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cegh/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 09:02 AM
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I take no pleasure in your situation or your decision. I hope your wife cancels the trip and doesn't go. We are a group that are meant to help each other out. But rather waiting for her to make the shot, waiting til June, you should already be packing her bags if she doesn't cancel. If you want things to work with your wife, If I were you, I would be dreading the shit out of your wife. I bet if your wife knew there was a woman "Hoping" she would go on holiday to get alone time with you, your wif…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 09:28 AM
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You're correct that many men on here are fueled by victim mentality. You've confused anger for frustration and respect. A so called experienced member cannot admit and see that his own wife is looking to cheat. And other inexperienced people are reading this, thinking that it's ok. It's not. Any man who respects himself wouldn't be dating/staying married to a woman going on girls night outs or on holiday to party areas. Rollo does have the correct advice that your wife/girlfriend shouldn't affec…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 08:30 AM
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If your dad reads the whole book, then you can talk about shit tests to him. The reason being, when a man "wakes up" he will want to soak everything possible he can, learn as much as he can like a kid all over again. Don't worry about information overload, the point is you need bait to lure him in to red pill. The book is the bait. From what I remember, no book talks about shit tests. The book about fogging is as close to passing a shit test but it's not a simple IF this Do that. If things do ge…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 11:15 AM
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The only way you can help someone is by finding out how much they are willing to help themselves. The way you do that is as others have suggested, get him no more mr nice guy. That book is important, he'll probably read it and think the book is about him. This should give him a wakeup call. If he doesn't bother to read it, then don't bother and accept it. The biggest thing he can do to improve in my opinion is to pass the shit tests. What you call nagging is a shit test. A shit test is a phrase …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/16 08:24 AM
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If you really want to believe that post is true, I'm glad you had fun looking at my history. Stop giving shit advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 02:49 PM
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I cannot believe people are disagreeing with druganswer. His advice is very solid for someone "Unplugging". The fact that [deleted] wife is going on vacation to Cabo with a bunch of women shows you how much his wife values their relationship. To anyone reading this, do not take advice from "[deleted]", no redpill marriage would be described with a wife going on holiday to Cabo with friends. Same with whinemoreplease, calling this guy Beta shows exactly how not aware he is. For anyone who reads t…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 02:02 PM
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Learn how to pass shit tests better: "don't be mad, I'm just really stressed about the work thing." You entered her frame. Pass these shit tests or you won't start getting anything. She was testing to see how butt hurt you were about not getting sex, in womans turns "how much power she has". "we can still cuddle on the couch and watch TV." Your answer: "You want to give me a Bj while I watch TV, I duno if you can keep my interest off the TV" Her "noooo I said cuddle" You "Depends how good your B…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/15 09:24 AM
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The real question is not did he pass the shit test, but did he want to keep her as a plate or not. If he wanted to keep her as a plate on the regular, he played it wrong. If he seriously didn't give a shit, then he played it right and moves onto the next plate. Because of the carefree attitude, he may gain another chance in the future when the next guy screws up. If you wanted to continue the plate on the regular, you can't just answer with a random shit test answer, you're not a machine. Ask yo…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 08:50 AM
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Any man that says she isn't doing this intentional is wrong, this is a shit test on a major scale. She maybe twliring her hair because he is attractive, but she is actively going into his personal space, actively allowing him to continue his advances to flirt. The dread is not strong enough. Though it appears no major lines were crossed. In general, your wife or girlfriend should not be flirting with other men, especially infront of you. That is disrespectful, it's the same as you going up to a …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 09:28 AM
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If your wife/girlfriend uses Facebook or any social app where she can compare her value or seek approval, you're in a relationship on extra hard mode especially when married. Women use Facebook for the following: Gain validation by posting pictures of themselves (self-esteem) Gain value in their eyes by posting pictures of events they attended (female competition). Compare their value by other women's values - IE seeing what their friend got up to. Maybe her friend went on holiday 2x this year a…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/15 09:07 AM
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Less talk more action. You could have gone through that entire sex session without answering any questions and be dominant. Tease your wife. Display you have more value than her. IE when she talks about something that she might be better than you at, for example: Art. Tease her about it, change subject or if you are a master of Art, display how much you know. Pass shit tests. Be touchy with your wife - > Do to your wife what you wouldn't want another man doing ie slapping her ass. Don't stop unl…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/15 10:27 AM
