basement at the bottom and everything in between. Yet they are forced to bleed for the sins of the elites simply because they are weak enough to actually feel the sting of rejection. Really? Lmao “Unselected men” go clock in like the rest of us. No one is actually thinking about them and you know this…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:00 AM
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It will be a tough message to get across to women with some hard truths about unpacking female agreeableness (since you’re speaking to women). There is women that are having terrible duty sex from the first month of a relationship. I was one of them. My age and naivety was a factor but I kind of think you need to be pilled about male sexuality to boundary set.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:05 AM
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Yeah you could argue at population level there is just a default incompatibility. But in that case couldn’t your argument just be there should be no long term heterosexual relationships ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:36 PM
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I don’t disagree. But it’s also knowing when it’s a red flag unless you’re the same way if you get with a porn fried overly lustful man who for example cannot touch your body non sexually. Those are the types that will begin to repulse you. I think this is basically just a sexual compatibility q.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:27 PM
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This is a reach. No it’s not because men dont produce let me smoosh your cheeks feelings. There’s just a persistent 50/50 chance as many women will tell you that a man may be waiting for an opportunity to ask you to touch his dick. I do believe men and women can be purely platonic and I have a couple of guy friends I’ve known my whole life it’s sibling territory. And I could’ve mentioned my closest male friend is gay and we don’t have the same kind of boundaries as the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:46 PM
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Yeah I feel victimized when I see a man with a house and a car. Why would he have those things if he wasn’t advertising that he has money and other tangible assets available for me to take. The ones with the expensive cars and watches are for sure walking licks. They dont buy things just because they like them or have personal interests. I don’t consent to my head being filled with thoughts of robbery but there you go. Men are always casually saying they love objectification because they say if …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:22 PM
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Well I’m especially close to some of my female friends and no I don’t envision being that close to a male friend. I’m talking I’m not giving my male friends bikini waxes and cuddling with them. But they are otherwise included in normal friendship activities with no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:59 PM
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No you need to stop looking at women in the literal sense and spend more time on your understanding of male sexuality. You can start with the bible or quran.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:27 PM
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This doesn’t sound like owning anything to me. It sounds like a victim complex you’ve built around your own sexuality. It causes you turmoil so you blame women. Maybe explore chemical castration and you can free yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:15 PM
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You can’t even look at women without feeling victimized. Save yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:05 PM
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Interesting age you picked when I was 19 I was raped by boyfriends brothers friend who HE arranged to pick me up from work. I mean my work uniform included a polo that was quite tightly fitted. And I was in fact wearing make up on that night. I imagine if my makeup budget was instead $10 a year it could have made a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:00 PM
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And when might that have been I mean the first time I was sexually assaulted I was 8 wearing my sunday best. I mean I get it though imagine being a man seeing a female body in a white dress with daisies on it. Poor guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:47 PM
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I’m glad you see what I’m doing. Women are objectified from childhood, when do we learn to love it since you’re an expert?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:15 PM
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You mean the countries where female bodies are seen as so inherently sexual that they must remain covered from head to toe. While still being subjected to overwhelming sexual and domestic violence, FGM and child marriages ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:12 PM
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Men cant control themselves around little girl body equals older women are the problem and men are the victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:09 PM
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In my single father household?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:01 PM
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Yeah for sure I remember when I had no money to buy clothes. No not from being unemployed but from being a child. I was told to change when my dads friends where coming over. For sure at the time I was thinking about how much I could arouse those men. A vest top is obviously to sexy on budding breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:57 PM
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Woman simply exists in female body equals man is the victim akin to being hit with a baseball bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:48 PM
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So you asked because you want to talk about short men ? Is that your schtick?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:01 AM
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Bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:59 AM
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Your flair is women hate short men. Why should I take you seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:55 AM
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This comment has so much comedic gold in it. Thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:51 AM
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I’ll answer when you tell me the last time you befriended a new random man and how frequently you do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:47 AM
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Relevance please?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:32 AM
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Oh yeah I agree i do hence the automod bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:31 AM
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And then you reply with more goo goo gaga.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:51 AM
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For the type of men you speak of r.e. wanting a woman in the home I don’t think it’s jealousy about what women do necessarily, I think it needs to be understood how comedically un-special these dudes feel. When the real world makes you feel like a piece of shit compared to “better” men those Iron Age misogynists said (biblically) you are the leader of your house at least that’s the one and only place you can be “king”. Can’t give birth but it’s God, then you then woman. Taking away the household…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:48 AM
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Better know your place and continue being good lil boys then huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:26 PM
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What are you talking about if we take what is being said as true we are clearly already on the right course and don’t need to do anything. They’ll take themselves out. If they choose to harm others I’m sure the elites will do as was historically done cull in war.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:04 PM
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No it’s true it’s the purpose of this type of sub. But that one is a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:09 PM
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You can’t debate/ argue with this level of deranged thinking though I commend the attempt. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:03 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:58 PM
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They really believe it’s a sympathetic appeal to say “We’re all just inherently deranged and we need pacification through pussy, it’s the only way for us to not harm ourselves and others is if we get pussy” Like in that case my guy culling doesn’t sound like a bad idea tf?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:55 PM
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Good the last Brenda barely had a brain, couldn’t spell her name and got left with a baby. Waiting for a Chad with a boat is preferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:31 PM
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Ive observed it seems to also genuinely be a feeling of conquering for some “you’re my BM I won” comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:44 PM
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I truly think you should be locked in a mental asylum right now. Forget an asylum be realistic about who in this exchange would be more likely to be put on watchlist let alone an in an asylum. I deserve to have a chance at having a romantic and sex life. Yet no woman wants to give that chance. You don’t but also nothing is preventing you from getting it either bar consent. And your employment status is irrelevant to this. And that’s why they want to vote away your rights. But don’t blame those m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:20 PM
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My guy you’re using a just world fallacy on yourself. You think you deserve a girlfriend because you have a job. I don’t think you do. No one cares about what you want more than you do. I refer you back to my initial comment. No they voted it because they wanted to take women’s rights away. I remember some guy went on Twitter and basically told women: You don’t get to control your bodies anymore. We (men) now control them.” Yes they want government girlfriends like I said. Your comments are an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:46 PM
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It’s in the initial comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:14 PM
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You realise that a lot of white women are “trumpers”right ? “Women” didn’t tell YOU shit. You also seem to have a very rudimentary understanding of the political landscape. Women claiming to go “4B” because of an election are delusional and not actually about it but atleast not as deranged as baskets of unfuckables thinking a trump presidency was going to give them government girlfriends. Seriously grow up. All of this is even irrelevant to your initial point. “I have a job but women are not giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:13 PM
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Yeah and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:05 PM
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I find discussing these matters with men to be worthless. I respect all women’s subjective determinations of whether or not it’s something they want to or even can go through or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:04 PM
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Your perspective hinges on these things being correlated. Your existence and how YOU sustain it is irrelevant to most people you encounter in their day to day lives. When you walk out the house and go into a grocery store are you waiting for people to stop and check whether you’re working. Women are not looking at you thinking hmmm I wonder if he has a job, if he does “perhaps I should fuck him because he’s paying his bills like a good lil boy”. You need to grow up if this is your worldview, it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:56 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:45 PM
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“Women” are not thinking about you at all. Let alone whether YOU are in gainful employment or not. Everyone is living their individual lives. What an odd perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:43 PM
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Yes men are often rewarded for being sexual predators look on the bright side and don’t lose sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:03 PM
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I can’t circle around something that doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:55 PM
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Interesting “doordash girl” a scenario you feel you can point to as an example of your? Punishment. See with sexual violence it’s so pervasive there isn’t one singular case that comes to mind. No we just see rapists being interviewed in front of millions on late night TV. Or become president. Telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:26 PM
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That’s very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:45 PM
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There isn’t a pussy distribution system. Just say cheating is wrong and go tf.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:04 AM
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There’s thousands of years of history of abortion. Imagine if the issue boiled down to giving a fuck about some random men on the internets “sympathy”. Like is this question supposed to elicit a plea for “sympathy” really?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:42 AM
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What power ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:14 AM
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On this sub no choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:37 PM
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Who tf are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:34 PM
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No I’m really not. You’re just demonstrating a victim complex again you don’t have to do anything. A lot of people (including men) are also confident. Your level of confidence is a personal problem, it’s definitionally so. And it’s important to your comfortability and competence in many areas of life. It would also be the same as you saying women don’t like obese men. Okay lose weight or don’t (which is also the type of thing people do to gain confidence).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:21 PM
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No “men” don’t YOU might.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:08 PM
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No noone has to do anything you said that was obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:05 PM
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No, “men” are not. You individually might be if you don’t wish to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:03 PM
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No one is putting you at a disadvantage then if this is obvious to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:52 PM
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You don’t have to do anything either, you don’t have to have people be attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:17 PM
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What is this “punishment” exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:16 PM
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No that would suggest confidence is immutable. It’s not and therefore you can only put yourself at a disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:01 PM
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Out of the two I would personally choose that. But no most people want well adjusted and secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:53 PM
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Clingy, anxious, dependent. Nope. Big ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:52 PM
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Not really the point of your post but I do wonder what the “if men don’t get government girlfriends they will become roving gangs of pillaging rapists with all the free time they have from being NEETs by choice” crowd would say if it’s men opting out on their own volition.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:25 AM
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Same reason to be interested in any other fictional unrealistic storytelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:58 PM
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I spend little if any time thinking about men I don’t know. Depending on the issue presented to me by any individual man I may or may not have empathy/sympathy. Also telling people to seek help, push through, try harder and no one owes you anything are all valid responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:08 PM
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“Supply every man in the 1st world with a girlfriend” The fact you people never see the things you say. But anyway sure; so long as the mail order girlfriend visa doesn’t require anything but an attestation from you both saying you’re dating. Meaning she can live in her own house, there is no revocation after break up even if you were to break up the day she lands in the country and no other requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:49 PM
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No it’s actually the opposite of entitlement; they are rejecting you ergo wanting nothing from you. You can feel sad about methods of rejection but it doesn’t mean anything in the grand scheme of things you should be so lucky you don’t have to risk assess and manage the emotions of random men who want something from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:54 AM
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You’re not putting yourself out there on some type of altruistic mission you want something from the women you’re approaching. Women you don’t know. They don’t owe you much they especially don’t owe you a real number.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:09 AM
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No I’ve never been particularly interested in what the “manosphere” has to say about anything. I’m anti sex-work, I believe casual sex is a net negative for women, and I don’t particularly respect the decision to be a “home maker” without completing further education and having independent income. I defer mostly due to being nonetheless quite libertarian but these views are largely antithetical to ideas of choice feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:24 AM
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No you’re just told if you want to pay for sex you can go and do that because it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:46 PM
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I assure you men would complain whether they get a fake number or no number at all. And men who are inclined to be aggressive would be aggressive either way. The hostility is to the fact the woman doesn’t want you. I refuse to read the entire length of your essay but a lot of anguish would be saved for people generally if you learned to walk away at any sign of disinterest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:48 PM
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It was very much clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:35 PM
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Apologies I’ll make it clearer I am denying that women just perceive men as repulsive for no reason a lot of you just ARE repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:40 PM
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No this is not a “third world culture” problem it’s a male one. I mean what happened after hurricane Katrina, what happens during any conflict, the red army and allied forces raped their way across Europe too, what did the U.S military do in Abu ghraib, Vietnam, why are frequent sexual assaults by American soldiers stationed there currently straining relations with Japan, why has there been numerous child and sex trafficking rings in frequent passport bro locations involving western men includin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:31 PM
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If men want women to be receptive to displays of their sexuality the onus is on men to not be perceived as repulsive. Men would have to take responsibility of PR here. Also men are actually repulsed by male sexuality. Loudly proclaiming across different platforms as so many men do that you seek indiscriminate access to a variety of holes (not women) in a desperate and aggressive manner is never going to be viewed positively especially when women are being subjected to often aggressive, anti-soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:01 PM
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There’s no magic girlfriend genie, dating is not a dei program and online strangers don’t know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:38 AM
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Well regardless this is the type of shit women get asked regularly. What type of responses would you feel are not “condescending and unhelpful” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:28 PM
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We? You for some reason framed this as an issue with women’s response. The issue is with the garbage being asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:11 PM
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Men : https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/UbycoVMkN6
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:58 PM
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What has anything you said got to do with “despising” young men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:34 PM
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Perhaps stop looking at interpersonal dynamics as an equation you can apply a singular set of rules to and you will stop being so confused. And that applies to how you interact with people in any area of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:35 AM
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Dick posters usually just go ask another sub to make them feel better about their cock. And repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:19 AM
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What do you mean why? No one will care if you do or don’t. Reach whatever conclusion makes you comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:56 AM
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The actual question you need to ask yourself is what you are going to do with this information either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:17 AM
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Absolutely putrid levels of desperation here my guy. You are providing an answer to your own post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:18 AM
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This is more a statement of fact than of pride. It’s pretty funny how this confuses you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:01 AM
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What do you mean “find impossible” ? desire is there or it isn’t. I can assure you it’s of great ease and doesn’t require a thought process to not lust after random strange men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:31 AM
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Indifferent but leaning unattractive not so much the tech and computers but the collecting toys. I think it would depend whether he spent much time playing with the toys as opposed to collecting them for some other perceived value such as resale or to trade them. Even then I wouldn’t want to see that shit displayed around my house. And I also don’t like hoarders.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:20 PM
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No women are incapable of all the things you listed it literally never happens because ovaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:24 AM
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Because they were never actually mad at it, they were mad at it being said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:11 AM
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This is the funniest part of it all!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:00 AM
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I’m so confused by the parasitic proposition from men in this comment section (and these common talking points generally) that men will either hurt themselves or others if not provided access to a woman body. The suggestion that you are inherently deranged and need pacification by a woman body just lends one to believe the current course (if this worldview is accepted) is the correct one, ignore you even more and we will supposedly have less deranged people going around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:00 AM
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Why exactly is this supposedly a serious topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:35 AM
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No they don’t exist and no it’s not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:05 AM
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Career woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:25 AM
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Yes every single one of them are like that. Go save her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:53 PM
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$250 a month would do nothing for a lot of people depending on where you live. That said if you think it’d be better if she had a job, why are you even planning this whole hypothetical sugar baby scenario. Just find someone with a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:12 PM
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I once saw a couple a while ago now where the man transitioned soon after his wifes gave birth and he/she was adamant to breast feed the baby. Mind you this was on Twitter so I don’t discount it could be rage bait. Anyway my point is you can’t anticipate that type of insanity so knowing beforehand to me would be like accepting a ticking time bomb into my life. In case he gets those feelings again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:02 PM
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What is so bad about asking a stranger on the bus to scratch your back? Why don’t you ask a stranger to wax your asshole? Why don’t you ask a stranger to do your meal prep? Scrub your toilet? Ask your coworker to exchange nudes during lunch? Learn life omg.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:34 PM
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Why does it need to be widely proven. You can find many men claiming this is true for them. Atleast offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:52 PM
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Reddit deleted my comment so I have to be nicer. Not my problem. You’re basically asking “would you agree to being extorted”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:49 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:46 PM
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You could both go find a cock to suck today what’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:18 PM
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Is this another “men voted for trump because” question? I think good luck with all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:50 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:41 PM
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I really couldn’t find the words to express the extent and gravity of my NO. But fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:40 PM
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There’s an example in the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:31 PM
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Nope it doesn’t take much because of fragile egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:32 PM
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You’re not in a position to advocate and make any changes. That’s my point. I will never believe you people actually care about anything 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:42 AM
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This is just again displaying lack of any thought behind this topic. There are legal frameworks that govern human rights. Who has determined there are active human rights violations (The UN tracks this) in these two counties that have always had some form of mandatory military service and what political hindrances and domestic policy issues are there preventing abolishment of conscription in Russia and Ukraine?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:32 AM
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Yes that’s the pattern any topic descends into “I want to drop out of society without women”. It’s so incredibly unserious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:17 AM
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Men will continue to be prohibited from exiting those countries until you can communicate why they shouldn’t be. And not only communicate it, communicate it persuasively accounting the factors I mentioned above.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:49 PM
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I would agree with that yet If that was actually the pervasive belief in both Ukraine and Russia this war would have ended a long time ago. You historically can’t wage war without soldiers. Luckily for all of us the future of war is likely drone warfare and nuclear icbms. If Russia/Ukraine has proved anything it’s that trench warfare is pointless and will soon enough become obsolete and therefore men’s role in “serving their nation” will also become obsolete. I wonder what the complaint will be …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:43 PM
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So no you haven’t thought about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:28 PM
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What are people supposed to be listening to? (Not counting actual Ukrainians) if you were to call up your representatives ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:27 PM
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There are over 30 million people in Ukraine, what do you propose for immigration during war time? And the impacts of flight from Ukraine its impacts on the war, Ukraines economy and neighbouring countries ? How do you envision Ukraine is going to recover economically after this war ends?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:25 PM
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You understand why this is why “men’s rights activism” is bunk right? “Sexist emigration policy” is not even rudimentary analysis of both domestic and foreign policy in Europe right now. How do you intend to advocate without effectively communicating these issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:22 PM
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If you believe what you’re saying is logical how do you intend to position your fears to the people who would think you’re in fact unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:07 PM
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How do I advocate for that? Have you never thought about how?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:01 PM
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You regularly make me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:58 PM
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The majority of advocacy I see for Afghan women comes from western women. And by that I mean lobbying, grassroots campaigns, work with NGO’s etc seeking tangible solutions such as sanctions, aid, free online learning platforms etc I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman claiming she is being oppressed by the taliban. Ukrainian men are used as a talking point on Reddit from what I can see and otherwise from people questioning why we’re sending the Ukrainians aid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:39 PM
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There’s a difference between identifying systemic issues and analyzing them, proposing solutions that impact a group or groups and having a victim mentality. You can only achieve results if you have clear messaging and tangible solutions. What I see with male whining is there is never any correlation between systemic issues and individually feeling like a fuck up. It looks to me like: “men are in Ukraine dying…. Me yes I’m in USA … I work in tech women don’t like me… I am oppressed … I’m not tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:23 PM
