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My brother said this to a T: when my older brother was younger he went to jail for selling drugs and he told me that men gossip, backstab, switch teams(gay for pay),etc. In jail/prison all.the.time. That was a big wake up call for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 08:41 AM
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Ahahahha same. I have A HV friend and he treats me like a lady. Whenever we walk anywhere he walks outside close to the street, pays for anything every time we go out and just an overall good person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:49 AM
81

Abahahahahahhaah omg facts!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:47 AM
2

THIS. don’t be mad when that same energy is returned. I always tell anyone whatever energy you put out there will come back to you. It may not be now, or tomorrow but it will catch up to you and them same ppl will be sitting there with a shocked pikachu face wondering why this is happening to them? 💁🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:15 AM
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I always tell men, whenever they come to me with their problems and tell them my rates or they can go and see a therapist. My time isn’t for free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 11:51 PM
47

I noticed the men who scream about a meal costing more than McDonalds dollar menu as gold diggers. Tells me that you actually have no gold to dig. My brother never ever calls his wife, me or any females in his life gold diggers. He actually deposits half of his check in his wife’s separate bank acct. In case anything happens to him. She and his daughter will be ok. Also, pays for all the bills and food in the home. Even when they were dating my sister-in-law never had to pay for any dates and va…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:38 AM
63

Oh when I turned 30 a light bulb clicked in my head. Now 34 that light bulb has turned into the sun. I’m much more aware of who and what I want in my life. My goals, business, family, friends, cats, soy candles and some unsolved mysteries. Lol! My level of giving a fuck about someone else and how they feel about me is on level unbothered. It’s beautiful to grow into our womanhood however, society wants us to stifle that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:18 AM
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And it betta be the Welch's fruitty snacks. Not the bootleg ones!! ahahhahahahha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:55 AM
2

Memory foam coochie just.......I CAN.NOT!!! AHAHAHHHHAHHAH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:42 AM
3

These folks are Children born from Rihanna in fires of chaos just took me ALL.THE.WAY.OUUUUUTTTT!!! HAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAAHH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:20 AM
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ahahahhahaahahahaha I felt this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:49 AM
20

OMG LAL is my trashy T.V. guilty pleasure!! It's just frustrating how most of the couples act but one woman gave up her career as a corrections officer and served like 60 days for her inmate Fboy. It really boggles my mind the length a lot of these ppl go through but misery loves company
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:22 AM
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omg!! I just love asking them to expand their knowledge of said topic. Just to see if they are really interested in it. For example, Anime!! I watch anime everyday, even started an small anime Online group forum because I just love it. When a guy I was talking to (pre-Covid) says he loves anime as much as me. I asked him which are his favorite in the thriller/horror genre, He says, Pokemon and Dragon Ball Z. I immediately blocked because those 2 animes are nowhere near that category ahaahaa!! Al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:38 AM
22

I just.....Do what now?.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 06:51 AM
45

It's crazy how they forget that their dicks can shrink as well as their libido as they age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 06:38 AM
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Alright!! I remember I went to the Maldives (per-COVID) for xmas 2019 right before the lockdown. I wanted to treat myself to a really nice xmas and Maldives was always on my list. Luckily, my xmas gift to myself became a reality and I was having XMAS dinner and enjoying the festivities with myself and other resort guests. However, I noticed it was mostly newlyweds and most of them were fighting and yelling at each other during their honeymoons. I'm like how can y'all argue in a literal tropical …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:01 AM
2

OMG Who gonna tell her?........... That "Matt" is short for Matilda or Matthew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:45 AM
7

And yet, women are the "emotional ones"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:50 PM
17

Do it!! Pair the axe with the Convertible and the 4 runner. Cuz why only one? lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:14 AM
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I have a jeep Sport to travel to national parks to go hiking and camping. Also, its for my business, cats and axe-throwing competitions (well those are on pause for the moment) Also, why I don't date men with children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:13 AM
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wait a min......what in the habseraries and hemoglobins is going on here !?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:08 AM
12

I love seeing them die inside and crumble to a pile of dog shit face when I ask them to explain a "funny" joke when they are the only one laughing and they are not reading how uncomfortable the room is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:15 AM
18

ahhahahahhha omg. Just imagining this is *chefs kiss* ahahahhhahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 04:59 AM
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This is creepy. Depending on how I dress(jeans and tshirt), sometimes i get mistaken for being younger than I actually look. Creepy old men, will strike up a random convo. with me until they realize I'm 34 and then they slowly pussy-pop back to the hole in which they crawled out of. Cuz they know who they can and cannot groom or manipulate. I just wish pickme's and younger women knew how much power they hold and possess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:10 AM
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That part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:42 AM
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"My loneliest times in life were when I was in a relationship." Say it Louder for the ppl in the back!!! I felt this and been in these relationships. When I finally got comfortable in enjoying my own company, I felt this odd peace and confidence in myself. Honestly, that's a rewarding feeling for all the BS I accepted as a naive Pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:17 AM
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We all see this everywhere. People who are in unmarried relationships with no dependents still stay in these relationships I think could be because of the tale of "being lonely." Which i blame society because if you have to keep wondering why this person is in your life, for all the negative reasons. Then why continue to entertain the clown? I hope more and more people realize that its ok to be alone and still have a fulfilling life. I personally, cant be without my cats ahahaahahahaha!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:25 AM
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i see what you did there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:02 AM
1

yeah. sweating is normal but I like it and if you want it and have the money to do it then do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:32 PM
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I love Botox. I don't knock anyone who does use it but I use it under my armpits because I have Hyperhidrosis and OMG it changed my life. I feel much more confident in wearing t-shirts and not having to have an extra t shirt in my purse. Also, you don't need to have the sweating disorder to receive Botox in your underarms, feet, or wherever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 03:53 PM
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I'm not dating because I am pretty much happy and comfortable and obsessed with myself. I have a great work/life balance. Have my own business with, (yes with) my cats, since they are the meowbassadors of my brand. I can please myself sexually. If I need a little pick me up, I reach out to my therapist or my day ones for support and clarity. I just really enjoy my own company and don't have time to be wasting on something that is not a priority in my life. I also took up gardening and composting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:11 AM
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Boom! Count your blessings that he told you upfront and on e the first date so you could run away lol!! To think after him telling you all of that, that he thought he had a chance. Also, how most men cannot read a room or situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:01 AM
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That girl walks so clowns can run ahahahahhahhha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:34 AM
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The last sentence just has me dead ahaahhahhahahaaha. I'm going to take it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 08:50 AM
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The cats paw stamp of approval is what I based all my choices in life on ahhahahaahahahh!! So far my fur-babies have never steered me wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:26 AM
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I just found out about the nest.......I'm horrified
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:59 AM
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Meant come on now!! Like yaaaassss I'm here for this!! Not meant in a bad way whatsoever. I agree with you and also child free. Apologies if that came off negatively
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:59 AM
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I have my own business and hired my female friends to run my social media, photos, marketing, etc. (The only male on my team is my brother lol). I don't expect ppl to do nothing for me for free. However, people need to know their worth and not give out free labour. I always tell young women who intern for me to never ever give your knowledge and time away for free for anyone. Especially a boyfriend or girlfriend, unless they are paying you. You tell people your value, if you don't then folks wil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:38 AM
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ahhahahahahahahah.....male logic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:58 AM
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I have given myself the nickname, "Cold-blooded." Cuz my fuck-it attitude of just stone faced, walking away and blocking is just on another level. ahahahahahah, Once I realized that I don't have to explain myself or listen to someone who will just go merry-go-round mental mind games with me, it's soo much more freeing and I get more quality time with my cats
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:12 AM
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Oh girl. Like most women I go through this sometimes when I go out. Pickmeishas who are insecure and project and men who are insecure and project. When you radiate confidence, and not giving a fuck it bothers some ppl since they are not on your level. I feel this, when I go out the energy just don't mesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:55 AM
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I'm that Aunt and sooo happy to have sweet nieces and nephews who love to hangout with me during their summer break. I live in a very metro city in Asia and they always want to come and visit. Pre-Covid I took one of my nieces to the Maldives for a week and we had soo much fun. It was a graduation gift. So happy to spend that money on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:29 AM
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Get that big house!! I have a 5 beroom, 4 bath townhouse. My top floor is my meditation, smoke, chillout room. Another room is my bedroom, another my office, another for my cats, and another for storage. It's amazing to have allll of this space for me and my cats. You can do whatever you want and each room can serve its purpose to benefit your needs, wants, and hobbies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:59 AM
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Awwww i love to hear that. My cat will not go downstairs but she will get impatient if I'm taking to long. She will just Yeowl at the bottom of the stairs until I get annoyed and come downstairs and then she's back to her cute trills and meows meows. Pets have soooo much personality that sometimes I forget I'm dealing with a cat and not another hooman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:02 PM
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Come on now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:14 AM
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I get what you're saying but just for context here. I applied the feminine and masculine wording just for context. Also i do agree with going a man wanting to groom themselves like any other regular human being. Also, this was for me as well, since I'm coming into this new phase of my life where i dont like to label things male or female.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:37 PM
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I blame how society has shifted and put a definition on what masculine and what's feminine. For example, male animals like peacocks, lions, make sure they have the brightest most luxurious feathers and mane to impress the females. Even in some African tribes men spend hours on their hair and makeup to attract a female partner. Because that shows if he can take care of himself with grooming and attention to detail then that's what he will bring in the relationship and will be passed on down to yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:50 PM
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Omg so cute and happy for you. I feel pets really do help during these times. They bring a certain energy of calmness into the household. I'm About to adopt a bunny also. I travel sometimes for work so cats and bunnies are more convenient for me. But would love a french bulldog
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:33 PM
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I finally realized i have my happy family. One of my cats rallies me and her other 2 siblings up every morning at 5am. To come downstairs to eat breakfast while I drink coffee. It's really peaceful and cute to be surrounded by 3 cats with so much love and tenderness. Also, it's cute how my oldest furbaby is in charge of our morning routine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:30 AM
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I gave up on men trying to defend me or any other women now a days. It's pointless. I would honestly be shocked and surprised if a man did stand up for any female.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:04 PM
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ahahhahahhaahahhahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:28 AM
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I know a lot of women only FB groups keep each other up to date with violent and suspicious men. I'm an expat and live in Asia and apart of the private group that's created for the city I live in. We post pics, give detail accounts and locations to where these men prey on women. It's an awesome, supportive community where we host Slumber mimosa parties, hiking and camping trips, axe-throwing. It's great to have a female support system when you are living abroad and at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:27 AM
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His whole disseration screams, Small dick energy!! ahahahhahahhahah whoever in their right mind would agree with this guy is a lost cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:02 AM
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Ahahahahahaameahahmeoahahaameow meeeeeeeooooow meow 😹😹😹🐾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:55 AM
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Ahahahahah being single is waayyy better than being with some A-hole. I rather hang out with my cats, sip wine and watch unsolved mysteries. If this is what it means to be single and childless than I'm happy with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:54 AM
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Honestly, men are men. You make it sound like just because some men have money or in a certain tax bracket that somehow makes them not LV...correct? The post is sounding very sus and basic. Apologies but it sounds like a man wrote this, thinking we would be like," yaaaaaass sis, men with money are HV." Convenient how this is on a throwaway acct. Named bill_dolla. If this is true then kudos to you but don't equate having money with being HV, those men can just financially abuse you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:32 PM
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ahahahaaha omg i have been doing this recently. One time I almost fell asleep ahhahahaahaha another time my brother called and picked it up and started taking to him and the guy just stated at me with his jaw to the floor. Then, he said that's rude. I just shrugged and said, I need to go and feed my cat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:06 AM
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I don't understand grown ass men not knowing one of the most basic skill to do. Cooking. I have a co-worker that only knows how to cook hamburger helper and spaghetti. I told him, that's sad that you are 34 years old and can't do one of the most basic human survival skills. Crazy how they have time for social media, gaming, hobbies, etc. but can't learn how to cook. It's true they are lazy and will only find a pickmeisha to do it for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:08 AM
3