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There are many options you can use: Give her a pat on the head to tell her to stop and say "that's enough". If she asks why, tell her you're not feeling it. She will understand it's because of her and question how you are so calm, thinking you are getting it from somewhere else and better. As someone else stated, she is losing her power. Either she will ask to try again, or hamster for a bit and give better next time. The better solution by far. Teach your woman how to give a good BJ that you en…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/15 02:47 PM
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If you are writing a book, you could include examples of how not to react. For people who want to understand the reason behind what he did was wrong is below: He failed a shit test. He lost frame with anger. He tried to insult her to make her feel like he did. This made his wife realise that her SMV is higher than she thought compared to his. Back to the bedroom she shit tests him even more because now she is worried that her captain is a fraud. He answered ok, could have been better. I don't kn…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 03:00 PM
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A good indication of what your wife/girlfriend has of your SMV is to have sex with her on her period. If you get a hard no, you got a lot to work on.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 10:31 AM
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As you know from previous comments, she is branching out and your SMV is not as high as you think it is if she isn't willing to do kinky stuff with you. "I was also clear that she will not respond to him unless I am aware. " Stop this right now. She shouldn't be talking to him, and she should also be telling him not to ever contact her again. She is a woman, her role in mating etc is to accept a males advance. If she allows it, she is doing the same thing as a male going out to flirt with other …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 10:21 AM
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At first I thought she was giving you a comfort test, which is true, she did, along with shit tests too and that was it, but it's more deeper than that because you failed the comfort test. I read a lot of people saying she is "crazy", which is correct, her actions are crazy but you don't understand why she is crazy. I can offer some help, but to truely understand a crazy person, you have to know how they think or be like them. I think the underlying problem is she is looking to branch swing but …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 08:24 AM
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A relationship involves 2 people and 2 roles. Men want sex. Women want affection(hugging, talking, spending time together). In short: Each time she refuses sex, you start refusing to do the above. If you get to the point she refuses sex and you are doing nothing of the above that she wants, break up with her and you look for another woman because any woman interested in you would want affection and to spend time with you. It should never get to that, as you will see, wives realise that they don'…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 01:47 PM
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The reply wasn't for you, I didn't expect you to respond, you're happy but it is not a RedPill example to follow. You made your choice, it was a bad one in my opinion. It comes across as you have 'oneitus': "I’m not going to be happier or find a better woman." You value time invested - 9 years. Time should not matter. What if it was 1 year ago? or 2 years ago. Where are you drawing the line. This is not a question but something to think about. Women also don't care whether you're married or girl…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 08:45 AM
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Shit test, selfish desire who knows who care. Take care of yourself first. If she isn't willing to get on top, pick her and drag her on top and do it. Force her to do it. As others said, have a safe word. If she uses the safe word while you try to position her on top because she wants it her way. Then you can stop having sex with her and tell her "I'll take care of it myself". That's all.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 10:27 AM
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I'm going to give advice to men who read this not to the poster: What ALL men who read this forum should learn. Don't have a girlfriend while in the army/navy/marines etc being sent away for long periods of time . What he should have done: Left her. His male hamster span so hard that he couldn't bare losing her. He is a beta regardless of what he says. If cheating isn't a high enough standard for a man, don't expect your wife to have any respect for you. She lost his respect as soon as she cheat…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 07:27 AM
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Your wife is cheating on you or about to cheat on you. You should be on high alert. This isn't a comfort test, it's not a shit test either. She brought up the conversation, she is looking for a way to get free from you. To do this she hopes to push you away so you don't feel guilty. Me: Ha for two 20 year olds. Her: Ok I guarantee if you said this to any girl/woman who is into you, they wouldn't say "OK". She would be fighting for you in words and actions ie hugging. Her: Whatever makes you happ…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 07:20 AM
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It only takes 1 mistake for her to knock over a child on the road who is walking back home from some activity. Time may have been on her side, but for how long. You should rule out "live this way". That is not a choice. She should want to stop herself, she won't unless something bad happens. Making it clear to her that she will lose you won't help. She will say she wants you but the bottle will still be in her hand. People with addictions like these can't be helped. They can only be moved onto a…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/15 08:45 AM
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There is nothing wrong with her pulling her phone out and checking if she got a message the odd time. If it's something she keeps doing then that behaviour is unacceptable. There is no need to be texting her friend back though as it's a date night, it can wait. A simple "put the phone away, we are on a date night" will do. Then be happy and try to enjoy the night. It seems like it annoyed you so much and it showed through with her saying "You're making me want to leave," Either she does or doesn…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/15 08:24 AM