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I think I’d call it lasting emotional harm though it’s not so much triggering anymore just more so that I think even by the time I’m 50 I’d still be happy to hear that dudes dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:06 AM
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That was misunderstood. I meant that I liked thinking they would find her so attractive that they might do that later. You like thinking about dudes jerking off to your wife? What’s being misunderstood?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:13 PM
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Pretty sure I saw comment here somewhere a few days ago where the dude was like I love watching guys check out my wife so I can think of them going home to jerk off while I actually fuck her……
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:53 AM
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There are also plenty of non abusive men that do well in dating. So those abusive men probably share much of the same characteristics. You likely just share none of them and if you do you’re not selling it well. It’s one thing to claim you’re funny and charismatic and another thing to be genuinely perceived as such. But hey reddit doesn’t know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:43 AM
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It doesn’t need to be probably go ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:52 PM
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Please go ask women in real life why YOU should like them and report back with the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:39 PM
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Right 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:32 PM
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No marital rape laws were introduced for a reason and I think most people are quite content with them. Anyone else can just become a bible basher and leave the rest of us out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:02 PM
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“I’ve been fucking hoes and popping pills I feel like a rockstar”…..is literally the chorus
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:37 PM
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You know you’re being fucking obtuse that’s the funny thing. You want people to list every song ever made about sex so you can prove what exactly? And you also want those men to not be black for some reason? Kings of Leon- sex on fire, Justin beiber-daises, confident, pyd to name a few, any the weeknd song, zayn- pillow talk, Bruno Mars - fat juicy and wet, post malone - rockstar, Ed Sheeran- shape of you …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:27 PM
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They also make sexual music, hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:56 PM
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“Wait till you see my dick, hey bitch” also comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:35 PM
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It’s not. I don’t know what reality you people live in. Drake literally just released a song talking about “smack that ass like its cheetah print”. Justin beiber please be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:31 PM
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From finding the man attractive. Every woman feening to suck every basic bobs cock as she stares intently at him sitting opposite her on the morning commute is not going to happen get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:15 PM
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What is the different mindset exactly? It truly amuses me that you believe men are having original thoughts and revelations. And what makes you think love was being feigned ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:31 PM
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The irony with that is that they can’t see past the revenge fantasy of it all to get to a place where they can even realize they are acknowledging men require pacification individually and as a group and how much society is structured around pacifying their emotions and often volatility. All while scoffing at the idea of women relying on community and such things. So yeah that nicely expanded my point it makes the lack of self awareness seem quite insidious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:50 PM
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Sounds reasonable. No expectation of clairvoyance here. More so a general perception of wilful ignorance especially wrt how your (general) friends act around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:48 PM
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Yeah I’m not someone who claims all types of therapies are effective for everyone. If not a discussion I just think some self reflection would help “I did that because I felt sad”, “I’m acting this way because I’m insecure, I feel insecure because…” , “I’m irritable because…”. It sounds simple but it’s because it goes to the point I’m making. Women will be saying they’re tip-toeing around a man’s emotions and the man will act confused. This also does apply to men and women. But men are the ones …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:41 PM
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I’d say it’s this : they don't particularly get much out of discussing their emotions or trying to seek sympathy, otherwise they would do it. I just tire of the farcical narrative that men are just bottled up stoics. It’s a lack of self awareness of how they’re displaying their emotions. How that reflects in their behaviour and how it’s impacting the people around them. Additionally how often they think they are being logical instead of going through rationalization processes to justify feelings…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:13 PM
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This is the type of shit that can make you hate having eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:03 PM
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Men are incredibly emotional and sensitive. This is not a slight, I think it’s normal (to a degree for people generally). What I find abnormal is the lack of self awareness about this amongst yourselves. Also how many of you have creeps as friends. And this is me taking it in good faith when men claim that’s not the case or they’re not aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:34 PM
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Then I’d argue your situation is not really even a typical sahg dynamic. You’re just dating and willfully unemployed? you could contribute more if you wanted to. If your partner is also wealthy enough to not need your contribution then that isn’t anyone’s business. It’s kind of like if two trust fund kids were dating I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:28 PM
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It’s not an early retirement unless you’re adequately planning for the relationship degrading. Wealth may skew the conversation but most people are speaking of traditional stay at home moms when discussing these dynamics. Their contribution is often not seen as a contribution at the point a relationship ends. We know this by now so accepting that is a risky choice. When I see women crying online about their cards being blocked, scraping to find a lawyer, how they’ve never worked, struggling to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:47 PM
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Yes they (and IMO OP) are often just describing bravado. The cracks show quickly in those cases. It’s otherwise just the same uninteresting asshole v nice guy dichotomy. Confidence must be referring to a cocky asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:15 AM
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So you can identify issues/traits caused by a lack of confidence that you would likely find unattractive but it confuses you that people would find traits associated with confidence attractive ? I find it attractive when someone is confident, I think it often shows in their ability to set boundaries, respond positively to criticism, not being egotistical, willing to try new things, no comparisons with other people, not requiring constant reassurance and so on. That’s odd to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:28 AM
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Your whole post is assumptions. What do you think is attractive about someone that is confident and what do you think is unattractive about someone that is not confident?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:03 AM
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Yea confidence is a belief in self. What happens when you lack confidence ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:50 AM
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Insecure is defined as lack of confidence. I think maybe you should’ve got the definitions down before making your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:18 AM
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I disagree. No one likes dealing with insecure people. They tend to require a lot of reassurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:13 AM
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Confidence is largely a belief in self. Hence someone can be riddled with imposter syndrome at work for example while outwardly projecting something completely different. Likely by being charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:03 AM
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You’re confusing confidence and charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:57 AM
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Great, make sure the next time a man is posting claiming being a male is isolating and he’s seen as a threat make sure to confirm to him that he’s delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:04 AM
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Autism? Learn to detect sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:42 PM
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Tf you talking about dude
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:31 PM
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What are you talking about men have no agency at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:40 PM
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Nope you go back and read it’s not about women. It’s about what you view as a privilege. Like all I’m hearing is that you think men are thirsty and your underlying belief is that women should be grateful ? for your thirst. I don’t see why. See when I desire someone in my view that’s just what I feel. I don’t say “you’re privileged that I desire you”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:12 AM
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No still not there I’m afraid. Why should women value it? Again your post is YOUR value proposition and I’m yet to read anything that specifies “my desire is a privilege because…” And no you have the desire, I assume the people you’re pursuing don’t share it with you hence your post. Yet you want something from them right? It’s more like a millionaire that wants to buy a yacht but still doesn’t have enough money and going to a regular person and asking them to scrape together 100 dollars. Like f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:55 AM
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I read it. You did not explain why YOU view the desire as a privilege. I’m not talking about women here. Your post is about what you think is a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:05 AM
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We’d both be able to explain why water is both a human right and a privilege. Access to clean water is literally a life source. Yet I don’t think either one of us will be able to explain why your desire is a privilege. And you’re yet to. “It just is” is a non answer. Envision yourself walking up to a woman in a bar, a grocery store, or dming her on Instagram or whatever tf. You think she’s hot, maybe she makes your dick react, you want something from her. She hasn’t even noticed you. If you were…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:00 AM
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My guy it’s your post and you’re the one that believes in the privilege. How do you convince women that it’s a privilege that you want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:33 AM
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what mens desire isnt worthy? and who desire is? and how does the filter process it? what do the men who desire is a privilege have what other men dont? No you tell us, tell us whose desire are women privileged to have, what is it worth ? How do you pitch your desire as a privilege when you talk to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:12 AM
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Like omg some rando asked to fuck you in the dms, so blessed and highly favoured
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:05 AM
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Well on the bright side yall must clearly value yourselves highly based on your insistence that your pursuit should be viewed as a privilege. I think it benefits the self esteem to look at things this way. Maybe if you could actually adequately explain to the people you’re pursuing why your pursuit on an individual level should be viewed as a privilege more of you wouldn’t have such a hard time finding dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:19 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:11 PM
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Haha you’re right. I guess the difference is I see one as more delusional than the other. If someone’s tweeting from a village on the outskirts of Mogadishu their reality is a lot different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:57 PM
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Guilty. I often can’t tell apart the ones who are 1950s “good ol days” trad propagandists and culturally non western.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:45 PM
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“Lie back and think of England” comes to mind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:26 PM
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To what, pointing out the obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:56 PM
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Yes and I guess especially to men it seems, the extent romance historically was held of much importance is greatly overestimated when pining for the past. Pairings were just often very practical at best, oppressive at worst. Whether people did or ended up liking and valuing anything else about eachother almost seems secondary to me when discussing the core of this dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:26 PM
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Not sure ? Depends on your interpretation. I don’t see it as a positive to be needed for survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:10 PM
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Sure yet, If I look at a country like Niger, Chad, Mali, Afghanistan etc in modern day where many parents are still essentially selling of their daughters to men. They are not doing so, so that said daughter is assured companionship and love. They just can’t afford her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:02 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:47 PM
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I think the people who are not fine with it are the loudest voices you’ll hear lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:26 PM
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Yeah that’s because the “gender war” is fake in the way it’s presented online. I’d just say these people see no reason to prioritize relationships and the idea of being in one is not appealing for varying reasons whether that’s past experience or just doesn’t fit in with the life they want to lead. Point is they’re not rotting away or hyper focused on dating they are just living life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:21 PM
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No im describing people I know between around 22-36.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:13 PM
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They’re just living life lol? Like I have friends and siblings who are not on dating apps, they go out regularly some also in further education, quite career focused etc I also have a friend who is a bit of a nomad, works remotely around the world etc they’re not just one way. My sister though you asked for under 30s is in her mid 30s got divorced some years ago now, she moved to Berlin she deadass has no interest in relationships or children etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:11 PM
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Plenty especially those who have been in previous long term relationships through their teens and early twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:04 PM
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Sometimes it’s relief “I finally don’t have to act like I want to fuck this man because someone else is”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:10 PM
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It’s a statistical inevitability that the majority of the worst violent offenders are average and ugly men. You only have to watch the news to confirm this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:13 AM
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“Abusive” is not a fixed personality trait, these are actions and patterns of behaviour. Where abuse stems from whether that’s personality traits or whatever other underlying factors will vary. These questions also always assume human beings are one dimensional.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:34 AM
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Good thing we’re talking about observable interpersonal skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:31 AM
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You caught me, it was I. It’s my mission to let the womenfolk know where the only real male human beings are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:45 PM
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True, the only real male human beings are short, ugly, neurotic, unemployed and homeless. I always recommend my single friends to take annual trips to skid row to hunt for the most quintessential male human being. I hear the dating apps don’t have filters for this so. One of my friends got married to a dr two years ago our friendship hasn’t been the same since, he even has a full head of hair. How weird of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:47 PM
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No what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:04 PM
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So you’d agree it’s only an issue because of male tantrums. Those they wouldn’t consent to don’t cause societal issues so it doesn’t warrant an enhanced “acknowledgment” and hence there’s no “cognitive dissonance” there?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:01 PM
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I can absolutely, correctly point out that it’s harmful to society for there to be significant portions of 18-25 men who, at the peak of their ability and willingness to harm society with violence and other crime, are unable to get the women they desire to consent to sex and relationships with them. We know men like to throw their toys out the stroller what else is there to acknowledge ? But the point I find interesting here is who THEY consent to. Why do you use this language ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:42 PM
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Nah I’m American my dads sides Latino though so a lot of machismo but I still think this is just broadly observable. Cultural differences are relevant too though my bf’s English and the British generally seem a lot more “brash” in their communication e.g. insults as terms of endearment, endless sarcasm etc which I actually am more partial to. Generally I think most people know that they have to adapt their communication style when necessary. My perception is that women are generally better at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:57 PM
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Oh no it’s definitely not just in work places, it’s just in general interactions with women. I can remember as a child my dad refusing to read the instructions when he was assembling a new bunk bed for me and my sister. My mom was reading it and tried to tell him he was doing it wrong and behold he didn’t want to hear it, tried to move it into place and it basically collapsed in on itself. He kicked it and stormed off. Probably the embarassment of it all but if the bros said it …… women talk abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:08 PM
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I could give plenty. For all this talk about banter and honesty and to add edge lord humor and contrarianism that is also common with men. Men have incredibly fragile egos and being seen as a joke by women can trigger volatile reactions. And I don’t think men are cognizant of how much women are required to tip toe around their emotions. Like OP speaks of criticism try tell a man you don’t like sex with him in a constructive way and let women tell you some stories. It’s the mansplaining but it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:44 PM
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Okay and so since you said in your OP that you should see women’s discomfort positively you won’t be one of the many men who cries foul if let’s say a woman screams at you, tells you to fuck off. Can women make you uncomfortable as well ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:00 AM
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How should women react to your harassment?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:35 AM
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Men despise when women mirror their interpersonal skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:20 PM
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Just to add there wouldn’t even be an issue if there was genuine theoretical discourse. Like what you’ve posted has actually been theororized to an extent. Hence if they genuinely wanted to talk about comphet for example they could talk about it. But they don’t. I’ve only seen likely fetishists, validation seekers and other dudes hamster wheeling trying to find any excuse for why they can’t get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:13 PM
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But you missed out the intense dick obsession tho….
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:29 PM
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Ha amazing. Anyway the point was me trying to gather how you actually analyzed the video and it served as a demonstration of why your “misandry” claims are doubted. Also your emotional response demonstrates what she was intended to do was effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:23 PM
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No what did she say that you specifically believe was incorrect and what do you believe her contention is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:10 PM
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What do you disagree with and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:52 PM
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Yeah we should continue doubting it. But you have demonstrated that there is broadly a media literacy crisis. I think this was a great video actually. Did you watch it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:44 PM
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The vibe it’s giving is like when kids do a cartwheel and say “mommy watch this”. That’s nice dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:38 PM
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It’s not putting anyone in a box of creeps , assholes and perverts unless you are one. It just so happens that there are many creeps assholes and perverts. For the women that don’t want to be cold approached it’s because they do not care to find out whether or not you’re a creep asshole or pervert. Because of experience they just dont want the interaction at all. It’s that simple. Added on top any other reasons one may not be interested broadly or in that specific moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:40 PM
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Sure, we also have the right to not engage in being interrupted. That’s the point. It’s the same shit as ignoring someone trying to sell you body lotion in the mall. Or fake lv bags in China town. And men take that negatively without you even saying much of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:41 PM
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But that’s the whole problem. The “negative reaction” is often just refusing to be interrupted. Which we should also have the right to do. Not wanting to taking the time to interract IS what yall find insulting. A no just rubs salt into the wound. You’ll be walking down the street and a man will try to get your attention even grab your shoulder if he’s coming up behind you, you may take your AirPod out, respond “no thanks not right now”, and I’ve had a dude literally say “well fuck you then” and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:32 PM
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Clearly I have nothing to refute. Why do you think people should care to talk you out of your paranoia, grow the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:36 AM
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>And even if a woman tells me she has never done any acts with women in the past or had lustful thoughts about women, how am I gonna convince myself to believe that when the statistics are clear? No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:39 AM
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I don’t know who he is. Is it a term made of conspiracy by people trying to denigrate men or not? Reading the book reviews men have been raving about being part of said manosphere for over a decade here’s a few: > But but but. If you think women are God's Graceful Creatures, or incarnations of the Virgin Mary, then you are going to get a nasty, nasty shock. They know about women in the Manosphere. Lord knows they have bedded, wedded, been divorced by, dumped by, flaked by and generally disappoin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:11 PM
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Reading the link you posted it seems you have an Ian Ironwood and his book to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:42 PM
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There is no male loneliness epidemic. Trump is president right now….. and how is that going?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:28 AM
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What is it that you don’t believe? It’s contextual and can be for safety but I think if the guy is remotely stable it’s less effective than directness e.g. If you’ve been on a date and something uncomfortable has happened you try to end the date “pleasantly” and then it’s either easier to say you’re not interested then block if they’re mad about it or it was to the point where you think it’s best not to communicate at all. For guys whose persistence is escalating not replying/blocking can be bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:42 AM
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I did. The examples you gave of self improvement are such basic and universal life advice. Unless you’re asking me to imagine myself as a basement dweller and asking whether I would stop being one. Yes I would not for the opposite sex but to show up at work, for friends, for family, for myself. If you don’t value being present in the world in that way then just don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:25 PM
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If you can’t exercise, groom yourself, dress presentably and socialize I first question the extent you’re a functioning adult before wondering about who you’re trying to attract. Doing these things at a baseline will improve your mental and physical health and likely self confidence. Why should they put in all of this effort, sacrificing what they actually want to do most of the time, just for \*the chance\* to experience casual sex and relationships like the naturally desirable men did without …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:15 PM
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Aw bless you you’re confused, I haven’t made a post complaining since you are agreeing with the posts complaints and you know you need to pick better and feel you can’t, then improve. If that’s not worth any effort that’s also a choice. It’s like an accountability circle if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:29 AM
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I’m not hyper focused, I’m focused on the point of the post. Which is about the cock before you (men) and not being able to assess whether you’re enjoying your sex life without knowing about how the last cock was treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:25 AM
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Stop being off putting. People accomplish this often, so many excuses from men today. Anything to dodge accountability. Yeah I have no need to weigh fries. Improve and one day you may not be concerned about maximizing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:15 AM
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Exactly it’s about the exes dick. Men are dirty and tarnish what they touch I get it we’re agreeing. Peaceful and clean is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:12 AM
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Do better and improve authentically in that case. No I just live at a healthy weight and eat fries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:06 AM
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It doesn’t matter if she’s peaceful and clean. What matters is her exes cock and how often she sucked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:00 AM
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Yes you now have two matches. It’s an improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:55 AM
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Not good enough, he should’ve picked better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:53 AM
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No there really isn’t. Don’t you know they will pick the poor waitress because women are just liked for who they are 🥺 unless her ex had a big cock that she sucked every Tuesday at 12pm as identified on the 2nd date questionnaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:39 AM
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You mentioned being liked. Improve and you’ll have more people who like you to choose from. The rest is noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:38 AM
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>The theoretical data sheet should include all that plus their historical credit scores, income history, extended family tree, etc. Nah men don’t care about that clearly, where are those posts? It’s just whether the last guy had a bigger cock and how often she sucked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:34 AM
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Stalking his insta trying to find a pic with a dick print to attempt to see how they measure up perhaps…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:30 AM
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Maybe for the porn brained autists of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:28 AM
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Make it less rare by becoming more likeable. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:25 AM
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Yes they should and but yes the accountability for being robbed is the key part. Always choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:55 AM
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It does men choose all the time, if you can’t you need to do better. Be chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:18 AM
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I never mentioned women at all. Are you trying to dodge the accountability conversation. Please reread the initial post and my comment thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:11 AM
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Don’t be silly they should move homes. And take accountability for moving on to that street in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:09 AM
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Whether you think it applies more or less is irrelevant to me. The point stands thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:00 AM
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More excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:57 AM
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Find a way to have options. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:47 AM
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Excuses excuses .. if you acknowledge it’s a solution you acknowledge there’s options so there needs to be accountability. This is red pill 101 is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:46 AM