I literally had a guy tell me via text, " U Sure, You don't want to meetup? (When I was on OLD)I won't be back for another 2 months, ironically this was right before we knew everything was going to shut down. I live in a international business city and I felt so proud telling him, " I'm sure, my business is more important, so I'm going to stay in and work. Have fun! Block and deleted, I felt so good and my cats were meowing so happily for me when they heard me do that. ahahahahahahhhah At least …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:45 AM
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This is the most mind-boggling thing I have read today.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:32 AM
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It was actually pretty nice but like the saying goes, " there's always one." Ahahahhahhah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:53 AM
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Alrighttttt!! I just didn't the point in wasting my energy on someone I didn't know. He basically told me why he was single w/o directly telling me, do they realize that they are telling on themselves all the time? Like, it really boggles my mind most men in general will legit tell us, they are a piece of shit. In my Pick-Me days, I used to be understanding and say, "No you are not." but they are actually telling me the truth, so when someone tells and shows you who they are believe them. Now, I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:57 AM
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I call that struggle-love syndrome. Been there , done that and not doing it again. Also, the ride or die mentality with a lot of WOC. Which I wish they wouldn't romanticize that either. I'm not riding or dying for no bum ahahahahhahahhaah!! I'm only riding and dying for my cats and red wine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:28 AM
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Exactly. It shows me that if you are not willing to put any effort into your life goals then what business do I have trying to set up a life with you? I had a lightbulb moment when I was on OLD. I asked the guy does he have any hobbies, what does he like to do, etc. He said, well nothing, I just come home, work and sometimes drink. Used to do Muay Thai but stopped going. That's when the lightbulb went off, if you don't put any effort or energy into yourself then why would i expect you to put any…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:38 AM
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I noticed that people who used the term "gold digger" never have their own gold to dig. The people who are in the higher tax brackets rarely say this. Once, I was at a cocktail party my friend was having and a guy said that, when telling a story about a girl he went on a date with. Myself and another woman immediately walked away. Didn't say anything just, about face and walked away while everyone else just uncomfortably did a small chuckle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:31 AM
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Gurl they never do. One Going on 15+ years. Another one(in my DJ Khaled voice) still trying to reach out and who randomly called me brother to 3-way call me last week. My brother just laughed in his face and told him, " She don't want to talk to you." That is going on 5+ years and my brother told me that he sounded drunk. They are like roaches that you think you killed but they keep reappearing and coming back to life like zombies or some shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:48 AM
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I. was. here. for.this. ahaahhahaahahah This was golden
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:34 AM
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Toxic masculinity at its finest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:10 AM
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There are like 5-7 books that are not in the bible. I prefer Lilith, in my personal opinion. Also, Have you noticed they have called most of the women in the book whores, seductresses, sirens, etc. but the men....crickets. Now that I'm older I take religion with a grain of salt and guess who translated these books..............priests (men) so yea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:48 AM
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I want to say a lot if these OLD sites are scams, in my opnion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:08 AM
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Lol exactly. Honeymoons and vacations are fun but you need to come back to reality. Thank you, I love my chilled hobbies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:29 AM
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From my experience, I noticed when he starts to want to stay in the house more and only wants to be around me. I feel its more about self-awareness and that gut-feeling. Sometimes, I do fall into that trap as well. In the beginning (honeymoon phase) most couples are like this but most of us never get back out of it and become bored, content and resentful towards each other due to this. That's what I've experienced and see from other couples. The first 3-6 months, I have gotten better with keepin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:20 AM
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"Being a bitch is my kink"- Ashnikko song:Daisy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:20 PM
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Sooooo can we make this a thing. I would rather live with cats, dogs, women and children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:18 PM
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Those things take to long instead they want their dick to feel young again. SO in their logic, young lady parts to stick my dick in will make me feel young again...........just let that psychological logic sink in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:05 AM
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My mother asked me when am I getting married and having kids? I told her, "Now why would I go and do something so crazy?" She got quiet and quietly chuckled. She now knows I'm happy and don't want kids or to get married, so she stopped asking. I don't see the benefit for me and my lifestyle of traveling all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:15 AM
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This. I have noticed this with men. A lot of them have no social circles outside of work, and relationships (family and SO), so they relied on their SO to go to dinner dates, go out and about, meetup with HER friends, etc. I never ever want to be with a man what has no social life. That's fine with having no social life, it is what it is, but to me I'm not going to entertain you and I'm going to get bored with you real quick and side-eye you. If you don't put any energy into a social life or hob…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:49 AM
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Agrees my trashy show is Love after lockup ( hey Bunkies lol) is my shiiiiaatttt!! I'm in Network Security (IT) and its nice to take a break and do a puzzle, play with my cat or watch reality trash T.V. why can't ppl just have what they like w/o being judged for it. Most of us are not causing harm to another person, we are just doing what we like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:23 AM
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The park where I live at has food stalls that cook fresh food, places to sit, a lake to rent those paddle boats that are shaped like swans, feeding the stray cats and fish. At least in my city park lots of ppl do dates there because you can do a lot and there's a lot of ppl around as well. I went on a couple of dates at the park because there's so much to do and there's always ppl around. Also, public transport is close by and other places to go eat and chill are outside the park. Since it's in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:09 AM
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This is the best thing I have read all day ahahahahaa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:03 AM
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" don't have time for real dates or a real relationship, " Gurl.,This.right.here. I unconsciously started unmatching (when I was on OLD) men who said that they don't have much time and they don't have any hobbies or anything. Mostly, come home and watch T.V. nothing wrong with that but it makes me think, ok if you don't put any time into yourself then I know you are not going to put any time towards me. It was like someone knocked me upside my head. Once, I noticed this trend I got off and never…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:01 AM
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I was thinking a gun. I would've used a gun on him and went right back to dancing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:12 AM
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That's how I was always confused about these spaces. If these men were really going their own way then way spend your time worrying about us? Instead, of focusing on hobbies, finances, goals, etc. It's like they are obsessing over us instead of going their own way and minding their business
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:33 AM
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I do the whole cat stare and slightly tilt my head to the side with a blank expression on my face when they interrupt or try to make a unfunny joke. The look of uneasyness whenever they are around me is sooo powerful, I feel like Thanos!!!! haahahhhhhaahha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:47 AM
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Can confirm this. I used to give the PT tests and OMG how many men would be so sloppy on their run, push-ups and sit-ups. Hell, even half of them still fail the standards that are placed there for men and they can't even pass that. It's depressing. I also get made fun of men, as far back as middle school. that I have man legs and blah, blah, blah. I used to do track & field and was a sprinter and have ben active all my life. Now, those same boys are reaching out when I haven't talked to anyone o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:35 AM
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That's sad that most ppl think that the only value a woman has is having a man and kids. Nothing wrong with that, if that is your goal but I literally had to tell my mother, "Look I'm happy, successful and healthy. Why can't you see that and be proud of my accomplishments?" My value is worth more than a marriage and kids, 2 things I do not want. She immediately stopped talking and apologized. I feel a lot of ppl don't know the difference between being alone and lonely and have a common misconcep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:30 AM
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Misery loves company. I think that's why a lot of these women want you to be just as horrible as them. I never take advice from my mother, and cousins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:11 AM
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My family knows I will cuss them out ahahahhahahahaha and also I'm a very private person when it comes to my dating life so they don't know what my type is anyways. Luckily, they have never tried it as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:13 AM
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Speak. On .It. I used to work at a nursing home in my senior year of high school. Most of the old ppl who were in the nursing homes were men and guess how many of those men's families came to visit them?.....I'll wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:00 AM
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ahahaahahhahhahhahaaha.....it's the no jawline for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:52 AM
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Agrees. I live in Bangkok and its a cesspit. It's not worth it in my personal opinion. OLD makes men not put in any effort and become lazy. Especially, in an Asian country a lot of non-Asian men don't have to try hard at all. It's handed to them on a silver-platter. If I was a guy living/working over here I wouldn't put in so much as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:54 AM
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Exactly. Just buy yourself a diamond ring if and when you can afford it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:43 AM
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Boom!!! I figured the type of men that I need in my life don't have time to be on OLD. I have been off of OLD for almost a year and I have my own business and the other men who I collab with my business are not on OLD as well because they are to busy. They have stated this themselves, they would rather look for new ways to expand their business, like most business owners, than wasting time on OLD. Also, I would only be around men who is going to put coins in my pockets and respect me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:43 AM
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I received eskimo kisses on vday morning from my fur babies. Had a cute vday brunch with my HVW friends. It was a cute day. I have become addicted to being a cat lady!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:55 AM
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Men certainly do not appreciate women who go out of their way for them. This right here, I literally talked to my brother last night and he was mentioned his ex-finance and he said that she was stupid because after an argument she would go and buy him expensive ass gifts, he never asked for. She would come back from Best Buy and would spend $400 on electronics and my brother would look at her like she was stupid and asked her, "Why would you spend $400 when we just had a baby." He dumped her sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:50 AM
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My nickname is Blockiana... I don't have time to be nice or care about your feelings that don't make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:21 AM
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the accuracy is just............. * chefs kiss* ahhahhaahhahh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:55 AM
3

20 foot hell let's make it 100ft. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:17 AM
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No gurl. Once you realize your time is valuable and not to be played with. You really don't have patience for the BS. Most men who are aware will immediately pussy pop back into the cave from which they came. When they come across a real woman, who knows herself, confident and knows she doesn't need you in her life. I've literally had that happen to me on more than one occasion. I still have an ex having one-way convos. With himself on different FB accounts he created to get in touch with me for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:15 AM
2