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The real reason she asked you if you got turned on by watching that was because she was and she felt bad that it turned her on. All you have to do is just admit if it is or isn't. If it is then you say it's making you think what you can do to her. If it isn't then you make it out that it isn't yet and then make a move on her. Nothing wrong saying the sex scenes are making you think what you can do to her and that it is turning you on. But yes you would be failing the test hard if you said, no th…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 10:51 AM
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Simple. When you get in, you ask her what's up. If she says nothing, then you go on your merry way and be cheerful. BUT expect a whole bunch of shit tests "Why don't you ever listen to me" etc Don't enter her frame and agree and amplify her shit tests. OR, the best way to cheer them up is to just be playful with them, poke them and tickle until they get into your frame. Then they will spur out whatever crap is on their mind. Remember a woman has to talk, it's torture for themselves when they don…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 10:39 AM
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When you are about to have sex, tell her "I hope you shaved down there so there isn't any hair left". Reach down, feel. If it's there, tell her to go upstairs and shave it all off. If she doesn't, don't have sex with her. It will show her you find that unattractive and that by shaving it's actually a good thing and you will want to have sex with her. If she starts to cry, tell her to stop crying and get upstairs and shave. The aim is to get her to shave, don't have sex with her til she does. Whe…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 10:33 AM
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Kino, dread, escalation, initiation, playful banter/texting, vacations, budget, etc. From your main post it seems like you just want sex and you are putting in way too much effort to get it? So Stop putting in effort. If that is true, this is what I would do: Treat her like a FWB, this will be your dread. Have sex with her when you want, lead her in bed, do what you want to do with her. Give her a safe word so if she says no, you can still carry on until she uses the safe word. YOu wana put your…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 10:13 AM
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You can't say sorry because you don't know what you did wrong. Besides I find saying sorry is stupid, instead you should be providing a solution. You went out for some drinks and got drunk, if you told your wife you would never do that, then you should be sorry for that because that's breaking your word. It's up to you if you think that behaviour is bad or not, if you are normal when drunk then there is no problem, but obviously if you are swearing infront of the kids then there is your problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 09:54 AM
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I've never dealt with a previous partner earning more than me, I hear people say their wives treat husbands different if the wife earns more, but that could be for many reasons. In my opinion, it doesn't matter who makes the most as long as you aren't scraping by and worrying about bills. I like to think of it as, if you are earning $100 mill a year and she years $200 million a year, does that $100 million even make a difference? No. So while her earning more than you might be good and she can a…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 10:12 AM
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If she really is only getting 2 hours of sleep, you can't expect her to have sex with you. That is a valid reason. You could have just said "ok, i'll get double sex from you tomorrow" with a tease. If you are trying to practice game, you just showed the girl at the counter that her SMV is higher than yours. If you want to practice teasing: If she doesn't wear any makeup, tell her she has put on too much. Or agree and amplify "Yea i like it when a girl sweats at work, shows shes a hard worker". I…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 09:59 AM
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All this comes down to that you are covertly doing so much for yourself yet expect your wife to give you something in return. While dread in itself is useful, it's still a covert contract where you get a good body, dress well and impress other women in order for your wife to realise what she might lose. The problem is if you are doing all this she might not know what to do in order to pick up the slack, so you need to lead her. When you stated some problems, did you actually tell her not to do i…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 09:42 AM
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Hire a cleaner and you both pay towards it, though it sounds like you don't have the money if you're working 2 jobs. There are a few ways you could approach this. Tell her you need a talk. Sit her down. Tell her you are working a part time job of 15-20 hours a week and don't have the time to clean the house. Tell her she needs to clean up after herself and hoover at the end of the week and whatever you expect to be done. Tell her you are both cleaning on X day. If she says she is too tired, you …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 09:20 AM
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He should leave her. No point getting a vasectomy, she wants kids from someone else. He's the Beta provider and she is looking for her alpha to have kids with.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 09:06 AM
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Your value should be so high that you don't need to 'flirt' with women. Your goal when talking to a woman is to establish your SMV is higher than hers, THAT is all your wife needs to see. You shouldn't be touching another woman because that shows interest in her. I can tell you right now, your wife will find it attractive that you touch other women, but what you won't find out is that she finds that behaviour acceptable and will also be doing it with other guys. You start crossing a slippery slo…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 01:48 PM