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Sure you can, permanently move to the country with the shortest population on earth. After that consider seeing a facial balancing aesthetician or plastic surgeon if you’re really about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:33 AM
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No you can take accountability for having limited options too and the option you chose if you’re not getting the sex you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:11 AM
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I’ve formed the impression that ppd males must be asking women to fill out questionnaires on the last dudes cock and balls. Day by day and year on year spreadsheets too on sex positions, sex acts, number of orgasms….
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:03 AM
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He should’ve picked better in the first place where’s the accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:59 AM
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So who is billy the accountant ? A beta stupid fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:57 PM
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Nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:26 AM
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I have never thought about this in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:23 PM
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I find this ironic when you were just in another thread claiming all women want to be jack hammered so that’s what you do because they are lying if they say otherwise and because all pussys are the same. Not to get it twisted to the point of this post that’s the attitude a lot of women deal with, the “effort” is often about what a man enjoys. So I agree in the sense that women should immediately cut off a man who doesn’t listen to what she enjoys/ doesn’t enjoy or reacts badly to feedback. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:56 PM
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I mean it worked on multiple women who are different. And pussy is pussy. Whether you go to antartica, america, europe, africa etc. İt likes the same thing. Yeah buddy I don’t believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:47 AM
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It’s not an insult, it’s an accurate description. Go back to the post the OP linked and read why women feel the need to fake. It sounds like it’s applicable here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:31 AM
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Rapist logic. Also a demonstration of why there is an orgasm gap. Amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:26 AM
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It’s a case of asking the person you’re having sex with what they actually enjoy. Limited/no foreplay and aimlessly hammering into a vagina for a couple of minutes is going to be an uncomfortable-painful waste of time for a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:47 AM
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Some of them might be. But I know what I’m observing. You know how often I’ve seen a thread of a man trying to argue a woman down about dick size leading to a woman essentially describing the inner workings of her own pussy while he just “but… but … so you’re saying … 🥺🥺” sometimes it’s angry, sometimes it’s whiny, my conclusion is the same. It’s fishing? For something or other. This is just the new hot topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:42 PM
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That’s what I’ve observed and the conclusion I’ve reached🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:07 PM
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Yes it is covert in the sense that they don’t outright go on ‘looks’ subs and ask for validation they prefer an odd pattern of online behaviour where they seek to extract women’s thoughts and experiences to put themselves at the centre of it. The reasons for doing so seem to vary which is why I asked the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:54 PM
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I actually didn’t mention myself at all. I questioned the intention behind these posts. You just happened to demonstrate typical male solipsism along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:49 PM
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It’s only not useful if you think male sexuality is default. But like I said I don’t care to change your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:20 PM
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I honestly don’t know what the threshold is for when casual viewing turns into gooner/porn brain territory. But I was asking that because i think porn is making some men delusional. Anyway to answer ofcourse your dream world probably looks like the reality a lot of gay men live. Not all gay men are ‘hypersexual’ but I’d say they are probably moreso on average than women. Cruising, glory holes, dark rooms, bath houses etc and other behaviours are quite common that only women who participate in ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:10 PM
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I promise I have a more substantive response but first can you confirm whether you consume a lot of porn ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:52 PM
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I don’t care to change your view but because of my own observations on male sexuality I’m nearing the conclusion that this emerging cohort of men on this sub wanting to debate women’s sexuality are just seeking women to describe their sexuality, libido and turn ons either for perceived validation that they might one day attract a woman or for sexual gratification. Can you confirm the extent either of these is true or false for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:40 PM
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Sex is as important as an individual makes it out to be. If one person says they’re going to die without sex, someone else might think they’re delusional but that’s how they feel. If someone says they’re the happiest celibate the person who is claiming they’re going to die might think they are delusional but that’s how they feel. If sexlessness is a problem it’s an individual one and it’s for no one to address but yourself. If the fact that someone has to agree to have sex with you pains you tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:08 AM
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For many men, however, the bar is much lower, so they accept even socially maladjusted women (if she has an aesthetically acceptable body — though for some, it's enough that she's breathing). For some breathing isn’t even a requirement. Like and??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:52 PM
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Idk but I can’t envision a scenario where I would be attracted to obese men just because they were around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:12 AM
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What problems are being created by a “gender war”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:51 PM
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Not possibly more useless than this response.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:10 PM
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Your question is based on a faulty premise that there’s any percentage of people you’re supposed to be attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:32 PM
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There’s a lot of abrahamic garbage that would suggest so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:26 PM
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No, I don’t care to question feminists on male grievances.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:47 AM
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I don’t feel anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:24 PM
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Cool get over that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:53 PM
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Women are not men, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:06 PM
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Anything WE want to do we do, anything WE don’t want to do we don’t. Not sure why our exes would even be part of that equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:56 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:00 AM
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So you’re asking us to help you with your own interpretation of these statements? I understand this as a positive response to your question. Maybe your issue is not seeking clarity when you don’t understand ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:27 PM
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If those responses are an example of your point, it sounds like a comprehension issue on your part without further elaboration.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:23 PM
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If that’s true go get yourself put on a psychiatric hold. Hopefully you don’t ask the female health care professionals about lesbian porn while you’re there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:36 PM
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If only users accounts could come with different warning labels since women keep providing this guy with material to jerk off to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:39 PM
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No they must. You don’t need to date to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:05 PM
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It’s just that you’re agreeing that what men want is to pay for sex. So I’m wondering where this fits into your views on prostitution, I infer from the resentful tone of your post that it’s actually that dating itself is the inconvenience. The discussion about generosity vs selfishness seems irrelevant even to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:00 PM
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Most men pay for sex, they just do it indirectly. Why would they be attempting to do that when there’s sex workers. So what are your thoughts on prostitution. My point is I want to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:35 PM
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But what are your thoughts on prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:29 PM
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What are your thoughts on prostitution ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:56 PM
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You’re certainly on to something here. It sounds like there’s high demand for access to women 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:45 PM
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No that’s just the thoughts you typed up. I agree what you wrote means nothing really when considering social dynamics. It can only be generous if it is generous. Women don’t know that until they know that. I could just as easily make a post that men want to pay for dates only because they want a reason to demand sex in exchange because they don’t want to see prostitutes. I’d repeat the question back to you don’t men like this exist? All conjecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:06 PM
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My point is that your post is delusional like I keep saying just a simplistic take on social dynamics that can apply to a lot of things. But anyway most people prefer an open bar at a wedding it doesn’t necessarily speak to the generosity or selfishness of the host if they do or don’t provide one. Or whether their guest will still attend and bring wedding gifts. Or whether their guests will invite them to their own weddings. Yet considering the current state of affairs especially online like I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:50 PM
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If I told you I like an open bar at a wedding how would that make you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:49 AM
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Of course they do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:45 AM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:44 AM
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Yep and your take is entirely delusional, what’s confusing you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:23 AM
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No I did that’s how I came to the conclusion it’s delusional based on above :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:11 AM
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Yes your entire premise is delusional when you look at the current state of affairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:37 AM
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I’m just confused how a man can come on a sub (this sub in particular) with a grievance about women having children so that they can be provided for when women are either not having children, delaying children or having less children when they do decide to have them. Also going to college at higher rates and continuing to work even while having children. All while in an era of male screeching about women’s sexual selectivity, declining marriage rates and birth rates. Since you’re here I just kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:30 AM
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Yes there are certainly white supremacist talking points there. Anything else ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:18 AM
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Well I don’t know if I agree on that but I’d say it’s entitled by default. What do you think of the rhetoric surrounding declining birth rates and where it’s predominantly coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:13 AM
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How do you feel about men that say they want to be fathers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:50 AM
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They also want a "provider" without providing any real value, apart from having kids, which even animals can do. Female animals*. Anyone can have a job though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:33 AM
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I’m dead; no I don’t but okay yeah that username is all I needed to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:14 PM
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Agreed but also not even about what she hasn’t done: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/w1PHvRzc1e
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:08 PM
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The filter is increasingly “is this man necessary at all” you’ll get it one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:03 PM
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I don’t think it’s a bad idea tbf. I think it could work great for single moms not a marriage necessarily but cohabitation and joint childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:55 PM
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Funnily enough some do also get married I don’t think that’s in any significant numbers though. Also this isn’t me passively suggesting lmao it was just because you mentioned you don’t factor in romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:49 PM
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This is actually all sensible sounding but the blunt pragmatism actually made me chuckle. Curious what are your thoughts on increasing trends on people choosing “platonic life partners” instead ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:15 PM
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Do the rest just live shit lives to you don’t troll pls?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:44 PM
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Are they high status?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:40 PM
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You really just have to laugh lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:37 PM
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So you don’t even care to read it but your OCD is making you ask women about lesbian porn everyday 🤣right right
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:22 PM
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100% agreed. I have a lot of boundaries due to this now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:55 PM
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Do you have a lot of relatives and friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:53 PM
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This sub actually made me understand how cuckoldry came to be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:47 PM
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Is there no other meaning or purpose to extract from life? And also if you think 90-95% of people actually can’t date at all outside of this OPs hypothetical it’s delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:43 PM
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Everyone dies for sure. Do you think that 90-95% can’t have purpose and meaning outside of being “high status”?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:41 PM
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I don’t even think this is gendered a lack of reciprocity is just that and I wouldn’t say it’s fair to accept in a friendship or a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:52 PM
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That's of course valid. I didn't want to sound like i don't care about my friends birthdays (or don't care about them at all, besides going for a beer). No that’s not really the vibe I got it’s just describing low maintenance friendships. I do also have those friends you can go years without seeing and meet up and it’s like time hasn’t passed. I don't have my birthday visible on any social media and no one ever really asked me. And i won't just randomly say "btw my birthday is..." Put it up, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:35 PM
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I don't care if my friends remember my birthdays, or if they check on me when i'm sick (and to be honest, how would they know? Am i supposed to send big group message with "hi all, i'm sick"?). All i want from them is to invite me for meet up from time to time (and to accept my invitations). Yeah like I said in the OP this isn’t to question how your friendships SHOULD be as this will vary. But to me yeah remembering birthdays is basic af and yes with my best friend on some days I’ll know what sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:19 PM
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You know I don’t think that’s even a ‘hot take’ necessarily. Has this reduced your motivation to date/be in a relationship ? And can you provide an example of those expectations and how often have your partners struggled to meet them? I’ve also on the opposite side had my ex who had a lot of what I’d say were close friends yet still struggled to meet expectations (as in treating friends better.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:53 AM
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This was perfectly said I think that summarises it for me too. Keeping it on topic because obviously people can also form their standards/expectations for a number of reasons not just influenced by their friendships. But in my thinking this is a reasonable minimum because that’s how my closest friendships have always functioned; there’s something about the nature of romantic relationships and dating that makes things that you’d assume are almost second nature when you like and love someone becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:38 AM
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So your expectation of your friends is to enjoy their company and share goals. In enjoying your friends company; do they put in effort to see you, check in on you, take care of you when needed etc In your relationships do you not expect to enjoy their company ? And how do you expect that polarity/duality to present itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:31 AM
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That wasn’t my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:23 AM
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Oh yeah the first one is a good one, although I’m quite big on having separate lives but together, probably not the best way to put it. But I’d def take a flaky partner more personal than a flaky friend among other things. We diverge on the other two points because my friends are quite blunt and honest with me and vice versa and I don’t believe in leadership. Last q, do you have any opinion on why these expectations get so ‘warped’ in romantic relationships as opposed to platonic ones? and this …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:08 AM
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Am I clear?? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:55 AM
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Yeah for me it’s a bit of a spectrum I certainly don’t value all of my friendships to the degree of my relationship just my closest ones. My position is just that my friends do set the bar for me to the extent if I was seeing less in my relationship I’d question the whole relationship. Outside of sex (too obvious) what are a few key things you’d expect from your partner or when dating that are above what you see from your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:54 AM
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Yeah this is one I hear a lot and it’s not even just in initial first few dates but often becomes an ongoing issue in relationships. Like my bf and I knew eachother for a while before we started dating so when we started dating everything was much more I’d really like to try abc come with me please type thing and that has continued. But I think that requires familiarity sometimes. So I’ve experienced the opposite on dates where it’s that exact cycle. I guess to some extent the core reason is pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:37 AM
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Friendship is about TIME and INVESTMENT, it has surprisingly very little do with those list of things you listed. Prey tell, how do you decide who to spend time with and invest in? And why is it not everyone? Not "connect" with people. Its whether you want to spend TIME and INVEST positively towards someones life. "Connection" is fairy dust Why don’t you spend time and invest in everyone, man or woman that you come across? Women think I am boring, my friends don't. My friends don't care about my…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:30 AM
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If you spent additional time with them and they were your demographic, you would be very likely become friends with them. If you have no interest in becoming friends with them, ITS BECAUSE YOU DO IN FACT DISLIKE THEM The men on this sub struggle incredibly with black and white thinking. No not having things in common with someone, having different values or beliefs, different ways of communicating, different sense of humor etc are the things that contribute to whether you connect with people. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:13 AM
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From previous partners and/or dates you’ve been on what do you think has been lacking the most in comparison to your friendships?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:01 AM
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This was erratic.. Sexual attraction is the threshold, so it’s what matters the most. The rest of it barely matters, Yes attraction is important. The rest also matters tremendously. MOST PEOPLE CAN GET ALONG WITH EACH OTHER AND ENJOY EACH OTHERS COMPANY. I disagree, it’s like how I can exchange pleasantries with some of my coworkers, I don’t dislike them I also don’t want to spend any additional time with them. This stupid bullshit where women think 99% of men are trash company, "not compatible"…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:59 AM
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No I love her too much, familial type love that’s my sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:43 AM
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You’re kinda highlighting why I was interested in asking this question. My friendships do influence my expectations for romantic relationships. My male friendships are based around spending time together. The act of spending time together is what keeps the relationship alive. Thats not good enough for women. They don't value my time, they value my ability to entertain them, including inside the bed room. Dating and relationships don’t involve fucking for 24 hours a day. To these points what diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:36 AM
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I didn’t take it personally I provided an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:04 PM
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It’s an answer, did it help?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:48 PM
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Nope they’re valid and we care about them 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:17 PM
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Not really he could be asking on the pages he’s frequenting, he’s not and he has a position already so I’m asking what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:45 PM
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Why are you telling me this, is this for the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:20 PM
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Have no idea what you’re talking about. But actually YOU should probably “care” more about the factors of criminality and criminals given it’s a disproportionally male issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:10 PM
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Okay if we take those numbers as true; from what you’re saying 90-95% of the population likely will never be “high status” so to go back to my question what should they do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:42 PM
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How many men do you think are “high status” and by what metrics and how many men do you think can listen to your advice and have it work for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:34 PM
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Your suggestion is to all gen z men, they would then be “high status” compared to who in your worldview?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:26 PM
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That was a painful watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:14 PM
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You’re suggesting an entire generation of men do this so top 20% of what? Anyway … Okay he quits his job becomes an OF manager, approaches 1000 women, secures two dates out of that and is still overall “unsuccessful”. What should he do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:11 PM
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Sure, what’s your contingency plan if they still can’t get dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:04 PM
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Sure, what’s your contingency plan if they still can’t get dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:54 PM
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In the sense of male identity crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:44 PM
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They may or may not hate men. And they may just agree with the “rhetoric” or maybe they don’t. You should ask the source but either way you seem to have already drawn your conclusions, so what affirmation are you looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:19 PM
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Delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:46 PM
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Third, men are expected to do two of the most important things in a relationship: Protect and provide. You’re also expected to be the emotional rock, despite what women say about wanting emotionally vulnerable men. Why would you go up to a woman and ask her permission for you to protect and provide for her? Those are massive advantages for her. Women should therefore be the ones proving themselves to be worthy of such advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:23 PM
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He’s probably fetish posting. The kick he is likely looking for is for women to describe their porn watching habits and sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:45 AM
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It would be wise if men stopped validation seeking/sympathy fishing from women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:47 AM
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No that was the OP of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:17 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ZlfFYcJvfU The lengths you people go through to deny is what leads to posts like this one btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:29 AM
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To be blunt it’s not even annoyance it’s just finding you pathetic. Like the second paragraph is just something to roll your eyes at if you’re wondering why you don’t get the responses you’re seeking. But look if you find this effective to fill your void, best of luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:58 PM
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Yeah it is has become pretty obvious that’s what you’re doing. And no one can stop you no matter how clearly ineffective it is. Also to your point this isn’t the point of the post but no one has to accept your idea of the “truth” either. based So for the purposes of the OP which ultimately denies male entitlement, do you have an explanation as to why we should give a fuck? Women are famously whiny and emotional compared to men. You get a taste of your own medicine when you're on this subreddit. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:43 PM
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It was this one but it’s since been deleted : https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/7lb0rFZJzR
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:59 PM
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Perhaps but would you agree that not providing the validation is “the rude thing” a lot of the time rather than any specific thing being said when you are specifically seeking out validation and sympathy? For example I’ve seen people replying to go to therapy and being told they’re being dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:55 PM
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Wrong because you perceive me as unempathetic, or wrong because you disagree that men are validation seeking/sympathy fishing from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:42 PM
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Are you reading what you’re writing? You don’t ask a question for women in a debate forum if you don’t want to solicit responses. Funnily enough though, if the responses hurt your feelings you could also just exit off the post. But this actually exemplifies my point yall would like to open up these posts and see “omggggg this is going to keep me up at night talk to me in my dms stinka butt”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:23 PM
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No you’re forgetting the key here is that a lot of you specifically want to whine TO women about women. Anyone can be whiny, you just also then have to accept it’s a bit silly to whine about the responses also (this is literally a question to women). But again I believe the intention is simply just validation seeking/sympathy fishing from women 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:15 PM
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No it’s that women aren’t dating you which is the ultimate way to “help” right. Men don’t want advice from women. And so you want to whine to women in the interim until the red pill starts working for you then I guess? Their “revelations” have been out for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:05 PM
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They don't genuinely want to help you... Yall don’t want help, you want women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:57 PM
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Well Ive just come to form the impression that a lot of you are validation seeking/sympathy fishing from women online as it’s the closest thing to an “emotional” connection to women as you can currently obtain. There’s some version of this question for women multiple times a month just on this platform. “That’s sad for you” never seemed to be an adequate response yet a lot of men are quick to say they also don’t want advice from women. So you just need an audience for your grievances and you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:15 PM