Ahahahahahahh right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:12 AM
2

They are just going down their list of women to contact to see who will respond. It's sad really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:09 AM
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The last two sentences have me weak. 😹😹😹😹😹😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:08 AM
1

I think women get along better with animals and plants. Hence why it's called mother nature for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:57 AM
4

They don't realize that they set themselves up for disappointment but then get mad at you. If that isn't some projection and low self-esteem then I don't know what is. I had that happen to me via on FB messenger and my cats and I just have a good chuckle. Ajajaja
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:53 AM
1

Omg Ashnikko is my favorite. I love the song Daisy she did with Hatsune Miko. And the vid brought me back to my MMP days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 11:05 AM
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I mean we are talking about Japan. They are known to be sexists, so no surprise there. Things are slowly changing but The mindset is very 1700's there, when it comes to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:25 AM
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This. I've had men dumpster truck their "traumas" to me and all I said was, "ok." ahahaaahahaahahhaahahah then that's when they get hella mad and say, " I'm opening up to you." I'm like, bruh I never asked you to and I don't give a flying f***. ahahhaahhhahaah that's when their true nature comes out when you are dismissive and don't care. I also block and delete after I tell them to get a pet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 03:03 AM
1

ahahahahahhahahahah!!!... my cat be waiting at the door ready for me to spill all the tea. My cat will Meow whenever I ask for her advice and so far she has never steered me wrong lol!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:40 AM
1

Golden girls is really good!! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:34 AM
1

It's something my friends and myself made up since we love Sangrias on a hot and sunny day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:33 AM
1

For the life of me. Why is it hard for most men to do basic everyday adult hooman things? Can build a gaming computer from scratch but can't do laundry or cut a bagel..... Like huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:26 PM
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SMALL DICK ENERGY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:02 AM
59

Omg hard candy is one of my favorites. Ellen page was just flawless in that iconic movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:28 AM
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Ahahahahahahh i love me some good ol artisan breads also
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:24 AM
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I never understood the "crazy cat lady" statement. One of my friends asked me what does it mean to me? I said, well I'm a crazy cat lady who owns 4 cats, have 2 houses, own my own business, a maid that comes twice/ month to clean, goes hiking,camping,axe-throwing, have sangria's brunches with my other HVW friends, and sips wine while watching unsolved mysteries and anime. I will take being called a crazy cat lady any day than to live with actual crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:23 AM
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Apologies that happened to you. I agree the dream girl phrase is very toxic and possessive. I was a dream girl as well and they turn extremely possessive. I couldn't even go to the bathroom in the middle of the night w/o him sprinting down the hallway into the bathroom and yelling at me on why i left the bed. It does get terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:02 AM
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I just watched this episode ajajjjajjaajjaaj
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 04:22 PM
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Hence why I just cook my cats their food. At least i know they are going to appreciate it more and be the best couch cuddle buddies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:12 AM
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This is so cute and once-in-a-lifetime sort of thing. Glad you got the lucky draw. Thanks for the wholesome story!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:38 AM
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Omg this was such a amazing read. I see no lies and nothing but truth. Glad more and more women are stepping into their own by not.playing and being nice all the time to some fragile egos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:03 PM
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Had this same thing happened to me when I moved to Asia from D.C. my now co-worker ( he learn that he tried the right one and now I'm his boss) tried to say subtle things like, " well it's cuz you're so beautiful, and bleh, bleh bleh. Then one day I said, I didn't travel across the pond to get hit on at my new job. I came here to work and you should do the same.b4 you won't have a job. I told HR and he got written up as a warning. And now he's a quiet co-worker and my assistant. 😹😹😹😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:49 PM
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See this is the other side of dating that folks don't want to talk about... The Fetishism. Thank you for making a post on this. I live in a S.E. asian country (expat) and I see this shit from both sides ( s.e.asian women and foreign men) it's super creepy and weird. Now, I'm getting the whole I'm exotic bit from other western mem, when I'm an African American female. This is the first time in my life, that I have noticed that I'm and many other ppl are being fetishized on this scale and most ppl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:34 PM
7

I had a male friend try to tell me about running not knowing my competitive running history. Training for the Olympics, broke state and national records, was a track n field coach for an international high school and ran half and full marathons. Once, i told him all of this, i ended the convo with, "now you should've just sat there and ate your food." And that's what he did for the rest of lunch. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:46 AM
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That last paragraph. I need someone who has their own life. A lot of men that I have met do not have hobbies, friends, etc. The moment I ask a man what his hobbies/goals are and he says he doesn't have any. I cut that date and convo short and bounce. That shows me that you don't have something you are passionate about as an individual. IF You don't even take the time and energy in your own personal life. Shows me that you are going to be lazy in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:52 AM
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I noticed this also, since a lot of men don't have hobbies to keep them entertained. This disfunction is the only thing that is "exciting" to them. Which boggles up me and my cats mind all the way up. I had an ex who would always tell me, "I like the dismissiveness in your voice, like you don't care." And they were exactly right, I'm not gonna get my panties in a bunch cuz I won't entertain your wackass. I literally told one ex, " ok, there's the door, this isn't even worth a convo." 2 years lat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:44 AM
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So are my babies. I honestly left a horrible date. Ordered some take out, rolled one up and played with my babies. Had soooo much more fun doing that on a Friday night than the actual date. Then the guy got the nerve to text me back saying he had a great time.....his parents kept calling every 5minutes. Yeeeaaa i didn't respond and just blocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:17 AM
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Yea, now looking back she wasn't shocked when I told her, which is sad that a lot of ppl, both men and women. I have heard it from both sides and makes me ass itch cuz I can call that manipulative shit out from a mile away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:38 AM
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Crazy how they are not suicidal anymore. Not making light of suicides or anything but I hate how some folks have used certain mental illnesses to manipulate other ppl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:36 AM
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He couldn't even turn his head. He had to turn his whole body ahahahahahhahahh!!! Loved how on the reunion. All those women laid into his no neck having ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:56 AM
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OOOOhhhhhh I immediately shut that shit down. One of my male associates tried to tell me about running, not knowing that I broke state and national records while I was in high school, was training for the Olympics and have ran in full Marathons from 2010-2016. When i let him finish i looked at him with no emotion in my voice and said all of this. His eyes widen and he immediately shut down. Then I said, " don't talk to me about running when you have never ever competed on a professional level cu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:22 AM
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My brother always did this dumb shit in his past relationships. He stopped letting me know that he's going to kill himself, once I told him, " Ok, talk to you tomorrow and clean up after yourself." Yes, he's still alive and well in a new relationship and did talk to him the next day. I don't fall for that, especially if you have a history of using that tactic. Also, I noticed men don't do that with other men majority of the time. I did however, let his new g/f know that he uses that to get his w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:48 AM
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speak on it !!!! Not only are they intimidated by our successes but also our confidence. NVM/LVM, hate a confident and successful woman because he knows he can't do a damn thing for her except tear her down. That screams small-dick energy to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 01:31 AM
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Speak on it!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 02:54 AM
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I always tell ppl why I don't date anyone outside my tax bracket because of shit like this. I always date in or above my tax bracket. I have been in this situation more than once and it has always ended up like the guy complaining about shit like this. It's like bruh, his pride won't admit that he cannot afford her but will pay $80 to stay in her nice Manhattan apartment. Using up her utilities and the least he can do is buy food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:07 AM
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I hope he doesn't wonder why he's single cuz.......the cluelessness is unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:55 AM
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Gurl. Take it from someone who was prior active duty. Been deployed 3 times and the saying is, " Everyone is single during deployments." I have not and will not never ever date and/or marry a military men. Even my dad is retired Navy and so are both my grandfathers. I come from generation after generational military family. All but one (my grandfather on my mothers side) are horrible, manipulative, and controlling boys. Also, he probably only wanted to marry her to get that extra dependent pay. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:28 AM
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My LV brother was like this to his ex, that it got so bad she had to call the police and she just left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:16 AM
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I call them situationships. Not FWB cuz I already have friends. LOL!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:45 AM
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Exactly. Which soooo many ppl do. It's mind-boggling what ppl will go through and put up with just to say they in a relationship. Disappointing how some ppl don't priorize themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:09 AM
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She dosent have her own group of friends? Like why be in this toxic ass circle? why doe shse have to prove to another woman that she's good enough, what TF did I just read? ahhahahahhhahahha so many unsolved answers to my questions. It's only been 1.5 months gurl if you don't 1,2, step out of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:27 AM
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I always look at couples who live have been living together and im like, " why are you doing wifey duties when you' re not a wife?" but they have that PICMEISHA hope that if he sees how wifely i can be then he will marry me.....gurl bye. My man and I live seperately, due to the fact that I will only live with cats ahahahhhhahahhah!! even if we do get married i will still live with cats but i can rest comfortable in my space and I'm not playing house with just anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:23 AM
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Dumping toxic ppl is a must folks will have to do if they want better. I've gotten so good at it that those same toxic folks don't even realized that i dropped them until its to late. have been attracting who I need to attract not who I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:06 AM
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I'm that cool aunt that my nieces, nephews and cousins all want to come and visit them. I had my niece come and stay a summer with me in Bangkok, Thailand back in 2018. We had a great time bonding now that she's 16 and she was going to come back in 2019 with her brother (my nephew) and they both called me crying how much they miss me!! I do miss them a lot!! Mind you hey are teenagers and they were crying about not having to hang out with their auntie!! I felt soo proud and also I give advice to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:24 AM
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ya know. this really resonates with me because within the last year and a half I have really blossomed into me. What I love to do(hobbies), opening my online business and just not giving a fuck. I have this newfound confidence that makes me stand a little taller, be more vocal and LV ppl will automatically back TF up when you have that no BS energy/aura around you. I have experienced this more recently and have been attracting the ppl I need around me. It's been a blessing to make new friends wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:34 AM
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I just adopt cats ahahhahahhahaah!! and plant flowers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:22 AM
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The only ppl who say gold-diggers are the ones who don't have gold of their own to dig. It's rare that wealthy men will call women gold-diggers because they like splurging on their S/O's. Not saying all wealthy men are HVM but most of them rarely say that. I asked one of my HVM male friend if he views women as gold-diggers and he told me, " No, that's just deflecting from financial insecurities, men like when women in their lives can depend on them and find comfort in protecting them. The word f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:31 AM
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Thank You!! OMG it shows that the guy who asked you out doesn't see you as an investment and also it shows you that he's not a provider. That's some small dick energy for me. Hell even my few (and I mean very few) male friends always pay when we go out to catch up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 04:32 AM
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Women need to realize that's its ok to walk away. Once you get that, you have a confidence and an aura about you that you not here for the foolery and fuckery. You gotta show ppl your worth and that you're willing to walk away and never break your neck looking back. I have had 2 engagements to men within the 1st year of dating but I realized at the 2nd engagement that marriage isn't for me so I stopped dating and am focused on my business, my life and my HVW friends!! Oh, and my cats LOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 04:21 AM
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Yup. I'm 34 and I don't have time to check your hearing when you don't have any hearing problems. Usually, I just throw it back and then they get mad and it's entertainment for me. I don't even bother getting mad, I get another. #icequeenmode
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 03:36 AM
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and I love when they see me in my true form....mwuahahahahahah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:47 AM
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Luckily, I have a male co-worker who is one of the quiet ones and OMG it's so refreshing. There are men like this but its more rare than finding a dinosaur........alive!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:39 AM
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AHAHAHHAHAHHAHAH!! this ha me dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:17 AM
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Gurl. I have pawned a ring and went shopping with the money after I found out he cheated on me. Best shopping spree ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:22 AM
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Ahahahahahhahahh as they you are what you eat or smoke in this case. Ahahhaa and in my case I'm a cookie. Damn I love cookies!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:03 AM
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Ahahahahahhahahh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:13 AM
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Hey its never to late. I have 2 adorable cats name Tia and Tamara Meowry (yes, my babies are blood sisters) and can't wait to add more. No men, just me, my business and my cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:54 AM
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I second it 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:44 PM
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Oh ok. Thank you for the clarification.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:23 PM
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Oh yeah. I told all his family including the pets. Ahahahahah and told all of our mutual friends. The friends who are still cool with him I cut them off and have been living my best life. I didn't think to file charges at the time due to the adrenaline and feeling like the Hulk and also we both live abroad in the same city. I was leaving the following day so didn't want to miss my flight. I felt good about what I did and his girlfriend at the time, now his wife knows about everything as well. Hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:51 AM
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This comment section has me weak ahahhahahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:14 AM
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ahhahaaaahhahaah I'm going to take a nap hahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:05 AM
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That's exactly what I was thinking. So, Sugar Tits is ok but not sausage tits? Did I miss something??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:29 AM
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Oh I did. I immediately blocked. That gut feeling kicked in on a level 10 and I felt something dark when he said that .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:23 AM
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Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:22 AM
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Honestly, I highly encourage women to take up any form of martial arts. I was able to beat the shit out of a guy, who I thought was a friend, who tried to force himself on me at his little sisters wedding. I am professionally trained in Muay Thai and BJJ for years. I know I'm not the average woman and Not promoting violence and I'm not a violent individual but once you don't back up out of my personal space you deserve everything that's coming to you. Not downplaying the situation, or agreeing w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:17 AM
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Yea, cuz washing in the asscrack is GAAaaaYyYyY!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:29 AM
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facts!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:29 AM
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Gurl and it was the first week of getting to know each other sooooop yea...it was weird wether he was serious or not. I felt uncomfortable when he basically asked me to be an alternate mother type to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 10:27 AM
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I literally had one guy ask me to be his new mommy, since his actual real mother passed away. While, I'm sorry his mother passed away, I also passed on him and blocked immediately when he said that. Felt weird and uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:26 AM
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hahhahahahhhhhahahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:40 AM
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GUUURRLLLLLL.... this.right.here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:04 AM
5