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The fact she is going on holiday by herself is huge alarm bells . Why aren't you going? Can't she wait until you both go? Not to sound the bad bearer of news but most friends who I knew said their wives were going on holiday by themselves. They were going to meet up with another man. That is why any dread you use won't work, not to mention it's long term dread and not a quick fix. She is already monkey branching. I could be wrong but it's what I have found from experience. If you want to find ou…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 09:21 AM
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Getting pissed off is not a bad thing, as long as it's over something worth getting pissed off about, normally something out of your control. Losing your cool and letting it show in your emotions is a bad thing, as it rewards her behaviour. There was an example where a wife unplugged a router while he was working. This is a major shit test and has to be fixed ASAP. This wouldn't happen if she respected him and his boundaries. The reason why this is bad is because she obviously cannot get any emo…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 09:09 AM
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I like the family guy reference, I use it a lot. Whenever my wife says something an order etc I just say "Shut up Meg" in a cocky tone. She is aware of the reference in family guy: No-one takes Meg seriously, and whenever she has anything to say, you don't care and tell her to shut up. It frames her as being Meg, the girl who no-one likes and wants to listen to.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 08:50 AM
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Personally I don't recommend to other people your outcome independence strategy. If my wife rejected sex, I would never go sit down and watch a tv show with her or talk with her. That's probably what she wanted anyway, so you just rewarded her for turning down sex. Imagine you are single, bring a girl home you are dating, 3rd date. You want to have sex, she turns you down. You don't leave the room, you don't go watch tv and talk with her. You tell her to get out because there are other women who…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 10:29 AM
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If she asks what you think, you ask, "think about what?" If she says she is fat and you think she is, tell her the truth and why with reward. "i'd like if it you were thinner, you'd have a sexier ass". Have a goal in mind what you want her to look like etc otherwise you can't frame the conversation. She was figuring out if she needed to lose weight or whether you are happy with her how she is. If you want her to lose weight, be honest, that's your frame and you ask her how she is going to solve …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/15 07:24 AM
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The fact that she doesn't kiss you yet cums quickly is strange. Are you sure she isn't faking orgasms quickly so you hurry up and finish? Try the 10 second kiss a day, but start at a few seconds and work it up. Don't ask her for a kiss, go up and kiss her. If she moves away, grab her neck and pull her to you and forcefully kiss her. If she shoves you away, give her a WTF look as if she killed a kitten and she gets nothing from you. That is a huge deal breaker for me. I don't know how you can han…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/15 01:58 PM
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It looks like you have a long way to go. But if you want an example on what you should do and how it works successfully. Search the username "Fing_farted_on_me" on reddit and you will find his story told over 5 months. That's is the most useful information I can give you. BTW if you give your wife money for her non profit career, stop it. If she can't be assed to look after the kids while you do all the work, take that shit away from her. Her ambition and drive isn't more motivated than you, hel…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/15 01:18 PM
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Female dread works differently than male dread. A woman has successfully completed female dread when the man has "oneitus" and he "thinks" he cannot do better. This is actually quite easy to perform for a woman. All you have to do is be the best for your man, have qualities he likes and you have dread. You are aiming to be the "unicorn". This is a list that not every man will agree on: Some are actions, some aren't. Female Dread: Low partner count Making him breakfast in the morning. Doing his d…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/15 11:37 AM
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Your fulfilling your key roles as provider and commitment. You need to take away the commitment part. She is fulfilling her role as SAHM but not for sex. You being arrogant is no reason for her to refuse sex. You thinking about sex all the time is also no reason for her to refuse sex. See how she is making it out to be you're the problem, when it's her who can't take responsibilities for the problem itself... You don't have sex. If she ever screams at you, treat her like a child "stop screaming,…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/15 09:15 AM
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Never sleep on the couch again. Fix it by doing nothing. Don't have a talk, you're a man not a woman. Her rejecting you isn't meant to affect your frame. You can reply to the email and say "nothing to talk about, see you later". I would go in and act as normal and attempt to have sex again. Don't ask her, just make a move on her, kiss her lips and work from there. If she resists again, you go cold on her, she gets no more kisses, hugs, cuddles and all that. Don't do anything she asks you for. Do…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 04:50 PM
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Reward her only after she has done something good for you. I recommend rewarding her by praising what she did. IE Tell her how sexy she was when you saw her drop the towel in the office for you. It will give her more confidence and make her think what other ways she can please you, plus she will find it fun. If she ever uses sex as a weapon, you go cold to her. No hugging, kissing, no saying how much you love her etc She will learn that if you don't get sex, she won't get what she wants. But you…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 01:45 PM