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Oh gosh this is emblematic of the problem lol what she is describing is the fact that there’s men that don’t care/who or what they’re fucking. They just need a hole to rut into. Demonstrated by a lack of willingness to actually engage with the female body, touch, pay attention to arousal etc Your response to that was nah some head is great too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:31 PM
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Sure, reread the original comments : I once see a monkey fucking a plushie toy. that's how men "like" female body. On a physical level it doesn't matter if there will be fleshlight with a bit of hips to hold on to. Not all men, but enough. They don't like to touch really, they don't like anything. A woman can play dead for all they care. As long as she will say that he was the best after those fantastic 2 minutes. This is a start.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:24 PM
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What has that got to do with liking the female body? You don’t see how…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:16 PM
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Her: “men do not have sex like they like the female body, they use it as a fleshlight” You: “nuh uh they like getting their dicks sucked too”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:10 PM
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There’s always a new ppd male post that reminds me of this: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/huF0ofBHbr
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:30 PM
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Because the “choose better” posts are just an outlet for men to continue their self absorbed whining about their dating struggles and shut down any discussion about male behaviour. The odd thing is the platforms women go on to discuss these things are not intended to have said men as an audience. They also often display a rudimentary understanding of human behaviour and delusional thinking based on cock watching men they perceive as “Chad”. You only have to watch evening news to realise the men …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:40 PM
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What makes you so convinced that a functioning society only protects women. Ofcourse rights and living conditions are fragile, yet in Afghanistan there are few wealthy male warlords with guns yet a lot of destitute men, some of who get stolen from the streets in their youth to get raped by older men. Only to be released destitute when they’re no longer sexually exciting for said men. Perhaps to get sent on dummy missions to blow themselves up for allah because there’s no other reason when you’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:53 PM
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So tweets ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:12 PM
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Is it passivity or is it just not compulsive? I have never had a compulsive drive to seek out men in any space I’m in. It’s not “I’m waiting to be found” it’s I’m not waiting at all. My relationships have never been a man has been chasing me down, it’s more “were in the same spaces and got to know eachother over time”. Fwiw I believe the women specifically those who engage in casual sex and have a compulsive drive to seek out men are often treated poorly and are demeaned. But those are the women…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 10:14 AM
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Primarily fatness, bad teeth and balding (better to just be bald imo) and then universal things like obvious lack of grooming e.g dirt under nails, overall bad hygiene, smelling bad, looking greasy, dressing bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 09:23 AM
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Completely average as is usually the case with these dudes. The catastrophizing is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:59 PM
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Now typically when you vent, you aren't expecting some coming and blame you to make you feel even worse so i really can't understand the gaslighting, they always assume it's your personality but never ever fathom that it could just be that you're unattractive? I think you’re on the wrong sub go post on am I ugly or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:56 PM
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At his mama house sent me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:03 PM
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This is genuinely fascinating so I’m going to help you, I’ve interloped my comment with your post. Sound it out or whatever tf helps. Why can’t women just tell men when they’re unattractive? Ugly people usually already know they’re ugly. Due to biology some men are just not attractive, it's harsh but there are evidence backing that up unfortunately. That being said most people are actually just average. Their preferences are very well respected, and I'm not seeing myself living with a woman that…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:37 PM
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Yea I did because a lot of you are just like to repeat the same delusional talking points. Ugly and Hot are at the ends of a spectrum, most people are average. You think a lot of women are calling the vast majority of men ugly and they’re not they’re just not attracted to them and say as much so who tf is lying to you? Who needs to tell someone who looks like fucking shrek that they’re ugly? Hello the sky is blue. BTW fail. Abysmal lack of comprehension ability, do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:20 PM
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You missed the opening line? Ugly men know they’re ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:11 PM
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No I won’t but how about you prove to me your ability to actually read and comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:06 PM
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Ugly people usually already know they’re ugly. That being said most people are actually just average. It will continue to be amusing that PEOPLE being most attracted to hot people is a daily revelation though. A lot of women are already very open about their low levels of attraction for most men and minimal and/or contextual spontaneous desire. But it’s yall that continue to be delusional and project male sexuality on to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:00 PM
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This is such a funny thread because unironically “accept sexual advances from strange men or you hate men” is why women hate cold approaches. It’s reminiscent of when men demand you explain why you don’t want to give them your number.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:59 PM
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Megan stallion lied under oath about that incident No she didn’t. But that’s the point. is currently being charged with sexual harassment by a former employee She’s being sued for a multitude of things yet your framing is inaccurate. And yet even in your framing that’s not what she gets attacked for. She gets attacked for having sex and rapping about it. and has a long history of cheating on her partners. You know this how? And who? And yet she’s the one getting praise while Klay is shamed No sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:19 PM
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Using Megan the stallion as an example was a choice, like the same lady who has been the subject to deep fake porn, blamed for being shot by a guy, had men literally jerking off to the idea of her being cheated on, keeping track of how many men she’s dated ….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:01 PM
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Imho I think what doesn’t click with this conversation broadly for men, is there’s no new “tricks” (because I don’t have a better word) in the book. When a woman has been accosted dozens and dozens of times to varying levels of okay interaction to creepy to downright scary; you’re attempting to take her from “oh not this again” to “you know what hell yeah”. So for me it’d be hell no because i already wouldn’t believe it lol. Another woman might tho, but you can never know what reception you’ll g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:29 PM
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No thats worse, they just call their phone so they have your number.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:09 PM
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Can you clarify what you feel the observable impact of female radicalization is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:41 AM
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I don’t have a line it’s not my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:58 PM
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If you’re content being single be as picky as you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:33 PM
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Scenario 1: he should’ve picked better Scenario 2: he should’ve picked better Scenario 3: the man is abusive, she should’ve picked better. Is what I’ve heard anyway. So accountable to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:58 PM
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Its not a great analogy but the way I can think to describe it is it’s like when a kid draws on the walls “mommy look” and starts crying when they’re told no don’t do that, the kids upset because mommy usually likes their lil paintings they do together on paper. It’s one thing to self improve for yourself, which exists and has always existed outside of dating advice and yet men act like they’ve discovered ground breaking information when hearing things like exercising and dressing well makes you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:54 PM
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This will be deleted and also sounds fake. If genuine he’s young enough that you’ll have to likely wait a long time for him to die before you. He’s old enough that anything remotely physically attractive about him will sharply decline before you’re 35. All these behaviours you’re tolerating will only get worse and escalate if you have kids and will be less tolerable while that happens. Get a job. Or atleast have additional education paid for before you pop out a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:55 PM
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Sarcasm. It’s a silly question. Yes men tend to outwardly cause disturbances (especially to broader society) due to their feelings. Aggression, delinquency, risky behaviours. When you combine this with grievance narratives and other social factors men are more susceptible to radicalization and making their problems everyone’s problems (e.g. mass shootings, joining terrorist organisations etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:46 AM
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No it’s displaying emotion and no they literally never do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:32 AM
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Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:25 AM
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Crying, smiling, laughter, frowning…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:24 AM
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Sure, yet to the point of the post loneliness is broadly ignored but cat lady, die alone jokes are primarily directed at women and anti-radicalization and counter terrorism measures are primarily directed at disproportionately male patterns of behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:22 AM
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No I’d say women tend to display emotion, externalized behaviours are more male.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:33 AM
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Yes very sensitive, read the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:53 AM
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Source? Google is your source but you might find the violence project a good place to start your research and work your way back through time. Examine PIRUS. This is willfully obtuse. They obviously meant the ~20 men each woman knows. So the majority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:50 AM
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Men have a tendency to externalize all their feels? Yes, to terroristic levels. It’s quite well studied. it also comes off as telling men to just be quiet and suffer in silence. Well it’s an option, whatever you find is productive. The only men that the great majority of women really care about are their fathers, brothers, or sons…and not necessarily them either. So the majority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:46 PM
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There’s centuries old literature on “surplus” men (and youth). I think it’d be more accurate to say there’s cyclical male ontological crisis’ and people are asked to pay attention because men have a tendency to externalize all their feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 08:26 PM
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This is also a largely fictitious identity claim for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:46 PM
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Yet the fact you think those are the only two options is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:20 PM
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The depth of a lot of yalls understanding about human behaviour is at the level of chick flicks from the 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:13 PM
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Great I think an environment that completely discourages accosting strangers with sexual intent would be perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:24 AM
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How old were you when you had your first kiss? 13 First relationships? 14/15 Casual sex? Nope How many relationships/partners have you had? 2 What's the longest you've gone single/sexless? 2 years Do you find sex and dating to be unimportant? Kinda Were​ your best experiences in life strictly outside of these things? No, but my worst experiences in life were while in my first relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:15 PM
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There are few “great” people. Even fewer that are actually remembered.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:11 AM
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Right perhaps but it’s one thing to say sex feels good and is fun to do but mind you your OP said : At that point all your friendships, purpose, health, money, emotional competence, and community will not have mattered. I’m just saying there’s a difference between “ah I want to nut” and an existential crisis because your lizard brain is telling you “you won’t carry on your genes” because you haven’t ejaculated. Most of yall don’t care about that. So I’m not seeing where what the OP is saying sou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:17 AM
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So masturbation should easily be able to trick lizard brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:00 AM
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I don’t think it was the OP but what he said could be boiled down to “what was she wearing” lmao. He said not verbatim that if women post pictures on social media or specifically “wear tight pants to the bank or supermarket” then they are asking to be objectified.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:49 PM
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There was a Muslim woman who posted in a niqab and abaya with her face cropped out on X just giving an update on her pregnancy. She received an onslaught of abuse from men about how she was demonstrating to the world she’s getting fucked. And other lewd comments. One day you’ll get it into your thick skulls that male lust has no boundaries and how a woman decides to dress makes no difference to whether a man wants to give unwanted sexual attention. This is something women learn from childhood. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:04 PM
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These arguments are incredibly autistic it’s either that you just truly don’t understand appropriate social behaviour or you understand it and don’t care. I think that’s what you need to establish before you try to argue the nuances of what is or isn’t objectification. A frequent complaint from men is they can go their whole lives without even a compliment from strangers; so it seems pretty clear to me it’s not difficult for women in general anyway to not externalise their inner sexual thoughts …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:07 PM
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No, I don’t find them attractive either they just exist. As do most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:55 AM
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But it still doesn’t make sense. If that was the case men would be invested in getting women pregnant, they’re not. They’re generally quite adverse to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:00 PM
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No it’s not what you do, it’s what YOU do. There’s an instance that men are incredibly pathetic on here that I’ve asked before if it would offend the actual average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:53 PM
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So basically “men are very horny and women having to consent makes it difficult”. Yeah we’ve heard. By all means attach your self worth to women if you think that’s the healthy thing to do. It blows my mind that men feel so insistent on this platform about their existence centering on women looking at you but honestly have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:42 PM
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Interesting but I mean I just don’t buy it because it just sounds like an elaborate way to describe being horny. To the extent you are suggesting the biological “components” that lead to one’s libido are demonstrating a biological imperative I can kind of agree. But If it was truly and solely a lizard brain imperative to impregnate and spread genes then men have already overcome this largely by wanting sex and lots of it without reproduction. Like you not only have to ejaculate but it has to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:21 PM
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That’s not true, the explanation IS “want sex”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:53 PM
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Out of curiosity, I never understand this claim which I predominantly see coming from men. I understand wanting a family. But the idea of “passing on your genes” mattering so your life wouldn’t have been meaningless, not to get philosophical but matters to who? You’ll be forgotten anyway, most people are?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:38 PM
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Btw the only reason I’m saying it seems like a lost cause is that the men who catastrophize in the manner you’re describing seem to genuinely believe their position is the logical one. Perspective is a helluva thing. The things I’ve read on this platform alone in particular I often think of a woman verbatim repeated it she’d be getting bpd allegations. I think perhaps as a start it’s just about exposure to well adjusted men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:07 PM
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Although I agree; it may be a lost cause. You’d think the lack of women sharing a reciprocal viewpoint on life would be enough to change, just on principle but no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:25 PM
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Isn’t it obvious, the birds are scared of female hypergamy. They sense it. They also are trying to solve the male loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:30 AM
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You’re talking to a stranger on the internet. I think you’re projecting how you’d feel about people making claims about your own sexuality. Stop projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:04 AM
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Sure it’s a strong identity claim for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:58 AM
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No I’m not confused about my sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:36 AM
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People can call you whatever they choose to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:28 AM
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I can call myself whatever I choose to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:19 PM
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Again im not attached to heterosexuality, “hehe youre gay” only tends to work on men and especially between men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:17 PM
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I don’t have to say anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:12 PM
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Also to add that I’ve experienced on this platform men interpret women’s agreement to this type of suggestion as spitefulness or even snark. I almost don’t know if it’s because it feels like rejection. It’s also that desperation tends to be an ick for women (and men too) and that’s what they display when they say these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:54 PM
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How is one side getting more validation for standards and bad experiences. When women’s standards are questioned by men everyday (including by yourself) and specifically after bad experiences where the favorite line of questioning is why didn’t you choose better. I mean look at you AGAIN on this very post: chad is more of a danger than incels are. But women aren't going to acknowledge that or change anything about i because he's chad. and they wont stop fucking them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:19 PM
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Yes I can, I don’t need to specify what YOU know you said. The fact is you question selection patterns and standards right, in response to bad experiences? And you think you’re right, and you’re asking me why you questioning “selection patterns” is wrong? When the crux of your post is women get validated for their choices and bad experiences and men don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:22 PM
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Yes I can, I don’t need to specify what YOU know you said. The fact is you question selection patterns and standards right, in response to bad experiences? And you think you’re right, and you’re asking me why you questioning “selection patterns” is wrong? When the crux of your post is women get validated for their choices and bad experiences and men don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:04 PM
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Do you validate women’s bad experiences or do you seek to question their selection/standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:51 AM
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Nope I recall “selection patterns” and such that should be questioned🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:40 AM
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Really ? I thought it was choose better and her standards are questionable because “unselected men”wouldn’t have done that in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:19 AM
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I have no attachment to being heterosexual so not sure what this comment is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:25 AM
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to a feeling of waiting for a ad to finish. Just had to say not seen it put this way before but so accurate lol going to a bar can be like trying to watch a short YouTube video with 10 non skippable ads.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:53 AM
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I think all these posts and the responses you usually get about this similar topic get lost in translation to yall because of how you interpret attraction vs arousal. I certainly prefer looking at women yet women do not arouse me nor do I have sexual attraction (thoughts about having sex with women( I mean it hasn’t happened yet anyway) but most men don’t arouse me either. I can find any person objectively attractive and not be sexually attracted to or aroused by them. So can most people. To me …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:35 PM
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The question is how to vet a man’s character and your response is about what men want and how to be what men want. Which unironically serves as an example of characteristics to vet for, for future readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:49 PM
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Fair but it’s one thing to say I don’t like any generalizations and feel this doesn’t apply to me. And in that case let it not apply. And another to dismiss that women are talking about men when they’re talking about men and their behaviour by saying no this group are better you’re just not picking them which is another generalization just one that fits a desired narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:37 AM
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You keep listing every type of bad male behavior like it’s all one thing. catcalling, creeps, abuse, relationships… and then wrapping it into “men.” that’s exactly the generalization I’ve been pointing at. Bruh. No it’s not all one type of behaviour. I’m telling you it doesn’t matter what the behaviour is. Regardless women are talking about men, when they are talking about men. You can choose to distance yourself from any “group” that you like which is what I initially suggested but women are st…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:41 AM
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What’s confusing to you. Whether it’s dating dynamics or any male behaviour there will always be a fucking man not wanting to talk about those behaviours. However many groups of men you think there are and which ones you want to claim on any given day does not change the fact you’re complaining about women talking about their experiences with men, period. It doesn’t matter what you think unselected men are contributing to, if those same unselected men are the ones catcalling, dropping dick picks…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:29 AM
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No I genuinely advise you to reread it and reflect on your lack of comprehension which led to you restating everything I already said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:10 AM
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Or maybe I just think he should’ve picked better .. hmm..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:08 AM
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Another demonstration of lack of comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:03 AM
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Yeah sure women can do that too. It wouldn’t quiet down the “I’m so lonely I’m going to either drop out of society or throw myself off a bridge” though would it? It would make it worse no? Repeal the 19th would get even louder no? Revenge fantasy’s would be flying no? The dangers of too many single men isn’t that the historical narrative 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:51 AM
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Yeah it was intended to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:17 AM
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I disagree that you have undeniable evidence. But regardless yeah sure you shouldn’t judge all men from experience, right and women don’t. If women did I promise you the internet whining from men would get even WORSE. But yet Imagine that you don’t judge men based on prior experiences or experiences of other women, you experience some form of victimization and the response you’ll likely receive if you attempt to speak about it is to choose better. The basement dweller would never have done that.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:16 AM
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So you agree the attempt is to minimize the behaviour? You can’t math your way out of people’s own experiences though feel free to attempt to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:00 AM
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No, you’re just not comprehending. It doesn’t matter HOW women talk about men because yall will minimize it anyway BECAUSE they are talking about men. “What was she wearing” was and still is sanctioned by the legal system. You do it for criminal behaviour even when it’s from a man she doesn’t know. Of course you would do it for dating; this idea that somehow there’s just so many nice innocent good boys sitting at home unpicked is just the angle yall go for to make yourselves feel better. It’s in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:58 AM
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Obviously things like assault, stalking, drugging etc are just straight up wrong. nobody is defending that or “minimizing” it. those are criminals, not normal dating dynamics. Yes they do. And those “criminals” you’re talking about are people’s dads, brothers, sons, even husbands. As an example someone posted a police investigation of a man who was arrested for child pornography, the wife turned him in. Instead of focusing on the matter at hand, people were asking how she didn’t know. That’s the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:39 AM
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Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:28 AM
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Meh, women could be talking about unsolicited dick pick senders, drink druggers, public transport molestors, cat callers, stalkers, street harassers you name it and yall still find ways to minimize the behaviour or make it women’s fault. So yeah they’re talking about MEN. Also being unselected is not a virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:06 AM
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Don’t get me wrong you’re one of many men who says similar things and lol. But as a point of correction no the fact that “low” crime rates are “appreciated” is actually the issue when we see and experience the “lack of self restraint” that goes un convicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 08:00 PM
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There is no gender war.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:38 PM
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Yes I’m specifically questioning what the purpose of the correctly identified whining is. Can you also be brave and answer the question ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:52 PM
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No I consider whining to be whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:46 PM
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What is the purpose of incessantly whining to women about loneliness, sexlessness and rejection, if not that you want women to do something about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:40 PM
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Men’s problems should be filtered through a rape lens when they insist women’s autonomy is the cause of their dating issues. Don’t do that and you won’t be asked why you think like rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:30 PM
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Sure, the quantity of food they appear to require; I often stare at my bf in disbelief…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:19 PM
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“Let”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:15 PM
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Seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:49 PM
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if she doesn't dab your taint like perfume This is a brand new sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:29 PM
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Dwarfism or a minor? Neither
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:58 PM
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I’m 5’2 the average 13 year old boy is probably taller than me, so I can’t say it happens often.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:54 PM
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Right and most of you don’t care either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:09 PM
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Then you’d need to have a unified message and issue. The fact is you don’t so you can’t. Men catastrophizing online about matches and chad and sexlessness is one terrible for pr and two not going to get any consistent level of care because no “issue” does. So yeah go cry to your mom sounds more effective at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:03 PM