r/loveafterlockup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:52 AM
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This comment section is just GOLD!!! AHAHAHAHHA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:01 AM
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Gurl, where's the rest of the story??...ahahahhahaah this was wonderful!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:00 AM
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Ya know, I remember in Basic our TI's would tell the female flights/ units (Air Force) not to call our B/F's but call our family and/or friends first before we called someone who isn't our spouse. So, I called my parents and found out my fiancé at the time was doing the whole damn neighborhood. Looking back, best decision I made to call my parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:32 AM
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I laughed at my first one and now I'm FDS-certified!! ahahahhhahahaahha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:11 AM
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Stranger danger ahahahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 12:42 AM
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I always unconsciously go into scarastic asshole mode. I start being over the top by saying, "Wow, gee golly tell me more sensei." And "omg, how do you know all of these things, oh great one." Of course, they get it and get annoyed which is the whole point. I basically mirror them and they get mad about it and it's just hilarious for me. They immediately stop that shit once they see my eyes get all starry eyed big. Aaahahahahahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 03:00 AM
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I just let them keep going because they obviously love talking to themselves from the ongoing one-way convos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 08:07 AM
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Facts!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:12 AM
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Ahahahhaahhaah.....I love reading their one way convo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:11 AM
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Also younger women make him feel smart????...this guy just sounds like a dumbass. Ya know, I noticed this also, guys who date younger women forget that she is still going to grow older and wiser. Then the older men get surprised when the young girl they started dating changes as she gets older.... Like why did you expect for her to do, stay a naive 20 year old forever. Men who think like this should just stay underground somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:32 AM
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GIRLLLLL!!! I'm counting still.... 15 years later. I never ever initiate contact or respond. I even moved to a whole ass country. My first ex-finance is still reaching out to me via made-up FB accts and/or family accts a few times/year. I even had a random high-school guy (completely forgot about him) who randomly tries to message me from our high- school days. I'm 33 and we only hung out during my sophomore year and we never talked nor saw each other after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 08:59 AM
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AHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:43 AM
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and what do they refer to unmarried men? Crazy how there are women and men in this world who are not married, and yet, the women are the ones who gets "labeled" for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:33 AM
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periodttt sis!! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:30 AM
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oooohhh.... so damn true and sick really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:30 AM
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you can tell a lot about a man in what shoes he wears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:07 AM
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which is weird because you think someone would find that admiring and motivational. But gurl I've been there and done that. consider it a blessing he didn't string you along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:41 AM
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Crazy cuz I'm 33 and get men who are 25 and older hitting on me. So what wall do these scrotes mean? ahahahahahaahhaahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:35 AM
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That last sentence though........*sips slow*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:31 AM
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OMG!! I'm listening to Paris Milan now on YT AHAHHAAHAHAHAHAH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:05 AM
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I know!! It really just happened. Reunited and it feels so good. I love seeing this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:13 AM
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The chicken nugget on legs took me all the way out! ahahhahahahahahahaah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:16 AM
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Yaaaaaasss!! Same, I love baking and cooking. Playing with my cats and in the process of setting up to own my own cat-cafe in a couple of years with having my own mini-garden. I'm not looking to date anyone and am happy in my space that is peaceful, relaxing, fulfilling. Also, having other HVW in my friends' group is also a plus!! So happy for you and other women leading fulfilling lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:49 AM
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I felt this ahhahhahahhaah!!! I know what i'm doing this evening but I'm going to include my 2 cats to add to the snuggles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:48 AM
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Alrighttt.. I had my mom ask me when am I going to settle down and I told her, " Now why would I go and do something crazy like that?" My personal preferences in what I want in a partner is considered toooo high. But I'm not budging and so far I'm still happy and all up in my queen energy. So far, no King has stepped up to build his seat next to my throne. Also, side note: i'm opening up a cat cafe in 2 years so he has to like cats as well. lol!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:33 AM
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I quit a long time ago. LVM don't care about an explanation. Just block and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:32 PM
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I will never ever agree with a fully grown man( and any grown woman) putting his hands on little girls. My mom used to get beat by my grandpa, them she thought it was ok to do that to us. Not all the time but still and then gets surprised when she dates abusive men....the self awareness is just so depressing. Didn't realized it until my brother and I called our parents out for that. Luckily, I grew up emotionally waaayy better than my parents but my.siblings are slowly getting there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:43 PM
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I literally had one guy ask me if I could be his new mommy since his passed away........................apologies for his mother passing but that was was toooo effing weird. Blocked and deleted after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:27 AM
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me and you both. ahahahhaahha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:30 AM
5

Boggles my mind how men seem to forget that they were birthed from women but they don't like that either. Hell, men only really like other men. Why you think the DL culture is huge!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:00 AM
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gurl right.. I had to cut one off due to him catching feelings. Funny how the tables have turned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:49 AM
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They need to update their Goggle maps app ahhhahahhahahahah and redirect that BS somewhere else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:04 AM
4

Yup. I used to date men like this and never ever again. I only date men in a higher tax bracket than me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:23 AM
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3years... still. geez he won't let it go.ahqhahahha the male ego is so fragile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:07 AM
3