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If your problem is lasting longer, use Viagra. It will make you last longer but it won't feel as good. It kinda numbs the sensation but keeps you erect to go for ages. Or use a condom if you don't already as you will feel a lot less. Otherwise if you are about to ejac, just switch positions. She will think nothing of it, plus you get bonus points for trying different positions.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 01:28 PM
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I don't think this is the main event. It appears you've raised your SMV so high that she is worried you are going to leave her and needs comfort. The comfort you provide will narrow the gap between both your SMV. If you want your wife to get in better shape, just say, be free at X time. And tell her she is going gym with you. That's it. Take her and help her out, flirt with her as if you would any girl by touching her when showing her stuff to do. After you have taken her a few times, comment on…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/15 05:14 PM
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I agree that APALT. I think the term of AWALT stemmed from former bluepill/white knights who thought there was a princess or unicorn and that woman wouldn't do X, Y or Z. In order to help the blue pill swallow the red pill, the term AWALT came about. It's a term to help men understand that women are JUST like men. They aren't special just like a man. A man may cheat with someone hotter or go for a younger model, BUT a woman can too.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/15 01:29 PM
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Personally I don't see that a women tries to betamax you. I see it as they keep testing to ensure you are what you say you are and can do. Football players aren't perfect, they slack, give shit to the manager, see how much they can get away with. It doesn't mean they don't care about the team or manager. I read a good example on another thread that said: Imagine if you had an unbreakable glass cup that looks exactly like a glass cup. You told that person it is unbreakable. Their first reaction? …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/15 11:01 AM
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I like to think I'm a manager of a football team and she is a player of MY football team. You can either be 'fired' or the player can 'move' to a different team. If my team is great and always wins, she will praise it, stick up for it, invite people to watch the team play, never want to leave, be grateful that she is lucky to be part of such a great team. Now if my team is crap and keeps losing games, she will tell others how shitty the team is, blame the team being crap on other people except h…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/15 09:56 AM
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From a guys point of view: Don't be the girl who keeps a guy around as a friend who you slept with. If I started to date a girl and find out she keeps guys around who she has slept with, that is not someone I would want to date. Shows you have no self respect for yourself. Would you still be friends with him if you had a boyfriend? I hope not because no self respecting man would keep you around either. Answer that question and you have your answer.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/15 09:27 AM
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Ok in general, men shouldn't move in with their girlfriend. BUT somewhere down the line you are going to want kids? So what do you do. I will play devils advocate: If you don't live with your girlfriend, you won't find out the type of person she is. If she doesn't give you sex still etc then you don't have kids with her. Kick her out and find someone else. The faster you move in with your girlfriend, the quicker you find out if you are wasting time being with her for X years. When I say fast, I …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 08:35 AM
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You can treat it that way yes. If others who have valuable life experience want to offer advice to divorced men or younger generation of men contemplating they can too.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 11:39 AM
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It seems everytime I read a story about how a boyfriend and girlfriend move in, sex seems to decrease and problems arise. You shouldn't call her out on pushing you away. You are the gate keeper so she should be calling you out. You shouldn't care if she is close or not. You never call her out. Instead you do dread and if things don't improve, find someone else (Use actions). Don't ever tell your girlfriend or next girlfriend how much you earn again. They should never know and keep guessing. She …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 10:29 AM
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This could be a comfort test or it could be she is projecting. Either she is thinking about other men and projecting it on you. Or she is worried you don't find her attractive. To find out if it's a comfort test, you should bog down and find out why she is asking. So for example "what makes you say that". Keep asking why until you get the real answer. However I don't know how to tell if she is projecting and that is she is actually thinking of other men and feels guilty about it.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 10:22 AM
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Some suggestions say start tracking when she is spotting, Don't. A period start date is not spotting, but when blood flows and the day it does, that is the period start date. Mark that date, then continue doing it to find a trend. After a few months you can figure it out when ovulation is around 14 days before the next period start date. The day of ovulation lasts 24 hours. Note I say 24 hours as technically it could be over 2 days. For a typical 28 day cycle, ovulation day is on the 14th day, s…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 09:20 AM
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You should use positive reinforcement when she is trying to please you. She may find it hard, but if she is trying that's a good sign. What you should have said is something like "that's it, I like it when you let go like this, keep going". Let her enter your frame that she is actually releasing herself even if she isn't. It will make her feel better and try harder at pleasing you because you told her how good she is at doing it. You can follow this on by telling her or making her do something, …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 08:47 AM