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Some might some might not. There’s a damn near weekly question asking women to care, I do wonder why you don’t just go collect the care from people that know you in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:47 PM
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I’m not confusing anything. Unless you are polyamorous or just looking for people to fuck, dating does not work this way and I already stated men tend to have an any woman will do mentality. That doesn’t say anything about liking someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:46 PM
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It doesn’t make sense? If a woman went through your whole friend group and landed on you last, how enthused would you be at the proposition?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:09 PM
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No you don’t LIKE more than one woman. It’s that “woman” is the criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:53 PM
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No it’s pure mockery of thinking hitting on every woman around you is ever what people were ever suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:46 PM
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Dear god I honestly can’t believe life confuses you people so much. Spamming dick to everyone you know is obviously going to look desperate. The idea of having a wider circle of people you can connect with, means you increase your chances of connecting with individual people you actually like? But ofcourse the common male “any woman will do” approach to life may be incompatible with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:23 PM
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Not cheating because you can’t doesn’t say much about whether you want to or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:03 PM
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The men are wonderful effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:54 AM
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They say it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:26 PM
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In summary, dating appears harder in some ways not insurmountably though. No I don’t believe “sexual privilege” is a thing. I think most dudes complaining actually just wish they could have access to endless casual sex and no I don’t care how hard it is to have sex, nor can anyone explain why it shouldn’t be. I also don’t observe average men struggling to date in my real life but im from a big city so it could be that and so I think a lot of dudes whining are below average. Yes we know how many …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:25 PM
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I actually think it must make life more entertaining to be this delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:15 AM
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Right right … so they gained brain cells at that point and then what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:47 AM
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So at what point do you believe these brainless men developed foresight to know “deep down” they’re being used, concoct a “revenge” plot and enact it socially ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:39 AM
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Fantastic so you’re living in a revenge based social order of men’s creation correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:32 AM
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The "subjugation" is a result of men knowing deep down that women use them and no one likes being used, even if it gives their life meaning. And so the solution to prevent themselves from being “used” was to restrict women’s economic participation ? And you say this logic is your mother’s doing, can you bring her to the podium please?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:23 AM
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So basically men are too incompetent to form independent thoughts for the entirety of their lives or participate in raising their children and it’s all because of their mommies?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:06 AM
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I think it’s something a man would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:18 AM
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We know of men’s affinity for child brides around the world in 2026.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:07 AM
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Right so you mean 12,13,14 and likely younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:00 AM
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Obvious desperation to the point it comes off very aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:02 PM
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No that’s just your interpretation and it’s understandable when your idea of help=sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:46 PM
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No women are also only open to the idea sexual acts with people they’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:59 PM
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No your question is based on a willingness to “help”. You have an aversion clearly and your own willingness would be based on IF you would find the asking person attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:40 PM
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So you’ve answered your own fucking question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:33 PM
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So would you eat her pussy or not? You don’t view that as helping ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:27 PM
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Explain the difference in what you’re asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:20 PM
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Would you lick an elderly neighbours pussy when asked if she told you she misses the experience from her youth and she’s just been so lonely since her husband died?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:12 PM
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I’d love to see the reaction of those men if that same virgin woman rejected their proposition to fuck her. Is it biological or societal? I think it’s whatever category you’d place common sense in. What do you gain from pity fucking men you don’t want to fuck? If it’s such an altruistic thing to do envision a make a wish type foundation for these dudes with the ask to come touch the dicks of these lonely men open Monday to Friday 24/7 and see much buy in it would get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:55 AM
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Irrelevant to what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:17 AM
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This veered slightly off topic with a lot of conflation which would require breaking that down and it’s not what I was curious about as your original comment was not about sexual orientation. So if there is not a baseline, what is it that you’re expecting to see and based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:16 AM
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I’m sure this made sense to you which is cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:55 AM
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Your question is disingenuous when you’re really just referring to the authority women have over themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:46 AM
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Sorry to clarify I’m asking specifically what is the baseline, how horny do you think people are/should be and how you came to that conclusion ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:27 AM
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How have you determined what a baseline libido is/should be?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:18 AM
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I often wonder if men who don’t frequent this sub would get offended at how pathetically male posters like to depict men as a group. It’s amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:48 PM
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Same in a relationship, but this is the only reason this sub fascinates me lol the takes are…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:36 PM
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I think it’s really simply that you can’t operate on the assumption that a person will be interested especially if they haven’t indicated they are in anyway. I’m not sure the reason for lack of interest is truly important and there often isn’t one but it actually speaks to why approaches by men become so uncomfortable so quickly. You’ll have men seeking justification for your rejection as if you were the one that summoned them over. It’s the same old sales analogy you go to the mall and someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:33 PM
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Yes I’d agree “duty sex” can be tantamount to rape hence marital rape laws. But no I’m not solely talking about rape, I’m talking about men’s approach to sex. No it’s not solely about options it’s about standards and expectations. This is a forum where there has been frequent posting about how lying to gain access to sex is not coercive. The mythical chad posting isn’t really about wanting to improve to be “Chad” for the sake of having more options, it’s men wanting to emulate behaviours which t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:14 PM
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No many men will continue to have sex with a woman who tells them they don’t want it and will be satisfied so long as they get their nut in. Yes most women don’t have casual sex and men resent it. Because they’re entitled. Yes it should be a two way street but it’s not, I don’t see how that could be any clearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:41 PM
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Shared activity and duty sex feels quite oxymoronic to me because I question the psyche required to proceed to having sex with someone that does not want to have sex. Granted not everyone’s experience with it is of the extreme but it does speak to the overall point of entitlement. I believe in setting boundaries so there isn’t such an imbalance to account for e.g. in not having “duty sex” you will not be having sex when you don’t want it and will not like it. It applies to many things, I don’t t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:19 PM
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To be clear I don’t believe this entitlement ends at sex and was not the point of my initial comment. As it relates to sex though, sexual satisfaction is often objectively not equal whether it remains mutually beneficial is down to the individuals. For women this would be in consideration of the orgasm gap especially in casual sexual encounters, higher STI risk, higher rates of sexual victimization, higher reproductive risk and burden. It’s a cost benefit analysis I guess and down for the woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:29 AM
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20 inches and thick but only if attached to a 7’2 billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:48 AM
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Whether a desire is “natural” or not is also not mutually exclusive with entitlement I.e. one can be horny and also feel entitled to sex. I’d also argue you or rather men broadly can’t be claiming especially in the context of this post to seek mutually beneficial relationships, if you fundamentally resent the idea that women don’t share your ideals on what is beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:37 AM
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For clarity I think it’s ironic that the OP posits that women have a parasitic approach to dating, in an environment where men are claiming access to women is as stated above. This isn’t even new it’s historic we’ve all heard of the “dangers” of having hoards of sexless men, and men also state this in various revenge fantasy storytelling of what will happen if dating isn’t “fixed” for them while simultaneously claiming any standard or expectation a woman has is unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:02 AM
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I don’t think you need to infer that I’m painting it as toxic and entitlement within the context of the original post I stated it quite plainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:48 AM
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Well this was interesting philosophically, but I’d disagree this is a “spiritual” default for human beings and can therefore be overcome. The rest in a round about way is the typical nature argument and I guess an appeal to our biological imperative. I guess you’d then be debating how far we actually transcend any theorized primal instincts as it relates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:46 AM
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It’s not mutually exclusive you can want something and also believe you’re entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:37 AM
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Whether it’s fair or not seems like a pointless question but if you fail earthside the Qur’an has some fairytales about this I hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:13 AM
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Or it means they parasitically believe they are entitled to women and resent any level of effort they have to put in. Perspective, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:35 AM
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When you consider that you have droves of men claiming that access to women and validation from women is the source of their will to live and without it they want to drop out of society and or kill themselves; it makes the parasite allegations kind of hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:25 AM
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No I don’t. My answer would likely change when I’m in my 30s, 40s and 50s etc but again most older men just look like uncs there’s not many David beckhams who likely has had a hair transplant Botox, fillers etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:50 PM
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There are some men that age well. But I think a lot of men are either ignorant or just down right delusional about how terribly they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:35 PM
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Who is they ? And what actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:02 PM
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Why do you want women to care ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:55 PM
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I just came back to this post because my first instinct was this was a typical PPD male diatribe leading to women’s maternal instincts should lead them to pity fuck undesirable men. Gender dysphoria seems more fitting though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:12 PM
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No it’s warped. You’ve even shifted from using maternal instinct to protective drive, no use of the word warmth either. Toddlers are on a suicide mission most days, I can protect a toddler without feeling warmth towards them. People will protect strangers in times of need without them being a baby or disabled. The other day a lady tripped on the subway I promise you I didn’t want to smoosh her cheeks, and call her stinka butt when I helped her up and picked up her things. People will help the Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:40 PM
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Most women won’t even notice this is how you feel or notice you at all they’re living their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:01 PM
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There’s no point to dodge you’ve got a warped understanding of what maternal instinct even is. No people don’t always feel a “warmth” towards a strange child, a misbehaving child in a busy restaurant triggers nothing but glares towards its parents. People also don’t go around wanting or trying to hug other people’s kids either. It’s also interesting you keep using “masculine man” as if there’s a drive to hug strange women either, nor would they a plump man with Down syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 02:42 PM
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No why tf would anyone want to hug a stranger in the streets be so serious. Affection also doesn’t require “maternal instinct”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 02:21 PM
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It’s a false dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:42 AM
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I wouldn’t ask my dad to tell me if the sky was blue. But apart from that I value my bf’s opinion. I seek advice when needed from anyone whose opinion I value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:20 AM
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Then the interaction will be forgotten as I go about my day that’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:48 PM
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Depends how quickly he goes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:46 PM
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No you’re wrong there was just such raw animalistic attraction going on that women were birthing to death /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:55 AM
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Win for men they don’t want to be “beta providers”. No. Women legitimately liked men and were attracted to men. Women today are so masculinized that they don't even find men attractive. Any supporting evidence ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:45 AM
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Spicy. Why not a post ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:39 AM
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What shelters and what women are “deeply” against them? Though this feels like a non-sequitur. Is this an answer to how men demonstrate universal care for poor people as opposed to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:15 AM
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Uh huh. So if we take an example from your post “men care about poor people” “women care about poor women”. In your world view how do men demonstrate this care for poor people as opposed to women only focusing on women i.e. what patterns have you observed socially, politically etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:32 PM
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And how did you come to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:25 PM
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For clarity are you acknowledging men don’t care enough about men’s issues and you just think it’s not a problem ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:09 PM
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Perhaps. But women don’t need true crime stats to start piecing their own life experiences together and drawing conclusions especially in conjunction with talking to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:52 PM
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Sure. Similarly there seems to be widespread belief amongst men that feminist indoctrination (and also true crime documentaries?) are to blame for women not liking men. Rather than just interacting with men. Also find that funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:38 PM
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I don’t know, it lands somewhere between repulsive and uncanny valley. Y’all heads be looking too small for your body so it looks like you’re wearing a costume or like your head was attached to your body after the fact or some shit. All power to you though, other people like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 02:08 AM
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This is not normal. Most men, even the ones who aren’t part of the communities you listed would never be motivated to message as many women as I do even if their likelihood of someone accepting sex is the same as mine. That’s what I mean when I say my situation is unique, not my position but my motivation. If you accept it’s not normal then would you place blame on the men who are doing this (The many that are) including yourself ? Like if you are on a dating app and liking every profile you see…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:48 PM
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No you have comprehension issues I fear and are too sensitive to be in a debate sub. I asked are you ALL mentally ill BECAUSE you suggested you only do what you because of your mental health issues. Plenty of men do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 02:39 PM
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No man your situation is not unique. There are entire incel forums dedicated to it. There’s an entire “manoshpere” dedicated to it. There are men selling entire courses on picking up women. So other men definitely do state how obsessed they are. It’s not women telling men their self worth comes from the amount of women they can fuck. Are you all mentally ill? I wouldn’t necessarily disagree but I don’t think that’s likely. You feel you have to spam “pitch” your dick to hundreds or thousands of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 02:22 PM
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Women aren’t sentient participation trophies for undesirable men… I’ve asked numerous times what is there to gain for women by catering to their desires and there’s never a coherent response.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:27 AM
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Hmm interesting. Because when I read this all I get is the typical resentment of the effort you have to put in to access sex that you need to satiate your obsession with women (yes it’s not healthy and it’s not unique making the title of your op a bit redundant). Women who likely don’t share that obsession with men. So I don’t set you off again I mean that in a broader sense. Now imagine how many other men are out there proclaiming they also share the same obsession with gaining access to women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:37 PM
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Whether you fit in or not isn’t really my concern? I asked a question about whether complaining(and or blaming )that women are NOT interacting with you is futile, you posed it in your OP as how women ARE and that is clearly not the biggest source of internet whining. And for clarification you’ve gone on the generic elaborate shpiel about how women aren’t attracted to most men and don’t initiate dating with most men. Yet you claim you have women begging for you cock in your screenshots. You’re bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:52 PM
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I was actually talking generally but you got triggered. But do tell us about all the women allegedly begging for your cock and how that aligns with being blackpilled and 5’4 I’m intrigued now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:11 PM
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women are at fault and I think we need to take a look and correct how women specifically are interacting with men. The biggest whiners are those that complain women are specifically not interacting with them. Sure you can blame women for not interacting with you but it seems pretty futile no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:54 PM
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I dont know either. If the bills are paid I can’t conceptualize this. But what I can think of is maybe yall were just seeing too much of eachother. Like especially when one of them was a SAHM “You’re just always here” type thing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:20 PM
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What is an alpha career?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:02 PM
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Which version of sports ball is this referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:34 AM
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On Saturday my bf and I argued for a good 20 minutes about reorganizing the kitchen cabinets. Ofc it ended in laughter because why be so passionate about where to put your spices. I say that to say it only gets worse depending on your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:31 AM
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None of those things actually, why are you trying to silence me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 04:18 PM
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No need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 04:14 PM
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Easy inference to make; you say you can’t say women are cowardly because people call you a misogynist. People are allowed to call you a misogynist just as you’re allowed to call women cowards. No one is being silenced in such an interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:11 PM
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You probably take people disagreeing with you as silencing you because you don’t like that they’re disagreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:56 PM
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Nope I’m not claiming to be silenced.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:11 PM
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You only need to look at people’s visceral hatred for single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:47 PM
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You probably just dislike that people disagree with you and can state as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:17 PM
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I don’t know what country you’re from but if you’re in USA people are big af how delusional would you be to say majority of fat women are single lol fat couples every fucking where.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:52 PM
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From the looks of it fat men find fat women to date which means those fat women also like fat men so what’s the problem ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:49 PM
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I don’t know I see a lot of fat fuck couples everywhere so I think they find eachother just fine if that’s what you’re looking to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:44 PM
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You know the only reason I’m even replying to you is because you perfectly encapsulate male solipsism that’s demonstrated on this sub and its entertainment value “empathy” and “potential victim” in the same sentence. Because you are admitting yall are inherently violent. But if a woman says so it’s a problem. Yet you guys are always too pussy to even state it with your chest, what are you talking about the big bad incel is going to come and rape me/other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 05:33 AM
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I can imagine because your mind is so preoccupied with all the dicks going dry and unwanted you may find it hard to follow a couple of comments. I don’t. But I certainly will be taking a Sunday morning walk in the morning :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 05:19 AM
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No one’s jumping off bridges over incels. As you laid out so passionately it’s quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 05:08 AM
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So much power the realistic outcome is jumping off a bridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 05:04 AM
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You ranting about incels is more comedic than anything else not sure what about my comments has conveyed to you I particularly care. Put up or shut up. Advocate for pussy welfare programs and see how much of society will buy in or donate to the damn unfuckables. As for the, One of you? Um. I get far more sex than you lmao. Happy to swap and compare instagrams to prove who's more popular. My guy you’re on an anonymous internet forum, no one gives a shit how much sex you claim to have or not have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 05:01 AM
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“No one wants to suck my dick” isn’t something most people care about until one of you wants to do a mass shooting about it. Again it’s highly self absorbed. If you’re so wealthy set up a charity so whoever you’re talking about can pay to have someone tolerate them for 2 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:46 AM
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Do I even have to explain pr0n? Like think about why step-sister/mom/etc. is so popular, it’s because these fantasies are more relatable to lonely men, lonely men don't have female friends or dates in their life. Whats more relatable to them? Some socially awkward guy that gets caught jerking off by their (step) female family member. NOT the guy actually going on a date and getting lucky at the end of the night. And it’s pushed by the industry, so much so that it’s a stereotype of the industry n…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:38 AM
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And the mass sexual violence against “enemy” women and children wherever troops land.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:13 PM
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It’s so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:13 PM
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Great post. And it’s wild it’s such an identity claim for them. You’ll have the most useless of men larping as legionaries under Julius Caesar or Julius Caesar himself. It’s a claim of physical strength and prowess and yet if it was me I’d personally take offence to it like the world is ultimately saying “eat this artillery in a trench because we don’t need that many of you”. You can see it in Ukraine. Go be some slop in a meat grinder basically. Meanwhile in any cumulative period let’s say 10 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:42 PM
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People advocate for the things they identify as actual issues and care about. I’d assume that’s common sense. If you find access to sex on the same level as “the majority of the population” “complaining” about wealth inequality then you can advocate for pussy welfare programs and see who you can get on board.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:46 AM
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Won’t be the first porn brained take I’ve seen on this sub won’t be the last. Life sounds hard for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:44 PM
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What’s gay about rotating a sex robot?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:29 PM
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And if they’re too expensive you can pool together funds with the bros and share it each one gets a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:27 PM
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Sure let’s go with that. Your issue with that would be that you’re not included not that it’s happening. It’s cringe you’re lying that you’d find sexual access cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:18 PM
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Ah yes the sexual servitude that is blamed for the fake male loneliness epidemic? Realistically you want sexual servitude hence your comments about “pickiness” and choices it’s actually freedom from sexual servitude that you have a problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:15 PM
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Ah well even if that was true; that’s likely not you and most men so find greener pastures to concern yourself with. It’s so funny to see the unravelling of your responses to comments your post has been up 3 hours and it took you that long to get to “wahhh CHAD COCK” so kudos.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:07 PM
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No but cohabiting is going up every year as is delaying children and overall “settling down”. It does have a cumulative effect that more people are single for longer. But you don’t care about these factors demonstrated by the rest of the whiny and self absorbed I’m talking about. When men sit and home and think the world revolves around their cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:58 PM
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They may not; there isn’t someone out there for everybody but most people end up partnering up. But if you can’t connect how economic stressors impact socialization respectfully I don’t care to help with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:45 PM
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Maybe or maybe not they may just be fuck ugly. But if fundamentally the socioeconomic environment is not conducive to healthy human interaction then it makes sense where critique of capitalism is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:28 PM
2