that is terrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:46 AM
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I feel you on this. I’m in a STEM field as a blacl woman as well. I’m coming to this realization as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:54 AM
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Same. Difference is my cats wake me up to feed them at 5am every morning and I don't mind. Also, I just realized this past weekend that I'm really fulfilled in my life. Had an amazing weekend catching up with friends, about to open my business under the FBA (Foreign Business Act) and just love my life living and working abroad. I don't see how or what value a man can bring into my life unless he wants to be an investor in my business. Other than that, I don't see the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:01 AM
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ahhahahahahahhahaha I've had this said to me as well by a swedish guy. I'm like, Do what now? ahaahhahahaha yea that only lasted one dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:37 AM
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👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💁🏿‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:14 PM
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gurl......the irony💁🏿‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:24 PM
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Understandable, I wasn’t trying to downplay your situation at all. My apologies, but yes as a young child it does mess with you mentally. That’s why whenever I hear other people say that to me with other young kids around. I immediately call them out on the spot about catergorizing activities as black or white.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:51 PM
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Gurl. At this point I don't give a damn anymore. You only get one life and if enjoying outdoor activities equate to "being white" then fuck em. Ahaahqhqhahba
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:21 AM
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Omg!! I was told, You sound white or you do white ppl activities, camping, hiking, axe-throwing...... I’m 33 and still get told this. I only get this from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:28 PM
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I immediately thought of the shocked pikachu face meme 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:18 AM
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" Having a partner is a bonus, not a necessity " Boom!! This statement right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:52 AM
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I got this: " didn't mean to startle you." Of course he startled me with his idiocy, like 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:46 AM
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I literally thought of a dog scratching their ass on the floor and died ahahahhahahhaha⚰️⚰️💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:57 AM
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Omg I did this yesterday ahahahhaha.. I had an ex randomly text me on FB messenger, 2 weeks ago. Ya know how someone texts a stupid statement/comment and then they keep talking to justify what they said and then they sound more stupid..... yea I didn't even respond. There was just no point at that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:09 PM
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Ummmmm..... You... I mean... Ya know what nevermind. 🤦🏿‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:07 PM
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Someone said: "Khloe walks, so clowns can run."🤣🤣🤣🤣Ever since then I always see a clown face on her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:18 AM
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Ahahahahahahahaha... Thank you for this💁🏿‍♀️🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:44 PM
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Thanks!!! I just couldn’t pass up the opportunity ahahahahaha. Also, my fur babies are actually sisters so it just makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:02 AM
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awwww me 2. I adopted my 2 fur babies and they are also sisters. I named them Tia and Tamara Meowry. Also, Im slowly building up my business. My life is sooo damn peaceful. The minute someone comes in with some foolery and fuckery I distance and block them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:33 PM
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i love hearinf stories like this. i dropped my LVM a year ago. Now my online business picked up and starting to sell to different shops (yoga studios, gym cafes, etc.) It’s crazy how in a years time all this happened with my business and got two adorable kittens as well. Also, much more confident in what I need and want and if you not in the same mindset as me then I don’t even bother. I even deleted OLD. Such a waste of time and I don’t have time due to my business! Yaaaaasss keep it up ladies🙌…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:49 AM
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looking at your notes to make sure I wrote down the same thingahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 06:58 AM
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That is my trash t.v. show ahahhahahahaha!! Not gonna lie, my cats and I were just staring at the t.v. bewildered. That these two women don't even realize how much power and control they had in that moment but instead they do what every pickmeisha would do and fight over a felon and wifebeater..............................................................Let that sink in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:15 AM
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This literally happened to me. I thought my male "BesT fRieND" at the time literally tried to fuck me...........keyword: tried. Punch him right in the face and he never tried that shit again with me. What I found eerie about that whole situation was how comfortable he seemed "playfully forcing" himself onto me after I told him no, for the 10th time . Like he tried this before and it has worked or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:09 AM
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I felt every piece of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:01 AM
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i had such a hard time reading this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:59 PM
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I don’t even know why Porn is normalized and legal. Like how depraved do you have to be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:02 AM
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I was talking to a guy b4 i deleted my bumble acct. And he asked me why I like to be alone most days. I told him, “ I love my company and my cats.“ I don’t need to hang out with someone to figure that out.“ it boggles my mind that some people cannot enjoy their own company. How are you going to enjoy someone elses company when you can’t enjoy yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:59 AM
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I love her laugh ahaahahahahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:52 AM
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gurl. my mouth was just stuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:10 AM
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thats smart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:09 AM
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No, I just responded to you and another individual not all. I've known women who I've seen get assaulted in my own Squadron and that includes my mother as well growing up. My father being a Navy vet. I grew up as a military brat and served when I was 18 from 30 yes. old and got out. Seeing a lot of these situations like this happens and no one getting punished. Apologies, I get very heated during these discussions. I hate hearing well I heard this and that. When theres actual facts that get swep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:45 PM
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Of course I'm understanding and compassionate and glad there is women like me as well. Thanks for also being understanding in stating how your time served was great under a post about the indifference of sexual assault and harrassment. Have a good night from my timezone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:36 PM
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You sure. I have chocolate chip and walnut cookies!!! glad you had a great time servin but others cant say the same like these 2 women and many others. Your comment sounded very insensitive due to this post and hopefully you see how ppl can take your comment the wrong way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:24 PM
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Not saying that alll women that have had a horrible time but hearing about it versus actually serving is 2 totally different things. Also, Most women just brush off sexual harrassment while serving and just let it roll off their shouders, like in some work- environments. Lucky the women you know have had good experiences but it dosent mean that they know of someone who served with them hasnt been through sexual assualt and/ or hareassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:22 PM
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Hopefully these pickmeishas will see the light someday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:53 PM
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Also false, Air Force Vet, men are men dosen't really matter the branch or uniform. Just because you don't reallt hear about the other branches dosent mean it happens. Just look up Guantamano Bay Navy Base about how a Navy cheif who killed his mistresses husband, or how my friend was raped as well on that cesspit base just to name a few. Or also Ramstein AB, Germany. A black female officer took her rap case to court and won buuutt a lot of service men hated her and she was shunned for spekaing u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:52 PM
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do you want a cookie or something??? Like good for you and all but I gotta ask how many of your sister in arms were sexually assaulted? Thay's the questions we are asking under this post not how grear your time served was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:49 PM
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gurl right. i was dead ahahhahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:12 AM
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I don't understand groups like the redpill and MGTOW. If they are really done with women, as they both state, then why are these groups sooo concerned about women to begin with? My mind boggles at the hypocrisy of this. Like leave us be damn!! Sorry I went on a little rant there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:57 AM
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I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:14 PM
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you kiwis are so lucky to have her as a PM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:11 AM
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this is me abahahahahahahba... i was watering my plants yesterday and my 2 kittens were playing with my hanging plants. It was a cute sunday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:14 AM
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"gOoD pErSoNaLiTy" ahahahahahahahahahahhaha oh, oh, don't forget but, "We really love each other and he does dishes once/month and has good Hygiene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:58 AM
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This. She could get yeart infections, Cold sores, etc. Like why would anyone put up with that. I don't feel bad for this type of woman. Like you know he dosen't understand basic hygiene, so you can't get mad when he does disguiting shit and also it's only been 4 months?!?!? If she don't get her dumbass out of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:00 AM
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alrighttt. She should give him a dose of his own medicine. I'm petty as hell ahahahhaahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 12:55 PM
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omg!!! I' m looking for a cosmetics chemist for my beauty brand I've been slowly building up. Do you mind if I PM you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 01:29 AM
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Same happened to me. He asked both my friend and I at the time how old we were and my friend was 28. Me being 31 at the time and he was like, “i choose you.“ Pointing to my friend. Like we were pokemon or something. My friend and I looked at each other, busted out laughing and left to eat some street food. Still friends to this day!! Then a few months later, our mutual friend had another party and we seen each other and he tried talking to me and I ingored him allll night. It started getting unc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 04:23 PM
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" Imagine if this guy had a daughter? Would he be sexualising her too? " ​ Sadly, this is what's going on with my dad and little sister. Usually, when men say they want a little girl, I side-eyed them. That phrase has never sat well with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 06:16 AM
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I pay them no mind and continue living my life with my cats and friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:32 AM
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Gurl. It's all over the world. I currently am an Expat in an Asian country. They still the same over here as well ahahahahahahah. Black men from all nationalities, still the same and honestly it's most men that I have come across over here. Mostly, black men and other LVM out side of our community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:31 AM
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This. all day, everyday. Most black men act very childish and are boring. Just speaking from my exeprience. I' m an very outdoorsy, active female. Whenever I suggest camping, hiking, etc. I always get asked if I'm white.... I can go on and on like 🙄i can👏🏿not👏🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:27 AM
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say it louder for the people in the back sis!!..🗣🗣🗣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:25 AM
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Awwwww i want this 🤎🤎🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 05:12 AM
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Hey. Sure but ppl would still need to look for info. Depending on where they live at. I live in Asia, so BJJ and other martial arts are fairly easy to find and do at an affordable rate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 09:55 AM
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This. All it takes is that one time for them to see how crazy that ass can be. I started doing this with all the male species i know in my life and the sane ones knows not to pull that mess again. Ahahaahhaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 02:14 AM
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I did this to a guy who was a restaurant manager. He said, He could only meetup with me at 9pm.....👀i said nope and have a good night. He texted me back saying, “ ok... I knew you didnt care." ummmmm no shit shirlock, of course I dont care I don't know you. I immediately blocked and deleted after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:46 PM
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This part ⚰️⚰️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:23 PM
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this. Im like she is seriously is thinking she's overreacting and has he justifying her body on the internet like 🙄the scrotastracity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:35 PM
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gurl. I literally had that happen to me. A guy I only met once and deleted after that one date messages me like 6-7months later asking, " hey if you ever want to hookup call me." Then I told him who is this? and Im busy. He said, " I don't want to date you or anything like that." Dont know why he thought I said that but wateva. I immediately thought ok im good enough to fuck but not date?????...👀boy bye. Come to find out he has a g/f while he was texting me this. We only went on one date and the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:29 PM
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I don't even know wtf I just read🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 04:59 PM
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omg thisssssss!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 04:52 PM
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ahahhahhahahaah... this👏🏿right👏🏿here👏🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 04:49 PM
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The crazy thing is her BF did think this was normal behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:28 AM
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Omg ahhaahahahahhah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:27 AM
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Im seriously thinking adoptation. I'm at the point where I don't see a need for man in my life. Just my cats and a child. I'll be happy either way and also I live in S.E. Asia where hiring a Nanny is extremely affordable over here. Also, Mental illness is hereditary in my family. It's like rolling the dice on who may get it and who may not get it. I don't want to put my child through what I see my little sister, brother, mom, uncles, grandmother all had and are going through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 12:52 AM
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i expect nothing less🤣🤣🤣i fell out when they did that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:50 PM
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alright. Hell even my own cats was listening to me read aloud and they ran upstairs before I even finished agahhaahhahahab
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:15 AM
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There's just no words at all.... my mouth was hanging open the whole time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:05 AM
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I love Carole!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:33 PM
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ahaahahahahhaah.... they all are coming like a heard of cows🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 07:45 AM
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Brazilian Jui jutsu Quick google search will go more in depth if you're interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 11:16 AM
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alright.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:40 AM
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yaaaasss! i always tell women to enroll in one or some type of martial arts. My BJJ instructor always hosts Self-defense courses for women every Saturday and it's so refreshing to see other women want to learn how to defend themselves on the ground. I personally think Ground work is really really important. That's the first thing ppl normally do is push you to the ground, so its good to know how to defend yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:41 AM
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ahahahaha thanks! My parents have been putting me in martial arts since I was a kid. Have a black belt in Taekwondo and compete in Muay Thai fights over here in Asia( since I'm an expat here) Also, been taking BJJ for 2 years now. I mostly only spar with other men twice my size so size dosen't intimidate me. Im a very very calm, chilled person but the minute your in my bubble and don't back up I won't even speak I'll just strike. Kinda a double edge sword I hate fighting outside of actually comp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:35 AM
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gurl yas. like I don't know why he tried it. Knowing damn well I'm well trained in BJJ and Muay Thai. He learned that day. I say, if someone comes into your bubble forcefully then you can forcefully remove them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:05 AM
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I had a male friend who tried to force himself on me at his little sisters wedding, Until I punched him in the eye. Families knew each other and all that. Also, he was dating his now wife. She's knows about what happened and still ended up marrying him. I don't really believe inmale friends. They are just waiting their turn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 11:13 PM
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ahahhahhhahahhaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:11 AM
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oh yea same ex He said, " well I'll leave my fiance now and get back with you...... my face just dropped to the floor. This was the same fiance he had that cheated on him to go back to her ex. I died ahahahahhahaha. Don't fell sorry for him at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 12:56 AM
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Right. It boggles my mind how they think its ok to reach out to someone years and years later thinking this is cool.....I will never understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 12:38 AM
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same ol, same ol: oh hey its me and just wanted to see how you're doing. Where are you at now? I miss you and then he'll proceed to tell me what's going on with him and/or his family. Basically, having one-way convos with himself. I don't laught at hime at all, just feel sorry for him not moving on even though he's been engaged 4-5 times within these past 14years. That's very weird how he's been engaged all these times and never once made it down the aisle. Just something is off with him, I just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:46 PM
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Thanks and yea he still does. He'll message me on FB randomly through made up accts. Sayijg its him or through his family accts. Thanks for the blog plug, I'm defintely going to check her out. Last I heard He was engaged for like the 100th time and his ex-finace cheated on him and went back to her ex. ahaahahahah Karma is a bitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:25 PM
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This hit me so hard: When I graduated high school, I met this guy who was in the navy through a mutual friend. We hit it off immediately and I had just signed up for the Air Force and was waiting to go to Boot-camp. I remember my ex and I were talking about me going into the military and how he didn't want me to go in. So, I call the recruiter right in front of my ex and told him I wasnt going in anymore. The recruiter knew what was up and called my parents. A week later, I made lunch plans with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:12 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣ooohhhh this took me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 05:24 AM
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I love your flair!!! ahaahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 11:49 PM
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oh gurl. I live in Thailand and seee this waaayy 2 often. It's lowkey disturbing but meh not my problem if thats how ppl want to live their lives. The fetishism is real on both sides.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 01:00 PM
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Ive had a LVM float his ass back into my phone. We've only meetup once and that was it ajd we talked for a little bit after and then things naturally faded. 6months later I get a message from a number I don't recognized and he says who he is and then he proceeds to say: " i think we had a good connection." I said, " thats long and gone now, and have a good day." Then he basically said to call him to use him sexually.......bruh whet?!?!?! I was sooo confused and immediately blocked that number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:44 PM
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What I don't get is most women in this profession is looking for quick gratification and not longtime generational wealth. I mean, if you're making alllll this money like youre claiming. Then why not start a business, own a high-end business chain or food chain. Invest in yourself, and take that money and make 10X's and you can continue to support yourself and won't have to worry about paying your rent, cards declining, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:41 AM
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It boggles my mind how people don't realize that if you choke someone there is the possibility of actually dying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:07 AM
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yaaaaaaasss I would rather be a crazy cat mama (which I am, btw). My babies are the sweetest and if my sweet girls don't like a person that I bring around I immediately side eye them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:28 AM
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Im 33 also ans love being single and currently have 2 kittens and going to get more🤣🤣🤣Yes, when I was younger I wanted the life that society feeds us. Now, I'm older and loving myself, life and cats and don't see myself with a man honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:02 PM
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agahaahahahaahah o👏🏿ma👏🏿gawd👏🏿before the bars closed down in where im at. I had this guy who I started messaging on OLD. Randomly, he messaged me at 7pm to meetup at 9pm for a drink. Now all the bars are closed, so I asked him where? Also, if you want a date then schedule one right? When i told him, " please be considerate of my time and wheb I asked him where are we meeting up to drink since all bars are closed down. He went into a hissy fit. He messaged, " well excuse me for asking for somethi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:34 AM
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Boom. Glad to hear that and glad you got yourself together to leave. Kudos to you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 07:53 AM
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Yes!! My friend quit because of the unhealthy working culture there. How he would call his PM's at odd-hours of the night and asking them to come in or do impromptu virtual meetings at 2:30A.M. People were coked up on caffeine drinks, ateroll, and Ambien. He got out of that environment. He's IT (programmer), now he works for a small IT business and he loves it. Of course, its less money but at least he has his health, sanity and happiness above all else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 06:15 AM
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Hence why I only have cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:42 AM
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Gurl..I used to have a friend work for him and he told me that man is insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:19 AM
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This. I don't know why men haven't caught onto this yet. Then magically wonders why 6 months to a year later she leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:33 AM
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omg ahahahahahhahhah! I remember when my LVM brother and his fiance (at the time), got into an argument. I came in from work and his fatass was sitting on the couch and he said, "I'm the man in this house and what I say goes." Booooyyyyy, he done fucked up when he seen me walk in the door and knew he fucked up. I lit that ass on fire and read him like an Extra! extra! newspaper story. ahahaahahahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:09 AM
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Was he special? I'm not trying to be funny, but did he have something mentally or physically wrong with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:23 AM
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From one confident black woman to another: you did that 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿confidence and self-awareness in women is our best friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 02:34 AM
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Boom. You’re exactly right. It’s even in the animal kingdom. Hell even toddlers know to draw a pretty pic or give the girl flowers during recess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 04:03 PM
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Gurl. I get this to. I’ve never had an ebony girl or I like black women. And I also immediately block as well. I don’t know why they think it’s ok to say that and we’ll be like, “ ooohh yea. Well let me show you a good time.” Or some dumb shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 10:44 AM
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🤣🤣🤣oh the scrotes are going to be big mad. But where’s the lie though? History has proven this fact that women have the power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 08:35 AM
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Right. Ahahahhaah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:29 AM
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Gurl. I had a male ex-friend who thought he was a 7-8 and he looked like if the caveman from the Geico commercials (back in the day) but shaved all the hair off . He was always saying how he was on dates and this and that. Without, me even asking for some odd reason. I shot him down 2X's when he asked me out and I was like,................Do what now? haahahahhahahaah I played like my phone had gotten into a shitty reception spot. Blocked and deleted after that because he obviously didn't see me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:24 AM
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Just the name: lilbabydee...........there's no words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:38 AM
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OOHH.. Those type of men are the worse. They are looking for a way out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 05:52 AM
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Mood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:54 AM
5