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I don't believe in the modern day marriage for males. Yes TRP seem like a bunch of boys full of hate against women and marriage, but it's a start to a change the males needs to fix modern day marriage. And if it doesn't get fixed then our future generation won't get married. We need our future generation to be mad in order to act and stop the mess modern day relationships have become. Marriage really is the red pill on hard mode. The main reason is because once you agree to marry and go through …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/15 09:02 AM
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The red pill used to be full of older more experienced men who shared valuable knowledge. It was like striking gold with the amount of useful information. I learned a lot back then, but when I read it now..... I don't know if I would send someone to the redpill if they were single. Too many young 20year old men giving out advice like they have experienced the world 10x over or giving out field reports on how many plates they're spinning and women bashing. The Red Pill has had a huge number of me…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/15 08:35 AM
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That is a lot of hours in my opinion to be working. Is that because you have your own business or you are working your way up the career ladder? Don't be the guy who spends 20 hours working who doesn't get paid for all those hours and no-one sees the work you've done. I doubt you can even make this work if you can't sacrifice some of your time to what I'm about to suggest. You need to instil dread that the BluepillProfessor wrote about (stages of dread). You can also carry out 'short' term dread…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/15 09:05 AM
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A lot of people talk about how to pass a comfort test or when to pass it. BUT they don't explain why it comes, what it is and how to pass it efficiently. A Comfort Test: Occurs when your SMV is 2+ than your wife (based on experience) or 2+ in her 'MIND'. Passing the test increases your wifes SMV in her 'MIND'. You should aim to remain 1-2 higher than hers and still have the most power. The more you talk to pass a comfort test, the higher the SMV of the wife increases in her 'MIND'. Note: I state…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 11:43 AM
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Have you tried giving her a g spot orgasm, she will thank you after. Get some lube if she doesn't get wet. Get a towel so she doesn't have to worry about the mess. I believe the statistic that 2/3 of women don't come through intercourse, but I believe that is the fault of the couple. Women are verbal as well as physical. They need to be talked dirty to, to turn them on as well as touching. They also get turned on when they see you are turned on. Try teasing more without ever touching her vagina.…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 11:30 AM
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Last Minute Resistance comes from 2 worries women have. Women who are being seduced so fast they don't know the person well enough and worry that they will be pumped and dumped. They don't want to appear a slut because they were so easy to seduce and the guy didn't do his job properly to make her feel comfortable. To solve LMR you have to ignore her and pretend like nothing happened and/or try to connect with her a bit more and try again. The goal is to keep trying until she leaves the house or …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 08:14 AM
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I'll give you an example of what I would have done. It shouldn't matter how she reacts because you don't care, it's how you deal with her reaction which defines you as a man. Her: "about to start her Dot and that she could eat everything in the store." Me: You can have a grape, your ass is already getting too big, I like yours nice and firm. Her: She will probably open her mouth in shock. or a WTF did you just say. She might hit you on the arm. (This is a good test to see how beta she sees you. …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 11:42 AM
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You should have said, "oh is he the jealous type that doesn't like you talking to other men". But this is assuming you know what to say next. Or the easiest is "I have a wife".
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 11:25 AM
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Two reasons I believe she is doing this. She wants you to text to see how much power she has over you. Because you did the same. If you text her asking where she is, you appear on equal terms, no cause for alarm. If you don't text, it appears you have more power and she starts to feel dread. If you text more than she did, she knows she has more power. If you text and start demanding where she is, she will use that against you when you go out. Then try to start an arguement. Don't lie about what …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 11:23 AM
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If you had some agreement that she will always do laundry, she failed her task. If you had an agreement where she said she would have clothes ready on that day for when you go out, then she failed her task. But even though you have an agreement, you should be ready for this situation. I always know I have clothes to wear, my wife will do the clothes for me normally but if there is something I want to wear for a night out or work I make sure it is cleaned and ready before the time comes. She is n…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 10:49 AM
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You should read some side material if you haven't already. Find out what you want in life and what would make you happy, write it down if you have to then do what you need to do to accomplish this. Some may include what you may gain from your wife. Some things will increase your SMV, others won't. Ie: You want more sex - Lift weights, lose weight til you are in a fit shape. Learn how to pass shit tests. Learn how to flirt with your wife. You want to relax and play some video games without the wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 09:57 AM
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