They don’t exist in a vacuum. They often sound self absorbed and whiny too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:24 PM
3

Argument has its merits but can be vague. But it is an accurate response to men who can’t afford shit, can’t afford to live alone, maintain a social life, complain there’s no third spaces blah blah blah and then the conclusion they come to is all my life’s problems boil down to the fact no one will fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:15 PM
5

Frankly I just get the impression it’s greatly overestimated because of social media discourse how much time women are spending thinking about whether men they don’t know are lonely or not. There’s clearly a very vocal demographic of men who ponder “what are women doing as opposed to being with me” and I don’t think women should bother answering the question (to your question).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:55 AM
1

You said everyone hates you and your fellow “sausage fest” in AI. Like do you chant “I am Sam Altman” or whoever tf in the mirror before you go clock in. Like how do you come to the conclusion you’re going against the grain if it factually is a bunch of dudes 9-5ing on a desk in other peoples building like most people?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:49 PM
13

“Save yourself tomorrows discomfort by joining this new outlet for men’s desire today” is just not a winning pitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:33 PM
8

You acknowledge the space already exists in dating apps there’s also events for singles etc the women that want to be on there already are, so what’s even the suggestion here?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:32 PM
6

You’re a fucking worker bee who has spare time for Reddit like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:01 PM
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So all I’m hearing is no women but maybe your sister value your opinion and look for you to take them seriously? And you believe that would be because they’re feminists and like yes men. I get that you posed this on a macro level but another question you seem to see yourself as somewhat of a contrarian, you said in another comment you’re from India, so an Indian computer science graduate. We import tens of thousands of those a year over here, if I narrowed it down to the ones who regurgitate the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:59 PM
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I can’t take the lonewolf free thinker great mind larp seriously to address anything you said. But question how many women in your life do you think actually value your opinion and whether or not YOU take them seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:02 PM
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Either way your claim is in effect that men’s value comes from women or rather the women they have access to, so how is your view any less pathetic ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:24 PM
2

I couldn’t tell you I’ve been in 2 LTR’s and dated a few guys in between and have rejected many others. The guys I dated didn’t go any further due to incompatibility though so it’s just not a relevant question to me. They were attractive imo. I don’t think I’m specific but I know what I don’t like when I see it like jacked up teeth for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:48 AM
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It would really depend on the face because I think it’s the largest variable in men bar height. Hair, eyes, smile usually is what I notice first. I love my bfs face and I would if he was shorter, skinnier or his legs didn’t work, fatter is debatable because I just find that really unattractive but you can always lose weight I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:29 AM
2

Yes because you positioned it as continuing to want to have sex with the person you’re currently with in consideration of a drastic change to their physicality. Not likely. The rest is just the same old what percentage of men are you attracted to that gets asked often. Not many inclusive of looks and personality. Hence if his face stayed the same, the first part of my last reply applies. Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:05 AM
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Maybe if his face stays the same and applying your hypothetical to real life; male bodies aren’t that “varied” to me on average thinking about my geographic location to imagine something so drastic. If he lost weight it wouldn’t bother me, if he got fat I’d tell him to fix that, if he became disabled I’d stay but you’re talking about a possible gender swap or other drastic physical change and I’m saying he could factually get breast implants and a neovagina tomorrow that objectively looked good …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:46 AM
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Well we’re in an era where a hypothetical isn’t really needed tbh If my bf decided to transition to a nb or transwoman hormones and head to toe surgeries and all, I wouldn’t stick around for that so I’m going to answer no on the same principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:22 AM
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I’m absolutely not into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:06 PM
20

Are you posting this from Afghanistan? Location would be a useful indicator on whether or not to bother engaging with a post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:29 PM
11

Wtf is a scatophiliac I don’t even want to google it. Find someone into kink. No amount of asking would make me even think to do certain things, therefore if I was with someone who was trying to pressure me into it we would just be incompatible and that’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:59 PM
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You have to take time out of your day to convince a man you’re not interested so he will go away. The fact it takes convincing is crazy. Reactions ofc vary so you have to still be oh so nice and gentle about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:30 PM
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I don’t want any men approaching me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:12 PM
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Good but there’s still work to do some men haven’t stopped. Spread the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:47 AM
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Could be, could not be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:52 PM
3

Anyone who participates in incel subculture virgin or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:47 PM
1

Or I just disagree with you, see how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:16 PM
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There are a lot of miserable circumstances. Not having sex is probably one of the least miserable. This is even a privileged take. Also most people date and have sex, you’ve never been freer to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:12 PM
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Or you just can’t accept that people don’t share your perspective of “this kind of suffering” or that it’s even a “consequence” and not just the way things should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:57 PM
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Well I just went on the sub you mentioned and it looks like people post about a wide variety of topics. If it was being contaminated by whiny incels it makes sense but if it was one or two infrequently you could probably just ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:33 PM
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I’ve always had the same male friends. My closest male friend is gay though. I don’t view the friendships differently than all of my female friends/acquaintances. But my closest/best friends are women and nah I doubt I would ever be that close to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:52 PM
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Not attracted to would probably be a better way of saying it rather than unattractive because that more so suggests ugly. But it’s pretty neutral if there was a pile of bricks (or some other inanimate object) in front of me I’d notice the pile of bricks walk around them and move on with my day. The best way I can think to describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:53 PM
3

No to the first q, maybe to the second q.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 03:42 PM
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This is a really stupid question. You don’t know how grief will manifest till it hits you. Fact of the matter is life goes on even if you can’t move on. Most people especially if they have kids will have to attempt to navigate their grief in a way that facilitates that. When my grandma died I would get triggered by songs, smells, birds, fabrics, patterns she’d like etc until one day I had to flip a switch to find those things comforting instead. So I’d probably be much like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:26 PM
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What serious weight, these men were mocked because they are so pathetic it’s funny. It became a viral trend of women posting their graduation pics with the caption “look at the degree on that chick” which further angered the men. And this is becoming a pattern not isolated extremism so it contradicts the title of the post. And for the rest to care about what the opposite sex is attracted to you may have to give a shit about attracting them. If you don’t then no you shouldn’t concern yourself wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:28 PM
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Right so incredibly arrogant that the mens main point of contention is that they think her eggs are going to waste and that she should be more concerned with what men are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 06:10 PM
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Men have frequently gone on tirades when women post their accomplishments online. It’s very amusing actually. https://thetab.com/2025/11/21/eggs-arent-getting-younger-oxford-grads-brutal-clapback-to-vile-sexist-messages-over-phd
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:09 PM
6

“Still treat him as a masculine man” meaning what exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:29 PM
1

Wouldn’t be offended unless the person was being offensive. It’s usually just “how can I make this interaction end faster” in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:52 PM
3

The leftovers don’t sound too great either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:43 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:42 AM
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Oh wow sounds like men are terrible “protectors” all around then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:11 PM
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They don’t want empathy they want someone to date them. Since we can’t force anyone to want them, you’ll soon realize positive affirmations are a waste of time if you can’t fix that and they respond angrily. Aside from that in the online sphere they are just so fucking whiny it comes off too pathetic and bitter to evoke anything but perhaps annoyance. In real life no one gives a fuck about any individuals dating life unless you know them. And even then…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:02 AM
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Have all the insecurities you want, finding someone willing to deal with them is another question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:14 PM
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The thing to do is leave. It’s easier to raise your kids alone than be a married single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:51 AM
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No you mean subjectively based on how she may or may not objectively be. The point is irrelevant though because ultimately we agree women are typically the default parent. This view on only conditionally wanting to raise your children is why there’s child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:45 AM
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Yes because women typically ARE the default parent right? Hence your argument that your love for children should be predicated on how you feel about the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:35 AM
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Yes because women typically ARE the default parent right? Hence your argument that your love for children should be predicated on how you feel about the mother. So yeah buddy we already know this very well I agree being outright with it is better for everyone. I already roll my eyes at most “she’s keeping me from seeing my child” claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:33 AM
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Again you hilariously think you’ve had a groundbreaking revelation. Men already abandon their kids every day and also don’t do enough because they view women as the default parent. This is often due to that woman not wanting them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:19 AM
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Men already act like this. It’s the typical deadbeat dad, it’s cute you thought you had an original thought though. Maybe you can expand on this idea and make your fellow men understand by this admission that you view women as the default parent and they’ll finally stop complaining about outcomes in family court.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:10 AM
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Yeah especially so on a date I went on where I knew i wouldn’t even be replying to him again when I got home.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:35 PM
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Oh please trophy wife is a term for a reason. Men often seek access to women for validation from other men. To say otherwise would be beyond delusional and yes it applies to their wives and girlfriends. If my friend was with an ugly fat smelly man yes I would interrogate what tf she’s doing. If she has a reason, then there’s no reason I’d be dictating what a grown woman should be doing. “Do better” otherwise applies to treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:30 PM
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I mean calling it demand imbalance is generous if we’re to take your post seriously. If no one is buying what you’re selling that sounds more like bankruptcy not inflation induced. We’d need some macroeconomic theory on cock to look at this holistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:14 AM
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Dudes funny af, we also have a similar sense of humor and I like how I can peep some shit and know he has too before I even lock eyes with him across a room (I hate being with him in serious situations sometimes because of this because now’s not the time for jokes), he’s smart, his curiosity, his whimsy, being able to talk about any and everything, I don’t have to fake anything w him good or bad, we will absolutely hurl insults over snacks or some other dumb shit and fallout laughing the next 5 …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:59 PM
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At which event were you held at gun point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:50 AM
2

Aw no that’s not what either of those words mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:29 PM
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I don’t think you know what that word means pookie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:26 PM
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I don’t care to be proven right or wrong.. I don’t care at all lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:22 PM
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What wonderful advice I’ll add it to the bottom of my list of priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:51 PM
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I don’t pay attention to men I don’t know or wonder/care how their dating life is going. The men I do know who date/are in relationships all have different attributes so it seems like a pointless exercise to just describe different men. What conclusions are you even hoping to draw from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:14 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:40 AM
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I agree the male loneliness epidemic doesn’t exist. The whiny males definitely do though (in abundance). They serve as an optimal propaganda source.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:37 AM
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In theory it could be useful for individuals to view themselves that way for nothing else but their own self esteem. But reality will hit like a brick if there’s no competitors in the game for which you’re “the prize”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:51 PM
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I notice something different. Men really struggle to be disagreed with. So it must be that the other person doesn’t understand the basis of the argument not that they find the basis stupid. But to the point of your question there are very few posts on here that are anything more than emotionally charged ranting from the oh so logical ones. So when it comes to semantics specifically unless you have the inclination to argue someone out of their feelings; you may need to parse through the drivel to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:49 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:42 AM
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And even then I don’t get why you’d have the expectation that they sincerely care more than you do. No one can fix sexlessness for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:57 AM
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You’re on a debate sub where people talk about these things. In reality no one is thinking about whether you fuck or not more than you do. The brainworm of being sexless is the time all the people interacting with you are spending thinking about bills and groceries or even whether they fuck or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:30 AM
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If this is how you armchair psychoanalyzed this comment I’m now of the belief your grieving harem may have just told you they had a headache or lost their keys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:25 AM
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I work with kids and teens many of whom are overwhelmed with “negative” emotions. Have you considered asking yourself why you are surrounded by supposedly grief stricken women? And also my first question was whether you are looking for anecdotal stories ? Because I have many women in my life in their 30s and 40s that are not consumed by a depression causing dick and baby void. What would those examples actually mean to you if you can’t even describe what you believe “happens to women over 35”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:58 AM
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And what’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:39 AM
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The other side of what? “Comfortable again” again from what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:28 AM
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Lmao “let me call up that divorced dad from three years ago to tell him my womb aches from its emptiness”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:23 AM
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Better from what exactly? And what answers are you actually looking for, anecdotal stories of all the women over 35 we know? My older sister got divorced at 28. She 36 now and moved to Berlin. She travels a lot, no plans of “settling down”. Like….
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:08 AM
2