But of course!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:24 AM
10

Exactly. That’s why supremes are always women. Ahahahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 03:59 AM
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Right. I forgot about one guy who texted me randomly. We went on 1 date back in Oct. 2019, messaged me to basically fuck. He never once came to see me like he said a million times he would. When we did talk for an extra month b4 I blocked him on WhatsApp. Forgot that your mobile is on there. I blocked that ass on messenger also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 03:54 AM
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Gurl right. I don’t like to date military men. Being prior service and working around them. Most of them , like 99.99999999% are like this. It’s rare to find a good one. I just stay away from military men honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 03:46 AM
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Hey . I’m over here now, as a foreign female. For me, not all of them are horrible. I have a few friends who are English teachers over here in Thailand and they are in happy, healthy relationships with other foreign females and locals. Not all are bad, just like not all S.E. asian women are bar girls. I personally don’t because of income. I’m not a teacher but work IT for an American company so my pay is an american salary. So I date other ppl in my field or who is on the same level or higher th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 03:41 AM
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OMG!! Iliterally had a guy say this to me. I swiped on you because you're exotic.........BLOCKED!! AJAHAHAHHAHAHA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:21 AM
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Gurl the foolery and fuckery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:23 AM
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It’s sad that they actually think we talk like this. Ahahahaha my friends and I talk just like regular human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:01 AM
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I had a ex- guy Best friend. We were really really close and so is our families. One night he decided to try to make a move on me and he ended up with a black eye. He knew I can handle myself since I take Muay Thai and BJJ. I was looking at him, " like you know I can break your back in two, if you keep pressing." Then, He kept apologizing and saying He was shitfaced drunk. Which he was but still no excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:26 AM
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Guuurrrrl yaaasss!!!! I have 2 cats and they are sisters. I work abroad and travel. Met some like-minded folks as well and I'm 33. I honestly enjoying myself and my cats. Oh and food......also food!! ahhhhahahahahaah!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:42 AM
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Yaaasss!! I've been really pushing myself also in the gym and the results are showing. Also, I get a positive rush in the gym than I ever did in the dating scene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:46 AM
1

I see no lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:00 PM
7

aahaahahahhahahhah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:26 AM
46

Gurl....$50
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:23 AM
6

This. Hence why men have that superiority complex when it comes to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:17 AM
11

I had this happen to me at a local bar that I go to sometimes after work. A couple came in and usually in a beer bar setting its nothing out of the ordinary to talk to random strangers. I live in a very diverse metro city. The guy was from the same country as me and we have some small talk about different beers and breweries I say, hi to the G/F but her vibe was off-putting no worries. Then as they order some food they start arguing about something (didn't really care) since it's none of my busi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 08:36 AM
9

Oh Gurl. I had one guy say this to me. "Will you be my new mommy?" I was like........................delete, delete, delete!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:40 AM
27

It’s funny because a lot of the shit they do they cockblock themselves ahahhahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 01:10 AM
22

They do. Believe me. If they are not on the same level as you then don’t bother. I won’t even bother with someone who isn’t even on the same tax bracket as me. So far, it works, at least for me. Men who made much less than me always felt threatened and intimidated by how much I make. That was never a problem for me but for them it was an issue. So hence why I only date men in the same tax bracket or higher than myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:35 AM
34

I meannnnn.. the guy I’m currently in sexual relations with. We didn’t start as friends anyways. We met and liked what we saw and we don’t invest really in each other. Except he does cook dinner for me and take some out to eat and honestly that’s all I want from him. I just want damn great sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:08 PM
1

Yup. Everytime I talk to my parents (which is once/week) they are traveling to a new country living their best life. Hahahahhhah they deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:04 PM
14

My dad always told me if a man doesn't pay for you on a date, then he doesn't think you are worth any investment or a priority in his life. and he's so.damn.right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:49 AM
10

You're an effing savage and I love it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:47 AM
6

JjjjjjehhJJ nun
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:01 PM
20

I was once talking to a guy. He mentioned that his mother passed away and asked me to be his new mommy......I apologized for his lost buuutt immediately blocked and deleted him after that. He just basically told me what he was looking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:47 AM
58

I like how those same men are telling you about their living situation 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:28 AM
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Omg. Thisssssss!!! I literally went on a date last night and the guy didn’t even think I was worth the $4 cocktail. Granted I have cooked dinner for men, who have taken me out on dates beforehand and pay. What I do is buy all the ingredients that I don’t already have in my kitchen. Send them the receipt and they don’t mind paying and I also throw a bottle of red wine cuz why not? Lolz!! Those men are HVM and treat me like a prize (cuz I am) and they still cook for me or take me out and pay for e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 09:54 AM
14

Ahahhhahaaha omg. This made my morning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:44 AM
3

Gurl yas. Most of the time it is stressful so I rather just not add anymore stress in my Life. Be safe and stay blessed sister in arms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:12 PM
2

Yaaass Same!! Im short but very very Alpha and Dominate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 08:47 AM
2

I remember that but come on she would have had to smell him though. You cant mask it and also Im surprised he was able to get someone to marry him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 08:27 AM
8

The minute you call them out on their BS, they immediately say, " I wAS juST j0kiNG!!" i dont know how many times I have heard this same exact phrase from multiple men on OLD and IRL. ahahahahahahah!! Also, lets not talk about the butter now. What did the butter ever do? ahahahahahhahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 08:11 AM
3

Gurl yaaaaass!! I will never ever date a military man. In my experience and opinion most of them (like 1% are actually gives a damn about their family) are extreme cheaters especially on deployments, TDY's, or whenever they have to travel for work. Also, the spouses are no better tat live on base housing. So it goes both ways honestly. I never hung out with any military families, most of them were just effing insane!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 07:56 AM
1

Thanks. I just wanted to try it to see if this works and it does. Cuz men will do wateva they can for a woman they like and want around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:55 AM
4

ahahahahahhahah!! defeats the whoole purpose of posting the engagement pic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:51 AM
5