I’m sure it’s important to someone just not to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:36 AM
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I mean it definitely is whining but I said complaining specifically. Didn’t make any statement as to whether they should shut up or not. They just would complain either way. Is something about that confusing to you or do you just want to talk to someone about “this guy”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:32 AM
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Nope you’re the one mentioning “this guy”. Where did you read shut up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:45 PM
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Where did you read that ? sounds imaginary like the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:36 PM
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What is the relevance ? But knowing some of the demographic of men on here, I’d bet he’s be struggling to get women to even talk to him while fantasizing about pumping and dumping. I’ll save my concern for something worthwhile not imaginary women thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:28 PM
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I don’t care, the point is yall will complain regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:10 PM
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So ? Even if women do settle yall would be complaining about “raw animalistic attraction” and “betabuxx”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:55 PM
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All I’m hearing is she gave you a chance. Is that not what all the whining about 20/80, “ChAd” is about on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:11 PM
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By “not productive” you most likely mean “doesn’t agree with me”. Your example is idiotic too. The tradcon type women are hardly ever sex positive. There’s a difference between saying sex is not wrong and promiscuity is right. It just breaks your mind probably because men believe and tell women everyday that they’re radioactive and ruin any woman they touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:09 AM
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One’s married and doing well. The other I don’t know and don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:01 PM
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It’s funny how theres supposedly so much advice from men out there already. Yet droves of whiney men complaining about how invisible they feel. What’s the disconnect?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:05 PM
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Why don’t you reply to their comments and ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 11:08 AM
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Yes. Usually listening to them talk did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:45 AM
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Words can’t express how much I don’t care about anything you just said. I’m amused you even thought to reply with this useless information on such an old post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:34 PM
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Yeah the bar for content approval here is low, and?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:58 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:57 PM
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I haven’t negated anything do you have the ability to read to comprehend or do you just need someone to talk to? The question remains why seek validation for your sexpating, who is asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:09 PM
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Idgaf about your dating life and I don’t know why you’re sharing this information. It’s men who constantly bring up the topic of how they want to go find a bride in a rural village in Vietnam. He posits reasons why these women actually like him. Who is that for exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:07 PM
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Why would i give a shit about criticism from men who say they need to fly across the globe for pussy? The question remains as to why he is seeking validation for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:59 PM
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Why do you want validation on your passport bro activities ? As in writing a whole essay to convince other people those women actually like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:15 PM
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I wouldn’t see anything or go out of my way to interact with that person. Most people will have or be an anti social coworker at some point, they’re usually kind of like a corner lamp but no one cares (usually) if they get the job done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:53 PM
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Constantly I hear posts and comments from so many men: “dating is so hard for us” “we feel invisible” “we want to drop out of society” Yeah it’s a load of crap anyone who needs to constantly post about how much their life sucks is just seeking attention. If it was really all that bad they’d be doing something more productive with their time. No need to victimize themselves for attention. So question how do you decide which online discourse to take at face value from whoever it is you’re watching…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:05 PM
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So if you’re not certain, why tf are you here acting like an authority on women’s sexuality and female anatomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:58 AM
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Oh yeah … so why would you ask the certain you know so much better already don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:49 AM
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Hence why there’s an orgasm gap. I would ask the person I’m having sex with. That’s where you should’ve started if you wanted to add credibility about your elite knowledge of female bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:38 AM
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What makes you think a male pov on his experience of sex is anything to be taken more seriously when it comes to the female body and sexuality. I promise you women talk a whole lot more about their sexual experiences on the daily than you presenting your alleged sample size. It seems important for this to be true for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:59 AM
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What makes you think I care what you think “the convo” is about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:32 PM
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Other factors are way more important. I wouldn’t sleep with someone I’m not attracted to. But physical attraction is only very loosely linked to sexual arousal for me. I also didn’t orgasm with my ex in 7 years and only started liking sex in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:40 PM
0

“The maths”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:54 PM
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Spend enough time on this sub and it’s easy to come to the conclusion that it doesn’t matter what the advice is. Men are autistically looking for a magic equation to make women flock to them. It will never happen ofcourse because attraction and interpersonal relationship don’t work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:07 AM
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Tell that to the op he’s the one complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:23 AM
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I don’t necessarily think your post is a hot take but I think people in reality care a lot less about this shit than the online discourse over the years would have you believe. I’ve not been presented with anything that has convinced me a sex change is currently possible and the rest unfortunately does sound like gender woo woo to me. I can accept the medical consensus that “transitioning” is the most effective “treatment” for people with gender dysphoria. What that means policy wise I.e. the ID…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:31 PM
3

“We don’t get flowers until we die” “we don’t get compliments”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:25 PM
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Idgaf what misogynistic men are talking about. Hence they don’t appear in my algo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:21 PM
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Not everyone is that desperate so again it’s a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:25 AM
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Your friends may just well not like you like you think they do. Whether it’s because you’re a man is tbd, random internet strangers don’t know the dynamics of your interpersonal relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:01 AM
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No ideally people like a person not a performance. If there’s a woman who likes men who wear dresses and paint their nails, some dude faking that shit to get laid will eventually grow resentful and/or revert to someone said woman is not in to. People are saying yall should be free to do you. You may find a person that likes you for you or not. If you need to be told someones going to fuck you as motivation to be yourself or reinvent yourself that sounds like a personal problem women shouldn’t co…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:50 AM
3

Yes, agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 01:37 PM
4

For me low effort can still look good but if you have a poor sense of style (which is subjective) that’s given me the ick in the past. Like anyone wearing jeans and a t shirt can still look good especially if groomed well. But if you’re actually dressed bad I’m talking in 2026 I’m still seeing dudes wear tight ass skinny jeans ankles showing fucking loafers with a tight ass shirt. (The pose in front of a car with a cigar archetype) then yeah no. Not a fan of the cargo shorts and graphic tee arch…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 09:18 PM
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Lmao oh no pookie. Did you go to college and are you unemployed ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:16 PM
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The complaint is the fact that they in earnest think anyone cares whether they get their dicks wet or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:03 PM
9

How have you been punished lately out of curiosity? We have a monthly quota to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:44 PM
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There hasn’t been a post this funny in a while. But anyway if you’re so concerned you should think about why it’s so easy for feminists to spread said “propaganda”, in reality they don’t need to they just need to say go interact with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:28 PM
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I can confirm I’m sober as fuck and it’s gibberish. I think he was going for passive aggressive but instead achieved incoherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 02:00 AM
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My asks are basically my bf. But to answer the other q if I was single I’d eliminate anyone already balding, fat, ugly, poor prospects, bad vibes, heavy substance user etc. Also has to be same or similar age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:25 PM
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Children
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:48 AM
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It’s probably more so that before even thinking about invasive surgeries and immutable features there are men out there who put no/minimal effort into even looking presentable or maintaining/ enhancing anything attractive they might have e.g. there are men now taking the initiative to prevent or slow down hair loss which is a thing women have been doing forever. Men will spend so much time talking about fat women when biologically being fat as a man makes even less sense yet so many men are fat …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:53 AM
1

No one looks at most men’s way ever in their lives. I think they’re good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 07:19 PM
1

Do you have anything useful to add but corny edgelord rage bait?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 07:19 PM
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Oh miss me with it. You started off not even actually responding to my comment just “aren’t you just old and bitter then”. Corny af.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:04 AM
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It’s so hilarious how you switched from wanting to go down a “you’re old therefore you’re bitter” path and you’ve diverted to “PPD women”. If you give a fuck you can leave this forum and find a plethora of women in real life and online who will tell you about their experiences with old ass men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:57 PM
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Oh no not the misandry allegations lmao And ofcourse it’s not inherent a lot of men say and do creepy shit. (Then cry misandry when you talk about it)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:49 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:39 PM
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Buddy I’m in my twenties and I’ve found men creepy since I was 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:37 PM
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Does this answer the question as to whether attention from old men is something to be jealous over, or ? But yes totally but I wouldn’t say bitter I would say that listening to men speak about their sexuality has confirmed to me that a large percentage of yall are pedophiles. I mean getting sexually assaulted as a child did it, as well as continued harassment by old ass men since I was a child like many women but yall just speak and confirm it. And I find it amusing you jump to jealousy and not …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:30 PM
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You don’t care yet you came screenshots ready to say no see look look the women are jealous? No I just think a lot of yall are pedophiles 🤷🏼‍♀️ glad we’ve cleared that up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:22 PM
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What really confuses me about the age gap defense crew is why you think people who are against it are going to change their minds. You can admit to liking teenagers and I can come to the conclusion that these people will go as young as they can. (Some even shop around the world for countries with lower age of consent laws). And I can also think they are likely pedophiles. Deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:14 PM
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Yeah the more realistic thing people are thinking about is the fact that Toby macguire can watch his daughter grow up, was wiping her ass while his girlfriend was being born, could’ve been playing doting dad when his daughters friends came over all the while thinking about how he would fuck them if he could. Not “omg 50 year old Toby macguire is off the market I’m so jealous”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:06 PM
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Yes him dating a 19 year old at 50 is gross period.It would be gross if he had a sister that age. And it’s gross in the reality that he has a daughter that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:55 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:48 PM
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Yeah Toby macguire is dating a girl his daughters exact age. It’s gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:44 PM
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(Technically it isn't with anyone past puberty; we designate very young physically mature people as children to protect them.) Yes this links to the pedophilia I am referring to. Growing breasts and starting your period happens on average between 11-13 but commonly as early as 8. Consequently many women will tell you it is around the time we start getting sexual attention from men. I mean honestly I was approached by men at 18/19 who told me they thought I was younger. As in actual disappointmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:19 PM
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I don’t think you will catch me arguing against men being attracted to younger women. I take it a step further in that I think a large percentage of men are pedophiles it has nothing to do with fertility. I’m disputing the fact you think we are jealous of the attention of old ass men. It’s been creepy since childhood. And outside of the most creepy, men just plain get even more undesirable with age. If you think women start to decline with age what do you think happens with the men whose desirab…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:32 PM
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No the embarrassing thing is male projection. For every woman you dream about mourning the loss of male attention is a new divorcee every year in that age group swearing they will never get married again. Statistics bear this out. It’s these average and below average men you speak of that frequently post about age gap topics because they want to paint out a revenge fantasy that they will suddenly become desirable in old age while all the women who rejected them seethe. I can only assume the delu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:15 PM
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Men continue to overestimate the value of their sexual attention. Attention which we get unwanted from childhood. Getting older and watching men attempt to chase after women young enough to be their children produces the same reaction as someone watching their father try to date their friends. For every Brad Pitt there is probably 100,000 balding beer belly bobs. Im in my late 20s and I continue to see them operate in the same i’ve been seeing them operating since getting honked at from cars on …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:39 PM
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Unrestrained male sexuality looks like the Epstein files.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:25 PM
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No women don’t just spawn at 35 most deal with attention from old ass men from youth and know what they’re about. I’d like for you to explain whether you think attention from old men is something to be jealous over realistically?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:11 PM
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Well how consistent is this advice because theres a non insignificant amount of men who aren’t listening to that advice; they instead come on reddit to beg women for empathy. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:31 PM
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So the TLDR of this is “getting women to like me is hard”?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:25 AM
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Men don't want to approach women out of fear or lack of courage. A self sufficient man who respects himself does not seek to be disrespected by a system that is against him. Why would a man want to ever be married or date women if this is the paradigm he is to face? The people whose “disrespect” you’re complaining about would not care either way. I think that’s the key take away for said man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:47 PM
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You are wrong. And I’m questioning how you function in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:22 PM
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Amazing like truly groundbreaking. Abstract nouns are abstract. I’m not convinced some of you leave the house. Every day must feel like your first day on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:16 PM
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Maybe you do find men more attractive than the average woman and that’s great. What are you going to do with that information?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:52 AM
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Right we should end this shadowy power play the women are probably missing out on some quality edge lord humour and Jordan Peterson shorts due to this censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:39 PM
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Yes thinking about whether men are agonizing over their memes giving us the ick is a truly vitalizing pass time. Thanks for asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:01 PM
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I don’t think you know what egotism means buddy. See here, thinking your praise would mean anything could be an example of egotism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:38 AM
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No most normal people don’t walk around assuming the world is attracted to them. What and who men will fuck if given the opportunity is not worth spending time thinking about. But seems to me you’ve answered your own confusion in your post; you’re projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:29 AM
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Let’s just say I’ve never seen a woman make a post on here questioning whether or not they’re attractive to their partners friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:59 AM
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That probably made sense in your mind and that’s quite amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:48 AM
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This sub is so funny. Post after post of men lamenting about women generally not being attracted to most men but it suddenly becomes confusing that would also apply to their friends partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:20 AM
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My great grandmother didn’t even attend her husbands funeral. Many such cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:19 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:27 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:20 PM
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Sure Google is your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:46 AM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:29 AM
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More women are single now than in those past generations and it’s still a majority of women don’t engage in casual sex. So it’s difficult to answer a question with your framing when realistically are you “winning” something you don’t want?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:59 AM
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For all you know he died happy with their arrangement and he will never know that you’re wasting time being angry on his behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:35 PM
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I don’t watch porn but it’s safe to assume most content is fake. Like someone could be both being abused and also looking extra tormented on camera because people are into the shit. Same applies to anything recorded for entertainment purposes I don’t even automatically believe most influencers when they review things if they have too large of a following.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:53 AM
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I’ve addressed your point and post it’s just not clicking for you for some reason. There is no fucking Joe. What there is though is millions of files giving us a mere glimpse of what goes on with people who operate in these circles. Like you acknowledged how your post could be tone deaf and yet continue to be tone deaf. By expose their own dealings I mean be forthright in the people they associate with and why they would be in these files. Jay Z specifically was mentioned because someone reporte…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:44 PM
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No. In fact I think we land at completely opposing conclusions. We clearly live in a culture that makes people too comfortable to “indulge” in their perversions. There’s rot everywhere power is concentrated and silence has been rewarded to the point of I’ll say it in the least judgemental way I can almost complicity. Sure you can reserve final judgement for legal proceedings (that will never come) that’s fine but also in this case discomfort seems necessary for anyone who knows they associated w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:58 AM
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It’s beyond tone deaf you don’t see that? Child sex trafficking, rape, torture and possibly murder spanning decades, involving world leaders, “royalty”, intelligence agencies and a justice department that is still trying to cover up the shit (and likely will do so successfully). And you’re here like “look at people tweeting about jay z and pusha t .. that could be me, you, anyone one day what would we do if we were implicated in a child sex trafficking ring like yeah false accusations are a tiny…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:00 AM
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Yes that’s what your post boils down to. Worried about the wellbeing of groups of elites and their dealings with eachother. Like save the performative concern, the fact that is where your mind is about a billionaire man like Jay Z who mind you has had a few accusations regarding underage girls and has the resources to protect himself just like the other sick mfs we’re looking at here, you sure don’t need to lose sleep. Not to mention the likelihood of these victims ever seeing justice is slim to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:09 AM
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You almost have to laugh. Implication of child torture .. “but.. but … jay z”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:44 AM
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I don’t call this a high school sweetheart situation but I was with my ex from when I was 14(officially 15) until I was 22. He was 21 when we met. Wont trauma dump how it ended I’m just glad it did. Dude got more abusive every year that went by. My best friend though she was with her husband from 16-18 they broke up didn’t see eachother really for fiveish years and reconnected and got married at 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:41 PM
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When I was young and in my first relationship I was genuinely stupid about a lot of things I tolerated. I would never be that person in a relationship again. So in that sense yes but I disagree it’s a difference in love but a difference in maturity and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:06 PM
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I’d also add this projection also applies to the way some men on here talk about approaching specifically cold approaching women. They think this is something women are both compelling men to do and holding themselves back from doing. Women will be telling men that they have no desire (meaning it literally) to approach men they see in public because there is no compulsion there based on any attraction and also not being receptive to it because it’s like who are you? It seems they’ll pop out with…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:06 PM
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Yeah looking at most men is about as arousing as looking at a plank of wood. Neutral. But it’s unlikely that means most women are getting wet over “bobs and ars”. Some might. Women also won’t find having sex with men they like and find attractive disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:53 AM
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Don’t like it, never have never will. Even in your best case scenario assumptions in reality can quickly become awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:45 PM
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(there's a growing gender divide on certain base assumptions about gender equality and fueling those trends is laying the ground for future discrimination and disenfranchisement of women). No there isn’t there’s just men lamenting women can’t be forced to be/stay with them. It’s the average chuds way of coping. You’ve just framed the usual dickpockalypse revenge fantasy as if men have any leverage to demand your perceived view of loyalty. We only have to look at how men behave when women are for…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:47 PM
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What is too fast to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:57 AM
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Yeah It’s like I said people will continue to feel lonelier with further societal atomization. There’s people out there especially in bigger cities who live alone, wfh, see their friends once a quarter don’t know their neighbours, barely even feel the need to leave the house everything’s ordered in etc some people like it that way but it’s mentally damaging. But if you mean specifically about the sisterhood point in your OP, then i don’t have much to say really. Men often brag that they have low…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:28 AM
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I don’t think there’s a male loneliness epidemic. In fact men on here have claimed it’s feminist propaganda. I think people do and will continue to feel lonelier in general and I have no idea why people focus on dating. I don’t take “people seeing you as a monster” particularly seriously. Id need more info on what you specifically feel because the people that say that usually just mean “women don’t pay attention to me”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:07 AM
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Sure to the extent I care about social issues that affect everyone they would be included and on an individual level it’s more likely I feel and demonstrate specific empathy to people I know. Do I feel empathy for Men™ though? No and I genuinely find reddit MRA’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:52 AM
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No the court found the allegations substantially true based on evidence not just “we reported what she told us”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:48 PM
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Nope. In the U.K. media outlets can call that man a wifebeater all they want and he’d lose again so she probably has a point yet I don’t care to watch whatever you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:56 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:43 PM
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I sometimes think people talk about things in a fantastical manner. “Raw desire” is one of those terms to me. It’s novelty in initial attraction when you meet someone new.Attraction is important, lust is important. But no a man jackhammering into my cervix will not feel good no matter who is doing it. A man who can only last a minute or two but otherwise does nothing to get you off will not satisfy you. Someone who is giving you oral and doesn’t listen to learn (if they’re not already good I gue…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:58 AM
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By takes care of it anyway I’m assuming you mean he gets you off in other ways. Also kisses, caresses ? If you there was none of that and you say your undying love makes you enjoy it anyway amazing for you. But that just sounds like a recipe for accepting selfishness long term imo. For what it’s worth being with a more sexually compatible partner is what led me to discover I can actually orgasm from PIV it just took some patience and experimentation that I didn’t have access to in my prior relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:00 AM
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Me neither what, that you don’t orgasm or ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:30 AM
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Oh dear lord🤦🏼‍♀️ if you insist you’re on super soaker 3000 mode because you are just so in love I have no reason to not believe you. But for most women (especially considering a large percentage of women can not orgasm from PIV alone), what stimulates them will vary and to enjoy sex with a partner you have to be with someone who cares to stimulate you in the way your body responds to in order to get you off. If they refuse to do so the sex will be bad. Consistently bad sex = desire killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:20 AM
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No. A pretty face won’t do shit if for example your entire sex life is minimal/no foreplay PIV focused and the man’s idea of sex is jackhammering you in a way that’s painful for 2 minutes until he cums and rolling over.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:04 AM
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Have you ever had sex with a woman and do you know how women’s anatomy works?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:38 AM
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No it means the sex is bad, bad sex kills desire lol why would you want to continue doing something that’s uncomfortable or painful and you don’t get an orgasm from it? PIV is a terrible experience (like actually a physically terrible experience) when you’re not aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:25 AM
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Bad sex to me meaning uncomfortable or painful and orgasmless kills desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:00 AM
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Do you have any insight as a man? I’ve been asking this for a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:17 AM
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I’d be wishing for a real eater because I have no interest in getting penetrated at all until I’ve orgasmed regardless of size.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:15 AM
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I can see why it might for some but if I heard that I could easily think “why didn’t you kick the door down she wouldn’t have been able to stop you” or “why didn’t you physically force her to give you the keys” but in reality my view would more so be why tf would she do that and that you were unduly pressured into “sex”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:54 AM
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Well we could end up going off on a tangent here. If a 5’ 100lb woman who has no realistic means of physically hurting you locked you in a room with her and said I’ll let you leave if you have sex with me right now. Yeah you could stay in that room and not give in to her demands and she may not be able to physically force you to give in to her demands even if she continues pressuring you. If you do it anyway so that you can leave because you’re uncomfortable you still haven’t freely given consen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:48 AM
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I think it could be a factor sure being that it’s a very realistic outcome. But this is just considering heterosexual dynamics I can understand why you as a man may have a different perspective on your ability to say no. But also that is a mindset that follows for men not even understanding when a woman has raped them. The average 18 year old boy may well be able to overpower a woman of any age but coercion would still be a factor without an explicit threat of violence. I also do have a lot of g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:26 AM
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Tbh that could be the case in both individuals minds as it happens. But in my perspective I feel like you don’t even need to delve that far in to a persons thought process outside of a court. If you are refusing to accept someone doesn’t want to have sex with you and you’re trying to wear them down, then that is the factual act you are doing. You’re trying to force their acquiesce through your pressure. Refusing to accept no is threatening in of itself. It just also happens that realistically li…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:06 AM
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How’s the man supposed to know she genuinely doesn’t want sex? 5 minutes is enough time for a mood shift. I don’t even think this man is particularly bad for asking more than that once.If he asked 10 times within a 20 minute space, that’s a bit much and I would think this dude is applying too much pressure. That’s when I think the woman should remove herself from the situation and probably stop being with a guy like that. But if she gives verbal consent, the male brain is just going to think, al…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:46 PM
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What is the clear threat? Keep to the initial scenario. There’s a locked door but the person is just continuing to ignore your no’s saying “come on” “shh” pulling on your clothes etc The person is abusive but they’re not threatening to beat you up in that moment. Same scenario. The person is saying they’re stuggling mentally “please” “just come on” “I need it to calm down”. What about these added factors make you see a clear threat not an implicit one. And if you remove those factors how are you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:26 PM
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How if the person is “waiting for them to cave”?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:54 PM
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That’s probably because you’re viewing that behaviour as passive. Someone who will not accept no for an answer is doing so intentionally. It’s not a secondary consequence or rather them hoping for “the best.”They are trying to wear the person down or make them cave. In any legal system courts are now or starting to look at how pressure functions. Here you’re looking for a reason a victim ought to have escaped the situation being that their no is clearly not enough. A yes in this scenario is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:44 PM
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I already set out a common scenario? how many times should a person have to hear no to accept it and back off?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:08 PM
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How does it seem to you that they can say no if they’ve already said it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:29 PM
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Yeah sure if you imagine someone just sitting in a corner asking “can I have one sex please” over and over with a smile on their face, it might be harder to conceptualise. Context matters often this behaviour is not in isolation. If someone’s hands are on you and they’re getting more aggressive and not stopping when you say no and instead it’s just “come on” “why not, it’ll be quick” and and not backing away tugging on your clothes etc. To keep pushing after someone has already said no does not …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:17 PM
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I guess it depends on how we’re applying meaning because I do find women “aesthetically appealing” but I don’t know if I’d call it physical attraction because I’ve never been sexually attracted to a woman so no. That said I don’t find most men sexually attractive either so it’s not a stretch to think I possibly could.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:43 AM
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Well what made me actually choose him when I had all but sworn of relationships is that there was always honesty and transparency with him we had both seen eachother at our worst before we even got together. No fake shit here I can tell him anything and vice versa. That and my best friend likes him a lot. What attracted me to him is his looks and sense of humour to this day we will be in the house just laughing. He’s smart and curious, always responsible, competent. So many things really.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 07:05 PM
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By finding someone who wants to have casual sex with you. I hope that’s helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:53 PM
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Sure, you just have to find women willing to talk to you long enough to let you lie to them. Have you got a plan for the first hurdle?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:10 AM
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Sure let me search my comments I’ll come back to you if I can lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:17 PM
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I’d prefer to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:06 PM
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What a useless reply, can I help you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:03 PM
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I saw this pop up and laughed remembering a man on here saying he got used for walks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:48 PM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:42 PM
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About?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:46 AM
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I’m not sure women show no interest in me unless they’re intoxicated is what you wanna go with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:32 AM
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Why are you back I already told you to stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:39 AM
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Exactly yall deserve to be called out. STFU.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:43 AM
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You already know you’re tuned out like in real life, hence the existential pain you claim you’re having. But similarly you just have to deal with women also telling you to stfu about what you think they should be doing with their bodies. Tune it out if that’s your prerogative? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:39 AM
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I do and did. And no one cares, you know this by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:30 AM
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Oh but you do, you care so much about the injustice of … women not wanting sex with you 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:08 AM
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No again that’s just what you think. So you come on here and admittedly make “women bad” comments because you can’t find anyone to consent to fucking you (people you don’t find valuable) it’s very transparent for most men on here which is why it’s so funny. So yeah instead of that you can literally go and pay for it. Find a more ethical provider and stfu there’s even subreddits where sex workers can point you in the right direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:55 AM
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No you think you are, all of you that make these kind of statements on here thinking you have a sympathetic position do and it’s genuinely so funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:30 AM
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Ha, the funny thing is you contribute to it every time you whine about how hard it is to get access to sex and how that’s all women are good for. You think you’re better? You’re one step away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:02 AM
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Isnt it just, if only more men would choose monasteries over sex work, there would be no demand. But alas that’s not reality, so go open your wallet. Don’t have to put up with shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:36 AM
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Put up with what? If you’re someone who seeks casual sex and no one consents to having it with you that sounds like a you problem. Go pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:24 AM
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Oh you’re not ? Then again why are you bothering with this question, you must have plenty of anecdotal data sets right? You’ve never been rejected, mr high value ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:30 AM
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You don’t give a fuck about the answers to this question. And even if you did if you’re not retarded you’ll know it would depend on what any individual woman’s priorities are. So instead of idiotic thought experiments why don’t you just say what you want? You want women to resist “high value men” that you don’t think they deserve. “Notice me the low value man who is your actual match and I won’t waste your time, low value men never do that because we’re so desperate”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:23 AM
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They could attempt to adopt a new framework through a different philosophy I guess. But I observe this be a slippery slope for people who try to “believe” or lean in like religion so relief might be fleeting to the same extent of yoga like you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:47 AM
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Oh so the request is not only to cold approach but for women to lower their standards to that of men’s and then spam approach those men. Yeah in that case I can see why that would be a man’s dream. It’s delusional. But I can see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:45 AM
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This is about cold approaching. Women generally don’t cold approach men. Men do that. If they were to start doing so as I’ve already stated it won’t make any difference to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:14 AM
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No average people get together all the time through their social circles. Women are not driven to approach like men do, because first of all a lot of us don’t like it and we’ve said it enough and we’re also just not interested in stranger men in public. What difference would women approaching super attractive men more do for anyone if they’re not doing so already? It would just give those men more options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:04 AM
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And you made a debate post for your premise to be challenged. You make multiple posts about women approaching men. Everything you wrote is noise, women are simply not as interested in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:58 AM
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Improve your comprehension, I responded to what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:52 AM
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No I really think you’re overestimating/projecting on women’s interest in men they don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:43 AM
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Attractive guys would be approached enough so they'd reject average women, which in turn would approach average men and you can see where this'd go No you think you see where this would go. Because you’re projecting on to women. Many women have said outright they don’t like getting approached and see men as NPC’s. All the other things in the OP are in fact background noise. Women are not like men. They are not going to en masse start noticing random men in public and thinking “I just must speak …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:40 AM
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I don’t know why you’re stuck on this topic. Do you realistically think women approaching in the ways men do would change men’s dating prospects ? Who do you think women would be approaching if they were going to go out of their way to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:03 AM
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Yeah maybe this is just a semantical issue. Physical desire I.e. attraction does matter for the act of sex itself. But speaking for myself and I’m sure a lot of women would agree physical desire is not validating in of itself. Or much. Especially in a relationship if the emotional connection is shaky. Someone who engages in casual sex may have a different view on things. Maybe if I put it like this if someone I think I love doesn’t demonstrate want for me the person and only their need for sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:52 PM
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No we don’t agree. Your perspective is that lust= desire for the person. That lust in of itself is validating. That sex in of itself is validating. I disagree. No one says sex does not matter in a relationship. The importance of sex in a relationship will depend on how good the sex you’re having is, your libido, your circumstances, your bond etc e.g. it also doesn’t matter how good the sex is I can lust after you and it won’t mean a fuck thing (again if the relationship is going to shit) Duty se…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:01 PM
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Sure, random sexual interest from men is abundant and cheap just as a random job offer is cheap. But an offer from a company you want to work for is validating. Validation comes from who is offering and why. I can’t really agree not for nothing an offer of sex can also be meaningless in a relationship at any point in time; why do you think duty sex is a thing? That is exactly what I think of when you say who is offering and why. If the relationship is going to shit I won’t feel loved and “valida…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:39 PM
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What’s the damning part? Male sexual attention is cheap, abundant and pervasive. You admit it yourselves that you’ll fuck anything it’s only a bonus if she’s not fat. What on earth is there to be validated by lol Women have sex because good sex is enjoyable it just so happens that there is not always a strong chance sex will be good or even “meh” for women. Pump and dump the phrase men use as a pejorative, commonly after admitting they lied about their intentions ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:30 PM
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Partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:09 PM
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Mercy that’s what you call consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:25 AM
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“Men are vulnerable little babies with no agency” it’s barely a debate, it’s venting hence I asked and?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:40 PM
4