Boom!! Did exactly this and he's cooking dinner and invited me over to his place. Make it work to your advantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:57 AM
4

*SLOW CLAPS* speaks the truth!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:20 AM
9

Also, since money is tight maybe suggest just staying in more and just cooking dinner together. Also, you guys are not married so he doesn’t have to tell you about his finances. You could just let him know that you understand. Yes, you do have a HVM since he does care about the women in his life, he will cut back on what he needs to do to help/provide for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 09:05 AM
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I felt all of this. So true, she will look back on this as a lesson as to what she dosent want in a future husband. OP you&re forever B/F is keeping you as a seat warmer for his actual wife. Not to be mean but don’t waste your 20’s in this guy. He has obviously shown you he dosent want to settle with you and you will not change his mind. No matter how hard u try to play the “wifey” role. Men know who and want they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 10:17 AM
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ahhahhahahhaah sorry the way you spelled sex is just hilarious!!! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:33 AM
2

Hence why I have cats. Lol!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 12:26 AM
20

Also surgeons are on the list for psychopaths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 12:38 PM
1

Some ppl do live the lifestyle 24/7. I only Live it when I can but it seems that’s all this girl knows. Since she’s sooo young (which is weird that she has had Doms b4 and she’s only 18). That’s why I say you have to be emotionally and mentally mature. Due to the fact that yes, ppl will take advantage of your naivety. Also, she thinks every Dom she’s played with or is close to, she needs to be in a relationship with that person. I have played with male Doms and was never in a relationship with a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:57 PM
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If this isn’t life goals then I don’t know what is. I only have 2 cats and a 2 story condo at the moment but I’m working my way there. Ahahahhah this is everything!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:12 PM
2

Rightttt!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:09 PM
19

As a female Domme and sub (switch) been in the game for 10 years. The girl is confusing herself. One minute she says that other guys only used her for her body soooooo what is this 62yr. old doing then? Also, if you only are in D/S dynamics then that's all you know and she is not mentally and emotionally mature to be in this lifestyle. You need to know how to separate fantasy from reality. Also, Im disgusted by the old man Dom. He's just manipulatiing and using that girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:53 AM
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Of course shes not going to question how come he cannot find a woman within his age range. Also, a 53 yr. old should not be in the same stage in life as a 21 yr. old. I'm 33 and i'm at a different stage in my life than a 21yr. old. He knew what he was doing when he started talking to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:44 AM
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guurrrrll!! IF this ain't the truth!! I've been having a fuck it attitude and its soo crazy that most guys like this. Nice for what!?!?!? ahahahhhah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:15 AM
5

Where is this guy? Sign me the hell up..... ahahah hah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 11:26 PM
5

Why wonder about him texting you when he isn’t even worried about you at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 11:23 PM
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Being single in my 30’s is so much damn fun ahahahaha haha. I’m already comfortable and confident in myself that I don’t settle for anything anymore. I’m dating more in my 30’s than I did in my 20’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:27 PM
1

Right. I have seen the ins and outs of the food industry. Due to both of my parents owning a restaurant since I was 12. I’m not stupid. The guy dosent know that and never will since I deleted his contact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:17 AM
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I went through this last night. Some guy who's a restaurant manager can only meet after 9p.m.............................WHET!?!?! Then he thought I had an attitude because I wouldnt meetup with him on a work night. tHEN HIS EXCUSE WAS, " I work in the Fo0D InDUsTErY!! Plz You can make time to go to the gym, meetup with friends and everything else but cant meetup with me?? Then tried to guilt trip me when I wouldnt change my mind. One thing I have come to understand: Everyone has the same hours,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:42 AM
3

Good point and started using my nickname instead. All my ex’s don’t know this nickname.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:36 AM
8

Gurl. I had one ex tell me that he would leave his fiance, at the time (2018) for me. Mind you, I never even gave him any idea that I wanted to get back with him. Come to find out his fiance left him for a new guy. hahahahaahhaahhaah Karma is a bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:06 AM
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gurl yaaaasss!! Had my first ex-fiance (when I was a 19 yr. old pickmeisha) randomly contact me via FB 10 years later. Like boy bye!! Then he wonders why all the women he was previously engaged to left him. Something is off about him, I could never figure out what it was but I guess all his ex's figured it out as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 01:41 AM
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Right. I’m like ppl don’t realize that OP is actually commenting. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:52 PM
2

My cats don't even pee outside of their litter box. Hell even my friends dog don't do this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 04:21 AM
1

Yas. Bjj is a great way to defend yourself on the ground. I started taking classes last year and I love it. Great way to stay in shape and you're more confident in meeting men because worse case scenario you can defend yourself when on the ground. Also, I never tell men what martial arts I'm involved in . BJJ and Muay Thai.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 02:27 AM
2

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:36 AM
5

Yea, I see that a lot while living as a female expat in Asia. Some (not all) of asian women want their kids to have white skin and being in Asia white/lighter skin is preferred. So i do agree (at least over here) both parties are fetishing each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 03:57 AM
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Omg this gave me anxiety just reading it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 02:05 PM
2

Not true in my experience. Had an ex who has a successful sister and mother. Still was a maniac. I think it really depends on the individual. Also my co-worker dosent have any sisters just a beautiful mother and he’s a giant teddy bear. Wouldn’t put his hand on any female although my ex was completely different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 07:12 AM
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Also, you have asian men that want to “ride the white horse” so it goes both ways just worded differently. Also, what u may consider LV May be HV in a lot of these Asian countries. Source: I’m an expat living in Asia. Honestly, I haven’t seen a lot of foreign females dating locals because a lot of the local men only Want to try out foreign women. Not saying there are not asian men who do want a realtionship buuuttt it’s really rare and hard to find those ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 12:23 AM
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Yea and sadly this makes me question every male friend I have. Which is only 1 male friend I do have cuz he loves his wife more than she loves him lol!! But they are a really great couple and whenever I do need support I reach out to both of them sometimes and they are always there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 11:42 AM
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Omg. This. I have had so many male friends for years that tried to push themselves on me when drunk or try to kiss me when I did go to them for emotional support. It’s all BS, blocked and deleted them. I tested one “friend” by saying I was interested and he said, “ oh great. I’ve been meaning to have sex with you for years.” Like bruh, blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:13 AM
3

Oooohhh...imma use this.🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 10:22 AM
3

le sigh sad but true. It’s just so depressing that male humans can not express emotion without coming off looking weak. Because at the end of the day we are all humans that have emotions. Hate how society puts a gender or idea on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 01:37 PM
21

That’s why I don’t like Disney movies. Women are brought up thinking we will find our Prince Charming but how come little boys are not brought up in finding their princess/ queen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 09:46 AM
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I was just getting ready to say this ahahahahajj
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 03:43 AM
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You are no ones therapist. Hell you still have to figure out your life. Be a 16 year old female and live in this moment. Not for trouble young boys. Focus on you and women in general seem to have this mentality. Then you’ll end up even more mentally and emotionally depressed after dealing with all that. Just enjoy being a teenager because it’s gonna go by quickly. Guys will always be around, they are not going anywhere. You can never get back time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 10:55 AM
17

I like her puppy!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 10:42 AM
3

Exactly.!! I mean if all they want is sex then go spend that money on someone whose in that business (no shade for folks in the sex business).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 06:05 AM
1

I was just thinking this as I’m a switch (female Dom and sub) I would ruin his life 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 08:36 AM
3

Gurl you have been doing this on your own. For the sake of your health and mental stability. Let me tell you something if the tables were turned would your husband stay? I think you know the answer or else you wouldn’t be posting here in this subreddit. Also it’s great to love someone from a distance but it’s more important to love yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 08:00 AM
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OMG THIS!! My cousin literally texted me, "Hey Cuzzo when you getting married?" I'm like for what, I'm not in no rush or anything. I'm happy with myself and my new kittens (2) at the moment and want to be by myself right now before I let anyone else in. I might just end up being a crazy cat lady buuuuuttt I'm cool with that title honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 08:29 AM
15

Wear it again on another date with another man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 07:46 AM
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cliff notes: -Was 18(just graduated high school) and being young and dumb and a pickmeisha. I was blinded by the nice car he had, also he was in the Navy (He was 26 at the time), so me haven't started my military career, to me he was a HVM to my young ass. - Dated for about 6 months, he proposed, I said yes and He somehow talked me out of the military and wanted me to become a military spouse (no shade to military spouses my mother was one). I told my parents and my dad and the male Air Force re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:45 AM
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Buuutt you guys were not official so why do you care what he does? Also, its very immature (given your mindset) to test his jealousy, I would response like he did. If both of y'all are not official then he has every right to talk to other females and so do you have the right to talk to other men (w/o mentioning it). Also, HVM will know your worth w/o you having to voice it but as teenagers there's no such thing as a HVM at that age. Also, what you did was not FDS at all, just silly teenage mind …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:21 AM
6

and landed flat on his face ahahahhahahahah!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 04:34 AM
7

*slows claps* yaaaaasssS QUEEN!!! I'm not here to deal with your shit as an adult, I only do that with my cats!! lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 03:32 AM
5

Well Karma is a bitch and he's just getting what was always coming to him for being a horrible person and also I realized more and more men act like children than actual adult men. Now he wants a wife now that he's sick?..........I hope women wont entertain that ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 03:28 AM
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Gurl yaaaassss!!! I said yes, to my first ex-fiance but then changed my mind. Till this day I'm glad I did. He's a stalker and tried to ruin my military career when I first joined back in 2006 because I changed my mind not to marry him. Loooonnggg ass story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 02:13 AM
2

Such a red flag. As a foreign women living/ working in Bangkok, Japanese men do come here for business and sex. There's some districts and blacked out "karaoke bars" in a lot of the Japanese areas around the city. Especially between nana-ekkagami areas. Silom Rd. has a J-District and you can literally walk through there at night and you see the girls sitting outside in plastic chairs lined up with numbers attached to their hips and they are dressed up as some provactive anime girl/character. Yea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 06:26 AM
7

Look!! I’m nobody’s plan B, either you choose me or you lose me!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 04:44 AM
2

I agree being on the phone is rude around ppl and during dinner but it dosen't make it right for him to kick her under the table. he could've easily said, " Do you mind getting off of your phone." Quietly to her and then have a conversation about it later on but from what I read he also sounds like a narcissistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 07:52 AM
2

Yea if you look at their post history... it’s all over the place and also don’t mind the profile pic as well lol. Now I definitely think this is a teenager or a troll because the post seems very juvenile and also trollish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 05:54 AM
3

Right. Fan-girling over a particular sport when a lot of men in Hockey are dicks. I understand they are built and have good physique buuuuttt there's more to someone than that. Also, this post seems very trollish.. at least to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 05:01 AM
4

And they be the same ones talking about some, “ I did everything for him, I tried to be the perfect “wife.” All the whole he is doing the basics to another woman he real my wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 10:15 AM
5

What neck though.....?👀🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 07:54 AM
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I have two cats and they are very sweet, cuddly fur balls and are very friendly towards strangers. The minute they start hissing or start hiding from someone I already know that person is no good and I need to burn some white sage after that guy leaves ahahahahhah!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 07:35 AM
7

Ahahahaha ahahahhah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 07:06 AM
13

Or tacos. Ahahhaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 07:01 AM
9

This subreddit really made me drop my titballs. Ahahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 07:00 AM
56

I unconsciously did this a few months ago. The guy I was hooking up with stopped, looked at me, and asked if I was ok. Before, I realized what I did, I was so over it and I pushed him off of me, got dressed and left to get some damn good pizza down the street. lol!! I've just had this fuck it attitude with men recently and honestly that pizza was waaay better than the sex. Of course, I blocked him as well until he found me on Instagram (never gave him my instagram) and he messaged me and blocked…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 03:08 AM
2

I like this word, Feefees ahahahahahahah!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 02:56 AM
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Keywords here: public forum. They act like they done cracked the Da Vinci code or some shit hahahaahahhah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 11:21 PM
79

Ahahhhhahahaahah omg!! I’m sorry this shit is funny asf. I could just imagine his face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 10:53 AM
1

ahahahahahhhahahahah i literally smirked when i saw this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 07:22 AM
6

This right here is the best damn advice I Tyler Perry has ever spoken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 02:53 AM
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Also, what I don't understand is if The person tries it once, they will definitely try again and again. they just want to see how far they can go until one day BAM!!! They get what they want. Not trying to excuse his behavior but when someone tells or shows you who they are the first time believe them. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 07:14 AM
1

Tierra Whack is my favorite and also Princess Nokia, Ari Lennox.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 06:49 AM
1

Awwww.. to me you're lucky I've would've been his mistress (Female Dom). I sometimes like a male bitch in my camp every now and again. Source: I switch between being a Mistress and Kitten on FetLife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 08:10 AM
2

Closure? Gurl he obviously doesn't give a damn. I think you want him to come back and I feel like you'll give him a chance. If you feel that strongly about it then send the message. I feel what we are telling you at the end of the day you're going to do what you want. By all means do you boo boo, but don't be surprised if you don't get what you're hoping/looking for but good luck. For all you know he probably has you on silent or archived and you're being made to feel like he's angry with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:54 AM
2

If this isn't extreme gaslighting then I don't know what is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:45 AM
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" Insecurity in a man can be so dangerous." I felt this sentence right here........its a recipe for disaster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 04:53 AM
3

That’s BS. I’m a female that has been doing BJJ for years and let me tell you. I have not had any of my other grappling partners (male and female) never ever call each other and discuss for 30 minutes at that, about some sparring. TF?!!? The only time I have ever done that was with my instructors hence why they are there. Also, I do hang out with some of my classmates but we usually go for beers after class or something like that. I’m assuming Muay Thai is similar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 02:38 AM
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This. My mother (as we were older) took us hiking, camping. She reads a lot. Her and my dad owned a business. Traveled abroad which in turn made me into the woman I am. Thanks to both of my parents really, but especially my mother who still had her life while raising my siblings and I.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 07:27 PM
2

Ain't that the truth!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 08:34 AM
3

This... Also, I noticed my period will last only 3 days instead of my typical 5-6 days. I feel strong as shit when I'm lifting a week before and during my cycle. I feel like SHE-HULK!!! LOL! Im all screaming in the gym with the other guys ahahahahahahahah best damn feeling!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 05:06 AM
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Oh I’m not saying that you are. Apologies if it came across like that. All I’m saying is if you can avoid the type of situation. Believe me, I never wanted anything with my ex-friend as well but he just thought since I have a vagina and we got along that I would want to have sex with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 01:26 PM
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I just got to this level. I feel like a effing savage and the crazy part is the men love it. I don’t give them the attention the want. I have my own life and 2 awesome kittens. What else do I need. Cat lady gang! LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 10:06 AM
1

Exactly. Just because you’re a friend don’t really mean shit to a lot of ppl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 06:08 AM
10

Yaaasss!! I umderstand about the galsses part LOL!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 06:02 AM
1

Naw even guys from China don't do that ish. Its weird and sounds like a fetish and also think about actaually becoming exclusive with him. Also, if you didnt want him to do it why did you let him knowing what would happen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 05:41 AM
1

ahahahaahahahahahahahh!! Staaappppp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 05:40 AM
2

I had a guy friend like this. Was (keyword here) a great friend to me and told me all the dumb shit he used to do to women. He's married now to a girl 8-10 years younger than him. At the time they were dating he tried to have sex with me at his little sister's wedding (our famlies know each other, hence why I was invited to his sisters wedding). had to put a fist up to his face in order for him to back off. I immiediately cut his ass off after that and our mutual friends as well. Basically, just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 03:58 AM
2

Gurl....he is 43 enough said. ahahhhahaha he obviously has the mindset of a pre-pubscent teenager.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 03:31 AM
5

Gurl yaaaassss!! Im turning 33 next month. All ages of men are more interested in me now than in my 20's. Also, women are taugh to take care of themselves. A lot of women look younger than their age than the men in their age group. Im llving the attention and dates like a McDonalds commerical.....I'm lovin' it!! lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 03:26 AM
5

Boom!! That's what I'm talking about. Motovation!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 02:11 AM
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omg yaaass I did this one time and then his face dropped into his lap. ahahahahhahaha i dont have the patience anymore for this dumb shit. Why can't they just say you're a beautiful woman and leave it at that. I mean...................... Im no one fetish. also I always get, "You dont talk black." I still till this day don't even know what that means. I hear this from both black and white men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 04:35 AM
4

No, he can't stop you. Only you decided not to go, especially if yall live an hour away from each other. Only you have the power and control over you, no one else. Maybe you like the idea of him wanting you sooo much. That's some co-dependency right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 08:37 AM
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OK. 1) You are not his therapist and if his anxiety is that bad as he claims. Then (if he's hasn't already) should be talking to a medical professional and get diagnosed. I've seen my brother do this to his ex g/f's. Apolgies, but growing up and seeing this play out with multipe ex's my brother has had, really made me know how to see what it is. It's insecurities and to keep them have some control over you. So, you cant have a life or do anything. Also, emotional manipulation and/or abuse. Thats…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 08:28 AM
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I’m done bahaahhaahhaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 01:52 PM
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Gurl. Me and you both. The two guys Im seeing or dating is similar. *Le sighs with you*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 07:47 AM
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Well damn. This shit right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 08:34 AM
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I thought you was going to say, Hard Candy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 05:55 AM
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I was active duty female in the Air Force and I never ever dated military men. Not all of them are horrible but I have worked and deployed with them and Yea everyone (including married) folks were all “single” so hen e why I never dated them. I seen it first hand how most of them act. Also the dependents aren’t any better. So it goes both ways honeslty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 05:37 AM
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Men’s ego are so fickle and fragile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 03:32 AM
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Omg. This. I actually dated a dumbass before. Literally. I was young then and thought his goofy personality hide that fact buuutt it just made him annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 01:41 AM
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I was just thinking this. Not matter online or in real life. Some Grown men just can’t seem to stay away from the Youngblood’s. Which boggles my damn mind. Hell I can’t even stand folks in their 20’s. Ahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 10:48 AM
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Gurl... me and u both
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 12:47 PM
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Exactly. Im nobodys Plan B either you choose me or you lose me. I blocked a guy that was like this. We only went on 1 date but then always said, "I want to see you again." Thne slowly tried to steer the convo to phone sex.....................................................blocked that ass immediately!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 08:47 AM
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Gurl. Yaaaasss I blocked and deleted some guy who always said he wanted to see me this and see me that. Boy bye!! That game gets boring real quick especially when there are other men out there who are willing to make time for you. There’s no excuse when we all have the same hours, minutes, and seconds of everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 07:12 AM
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Girl yes. When I cut my "male friend" off because he tried to fuck me while he was dating his now wife. That was a huge wake-up call. Very disappointing but glad I cut him off. If I didnt then I feel I would be encouraging this behavior to continue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/19 02:42 AM
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I stay thinking about this whenever I see or randomly bump into an ex whenever I go back home to visit and I'm like, "Damn!! WTF!! Was I thinking?" and then I realized I wasnt thinking back then lol!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/19 01:50 AM
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Boom! Poeple will take advantage of your kindness for weakness. Believe me, you cant be nice to everyone cuz some people dont deserve it. It's not being a bitch it sending the message that you don't give a fuck and should'nt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 03:38 AM
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Bahahahahahahahahaha!! Then I wouldve ordered myself some pizza and had a good ol time watching t.v. with my cat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 01:54 AM
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Gurl Yaaasss. This.is.so.accurate. If the guy realy wants your company and cares. He will be more proactive. I told a guy Im seeing what I like and didnt like how he treated me after an event we both attended. People are not mind-readers, if you want to get your point across speak up!! in any situation wether with a friends, work, family. You will feel better and if that person still acts studpid then at least you have the confidence to say, " Well I told you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 01:53 AM
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Omg you can see this everywhere you go or just sit down and talk with them ahahahhahahahaah!! It crazy how some men feel entitled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 06:55 AM
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I literally LOL'd at this. Great idea to go on reddit because he can't be bothered with actually spending time and money to work on himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 06:27 AM
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What I've learned is don't act like a wife to a guy you're dating. I've cooked,cleaned, fucked, everything!! I still ended up getting ditched or cheated on. Always put yourself and oyur goals first, because the only person who has your back and best interests is YOU!! Take time to really love and enjoy yourself. Be grounded with who you are and what you like. Whatever energy you put out, you will attract and dont e so quick to want to get into a relationship. Date around and have your fun and if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 06:03 AM
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Speaking of tied down.........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 05:53 AM
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gurl yas.. 90 fiance is the perfect example of that but also the women on there as well. so it does go both ways on that show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 08:35 AM
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Dial soap!!! ahahahahhhahaahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 08:31 AM
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yaaaaaaass!!! To the whole post. I'm 32 and have always been health and beauty conscious. I'm still pulling dates and dont settle for nothing. Now that I'm more matrue and dont settle anymore. I noticed that I am attracting the right type of men in my life and I'm loving it like a mcdonalds commercial. My dating life is better now in my 30's than in my 20's. I didnt hit the wall I crashed through that mofo!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 06:26 AM
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Warm coleslaw..... ahahahhhaha I'm dead!!! ahahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 06:22 AM
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Say it louder for the ones in the back!!! Ahahaahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 11:13 PM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/19 02:21 AM
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This. All damn day every damn day. I hate when women think they can change men . I used to be one of women when I was younger and then I realized I only have the energy to change me and the people I have in my life and accept them for who they are. If you can't well then leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 06:25 AM
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