Whether this is true or false, And? What are you going to do with this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:31 PM
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Reading your posts feels like watching someone’s first day on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:37 PM
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I don’t. The people including men in my life are plenty empathetic. Basic “politeness” and pro-social behaviour is all I give and like in return for people I don’t know or don’t know well. In fact I generally avoid interacting with men I don’t know outside of that let alone expecting demonstrated individualized empathy/sympathy from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:20 PM
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“Makes men happy” is really a non answer to why getting laid shouldn’t be difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:49 PM
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You don’t have a position. You’re trying to intellectualize “why aren’t men owed sex for having jobs, it makes me sad that so many dicks are dry”. It’s truly laughable. Oh you’re slaves. What are you doing to free yourself from slavery, except exclaiming you’re a slave on Reddit? I’d also be interested to know whether you think in the eras before tax you would have been anything more than a serf to much richer and more powerful men ? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:09 AM
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It’s not an ad hominem it’s an observation about someone that’s clearly delusional. This is you right? I can't have sex with them, as 95% are straight and want to have sex with women. I can't date them, marry them, have relationships with them, flirt with them or have children with them. These are the primary things men want and need from women-- always have been, always will be. It was also you that said women should be forced into unwanted sexual activity right? You can’t argue against a delus…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:42 AM
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Your palpable desperation for women is both genuinely hilarious and nauseating. Move to a country with low or no taxes. Or go to hell or jail about not paying taxes if it’s that serious for you 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:18 AM
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Or they can work and pay tax you know …. like they do in reality. The unfuckables can drop out of society if they so choose to, do you have no agency ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:01 AM
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Oh they have jobs to house and finance themselves, I thought they were doing that for women? But yeah if paying tax is such an insurmountable burden there’s options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:34 AM
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He has; he doesn’t have socials except tiktok so I see his comments when he comes on MY account. He even only finally downloaded tik tok because I kept sending him stuff and he got sucked in. On here I’ve just seen him asking questions on subs related to his job but I don’t generally know what he thinks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:27 AM
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They could quit their jobs, not pay taxes and chances are they are not men that are building anything anyway. That way they can remain unfuckable without the resentment right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:34 PM
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Who knows. The diatribes from men here are comedic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:05 PM
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Does it matter if it’s ok or not and what difference would answers to your question make to you. Do and feel what you want no one will give a shit unless you’re trying to make your feelings other people’s problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:12 PM
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I hope you overcome being slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:12 PM
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Waste of time challenging retarded views. And your reply to my comment was a waste of time also.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:11 PM
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I don’t care what you’re advocating for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:07 PM
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You’re right, we need to open mega-orphanages and require the abandonment of children in the event of separation, divorce and death. How dare those women raise their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:04 PM
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Sure I guess for some people theres a fine line between being a pushover and turning into a bitter asshole if you’re only doing nice things out of expectation of something in return. If you don’t get said thing in return and it enrages you, you probably shouldn’t have done the “nice” thing in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:22 PM
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If you say you do. Same still applies then all I’m getting from this is you’re not actually bothered by hurty words you see online but by women not acknowledging men’s existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:29 PM
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All I’m getting from this is you’re not actually bothered by hurty words you see online but by women not acknowledging your existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:11 AM
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Well that’s a lot of women who are “a lot more empathetic” to men’s issues then being that every man is born from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:41 AM
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Yeah you can being alone is an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:29 AM
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“Especially Childless women” is there a reason you’d be looking to childless women specifically to care about your problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:51 AM
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Your sexuality is your own and no one but the people who agree to have sex with you give a fuck about it. No one is expecting you to be asexual worker drones because no one is thinking about whether you fuck or not in the first place. A lot of you will find peace if you’d just internalize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:48 PM
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Yeah well sex is not a civil right/ equal opportunity activity. There’s nothing to fight for lol just find someone who wants to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:38 PM
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There is zero incentive for women to provide a free for all to our bodies. This is just sounding like “it should be easy because we want sex and that’s that”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:01 PM
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Why should we ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:44 PM
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because sexlessness in men leads to higher rates of mental illnesses in said men. Rates of sexlessness in men is increasing fast, i.e. you are getting people like myself and OP because we can't get sex and you can't help but laugh at "sad cause pp no wet." Like, everything must pass through the lens of a woman apparently, problems don't exist unless a woman says they do. Who is laughing, this isn’t actually something I spend any time thinking about in real life. You commenced a hissy fit when I …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:52 AM
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Okay so why shouldn’t it, care to answer objectively minus any incel babble?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:10 AM
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I don’t care about your feelings nor did I share frustrations. The OP made a debate post on whether it should be difficult to get laid or not. Do you have anything useful to add or are you just here to victim puke?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:01 AM
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Yeah incels tend to compare not having sex to rape so wouldn’t be surprised. Blah blah blah his post is about not getting laid. Do you want to answer the question for him since you feel so passionately; why shouldn’t it be difficult and who is supposed to make it easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:51 AM
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Sensitivity for what exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:13 AM
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I look at these questions sometimes and wonder what the point in answering is. It’s actually probably more entertaining to let yall stew in your delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:09 PM
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That’s just you saying you’re sad because it’s hard to get laid. Why specifically should it not be difficult and who is supposed to make it easier for you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:50 PM
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You haven’t explained why it shouldn’t be difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 04:44 PM
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Conversations go two ways maybe you’re the one without much to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 04:18 PM
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I don’t watch porn. I think more women have started watching porn over the years but if I remember correctly some studies have been released on this. But women who watch porn are still the minority of women. I don’t know what categories among the women who watch porn are watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:29 PM
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Don’t know, don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 11:40 PM
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Yes the same women who you cry about not acknowledging your existence are keeping track of whether you’re attending that (insert male activity) you’re part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:18 PM
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Everyone gets told this. Maybe it isn’t about you? Thought of that? You can have all the sinful intent you want so long as you’re not expecting it to be reciprocated from random women you don’t know in the streets. Have you considered that it just means enjoy your life, expand your social circle through things you actually enjoy doing not just hunting for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:06 PM
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There’s never a consistent narrative; I’ve also heard women are forcing their way into every male activity and space and they can’t and don’t have anything to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:02 PM
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Yes Bob from IT is not drake. He can stew about not being drake all he likes regardless he will clock in, buy his groceries, pay his bills and repeat. No one but Bob will care that he’s bitter, angry and resentful that he is not Drake (or the other guy you mentioned). There’s also no analysis here really to agree or disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:42 AM
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Do you ever do non-piv acts without it having to lead to PIV? I think part of the issue is the mindset that only PIV is the “real thing”. (Not for you specifically but just how sex is often viewed in heterosexual relationships)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 03:04 PM
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Your question will get deleted as it’s “internal” so I think you’d be better asking on a women’s subreddit or something. I know some people are happy to have sex even with lack of sensitivity or lack of orgasm but there’s a difference between not having an orgasm and not being aroused AT ALL. If you’re saying you’re initially aroused it may just be that you need external stimulation during and that’s normal. But if it’s a case where you’re going into PIV before being ready; I’d generally and fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:58 AM
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So if a parent is “dating” their child we should just turn a blind eye? Or do you have incest thresholds?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:26 PM
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Yes you can only date men you find ugly and the closer to homeless they are the better. Otherwise it’s the evil hypergamy duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:50 PM
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1.13 2.no idea 3.eh don’t know what counts here 4.15 5.15 6.13 7.15
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:24 AM
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Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:04 AM
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Most guys are too insecure to ask about past sexual experiences of the girls they are with, Lmfao the irony. so you have nothing to worry about honey. What do you think the concern is cockwatcher?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:59 AM
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